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features 14 | MIXING IT UP IN 2013 New activities for the whole family to try

20 | PRIVATE SCHOOLS ARE AFFORDABLE

19 | TRUE CONFESSIONS OF A STAY-AT-HOME DAD Potty training: Who’s really getting rewarded here?

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22 | DEAR TEACHER Kids who quit too easily, falling behind in math and overcrowded classrooms

You just need to know where to look

26 | MOMMY MAGIC

30 | MOVING ON FROM A MISCARRIAGE

Out of touch: a submerged phone leads to true communication

Local support groups help women through

27 | WHAT’S NEW AT SCHOOL

their grief

Cincinnati Public Schools embraces new academic standards

around town 28 | SMALL BOOKSTORE, BIG EXCITEMENT

in every issue 08 | PUBLISHER'S NOTE

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resources 16 | ARTS/ENRICHMENT GUIDE 24 | education/ childcare GUIDE 38 | MARKETPLACE 38 | BIRTHDAY PARTY GUIDE

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10 | COMMUNITY SPOTLIGHT 12 | ONLINE BUZZ

commentary + parenting 18 | KIDS AND CASH Teaching economic and financial literacy to children 6 CINCINNATIPARENT.COM

calendars 33 | JANUARY EVENTS 36 | ONGOING EVENTS 39 | FUN + WACKY

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A fresh start, a clean slate, a new beginning – all these phrases celebrate the possibilities of a new year. At Cincinnati Parent, we’re excited to bring you all the latest events, fun activities and informative articles you need to make 2013 a great year for your family.

January is the perfect time for kids to try a new activity or two – and our Mixing It Up feature offers some novel ideas for wintertime fun. Trying something new isn’t just for kids though – there are many activities designed with the whole family in mind – so join in the fun!

If you are considering a fresh start in a private school for your child, be sure to read Private Schools Are Affordable. Many parents aren’t aware of the various scholarships and aid packages available to them and don’t realize that private schooling can be an affordable educational option.

Of course our own Cincinnati Public Schools offer great opportunities to students and we’re excited to share our new column What’s New at School to keep you up-to-date with the latest information and events that impact your neighborhood school.

Our magazine starts the year with another new column sure to be a favorite with readers. Kids and Cash will help parents navigate the sometimes tricky territory of discussing money issues with children. Our expert from the University of Cincinnati will share her thoughts on moving kids along the path of becoming financially literate adults.

We hope 2013 is filled with much fun, health and happiness for your family – and we appreciate you taking Cincinnati Parent along for the ride!

EVENTS COORDINATOR & PUBLIC RELATIONS Wendy Cox | wendy@cincinnatiparent.com EDITORIAL ASSISTANT Wendy Schrepferman | s.wendy@cincinnatiparent.com INTERN Maria Tancredi | maria@cincinnatiparent.com CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Mary Wynne Cox, Wendy Schrepferman, Sarah McCosham, Nancy Edwards, Mary Susan Buhner, Pete Gilbert, Dr. Julia Heath of The University of Cincinnati, Dawn Grady of Cincinnati Public Schools CALENDAR OF EVENTS calendar@cincinnatiparent.com CONTACT US 9435 Waterstone Blvd., Suite 140 | Cincinnati, OH 45249 PHONE: 513.444.2015 | FAX: 513.444.2099 EMAIL: info@cincinnatiparent.com

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celebrate little golden books at the cincinnati library “Children’s literature is the first literature and the first art that children are exposed to. It should be good. And when it is, it should be given respect.” —William Joyce

promoting courage, confidence and character one cookie at a time Did you know...

1) The first homemade Girl Scout cookies were sold in 1917.

2) In 2011, more than 72,000 boxes of Girl Scout cookies were delivered to U.S. soldiers to thank them for their service and bravery.

3) Many successful businesswomen and community leaders say they developed leadership, financial literacy and entrepreneurial skills by selling Girl Scout cookies.

4) The Girl Scouts of America will begin their 101st year of scouting by unveiling the first new package designs in 13 years.

5) There is a free cookie app (search app store with keywords “Girl Scout cookie finder”).

Users can find a local cookie booth, “meet the cookies”, vote for their favorite of the eight flavors and learn about the goals of the cookie program.

Your local Girl Scouts will begin taking orders January 4th, so be sure to answer the door when they come calling. You’ll be saying hello to tomorrow’s business leaders!

In 1942 Little Golden Books made high-quality illustrated books available at affordable prices for the first time to millions of young children and their parents. Sixty original masterpieces of illustrated art chosen from the vast Random House archive will be featured in “The Golden Legacy” on view in the Main Library Atrium and Children’s Learning Center. Visitors will enjoy original examples from such picture book classics as The Poky Little Puppy, Tootle, Home for a Bunny, The Kitten Who Thought He Was a Mouse, The Color Kittens, I Can Fly and more.

Be sure to check out the Library Friends’ Shop on the Main Library mezzanine for an assortment of Little Golden Books that have been repurposed into wallets, checkbook covers, business card holders, book bags, clutches and passport holders.

Where: Cincinnati Public Library - Main Library, 800 Vine Street Cincinnati, OH 45202 When: Now until February 21st.

For more information call 513.369.6900.

did someone say glitter?

Thanks to Zoom Creative Products (based in Morrow, Ohio) parents and children can enjoy the look of glitter without the mess. StickPiction glitter technology products take greeting card, scrapbooking and craft projects to the next level. Visit www.zoomcreativeproducts.com to get started.

Zoom will donate 5% of all online sales to the Special Olympics throughout 2013.

brain balance of cincinnati program

the green mystery machine is heading to ohio!

Scooby Doo and the Mystery Inc. Gang will present Scooby Doo Live! on January 23rd.

Dr. Robert Melillo, an internationally known chiropractic neurologist, and author of Disconnected Kids, is also the creator of The Brain Balance program. The Cincinnati Brain Balance Center has been helping area children since May of 2011.

This musical mystery event highlights the gang’s attempts to solve an epic mystery complete with crazy ghosts, perplexing puzzles, some wacky new characters, dancing and music!

Parents with children who struggle in school know that academic challenges don’t end in the classroom, especially for kids with learning, behavioral or developmental challenges. Persistent trouble with school can lead to frustration, decreased confidence and anxiety.

Scooby Doo has been delighting families for decades.

Whether you’re new to Scooby Doo or a longtime fan, you are in for a treat!

Brain Balance Advancement Centers offer a non-drug approach that goes beyond the symptoms and addresses root causes. The areas of academic performance, social abilities, cognitive function, sensory and motor skills, visual-spatial skills and nutritional health are all examined in an effort to treat the whole child.

To learn more about the goals of The Brain Balance program, please visit www.brainbalancecincinnati.com.

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When: Wednesday January 23, 2013 7:00 pm Where: U.S. Bank Arena, 100 Broadway Cincinnati, OH 45202 Tickets: Prices range from $18 - $75 To order by phone call 1-800-745-3000

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For my first child, we gave my parents (the future grandparents) bibs that said I love Grandpa and I love Grandma. For our second child we put our first child in a shirt that said " Big Brother" and he wore it in front of everyone. – Kristen F. We announced the gender of our fourth child at Thanksgiving. We filled the napkins with "It's a Boy" confetti and set them at each place setting.

People were so ready for the meal, that many people dropped the confetti and didn't catch it until our other children saw it and told everyone they knew the secret. – Jonathan D. For my first great grandchild I got a picture frame saying “picture due in 9 months” - my mouth was wide open. – Janice C. I called my mom with my first, I normally say hi mom, but I said hi grandma! She caught on right away. – Nikki H. We gave my parents a "Grandparent" card that said "congrats". It was priceless! – Michelle R.

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MIXING It U p IN 2013 New activities for the whole family to try Sarah McCosham

If the post-holiday “blahs” are setting in with your family, adding some new activities to the calendar may be just what you need to keep everyone happy as they trudge through the remaining winter months. No need to escape to a warmer climate for fun; these ideas are right in your own back yard.

A Change of Scenery Winter can be tough on everyone, and sometimes a simple change of scenery can be enough to change the mood. At the Cincinnati Family Enrichment Center (CFEC), everyone can be entertained by the wide selection of activities available. Feeling cooped up with your four month-old? CFEC Co-Founder Sharon Said suggests trying their music, movement and signing classes or the development play classes, all of which start at birth and run through 21 months.

If a snow day has your house feeling very small, consider taking the kids to a museum, aquarium, library or other place where their imaginations (and bodies) can run wild. Said recommends the CFEC’s revamped "play café," which now features more fun options for kids and more room to socialize for parents. This concept is becoming increasingly popular here in Cincinnati, with the new OZO Play Café recently opening.

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CFEC teacher Jen Ortiz says, “It is important for kids to get involved in activities outside of school because it allows them the opportunity to meet and engage with new children and adults.” She adds that this interaction allows children to expand their social circles and enhance their people skills. Other adults provide new models for social and communication skills as well.

“Getting Schooled” on a Saturday Meanwhile, older kids can benefit from taking classes that cater to their interests and talents. For the artistically inclined, check out Cincinnati’s FUNKe Fired Arts, a studio in Hyde Park that offers multi-level classes in wheel throwing, hand building and sculpture. Educational Director Ben Clark says getting kids involved in art has countless benefits.

“Aside from the physical learning that goes on, kids gain confidence from creating with clay. We have an amazing community of potters, hobbyists and teachers here at all times.” Clark says that art not only gives children a creative outlet to express themselves, but can also bring kids and parents closer. “When a family shares a fun experience together, they have something to talk about. Sometimes it is hard to find common ground with your kids and most of what you say is in the form of an order: ‘Clean your room,’ ‘Do your homework,’ ‘Make sure you are home for dinner.’

Working in clay is an amazing way to spend time as a family -- kids can help out the parents and everyone can share ideas.”

Indoor Physical Outlets As temperatures dip and inclement weather makes outdoor fun difficult, consider heading inside for your physical activities. Exercise not only helps burn off pent-up energy, but the boost of endorphins can improve kids’ moods, too.

At Yoga Alive in Kenwood, kids five and up can take a yoga class on Saturday afternoons from 2:30 to 3:30. In each class children are encouraged to use their imaginations and natural energy -- and be kids. Yoga Alive Manager Steph Lang says that yoga is a natural fit for children, encouraging them to stay physically healthy, build strength and even cope with stress.

In fact, yoga is such a great family activity that the Cincinnati Zoo is now offering a “Family Zoo Yoga Series”. The Zoo’s Evan Marie Banzhaf explains that the new program is designed to get kids moving and connected to nature during the cold winter months. Several other fun activities are also hosted during the winter, such as overnight sleepovers and different educational series designed to suit your child’s particular interests.

Finally, for the kids with endless energy, try a tumbling or gymnastics class. At Cincinnati’s Flip n Twist Gymnastics, toddlers age 18 and up can show their stuff in a “Mom and Me” session, while older kids will enjoy one of the many other classes available. Across town, the Cincinnati Sports Club offers indoor activities for kids and parents, such as dance, tumbling, martial arts and yoga.

The Value of Family Time While it’s great for kids to get involved in different activities, it’s equally important for the whole family to spend some time trying new adventures with each other.

Explains Ortiz: “When a family participates in a special activity together, it can strengthen the bonds between them through sharing the experience together.

Participating in the activity shows the child that the parent cares about them and what they are doing enough to do it with them, and supports and bolsters the child's confidence and emotional development.”

In addition to the cognitive and physical benefits of family time, there are rich emotional returns as well. “As a parent, you have the chance to potentially learn about new things your child is interested in, or new things that they can do, and also possibly take away ideas for additional exploration or activities to expand on further,” says Ortiz.

By trying new activities as a family, you’ll learn new things about your child you probably wouldn’t have otherwise - which means that the next time he or she complains “I’m bored,” you’ll know exactly what to do!

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arts+ enrichment GUIDE Baldwin Music Education Center [ Music ] For 50 years, Baldwin Music has offered unique, specially designed preschool music classes for ages 6-months to 4-years and piano classes ages 5 on up. Classes taught by trained group music teachers, convenient location, 6-day schedule, family discounts. The mission of BMEC is to enrich lives, believing that every life needs music! 3799 Hyde Park Ave, Cincinnati, OH 45209, Contact: Rachel Kramer, Phone: 513-351-1109, Fax: 513-351-3934, Email: baldwinmusiceducenter@ gmail.com, www.baldwinmusiceducenter.com

Kindermusik by Cathy Siebert [ Music ] Music and Movement classes for families with children from birth through 7 yrs of age. Come sing, dance and learn!

Check the website for free classes held in both locations.

Check website for PlayDates in January. New session begins January 14. Enroll online or by phone with our budgetfriendly monthly subscription plan of $54 per month for our classes which include instrument, CD, books and more!

Kindermusik has been the premiere early childhood program for over 40 years; come see why! 6131 Campus Lane, Mt. Washington 45230 & at Madeira Presbyteria, Cincinnati, OH 45230, Contact: Cathy Siebert, Phone: 513-231-3973, Email: siebertkm@aol.com, kindermusikbycs.kindermusik.net

ballet tech of ohio [ Dance ] Register now! Master Classes (Beginning/Intermediate/ Advanced) Jan. 13 - 15 with Valery Lantratov,Artistic Director, Russian National Ballet Foundation. Saturday, Feb. 2 (2/2) - A Very Moving Experience! bto Silent Auction/Nosh & Dance the night away. Artisan Crafted items, wine, and entertainment. Twentieth Anniversary Gala in May bringing professionals/awarded bto dancers back! 7623 Old 3C Highway Maineville, OH 45039, Contact: Claudia Rudolf Barrett, Phone: 513-319-3624 or 513-683-6860, Email: ballettechohio@aol. com, ballettechohio.org

Cincinnati School of Music [ Music ] The Cincinnati School of Music is now open in Montgomery!

Offering personalized music lessons in piano, guitar, ukulele, voice, violin and viola. Open 7 days a week, by appointment, for your convenience. To learn more about the benefits of taking lessons at CSM, please visit our website or call (513) 560-9175. 7800 Cooper Road, Montgomery, OH 45242, Phone: 513-560-9175, Email: info@cincinnatischoolofmusic.com, www.cincinnatischoolofmusic.com

Fitton Center for Creative Arts [ Arts ] The Fitton Center is a non-profit educational organization whose mission continues to be “Building Community Excellence through the Arts and Culture.” We pursue our mission by providing quality programs and classroom instruction through gifts, sponsorships and grants from several generous funders. 101 S. Monument, Hamilton, OH 45011, Contact: Pam Gruber, Phone: 513-863-8873, Email: pam@ fittoncenter.org, www.fittoncenter.org 16 CINCINNATIPARENT.COM

My Nose Turns Red Youth Circus [ Theatre ] “2012 Best of the City” by Cincinnati Magazine Classes, Summer Camps, after school enrichment programs, Home School Classes, residencies & workshops, and performances.

Circus is a unique blend of skill, physical fitness, creativity, performance and imagination that teaches teamwork and builds self-esteem. P.O. Box 120307, Covington, KY 41012, Contact: Steve Roenker, Director, Phone: 859-561-7100, Email: info@mynoseturnsred.org, www.mynoseturnsred.org University of Cincinnati CCM Preparatory Department [ Dance, Music, Theatre ] The CCM Preparatory Department offers lessons in all musical instruments, classes and performance opportunities in music, theatre and dance for students of all ages and abilities. Ensembles include jazz, band, orchestra, choir, and chamber music. There is a preprofessional ballet company and an annual spring musical open to CCM Prep students.

Convenient classes and lessons in music and acting are offered at UC Blue Ash College. Summer workshops and programs are offered at both the Clifton campus and UC Blue Ash. PO Box 210236, Cincinnati, OH 45221, Contact: Elizabeth Boland, Phone: (513)556-2595, Email: cmprep@uc.edu, www. ccm.uc.edu/prep West Chester Academy of Music and Dance [ Dance, Music ] Quality private lessons in piano, voice, guitar, violin, viola, cello, clarinet, saxophone, flute, drums, harp, trumpet and steel drums. Also offers nationally acclaimed Music for Young Children, a group keyboard curriculum for ages 5 and up, and Music Pups, a music and movement class for birth to 4. Dance Classes for all ages, competitive and recreational.

Call for FREE trial class. 8374 Princeton Glendale Rd, West Chester, OH 45069, Phone: (513)829-2345, www.wcaomd.com

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commentary and parenting

[ kids and cash ]

Kids and Cash Teaching economic and financial literacy to children Dr. Julia Heath, Director, Economics Center and Professor, Alpaugh Family Chair of Economics, University of Cincinnati

You teach them the ABC’s. You teach them to count. You teach them to say “please” and “thank you”. But do you teach them economic and financial literacy? On the long list of things Cincinnati parents have to think about teaching their children, economic and financial literacy do not even get an honorable mention. But they should.

Think about how much more complex the economy is than when your parents were your age. This complexity will only increase as our children grow into adults. They need to not only be able to navigate this evolving economy, but be able to fully participate in it. This requires that our children be able to “do” economic and financial literacy, not just “know” it.

Only three percent of high school students scored at a proficient level on a national test of economic literacy conducted by the National Assessment of Educational Progress, the organization that has previously reported on the state of knowledge in geography, history and math.

Why isn’t just knowing economic and financial literacy sufficient? Most people understand that they have to make choices in life. But those who can “do” economic and financial literacy understand that choices involve opportunity costs – what you give up when you make your choice. The ability to articulate options, evaluate them and understand (and accept) the cost of decisions is fundamental to doing. Most people understand the impact of an increase in the demand for gasoline – the price increases. But how do investments in alternative fuels, drilling in the United States or national gas tax holidays affect the price we pay at the pump? The ability to think through these questions is doing. Most people understand that a change in interest rates will affect their ability to purchase a home. Doing economic and financial literacy means they also understand that changes in interest rates do not occur in a vacuum – it means that they understand how Federal Reserve policy determines mortgage rates, retirement account returns, when bonds are a good investment and when they are not. The best decisions are made by those who realize how the pieces of the economy fit together. Our country’s recent recessionary slide is testament to the

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consequences of making personal decisions without the ability to do economic and financial literacy.

Does all of this sound a bit overwhelming? Don’t worry – it’s not as difficult as it may seem.

Teaching your children how to fully participate in the economy – how to do economic and financial literacy – is really about teaching them how to make good decisions. There are many things you can do to help your children develop critical thinking skills and an understanding of economic and financial literacy – even from a young age.

This column is designed to help you do just that – to give you the tools you need to feel more confident about preparing your children in this important area. You don’t need any particular educational background; you don’t need any particular income level. You just need to recognize how important it is that your children understand the world around them so that they are empowered with the ability to “do.”

Your children will probably not learn this in school. But you can teach them economic and financial literacy by how you structure allowances, by talking to them about how to make purchases – even by reading books together. In the months to come, I will suggest topics and strategies that you can use to give your children a good foundation in economic and financial literacy, no matter what their age, no matter your level of comfort. You can do it – and so can they.

[ pete gilbert...stay-at-home dad ]

commentary and parenting

Potty Training: Who’s really getting rewarded here?

True confessions of stay-at-home dad Pete Gilbert My wife and I just went through the process of potty training our three year-old son. Along with stickers and small toys, we gave him pieces of candy every time he successfully used the potty.

I had two goals as we began potty training, get my son out of diapers and not eat all the candy while doing so. Things started off really well.

Day 1. "Oh son, you went pee on the potty! I'm so proud of you, here have a miniature Hershey's bar!" I would hand him a piece of chocolate and put the bag away taking none for myself.

As the days went on, my enthusiasm for celebrating trips to the bathroom decreased, along with my willpower.

Day 3. "Another potty, great. A Mr. Goodbar for you and two Krackel for me.”

Day 4. "Good job going potty. That's three M and M's for you, because you're three and 36 M and M's for me, because I'm 36."

Day 5. "Are you thinking you may have to potty soon? I'll just go ahead and eat some chocolate now just in case."

By about the sixth day I raided the candy jar anytime I felt like it. I'm not sure I even gave him rewards for going potty, I just occasionally walked over to the cabinet and stuffed my face with miniature candy bars and M and M's.

Thankfully, he stopped expecting rewards for going potty right around the same time I polished off the rest of the bag.

Day 2. "Good job, another trip to the potty. What is that, seven times this morning?" I would hand him a chocolate and shove one in my mouth too.

My sweet tooth cannot wait until it’s time to potty train our one year-old.

Things just kept getting progressively worse.

Happy Parenting!

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Private Schools A RE Affordable You Just Need to Know Where to Look Sarah McCosham

Even though the kids have just returned to school from winter break, it’s already time to start thinking about next school year. If you’re considering a switch to a private school, enrolling your kindergartener in a private program or have questions about secular, religious or special needs schools, you’ve come to the right place.

With the variety of scholarships, financial aid and government programs available to help with tuition, you may be surprised to learn that enrolling in a private school may be more within your reach than you expected.

In many situations, cost should NOT dictate your decision to send your child to a private school.

T he B asics While the cost of public schools is paid by public taxes, private schools are paid from private tuition. Recognizing this, most private schools offer scholarships based on financial need, student achievement and various other criteria.

Jill Cahill, Vice President of Marketing at St. Ursula Academy, says that because of the volume of scholarships available for private schooling, families can generally overcome the “cost obstacle” with financial assistance. In fact, there are several national programs specifically designed to help families with the cost of private schools.

For example, Cahill explains that St. Ursula offers financial assistance for students who qualify through the Private School Aid Service (PSAS) program. According to their web site, PSAS provides services to approximately 4,000 private, parochial and Christian schools across the country.

In addition, there are other programs available through the National Association of Independent Schools (NAIS). Susanna Max, Associate Director of Marketing at The 20 CINCINNATIPARENT.COM

Seven Hills School, explains that the application process for this program is easy: parents simply fill out the Parents Financial Statement (PFS) online. The application requires a brief history of a family’s financials along with other general information.

Once a family has completed the application, the student can then apply for admittance at their selected school(s).

When applying for assistance, be aware of deadlines. For most programs, the deadline for the next school year is usually the end of the previous calendar year.

Even if you’re on the fence about sending your child to private school, you should still apply, says Cincinnati Country Day’s Director of Admission Aaron Kellenberger. “Get admitted first and then see what type of aid is offered. You can always say ‘no’ after you have all of the information.”

Government A ssistance Since attending school in the U.S. is viewed as a right – not a privilege – there are various federal, state and local grants that can help families with the cost of private schooling.

The most well-known form of government assistance is probably the voucher system. Simply put, a voucher is a certificate issued by the government, which parents can apply toward tuition at a private school rather than sending their child to the public school or district to which their child is assigned.

For example, under the No Child Left Behind Act, there are various state vouchers offered to students in “underperforming” public school districts. Such vouchers essentially give families the funds and freedom to choose where they want to send their children to school.

aid through the school. The school is able to provide this assistance through fundraising events, annual fund donations and individual scholarship funds.

Meanwhile, Max explains that The Seven Hills School offers a myriad of merit-based scholarship opportunities, including the Young Scholar Award and Scholar Award Programs, which are given to new students applying for grades 1 through 12. These types of grants are awarded to students meeting specific academic parameters.

In addition, there are also vouchers available to students with learning disabilities or special needs. If you’re looking into a special needs school for your child, you may be able to receive additional tax breaks. In fact, at Cincinnati’s Springer School and Center, the cost of attending can often be deducted as a medical expense, says Admissions Director Carmen Mendoza.

Additionally, if you’re sending your child to a certain type of private program – like a performing arts school or a religiously affiliated school – you should ask the admissions counselor about any lesser-known grants that are available for that school. For example, Cahill explains that Cincinnati has the Catholic Inner-city Schools Education Fund (CISE), which is available to students attending specific Catholic grade schools within the city limits. Students at these grade schools can apply for the CISE scholarship to continue their education at a Catholic high school.

As with all forms of financial assistance, be sure to sit down with your school’s financial aid counselor to determine what you need, what you qualify for and how to apply.

F inal T houghts

S chool S cholarships Once you’ve filled out the paperwork for national assistance, you can then turn your attention to scholarships offered specifically through the school. Most private schools offer their own scholarships to students based on need, talent and achievement.

In terms of “need,” don’t feel embarrassed about applying for scholarship assistance.

At the Springer School, Mendoza says one in three students receives some sort of

The consensus among various admissions and financial aid counselors seems to be that private schools want your child to attend their school just as much as you do. In fact, Cahill says that financial aid is a top priority at St. Ursula Academy, and the business office works with families to make sure they’re aware of all opportunities available to them. She adds that the school is working to increase its endowment fund, so that ultimately financial constraints alone will never preclude a child from enrolling at their school.

If sending your child to a private school is an opportunity you would like to learn more about, there are numerous people, resources and funds available to help you do just that.

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commentary and parenting

[ dear teacher ]

Dear Teacher Kids who quit too easily, falling behind in math and overcrowded classrooms Marge Eberts & Peggy Gisler

How to Stop Children from Being Quitters

Q:

How can I help my third grade son who just gives up at the first sign of difficulty? What can I do to help him stop being a quitter?

— Cheerleader Mom

A:

Children usually start giving up after experiencing a cycle of failures at school. Your son is only in the third grade; he more than likely wants to do well in school. Very sadly, not all bright children succeed in school.

Some begin tasks very halfheartedly and give up at the first sign of difficulty.

Psychiatrists call this "learned helplessness." It can happen in the early grades because of emotional immaturity, low frustration level or over-dependency on adults. It also can happen when children start fourth or sixth grades because these are points when learning requires more effort, and some bright children have no strategies for handling difficult assignments and give up too quickly. It's not easy for these children to overcome the tendency to give up when the going gets tough, but they can with continued help from teachers and parents.

By modeling how to approach a problem and giving specific instructions at every step along the way, parents can help their children learn how to tackle difficult assignments. They will need to teach them: — Effective problem-solving strategies

— To look for more than one approach when solving a problem — To retrace their steps to find errors — To use self-talk as a guide for solving problems

Help for 6th Grader Failing Math

Q:

My granddaughter failed math in sixth grade and got a failing grade the first semester this year in seventh grade. She hasn't mastered multiplication, and her addition and subtraction skills are poor. She has just been passed along. The school did not have summer school, and the teacher is a poor communicator. I'm trying to work on helping her learn the basic facts. What else can I do? — Want to Help

A:

The best thing that you can do right now is to see that the child gets the help that she so obviously needs. The individual responsible for this child, whether it is you or a parent, must immediately contact the school to see that help in math begins at once. It would be a good idea to meet immediately with this teacher. Find out why an intervention or testing for a learning disability has not been done.

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If you do not receive a helpful response from the teacher, contact a counselor or the principal. This child's skills sound so weak that an individual tutor or math learning center may be needed. Nothing but serious problems in math are going to occur in the future without considerable help. How will this child ever be able to handle math in high school to fulfill graduation requirements?

You can supply some help to your granddaughter. To work on addition and subtraction, use manipulatives – counters, coins, etc. – so she can actually see problems. If she is strong enough to work on multiplication, try this technique: For a problem like 3 x 4, have her draw three parallel vertical lines and cross them with four parallel horizontal lines and then count the intersections (12) to get the answer. You will also find it helpful to search on our website for math under the elementary level, as you will find a variety of suggestions about ways to teach basic math facts, starting with addition.

Do not consider your granddaughter’s math skills strong in any area until she can solve basic addition, subtraction and multiplication facts in 3 seconds or less.

How to Cope with Overcrowded First Grade

Q:

My daughter's first-grade classroom is overcrowded. The children are not getting quality instruction from the teacher, and the teacher does not have time to accomplish all that she wants to do. Volunteer parents are the teacher's only help. Who can we (a group of concerned parents) approach to improve this situation? A few of us have written letters to the principal, but nothing has been done to address the issue. — Need Advice

A:

First grade is an extremely important year in school. During this year, time will be spent teaching children to read and do basic addition and subtraction. Realistically, the children will have wildly diverging skill levels, from those who can read to those who are just starting to learn the sounds of letters.

And the same is true with math abilities. It is difficult for a teacher to make sure that every student gets all the individual help needed when classes are very large.

School districts recognize the importance of having smaller classes in the primary grades. Unfortunately, they are finding it very difficult to do so with smaller budgets.

Of course, parents should voice their concerns even though it may be difficult for the school to change things.

There are some things that parents can do. They may work with the administration to set up a well-organized and trained volunteer program that can assist the first-grade teacher. They may also raise funds through the parent-teacher organization to pay for an aide for this teacher as well as others in the school.

Parents should send questions and comments to dearteacher@dearteacher.com or ask them on the columnists’ website at www.dearteacher.com.

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resources

[ school listings ]

education + childcare GUIDE Child Care & Preschool Chai Tots Early Childhood Center Academic excellence via unique blend of Montessori method and traditional Jewish education. Chai Tots teaches children the culture and traditions of Judaism, while developing their creativity skills and promoting independence. Flexible schedule. Before and Aftercare.

7587 Central Parke Blvd., Mason, OH 45040, (513)234-0600, www.chaitots.com, Grades: 6 weeks - 6 years, Enrollment: 40

The Compass School Ages 6 weeks-6 years plus after school & summer camp up to age 12. Offering outstanding Reggio-Inspired full and part-time Infant, Toddler, Two’s, and Preschool programs, as well as Kindergarten, After School, and Summer Camp for school-age children. Degreed teachers, extensive parent communication, and welcoming family environment. Setting the standard in early care and education. Call today for your personal tour. 9370 Waterstone Blvd., Cincinnati, OH 45249, Contact: Laura Carr, Phone: 513-683-8833, Email: CompassLC@yahoo.com, www.TheCompassSchool.com

Cornerstone Church Preschool A Step Up To Quality award winning preschool committed to nurturing the whole child socially, emotionally, cognitively, physically, and spiritually. CCP provides high quality early childhood education based on sound knowledge of child development and appropriate practices. Daily lessons include Bible concepts, language skills, emergent math, discovery opportunities, music, creative art and more! 7600 Princeton Glendale Road, Liberty Township, OH 45011, Contact: Denise Taylor, Director, Phone: (513) 874-7870, Email: preschool@cornerstonechurch.org, www. cornerstonechurch.org

Creative Tots Preschool Creative Tots has specialized in the private education of Toddler, Preschool and Pre-K children for 20 years. Our research-based curriculum provides age-appropriate, high-quality academics designed to exceed Ohio Academic Content Standards; which assures accountability for educational objectives in Ohio. Our modernized curriculum is rich in opportunities to use creativity, solve problems, use language, develop new vocabulary and reading skills, while engaging in intellectual activities. For more information please contact the director and owner, Emilie Parry. Phone: 513-770-6776. www.creativetotsmason.com. Programs: Toddler 18 months - 3 years; Early 3’s 2 1/2 -3 years; Preschool 3 - 4 years; Pre-K 4-5 years. Enrichment Programs: Spanish, Music, Art, Yoga and Science. M-F 9-11:30 or 12-2:30.

Hyde Park Community United Methodist Church Preschool HPCUMC Preschool is proud to be a Step up to Quality Preschool. At HPCUMC Preschool, we focus on learning through play. Our activities are developmentally 24 CINCINNATIPARENT.COM

appropriate for children ages 2 1/2 to 5 years of age. Your child will be encouraged to try new tasks, use their imagination, make friends, follow directions, focus their energy and develop a love of learning. Our goal is to prepare children for school, while instilling in them a sense of dignity and self-worth as individuals. We will be holding an Open House for prospective new families on Sunday, January 20, 2013 from 2pm-4pm in our Welcome Center. 1345 Grace Avenue, Cincinnati, OH 45208, Contact: Jo Louis, Phone: 513-979-8191, Fax: 513-871-1180, Email: jlouis@ hpcumc.org, hydeparkpreschool.org, Grades: 30 months to 5 years of age

Kinder Garden School Together with interaction of child, staff & family, we develop the complete child. We provide formative encouragement and knowledge with hands-on staff taking a personal interest in family and holistic education decisions for the child.

Devoted to growing a child’s wish to flourish and learn by cultivating curiosity and problem-solving proficiency.

Enlightenment Is Our Mission. Blue Ash& West Chester locations. BA: 513-791-4300, WC: 513-874-3100, www.kindergardenschool.com, Grades: 6 weeks – K

Pleasant Preparatory Preschool PPP offers a learning environment rich in educational activities that balance academic readiness with imagination, play and free exploration. We encourage our parents to be actively involved in their child’s early childhood education. We offer half day programs for ages 2.5 through PreK, and will work with you and your child through the potty training process if necessary. Classes have low student teacher ratios which allow our highly experienced and degreed teachers to work with each student both individually and as part of a group. Contact us today for your personal tour. 3401 Hamilton Mason Rd, Hamilton, OH 45011. Contact: Brenda Roberts, Administrator.

Phone: 513-893-3222. Email: pleasantpreppreschool@gmail. com. www.pleasantpreppreschool.org

Pleasant Ridge Presbyterian Nursery School Professionally qualified teachers provide active, expressive, child-centered learning experiences at this 3-star award-winning program. Choose 2, 3, 4, or 5 day AM or PM sessions. Excellent ratios, degreed teachers and spacious, sunny, classrooms await your preschooler.

Parent and child classes also available for babies and toddlers. 5950 Montgomery Rd., Cincinnati, OH 45213, (513)631-0170, www.prpc.org, Grades: 2 1/2 - 5 years, Parent/ Child classes birth to 32 months, Enrollment: 65

The Willow Tree House Daycare & Preschool The Willow Tree House is centrally located just 5 minutes from downtown and Good Sam Hospital. We are also within walking distance of U.C, and University Hospital.

Our teachers goal is to have happy children and instill a life long love of learning. 2651 Highland Avenue, Cincinnati, OH 45219. Contact: Jean Walker. Phone: 513-281-8733. Email: willowtreehouse@aol.com. thewillowtreehouse.com. Grades: Serving ages 6 wks–5 years in our Preschool Program

Montessori Central Montessori Academy We invite you to call and schedule a tour to come see our new Natural Playground and Outdoor Learning Environment, as well as our redesigned Elementary classrooms! For parents of Toddlers and Preschoolers, be sure to ask about our new “Montessori My Way” flexible early childhood programs designed for today’s familyfriendly work schedules. 1904 Springdale Rd., Cincinnati, OH 45231, Contact: Laura Saylor, Phone: 513-742-5800, Email: info@ centralmontessoriacademy.com, www.centralmontessoriacademy. com, Grades: Infancy-6th Grade, Enrollment: 110

Children’s Meeting House Montessori School An authentic Montessori school program resting on 6.5 acres. Extraordinary and rigorous hands-on learning inside and outside of the classrooms creating life long learners, critical thinkers and passionate leaders. 927 O’Bannonville Road, Loveland, OH 45140, Contact: Meg Thomas, Head of School, Phone: 513-683-4757, Email: thomas@ cmhschool, www.cmhschool.com, Grades: Preschool through Sixth grade, Enrollment: 150

Country Hills Montessori Providing half day programs for 3 to K. Small, individualized classes with low student-teacher ratios, under the guidance of Montessori certified teachers, in an inter-generational enviornment. Multiple Locations in Eastgate, Oakley, Harrison and West Chester Ohio and in Ft. Thomas and Erlanger KY. Visit our website for all location addresses & phones. 4400 Glen Este Withamsville, Cincinnati, OH 45236, Contact: Susan Schreiber, Owner, Phone: 513-752-1066, chmschools.com, Email: sschreiberchm@ yahoo.com, Grades: 3 - K

Montessori Academy of Cincinnati Celebrating 25 years of offering Montessori education in the Greater Cincinnati area. Providing a supportive learning environment, the school focuses on individualized education, through which students are offered opportunities for self-paced acceleration.

Experienced, degreed teachers are committed to the success of each student. Self-motivation and an excitement about learning are encouraged. 7.5 acre campus! State Chartered. AMS affiliated. Extended care available. 8293 Duke Boulevard, Mason, OH, 45040, Contact: Pat Elder, Head of School, Phone Number: 513-398-7773, Fax Number: 513-3981031, www.montacademy.org, Ages/Grades:: 18 months through grade 8, Enrollment: 250.

Montessori Center Room A child-focused, warm and inviting preprimary program with a 46 year history! Before and after care available.

Musikgarten is offered weekly. AMS affiliated. Call for a personal tour. 2505 Riverside Ct., Cincinnati, OH 45202, Phone: 513-321-3282, Fax: 513-321-4982, Email: mcr1966@ fuse.net, montessoricenterroom.com, Grades: 3 - 6 years old, Enrollment: 50

The New School Montessori Founded on Montessori principles in 1970, our wooded playgrounds, home-cooked meals and family-like setting in North Avondale’s Mitchell Mansion provide a stimulating and nurturing environment for learning. We value diversity and create a caring and supportive community. Our graduates excel academically, but more importantly are empowered as citizens of our global community. 3 Burton Woods Lane, Cincinnati, OH 45229, (513)281-7999, www.thenewschool.cc, 3 years through 6th Grade, Enrollment: 150

Non-Public Bethany School

Bethany School is an independent preparatory school where students experience an appreciation for many cultures. Laptop computers, on-line grading, a dynamic music program, rigorous curriculum, and a variety of extracurricular programs provide a truly extraordinary educational environment. 555 Albion Avenue, Cincinnati, OH 45246, Phone: (513)771-7462, www.bethanyschool.org, Grades: Grades: K – 8th grade, Enrollment: 250

Cincinnati Country Day School CCDS is an independent, co-educational school dedicated to educational excellence serving students 18 months through Grade 12. The School is nationally recognized for its innovative, integrated laptop computer program. Extended day and tuition assistance is available. 6905 Given Rd, Cincinnati, OH 45243, Phone: (513)979-0220, www.countryday.net, Grades: 18 months–12th grade, Enrollment: 800

St. Ursula Villa Academic excellence in the Ursuline tradition for boys and girls in preschool through 8th grade. Whole-child development, family atmosphere, dedicated faculty, Montessori or Traditional preschool options, small class size, individual attention, outstanding high school preparation. 3660 Vineyard Place, Cincinnati, OH 45226, (513)871-7218, www. stursulavilla.org, Preschool – 8th grade, Enrollment: 496

SPECIAL NEEDS Springer School and Center For 40 years, Springer School and Center has empowered students with learning disabilities to become strategic learners. Springer offers a day school for students ages 6 - 14 and outreach programs and learning disability resources for students, parents and teachers in the Greater Cincinnati area. The Springer Experience. Success Changes Everything. 2121 Madison Rd., Cincinnati, OH 45208, Phone: (513)871-6080, www.springer-ld. org, Grades: 1st - 8th grade, Enrollment: 200

TUTORING Langsford Learning Acceleration Centers Langsford is a private educational organization dedicated to developing life-long, independent learners. Since 2001, we have been teaching reading, spelling, comprehension, and writing in an atmosphere of enthusiasm and encouragement.Our successful model identifies where the breakdown in the reading and writing process is occurring and then we apply targeted instruction using research validated approaches. 9402 Towne Square Ave. Ste B, Cincinnati, OH 45242, Contact: Jeff Graham, Executive Director, Phone: 513-531-7400, www.WeTeachReading. com, Grades: All ages

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commentary and parenting

[ mommy magic ]

Mommy Magic Out of Touch: A submerged phone leads to true communication Mary Susan Buhner

I was recently listening to one of my favorite songs. I had heard it at least a thousand times, but I’m not sure if I really every processed the meaning of the words. It talked about longing to be with friends and family in a meaningful way.

This got me thinking that in today’s hustle and bustle (although we are one Facebook post away from finding out what those close to us are doing) it is not the same as spending time with those we love - those we long to spend time with in a meaningful way. Time together and being present during that time together seems to have become a lost art. In fact, not checking texts, phone messages or even update a Facebook status almost seems impossible for us to do even while we are actually with others.

Recently, I dropped my phone in the toilet (clean water, thank goodness). Like most, I was kind of terrified after I dried it off. I scooped it up as fast as I could out of the toilet and ran it over to a bath towel where I swaddled it like a newborn. My racing heart wondering what would happen next. Then I caught my expression in my bathroom mirror. I looked ridiculous - cradling my phone wondering if it would work or not. I was embarrassed for myself.

How did this piece of technology have such an emotional hold over me? So I did what everyone tells you to do when you accidentally submerge your phone - stick it in a Ziploc bag of rice overnight. There I was, a 41 year-old mother of three, zipping up my phone and leaving the house without any form of communication wondering

if, in fact, my phone would work in 24 hours. I was nervous and even worried. My whole life was on that thing. When did I last download my calendar? My pictures?

My contacts? Yikes.... my heart was beating out of my chest. I grabbed my purse and keys and left to do carpool. I felt naked leaving the house without it. I even considered going back into the house to get it and putting the bag of rice with my phone in it next to me in the passenger seat. Then I remembered my expression in my bathroom mirror only moments ago - looking desperate and scared. So with a silent vow to be strong, I left it at home.

I got in my car and turned on my favorite song. I actually enjoyed listening to the words. I was not thinking about email, texts, Facebook or phone calls. I couldn’t because I had no access so there was nothing to think about doing moment to moment. Instead, I listened to music that reminded me of my youth. It reminded me of my loved ones - laughing with them, being with them and enjoying the time I had spent with them. I was flooded with memories as I drove and listened to a song I had heard my whole life. It was like I heard it for the first time. I thought of memories I had with my grandparents as a little girl and when my kids piled in the car from school, I actually shared some of the stories and memories they had never heard before with them. Stories about people I loved and memories that helped shape me into the mother and woman I am today. They asked questions about their great grandparents and about family. It was a treasured moment.

One song, a phone dropped in my toilet and a bag of rice gave me the biggest gift of all this New Year. It gave me the gift of being present and in the moment and being aware of what is going on right in front of me and not on my phone. If I could give you each a gift this New Year it would be a Ziploc bag of rice as a reminder to treasure the moments!

Join the Mommy Magic’s Fan Page on Facebook and visit www.Mommy-Magic.com to be a part of the mom community that supports and encourages moms in Cincy with helpful tips for motherhood!

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[ what’s new at school ]

commentary and parenting

What’s New at School Cincinnati Public Schools embraces new academic standards Dawn Grady, Manager, Marketing and Communications, CPS Cincinnati Public Schools’ students are now learning less material, yet mastering more knowledge, under new more rigorous academic standards.

With the introduction of the Common Core State Standards in English-Language Arts and Mathematics, plus updated and strengthened Ohio standards in Science and Social Studies, students will be taught less content, but will learn that content in more depth.

Launched under an initiative called, Vision i5 – Imagine, Illuminate, Innovate, Invest and Inspire, Cincinnati Public Schools began implementing the standards this year.

“We’re taking an uncommon approach to the Common Core and the new state standards,” said Deputy Superintendent Laura Mitchell, who oversees academic content. “We’re enthusiastically introducing these new standards into our classrooms, with the conviction that this new direction is vital to assuring our students’ success.”

District teachers were among the first in the nation to receive training on how to adjust their lessons in order to align with new education standards, which require students to do more critical thinking and project-based learning.

The Common Core State Standards in EnglishLanguage Arts and Mathematics were created by educators from around the nation and offered to all states as a way to raise academic achievement, as well as bring uniformity to what children learn in public schools. They were designed to be rigorous, robust and relevant, and to provide a consistent, clear understanding of what students should learn.

Before the development of the Common Core standards, each state created its own academic standards, so a public school education often varied from state to state. Creation of the Common Core standards was a states-led effort, with no federal government involved.

CPS’ new standards initiative is funded through a $5.3-million, three-year extension grant awarded by the GE Foundation.

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around town

[ local bookstore profile ]

Small Bookstore, Big Excitement Wendy Schrepferman

On November 17th, The Diary of a Wimpy Kid tour bus emblazoned with the book’s familiar characters rolled up to The Blue Marble Children’s Bookstore in Fort Thomas, KY. As author Jeff Kinney emerged from the bus he was greeted by over 300 fans. Adults and children alike clutched his latest book, Diary of a Wimpy Kid: The Third Wheel, as they waited in line to meet the book’s creator.

words and pictures, of a middle school boy named Greg Heffley.

Dave Richardson of Blue Marble was very pleased with the large turnout for the Kinney visit. “We typically host one or two authors each month. Many are nationally known, and we are fortunate to have a wide variety of talented authors and illustrators in the Cincinnati area who visit as well.”

Despite what some parents might think, many educators consider comic books and graphic novels legitimate reading. “I would not call my work high literature but it definitely has a valid place on library shelves. The Wimpy Kid series has turned many kids on to reading, and I am very proud of my approach to humor as it relates to kids. My books are their own kind of thing, they don’t pretend to be something they’re not,” says Kinney.

The wildly popular series has been delighting readers since 2004 when it began as a comic on FunBrain.com. First printed in 2007, the books present the hilarious account, in

To read the complete interview and for a chance to win an autographed copy of Diary of a Wimpy Kid: The Third Wheel, visit www.cincinnatiparent.com.

When asked about his decision to visit small, independent book sellers on this tour, he remarked, “We realized as we have created bigger events for our books, we weren’t going to the stores that made The Wimpy Kid series a success in the first place.” He was thrilled with the domestic leg of the tour where he signed over 17,000 books. “I’d like to thank the fans in the midwest. We were very warmly received.”

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MOVING ON

From a Miscarriage Local support groups help women through their grief Nancy Edwards

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Medical Center. Young says that the support group is

pregnancies may feel as though they will never find

open-ended and ongoing for families to best suit their

comfort again through their ongoing grief. Yet a

needs. “I’m a huge proponent of support groups.

number of support groups in the Cincinnati area have

They’re about parents helping parents.”

helped many women find reassurance, healing and strength they may not have experienced otherwise.

Sheila Munafo-Kanoza, Founder/Executive Director of Companions on a Journey Grief Support, Inc. says

Lora Allen was eleven weeks along in her pregnancy

attending a support group is vital because “most

and had already had several ultrasounds by that time

women dream of becoming a mother. The death of a

due to the fact that she and her husband conceived

child no matter what their age is, is the loss of hopes

through in vitro fertilization. Each ultrasound had been

and dreams.”

“

WOMEN ARE MORE AT RISK FOR EMOTIONAL ILLNESS DURING AND AFTER PREGNANCY THAN ANY OTHER TIME IN THEIR LIFE. GIVING A MOTHER PERMISSION TO GRIEVE CAN EASE HER LOSS AND ALLOW HER TO BEGIN TO HEAL.

a success. On a Monday morning, she noticed some spotting. She called her doctor, who told her to take it

She also notes that, as 15 to 20 percent of

easy that day. That same evening, the bleeding was

pregnancies end in miscarriage and the rate rises to

worse. By the next morning, she experienced a

40 percent at the age of 40, “women are more at risk

significant amount of bleeding and went to see her

for emotional illness during and after pregnancy than

doctor for a fourth ultrasound.

any other time in their life. Having empty arms can leave a mother at risk for depression. Giving a mother

“They were not able to find a heartbeat,” she says.

permission to grieve can ease her loss and allow her

“There were no warning signs. My husband and I

wound to begin to heal.”

were (previously) ecstatic, and then we were devastated.”

Rachel Fadden has found healing by continuing to acknowledge the baby she would have had two years

“

Women who have suffered the loss of one or more

get pregnant again after a miscarriage should wait two to three menstrual cycles. “If you get pregnant again immediately (after a miscarriage) you have a slight risk of miscarriage again.” Women who do become pregnant should seek help from their physician if they begin to notice a bright red heavy discharge, bleeding, soaking a pad more than every two hours or severe cramping - which may indicate a tubal or ectopic pregnancy.

Women who have experienced a miscarriage may not

ago, Shay, in addition to two miscarriages she

feel understood by others for grieving the loss of a

suffered afterward. She says she has found comfort

baby during its first trimester. “Well-meaning people

in wearing a necklace with three birthstones in

Young advises women who are concerned about

said ‘God will give you another baby,’” she

remembrance of each child lost, releasing a balloon

having a healthy pregnancy to preplan. Women

remembers. One of Allen’s relatives who had come to

on what would have been Shay’s first birthday and

should avoid smoking and excessive caffeine use

visit her had said ‘at least you know you can get

planting a memory garden. “That was really helpful for

(one cup of coffee per day is okay), follow a well-

pregnant now.’ “We had already spent thousands of

me,” she says.

balanced diet and take folic acid supplements. As well, women need regular sleep and to be at their

dollars (on in vitro procedures). They didn’t know.”

Allen believes that having a hobby was important for

best emotional state to lessen stress. Exercising, such as routine walking, is also fine to continue.

Allen suffered two more miscarriages and spent days

her soon after her miscarriage. Some of her friends

crying in bed. She finally admitted to loved ones that

invited her to play cards with them, which she says

it was hard for her to reach out and say she needed help.

was a “good distraction, something I enjoyed doing

“Many women find that the best comfort friends and

and the loss (of my baby) wasn’t on my mind 24/7.” In

family can give is to simply be present,” says Allen.

Allen and her husband met Sheree Young, an RNC

addition, she says that attending a gym helped her

She also noted that small acts of kindness go a long

who leads a support group for women who have

physically and emotionally.

way. When Allen came back to work after her miscarriage, she had flowers on her desk from

suffered miscarriage, stillbirth or lost an infant up to

coworkers.

age one in Middletown called HEALing Together. “It’s

Also, she started her own blog, which she describes

been a godsend,” says Allen of the group. “It’s safe.

as “journaling on steroids. When I read something

We’ve made true friends and don’t have to pretend

someone else wrote, I would think, ‘I feel the same

Allen says that she and her husband remembered the

everything is okay.”

way.’”

anniversary of what was to be her baby’s due date.

HEALing Together meets every third Tuesday of each

Dr. Casey Boyce, OB/GYN with Hilltop Obstetrics and

planted a dwarf tree. “When I see that, it makes me

month from 7 to 9 p.m. at Hilltop OB/GYN, Atrium

Gynecology, advises that women who want to try to

happy.”

They spent the morning having breakfast in bed and

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calendar tues | 01

Jolly Jump Pop-In Playtime Occurring Daily Beginning Tuesday, January 1 Through Friday, January 4 Price: $10.00 per child Phone: Call 513.829.7867 Location: Pump It Up, West Chester www.pumpitupparty.com/oh/west-chester Join us for Jolly Jump our open play schedule for Winter break! Morning or Afternoon session for only $10 per child Spend quality time with your kids...jumping, climbing, sliding and racing at America’s #1 Inflatable Party Zone! Pump It up is a great place to bring your family and friends or to meet new friends. Jump on over to Pump It Up for some friendly family fun and remember at Pump It Up parents and grandparents are always FREE! Don’t forget, socks and a signed waiver are required to play.

weds | 02

Winter Farm Camp Occurring Daily Beginning Wednesday, January 2 Through Friday, January 4 Times: 10:00 AM - 1:00 PM Price: $20 per child per day Phone: (513) 521-7275 Location: Winton Woods Parky’s Farm, Cincinnati greatparks.org Discover winter at Parky’s Farm! Care for farm animals while observing how they survive the winter, look for signs of wild animals and learn how to find shelter in the woods. Indoor and outdoor activities will keep campers busy, active and warm. Bring a packed lunch and wear warm winter clothing. Winter farm camp is a drop-off program for five to ten year olds.

thurs | 03

Winter Wonderland Times: 2:00 PM Price: $5/child for Members; $7/child for non-Members, Plus Museum Admission Phone: (513) 287-7021 Location: Cincinnati Museum Center, Cincinnati www.cincymuseum.org/ Celebrate the beauty of winter by creating a picture of your very own winter wonderland!

Phone: (513) 521-7275 Location: Miami Whitewater Forest., Harrison, OH 45030 greatparks.org Register your toddler, ages two to four, for this exciting program all about how birds spend the winter. The program will be followed by story time and a craft.

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Family First Saturday: A Wrinkle in Time Times: 12:00 PM - 4:00 PM Phone: 513-721-2787 Location: Cincinnati Art Museum, Cincinnati cincinnatiartmuseum.org For the whole family! Come in from the cold and join us for a glimpse back in time. Take a trip through our galleries and learn about art through the centuries. Visit with local artists, stop at storytime with the public library, and even make your own artwork in Artworld.

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PlayScape Outdoor Social at Cincinnati Nature Center Times: 1:00 PM - 3:00 PM Price: Members free; nonmembers free with daily admission.

Phone: 513-831-1711 Location: Cincinnati Nature Center, Milford cincynature.org Join us in the Nature PlayScape and bring your favorite mug for hot cocoa and winter nature fun.

Puzzled Times: 1:00 PM Price: free Phone: (513) 521-7275 Location: Woodland Mound, Cincinnati greatparks.org All things in nature are pieces to an environmental puzzle. Your family can work as a team to solve giant floor puzzles, crossword puzzles and even a few nature mystery puzzles. You will learn how you are a piece of the puzzle too!

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fri | 04

Kindermusik PlayDate: Jingle Jangle

Times: 11:00 AM Price: $5

Times: 9:30 AM - 10:30 AM Price: $15.00 Phone: 5132313973

Birds in Winter

01.13

Location: Music Makers on Campus Lane, Cincinnati kindermusikbycs.kindermusik.net Come join us for a fun 45 min. class and go home with a CD or Download card and instrument to continue the music making at home. Register at least 24 hrs in advance by calling 513.231.3973, emailing siebertkm@aol.com or enrolling online on website kindermusikbycs.kindermusik.net

Pint-sized Prints Times: 11:00 AM Price: $5/child for Members; $7/child for non-Members, Plus Museum Admission Phone: (513) 287-7021 Location: Cincinnati Museum Center, Cincinnati www.cincymuseum.org/ Learn about the ancient art of printmaking and make your own painted print to take home.

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skill development - and fun! This week, we will be writing our own twisted versions of our favorite fairy tales where we will change 1 or 2 things from the classic stories in the manner of Jon Scieszka’s “The Stinky Cheese Man”. All work will be posted on blue manatee’s blog (with parental and author permission). -For little literati ages 8 and up.

Growing Up a Farm Kid: Cool Colors Times: 9:30 AM - 11:00 AM Price: $10.00 per child/extra adult Phone: (513) 521-7275 Location: Winton Woods Parky’s Farm, Cincinnati greatparks.org The sky may be blue and the snow may be white, but can you find a black animal at Parky’s Farm? Practice your colors as you explore the winter farmyard. Dress for the weather. Recommended for ages two to five with one adult caregiver.

Flowers in Winter T-shirt Times: 7:00 PM Price: Free Phone: 8593422665 Location: Boone County Public Library, BURLINGTON Cheer away the winter blues by embellishing your own T-shirt with colorful fabric flowers and buttons. Just bring your creative spirit, a pair of scissors, and a plain, pre-washed t-shirt to decorate. Materials, instructions, samples, and demonstrations will be provided. $5 materials fee. Register.

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Amazing Amy’s Writing Club

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Yo Gabba Gabba! LIVE! - Get the Sillies Out! Phone: 513-621-2787 Location: Aronoff Center, Cincinnati www.cincinnatiarts.org/ Featuring the one and only DJ Lance Rock, plus Muno, Foofa, Brobee, Toodee, and Plex, and of course, hip hop legend Biz Markie. Learn simple life lessons through music from Nickelodeon series characters.

You’ll have just as much fun as they will!

Times: 4:00 PM Price: $8 per child/session Phone: 513-731-2665 Location: Blue Manatee Children’s Bookstore, Cincinnati www. bluemanateebooks. com Join Amy Dean, a certified teacher and writing instructor, for a writing workshop with an emphasis on nurturing creativity, JANUARY 2013

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Kids+Me: Self-Portraits Times: 5:30 PM - 7:00 PM Price: 30.00 Phone: 513-321-0206 Location: Brazee Street Studios, Cincinnati www.brazeestreetstudios.com/ Bring your young artist to Brazee and create glass art together. Students will use our fused glass components to make their unique 6x8’’ fused glass hanging portrait.

No experience necessary. Registration required- register online today

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Hansel and Gretel Phone: (513) 558-1215 Location: Calico Children’s Theatre, Batavia www.ucclermont.edu/community_ arts/calico_theatre.html 10:30 a.m. Yellow Bus performance for school group, $3 per ticket The timeless story of Hansel and Gretel brings some of life’s most important lessons to life. Exquisite marionettes, costumes and settings combine with the spell binding melodies of Engelbert Humperdinck to bring one of the most classic of all fairy tales to life. Recommended for grades K-6.

Culture Kids: Hats Off Times: 10:00 AM - 11:30 AM Price: $10 per pair Art Museum Members, $20 per pair non-members Phone: 513-721-2787 Location: Cincinnati Art Museum, Cincinnati cincinnatiartmuseum.org Put on your creative caps and come with us to discover all types of hats in our collection. Go on a docent-led tour, enjoy a healthy snack, and make your own crazy hat to take home.

Especially for ages 2-5.

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Madcap Puppets presents Fantastic Fairytales Times: 11:30 AM Price: $8; free for Family Memberships Phone: 513-721-ARTS Location: Cincinnati Art Museum, Cincinnati www.cincinnatiartmuseum.org/ Meet the King’s Royal Court Jester, Flump Flump accidentally overhears a plot by the wizard Glistor to turn the King into a mouse.

As he entertains and amazes the audience with fantastic fairytales, Flump tries to discover a way to save the King. Each tale unfolds with giant puppets, audience participation, and a surprise twist to each fairytale classic.

The stories included are The Wishing Tree, The Water of Life and Rapunzel.

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sun | 13 Celebration of the Book Times: 3:00 PM - 5:00 PM Price: Free Phone: 513-984-3770 Location: Rockwern Academy, Cincinnati www.rockwernacademy.org Nationally renowned Jewish author and storyteller, Peninnah Schram, will visit Rockwern Academy for the school’s “Celebration of the Book” storytelling festival.

During the festival, Peninnah Schram will share an hour-long performance for all generations, followed by a book-signing and discussion.

There will also be other storytellers performing and reading to children in the school library.

In the Mayerson activity room, next to the library, Kathy Wise and The Art Spark will help children make puppets, costumes and scenery for their own storytelling in the future.

Sensory Sunday: Stories, Songs and Fun for You and Your Little One Times: 2 PM - 3:00 PM Price: FREE, RSVP online!

Phone: 513-703-3343 Location: Gymboree, Mason www.myshalomfamily. org Now Shalom Family has a great new way for parents and babies to get connected to one another and the Jewish community.

Presenting private interactive playgroups that are FREE and feature the popular Miss Meliss, who keeps babies and their parents engaged and entertained with her unique brand of fun. Play dates always include a snack. Dates and times are subject to change, please check the website for updates. Sensory Sunday is a program of Shalom Family, an initiative of The Mayerson Foundation. Open to families in the Jewish community with children two years and younger in which at least one parent is Jewish. Plus, two families will each win a $50 Target Gift Card at every event!

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Elefante Azul (The Blue Elephant) Times: 11:00 AM Price: $5/child for Members; $7/child for non-Members, Plus Museum Admission

Phone: (513) 287-7021 Location: Cincinnati Museum Center, Cincinnati www.cincymuseum.org/ Let the stunning colors used by Brazilian artist Beatriz Milhazes inspire your little one as they create their own work of art.

novae to star formation and more, this show has it all Programs are open to adults and children ages 5 and older accompanied by an adult. Reservations required. Seating is limited. Please call 751-3679 to register.

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Times: 5:00 PM Price: FREE, RSVP online!

Phone: 513-703-3343 Location: Castle Skateland, Loveland www.fusionnati.org How does your family roll? Take to the rink and get ready to have some Fusion-style fun at this family night out on us! Includes skate rental, game arcade tokens for all kids, DJ, prizes, family friendly dinner, the Hokey Pokey, Chicken Dance & other popular roller rink games. This event is free with advance RSVP by January 14th at . Fusion Family is an initiative of The Mayerson Foundation and is a program of the Jewish community for families in which at least one parent is Jewish and the other is not, or in which one or both parents have converted to Judaism. Siblings and grandparents welcome!

The Price is Right (grades 3-5) Times: 6:30 PM Price: Free Phone: 8593422665 Location: Boone County Public Library, BURLINGTON Is the price higher or lower? Who will win in the showcase showdown? Register.

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For more events, visit our website at www.cincinnatiparent.com!

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Thursday Art Play: Shark Girl!

Phone: (513) 345-8400 Location: Contemporary Art Museum, Cincinnati contemporaryartscenter.org/ Check out Casey Riordan Millard’s installation, Come Follow Me, and create some Shark Girl inspired sculptures, prints and underwater images.

School of Glass Story Time: a Penguin Story Times: 1:30 PM - 2:30 PM Price: 18.00 Phone: 513-321-0206 Location: Brazee Street Studios, Cincinnati www.brazeestreetstudios.com Bring your little one to create art in our glass art story time This month, we’ll read “A Penguin Story” by Antoinette Portis. Story followed by a fused glass art activity for your budding artist.

Students will use our safe glass components to create two fused glass penguins inspired by the story. Designed for 3-6 year olds.

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Winter Constellations Times: 7:00 PM - 8:00 PM Price: $5/person Phone: 513-751-3679 Location: Burnet Woods, Cincinnati www.cincinnatiparks.com Experience the oldest public planetarium west of the Allegheny Mountains. Discover stars, constellations, galaxies and more.

Learn the stories behind the Big and Little Dippers, Orion and many other constellations in the night time sky. From nebulas and

Rock’n’Roll Shabbat

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Haunted Eden Times: 5:30 PM - 7:00 PM Phone: 513-761-4313 Location: Krohn Conservatory, Cincinnati www.cincinnatiparks.com Join us for a walk through areas of Eden Park that have a rich history and may even have some ghostly figures from the past. We will learn from amateur ghost hunters of how to use basic equipment such as Electromagnetic Field Detectors (EMF), Electronic Voice Phenomena Recorders (EVP) and a digital camera. We will see if we can catch some of these apparitions.

Meet in front of Krohn Conservatory.

Reservations are required. Call 761-4313 for more information or to hold your spot.

The Cinderella Files Price: $5 Phone: 513-745-5600 Location: UC Blue Ash College, Cincinnati www.ucblueash.edu/performingarts/ artrageous.html Ever wonder what would happen if Cinderella’s Fairy Godmother went on vacation? In Madcap’s twisted take on the classic fairy tale, it’s up to the Fairy Godmother’s husband, Ralph, to get Cinderella to the ball. With help from the audience, giant puppets, and the “big wand,” Ralph just might have a chance.

Nuclear Cowboyz Occurring Daily Beginning Saturday, January 19 Through Sunday, January 20 Price: $16.50-$76.50; plus fees Phone: 800-745-3000 Location: US Bank Arena, Cincinnati www.usbankarena.com

Cast of top freestyle motocross, trials and quad riders ever assembled, including recent X Games 2012 medalists Ronnie Faisst, Mike Mason, Taka Higashino and Winter X Games gold and silver medalist Colten Moore.

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Times: 2:00 PM Price: free Phone: (513) 521-7275 Location: Woodland Mound, Cincinnati greatparks.org Where have all of the animals gone for the winter? Learn how some of the animals’ adaptations help them to survive the cold, while others cannot and must hibernate.

make flour paintings that rise when heated, create some crazy cupcake sculptures from clay and silly string, and decorate some real cakes with edible markers.

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CIncinnati Cyclones VS Evansville Icemen Times: 7:30 PM Phone: (513) 421-4111 Location: US Bank Arena, Cincinnati www.cycloneshockey.com/ Come cheer on the Cyclones as they take on the Evansville Icemen! Plus, it’s Presidential Bobblehead Night - the first 2,500 fans through the gates will receive a Cyclones Bobblehead of the U.S. President Elect!

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Kids’ Day at the Park Times: 11:00 AM Price: FREE Phone: (513) 521-7275 Location: Farbach Werner Nature Preserve, Cincinnati greatparks.org You may come to any of the three programs starting time and participate in a goofy winter scavenger hunt. Find all the crazy items and win a cool prize.

Nature Story Time with Imago!

Price: $18-$75 Location: US Bank Arena, Cincinnati www.usbankarena.com Scooby Doo and the Mystery Inc. Gang have been asked to help solve a mystery featuring a trouble-making ghost that’s been haunting a local theatre. It’s up to Shaggy, Fred, Daphne, Velma and Scooby-Doo (arriving in style in the Mystery Machine) to solve it -- with music, dance, and plenty of fun for the whole family!

Times: 10:30 AM Price: FREE Phone: 513-731-2665 Location: Blue Manatee Children’s Bookstore, Cincinnati www.bluemanateebooks.com Join us for a monthly installment of nature stories, songs and other fun activities with our friends from Imago! Free, ages 2 and up.

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Thursday Art Play: Let Them Make Cake!

Phone: (513) 345-8400 Location: Contemporary Arts Center, Cincinnati contemporaryartscenter.org/ Yummy art is the best kind. Join us as we examine Claes Oldenburg’s Floor Cake and do some “baking” of our own. We’ll

Bounty of the Forest Times: 1:00 PM - 3:00 PM Price: Free Phone: 513-231-8678 Location: Krohn Conservatory, Cincinnati www.cincinnatiparks.com Winter may seem stark, but there are many gifts from the forest that are either being stored in nature or gearing up for a big splash very soon Learn more about what the forest gives us and the other animals: food, medicine, entertainment, even poison For more information, email gia.giammarinaro@cincinnatioh.gov or call (513) 231-8678.

Times: 1:00 PM Price: $25.00 Phone: 513.271.2793 Location: Cheers to Art, Madeira www.cheerstoart.com Add whatever fun features you’d like to make him/her your own.

FUN painting for the whole family...

Recommended for ages 6+

For more events, visit our website at www. cincinnatiparent.com!

Scooby-Doo LIVE! Musical Mysteries

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Snowman

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from the Children’s Music Network and an NPR commentator, Bill Harley uses songs and stories to paint a vibrant and hilarious picture of growing up. Joyous, honest and slightly offcenter, his quirky, heartfelt lyrics and diverse musical styles appeal equally to all ages.

Bill Harley: A Family Concert Phone: (513) 421-3888 Location: Playhouse in the Park, Cincinnati www.cincyplay.com Part of the Next Generation Family Theatre Series. A two-time Grammy Award-winning artist, recipient of the Magic Penny Award

Sensory Sunday: Stories, Songs and Fun for You and Your Little One Times: 2:00 PM - 3:00 PM Price: FREE, RSVP online!

Phone: 513-703-3343 Location: Gymboree, Mason www.myshalomfamily.org Now Shalom Family has a great new way for parents and babies to get connected to one another and the Jewish community. Presenting private interactive playgroups that are FREE and feature the popular Miss Meliss, who keeps babies and their parents engaged and entertained with her unique brand of fun. Play dates always include a snack. Dates and times are subject to change, please check the website for updates. Sensory Sunday is a program of Shalom Family, an initiative of The Mayerson Foundation. Open to families in the Jewish community with children two years and younger in which at least one parent is Jewish. Plus, two families will each win a $50 Target Gift Card at every event!

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Times: 11:00 AM Price: $5/child for Members; $7/child for non-Members, Plus Museum Admission Phone: (513) 287-7021 Location: Cincinnati Museum Center, Cincinnati www. cincymuseum.org/ Let your fingers be the paintbrush as you create a textured work of art inspired by the artist Andy Lakey.

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Art Afternoon: Tall Paintings Times: 4:00 PM Price: Free Phone: 8593422665 Location: Boone County Public Library, Hebron Be inspired and make monumental creations. Register.

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Wee Wednesday: A Splash of Color Times: 10:00 AM - 11:30 AM Price: FREE Phone: 513-721-2787 Location: Cincinnati Art Museum, Cincinnati, OH 45202 cincinnatiartmuseum.org Winter getting you down? Bring your preschool for this lively program. Enjoy a splash of color at each of our four interactive story times led by our specially trained docents. Wander at your own pace and stop in our Terrace Café for a special lunch discount. Perfect for ages 2–5.

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Get Ready for Groundhog Day Times: 7:00 PM Price: FREE Phone: (513) 521-7275 Location: Farbach Werner Nature Preserve, Cincinnati greatparks.org Have you ever wondered why we celebrate Groundhog Day? Well…wonder no more. Bring the family to this fun spirited event and learn all about the history of Groundhog Day and the famous critter that makes it all possible.

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ongoing events January Family Open House: Kilncarved Snowflakes Occurring Each Saturday Beginning Saturday, January 5 Through Saturday, January 26 Times: 10:00 AM - 1:00 PM Price: 15.00 Phone: 513-321-0206 Location: Brazee Street Studios, Cincinnati, OH 45209 www.brazeestreetstudios.com Celebrate winter and decorate your home Bring the whole family to create hanging snowflakes in glass with the process of kilncarving- using fiber paper to create a relief in glass. Learn the basics of the technique in this family-friendly Open House No experience necessary, all ages welcome (we suggest 4+).

Cincinnati Travel, Sports & Boat Show Select Days Beginning Friday, January 18 Through Sunday, January 27 Price: $11, free ages 13 and under with adult.

Phone: 513-797-7900 Location: Duke Energy Convention Center, Cincinnati www.duke-energycenter.com More than 700 displays and exhibits. Boats, equipment, gear, seminars, guides, outfitters and more.

Cincinnati Hunting & Fishing Show Select Days Beginning Wednesday, January 23 Through Sunday, January 27 Price: $11, free ages 13 and under with adult.

Phone: 513-797-7900 Location: Duke Energy Convention Center, Cincinnati www.duke-energycenter.com More than 700 displays and exhibits. Seminars and displays of trophy and record game.

“Golden Legacy: Original Art from 65 Years of Golden Books” Occurring Daily Through Thursday, February 21 Times: 9:00 AM Price: Free Phone: 513-369-6900 Location: Main Street Library, Cincinnati www.cincinnatilibrary.org The Main Library is hosting the “Golden Legacy: Original Art from 65 Years of Golden Books” exhibit, the most extensive public showing ever of original illustration art from American publishing’s best-loved and most consequential picture-book series, Little Golden Books.

Sixty original masterpieces of illustrated art by these and other artists, chosen from the vast Random House archive, will be featured in the exhibition, including examples from such picture-book classics as “The Poky Little Puppy,” “Tootle,” “Home for a Bunny,” “The Kitten Who Thought He Was a Mouse,” “The Color Kittens,” “I Can Fly,” and more.

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Toulouse-Lautrec and the Spectacles of Paris

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Occurring Daily (except Mon) Through Sunday, January 13 Times: 10:00 AM - 11:30 AM Price: FREE Phone: 513-721-2787 Location: Cincinnati Art Museum, Cincinnati cincinnatiartmuseum.org Toulouse-Lautrec’s plunge into the bohemian life of Montmartre, the hub of the artistic, intellectual and literary avant-garde, is portrayed in his color lithographs and posters created between 1891 and his death at 37 in 1901.

Come play on our giant, soft, fun-filled interactive inflatables during our evening Pop-In Playtime! Share quality time and promote physical fitness while bouncing, sliding, climbing and jumping at Pump It Up. Enjoy spending time with your family, meeting other families and making new friends in a safe, clean, climate controlled environment. Call Us For Details!

The Last Reef

Price: Free

A Wonderland of Fairytales exhibit Occurring Daily Through Sunday, February 17 Times: 9:00 AM - 5:00 PM

Occurring Daily Through Friday, February 15 Price: $6 Phone: (513) 287-7021 Location: Cincinnati Museum Center, Cincinnati www.cincymuseum.org/ A thrilling underwater journey that uses unprecedented cinematography to bring the teeming world of coral reefs to life.

Phone: 513-369-6900

Proven Parenting Classes

Creative Dramatics

Occurring Each Wednesday Beginning Wednesday, January 30 Through Wednesday, March 13 Times: 6:00 PM - 8:30 PM Price: $325 for 7 classes, including all materials.

Childcare per class: $10 per c Phone: 513-272-2800 Location: Children’s Home of Cincinnati, Cincinnati www.thechildrenshomecinti.org In just seven weeks, we’ll teach you proven, researchbased skills that address communication, discipline, decision-making, relationships and self-control. You’ll learn how to...avoid power struggles and better control emotions, balance discipline with affection and give positive attention and prevent negative behaviors and more.

Location: Main Library., Cincinnati, OH 45202 www.cincinnatilibrary.org Revisit the childhood wonders of “Cinderella,” “Little Red Riding Hood,” “The Night Before Christmas” and other 1880s books published by Peter G. Thomson at his Race Street printing shop during the “A Wonderland of Fairytales” exhibit at the Main Library.

Occurring Each Thursday Beginning Thursday, January 24 Through Thursday, March 7 Times: 5:00 PM Price: $75 per child Phone: (513) 558-1215 Location: Calico Children’s Theater, Batavia www.ucclermont.edu/community_arts/calico_theatre.html Designed for children enrolled in grades K-2 with a maximum enrollment of 15 students.

FREE PLAY at Recreations Outlet Occurring Every Tue, Wed & Thu

Holiday Toy Trains

Times: 9:00 AM - 11:00 AM

Occurring Daily (except Mon) Through Sunday, January 13 Price: $7 adults, $4 children ages 3-17 Phone: 859-491-4003 Location: Behringer Crawford Museum, Covington www.bcmuseum.org All aboard! The 21st annual toy train exhibit features 250 feet of track, including Thomas the Train. New this year: Dickens Village!

Phone: 513-831-7383 Location: Recreations Outlet, Milford www.recreationsoutlet.com Maybe it’s raining and they need to burn off some steam...

Or you want to beat the weather... Or they have just been “extra good” lately? Bring them into our temperature controlled showrooms for the best indoor play available. You will have fun watching them and they will sleep well tonight!

FAMILY JUMP NIGHT Occurring Each Thursday Times: 5:30 PM - 7:00 PM Price: $7.00 per child.

Phone: Call 513.829.7867 Location: Pump It Up, West Chester

NOTE: At Cincinnati Parent, we work hard to ensure our calendar and guide information is accurate. Occasionally event specifics change after we go to press. Therefore, we encourage our readers to call locations or visit them on the web to verify information.

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sun

6 how to celebrate: Make some popcorn and cuddle up with your friends and family for a movie

rubber duckie day

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penguin awareness day

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tempura day

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

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how to celebrate: Have some sushi for dinner

dress up your 14 pet day how to celebrate: Play dress up with your pet today

how to celebrate: Head to the aquarium and visit the penguins!

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bubble bath day

celebrate: Sleep in, snooze, doze, nap, and catch 40 winks!

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apricot day

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how to celebrate: Relax and take a bubble bath before bedtime

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on this day

the first Super Bowl played in 1967

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how to celebrate: Start a new puzzle with your family

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on this day festival of sleep trivia day was patented in 1888

dr. martin 21 blonde luther king, jr. brownie day day how to celebrate:

Make pancakes (with blueberries) for breakfast, or dinner!

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the drinking straw day how to

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NOTHING day.

measure your feet day

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Benjamin Franklin was born in 1706

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compliment day

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yodel for your neighbors day

how to celebrate: Get the family together and have a game night

milk day

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the first woman governor inaugurated in 1925 in Wyoming 12

popcorn day

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how to celebrate: Pop up some popcorn and watch a movie

the pooh day

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how to celebrate: Put in a little extra effort in everything you do today!

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work harder day

how to celebrate: Have an a glass of milk for breakfast and dinner!

on this day winnie

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how to celebrate: See if your feet grew and buy some new shoes!

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cuddle up day

holocaust memorial day

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peanut brittle day

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Say something nice or compliment a stranger (or

backwards day

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how to celebrate: See if anyone notices if you wear your shirt backwards all day

Sources: familycrafts.about.com, brownielocks.com, holidayinsights.com, zanyholidays.com & thenibble.com JANUARY 2013

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