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departments Products to Please . . . . . . . . . .24 Fun ahead with these great things?

features Life Through the Lens of Asperger Syndrome . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .10 By Renee Roberson How one local mom and author has turned her diagnosis into a vocation

Warm Weather Rules . . . . . . . .27 Find out what to wear for 16 warmer temps. KerrieCan . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .30 Make flowers from dryer sheets!

Ask the Therapist . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .16 By Leslie Petruk, MA, LPC, NCC Is your child struggling in school? You can help.

DJ Dad: Matt Harris . . . . . . . . .52 Avoid Parental Assassins

Carolina Cuties! . . . . . . . . . . . .54 Starring local little ones, as themselves â&#x20AC;Ś

A Caring Community . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .18 By Renee Roberson Charitable support for parents and children. The Magic of Minnie . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .22 By Renee Roberson Two local women join Walt Disney World Moms Panel. Growing Family = Growing House . . . .32 By Brian Fulbright What to expect from a general contractor.

30 Days of Family Fitness . . . . . . . . . . . .34 Complied by Kerrie Boys & Renee Roberson Grab your family and get moving! Perfecting Their Plates . . . . . . . . . . . . .38 by Renee Roberson End food fight and make meals fun. Thereâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s an App for That! . . . . . . . . . . . .46 by Renee Roberson Use your smart technology to save you time. Stay and Play . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .46 by The Charlotte Moms Charlotte area staycations.

cover: Our cover kid this month is 6-year-old Colin, a super-cool big brother who loves playing a variety of sports, board games and hanging around outdoors with his friends. He aspires to help others by becoming a doctor one day.

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Sharon Simpson The fact that I get the winter doldrums is no secret to anyone that knows me well. I am fortunate that we live in a part of the state that typically experiences mild winters, but the shorter days and chilly temperatures still leave me feeling tired, grumpy and unproductive for the most part. I didn’t realize it until my husband, Daniel, mentioned it to me last year, but apparently every spring I experience some sort of personal reawakening and focus all my energy on a specific project, almost always beginning in April. Sometimes it’s a home renovation project like buying new furniture or repainting specific rooms in the house. Three years ago I embarked on a quest to lose some unwanted pounds and start eating better. I succeeded, and that spring I also competed in a few 5K races and finished my first half marathon. Two years ago I finished the rough draft of a novel. Last year, I challenged myself to participate in some sort of physical activity every day in March, and with the exception of one or two lazy days, completed my task. And this year, I’ve been consumed with planning our family’s first ever trip to Walt Disney World, so you can imagine my excitement when I discovered that two local moms have been selected to be part of the 2012 Walt Disney World Moms Panel. They share their love of Disney and offer us their favorite WDW travel tips on page 22. As my kids get older, I realize the importance of teaching them good eating habits and stressing the importance of exercise. I’ll admit that during the winter months, I’m not always diligent about making sure they stay as physically active as they should, but I’ve made that a new goal in the coming months. We’ve pulled the soccer cleats out of the closet and the sign-up sheet for swimming lessons is on my desk. If you’re also looking for some tips for improving the eating and exercise habits of your own family, you’ve picked up a great resource, as we’ve devoted this issue to health and fitness. From our article on how to make nutritious food fun for children to 30 days of activities designed to get you moving (including a list of family-friendly fun runs!), we learned some great new information specific to Charlotte and hope you do, too. Still looking for summer vacation ideas? Charleston, S.C., is now offering a unique “Explorers” club for vacationers that your kids will love, and we also found some great “staycation” ideas for families looking to relax from the daily grind just a little closer to home. I sincerely hope that the coming months bring a fun sense of renewal to your and your loved ones.

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ach of Jennifer Cook O’Toole’s three children (ages 8, 5 and 2) have been diagnosed with Asperger Syndrome (AS), and as an adult, she received her own diagnosis. When faced with this realization, some women might have felt overwhelmed at the thought of helping each of their children navigate through a life where the way they perceive things doesn't always line up with typical societal norms. But O’Toole isn’t like most women. Instead of viewing Asperger Syndrome as a disease or disability, she’s decided to take a different stance. O’Toole believes that every parent, teacher, therapist and psychologist who knows a child with Asperger’s must choose a perspective and operate from it. Do they choose to view how an “Asperkid” thinks, behaves, feels and learns as deficient, or just different? “Don’t be afraid of a label when it’s the biggest blessing that could happen to your child,” says O’Toole. “When you find out that your brain works a little differently, there’s relief. It’s not devastating . . . Understanding what you think is different about your child is the biggest gift of love you can give. It’s our responsibility to swallow what’s difficult . . . for us to give our children what they need.” Asperger Syndrome is considered a highfunctioning form of autism; however, a person with Asperger’s does not withdraw from the world in the way that people with autism do, they actually seek out friendships, but difficulties with communication and language can lead to isolation. Children with AS are often highly intelligent, with an intense interest in one particular subject, but they can have challenges with sensory integration and

delays in motor development, such as riding a bike or climbing on play equipment. They also tend to find solace in routines and rituals. Originally from New Jersey, O’Toole graduated from Brown University and attended the Graduate School of Social Work at Columbia University. Before becoming a parent, she worked as a domestic violence counselor and says she fell into teaching both mainstream and special needs children. In 2002, she was nominated for Disney’s American Teacher of the Year Award. Fast forward to 2011.While homeschooling her 7-year-old daughter, O’Toole says she organically developed teaching methods that she began using specifically related to topics her daughter found most compelling, such as Greek mythology. “I used concrete Montessori materials to teach her these abstract concepts, and everything would be centered around that special interest, such as craft projects and geometry,” says O’Toole. It didn’t take long before the professionals who visited their home for the children’s various therapies took notice of O’Toole’s successful teaching methods and urged her to write them down. Encouraged, O’Toole became excited about the possibility of changing the way parents, teachers and health professionals educated and understood children with Asperger’s. She wrote the first draft of her book, Asperkids: An Insider’s Guide to Loving, Understanding and Teaching Children with Asperger Syndrome. From there, she tried to figure out the best place to send her proposal. She reached out to one of her favorite authors, “Aspie” Rudy Simone, who wrote the book Aspergirls: Empowering Females with Asperger Syndrome, and was surprised to hear back from Simone personally. Simone recommended Jessica Kingsley Publishers in London, and within two weeks of submitting her book synopsis, introduction and sample chapter, O’Toole had a book deal. Her book is scheduled for a May 2012 release, and she actually has a second book in the works titled, The Asperkids’ (Secret) Book of Social Rules: A Handbook of Not-So-Obvious Guidelines for Tweens & Teens with Asperger Syndrome. It is scheduled for release later this year. She is also humbled by the recognition from her mentors and peers in the Asperger community. Rudy Simone is now writing a formal endorsement of Asperkids. And in early March, O’Toole received notification that GRASP (The Global & Regional Asperger Syndrome Partnership) has awarded her the 2012 medal for a Distinguished Aspie. The award this year focuses on honoring emotional strength and excellence in parenting. O’Toole wants parents to know that an Asperger’s diagnosis for their child does not automatically mean their child cannot live a successful and fulfilling life. On her author website, she lists just a few famous people with Asperger’s who left their own marks in the world, such as Bill Gates, Emily Dickinson, Thomas Jefferson and Marie Curie.

“I want to change the face of Asperger’s,” says O’Toole. “Everything that has happened in my life is a very real possibility for other children. The greatest gift I got was to understand my Asperger’s. My life has taken focus.” To learn more, visit www.asperkids.com. About the book: Asperkids: An Insiders’s Guide to Loving, Understanding and Teaching Children with Asperger Syndrome” by Jessica Kingsley Publishers, London. From the publisher: “As a parent, teacher and an Aspie herself, Jennifer Cook O’Toole provides a unique insider’s look into Asperger’s Syndrome and how to help children on the spectrum by understanding how they think and exploiting their special interests to promote learning. Her strategies work because she thinks like the children that she teaches. This book is full of original and effective methods for engaging with children with Asperger’s Syndrome. The author discusses theory of mind, the necessity for concrete forms of communication, and ways to inspire imagination through sensorial experiences. In particular she explores the untapped power of special interests, explaining how to harness these interests to encourage academic, social and emotional growth. Affirming that different doesn't mean defective, this book offers the insight and guidance that parents and professionals need to connect with the Asperkids in their life and get them excited about learning.”

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**& *-)!By Arden McLaughlin of the Charlotte Mecklenburg Library I love that this edition of Little Ones focuses on health and fitness opportunities. Why? Because I’m a health and fitness nut! If an apple a day keeps the doctor away then I’ll never need a doctor again. And, if I go a few days without working out I can surely feel my mood shift into negative mode much too quickly. As much as I loving curling up with a good book, I think it’s equally important to be active. So, I’ve found some great books to read with your little ones to encourage them to get moving.

My Book of Indoor Games, by Clarence Squareman When asked what I did when I was growing up to stay active, I often replied, “I played.” I can recall various games I played with my brother but nothing really sticks out. Mostly we just played. That’s the theme of My Book of Indoor Games by Clarence Squareman. “Let the child imbibe in the full spirit of play. There is nothing like it to keep him on the path of health, right thinking and mind development,” Squareman said in the early 1900s. This book is available via Kindle for only $2.99. I think it’s a simple way to get your children playing today.

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Treat her(or him!) to a night in (or out!) with a movie night gift basket. Include a gift certificate to a local movie theater, Netflix or Redbox and throw in a box of microwave popcorn, a favorite beverage and box of candy.

Make a digital photo scrapbook from your family to the teacher using classroom photos and digital images of artwork or projects the class created as part of various themed units.

Make a classroom keepsake book. Have each child in the class write and decorate a page with a nice note to your teacher and bind the pages together with a fun cover commemorating the school year.

Give her a day at the spa. Have each family in your class contribute $5 or $10 and you’ll have enough for your teacher to indulge in one or two spa treatments that she probably normally wouldn’t get to enjoy.

Give the gift of personalized stationery. Buy some cute card stock with matching envelopes and inkpads in a few different colors. Decorate the stationary with your child’s fingerprints and draw fun creatures (such as caterpillars, cats or dogs) on the cards. Be sure to include a “created by X” signature on the back of the card.

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neurobiological disorder that is believed to have a genetic component. Research shows that it actually often goes undiagnosed and untreated in children and occurs in between two to nine percent of children ages 3-17. Girls in particular are under diagnosed, as their symptoms tend to look different than boys. ADHD can be misdiagnosed, so it is important to see a professional who is qualified to make the diagnosis and to rule out other conditions that can mimic ADHD symptoms, such as Sensory Processing Disorder, Anxiety, Depression, Auditory Processing Disorder, Dyslexia and many others. There is a lot of solid research and information on ADHD and it is important if your child is showing symptoms to get them assessed and treated early rather then the “wait and see” approach, which often results in the accumulation of more problems. Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD) is a neurodevelopmental disorder for which the exact cause has not yet been identified, however, as with ADHD, genetics is suspected to play a large role. SPD can be manifested in numerous ways, some of which include over sensitivity, a child who exhibits low self-esteem, social isolation, emotional issues, belligerent or disruptive behavior, anxiety, and aggressive behaviors. They may have difficulty with transitions, strong reactions to loud noises, and/or a desire to seek out noise and crash into things while avoidant of other textures or sensations (i.e. certain foods — may be a “picky eater”), particular about clothes or bothered by tags or seams in socks. Children with SPD can be both sensory seeking (crashing into things,

touching things constantly) and sensory avoidant (don’t want to touch certain things like play-doh, shaving cream or finger paint). These children struggle with regulating their senses, and may be clumsy and uncoordinated and this all has an emotional impact on them. SPD can be accurately assessed and treated by a pediatric occupational therapist that is specifically trained in treating Sensory Integration. Learning Disabilities often go undetected and parents and teachers think because a child is intelligent, they have the ability to perform and just aren’t applying themselves in their schoolwork. It is not uncommon for those who have learning disabilities to actually have a high IQ. There is also a high correlation between ADHD and learning disabilities. If your child is resistant to reading, is struggling to learn to read, has poor memory skills, does their school work at a very slow pace, fights you to do homework or struggles with understanding instructions and/or organizational skills, these could all be indicators of a learning disability. Struggling in school in any area is always an indicator that needs to be investigated further. It could be that your child needs glasses or has an auditory processing disorder. Dyslexia is a learning disability that can be auditory, visual and/or attentional. Non-verbal Learning Disorders (NVLD) are another common type of learning disorders in which children are typically very verbal, may even read at an early age, may be very intelligent, but as the demands of school and social situations become more challenging they begin to struggle. They may have a difficult time adapting to change and tend to be very literal and miss sarcasm. Your child should not struggle in school and if they are, it is important to get to the root of the cause. A child is unaware that it is not their fault that they can’t process the information and become discouraged and often times give up and become resistant about doing homework Here are some additional resources to and schoolwork. This is help you if your child is struggling to where the “defiance” attempt to get to the root of the cause. and “laziness” Driven to Distraction: Recognizing and manifests and is often Coping with Attention Deficit Disorder misinterpreted. It is by Edward M. Hallowell M.D. and also important to John J. Ratey M.D. understand that often -----------------------------------------------------Sensational Kids: Hope and Help For times these conditions Children With Sensory Processing co-exist — so a child Disorder by Lucy Jane Miller who is ADHD may also -----------------------------------------------------have a learning Superparenting for ADD: An disability and sensory Innovative Approach to Raising Your Distracted Child by Edward M. processing disorder. It’s Hallowell M.D. and Peter S. Jensen important to work with -----------------------------------------------------a professional who The Dyslexic Advantage: Unlocking the understands and can Hidden Potential of the Dyslexic Brain treat the whole child by Borck L. Eide and Fernette F. Eide -----------------------------------------------------and help you coordinate The Gift of Dyslexia by Ronald D. care for your child so Davis and Eldon M. Braun ------------------------------------------------------they will receive only The Myth of Laziness by Mel Levine ------------------------------------------------------the necessary The Out of Sync Child: Recognizing interventions (without and Coping with Sensory Processing going overboard) to Disorder by Carol Kranowitz and support them so they Lucy Jane Miller ------------------------------------------------------are able to perform to Understanding Girls With AD/HD their full potential.

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Local organizations offer support to both parents and children In a time where many families are struggling with economic stress, medical issues and unemployment, it could be easy to assume that places for financial and emotional support are few and far between. But in the Charlotte area, there are community members and nonprofit foundations who are determined to make a difference each and every day, and let parents and children know they are not alone. Weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve highlighted just a few of these organizations.

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In a 6,100-square-foot facility in Statesville, children of sexual abuse and their non-offending family members can find a safe haven. Dove House, a children’s advocacy center serving Iredell and Alexander counties, opened its doors in 2002 with the hopes of ensuring that abused children could avoid having to visit multiple locations like police stations and hospitals and tell their story repeatedly. Instead, they are now able to visit Dove House’s warm and inviting environment, where the members of their multi-disciplinary team can come to them in order to begin the healing process. Since 2002, Dove House has provided services to 5,900 individuals, including both primary and secondary victims, or family members of the abused child, says Ken Wooten, executive director. Those statistics can further be broken down into 1,900 primary victims and 4,000 secondary victims, numbers that Wooten says are alarming. “One kid a week is too many,” he says. Dove House’s multi-disciplinary team consists of the six law enforcement agencies having jurisdiction in Iredell and Alexander Counties, North Carolina; the NC 22A Judicial District Attorney’s office, the Departments of Social Services in both Iredell and Alexander Counties, Guardian ad Litem program for both counties, medical and mental health personnel, and the Dove House staff. “We really focus on reducing the trauma to the child,” says Wooten. “Our goal is to have the child do one interview and have it recorded and get the help that they need. Our victim advocates stay with the families for up to two to three years – as long as it takes.” Dove House moved into a brand-new facility in 2009, with 93 percent of the facility paid for through donations and support from the surrounding community. The facility is equipped with staff offices, an interview room, a team room for meetings, a family room with a television, comfortable furniture, books and toys and an exam room for volunteer nurses and physicians. The center is currently working on raising the remaining seven percent cost of the building so they can remain mortgage free. On April 28, Dove House will hold their annual fundraising event, “An Evening for Dove House” at The Charles Mack Citizen Center in Mooresville. April is also recognized as National Child Abuse Prevention Month. The event will include live and silent auctions, numerous culinary treats from local restaurants, with Larry Sprinkle, meteorologist for WCNC, serving as celebrity auctioneer. To purchase tickets or learn more about the event, visit www.DoveHouse.us.

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system. He sat down with a few close friends and worked on developing a plan to reach out and offer assistance to the Charlotte community. From there, Queen City Reads was born. With the support of local NASCAR driver Ryan Newman and his wife, Krissie, Queen City Reads held its first fundraising event last fall at the VanLandingham Estate in Charlotte, with the goal of raising money to implement the Renaissance Learning Program in three different elementary schools in Charlotte – Walter G. Byers, Berryhill and Thomasboro. “The program develops accelerated reading programs for students to study materials and then take quizzes,” says Miller. “It’s been proven to help with end of year testing. Most schools in Charlotte have it – these do not because of limited funds.” With the thousands of dollars that were raised, the programs are already being put to use in the selected schools. “The number one goal is to help youth in Charlotte succeed in ways where they struggle to have the resources,” says Miller. “Right now, we’re in the process of developing Queen City Reads into a bigger foundation and can eventually be a program that can do more than just a yearly event.” To find out more about Queen City reads, contact them at queencityreads@gmail.com.

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For 33 years, Charlotte-based organization Kindermourn has worked to provide a program of professionally-guided support groups and counseling services for parents experiencing the death of a child and children and teens mourning the death of a loved one. Families who wish to learn more about the organization’s Grieving Parents Program can schedule a time to meet with a Kindermourn counselor. There is no charge for the initial visit and fees for additional services are based on a sliding scale. Scholarships are available for those experiencing financial stress. Kindermourn continues to serve the community through support from individuals, corporations and foundations. This year, their largest fundraiser, The Hope Floats Duck Race, will take place on April 22 from 2 to 5 pm. at the U.S. National Whitewater Center. This annual event includes live music, children’s activities, inflatables, and the main event, a fun rubber duck race. Last year, more than 7,000 people attended this free event and organizers hope to have at least 15,000 rubber ducks to drop into the water to race for fun prizes. Ducks are available for “adoption” by members of the community for $5 each by visiting Kindermourn’s website at www.kindermourn.org or by calling 704.376.2580. www.littleonesmagazine.com | for local moms ... by local moms

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Cacciatore says she never went to Disney World as a child, but when she finally visited as an adult, she became hooked on the magic of the experience. She and her husband are parents to a son and daughter and typically travel to Disney World each September to celebrate the children’s birthdays. She ran her first marathon at WDW, and recently completed the 2012 Disney’s Princess Half Marathon at the end of February. A health and fitness blogger and author of several cookbooks to help encourage children to eat healthy, Cacciatore says being selected for this year’s panel, “really combines everything I’m passionate about, and embodies who I am. This is exactly what I want to do.”

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Stacy’s Tips >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> One of Cacciatore’s biggest tips to families traveling to WDW is to take advantage of the dining plan. “I think that part of the experience is being able to dine at the different locations and have the character meals, especially with young children. You’re saving both money and time, and it takes the stress out of planning.” She also recommends staying on site when at all possible, whether it’s at a value or deluxe resort. She’s excited about the new Disney’s Art of Animation resort, a value resort opening this spring which will feature affordable family suites with themes from “Finding Nemo,” “The Little Mermaid,” “Cars” and “The Lion King.” Her personal favorite place to stay is Coronado Springs, because while it is a moderate resort, it has many amenities, such as a running trail and state-of-theart fitness trail, that are typically found in more deluxe resorts at WDW.

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Dillen is a registered nurse and mother to a 19-year-old son and a 9year-old daughter with special needs. She and her husband make the trip to Florida regularly with their family, and Dillen, who is also a vegetarian, is passionate about sharing everything she has learned about the parks and restaurants over the years. A self-proclaimed “Type A” planner, she credits her children with helping her slow down and enjoy the Walt Disney World experience through the eyes of a child. “Let the magic happen,” Dillen says. “Understand that you’ll miss some of the little details if you are running from attraction to attraction. If at all possible, try and keep a routine somewhat in place.”

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n 2012, 15 new panelists joined the Walt Disney World Moms Panel, and two local women are excited to be part of the group. The panel is an online forum in its fifth year that serves as a resource for families planning a Walt Disney World Resort, Disney Cruise Line, Disney Vacation Club, Adventures by Disney and Disneyland and runDisney vacations. After an extensive application process, each panelist — including Charlotte resident Kim Dillen and Ft. Mill resident Stacy Cacciatore — were selected out of thousands of applicants based on their personal Disney experiences and perspectives. In December, both women traveled to Walt Disney World for five days of training and the opportunity to meet with other past and present panelists.

Kim’s Tips >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Dillen says WDW has to be one of the most vacationfriendly destinations for families with special diets and other needs. The restaurants aim to accommodate every diner, and she points out that there are options on the reservations website to list food allergies and other concerns. Restaurant chefs are notified ahead of time when parties have special diets, and they personally visit tables to go over available dining options. Dillen vividly recalls eating at the ‘Ohana restaurant at the Polynesian Resort, a place known for its menu filled with a variety of skewered meats. The chef personally created a meatless volcano out of asparagus and vegetables for Dillen, which she says was one of her favorite meals so far at WDW. “The cast members are incredible,” she says. “They really do try to bend over backwards for every guest.” For more information about the 2012 Walt Disney World Moms Panel, visit www.disneyworldmoms.com. www.littleonesmagazine.com | for local moms ... by local moms

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Pinch your dryer sheet in the middle and slide the pinched part onto the safety pin. Repeat at least 10 times- the more sheets the fuffier your flower will be. Pull all the sheets up to one side of the pin, creating the beginning of the “stem” of the flower.

you will need: lots of dryer sheets, 18-20 guage wire, scissors, wire cutters, safety pins, glue gun, buttons to embellish with

Starting at the base of the flower, start wrapping wire around the safety pin, careful not to get stuck! Keep wrapping until the pin is covered. Now, keep wrapping down until you get past the pin and let the wire hang about 12-15 inches and cut. Repeat that process with another wire going the opposite direction. This will beef up your stem.

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Once you have your 2 wires just twist them around each other to create a stem and curl the ends to finish it off! Now, hot glue or wire a button in the middle for flair! I used mine to top off a bowl of snickers for my daughter’s teacher’s gift.

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am a general contractor. What is the first thing that comes to mind when you hear that statement? Should you trust me? Can you afford me? What do I do? These are all excellent questions. As a parent, I could really relate to Steve Martin’s character in the movie “Parenthood.” You’re probably familiar with the feeling I’m talking about — the out-of-control feeling that often leaves you looking like a deer in the headlights. For those who watch the multitude of home and garden shows on cable today, the thought of a home renovation probably conjures up similar stressful feelings. The shows can teach us that contractors are shady, a room can be fully renovated for less than $2,000 over a weekend, and why pay someone to do something that you can complete yourself? I must admit that since I have started my own business, I rarely watch those shows. I began to see them as shows that painted a confusing picture of the remodeling process. So what are you to do? Let’s start with expectations. According to the Remodeling 2011–12 Cost vs. Value Report (www.costvsvalue.com), the highest return continues to be replacing your vinyl siding with fiber-cement board (93 percent) with the lowest return being home office remodels (39 percent). Additions (garages, bathrooms, master bedroom, sun rooms) tend to linger around the lower 50 percent. The higher returns are on basement/attic up fits and kitchen/bathrooms remodels, which can fetch up to 75 percent. Now you know the statistics, but what do they really mean? When I meet with a prospective client, return on investment usually comes up early in the conversation. I respond by asking the client how long they see themselves living in their current home. If the answer is anything over four years, the answer is easy. Invest your money in those things that provide comfort, security, and usefulness to your family.

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I am not advocating building an astronomy lab with a functioning telescope and retractable roof. Rather, if you are happy with your kitchen but are planning to work from home — focus on a home office to meet your needs because YOU will spend countless hours there and need a comfortable work space to be successful. Don’t build a deck if you are indoor people. Don’t keep a big garden tub if you like to take showers and need extra space in the bathroom. Once the prospective client gets the “why didn’t I think of that look” the fun begins. Then we can start discussing your needs and why you decided to pick up the phone and set up a meeting. Many times, the ideas that come from this discussion only loosely resemble the original project idea.

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When having this discussion, it is helpful to be aware of trends in the current market. MarketWatch just reported its findings on what homebuilders are NOT putting into new homes. Plan to see less of two-story family room and foyers. Without visiting the entire list, a premium is being placed on practical items such as nicer laundry rooms and storage space including walk-in closets. Great rooms replace formal living rooms. The trend is shifting toward building homes and creating space that “real” people use in their everyday life. So, if the remodel makes sense based on YOUR family’s needs, the remodel will probably make sense to a potential BUYER’S needs. Stop looking at your house as an investment and as what it is — a home. Back to the beginning. Yes, a general contractor needs to make money, but a good contractor can help you get the most joy and benefit from your investment. A good contractor makes sure the job is performed correctly, by people that can be trusted around your greatest assets — your family and home. None of this can happen without trust and open communication. The end result means having benefits for you and your family now and for the foreseeable future.

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ne of the best things about living in Charlotte is that it’s easy to stay fit and active with an abundance of fun things to see and do on any given day, regardless of the weather. If you’re hoping to take advantage of the warming temperatures and squeeze in some quality time with your family, we’ve compiled 30 days worth of fun activities. Pick one to do each day and we guarantee you’ll feel happier and healthier both mentally and physically in no time, and so will your kids!

Compiled by Kerrie Boys and Renee Roberson

Have your own “family boot camp!” Break out the sidewalk chalk and make eight “stations” — on your driveway. Use canned food as weights for bicep curls. Do jumping jacks, sit ups, jump rope, push-ups, bend over and touch your toes then reach above your head, perform a high-knee stationary run, and do leg lifts while lying on the ground. Repeat 3 times!

The Mallard Creek Recreation Center is a great alternative for rainy and dreary days. Take the kids to the indoor play yard and visit the fitness room for a fun way to get the wiggles out.

Visit the NC Zoo in Asheboro —a fun walking zoo where you’ll be guaranteed to log several miles during your time there. Their special Dinosaurs Exhibit, featuring 15 life-size animatronic dinosaurs presented by Time Warner Cable, opens in April.

Do you enjoy disc golf? Bring your Frisbee and have your own outdoor adventure on one of the 11 courses in the area. See www.charlottedgc.com/ category/courses/ for the course closest to you.

While waiting for your local outdoor pool to open, enjoy some indoor water fun at Ray’s Splash Planet while traveling down the three-story slide and enjoying the 117,000 gallons of water. Sure, the rafting is fun at the U.S. National Whitewater Center, but the little ones in your family can also work on conquering climbing at the open-air 46-foot climbing wall. Or, just take in a hike around the center and take in the sights.

Triathlons are all the rage — why not create your own? Go for

a swim at your local pool, hop on your bike for a few miles and finish it off with a run of your choice. Have a scavenger hunt. Have one parent hide things in your neighborhood far enough away to get some exercise. Create clues or a map and go hunting! (For another indoor idea, the board game “Scavenger Hunt for Kids” works well for an in-home hunt, especially if you live in a house that has an upstairs area!)

Try more real-world outdoor treasure hunting with geocaching. Join www.geocaching.com and enter in your zip code to get started. Use the GPS on your phone to guide you to the little stashes hidden all over town.

Visit the NASCAR Speedpark and traverse the indoor climbing wall, play laser tag or take a ride in the bumper boats.

11 Take the kids bouncing at Monkey Joe’s or BounceU. Helping the kids navigate the inflatables is a workout for most grown ups, too! 12

Head to Latta Equestrian Center for an afternoon of horseback riding with a trail, arena or pony ride. Or, take a walk through the nearby Carolina Raptor Center.

If you’ve ever been berry picking, you know that you’ll receive a fullbody workout and dose of fresh air all at the same time. Find a local farm closest to you and go pick a healthy snack! Jump to your heart’s content at Sky High Sports, a unique area trampoline center.

yard. Jump over a box, crawl under a blanket draped over chairs, run around the house, and run the “tires” (drawn with chalk), etc. Time each other and try to improve each time! Celebrate the beginning of spring with a guided 3-mile nature hike at Reedy Creek Nature Center on April 22.

Go for a hike at Fisher Farm Park in Davidson or take your bikes and hit the trails.

Namaste! The Mommy/Daddy classes at Charlotte Family Yoga are the perfect way to introduce your children to yoga, and meet other parents with similar interests.

Combine your love of animals and fitness at the Pet Palooza on May 5 at Independence Park with a dog walk or 5K.

Enjoy a Latin-inspired workout with a Zumba class at your local YMCA. Take the kids to Charlotte Nature Museum and after your visit, follow the trails behind the museum that lead to Freedom Park.

Spend time in the great outdoors and explore Scottish Heritage at the Rural Hill Scottish Festival and Loch Norman Highland Games on April 21-22.

Visit the playgrounds and ride the train at Village Park in Kannapolis. During summer hours, the splash pad will help you cool off.

Take the family for a game of minigolf in the hidden gem that is the Lost Duffer Miniature Golf — the back nine actually goes into an underground “gold mine!” Take your dog for a leisurely stroll around the neighborhood, and if you don’t have a dog, offer to walk a neighbor’s.

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Give your legs a workout at Dave’s Paddleboats at University Place.

For an evening of laughs, put in your favorite version of the “Just Dance” Wii game and prepare for a family dance off! Head out to a local athletic field for an impromptu game of soccer.

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Spend an afternoon at a nearby bowling alley. Organize a kickball game!

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daring to tri Fitness center hosts motivating kids’ triathlon series in Huntersville

hese days, it’s hip to be healthy and fit, and that often includes even the youngest members of the family. Now, instead of just Mom and Dad participating in triathlons, their children are also finding ways to train and compete together, including many local families. Five years ago, Drs. Mark and Sarah Mcgeough, parents of three children and a husband and wife team of veterinarians who own the Birkdale Animal Hospital, approached Huntersville Family Fitness and Aquatics (HFFA) with the hopes of starting a triathlon series specifically for children. “We started the series so we could give kids an opportunity to stay active and to experience what we feel is a lifetime sport, one that age does not limit you from trying or continuing,” says Mcgeough. “HFFA was an ideal venue and a willing partner for us.” The Kids Triathlon series was created to encourage children to have fun by staying active. It provides varying distances appropriate for four different groups ranging from ages 4 to 14-years. The first race will take place on April 28 at HFFA, with the remaining three races following on May 20, June 24 and July 15. The distances for each age group include: 4 to 6-year-olds: 25-yard swim/.3 mile-bike/100-yard run 7 to 8-year-olds: 50-yard swim/1-mile bike/.3 mile-run 9 to 10-year-olds: 75-yard swim/1-mile bike/.3 mile-run 36

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11 to 12-year-olds: 100-yard swim/2-mile bike/.75-mile run 13 to 14 year-olds: 200-yard swim/2-mile bike/1-mile run “The sport is growing rapidly,” says Dee Jetton, executive director of Huntersville Family Fitness and Aquatics. “It’s great that parents are picking an activity that kids can very easily do.” There is even an opportunity for the youngest members of the family to get in on the fun, too. Jetton says there were so many younger children watching their older siblings compete at the triathlons that HFFA decided to offer a Paddle Trike Trot for Wee Ones last year. The indoor introduction to triathlons will continue this year and is geared for children under the age of 4 years. “Really the purpose of the event is to give kids who aren’t finding competition at the top of their list but want to have fun,” says Jetton. “Probably the most gratifying thing to me is how proud they are when they cross the finish line. If you can walk, run or swim, even if you need a kickboard to get across the pool, it’s okay.” For more information on the 2012 Birkdale Animal Hospital Kids Triathlon Series, visit www.hffa.com.

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End the food fights by making their meals more fun Parenting comes with a multitude of challenges, whether it’s helping your child sleep through the night, potty training or easing anxiety when it’s immunization time at the pediatrician’s office. For me, making sure my kids eat a balanced diet and continue to try new foods is a challenge I struggle with daily, and I know that I’m not alone in this. Below are some tips that I’ve learned along the way that help trying new foods more fun for children.

Choose a rainbow. What child doesn’t love a challenge? Ask your kids to see how many colors of the rainbow they can eat each day. Have them make a “rainbow” chart to keep track of their fruit and vegetable choices. Try purchasing produce in different colors to pique their interests, such as purple cauliflower, blood oranges, sweet red corn, rainbow carrots and violet broccoli. The book I Can Eat a Rainbow by author Annabel Karmel also encourages your preschoolers to make better nutrition choices in a fun and colorful way.

Sip it through a straw. For some reason, the word smoothie makes items such as fruit, vegetables, peanut butter or yogurt seem much more appealing. Look up fun smoothie recipes with your children and include them in on the blending process. For kids who are apprehensive about eating their vegetables, consider juicing. If you want to test it out before purchasing a juice extractor or juicer for your family, Earth Fare has a variety of fresh juices you can let your child try. You can even pick out a fresh produce in the store and take it to the café for an on-site juicing. I recently tried a juice from the café that consisted of a blend of carrots, celery and apples, and it was actually very tasty.

Present it with pizazz. Let’s face it; anything presented in a fun way is more likely to be ingested, whether it’s starshaped cheese or heart-shaped ham and turkey sandwiches. Serve their morning waffle with a layer of nut or soy butter and make a cute face with blueberries for eyes and an apple wedge for a mouth. Breakfast will be devoured in no time, and you can carry this philosophy over into other meals and packed lunches for fewer mealtime battles.

Plant it. If you have room in your yard, have your children help you plant a small vegetable garden. Take them to the store to pick out seed packets. My own daughter didn’t actually start eating carrots until she picked out and grew her own rainbow-colored ones. Even if you don’t have a lot of room in your yard, planting a small herb garden to garnish your meals with is also a fun and creative idea. There are a variety of herb garden ideas at www.herbkits.com. 38

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What: Take a ride on the Easter Bunny Express. The Easter Bunny will be riding alongside children and their parents, while handing out candy for the kids. Kids can also get temporary tattoos and make a craft to take home! The museum will hold an Easter Egg Hunt on April 7 only. When: April 1; April 6-7 Where: North Carolina Transportation Museum www.nctrans.org

Where: ImaginOn: The Joe & Joan Martin Center www.imaginon.org

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Easter Egg Hunt

What: Enjoy Easter at Latta Plantation. Children will hunt for Easter eggs throughout the plantation grounds, visit with the Easter bunny and make Easter crafts. Take the time to tour the plantation home, see open-hearth cooking demonstrations, visit the farm animals and enjoy a hot lunch from the food vendor. Registration required. When: April 7 from 10 a.m. â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 4 p.m. Where: Latta Plantation www.lattaplantation.org

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Musical Petting Zoo

What: Make your own music! The Musical Petting Zoo, presented by the Symphony Guild of Charlotte, brings real instruments to ImaginOn for children to try out. When: April 3 from noon to 1:30 p.m.

What: Join a museum educator for an age-appropriate story, game or activity related to art, followed by free playtime in the Lewis Family Gallery. Preregistration required. Ages 2 - 4 years with an adult. When: April 10 from 10 -10:45 a.m. Where: The Mint Museum Uptown www.mintmuseum.org

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When your child is ready to start toilet training, make a special date with your child to go shopping for underwear. Let your child pick the type of underwear and then treat her to ice cream. It’s her special potty day.

Keep a basket of books in the bathroom. Your child will have so much fun reading she might forget she’s sitting on the potty. Make a Potty Picture Book of photographs you cut from old magazines. You and your child can pick pictures of potty chairs, pull-ups, toilet paper, wipes, underwear, and diapers. Parenting magazines are great to use. Then read it with your child and name the pictures and talk about what is happening.

Personalized Potty Chair Put your child’s name on his potty chair. Children love personalized things and a chair of his own will really make him feel special. Put a clean, disinfected potty chair in the playroom and let your child experiment and play with it just like any other toy. At first he’ll find that it’s a great place to collect Legos and eventually all the stuffed animals will be lined up “to go.”

Musical Potty Chair Place a clean potty chair in your child’s play space and turn on the music. Tell your child to sit on the potty every time the music stops. Your child will love this game and it’s a great activity for children who are just getting used to the potty chair.

Potty Time Create a toileting routine. Make “potty time” part of your everyday schedule, just like brushing teeth or getting ready for a nap. When you find that your child’s diaper is dry after a nap, start the routine of heading to the potty as soon as your child wakes up. Your child will have a better chance of success because he probably needs to go.

Sticker Fun Giving a child a reward for going to the potty works well for some children. Try keeping a sticker chart. Let your child add a sticker every time she goes to the potty. When the stickers add up, treat your child to some special time with you.

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Busytown

What: This comical, colorful production brings Richard Scarry’s beloved characters, including Farmer Pig, Dr. Lion and Lowly Worm, to singing, dancing life on stage. Best enjoyed by preschool and elementary ages. When: April 13-29 Where: McColl Family Theatre, ImaginOn Theatre, 300 E. 7th St. http://www.ctcharlotte.org or 704.973.2828

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North Carolina Science Festival

What: Discovery Place is proud to be a strategic partner and is hosting and conducting an array of activities, events and hands-on demonstrations with topics ranging from paleontology to astronomy. During this multi-day celebration, enjoy hands-on activities, science talks, lab tours, nature experiences, exhibits and performances. When: April 13-29 Where: Discovery Place www.discoveryplace.org

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Turtles on the Twos

What: Museum Naturalists will share fun facts about the turtles on exhibit in Creature Cavern with topics including their similarities, differences, habitats and survival strategies. The kids can get up close to different turtles, touch them and also learn what they can do to protect this ‘backyard beauty.’ When: April 14 and May 12 at 2:22 p.m. Where: Charlotte Nature Museum www.charlottenaturemuseum.org

Sunday Fun Days @ The Mint Uptown

What: Enjoy family-friendly craft projects, family tours, movement and healthy-living activities, artist demonstrations, and more! Sponsored by Carolinas Medical Center, with additional support from the National Endowment for the Arts. April’s theme is “Picturing the World Within.” When: April 15 from 1 - 4 p.m. Where: The Mint Museum Uptown www.mintmuseum.org

The Adventures of a Bear Called Paddington What: A collection of stories about the little bear found in Paddington Station has been magically woven together in a production to delight the very young and the grown-ups who love them. When: April 20-29 Where: Armour Street Theatre, Davidson www.davidsoncommunityplayers.org

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Movies in the Park – Happy Feet 2

What: Enjoy the film displayed on a 20’x25’ outdoor screen with a concert grade sound system. Admission is free and refreshments will be available for purchase. Bring your own lawn chairs and blankets for a fun movie night. When: May 4 at 6 p.m. The movie begins at dusk. Where: North Mecklenburg Park www.huntersville.org

Family Care Fare

What: Presbyterian Hospital Huntersville and the Town of Huntersville host the 7th Annual Family Care Fair. This event will provide your family with health and safety information and resources. Other activities include moon bounce, pony rides, giveaways, and refreshments. When: May 5 from 10 a.m. – 1 p.m. Where: Presbyterian Hospital Huntersville www.huntersville.org

Spring Creations

What: Children will plant their own flowerpot and enjoy celebrating the start of spring. When: May 6 at 1 p.m. Where: Latta Plantation Nature Center www.parkandrec.com

Charlotte Dragonboat Festival & Asian Festival

What: Charlotte’s seventh annual dragonboat festival race, held in conjunction with Charlotte’s annual Asian Festival.

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Mother’s Day at the Garden

What: Celebrate Mother’s Day at the Garden this year! Treat your mom to a special day with a picnic lunch, spring flowers and stroll through the gardens. The first 250 moms will receive a free potted plant, but all moms get in free for the day. When: May 12-13 from 9 a.m. – 3 p.m. Where: Daniel Stowe Botanical Gardens www.dsbg.org

Sunday Fun Days @ The Mint Uptown What: Enjoy family-friendly craft projects, family tours, movement and healthy-living activities, artist demonstrations, and more! Sponsored by Carolinas Medical Center, with additional support from the National Endowment for the Arts. May’s theme is “Fantastic Beasts and Creepy Creations.” When: May 20 from 1 - 4 p.m. Where: The Mint Museum Uptown www.mintmuseum.org

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Rural Hill Scottish Festival and Loch Norman Highland Games What: The Rural Hill Scottish Festival and Loch Norman Highland Games is a family-oriented event that offers something for everyone, Scottish or not! When: April 21-22 Where: Historic Rural Hill www.ruralhill.net 42

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What: Bring the family to explore interactive environmental education booths, crafts, live music, games, and more, all for free. When: April 21 from 10 a.m. â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 1 p.m. Where: Stumptown Park www.matthewsnc.com

Charlotte Nature Museum

What: Celebrate Earth Day at the Museum by getting your kids outside to connect with nature with the Earth Day Play Date. Observe demonstrations on backyard gardening and designing areas using natural materials all while enjoying fort and fairy building, dramatic play, and snacks outside. Creature Features programming includes crafts, puppet shows, storytelling and more. When: April 21 from 10 a.m. â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 1 p.m. www.charlottenaturemuseum.org

The Schiele Museum

What: Come learn about Endangered Species, locally and abroad. Visit sheepshearing activities at the Backcountry Farm to learn more about Heritage breeds commonly found in the Carolinas during the 18th Century. Discover how the Schiele is actively involved in preserving rare livestock breeds. Enjoy food, various crafts, games and lots of information about protecting our Mother Earth! When: April 28 from 10 a.m. â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 3 p.m. www.schielemuseum.org

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Grocery IQ • Free This grocery list app is designed to help you quickly make and share grocery lists by typing in items or scanning product barcodes. It is linked with Coupons.com and shares coupon offers within the app. A bonus: items from your list will automatically show up on your spouse’s phone, which is great when he’s hitting the grocery store on his way home!

Recipe Book • 99 cents This application delivers a new recipe to your phone or tablet every day, including the list of ingredients necessary to compete the dish. The latest version allows you to save every recipe to your own recipe book to try at a later date.

Weight Watchers • Free Connect with Weight Watchers from wherever you are and find healthy recipes, the latest news, exercise information and more. It’s also compatible with the PointsPlus program.

MyFitnessPal • Free Losing weight is a snap with this calorie counter that also allows you to earn back food through exercise entries. The food database is impressive, with more than a million foods (including those from popular chain restaurants) to choose from.

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Craft Finder • Free Perfect for homeschooling moms, craft enthusiasts and teachers, this app allows you to easily access the crafts found in Disney’s Family Fun magazine. Browse through the featured crafts or search by age range and occasion. Save your favorites and add the supplies you need for each craft directly to a shopping list. www.littleonesmagazine.com | for local moms ... by local moms

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While daydreaming about spring break in a tropical location or destination across the country is fun, sometimes the budget and conflicting work schedules make traveling a difficult prospect. We asked two local bloggers with The Charlotte Moms, a network of local moms that provides local parents and caregivers a faith-based parenting resource, to give us their favorite Charlotte-area “staycation” ideas.

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I have two children under 5 years of age and it’s not always practical for the four of us to take a week off from life. You know, the vacations where you have 15 suitcases in tow, (one just for diapers), driving or flying hours while your child asks the cosmic question, “Are we there yet?!?” and of course, stopping for potty breaks every 15 minutes or so. That’s why vacationing close to home on a “staycation” work best for our family. There are some amazing, “staycation” locations in Charlotte that are family-friendly and affordable. One of them is the well-known indoor water park chain, Great Wolf Lodge. The resort is located less than a mile from Concord Mills shopping outlets, and Charlotte Motor Speedway, however; the amenities allow you the luxury of not having to leave the property at all. Great Wolf Lodge offers both outdoor and indoor water activities including their famous indoor water park for all ages with their 98,000 square feet of facilities. If you want a break from the wet activities, they also offer kids crafts, storybook reading, arcade play, spas for adults and children and much more.

Another local destination for your “staycation” is Omni Charlotte Hotel. You may be surprised to hear that a luxury hotel like Omni is family friendly. But they pride themselves on being one of the first luxury hotels to offer programs for children. The Omni Sensational Kids program caters to all children who come as guests of the hotel, ages 3 to 12 especially, who will enjoy the fun-filled backpacks Omni provides the most. Not to mention children also receive milk and cookies delivered to their guest room on the first night and can also request additional games and activities to borrow. Mom and Dad will enjoy childcare services, high speed wireless internet, and a walkway convenient to several boutiques. The fitness center is available 24-hours, however if you can’t break away, Omni’s Get Fit in room exercise kit does the trick. Also enjoy a great rooftop pool, sundeck, and pet-friendly atmosphere (additional fees may apply.) If you’re okay with a short drive, Asheville is only two hours from Charlotte and a great location to take the family. The Grove Park Inn Resort is one of many favorite spots in the area and is great for Mom, Dad, and the kids respectively. The Grove Park Inn offers their Cub’s Adventure Camp, which is a fully supervised day camp with activities that include arts and crafts, swimming, games, and sports. Lunch and/or snacks are provided based on which program you choose. They also offer a Kid’s Night Out program for later in the evening. While the kids are having their own fun, moms will enjoy the world-class spa at The Grove Park Inn, while dads can play golf or check out the vintage automobile museum just behind the Inn. There may even be time for a romantic date at one of several great on-site restaurants.

view is undeniably beautiful. We like to “staycation” here before the crowds begin, which usually is in April or September. The weather is still beautiful and not too hot, and you can grab a picnic basket and relax with the family. This is our number one destination spot in Charlotte, because it’s enough of a drive from our home that we feel like we’re getting away. We do have a favorite place in the park that we walk up to, at the tip of a walking trail, and go beyond that to a clearing that surrounds us by water on three sides. The breeze at this spot is so relaxing, and we can watch the boaters from this point. Tip: Rent a private platform deck and gain a great area to just camp out at all day. Cooling off in water and woods. Every summer, we like to see the Raptor Center in Huntersville because the temperature under those magnificent trees is perfect. The kids get a great education by learning about the types of raptors, and gain an appreciation for their true size by seeing them up close. The walk around the grounds is breathtaking, and a great destination to unwind and decompress. Then, after the view of the birds, we get back in the car and head up to the sprayground at Birkdale Village. We can grab a bite to eat, maybe get an ice cream, and let the kids play in the water. Andrea Robson is the mom of two daughters, wife to Jim, and believer in the Christian faith. She is also a culinary instructor for children at the YMCA and writes for The Chocolate Bottle blog and The Charlotte Moms. Follow The Charlotte Moms on Facebook /thecharlottemoms and on Twitter @thecltmoms.

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epending on where in the Charlotte area you live, a trip to Charleston is a short three to three and a halfhour drive away. The charming city and it’s surrounding beaches hold a special place in our hearts here at Little Ones, as editor Renee Roberson has visited both the Isle of Palms and Folly Beach with her husband and two children, and co-publisher and creative director Kerrie Boys travels to the Isle of Palms each fall with 22 of her girlfriends for a fun “moms only” getaway. To help families make the most of summer vacation, the Charleston Area CVB recently launched CharlestonFamilyFun.com, a comprehensive trip-planning resource that offers tips on age-appropriate activities at area attractions and itineraries customized to a family’s preferred vacation style: adventure, encounter, imagine or unplug. In addition to a

list of local beaches, child-friendly restaurants and tours, vacation packages and coupons, the site also serves as a portal to the new Charleston Explorers Club, a creative program that combines a tangible passport and inked stamps with social media-style check-ins. The real adventure begins at any Official Charleston Area visitor center, where families register for the free Charleston Explorers Club program and receive a keepsake passport and list of more than 30 participating attractions. With passport in hand, families embark on a journey through the Charleston area. From alligators and artifacts to sea turtles and sandcastles, the region is teeming with hands-on, experiential activities. Every participating attraction has an emblematic icon and unique secret code, so passports fill up with interesting souvenir stamps as young minds collect memories. Explorers then log in at CharlestonExplorers.com and turn the secret codes into prizes while working up the ranks from deckhand to admiral. As ranks are achieved, secret prizes arrive in the mail at the respective explorer’s home. The ultimate “elite explorer” title is bestowed upon every child who collects stamps from all participating attractions. Since the Charleston Explorers Club never expires, families may map out visits to participating attractions over the course of several vacations and prizes will arrive summer after summer. Below is a sampling of participants in the Charleston Explorers Club:

Charles Towne Landing Adventure is berthed at this historic park on the S.S. Adventure, the reproduction 17th century merchant vessel docked at the birthplace of the Carolina colony. Families can also tour the natural habitat zoo for a chance to see incredible wildlife or recreate an “Indiana Jones” moment at the park’s in-progress archeology dig.

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perched on the tip of Sullivan’s Island, adjacent to the shipping channel where pirates, swashbucklers and military heroes once tread. Kids can examine historic cannons or discover writings by once-stationed writer Edgar Allen Poe at the interpretive center.

Middleton Place Families are invited to step back in time and envision life on a bustling plantation with a visit to the stable yards, where pottery, weaving, blacksmithing, candle-dipping and open fire cooking methods are demonstrated. Kids will delight at the sight of guinea hogs and water buffalo, or can read the handwritten letters exhibited in Beyond the Fields, a richly illustrated collection of rare images, archeological artifacts and historical documents.

Patriots Point Naval and Maritime Museum Smell the nautical paint, hear the wind whistle through the cargo bay,

climb the ladders and step onto the flight deck of this mighty aircraft carrier on which great men served our country with fierce determination and protective loyalty.

South Carolina Aquarium At this underwater world of imagination for curious guppies, families explore the state’s distinct maritime zones, from mountain streams to the gulfstream. Visitors can check out life-sized, aquaticthemed play structures or even come face-to-face with a sea turtle nearly the size of a Volkswagen Beetle.

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food. Insider Tip: If you hope to bring a furry friend along on your vacation, this beach has a variety of pet-friendly home rentals, as well as dog-friendly parks and eateries. Casual, unhurried Sullivan’s Island is one of the most relaxing and familyfriendly beaches on South Carolina's coast. Year round, visitors enjoy the island's inviting beaches, charming seaside neighborhoods and laid-back dining venues. Seabrook Island, located on the Atlantic shore just 22 miles south of historic Charleston, is a private community with access limited to property owners and guests of the resort or rental agencies. Walking along the 10-mile stretch of undisturbed Atlantic beach on Kiawah Island, guests find it hard to believe that the city of Charleston is a mere 21 miles away. Kiawah Island is a private community with access limited to property owners and guests of the resort or rental agencies. Public access to the beach is available at Beachwalker County Park, located on the west end of the island. The island abounds in natural beauty, from endless acres of marsh to thick forests of pines, magnolias and massive live oaks. The Isle of Palms offers every activity imaginable. The Isle of Palms County Park offers picturesque ocean frontage with lifeguards on duty seasonally along a beachfront designated swimming area. There is also a beautiful family-oriented park located directly on the beach! www.littleonesmagazine.com | for local moms ... by local moms

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f you are about to become a parent for the first time, or if you are new to the whole parenting scene, you need to be warned about a few people. I guarantee these people will sneak into your world like Ninjas. Without the correct awareness, you could find yourself feeling like poop, due to these soul-killing assassins. Below are three types of people to be wary of.

“Those” Parents

These are the people who can make you feel like you’re as good at parenting as the cast of “Jersey Shore” is at astrophysics. Below are a couple of examples of how you can spot “those” parents. You mention your child doesn’t sleep through the night and these parents will inevitably begin their speech. “Our precious angel has slept through the night from the time he was fresh from the womb until his current age of seven.” They will tell you the kid’s first words were, “Well, I’m beat. Mom, if you could help me into my crib, I’d appreciate it. Talk to you in 14 hours.” Don’t believe it! In addition, any mom who refers to her child as “her precious angel” is probably heavily medicated.

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Your toddler throws a fit in front of “those” parents and they will claim their child has never, ever, thrown a fit. What they fail to tell you is they ignored their crazy 3-year-old, lying in the toy aisle of Wal-Mart, banging their head on the floor, yelling, “I SAID . . . I want a freakin’ Barbie! MOM!” Not acknowledging a fit and a fit not being thrown are two very different things.

The Selective, Super Memory Gang This gang consists primarily of old people you meet in stores, grandparents and people without kids. These amazing souls believe they have superhuman memory. Me-Ma will swear things like, “You kids never jumped on the bed.” Come on, it was 40 years ago. You don’t even remember where you left your keys, glasses or parked your car. (Answers: your pocket, your face, your driveway). The childless person will say things like, “If I acted like that, my mama would have whipped my butt!” Really?!? You’re amazing! You are able to recall all the days of the first three years of your life? You might be able to pull up a few memories of a parental beat down when you were older, but when you were 2 years old? Stop it. (And for the record just because your mom chose the belt, doesn’t mean it’s the correct parenting move.)

“ ... don’t let them get to you, and, for God’s sake, don’t become them.” The old woman you’ve never met is the third member of this superhero group. All you need to know to identify her is that she starts her judgmental sentence with, “Back in my day...” Many times she will make this statement to someone else, but loud enough for you to hear.

The Do Everythings The “Do Everythings” have their child enrolled in, well, EVERYTHING. Music, sports, art, theater, and that’s before the baby is even able to crawl. Yes, activities are important. Yes, if you are stay at home mom those activities also act as your social life. That’s all fine. But it becomes too much when those parents are completely stressed and run ragged. Don’t let the “Do Everythings” make you feel like you aren’t pulling your parental weight. When Busy Betty is complaining she has to drive her 3-month-old to the “Roll The Ball” tournament in Raleigh, just relax. Your little tyke can roll the ball in your living room and he will be just fine. You’ve been warned. Now don’t let them get to you, and, for God’s sake, don’t become them. Matt Harris is the co-host of the Matt and Ramona Show, aired MondayFriday from 3-7 p.m. You can e-mail Matt your thoughts at Matt@mattandramona.com.

Designs to Melt Your Heart

IMO

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ver since having kids, I’ve become a sucker for anything with their names on it. Sure, the clothes and cards are cute and all, but something for me that can remind me of my little ones doubles the pleasure. Lisa Leonard Designs had me at first sight. I was keen on her creations — oneof-a-kind jewelry that is casual yet personal, pieces you can wear everyday or also on special occasions. A mom herself, Lisa creates jewelry where she hand stamps names or sayings in sterling silver, completely customizing it to your liking. My only question? Which piece to select.

I chose the Molded Heart Necklace and was able to include all of my kids' names on it; the chain is long, allowing it to hang low, and is always an eye-catcher. With bracelets, rings and earrings to choose from, there's no shortage of super selections for your loved one to seek out for YOU this Mother’s Day.

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