SHARING IN PET CARE ( Whose Turn Is It?)
By C. A. Ritz
HOW IT BEGINS
Please, Please, PLEEEEEASE can I keep it? These are familiar words of children wanting to bring an animal home, even if the understanding going to the pet store or shelter was ONLY to volunteer. After debate, tears, and assessment, Fluffy has a new home; yours.
AGE-APPROPRIATE TASKS
Did you know many experts suggest before owning pets, a child should exhibit responsible behavior toward toys and siblings? Elementary skills like feeding, bathing, dressing, putting toys away; the same as those required for entering preschool should be in place. Even if Garfield, Fido, or Snowflake were there first, a child must be taught to share and respect space. Boundaries will ensure safety for children and pets. This in turn allows your furry friend to feel safe and bond easier. Most pets respond well to those who provide kind-hearted care. So, who is responsible for the care of that precious creature now entrusted to your family?
ESTABLISH A PET PLAN
Children learn by watching you. As you care for your family and pets, a child observes procedures and learns daily routines. Routines establish an ability to act consistently. Consistent chores with a dose of parental encouragement and gratitude contribute to a youngster’s confidence. Confident children typically do better in school settings.
• Young Children:
– TALKING TO PET (Verbal and social skills are reinforced.) – GIVING SUPERVISED HUGS (Teaches gentleness) – WATCHING PET BEHAVIOR (To develop awareness beyond self)
• Elementary School Kids:
– FOOD & WATER – LITTER OR POOP PATROL (Remember to wash hands!) – CHOOSE & TOSS TOYS LIKE FRISBEES
• Older Children: – WALKING
– BATHING & BRUSHING – CLEAN-UP & SAFETY CHECKS (Area check for items that could be swallowed or harmful to pet)
Consider forming a plan. Post charts like those used in school to bring order, aid memory, and keep harmony. If siblings are near the same age, duties can be shared or turns taken. Here’s a few pet care jobs which can be delegated and charted.
CONTINUING LEGACY
While there may be mishaps, there will also be growth, antics, and memories. It’s really rewarding years later to watch as children reach an age of independence and volunteer, foster animals, or own a pet. Before long, your children’s children love animals, too. With each lesson, each poopy scoop, and each holiday pet photo, your child takes a step toward adulthood. So, get those charts, routines, and relationships flowing.
Tomorrow’s legacy begins today.
C.A. Ritz ~ Author and Illustrator cynthialeopoldritsko.com Las Vegas Pet Scene Magazine • July/August 2020
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