Two Sides of the Great Debate
In a sound bite culture, the terms used to indicate why people support or oppose abortion seem like nothing more than hollow rhetoric. So what do both sides really mean?
"No Uterus, no opinion." Pro-abortion:
Since men are incapable of getting pregnant they can't understand what women go through during pregnancy. Women should be trusted to make the best decision for themselves.
Anti-abortion:
It takes two to tango... A man was there at the beginning; he should be there every step of the way and held equally accountable. If a father abandons a mother and child, we hold them accountable for child support. Why don't we expect men to be part of this decision as well?
"I don't want my baby to suffer ." Pro-abortion:
Why would you want to bring a baby into this world? There's already too much suffering.
Anti-abortion:
Why assume children born today will have the worst possible future? We have not yet legalized killing toddlers living in unhealthy or difficult environments. Instead, we try to help these children and their families. We should strive to eliminate the suffering, not those who might suffer.
"Foster care is the worst option." Pro-abortion:
I'd rather abort than give my child to an adoption agency where they'll be hurt in foster care. Putting a child into a broken care system which rapes, assaults and abuses thousands of children a year is dangerous.
Anti-Abortion:
It's good to care about the children in the foster care system and reform is needed. However, when a pregnant woman decides to place her child for adoption, an agency can help her find a loving family. In contrast, when a child is placed in foster care, the parents have lost custody. The goal of the foster care system is reunification with the birth parents or other family members. If reunification isn't possible, the child is then placed for adoption. 70% of children remain in the foster care system less than two years. Only four percent remain in foster care for five or more years.
"If abortion is made illegal, women will seek out dangerous 'back-alley' abortions." Pro-abortion:
Before Roe v. Wade, thousands of women died from unregulated "back-alley abortions." Women will continue seeking abortions if it is outlawed. The only difference will be that it is unregulated and therefore unsafe.
Anti-abortion:
4 | Do I Matter?
After the introduction of antibiotics, the mortality rate of illegal abortions plummeted to 200 deaths, not thousands, in 1965.1 Over 400 women died from legal abortions in the US between 1973-2007. Only 56 women died from illegal abortions during the same years.2
