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By SAMUEL LEVINE

July is Military Consumer Month, so we’re deploying advice you can use. No matter what stage of military life you’re going through, you could encounter an imposter scam: someone pretending to be your bank’s fraud department, the government, a relative in distress, a well-known business, or a technical support expert. Want to protect yourself and the people you care about? Let the FTC help.

Scammers tell different sto-

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through a social media page? Do your research before you pay a deposit. Scammers often post madeup rental listings for places that aren’t actually available to rent. Learn more at ftc.gov/imposters.

Samuel Levine is Director, Bureau of Consumer Protection, FTC

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Dr. James Wilcox: LISD

Superintendent Emeritus talks district successes and more

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In this July edition, we had the privilege to interview Dr. James Wilcox and discovered the secret to his success. Read our cover story to understand who Dr. James Wilcox is whether you like him or not – not that it really matters to him.

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It has been a long time since 1973. That is when Dr. James Wilcox started his career in education. Now, after a half century of enriching young minds and steering them down the straight and narrow to educational success, his own trek along this path is coming to an end, but not quite so.

His calling started as a classroom teacher, then moved along to other positions as principal, and eventually Longview Independent School District (LISD) superintendent. He prepared for his life's work by pulling down a BBA in general business administration and an M.Ed. in educational administration from Lamar University. In 1987, he earned his Doctor of Education from Texas A&M. Read full story from page 8.

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Texas Bank and Trust is again showcasing the Great State's untouched natural beauty and lovely diversity through the fortysecond Annual Photography Contest and Exhibition. Of this year's 710 entries, forty-nine were recognized at the awards reception held Sunday, June 30. This event commenced the main, Longview bank's twoweek art extravaganza.

One hundred forty-eight photographic artists hailing from sixty-seven communi-

ties submitted their creations chronicling Lone Star life making this year, the second largest exhibit in forty-two years according to Karen Partee, Texas Bank and Trust executive vice president and chief marketing officer. “It is a testament to how much people look forward to this annual event - entries coming from Austin, Dallas and east Texas,” Partee said.

Four photos pulled down cash prizes for Fine Art, Human Interest, Landscape/Nature, and the Spirit of Texas. Other very notable tops include the Vice-Chairman's Birthday

Card Award, the Chairman's Award, the President's Award, the Christmas Card Award, the OMNIClub Birthday Card Award, the Stephen Lane Award of Excellence, and Best of Show. Winning images are to appear in the Texas Bank & Trust 2025 calendar.

Local lady Holly Forbes is a graphic designer who also founded Forbes & Butler Visual Communications. Her keen eye for lovely graphic material made her the obvious choice as juror for this year's competition. She has worked in depth with professional photogra-

phers, directing products, model, and location photo shoots. Her skill in this field has made her invaluable in her capacity as designer for the Texas Bank & Trust Collector's Calendar for more than thirty years.

All entered photos will remain for public viewing during regular banking hours in the main lobby at 300 East Whaley in downtown Longview, Texas until Thursday, July 11. Ballots for the People’s

Choice Award will be handed out throughout the two-week exhibition. The winner will be revealed the following week.

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Heather Mitchell, Sarah Rector, Sabrina Dickerson

EVP/CMO Karen Partee, Juror Holly Forbes and SVP/Ad Manager Lori Osborne. Keith Purvis and Dorie Deland

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Dr. James Wilcox: LISD Superintendent Emeritus talks district successes and more

By JOYCELYNE FADOJUTIMI

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It has been a long time since 1973.

That is when Dr. James Wilcox started his career in education. Now, after a half century of enriching young minds and steering them down the straight and narrow to educational success, his own trek along this path is coming to an end, but not quite so.

"I will stay involved in the school business," he says. "I've been doing it for too long."

LISD trustees Dr. Troy Simmons, DDS, and retired U.S. Army, Desert Shield/

Desert Storm and Operation Iraqi Freedom veteran Ted Beard were among the decision makers who, in April 2007, hired Wilcox away from his then-position in Waxahachie. Simmons was impressed by Wilcox's unconditional fixation on student success.

"At the time of Dr. Wilcox's hiring as LISD superintendent it was quite obvious that

he was what was needed in order to move our district forward," he says. "Wilcox was solely interested in student achievement, expansion of programs that would be the most beneficial for our students. He was singularly focused on students' needs, and not adults' wants."

Beard also perceived how Wilcox was ideal for the job.

“Students success is our focus. And we have done that. That is why we are an “A” rated district according to the state of Texas. We are the largest “A” rated district east of Interstate 45 in the entire state of Texas and we are proud of that, and it shows that our students can do it.”

– Dr. James Wilcox

Dr. Wilcox speaks at Longview High School graduation

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“As a board member, making “data-based decisions” is paramount in school board service. The data, which included having student achievement and experience in like district demographics, Dr. Wilcox was the best person for the position.”

After eighteen years of incalculable service to Longview ISD students, parents and community, Wilcox can see the time has come to step down. He and wife Jan have four children

who have presented them with eighteen grandchildren and great-grandchildren. He has a daughter who is following in his footsteps, having just taken her doctorate degree from Texas A&M at Texarkana. She is currently curriculum director for Texarkana's Pleasant Grove High School.

His youngest son is assistant director for palliative care for Christus in Texarkana, another son is in the education field, while his oldest son is corporate vice-president for

We couldn’t have done the things that we accomplished here in Longview without the support of the various board members over the years. I will always miss Sam Satterwhite, he was a great friend and Board member, he loved Longview ISD. – Dr. James Wilcox

Also, the free Montessori gives younger pupils early preparation for a successful future going forward.

"This innovative idea was recognized and earned an award presented by the National School Board Association," says Beard. Simmons chimed in by pointing out how, thanks to Wilcox, the LISD is one of the country's few districts with these priceless assets.

New Corp Steel. His passion for his family is downright touching.

"The four kids are great, but the grandkids are just perfect. Jan spoils them worse than I do. They love her," he says. "Jan wants me to retire and be home with her, and we will do that, but like I said, I will still do something in education."

Simmons was moved to hire Wilcox because of the candidate's record of success with school districts with a high percentage of disadvantaged

students. His ability to innovate was also key.

Beard was impressed by Wilcox's student-first approach. His first concern was what was best for his students, especially those with limited resources. This made him stand out from all other prospects.

"The district needed someone with a clear vision for students, and that could not be swayed by the politics of the community," says Simmons.

His long tenure in education has done nothing to alter his steadfast drive toward the objective of student success. Political considerations are cast aside.

"I think that my eighteen years here have been successful because I always put the children first in our decisions no matter the consequences or who it makes mad. I always did what

was best for the kids in the district," he says. "I always tried to do what was best for my own kids, also. I want to say we are lucky, but we are really blessed. We will still live here in the district."

School bonds have always been a major success factor in his service.

"Passing the first bond, set the stage for everything that followed because our facilities were not that good when I got here," he says. "Passing that first bond allowed us to move forward with the Montessori as well as the International Baccalaureate program."

Beard and Simmons, furthermore, point to additional accomplishments Wilcox oversaw. The 2008 bond financed the rebuilding of most of the district, created opportunities for students and destroyed barriers by providing International Baccalaureate.

"LISD's Montessori program is not found in other districts within the state, and there are only a few within the nation."

Wilcox plays down his great achievement in the bond election and its precious results.

"I have passed bonds before in Waxahachie and two in Hooks."

Still, there is no denying the impact of these accomplishments. The first bond passage he oversaw provided $267 million and financed seven new elementary school campuses, three new middle school campuses and major upgrades at Longview High School. More importantly, he also supervised a rezoning of the district that shrank the original twenty-eight attendance zones to a much simpler six. This led to a federal court easing off on a forty-year-old desegregation dictate.

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Gov. Greg Abbott with Dr. James Wilcox Longview ISD Superintendent and various dignitaries.

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"I feel very good about everything we have done here," Wilcox says. "I feel like the kids are real winners. The students are real winners of everything we have done here for the past eighteen years."

His early life taught him both the consequences of an inadequate education, and the rewards of a good one.

"We didn't have a lot growing up. We ate good. They would say we were poor but didn't know it,” he chuckled. “A couple of people had faith in me and helped me along the way. I wanted to be an advocate for students who didn't have an advocate."

In this he succeeded, and Simmons points out a few:

• Implementing dual credit for high school students.

• Securing increased salaries for teachers, staff and support personnel via an incentive pay plan based on students' performance.

• Bringing increased remuneration to all employees on campuses, showing improvement.

• Expansion of CTE programs into dual-credit courses.

• Construction of a meatprocessing lab and an intensification of an AG program.

• An early graduation

program that is used by the LISD along with surrounding districts who have benefitted from it.

• The district-wide International Baccalaureate program that puts the LISD in a place no other Texas district can claim.

• Insuring that the LISD is literally the only Senate Bill 1882 school district in Texas.

• The state's Teacher Incentive Pay Program is modeled on the LISD's Wilcox-directed LIFT program.

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Dr. James Wilcox

Photo

Michael Cavazos

Because of his flawless guidance in achieving the best possible learning and teaching environments for both students and faculty there are teachers and professionals from far and wide who aspire to come to the LISD.

"I think the reason why most teachers want to come here is because we don't wrap our arms around them and tell them every day we love them," he says. "Actions speak louder than words. We are

You don’t get accolades for everything you do in education; your reward is seeing successful adults that are working tax paying citizens and you helped provide the education that gave them the tools to be successful in life. Looking out and seeing that makes you smile; it makes you feel good. I loved every day that I came up here and still do.

– Dr. James Wilcox

the highest-paying district in East Texas, and money isn't everything. Nonetheless, like Zig Zigler used to say, 'Money isn't everything, but it ranks right up there with oxygen.'"

It is impossible to overstate Wilcox's drive to see to it that both students and teachers benefit from their tenures in the LISD. He has always greatly emphasized the importance of adequately compensating the teachers who execute his campaign for student success.

Lobo football. To win the state championship for the first time since 1933 was a big deal," he says. "But the A rating for every student is the biggest of them all."

He and his whole family are delighted by his retirement and are looking forward to it. They realize this changing lifestyle after fifty-two years in education will be an adjustment, but they all love Longview. It is their adopted hometown and will be a great place to retire.

"We have high expectations for every child, and we talk about that all the time. If a child is not learning, we need to change the way we're presenting the material to them," he says. "We can have a great plan, but a great teacher has to implement it for it to be successful for students, and if we can't keep somebody, and they leave, we don't want money to be the reason they left."

Although Wilcox was ecstatic over the LISD earning an "A" rating from the state of Texas, he also eagerly follows athletics.

"I do love football. I love

"They really don't know how to take it because as long as any of them have known me, I have been working in education, and it is a lot to be thankful for," he says. "I can look back and reflect on all the student success stories, all the kids that might not have had a chance, and we gave them a chance."

Beard went yet further in his praise of Wilcox and his endless, positive impact on east Texas and state.

"His leadership has provided purpose, guidance and direction not only to the school board, but also to the extent where Longview ISD is consistently recognized by the Commissioner of Education and numerous other school districts in Texas for his innovative ideas and leadership," he says. "He leaves the district financially sound and also an "A" rated district in the state of Texas.

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Dr. James Wilcox

Photo by Michael Cavazos

That says it all - very innovative with a nononsense attitude."

Simmons gave a summation of Wilcox's career and value to east Texas education that is hard to follow.

"The one thing I would want

the public to know is [that] Dr. Wilcox is about children and public education, and not just because he's a superintendent, but because he believes in public education," he says. "As he leaves the district, we can see [how] the district has

come a long way from when he first arrived, but there's lots of work still to be done, and we must maintain a focus of kids first and adults second if we are to move upward and forward. Dr. Wilcox is a person of commitment to

those he serves."

Just as the A rating is exciting, death deals a blow to his joy. The death of any student brings sadness to Wilcox. For him, “The saddest day would have to be the day my good friend James Brewer died. We had been friends for 30

“I couldn’t have done all this without a supportive wife, you just can’t. It is too time-consuming and stressful and if you don’t have a good spouse then you are in trouble. She is a big part of my success here in Longview, any success we have had is her success also.”

– Dr. James Wilcox

years, he said. “All of those years, I was close to Mr. Brewer. He was one of a kind.”

Wilcox leaves a financially sound school district with A rating but not before he passed his second LISD bond that failed twice.

According to him, the first two times, they had the wrong approach. They were not presenting it in the right way to their parents and constituents in the district. The charm came the third

time whey they took the approach of going directly to parents and constituents. For this reason, he met with an astounding success. The bond passed with a landslide victory.

PROP A addresses aging buildings at Longview High and across the district.

PROP B is a new Early Childhood Center and renovations to repurpose the current facility.

Dr. Wilcox in his office.

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PROP C builds a new multi-purpose facility that serves all sports and a variety of student activities.

PROP D is for renovations to Lobo Stadium and Judson Middle School Stadium.

PROP E builds a new Aquatics Center/ Natatorium facility.

Longview ISD voters approved all five propositions in the $456.2 million bond election held on May 4.

Proposition A passed with 3,073 votes for and 1,602 votes against.

Proposition B passed with 2,845 votes for and 1,813 votes against.

Proposition C passed with 2,718 votes for and 1,930 votes against.

Proposition D passed with 2,700 votes for and 1,952 votes against.

Proposition E passed with 2,815 votes for and 1,837 votes against.

“I will be around right here in town. I will do everything that I can to help make the new superintendent successful,” he said. “I will be here to help the district continue to succeed. I will be available, I love it here, love the district, love the students, and I will do any and everything that I can.”

“The saddest day would have to be the day my good friend James Brewer died. We had been friends for 30 years and all of those years, I was close to Mr. Brewer. He was one of a kind.”

– Dr. James Wilcox

Love keeps no record of wrongs

GOD’S WORD:

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.”

– 1 Corinthians 13: 4-8a

Keeping a tab on those who wrong us is nothing but resentment. Resentment is yesterday’s hurts etched into the memory banks of our minds to where even minor hurts become major resentments. With resentment residing in our hearts, it displaces room for forgiveness and grace. A wise person once told me that keeping a record of wrongs people do to you is like keeping that broccoli in the refrigerator. You know you’re right in having it on your list of proper vegetables but pretty soon is begins to brown and wither and above all…smell!

Nothing stinks up a refrigerator like rotten broccoli! But instead of throwing it out, we hold onto it; thinking that someday we’ll need it and remind ourselves that it’s good for us. But like resentful feelings, it’s time to throw it out and remove the stink.

And that’s not easy to do.

We remember our hurts and pains with vivid integrity. We hold onto them as a reminder that we have been a victim. We want justice served on those who have wronged us. But we know that the longer we hold onto these hurt feelings, they will eventually eat away at our joy and ability to love and trust others like a cancerous tumor. It’s only through the power of love that we have the strength to do this. It’s the power of love that let’s us put these hurts behind us (as opposed to the front of our thoughts) and love those who have wronged us in agape love. And when we’re able to do that, a peace comes upon us and we come to know something more about our Savior who saves us from ourselves.

Christ is calling us to let go; to release these “records of wrongs”; to love that person not BECAUSE of what they did, but DESPITE of what they did.

“Love one another, as I have loved you.”

Dr. James Wilcox reading to students

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Business and Finance

FTC stops another student loan debt relief scheme

By ARI LAZARUS

Some student loan debt relief companies will lie and say they’re affiliated with the Department of Education when they’re not. They want their bogus claims of “guaranteed” loan forgiveness (for a fee) to seem more legitimate (they’re not). And that’s what the FTC says Prosperity Benefit Services did when it sent out mailers promoting “complete” student loan forgiveness. If you called, telemarketers would try to convince you to enroll in one of the company’s programs by telling you it was affiliated with the Department of Education (they weren’t) and claiming it would make you eligible for quick loan forgiveness (they wouldn’t).

Here are red flags to watch out for:

To sign up, Prosperity Benefit Services asked for an (illegal) upfront fee, your FSA account data, and your signature to get you started on a monthly payment plan. What services would you get? Usually nothing. In the rare case it did submit your application, it was for free federal repayment programs you could've signed up for yourself.

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LRMC surgeons achieve milestone in robotic-assisted joint replacements

Lifestyle Options and Senior Care Services

You always heard the retirement years would be relaxing, and we’re here to make sure that Independent Living is a vacation. We take care of the tasks – big and small – so our seniors can enjoy our clubhouse, swimming pools, and fitness center in style.

• Scammers charge an upfront fee. It’s illegal for companies to charge you before they help reduce or get rid of your student loan debt.

• Scammers say they need your FSA ID login information. Never give out this information. If a scammer gets your FSA ID, they could cut you off from your loan servicer — or even steal your identity. Get free help managing your federal loans at StudentAid.gov/ repay. If your loans are private, go straight to your loan servicer for help.

Ari Lazarus is FTC Consumer Education Specialist

• Scammers use official-looking names, seals, and logos to make them seem more legit. Make sure you’re working with a federal student loan servicer that’s listed on the Department of Education’s website. (And use the contact information listed there too — scammers can spoof the numbers and names of legit servicers.)

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Longview Regional Medical Center is proud to announce that Longview Orthopedics Regional Clinics Surgeons, Dr. Jordan Stanley and Dr. Martin Hilton, have achieved a significant milestone in their medical careers. Each surgeon has successfully performed over 500 minimally invasive robotic-assisted joint replacement surgeries.

Dr. Jordan Stanley and Dr. Martin Hilton have each been at the forefront of adopting advanced medical technologies to enhance patient outcomes. Their expertise in roboticassisted surgery allows for greater precision, reduced recovery times, and improved overall patient satisfaction. The use of minimally invasive techniques further underscores their commitment to providing the highest level of care with the least amount of disruption to patients’ lives.

“Our goal has always been to offer our patients the best possible outcomes with the least amount of pain and downtime,” said Dr. Stanley. “Reaching this milestone is a testament to our dedication to continuous improvement and patient-centered care.”

Dr. Hilton added, “We are thrilled to have the opportunity to utilize minimally invasive technology to improve the quality of life for our patients. The success of these procedures is a direct result of the comprehensive team effort at Longview Regional Medical Center, from pre-operative planning to post-operative care.”

Robotic-assisted joint replacement surgery uses advanced robotic systems to assist surgeons in performing precise and accurate joint replacements. This technology allows for customized surgical plans tailored to each patient’s unique anatomy, leading to more consistent outcomes and faster recoveries.

“We are incredibly proud of Dr. Stanley and Dr. Hilton for their pioneering work in robotic-assisted joint replacement surgery,” said Steve Gordon, CEO of Longview Regional Medical Center. “Their achievements reflect the hospital’s mission to provide exceptional care through innovation and dedication. We look forward to supporting their continued success and seeing the positive impact on our community.”

Patients interested in learning more about roboticassisted joint replacement surgery at Longview Regional Medical Center can visit www. longviewregional.com.

LRMC surgeons achieve milestone in robotic-assisted joint replacements

Tips for grilling the perfect burger Grubs

Hamburgers are a staple at backyard barbecues. Though burgers are a relatively simple food, mastering the technique to grill burgers is no small feat, as there is more to great grilled burgers than simply firing up the grill and dropping down a patty.

 Choose fresh ground beef that has a decent percentage of fat. The fat-to-lean meat ratio should be around 20 percent fat to 80 percent meat. Spend a little more to get freshly ground meat that has not been previously frozen.

 Don’t overwork the burgers with a lot of handling. This will warm up the fat in the burger, which causes it to emulsify and could make the meat rubbery.

 Reconsider adding a lot of herbs, spices or add-ins to the burgers, as such items can detract from the flavor of the meat. Extra herbs and spices also may require extra mixing, which can lead overhandling.

 Push a dimple into the top of the burger, which will help prevent the burger from expanding upward and out while cooking and rounding out in

the process. The dimple will keep the top of the burger flat, which facilitates easy topping.

Make sure the grill is hot. Burgers do well with high heat and will cook relatively quickly.

 Resist the urge to push down on the patty with your spatula. This will cause the juices to spill out and may result in a dry, tough burger.

 Let burgers rest before serving. This lets the juices redistribute throughout and makes for a moist and tasty first bite.

Arabella of Longview Business After Hours a hit

Businesses who attended the recent Arabella of Longview’s business after hour were greeted by an Elvis impersonator. Besides Elvis, there was delectable food and wonderful door prizes Arabella stylemagnificent ambience, many businesses in attendance, so much fun while networking.

For example, Jim Bartlett of Jim Bartlett Jewelry donated a pair of diamond stud

earrings for a door prize and a lucky lady won it!

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Cadence bank appreciates realtors

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April is Financial Literacy Month, and a great time to talk about consumer protection information that helps people avoid losing money to scammers. Federal Trade Commission data show people reported losing more than $10 billion to scams in 2023, marking the first time that fraud losses have reached that benchmark. It's now more important than ever to share information about spotting, avoiding and reporting scams. The free advice at ftc.gov/Money Matters will help you.

Whether you’re renting your

first place to live, buying a car, applying for a job or mortgage, or looking for help dealing with debt, Money Matters has the tools we can all use to spot, avoid, and report scams as you venture on your way.

The information at Money Matters is here when and where you need it, on your phone or computer, and includes articles, videos, graphics to share on social media, and PowerPoint presentations on topics like: Buying or Renting a Home, Avoiding a Scam When You’re Looking for a Job, Borrowing and Debt, Buying and Owning a Car.

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Tammy Price, Door prize Winner Keddrick Johnson with Cami Hinson

Tammy Price, Door Prize Winner Michelle Madonado and Robert Monsivais

Arabella Team strikes a pose with Elvis impersonator

Josh Doyle door prize winner flanked by Arabella Longview Paula Prince and Nekeita Fluellen

Thanks to the commitment and generosity of the board members including the following sponsors:

Jose Moreno - Thank you for sponsoring the Green Rose Garden Event Center

Rosy Gutierrez with Decorando con Pompones - Thank you for sponsoring the event decorations.

Nayeli Fernandez with Ada's Balloons - Thank you for sponsoring the balloon decorations.

Ruby Dalia Abarca with Ruby's Mexican Restaurant - Thank you for sponsoring the food prepared by El Rincon.

M&M Merari Jacquez - Thank you for sponsoring the waiters

Meri Designs - Thank you for being a sponsor.

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Bryan Garcia with 318 LatinoVery Special thank you!

Lanie & Landry Pritchett with Pritchett Princess Parties.

By the way, Lanie & Landry Pritchett are Theatre Majors at

Stephen F. Austin university. They are currently raising funds to go on a study abroad trip to London with Tour school. They sing at events and also have a business called Pritchett Princess Parties, and you can hire them on Facebook.

“We loved singing at Orchids at Hope because it is a worthy cause that supports many organizations, and helping others is so important to us.”

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common mental health disorders

Mdisorders are more common than one may think. Despite dramatic strides in reducing the stigma surrounding mental health, there are some who remain hesitant to bring up mental health issues. Mental disorders affect thinking, feeling, mood, and behavior. Some mental health conditions can be chronic, while others are temporary, indicates MedlinePlus. Mental illness can result from life experiences, traumatic brain injury, genes, family history, and other biological factors. The following are some of the common mental health conditions people may experience.

1 Anxiety disorders

Anxiety disorders are a group of conditions, including generalized anxiety disorder, social phobias, specific phobias,

panic disorders, obsessive compulsive disorder, and posttraumatic stress disorder. These conditions are characterized by feelings of worry, fear and nervousness that are strong enough to interfere with daily activities.

2 Depression

Depression involves feeling sad, irritable or empty. Loss of pleasure or interest in activities, including ones that were once enjoyed, can occur. People with depression often feel hopeless about the future, may have changes in sleeping patterns, may have changes in appetite, and may feature low energy.

3 Eating disorders

WebMD indicates eating disorders involve extreme emotions, attitudes and behaviors involving weight, body image and food. Anorexia nervosa, bulimia nervosa and binge eating disorder are the most common eating disorders. Body dysmorphic disorder also is a mental health condition, and

it involves worry about flaws in appearance, which can be related to eating disorders.

4 Addiction and impulse control disorders

5 Bipolar affective disorder

This is a type of mood disorder previously known as manic depression. Someone with this condition experiences episodes of mania (elation) and depression. Speaking with a doctor about mental health conditions is the first step to getting help.

volunteered and assisted her with the cooking.

It was a success beyond her expectations.

"I didn't know I was going to get a lot of messages even to the point the city of Hallsville gave me a certificate of appreciation," she says.

By founding and organizing its Stop Child Abuse Race, she raised more than $30,000 for the Martin House from 2019-2023. Her associate Catalina Lopez makes clear her own reasons for helping Esmeralda in her many and crucial involvements.

"I believe that every individual deserves access to support and resources, and I'm committed to helping Orchids of Hope work towards a future where no one has to struggle alone," she says. "I'm excited to see the work Esmeralda is doing, and the purpose behind the organization. When I heard her story, I felt goosebumps and felt the Lord wanted me to help in any way I could."

Esmerelda has so many who believe in the mental health cause. And they have joined her board of directors for several reasons.

For example, Catalina Lopez, president, and CEO of Aroma Cleaning joined the board because she believes everyone person deserves access to mental health services. resources. In addition, Catalina felt the call from on high to assist Orchids of Hope with their mission.

Paula Jimenez accepted the invitation to join the board because mental health and

should feel ashamed or judged when trying to overcome their own struggles.

Linda Felix concurs with Jimenez. She is deeply committed to assisting Orchids of Hope in raising mental health awareness and locating services for those who need them. This is especially for those going through abuse, substance dependency, or bullying.

In addition, Monica Martinez answered the call as a treasurer because Orchids of Hope vision offers hope to people facing preventable challenges like suicide, addiction, and abuse.

As for Olivia Coffman, she joined the board because she believes that through education and compassion, the Longview community can heal, flourish, and grow.

Moreover, Ximena García is dedicated to the mission of suicide prevention, depression, and addictions. She strongly believes in the importance of offering emotional support to people who need it because she has seen firsthand the positive impact of emotional support.

Southside Banker Arturo

Figueroa joined Orchids of Hope board to serve by locating mental health resources for those who need them.

Ruth de Jesus found her calling with Orchids of Hope. Her mission is to become a voice for the voiceless and support for citizens who live in the margins of society.

Diana Davidson works at Hallsville ISD as a parent and

Hope is a great pleasure – all for a noble cause.

Ruby Abarca owner or RUBYS Mexican Restaurant is a special jewel on the board. She is passionate about assisting other women in their endeavors. Hence, she joined to help Esmeralda with Orchids of Hope.

But wait. That is not all.

Gema Ramirez is a student at Texas State University. Still, her passion led her to join the board as a secondary secretary because she loves the beautiful message Orchids of Hope.

To top it off, on the board of directors is Ana Barnson, a Licensed Professional Counselor Supervisor. She is vice president on the board and passionate about community mental health education. She said it best: “I believe that through compassionate education, we can raise awareness and play a vital role in preventing and reducing the profound challenges of depression, anxiety, suicidality, and substance abuse. Together, we can make a difference and foster a healthier, more informed community.”

There is more.

After a mere six months of operation as a non-profit, Orchids of Hope pulled off its first gala with a resounding success. Instead of raising funds, the gala recognized other non-profits who are already in the trenches. Very magnanimous of Orchids of Hope to be spreading the word for other organizations.

Esmeralda Barron, Founder, Orchids of Hope

ESMERALDA BARRON:

“If you are still alive, there is hope, your mission is not finished.” - Esmeralda Barron.

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In some ways Longview's Esmeralda Barron is a typical wife and mother, but her drive to make life better for others sets her apart. Her dedication to her husband of twenty-three years and their three children is clear and heart-warming. She met her man while they were both working in a restaurant, he proposed six months later, and they are still on their honeymoon. Still, her life's journey has often been uphill.

In some ways Esmeralda Barron is a typical wife and mother, but her drive to make life better for others sets her apart. Her dedication to her husband of twenty-three years and their three children is clear and heart-warming. She met her man while they were both working in a restaurant, he proposed six months later, and they are still on their honeymoon. Still, her life's journey has often been uphill.

Her father was a bus driver who traveled all over Mexico, and she loved playing with his work clothes, and she loved him. Her mother was a teacher in a small town in Mexico, and until Esmeralda was five, she lived with a friend of her mother's. However, she moved in with her mother when she was nearly six years old. Since her siblings were just meeting a sixyear-old Esmeralda, they bullied

her because they thought she was adopted when in actuality, she is their blood sister. However, they came to understand that she was not adopted, and they showered her with love.

She was eleven when her mother committed suicide. This was motivation for Esmeralda to later start a non-profit to help others who are enduring such severe trials. Her parents set her out onto the straight and narrow.

"The values that I was left with are to open doors and not close them to anyone," she says. "Be honest and very responsible."

Despite her Christian values, Esmaralda faced the challenges of life that led her to start drinking when she was 15. But her problems were not over. At 17, she was sexually abused. “I fell into the abyss of hopelessness and indulged in alcohol to take away the pain,” she said. “I was angry with everyone, but a friend introduced me to a book that said if I am still alive, that means my mission is not finished hence what I do with Orchids of Hope.”

Esmeralda was at the lowest point in her life when her sister-inlaw invited her to come to United States. Coming the USA was a game changer for her. According to Esmeralda, United States gave her a new lease on life. For example, she

felt such an indescribable freedom. She could walk on safe streets unlike in Mexico. Moreover, she met the love of her life Miguel Ramirez. Slowly but surely, Esmeralda not only got her life back but started thriving and flourishing.

She worships her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ through the Catholic church but gives no thought to the religious affiliation of those she helps. Her parents taught her that we all have the same Creator, and their devotion to family and community was the perfect example of how to live the Christian life.

"They always protected their kids from exterior problems," she says. "We were all raised not to break the rules and always to be on the lookout for each other as a family."

She has undergone mentoring and ongoing education for sales and business. Her blue-collar roots were great preparation for her present work in both private enterprise and community service. While still in Mexico she worked as a cashier and washed dishes. After immigrating to Chicago with her sister-in-law she continued working in restaurants while also cleaning houses. After a bad experience with a general manager, she and her husband packed up and moved to Texas,

where her sister lived.

Nowadays she assists her husband in running his companies M&E Ramirez Construction, LLC, and Ramirez-Barron Construction Properties, LLC. This past December 5, she launched her non-profit agency, Orchids of Hope in order to, "help the community combat the dark cycles of life."

For her, climbing the ladder of achievement is an ongoing quest for goals that, when reached, are replaced by others that beckon her (and others) forward and upward.

"You never get to what you call success because you're always aiming to go higher and [are] setting bigger goals," she says. "I

get to hear from other people in our community, and I do a lot of volunteer work for schools and the community."

The main aspect of her calling that does not appeal to her is the difficulty of overcoming financial obstacles, but this in no way dims her passion for helping those around her while she encourages others to do the same.

"It has been a challenge to raise money for my community, but slowly we are all coming together," she says. "Don't think about it too much and follow your heart."

Following the world's only perfect example, Jesus Christ, she forges ahead in her efforts in both

private and public service.

"I never give up because I know He is on my side," she says. Her work history is long and impressive. She spent fifteen years as a Language Proficiency Assessment Committee representative for the Hallsville Independent School District, and from 2019-2023 worked as a volunteer for Martin House. She willingly gets her hands dirty when needed. When a massive power failure blanketed the area on June 17, 2023, Esmeralda made a post on Facebook, the post went viral, and she ended up getting so many families coming over to her house.

Orchids of Hope Board of Directors: Left to Right: Gema Ramirez, Arturo Figueroa, (Center )Esmeralda Barron, Catalina Lopez, Paula Jimenez, and Linda Felix Contd. on

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