Human Relationships

Human Relationships

By Anna Mednikov

• Human Relationships • USA • When people ask me to tell them a little bit about me, I frankly get confused. How can I tell a little bit, when I have a lot! How can a Person be described in a little bit?! We are a lot, and describing myself in two sentences almost impossible, but just to get everyone trust and support I will describe myself as a mother of three young kids, who is living this hard life, just like everyone else, trying to survive and making the best of each moment in this life.

For the audience who don't have any kids yet, will be hard to describe, how strong a mother must be, in which case I do consider myself a super strong person with an unbelievable sense of humor.

Good Humor make people smile.

The more you laugh, the longer you get to be here on Earth, healthier and happier!

This forum is made not only for a good laugh, but also to help people to believe in themselves! Believe that YOU ARE beautiful, smart, strong, energized, funny, loved and most of all UNIQUE !!! This forum doesn't know how much money you make, or what car you drive. This forum makes everyone Unique! Your soul, your opinions, your feelings, you and your World of Art from Words! Enjoy!

How Money Can Hurt Employee Motivation • Think money motivates your employees? Sure. But it’s not the biggest motivator.

• Many entrepreneurs believe that digging into their pocketbooks will help drive employee engagement, but the reality is that 67% of workers say praise and commendation from a manager is what truly motivates (vs. the 52% who say an increase in base pay does the trick.)

• Instead, consider making quality time with each employee a priority, pick up a personal tangible gift, offer a high five or fist bump, tell them they’re doing a great job or pitch in on a task. Connect with them. They’ll respect you more and work harder as a result.

• This infographic takes a look at the truth behind employee engagement and how you can motivate your workforce without reaching into your pocket.

• 42% of the global workforce says they’re disengaged at work.

• 90% of leaders say employee engagement is essential to their businesses.

• 75% of leaders do not have an employee engagement strategy.

How much jealousy is enough to make significant other go crazy?

• Some people call jealousy, some call it craziness, some people believe it's a sickness.

• Looking at many life experiences, most of those people called: damaged people, who either experienced bad love relationships, or themselves thinking about cheating.

• But what if it's not true?

• What if, that person, imagined in his head that his love is cheating and the way she talks to him and acts, gets irritable fast about every question he asks, he starts believing stronger in his theory?

• Frankly, I believe that person is not sick or jealous, I strongly believe that he is just Selfish person, who don't care about what bothers their significant others, and instead start accusing them of cheating and making another person go crazy!

• All this will link to a divorce, because not too many people can handle to be wrongly accused!

• Many women like when their guys are jealous, but in many relationships there should be trust.

• Without Trust, there is no relationships, or no future on surviving in those relationships.

• Communication is the key to resolving all mistrust, but if what if other person is not willing to listen?

• Listening is the key to save any marriage!

• Understanding is the key to saving not only marriage, but also the existing love as well!

• Stop being Selfish and give more care, understanding, communication to the person you love, and in return you will be successful in your marriage.

Relationships are easier to destroy, than build • Always easier to destroy than to build ...To offend is easier than to forgive ... And the lie is always more convenient than the truth ... To push away is much easier than to love and fight for it....

UNWANTED SEX • What would you do if you get pregnant after unwanted sex?

• In many families this is a very sensitive subject, because it’s painful for all of the family members.

• Meaning unwanted as called rape, but in many countries with all kind of cultures people have different understanding of rape.

• This topic has many different views from many people around the world. Some saying that the girl in the short skirt asked for it, same saying that she went to the club because she was looking for some sex, some saying that she sexually active before and by saying no she means yes.

• What if we use an example of the girl who is innocent of all those thoughts and just because she got this sexy outfit on, which was bought by her mother and approved by her father. Going to celebrate her best friend’s Birthday to the club in the company of 10-15 teenagers. A young men saw this beautiful girl with long black hair and her body looked amazing in the outfit she was wearing. He bought her a drink, started to flirt and from talking to her he understood that she is innocent. She wouldn’t drink any alcohol, the only beverage she was drinking is pop. He liked her very much, but she is super young for him to start dating her, but his desire was growing stronger just by looking at her. This young man bought another drink, which was pop for her and while she turned around he mixed something with a drink. In the half an hour he pulled her to the bathroom and relieved his desire. Girl was feeling light headed, not being able to fight him off. She didn’t remember how she got back to her friends, and no clue what happened to her before and after. Her friends were joking with her, thinking she got drunk,and her parents were sleeping when she got home.

• Everything would be normal until she found out that she is pregnant and never had sex.

• Imaging 20 years, the girl kept, loved and raise beautiful son, taught him to love and respect women, and one day she saw that guy, who raped her. When she saw his face online, she was 100% sure that it was the father of her child. His features were strong, and they eyes were the same. How can you miss the part where her son had the same birthmark as that guy. She wasn’t sure how to connect with him, but that flirty guy already connected with her. He asked her out on the date and she decided to go and find out if her intuition is right.

• Yes, she was right, but for him it’s one night stand out of million he had, but for her it’s all her life around the boy she raised all by herself.

• He called her crazy, and many other names, told her to never contact him again, and if she will, he will report to police.

• She wasn’t scared of him at all. Now she was walking down the road smiling to herself and thinking how happy she is that her son never met this horrible man ( his biological father), and he will never be like him!!!!

Insecurity • Everyone has insecurities. It happens. It’s natural. We’re humans, after all! And we live in a world that is often setting up expectations full of judgment. I am no different than anyone else. I have had my list of insecurities. I don’t normally do this, and I probably won’t do it again for a long time, but I thought I would love to hear your thoughts and your judgment about yourself.

• Please share some facts about you that you used to struggle with or still do...

• Write public if you would like to hear feedback or comments, or email privately to: humanrelationshins@gmail.com if you want your story or post to be shared anonymously.

Love Relationships

Many people approach a relationship either consciously or unconsciously, they believe love is a sensation based on physical and emotional attraction that magically, spontaneously generates when that special person appears. And just as easily, it can spontaneously degenerate when the magic just isn't there anymore. You fall in love, and you can fall out of love.

• The key word is passivity. The sad consequence of this misconception is: "There is hardly any activity, any enterprise, which is started with such tremendous hopes and expectations and yet, which fails so regularly, as Love."

• Love is the attachment that results in deeply appreciating another's goodness. See what we value most in ourselves, we value most in others. God created us to see ourselves as good (hence our need to either rationalize or regret our wrongdoings). So, we seek goodness in others. Nice looks, an engaging personality, intelligence and talent (all of which counts for something) may attract you, but goodness is what moves you to love. If that person doesn't see the same goodness in you, love is not possible, because it really takes two to love. I like to say “ give and receive”.

• Remember a person can't love if they don't want to be loved. Love is a choice, if love comes from appreciating goodness, it needn't just happen--you can make it happen, love is active.

You can create it. Just focus on the good in another. If you can do this easily, you'll love easily, but will be vulnerable to: a lot of fake love in return. It’s painful.

• Obviously, there is a far distance between personal love and unconditional love.

• Unconditional love is rooted from within.... only a person who captures your true love, will receive it...because you see the true goodness in them.

• How can you deepen your love for someone?

• Actions affect our feelings the most. If you want to become more compassionate, thinking compassionate thoughts will be a good start.

• Giving ultimately is the key. While most people think that love leads to giving.... the truth is actually the total opposite, giving leads to love!

• The first action of giving is care, demonstrating the active concern for a person’s life and growth!

• The second is responsibility, responding to their expressed and unexpressed needs, esp. emotional needs.

• The third is respect, the ability to see a person as they really are, to be aware of their unique individuality and consequently, wanting that person to grow and unfold as they are.

• These three actions all depend on the fourth, knowledge.

• We can care for, respond to, and respect another only as deeply as we know them. The effect of genuine giving is profound. It allows you into another person’s world and opens you up to receiving their goodness. At the same time, it means investing a part of yourself in the other, enabling to love that person as you love yourself.

• In conclusion love is also a behavior, a relationship thrives when two partners are committed to behaving lovingly through continual, unconditional giving-- not only saying, "I love you" but showing it!

• People come into your life for a reason. When someone is in your life for a reason, they have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually and your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh, teach you something you have never done before and give you an unbelievable amount of joy throughout many years.

• Relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.

• Our job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all relationships of your life!