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features Courage Through Reading . . . . . . . . .8 A Q&A with children’s author Stacey Marshall.
A Creative Life . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .10
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See how skills children learn from the arts can help them lead more successful lives. By Renee Roberson
Book Corner . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .16 By Arden McLaughlin
Looking Ahead to Eye Exams . . . . .18 Learn about the importance of scheduling your child’s eye exam now. By Erin Schotthoefer, MD
Ask the Therapist . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .36 Help your child get the most out of pretend play. By Leslie Petruk, MA, LPC, NCC
10 Fun Summer Activities . . . . . . . . .25
Little Ones Loves . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .24
Take a peek at some great local hot spots! By Kiran Dodeja Smith
A peek at must-have fashion and products featuring U.S.A. Pride.
Get Started Growing with Kids . . . . .26 Plan your family garden in six simple steps.
Carolina Cuties . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .54
Healing Horses . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .28
Starring local little ones, as themselves . . .
Local center helps children with special needs through therapeutic riding. By Renee Roberson
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Father’s Day Feast . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .30 Start his day off right with these delicious breakfast ideas.
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Tiny Warriors . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .32 Nonprofit offers local support for miracle babies. By Candace Richter
Sandy Beaches and Salty Breezes .38 Your family can swim, surf and connect with the wildlife on Tybee Island, Ga. By Renee Roberson
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The Dog Days of Summer . . . . . . . . .41 Thinking of traveling with pets? Check out these pet-friendly destinations.
Day Trip Your Way to Fun . . . . . . . . .42 Your kids will love these educational excursions. By Renee Roberson
Swim Like a Fish . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .46 These clever tips will get even the littlest ones moving in the water. By Charlotte Aquatics
iPotty to the Rescue . . . . . . . . . . . . . .52 The trials and tribulations of potty training. By Matt Harris 4
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cover: Miley Sha' MacEvoy, 4 yrs old, is a fun, loving, caring, outgoing little girl who loves her two big brothers as well as bossing them around. She sings and dances constantly anywhere she goes…and loves to have her photograph taken and adores the stores since she loves to shop as well! Miley is a beautiful person both inside and out and truly a blessing! Photo by Photography by Chanda
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Kerrie Boys Editor It was during this time last year that my family embarked on a very special road trip. The destination was Walt Disney World because no one in our family had ever been to Disney. Yes, you read that correctly. Despite the fact that both my husband and I grew up in the Southeast, we somehow missed what some people consider a rite of passage these days. We pored over the Disney websites and online budgeting tools trying to figure out the answers to all our daunting questions related to Magic Kingdom, Animal Kingdom, Epcot and Hollywood Studios. My husband swore up and down the we would be able to make the drive to Orlando in a day, no problem, as long we got up before dawn. We purchased a meal plan through the resort; made all our reservations, sketched out which park we would visit on what day and began a “Countdown to Disney” calendar. We were ready! The Monday we were scheduled to leave my husband and I both woke up to sun streaming through the windows and birds chirping outside. Despite setting an alarm, we had somehow slept through it or he hit snooze. At 6:30 a.m. we backed out of our driveway, already an hour behind schedule. The rest of our day went something like this, in between stops for food, gas and bathroom breaks: 7 a.m. - Mia asks how long we’ve been driving. 7:30 a.m. - Mia asks “When is lunch?” 8:20 a.m. - Mia asks if we are still in South Carolina. 12:30 p.m. – Now in Florida, Daniel (my husband) tells everyone to look at the palm trees for about the 20th time. 12:40 p.m. – Mia calls Noah a baby and quarreling ensues. 12:41 p.m. – About a minute later, Noah asks if we’re at Disney World yet. You get the picture. We did eventually roll into Orlando, with cramped legs, around 3:30 p.m. that day unscathed. We all have road trip stories, some good, some bad. I personally think that while they don’t always turn out like we planned, they make for great family memories. These days, I try to make sure my kids are armed with snacks, books, crossword puzzles, DVDs and yes, even some video games, to make long car rides more manageable. Over time I’ve learned that whether we’re driving two hours or eight hours, kids will complain, and I know why because I was a kid once, too. Whether your travel plans include day trips or extended family vacations, we have plenty of travel destinations for you in this issue, as well as some great stories about amazing animals and local parents making a difference in our community. So kick back, celebrate the beginning of summer, and enjoy!
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a local mom Instills courage through reading An Interview with Stacey Marshall, author of Captain Courage and the Fear-Squishing Shoes In her children’s picture book, Captain Courage and the Fear-Squishing Shoes, local author Stacey Marshall tells the story of Katie, a new student at school who gains a boost of self-confidence with the help of a colorful, caring and unexpected superhero. We recently chatted with Marshall about what inspired the story, how her career helped prepare her to write for children and what led her to become a pen pal of the late and great Dr. Seuss!
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LOM: Thanks for taking the time to speak with us, Stacey! Can you tell us a little about your educational/career background? Believe it or not, my undergraduate degree is from Duke University, and I went to graduate school at UNC-Chapel Hill. Needless to say, I’m a bit conflicted during basketball season! I feel very fortunate to be doing things in my career about which I feel so passionate. I’ve been a public speaking coach, speech-language pathologist and writer for over 15 years and have a background in broadcasting and motivational speaking. Like Captain Courage, I enjoy teaching people of all ages how to be courageous in any formal or informal speaking scenario. I’ve worked with myriad groups such as: business executives, t.v. and radio newscasters, students, and athletes in the media (e.g., Division I, NFL, WNBA and Olympic athletes). I’ve written for numerous local and national publications and often focus my writing on how to be one’s best, most confident self in any situation. LOM: How did your work inspire you to write Captain Courage and the Fear-Squishing Shoes? As a mom, as well as a speechlanguage pathologist, public speaking coach, and motivational speaker (yes, I wear lots of “hats!”), I am acutely aware of the role that speaking with confidence can have on overall self-esteem—especially in children. So, I invented a superhero, Captain Courage, which I used in public speaking classes I taught in elementary schools to add an element of fun to the lessons. Then, I decided to write fictional, fun-filled stories about Captain Courage. In the stories, I sneak in tips about optimal communication derived from my unique training and varied experiences. Hence, Captain Courage and the Fear-Squishing Shoes was born! LOM: We understand that Captain Courage is part of a series. When will the next book be released and what is it about? I am very excited because I’m under contract for a second Captain Courage book due out this fall, and the third Captain Courage book is “in the works!” In the second book, Captain Courage takes a unique journey, exploring his own top-secret fear.
Like the first book, the story sneaks in tips about helping to build self-confidence in any situation, but takes it a step further. I’m not at liberty to divulge the title of the book yet, but suffice it to say, it’s a fun one! The third book will feature all the main characters and their crazy antics, but will also include a few new characters. The story will deal with facing bullying, as well as speaking up with poise and charisma. I hope to touch many thousands of children with Captain Courage’s help to teach them everything they need to know about confidence—despite any obstacles. LOM: We’re intrigued to find out how you became pen pals with Dr. Seuss (real name, Theodore Geisel). Could you share that story with us? As an admirer of his work, I started writing to Dr. Seuss while I was in grade school. I would send him letters, poems I had written, cards on his birthday, and he would write me back very clever letters. We wrote for years. I now have a couple of his letters framed and displayed in my home. I even invited him to my college graduation, and when he received my invitation, he sent me back the attached note! LOM: What advice would you give parents and teachers who know a child struggling with how to confidently speak in classroom/performing settings? There’s an acronym I came up with, which I often use with students—especially shy children. The acronym is “BELLS” (See below): BE=“Be yourself” L=“Look” (Use eye contact with your listener/s) L=“Loud” (Make sure your voice can be heard). S=“Smile” The acronym serves as a reminder about what to do when one is feeling nervous and highlights one of my messages that if you act confident you’ll feel confident as well! LOM: Where can our readers find copies of Captain Courage and the Fear-Squishing Shoes? My book can be found on Amazon.com, B&N.com and GuardianAngelPublishing.com and captaincourage.com.
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What Your Child Can Learn from the Arts
imagine By Renee Roberson
n the book The Artistic Edge: 7 Skills Children Need to Succeed in an Increasingly Right Brain World, arts and leadership educator Lisa Phillips makes the case that leadership skills taught through the arts are what young children need in order to be successful in life. With many school systems still following curriculums emphasizing the importance of science, math, technology and engineering, choosing activities involving the arts for children often falls to the parents. As local Charlotte business owner Brian Bojanowski writes on the Noah’s Art website, “Not all kids love to paint, some don’t like to get messy and coloring just isn’t their thing. Painting and drawing fall under one of the four major divisions in the arts, visual art. Your child may be interested in dance, music or theatre, all of which have tremendous benefits to their development. One benefit to having your child involved in any art program is to build self-esteem and self-confidence.” Here’s a look at the four major divisions in art and how your child can benefit from each of them.
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If you’ve ever watched a preschooler involved in an art project, it may seem like nothing but chaos at first. But according to research from Americans for the Arts (www.artsusa.org), arts education can benefit even the youngest children. Drawing, sculpting and other visual arts develop special acuity. The art supplies children choose for their work reflects their approach to process and outcomes. “Beyond the simple joy and wonder children experience when painting, drawing or playing with clay, there are many more substantial benefits to a child’s development,” says Leslie Strauss, Family Programs Coordinator at The Mint Museum. Creating art also helps children: • Develop imagination and creativity • Hone problem-solving skills through trial and error exploration • Express feelings and ideas and develop an appreciation for others’ feelings and ideas • Learn to focus and persevere to reach a goal • Strengthen cognitive, motor and language development Allowing a child to hold a paintbrush or practice cutting with scissors on a regular basis might seem insignificant, but with regular practice these actions positively impact the development of fine motor skills, which are necessary for writing, turning the pages of a book and performing day-to-day tasks such as getting dressed and tying shoes. Children also take pride in showing their artwork to friends and family, and over time, if nurtured, they will develop a sense of craftsmanship and goal-setting—all skills necessary to succeed in the classroom and beyond. Strauss also emphasizes that art experiences for children should be child-driven, encouraging multiple approaches to problem solving and providing lots of free choice. For younger children, the experience should be more process-driven than product-focused.
Carter Williams Carter Williams is a 5-yearold who attends Fairview Elementary school in Monroe. His artwork, “Snowy Self-Portrait,” was recently chosen by his art teacher, Mrs. Holli Brown, to be featured at the Union County Student Artist Showcase in the mixed media/collage category. One student’s work was chosen from each grade and Carter’s work was chosen for Kindergarten. Carter absolutely loves art and has for some time. He loves when “art” is his “special” at school and he has an “art studio” at home. He is constantly drawing, painting, making “artwork” out of paper scraps, etc. Carter has taken several classes at Noah’s Art and really enjoys his time there.
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Music There’s a reason most children are drawn to music from a young age. Over time the repeated requests for their favorite songs could lead to an interest in taking up voice or lessons on a specific instrument. The benefits of taking music lessons reach far beyond appeasing a child’s interest or providing them with a fun extracurricular activity—they help with motor skills, math skills, language, self-esteem and patience. “Learning to read music gives kids an introduction into fractions, division, counting and special-temporal skills,” says Heather Geiser, a Charlotte mom who also teaches viola lessons to children. “Kids who understand how rhythm works often have a solid basic understanding of math concepts before they even start studying them, making it much less difficult to progress into harder concepts.” Taking music lessons also directly requires that children master fine motor skills and motor coordination they wouldn’t normally get much practice with. Lining up their fingers properly on a flute or piano enables them to use their bodies in a way that will help them perform many other tasks as they grow into adulthood. Because music also requires regular practice and sitting still, Geiser believes it can help kids develop good study
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habits for other parts of their lives. Also, a child who receives an education in music will develop an ear for tone, rhythm and pitch. She will be able to sing better, dance better, enjoy listening to music more and use her ears more effectively in a variety of ways.
Dance Children take dance classes for a number of reasons; they’re fun, they allow kids to be active and release pent-up energy and they get to spend time fostering relationships with their fellow dancers. But dance also has many other hidden benefits, too. “I think dance has something that is so completely unique in comparison to the other art forms,” says Rene Olivier, who teaches young children creative movement and ballet through the North Carolina Dance Theatre. “Your way of communicating is through your body and expression.” Dance classes can help keep kids moving in an ageappropriate, non-competitive way that differs from other athletic activities. Ballet classes can teach grace and help with coordination and spatial awareness. Dance lessons in general can help foster an appreciation for the arts and music, as both go hand in hand. Dancing also emphasizes teamwork, because with the exception of solo performances,
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children must learn to work together to coordinate their movements for dance performances and competitions. Children will also gain important insight into non-verbal communication as they experience different ways of moving and learn how to express a variety of emotions through dance movements. They will also make important strides in understanding how to effectively portray a character onstage. “I’ve had the opportunity to work with some students who have been with me from early ballet,” says Olivier. “It’s amazing to see this growth, to see their minds and bodies mature.”
Theater Do you have a natural-born superstar in your home who loves taking on the role of different characters and thrives on the positive attention garnered from being in the spotlight? If so, he is all already taking the steps that will build valuable public speaking and presentation skills, all of which help school performance and provide the tools necessary for a successful career later in life. No one can argue the importance of literacy and fractions, but study after study has shown that the arts are much more than fluff, points out Tim Hager, director of marketing and communications with the Children’s Theatre of Charlotte. “By encouraging creativity, imagination, independent
“One benefit to having your child involved in any art program is to build self-esteem and self-confidence.”
Sweet Little Helper Olivia Toohey Olivia Toohey, daughter of Lisa Toohey, owner of Cake Expressions, has been going to work with her mom since she was 5 weeks old. Although she began playing with fondant at a young age as a way to keep busy, she took her first official cake decorating class at age 6 while in London. Her first class was modeling sheep, then cupcakes and chocolate truffles. The now 9-year-old often helps out her mom at work by cutting out fondant shapes and even placing tiny, edible pearls on cakes.” While she enjoys cake decorating, baking and cooking in general, she doesn’t plan to do this for a living,” says her mom. “She’s a competitive swimmer and wants to be a rock star when she grows up.” 14
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thinking, empathy for others, a perceptive attitude toward problem solving and the ability to deal with unexpected changes, research shows that drama education helps channel creativity and energy of students while boosting their self-esteem,” he says. Additional benefits of exposure to theatre arts include strengthening social relationships, verbal and non-verbal skills and vocabulary and self-esteem. Here are a few other things your child can learn from the performing arts: • Creativity – Being able to think quickly, approach challenges from unique perspectives and think outside the lines will distinguish your child from others. • Expression – The arts teach children to learn to say what they may not otherwise be able to give a voice to. • Confidence – Theatre gives children a chance to step out of their comfort zone, and the rehearsal process allows them a chance to make mistakes and work on improving. Throughout this process, the children gain the courage to perform in front of others.
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Local Star Madison Fregosi
Madison Fregosi, a 16-year-old sophomore and a competition troupe dancer at Lake Norman Dance Gallery in Mooresville, began dancing when she was 4 years old in Brewster, N.Y.—although her mom attempted to “sign her up” at age 2, and again at age 3, but at that time, she had more interest in running in circles than in dance! By the time she was 6, however, she competed in both Jazz and Tap and did her first solo at age 7. In early 2005, she and her family moved to Cornelius and discovered Lake Norman Dance Gallery. Once Madison heard that this particular studio not only offered an intense dance program, but also a tumble program, she was on board and set out to audition that summer. She made the competition troupe and since then has enjoyed many rewards and accomplishments in her group dances, duets, and solos. She dedicates between 12 and 16 hours of dance each week, in addition to teaching the little ones ballet, leaps and turns, and tap. Her favorite style of dance is jazz/contemporary, however, she also loves and performs in modern, tap, lyrical, and acrobatic dance routines. Some of her accomplishments include Studio Tumble Excellence awards, 3rd place Teen Soloist at 2011 Showstoppers National Competition, 4th place Overall Senior Soloist at Star Systems Regional, Hall of Fame All Star winner, and most recently, 2nd place Overall Senior Soloist at Showstoppers Regional. She has also been invited to perform in the opening number at the 2013 Showstopper Nationals in Myrtle Beach. Her duets (with longtime teammate, Lauren Schultz) and group numbers have repeatedly won top high score awards both regionally and nationally. This past fall, Madison was signed by a Charlotte based talent agency, the Dance District, and hopes to continue broadening her opportunities in dance. Upon her graduation in 2015, she hopes to attend Point Park University in Pittsburgh, aspiring to acquire a Bachelors of Fine Arts in Dance. She would like to dance as long as possible and then work as a choreographer or open her own dance studio in the future.
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Reading to your By Arden McLaughlin of the Charlotte Mecklenburg Library
Can you hear it? The sound of alarm clocks, school buses, and homework being replaced with splashes in the pool and the laughter of children playing, thanks to this glorious time of the year called summer! We at Charlotte Mecklenburg Library hope you’ll be spending time with us as well to participate in our Summer Reading program. We have programs for birth through adult and prizes that will keep you and your little ones encouraged in your reading throughout the summer months. All 20 Charlotte Mecklenburg Library locations will have summer reading programs so we hope you’ll drop in and read with us! And here are a few recommendations for your younger readers to get you started. Happy Summer time!
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is one of the you can do to prepare your little one for a lifetime of learning. Research tells us that when you read to a young child, you naturally touch on important pre-reading “building blocks” that begin to develop at birth and must be mastered before your child can become a reader.
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What happens when you feed a dragon a taco with LOTS of spicy salsa? Well … the results could be fiery and make for one red-hot party foul. In Dragons Love Tacos by Adam Rubin and Daniel Salmieri, we find out firsthand that, though dragons love tacos stuffed with all kinds of goodies, adding too much salsa to a fire-breathing dragon’s lunch can spell trouble! Read this fun book aloud with your kids and then fix tacos for lunch together. But, watch the heat-factor on your salsa… you never know who might actually be a dragon in disguise! You know, when I was a young‘un I was a big ol’ chicken. I may still be a little ol’ chicken because I’m not a huge fan of the dark. There’s always at least one light on in my house. So, I can relate to Laszlo in The Dark by Lemony Snicket and Jon Klassen. In this poetically written tale from two awardwinning talents you’ll see how Laszlo stops being afraid of the dark. (Clearly, I’ll be reading it weekly as a fresh reminder.) I love using books like this one to open up discussions with your children about things they fear or have a hard time chatting about with you. You can always ask your librarian for help to find books addressing all sorts of subjects to spark discussions with your children.
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Looking Ahead . . .
Put your child’s eye exam on your back-to-school checklist Stephanie Simon Photography
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ummer has just begun and you are not even thinking about school, but now is the time to schedule your child’s eye appointment to prepare for the upcoming school year. Too often it is one of the before school ‘to-dos’ that gets overlooked. A comprehensive eye exam by a pediatric ophthalmologist can detect problems that may cause difficulties in the classroom. Early detection is crucial in correcting and treating vision problems in children.
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cycloplegic refraction, which temporarily relaxes the focusing muscle of the eye. This test checks the overall power of a child’s eye to see if glasses are necessary. This is done in a child-friendly environment with pediatric ophthalmologists and technicians that are specially trained to perform pediatric exams. Other common eye tests include shining a light in the eye to observe the retina and showing the child patterns of dots to measure how well the eyes work together. At Charlotte Eye Ear Nose & Throat Associates we do our best to make it a comfortable experience for every child.
How to Prepare Your Child No special preparations are necessary for the eye examination. Young children often enjoy the parts of the exam where they get to identify pictures on a chart or match objects. For pre-verbal children, we can send you home with the pictures we use to check vision so that they can practice naming or matching these. The pediatric eye drops have a numbing drop mixed into them to take away the sting. We describe the eye drops as feeling like when you open your eyes under water in the bathtub or swimming pool. Once the eye examination is complete, your pediatric ophthalmologist will determine how often a repeat examination is necessary based on the results of your child’s eye exam.
Common Vision Problems in Children Vision problems in children tend to show up between 18 months and 4 years old. A few common issues include: • Lazy eye (amblyopia) • Crossed eyes (strabismus) • Color blindness • Nearsightedness (myopia) • Farsightedness (hyperobia) Treatment for these problems may include observation, spectacles, patching, eye drops or surgery.
How Parents Can Prepare It is common for parents to feel nervous about their child’s first eye exam, but the best thing you can do for your child is to be as relaxed as possible. Most children are only momentarily bothered by the eye drops and enjoy the escape to the waiting room to play with toys while their eyes are dilating. The eye doctor may ask you questions about your child’s medical history including current medications and allergies. Enjoy the summer sun and make sure your children wear a hat and sunglasses to protect their eyes from UVA and UVB rays. Schedule your child’s eye exam today because summer will fly by as it always does. Call 704-295-3000 to schedule your child’s eye appointment. Dr. Erin Schotthoefer is a board-certified pediatric ophthalmologist at Charlotte Eye Ear Nose and Throat Associates and mother of two children.
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Arlo Needs Glasses Is your child nervous about his first visit to the eye doctor? Be sure to check out the book Arlo Needs Glasses to help set his mind at ease. In this inventive, interactive picture book created by Barney Saltzberg, kids get to do just what the dog Arlo does to solve his problem with fuzzy vision. They read an eye chart, look through a fold-out phoropter (that big machine optometrists use), and try on different pairs of glasses—movie star glasses! Superhero glasses! Mad scientist glasses! And they interact with Arlo as he rediscovers how to be the best ballcatcher in the neighborhood and picks up a new favorite pastime along the way—reading! One out of five school-age children needs glasses. Arlo will show them just how lucky they are.
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10 Activities on Our Family “To Do” List By Kiran Dodeja Smith We’re hot on the heels of summer and planning and preparing for our non-school days. Here are some activities we’ve got lined up:
1. Dan Nicholas Park - Mini golf, a gem mine, a carousel, oh my! Spend a day at the Rowan County-based park, one of the best bargains around.
2. The Schiele Museum - We love to visit each new exhibit, and Mammal Safari, which opened on May 18, is no exception. We pack a picnic and make a day out of it.
3. Sew Fun Camp - My girls were so sold on the notion of sewing a matching item for them and their American Girl Dolls. This will be a first for us this year, but one that’s been highly anticipated.
4. Summer Movies - When the weather warms up, we love to head to the dollar movies for some cool, indoor fun. Find a schedule at www.regmovies.com/Movies/Summer-MovieExpress.
5. Recycling Center - With efforts to bag the plastic and lessen our litter, I'm planning to take my troop to a FREE recycling center tour where they can realize the benefits to recycling. Schedule your own today through www.charmeck.org.
6. Crowder’s Mountain - Definitely one that I'll wait for the weekend for, our family loves taking on the trails at Crowder’s Mountain. Crowder’s Trail is fairly flat and very manageable for little ones to walk on; be sure to skip the stroller.
7. Wing Haven Gardens - Set back just behind Selwyn Avenue, the gardens are great for teaching and talking about the need to conserve wildlife and natural resources. Events we’ve enjoyed included crafts, storytime, composting and more. www.winghavengardens.com
8. Summer Reading Program - Read books and get rewarded? Sign us up. This one’s a no-brainer for us and a tradition we all look forward to. www.cmlibrary.org
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10. Volunteer - With varying ages, I realize that my 2 yearold may not be able to do as much as my 9 year-old ... so we’re planning to try out a few different services. Some organizations with options available: www.friendshiptrays.org, www.handsoncharlotte.org and www.rati.org I’m sure that there are other great options out there. If I’ve missed one of your favorites, share it with me! Email me at kiran@littleonesmagazine.com. www.littleonesmagazine.com | for local moms ... by local moms
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The new guide is part of the National Wildlife Federation’s Be Out There™ movement, created by NWF to help reconnect families with the outdoors. Kids today spend twice as much time indoors as their parents did, missing out on the simple pleasures and lasting mental and physical health benefits of daily outdoor time. NWF’s practical tools and information help make being outside a fun, healthy and automatic part of everyday life for American families. For other helpful resources and to learn more about NWF’s goal to get 10 million more kids spending regular time in the great outdoors, visit: www.BeOutThere.org. Download the full guide at www.beoutthere.org/garden and get more tips and advice for parents.
Mecklenburg County Volunteer Community Gardens If your family is not quite ready for a garden at home, try testing out your green thumb by volunteering at one of the gardens below. Al Wilson Memorial Community Garden @ Park Road Baptist Church
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3900 Park Road, Charlotte 28209 Contact: Alan Eakes, 704-421-5921 Benefits: Loaves and Fishes
Hope Haven
Avondale Presbyterian 2821 Park Road, Charlotte 28209 Contact: Cindy McKenzie, toadhall@carolina.rr.com 704-544-8391 Benefits: The Urban Ministry Center
Charlotte Urban Farm Project 419 East 7th St., Charlotte 28202 For more information on how you can get involved www.clturbanfarm.org Benefits: Charlotte Urban Farm Project
Myers Park United Methodist
3815 North Tryon St., Charlotte 28206 Contact: Jason Wolf, jwolf@hopehaveninc.org, 704-372-8809 Ext. 204 Benefits: Hope Haven, Inc.
Friendship Gardens Numerous gardens are located throughout Mecklenburg County. For more information on specific garden locations and how you can get involved visit: www.friendshipgardens.org Benefits: Friendship Trays
Matthews Presbyterian Church Harris YMCA Organic Garden 5900 Quail Hollow Road, Charlotte 28210 Contact: Stacy Coggins, Stacy.coggins@alumni.duke.edu
207 W. John St., Matthews, 28105 Contact: Janet Cline, Jcline0@yahoo.com Benefits: Friendship Trays
1501 Queens Road, Charlotte 28207 Contact: Sue Varga, sueavw@gmail.com, 704-293-6628 Benefits: Area refugees
NoDA Community Partnership Garden 729 E. 36th St., Charlotte, 28205 Contact: Sunya Folayan, kansascowgrrl@gmail.com Benefits: Local community
Providence Baptist Church 4921 Randolph Road, Charlotte 28211 Contact: Leslie Jones at lcjones@brwncald.com or David Jordan at djordan@providencebc.org www.pbccommunitygarden. blogspot.com Benefits: Friendship Trays and Second Harvest Food Bank source: http://charmeck.org
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Center helps children with special needs through therapeutic horseback riding Once a week, a 9-year-old little boy named Connor* eagerly awaits the day he can make the 30-minute trip from his home outside of Charlotte to RideAbility Therapeutic Riding Center at Cherokee Farms in Clover, S.C. Connor has dabbled in other sports before, such as tennis and soccer, but he’s never found a sport he truly excelled in that left him with a positive impression. Connor has autism, and he can get discouraged if he feels like he isn’t performing as well as his peers. 28
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Connor moved here with his parents around 15 months ago, and while he receives physical, occupational and speech therapies, his mother Brie has always been interested in therapeutic riding for son. Connor’s teacher at school gave Brie the information about RideAbility and Brie gave the owner, Dr. Wendy Schonfeld, a call. The two women soon learned that they were both transplants from the same area in New York. About three months ago, Brie took Connor to the center to meet with Dr. Schonfeld and he began riding lessons soon after. Brie says she has been amazed in the difference in his demeanor since he began working with the horses. “Connor has always loved animals,” she says. “But horses are his passion now. I’ve never seen him so passionate about another animal like this.”
The Path to Therapeutic Riding Dr. Schonfeld, a licensed chiropractor, equine chiropractor and P.A.T.H. (Professional Association of Therapeutic Horsemanship) taught therapeutic riding in New York for many years and says she has always dreamed of opening up her own center. When she and her family decided to make the move from New York to South Carolina, they discovered Cherokee Farms, with its 15 sprawling acres, riding area and numerous trails, and fell in love with the area. There are currently four horses living at the center with plans for another one to join the group soon. All of the horses are males, because Dr. Schonfeld says they are much more suited to working with the riders than mares are. She works with each new horse for two months before using them in therapy sessions and says they all have very calm dispositions.
What is Therapeutic Riding? Therapeutic riding is a form of therapy that uses horseback riding skills as the focus. It differs from Hippotherapy, where the movement of the horse is specifically selected and used to impact desired changes in a client. Each session at RideAbility lasts approximately 30 minutes, with group lessons running a little longer at 45 minutes. The cost for private lessons is $45 per lesson. Dr. Schonfeld works with both children and adults with special needs such as autism, cerebral palsy, Down syndrome, Asperger’s, ADHD, anxiety/stress, etc. She says the benefits of therapeutic riding include increased balance, coordination, strength, self-esteem and confidence. “For me, when I see a child who has cerebral palsy who can’t walk and then gets on a horse and gets from Point A to Point B with freedom, that is such a gift. We’re getting the increased fine motor skills, stretching, flexibility, lengthening and shortening of the muscles,” she says. “We love working with speech, behavioral, occupational and physical therapists in conjunction with the kids. Our goal is that we want our students to become as independent as they can.” For parents who are interested in learning if therapeutic riding is right for their child, Dr. Schonfeld first schedules a screening session.
“I sit with parents and the child and evaluate the type of disability,” she says. “The spectrums are so varied and you have to consider so many things. I do a rider’s profile. I ask a lot of questions. Parents fill out the forms before they get here. We get the client on the horse and see what we’re able to do so I can then plan out my lesson plan.” Each rider has three volunteers and one instructor per lesson. Connor’s mother Brie says her son has always had a good attitude, but taking the riding lessons at RideAbility have definitely enhanced his life in more ways than she can list. His teacher has noticed a positive change in his demeanor and he seems to have more joy in his life now.
The Importance of Bonding with the Horse “I like that there’s a physical component,” says Brie. “Dr. Wendy works with him on overall strength, low muscle tone, flexibility. He does certain stretches on the horse. With other therapies, he tends to be more resistant. It’s different with the riding. It’s something that he looks forward to. He’s the only one there on the horse. Dr. Wendy really sets him up for success, but also challenges him. He feels he’s in control of the horse. Verbal commands are good for his communication skills. It’s been good for his self-esteem. She focuses on incorporating all aspects of horsemanship. She really fosters the importance of bonding with the horse.” Because RideAbility is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit, it relies Kids Rein in Huntersville on donations and volunteers For parents in North Charlotte to keep the program running. interested in therapeutic ridDr. Schonfeld offers ing, the nonprofit group Kids volunteer training workshops Rein also offers therapeutic each Saturday from noon to 2 horseback riding for children p.m. for volunteers ages 14 with disabilities at Latta and older. Previous Equestrian Center in experience with horses is not Huntersville. Lessons are on required. Donations of cash Saturdays at 9 a.m., 10 a.m. and supplies such as feed, and 11 a.m. through July. The hay, grooming supplies and group also offers lessons other items are also accepted. September through December. Connor’s mom Brie has Each 50-minute lesson costs $40 and Kids Rein is also been so thrilled with her seeking volunteers. There are son’s progress that she began riding scholarships available volunteering at the center for families in need. while her children are in school. “I love it,” she says. “I can see how it is therapeutic. Wendy taught me how to groom the horses and get them ready. They have such a sweet temperament.” For more information: RideAbility Therapeutic Riding Center at Cherokee Farms www.rideabilitysc.com. *Connor’s last name has been withheld to protect his privacy. www.littleonesmagazine.com | for local moms ... by local moms
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Mighty Support for Miracle Babies By Candace Richter Photos by Photography by Chanda
he fight for our son’s life began when he arrived unexpectedly 13 weeks prematurely, weighing just over two pounds at Presbyterian Hospital. I vividly remember first meeting our tiny warrior. I didn’t see him in delivery, in fact, I didn’t know if he had survived. He was whisked away, not breathing. Twelve hours later, I was wheeled into the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU). I stared at him—in awe—through his isolette (incubator). He was on life support and all the alarms were sounding, amidst the flurry of doctors and nurses responding to his needs. All I could think of was how this frail little body didn’t resemble a baby at all. He was covered in hair (which I later learned was the lanugo that keeps the baby warm until much later in gestation). He was bright red—the red of a tomato (also common in preterm births). I asked the nurses if I could touch him and I was told that even the slightest touch was overstimulation for babies in this state. As I tried to process that I couldn’t even touch my baby, I began to cry.
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Crying for the trauma he had just endured. Crying in fear for his life and future. And crying for not being able to do what a Mother is created to do, protect her child. Shaw suffered a stroke at birth, injuring his brain. It was just days after his birth when we were told he may not walk or talk. During his NICU stay, he endured 22 spinal taps, MRSA, meningitis and Chronic Lung Disease. Shaw was also diagnosed with hydrocephalous (water on the brain), where he had two brain surgeries, leaving him with a permanent device in his brain that removes excess fluid from his brain to his abdomen. Our son also has been hospitalized and had numerous surgeries for a narrow airway disorder. Shaw continued to overcome adversity and finally came home after 122 days in the NICU. The greatest moment was introducing Shaw to his big (and very patient) 17-month-old brother, Nash. Once we were home, a new battle began. We started to comprehend the long-lasting effects severe prematurity could have on our child.
insurance coverage. We learned that families just like us were having to ration the amount of therapy their child receives due to the financial constraints, ultimately impacting the child’s potential. We were unaware of the financial demands that were in our immediate
Novant Health Foundation, a non-profit 501(c) 3. With the proper therapy and/or equipment, these impairments and disabilities can be minimized. Bee Mighty was established so that families can focus on each other and concentrate on the development of their child without the added stress of financial ruin. 100 percent of the funds donated to Bee Mighty are used to pay the providers directly for these children, directly impacting their development. With such gracious donors and rapidly spreading awareness, Bee Mighty funded its first babies this year. The first Mighty Bee was a 25-weeker micro preemie. He has a tracheotomy and is developmentally delayed, but a very enthusiastic learner. He is four years old and non-verbal, but is said to hum during music therapy. Music therapy is not covered by private insurance, but has proven effective for this family. Bee Mighty is honored to have funded music therapy for this mighty warrior for the year.
Therapy and equipment during the first years of a micro preemie’s life are critical. It can mean the difference of if your child will walk or talk!
The earlier a baby is born, the more severe his or her health problems are likely to be throughout life. Premature babies are at risk for many long-term health issues and disabilities such as: • Cerebral palsy • Breathing and respiratory issues • Vision and hearing loss and impairments • Feeding, speech and digestive challenges • Developmental delays and learning disabilities • Cognitive, social and emotional disorders Therapy and equipment are tools used to identify, intervene and support the challenges these babies face, allowing them to meet their potential and have the best quality of life. Our private insurance covered medical expenses but we were shocked to learn it only provided marginal benefits for therapy. Post-NICU therapies and medical equipment quickly outpace most 34
future to ensure Shaw had the best quality of life. Therapy and equipment during the first years of a micro preemie’s life are critical. It can mean the difference of if your child will walk or talk! Even the best private insurance limits the number of therapies a child can receive. Personally, we will spend thousands of dollars out-of-pocket each year for critical care for our son. Through our blog (www.mightyshaw.blogspot.com), I became acquainted with other parents who had similar stories, some struggling to get basic medical equipment like wheelchairs, helmets or leg braces. Last fall, we launched a foundation to support families and babies just like ours, with the following mission statement: Bee Mighty, supports the tiniest warriors, providing therapy and medical equipment to NICU survivors battling significant medical challenges. Bee Mighty directly enhances the development of a child and improves their quality of life. The Bee Mighty Fund is managed by the
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Mighty by definition means: showing superior power or strength. Exceptional. Invincible. Unlimited. These babies have already had a challenging start to life. With the support of our community, we are single-handedly improving lives of these tiny warriors. We hope that Bee Mighty provides a reprieve for other families following in our footsteps. Please visit our website at www.beemighty.org to see an extended list of alternative and traditional therapies, equipment, upcoming events and qualifications. Someone recently asked me the most wonderful thing about our son. That’s easy—HE IS ALIVE! I’m really grateful that he is walking and talking and continuing to refute any limitations his specialists place on him. He inspires us—and many others—during this journey. Video, website & personal blog http://www.beemighty.org www.mightyshaw.blogspot.com http://player.vimeo.com/video/51437498
These days, people can’t stop talking about healthcare. We can’t stop listening. It’s simple, you know people better when you spend time together. That’s why our nurses go beyond today’s standards and spend more time with you. More time starting conversations about your healthcare. More time listening to your questions and concerns. That way you’re receiving the most attention and best treatment possible. It’s that simple.
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why it is important to your kids By Leslie Petruk, MA, LPC, NCC, BCC our marriage is the foundation of your family. It is where it all started before your children entered the picture. Your relationship is the building block of your family and sustains the weight of the entire family, the good the bad and the ugly. If your foundation isn’t strong, it impacts the rest of the family. Your relationship with your partner is the model you are providing for your children. Your children will learn what a marriage is by what you show them, not by what you tell them. Research shows that a healthy marriage has a direct correlation to children. Marriage requires a lot of work and these days, fewer seem to stand the test of time. However, with a commitment to work on your relationship you will not only strengthen your marriage, but help your children as well. So, the question is, what does a “healthy” marriage look like? Research shows that these are the major qualities that healthy marriages exhibit: • Communication that is consistent and of quality. In other words, you and your spouse communicate regularly and are able 36
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to listen to one another in a caring manner, maintaining respect for the other’s thoughts and feelings. • The ability to effectively resolve conflict plays a huge role in how strong your marriage is. This is also a huge predictor of divorce. • Commitment of each partner to one another and the ability to endure the challenges that arise and maintain connection and caring. • Emotional and physical intimacy creates a sense of love and trust, which are all critical components of a healthy marriage. Emotional support is a necessary ingredient to a healthy marriage. • Positive interactions when spending time together is a building block to a strong marriage where quality is more important than quantity. • Loyalty to your partner and being faithful is a cornerstone to any healthy marriage. • A shared commitment to your children’s development and well-being is critical to maintaining a strong marital relationship. If your relationship is lacking in any of these areas, it is likely
having a negative impact on your child. Often times, parents believe their children are unaware of hostility between them or when conflict is a pervasive component of your relationship. Nothing could be farther from the truth. Children are extremely perceptive to their environment and are well aware when mom and dad are angry at each other. Many parents mistakenly put their children before their marriage. However, as the foundational element of your family and by making your relationship a priority, you are providing a sense of security for your children. How you and your partner treat each other and how you both treat your children is the training ground for your child’s life. They are watching and learning from you how parents treat each other, seeing what a loving relationship looks like, (i.e. children who grow up in a home where domestic violence occurs learn to equate love/marriage with violence) how conflict is resolved, and what happens when someone makes a mistake. If you and your spouse undermine one another in how you parent, you are teaching your child it is okay to disrespect the other parent which will likely result in confusion and/or misbehavior from your child and frustration and discord with your spouse. Researchers agree that children whose parents don’t stay together or those who are raised in an environment of high parental conflict are less likely to do well in life than those who are raised by their two biological or adoptive parents in a lowconflict, healthy marriage. A large factor in children feeling a sense of security and developing a strong self-esteem is the ability of their parents to provide an environment that creates safety by establishing a stable and consistent environment where
parents provide reasonable, clear boundaries and support one another in their parenting efforts. When effective and respectful communication is utilized between you and your partner, your children learn the same strategies. If they witness continual conflict they will emulate that behavior in their relationships. Anxiety and/or depression in children can be the result of an unstable or conflict ridden home environment. When one or more children in a family are “acting out” or misbehaving on a continual basis, they are typically acting out the anger, conflict or issues that exist between their parents. Family systems theory describes this phenomenon and it is not uncommon for a child to improve in therapy and for the couple’s relationship to then fall apart. In other words, when you don’t attend to your marriage and there are issues, your child will take on the emotional burden of your marital problems. It may come out in anxiety, depression, misbehavior or an eating disorder (to name a few)—but it will impact them one way or another. The good news is that if your marriage is struggling in any area, there are things that can be learned. We all enter into our marriage with the lessons we learned in our own family of origin. With a commitment and desire from both parties any deficits you may identify in your relationship can be developed. Not only will your relationship benefit from the work you put in but your children will too! Leslie Petruk, MA, LPC, NCC, BCC is the Director of The Stone Center for Counseling & Leadership which serves children, couples and families. You can get more information on her and her practice at www.thestonecenternc.com.
Understanding through play Through play therapy, children ages 3-10 learn to communicate with others, express feelings, modify behavior, develop problem-solving skills, and learn a variety of ways of relating to others.
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t a little more than four hours’ drive from Charlotte, a trip to Tybee Island, Ga. offers up the chance to lounge on the beach by day and enjoy the sights and sounds of nearby Savannah in the evenings. A small barrier island with three miles of public beach, Tybee Island has numerous restaurants, historical and educational adventures and is also home to a blossoming artistic community. Several movies have also been filmed on Tybee Island, most recently The Conspirator, starring James McAvoy and Robin Wright, and The Last Song, starring Miley Cyrus, Liam Hemsworth and Greg Kinnear. My family recently visited Tybee Island for the first time, and although it unfortunately rained for most of our stay, we found plenty of things to do to keep us occupied.
Where to Stay We rented a condominium located about two blocks away from the beach access, which was nice because our rental cost included two parking spaces, and for the most part, there is no free public parking on Tybee Island (see “A Note About Parking”).Visitors to Tybee can find lodging in Savannah, located about 18 miles away, or check out the island’s hotels, motels, B&Bs, condominiums, or for campers, the River’s End Campground and RV Park.
Where to Eat Popular restaurants on the island include The Sundae Café, Seaside Sweets, Tybee Sugar Shack, Lighthouse
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Pizza and The Crab Shack. Of course, you’ll also want to travel to Savannah for a sampling of their cuisine, too!
What to Do A visit to the Tybee Pier & Pavilion is a definite on your trip itinerary. Not only is it a great spot for people watching and fishing, but the pier also makes a fantastic backdrop for photos and its location is a popular spot for dance and musical performances. Be sure to check out Tybee Island Light Station and Museum, which offers sunset tours during the summer months. General James Oglethorpe ordered construction of the lighthouse in 1732 and the Tybee Island Light Station is considered one of America’s most intact stations due to having all of its historic support buildings on its five-acre site. Located on Strand Avenue, Tybee Marine Science Center is a popular place for visitors and offers educational year-round beach discovery walks detailing coastal Georgia wildlife that live in the sea, under the sand and in the sky. We also visited the small aquarium located in Savannah on Skidaway Island. The aquarium is part of The University of Georgia Marine Extension Service. Sixteen exhibit tanks house live animals in the aquarium and there is an adjoining outdoor nature trail that is fun to explore. We didn’t get the chance to go on any chartered tours dur40
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ing our stay, but Captain’s Mike’s Dolphin Tours comes highly recommended and has been featured on the Discovery Channel, “The Today Show,” “Good Morning America” and in Southern Living. The tours depart from the Lazaretto Creek Marina. Another family-friendly activity is a visit to Ft. Pulaski National Monument, a large-scale outdoor exhibit that includes drawbridges, ditches, dikes and other examples of historic military architecture, as well as outdoor nature trails. There’s even a nearby undeveloped neighboring barrier island, Little Tybee Island, accessible only by boat. Whether you prefer exploring the island by land (bicycles, jogging, pedicabs) or on the water (cruises, kayaking, stand-up paddleboarding) you won’t run out of things to do on Tybee Island. For more information, visit www.tybeeisland.com. A Note About Parking Parking fees are used to help pay for island services such as lifeguards, beach area bathrooms and emergency preparedness. They are also enforced seven days a week from 8 a.m. to 8 pm., so visitors are encouraged to leave cars parked at vacation rentals and use rented bicycles or public shuttles or cabs. Each public parking space is located near “Park and Display” meters that accept debit and credit cards as forms of payment.
the dog days of summer Trying to decide whether or not to vacation with your pet? Consider these destinations.
The American Kennel Club recommends the following before traveling with your pets: • Bring your dog to the vet for a check-up and make sure all vaccinations are up to date. • Pack a supply of your dog’s regular food and plenty of local, bottled water. • Check that any crates your pet is traveling in are large enough to allow your dog to lie down, sit down and turn around and have proper ventilation. • Make sure your dog has a proper leash and collar with identification nametags with your name, the dog’s name, a contact phone number and proof of rabies shots. • Don’t let your dog ride with his head sticking out the window as this can cause eye injuries. • Stop frequently for exercise and potty breaks and clean up after your dog. • Car rides are boring for all members of the family, so instruct your children not to tease or annoy the dog during the trip.
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The Blue Ridge Mountains If your summer plans include vacationing in the nearby mountains, the website PetsWelcome.com recently named the Blue Ridge Mountains as one of the “Top 10 Pet-Friendly Destinations.” Take in a hike and the picturesque views at Chimney Rock State Park. As long as your dog is on a 6-foot leash, he’s welcome on all the trails the park has to offer. You can also take your canine companion to explore Grandfather Mountain, a private park that offers 360-degree mountain views. Visit the waterfalls in Transylvania County or wander through the 262 acres of farmland at the Carl Sandburg Home National Historic Site in Flat Rock. And whether you opt to stay in a cabin, hotel or campground, PetsWelcome.com has a comprehensive listing of all the places Fido is welcome.
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ummer is a great time for kids (and their parents!) to take a break from the frenzied pace of the school year. But sometimes too much downtime can leave children restless, bored and reaching for the electronic devices far more than they should, which eventually leads to less enthusiasm come August. What would you say if we told you there are plenty of fun excursions within a few hours’ driving distance of Charlotte, and they all have educational components built into them? By visiting places that teach history, natural and life science and even astronomy in hands-on learning environments, your children can have a fun-filled summer and keep their minds sharp all at the same time.
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North Carolina Zoo Asheboro, N.C. Driving Distance: 1 hour and 45 minutes to 2 hours www.nczoo.org The North Carolina Zoo has it all—animals, life science, exploration, restaurants, gift shops and playgrounds— spread out over 500 acres of exhibits constructed to resemble the natural habitats of the animals. Best of all, from the Honey Bee Garden to the Kitera Forest, there are a wide variety of experiences and activities within the park designed to help visitors understand the natural world. Plan a full day to explore everything the zoo has to offer and wear comfortable shoes suitable for walking. The property is divided into two sections: North America, which includes animals and habitats from the Rocky Coast to the Sonora Desert, and Africa, which features dense forests and wide-open grasslands. The walking trails are
paved, which works well for families with children in strollers. The zoo also offers strollers for rental. Both North America and Africa will take at least two to three hours each to tour, so allow a total of four to six hours for a zoo visit. In North America, you’ll find animals such as cougars, alligators, harbor seals, a polar bear, otters, black and grizzly bears and bison. Africa features tropical birds, gorillas, baboons, lemurs, rhinoceroses, giraffes, lions, chimpanzees, zebras and ostriches. After two years away from the N.C. Zoo, Aquila, one of the zoo’s two polar bears, has returned after spending some time at the Detroit Zoo. Major renovations to the polar bear exhibit are currently underway, but visitors will now be able to see Aquila once again while the zoo’s second bear remains at the Milwaukee Co. Zoo in Wisconsin for the remainder of the renovations. The popular Dinosaurs exhibit is also back this year and will run through October 2013. (Full disclosure: The 13 animatronic dinosaurs are
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extremely life-like, so keep any anxious toddlers close by as you walk through this exhibit.) Younger children will enjoy the carousel and 4-D Theatre in Junction Plaza, so be sure to purchase combo passes that include these and the Dinosaurs exhibit for the best value. There are picnic areas located on the grounds as well as a free parking lot shuttle to get visitors from one end of the park to the other. There are also several different restaurants and snack bars on site if you choose to eat while on the property.
Old Salem Museums & Gardens Winston-Salem, N.C. Driving Distance: 1 hour and 45 minutes to 2 hours www.oldsalem.org Do you have any little history buffs in your family? If so, a trip to Old Salem Museums and Gardens in WinstonSalem is in order. Learn about the town of Salem, founded in 1766 by the Moravians, a group of Protestant people that began in what is now known as the Czech Republic. Visitors can take a step back in time and benefit from reenactments born from the meticulous records and diaries of The Moravian Church and Salem residents. Costumed tradesmen and women recreate life in the 1700s and 1800s by producing goods such as furniture, metals and foods using traditional 18th and 19th century 44
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practices. Interactive activities include intricate paper cutting, pottery, sewing, fireplace cooking and more. At the Miksch Garden and House, learn about the importance of the garden in the early Moravian household. Activities at the house featured year-round include planting seeds and harvesting the garden, preparing seed beds, making candles, baking bread and various chores in the barn. Walk through the numerous gardens at Old Salem to see open-pollinated heirloom plants, family backyards and award-winning restorations. There are also changing exhibit spaces throughout the museums, such as Photography and Printers and Art in Clay. Round out your visit at one of the eateries located in the Old Salem Historic District, such as Winkler Bakery, Mayberry’s Restaurant, Old Salem Candy Shop and Marketplace or The Tavern in Old Salem (where reservations are strongly suggested).
Hop N Blueberry Farm Black Mountain, N.C. Driving Distance: 2 to 2.5 hours http://www.hopnblueberryfarm.com The Craggy Mountains outside of Asheville are some of the most picturesque in the state, and the owners of Hop N Blueberry Farm take full advantage of the beauty and potential of the land. This agritourism-based farm
specializes in alternative crops such as hops, native blueberries, ramps and milkweed. The farm is owned by Van and Martha Burnette and offers activities of interest to both adults and children. Butterflies are all native and wild under cover in a special flight house where visitors can see them up close. They live among native wildflowers and habitats, and all stages of butterflies can be found at the farm, from eggs, caterpillars, chrysalises and adults. Tours are offered all throughout the summer on Saturdays at noon and 2 p.m. For adults, the Hop Harvest Festival on July 20 will include a tour of the hop yard and samples of beer made from the hops. August 10 will be Pollination Day and visitors will learn about the importance of creative habitats for native pollinators. Children can make bee nesting tubes and pollination plants will be available for purchase. On October 5, the farm will hold Monarch Day where they tag and release the monarch butterfly for its journey to Mexico. The farm actually grows native milkweed specifically because it serves as the host plant for the monarch butterfly. Next summer, the farm’s blueberry bushes will be ready for blueberry picking. Martha Burnette also displays her creations of stained glass and rock carvings around the farm. Hop N Blueberry Farm is a great chance to take part in the living history of the state, as the farm is a seventh-generation sustainable farm that provides plenty of hands-on learning opportunities.
Catawba Science Center Hickory, N.C. Driving Distance: 1 to 1.5 hours www.catawbascience.org The Catawba Science Center offers 18,000 square feet of permanent exhibits related to physical, natural and earth sciences in addition to a planetarium and interactive traveling exhibits that rotate throughout the year. The Milholland Planetarium boasts full-dome digital technology as well as a powerful sound system. Visitors get the chance to view images of the surface of Mars, the sun, the rings of Saturn, black holes and more on a giant-screen with a 30-foot dome. The permanent freshwater and saltwater aquarium exhibits feature a marine touch pool with live sharks and stingrays sure to delight your most curious explorer. On Energy Avenue, kids can create and launch rockets and learn how to power a television or electric fan. Their imaginations can run wild in the “Hall of Astronomy,” “Inventor’s Workshop,” and they can become a basketball star in the “VR Extreme” virtual reality theatre. New this summer is the very special “Flutter-By Butterfly Habitat” exhibit, a seasonal butterfly house designed for North Carolina and semitropical varieties of butterflies. There are no restaurants on site so pack a picnic lunch and make a day of it with your family. Note: The Catawba Science Center is closed to the public on Mondays.
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Balance Balls for Backstroke & Breaststroke Do you have a balance ball? It makes backstroke practice super fun. Instruct your child to keep his feet on the ground, his back on the ball, and practice his backstroke arms! For the breaststroke, have your child balance with his belly on the ball. Now instruct him to kick like a frog and pull with his arms. Separately, of course, unless he is a balancing rock star!
Let’s Race! Have a crew to entertain? Time for a strength-training race! Pair up and have one child lay face down on the ground in push-up position. The second child will hold his legs. Back in school we called this the “wheelbarrow race.” On your mark, get set, go!
At the Park? Practice your kicking legs on the swings. Got bubbles? When blowing suds, remind your child this is what we do in swim class.
Bathtub Fun Practice “one, two, three, under!” by pouring water over your little one’s head. Squirt with toys. Play with a colander. Get your child comfortable lying back in the water. Blow bubbles. Have fun! Remember, swimming is for safety and fun. Let children learn at their own pace, but as with most things, practice makes perfect. (And never, ever leave your child alone near water or the bathtub!) Learn more at www.CharlotteAquatics.com 46
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What: Go on a virtual mammal safari adventure across the globe in this new exhibit. Meet live animals from around the world, see awesome mounted specimens from Africa, Asia, North and South America, and enjoy cool hands-on interactive exhibits designed to bring out the explorer in all of us. Mammal Safari is an original production of the Schiele Museum. When: Through Dec. 31 Where: The Schiele Museum www.schielemuseum.org
The Museum in Motion Festival What: Formerly known as “Rail Days,” the purpose of this festival is to provide as many experiences related to transportation as possible on the 57acre historical site of The N.C.
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Transportation Museum. Purchase a 4pack of family tickets for just $45. Ticket purchase includes museum admission, all events and unlimited rides on both trains. When: June 1 Where: The N.C. Transportation Museum www.nctrans.org
Taste of Charlotte What: Taste of Charlotte serves as the area’s largest food festival and there’s enough food for every member of the family to enjoy. Purchase festival coins to sample restaurant foods or beverages from more than 100 different vendors. The kids can burn off energy on the rock-climbing wall, bungee trampoline or obstacle course. When: June 7-9 Where: Tryon Street (spanning from MLK Jr. Blvd. through 6th Street) www.tasteofcharlotte.com
Summer Pops at Symphony Park What: Summer Pops at Symphony Park is a fun way for families and friends in the community to come together and enjoy outdoor orchestral concerts for five Sundays throughout the summer. Single ticket prices are $10 for adults and free for children under the age of $18. Summer Passes valid for all five concerts can be purchased for $35. When: June 9, 16, 23, 30 and July 3. Prelude acts begin at 7 p.m. and the Symphony performs at 8:15 p.m. Where: Symphony Park, SouthPark www.charlottesymphony.org
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What: Bring kids 12 and under for stories, cookies and juice while cruising Lake Norman on the Catawba Queen every Tuesday and Thursday during the summer months from June 11 through August 15. Reservations strongly recommended. When: The cruise departs at 8:30 a.m. and returns at 10 a.m. Tickets are $10 for adults; $5 per child. Where: Queens Landing in Mooresville www.queenslanding.com
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What: Enjoy traditional storytelling and literacy activities in this community kick-off to summer reading. The festival is hosted by Cornelius, Davidson and North County Regional libraries. When: June 11 at 10 a.m. Where: The Green in front of Davidson Library in Davidson. www.cmlibrary.org
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What: Visit the little farm in the big city and get up close to horses, goats, chickens and more. Also, learn about local farm life and its importance. When: June 15 from 10 a.m. – 1 p.m. Where: Charlotte Nature Museum www.charlottenaturemuseum.org
A Walk in the Woods What: Children ages 5 to 11 will enjoy an educational performance and interactive program with “A Walk in the Woods.” When: June 17 at 2 p.m. Where: Cornelius Library www.cmlibrary.org
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World’s Largest Swimming Lesson What: The nations’ top water safety and training organizations are joining forces to present The World’s Largest Swimming Lesson™ (WLSL) in order to build awareness about the vital importance of teaching children to swim to help prevent drowning. On this day,
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waterparks, pools, and other aquatics facilities around the globe will host local WLSL lessons simultaneously at 11 a.m. in an attempt to break the Guinness World Record. Register to participate at Charlotte Aquatics, where participants will receive a Certificate of Participation as a World Record Holder. Registration and check in will begin at 10:15 – 10:45 a.m. for this free event. Participants 6 months to 2.5 years must go in with a parent and wear a reusable swim diaper. Children over the age of 2.5 years old can go in without a parent. When: June 18 at 11 a.m. Where: Charlotte Aquatics www.charlotteaquatics.com
Gold Panning What: In addition to regular tours, try panning for gold at the Miner's Cabin and learn about the first U.S. gold rush! Free with regular site admission. When: June 22 from 10 a.m. – 4 p.m. Where: Latta Plantation www.lattaplantation.org
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Great American Backyard Campout What: As part of the National Wildlife Federation’s “Be Out There” movement, the Great American Backyard Campout encourages people to get outside and connect with the natural world. The Campout website has packing lists, recipes, nocturnal wildlife guides, exploration activities, nature games, fundraising prizes, directory of Campouts by state to search for large groups to join, and more. When: June 22 Where: Your backyard! www.backyardcampout.org
Butterflies and Dragonflies on the Prairie What: The prairie is home to many critters including several species of butterflies and dragonflies. Embark on a hike to discover some of the beautiful creatures. Registration required. When: June 29 from 9:30 – 11 a.m. Where: McDowell Nature Center www.parkandrec.com
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What: Bring the family and show your patriotism with a fun outdoor celebration featuring a clown parade, fire station water fight, music, food, bike decorating, face painting and more! When: July 4 from 10 a.m. – 1 p.m. Where: Birkdale Village www.huntersville.org
July 4 • Fun Family Fourth of July Town of Matthews What: Let the kids decorate their bikes, scooters and wagons and then join in the People's Parade, a nonmotorized parade from Matthews Station St. (in front of Town Hall) to Stumptown Park. The evening will be capped off with a concert in the park by “Too Much Sylvia.” Bike decorating at 5:30 p.m., People's Parade at 6 p.m., concert at 7 p.m.
When: July 4 at 5:30 p.m. Where: Historic Downtown Matthews www.matthewsfun.org
Sunday Fun Day: America the Beautiful What: Wonder at the glory of the nation through the eyes of American painters. Venture through 150 years of art; then make a colonial tricorn hat, build a Hudson River sailboat and capture the moment in paint in the style of the American Impressionists. When: July 19 from 1 – 4 p.m. Where: Mint Museum Uptown www.mintmuseum.org
Petpalooza What: Visit with rescued and exotic pets and learn about responsible pet ownership. When: July 20 from 10 a.m. – 1 p.m. Where: Charlotte Nature Museum www.charlottenaturemuseum.org
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Space Odyssey What: It’s like being on a spaceship! Enjoy a clear view of the night sky while hearing the great stories of old in an inflatable constellation bubble, the “Star Lab.” Parent participation required. When: July 21 from 2 – 3 p.m. Where: Reedy Creek Nature Center www.parkandrec.com
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Family Campfire What: Enjoy stories, eat s’mores and sing songs around the campfire with family and friends. Come early to get tickets to the Nature at Night Hayride immediately following the campfire. When: July 26 from 7 – 8 p.m. Where: McDowell Nature Center www.parkandrec.com
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arning: The following article contains poo-poo and pee-pee talk that only people who use the words pee-pee and poo-poo will be able to read without gagging. Of course, the people I am referring to are parents of toddlers. The first thing you need to know about mine and Amy’s potty training exploits, is that we stink (pun intended) at it. It could be lack of patience, or doing too much research, or maybe our toddlers just enjoy pooping in their pants. Things didn’t go smoothly with our first daughter, so we decided to try a different technique with Avery. To be frank, we couldn’t remember what technique we used for Addie, because we blocked that horror out long ago. Amy got on the internet to search for the holy grail of potty training. Type in the words “potty training” in the search engine and you will find about 19,900,000 results. That should be easy enough. How long could it possibly take to scroll through 20 million options? Sadly, my wife could probably answer that question. The first thing you will find is there’s a whole cottage (or poo) industry devoted to getting that kid on a toilet. 52
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Summer Movie Express Participating Theatres: Regal Franklin Square Stadium 14 Regal Manchester Stadium 14 Regal Phillips Place Stadium 10 Regal Starlight Stadium 14 Regal Stonecrest at Piper Glen Stadium 22 Regal Birkdale Stadium 16 Tuesdays and Wednesday at 10 a.m. Beginning June 11 June 11, 13 . .The Three Stooges (PG) . . . . . . . . . . .Ice Age: Continental Drift (PG) June 18, 20 . .Diary of a Wimpy Kid: Dog Days (PG) . . . . . . . . . . .Parental Guidance (PG) June 25, 27 . .Mr. Poppers’ Penguins (PG) . . . . . . . . . . .Alvin & the Chipmunks: Chipwrecked (G) July 2, 4 . . .Monte Carlo (PG) Rio (G) July 9, 11 . . .Coraline (PG) ParaNorman (PG) July 16, 18 . .Dr. Seuss’ The Lorax (PG) . . . . . . . . . . .Big Miracle (PG) July 23, 25 . .Yogi Bear (PG) . . . . . . . . . . .Journey 2: The Mysterious Island (PG) July 30, Aug. 1 Racing Stripes (PG) . . . . . . . . . . .Happy Feet Too (PG) Aug. 6, 8 . . .African Cats (G) Chimpanzee (G) www.regmovies.com/Movies/ Summer-Movie-Express
Cornelius Outdoor Cinemas Series Movies begin at dusk June 12 . . . .Kenton Place: ParaNorman (PG) June 22 . . . .Ramsey Creek Park: Men in Black 3 (PG-13) June 26 . . . .Kenton Place: SkyFall (edited) July 10 . . . . .Kenton Place: Here Comes the Boom (PG) July 20 . . . . . . .Ramsey Creek Park: Rise of the Guardians (PG) July 24 . . . . .Kenton Place: Hotel Transylvania (PG) August 7 . . .Kenton Place: The Avengers (PG-13) August 17 . .Aquesta Bank: Madagascar 3 (PG) August 21 . . . .Kenton Place: The Amazing Spider Man (PG-13)
Town of Matthews Summer Movies June 1 – Hotel Transylvania (PG) June 15 – The Odd Life of Timothy Green (PG) June 29 – The Little Rascals (PG) www.littleonesmagazine.com | for local moms ... by local moms
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