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Renee Roberson Two years ago this month, I’m sad to say I was distracted from the usual joy summer break brings to our home. My longtime pet, a dog I had raised from the time he was a 6-week-old puppy, was seriously ill, and for the first time, medication and surgical procedures weren’t going to help. I spent a full week holding him and trying to save my tears for when the kids weren’t around, all while trying to gently tell them that Odie was nearing the end of his life and would soon be leaving us for good. The journey that led us from that point to the decision to bring a local dog who needed a home to live with us inspired the story on page 36, and I hope you are as touched by stories of the two families we interviewed as we were. We also have some great tips for parents who are struggling to figure out the best way to harmoniously blend a home with pets with the addition of a new baby. Now that summer has officially arrived, I don’t know about you, but I for one am truly celebrating a break from carpool, classroom responsibilities, after school activities and weekend sporting events. Around here, summer brings welcome opportunities for splashing in the neighborhood pool, devouring books through Charlotte Mecklenburg Public Library’s summer reading program (I personally plan to take part in the program for adults this year), a much-needed family vacation, fun camp programs, and best of all, sleeping in! But while taking a breather is always a good thing, it can sometimes be a little too tempting to stock the pantry and pool bag with unhealthy treats that don’t do our kids’ little bodies any good in the long run. For some great tips on how to avoid the summer junk food trap, be sure to check out our article on this topic on page 18. We’ve also compiled some great enrichment activities to keep young minds engaged and their motor skills strong, and they are so much fun the kids won’t even realize they are doing real “work.” In preparation for the coming months, Little Ones is excited to bring you a very special issue focusing on safety. Local organizations and businesses in the community are dedicated to educating our children and the parents who love them, from offering tips on water and boating safety to a special “town” with the sole purpose of teaching kids about bicycle, playground and bus safety, stranger danger and more. Whatever your plans, I encourage you to make the most of the memories gathered from the days ahead — I know I will!

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Ask the Therapist . . . . . . . . . . . . . .16 By Leslie Petruk, MA, LPC, NCC Motivate with discipline.

Summer Enrichment . . . . . . . . . . . .10 By Renee Roberson Keep your kids learning this summer.

Warm Weather Wear . . . . . . . . . . .30

Couples Retreat . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .12

Products to Please . . . . . . . . . . . . .32

By Wendy Hershey Time away from the kids is beneficial for your relationship.

Great gifts and where to get them.

Cooking for a Cause . . . . . . . . . . .14

Carolina Cuties! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .46

By Renee Roberson Local boy accomplishes a dream.

Starring local little ones, as themselves ...

Smart Summer Snacking . . . . . . . . .18

Fashion turns up the heat.

DJ Dad: Matt Harris . . . . . . . . . . . .44 What dads REALLY want for Father’s Day.

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By Stacy Cacciatore Fun alternatives to unhealthy treats.

ABC’s of Water Safety . . . . . . . . . . .20 By Kelly Gaines Don't let your child be a statistic.

Safety Town . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .22 By Renee Roberson Important lessons for rising kindergartners.

Family Boating Tips . . . . . . . . . . . . .28 Stay safe on local lakes.

Ready for Baby . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .34 By American Humane Association Help pets adjust to the new baby.

Precious Family Pets . . . . . . . . . . . .36 By Renee Roberson Pets provide much more than companionship.

Community Fitness . . . . . . . . . . . . .40 By Renee Roberson Highland Creek comes together to embrace fitness and support charities.

Travel to North Georgia . . . . . . . . .42 By Renee Roberson See what the area has to offer your family! 6

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By Arden McLaughlin of the Charlotte Mecklenburg Library June and July just might be my most favorite months of the entire year. My birthday is in June and I love the heat of July. There’s nothing more fun than curling up by the pool with my favorite easy read and basking in the sun. It’s so relaxing. In my mind, I don’t have a care in the world. As a Library gal, I also especially love the summer months because we get to see all of your children come through our doors for Summer Reading! We have Summer Reading plans and prizes for all ages (yes, parents, you can participate too) so I hope you’ll drop everything and register your entire family for this great initiative at one of our 20 library locations today! While you’re reading check out these books on two of my favorite subjects: pets and daddys!

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A Ball for Daisy, by Chris Raschka When a favorite toy breaks, a child can feel like his world is crumbling. Chris Raschka’s 2012 Caldecott Medal Winner A Ball for Daisy showcases exactly how your child feels through his signature swirling, impressionistic illustrations and endearing story. A bigger dog breaks puppy Daisy’s toy and it makes her sad, sad, sad. The book contains very few words which will allow you and your little one to create a different story full of emotion each time you open it to enjoy together. Sammy in the Sky, by Barbara Walsh and Jamie Wyeth I love animals more than I love most people. I dream of owning a farm big enough to rescue and foster cats, dogs, goats, and any other mistreated or unwanted pet. Needless to say, when I’ve had to deal with the deaths of my family pets I’ve really struggled with grief. Your little ones may have the same difficulties and that’s why I think Sammy in the Sky by Barbara Walsh and Jamie Wyeth serves as an excellent choice for helping each of us to deal with pet loss. In it, we see how the character loves

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and plays with her family pet up until the day he dies after living a long life. And, you’ll see how her parents help her deal with the loss and celebrate the life of Sammy. It’s not a book to read daily but it’s perfect for that moment when you have to answer questions you don’t know how to answer. Because Your Daddy Loves You, by Andrew Clements and R.W. Alley Dads are often the first heroes in their little one’s life. Andrew Clements and R.W. Alley explore some heroic acts by a daddy in their book Because Your Daddy Loves You. It will be perfect for Father’s Day for your younger children! In it, we see the little girl lose her shoes and ball among other misadventures while spending the day on the beach. In each mini-drama Daddy steps in to save the day just because he loves her. Give this to papa for Father’s Day along with a story about how he saves your days. He’ll love it!

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t’s no secret that every member of the family needs a break from the daily demands of school during the summer — parents included. But according to the experts at Handwriting Without Tears®, a writing curriculum that uses child-friendly and multisensory materials to teach children the fundamentals of handwriting, adding in just a few specific activities each day will help your children work on important pre-writing skills. “Children in first and second grades do an unbelievable amount of fine motor work,” says Peggy Morris, an occupational therapist with Handwriting Without Tears®. “Younger children actually have their muscles fatigue really easily, so we really want them to do more strengthening activities during the summer months.”

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Play outside. Take advantage of outdoor activities to help strengthen the muscles in your child’s hands, says Morris. Give her a box of sidewalk chalk and let her decorate the driveway. She can erase the colorful creations with a plastic spray bottle for added exercise. Painting outdoors is another great activity. Have

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her tape a piece of paper to a vertical surface and finger paint. “When you’re holding a brush, your hand is pretty static,” says Morris. “Using the pointer finger makes you use the smaller muscles in your finger.” Another fun idea is to hang a clothesline at your child’s shoulder height and have her pin something on it, such as a doll’s clothes, with wooden clothespins.

Take it indoors. Use common household items and educational materials a little differently for more practice. Use Play-Doh without the cutters and shape tools. Working your child’s hands through the dough, including rolling it into smaller balls, activates a whole new set of muscles in the hand. Squirt some shaving cream on a tray and have him draw circles and shapes into it with the pointer finger. Small crayons require more control and work as a good pre-writing activity. Put out crayons most of the time and save markers for special use. Mark a calendar with five to ten minutes every day, says Morris. “A little bit every day builds a nice foundation.” For more information about Handwriting Without Tears, visit www.hwtears.com.

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blessed to have a husband who sends me away every other year on a girl’s trip and he has his male adventures as well. But if we are not intentional about planning, we find it has been a long stretch without a break. In my work, I have really enjoyed working with some special couples who are long overdue in creating a truly memorable husband and wife moment. Once families begin growing, we sometimes forget how important those times can be for our relationships and our own stress level. You may be thinking that sounds great but it is not possible for us right now. You can be creative. Most grandparents would love the opportunity for a night or two alone with the grandchildren. You can trade off with a friend or sister-in-law. If that isn’t in the cards, stay at a hotel in Charlotte for one night. When my children were very small that was the most I was able to do mentally. I was close enough to be home in a moment’s

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Kristi Moore, who lives in Mooresville with Jacob and his younger brother, recommends encouraging children to help in the kitchen by first teaching them how to measure ingredients, tablespoons and cups while making a specific dish. “This will give them the basics on measurement, getting familiar with the kitchen, and will give them practice reading a recipe,” she says. She says working on the cookbook with Jacob has been worth the time and effort it took initially compiling and testing the recipes. “All of the hard work has been worth it to not only be able to help the Levine's Children’s Hospital and the March of Dimes, but it has greatly helped my son's confidence and selfesteem by giving him something to aspire to and accomplish.”

Q&A with Jacob Q. How did you first discover your love for cooking? A. When I was around 7 years old, I started helping my mom in the kitchen. Since I can’t really do many sports because of a disability, I found that cooking was a creative outlet for me. Q. Do you prefer cooking entrees or baking? A. I prefer entrees because there is a lot of variety and I can get very creative. Plus, I like cooking a meal for my family. Q. Where do you find the inspiration for your recipes? A. I was first inspired by watching the

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and she is very creative with her recipes. I hope to meet Rachel Ray and be on her show. Q. How did you get the idea to compile a cookbook in order to raise money for your favorite charities? A. The idea to combine cooking with my desire to help other kids came to me when I started writing all of my recipes in a notebook. My mom agreed that if we could gather 150 recipes then she would have a book published.

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Scooby Doo Rice Cream 1 bag Minute Rice, white 1 (15 oz.) can tropical fruit salad, drained 2 c. miniature marshmallows 1/4 c. sugar 1 1/2 c. Cool Whip Prepare rice according to package directions. Drain and pour it into a large mixing bowl. Let the rice cool completely. Once the rice has cooled, add the fruit marshmallows, sugar and Cool Whip. Stir until well blended. Chill in the refrigerator for 30 minutes before serving.

Q. Can you tell us a little bit about why Levine Children’s Hospital and the March of Dimes are so near and dear to your heart? A. This is because things started out a little scary when I was born 3 months premature at Carolinas Medical Center. I was in the hospital for a long time and had many surgeries to save my life. So, I decided to give back to these organizations to help other kids that may be going through a scary time. Q. What advice would you give to children who don't have the confidence in themselves to achieve their goals? A. I would tell them that no matter what anyone tells you, just believe in yourself and you can achieve your dreams. Just believe in yourself and you can do it! For more information, visit www.shakebatternroll.com.

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various times that we “catch our child doing something well or right” we reinforce that behavior with marbles in their marble jar. So it might sound like, “Mary, I really appreciate how you got dressed and ready for school without being asked and even helped your sister with her breakfast — you just earned two marbles for that.” We as parents, so often point out all the things our children do wrong forgetting that when we focus on what they do right they will be motivated to behave. When we are consistent about reinforcing their “good” behavior, my girls start tripping over themselves to behave to try to earn marbles.

“Our actions are much more powerful then our words and we must model the behaviors we want our children to learn.” The secret is, they can’t ask for a marble and they never know when and for what they will receive marbles. It’s the slot machine theory — you keep putting coins in the machine but you never know if/when you will win anything back or hit the jackpot. You can make a project out of decorating the jars and marking lines on the jar where rewards are earned along the way, and then when the jar is full, a reward that motivates your child is earned. The rewards do not have to be things. This is where you engage your child in the process. They can help identify things that are meaningful to them. It can be things like a special date night with mom or dad, choosing their favorite meal for dinner, a day of fun of their choosing (i.e. hiking, going to the park, swimming, a sleepover with a friend — it doesn’t have to involve costly events or things at all — particularly because time spent with you is more meaningful to your child then any toy or computer game that loses value very quickly).

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You can negotiate and agree on the “rewards,” but they have to be things that are going to motivate your child or it won’t work, so you must engage them in the process and listen to what they tell you. Obviously, it all has to be done within reason. Each of your children may have different rewards they are working towards. If there is a particular object that your child has been wanting, such as a new bike, new doll, computer game, etc., then you can use this as an incentive system. But limit the “things” that you use as rewards. This is a great way to begin the lesson of working for what you get and helping your child to take pride in the things they have. The use of choices and consequences is another way to teach your child through discipline. So instead of “Sue, don’t leave your toys in the middle of the floor,” you would say, “Sue, I know you want to go outside and play, but if you choose to leave your toys in the middle of the floor, you are choosing to lose your outdoor play time.” Another example may be, “Brad, I know you don’t like wearing your bike helmet, but if you want to ride your bike, you must wear your helmet. If you choose not to wear your helmet, you are choosing not to ride your bike.” This puts the control in their hands — they are making the choice, but they are also learning the consequences of their choices. As parents, we will always make mistakes – I had to apologize to my 13year-old just this evening. But by demonstrating the ability to take responsibility for our mistakes, apologize and ask for forgiveness, we teach our children the ability to do the same. As parents we have to remember that just as we wouldn’t want to be shamed and berated for our parenting mistakes, our kids shouldn’t be shamed for theirs. They need loving guidance and support, and so do we as parents. We’re all learning together!

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encourage healthy eating while the kids are out of school

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ummer is here at last and the kids are out of school. While summer vacation relieves some of the pressure and hustle and bustle from the school year, it also brings a host of new pressures, including making sure that your kids are filling up on the right foods and not snacking on junk all day. Without the structured routine of school, it can be easy for families to fall into the trap of letting their healthy eating routine fall to the wayside. Try out these tips to keep your kids eating healthy throughout summer vacation.

Lead by example

Get kids involved

A study by the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics Foundation found that the number one factor in influencing children’s eating habits is their parents’ behavior. By eating healthy and choosing nutritious foods, children will follow in those same footsteps. Another study, by professor Mildred Horodynski of Michigan State University’s College of Nursing, found that toddlers were less likely to consume fruits and vegetables if their mothers didn’t eat them regularly. Set a good example by snacking on fruits and vegetables and eating balanced meals with your children.

Bring your kids to the grocery store or farmer’s market and allow them to pick out the fruits and vegetables for their meals. Consider planting a container garden to get the kids involved with the growing and caring for fruits and vegetables. Kids can also help in the kitchen by cleaning, prepping or cooking it with you. Give kids age-appropriate tasks so they don’t get injured or overwhelmed. Allow kids to help decide what to make for dinner and plan out a menu for a balanced meal. Cooking with kids offers many educational opportunities, including learning math from measuring, fine motor skills by pouring and language by reading and following the directions for a recipe. Research shows that kids are more likely to eat foods that they help select and prepare.

Make fruits and veggies accessible Keep unhealthy goodies out of sight and make the healthy treats easy to see and grab. Simply having healthy foods available makes it much more likely that your children will grab something nutritious. Keep a bowl filled with apples, bananas and oranges in the center of your table. Place cutup celery, carrots and snow peas in clear containers in the front of the fridge. Ensure fruits and vegetables are front and center in the fridge instead of in the crisper drawer. 18

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Stacy Cacciatore the author of several books focused on making eating healthy fun, including: Candy Around the World, a book about teaching children about history and cultures around the world through cooking, Culinary Duct Tape: Greek Yogurt: Just as versatile, not as tacky and Guilt-Free Cupcakes: Indulge without the Bulge. She lives in Fort Mill with her two children, ages 9 and 5, and husband. Visit her blog, Five a Day the Fun Way, at http://fiveadaythefunway.com.

By Kelly Gaines

learn the ABCs of water safety

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t was a beautiful, spring day in 1997. The sun was shining, a slight breeze blowing and I was planting flowers in my backyard. As I gardened I watched my 18month-old daughter, Allie, play with her toys. But as I was digging in the dirt, I happened to look up just in time to see her reach for a toy that had fallen in the pool. I watched as she quietly and quickly sank. I knew at that moment that if I had not been present, my daughter would have surely drowned. I had always thought that if my daughter ever fell in our pool, I would clearly know. Contrary to what I had always believed, there was none of the flailing and splashing that I thought would occur to alert me. That day I enrolled her in swim lessons at Charlotte Aquatics. The fear of my daughter drowning in our pool was more than I could bear and I wanted to do everything possible to keep her safe. That was 14 years ago. My daughter is now 16 and I now own Charlotte Aquatics. I am a huge advocate for water safety and drowning prevention. It’s interesting how things work out. Sadly, drowning is the second leading cause of accidental death in children ages 1 to 14 years old. The majority of the children that drown are under the age of 5 years. I urge parents to please not be lulled into thinking that you will hear your child if they fall into a pool. Contrary to what most people think, there typically is no yelling out and waving of arms to alert someone. Drowning is a quick and silent killer.

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Never leave your child unattended by any body of water (bathtubs included). It is so easy to think that nothing will happen to your child if you just run and get the phone or go to the bathroom. According to the U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission, most young children who drowned in pools were last seen in the home, had been out of sight less than five minutes, and were in the care of one or both parents at the time. Children can lose consciousness in 20 seconds or less.

Here are 8 ways to keep your child safe: 1. Enroll your children in a water safety or learn to swim program. It has been shown that children who have swim lessons have an 88 percent less chance of drowning. 2. Never leave a child unattended in a pool, hot tub, or bathtub even for moment. Adult supervision is essential. 3. Always designate a responsible adult to serve as the “water watcher” — a supervisor whose sole responsibility is to constantly observe children in or near the water. The water watcher should: • maintain continuous visual and auditory contact with children in or near the water. • not engage in distracting behaviors such as talking on the phone, preparing a meal or reading. • keep children who cannot swim within arm’s reach at all times. 4. Have a phone by the pool to dial 911 in an emergency.

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5. Keep rescue equipment by the pool. 6. Enclose the pool completely with a barrier. Fences should be at least five feet high and have self latching, selfclosing gates. Layers of protection are important, so consider using door and pool alarms and pool safety covers. 7. Parents and caregivers should learn infant and child CPR. 8. Educate children about the rules of water safety. All of these tips can really be combined into what I like to call the ABCs of water safety. A = adult supervision is always needed. B = Barriers. Make sure you have multiple layers of protection around your pool or spa. C = Classes. Enroll your child in swim lessons and make sure as an adult you know CPR. I am lucky that my story ended happily. Many others are not as fortunate. I can’t even imagine the pain and anguish a parent goes through when they lose a child, especially to a preventable death like drowning. Please do not let that happen to you. Learn your ABCs and follow the eight steps above to keep your child safe. Kelly Gaines is the owner and Big Fish of Charlotte Aquatics. Charlotte Aquatics provides swim lessons for children beginning at 6 months old. For further information call 704.341.9673 or visit www.charlotteaquatics.com. Kelly also provides “Water Safety Story Time” to elementary and preschools and water safety and drowning prevention talks to moms groups.

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summer program teaches important lessons to rising kindergartners

ive years ago, a local mom approached the Town of Huntersville Police Department with the idea of offering the program Safety Town to rising kindergartners. She had fond memories of attending Safety Town as a child and wanted her own children to be able to experience it, too. The program has grown so much in popularity that the town now offers it over the course of three weeks each June, providing more than 200 children the opportunity to learn life-saving lessons on strangers, traffic, playground, bus and bicycle safety. According to the history of the program, Safety Town was the brainchild of a police officer in Ohio many years ago, and the model for the safety lessons taught in the “miniature” town format is used in various states across the country. At this time, Huntersville is the only town in the Charlotte area to offer Safety Town.

“The best part is that the kids are so bright-eyed and bushy-tailed,” says Sgt. Tom Seifert with the Huntersville Police Department, who organizes and coordinates the event each year. “They are so excited to be there.” The program costs $55 and includes a T-shirt, class photo, bicycle helmet, daily snacks and drinks. It spans four days during the weeks of June 11, 18 and 25 during both morning and afternoon sessions, and it is only open to Huntersville residents. Children participating in Safety Town arrive each day to a child-sized town, located in Blythe Elementary School, that includes working traffic lights, miniature street signs (stop, pedestrian crossing, railroad crossing, etc.), crosswalks and eight colorful little buildings representing Huntersville. Seifert says the program has grown so popular that when registration opened this past March, all open spots were filled within two hours. “Safety Town is a staple in the community now,” says Seifert. “It’s a good program and it’s a great service that we’re able to provide to the community. We’re able to reach out and touch some kids early on in kindergarten.” “My daughter will be attending this summer, and I am sending her because I went to Safety Town as a child in Greensboro, and loved it,” says Huntersville mom Christine Schattner. “It’s just a really interesting and fun way for kids to learn about road safety, and what our police men and women do to keep us safe. Plus, getting to ride around a mini-town is too much fun!” For more information, visit www.huntersville.org. www.littleonesmagazine.com | for local moms ... by local moms

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Southern Piedmont Adoptive Families of America (SPAFA) Adoption Expo 2012

What: The Adoption Expo offers couples or singles, who want to start a family, the opportunity to talk with adoption professionals from across the country in one convenient trade show setting. There will also be several break-out sessions offered on topics such as getting started in adoption, financing an adoption and deciding the best adoption path for you. A local book vendor will also be on hand with adoption-related materials for sale. Keynote speaker this year is Dawn Davenport, Executive Director of Creating a Family. She is also the recipient of an Angel in Adoption Award from Congress, and the author of two

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“how-to” adoption books. She will be speaking on “Adoption Works For Kids and Family.” When: June 2 from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. Where: Stallings United Methodist Church, Stallings www.spafa.org

Taste of Charlotte

What: Entering its 14th year, Taste of Charlotte serves as the area’s largest food festival and there’s enough food for every member of the family to enjoy. Purchase festival coins to sample restaurant foods or beverages from more than 100 different vendors. The kids can burn off their energy on the rockclimbing wall or inflatable jumpers. When: June 8-10 Where: Tryon Street (spanning from MLK Jr. Blvd. through 6th Street) www.tasteofcharlotte.com

Summer Pops at Symphony Park

What: A Charlotte summer tradition since 1983, Summer Pops at Symphony Park is an opportunity for families and friends in the community to come together and enjoy outdoor orchestral concerts for four Sundays in June and one additional America-themed concert in July to celebrate Independence Day. The Charlotte Symphony Youth Orchestra will usher in the summer season with a June 10 performance. Single ticket prices will remain the same in the 2012 season, with ticket prices at $10 for adults and free for children under the age of 18. Symphony Park Summer Passes valid for admission to all five concerts will be available for $35. When: Sundays, June 10, 17, 24 and July 1, 3. Where: Symphony Park, SouthPark www.charlottesymphony.org

Summer Movie Express Summer is the perfect time for you and the kids to catch up on the movies you might have missed throughout the year . . . or just revisit favorite flicks at a discounted price.

All shows begin at 10 a.m. and are $1 admission. Participating Theaters Regal Stonecrest Stadium 22 & IMAX Regal Franklin Square Stadium 14 Regal Arboretum Stadium 12 Regal Starlight Stadium 14 Regal Birkdale Stadium 16 June 12, 13 June 19, 20 June 26, 27 July 3, 4 July 10, 11 July 17, 18 July 24, 25 July 31, Aug. 1 Aug. 7, 8

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Kit Kittredge (G), Journey 2 (PG) Happy Feet Two (PG), Dolphin Tale (PG) Yogi Bear (PG), Legend of the Guardian (PG) Cats & Dogs (PG), Hugo (PG) Adventures of Tin Tin (PG), Puss & Boots (PG) Be sure to check out www.regmovies.com Kung Fu Panda 2 (PG), Rango (PG) prior to attending a showing to ensure no Spy Kids (PG), Rio (G) changes to the film have been made. Hoodwinked Too (PG), Chimpanzee (G) Arthur Christmas (PG), Smurfs (PG)

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Teaching kids to swim since 1996 Offering morning classes – Perfect for preschoolers!

The World’s Largest Swimming Lesson

What: The nation's top water safety and training organizations are joining forces to present The World’s Largest Swimming Lesson™ (WLSL) in order to build awareness about the vital importance of teaching children to swim to help prevent drowning. On this day, waterparks, pools and other aquatic facilities around the globe will host local WLSL lessons simultaneously at 11 a.m. in an attempt to break the Guinness World Record. Register to participate at Charlotte Aquatics; space is limited so register prior to this free event. When: June 14 at 11 a.m. Where: Charlotte Aquatics www.charlotteaquatics.com

Family Day

What: Encourage your child’s creative side by participating in special hands-on art activities and museum tours during Family Day at the Bechtler Museum of Modern Art. Admission is free for children; adults receive a discounted ticket price of $4. Art activities are recommended for ages 5 and older and will take place on the museum plaza (weather permitting), inside the museum and in the classroom. Hands-on art projects will illustrate the methods and materials addressed in the exhibition “Mid-Century Modernism: 1957” and the Bechtler Collection. In addition to art projects, children will learn about the art and artists of the Bechtler collection through a museum-wide scavenger hunt and family-friendly tour. When: June 16 from noon to 4:30 p.m. Where: Bechtler Museum of Modern Art www.bechtler.org

Charlotte Nature Museum

What: Visit the little farm in the big city and get up close to horses, chickens and much more. Other animals you might just spot include sheep, ducks, a goose, rabbits (kittens and adults) and even a miniature horse. Creature Features programming includes crafts, puppet shows, storytelling and more. When: June 16 from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. Where: Charlotte Nature Museum

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Summer fun for the whole family! Take a train ride! Enjoy special events! Explore the exhibits! See history in motion!

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North Carolina Zoo

The Bear Necessities What: Explore life as a bear through storytelling, crafts and keeper talks. Bring your teddy bear to the Teddy Bear Clinic for a check-up with zoo veterinarian staff. Be sure to visit the special “Dinosaurs” exhibit, featuring 15 animatronic dinosaurs, a paleontologist’s tent and more while you’re there. When: June 16 Where: North Carolina Zoo in Asheboro www.nczoo.org

Summer Movie: The Muppets

What: Enjoy a free screening of “The Muppets” as part of the Town of Matthews Parks & Recreation Summer Concert & Movie Series. Food and treats will be available for purchase. Pre-movie activities begin at 7:30 p.m. When: June 16; movie begins at approximately 8:30 p.m. or dusk. Where: Stumptown Park www.matthewsfun.org

Ray’s Splash Planet

Father’s Day at the Planet What: Splash away the day

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decorating, a clown bounce, face painting, children’s arts and crafts, food and a water fight between the fire stations. When: July 4 from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. Where: Birkdale Village www.huntersville.org

Musical Petting Zoo

What: Make your own music! The Musical Petting Zoo, presented by the Symphony Guild of Charlotte, brings real instruments to ImaginOn for children to try out. When: June 22 at 11 a.m. Where: ImaginOn: The Joe & Joan Martin Center www.imaginon.org

What: Cap off the holiday with children’s activities and music before a movie showing on the giant screen. When: July 4 at 6:30 p.m. (Movie begins at 8:30 p.m.) Where: Cornelius Town Hall Lawn www.corneliuspr.org

Water, Water, Everywhere!

Fun Family 4th of July

What: Enjoy water play outdoors at the Nature Center. When: June 25 from 10:30 to 11:15 a.m. Where: McDowell Nature Center www.parkandrec.com

4th of July Celebration

What: The whole family is invited to Huntersville’s annual free 4th of July celebration that features bike

4th of July Celebration in Cornelius

What: Come decorate your bikes, scooters and wagons, and then join in the People’s Parade, a non-motorized parade from Matthews Station Street (in front of Town Hall) to Stumptown Park. Bike decorating at 5:30 PM, People's Parade at 6 PM, concert at 7 PM. When: July 4; bike decorating begins at 5:30 p.m. Where: Historic Downtown Matthews www.matthewsfun.org

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Kit Kittredge (G) • Journey 2 (PG) Happy Feet Two (PG) • Dolphin Tale (PG) Yogi Bear (PG) • Legend of Guardian (PG) Cats & Dogs (PG) • Hugo (PG) Adventures of Tin Tin (PG) • Puss & Boots (PG) Kung Fu Panda 2 (PG) • Rango (PG) Spy Kid (PG) • Rio (G) Hoodwinked Too (PG) • Chimpanzee (G) Arthur Christmas (PG) • Smurfs (PG)

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Fantastical Fireflies

What: Discover nature’s light show with a peek into the life of our local fireflies. The program begins in the classroom with a short introduction to the natural history of this unique creature and then continues outside. Be prepared to walk one to two miles as you search for the fireflies’ flashes of life. When: July 5 from 7:30 to 8:30 p.m. Where: Reedy Creek Nature Center www.parkandrec.com

Pan for Gold

What: Learn about Charlotte’s gold-mining history with a tour of the circa 1800 Latta home and pan for gold at the miner’s cabin. Free with regular site admission. When: July 7 from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. www.lattaplantation.org

Shark Week

What: It will be love at first bite! Fall in love with all things shark during this weeklong event made just for kids. Sit in on shark-themed dive shows, participate in interactive activities such as ‘Sharkeology,’ ‘Shark Stations,’ and ‘Shark Shapes,’ then play in the shark cage, take your picture in the mouth of a shark and marvel at the sharks in the Great Ocean Tank. Shark Week activities are free with general admission or membership. When: July 27 from 9 a.m. to 6 p.m. Where: South Carolina Aquarium www.scaquarium.org

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Keep Youngsters Safe and Happy on the Water Charlotteans are lucky enough to be surrounded by water, as Lake Wylie, Lake Norman and Mt. Island Lake all provide us with hours of summer fun. We do, however, need to be reminded of the rules of the water to protect our family. Brush up on your marine safety with these tips!

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s anyone familiar with the pastime knows, boating offers one of the best ways for parents to escape the distractions of everyday life and bond with their kids in nature. However, before heading out, it's important for parents — especially those new to boating — to follow a few basic safety steps that will help make the experience more enjoyable for the whole family.

Life Jackets Save Lives. Be sure all kids wear a life jacket when the boat is moving. In most states, this is not just sound advice; it's the law. The U.S. Coast Guard requires that all children under 13 years of age must wear a Coast Guard-approved life jacket while the vessel is being operated unless the child is below deck or in an enclosed cabin onboard. Children’s life jackets come in different sizes appropriate to the child's body weight. Make sure you have one that fits each child onboard and let the children try out their life jackets in the water so that they know how they work to keep them afloat. Infant life jackets have a strap that runs between the legs and extra flotation behind the head to ensure the baby floats face up at all times.

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Safety Starts Ashore. Get the kids in the habit of putting on sunblock and a hat even before you get to the boat. If you have small children, put them in their life jackets in the parking lot. That way, they’re protected if they accidentally tumble off the dock into the water.

Clear the Decks. When you climb aboard, have everyone stow their gear and any water toys away neatly, but keep the life jackets on. Be sure there are no loose lines, mops, buckets, etc. on deck that someone might trip over.

The Captain’s in Charge. The adult who is driving the boat should give the kids a safety lesson before leaving the dock. Make it a point to tell them that there can only be one captain, and it’s important to follow his or her orders quickly and quietly. Set a few basic rules, including: • No running on deck. • No sitting on the side rails, foredeck, dashboard, or swim platform after the boat is under way. • Advise children to leave “one hand for themselves and one for the boat” by using grabrails to steady themselves if the boat rocks. Instruct children not to walk around while the boat is in motion. The Sea Tow Foundation is a 501[c][3] nonprofit organization dedicated to boating safety and education. For more information, please visit www.boatingsafety.com.

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ready for Help your furry friends adjust to life with a new member of the family

No matter how much you plan ahead, the addition of a new family member may be difficult for your pet. ••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••• Remember, your dog or cat was your first “baby” and is used to being the center of your attention. So it’s understandable that she may experience something akin to sibling rivalry when you introduce a new human baby into your household.

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ou can minimize this feeling by working with her before you bring home your baby. For example, because your new baby will demand a lot of your time and energy, gradually accustom your pet to spending less time with you. Drastically decreasing attention and frequently scolding, ignoring, or isolating your pet after the baby comes home will likely make your pet feel stressed. If your pet is particularly attached to the motherto-be, another family member should develop a closer relationship with the animal. That way, the pet can still feel loved and provided for while mom is busy with the baby. Below are several suggestions to make introducing your pet and baby safer and smoother for all. Be sure to carry out these changes months before the baby’s arrival to best prepare your pet. Take your pet to the veterinarian for a routine health exam and necessary vaccinations. Spay or neuter your pet. Not only do sterilized pets typically have fewer health problems associated with their reproductive systems, but they are also calmer and less likely to bite.

Consult with a veterinarian and pediatrician if the thought of your newborn interacting with the family pet makes you uncomfortable. By working with these experts before your baby is born, you can resolve problems early and put your mind at ease. Address any pet training and behavior problems. If your pet exhibits fear and anxiety, now is the time to get help from an animal behavior specialist. If your pet’s behavior includes gentle nibbling, pouncing, or swatting at you and others, redirect that behavior to appropriate objects. Train your pet to remain calmly on the floor beside you until you invite him on your lap, which will soon cradle a newborn.

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Consider enrolling in a training class with your dog, and practice training techniques. Training allows you to safely and humanely control your dog’s behavior and enhances the bond between you and your pet. Encourage friends with infants to visit your home to accustom your pet to babies. Supervise all pet and infant interactions.

And after the baby is born . . . Welcoming a new baby is exciting for your family. Remember when you first brought home your dog or cat? But before you bring your baby home from the hospital, have your partner or friend take home something with the baby's scent (such as a blanket) for your pet to investigate. When you return from the hospital, your pet may be eager to greet you and receive your attention. Have someone else take the baby into another room while you give your pet a warm, but calm, welcome. Keep some treats handy so you can distract your pet.

Accustom your pet to baby-related noises months before the baby is expected. For example, play recordings of a baby crying, turn on the mechanical infant swing, and use the rocking chair. Make these positive experiences for your pet by offering a treat or playtime. To discourage your pet from jumping on the baby’s crib and changing table, apply double-stick tape to the furniture. If the baby’s room will be off-limits to your pet, install a sturdy barrier such as a removable gate (available at pet or baby supply stores) or, for jumpers, even a screen door. Because these barriers still allow your pet to see and hear what's happening in the room, he’ll feel less isolated from the family and more comfortable with the new baby noises. Use a baby doll to help your pet get used to the real thing. Carry around a swaddled baby doll, take the doll in the stroller when you walk your dog, and use the doll to get your pet used to routine baby activities, such as bathing and diaper changing. Talk to your pet about the baby, using the baby’s name if you've selected one. Sprinkle baby powder or baby oil on your skin so your pet becomes familiar with the new smells. Finally, plan ahead to make sure your pet gets proper care while you’re at the birthing center.

After the initial greeting, you can bring your pet with you to sit next to the baby; reward your pet with treats for appropriate behavior. Remember, you want your pet to view associating with the baby as a positive experience. To prevent anxiety or injury, never force your pet to get near the baby, and always supervise any interaction. Life will no doubt be hectic caring for your new baby, but try to maintain regular routines as much as possible to help your pet adjust. And be sure to spend one-on-one quality time with your pet each day — it may help relax you, too. With proper training, supervision, and adjustments, you, your new baby, and your pet should be able to live together safely and happily as one (now larger) family. Editor’s note: While the HSUS.org is a resource for this article; it is an entirely separate group from the Humane Society of Charlotte. For more information about adopting a pet through the Humane Society of Charlotte, or for more behavior, training, or veterinary tips, visit www.humanesocietyofcharlotte.org

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our precious pets For area families, canines provide much more than companionship

By Renee Roberson Photography by Chanda

or as long as I can remember, pets have been a part of my life. There are photographs of me as a toddler snuggling with an array of loving animals, from small playful kittens to dogs ranging from the pint-sized to gentle giants, and even a few rabbits here and there. Each time I lost pet, I mourned the loss of not only a beloved friend, but also a family member. Two years ago, our family said goodbye to Odie, our 16-year-old male Chihuahua, and I swore there would be no more pets for me for a while. I didn’t want to imagine the process of getting so attached to a pet that I cried for days after such a loss. But as I watched my two small children wander around the house trying to figure out where their beloved friend had gone, I knew our home had a void that needed to be filled, and the change could only benefit all of us positively.

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While on assignment at a local rescue shelter, I met Sonic, a small adult furry Chihuahua mix whose brown eyes reminded me so much of the dog I had lost two months before. Before I knew what I was doing, I was calling my husband and telling him he needed to bring the kids to meet a dog who needed a good home. Today, Sonic has adjusted to life in our home quite well. While nervous about the kids at first, he now begrudgingly allows them to greet him in the morning with hugs and carry him around the house occasionally. He doesn’t let me start my morning or end the day without a walk around the block, and he always knows how to comfort us when we’re not feeling well (he’s an excellent nurse).

Goodbye to an old friend . . . and a new beginning Charlotte resident Katie Miller adopted her first rescue dog, Sadie, a Lab/border collie mix to be a companion for her beagle Parker 13 years ago. She wanted a dog to keep Parker company during the times she and her husband were at work. The two dogs endured a move from Texas to North Carolina, as well as the birth of their son, Ben. When 14year-old Parker passed away last May, the entire family was devastated. Miller said she knew immediately that a new pet would help cushion the blow of losing such a longtime family pet. Their family visited Dogs All Day in Charlotte, a dog daycare that also partners with the Humane Society of

Charlotte to foster puppies and older dogs that need a break from the shelter environment. There, they met their future puppy, Layla. “I sat down and these huge puppies were just licking us,” says Miller. “Layla would come up and love on us and then get hot and go lay down.” The Millers returned to visit the puppy the next day and knew she was the one for them. While the Humane Society of Charlotte had named the puppy — a German shepherd/boxer mix — Berlin, the Millers thought she looked more like a Layla and changed her name once they adopted her. “It took her about a month to win over our cranky Sadie, who was still wandering around the house looking for her sister Parker,” says Miller. “We don’t know how we ever got along without Layla and truly believe she was a gift sent to help us get over losing Parker. When I see the bumper stickers that say ‘Who rescued who?’ I completely get it.” Miller’s son, 7-year-old Ben, has especially enjoyed the newest addition to the family. “This time she could be more like his dog,” says Miller. “He could have more of a say in which dog we picked. He helped in her training. They are good friends now.” Miller says her most recent experience with Layla has only further solidified her belief in adopting animals. “Within 50 miles of my zip code, there were more than 5,000 dogs available,” she says. “That blew my mind. It took a really special dog to create a whole new space in our hearts.” www.littleonesmagazine.com | for local moms ... by local moms

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A guardian angel to keep him safe In Concord, Jaclyn and Daniel Smith also believe a special dog is going to change their lives as well, but for a very different reason. Their 4-year-old son Jackson has Type 1 diabetes, and soon, he will be blessed with a diabetic alert dog specially trained to detect changes in blood sugar levels before they become dangerous. Jackson, who also has an older sister named Maddy, received received his diagnosis when he was 2 1/2 years old. His mother, Jaclyn Smith, is a pediatric nurse who recognized the symptoms of Type 1 diabetes early and asked for his urine to be tested. 38

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In Type 1, the pancreas does not produce insulin, a hormone needed to convert sugar (glucose) and starches and other food into energy. People with Type 1 diabetes must inject insulin several times a day. This type of diabetes can occur in any age group, but it is usually diagnosed in children. Jackson currently uses an insulin pump to administer doses of insulin throughout the day. Last December, Smith’s good friend Crystal Jones happened to stand in line at a store behind someone with a service dog. She texted Smith and asked her if there were service dogs available for diabetics. “She said ‘if you want one, let me worry about the money,’” says Smith.

“She has spearheaded the whole thing.” The two women did research and discovered Warren Retrievers and its charitable extension, Guardian Angel Service Dogs, run by diabetic Dan Warren and located in Virginia. According to their website, Guardian Angel Service Dogs, Inc. helps “provide education and raise awareness about the role of service dogs and the different types of assistance they provide to persons with invisible health issues such as Type 1 diabetes, seizure disorders, hypoglycemic unawareness, post traumatic stress disorder, traumatic brain injury and some spectrum disorders such as Asperger’s and Autism.” The two organizations have received an endorsement from the Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation. The cost of purchasing a diabetic service dog is high, ranging from $19,000 to $25,000, but the organization assists families in marketing and fundraising ideas to help raise the money. At press time, the Smith family had already received $13,000 in donations, and has up to two years to pay the cost of the dog. Smith says she and Jones hope to

help other families raise money for their own service dogs after they’ve met their initial fundraising goal. The Labrador retrievers go through initial scent testing in Virginia, and then are tested for temperament. A trainer from Warren Retrievers will deliver Jackson’s dog when the puppy is around 12 weeks old, and stay with the family for four days. The trainer will then come back every 90 days to ensure that the dog is completely comfortable with assisting in public service for about 18 months after the initial adoption. The dog will be able to go just about anywhere with Jackson to help monitor his blood sugar levels, including school, and sleep with him at night. Once trained, a diabetic service dog can detect dangerous spikes in a child’s blood sugar levels 20 to 40 minutes before a glucometer and will signal caregivers with a special bark. “What’s so hard about Type 1 is that you can do everything right and still feel out of control,” says Smith. “Our biggest concern is that he won’t wake up in the morning. You cannot get complacent with this disease . . . our hope with this dog is that we can sleep through the night eventually. It has been nineteen months since we had a full night’s sleep.” Smith says she has been overwhelmed with the amount of generosity from both her friends and those who have sent in donations. Jeff Gordon signed a crew shirt and donated it for a raffle. Her community had a yard sale that netted $1,600. A Busch Series driver donated $5,000. In the meantime, Jackson is beyond excited to meet the new companion (be it a girl or boy) that he’s already named “Charlie Jones Smith,” and his pet will surely give a new meaning to the term “man’s best friend.” For more information, visit guardianangelservicedogs.org.

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t’s no secret that Charlotte is great place to participate in physical activities with your family, but in recent years, even entire neighborhoods and communities have found even more fun ways to engage in healthy competition and raise money for a number of charitable causes. Highland Creek is just one of those communities. Located between Highways I-77 and I-85 in northern Mecklenburg and western Cabarrus counties, the neighborhood is abundant with swimming pools, running trails, tennis courts and its very own 18-hole Championship golf course. Three years ago the Highland Creek Community Association worked together to put on their first 5K with 400 runners, and this year the organizers are gearing up for the neighborhood’s first kids’ triathlon, Tri the Creek. Bridge Sprinkle joined the Highland Creek Fitness Center as the sports aquatic director four years ago, and says that part of her job is help raise community fitness involvement. Putting on a kids’ triathlon has always been part of her long-term vision for Highland Creek. “Our goal is to make this an annual event and we eventually hope to put on an adult triathlon,” says Sprinkle. She says her biggest challenge in organizing such a large communitywide sporting event is getting the word out to the approximately 15,000 residents who call Highland Creek home. Tri the Creek will take place on Sept.16 at the Christenbury Pool in Highland Creek with a maximum of 200 participants ages 6 to 10 years. The event will function as a traditional swimbike-run triathlon format, with participants divided into waves according to their age and progress. Tri the Creek is not just limited to residents in the community but is open to any children in the age range who wish to compete. A portion of the proceeds will go to Bright Blessings, a volunteer-led 501(c) 3 non-profit organization bringing joy and support to homeless children. Race participants are asked to bring one unused toy to the event as donation. Sprinkle says she hopes the upcoming event will inspire families to get out together this summer and combine training for Tri the Creek with regular run •w swimming, biking and running opportunities. alk The Highland Creek Community Association also hosts the annual Run the Creek 5K each March.

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Highland Creek secondgrader wins triathlon group essay contest Amelia Boys (who also happens to be the daughter of Little Ones co-publisher and creative director Kerrie Boys) won the essay contest sponsored by the HuntersvilleConcord Triathlon Club this past spring and, as a result, is now hooked on kids’ triathlons. As a group, the club decided to motivate children away from indoor video games and help get them moving outdoors. They held an essay contest with the goal of finding a local youth to sponsor in triathlons. Amelia was the first winner that the group has chosen. In her essay, the 7year-old wrote of her wish to own a brandnew bike of her very own, as all her previous bikes had been hand-me-downs from her older sister. As part of her prize package, Amelia won a new bike, racing gear, an underwater, videotaped swim-training session, a six-month membership to Huntersville Family Fitness & Aquatics and paid entry into all four of the triathlons in the Birkdale Animal Hospital Kids Triathlon Series.

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hen most people think of Georgia as a travel destination, the bustling city of Atlanta — with popular attractions like the Georgia Aquarium, World of Coca-Cola and the Atlanta Braves — usually comes to mind first. But located approximately four hours from Charlotte, the North Georgia Mountains promise a tranquil trip filled with beautiful views, peaceful rivers, mystical excursions and the chance to witness the “birth” of some very famous collectible dolls. Former Charlotte resident Deana Brooks, who now lives in Northeast Georgia, gave us some tips on her favorite family-friendly places to visit in the area.

Visit the Patch If you have fond memories of adopting your own Cabbage Patch Kids®, or have a special child in your life who stands in awe of the of the baby dolls born in the mysterious secret “cabbage patch,” a trip to Babyland General Hospital in Cleveland is a must for your itinerary. Situated on 650 rolling acres in the North Georgia mountains, Babyland General is a picturesque southern-style home where your child can witness the birth of a hand-sculpted Cabbage Patch Kid® Best of all, admission to the hospital is free. From July 9-20, children can sign up for a $15 craft class and design their own souvenir T-shirts. Parents are invited to assist children with their craft or take a break on one of the rocking chairs located on Babyland General’s front porch. www.cabbagepatchkids.com

Fairy Playhouses and Hobbit Homes Enchantment awaits at Sleepy Hollow, a whimsical fairy garden located in Blairsville, about 90 miles north of Atlanta. Sleepy Hollow is a family-run business started by artisan Art Millican, Jr., a former Disney artist and model maker who has designed and created many displays found in America’s leading theme parks. Admission to the

Woodland Fairy Village is free, and visitors are invited to walk through a variety of displays large enough for children to enter. Millican’s studio and gift shop are also open to the public Mondays through Saturdays except for major holidays. Millican’s fairy houses are all handmade and crafted in his woodworking studio, and visitors can watch him designing and building exciting and mysterious toys, houses and magical fairy doors. The gift shop sells a number of art supplies and Automata, Millican’s own line of mechanical toys with simple gears and mechanisms. www.whimsicalfairygarden.com

Terrific Tubing The North Georgia mountains offer many opportunities for outdoor enthusiasts, including tubing down the Chattahoochee River in the town of Helen. Helen provides a unique experience in and of itself, as it is a recreation of a Bavarian Alpine village with cobblestone streets. The Cool River Tubing Company makes plotting out your adventure a breeze, whether you’re interested in one or two-hour excursions. Tubing season runs from Memorial Day through Labor Day. Tubes are available to rent for as little as $5, and The Cool River Tubing Company has food and ice cream concessions, as well as a picnic

area. The water in the river is mostly shallow, with only a few areas going over a tuber’s head. There are also dual water slides located at the company for those seeking a different type of thrill. www.helencvb.com and www.coolrivertubing.com

Animal Adventures Visit with A to Z animals at The North Georgia Zoo and Petting Farm. The Wildlife Wonders Zoo boasts more than 80 species of exotic animals on 30 acres of countryside in Cleveland, including a waterfall and creek. At the Paradise Valley Farm Petting Zoo, which is also a working farm, visit with such unique animals such as mini-potbelly pigs, the silky chicken and a rare miniature zebu cow. Paradise Valley Farm works closely with the American Livestock Conservatory to ensure a future for many breeds of the livestock that are currently dwindling. Take a trailer ride to see the camels, water buffalo and yaks. The North Georgia Zoo is open Fridays, Saturday and Sundays throughout the summer. www.northgeorgiazoo.com For more information on other activities or accommodation choices, visit: www.exploregeorgia.org

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By Matt Harris

all we really want for Father’s Day

“We do want sleep. Sleeping late into the morning works, as does a late afternoon nap.”

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t was suggested to me that this article should be about Father’s Day gifts. The problem is that I, like most guys, am not very complicated, or sentimental. While writing this article I have struggled to remember what I have received for my six Father’s Days to date. Of course, I also struggle to remember what movie I watched last night. All that being said, I am going to give some basic Dad’s Day pointers. Never, ever stress about what to get us for Father’s Day. We will never fully understand what you went through to find the perfect gift, so therefore; we will never fully appreciate what you went through. Don’t add the misery of searching for the perfect Father’s Day gift to your already stress-filled life. He’ll probably rack his brain to remember what it was a year from now. Even if you got your husband a ride on a space shuttle, he’d be flying around in space and an astronaut on board would ask him how he got his ticket, he’d probably respond, “I don’t really remember.” We do want food, although, breakfast in bed is overrated. I find it very awkward to eat pancakes or waffles in bed. Balancing the tray while the kids bounce on the bed around you is like trying to drink a beer while running. Sure, you appreciate the beer, but it would be more enjoyable if you could drink it while sitting at an actual bar. However; you could bring us coffee and the paper, which leads me to the next item. We do want thirty minutes of morning quiet to read the sports page, watch ESPN, and drink coffee. We do want a 10-minute Sunday morning toilet sit uninterrupted. We do want sleep. Sleeping late into the morning works, as does a late afternoon nap.

We do, at some point in the day, want alcohol. We do not want a wine-free day, but we do want a WHINE-free day. We do not want little things that will clutter our desk. No mini-pool tables, or little guys made out of recycled something or other bent into the shape of a golfer. Please, and I can’t stress this enough, nothing with the words “world’s best,” “most awesome,” or “greatest,” followed by the word “Dad,” printed on a coffee mug, BBQ apron, t-shirt, beer mug, or underwear. While you’re at it, don’t put our actual first name on anything either. We know who we are, and our friends know our name. Anyone who doesn’t know our name, we probably want to keep it that way. We do want to spend some time with the family. My 6-year- old, Addison, loves the day more than I do. Do something that makes the celebration special for the kids. Seeing them happy makes us happy. We do not want you to waste more than 58 cents or 58 seconds on a card. If the kids want to make a card, that’s great. The reality is that we’ll read Hallmark’s words out loud and either chuckle, and say, “That’s funny!” or say “That’s so sweet!” Either way, we are really just playing along. The card probably wasn’t that humorous, and it probably didn’t really make us mushy. If you must get us a card, don’t spend too much time picking it out, because we won’t spend that much time remembering what was written in it. Do have the kids make something for us. We love to see their smiling faces when they give us something they made. Just don’t expect us to keep it forever. That doesn’t mean we don’t appreciate and love it. It just means kids make tons of stuff in eighteen years. We could fill up a couple of storage units with that crap, uh . . . I mean those sentimental beautiful objects. Dads are simple folks. We like beer, sports, and TV. Most importantly, we want to know, despite our simple ways — and despite fact that we can be a bit annoying to live with — that we are loved and adored. Happy Father’s Day! Matt Harris is the co-host of the Matt and Ramona Show, aired Monday-Friday from 3-7 p.m. You can e-mail Matt your thoughts at Matt@mattandramona.com.

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Time to get crafty again! This one is easy but MESSY. Unlike me, you should wear gloves. Take a burned out bulb with your needle nose pliers, grasp the silver “connection” at the base of the bulb. Squeeze it tight, twist it and pull it our of the bulb. It will take some force, but it will pull out. Now you have a tiny hole - use a screwdriver and/or a wine opener to “clean”out the filament parts left behind by just scraping it out from inside the “silver screw” part. It will take some elbow grease to get it clear. Next, cut a 12-inch piece of heavy wire and wrap it into the grooves of the base of the bulb. Curl the top to make a “hook”and curl the bottom to make it pretty. Your bulb is ready for you plant. Break apart the plant so you have just enough that will slip down into the bulb. First drop a little dirt in- and follow with a piece of your plant. “Help” it into the bulb opening with your screwdriver. Put a few drops of water in and voila! A tiny terrarium.

You will need: burned out clear bulb needle nose pliers screwdriver tiny leafed plant heavy wire gloves

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