Indonesia Expat - issue 293

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Dear Readers,

February is synonymous with Valentine’s Day. Whether you’re in love or not, you can’t deny signs of affection instilled stronger everywhere you go. Celebrations of love aren’t determined by grand gestures only. After all, the small things in life matter too and they’re what we secretly yearn for.

This Valentine's issue, Indonesia Expat is exploring compelling stories around love that are given and received. From wedding traditions, modern dating, meeting “the one” online, places to spend Valentine’s Day in Bali, philosophical and modern insights on love, Bali’s best cocktail hubs, to activities not only reserved for the day of affection, you’re bound to be benefitted from or informed with these topics.

Don’t forget, we’re working on more digital content with our YouTube channel, Indonesia Expat. This includes our new series entitled “Welcome to Indonesia: The Series”, where we cover insights into food, leisure, community, travel, tips, guides, and plenty more. Stay tuned by subscribing to our channel!

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Happy reading!

Edo Frese

Are You at Risk of Getting a Heart Attack or Stroke?

I discuss Cardiovascular disease (CVD) again. I nd that knowing your risks helps to prevent serious problems. It also gives you a chance to in uence your risk! Lots of challenges again for the new year…. CVD is a general term to describe diseases that affect the heart or blood vessels. A build-p of fatty deposits inside the arteries and an increased risk of blood clots are associated with these diseases.

Types of CVD (cardiovascular disease)

The four main types are:

Coronary heart disease

This happens when the ow of blood to the heart muscle is blocked or reduced. Examples are: heart attack and angina.

Strokes and TIAs

A stroke is where the blood supply to a part of the brain can be cut off (or temporarily in case of a TIA).

Peripheral arterial disease

In a peripheral arterial disease there's a blockage in the arteries to the limbs – usually the legs.

Aortic disease

An aortic aneurysm is an example. The aorta can be weak and bulges outwards. It can burst and cause a life-threatening bleeding.

Risk of CVD

It is not easy to identify a clear cause. There are risk factors. I mention the most important ones:

High blood pressure

High blood pressure can damage your blood vessels.

Smoking Smoking can damage and narrow your blood vessels.

High cholesterol

Cholesterol can narrow your blood vessels and can cause a blood clot.

Diabetes

In diabetes your blood sugar levels are too high. High blood sugar levels can damage the blood vessels and make them narrow.

Inactivity

If you don't exercise regularly, it's more likely that you'll have high blood pressure, high cholesterol levels and be overweight.

Being overweight

Being overweight or obese increases your risk of developing diabetes and high blood pressure, both of which are risk factors for CVD.

Family history of CVD

If you have family members with a history of CVD, your risk is also higher. Tell this to your GP! It might be worth checking your blood pressure and cholesterol levels.

Other risk factors

• age – when you are over 50 you are at higher risk.

• gender – men are more at risk

• diet

• alcohol

• ethnic background (South Asian)

dr Steven Graaff,MD,MRCGP, the founder of Good Practice Clinic is a graduate of the Vrije Universiteit Amsterdam. Before completing his formal training in General Practice in the UK, he has worked in several hospitals, occupational health and general practice in the Netherlands and the UK. As a medical professional with international experience,Steven decided to start his own clinic – Good Practice, in Jakarta.

Preventing Cardiovascular disease

A healthy lifestyle can lower your risk! A good GP can calculate your risk. A Cardiovascular Risk check is a sophisticated check of your heart health. It is especially good for adults aged 40 to 74 years old.

Stop smoking

If you smoke, you should try to give up as soon as possible.

Have a balanced diet

A healthy, balanced diet is recommended for a healthy heart. This diet should be low on saturated fats, salt and sugar. It should contain lots of bers, fruit and vegetables.

Exercise regularly

Do at least 150 minutes of moderate aerobic activity a week, such as cycling or walking. Start at a level you feel comfortable with and gradually increase this.

Watch your weight

If you're overweight or obese, a combination of regular exercise and a healthy diet can help you lose weight. Aim to get your BMI below 25.

Cut down on alcohol

Try not to exceed the recommended limit of 14alcohol units a week for men and women. If you do drink this much, you should aim to spread your drinking over three days or more.

Medication

If you have a particularly high risk of developing CVD, your GP may recommend taking medication to reduce your risk. Medications that may be recommended include statins to lower blood cholesterol levels, low-dose aspirin to prevent blood clots and tablets to reduce blood pressure. Talk to your trusted Medical Practitioner to nd out more about your risk and how to prevent Cardiovascular disease.

It is important that you identify a clinic that you are comfortable with. Good Practice registered patients from 77 countries. Our English speaking team implements international guidelines. We provide highly personalised care. Try us!

Javanese Experiences Betwixt Mountainous Vista — MesaStila Resort and Spa

“Magelang Is one of the best places in Indonesia to work and enjoy your daily routine,” reflects Sugeng Sugiantoro, the General Manager of MesaStila Resort and Spa.

“We have created complimentary, scheduled in-house activities for our guests and their families to partake in; including morning yoga, coffee plantation tours, batikmaking, dance lessons, village tours, a labyrinth sensation walk, kids’ gardening, and pet feeding of our fish, goats, pigeons, and rabbits during their stay with us. The various paid activities outside the resort are also offered to help guests discover the resort area further.”

Who is Sugeng Sugiantoro?

I was born 49 years ago in Pati, Central Java, Indonesia. I have been deeply involved in the hotel and tourism industry since 1992 and started my career in some international chain hotels in Lombok, Bali, and Java. Since then, I had sharpened my skills and learnt new things to broaden my horizons and nurture my skills in sales and marketing; room division; food and beverage; spa and wellness; and certainly, leadership.

I currently hold the position of general manager at MesaStila Resort and Spa, Magelang, Central Java, Indonesia. My main duty is to provide leadership and strategic direction to the entire team in managing a wide range of activities, encompassing the operations, sales, and marketing to achieve the objectives and drive the growth of the company. I always believe that success is in our hands; it’s a matter of how to strive to our potential to deliver the best. A good leader is someone who can facilitate others to excel.

MesaStila Resort and Spa focusses on luxury yet keeps traditional, local, and wholesome experiences intact. Briefly tell us about MesaStila and how it does this.

MesaStila Resort and Spa is set within 22 hectares of outstanding natural beauty; surrounded by cooling highland air, eight mountains, a tropical garden, and lush vegetation. The true magnificence of MesaStila is in its spectacular setting and its Hammam Turkish Spa. We don’t focus only on the highest level of product and service quality, but also on creating Javanese experiences, through both cultural and fitness activities. Built within a charming coffee plantation, MesaStila Resort and Spa is an ideal place to relax and unwind from the busy city life.

Sugeng, do you think “wholesome” best describes a stay experience at MesaStila? Are there any additional words you’d use about the resort?

We are committed to offering our guests a stay full of wonderful experiences and facilitating a healthy lifestyle through food.

The meals we produce must be “SLOW”: sustainable, local, organic, and wholesome.

Please complete this sentence: With four villas to choose from, staying at the villas means…. Staying at a private house with a large living area, outdoor veranda with breathtaking views across the coffee plantation, landscapes, or the surrounding mountains.

The villas face either the mountain or the coffee plantation, and MesaStila is flexible with room allocation. Why? Each of the villas here is unique and reconstructed, on-site, in their original limasan or joglo form. These wooden villas encompass modern facilities and are decorated with original antiques and modern furnishings. Since they come in different looks even in the same category and value, we’re pleased for our guests to choose the villa based on their preference for an optimum staying experience.

Dining features a range of tastes and innovative takes on Javanese and international cuisines. How is this ensured?

The culinary team offers a passionate collection of recipes focussing on traditional Javanese flavours, prepared with a healthy twist. Dishes incorporate local and organic produce, healthy cooking techniques, and low-fat and low-GI ingredients for a

nutritious menu predominately offering seafood, fish, and meat dishes to cater to both local and international cuisines.

What type of meetings and events can be held in MesaStila? How can they be arranged?

Tying the knot amidst a mountainous vista! We offer a remarkable setting for an unforgettable wedding fiesta, a memorable moment that will be cherished by the wedded couple and the whole entourage. Additionally, guests can experience a wide selection of events with stunning locations to exceptional service.

Spend a gloriously romantic moment with your loved one this Valentine’s Day with a romantic candlelit outdoor dinner, or experience an indoor romantic royal dinner in a sophisticated set-up and decorations.

Whether you do themed events, meetings, team building, product launches, exhibitions, or a sophisticated incentive events, our dedicated team will ensure that any business meeting or event runs successfully.

What excursion activities are available? Are they customisable?

Yes, they are customisable. Guests can immerse themselves in a truly authentic Javanese experience, exploring many of the surrounding shrines and temples; including a magnificent sunrise or sunset at the world’s largest Buddhist temple, Borobudur; the Hindu temples of Gedung Songo, Dieng Plateau, or Prambanan; Ambarawa heritage railway station and museum; cycling to the royal bath of Candi Umbul; trekking to Sekar Langit Waterfall; hiking to Mount Andong; a Jeep tour to the summit of Mount Telomoyo; and many more.

The Hammam Spa is Southeast Asia’s only authentic Hammam from Turkey. Share with us the story behind this. The Turkish-style Hammam Spa is the only one in Southeast Asia, comprising seven treatment rooms, a beauty salon, and separate male and female Hammam areas, each consisting of warm and cool rooms, a cold plunge pool, and a steam room. The spa menu includes Jade and Tuina facials, Tibetan singing-bowl rituals, and body treatments inspired by classic and contemporary healing rituals from Asia and the Near East. The signature service includes the enlightening Turkish hammam experience, a combination of steam therapy, gommage, soapy cleanse, massage, and hair wash, followed by a restorative traditional Javanese massage.

Since Valentine’s Day is around the corner, are there any recommendations on how to spend this special day at MesaStila?

Spend a gloriously romantic moment with your loved one this Valentine’s Day with a romantic candlelit outdoor dinner, or experience an indoor romantic royal dinner in a sophisticated set-up and decorations. Complete your romantic journey with an intimate flower bath in our signature spa treatments.

How can our readers get in touch with you and MesaStila Resort and Spa? Readers can easily get in touch with us with the following contacts:

MesaStila Resort and Spa

Tel: +62 298 696 333

Mobile: +62 811 2655 963

Email:

intouch@mesastilaresortandspa.com

sugeng@mesastilaresortandspa.com

• After a fun-filled day, or perhaps a full day of nothing, continue with the worldrenowned vintages, premium Scotch whiskies, cocktails, or bubbly at Bar City.

• Dive in at a pool party or dance until sunrise to the beat of Zouk’s guest DJs.

ACCOMMODATION

Embark on a sea-venture traversing Asia like no other with Resorts World Cruises. Resorts World Cruises propound two magnificent cruise ships that undoubtedly unique, memorable experiences – even while offshore – as the luxury and dynamic cruise line offers feast of the senses.

GENTING DREAM

Think grandeur aboard the Genting Dream. Travels cherishing tons of adventurous times never fail to stick in the heart. Nothing timid nor rigid is found – all guests are encouraged to simply carpe diem or seize the day with anything and everything they can make.

The Genting Dream is filled with amusement at a size that’s larger than a skyscraper, stretching up to 335m long and 40m wide, comprising 18 decks with 1,674 staterooms. This German-manufactured cruise ship has a gross tonnage of 150,695 tons fitting 3,352 passengers.

It’s a city on the water with ever-changing views! Every amenity and comfort required and desired for a cruise is attainable. Guests need to simply thrill or chill on a day on the Genting Dream as follows:

• Refresh the mind, body, and soul at Crystal Life Spa, which also dedicates a selection of healthy meals and beverages.

• Test out your adrenaline spirit by tackling the rope course and gliding above the ocean on a 35-metre zipline.

• Get drenched in fun on one or all six different waterslides.

• Leave the kids in good hands while having some well-deserved parents' time exploring the ship. A line-up of activities and classes dedicated to kids aged two to 12 will keep them entertained at the Dreamers Club.

• In fact, Genting Dream is World's first OIC / SMIIC (Organisation of Islamic Cooperation / Standard and Metrology Institute for Islamic Countries) standard Halal-friendly cruise ship, which offers international, Halal and authentic Jain Vegetarian certified cuisines presented in the buffet style restaurant, The Lido.

• Splurge on your favourite international luxury brands at the boutiques or outlet stores.

• Be mesmerised by live production shows from the acclaimed entertainment performers of Zodiac Theatre.

A ship-within-a-ship boutique hotel for luxury connoisseurs, The Palace is an exclusive all-suite, all-inclusive enclave with private facilities and European-style 24-hour butlers.

Choose from any of the accommodation below:

• Palace Villa

• Palace Penthouse

• Palace Deluxe Premium

• Palace Deluxe Suite

• Palace Suite

The Palace guests have access to the VIP lounge at the terminal, priority check-in with butler assistance, etc., upon arrival. More benefits include a welcome minibar with beverages and snacks, a Nespresso machine with gourmet coffee and tea, Happy Hour with complimentary selected wines, beers, and non-alcoholic beverages at selected venues, and so forth.

RESORTS WORLD ONE

Revel in world-class entertainment to new horizons on Asia Pacific’s agile cruise ship. The Resorts World One, also manufactured in Germany, has a gross tonnage of 75,338 tons and fits 1,856 passengers. This new vessel stretches 268m long and 32m wide, comprising 13 decks with 928 staterooms accented with a mix of Eastern and Western cultures, emphasising Italian designthemed spaces and tons of adventure.

Aside from outfitting The Palace and Zodiac Theatre, below are some highlights cruisers will certainly be obsessed with:

• Pool time in a Roman-themed pool deck?

The Parthenon Pool has Caesar’s Slide, hot tubs, a stage for live bands, and a mega LED screen.

• Esc EXPERIENCE LAB invites guests to escape the real world and dwell in the latest virtual and augmented reality technology.

• Take it easy at Palm Court, the sophisticated observatory lounge betwixt the ocean views.

• Savour Chinese and Western cuisine at the elegant Dream Dining Room.

• Food enthusiasts can opt for the Hot Pot.

• An assortment of meats, seafood, and vegetarian options are found at Seafood Grill.

• Modern fusion of classic Italian dishes and pizzas with a Japanese twist is only served at Mozzarella Ristorante & Pizzeria.

ACCOMMODATION

At Resorts World One, The Palace has over 42 suites adorned in chic Italian decor; including two opulent Palace Villas and private VIP facilities including your own swimming pool, lounges, and dining venues. Sample signature Asian and Western dishes in the Palace Restaurant while the dedicated team of butlers are at one’s disposal. Choose from any of the accommodation below:

• Palace Villa

• Palace Penthouse

• Palace Deluxe Suite

• Palace Suite

THE SEA TRAIL

Cruisers are bound to experience novelty when aboard the Genting Dream and Resorts World One. Each cruise ship caters to different routes and destinations.

GENTING DREAM

Explore Malaysia, Thailand, and Singapore with the Genting Dream. This cruise ship sets courses from Singapore to:

• Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia for two nights

• Kuala Lumpur and Penang, Malaysia for three nights

• Phuket, Thailand for three nights

• Kuala Lumpur, Penang, and Phuket for five nights

Moreover, those departing from Kuala Lumpur’s Port Klang can solely visit Singapore for two nights or en route to Penang, Phuket, and then Singapore for five nights.

RESORTS WORLD ONE

Setting course from Singapore, Resorts World One allows cruisers to take a look at Singapore for a weekend, or travel up North to Malaysia, Vietnam, and Hong Kong.

This cruise ship sails from Singapore to Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia for two nights and Kuala Lumpur and Penang, Malaysia for three nights. For those departing from Kuala Lumpur’s Port Klang, the route covers Penang, Malaysia and Singapore for three nights.

Relocation Cruise with Resorts World One

Two special Relocation Cruise routes are exclusively available this March. The Resorts World One from 3rd to 8th March 2023 will sail from Singapore to Ho Chi Minh and Danang, Vietnam, then ultimately reach Hong Kong for a total of six days and five nights.

Meanwhile, from Kuala Lumpur’s Port Klang, the Resorts World One takes a longer Relocation Cruise route from the 2nd to the 8th of March, or for seven days and six nights. This route continues to Singapore, then Vietnam's Ho Chi Minh and Danang, and then arrive at Hong Kong.

Do not miss an expedition regardless of the destination! Create wholesome memories with your dearest ones, along with Resorts World Cruises.

RESORTS WORLD CRUISES

VINTAGE ROOM

GENTING DREAM'S HALAL FOOD

THE PALACE POOL

THE PALACE SUITE

Understanding Indonesiaʹs Modern Dating Pool

BY MIRELLA PANDJAITAN

It always starts with a "Hey"

Turns into "How was your day?"

Turns into "Meet at my place"

Turns into you and me drinking rosé

Turns into "How did you sleep?"

Turns into "It's been a week"

Turns into gave you a key

Turns into conversations talking 'bout what are we?

If “How Deep” by Tai Verdes hits home, grab a life jacket because the modern dating pool is nothing near smooth.

Modern dating has a different landscape compared to the past. Gone are the days when a relationship is deemed a certainty. Lots of phrases depict what a relationship is, from hook-ups, situationships, the talking stage, to friends with benefits. It’s rather rough for singles to find “the one” as many deprioritise connections, confuse intimacy with lust, can’t be alone, dismiss vulnerability… the list goes on. Ultimately, because commitment isn’t officially expressed, relationships are carried out on the principle of going with the flow. It’s soothing, yet dangerous at the same time. Uncertainty causes torment to most –whether they like to admit it or not.

Love Coach Jose Aditya points out that monetary matters play a major role in modern dating. More women are careerdriven, thus creating a strong sense of independence. Men are poised as the providers and protectors but many are part of the sandwich generation. “Naturally, a woman with her own income will look for a man who has more than her. The problem is, men with a higher income are the minority in Indonesia, and if there are any, they are usually married,” said the man whose stage name, Jose, stands for Jodoh Sejati or true mate.

Fear of commitment isn’t the underlying issue. It’s making peace with short-term circumstances that are detrimental. Access for men to claim needs from a relationship without actually being in one is easier. Fulfilled sexual desires sit high on the top of

needs. Women tend to settle for less, leaving them with no other choice but to accept their circumstances; wishful thinking that one day their love is reciprocated. The trend of marriage rates continues to decline in Indonesia, while the divorce rate increases, according to BPS data.

Coach Jose has been helping primarily women to embrace their femininity and work on their mental health to find their true matches since 2014. Previously a marketer familiarised with hypnotherapy, he has found his calling.

“I wanted to get married but my older sister wasn’t yet wed. Actually, she didn’t have a problem if I proceeded, but our Indonesian parents were worried that if she was overlooked, she’d be single forever. I decided to hold back on my marriage plans and help her psychologically, technically, and so on. After approximately six months of informal coaching, my sister finally got married,” he shares.

Throughout his coaching days, he’s noticed that today’s society sets criteria and standards based on what they want other people to perceive, not what they truly desire and spark joy. Everyone’s bare minimum is unique.

“What is your purpose in building a relationship?” he asks. Happiness stems from within oneself. “You need to know who you are first. Not your personification. Then, set your criteria, values, and purpose.” The need for sexuality, sharing, and having special partners undoubtedly stand out, all the while monetary and familial challenges, however, overpower in Indonesia.

Coach Jose’s observation reaches towards interracial couples. He perceives that most Indonesians view expats as a way to climb the social ladder; gain prestige or even improve genetics. “Actually, Asian people view their race as inferior compared to primarily Caucasians,” he adds.

Stigma cannot exist unless it has happened, over and over again. An Indonesian man with an expat woman is viewed as a champion, while the roles reserved deems the expat woman as an acceptance of the quality of life. To tackle cultural shock, Coach Jose said communication is key.

“Culture is in the location where one lives. Expats who come to Indonesia automatically adapt to the Indonesian culture. What’s different is that here, for example, the element of respect for parents is deeper. In fact, I dare to consider this a plus for expats,” he explains.

Those dear to us obviously have our best interests at heart. They would genuinely voice out “you deserve better”, which is somewhat ambiguous to Coach Jose. One of the reasons why women don’t find the right man is because they can’t find the best. “It’s better to search for the most compatible one,” he counsels. To do so, shift the focus of criteria to deep traits such as values, emotional maturity, mental maturity, etc. “These are far more important and can make you happier than what any salary per year can contribute.”

The gist every single person out there should remember is to not start a relationship based on needing one, but acknowledging why it’s important. Being oblivious will only create hassle and lots of drama. It’s also imperative to have polar energy where women embrace their femininity and men embrace their masculinity to create balance in a dynamic.

Private coaching focussing on setting goals is available from Coach Jose. “Many people think we are helping them find a mate but when they become clients, we will first check their self-esteem, inner child wound, and self-worth,” he explains.

The how-to can be from a platform for women to upgrade themselves called TruLav.id in the form of online courses so that women can be empowered in relationships and mental health based on a subscription via Coach Jose’s Instagram@ lovecoach.id or https://trulav.id

Is the modern dating pool still terrifying for you?

JOSE ADITYA

The gist every single person out there should remember is to not start a relationship based on needing one, but acknowledging why it’s important. Being oblivious will only create hassle and lots of drama.

British Motorcycle Brand

MuttMotorcycles

The Black Metal from Birmingham has finally arrived in Indonesia with Mutt Motorcycles. Mutt Motorcycles Company is a small cc, retro-styled, custom-inspired motorcycle manufacturer and motorcycle lifestyle store.

It was founded by Will Rigg and Benny Thomas in Birmingham, well-known as the heart of the British motorcycle industry, in 2013. The company is taking classic British motorcycles to new heights, with long legacies, a rich heritage, and industrial roots. The aim is to make the Mutt Motorcycles range more accessible and affordable to the growing vintage motorcycle market with a bespoke approach to design and build quality.

Their vision and mission are to be the world-leading aspirational small-cc motorcycle brand for both a new breed of riders and experienced ones, while staying true to their authentic artisan and creative roots. This starts with Mutt’s strong brand identity by being in tune with the custom motorcycle culture and lifestyle, breeding a new wave of motorcyclists through their brand pillars. With its global success, it is now a thriving international motorcycle brand that has been distributed across 20 countries including Italy, Australia, Singapore, the Philippines, Japan, and Spain. Today, it has made its way to Indonesia.

Mutt Motorcycles launched the “ Leave It All Behind Campaign” in 2022, featuring three of their flagship models, namely the Razorback, the Akita, and the FSR. They are all designed with classic and custom aspects in mind, infused with pure Mutt DNA.

Launches in Indonesia

1. With its tall, mono shock and upside-down forks, chopped front and rear fenders, and short exhaust, The Razorback can be described as having an enduro, tracker, customer-scrambler vibe that makes it stand out from the crowd, unlike anything else on the market.

2. The Akita is Mutt’s take on a classic Japanese custom bike with a blend of the ‘60s British bikes, minimalistic bodywork, and a noticeable massive 17-litre rectangular tank, huge chunky militarystyle tires, and an underslung stainless steel exhaust sitting on twin shocks with a leather seat to add to the finishing touch.

3. The sportier, quicker, and shorter cousin to the other Mutts is The FSR. With a low-profile seat, lightweight cast wheels, and funky, new-shape side panels to add to the aerodynamics, the FSR is a low-down street sports motorcycle that is stylish and equally as aggressive.

PT. Mongrel Motorcycles Indonesia (PT. MMI) has brought Mutt Motorcycles to the Indonesian market by opening its first flagship store located in Park View Plaza, 1st Floor, Taman Kemang, South Jakarta. Motorcyclists and enthusiasts will now be able to get their hands on their lineup of small-capacity, retro-style, vintage, bikes with a custom design that pays homage to the ’60s and ‘70s era of British motorcycle culture.

Mutt Motorcycles Indonesia offers a classic motorcycle lineup with all the modern conveniences. The showroom features several of their flagship models like the Mongrel, Hilts, Fat Sabbath, Mastiff, Razorback, RS-13, FSR, Akita, and the all-new GT-SR. Giving riders that nostalgic feeling with all the British charm they want on their two-wheeler adds a unique and fresh perspective to the Indonesian custom motorcycle scene, which has grown enormously in popularity over the last decade. These one-off, custom, nononsense motorcycles are highly desirable for passionate riders seeking their next adventure.

The store’s concept is a showroom and a coffee shop. The store will also provide merchandise and apparel for purchase at the retail and events space. Their vision is to build around the brand to develop a unique lifestyle and community and to welcome motorcyclists and like-minded people to their growing global fraternity of Mutt riders making their showroom a laid-back weekend meeting point for the custom bike community.

For the price list, full catalog or book an appointment at the Mutt Motorcycles Indonesia showroom, please contact Richo Novian Sales & Marketing 087789555425.

Be My Valentine

BY RICKER WINSOR

Lonely in a foreign country? I was. When I was hired by Cita Hati Sekolah in Surabaya thirteen years ago, I had three weeks to pack up my house in Vermont, New England, USA, and head to the airport. I wasn’t sure where Indonesia was and didn’t have much time to look at a map.

After adjusting to many different things as much as I could and feeling comfortable with the routine of school and the essentials of life, I realised I was lonely. My school colleagues were friendly but Indonesia is a family-centred culture and they were busy with their families.

I heard about a dating site called IndonesianCupid and took a look. Why not? I didn’t have anything in mind honestly, just some friendly contact with a woman. I was raised by women. I like women. I knew no Bahasa Indonesia at that time which made things difficult but not impossible as many Indonesian people know some English. I saw a picture of a young woman I liked very much - for the right reasons I think. She had a fun face and a positive aura about her, something special.

So, I sent her a message and found out she lived not too far away, maybe 30 minutes by taxi. We arranged to meet at Food Fest in Pakuwon City, the place where I ate dinner almost every night. “Let’s meet at The Wok,” I said.

Her mother delivered her to our date, so I had a chance to meet her and say something. She left saying she would return an hour or so later to pick up her daughter. All this seemed good to me as her mother cared and wanted to be part of the picture.

How do you start in a situation like this? We walked across to the Wok and I noticed she was very thin and walking unsteadily in high heels. I grew up with three sisters so I know things about girl stuff. I would say she had very little experience wearing high heels. It was charming to me that she was making an effort, risking breaking an ankle, or a leg! And she was very thin and small. That charmed me too for some unknown reason. More than that, I saw in person the honesty, humour, and positivity I had seen in the photo.

I touched her shoulder, to support her as we crossed the street. Or maybe I just wanted to touch her.

“Too small?” she asked.

“No,” I said. I like it.

“My name is Kwee Liang Yien,” she said, “but call me Jovita.”

I don’t remember if we ate. We talked for an hour straight, standing up while getting bitten by mosquitoes. She couldn't sit comfortably because she was recovering from a serious endometriosis operation. The surgery didn’t seem to have been particularly successful as she was still bleeding weeks after.

This would be the place where the man might call a cab and send his date back to where she came from, but I already cared about her for some mysterious reason. We talked and I asked her what kind of a man she was looking for. She answered, “faithful, God-fearing, responsible, kind, gentle,” and on like that. I said, “ I'm not sure I'm all those things but I think it's great that you want a man like that.” And I did and do think it's great.

I was 65 at the time. Now, when I think about it, I wonder how I could've been so bold as to enter into a relationship with someone 24 years younger. How could that make any sense? Well, we are who we are.

Mom came to pick her up and we arranged to go to church on the weekend for our next date. In the meantime, I thought about it a lot. We did go to church at Bethany, a space that can hold 35,000 people on big occasions. When leaving with the big crowd, she looked for my hand and held it, leading me through the throng. Back at her house, which she shared with her mom and her daughter Grace, I learned more. She had studied at the best Secretarial College here, Widya Mandala, and had a good job in export administration at a big Chinese

company working six days a week for many years to support her daughter and her shared life with Mom.

Together with Grace, who was about 16 at the time, they shared a small room with a tiny window. Jovita had a computer in the corner where she listened to music and did some online chatting with “pen pals” as they used to be called.

This seemed amazing to me and still does. I respected her life, her sense of responsibility, and her commitment to raising her daughter and to helping her mother. After all these years I still think about that with the same sense of respect and awe I did then.

Someone at school suggested I send her flowers and they helped me do that. A giant bouquet was delivered and soon, I saw a picture of her with it on Facebook with the caption “Who?” It was very cute and sweet.

We established a routine. Most evenings after school and when she got home from work, I took a taxi to her house and sit on the couch in the parlour area. Then we would

all go shopping or sometimes Mom would take us to a restaurant. It went on like that for a long time.

We also went to her old gynaecologist many times to check on her condition. I even contacted a top gynaecologist in Singapore. Finally, the condition healed and Jovita was healthy again.

Some things back home in Vermont were a problem for me. The people who lived in my house decided not to pay any more rent. That couldn't continue and I also had some problems with my situation in Surabaya, especially the little house the school provided. I prepared to go back.

A lot of things happened during that time. Jovita had some lumps in her breast. Previously, some fibroid tumours had been removed but now there were more symptoms. We went to the oncology clinic. While we were waiting for the results of all the tests, I thought about what I would do if she had cancer. I come from a cancer family and know more about it than I would wish anyone to know. I also knew about Indonesian health care, and the expenses involved in good care. What would I do? I'm a teacher, not a wealthy person. But I had a good house in Vermont worth something. I decided I would sell it if I had to do what I could to help my darling Jovita. That was a turning point as I'm a selfish person. Coming to that decision was transformational for me.

The tests came back negative. We had dodged another bullet. The next problem was that Mom didn’t want to let go of her daughter. We had decided for me to go back to the states and then for Jovita to follow. It did happen like that but not without a lot of drama and effort from her side, escaping from Mom to live in a boarding house, and several trips to Jakarta for medical checkups to qualify for a fiancé visa, and more.

I went back “home” and then had to fly back to Surabaya another time to pick her up and bring her to America. We were married in Bradford, Vermont; in a beautiful field full of autumn leaves by the Justice of the Peace. We stayed a year, then travelled to Trinidad and Tobago for a teaching job for two years, then to Bali for two years, and finally settled in Jovita’s hometown, Surabaya.

We're concluding this story or it would have to go on for many more pages. The unusual way our relationship developed depended on solving problems together one by one, and not dodging any of them. That's what made the difference and still does. We're a great team. Our latest project was the two-year process of buying and renovating a house in Surabaya where we are finally moved in and are very comfortable.

We developed the deep affectionate relationship everyone wants but few people to have. We consider it a gift. Happy Valentine’s Day.

I was 65 at the time. Now, when I think about it, I wonder how I could've been so bold as to enter into a relationship with someone 24 years younger. How could that make any sense? Well, we are who we are.

Turn on the radio or switch on the television set and it is fairly certain that within a couple of minutes, outside you’ll hear the "L" word being mentioned. For centuries, songs, sonnets, plays, books, and poems have been written on the topic, and, of course, the last hundred years or so have seen this topic of penmanship transferred to the big and then small screens.

Love is - we are told - a basic and necessary ingredient of life, without which we cannot cope with life’s pressures and struggles, and yet it is also so often the cause of such misery of heartache.

What is this "L" at the centre of such consternation?

This "L", of course, is "Love".Let’s consider for a while whether it is really "all around", and "all we need".

There are many types of love and many reasons for loving. As well as the more conventional ideal of lovethat of romantic and requited attachment - the average person will experience many connections in various outlets and circumstances as they attempt to make sense of life while bumbling through it the best they can.

Happily enough for most of us, the first love we experience is that of and from our families. A parent’s love is said to be ever-lasting, unconditional, and more dependable than any other type we are likely to experience later in life. Whilst it is not true in every case, it is a general rule of thumb that parents will do anything for their children, and they are the very last to ever turn their backs, whatever the reason or provocation. Indeed, a person’s outlook on life often changes when they become a parent, and the very reason for living becomes magnified several-fold due to the emotions involved in caring for one so dependent.

Other familial love can be just as strong and bonding of course, with sibling relationships being particularly important. Friendships between brothers and sisters can be especially rewarding, yet such relationships sometimes can be somewhat less than straightforward

with the elder sibling frequently taking on more of a protective role rather than one of straightforward kinship.

What of that love we feel within platonic friendships, I hear you collectively ask? These can also be very rewarding, because not only are they relationships we have chosen for ourselves without the ties of genetics, but they usually come with a different setting or vibe, if you will, than that of the coupling of romantic partners. In fact, friends are often the ones we turn to when we have problems concerning our spouses or partners, as they are the ones who know us best and will treat us as normal entities and not put us on a pedestal.

Their advice (and words of admonishment, if necessary) may not initially always be welcomed, but they will be given in love and affection and will be honest in their reasoning and delivery. A lifelong friend is indeed a blessing, and if you are fortunate enough to have someone accompanying you throughout life’s journey in this manner then you are lucky indeed.

For many people though, the whole concept of "love", especially at this time of year with Valentine’s Day fast approaching, is connected with that of romantic attachment. To fall in love for the first time, it is said, is to really experience life for the first time. A partner to whom we are devoted and feel ready to give the rest of our life to - in many ways - completes us but also changes us. The realisation that we have fallen in love with someone is a wonderful yet frightening experience - as everything is still new and the possibilities ahead of us seem endless, joyful and exciting.

The early "honeymoon" period (sometimes literally) of being "in love" will last varying periods of time, but inevitably things will settle down and the two star-struck lovers will undergo a period whereby they really get to know each other better - warts and all - and this is the crucial period for any coupling. Once a sense of structure and routine has been established, the relationship will invariably either go from strength to strength or else start to flounder.

There is no doubt that it takes effort, compromise and sometimes downright determination to ensure a marriage or partnership lasts the distance, but most would agree that these are more than worthwhile sacrifices to make in light of the advantages and benefits a happy relationship brings.

As pondered above, once we have experienced the emotions of "love" are we ever truly the same as people again? Also, how about the agonies that love can bring to the table? Surely there is nothing worse than experiencing either unrequited love or - even worse - the heartbreak of a relationship ending against your will. The sleepless nights, the loss of appetite, and the constant moping and daydreaming over the love that has been lost or not returned seem to make a mockery of the old adage. “It is better to have loved and lost than to have not loved at all,” but these are experiences that most of us go through at some point in our lives.

Finally, what of possibly the most important love of all?

As Whitney Houston, amongst others, once sang, learning to love yourself is the most important love of all.

We must find time to appreciate ourselves and the people we are. Whilst self-improvement is commendable in many aspects, being constantly dissatisfied with our lot in life or what we perceive to be our character flaws or weaknesses is only going to end in negativity and unhappiness. We are all unique and have our own special skills and mindsets, so comparing ourselves either with other people or what we feel would be our ideal selves, is ultimately self-defeating and counteproductive.

Finally, as we go about our daily lives we should take the opportunity to smell the roses a bit. Enjoy being alive and embrace all the challenges and curveballs the world throws in our direction from time to time.

Remember, love really is all around.

BY DAVID NESBIT

Learning Love from the Philosophers

BY DONNY SYOFYAN

The 14th of February is celebrated as Valentine's Day. Despite its pros and cons, it signals a sound message about how love and affection have been a global mood in the immediate chime and the bustle of life. With Valentine's celebration, people may express their love and affection, not simply between a pair of young people in love but in a broader sense, among fellow human beings, married couples, parents, siblings, and more importantly, between the government and its people.

Two great Western thinkers — Plato and Rousseau, whose thoughts encourage the republic as a form of state and democracy and a political system that relates to the way of structuring and organising the republic — get into personal love between men and women. Love touches all areas of sustainability because the object of love is eternity. The eternity of love does not originate from the spiritualisation of “a priori”, but from the fact that people who make love desire to have constantly what is true.

Both Plato and Rousseau give a central position to love in their respective works. The first is aristocratic and homosexual, while the second is closely related to democratic ideals and heterosexual. For Plato, love has no need to be reciprocated and the difference between those who love and loved ones remains as it is. The love that Rousseau thinks is meaningful is only related to reciprocity, where the love experience of those who love is all-encompassing, while it is really unique to those who are loved.

The distinction is also inherent in the purpose of love set by the two thinkers. From a platonic perspective, love leads to philosophical life. For Rousseau, love is an inexorable basis for a political life of freedom.

Plato’s unique thinking is reflected in the so-called “ platonic love ”, a kind of esteemed love away from physical reality and associated with a more essential beauty. Modern human beings would find it hard to accept and swallow it. In truth, Plato recognises the attraction of bodily beauty. However, he opines that the best practice of love is a lofty motion from bodily idolisation to the point of beauty reflection. In other words, platonic love is not in physical enjoyment, but in the search for perfection.

Rousseau’s peculiar thought is dedicated to the political system aspiring for three passions: care, love, and patriotism. The love between husband and wife occupies a central position. Through marriage, a couple will raise a family, which is subject to a social contract. Each would submit his or her freedom to the general and be in line with the contract. Thanks to this formulation, a social corps is formed without referring to the existence of the leader who supervises it. This is Rousseau’s originality in the contractualist tradition; separate members are not united under the authority of a king; they unite and merge into what they have formed. This is not a conquest contract but a surrender to the collectivity created by the contract. It refers to the sovereign people that remain free.

Compared to Rousseau’s thought of love, platonic love is much more popular and easily found, for example, in literary works and entertainment. I read The Assault and was impressed by this novel after reading it for the first time in the 1990s. Written by renowned Dutch writer Harry Mulisch and published in 1982, the novel tells the story of a family torn apart during the Nazi occupation. The Assault begins at night in Anton’s family house. Anton, a 12-year-old boy who later narrates the story, is separated from his family after SS officers suddenly

arrive to search their commune. In jail, he meets a girl who comforts him. It’s a platonic love regarding the relationship between Anton and the girl. This novel elaborates on how someone returns to his past to discover the connection between past incidents to face the present.

Such is the case with Toilet Blues (2012) directed by Dirmawan Hatta. The film has a prologue and an epilogue. In between the two, the film offers the audience an abrupt and unconventional narrative of two teenagers and their shared journey in a pivotal time of their lives. Senior high schooler Anjani (Shirley Anggraini) is running away from home, getting away from her controlling father who is furious after finding her undressed with three teenage boys in a villa. With no certain destination on her mind, Anjani decides to go with Anggalih (Tim Matindas), whom she shared a platonic love with during their junior high school years, on a road and track trip.

Anggalih, whom she affectionately calls Lih, has just been on a vacation with his parents in Jakarta and is on his way for his final year at a seminary, which will end his first step towards becoming a Catholic priest. Anggalih is questioning his decision to become a priest. He tries to hide his doubt in front of Anjani. But having known him for most of her life, Anjani sees through him. Wanting nothing but to escape and be free, Anjani tries to persuade Anggalih to take a turn and go with her instead of becoming a priest.

In a more permissive society, platonic love rears its head as romantic love and sexual relations are not the be-all and end-all of relationships. That is why couples in platonic relationships take out joint bank accounts, adopt children, buy homes, and engage in other activities traditionally reserved for those who have gone through all the mandatory hormonally charged mating rituals. They believe that they can find true happiness without flirtation and physical intimacy.

Having gone through previously disillusioned and permissive life, couples in platonic relationships find that Valentine’s Day is vastly overrated, the Kama Sutra is vastly overrated, and baby bumps are vastly overrated. They believe nothing beats an unshakeable lifelong bond with someone who can provide deep friendship, companionship, shared values, adventure, laughter, and stability. Love goes beyond a short-term touch but constitutes an endlessly intense exercise regime physically, morally, and spiritually.

The writer is a lecturer at the Faculty of Humanities, Andalas University

IMAGE BY EROL AHMED (UNSPLASH)

Plato recognises the attraction of bodily beauty. However, he opines that the best practice of love is a lofty motion from bodily idolisation to the point of beauty reflection. In other words, platonic love is not in physical enjoyment, but in the search for perfection.

Eight Ways to Spend the Coolest Valentine’s Day Celebration in Bali

BY ERIC BUVELOT

Where else other than Bali can you have the best Valentine's experience? Here is our selection of trendy and cool places where you could spend the best ever Valentine’s Day with the love of your life. Love is all we need, they say, but a nice setting will definitely help!

COOK FOR THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE AT PAON BALI COOKING CLASS

Rates from Rp350,000 per person

Jl. Raya Laplapan, Petulu, Ubud

Tel: +62 81337 939095 Website: www.paon-bali.com

PLAY PÉTANQUE AT WARUNG PETANG

FOR A SPECIAL VALENTINE COUPLE

CONTEST

Rates from Rp30,000-150,000

Kid’s menu is available

Jl. Merta Agung n°99, Kerobokan Kelod

Tel: +6282147177714

Website: https://linktr.ee/warungpetang

So French but chic, this newly-opened restaurant in Kerobokan has a big space dedicated to good food and games. With plenty of boards and outdoor games, this recently opened social resto-bar is normally the ideal place for family time. It offers a beautiful and professional pétanque course, complete with everything needed for great tournaments, accommodating up to 75 competitors. A special Valentine's competition for couples will be held on the 13th. Come with your darling to win the cup! Entrance is free! If you’re single, no worries, they’ll find someone to pair you with –maybe the perfect match? A large choice of home cooking is also available. Just let go and follow their motto: Eat, Play, Love!

LET LOVE UNFOLD AT BISMA EIGHT HOTEL, UBUD

Rates start from Rp11.5 million nett Lovers Feast from Rp550,000-850,000 Bisma Eight Hotel, Jl. Bisma, Gianyar Tel: +623614792888

Website: www.bisma-eight.com

How deep is your love in the green hills of Ubud? Offering boutique suites and villas located in the cultural heart of Bali, Bisma Eight Hotel is surrounded by the beautiful lush nature of this little town, nicknamed the art and culture capital of Bali. With roots in both artisan heritage and modern luxury, this accommodation takes you to a new level of excellence. Celebrate love and treat your darling to a dreamy getaway with the most stunning Bali sunset amidst Ubud’s jungle views. The definitive place to connect with beautiful nature in each other’s arms for Valentine’s Day, Bisma Eight will add something to your romantic experience: a Lovers Feast dinner by Copper Kitchen, Bar & Rooftop for two, full body massage at Mandala spa for two, complimentary immersive classes and workshops, and a complimentary 30-minute photo session.

If you like it the Epicurean way, why not treat yourselves to a unique culinary experience in the village with a Paon Bali cooking class? Surprise each other by serving a plate of Balinese traditional dishes that you cooked yourself from scratch for this Valentine's Day.

Begin your cooking class at a local market as you learn about the herbs, spices, fruits, and vegetables used in Balinese cooking. Awaken your senses and please your palate on a culinary adventure, unlocking the secrets of authentic Balinese cuisine, utilising traditional ingredients and preparation methods, in a fully equipped community village kitchen. All classes are conducted in English by Balinese chefs. Opt for meat or vegetarian dishes.

A COUPLE’S MASSAGE AT THE COLONY HOTEL, SEMINYAK

Room rates start from US$128

Address: Jl. Laksmana #22, Seminyak Tel: +62361736160

Website: www.thecolonyhotelbali.com

DINE IN CANGGU AT ANITA’S AND FEEL AT HOME AWAY FROM HOME

Rates from Rp62,000-431,000

Jl. Pura Wates Canggu Babakan No.48, Canggu

Tel: +62 815 589 821 72

Website: www.warungmbaknit.com

The villa is gorgeous, beautifully designed and decorated, and the food is totally delicious. It is a true hidden gem in Bali if you like fantastic Italian food with soul and of course, fully authentic – thanks to Italian owner Christian. Anita’s has a chilled atmosphere, cool music, and also a nice wine list that will make you feel at home.

Sustainable cooking anyone? If everybody is talking about it, Anita and Christian just do it. All their ingredients are sourced from local small farmers in their neighbourhood. A special request? Are you celiac? Or vegetarian? You just tell them what you want and they’ll do it for you. Valentine’s here will be a night to remember. Yes, the swimming pool is really nice, so just take a dip with your honey.

OF LOVE” AND COSPLAY COMPETITION AT LIPPO MALL

“MONTH

KUTA &

BEACHWALK

Info and registration: +6281353350478

(Diva)

Lippo Mall Kuta, Jl. Kartika Plaza, Kuta Beachwalk Shopping Center, Jl. Pantai Kuta, Kuta

Impress the love of your life by competing in a Cosplay contest! Well-known Bali event organiser Sushi Roll Bali is setting up an incredible “Month of Love” on Sunday, 12th February at the Lippo Mall Kuta, Sunken Area, and on Sunday, 19th February at Beachwalk. To register for the Cosplay Walk Competition Valentine’s Edition, it will cost you only Rp20,000. For the Cosplay Photo Couple Competition, if you dare to show off together this Valentine’s, registration will be free! If you’re cool enough to take on the stage to serenade your sweetheart, it will cost you only Rp50,000. Many games will also be available. The time limit for registration is 5th February - don’t miss it!

The Colony Hotel is a boutique hotel in Seminyak known for its unique style and cosiness. A couple’s massage is the best thing to do in Bali for honeymooners, above all for a Valentine's Day to remember for… ever. Enjoy a decadent head-to-toe Balinese massage, a traditional Balinese scrub, or a facial. Rejuvenate your body, senses, and soul in the comfort of your own bedroom. Don’t forget to go for the flower bath to end your couple’s massage. The hotel is within walking distance of all the fun and iconic venues that made Bali famous for its nightlife. Now, you’re all set to go for a memorable Valentine's dinner!

LOVE IS A FIVE-COURSE AFFAIR AT SOLEIL – MULIA

Reservation: at soleil.reception@themulia. com

Kawasan Sawangan, Jl. Raya Nusa Dua Selatan, Kuta Selatan

Tel: +623613017777

Website: https://muliadining.com/en/ bali/soleil/offer/valentines-day-set-menudinner-bali

Italian and Mediterranean cuisines are set to please everyone at the well-known Soleil. This time, set the perfect tone for your Valentine’s Day celebration with their exclusive five-course dinner featuring fresh squash blossoms of Bedugul and Black Angus tenderloin, finished with an indulgent chocolate dessert winsomely titled “Symphony of Love”. This restaurant is usually recommended for good tagliatelle, tenderloin, and filet mignon. Not to mention the tasty crème brûlée. Delicious prosecco, beer, or sparkling cocktails are also waiting for you for an evening like no other with this special Valentine's menu.

AMAZING HUT OF LOVE IN RICE

PADDIES WITH BALI ECO STAY

Room rates start from Rp1.7 million for the Buddha Bungalow

Kanciana Village, Kemetug, Desa Gunung Salak

Ph: +6285738467596

Website: www.baliecostay.com

Being totally immersed in natural surroundings has been a definite new trend in hospitality for the last couple of years. Set in the western paddy fields of Bali, this unmatched site is perfect for those who would like to experience a rich, local, rural culture, while surrounded by stunning organic rice fields, mountain-fed streams, cascading waterfalls, and spectacular views over treetops to the ocean. At night, the only lights are those of stars and fireflies, and the only sounds are of running water, crickets, and frogs. What a perfect setting for an unforgettable eco Valentine's celebration!

WARUNG PETANG

ANITA'S WARUNG

PAON BALI COOKING CLASS

SOLEIL, MULIA

LIPPO MALL KUTA & BEACHWALK

What You See is What You Get!

Although the origins of the phrase, “a picture is worth a thousand words ” are debatable, the most common understanding is that a picture conveys more information, more effectively than words sometimes can.

And if we’re OK with that assumption, then it makes sense that the better the picture, the better and more detailed the description or feeling could be. National Geographic photographer, David Alan Harvey, once said “don’t shoot what it looks like. Shoot what it feels like.” So, it makes sense that good pictures of your apartment, house, villa or hotel should move me somehow. Emotionally perhaps. Hopefully, move me enough to make you an offer that you’d accept and then buy.

When we first started Seven Stones Indonesia seven years ago, we tried to educate our real estate agents and our property vendors about the importance of professional photography. Surprisingly, it wasn’t such an easy idea to get across, but if you’re investing in, or dealing with real estate, we think it’s a game changer because it still seems there are folk out there who think it’s OK to try and sell property with second-rate, smartphone photos.

The subject came up again recently in one of our weekly marketing and branding meetings and we were presented with an idea aimed at vendors to help them see the value of using our professional photographers and videographers to help market property and hopefully, sell faster.

Let’s start with an article written by Shannon O’Brien on the Market Leader website. Her excellent piece entitled: Back Away From the iPhone and Hire a Photographer was written way back in 2013, and way before the latest iPhone made everyone a famous photographer, but the sentiment is as true now as it was then.

O’Brien begins with a question we ask each vendor wanting to list with us at Seven Stones Indonesia.

“Are you really taking photos of your house with a smartphone? You’re asking five hundred thousand dollars, right?” we ask. There’s usually an awkward silence. “How’s that working out for you? ”

The vendor quickly snaps back, “You’re the real estate agent, you should know how to sell my property!”

We’ve obviously hit a nerve and ruffled some feathers, but we always recommend you take professional photographs. Not only will your house look much better but you’ll also increase the chances of it selling faster.

There are many studies out there that suggest very strongly that real estate listings engage and (hopefully) lead to sales because of that all-important first impression; which means the photos.

Believe it or not, first impressions DO count, especially when you’re competing against the rest of the world and a whole new breed of smartphone photographers who wake up one morning convinced they’re better than someone with training and professional experience.

O’Brien and the Wall Street Journal argue that you only have one chance to impress; a scant two seconds to grab a buyer’s attention without a photograph, and 20 seconds with one. As it goes, that’s not a lot of time for that first impression. Truth is, if you have a great image, people engage. Have an obviously homemade snap and they don’t. That’s simple. It’s not rocket science folks.

“Why should I spend money on a photographer? And anyway, shouldn’t the real estate agent take the pictures? They’re selling the house and they’re the ones getting all the commissions, so I don’t think I should have to pay for that as well.”

The short and polite answer to that is, “No! Professional realtors are not professional photographers. You know, you get the right person for the right job.”

Here’s why. The real estate agent is focused on finding the right buyer for the right property and making the whole process as seamless and as enjoyable as possible. Their job is not to take second-rate pictures on a smartphone, just because you don’t see the value of creating a positive first impression.

O’Brien gives the perfect example when she asks, would the Co-Founder and Chairman of Nike, Phil Knight, whip out his smartphone and snap random photos of a pile of athletic shoes to be used in Nike’s print advertising? Obviously not! You know he’d be hiring professionals.

Pepper Productions write that “using quality, professional photography and video content across your website, social media, and other

digital channels not only catches the reader’s interest but also improves your visibility online. Images and video content are one of the most valuable tools for getting better results from your content. Visitors are 80 percent more likely to engage with content if it’s paired with an image and 64 percent more likely to remember what they read or heard.”

Here are three solid reasons to bite the bullet and use professional photographers instead of your smartphone for property listings.

Number One: First Impressions Count (a lot!)

You don’t get a second chance to make a first impression. Kylie Schwartz, writing at Start Blox, says first impressions last well beyond that first moment because of something called the “Primacy Effect”, which means that when someone experiences something before other things in a sequence, they remember that first thing more. And when you’re looking for property, chances are you’re going to filter through a lot of options before you start making a shortlist. Remember, as a vendor trying to sell a property, you want to be on that shortlist!

According to Invision Studio, over 80 percent of all homebuyers use the internet to research houses and discover the home they end up purchasing online before ever seeing it in person.

Number Two:

Stand Out from the Crowd

There are literally dozens of real estate agencies in Bali and even more real estate agents, either working for those agencies or freelancing for themselves. Or both. All of them are trying to sell your property but nearly all of them will be using the same images, usually supplied by the vendor and sent by WhatsApp, as one property is usually listed across multiple platforms at the same time. Stand out from the crowd and let professional photography be a powerful marketing tool, which can lead to more potential buyers clicking on your property.

Number Three: Show How Much You Value Your Property

A buyer is going to be more attracted to a vendor who sees the value of presenting their property in the best possible light. Literally. Put yourselves in the shoes of a buyer who’s looking to spend half a million, or a million dollars (or more) on a dream home. They come across a villa you’ve built from the ground up with blood, sweat, and more than a few tears only to find poorly lit, badly composed images with WhatsApp Image in the picture title. It’s a subconscious connection that works across every business; if something looks like you spent time, energy and love making it be the best it can be, then the chances of connecting with someone who appreciates and values it in the same way you do increases.

The Washington Post suggest that 84 percent of home buyers said they wouldn’t even consider a property that didn’t have listing photos while 87 percent of home buyers relied on photos to help make their decision, according to the National Association of Realtors.

Professionally photographed homes sell 32 percent faster than other listings, according to VHT, a real estate photography company. And professionally photographed homes command a 47 percent higher asking price per square foot, according to Redfin

So, if you’re a motivated vendor looking to sell your property for the best possible price, take our advice and talk to us about using our professional team of photographers and videographers, who also have pretty mean drone skills we might add!

If you’d like to learn more about selling property in Indonesia, get in touch with us today through hello@sevenstonesindonesia. com

Sources: National Geographic, Market Leader, Wall Street Journal, Pepper Productions, Start Blox, Invision Studio, The Washington Post, VHT, Redfin, National Association of Realtors

A buyer is going to be more attracted to a vendor who sees the value of presenting their property in the best possible light. Put yourselves in the shoes of a buyer who’s looking to spend half a million, or a million dollars (or more) on a dream home.

IMAGE BY BAGUS REINALDI (SEVEN STONES INDONESIA)

Best Cocktail Bars in Bali to Spend Your Valentine's Day

BY EYUL TUNC

The romantic island of Bali offers an abundance of options when it comes to going out. Whether you are single or want to have a romantic date with your beloved, there are so many cool places where you can have tasty cocktails with a nice ambience. Just to make your selection easy, we’ve gathered the best cocktail bars in Bali for you. Here we go!

Canggu’s recently opened new restaurant Skool Kitchen not only offers you the opportunity to watch famous Bali sunsets and waves, but it also offers one of the best cocktails on the island. Their signature Martine is a must-try and their fine dining menu also makes the place a perfect date venue.

If you want to try the island’s best cocktails while listening to good music, this place will fulfil your needs. They have a huge cocktail menu and it is not possible to be unimpressed by the presentation of the cocktails with unique cocktail glasses.

If you are a fan of speakeasy bars with creative decorations, you are in the right place. With its Peaky Blinders concept, Shady Pig offers one of the best cocktails on the island. Feel like dancing? They also have a live DJ until the early hours of the morning.

kabanaubud

Are you planning to spend your Valentine’s Day in the romantic Ubud area? You should definitely go to Kabana Ubud to enjoy jungle vibes, good music, and delicious cocktails. If you go early, you can also spend a good time in the fancy swimming pools.

mostobali

Mosto is Bali’s first natural wine bar, offering a great selection of wine as well as cocktails. Pick a sit at the cosy dining area or at the bar and have some delicious Italian bites while sipping your drink.

Located in Bali’s hip neighbourhood Perenenan, Leblon is known for having one of the best tasty cocktails in Bali. They also offer a great selection of wines, yummy tapas, and live music.

JAKARTA

potatoheadbali

There is nothing more romantic than watching the sunset by the ocean while having a good cocktail. Situated in Bali’s fancy neighbourhood Seminyak, Potato Head hotel has an open rooftop bar with an epic ocean view and a restaurant by the infinity pool.

Oakwood Apartments PIK Jakarta Welcomes New General Manager

Ervira Syahputri is the newest General Manager of Oakwood Apartments PIK Jakarta.

Syahputri started her hospitality career in Countrywood Residences. Graduated from Trisakti School of Tourism majoring in Hotel Administration Management, she began her career in the Front Office Department and worked her way up to the position of Operation Manager in 2012 and Residence Manager in 2017.

Since joining Ascott Hotels Indonesia in 2012, she has held various roles in the pre-opening team, property operations, front office, room divisions, revenue analysis and guest service management. “As the first international serviced apartments brand to debut in Pantai Indah Kapuk (PIK), one of the most prestigious neighbourhoods inJakarta, I am very proud and excited to be the part of this great team at Oakwood Apartments PIK Jakarta,” Syahputri expressed. “My team and I are going to continue our best to deliver an exceptional stay experience to our guests.”

If you are looking for a place to go in the surfer’s paradise of Uluwatu, which happens to be on the fancier side, Tabu is the answer. Nice decoration, live DJ performances, good food, and cocktails… this place offers nothing but a good vibe.

Her 22-year career in the hospitality industry and extensive knowledge and experience of property management is a great asset to Oakwood Apartments PIK Jakarta that will celebrate its third anniversary in March 2023.

Oakwood Apartments PIK Jakarta, a five-star hotel with an apartment concept, has 151 fully-furnished serviced apartments ranging from studio to threebedrooms. About 15 minutes away from Soekarno-Hatta International Airport and a direct access to the Central Business District, this hotel is also located nearby a trendy culinary hub and a well-connected neighbourhood with unmatched convenience, featuring By The Sea, Central Market, Pantjoran PIK, Urban farm, The Cove Batavia PIK, PIK Avenue, Tzu Chi school, as well as Fresh Market PIK.

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Serviced Office • Virtual Office • Meeting Facilities • Company Incorporation

Located in Kuningan Business District, integrated with shopping mall and residential enable you for a more convenient and easier way of doing business in Jakarta. With flexible lease terms, ready to use office suites, immediate office setup, daily receptionist and maintenance services, 88 Service Office leaves you free to run your businenss without the day to day hassles of managing a conventional office space. "At 88 Service Office, we enable you to focus on your core business with friendly professionalism and affordability flexibility."

Jl. Raya Casablanca Kav88 | Phone: 021-29631688

Email: sales@88office.co.id | Web: www.88office.co.id

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JAKARTA

Jobs Available

International school in North Jakarta looking for: IBDP English A: Language and Literature teacher (expat). IBDP trained/experience is a must, A minimum of 5 years prior teaching experience. The position is for the 2023/2024 academic year. Any interested applicant can email arianto. trisnadi@beaconacademy.net or careers@beaconacademy. net , and attach a cover letter with a resume/cv.

Mentari Intercultural School

Bintaro HS is looking for an experienced ICT/Computer Ed/ Digital Society Teacher for SY 2023-2024. Please send your CV to sunny.reyes@mis.sch.id

Your annual report, company profile or other global-oriented corporate publication should contain perfect business English, to be effective and impressive. A long-term ASEAN professional, I have written and edited documents and worked on websites for major institutional clients including Ramayana, Astra, Supernova, Bukit Asam, Multistrada, BNI Sekuritas and Bank Bali. Four-day turnaround of annual report copy, edited and proofread online, for Rp 7,000,000. Contact: proofreading.annual. reports@gmail.com

Send your classifieds to:

info@indonesiaexpat.biz

Next Deadline: February 22, 2023

both spoken & written. Able to start anytime. More info: +6281298542830.

Services Property

Private Piano Lesson by Patricia Marissa.Online/ Home Private in South Jakarta area.FREE TRIAL. WA:+6287885728595. My name is Bowo Christantyo. I'm an experienced music teacher and also a professional musician. For those who are interested in learning to play guitar or ukulele, I'm providing private guitar and ukulele classes. I have been teaching since 2012 until now and I'm handling both foreign and local students as well. Both private guitar and ukulele classes are provided onsite/meet-up or online. Kids and adults can take the class at any level. Schedules are flexible and lesson materials are always given. Contact me at +6281808361136 (WhatsApp) or email me at bowoprivatemusiccourse@ gmail.com . Linktree: https://linktr.ee/ bowoprivatemusiccourse

For rent: Villa Hanging Bandung. Awarded Silver Design Award winner in the 2018-2019 Architecture, Building and Structure Design Award Category. This tropical architecture villa is at the mountainside, surrounded by deep valleys and a forest conservatory in Bandung. The building mass comes from the idea of stacking boxes which are rotated 270 degrees to allow users to have a different experience in different rooms and have an almost 270-degree view of surrounding valleys. The building is oriented to take full advantage of the sun's position and perpendicular to the wind direction to maximize the wind entering the building while the extensive use of glass openings allows natural cross ventilation and maximizes natural light to enter the building. Facilities:2 spacious bedrooms with en-suite bathroom. Huge space living room equipped with sofa and large screen LED TV. Rooftop, Kitchen, Jacuzzi pool, Staff room. Please Contact: Meidy: +6281291090912 or Juliany: +6281210136700.

Kemang house for rent: recently renovated home of 670m 2 , strategically located in the Kemang area available for rent. Only one stone's throw away from Jl Kemang Raya. Facilities: 3.5 bedrooms, 3 bathrooms, swimming pool and garage. Visit @rumahkemangkami on Instagram for photos. For more information, drop us a DM through our Instagram account; or WA: +6287886181947.

Household Staff Available

House for rent by the owner, it’s completely renovated. It’s suitable for a private home, or a silent office. Address: Jl. Jaya Mandala, Patra Jasa, South Jakarta. Size 1.700 sqm,5 Beds,4 Baths,1 Main House,1 Pavilion, Big Swimming Pool, Gazebo, Garage 4 cars, Carport 2 cars, cosy atmosphere, Good fresh air circulation, Close Embassy Australia, Embassy UK, Kuningan area, office building, Mall Kokas & LOTTE. Access to the toll ring road. For more information please contact +6285811353237 or +62218298402. Email: bakpiaoke@hotmail.com

Unique investment opportunity: 2BR villa in Cemagi, 350m from beach. 2 bedrooms with ensuite bathrooms (1 with bathtub), big closed-plan living room kitchen , pool, Parking area, smart switch (domotics), rooftop (75m 2 ), second floor. Surrounded by rice paddies. Minimum 20 years leasehold, January price: US$119k for 20 years. Can do up to 40 years lease. Finishing date: April 2023. Best deal in all Canggu, exclusive deal,  for more info : +62815 88889910.

Looking for a live-in nanny/ maid for a family of 5 (parents and 3 children). Should be Muslim, and should be able to speak English. Must be able to start immediately. Very attractive salary of 4.7! Please WhatsApp +971507755468 with a short video with your information.

Are you looking for a live-out job as a Nanny or Maid in Jakarta? Years of experience in Indonesia with expat and also overseas. Great with newborn Babies and Kids. Good cook especially with recipes. Great with general housekeeping, laundry & ironing etc. Ok with dogs. Fluent in English

Brand new villa 2 bdr poss 3 or 4 bdr under constructionPererenan/Bali, leasehold 30 years . Price: US$ 160,000~IDR 2,420,000,000~EUR 148,000. 30-year lease-hold contract. Modern & brandnew villa unfurnished, 2 bedrooms, 2 bathrooms. Land size of 200m 2 , swimming pool, parking. Located in Jl. Veteran/Pererenan, 10 minutes from Pererenan beach, 5min Pepito Supermarket. Villa under construction 50%, will be delivered in April. IMB/SLF permit. Building: 1 floor (possibility of extending the second floor with 1 or 2 additional bedrooms and terrace). Securing the villa before the end of construction will allow you to adapt it to your tastes. You can modify and choose the materials, coatings, colors etc. Here is the link to the full Youtube video:  https://www.youtube. com/watch?v=II62p_shHTk

For more info and/or to visit do not hesitate to send me a message  +6281237824910.

Brand new super luxury villas 4 bedroom in Umalas. 4 bedroom villa, 6 bathroom, security 24 hours non stop, big swimming pool, big garden, Pet Allowed, kitchen, enclosed large living room, large swimming pool, large garden, located in the heart of Seminyak, IDR 350 million / year. For Inspection please WhatsApp: +6281335268787.