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Beth Packard I’ll be honest. When I sat down to start this letter, I wasn’t in the best of moods. I was feeling the full pressure of resuming fall activities, steeling myself for a home remodeling project that would leave me without a stove for four days and trying to figure out if my kids had all their homework ready to turn in. Luckily, I walked away from the computer for a bit and cleared my head. I started looking over the layout for this issue and thinking about some of the great stories we’ve lined up for you. Slowly, I began to realize that this letter, as part of the October/November issue, should really focus on being thankful. Last year, my physician announced it was time for me to go ahead and get a baseline mammogram. From that visit, I got a call back for more images. I’m not going to lie. The two weeks I had to wait in between the initial visit and follow-up were filled with anxiety, to say the least. I had to really rethink my priorities and lean on friends and family for guidance. Fortunately, everything turned out fine, although I still have to return to my radiologist twice a year as a precaution. I know how lucky I am. In this issue, one mom shares her own story of discovering she had breast cancer at age 31 and how she endured the treatments that followed and discovered her dream of motherhood. A very special little boy got to fulfill his dream of becoming an NFL football coach for a day through the help of a local foundation. A puppy with special needs teaches children that there’s nothing wrong with being a little different. And we have an inspiring story about a local couple that became parents through adoption and how a supportive network of friends and family helped them get through the first year of their son’s life. Of course, we also have plenty of places for you to find Halloween festivities and get organized for the hectic holiday shopping season. But in the meantime, as you turn the pages of this issue and read these inspiring stories, I encourage you to think of all the things you are thankful for in your life. I’ll bet the list is longer than you can imagine. Editor
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Unconditional Friends . . . . . . . . . . . .10 By Rebecca Vincent A locally published children’s picture book helps children learn to accept the uniqueness of others.
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By Emily Nanney, Charlotte Mecklenburg Library Children’s Services Coordinator The Library recommends the following tips and book recommendations for parents:
Ages 0-6 months Talking to your baby during this time is vital because his or her brain will make important language connections. Babies learn new words more quickly if parents talk and sing to them regularly. Distinguishing one language from another can be seen in babies as early as four days old, and they soon become attentive to the sounds and words that matter. Here are some additional helpful tips parents can do at home: Tip 1: Read peek-a-boo books. Tip 2: Share nursery rhymes and songs. The Library recommends the following books for ages 0-6 months: • Molly Bang, Ten Nine Eight • Marc Brown, Finger Rhymes/Hand Rhymes • Marie Torres Cimarusti, Peek-A-Moo • Penny Gentieu, Baby! Talk! Wow! Babies • Anne Miranda, To Market, To Market • Charlotte Zolotow, Wake Up and Good Night
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Every sound in every language can be discerned by infants at this age, and by 10 months, they have learned to screen out foreign sounds and focus on sounds of their native language. Children who have been surrounded by words from an early age almost always become fluent in speech/language by age three. Children who have been deprived of these experiences have a difficulty mastering language as an adult. Here are some additional helpful tips parents can do at home: Tip 1: Cognitive and motor and language development can be improved with discovery books. Tip 2: Rhyming games and songs stimulate learning at this age. Tip 3: Mirror play also helps with listening/language skills and hand-eye coordination. The Library recommends the following books for ages 6-12 months: • Byron Barton, Airplanes (or Boats) • Eric Carle, Do You Want to Be My Friend? • Mem Fox, Time for Bed • Bill Martin, Brown Bear, Brown Bear, what do you see? • Jane Simmons, Come Along Daisy We invite you to visit your nearest library location, sign your child up for his very own library card, and join us for baby storytimes. We’ll have fun and assist you in creating those building blocks of educational success. For more information on storytimes or to find your closest branch, visit us at cmlibrary.org/programs today.
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“My child has no friends,” is the number one concern that Charlotte resident Charlie Petrizzo hears from parents of children with special needs or disabilities. He and his wife Sandy, through their non-profit Project 2 Heal, seek to address that challenge. Their mission is “Healing the World…One Puppy at a Time,” and they do this by breeding Labrador retriever puppies to be service dogs or skilled companion dogs.
The Perfect Companion When Charlie left his job in the financial world to pursue his dream of becoming a dog breeder, he and Sandy knew they wanted to do it for a cause that would improve the world. Since engaging the idea of breeding puppies for individuals with special needs and disabilities, they have pursued every opportunity to reach their non-profit’s mission. Project 2 Heal’s primary objective is to reduce the time and cost associated with placing a service dog. From the beginning the Petrizzos worked to incorporate excellence in every step. “Through their history Labrador retrievers have been bred to bring us all the attributes that we would want in a companion animal,” Charlie explains. “They are patient, eager to please, and eager to work.” The original dogs used for Project 2 Heal were obtained from one of the top Labrador retriever breeders in the country. After a litter is born, Charlie selects puppies to donate that represent the best health, temperament, and
As Project 2 Heal grows, the Petrizzos find more ways to support their mission. In addition to breeding Labrador retrievers, they also train some puppies to serve as skilled companion dogs for local children who are living with Down syndrome or autism, and often allow children who are waiting for a dog or who cannot own a dog to come play with the
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A Kindred Spirit Two-and-a-half years ago, one of the litters at Project 2 Heal included a puppy that would allow the Petrizzos to expand their positive reach yet again. Bean is Born, a 40-page children’s book, is the true story of an inspiring fox-red Labrador retriever, Bean, who lives with disabilities.
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intelligence for the responsibilities expected of them so that the organizations with whom Project 2 Heal works receive puppies ideally suited for completing specialized training as service animals.
puppies at Project 2 Heal. This is the same candor and spirit that permeates all the organization’s work. “We’ve got the dogs here, let’s use them to do something positive,” explains Charlie.
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Shortly after Bean was born, the Petrizzos noticed that he was having trouble eating and was falling down frequently. Suspicious that something was wrong, they took him to the vet. The diagnosis was not good. Bean had
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Easter Seals UCP Opens First Community Accessible Multi-Sensory Room on East Coast A way to help local children with sensory processing disorders is now a reality and will offer hope to children with the opening of the Easter Seals UCP Yager Group Multi-Sensory Environment (MSE). Located at the Easter Seals UCP Children’s Center at 716 Marsh Road, this is the first community accessible room on the East Coast. According to the Sensory Processing Disorder Foundation, 1 in every 6 children experiences sensory symptoms that affect everyday life functions. As a result of this impairment, normal daily living can be difficult and therapy is needed to help the child work through their sensory issues. The MSE will serve kids who have trouble processing one or more senses, such as sight, hearing, smell and touch. Children with autism, disabilities and even typically developing children will benefit from the multi-sensory environment, which will either serve to rev up their senses or calm their senses depending on their needs. An MSE can even help children overcome their sensory impairments and often progress in their development by improving brain activity. “Thanks to the support of the community and leadership of so many individuals, we now have a way to help children struggling with sensory impairments,” says Betsy Dailey, community director for Easter Seals UCP. “Our organization spent a lot of time researching other MSE’s across the country and the studies have shown that through appropriate sensory stimulation in a controlled environment, children may overcome sensory challenges and progress faster in their development.” The MSE was made possible as the result of many large community donations from corporations and individuals. It will be staffed with specially trained therapists and personnel. Appointments are required to ensure space and attention for each child, and can be made by calling 704.522.9912. Easter Seals UCP works as a lifelong partner to people managing disabilities and mental health challenges. Established in 1945, the nonprofit serves more than 20,000 individuals and their families across North Carolina and Virginia through an array of community-based services and solutions.
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mega esophagus and a neuro-muscular disease called myesthenia gravis; the vet recommended that he be put down. Bean was undaunted by his challenges, and Charlie recognized a kindred spirit. When Charlie was five he was struck by a car with such impact that he suffered major brain trauma and had to overcome paralysis. His parents brought home a puppy to keep him company during the long recovery process. Then, at sixteen, a work accident gave Charlie severe third-degree burns and damaged the muscles in his left torso to such an extent that the muscles had to be removed. Scars and chronic pain remain with him today. Charlie didn’t give up and neither did Bean.
Bean inspired the Petrizzos to consider how he might help them address the friendship gap between typical children and children with special needs.
Though Bean’s care would require extra attention, medicine three times a day, and a special chair for feedings, the Petrizzos committed to keeping him in their lives. And even though he couldn’t keep up with his brothers and sisters, Bean continued to demonstrate that his disabilities did not define him. As they watched him grow, Bean inspired the Petrizzos to consider how he might help them address the friendship gap between typical children and children with special needs. His story provided a powerful example of love and acceptance despite differences that the Petrizzos knew would resonate with a young and impressionable audience. The result was Bean is Born, a children’s book published by Spark Publications, that helps teach children about love and acceptance despite an individual’s differences. When Charlie and Bean are in the community reading their book they can easily start a conversation about how even though Bean is different, he has a lot of friends – even that the young boy or girl interacting with Bean at that time is his friend, too. “Bean is Born is a fantastic way to show that differences are okay. It teaches that different does not mean broken…” says parent Lindsy Maners. And that’s exactly what the Petrizzos, through Bean, hope to communicate to all children. Bean is Born, written by Peg Robarchek and illustrated by Chad Lewis, can be purchased at Project 2 Heal’s website, www.project2heal.org. The cost is $25, and all sales benefit Project 2 Heal puppies and the children who need them.
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mastering the martial arts Lance Lawsin trains hard to become a Taekwondo World Champ By Renee Roberson | Photos courtesy of the Lawsin Family
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ine-year-old Lance Lawsin is on the move, quite literally. During Oct. 17-19, he will be competing at the American Taekwondo Association (ATA) Fall Nationals at the ESPN Wide World of Sports at Disney World in Orlando, Fla. In December, he moves on to compete in the National Belt League Super Grands World Championships. Lance, a student at Southlake Christian Academy in Huntersville and the son of Ro and Stella Lawsin, has been competing in the ATA, the largest martial arts organization in the world, since the age of 5 years. He studies at ATA Karate in Huntersville under 6th Degree Black Belt Master Gonzalo Cabrera. This past July, Lance won four World Championships at the ATA Tournament of Champions in Little Rock, AK. He competed against competitors in the 8 & Under 1st Degree
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his father, Ro Lawsin. Of the six events, Lance won in Traditional Forms, Traditional Weapons, Creative Forms and Extreme Weapons and finished second in Creative Weapons and Extreme Forms. “I couldn’t be any more proud of how Lance did this past summer and how he worked hard for four to six hours each day for a month leading up to the World Championships,” says Ro. “He knew what type of work, commitment and sacrifice it would take to achieve his goals and he reached them and then some.” “The biggest thing I’ve learned from being in Taekwondo is having the discipline to not only compete in tournaments but also use it in school and home,” says Lance. “If you set goals and work hard and put your mind to achieving those goals then anything is possible, including becoming a World Champ!”
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Jack Bolton fulfills dream of coaching his favorite NFL team By Renee Roberson Photos by Brian Christiansen
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f there’s one thing 8-year-old Jack Bolton knows, it’s football, particularly Charlotte’s own Carolina Panthers. He’s been coaching his classmates on the playground since first grade, and he’ll be the first to tell you that watching football helped him improve in math, especially where multiples of seven are involved.
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About Make-a-Wish® Central and Western North Carolina Mission: To grant the wishes of children with life-threatening medical conditions to enrich the human experience with hope, strength and joy. Total Patient Outcome: A wish come true helps children feel stronger, more energetic, more willing and able to battle their lifethreatening medical conditions. 97 percent of wish families and 96 percent of health professionals observe increases in wish kids’ emotional health. 89 percent of nurses, doctors, social workers and child life specialists combined believe that the wish experience can influence wish kids’ physical health. 74 percent of parents saw the wish experience as a positive turning point in the wish kids’ battle against their illnesses. Local Scope and Reach: • The largest wish-granting organization • More than 3,000 wishes granted locally to date • Grants a wish every 1 1/2 days • Central and Western North Carolina Chapter serves 51 counties, Alamance Westward • 100 percent local—Mission is delivered at the grassroots level The average cost of a wish is $6,000 Who is Eligible: A child with a life-threatening medical condition who has reached the age of 2 years and is younger than 18 at the time of referral. What a Child Can Wish For: The child’s imagination is always the driving force in determining, designing, and coordinating the wish experience. Wish requests typically fall into one of five categories, but every wish is unique and powerful.
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But Jack, a Davidson resident, also knows he will never be able to actually play football, because he’s spent his entire childhood in a wheelchair, a result of being born with spinal muscular atrophy (SMA). SMA is a genetic disease characterized by a progressive loss of muscle control, muscle movement, and increasing muscle weakness, including respiratory health. Instead, Jack keeps positive and explains that he’d like to coach high school or college football one day. In August, the Make-a-Wish® Foundation of Central & Western North Carolina brought Jack one step
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closer to his dream of coaching football, in the most extraordinary way possible. Jack signed a one-day contract to act as the Carolina Panthers head coach during Fan Fest on Aug. 3. “First, I got hired,” says Jack. “Then I met Coach Rivera, met the players and went onto the field and coached.” He also got the chance to walk through the Panthers playbook with the Panthers community relations director and had a private meeting with Coach Rivera, where they studied the plays. Jack prepared for the day by writing a speech for the players, but when the time came, he hesitated, overwhelmed
by all the events of the day so far. Instead, Coach Rivera took the time to read the words Jack had written so carefully to the team, words that included, “Today I’ll be looking for mistakes while I’m on the field . . .” The speech earned Jack a standing ovation from the players. Jack’s parents, John and Holly Bolton, expressed gratitude and amazement at all the details that went into granting Jack’s wish. “He had his own locker with Panthers gear and it was right beside Coach Rivera’s,” says Jack’s dad, John Bolton. “He had a playbook, a binder, a visor and a shirt.” During the practice, Jack kept a close eye on the team and carefully took stats, gave Cam Newton an autograph, and collected autographs from the other players. He also became a bona-fide celebrity, with news of his hiring being reported on news outlets everywhere, including MSN, The Bleacher Report and Yahoo Sports.
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summer may be over, but check out these BIG plans for water fun in 2014 Two New Mega-Slides Under Construction at Carowinds Water Park his fall, Cedar Fair Entertainment announced plans for a multi-million dollar investment into Carowinds, including providing guests with a broader variety of food service options, additional airconditioned venues and expanded capacity to feed and entertain the thousands of daily visitors to the park. The new investment will also enable the construction of two new water slides to Carowinds’ adjoining water park, Boomerang Bay, for summer 2014. The new slides will stand over four stories high and add 600 plus feet of sliding thrills for visitors. Surfer’s Swell will travel a total of 263 feet, plunging riders into an angled wall that mimics the sensation of catching an ocean wave. Guests will then enter a final tunnel for a splash
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landing into a pool at the bottom of this 45-foot tall experience. Dorsal Fin Drop offers 351 feet of slide and takes riders through a curved tunnel that blasts them into a bowl. Like a shark circling its prey, guests will spin and whirl before sliding into the corkscrew exit. “Cedar Fair is committed to building more excitement and value for our Carowinds guests,” says Bart Kinzel, Carowinds vice-president and general manager. “The slides are just the first part of a multi-year park investment plan that will continue to deliver the best-day-ofsummer that guests have come to expect.” Construction is currently underway on the slides and they are set to make their debut in May 2014.
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With a little ribbon, yarn and some white clothes, your little ones can clown around! If you don’t knit, you can use leg warmers for the “socks” and a knit cap covered in yarn loops for the “hair.” If you don’t sew, just glue the “tie” and “suspenders” directly onto the shirt. Bright and happy colors will make the outfit. Have fun with it!
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halloween treats Delight the kids and avoid candy overload with these simple and tasty options!
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pooky skeletons, ghastly goblins and frightening Frankensteins may be the seemingly spookiest part of Halloween, but the amount of fat, sugar and calories consumed by trick-or-treaters is the real scare. A study conducted by Children’s Healthcare of Atlanta found that the average trick-or-treater consumes approximately 4,800 calories, one-and-a-half cups of fat and three cups of sugar from the candy collected on Halloween night. This is based on visiting 15 houses and collecting 60 pieces of “funsize” candy on Halloween night. The consumption of that much sugar is shocking. Sugar suppresses the immune system, causes insulin resistance, obesity, heart disease and tooth decay. Increased sugar consumption has also been linked to learning disabilities, hyperactivity and nutrient deficiencies.
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However, it’s not just the candy collected on Halloween night that is problem. Halloween is one of leading holidays for candy sales. Americans purchase nearly 600 million pounds of candy a year for Halloween. Much of that candy is eaten throughout the month of October in the days leading up to Halloween. It’s a month-long sugar fest. Between the Halloween parties, trick-or-treating and fall bake sales, what’s a parent to do? The best way to avoid the sugar-filled junk is to make your own healthy treats. There are many Halloween treats you can make that are delicious without all of the added sugar, preservatives and food coloring that are in the typical pre-packaged Halloween candy. Whip up some of these healthier Halloween recipes for treats that that you won’t be too spooked to eat.
Hallow-Hummus Cups It’s much easier to carve a pepper than a pumpkin and it’s just as much fun! Carve an orange bell pepper for a festive treat.
Orange You Glad It’s Not Candy? This is a great way to provide kids with their serving of fruit for the day. The orange is filled with vitamin C, which can boost the immune system, lower blood sugar, destroy detrimental bacteria and help asthma sufferers. • Orange • Peach • Grapes Cut a circle from the top of the orange and scoop out the pulp. Try to keep the orange pulp in tact so you can to cut up and serve it inside the orange. Chop the pulp and peach. Combine with the grapes; set aside. Carve a spooky face. Spoon the fruit mixture back inside the orange.
• 1 orange bell pepper • ½ cup prepared hummus Cut the top off of an orange bell pepper and scrape out the seeds and membrane. Carve a pair of eyes, nose and mouth from the pepper. Fill the pepper with hummus. Serve with carrots, pretzels or pepper strips.
Candy Corn Sundae Candy corn is the top selling Halloween candy, but it’s definitely not a healthy option. It’s primarily made from sugar, corn syrup and wax. A mere 19 pieces contain 32 grams of sugar. Substitute this sugar-filled treat with a healthier option that kids will love. • ¼ cup mandarin oranges • ¼ cup pineapple chunks • 2 Tbsp. light whipped cream • Candy corn Layer pineapples, mandarin oranges and light whipped cream in a glass. Top with a few pieces of candy corn pieces for fun!
Jack-o-Toast • 1 slice of cheese • 1 slice whole-wheat bread Use a pumpkin cookie cutter to cut a pumpkin shape from a slice of cheese. Cut out the eyes, nose and mouth with a knife. Place the cheese on a slice of bread and toast in the toaster oven. Cut the crusts from the bread if desired. You can make this Halloween healthy and fun by trying these nutritious treats.
Stacy Cacciatore the author of several books focused on making eating healthy fun for the entire family, including: Lunch, by me! – a book and complete toolkit for making school lunch easy and fun, Candy Around the World, a book about teaching children about history and cultures around the world through cooking, Culinary Duct Tape: Greek Yogurt: Just as versatile, not as tacky and Guilt-Free Cupcakes: Indulge without the Bulge. She lives in Fort Mill with her two children, ages 11 and 7, and husband. Visit her at Five a Day the Fun Way, at http://fiveadaythefunway.com. www.littleonesmagazine.com | for local moms ... by local moms
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Zeke’s circus of a party! A first birthday party raises awareness for adoption, gives thanks to family and friends By Renee Roberson Photos By Bryan Bazemore Photography
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or Blair Miller and Johnathon Bobbitt-Miller, July 7 was a day to remember, and it wasn’t just because there were approximately 88 people in attendance, along with a baby tiger cub, a lemur, ponies and plenty of birthday cake for one special birthday boy. They admit the party, held at Trump National Golf Club in Mooresville was a little over the top, but they wanted every detail to be perfect and show their gratitude for all the help and generosity they experienced when they brought their newborn son Zeke home a little more than a year ago.
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Miller and Bobbitt-Miller decided to begin the adoption process through an agency in California in January 2012. They say their plan was to hopefully adopt after the Democratic National Convention in Fall 2012, as both men have careers that would call for them to put in long hours during the event (Miller is a local news anchor and BobbittMiller is a paramedic). But of course, their path to adoption came much earlier than planned. At the end of June 2012 they received a call that they had been matched with a baby due in early July. “We had less than two weeks to prepare,” says BobbittMiller. “And we were both working full time.” Miller says he spent the next day “working the phones” and trying to figure out if they could get everything ready in time to bring a baby home on such short notice before finally sending Bobbitt-Miller an email that said, “Let’s do it.” They were actually taking a boat ride on Lake Norman when they got a call from the birth mother that she was in labor. Two hours later, they were boarding a plane for California so they could witness the birth of a little boy they later named Zeke.
From the very beginning, a close circle of friends and family guided the men every step of the way on their journey to bring Zeke home. Bobbitt-Miller says his best friend showed up at their house with a car full of baby supplies from their church. For the first five days of Zeke’s life, the couple stayed with him in a hotel in California, where they tried their hardest to figure out how to feed, change and care for a baby with limited resources. They took turns FaceTiming their parents for help. And when they arrived back home with the baby after a red-eye flight from California, a party of about 50 people greeted them at the airport. “It was an extraordinary experience,” says Miller. “I wouldn’t do it any other way. When we came back from California we had no idea what we were doing. People were dropping off bags of clothes because we didn’t have nine months to go crazy and buy all that stuff. What was most important to us was Zeke’s health and safety.” www.littleonesmagazine.com | for local moms ... by local moms
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Embracing Adoption When the time came to plan Zeke’s first birthday party, Bobbitt-Miller admits he wanted to pull out all the stops. “We were very aware that we would not be parents today if it weren’t for our friends and family . . .” he says. “It was the perfect way to say ‘thank you’ to everyone, although Blair said we had to draw the line somewhere when I brought up a Ferris Wheel,” he jokes. “We started planning the party in January,” says Miller. “I remember Johnathon saying very early on that he wanted to have a circus theme. We had a baby tiger cub, a lemur, a snake, a bounce house, pony rides. The folks at Trump were great. We had so much fun with the staff that we gave them the guest book to sign.” The theme of adoption played a large part in the festivities. Children at the party were invited to adopt goldfish and different stuffed animals. And at the party, the two men announced their intention to publish a series of children’s picture books on adoption. They hope to raise funds 26
and awareness to help other parents who are considering adoption and need help with the fees. “A large part of this for us has been the reality of adoption . . .We learned so much down this road and it’s a major challenge. One thing that’s been important for us is to honor Zeke and help other families who want to adopt,” says Miller. As for Zeke’s reaction to the party, he took it all in stride, which is very in line with his laid back personality. “He’s a happy boy,” says Miller. “We travel with him a lot, so he’s used to people and traveling. He was more like ‘Of course this is what we should be doing!’” The party took place on a Sunday, and extended family members of both
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men began arriving on Friday. BobbittMiller’s sister, who works as a party planner, also arrived early to help tie up the loose ends. And while the party was memorable, the day was more about celebrating the unique way Zeke came into their lives. “We want adoption to be something Zeke embraces and becomes proud of,” says Miller. “We want him to know that every step of the way.”
You CAN Survive the Holidays Start planning now and delegate where you need to “He’s making a list, and checking it twice….” You probably have sung these words with your children once or twice and as we approach the holiday season, you may want to take notes from this jingle. From the time the children go back to school in August it seems like we snowball right into the holidays and before you know it you are being pulled in a million directions. I would like to share with you a few ways to prepare for the holidays in advance and also how to manage them once they are here! Do you remember the day when shopping was done in stores, film had to be developed for Christmas card pictures and you had to read a magazine for decorating ideas? Now you can do it all online! It is never too early to start pinning, book marking or uploading ideas that you want to incorporate in your holiday activities. Go ahead and choose your holiday picture and design your card on one of the online photo websites. You can also start filling up virtual shopping carts for gifts of those you don’t find so easy to buy for, like the in-laws or the picky Uncle! Pin your favorite decorating ideas and start shopping for things periodically so you aren’t stressed when Thanksgiving is over and the season has officially begun. The to-do list during this time of year can get pretty extensive and it can feel like the days just aren’t long enough. In order to manage the decorating, baking, shopping and entertaining you need to make a list or two. I like to have a ‘holiday must list’ and a ‘holiday wish list.’ The must list includes specific shopping trips, kids’ activities, preparing for guests, etc. These are things that have to be done. The wish list includes sleigh rides, make your own ornament craft, secret Santa with friends, etc. By jotting down the things you would ‘enjoy’ doing, you are making sure they are not overlooked. Once the ‘must’ list is written I would break it down in three ways:
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• Prioritize – determine what needs to be done sooner than later and what can take a back seat. • Delegate - include the children, they would love to feel a part of it and contribute. • Hire help – don’t feel you have to do it all on your own. After breaking down the list and assessing where you may want help, you will be able to manage your time better and stress less. There are local services that love to do the things that may not be on your list of favorite activities, such as gift wrapping, baking, decorating or entertaining. I suggest doing some research ahead of time to find someone that can assist you. This way you are guaranteed that the task will be done and no one has to know you hired help! Leave it to Lauren is a lifestyle management company started by a local mom, Lauren Rieger. Lauren is the mother of a 2-year-old and has a passion for serving others. Her mission is to be a trusted resource that families can call on when they are in need of an extra set of hands. She looks forward to assisting you and helping make sure the holidays are enjoyable. Visit her website at www.leaveittolauren.net.
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app-y holidays Looking for a little virtual assistance this holiday season? Whether you’re seeking clever pumpkin-carving ideas, educational holiday apps, help with shopping organization or a new favorite cookie recipe, we’ve gathered up a great list of possibilities for you and your family to check out. Halloween Coloring Book Your littlest ones will have a blast “fingerpainting” Halloween images with this cute coloring app. Cost: Free Pumpkin Maker Boo! Have some Halloween fun anytime you want with this cute app. “Carve” a pumpkin and create some of the best Halloween faces ever, whether funny, goofy or spooky! Cost: Free Christmas Fun – All in One Holiday Spirit HD Enjoy loveable Christmas songs and exciting Christmas educational games. Cost: Free Hanukkah Dreidel Play the fun Jewish holiday game! Play in Freemode and play against friends and family, or play Career Mode and use the Gelt collected to unlock customizations for your Dreidel. Cost: Free
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Gingerbread House Maker Make your own Gingerbread House! Ever want to build a candy house like Hansel and Gretel? Have a blast with this no-bake way to make a holiday favorite. Cost: Free
Kwanzaa Puzzles This game features 10 scrambled Kwanzaa works of art that need unscrambling. Each puzzles has three levels of difficulty. This educational game will help children learn about Kwanzaa. Cost: Free
Christmas Countdown Countdown to Christmas day with any combination of months, weeks, days, hours, minutes, seconds, or even heartbeats! Attach your favorite photos (or use stock images) and customize with your favorite holiday tunes. Cost: Free
Christmas Cookies for You Looking for ideas for your annual cookie swap? This app features more than 300 recipes that will bring cheer and joy to any holiday gathering! Cost: $.99
Santa’s Bag Manage your holiday shopping lists with recipients, planning, shopping and budgets. Cost: Free Santa Tracker Mobile Christmas Eve will be a blast as the little ones keep track of Santa’s journey! Cost: $1.99
Holiday Cooking Stressing out over meal ideas? This app brings easyto-follow recipes for main courses, side dishes and desserts right to your fingertips. Cost: $.99 ElfYourself by OfficeMax It’s back! Create up to five dancing elves and use photos from your camera roll or Facebook for endless holiday entertainment. Cost: Free
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Confession: I am a chocoholic. But I grew up eating more candy (of all types) than I’d like to admit. Needless to say, Halloween has always been a favorite holiday of mine, for many reasons. I’m all about letting my kids enjoy their bags of loot for a bit. Every year I take photos of them in costume with their goodies all dumped out in front of them. I love watching them sort through it all and trade pieces with each other. For the first two to three days after the big trick-or-treat, I’ll let them stash a piece of their goodies into their lunchbox for a rare treat. And then I’m over it. Let’s face it: we live in a society of “stuff.” And I, for one, am getting a bit tired of it. We just don't need any more of it! So if you’re like me, or just feeling like me a few days after collecting candy and goodies and “stuff,” you’ll be happy to know that there are local events and such where kids can take back their candy and donate it (and in some cases get more stuff in return). Hey—it’s the lesser of two evils.
Take a look at where you can take your loot if you tire of the candy-crazed kids: Earth Fare: Take your kiddos to any of the area’s three locations with candy in hand. They can trade it in for various goodies—sans the corn syrup. Details vary per store. Find locations at www.earthfare.com.
Several dentists and pediatric dentists take part in various programs, including Operation Gratitude, which sends candy to the troops. You needn’t be a patient of any of the locations to take your candy in. A listing of some locations you may want to check out include: Laxer Long and Savage: Both locations will take part in the buyback this year. Visit www.laxerlongandsavage.com for complete details on days/times and more. Bird Dentistry: Head to the South Charlotte pediatric dentist and orthodontist’s office on Nov. 1 from 2 - 5 p.m. and participate in the buyback that also benefits local schools. There are games, raffles, and more fun to be found. www.birddentistry.com/Fun_Stuff.aspx Southpark Pediatric Dentistry: The office will hold a two-day event and buy 1 lb. of candy for $1 (capped at 5 lbs.) Visit their website for more information: http://andrewjohnsondds.com/our-team/
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experiential gifts By Kerrie Boys
Give your child the gift of giving back. he holidays are upon us! Are you ready for the piles of boxes, paper bows and tissue? How many times have you looked at your house after any special gift occasion, whether it is the holidays or a birthday party and thought, “SO.MUCH.STUFF?!�
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One way to minimize the “stuff” problem is to give “experience gifts.” I have done a couple of these types of gifts for my parents and my girls and they have loved them. While not the most exciting thing to unwrap, experience gifts are a great way to get some time with your kiddos and teach them that gift giving is not all about getting something, it is also about bringing joy to someone’s life. Below are some local options that have neat programs for gift giving. Humane Society of Charlotte: Kids of all ages love their pets and would love to know that they helped a dog or cat find a home. For $20 or more, your child will receive a note acknowledgment from the Humane Society thanking her for the contribution. humanesocietyofcharlotte.org/ donate-now/ways-to-donate/ Carolina Raptor Center: This is one of my favorites. We do this a lot for all members of my family. My girls, my father-in-law, my dad— they have all loved the experience. Through your donation of $30 or more, your child will support the care and feeding of a specific bird of prey. Some examples are: Kestrels, Kites, Large and Small Owls and Hawks. There are many price points to choose from depending on the size of bird and required care. As an adoptive parent, you will enjoy these benefits: • A photograph of your bird • A copy of your bird’s individual story • A certificate of adoption • Free pass to come see your bird in his/her mew on the Raptor Trail* • Bragging rights! Your support helps keep these beautiful birds alive and thriving. The Raptor Center is a great excursion because the grounds are easy to negotiate for all ages, so bring the whole family! www.carolinaraptorcenter.org/ support/adopt
What kid does not love the zoo? Here are two options for animal support and gift giving. North Carolina ZOO: Just an hour up the road, the North Carolina Zoo is a great place for a day walking trip. Starting at $30, your child can choose an animal to adopt! Your adoption lasts for a year and every adoption package arrives with a personalized adoption certificate. Higher level adoptions bring even more surprises. You donation includes: • Personalized adoption certificate • Zookeeper notes about the animal • A color photo of the adopted animal • A window decal. This local treasure will delight with its beautiful grounds and exceptional education program. Adopt your animal today! http://www.nczoo.com/Donate/ Adopt.aspx Riverbanks Zoo: Another great zoo south of Charlotte, Riverbanks offers a sponsorship program that will bring out your “wild child.” All “Wild Child Portfolio” giving levels receive: • Fact sheet • Color printout of Wild Child • Official sponsorship certificate • Magnet http://www.riverbanks.org/donate/ wildparent.shtml Habitat for Humanity: This amazing organization build homes for those who have none and supports them through the process of homeownership. To make this donation more fun, buy a cheap birdhouse kit and give that as your gift with the card from Habitat enclosed. Build the birdhouse
with your child and discuss the fact that some children do not have homes, just like the birds you are building this house for. Then hang the house outside as a reminder of your gift of “home” to a less fortunate family. A $10 minimum will get you a personalized gift card direct from Habitat for Humanity. www.habitat.org/support/ giftfromtheheart.aspx Classroom Central: Even preschool kids can relate to school supplies. All kids deserve to get shiny and brand-new markers, pencils and erasers. On Classroom Central’s website you can buy “school supplies” for $15$50. Here is an example of how to present your gift. Wrap up a pencil with a note attached from Classroom Central thanking your child for donating 200 pencils to children all around Charlotte. It is always good to remind our children that not all kids got to go back to school shopping in August so maybe we can help them out during the holidays. www.classroomcentral.org/donate/ Lastly, we all know the best gift to our kids is time with their family. Other gift options that are more streamlined can include a season pass to your favorite museum. Some great choices are: • Discovery Place • Discovery Place Kids • The Nature Museum • Schiele Museum • NC Transportation Museum • Mint Museum Of course, a trip to Disney could be a gift for the whole family if the budget allows. The key is to have your trip planned and a date set so your kiddos can look forward to it. In the end, the goal is to help our children appreciate the “stuff” they already have and to be willing to sacrifice a little for others. Here’s to a less cluttered gift giving season! www.littleonesmagazine.com | for local moms ... by local moms
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ask the therapist By Leslie Petruk, MA, LPC, NCC, BCC
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n the last issue I began the discussion on raising responsible kids—a trait I think we all desire for our children. Part of learning responsibility is taking pride in what you do and have. Children who are given everything without ever being required to work for or earn what they get and who are always rescued from experiencing the consequences of their actions, tend to lack a sense of responsibility, miss a lot of important lessons and gain a sense of entitlement. These are not the qualities I think most of us would aspire to for our children. Parents bear the responsibility of teaching our kids how to become responsible. Just like we don’t expect our children to learn to read without learning the alphabet first, we can’t expect them to be responsible if we haven’t taught them how. Part of instilling responsibility in your child is related to the connection you have with him. Parents who value their child’s thought, opinions and feelings are modeling respect for their individuality. When we expect our children to do and think as we do, we are robbing them of the opportunity to explore their own thoughts and feelings and the process of learning how to make responsible decisions. When you show interest in your child’s ideas and feelings they will feel valued and respected. In turn, they will value and respect others. As I’ve stated in many previous articles, parents must model the behavior they desire their child to emulate. Disrespect displayed towards your child will result in your child being disrespectful towards you and others. Children who feel respected, listened to, understood and cared for will likely demonstrate those same qualities. When you are making any type of decision that could include input from your child/ren—ask what their thoughts are. When you see someone treat someone else disrespectfully or in a hurtful manner, ask your child what their thoughts are about
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what they witnessed. When you are discussing what to have for dinner—ask for their input. When one shares a challenge they experienced at school at the dinner table, ask siblings what their thoughts are and how they would advise their sibling. The more involved and connected your child feels to the family unit, the more confident they will feel and confidence translates into a sense of responsibility. Allowing your children to experience the consequences of their actions is another important way for them to learn responsibility. Obviously, this doesn’t mean allowing them to do something dangerous (you would never let a child walk out into the street to learn the lesson of looking before you cross or let them touch a hot stove to learn that it will burn them) in the name of learning responsibility. But it does mean allowing them to experience the consequence of getting points off of their homework because they turn it in a day late rather then running it up to the school for them, or not letting them stay home from school because they waited until the night before to start a project that is due. It’s hard as parents to see our children face the consequences of their actions, but to instill a sense of responsibility it’s a lesson that must be learned. Children have to experience the consequences of their behaviors in order to learn from them. It’s an important lesson for your child to learn when the stakes aren’t so high—you don’t want to wait until they are teenagers when the consequences can be life or death to begin teaching this lesson. Another important function of responsibility is organization. Organizational skills come naturally to some and for others, present a huge challenge. For those who don’t have the natural organizational gene, these skills need to be taught—and not just by expecting them to do it, but by actually helping them acquire the skill. For example, if you ask your child to go clean the
playroom, a child with organizational challenges will walk into the room, feel overwhelmed and sit and start playing with the toys rather then cleaning. He won’t even know where to begin. He needs direction in bite-size pieces, such as “First, pick up all of the puzzles and put them away.” Then, when he finishes the first step have him come get you for the next step, “Now, you need to put all of the books neatly on the bookshelf”—you get the gist. Breaking it into steps will help them acquire the skill of learning how to organize. Children will need organizational skills for school, work and life. It’s an important one to teach. One of the ways to teach this skill in relation to school work is by assisting your child in making a time line for completing a school project, or preparing for a test, learning to keep track of school assignments in their schedule book and getting things together each night so they are prepared for class the next day. Something as simple as teaching your child to set an alarm and get themselves up in the morning rather then relying on you to get them out of bed for school each day (4th/5th grade is a good time to start this practice) will help your child begin to learn personal responsibility. These are the building blocks for the more advanced organizational skills that are necessary in middle school, high school, college and the workforce, as well as managing a household. Engaging your child in family/household responsibilities, activities and projects will increase her level of competence and
confidence, which is another component of learning responsibility. Let your child assist you in baking a cake, painting a room, mowing the lawn, sorting the laundry. Young children enjoy doing activities with their parents, even if they are “chores.” The sense of accomplishment and contribution to the family/household instills pride and the time spent with you completing the task strengthens your connection. Kids love doing “grown up” things with their parent/s. My 9-year-old daughter thinks she’s really big stuff when she helps unload the dishwasher. She enjoys contributing and doing it with one of us makes her feel really important, leaving her with a sense of pride in her accomplishment. It may seem like a small thing, but this is an important part of learning how to become a responsible and contributing member of a community. It starts with the small stuff. Incrementally increasing the things your child is responsible for (making sure to keep it developmentally appropriate) and valuing his contribution in helping you, along with regularly seeking his thoughts, feelings and opinions in decision making (again, that is age appropriate) are all key components in raising a confident, competent and ultimately responsible child. Leslie Petruk, MA, LPC, NCC, BCC is the Director of The Stone Center for Counseling & Leadership which serves children, couples and families. You can get more information on her and her practice at www.thestonecenternc.com.
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h, holiday family photos. Every year I have high hopes for getting some professional photos taken so we can send them out as holiday photo greeting cards, and just about every year something (illness, uncooperative children, bad weather for an outdoor session) happens to throw a wrench in that plan. I always stress about the best time of day to have photos taken, whether or not we should attempt to dress in “holiday attire,” and try to convince the kids that smiling during a photo is not an unreasonable request. If you’re in the same boat, here are some tips for making the most out of your holiday portraits this year.
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researching photographers and/or studios as soon as possible. Fall is a beautiful and colorful time of year to have portraits taken. My family had a great outdoor photo session last year in October and the photos turned out so well I was able to create a fantastic greeting card and calendars for gifts.
What Should We Wear? Alicia Sutton, owner of Alicia Sutton Photography, says you don’t necessarily all have to wear matching clothing, but try to coordinate. Dress in layers; accessorize where you can and try to avoid wearing contrasting patterns, such as gingham and stripes. Solids, neutrals and pastels are good choices. Avoid dressing children in constraining or uncomfortable fabrics, as they will most likely be a lot less cooperative!
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What Time of Day Works Best? You’ll have to consider the schedules of all the members of your family to determine this, but Sutton says early morning seems to work best for babies and toddlers. Scheduling a session right before or after a naptime could result in a disastrous session. Also avoid feeding children anything messy right before the session, and you might want to bring a backup outfit or two just in case, especially with babies! Although it can be hard, try to stay as relaxed as possible before and during the session, as your kids will pick up on any tension you are feeling. Pack a special favorite snack or surprise them with a small trinket after the session. Most important of all, enjoy your time together and the fun memories you will be creating!
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never too late By Susan Silberman
In honor of Breast Cancer Awareness Month, one survivor shares her remarkable story.
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arch 13, 2001, a day that will live in infamy. My husband, Bruce, and I had lived in North Carolina for nine months; we were both at new jobs and making new friends. I was 31 years old, had been married for two years, and Bruce and I were ready to start our family. My world was turned upside down one night when I found a lump in my breast. My mom and my grandma both had breast cancer, but they were “old” when they had it. My grandma was 71 and my mom was 51. I was only 31 years old. There was no way I had breast cancer. I called Bruce into the room, and he confirmed that the lump was indeed a lump…and calmly told me to call the doctor first thing in the
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morning. My doctor also confirmed that my lump was not a figment of my imagination, and called multiple mammography locations until he found one that could administer a diagnostic mammogram the following day. While I was glad that he was moving quickly, it also worried me. Certain that I was fine, I went to the mammogram by myself (my first one, as I was so young I hadn’t even had a baseline mammo yet). I remember lying on the table, all alone, as the radiologist explained to me that they know a lump is a cyst when it is fluid, and my lump was solid. I asked if it was cancer and he told me I would need a biopsy to find out. I got dressed in a haze and called my doctor’s office out in the waiting room. They were
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closed for the weekend. How would I survive the weekend? I jumped in my car and drove to my doctor’s office. It was pouring down rain, but I bolted for the door and banged on it, certain that someone was still in there. No one answered. Waiting. Some of my hardest days were enduring waiting. Waiting to talk to my doctor on Monday. Waiting to meet the surgeon on Tuesday. Waiting for a surgical biopsy on Friday. Waiting to get the results on Tuesday. While I waited, I wasn’t just dealing with a cancer diagnosis … or not. I was dealing with every scenario my imagination could conjure. As I drove from work to meet my husband for my biopsy results, I was certain that I was about to be diagnosed with
hypochondria, not cancer. The moment the doctor said the words, “it’s malignant,” everything began moving in slow motion. To say it was surreal is an understatement. Me? Cancer? Unfathomable. I had aggressive high-grade infiltrating ductal carcinoma. Luckily, 12 years ago my type of cancer was not called “triple negative” breast cancer yet, and luckily I did not know that it had a lower survival rate. That began my ordeal that lasted almost 2 years. When I was told that I needed a lumpectomy and chemotherapy, I was terrified, but I comforted myself with the fact that my hair would grow back but my breast wouldn’t (and I was saving my breast). Near the end of chemotherapy I found out I had the BRCA-2 gene which put me at high risk of getting breast cancer again, as well as ovarian cancer. So much for saving my breast. The genetic oncologist recommended a double mastectomy and eventual removal of my ovaries. Thus, following chemotherapy, I had a double mastectomy with reconstruction. I had six months of chemotherapy and five
surgeries in all. Bruce and I had always wanted to have children, so two years after completing my chemotherapy the doctors at Duke (who I credit with saving my life), did scans of my organs and bones, and when they did not find
My world was turned upside down one night when I found a lump in my breast. any more cancer, they gave us the thumbs up to try to have children (Because my cancer was not fed by hormones as most are, it was safe for me to be pregnant). After being in temporary menopause for a year due to the chemo, we were nervous about my ability to become pregnant. Our prayers were answered when we were quickly able to get pregnant and we were
blessed with our first son … and then 18 months later with our second son. A cool side note, my oncologist was the one who told me I was pregnant the first time! In December of 2010, I had my ovaries removed, to prevent me from getting ovarian cancer, putting me into permanent menopause at 41 years old (a small price to pay for being around for my boys)! Today, I am doing well. I have beaten the odds and have remained cancer free for 12 years. I am thankful for every day with my two beautiful boys, Cage who is 9 and Ryder who is 7. I appreciate every birthday, and I am proud to say I am 44 years old. After having my ovaries removed, I wrote that young adult novel I first dreamed up at 16 years old, but never wrote. I am working on marketing my manuscript now. This past June, I began training in Tae Kwon Do (Cage and Ryder are already black belts), and I am enjoying getting back in touch with my body. I am trying to live by one of my favorite quotes: “It is never too late to be what you might have been.” (George Eliot)
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out & about Fun fall festivities are on the way!
Carolina Renaissance Festival What: One of the largest Renaissance fairs nationwide, The Carolina Renaissance Festival is a 16thcentury, European-style art and entertainment festival combining outdoor theater, circus entertainment, arts and crafts marketplaces, a jousting tournament and much more. The festival celebrates its 20-year anniversary this year and is filled with 11 stages of non-stop entertainment, charming cottages and castles, an openair market with 100 artisan shops, kitchens and pubs, games of skill and people-powered rides. When: Oct. 5 – Nov. 24 Where: 16445 Poplar Tent Road, Huntersville www.royalfaires.com/carolina
Amazing Maize Maze What: Get lost in a giant seven-acre corn maze while traipsing more than two miles of interconnecting paths. Challenge the members of your group with a trek through the maze into the dark with a flashlight during one of the Family Friendly Friday or Saturday Night mazes. While you’re there, take a hayride around the farm, play a round of cornhole, explore mini mazes, take a hike or enjoy a picnic. In October, there are also pumpkins available for picking. When: Through Nov. 3 Where: Rural Hill www.ruralhill.net
Kids Consignment Sale What: Shop for gently-used fall/winter clothing. When: Oct. 4; consignor pre-sale, Oct. 5; 8 a.m. to 1 p.m. Half-price sale begins at 11:15 a.m. No strollers, please. Where: Blair Road UMC, 9135 Blair Road, Mint Hill www.blairroadumc.org
becoming his friend. This sweet and inventive tale is packed with physical comedy sure to delight young audiences. Appropriate for ages 3 and older. When: Oct. 12 – 13 Where: Wells Fargo Playhouse, ImaginOn www.ctcharlotte.org
Fall Farm Festival
Animals Around the World
What: Experience life on a 19th century farm as you meet rare and endangered breeds of farm animals, participate in farm chores, learn about farm skills, and much more. When: Oct. 5 from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Where: Latta Plantation www.lattaplantation.org
What: Go on an adventure around the world visiting a diverse group of amazing animals. Meet animals from the tropics to the desert, from reptiles to mammals and birds. You never know what you might encounter in this fascinating, fun show! Seating is limited so call 704.866.6908 for advanced tickets. When: Oct. 12 at 11 a.m. and 2 p.m. Where: The Schiele Museum www.schielemuseum.org
Fall Homeschool Day What: Homeschooling parents, teachers and students are invited to spend the day at historic Rural Hill and learn about life in the 18th century in conjunction with History’s Kids, a Charlotte-based group focused on educating children about local colonial heritage. When: Oct. 5 at 10 a.m. Where: Rural Hill www.ruralhill.net
Ballonacy What: Explore the power of friendship in this tender, uplifting show for the little ones (and the big ones, too). A solitary old man is steadfast in his silent routine until a mischievous balloon finds him and insists on
Sunday Fun Days @ The Mint Uptown What: “Step into the Kaleidoscope” and bring the kids by for familyfriendly art projects, healthy living activities, artist demonstrations, and more! In October, experience a sensory explosion via new digital installation art and contemporary paintings, explore radial symmetry and create your own kaleidoscope crafts. “Find your center” and get moving with family yoga activities! When: Oct. 13 from 1 – 4 p.m. Where: The Mint Museum Uptown www.mintmuseum.org
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Play and Learn What: Bring your toddler for a handson play date and at the same time gain insight on how to prepare your home to best support your child’s development. This event is for children ages 18 - 24 months. Registration is required. Email lorraine.clark@omni-montessori.org for details. When: Oct. 23 from 11–11:45 a.m. Where: Omni Montessori School www.omni-montessori.org
time that is a little spooky, but not-tooscary? Enjoy Halloween treats and learn about little friends that scurry underfoot. Kids are encouraged to wear costumes. Creature Features are supported by The Guild of Discovery Place and Charlotte Nature Museum. Programming includes crafts, puppet shows and storytelling. When: Oct. 26 from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. Where: Charlotte Nature Museum www.charlottenaturemuseum.org
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What: The Schiele-O-Ween event will be filled with fun and interactive family activities, including cowboy trick or treating, planetarium shows, hands-on activities, and a special showing of the stage program Halloween Tales. Great for the entire family – kids are encouraged to attend in costume! When: Oct. 25 from 6 – 8 p.m.; 5 – 6 p.m. for members. Where: The Schiele Museum www.schielemuseum.org
What: Experience a new twist on a classic fairy tale. In this clever adaptation, a family gathers around the dinner table and Mother tells her children the story of Hansel & Gretel. As the familiar story unfolds—two hungry children lost in the forest searching for their parents and facing a wicked witch—the family embraces their roles in this play within a play with a “happily ever after” ending. Appropriate for ages 7 and older. When: Oct. 26 – Nov.10 Where: Wells Fargo Playhouse, ImaginOn www.ctcharlotte.org
Spinning Spiders and Creepy Crawlers What: Looking for a hauntingly good
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Not So Spooky Halloween Carnival What: Bring children 10 years and younger for a costume parade, games and prizes and food and beverage vendors. When: Oct. 26 from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. Where: Stumptown Park www.matthewsfun.com
The Pumpkin Patch Express What: Celebrate the fall season and Halloween with a day full of fun at the North Carolina Transportation Museum! Take a train ride to the south end of the property and visit the NCTM Pumpkin Patch. Kids can select a pumpkin to purchase, take home and decorate. Stop by the Bob Julian Roundhouse for games and activities. Kids can stop by to make a craft and get their very own temporary tattoo in the museum’s Gift Station. When: Oct. 26 at 10 a.m. Where: North Carolina Transportation Museum www.nctrans.org
Boo at the Zoo What: Embark on a Halloween
2 p.m. and 4 p.m. Seating is limited and tickets are available for $15. Where: Johnson Carriage House, Brawley School Road, Mooresville www.adfastudio.com
adventure with the N.C. Zoo in Asheboro as the backdrop. Enjoy trick-or- treat games, magic and storytelling, live entertainment and a children’s costume contest. When: Oct. 26 & 27 Where: North Carolina Zoo www.nczoo.org
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What: The first and most famous story of “The Chronicles of Narnia” has become a musical presentation of this enchanted world filled with creatures and spirits of myth and fable, good and evil, demonic and transcendent. When: Nov. 9 –17 Where: Armour Street Theatre, Davidson www.davidsoncommunityplayers.org
Academy of Dance and Fine Arts Nutcracker Tea What: The Academy of Dance and Fine Arts in Mooresville shares its Nutcracker ballet with young children
interested in learning more about this wonderful story or who might be still too young to sit through an entire performance. The dancers will share the story of the Nutcracker through dance and narration, delighting all guests with their dazzling costumes and dance techniques. Afterwards, characters will greet and serve guests as they are seated at tables featuring the main themes of the Nutcracker ballet. When: Nov. 10 with seatings at noon,
What: Gobble Gobble! Get up close to a wild turkey, and gobble about their traits, for some educational fun. Creature Features are supported by The Guild of Discovery Place and Charlotte Nature Museum. Programming includes crafts, puppet shows and storytelling. When: Nov. 16 from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. Where: Charlotte Nature Museum www.charlottenaturemuseum.org
Billy Jonas What: Back for his 12th visit to the stage is composer, songsmith and multiinstrumentalist Billy Jonas. Billy performs his original songs, stories and improvisations with voice, guitar and “Industrial Re-percussion”—a collection of instruments he made from found and recycled objects. The audience joins in
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with singing, dancing and banging-a-long! When: Nov. 16 – 17 Where: Wells Fargo Playhouse, ImaginOn www.ctcharlotte.org
of the largest get-togethers of Carolinians that takes place during the year. The parade boasts participation from both Carolinas and touches approximately half a million people from the 22-county metro area. When: Nov. 28 at 10 a.m. Where: The parade begins at Tryon at 10th and marches straight down Tryon to end at Stonewall Street. www.carrouselparade.org
Sunday Fun Days @ The Mint Uptown What: Enjoy family-friendly art projects, healthy living activities, artist demonstrations, and more! For November, explore the spiritual and symbolic artwork of Pacific Northwest artist Susan Point, and use traditional Coast Salish design elements to draw and stencil your own art. Join Lumbee artist Barbara Locklear to make a Spirit Dream bracelet, and spin and whorl at a hula hooping workshop! When: Nov. 17 from 1 – 4p.m. Where: The Mint Museum Uptown www.mintmuseum.org
Santa Train What: Take a train ride across the museum’s 57-acre property with Santa Claus and his elves! Stopping in at Wagons, Wheels, and Wings, kids will be able to make a craft to take home and enjoy fun activities. When: Nov. 29 – 30 and select dates in December. Where: North Carolina Transportation Museum www.nctrans.org
Carolinas’ Carrousel Parade What: The Carolinas’ Carrousel Parade, a tradition since 1947, is one
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Winter Wonderland festivities include: • Create your own ‘Make & Take’ holiday art project • “North Pole Express” train rides! • Sand Art & Holiday Face Painting • Family-friendly service projects • Games, contests and prizes • Delicious refreshments, hot chocolate… & more!
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