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The Newsletter of Hospice Dreams
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Quarterly Issue 3: July 2012
Meeting
Ted Nugent
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Anniversaries
Calling Ireland
bIG bAND m EMO R IES rE L I V ED
Take me out to the
Ball Game
celebrating
National Public Garden Day
Cabin by the Lake
Fan Faceoff Cardinals vs. Cubs
Day at the Park Six Flags Great
A Prayer at
St. Mary’s
Visiting Rembrandt at the Detroit Institute of Art Tea party For Vi
A Fine Day for Fishing Granddaughter’s
Wedding
America
HaIrball Colors of Hope richard has a Rockin’ time
Day at the Beach Dreams are Ageless www.HospiceDreams.org
8mm Film Screening
An Artist’s day
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Graduation Party For her daughter
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On the cover: Richard Mincey went to see the rockband Hairball, and got to visit with them backstage after the show.
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Dreams & News In This Issue Letter from the Director Vi’s Tea Party - Vaira Heiniger 50th Anniversaries - Adolf & Merle Perez - Robert & Barb Stygar Granddaughter’s Wedding - Katherine Beringer A Prayer at St. Mary’s - Patricia Murphy Reminiscing over Big Band Music - Richard “Dick” Milano Celebrating National Public Garden Day - Evelyn Melton Skype Call to Ireland - Thomas Healy 8mm Film Screening - Bernie Duddleston Meeting Ted Nugent - Michael Golder Rockin’ Out with Hairball - Richard Mincey Take Me Out to the Ball Game - Jo Narup
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Fan Faceoff - Adolph Digirolomo -Willie Cage An Artist’s Day at the Museum - Frank Vicari Visiting Rembrandt - Diane Pollock A Day at the Park - Toni Sowell Graduation Party - Shirley Conway A Day at the Beach - Michael Larussa A Fine Day for Fishing -Ray Cauwels - Don McKown Cabin by the Lake - Robert Gosch Events - Colors of Hope Letters and Posts Donations Dreams in the News Staff Page
Letter from the Director
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ummer in the Midwest has proven to be one of the hottest on record! Here at Hospice Dreams, we’re heating up too - blazing towards our goal of granting 125 Dreams! As we enter into
our 3rd quarter, I am happy to announce we have granted 42 dreams. I am also happy to announce that our very own Kristen Kolwelter has accepted a position as Dream Development Manager. Kristen has had much success over the past year and has included Michigan as part of her territory as well! As I mentioned in last quarter’s edition, patients always seem to want to be outside during this season. Requests for outdoor Dreams are soaring! We have had some amazing baseball outings, visits to the zoo, garden visits, fishing dreams and many other outdoor dreams. I am always amazed and humbled when Kristine works on laying out our newsletter. An unmistakable message that is delivered when looking at these photos and stories is love. There is love between the patients and their families love a hospice staff member shows through care and the love that celebrities, businesses and everyday people must have to make these Dreams so special. I am truly humbled by your acts of love and kindness, and on behalf of everyone here at Hospice Dreams, thank you. Special thanks also go out to our two newest hospice partners, BJC Hospice of St. Louis and Hospice and Palliative Care of Northeastern Illinois.
attended the play was hope. Please read more about Colors of Hope on page 23. So whether the dream was to throw a graduation party, have high tea in the style of the British royalty or go on a boat ride for the first time, I hope these stories bring a smile to your face like they did to ours, and remind you that Dreams truly are ageless! I am also very excited to announce that Hospice Dreams has been selected as the Midwest Small Charity of the Year by the Stay Classy organization! The Classy Awards recognize the best non-profit groups across the country, and we’re honored to be in the company of such amazing organizations! The national awards ceremony will be held on September 22nd in San Diego, and we can’t wait to find out the results. September 24th is right around the corner! Don’t forget to make reservations for our upcoming golf outing at the Kankakee Country Club. Proceeds from this fundraiser will help us to make dreams come true for more hospice patients. If you are unable to attend any of our fundraisers, please take a moment and visit our website www.hospicedreams.org. There you’ll see our online Virtual Quilt that is filled with the memories families and friends have shared about a loved one. With a small donation you can create your own quilt square in memory of your loved one. I always want to leave a final thought with you, please take a moment and ask yourself: “What would be your Dream?” With much respect and gratitude,
Kansas Swain
Director of Foundation Development Hospice Dreams
We recently experienced love in yet another form through the generosity of a gentleman by the name of Andrew Mahan and the cast of Colors of Hope. Those who saw Colors of Hope experienced some sadness and some humor, but what resonated loudest with everyone who
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Vi’s Tea Party
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Vi and her daughters visited Her Majesty’s English Tea Room in Dunlap.
i Heininger has always considered herself a socialite. She misses the old days, when dressing up for tea with her friends was the highlight of a lady’s afternoon.
Heininger describes herself as 83 years young, and even as a hospice patient, she’s determined to maintain her favorite traditions. On Friday, April 27th, Heininger was the guest of honor at Her Majesty’s English Tea Room in Dunlap. After a mini-makeover, Heininger put on her finest jewels (and tiara!) and joined her three daughters for an afternoon out. “We thought this would be a way to really celebrate her and to interact with us girls,” said Heininger’s daughter Debbie Henkins. “She always likes it when the three of us are together.” Heininger and her three daughters enjoyed nine courses of traditional English treats, from tea to scones, before retiring for the evening.
Pictured Below: The tea room is ready for guests. Above: Vi takes a photo with the royal couple. Inset, Right: Vi’s plate was specially decorated. Right: Vi poses for a photo with her daughters.
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In the summer of 1962, two different couples made their vows to stay together through sickness and health. Their love stood the test of time, and now, 50 years later, they each celebrated a golden milestone surrounded by family and friends.
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or Adolf and Merle it was love at first sight. After 50 years together, they both have difficulty traveling, so Hospice Dreams helped them get together to celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary. The Perez’s three sons Adolf Jr., Jesse, and Pete, along with their families, and Adolf ’s sister Zorida, came to the special celebration. Surrounded by friends and family, and having traveled far to be together, Merle and Adolf renewed their vows.
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ichard and Barb wanted to celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary with a marriage blessing by Father Julien from Joliet. Family and friends attended the short ceremony and then went to a delicious luncheon prepared by Judy, their daughter. It was a joyful occasion and the family was thankful to be able to get together to celebrate this milestone.
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Kathryn Baringer, 93, has always had a special bond with her granddaughter Kathryn Horvath. As her granddaughter’s namesake, Baringer shared the unconditional love of a grandparent and her wisdom with the younger woman.
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ne of Baringer’s proudest moments was when her granddaughter announced her engagement. But as a hospice patient, Baringer wasn’t sure if she would be able to attend the wedding many months away. Still, she set a dream firmly in her mind to see her granddaughter happily married.
her hair and painted her nails. Then, on May
Hospice Dreams stepped in to make Baringer’s
Family photos and a reception rounded out the
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19th, Hospice Dreams staff accompanied her to the church where her granddaughter would be married. As a special honor, Baringer was escorted down the aisle by an usher. During the ceremony, the bride slipped on her grandmother’s heirloom wedding ring. “My goodness gracious, look at that ring,” Baringer said. “It’s just beautiful on her.”
blessed to be here. I’m so happy,” she said.
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o s e w o o d C a re C e nt e r re s i d e nt Pat t y Mu r p hy re c e nt l y c e l e br at e d a d ay w it h h e r e x t e n d e d f a m i l y. Mu r p hy, 8 1 , i s n ow a h o s pi c e p at i e nt w it h Pa s s a g e s Ho s pi c e , a n d re c e i v e d h e r w i s h t o v i s it h e r h om e t ow n of Ke w a n e e t h rou g h Ho s pi c e D re a m s . Murphy’s first stop was at the house where she raised her two daughters. Then, 15 family members, including a daughter from Florida and a nephew from Africa, met Murphy at St. Mary’s Catholic Church where she lit a candle and said a special prayer for her family. The entire family enjoyed a meal together at the Station House restaurant, where Murphy ordered her favorite patty melt with fries.
Patty Murphy, 81, poses in front of St. Mary’s Catholic Church in Kewanee with her family and caregivers.
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Reminiscing over
Above and below: Some photos of Dick and Millie early on in their lives. They celebrated their 69th wedding anniversary this year.
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ichard “Dick” Milano and his wife of 69 years hadn’t seen each other in over a year due to a few circumstances. At a local nightclub called Fitzgeralds they got a chance to get together and listen to some of their favorite big band tunes.
Richard Milano grew up to the sounds of Glenn Miller and Duke Ellington in the Roaring 20s. A couple of decades later, he danced the jitterbug with his sweetheart, Milly. Their dates to local dance halls were a welcome relief from the stress of wartime life. For more than five decades, Richard and Milly held a special place in their heart for the big band music of their youth. Now 91 and a hospice patient, Richard can’t dance quite like he used to. Milly is sick, too, and the couple haven’t seen each other in more than a year. Dick and Millie greet each other for the first time in over a year.
Dick and Millie holding hands at the club
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ig Band Music When Millie walked up to Dick he immediately smiled and they greeted each other. They sat next to each other the rest of the evening, never leaving each others side, and one by one, children and grandchildren visited with them. The main band, having learned about the couple in the audience, dedicated their songs that night to Dick and Millie. As the live music played throughout the club, Dick and Millie held hands and got one more chance to reminisce about the past and spend some time together.
National Public Celebrating
Garden Day
Evelyn Melton loves flowers and until recent years, loved to garden with her husband Jim.
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ith a passion for all things involving horticulture, a special day was planned for Evelyn. On National Public Garden day, she visited Luthy Botanical Garden in Peoria as guest of honor and was given a private tour with her family. Bob, the manager of Luthy Botanical Gardens, guided the tour of the grounds. Luthy Botanical Gardens span over 5 acres, have over a dozen theme gardens and a Conservatory. Evelyn was sure to visit the rose
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garden to see her favorites, yellow roses. At the end of the tour, Bob gave her a t-shirt and a small plant for her room. Both Evelyn and Jim had a lovely time and were really glad to be able to visit the gardens together one more time.
Evelyn’s family poses together for a photo
Evelyn’s family was given permission to write her name on the autograph tree
Jim steals a kiss from Evelyn
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Ireland
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Tommy’s sisters, with the rest of the family in the background, greet him over the computer
Tommy listens as his Sisters give him updates on the family.
hen most people want to see their family, they just call and plan a meet up. plan to meet. But in Thomas Healy’s case, his family lives more than 3,000 miles away in Dublin, Ireland and Tommy’s health prevents him from traveling.
Tommy hadn’t seen his sisters, nephews or nieces in more than 6 years. With the help of technology and a little time zone math, the family shared a video call. Tommy’s family gathered in his sister’s Dublin home so everyone could “see” Tommy. Emotions ran high as Tommy and his sisters sang their favorite traditional songs - something they did for many years in Ireland. Though Tommy has trouble communicating, he told his family he loves them all and misses them.
Tommy poses for a “photo” with his sisters, nieces, nephews, and family members.
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mm Family Films
Hours of 8mm and super 8 footage were projected and recorded via video camera so that we could quickly transfer it to dvd for Bernie.
photo credit: K.Borcz
Bernie Duddleston was that dad - the one always toting a camera to family events, vacations and trips to the lake. He loved filming and taking pictures on his old 8mm (and later, Super 8) cameras. As technology changed, the films sat in Bernie gets ready to watch his old films.
their canisters and became little time capsules waiting to be watched. For Bernie’s Dream, he wanted to see the films again and share the memories with his family. With a little creativity and the help of a former film student, we recorded Bernie’s films onto DVDs. Bernie was also treated to a private screening of the films using an old projector. Some of his favorite footage was from Disneyland, Yellowstone, Las Vegas and his childrens’ weddings. Bernie was also relieved to know that the films were preserved for future generations to enjoy.
Las Vegas in the late 1960’s
Yellowstone Park circa the 1960s.
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Meeting
Ted Nugent
Michael Golder always wanted to be a musician. From a young age he would sit and practice his guitar for hours, but life had a different plan for Michael. At just 19, a motorcycle accident left him paralysed and he found himself unable to perform the rock n’ roll music he so enjoyed. A series of strokes followed and Michael found himself blind and in a wheelchair. Michael, now 55, still loves to listen to rock n’ roll music. One of his favorites, rock legend Ted Nugent, showed his softer side by donating concert tickets and bringing Golder backstage before the show. Michael was thrilled to meet one of his music idols and they spent time talking and joking around. Michael met the rest of the band and even met Ted’s hunting dog. Before going out on stage, Nugent presented Michael with signed memorabilia and some special guitar picks. While performing, Ted dedicated one of his songs to Michael. Michael had a blast, and said, “What a rush!”
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Michael and Ted Nugent pose for a photo together. Above inset: Ted Nugent presented Michael with a signed photo and two of his guitar picks.
Michael poses backstage with his nurses.
Rockin’ out With
Hairball For Richard Mincey, 54, any night listening to his old favorites like Creedence Clearwater Revival, Lynyrd Skynard, Billy Idol and other rockers is a good night - and it’s even better when it’s a live concert that he can bond over with his daughter!
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ichard’s dream was fulfilled by attending a concert by the ver y talented cover band, Hairball. Hairball performed famous songs by most of the famous hairbands and rockers. They performed a variety of hits from performers like Bon Jovi, Judas Priest, Twisted Sister, Journey, Poison, Queen, AC/DC, Van Halen, and Kiss - in costume! Attending the dream with Richard was his daughter. She said, “This is the happiest I’ve
Hairball performing as Kiss
seen him in a long time.” They bonded over the experience and really had a fun time listening to the music that held special meaning to Richard. After the concert, and in all the smoke from the fireworks and effects still filling backstage, Richard got to meet with the rockers. Hairball members Kris Voxx, Rockstar Bob, Joe Dandy, Freaky, Colt Python, and Happy were glad to help Richard and his daughter to get a chance to rock out at a concert one last time.
Hairball takes the stage as Twisted Sister
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Richard met with with band members of Hairball backstage after the show.
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Take Me Out To The
Ball Game!
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o Narrup’s love of baseball began at a young age, starting out when she’d listen to games on the radio with her dad and brothers. She is a huge St. Louis Cardinals fan, and though she follows along with ever y game on T V, she hadn’t been to a baseball game in quite some time. When she found out she was headed to Busch Stadium for a Cardinals game she was overjoyed.
Jo poses for a photo with one of the nurses.
When the big day arrived, the Director of Nursing where she lives presented Jo with a statue of her all-time favorite Cardinal’s player, Stan “The Man” Musial. Accompanying Jo were her two nurses, who also dressed in Cardinals gear to show support. Jo was no slacker when it came to showing off her Cardinal’s pride - she went to the game fully decked-out in Cardinals gear (down to her Cardinals socks) - and she was ready to cheer her beloved team as they faced their rivals, the Chicago White Sox. She even donned a temporary tattoo of the Cardinals logo and painted her nails red. Jo enjoyed watching the game, including her current favorite player, left-fielder Matt Holliday, as the Cardinals gained the lead early in the game with a home run in the bottom of the 3rd. Jo loves not only watching the game but also brought along a clipboard to write down the statistics, just like her dad used to do. She even enjoyed a hotdog, explaining that, “they taste better at a ballpark!” Jo was presented with a bag full of goodies from the Cardinals, and couldn’t wait to decorate her room with them. Jo looks at the pennant she received from the Cardinals.
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Framed by a sea of Cardinals fans in red, Adolph trades a few friendly jibes with Willie.
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t was a beautiful day for a baseball game! Crack went the bat - and so the age-old custom of a friendly rivalr y began for Adolph Digirolomo and Willie Cage. Both have been lifelong fans and wanted to see their old teams play one more time. Adolph is a dyed-in-the-wool Chicago Cubs fan, and Willie, a diehard Cardinals fan. It happened that both teams were playing each other at nearby Busch Stadium, so Hospice Dreams brought Adolph and Willie together to the game. Willie wore Cardinals Red and Adolph showed up head-to-toe in Cubbie blue. Willie and Adolph were all smiles and traded kindly-jibes between each other about team stats and abilities. Adolph even took some time to educate his nurse on all things baseball. Ever yone had a great time. The final score was 7-6, with the Cardinals taking the lead in the final inning.
Wille Cage, Cardinals fan, and Adolph Digirolomo, Cubs fan, pose for a photo at Busch stadium.
Above: Adolph explains the intricacies of the game to his nurse. At left: A poster was made to commemorate the friendly fan faceoff between Willie and Adoph.
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An Artist’s Day at the Museum Vincent van Gogh’s “Factories at Clichy,” one of the many art pieces that Frank viewed while on his tour of the St. Louis Museum of Art.
Frank discusses the painting they are viewing with Christine, the docent
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rank Vicari loves art, and as an artist, has a deep appreciation for fine art. For his dream, Frank had a special, private tour of the St. Louis Art Museum to revisit his favorite paintings. Frank loved to discuss his favorite art period, Impressionism, with Christine, the docent. They discussed the artists historie’s and the stories behind the paintings on display at the museum. From Monet to VanGogh, amongst others, Frank knows his art history! When they finished viewing the many paintings of the St. Louis Art Museum, Frank was presented with an art book and a sketch pad. Frank really appreciated it and looks forward to filling the sketchbook with his artwork.
Christine tells the story behind one of Claude Monet’s Waterlilies paintings.
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Visiting Rembrandt Director Graham Beal personally gave a tour of the Rembrandt exhibit at the Detroit Institute of Art.
and other Treasures at the Detroit Institute of Art.
Diane Pollock is fluent in several languages and is a graduate of Michigan State University’s prestigious Fine Arts program, but that isn’t what sets her apart. Within a few years of graduating from MSU, Diane was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis. The disease progressed quickly and at age 27, Diane moved into a residential care facility. She loves art, and spent many years as a member of museums like the Art Institute of Chicago and the Detroit Institute of Art. Some of her favorites are the old masters, Michelangelo and Rembrandt. Above Top: Renowned curator Nancy Sojka shows Diane and her family some special pieces of art. Above Bottom: Nancy shows Diane a very sepecial sketch by Michelangelo from his studies for the Sistine Chapel.
Diane and her family were treated to a tour guided by renowned curator Nancy Sojka. Diane even got to see one of the Detroit Institute’s prized possessions, a sketch by Michelangelo from 1508 that has never been on display. The director of When Hospice Dreams the Detroit Institute of Art, was able to secure a special Graham Beal, gave Diane behind-the-scenes tour of and her family a personal the Detroit Institute of Art, tour of the Rembrandt it became a family affair. exhibit, discussing the
Standing: (l-r) Nancy Sojka, Diane’s brother Rodney, and her sister Karen Seated: Diane, her nephew Liam, niece Andie, and her mother Elmira
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stories behind the artwork and some of Rembrandt’s history. At the end of the tour, Mr. Beal presented Diane with a book, “Treasures from the DIA.” The family was also treated to a gourmet lunch in a private dining room of the Institute. Diane and her family were extremely grateful for the special visit and tour.
The Director of the Detroit Institute of Art Graham Beal meets Diane and her family.
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James, 8, arrives for his visit to Six Flags Great America.
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James and his cousin Alisha are ready to try out the roller coaster.
oni Sowell promised her son James that they’d go to Six Flags Great America some day. But the four hour trip from their hometown of Peoria was a long one, and Toni’s health was declining. A few years later, Toni became a hospice patient and knew that she needed to fulfill her promise to James soon.
James, wearing his superman cape, gives Snoopy a hug.
Although Toni couldn’t go, Hospice Dreams helped James and his cousin Alisha make the trip from Peoria to Six Flags Great America for a day of carefree fun. Six Flags did their part by donating tickets for the group and escorting James to the best rides. James even got to skip the lines by using special passes! As a special treat, Toni’s Dream for James was featured on ABC 7 and James got a copy of the video to show his friends at school. James enjoyed the magic of the theme park and Toni knew she’d completed her promise to her son.
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James meets Daffy Duck.
Shirley, her husband John, and their youngest daughter Katelyn, surrounded by friends and family, pose for a photo at the high school graduation party.
Graduation Party S Katelyn poses by her graduation cake
hirley Conway’s youngest daughter, Katelyn, was approaching a milestone - her high school graduation. Shirley wanted to throw Katelyn a graduation party, but her declining health made it difficult. Shirley asked Hospice Dreams for help making her daughter’s day special.
Hospice Dreams provided food, cake, and help in the kitchen, and Shirley’s family decorated the house in bright orange. With her mom by her side, surrounded by friends and family, Katelyn was able to celebrate her high school graduation. John, Shirley’s husband, said, “I just can’t thank you enough. You’re a wonderful organization.”
Katelyn had a sandwich and salad buffet at her high school graduation.
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A Day at the Beach
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i c h a e l L a r u s s a l ov e d t h e b e a c h a n d l on g e d t o s p e n d j u s t on e m ore d ay a l on g t h e s h ore . D u e t o h i s d e c l i n e i n h e a lt h , h e w a s u n a b l e t o t r av e l t o t h e b e a c h e a s i l y, s o Ho s pi c e D re a m s s t e pp e d i n t o h e lp. M i c h a e l a n d h i s f a m i l y w e re s e t up i n a l a k e h ou s e i n S au g at u k , M i c h i g a n s o t h e y c ou l d v i s it t h e b e a c h . T h e y s p e nt s e v e r a l h ou r s on O v a l B e a c h , w h e re M i c h a e l e nj oy e d Michael and his t h e s a n d a n d s u n , a n d e v e n s tu c k h i s f e e t i n t h e w at e r. family ready to go sailing Captain Tom Van Howe donated his sailboat for a daytime trip around Saugatuk for Michael and his family. The sailing conditions were the best the captain had all year - and Michael and his family really enjoyed the sailboat ride. They stopped at Mermaids, a local diner, for dinner and to watch boats sailing by. Captain Tom Van Ho we poses for a photo with Micha el.
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ay Cauwels has had three great loves in his life: his wife Colleen, his hometown of Crystal Lake and fishing. After retiring from the Crystal Lake Post Office, Cauwels and his wife travelled the country in their RV, searching for the best fishing spots. And although the fishing was best in Chippewa Falls, Wisconsin, their home would always be in Illinois. “Those were the happiest times of our lives,” Colleen Cauwels said. “He just loved being in nature.” But age took its toll, and at 79, Ray Cauwels hung up his rod and reel for the last time. As his health declined, he was admitted to a hospice program and thought his fishing days were over.
Recently, Ray and Colleen Cauwels received their wish - made extra special their first visit to Crystal Lake’s own Three Oaks Recreation Area. The fish weren’t biting that day, but the summer weather gave the Cauwels a near perfect day. “Fish are smart,” Ray said, explaining why he hadn’t caught anything. “But it’s a nice day out and this is a heck of a place.”
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hen Don “Dean” McKown, of Canton, IL lived in Alaska he used to enjoy the outdoors and fish a lot, so he was pretty excited to find out his dream to go out for a fishing picnic was happening. As he sat along the shore with the nurses, he told stories about how he met his wife, memories of his life as a lawyer, as a banker, and told a few tales of his adventures in Alaska. He laughed a lot and really enjoyed the special outing.
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Cabin by the Lake Bob Gosch, 86, spent some of the happiest days of his life at Mathews Bay. For more than 40 years, Gosch and his family fished, swam and relaxed together at their cabin on the water.
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hen his four children were grown, they brought their own families to the cabin. Later, when great-grandchildren arrived, Gosch’s son bought the cabin next door so the growing family could enjoy even more of the area.The cabin was the
family’s second home, but by the time Gosch was in his 80s, age and disease made visits less and less frequent. Now a hospice patient, it’d been more than three years since the family was together at the Bay. When Gosch’s caregivers at Passages Hospice asked
him what was left on his bucket list, he said he wanted to spend one more day at his cabin. So non-profit wish granting organization Hospice Dreams stepped in to grant Gosch’s Dream. Recently, about 35 family members gathered to fish, swim and enjoy each other’s company
at the cabin like so many summer days gone by. A picnic lunch and success at fishing rounded out the celebration.“I haven’t seen him smile like this in so long,” said Judy Coker, Gosch’s daughter. “It’s great to see him so happy.”
Colors of Hope A group of actors in Rockford honored the cancer journeys of family and friends in “Colors of Hope” on July 15th.
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ockford playwright Andrew Mahan presented his musical drama, Colors of Hope, as a fundraiser for Hospice Dreams. Colors of Hope is a musical drama that follows the journeys of five cancer patients and their families. Inspired by Mahan’s personal experiences with losing loved ones to cancer, Colors of Hope is a tribute to finding laughter amidst sadness and the importance of living every day to the fullest. Hospice Dreams staff were on hand to meet with attendees and help with ticket sales, as well as attend the show. “It was an inspiring play, Andrew and the rest of the actors in Colors of Hope were really talented,” said Kristine.
The play was held at Veterans Memorial Hall in Rockford, IL
“Colors of Hope” was dedicated to Andrew’s friends and family members who lost their battle with cancer: Anne Humphreys, Cheryl English, Liz Hopkins, Pat Mims, Maryland Williams, Dawn Pritz, Katie Jo Sanderson, Bob, Chris, and Deanna Heineman. Andrew chose to donate all proceeds from the performances to Hospice Dreams. “I can’t think of a better organization. What you do to help those with cancer and other diseases is incredible,” Andrew said. “Colors of Hope” raised more than $1,500 to make Dreams come true!
Colors of Hope was written and produced by Andrew Mahan
At left, Hospice Dreams staff attended the Colors of Hope play (L-R): Ricki, Kaitlyn, Kristen, Cooper, and Kansas
At Right: Andrew presents Hospice Dreams with a painting that appeared in his play, Colors of Hope. From left: Andrew, Kaitlyn, Kristine
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H. and B. Schumacher
In Memory of Anna Thorson
Kristy Kokenes-Mau
Sharon Harrison
Chad Ulitzsch
Yvonne Schmidt
In Memory of Ike Beard Arvilla Siddens Steve and Marjie Lundquist John Beard In Memory of John Brown Melvin and Lou Ann Eggemeyer In Memory of William Bryant Jr. Steven and Brenda Bryant In Memory of Angelo Calvello Rita Loew Michael and Susan Frank Elinore Davis Barton and Laura Mann In Memory of Rita Conroy Margaret Hanson
Elizabeth Potts Penelope Johns Valerie Detweiler Joann Sheridan Michael and Linda Burgess In Memory of Anna Kwiatek Werner and Kathleen Diehl In Memory of Josephine Lobue Thomas and Jacqueline Duffy In Memory of Colleen Lange Geroge Lordi
In Memory of Craig Wolff Kathy Beaulieu In Memory of Kelly Zimmerman Richard and Kimberly Bell Lisa Reinmann Jay Pfister Walter and Sharon Fogle Mike and Barb Lay
Alvin and Gaye Bettis
Richard and Betty Brandt
In Memory of Nance Meyers
In Memory of Jim DeTolve
Rick Taylor
In Memory of Raymond Dombkowski Meghan Mastellone
Renee Rodaszewski
Robert and Lisa Medved
In Memory of Helen Reese
Illinois Knights Templar
In Memory of Judith Vance
In Memory of Kenneth Lows
John Conway
Thomas and Frances Vaughn
Kathy Arthur
Carlton and Jo Gazelle
Jerry and Irene Miakush
In Memory of Mary Dippel
Edgar and Mary Ross
Carol Smith
In Memory of Shirley Conway
James and Donna Duffy
Stan Thorson
Richard and Matha Neal Ruby Horntrop Angelito and Deanna Tacderas Tom and Nancy Heil In Memory of Doris Schmidt Richard Vanderveen
Sandy Snow James and Kathryn Campbell Doublas and Tracy Baker Ray and Pat Reeser Bonnie Twyman Elmer Gray Angela Griffin William and Charlotte Troyer Darrell and Sarah Newhauser Ronald and Marilyn Rebmann H. James and Ann Perry
In Memory of George Schneider
David and Georgia Kaps
Russell and Deborah Anderson
Merle and Betty Martens
In Memory of Lloyd Scott
Kathy Kidwell
A.Joseph and Debra Judd
Jesse and Christine Gingras
Walter and Mary Schwind
In Memory of Frank Fogel
In Memory of Charles J. Stern
David and Stacy Leman
Don and Katherine Miske In Memory of Margaret Ferguson Lynmoore and Elaine Haynes
Irene Fogel In Memory of Elizabeth “Betty� Krieg Narcisco and Betti Jo Puentes Jerry and Louise Ferguson
Douglas Stern Geraldine Wike Waldo and Joyce Spencer
Jamie and Lisa Leipold Jack and Kimberly Matlock Christine Bator
In Honor of Barbara Stygar
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reams in the News
James at Great America -on WBBM -on ABC 7
Michael meets Ted Nugent - on WEEK 25 -the Peoria Journal Star
Jo sees the Cardinals
- the Alton Telegraph Adolf and Merle make the front page
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Every Dollar Helps a Dream Give an ex-pilot their wings back for one more flight...help a fan go to a concert to hear their favorite band ... or send someone to a dinner with their family at a special restaurant ... Every dollar donated helps Hospice Dreams continue granting dreams to hospice patients. Though they come in many shapes and sizes all Dreams share the bond of bringing a bit of joy during a difficult time. Hospice Dreams is dedicated to the human spirit — helping people and their families on a journey that many have never faced before. With the help of our generous donors, Hospice Dreams provides a last opportunity for individuals and their families to the experience the wonder life can bring and create everlasting memories. Hospice Dreams is a non-profit wish granting organization dedicated to fulfilling unmet wishes, decreasing stress and improving quality of life for adult hospice patients. There are many ways to give: • Individual donations • Donation of a virtual quilt patch • Donations in honor of/in memory of an individual • Services, gift cards, or tickets to help grant a dream • Planned Giving • Corporate Donations • Sponsorship Hospice Dreams is a registered 501(c)3 charity and your donations are tax-deductible. Hospice Dreams relies on the generous donations of our sponsors and individual donors. Every dollar donated helps someone to achieve their Dream. Please visit our website to donate today! www.HospiceDreams.org Dreams are Ageless
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Create a Dream Quilt patch in the memory of your loved one today and help make future dreams a reality....
Help others to live their Dream with your donation of a Dreams quilt patch. The Dreams quilt is a
virtual online quilt that is filled with the memories families and friends have shared about a loved one. With a small donation you can personalize a quilt patch in one of two sizes and with a design of your choice. The quilt is always available to view and share on the Hospice Dreams website. Your donation of a quilt patch goes directly towards fulfilling Dreams through Hospice Dreams. Keep your memories alive by adding to our Dreams quilt today. To create your own quilt patch in memory of a loved one, or for other ways to donate to help someone’s Dream come true, just visit our website today.
www.HospiceDreams.org As a 501(c)3 charitable organization, Hospice Dreams gives hospice patients the opportunity to live out a dream—a final adventure — where they can spend a joy-filled day with loved ones creating memories of living.
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Hospice Dreams Staff Kansas Swain
Title: Director of Foundation Development
Editors:
Kristine Borcz
Kaitlyn Henderson
PR Coordinator
Kansas Swain
Art Direction:
Christy Cooper
Kristine Borcz
PR and Development Coordinator
Article Authors:
Kami Freeland
Kristine Borcz
PR and Development Coordinator
Kaitlyn Henderson
Kaitlyn Henderson
Media and Communications Manager
Photography:
Kristen Kolwelter
Staff photographers supplied all photos in this newsletter unless otherwise specified.
Dreams Manager
Ricki Kravat
Stacy Barclay
All photographs of Dreams are the property of Hospice Dreams and may not be reproduced without permission. Contact info@hospicedreams.com for permission or questions.
Jerry Henke Marilyn Roy Alicia Stone
This issue of Dreams was made available to the public on July 27th through Issuu.
Office Manager
Board of Directors Dreams is a quarterly newsletter that documents the stories behind the Dreams that are granted through Hospice Dreams. Hospice Dreams is a registered 501(c)3 charity that provides adult hospice patients with an opprotunity to live their dream. We rely solely on the donations of individuals and sponsors to provide these Dreams. If you know of someone who has a dream please click on the “I have a Dream” button found on the top of our website for information as well as the application form. If you have further questions don’t hesitate to email us at: info@hospicedreams.org. Use GoodSearch when you search the internet – they will donate a penny to us every time you do. We are listed as “Hospice Dreams.”
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