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Hudson PEP Cristi Coleman nabs statewide recognition Named Region VII Elementary Assistant Principal of the Year By JOYCELYNE FADOJUTIMI/WWW.IPLUSMAG.COM

udson PEP Elementary Assistant Principal Cristi Coleman caught the attention of the Texas Elementary Principals and Supervisors Association (TEPSA,) which has named her Region VII Elementary Assistant Principal of the Year. Coleman is in her 26th year as an educator. When ask the secret of her success, she answered thus: "My secret would be the staff here who

allow me to do my job." Hudson PEP Principal Sue Wilson joined in the sharing of gratitude. "Christi Coleman is a humble servant/leader, and is respected by both me and the staff," she said. "Her expertise as a curriculum specialist where she meets and works with teachers ensures the lessons are aligned with the state standards and rigorous in content." Contd. on Page 18

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Arts and Culture Table of Contents The Magazine for Living Life Beyond, Plus One…

Hudson PEP Assistant Principal nabs state-wide recognition

Publisher / Editor Joycelyne Fadojutimi Photography Joycelyne Fadojutimi

ello infinitieplus magazine family and friends in Longview, Texas, and our global village. We hope you are keeping safe during this COVID-19 pandemic. We wish you a glorious Easter in advance. May your leg of lamb or lamb chops be as tasty as you hope it would be. With that said, check out our recipe for a tender and succulent leg of lamb on page 23. On a different note, April is child abuse prevention month. It is in that vein that infinitieplus magazine brought you a story about Martin House Child Advocacy Center. Check out the faces of Martin House CAC staff who work with children to bring a sense of normalcy thereby helping them with the tragic and traumatic events that brought them to the Center. The photos are on page-from the editorial page to table of content. Dogs have been called man’s best friend fora good reason. Martin House has such an amazing pooch for children who come to their Center. Her name is Rainy. According to Martin CAC website, Rainy is a female Labrador/Golden Retriever, specially bred, trained, and certified by Canine Companions for Independence to work with her handlers at Martin House CAC. Please read about Rainy in the Center and in the Center and in court. The story is from page 7.

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Another super star we wrote about is Cristi Coleman, Hudson PEP assistant principal. Her story starts from page 3. Other stories in this edition include international acclaimed Stephanie Corbitt Martin House CAC fashion designer Brandon Maxwell born and raised in Longview. Check out his story from page 13. Do not forget to go through the pages and read the rest of the stories. You will be glad you did-it has pertinent information for everyone

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To become an information oracle of functional and constructive reports that serves the needs of businesses and communities.

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"Child abuse is a burden that far too many children carry," said Martin House Child Advocacy Center (CAC) Executive Director Roxanne Stevenson. Her organization, therefore, has two main goals: Provide holistic recovery services to children who have been victims of abuse or witnesses to violent crimes. Secondly, assist law enforcement, Child Protective Investigators and prosecutors with case coordination, abuse intervention and perpetrator prosecution.

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The Silent Pandemic Roxanne Stevenson elucidates the work of Martin House Child Advocacy Center By JOYCELYNE FADOJUTIMI/IPLUSMAG.COM

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mong all the uproar and notoriety associated with the COVID-19 pandemic there has been another, mostly overlooked and closely related pandemic... child abuse. Since the arrival of COVID-19 pandemic, parents’ stressors has reached an unprecedented level not only by the specter of a fatal contagion, but also the corollaries such as: • Lockdowns • Unlockdowns • Food insecurities • Job losses • Job insecurities • Masks • Unmasks • COVID-19 vaccinations.

This uncertain future that has in many cases sequestered innocent children with potential abusers who are themselves under extreme pressure. In addition, school closures meant that teachers, who are the most dependable reporters of child abuse, were no longer in contact with many at-risk children. April is child abuse awareness month. Child abuse/maltreatment is a global malady. Hence, the World Health Organization reports that the COVID-19 pandemic shut down so many schools. As many as 1.5 billion children worldwide could not attend classes. These students were stuck at home with parents and caregivers who were facing skyrocketing stress and pressure from lost income, social isolation, and overcrowded homes. Besides the danger posed by stressed-out adults,

some children with access to internet were spending much more time online, creating the peril of online bullying and/or sexual exploitation. UNICEF Executive Director Henrietta Fore has spelled out this unhealthy situation. "Violence against children has always been pervasive, and now things could be getting much worse," she said. "Lockdowns, school closures and movement restrictions have left far too many children stuck with their abusers, without the safe space that school would normally offer. It is urgent to scale up efforts to protect children during these times and beyond." In Texas, seventyone Children’s Advocacy Centers (CACs) represent at-risk children in 210 of the Lone Star State's 254 counties. According to CAC statistics, 175 Texas Contd. on Page 8

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children are abused daily, and one in ten will be sexually abused before their eighteenth birthday. With 7.4 million children residing in Texas, this translates into a horrifying statistic of 740,000 abused children, and this is without COVID-19's negative impact. In addition to this, the Center for Disease Control and Prevention researchers concur

that the coronavirus pandemic is increasing incidences of child abuse and neglect. "Child abuse is a burden that far too many children carry," said Martin House Child Advocacy Center (CAC) Executive Director Roxanne Stevenson. Her organization, therefore, has two main goals: 1. Provide holistic recovery services

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to children who have been victims of abuse or witnesses to violent crimes. 2. Assist law enforcement, Child Protective Investigators and prosecutors with case coordination, abuse intervention and perpetrator prosecution. The Martin House CAC opened in 2009, and Stevenson has been there from the beginning.

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Before CACs came into operation, abused children were too-often re-victimized by the justice system. Traumatized children were frequently repeatedly interviewed by multiple investigators and bounced around among various agencies during the judicial process. Sadly, some were overlooked or forgotten and fell through the cracks. Currently, children who have been reported as having suffered physical or sexual abuse and/or neglect are sent to just one agency--a Child Advocacy Center. It is here that they dialogue with a meticulously trained forensic interviewer who is careful to allow the child to tell in his own words what happened. Detectives and Child Protective Investigators watch and listen to this interview from a separate room and insure all their questions are answered through the CAC interviewer. This decreases the number of times children have to relive horrific events and reduces the number of persons to whom they must make these painful recounting. In the aftermath of the forensic interview, investigators concentrate on the case while CAC

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"We may work with an eight-year-old girl who is being sexually abused by an older step-brother, or a teenaged boy who is being physically assaulted regularly by his stepfather, or siblings who witnessed their mother's murder by her former boyfriend who broke into their house in the middle of the night. Roxanne Stevenson, Executive Director, Martin House Child Advocacy Center Contd. on Page 10

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advocates and therapists focus on the child's and supportive family's immediate needs. The CAC provides subsequent and ongoing advocacy support, counseling, medical examinations, and referrals to other agencies that might assist affected children and adults in the healing process. That is not all. According to Stevenson, Martin House CAC provides community education programs for children and adults to prevent child abuse, improve traumainformed responses, and expedite abuse reporting at no charge. For Stevenson there is no such thing as a typical day. The types of cases her agency handles are many, varied and timeconsuming. She explains: "We may work with an eightyear-old girl who is being sexually abused by an older step-brother, or a teenaged boy who is being physically assaulted regularly by his stepfather, or siblings who witnessed their mother's murder by her former boyfriend who broke into their house in the middle of the night," she said. The Center takes numerous calls from investigators to schedule forensic interviews involving cases when children are abused or have witnessed violent crimes. This can involve single or multiple children from individual families. The forensic interviews with children are the first step in the investigative

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process. Advocates then follow up, offering support, assistance in scheduling counselling and any other services needed by children, and updating caregivers on pertinent data of the cases. "Intake specialists assist our partner agencies with case

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"Every day we have an opportunity to make a difference in a child's life. Sexual or physical abuse can change the trajectory of a child's entire life with many negative, long-term consequences," she said. "We help children understand that what happened to them is not their fault and teach them through trauma-focused cognitive behavioral therapy that their lives don't have to be defined by the worst thing that [ever] happened to them." The only thing about her job that Stevenson does not like is the sad fact that her job is necessary in the first place. It pains her to know so many children are hurt by those who have a responsibility to protect and nurture them.

Executive Director, Martin House Child Advocacy Center coordination and information sharing to ensure abuse cases are worked thoroughly and investigators have all necessary information," said Stevenson. On average, more than 200 cases are screened monthly concerning children in Gregg,

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Harrison, and Marion counties. Therapists stay busy with daily trauma-focused cognitive behavioral counseling sessions. Using both person-to-person and telehealth therapy, these compassionate professionals guide unfortunate children

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down the road to dealing with feelings of shame, anger, and fear that torment victims even after the abuse has ended. Martin House maintains offices in both Longview and Marshall. These centers for healing give Stevenson great fulfillment.

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Martin House CAC is a 501(c)3 non-profit dedicated to assuring every abused child who comes to them will be heard, protected, and receive services central to his or her safety plus future well-being. The center collaborates closely with law enforcement agencies, prosecutors, and Child Protective Services. The organization provides abuse prevention education to both children and adults.

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Education Fashion

Explore the true meaning of Easter

Walmart taps Brandon Maxwell as Creative Director

Today, it stands as a testament to ultimate sacrifice and the promise of eternal life for all who believe in him

eading Bunnies and baskets, chocolates and candies. It’s that time of year when parents scramble to ensure their children wake up to a trove of treats, and families decide on who is serving the lamb dinner this year. These are some of the familiar Easter traditions, but much more is involved with the holiday than egg hunts and brightly adorned bonnets. For the religious, it can be important to delve into the true meanings behind Easter and let those discoveries help shape celebrations. Easter, above all, is a religious commemoration of the resurrection of Jesus Christ. It is the culmination of the holy period known as Lent, and it the most significant date on the Christian liturgical calendar. Jesus Christ was the Son of God, who fulfilled the prophesies that he would give his own life for his people so they could enjoy eternal life after their own mortal bodies perished. Easter, from Jesus’ very own words, marked a new covenant for the faithful. According to scripture, Jesus was enjoying the Passover dinner

when he sat down with his disciples. Understanding that this would be his last earthly meal and that someone close to him would betray him, he took bread and gave thanks to God for it. He broke the bread and said it was his body that should be given up so sins would be forgiven. He did a similar gesture with wine, indicating that it was his blood that should be shed as a sacrifice for all. Christ instructed the disciples to do the same ritual in the future in memory of him. Jesus was subsequently betrayed and turned over to the authorities. He was sentenced to crucifixion and perished on the cross. His body was cleansed and placed in a tomb sealed by a stone. His followers were unaware of the miracle that would ensue in the days to come. On Easter Sunday, the tomb was discovered open and empty. Jesus had risen from the dead, providing irrefutable proof that he was the Son of God. In turn, Jesus fulfilled all he was born to do and preached.

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Walmart taps Longview, Texas native as creative director to showcase exclusive, prestigious fashion name brands

Easter did not always symbolize Christ’s resurrection when it was first celebrated. It was once a pagan ritual of renewal and birth. However, when early missionaries began spreading Christianity’s message, the holiday falling around the time of Christ’s actual resurrection was adopted to commemorate the religious miracle. Today it stands as a testament to ultimate sacrifice and the promise of eternal life for all who believe in him.

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Maxwell to design future collections of Free Assembly and Scoop, Walmart’s eminent fashion brands By J O Y C E LY N E FA D O J U T I M I / I P L U S M A G . C O M

almart has announced that it is joining forces with famous celebrated fashion designer and Longview, Texas native Brandon Maxwell (as creative direc-

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tor) for a program they call Free Assembly and Scoop to showcase exclusive, prestigious fashion name brands. This marks the first time Walmart's private brand apparel business has collaborated to expand its selection of trendy, available fashions specifically

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to enable customers to expand their wardrobes affordably, stylishly. Maxwell will oversee Free Assembly and Scoop as it expands seasonal collections for men’s, women’s and children’s clothing and accessory

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Congratulations Congratulations toto the the 2018 2018 Stars Stars Over Over Longview Longview Education Fashion lines. Maxwell is in charge from myriad of celebs, super Shalonda Adams of collection design and pro- stars and divas including Mivides input concerning chelle Obama, Lori maHolyfield BallOprah Winterial selection, sourcing, and frey, and Nicole Kidman. production. He will also par- ButBlack that is not all. Maxwell Crista ticipate in brand marketing has served as fashion director initiatives and campaigns. Lady Gaga, in addition SharonforBradley He is eager to get started. to garnering several honors Maryand Collier "Working with Walmart awards in the fashion has long been a dream of industry such as the 2020 Davis mine. Like manyCarmela people American Apparel and Footacross the country who live wear Association Designer Gerrieof Forbis in a small town, Walmart the Year Award. Furtherwas the destination for ev- more, in 2019, the Lone Star Manley erything where I grewCarol up in state awarded him the Texas Texas, including clothing," Medal of Art. Dawn Martin he says. "This partnership Maxwell found his allows mePamela to bring the expecalling as a child when he Mercer-McWilliams rience and joy of fashion to would play under racks of countless people whoMary live in the clothing store where Morris small towns." his grandmother worked. A Longview nativeJulie and This steered him into a caWoods long-time resident, Maxwell reer in fashion styling and has made a name for himself the creation of his brand in the fashion world through BRANDON MAXWELL. his red-carpet gowns and He agrees with Walmartstunning runway designs. -everyone has a right to be He earned commendations well-dressed and proud of

“Brandon is a fine young man who captivated the fashion world with his creativity and his kind caring demeanor. I have known Brandon since he was a toddler, and I am proud of his accomplishments and success. But above all, I am proud that he remembers his roots… Longview, Texas. Walmart is lucky to have him and so are we.” - Dr. Andy Mack, Mayor of Longview, Texas.

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his or her appearance. offering consumers elevated, "Brandon is a power- thoughtful, simple designs at house in the fashion indus- a fantastic value. Scoop starttry. His designs are beau- ed out in the Fall of 2019 as tiful, youthful, timeless, a fashion boutique re-created and expertly tailored," says as a Walmart brand. It is Walmart's Executive Vice- trend-inspired and features President of Apparel and elevated details that assist Private Brands Denise In- customers as they affordably candela. "Our shared fash- assemble their own personal ion values of accessibility and "Ultimate Closet." committment to incredible As part of this initiative, design and quality make him Maxwell seeks to unselfishly an ideal partner for Walmart. give back to the community Bringing his distinctive de- by introducing a line of design talent to our elevated signer face masks available "Working with Walmart has long brand collections of Free only at Walmart. Besides Doors Open at 11:30 a.m. Assembly and Scoop allows protecting against COVandmine. Luncheon at noon been aCeremony dream of Likebegin many Walmart to offer customers ID-19, Walmart will donate Maudethe Cobb Activitywho Center people across country stylish, high-quality fashion $100,000 to DonorsChoose. 100 Grand Blvd. • Longview live in a small town, Walmart was at an extraordinary value." org. Maxwell specifically Complimentary valet parking will be available. Free Assembly and chose this charity because of the destination Doors for Openeverything at 11:30 a.m. Scoop's four annual sea- its committment to assistwhere I grew up in Texas, begin including Ceremony and Luncheon at noon Ticket Information sonal collections will be his ing public school teachers clothing," he says. "This partnership Maude Cobb$30.00 Activity Center Individual Tickets • $240 for Table of 8 to oversee and operate as acquire funding needed for Tickets will be available purchase beginning he sees best, which is very materials and experiences to allows me toGrand bring thefor 100 Blvd. •experience Longview promising. His initial con- further students’ learning. November 2017. To purchase, call Longview Regional and joy of1,fashion to countless cern will be the 2021 HoliFor more info on Complimentary valet parking will be available. Medical Center’s Marketing Department at 903-553-7400. people who live in small towns." day collections, followed by Walmart and its cooperaSpeaker: his full collections drop in tion with Maxwell and/ - Brandon Maxwell, Acclaimed American Jackie Joyner-Kersey the Spring of 2022. Free As- or to purchase face masks Olympian & Greatest Female Athlete Fashion Designer, Longview Native. Individual Tickets $30.00 • $240Texas for Table of 8 sembly kicked off in the au- ofplease walmart.com/ the 20thvisit Century Tickets will be available for purchase beginning tumn of 2020 as a means of brandonmaxwell.

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n the latest Consumer Sentinel Network (CSN) report issued by the Federal Trade Commission, Texas ranks No. 12 in the nation for the most reported cases of identity theft per 100,000 residents. Nearly 135,000 Identity theft cases were documented with those aged 30-39 being the most heavily targeted group. More than $203 million in total fraud losses were reported.

The most common type of identity theft reported was Government documents or benefits fraud. This aligns with BBB reports for 2020 where government/benefits fraud reports increased by nearly 3,000% over 2019 numbers. Another fundamental way to avoid falling victim to identity theft is to shred all documents which contain personally identifiable information. BBB invites consumers

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to bring documents to be shredded to Secure Your ID Day, which will be held on Saturday, June19 at BBB offices in Tyler. BBB will host additional Secure Your ID Days in Jacksonville, Lindale, and Longview later this year. BBB also advises consumers to have a document retention schedule and offers the following suggestions: • Insurance documentation. Keep everything in a secure

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compartment for as long as you have the policy. Also, save any paperwork regarding unresolved claims/coverage. Keep utility, cell phone and similar bills only until you receive confirmation that your payment has been processed. The only exception to this is if you are self-employed. Self-employed people should keep these records longer so they can prove any deductions on their tax forms. Keep all loan paperwork until you pay off the loan. Then shred everything except the document that proves you paid in full. Find out how much time your bank and/ or credit cards give you to challenge incorrect statements. Keep them until you are no longer able to challenge them. This is typically between 60 days to one year after the mistake is made. Keep pay stubs for one year. Don't throw away your paycheck stubs until you receive your annual W-2 form from your employer. If everything matches, feel free to shred your pay stubs. Then, keep your W-2 forms for at least a few years. Keep bank statements and expired insurance policies for three years Keep tax returns, canceled checks/receipts,

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and records for tax deductions taken for seven years. The IRS has six years to challenge your return if they believe that you underreported your gross income by 25 percent or more. Keep the following items indefinitely: • All paperwork related to bankruptcy, inheritance, and wills. • Auditor's reports. • House/Condominium records: It is a good idea to keep documents of expenditures related to house/condominium improvements. Capital purchases that improve or

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enhance the value of your home when you sell your property may lower your capital gains tax. • IRA contribution records: If you made a nondeductible contribution to an IRA plan, such as a Roth IRA, keep your records to show that you were already taxed for this money. For more information on how to be a savvy consumer, go to bbb.org. To report fraudulent activity or unscrupulous business practices, go to BBB Scam Tracker. Mechele Agbayani, is president and CEO of BBB serving Central East Texas

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Cristi Coleman, Region VII Assistant Principal of the Year

Coleman has served in multiple capacities, as an elementary and junior high teacher and worked with special education students in a 2A school prior to coming to the widely acclaimed Longview Independent School District (LISD,) where she currently works as a curriculum specialist. Answering to the 3 topmost qualities of an exceptional leader, she ranked the top three attributes of a successful school leader as follows: 1. Dedication to students, teachers, and families of students because these three groups make up the school family. 2. Looks for the positive in every situation. 3. Willingness to be first to come to work and last to leave. Ms. Wilson concurs. "She works with students to instill positive behavior choices and is a liaison with parents to communicate the expectations for learning and the Hudson PEP program," said Wilson. "Region VII TEPSA and Hudson PEP Elementary congratulate Christi Coleman for her tireless dedication to the campus, staff, parents and students." Coleman's unselfish, giving side shone through as she refused to take personal credit for her recognition. For her, the acclaim was something

Ms. Coleman assists a student in the STEAM Lab.

to be shared. "This award is truly a testament to the hard work and dedication of the professionals that surround me, along with the great things that are taking place to help students at Hudson PEP," she said. "I am incredibly grateful to work with students and staff who inspire me. I am proud to be a part of the Hudson PEP family." Coleman will receive additional recognition this summer at an awards dinner in Austin, where she will mingle with earlier-awarded TEPSA assistant principals of the year. One of these honorees will be selected as the 2021 National Assistant Principal of the Year for Texas. This peer-based honor recognizes assistant principals who have demonstrated effective, caring committment to student learning via extraordinary school leadership. LISD Superintendent Dr. James Wilcox made it clear that Coleman's ability and dedication are what made her stand out to her associates. "To be singled out for recognition in your field is always an honor, but the honor is all the greater when it comes from your peers," he said. "Christi Coleman's reputation as educator and administrator is well known to us in Longview ISD, but this honor proves that her skills, ex-

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pertise and excellence are known across our region and state." TEPSA Executive Director Harley Eckhart could not agree more. "Over the past year, amidst so much uncertainty, these assistant principals have helped reimagine learning for students and staff, and created safe and nurturing spaces for their communities," said Eckhart. "We're honored to recognize them for their bold leadership and committment to students." Coleman holds a master's degree in instructional leadership from Sam Houston State University, and a Bachelor of Science from Stephen F. Austin State University. She also has earned certifications in art, special education, elementary education, and a Texas Principal’s Certification. When not riding their motorcycles, Coleman and husband Craig love spending time with their children Campbell and Carliece. This off-the-job recreation is vital for success, making her even more effective at her job. TEPSA is member-owned and member-governed, serving Texas PreK through eighth grade school leaders since 1917. It has more than 5900 members who supervise the educational activities of more than three million schoolchildren.

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iving a long, healthy life has been made possible thanks in part to modern medicine. But the factor behind longevity is more complex than just access to quality healthcare. Genetics, lifestyle and even where a person lives can all impact the length of a person’s life. Longevity is often studied so scientists can uncover the secrets to those who seem to have unlocked the fountain of youth. Certain areas of the world boast the longest life spans, and scientists study these areas for clues. In 2016, the World Economic Forum’s Global Competitiveness Survey studied the health of populations around the world. In the criteria, WEF ranked countries in terms of the average life expectancy indicating where people live the longest. While developed countries certainly made the list, there was some offset in the numbers based on high rates of mental health issues that may lead to suicide.

Overall, the following countries ranked high in average life expectancy. People interested in living longer may want to adopt some of their citizens lifestyle habits to live long lives. Monaco: The second smallest country in the world boasts quite a high life expectancy, with people living an average of 89.7 years. Nearby France has the lowest obesity rates in the world, possibly helping people to live long, healthy lives. Hong Kong: This country off the coast of China has a high longevity rate with people living an average of 84 years. Steamed food, engaging in Tai Chi and drinking tea may contribute to long life.

Spain: The Spanish dine on the famed Mediterranean Diet, which is rich in fresh vegetables, fish, and healthy fats. Spaniards live on average 83.1 years. Switzerland and Italy: Low poverty levels make a good diet more readily available to much of the Swiss and Italian populations. Diverse

topography that can push physical exertion also may help those in Switzerland and Italy live to 82.8 and 82.7 years, respectively. The U.S. Central Intelligence Agency also tracks life expectancy rates for nations around the world. The United States does not crack the top 20. The CIA puts America at number 50 on its list, with people living an average of 78.4 years 903.291.0020 1408 Lago Trail Longview heartis.com

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A night to remember By JOYCELYNE FADOJUTIMI/IPLUSMAG.COM

XXIA Jewelry of Longview is hosting “A celebration of Asian heritage” in honor of Asian American month. This night of fashion and dancing is slated for May 7 from 7:00pm to 10:00pm at LANDMARK SOCIAL, 210 East Methvin Street. The event's purpose is to recognize and encourage diversity locally by giving Longviewarea residents a chance to come together and share their cultures, heritages, and traditions. The evening's showpiece will be a fashion show exhibiting elegant, colorful, and exotic apparel provided by international fashion designer IRIS VIACRUSIS. Moreover, the program will showcase contemporary and traditional clothing fashioned from textiles thanks to Filipino indigenous people. But wait, that is not all. There is more. The evening will feature various cultural activities, entertainment, and dancing. "We are still seeking more individuals or groups who would like to sign up and share their Asian Pacific Heritage as part of the program," says the organizer, Teresa Guck. "There will be tables available for participants to showcase wares representing their cultural heritage. Anyone attending is welcome to bring or wear national costumes or traditional clothing." Furthermore, local students are encouraged to contribute their talents, creativity, and work to assist in the celebration. Young scholars interested

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in strutting on the fashion runway in this cultural extravaganza, email your photo, a short video introducing yourself, and a modeling clip to ixxia39@gmail. com. Be sure to write the word “MODEL” in the subject line. For those young and talented who wish to entertain, please email a clip of what you plan to do to ixxia39@gmail.com. Be sure to write “ENTERTAINER” on the subject line. "We still need models, both

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young men and women, and we also have clothing for girls aged six to ten years old," says Guck. "We are also looking for students who can do hair and make-up, sing, dance or provide other entertainment." Please note, due to the COVID-19 pandemic, temperature checks will be given to all who attend. There will also be social distancing.

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aster Sunday dinners are a tradition in many families. Though the COVID-19 pandemic forced families to alter that tradition in 2020, and could very well do so again in 2021, it is worth noting that Easter takes place in April this year. In many areas, April weather is warm enough to enable al fresco dining, potentially opening the door for families to celebrate together in small groups. Perhaps no food is more closely associated with Easter than lamb.

Slow-roasted Shoulder of Lamb with Cumin Seeds Serves 8-10

• 2 tablespoons cumin seeds • 1 whole shoulder of lamb on the bone (7-8 lbs.) • Salt and freshly ground pepper • Extra virgin olive oil, for drizzling For the cumin gravy: • 1-pint homemade lamb stock • 1to 2 teaspoons cumin seeds, toasted and ground Roux (optional) Warm the cumin seeds lightly in a pan, then crush them using a pestle and mortar. Score the skin of the meat in a diamond pattern with a sharp knife. Transfer to a roasting tin. Sprinkle the meat with salt, pepper and the ground cumin seeds and drizzle with olive oil. Roast for 6-7 hours at 275 F, this gives a delicious, juicy, succulent texture. Transfer to a serving dish and leave in a warm place while you make the gravy. To make the cumin gravy, spoon

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the fat off the roasting tin. Add the stock to the remaining cooking juice. Boil for a few minutes on top of the stove, stirring and scraping the tin well to dissolve the caramelized meat juices (a small whisk is typically ideal for this). Add the ground toasted cumin. Thicken with a little roux if you like. Taste and add salt and pepper if needed. Pass through a sieve and transfer to a gravy boat. Carve the meat into thick slices so that everybody gets some crushed cumin seeds. Serve |

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with the cumin gravy and crusty roast potatoes. Note: For Lamb Roast with Coriander: Substitute coriander seeds for the cumin seeds, both for roasting the limb and flavoring the gravy. Alternatively, use a mix of cumin and coriander seeds. Note: A shoulder of lamb is much trickier to carve than a leg, but it is so sweet and juicy that is certainly worth the struggle.

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Mental Health

Coping with the loss of a loved one while social

distancing

Coping with the loss of a loved one can be challenging in the best of times, but many people have had to confront such challenges at a time that is unlike any other in modern history.

y the start of the second full week of May 2020, the World Health Organization reported that roughly 279,000 people across the globe had died from the novel coronavirus COVID-19. Many of the 215 countries, areas or territories that reported cases of COVID-19 implemented social distancing measures in an effort to reduce the spread of the virus. While

such efforts no doubt saved lives, they also left many people without traditional means of grieving their deceased loved ones. For example, in March the Church of England limited the number of people who could attend funerals to immediate family members only, while restrictions on gatherings in the United States made it difficult if not impossible for more than 10 people to grieve together in person. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention notes

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that grief is a normal response to losing a loved one. In addition, the American Psychological Association says that research has shown that social support can help people recover from such losses Though traditional funerals and family gatherings may not be possible as the world responds to the COVID-19 outbreak, those who have lost loved ones can embrace various strategies to cope with their loss even while stay-athome orders remain in place.

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• Host calls with family members and friends. The videotelephone and chat service Zoom has helped millions of people stay connected with loved ones while social distancing. Schools and universities even employed the service when in-person classroom sessions were canceled to stop the spread of the virus. The CDC recommends grieving families employ such technology to connect with each other in the wake of a loved one’s death. • Share stories. Grieving family members are urged to share stories and pictures much like they would during wakes and funerals.

Share them during group conference calls and/or via social media, emails or other modern modes of communications. Connecting in such ways can ensure no one is forced to grieve alone. • Seek support from your community. The CDC recommends seeking support from faith-based organizations or other trusted community leaders and friends. While inperson church services may not be available, many local religious leaders have made themselves available to congregants and even non-congregants who may need help grieving. Local

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community organizations may have grief counselors available to help people cope with loss. • Take part in an activity that meant something to you and your deceased loved one. The CDC notes that doing something in memory of a loved one can help people cope. For example, plant flowers in honor of a deceased parent with whom you shared a love of gardening. Confronting the loss of a loved one during the COVID-19 outbreak can be challenging. But families can still overcome this challenge even if they cannot gather together in person.

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COVID-19 PANDEMIC: How to throw a safe bachelor or bachelorette party

he consensus from public health professionals around the world is to maintain continued social distancing to help prevent further spread of the COVID-19 virus. Various events have been modified due to the pandemic, and weddings and bachelor/ bachelorette parties have proven no exception. Couples may need to make certain changes to traditional gatherings like bachelor and bachelorette parties to stay safe. Wedding parties average four to five close friends or family members on each side, according to Martha Stewart weddings. Gatherings of five will likely

comply with the limitations set for gatherings for indoor and outdoor venues. However, it is essential to check local regulations before planning festivities. Even if gathering with your wedding party is doable, you may have to think outside the box when it comes to how to enjoy these last hoorahs before the wedding.

Host it Outdoors

The likelihood of spreading respiratory viruses like COVID-19 is greatly reduced in outdoor settings where respiratory droplets are more likely to be dispersed rather than concentrated. Restaurants and bars still offer outdoor seating options in many areas, and an

intimate gathering for food and drinks outside can be a low-key way to spend an evening.

Try an extreme Activity

Weekend travel has become a standard option for many bachelor and bachelorette parties. But travel restrictions or personal health preferences may mean it is not prudent to take a trip to Las Vegas or Cancun. Booking activities that are a little edgy can add some adventure to the festivities if travel is a nonstarter. Some amusement parks are still open, so an evening of riding zero-gravity coasters or freefall bungee jumps could satisfy everyone’s adventurous side. Racetracks offer tourist options where novices can take high-speed

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spins around the course. When traveling in small groups, these activities can be possible.

Virtual Karaoke

In-person karaoke nights may be unavailable, but there is a bevy of online sing-along apps that enable participants to sing with backing tracks either for solo performances or with others even

people around the world. Each member of the bachelorette or bachelor party can download the same app and then sing together. Laugh along to renditions of classic tunes or modern favorites.

Celebrate at Home

It may not seem as glamorous as a night out, but home cocktail parties can be customized.

Hire a mixologist to whip up special drinks for the occasion. Caterers may be available to cook personalized meals in your home, providing lessons along the way. Bachelor and bachelorette parties may have to change as the world continues to confront the pandemic. With a few tweaks, these events can still be enjoyable and memorable.

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Calla lily symbolizes magnificence and beauty, as well as purity and innocence. That is why Calla lilies are often the flower of choice in wedding bouquets.

lowers can represent various emotions. Flowers play a prominent role in many weddings and holidays. Shoppers can look to various blooms to send the right message to that special someone in their lives. In fact, each type of flower conveys its own unique message. ProFlowers and Pickup Flowers note that the following are some popular blooms and the messages those flowers are traditionally associated with. Amaryllis: This flower is symbolic of splendid beauty and can be used to indicate worth. Aster: The aster symbolizes patience, elegance, and daintiness. Calla lily: This bloom symbolizes magnificence and beauty, as well as purity and innocence. That is why Calla lilies are often the flower of choice in wedding bouquets. Carnations: These are one of the most popular flowers in the world and are generally

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symbolic of love and fascination. Daffodil: Daffodils symbolize regard and chivalry. They also can be indicative of rebirth, new beginnings, and eternal life. A single daffodil can signal misfortune, while a bunch expresses joy and happiness. Gerbera daisies: With large, beautiful blooms in a wide assortment of vibrant colors, gerbera daisies are a favorite flower for cheerful sentiments. Gladioluses: These tall, striking flowers are eyecatching and make great gifts for significant others. The gladiolus symbolizes honor, infatuation, and strength. Iris: Irises represent faith, hope and wisdom and are cherished for their big, beautiful blooms. Peony: This flower, which resembles a rose, symbolizes

a happy life, happy marriage, prosperity, and good health. Rose: Roses symbolize love in its various forms, and different colors of roses symbolize different things. For example, yellow roses represent care and friendship, while pink roses are given as a token of admiration. Choosing a flower that best represents the feelings gift-givers want to convey can incorporate even more meaning into a bouquet or basket.

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Tips for a successful marriage proposal

hile there is no proposal playbook, these guidelines can assist those ready to take the leap.

Add a personal touch. It is easy to get caught up in making a marriage proposal a spectacle or something worthy of a social media post. But taking a sweetheart back to a special place that recalls a significant moment can set the backdrop for a memorable proposal Embrace the old fashioned. Show respect to future in-laws by speaking to them about intentions to propose and ask for their blessings. Get down on bended knee when asking for a sweetheart’s hand. Such

gestures add up to meaningful expressions of love. Consider timing. A person may be so excited to propose that he or she fails to consider how the other person in the relationship is feeling. If that person is overwhelmed by work projects or stressed about upcoming events, consider waiting to propose at a more relaxed time.

Enlist help from others. Ask friends and close family members to be your accomplices so that information can be gathered without generating suspicion. This can be especially helpful when finding the perfect ring.

Keep it simple. Simplicity, even if it means keeping the proposal to yourself until the question has been popped, can make for an extra special moment. Marriage proposals happen every day. With humor, confidence, and a heart full of love, popping the question can be a success.

Exterior renovations that can improve home value

enovating a home to improve its value can be a smart investment. Interior improvements, such as updating kitchens and baths, offer good return on investment. Exterior renovations can add value to a home and give it that coveted wow factor. Landscaping Abundant and well-planned landscaping can instantly boost curb appeal. As buyers use the internet to look for their dream homes, there is no denying a beautifully landscaped, nicely photographed property can entice buyers to click and read more about a house. Address insects and minor repairs Improving home value may come

down to fixing areas of the home that negatively affect its appeal to buyers. Hire an inspector to look at key components of the home and recommend repairs. Improve the entryway The front door is the focal point of a home’s exterior. Invest in a new door or paint it a striking color to add appeal. A door provides visual appeal and security buyers look for. Entryway should have a level walkway, steps in good repair, accents free from rust and decorative plants. Outdoor lighting Outdoor lighting can add to the ambiance of a property and serve as a security feature. Utilize different lights: bright light by the entry, uplighting in trees and shrubs for drama, a light-

lined path to the door to improve visibility, and motion-detection lights to improve security of the property. Paint A fresh coat of paint or new (or cleaned) siding can instantly give homes a facelift. Neutral, warm, and inviting colors tend to have the widest appeal. Adding manufactured stone veneer to the home can offer a 94.9 percent ROI, says Remodeling.

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