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Renee Roberson In our home, Feb. 14 has evolved in more ways than one over the years, as preparations for the holiday actually begin in January (yes, you read that right!) The kids have special Valentine’s writing assignments they do as part of their schoolwork, and I have to monitor the projects and make sure the kids are completing the valentines in a timely fashion, as well as help them come up with a creative way to present them, because they most definitely want their friends to think the accompanying treat or goodie they brought is fun. It’s interesting how this particular holiday takes on a whole new meaning after you’ve been married for a while and started a family. I vaguely remember the days of booking a reservation in a nice restaurant months in advance and getting dressed up for a night out. And when the kids were really small, we tried hard to hold on to that tradition, but let’s be honest. Valentine’s Day, along with New Year’s Eve, is one of those holidays where good babysitters book up a month in advance just like the seats at your favorite “special occasion” place. Also, our son has a birthday on Feb. 5, and after the holidays and a birthday party, cake and gifts for him, there typically isn’t a whole lot of money left in the budget for a Valentine’s Day splurge. I’m not saying that my husband completely ignores the holiday though, and for that, I am very fortunate. We’ve just realized that there are ways to acknowledge Feb. 14 creatively. When the kids were smaller, we would sometimes wait until after they went to bed and eat take-out from one of our favorite restaurants or grill steaks and open a bottle of wine. Last year, we celebrated the day with an early dinner the weekend before Valentine’s Day while our kids had an evening playdate as part of a babysitting swap. We still exchange small, but thoughtful, gifts. After 13 years of celebrating the holiday, it works for us, because we realize that making time for each other is more important than any fancy gift or night on the town, although those are nice every now and then, too. Speaking of celebrating, this is our annual party issue and we’ve got plenty of party themes, places and sweet treats to get you in party-planning mode, no matter what the occasion. And if you’re still looking for camp ideas, including whether or not it’s time to send your little one off to resident camp, we can help with that, too. Until next time . . .
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Book Corner . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .8 By Arden McLaughlin
Just Around the Corner . . . . . . . . . . .10 Consider these tips when choosing the perfect day camp for your child. By Renee Roberson Put Down that Gaming Device! . . .14 Learn about the benefits of resident camp. By Molly Thompson Celebrations that Count . . . . . . . . . .18 Dreaming of the perfect party location or need inspiration for a fun party theme? Here you go! By Renee Roberson The Star of the Show . . . . . . . . . . . . . .26 Local readers share their favorite party creations. Plus, how to choose your next cake. Smart Selling Tips . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .42 Follow these guidelines to avoid being overwhelmed your first time consigning, and find area sales.
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cover: Emma Grace is a vivacious, loving, and humorous 5-yearold. She just found out she’s going to be a big sister to a baby brother Hank in this photo, and couldn't be more thrilled! Emma Grace loves dancing, art, and all things girlie like dressing up and accessories. Such a little lady. Photo by SimplyCapturedPhotography byHollyBenfield
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Discover Your Library
By Arden McLaughlin of the Charlotte Mecklenburg Library
2013 marks the 75th anniversary of the Caldecott Medal, a.k.a. my favorite children’s book award in the history of children’s book awards. This award was named in honor of 19thcentury English illustrator Randolph Caldecott. It is given annually by the Association for Library Service to Children, a division of the American Library Association, to the artist of the most distinguished American picture book for children. In honor of the 75th anniversary, I’d like to showcase my favorite Caldecott Medal and Honor books. Please note that these books are selected by librarians throughout the country. So, while the award is for illustration, the stories themselves are also well written. Enjoy!
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The 2005 Caldecott Medal winner, Kitten’s First Full Moon by Kevin Henkes, is also my all time favorite children’s book. The simple story of Kitten chasing a bowl of milk (which is actually the moon) flows gracefully with Henkes’s vivid black and white pictures. I fall in love with Kitten and the story every time I open the book. It’s often a gift I give; not just for the story but also for the outstanding artwork.
the boys they once were and the boys they knew wanted to read but couldn’t find the right book. The stories are hilarious but not for the frilly at heart. Thanks to this book and others, the movement “Guys Read” (www.guysread.com) began, serving as a literary movement for boys and boys-at-heart. I’m a huge fan of Scieszka and encourage you to check out his body of work.
When the zookeeper gets sick, what in the world do the animals do? They visit him, of course (at least in my mind they do). That’s why I love A Sick Day for Amos McGee (2011 medal) illustrated by Erin E. Stead and written by Philip C. Stead. Amos McGee catches the sniffles and feels trapped in bed. The faithful crew of animals for whom he cares each day decides it’s their turn to take care of him. You and your little ones will enjoy snuggling up to see how an elephant and penguin, among others, provide care for Amos.
I know it’s not the holiday season but how wonderful is The Polar Express by Chris Van Allsburg (1986 medal)? The beauty of the pictures throughout the story actually cause us to get a little chilly as we feel ourselves winding along the train tracks that continue to pull us back to this story year after year. It’s hard to believe this book is more than 20 years old. Every inch of it feels relevant and real today.
One of the books that truly changed the game at writing stories that appeal to boys versus girls was The Stinky Cheese Man and Other Fairly Stupid Tales (1993 honor) by Jon Scieszka and Lane Smith. These two men decided to write books for
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I encourage you to check out these and other Caldecott award-winning books from your local library. At times I know it’s hard to decide what is and is not appropriate for your little ones. You’ll rarely go wrong with anything with a Caldecott seal on it.
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is just around the corner Provide your children entertainment and exploration close to home ou’ve decided that day camp is definitely in the cards for your children this summer — congratulations! Day camp is a great alternative for children who aren’t quite ready for a sleep-away camp experience but still want the chance to engage in a fun “camp” atmosphere. Ensuring that the younger members of your family get outside and moving this summer is just as important as scheduling a much-needed vacation. According to surveys by both the Kaiser Family Foundation and the Center for Disease Control and Prevention, an American child is six times more likely to play a video game on any given day than to ride a bike. According to research conducted by the American Camp Association, 63 percent of children who learn new activities at camp tend to continue engaging in these activities after they return home. Charlotte has a wealth of camp opportunities for you to explore. Area businesses, gyms, parks and recreation centers, schools, churches, and Scouts organizations are just a few places that offer camps throughout the summer months. Before you fill out any registration forms and pay deposits, here a few things to consider when choosing a camp:
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Drop Off and Pick-Up Times For any camps your child is interested in, take special note of the start and pick-up times, particularly if you have more than one child at different camps. Does the camp start so early that you are going to have to drag your child out of bed, protesting, and pick her up before lunchtime? If so, that camp might not be the right fit for your schedule. If you have two, three or four children at different camps, make sure the start and end times allow you with enough time to get everyone where they need to be. If there is going to be a scheduling conflict, inquire about carpooling options with parents of other campers you know. Also, does your family
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need half-day camp or full-day camp options? For our family, personally, half-day camps have always worked best for us because I have flexibility in my work schedule for earlier pick-up times and my children are still pretty young and tire easily. However, I do prefer finding camps where lunch is part of the camp. I feel much more relaxed knowing the kids are eating lunch at camp with their friends and we won’t have to worry about running home afterwards to eat lunch or plan on eating out somewhere every day after camp. Also, make sure to note how many days a camp runs in your calendar. Some camps run an entire week, while others are only offered Monday through Thursdays.
campers can immerse themselves in the outdoors, conduct experiments, meet live animals and more in camps designed for preschoolers up to grades 5. Lenux Stables and Riding Academy hosts four camps throughout the summer that are open to campers ages 4 to 15 years from all levels of riding experience. The camps run Monday through Friday from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. Campers receive a riding lesson with a professional riding instructor, groom horses and participate in horse games, crafts and new horse experiences. Davidson Day School provides specialized camps for students from June 4 through July 23, with fun themes such as “Game Show Mania” and “Camp Survivor.”
Huntersville Family Fitness and Aquatics specializes in camps (full day Sure, your child has found a and half day) for ages preschool and wonderful Lego camp where he will beyond, and includes fun in the outdoor work on building the most amazing pool and themes such as “Under the creations all day long, but is attending that camp going to require a 30-minute Children at Camp FUNshine in Matthews participate Sea” and “Pirate Adventure.” There are also camps designed to help children or more drive, where traffic and other in field trips each Tuesday and Thursday, and let sharpen their athletic skills, such as possible conflicts might cost you more their imaginations run wild on Superhero Day! “Kids Tri Camp,” “Back2Basix complications in terms of time or gas Basketball Camp,” and “Soccer & Swim Camp.” At the YMCA money? If so, search out other camps with similar themes that of Greater Charlotte, day camp programs are designed to help might be a little closer to home to make the experience more kids be themselves, explore exciting new things, cultivate enjoyable for all family members involved. (I remember the days friendships and create lasting memories, with camp offerings of trying to pick one child up from camp during what should such as themed camps centered around a single subject, dance, have been a cranky toddler’s naptime – no fun!) Better yet, is cheerleading and gymnastics and sports and swimming. Parks there one centralized location where more than one child can and recreation centers of the local towns are also a good place to attend camp, saving you the headaches of transporting different check out affordable and action-packed camps, such as the Town children to different camps? This past summer, both of my kids of Matthews, which offers swimming, field trips, games and were able to attend a very cute and fun “super spies” camp at a activities each year as part of “Camp FUNshine.” local recreation center, and only having to pick them up from one camp location was a real timesaver for me. What to Pack Once you’ve decided on camp schedules for the summer and begin filling out registration forms, read through Individual Interests camp literature carefully, as all camps have Is your child obsessed with horses, itching to different requirements. If you have a toddler or a perform a few science experiments or does she preschooler, find out if your camper needs to be want to perfect her moves in the water? If you are potty trained before attending camp. Some places going to spend time and money sending her to a ask that campers to bring a bottle of water each camp, make sure it is one that is catered to her day, a snack (see camp notes on allergies) and interests as much as possible. Bagged lunch and/or snack (see individual camp requests) possibly a bag lunch. Make sure your child is The Brick Studio in Davidson offers a wealth -------dressed appropriately each day for camp, as kids of building, engineering and movie-making camps Labeled water bottle are often outside and using potentially messy designed for even the most avid Lego fan. At -------supplies such as paint or modeling clay. If your Noah’s Art, children can paint and draw to their Sunscreen and lip balm child is going to be outside for long periods during heart’s desire during summer camp sessions. for outdoor activities camp, apply sunscreen and possibly bug spray Discovery Place has a variety of science-------before sending her out the door. Also, if swimming oriented camps catering to future engineers, Suitable and comfortable is part of the camp experience, send a swimsuit, zoologists, chemists, historians, and more, with clothing towel, sunscreen and change of clothes in daily. a.m., p.m, half-day and full-day sessions. -------Day camps will provide your children with Discovery Place Kids in Huntersville has twoSwimsuit, towel and change memories for years to come, teachable moments, day summer camp programs for toddlers and their of clothes (if applicable) and the opportunity to spend time with friends caregivers and fun themed camps with a.m. -------new and old. To this day, my 9-year-old daughter sessions for ages 3 years and older, such as Special items needed for themed camps still talks about the fun she had at a nearby camp “Storybook Cooks,” “Pet Vets,” “Dessert (arts and craft supplies, she attended at age five, complete with mud pies, a Connoisseurs,” “Lego Mania,” and “Super recycled materials, etc.) Sleuths.” At Charlotte Nature Museum, zipline and tire swings. Happy Trails!
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ecades ago, when the last school bell rang, kids would take to the outdoors during the summer months to explore creeks, hike woods and survey neighborhoods on bikes. Today, kids are more disconnected from nature and are less engaged in outside fun. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, American children ages eight to 18 spend 7.5 hours a day on electronic media during the summer months. But getting outdoors is essential to developing the spirit, mind and body of school age children and teens, say YMCA experts; and camping is an ideal setting for doing just that. Just over the ridge and beyond the apple orchards sits a little piece of Carolina mountain heaven – YMCA Camp Harrison. Its glistening lake and inspiring hills create an atmosphere where God’s green earth and young people coexist in their most natural state. Away from the buzz and distraction of modern life, kids rediscover the joy of the simple life; though, the days are anything but still. Exploration and adventure begin at daybreak and last until evening songs are sung with new best friends under a canopy of moon and stars. “Camping is synonymous with personal development. It provides kids with the opportunity to practice social and decision-making skills through new experiences,” says YMCA Camp Harrison Director Dave Purcell. “Kids come to camp to develop life-long friendships and memories, 14
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learn new skills and take a week off from the normal pressures of life.” YMCA Camp Harrison provides a variety of adventures to inspire and delight kids of all ages and interests: • Traditional Camp – Campers experience sports, swimming, paintball, kayaking, waterskiing, hiking, a water zip line and dozens of land and water activities. The camp features a beautiful lake, pool, hiking trails and comfortable cabins. • Dude Ranch – By caring for animals and taking part in farm chores, campers discover their ability to create positive change in their world and learn the satisfaction of hard work. Campers also learn the basics of horseback riding and have daily interaction with goats, pigs and chickens. • Sportsman Camp – Specialized counselors lead small groups of campers through basic fishing and hunting techniques. With a dedication to safe practices, campers practice their aim at the rifle range and clay target site and experience archery, open water fly fishing, fresh water bass fishing and other activities that satisfy the outdoor sportsman. • Farm to Feast – Is your camper passionate about cooking? By taking part in farm-to-table practices, campers harvest food from the garden and learn to prepare delicious meals from chefs and counselors. • Teen Adventure Camp – Somewhere between becoming an adult and being a kid, a teen is discovering who they are and what they can become. At camp, we know teenagers will rise to meet expectations, so we set our expectations high. During our Beyond the Ridge Teen Adventure Camp, campers ages 13 – 17 explore the
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Former Harvard University President Charles Elliot said, “I have a conviction that a few weeks spent in a well-organized summer camp may be of more value educationally than a whole year of formal school work.” Purcell agrees.
Camp’s 2100 acres with skilled guides to learn leadership and wilderness skills, build confidence and become closer to God. YMCA Camp Harrison is excited to offer a new, bigger challenge course and zip lines in summer 2013. The new course will feature 16 multi-level initiatives as well as two plunge zips. Using the Smart Belay system, the new course allows up to 40 supervised participants on the course at once providing more opportunities to climb. The camp will also open a new program pavilion, paintball course, batting cage, and practice golf range. Camp activities will also include stand-up paddleboards and mountain boarding (think snowboarding on grass). Former Harvard University President Charles Elliot said, “I have a conviction that a few weeks spent in a well-organized summer camp may be of more value educationally than a whole year of formal school work.” Purcell agrees. “Campers have new experiences in nature,” says Purcell. “Away from their regular routine and family, campers feel new independence that helps them believe in themselves. This gives kids the confidence to try new things and learn new skills. Most importantly, camp builds relationships and relationship skills like cooperation and sportsmanship. Our counselors are carefully selected and trained. They provide care and support and serve as incredible role models for our campers.”
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Purcell also says that counselors truly make the camp experience come alive. He encourages parents to choose a camp with a low counselor to camper ratio that ensures a high level of engagement with cabin counselors, activity leaders and other capable and trained staff. “Our cabin communities are like families,” says Purcell. “They eat meals family style, participate in cabin devotions, participate in team building and encourage each other in activities. Many parents tell us that their campers come home with manners and healthy habits that they practiced at camp. Some even make their beds.” For more information about YMCA Camp Harrison or other Y summer camps, visit www.campharrison.org or www.ymcacharlotte.org. Would you like to provide a camp experience for a child in need? Give online at www.ymcacharlotte.org/donate and select Camp Harrison as your branch. Molly Thompson is the Senior Director of Public Relations and Communications for the YMCA of Greater Charlotte. She is also the mother of two girls who have experienced just about everything at YMCA Camp Harrison over 6 years (except for the new Challenge Course…and they can’t wait).
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for all ages. The Brick Studio •••••••••••• Do you have a child obsessed with all things Lego? At The Brick Studio in Davidson, kids are treated to 90 minutes of “brickdiculous” fun with literally thousands of Lego bricks. Geared for children ages 5 and older, your party will include a guided birthday build, LEGO party games, custom party favors and a special gift for the birthday child. Plan your next party at the studio by visiting www.Live2Build.com.
Cake Expressions ••••••••••• Is your child obsessed with “Cake Boss”? Does she dream of being the next “Ace of Cakes?” If you are looking for a new and exciting idea for a birthday party, why not consider a customized cake decorating party? Cake Expressions Academy has a beautiful new studio perfect for groups of up to 14 people. Party guests, ages 7 and up, will feel like real pastry chefs as they ice and decorate their own cake or cupcakes! Each decorating party will be tailored to fit your child’s age group and party theme. Sit back and relax as we take care of the setup and the cleanup! Not just for kids, our studio is perfect for bridal showers, girls night outs, team building, you name it! For more information please go to www.cake-expressions.com or call 704-241-0637.
Charlotte Aquatics •••••••••• No worries on the weather – the temperature is always perfect in the water at Charlotte Aquatics. And what child doesn’t love a good pool party? The chlorine-free pool can be yours for the afternoon for your child to host his friends where they can swim to their hearts’ content. Your private party will include full reign of the pool along with lifeguards to ensure safety; customize your day by bringing your own food and drinks, sweets and treats. Call 704.341.9673 or visit www.charlotteaquatics.com.
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Discovery Place ••••••••••• Discovery Place Birthday Parties are loaded with fun for a variety of ages. Kids can go nose-to-fin with cool critters, create cosmetics, learn magic or even how to glow in the dark and much more. And, with no setup or cleanup for the grown-ups, everyone can focus on having fun. New themes and live animal add-on options now available. Explosive. Educational. Extraordinary. Visit www.discoveryplace.org/visit/birthday_parties.
Discovery Place Kids •••••••• Pick from a “Super Duper” or with a “Cherry on Top!” party package for ages 2-7. Parties include Museum admission and a Party Pal to host the fun. Lots of add-on options available including cupcakes and party favor backpacks. Little ones will love the location; parents will love being able to be a part of all of it. Get the full scoop at www.discoveryplacekids.or/visit/birthday_parties.
HFFA ••••••••••••••••••• Choose from a multitude of birthday themes. Kids of all ages can enjoy pool, basketball, fitness boot camp or a Zumba Dance Party! Or create your own theme with our birthday party coordinator to fit the active desires of your birthday girl or boy. HFFA ensures your birthday celebration will be a stress-free experience by assigning you a birthday party coordinator during your stay who can assist you with anything you need. Let Huntersville Family Fitness & Aquatics worry about the invitations, decorations, drinks. We’ll even take care of the pizza if you’d like. Pick your party activity and give us a call at 704.766.2222 or visit www.hffa.com for more information.
Lake Norman Dance •••••••• Gallery/Little Flippers Together, the Lake Norman Dance Gallery and Little Flippers Tumbling & Gymnastics will provide your child with an amazing birthday party experience. Even the most
energetic partygoers will flip for a variety of party options, including the 90-minute Dance Party (ballet, hip hop or funk) or Tumbling & Gymnastics Party (complete with an obstacle course in the tumbling room). For even more excitement, choose the two-hour Combo Party that includes both dance instruction and 45 minutes in the tumbling room. Visit www.lakenormandancegallery or call 704.677.5217 for more info.
Lenux Stables ••••••••••••• Kids of all ages will enjoy birthday parties where they’ll enjoy two hours of horse-filled fun! They’ll delight in painting “Moon,” the stable’s white miniature horse (who is a really good sport) with washable, non-toxic paint. Next, they’ll each ride a horse, learn how to brush them, and complete the party with a scavenger hunt all over the farm to find horses, ponies, donkeys and goats. Theme it up with a farm, wild west or princess party. Naturally, she’ll want to ride again; you’ll be thankful for the voucher each guest receives for a FREE intro to riding session. A climatecontrolled lounge ensures that parties will be a success whether it’s warm or cold! Find out more at www.lenuxstables.com or by calling 704.947.RIDE.
Miller Street Dance Academy •• Calling all beautiful ballerinas, dancing divas and tumbling tots! Miller Street offers birthday packages for children ages 3 & up. Get ready to dance, tumble and play games in the studio, where your child will dance to her heart’s delight — and you won’t have to worry about setup or cleanup. Favors, plates, napkins and utensils are also included. Find out more by visiting www.millerstreetdanceacademy.com or by calling 704.889.TOES (Providence location) or 803.396.JAZZ (Baxter location).
Noah’s Art ••••••••••••••• For the inexperienced artist to the preschool Picasso, try Noah’s Art, a children’s art studio with two locations in the Charlotte area. Choose from themed parties in which
Fun (and Easy!) Party Favor Ideas: • Cookies in a Jar – Layer your favorite cookie mix in a plastic or glass jar along with a personalized recipe card. • Make Your Own S’mores Kit – Fill a cute bag with graham crackers, chocolate bars or Hershey’s kisses, marshmallows and voila! • “Spa” gift bag (great for spa/sleepover parties) – Send each guest home with her own cosmetic bag full of nail polish, bubble bath, elastic hair bands, lip gloss, etc. • Photo favors – Take a picture of each guest with the birthday child as they arrive. Have the children paint or decorate a picture frame (a frame constructed out of Legos is a neat idea for a Lego Party) to take home during the party. Order individual prints for the guests to use in their picture frames and send them with a “thank you” card.
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children make several crafts/projects that coincide with the theme (Pirates, Princess, Jungle, Outer Space, Dog and Cats and more!) Send out your own invitations, bring a cake and juice . . . Noah’s Art will do the rest! Visit www.noahs-art.com or call 704.542.2388 (Blakeney) or 704.521.6657 (SouthPark) for more info.
NC Transportation Museum ••• All aboard! The NC Transportation Museum’s Birthday Caboose is a unique way to celebrate your child’s birthday. Two cabooses are available for rental most Saturdays from January through November. Bring your own prepared food or have pizzas delivered; coolers and decorations are welcome on board. Kids of all ages will delight in the train ride around the museum property; they’ll have the time (and ride!) of their life. Visit www.nctrans.org or call 704.636.2889 x 232.
Northcross Bowling Lanes •••• Your littlest bowlers will have a blast at Northcross Lanes whether they choose to lace up their bowling shoes or participate in a high-energy game of laser tag. All parties are reserved for two hours and include five game room tokens per child, bowling shoes, a free game pass for each child to be used on a return visit, unlimited beverages during pizza and cake time and more. The birthday child even receives a “real” bowling pin as a souvenir! Choose from three different party packages; all parties include your own personal party hostess. Visit www.northcrosslanes.com or call 704.892.7177 for more info.
The Pit Indoor Kart Racing •••• Looking to plan a fun and exciting party? The Pit Indoor Kart Racing will make it easy for you. Packages are priced for up to 8 participants. Customize your own party package by choosing activities such as kart racing, laser tag, mini-golf, arcade, rock wall, batting cages, and more! Your party will include a party hostess, private room, arcade tokens, drinks, pizza, all paper products and 7 party invitations! Further customize your party by adding more participants and activities! Call 704-7993470 and visit www.meetatthepit.com.
The YMCAs of Greater Charlotte • The YMCAs are a great place for families AND great places to host birthday parties. Rent the swimming pool, the gymnastics room or gym for an affordable, fun-filled celebration close to home without the cleanup. Bring your own food, cake and goodies for a unique party in an environment your guests (and birthday child) will adore. Facilities vary by location. Visit www.ymcacharlotte.org for more info.
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caterpillars & Two little girls receive a world of color (and then some!) for their birthdays Dawn Strouse, an art teacher at a local private school, mixed-media artist and mother of two daughters, loves to horde crafty ideas, and she has the stack of FamilyFun magazines to prove it. So when it came time to plan the celebrations for her little girls this past year, her creative instincts kicked into high gear, and the result was two very colorful and perfect, birthday parties. Read on for all the details.
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After enduring seven months of bed rest and weekly injections to prevent preterm labor, the Strouse’s daughter Scarlet was born healthy at 34 weeks. Because of their journey, Dawn and her husband Thomas like to call their 1-year-old daughter their “little butterfly,” so a “Very Hungry Caterpillar” party, based on the popular story by Eric Carle, seemed more than appropriate. For the invitation, she stacked up children’s books in the background and posed Scarlet in a specially made outfit by Kelley Frisch of Babe a Go Go and put a pair of oversized glasses on the birthday girl. On the invitation, she suggested that guests bring each bring a favorite book the help build up Scarlet’s library. The Strouses held the party at their home in Mountain Island Lake this past August, and Dawn took charge of making everything from the decorations to the party snacks (“I literally went through the book one page at a time.”) The day of the party, a homemade sign on the front door invited guests to “crawl on in . . .” An art easel set up in the home’s entrance inspired guests to write birthday messages for Scarlet that Dawn later put in a special birthday scrapbook. For décor, she took paper Chinese lanterns (inspired by Pinterest) and glued them together to make caterpillars (using purple pipe cleaners as antennae) and hung them from the ceiling in her house. She cut colorful triangles from construction paper to make a birthday banner. Simple stemware and vases filled with gumballs and other assorted candy served as part of the décor and doubled as sweet treats for the guests, a reminder of what gave the main character of the story such a stomachache. For snacks, she put out platters of all the foods the hungry caterpillar ate before his transformation, such as cheese and fruit and “caterpillar crackers.” She made a bowl of lemonade, poured green food coloring in it and called it “bug juice.” Scarlet’s Aunt Joy Scalera made cupcakes topped with green icing that formed the shape of a caterpillar to complement a smash cake and larger Hungry Caterpillar-themed birthday cake from Wow Factor Cakes. For activities, the smallest guests made handprints and turned them into either a butterfly or caterpillar on mixed media paper. Dawn found chalk shaped like fruit and let the kids color with it outside. She made caterpillars out of pom poms and hot glued them onto small mason jars. The children then filled the “bug jars” with gumballs and fruit-shaped candy to take home, along with specially designed stickers Dawn ordered from Vistaprint. She says she worked on the party crafts in the month leading up to Scarlet’s birthday, spent about three hours setting up on the day of the party and used most of her budget on the cakes. “The hardest part for me is the shopping!” she laughs, explaining that it’s hard for her to get organized and purchase materials in just one trip.
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$( )0 )! .( “She’s a little artist,” Dawn says, describing her 6-yearold daughter, Sullivan, a very special little girl who came into the world weighing just two pounds and six ounces at 27 weeks and initially spent 58 days in the NICU. Now a thriving kindergartner, “She’s got a very colorful personality, and her own way of doing things. So a rainbow art party was perfect for her.” Like her sister, Sullivan also had a special “rainbow” birthday outfit created by Kelley Frisch. A rainbow photo invitation invited welcomed “starving artists” to the party, and guests were asked to RSVP to ROYGBIV, and wear their favorite color of the rainbow to the party (perfect for photos!) Sullivan’s party, also held at their home, took place this past November, and Dawn once again opted to create as much of the food and décor as she could. “If you make half the things and try to creative, it can save you a lot of money,” she suggests. Strouse and her husband hung a blue tablecloth on the wall behind the food table and decorated it with a sun, clouds, rainbow and a birthday banner cut out of construction paper. Blue pom poms served as raindrops, and old paint buckets “poured” streams of paint made from crepe paper onto the wall. They also found a rainbowcolored umbrella, hung it on the wall over the fireplace and used a desk lamp for backlight. Paintbrushes taped to the walls with crepe paper provided additional décor, as did colorful Chinese lanterns placed throughout the house, and multicolored “drapes” from IKEA hung from the doorways. “It was rainbow craziness everywhere!” says Dawn. For food, she served a variety of colorful fruits, such as strawberries, pineapples, green and purple grapes, blackberries and oranges, colored bottles of Little Hugs® juice drinks and peanut butter and jelly sandwiches cut into cloud shapes. A gorgeous cake with white frosting (and rainbow layers inside!) from Wow Factor cakes and sour rainbow-topped cupcakes from Aunt Joy Scalera rounded out the party treats. Guests each had a turn painting their very own colorful 8 x 10 canvas, which they got to take home at the conclusion of the party. Dawn provided old T-shirts to use as painting smocks. The kids also took turns at the rainbow piñata filled with kid-friendly miniature art supplies.
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Favors included a case of watercolor paint for each guest, rainbow crayon blocks from Oriental Trading Company and a child-sized rainbow-striped bucket decorated with a sticker from Visaprint with the comment, “Thank you for painting my party perfect.” Perfect, indeed. For a look at Dawn Strouse’s artwork, visit www.gigglehousestudio.com. Decorating Tip from Dawn: Take a simple and inexpensive tablecloth and hang it on the wall. It makes the perfect backdrop and you can use it to cover up a television or fireplace that won’t be in use for the party!
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Birthday Cake Submitted by Lisa Toohey Cake by: Cake Expressions by Lisa
Ellie’s 6th Birthday Submitted by: Melody Serrano Cake by: Mandy Rappe of Pure Confection 26
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hat would a party be without cake? Cakes have the ability to take center stage at any number of celebrations, and with the evolution of the sweet treat (cupcakes, cake pops, smash cakes, etc.), the possibilities are endless. Whether you choose to spend the majority of your party budget on a fabulous cake, roll up your own sleeves and mix the batter yourself or tap into the creative talents of a baker friend or family member, this party item is sure to be one of the most anticipated aspects of the party. We asked our readers to “wow” us with photos of their recent party cakes, and we were blown away!
Parker’s 5th Birthday Submitted by: Michelle Meaux Cake by: Wendy Treadway
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Sullivan's 6th Birthday Submitted by: Dawn Strouse Cupcakes by: Joy Scalera (Read more about this fun party on page 24!)
Amina’s 1st Birthday Cake by: Rita Boric
Sofia’s 1st Birthday (and Misty’s 30th!) Submitted by: Misty Valjevac Cakes by: Charlotte Cake Man
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Olivia’s 8th Birthday Submitted by Lisa Toohey Cake by: Cake Expressions by Lisa
0 - ."" ,-$)(, Before you order the cake, consider these tips from Lisa Toohey, owner of Cake Expressions by Lisa: Flavors Birthday cakes for kids are the most exciting part of the party. It’s so important to have a cake that not only looks great — but tastes great — to kids. For cake flavor, gourmet is unfortunately not the way. Keep it simple. For little ones, vanilla or chocolate cake with vanilla or chocolate filling and icing, or maybe a marble cake. As for nuts, don’t even think about it! Older kids will be a bit more adventurous. A strawberry or raspberry filling in that vanilla or chocolate cake is quite popular, but again, without nuts. For adults you can go all out, as long as you’re sure it’s something the guest of honor will love. If you do opt for nut flavors in your cake just be sure to let everyone know before they take that first bite! Allergies seem to be more and more prevalent every year. If you know someone with a nut allergy will be attending the party tell your baker so they can take extra precautions. Let your baker know an approximate guest count so they can size the cake properly. There is no such thing as a “standard” sized cake anymore.
You’ll be amazed at what you can create! Have you ever wondered how to make those gorgeous cakes you see in magazines and on TV? Come learn the tricks of the trade at Cake Expressions Academy! Learn from the pros at our classes for ALL levels. Need specialty supplies? We have that too! See our website for schedules. Our studio is available for private classes and parties too – call today!
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The Theme You definitely want your cake to reflect the theme of the party. This is where you can be creative and have fun. Set your budget, then talk with your chosen baker about how to best incorporate your theme into the cake. Your cake could be round or square cake with a simple decoration, or an elaborately sculpted 3-D creation, or something in between. There are thousands of cake photos online to help get you started. An important thing to keep in mind is copyright infringement. Character cakes are often times a no-no. Cakes reflecting the style of the character may be the way to go.
Call our party coordinator today at: (704) 799-3470 When to Order Be sure to give your baker plenty of notice when ordering your cake. Most parties are on Saturdays and specialty cake makers book up quickly. As soon as you know the date and approximate number of guests, call and reserve the date, even if you don’t know exactly what type of cake you want. The details can be figured out a bit closer to the party. Other Considerations In addition to the birthday cake, candy and sweets buffets are very popular. They’re perfect for additional decoration around the cake to make it a true centerpiece. Keep in mind your theme — everything should be within the same color scheme. Put out some pretty bags with ribbons and you’ve got your party favors all set too!
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New spring colors from Converse for girls, and don't forget the boys, with all the tried and true colors. at Tootsies Too Children's Shoes
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Spring 2013 is about Mommy & Me... New bright colors by Havaianas & Jack Rogers photo by Couture Portraits
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It’s a Wrap While I generally write about products and such that are good for the littlest ones, this was such a hit with my 8-year-old that it couldn’t go unnoticed.
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ask the therapist By Leslie Petruk, MA, LPC, NCC
Guns & Play ... Are They Okay or Do They Teach Aggression and Violence? (You Might Be Surprised!)
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ith the latest event in Connecticut on the heels of the shootings in Aurora, Colo., College Station, Texas etc., questions related to guns, video games, violence portrayed in movies and mental health have all come into question. One of the concerns I frequently get from parents related to their children is whether or not they should allow them to play with toy guns. First, it is important to put everything in context. I once worked with a parent who had a very traumatic experience in which a gun was involved, so she had a strong reaction to the idea of her child playing with toy guns. Just as with all parenting issues, our own feelings and experiences impact the way we may view things. For this parent, the thought of her child playing with a gun evoked very strong feelings because of the trauma she had experienced. That was not about her child, but more about her. So, as parents, first we have to separate out what experiences we have had that may impact our objectivity. Parents tend to assume that by allowing children to play with aggressive toys such as guns and swords that it teaches and/or condones aggressive behaviors. However, there is no evidence to support this. In fact, child development research along with play therapy research, shows that the use of toy guns, knives and swords actually helps children express their angry or aggressive emotions in play, so they are able to release the feelings rather then holding them in only to be expressed inappropriately later. When children cry, I often hear parents telling them to “stop” or “not to cry.” Crying is an appropriate expression of emotion. People cry when they are scared, sad, angry, physically hurt and even at times when they are happy! All of these emotions are normal feelings that we all experience at different times. When your child is sad and you tell them to stop crying, or not to cry, you are essentially telling them that it’s not okay for them to express their feelings. When your child gets angry, are you okay with that, or does it make you uncomfortable? Are your expectations that they should feel happy all the time? Do you communicate an acceptance of all of their feelings, and how? Allowing your child to be angry or sad and learning how to express those feelings in an appropriate manner is the key. Play is a child’s language, how they master skills and make sense of the world. Toy guns and swords facilitate that expression in an appropriate way (if being used inappropriately then limits should be set — “If you choose to hit your brother in the face with the sword, you are choosing not to play with your sword today. It’s your choice, you decide.”) Just as a child playing in a toy kitchen and “cooking” and feeding you or their dolls is a way for them to explore their feelings of care, connection and nurturing, play is a symbolic expression of a child’s inner emotional world. It is important that a child knows that we accept all of their feelings and that it’s okay to be angry (as many adults were, and appropriately so, after the Connecticut shooting), it’s how we express those feelings that’s important. continued on page 36
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Stay Safe Around the Rails As you head out this spring for family photos, Operation Lifesaver would like to remind both photographers and families to be aware of the importance of rail safety. Operation Lifesaver, whose goal is to end collisions, deaths and injuries at highway-rail grade crossings and on rail property, reminds the public that using train tracks as a backdrop for photographs is not only dangerous, but considered illegal trespassing. Last year, almost 800 people were injured or killed while trespassing on railroad property throughout the United States, according to preliminary Federal Railroad Administration statistics. Keep in mind the following safety tips: • The only safe place to cross is at a designated public crossing with either a crossbuck, flashing red lights or a gate. If you cross at any other place, you are trespassing and can be ticketed or fined. Cross tracks ONLY at designated pedestrian or roadway crossings. • Railroad tracks, trestles, yards and equipment are private property and trespassers are subject to arrest and fine. If you are in a rail yard uninvited by a railroad official you are trespassing and subject to criminal prosecution; you could be
injured or killed in a busy rail yard. • It can take a mile or more to stop a train, so a locomotive engineer who suddenly sees someone on the tracks will likely be unable to stop in time. Railroad property is private property. For your safety, it is illegal to be there unless you are at a designated public crossing. • Trains overhang the tracks by at least three feet in both directions; loose straps hanging from rail cars may extend even further. If you are in the right-of-way next to the tracks, you can be hit by the train. • Do not cross the tracks immediately after a train passes. A second train might be blocked by the first. Trains can come from either direction. Wait until you can see clearly around the first train in both directions. • Flashing red lights indicate a train is approaching from either direction. You can be fined for failure to obey these signals. Never walk around or behind lowered gates at a crossing, and DO NOT cross the tracks until the lights have stopped flashing and it's safe to do so. • Do not hunt, fish or bungee jump from railroad trestles. There is only enough clearance on the tracks for a train to pass. Trestles are not meant to be sidewalks or pedestrian bridges! Never walk, run, cycle or operate all terrain vehicles (ATVs) on railroad tracks, rights-of-way or through tunnels. • Be aware trains do not follow set schedules. Any Time is Train Time! For more information, visit www.oli.org. www.littleonesmagazine.com | for local moms ... by local moms
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out & about Groundhog Day
What: What will resident groundhog Queen Charlotte predict for spring’s arrival? Celebrate this fun holiday with Queen Charlotte and her Court! Creature Features are supported by The Guild of Discovery Place and Charlotte Nature Museum. Programming includes crafts, puppet shows and storytelling. When: Feb. 2 from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. Where: Charlotte Nature Museum www.charlottenaturemuseum.com
Hearts, art, theater, easter eggs and so much more!
Father-Daughter Dance
What: Fathers and daughters can spend some quality time together showing off their favorite moves at this annual event. Enjoy refreshments, snapshots from a professional photographer and music provided by a local DJ. Purchase tickets in advance at the Matthews Community Center. When: Feb. 9 from 4 – 7 p.m. Where: Crews Road Recreation Center www.matthewsfun.com
Great Backyard Bird Count
Fairy House Festival
What: Spend the afternoon discovering the joy and magic of fairy houses at this free event. Storytelling, face painting, crafts, activities, pony rides and food will be available. Prizes awarded for best fairy or gnome costume and best fairy house. Children of all ages can learn how to build fairy houses on one of the nature trails. When: Feb. 9 from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Where: Latta Plantation www.parkandrec.com
What: Become a citizen scientist! Join expert birders from the Charlotte Audubon Society Chapter as they count birds and contribute to this important national study. Learn all about the birds in Charlotte Nature Museum’s big backyard and yours. When: Feb. 16 from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. Where: Charlotte Nature Museum www.charlottenaturemuseum.com
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Children experience a full range of emotions just like adults do. They, however, don’t have the cognitive ability for abstract reasoning or thinking the way that adults do. Play is a child’s language and toys are their words (Landreth, 1991). Children use the universal language of play to make sense of and express their feelings. Playing with toy guns, knives and swords allows them to express their aggressive and angry feelings in a way that doesn’t hurt anyone (as long as they are using the toys appropriately). As a play therapist, I have toy guns, swords and knives in my playroom (along with many other non-aggressive toys) so that children have the tools they need to express the whole range of emotions. If a child points a dart gun at me, I simply state, “I know you want to shoot me, but people are not for shooting. You can shoot the punching bag, the floor or the wall.” Notice, I acknowledged the child’s desire, set a limit and gave appropriate options. Often times, children are testing the limits to see how an adult will respond. If a child pulls the trigger while aiming the dart gun at me I 36
then state, “If you choose to shoot at me, you are choosing not to play with that for the rest of our play time. You decide, it’s your choice.” I have never had to remove a toy weapon from a play session. By allowing your child to play with toy guns, swords and knives in an appropriate way, you will actually facilitate the normal aggressive feelings your child has and prevent them from bottling them up, only to hit a sibling or peer when they do become angry. The acknowledgement and acceptance that we all have negative feelings and guiding your child in the appropriate expression of those feelings is part of developing emotional intelligence, which is just as important as cognitive intelligence. When inappropriately expressed, setting a limit, “I know you are angry because mommy won’t let you have a cookie right now, but people are not for hitting. You can punch your pillow or stomp your feet and say, “I’m really angry!” By letting your child know that you can tolerate his/her angry, sad or scared feelings just as much as their happy feelings, you are providing
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a safe container for them to express those feelings appropriately. Toy guns, swords and knives are appropriate toys for children to express the innate feelings of aggression they experience as long as played with appropriately. It is a normal developmental stage for boys in particular to play with toy guns and swords. It is also important to distinguish that there is a difference between toy guns that look like toys and those that look real, the latter being inappropriate. If your child seems to be overly focused on toy weapons and talking about guns and weapons, and all of their play seems overly aggressive, this may be an indication that they are angry or feel powerless about something in their life. Consulting with a mental health professional who is trained and experienced in working with children may be beneficial. Leslie Petruk, MA, LPC, NCC, BCC is the Director of The Stone Center for Counseling & Leadership which serves children, couples and families. You can get more information on her and her practice at www.thestonecenternc.com.
Great Backyard Bird Count Festival
What: The Great Backyard Bird Count is an annual event that’s gaining a flock of followers! Learn how to participate in this citizen science event and enjoy the museum, too. Go on a bird identification walk, learn to use binoculars and go on a scavenger hunt of birds in the museum. When: Feb. 17 Where: The Schiele Museum www.schielemuseum.org
Fossil Fair
What: More than a fossil show, this event spotlights all sorts of natural treasures from the earth including fossils, rocks, minerals and the ancient stories that these items tell. See museum and fossil club displays and purchase interesting specimens from vendors. Mine for gemstones like garnets, emeralds and amethyst. Kids can meet animated prehistoric characters, see a full-sized T. rex, make a fossil fish print, search for tiny fossils from the Carolina Coast, and much more. When: Feb. 23 from 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. Where: The Schiele Museum www.schielemuseum.org
“The Magic Story,” Starring Sammy Cortino
What: In this innovative new show, “Magic’s Royal Duke” Sammy Cortino discovers a long lost manuscript describing the history of magic, from its primal beginnings in ancient Egypt, to its golden age and beyond. As the show progresses, many of magic’s classic illusions are performed, including Houdini’s straight jacket escape, levitation, and Blackstone's mystery cabinet. A perfect introduction to the art of illusion, as well as a “greatest hits” for magic fans young and old! Appropriate for ages 5 and older. When: Feb. 16 and 17 Where: McColl Family Theatre, ImaginOn www.ctcharlotte.org
Easter Eggstravaganza Saturday, March 23 11am-2pm
Stumptown Park (120 South Trade Street, Matthews)
For families & children 12 & under DJ, games, & pictures with the Easter Bunny Easter egg hunts for various age groups $5 per child 12 and under, free for ages 2 and under
Find out more: MatthewsFun.com 704-321-7275
“The True Story of the Three Little Pigs”
What: Three pigs build houses; the one who builds his out of brick doesn’t get eaten by the Big Bad Wolf and lives to tell the tale. But is that the whole truth or just porcine propaganda? That’s the question raised in this brilliant parody of the Three Little Pigs that follows the Big Bad Wolf on trial for his purported deeds. Children’s Theatre of Charlotte’s Tarradiddle Players perform in this hilarious rock musical, based on Jon Scieszka’s wildly popular book. Appropriate for ages 5 and older. When: Feb. 22 – March 10 Where: McColl Family Theatre, ImaginOn www.ctcharlotte.org
“Diary of a Worm, a Spider & a Fly”
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Sunday Fun Days @ The Mint Uptown
What: From sea to shining sea, many artists find inspiration at the ocean. Make a Dale Chihuly sea creature, go with the flow at Family Yoga, and dive into the museum to see awesome art. Enjoy family-friendly art projects, healthy living activities, artist demonstrations, and more for all ages. When: Feb. 17 from 1 to 4 p.m. Where: The Mint Museum Uptown www.mintmuseum.org
Mini-Masters Art Workshops
What: With February’s theme of “Little Renaissance Painters,” little artists can make their own beautiful tempera paintings and craft a gleaming, golden frame to adorn it. They’ll also take a walk in the museum galleries to see a real Renaissance tondo, or round painting! Appropriate for ages 3-5 years and accompanied by an adult. When: February 27 from 10:30 - 11:45 a.m. or 1:30 - 2:45 p.m. Where: Mint Museum Randolph www.mintmuseum.org
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Bouncing Bunnies and Hares
What: Hop on over to Charlotte Nature Museum to meet Harriet and her visiting bunny friends. Pet a few and learn how different rabbits and hares are. Creature Features are supported by The Guild of Discovery Place Inc. and Charlotte Nature Museum. Programming includes crafts, puppet shows and storytelling. When: March 16 from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. Where: Charlotte Nature Museum www.charlottenaturemuseum.com
17th Annual St. Patrick’s Day Parade and Charlotte Goes Green Festival
What: The city’s annual St. Paddy’s Day Parade features flags, floats, pipe band music and more. The festival will include a Celtic Kids Zone, Irish music and dancers, food vendors and beverages. All events are free. When: March 16. The parade begins at 11 a.m.; the festival runs from 10:30 a.m. to 6 p.m. Where: Tryon & 9th St. (Uptown) www.charlottestpatsday.com
Sunday Fun Days @ The Mint Uptown
What: Be a-mazed by installation art made of salt and intricate prints by a Japanese artist, design your own marble maze, make a meditative zen-tangle drawing, and kick it at a karate lesson! Enjoy family-friendly art
projects, healthy living activities, artist demonstrations, and more for all ages. When: March 17 from 1 to 4 p.m. Where: Mint Museum Uptown www.mintmuseum.org
Easter Eggstravaganza
What: Bring children ages 12 and under for a fun egg hunt in the park complete with games, music and photos with the Easter Bunny. Cost is $5 per child; children ages 2 and under can attend the event for free. When: March 23 from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. Where: Stumptown Park www.matthewsfun.com
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What: It's clay time! Look for amazing animals and funny faces in the North Carolina pottery collection, and squish, coil, and construct your own sculptures out of air-dry clay. Appropriate for ages 3-5 years and accompanied by an adult. When: March 27 from 10:30 – 11:45 or 1:30 – 2:45 p.m. Where: Mint Museum Randolph www.mintmuseum.org
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YOU WILL NEED: • Butterfly-attracting plants Dill, Fennel, Parsley, Lantana, Marigold, Aster, Oriental Lilies, Petunia, Purple Coneflower, Sunflower, Verbena, Wild Bergamot, Zinnia. You don’t have to plant all of these, but butterflies like variety. • A large, flat rock • Some kind of water source • A Butterfly Bush
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What: Go on an outdoor Easter egg hunt and learn how to dye your treasures with natural dyes. When: March 31 from 2:30 to 4 p.m. Where: Reedy Creek Nature Center www.parkandrec.com www.littleonesmagazine.com | for local moms ... by local moms
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y buddies started having kids long before me. As I saw those guys change, I promised myself I would never become “That Guy!”
I won’t be “that guy” who cuts down on party time. I had buddies who got married and their participation in our group’s activities dropped a bit. However — the guys with children became virtual ghosts. The call from the bar would go something like this, “Yo Bill, you want to go grab a few beers?” Bill: “I wish I could, but I have to get home to help with the baby.” A few dozen chats like that, and you eventually stop asking. The guys with no kids would down some beers and make fun of the domesticated dude. His life seemed to lack fun. After all, we believed if you couldn’t hang with us, you must be miserable. I swore I would never be “that guy.” Then BAM, I was “that guy.” I was doing the same thing my mocked friends with kids were doing. I was turning down beer time and other social get-togethers to be with my family or give my wife some time to chill. And even more mind blowing, I actually enjoyed spending time with the little ones (well, for the most part). While it’s true part of me misses those carefree days, there is no getting around it, I have become “That Guy!” I won’t be “that guy” who lets the kids manipulate you. I remember a time I was with some friends, and we were having a cool, adult conversation. Their two kids, (at the time I admit I referred to kids as dirty fun suckers), continued to ask their parents if they could finger paint. Mom and dad kept saying, “No, it’s too messy” and Dad did the old, “if you ask me one more time thing,” but eventually caved and told the kids to go paint. I was horrified. I will NEVER do that, I said. Fast forward a few years, and I really get it. 40
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Kids can beat you down. They’re more effective than water boarding. Three-year-olds may be the best interrogators ever. Put a suspect in a room with a 3-year-old asking questions like, “Can I have chips?” “What are you talking about?” “Will you watch me do this trick?” Let the child do that over and over and over again, and in no time, the perp will sing like a canary, just to get some peace. I won’t be “that guy” who doesn’t feed his kids healthy meals every time. Oh yeah, I thought my kid would be the healthiest child in America. That girl will chow on vegetables and fruits and eat whatever we’re having for dinner and it will be no problem. Well, it is a problem. You want the kids to eat. Suddenly you think, “Is there a point to starving them?” “Why is my kid so darn picky?” Then you realize there are 107 books just about getting your child to eat. Every month or so there’s an article in a parenting magazine about that dilemma, which leads to the obvious conclusion that you are not alone. So there are times the kids have waffles for dinner, because they hate what we are having. Sometimes, my 2-year-old is chowing on Teddy Grahams by 9 a.m. Yes, I have become “that guy” who will give his kids meals that are not the healthiest choice, or a snack too early in the day. There are days it just isn’t worth the fight. The moral of the story is, no matter how you think that whole parenting thing will go for you, only one thing is certain. You will become “That Guy!” Matt Harris is the co-host of the Matt and Ramona Show, aired Monday – Friday from 3 – 7 p.m. You can email Matt your thoughts at Matt@mattandramona.com.
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