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School BY C.A. RITZ
In a particular place, a young student taps a pencil, gazes out the window, and sighs. “AH! My dog is home waiting for me,” he mumbles in response to his desk partner’s prying whisper. “My kitty’s home alone, too. Think they’re, ok?” “I dunno. Why couldn’t we just stay home?” Kids, separated from their pets, may experience anxiety. Concerns arise when animals are left at home. Young children can become restless, unfocused, and worry about leaving their pets behind after months of continual companionship.
COMMON CONCERNS OF CHILDREN: How is our pet when we aren’t home? Will my dog be sad when I am at school? Will my cat be mad at me when I get back home? Will Whiskers chew my slippers again and get in trouble? Will Fluffy get scared when the garbage truck comes?
AFTER SCHOOL
Who’ll want the most attention after school? Child or pet? Hard to say! A person’s personality and the traits of an animal’s breed come into play. A wise person once said, “Just showing up at home erases a child’s anxieties instantaneously.” In that moment, the concerns of the day are washed away in a flood of hugs, laughter, and affection. After school, a little playtime, exercise, and hugs before starting homework are good ideas. Time together can calm both while providing a much-needed mental break before beginning assignments.
Take time with pets to:
« Share about your day « Snuggle « Exercise « Read together … Who knows? Maybe your pet will be the topic of your next school assignment.
BEFORE SCHOOL
Children and pets can be reassured. Start with a morning routine that strengthens their bond, allowing them to feel good about each other. Here are four simple tasks to do before leaving for school: ➥ Feed pet(s) ➥ Clean water bowls ➥ Leave pet’s favorite blanket and toys with them ➥ Change toys occasionally to avoid boredom and misconduct Some teachers suggest placing a photo in a backpack before leaving for school. This helps a young child reduce separation worries which are a developmental hurdle children may experience. Handled gently, they, and their pets can adjust.
May your back-to-school days be filled with peaceful memories and times of great joy!
C.A. Ritz ~ Author & Illustrator cynthialeopoldritsko.com Las Vegas Pet Scene Magazine • September/October 2021
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