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Letter from the Editor Our Cover Kid News & Notes Indy's Children

Hidden Gems: The Public Collection

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34 Teens & Tweens:

32 Education Guide 40 January Events 47 Fun & Wacky Calendar

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Special Needs

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Express Themselves through Art

Being Small (Isn't So

Bad After All)

Kidwest

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Healthy You

31 Set Yourself Up for Success in 2020

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Finding a Quality Afterschool Enrichment Program

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What You Need to Know

How do you know if it's time to go?

Fun and learning don't have to stop just because the school day is over.

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Self-Care for Busy Parents

Put your best foot forward for your family by taking care of yourself.

The Preschool Search The time to start looking for a preschool is now.

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LETTER FROM THE EDITOR

WORDS BY NICOLE SIPE

Founding Publisher Barbara Wynne barbara@indyschild.com Publisher Mary Wynne Cox mary@indyschild.com Marketing + Sales Development Trisha Brand trisha@indyschild.com Editor Nicole Sipe nicolesipe@indyschild.com Production Manager Karen Ring karen@indyschild..com

Take Time for You “If you don’t pick a day to relax, your body will pick it for you.”

I keep seeing this quote on social media lately, and I should probably take it as a sign from the Universe to do what the quote says and RELAX. Because I know very well what happens when I don’t take that quote to heart. I end up like I did three years ago, when my body picked out six weeks of forced relaxation by giving me a case of shingles.

Who gets shingles in their 30s? This stressed-out lady, right here!

In case you’ve never had shingles, let me tell you what it’s like. It is bad. It is VERY bad.

You never, ever want it, trust me. But if there is a silver lining from the whole experience, it’s that it forced me to focus on myself and add rest and relaxation to my daily to-do list.

Now, when I start to feel stressed, instead of ignoring it and pushing through, I acknowledge it and make a conscious effort to do some self-care rituals. I make myself a

cup of tea and sit quietly. I go for a walk, or hit the gym, or do some yoga. I watch a dumb movie when the kids are asleep and zone out for a while. I can’t stop stress from happening, but I can try to manage the effect it has on my mind and body.

As parents, self-care needs to be a priority.

After all, how can we take care of others if we’re not taking care of ourselves? If you’re thinking that you just don’t have the time to do anything, then read “Self-Care for Busy Parents” on page 26. It will provide you with some ideas — big and small — for integrating self-care rituals into your life. We can all use more time to care for ourselves, so pick a day (or an hour, or a few moments) and try to relax.

Take care!

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[age] 5 years old [my favorites] COLOR FOOD SPORT ICE CREAM TV SHOW SCHOOL SUBJECT RESTAURANT BOOK MOVIE SUPER HERO TOY CANDY

Rainbow Ravioli Soccer Cookies and cream My Little Pony Science El Rodeo Dragons Love Tacos Smallfoot Bat Girl LOL Dolls Skittles

[when I grow up] I want to be a nurse!

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NEWS & Notes

Our monthly roundup of news you can use

Celebrate Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. On January 20 a number of museums around Indianapolis will open their doors for free in celebration of the life and legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. This is the perfect time to take advantage of all these museums have to offer while honoring this incredible man who did so much for our nation.

The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis

Enjoy free admission for all children and families. / Hours: 10 am-5 pm

Conner Prairie

Admission is free to celebrate the life and achievements of Martin Luther King Jr. and the importance of peaceful protesting. / Hours: 10 am-5 pm

Indiana Historical Society

Enjoy free admission, plus a powerful lineup of activities, performances, programs and service opportunities. / Hours: 10 am-5 pm

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million

DID YOU KNOW?

THAT’S HOW MANY TONS OF SALT ARE USED ON U.S. ROADS EACH WINTER.

Aomori City in northern Japan is the snowiest city in the world.

Residents are pummeled with

26 feet of snow on average each year.

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Indianapolis Zoo

Parking and admission to the Zoo are free on this day with the donation of a non-perishable food item for Gleaner’s Food Bank (minimum donation of one item per person). / Hours: 9 am-4 pm

Eiteljorg Museum

Visit the museum for free, including admission to the final day of Jingle Rails: The Great Western Adventure. / Hours: 10 am-5 pm

Indiana State Museum

Visit for free and see some of Dr. King's most iconic speeches, experience activities themed around civil and human rights, create a "Dream" mural, and reflect on what you can do to ensure Dr. King's dream lives on. Canned food donations for Gleaners Food Bank encouraged. / Hours: 10 am-5 pm

See your favorite Disney characters on ice!

Rev up for non-stop fun with four of your favorite Disney stories at Disney on Ice presents Worlds of Enchantment Jan. 22-26 at Bankers Life Fieldhouse. You’ll be immersed in Triton’s underwater kingdom, the pint-sized world of Andy’s favorite toys, the dusty terrain of Radiator Springs, and the wintry world of Arendelle without ever leaving your seats!

Get your tickets today at DisneyOnIce.com.

Free Birthday Party at Incrediplex

2-hour party / up to 10 kids 1 hour on your chosen attraction (Laser Tag, Bounce & Climb, Euro Bungy or Bowling) / 1 Party Host Reserved Party Room / 2 hours of unlimited video games Digital invitations (upon request) 3 food options / 3 drink options / $5 game cards for each $10 game card for birthday child

CONTEST RUNS JANUARY 6-20. *Free party includes up to 10 kids only. Based on availability. Please call for time and date at least two to three weeks in advance. Does not include add-ons. No cash value.

Cannot be used with any other offer. Expires December 31, 2020.

Frozen Fun with Anna and Elsa VIP Experience

2-night stay at Gaylord Opryland, including admission to Soundwaves

To enter, visit INDYSCHILD.COM/CONTESTS.

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INDY'S CHILDREN The bond between a child and their pet is special.

And whether they are furry, feathery or four-legged, pets are a part of the family! Here are some Indy kids with their pets that made us smile!

Wyatt (3), Darrell (10) and Matthew (16) with Taffy

Chandler (3) with Teddy

Julia (9) with George

WANT TO SEE YOUR CUTE KIDS ON THIS PAGE?

Charlotte (15 mos) with Manny Mchale (2) with Ruff

Grant (1) with Gus Sophia (2) with Lilly

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This year is a leap year, which means that February has an extra day added to the month (29 days instead of 28). This also means that there is one EXTRA day to have FUN around Indy! Email us photos of where your children like to have fun in this great city (with children’s names, ages and where the photo was taken) to editor@indyschild.com, and your picture may appear here!

HIDDEN GEMS

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The Public Collection Did you know that you can borrow library books from public book share stations all around the city? The Public Collection is a “public art and literacy project,” combining talent from local Indiana artists with efforts to get Hoosiers reading more.

Stocked by the Indianapolis Public Library, Hoosiers are invited to borrow and return books from these tiny libraries at their leisure.

originally intended, due to their popularity! As some of these stations start to come down, new ones are going up in different parts of the city, giving more Hoosiers access to great books.

As of this month, you can find stations at the Athenaeum, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Park, The Alexander Hotel at City Way, Riverside Park and Horizon House. Check them out while they’re still there!

You may have seen these stations around town, perhaps most notably downtown by the City Market or on Monument Circle. But some of these stations are being retired, having been up for almost four years – two years longer than

Multiple locations around Indianapolis thepubliccollection.org

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PARENTING IN THE KIDWEST

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New Year’s Resolutions for Parents Making New Year’s resolutions is futile: No matter how optimistic we are about implementing positive changes in our lives on January 1st, the statistics tell us that about 80% of New Year’s resolutions will fail. But maybe this year will be different?

If you’re a parent of a young child, ditch the tried and true resolutions. This year, we’re going all in on classic New Year’s resolutions tailored specifically for parents.

Exercise more… restraint when your least favorite children’s television character appears. This one is hard, but when Caillou pops up, do your best not to clench your fist and whisper, “I swear, if I was that kids’ parent….” For me, it helps to take deep breaths, to picture myself somewhere peaceful, and, above all, to remember that Caillou is a cartoon.

Cut back on the treats… you eat while locked in the bathroom where your children can’t see you.

This year, branch out! Chow down on secret cookies while hiding in the hall closet, or sitting on the couch with a blanket covering your entire body.

Meditate more… on why you continue making threats that you have absolutely no intention of following through on. I knew it had become a problem when one day, I found myself saying, “If you don’t stop yelling, I’m not going to let you go to the dentist!” Did I mean this? No. Did I say this? Yes. Did it work? Unfortunately, also yes. That’s why this habit is so hard to kick.

Work out more… ways to prevent your children from knowing that the ice cream man is coming down the street. Yes, it is January, but it’s best to prepare now. The next time you hear “Farmer in the Dell,” you better have a plan in place, otherwise you’re about to pay $3.75 for a single grape popsicle.

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Inspiring Children to Express Themselves through Art Children who have a tough time expressing themselves with words often find comfort in using art to describe their emotions. The challenge is that they sometimes think all art consists of coloring between the lines. But with painting, kids often find freedom to create art without limits. Educators say encouraging children to test boundaries and explore their creativity through painting can give real insight into youngsters' thoughts and feelings.

“In all three areas, our focus is to make our paintings look realistic by incorporating the concepts of light, color and shadow,” Spalding says.

“It’s amazing how quickly children understand this concept. They begin to look at their world and understand what they’re seeing.”

By understanding what they see in the world around them, children can express their vision and feelings in their artwork more clearly.

The Natural Science Painting Program inspires visitors of all ages to pay more attention to animals and birds that are native to Indiana.

Spalding says that learning to see what is around us and learning to appreciate the subtlety of color adds a whole new dimension to life, whether one pursues art or not.

Luckily, The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis has a Visiting Artist Program to help stimulate this type of creativity. The Visiting Artist Program is a project of the Lechleiter Indiana Visiting Artist Fund with support provided by The White Oak Foundation, and Sarah and John Lechleiter.

Critters to Canvas takes place in the Playscape Art Studio of The Children’s Museum, and is designed to help little ones 5 years of age and younger explore how to paint ducks. Kids can develop an appreciation for nature by studying the iridescent feathers and colorful beaks of ducks from the museum’s private collection.

Rita Spalding, a fine artist and Indiana native, is the second featured artist in the Visiting Artist program (C.W. Mundy was the first). Over the next year, Spalding and the Visiting Artist Program will offer three exciting experiences:

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In the National Art Museum of Sport, the whole family can unleash their creativity with Painting Expression and Movement of Dance. This activity supports an expressive approach and teaches families how to incorporate movement into paintings.

Spalding urges adults to make sure children have plenty of unstructured, unhurried time available for artistic exploration at home. Allowing children to explore their vision gives them the opportunity to communicate in their own way. With the help of The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis and artist Rita Spalding, children can be inspired to let their imaginations run wild, and who knows — maybe they will be the next Monet or Renoir?!

Visit childrensmuseum. org/content/visiting-artistprogram for specific program times and dates. Program entry is included in ticket pricing but is first-come, first served.

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New Year, New and Healthy You Gateway Hancock Health wants to help you meet your new year’s resolutions. includes MRI, CT, X-ray and ultrasounds. Gateway is also hoping to expand their imaging services in 2020.

As 2020 begins, many people are taking stock of their health. The new year is an opportune time to set health and wellness goals, but many people find themselves heading into spring defeated and giving up on their new year’s resolutions.

This year, Gateway Hancock Health is coming alongside the community to reimagine healthful living.

“In order for healthful living to be sustainable, it has to start with a series of small changes that you add to over time,” says Jenn Cox, business director for Hancock Health Gateway Services. “Some of those changes could include healthy choices in the kitchen, consistent daily activity and even preventive screenings to help determine your specific health risks.”

“We’re here to take the hassle and the worry out of getting the health care you know you need,” Cox says. “When you get the care you really need when you really need it, you’ll have that much more time to get out there and live a healthy and happy life.”

Gateway Hancock Health offers an array of programs and services that can help patients work toward their 2020 resolutions, including three Wellness Centers and access to health care experts.

They also offer preventative screenings, which can include male and female health screenings, chemistry screenings, nutrition tests and more. Health care providers work to help patients get the information they need to then make educated decisions about their healthcare alongside their provider.

Screenings can be scheduled by phone at 317-866-7302.

Gateway also offers a vast array of affordable labs and imaging services. Some of these include sports physicals, seasonal f lu shots, immunizations and immunization status tests, affordable health screenings, and affordable imaging, which

Learn more about Gateway Hancock Health at hancockgateway.org or by connecting with them on social media.

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HOW DO YOU KNOW IF IT’S TIME TO GO? WORDS BY LINDSAY CONNER

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FINDING A QUALIT Y

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ENRICHMENT PROGR AM Fun and learning don’t have to stop just because the school day is over.

WORDS BY JENNIFER THOMPSON

Many parents need care for their children after the school bell has rung and the books have been put away.

The question is: Which program is the best fit? When contemplating options, parents may want to consider an afterschool enrichment program.

The Benefits of Afterschool Enrichment Afterschool enrichment programs offer many benefits, including keeping kids safe after school, inspiring kids to learn new skills, providing academic support and a creative outlet, and allowing time to socialize with peers — just to name a few.

When children participate in afterschool enrichment programs, they are able to spend time focusing on their personal interests and further develop specific skill sets they might not otherwise learn in a regular classroom.

These subjects might be STEM activities, gymnastics, swimming, theater, computer programming, creative movement, music and more.

“[Afterschool enrichment classes] allow a child time to refine their artistic abilities by giving them a more in-depth experience,” says Joshua Pedde, artistic director for the Indianapolis Children’s Choir. “There are many community organizations, like ICC, that allow students to partake in their hobbies, interests and talents that are not only entertaining and fun, but educational. These programs allow them to interact with instructors and experts in their field of interest outside of the normal school day.”

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Pedde adds that developing a child’s specific

interests, talents and passions can be beneficial

to their emotional and social growth. And as

these grow, so can their academic

strength. “Sometimes the key to

encouraging a struggling learner can

be getting them involved in

something they are passionate

about and motivated to

continue,” Pedde says.

Choosing a Program

With such a wide variety of options

available for afterschool care, the idea of

choosing a program may seem overwhelming,

but there are steps to take to find a good match.

“It’s important for parents to identify what opportunities the program offers to make sure it’s a good match for your child and family,” says Bethany Thomas, VP of Programs and Education Engagement with Indiana State Museum and Historic Sites. “Make sure to visit an afterschool program, ask questions and talk to staff before and during your child’s enrollment.”

What if you have searched for a program and are not able to find what you are looking for in your community? Thomas recommends talking to the school about how they might partner with other organizations to provide an afterschool program. “You can also check the libraries, cultural institutions and other youth serving organizations in your communities,” she says. “Look into local or state agencies like the Indiana Afterschool Network to find where there might be afterschool programs in or around the community. And if you still aren’t able to find what you are looking for, don’t be afraid to let the community know the need for quality afterschool enrichment programs.”

Some parents may love the idea of an enrichment program, but are concerned about the convenience and cost. Pedde reminds parents of the importance of the quality of the program and the opportunities the program provides.

“Convenience and cost are factors, but should not always be the first priorities,” Pedde says. “Many programs offer plentiful financial assistance, and have locations in multiple areas, and on multiple time schedules. Keep in mind that a program is more beneficial when parents are ready to commit and have the child participate for the duration of the term, as quality organizations have designed curriculum and plans that will span the entire length of the program in order to produce the desired result.”

With all of these things to consider, finding an afterschool enrichment program may seem like a daunting task, but it doesn’t have to be. Include your child in the process and have fun looking into the different options that are available.

Dayton, and the surrounding areas, have plenty of quality programs that cover a broad spectrum of physical, artistic and educational interests.

Once you find a program that is right for your family, you can relish in the fact that your child will be safe, have fun, make friends and develop skills that will last a lifetime.

Questions to Consider When Searching for a Program * Will your child be happy, nurtured and feel comfortable in the program? * How is discipline handled? * What is the training process of the instructors running the program? * What are the criteria to be hired by the organization? * Is my child interested in this topic/activity? Or is this something they should try on a smaller scale before committing to a long-term program? * What do families, friends and neighbors recommend? * If the organization you are interested in isn’t located nearby, are there other branches of that organization that are close to your community? * Do they offer multi-age programming so that multiple children from a family can be involved on the same evenings? * Does my child need to bring their own supplies? * Do the activities change each session? * What is the policy if my child has to miss a day?

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self-care for BUSY PARENTS Put your best foot forward for your family by taking care of yourself.

WORDS BY STEFFY MCCOURT

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ET’S FACE IT: In general, you are

probably more concerned with your child’s well-being than your own. That’s natural, but it can also lead to burnout — fast.

But no matter how busy you might be, taking care of yourself — mind, body and spirit — is essential to being the best parent you can be.

Keep reading to find ideas for big and small things that you can incorporate into your life that will recharge you, lower your stress (even if just for a few minutes) and help you to become a healthier and calmer parent.

If you have less than 5 minutes…

PRACTICE MEDITATION

The Mayo Clinic reports that practicing meditation, even if only for a few minutes, can provide emotional and physical benefits. Some of the benefits may include reducing anxiety, building skills to manage stress and gaining new perspective on stressful situations.

There are many ways to practice mediation. It can sound like repeating a mantra (a word or phrase that is important or motivating) or look like a prayer (the oldest form of meditation). There are many video guides to five-minute meditations available for free online. A popular meditation website and app is headspace.com, which offers many five- to 20-minute guided meditations. The meditations are categorized by situation and need.

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If you have 20 minutes or more…

START A GRATITUDE JOURNAL

Gratitude isn’t a new concept, but many wellness blogs and magazines have recently begun touting the exercise of listing what we are grateful for as an exercise in well-being. Studies have found that keeping a gratitude journal can improve sleep, lower stress and bolster interpersonal relationships.

There are many journals made especially for finding opportunities of gratitude available at brick-and-mortar and online bookstores. The One-Minute Gratitude Journal by Brenda Nathan is a bestseller currently. The layout is simple and consistent: date with space to write three to four “things” that the writer is grateful for, plus pages for drawings.

If an app is more your style, Gratitude is a free one. It’s available to Android and IOS users. The app will send you a morning text asking what you are grateful for, then when you respond, your response is sent directly to your online journal. You can even snap a picture to go along with it.

If you have less than an hour…

FIND A YOGA OR EXERCISE CLASS

When you exercise, you are setting aside time to focus on yourself.

“It might only be 30 minutes a day, but that ‘me’ time is so important,” says Debra Sexton, owner of FIT4MOM in Carmel. “Not only are you creating a healthy lifestyle for yourself, but your endorphins will be flowing. You will feel happier and more energized.”

Besides providing the opportunity to exercise one’s strength, flexibility and balance, yoga offers an avenue to practice mindfulness.

“Yoga helps reduce stress in a number of ways — namely, mental health and well-being, positive self-image, strength, focus and balance, as well as cardiovascular health,” says Sky Andrews, owner and founder of Sol Hot Yoga Studio in Carmel. “We say it’s a way to, ‘Still the mind, rejuvenate your body, and cultivate your soul.’”

If you have a few hours…

JOIN A BOOK CLUB

A book club can be a meaningful, extended way to take time for yourself. Not only are you able to explore new genres and books, but every few weeks you get to spend time with a community connecting over reading.

“Being a part of a monthly book club has made me a better parent in two noticeable ways,” says Angela Hildebrand, mom of two and resident of Carmel. “It allows me to create time for myself where I get to read for fun while enjoying the company of fabulous women.

And two, it provides me with an opportunity to model reading for pleasure in front of my two boys.”

Many libraries and bookstores offer book clubs to their patrons. There are also a number of virtual book clubs that can be found on websites such as Goodreads and Facebook.

It is easy to lose yourself in the endless cycle of school projects, carpooling, sports practices, laundry, meal planning and everyday life. Even spending as little as five minutes per day taking care of yourself can improve your mental and physical well-being.

During the cold months, it is a good idea to bundle up on your way to and from swim lessons. Always change your kids out of their suits, and make sure you have plenty of layers, including a warm hat.

Most indoor swimming pools keep their pools and decks very warm during the winter months. Many also provide hair and swim suit dryers. Be sure to bring a hair dryer, if the facility doesn’t provide one. After swim lessons, it is important to get your child as dry as possible, to keep them as warm as possible on the way home.

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The Preschool

Search The time to start looking for a preschool is now.

WORDS BY NICOLE SIPE

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anuary doesn’t intuitively seem like the time to start looking for preschools, but in fact, it really is. A lot of Indianapolis preschools open their doors after the holidays for open houses and tours, so the time to start making your preschool plans is now. Here are some important things to consider as you research schools and make the rounds visiting the classrooms.

The Signs of a Quality Preschool When beginning your search for a preschool, Kate Vaulter — corporate communications manager at Early Learning Indiana — suggests visiting Indiana’s Child Care Finder website: in.gov/ fssa/childcarefinder. There, you can search schools and centers by name to make sure their licensure is up-to-date and see if the school is accredited, among other things.

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Staff credentials are important, too. “The director [should have] an early childhood background to allow for understanding of young children,” says Gail Hacker, co-director of Polly Panda Preschool in Indianapolis. “The parent should observe the teachers interacting and enjoying the children. The children should be engaged in hands-on, developmentally appropriate activities.”

Also important is to pay attention to the kids in the classroom.

“Pay close attention to the children as you tour,” says James Layne, marketing and public relations at The Orchard School and a former preschool teacher. “If you’re noticing a lot of independence, confidence, joy and an overall comfortable vibe from the students, then you’re in the right place.”

Evaluating the School Susan Michal, director of early childhood education at The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis, advises that parents evaluate themselves first and figure out what they want for their children from the preschool.

“I tell parents to think through their top goals for their child’s school,” says Michal, who also oversees the preschool program that is offered at The Children’s Museum. “Are they most interested in high achievement and grades, social emotional support, character development, a traditional or progressive education model, community involvement both within the school and in the neighboring area? Parents should follow their gut instinct and notice how they feel when they are walking the halls of a school.”

Hacker adds that parents should ask what type of program the school offers. “The philosophy of the program needs to match with the parents’ expectations,” Hacker says. “Some programs are play-based, while others are more structured.”

Look for Red Flags As you tour the classroom, if you notice that the students are not engaged, the learning space is cluttered or sterile, or there is a high turn-over rate with staff, that should set off some warning bells. Ideally, what you want to see is “happy children actively engaged, teachers immersed in children’s activity, a clean space, children’s work and documentation up in classroom, a calm and welcoming environment, and sense of a calm order,” Michel says.

Layne adds that at The Orchard School, they believe in the research supporting nature as teacher. “So, if outdoor play or learning isn’t incorporated, even at a basic level, that could be concerning,” Layne says. “Research shows that being outdoors, especially at an early age, can have such a positive impact on a child.” If something is important to you in a school — such as lots of outdoor time, lots of free-play time, etc. — make sure you keep that at the forefront of your mind when touring the school.

Why Touring is Important “Visiting [a school in person] allows parents to get a sense of the culture and if it fits with their preferences,” says Erin Kissling, vice president of research and policy initiatives at Early Learning Indiana. “That’s not something you can do on a website or through referrals from friends or relatives.”

Kisslings says that they encourage families interested in enrolling in one of their nine Day Early Learning centers to take a tour and use their senses. “What do they see, hear and smell?” she says. “Are there age-appropriate books and toys in the classroom? What is the interaction like between teachers and the children in their classrooms?

All of these observations can help guide parents in choosing a highquality environment for their child and give them additional confidence that they’ve made the right decision.”

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Local Spotlight:

Being Small (Isn’t So Bad After All) Midwest mom Lori Orlinsky wrote a children’s book to encourage short kids.

After your daughter read the book, how did it impact her outlook?

Being teased can have a longterm impact on a kid, as Midwest native and Indiana University grad Lori Orlinsky knows. She was bullied in her youth, and was inspired to write a children’s book when her daughter, Hayley, was teased for being short. When Hayley uncharacteristically refused to go to preschool one day, Orlinsky knew something was wrong. Orlinsky drew upon personal experiences to write Being Small (Isn’t So Bad After All), to show her daughter all the reasons why it’s good to be different.

Seeing the pictures and seeing the narrative come together really did illustrate to her that she has these special things that no one else does. Now she looks at her life through a different lens. She’s really proud of being the only one who can squeeze through the monkey bars at recess. It made her such an empathetic, kind child. She’s always the first one to say, “I want you to be my friend.” She understands their struggles because she went through something like that too.

How can children be proud of being different?

You tried to find a children’s book about being short, but couldn’t find any. Is this when you decided to write your own?

Did your daughter immediately tell you why she didn’t want to go to school?

I had to pry it out of her. She was ashamed.

After a long talk, she told me there was a growth chart decorating the class, and she said, “I feel different from my friends.” It was the first time she ever felt different, and I think that it was the first time her friends realized she was different, too.

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I can’t describe how much of a defining moment it was. In that moment, I felt like it was my purpose. I’m so excited that the book has not only made a difference in the lives of my children and other short children, but it’s made such a difference in the lives of any child that feels different. It’s crazy to have something good come out of something so sad.

The first step, whatever situation you’re facing, is self-acceptance and talking through all the things that make your child feel special. After you’ve conquered the selfacceptance phase, then you move into self-confidence. You’re less inclined to be bullied because you have an aura of confidence around you. As I began writing the book, I noticed that you could sub “short” for so many other qualities kids have. The underlining message is that every person is unique in their own way.

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Set Yourself up for Success in 2020 Tips to improve your emotional wellness Finally, the holidays are behind us and we can afford to take a moment and breathe. But don’t relax for too long, because as soon as we turn the corner toward 2020, we are bombarded with messages to improve our physical selves. ‘Resolve to Lose That Stubborn Weight’, ‘Finally Reach Your Exercise Goals This Year’, ‘Get Real Weight Loss Results in 2020.’ And, apparently these messages are echoing what we seemingly want. According to one 2019 survey conducted to rank the 10 most common resolutions, eat healthier, exercise more and lose weight occupied the top three spots, respectively.

But wait! Why all this focus on just physical improvements? What about our emotional health? The truth is that in order to acquire real positive change in our lives, we have to have a sense of emotional wellbeing. And, this is even more important if one of your New Year’s resolutions is to improve on any aspect of your parenting role. We know kids thrive in an environment that is calm, peaceful and predictable, and that starts with us!

So, before you buy that gym membership, invest some time evaluating the state of your emotional health. No matter what your goals are in 2020, real change is achieved from the inside out.

Here are a few ideas to get started:

Take time to review the relationships in your life. Cut ties with friends who bring you down and redirect that energy toward friends who bring out the best in you.

Practice positive thoughts.

Optimism is one of five personality characteristics associated with success. Now, this doesn’t mean we have to be happy all the time, but rather take time to revel in the good and try and let go of the negative.

Keep a gratitude journal. This is something suggested time and time again by wellness experts because it really does work! Take a few minutes each morning to jot down three to five things you are grateful for in your life. It can be something as big as your family’s health or as small as your cup of morning coffee.

Improve mindfulness skills.

Start small by committing to five minutes of deep breathing a day. Or sign up for a yoga class once a week with friends. There are several apps available, too, that teach basic meditation skills.

For a deeper look into your emotional wellbeing, schedule an initial appointment with one of our therapists here at Northside. Email lindsey@ northsidementalhealth.com for more information.

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Carmel Montessori Schools Carmel Montessori School is located on the NE corner of Main St. and Meridian in Carmel. Our directress is American Montessori Certified with 18 years head-teaching experience and we a a full member of the American Montessori Society. We offer a beautiful, peaceful and positive Montessori learning environment. Extended days available. • 1402 W. Main St., Carmel, IN

46032, Contact: Emily & Scott Rudicel, Phone: 317-580-0699, Email: info@ carmelmontessori.com, carmelmontessori.com

Carmel United Methodist Preschool Carmel United Methodist Preschool has provided high quality preschool experiences for the families of Carmel and the surrounding area for 45 years. We offer classes for children 18 months through 5 years old. Our students enjoy learning through inquiry based play, while interacting with their peers to create positive emotional and social learning experiences. • 621 S. Rangeline Road,

Carmel, IN, Contact: Tiffany Lehman, Phone: 317-844-1958, Email: tlehman@ carmelumc.org, carmelumc.org/ preschool/

level of their peer group. Please call us today to learn more about our early education and preschool opportunities that will fit the need of your family Currently enrolling, space is limited. •

13096 Moultrie Street, Carmel, IN 46032.

Contact: Kendra Dunagan, 317-873-0123. primrosewestclay.com

The Primrose School at West Carmel The Primrose School at West Carmel is an accredited early education and care school serving infants through kindergarten as well as before and after school services for elementary age students. We offer a Balanced Learning approach, which nurtures curiosity, confidence, creativity and compassion.

Research also shows that 90% of Primrose Students perform twice the level of their peer group. Please call us today to learn more about our early education and preschool opportunities that will fit the need of your family.

Currently enrolling, space is limited. • 3746 West 98th Street, Carmel, IN 46032.

Contact: Lisa Housh, 317-876-0123, primrosewestcarmel.com

Starting Line Preschool

The Right Start for A Lifelong Love of Learning! Our strong academicbased curriculum prepares and encourages your child to succeed in school while discovering learning is The Little Lamb Christian fun! All of our classes focus on an School introduction to colors, number and letters with exciting art and science The Little Lamb Christian School is a projects. Math, social studies and home away from home for children 6 sight words are taught in the older weeks to pre-kindergarten. Since classes.Develop Social Awareness & 1987, we have been the go-to private Friendships, Build Confidence and preschool for Carmel families who Master Academic Skills for Kinderare interested in a Christian garten. • 110 Third Ave NE, Carmel, IN education. We are a place where 46032, Contact: Diane Atkins, Phone: children can learn, explore, create, 317-753-9397, Email: dkatkins22@msn. grow and play! • 1609 Greyhound Pass, com, startinglinepreschool.com Carmel, IN 46032, Phone: 317-848-3580, Email: kayley@thelittlelamb.com, thelittlelamb.com/, 6 weeks to Pre-Kindergarten and after school care

The Primrose School at WestClay An accredited early education and care school serving infants through kindergarten as well as before and after school services for elementary age students. We offer a Balanced Learning approach, which nurtures curiosity, confidence, creativity and compassion.

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Paramount Brookside Paramount Brookside is a tuition-free K-8 charter school that educates students in an innovative environment that instills high expectations for success. Founded in 2010, Paramount Schools of Excellence accomplish its mission and teaches the mastery of Indiana Academic Standards through an emphasis on rigorous academics and experiential learning activities.

Integral to the school’s approach to education are project-based investigations, community partnerships and three on-site Discovery Centers – an Eco Center, Space Center with planetarium and an operating farm.

Paramount Brookside is designated a 2018 Blue Ribbon School by the U.S. Department of Education and a Four-Star and an “A” school by the Indiana Department of Education. • 3020 Nowland Avenue, Indianapolis, IN 46201 Contact: Connor Schultheis, contact@PSOEBrookside.org, 317.775.6660, paramountindy.org

EAST

Paramount Community Heights Paramount Community Heights serves K-4th grade students as a tuition-free charter school. Founded in 2010, Paramount Schools of Excellence accomplishes its mission and teaches the mastery of Indiana Academic Standards through an emphasis on rigorous academics and experiential learning activities. Paramount’s flagship Brookside campus is designated a 2018 Blue Ribbon School by the U.S. Department of Education and a Four-Star and an “A” school by the Indiana Department of Education. • 1525 N. Ritter Avenue, Indianapolis, IN 46219, 317.671.1229, Contact: Sarah Shaffer, contact@PSOECommunity.org, paramountindy.org

Paramount Englewood DOWNTOWN

IUPUI Center for Young Children The IUPUI Center for Young Children offers childcare and early childhood education for children ages six weeks to six years old and believe children learn through play, experiences, and interaction with their environment and peers. • 321 Limestone St.,

Indianapolis, IN 46202, Phone: 317-2743508, childcare.iupui.edu/index.html

Paramount Englewood is now accepting enrollment of 5-8th students for the 2019-2020 school year. The new middle school campus is an extension of Paramount Schools of Excellence successful education model. The flagship Brookside campus is designated a 2018 Blue Ribbon School by the U.S. Department of Education and a Four-Star and an “A” school by the Indiana Department of Education.

Founded in 2010, Paramount accomplishes its mission and teaches the mastery of Indiana Academic Standards through an

emphasis on rigorous academics and experiential learning activities. • 1849 Pleasant Run Parkway South Drive, Indianapolis, IN 46203, 317.741.9589, Contact Peggy Purvis, contact@PSO Eenglewood.org. paramountindy.org

INDIANAPOLIS – NORTH

Beth-El Zedeck Early Childhood Center

OPEN TO THE PUBLIC. Full Academic Curriculum and Innovative Arts Enrichment. Our Program recognizes that intellectual, social, emotional and physical development are interwoven.

Our children will thrive on exploration, creativity, curiosity, discovery, spontaneity and more important, lots of love! Type of School: Early Childhood Cost/Tuition: Please call or email for full brochure Hours/Dates: Flexible Hours. Full Time/Part-Time available. Ages/Grades: 12 months old+, 18 months old+, 2s+, 3s+, 4s+, Pre-Kindergarten (Kindergarten Readiness Class) (3 day or 5 day option) Before/After School Care: Before and After School Care always available as needed. Early drop off as early as 7:30 am and late pick up anytime up until 6:00pm/5:30 pm on Fridays. • 600 W. 70th St., Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Joanie Waldman, Phone: 317-259-6854, Fax: 317-259- 6849, Email: jwaldman@bez613.org, bez613.org

Bilingual Day Care LLC Family owned home license daycare with 19 years of experience, soon to be a preschool. Located in the North side of Indianapolis minutes from 465.

Infants $225, 17 months & up to age 5 $200 weekly rate Monday- Friday 7-5:30pm. • Call to take a tour:

317-249-7217 bdcindianapolis@yahoo.com

Brebeuf Jesuit Preparatory School Brebeuf Jesuit Preparatory School seeks to prepare the next generation of leaders with the intellectual and technological competence, loving and open hearts, faith inspiration and social responsibility to bring about a more just, humane and loving world.

Students from all backgrounds, faiths, and ethnicities are welcome at Brebeuf Jesuit, where all are called to discover and cultivate the fullness of their God-given talents. Each student is therefore challenged and inspired to strive for academic excellence, to engage whole-heartedly in cocurricular activities, to develop confidence in leadership abilities, and * SPONSORED LISTINGS

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• 2801 W 86th St, Indianapolis, IN 46268, Contact: Colleen Cannon, Director of Admissions, Phone: 317-524-7090, Email: admissions@brebeuf.org, brebeuf.org

Children’s Circle Preschool at Second Presbyterian Church Children’s Circle Preschool is a developmentally appropriate, activity based, Christian preschool. We offer classes for children ages 9 months to 5 years old. We meet the needs of the whole child in a creative and loving environment. Our experienced staff embraces excellence in education by nurturing the whole child- physically, emotionally, spiritually, and intellectually.

Please call for more information or to set up a tour. • 7700 N. Meridian St., Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Cara Paul, Director, 317-252-5517, cpaul@ secondchurch.org, childrenscircle.org

Children’s Day In Nursery School and Traditional Preschool Children's Day In Nursery School and Traditional Preschool is a fully inclusive early childhood program with an emphasis on Christian values and learning through play. It is designed to offer children ages 9 months to 5 years a positive and developmentally appropriate first school experience in the care of experienced and loving caregivers. We play and learn! Classes are offered weekdays from 9 am to 2:30 pm. For the older kids, our program includes weekly Christian Life Skills, Music class taught by Indianapolis Children’s Choir instructors and Book Club. Please call, E-mail or visit for further information and registration forms. Tours are individually set up at your convenience! • 5500 N. Meridian

St., Indianapolis, IN 46208, Contact: Christy Whaley, Phone: 317-253-0472, cwhaley@meridianstreet.org, meridianstreet.org/cdi

Early Childhood Center, The Church at the Crossing Parents Day Out (16-35 mos) and Part Day Preschool (3 yrs-PreK5) provide relaxed, secure, playful environments that nurture creativity and the exploration of God’s world. A variety of learning materials & readiness skills are woven into each unit. Oldest classrooms utilize “Handwriting Without Tears” curriculum. Various days, 9am-2pm.

Some extended days. Need longer hours? Try our All Day Classes designed for 16 mos – Pre K5 with class times 6:30am-6pm • 9111 N.

Haverstick Rd., Indianapolis, IN 46240, Contact: John Drake, Phone: 317-5756508, Email: ecc@golove.org

The Orchard School The Orchard School, an independent, non-sectarian, progressive school, emphasizing experiential learning.

Orchard teachers engage the natural curiosity of children, develop academic excellence, and provide leadership experience through well-rounded education. Orchard’s diverse community and commitment to multicultural education inspires responsible, global citizenship.

Founded in 1922. NAIS, ISACS, NAEYC accredited. • 615 W. 64th St., Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Jessica Aiyasami, Admissions Coordinator, Phone: 317-713-5717, Fax: 317-254-8454, Email: jaiyasami@orchard.org, orchard.org

The Sapling School The Sapling School offers a year round Reggio-inspired preschool for children ages 3 to 5 in conjunction with extended after care hours for working families. We empower children to discover themselves and the world around them as they become critical thinkers, creative problem-solvers, and collaborative community members. We value our students and their passions, curiosities, and joys. Their interests guide the holistic, emergent curriculum and our learning environment. Look for our teachers and students around the Broad Ripple area interacting with neighbors as they learn the unique ways they are capable of enriching their community. • For more

information or to explore our virtual tour please visit saplingschoolindy.com or facebook.com/saplingschoolindy. To schedule a private tour please call (317) 319-8228. Contact: Kelsey Livingston.

Phone: 317-319-8228. Email: kelsey@ saplingschoolindy.com, saplingschoolindy.com

Sycamore School At Sycamore School, Indiana's only accredited, independent, private school for Preschool - 8th grade gifted students, teachers trained in gifted education deliver a curriculum designed to challenge and engage gifted learners. Art, music, Spanish, physical education, technology, extensive field trips, athletics, financial aid, and after school activities are offered. • 1750 W. 64th Street,

Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Dr. Susan Karpicke, Director of Admissions, 317-202-2500, karpicke. susan@sycamoreschool.org, sycamoreschool.org

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MSD of Lawrence Township The ninth largest and one of the fastest growing school district in the state, the MSD of Lawrence Township serves approximately 16,000 students across four Early Learning Centers, eleven Elementary Schools, two Middle Schools, two High Schools and a Center for Innovation and Technology, and an alternative setting high school. Lawrence Township strives to be the district of destination, a reputation built over the years based on the district’s award-winning staff, accomplished administrators, high-achieving students, supportive community, and innovative educational programs. To learn more, please contact our Welcome Center at 317-423-8375. Pre-K through Grade 12. Tours available at all buildings by appointment. Please contact your building of interest directly. • 6501

Sunnyside Road, Indianapolis, IN 46236.

Phone: 317-423-8200, LTschools.org

Polly Panda Preschool Polly Panda provides a safe and healthy environment which enhances each child’s total growth. Our theme-based hands-on preschool program provides a wide-range of experiences that foster learning, creativity and problem solving in all areas. A child’s sense of self-worth, independence and growth in social skills are developed through positive interaction with peers and our well-qualified and loving staff. • 2944 E.

56th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46220, Contact: Gail Hacker and Tammy Clark, Phone: 317-257-9127, Email: thepanda@ polly panda.com, pollypanda.com

Primrose School of Geist Provides high-quality, educational experiences to support children’s social-emotional, cognitive, creative and physical development. It is made up of an exclusive standards-based curriculum that enables teachers to help children gain the knowledge and skills that will enable them to move successfully from one level of development to the next as well rounded individuals. Our school offers developmentally-appropriate materials and equipment for all classrooms; multiple forms of assessment; and extensive training for teachers. We believe the right foundation to build active minds, healthy bodies, and happy hearts® starts in the younger years. Call for more information or to schedule a tour! • 7615 Oaklandon Road,

Indianapolis, IN 46236. Contact: Anita Boyd. Phone: 317-855-7808. Email: aboyd@primrosegeist.com, primrosegeist.com, 6 weeks old through Pre-K and before and after school up to age 12

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Curtis Wilson Primary School and Academy

Curtis Wilson Primary School and Academy, a division of Beech Tree House Center for Child Development, Inc., promotes the emotional, physical, intellectual, social, and spiritual development of each child. Our exceptional teaching staff is dedicated to presenting a challenging and enthusiastic learning environment that recognizes each unique learner. With a dedication to personal excellence, all members of our school family are challenged to practice and exhibit love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control in daily life. Stateaccredited with exemplary ratings.

Preschool - Sixth Grade. • 7850 South Emerson Ave., Indianapolis , 46237, 317-882-8636, jhaywood-rollins@ beechtreehouse.com, cwpsa.com

WESTFIELD

Montessori School of Westfield, Inc. Located on 3 wooded acres in Central Indiana, the Montessori School of Westfield adheres to the academic traditions of Montessori while serving the present day child. The Montessori School of Westfield serves children from Indianapolis, Fishers, Carmel, Zionsville, Westfield, Sheridan, Noblesville, Cicero and Tipton. We serve children ages 18 months to 15 years. • 800 E. Sycamore Street,

Westfield, IN 46074, Contact: Mary Lyman, Directress, Phone: 317-867-0158, Fax: 317-896-5945, Email: montessori westfield@gmail.com, montessori schoolofwestfield.com

The Primrose School at Bridgewater An accredited early education and care school serving infants through kindergarten as well as before and after school services for elementary age students. We offer a Balanced Learning approach, which nurtures curiosity, confidence, creativity and compassion.

Research also shows that 90% of Primrose Students perform twice the level of their peer group. Please call us today to learn more about our early education and preschool opportunities that will fit the need of your family.

Currently enrolling, space is limited. • 14711 North Gray Road, Westfield, IN 46062, Contact: Nikki Knott, 317-8480123. primrosebridgewater.com

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WORDS BY REBECCA HILL

Rock the Vote

How can parents get their teens out to the polling booths this year?

By modeling civic behavior themselves. teach civics. What can parents do to teach civics?

Tim Kalgreen became interesting in voting by going to the election polls with his parents.

“They were open and honest about the issues, giving their opinion but helping me and my brothers recognize that there were valid points of view,” he says.

Now the director of civic education for the Indiana Bar Association, Kalgreen uses his love for history, civics and government to do what his parents initially encouraged him to do: to be a participating citizen in the civic process.

Parents Should Model Good Civic Behavior Thomas Jefferson wrote that a well-informed citizenry was a requirement for democracy. But current voting data shows that only 53% of the U.S. voting population cast a ballot in the 2018 midterm election, even though it was the highest midterm turnout in 40 years.

First, they can involve their kids in the election process by taking them to the polls and talking about election candidates and issues. They can talk to their kids about local, state or national issues, being sure to share what they’ve read about these issues, says Linda Hanson, co-president of the League of Women Voters, Indiana. opinions, know campaign issues and know general facts about the U.S. political system. While most children are more likely to learn this behavior from their parents, only 40.3% of 10 million youth ages 18-29 voted in the 2018 midterm elections.

When should parents start teaching these responsibilities?

“Good civic behavior is an everyday, year-round thing,” Kalgreen says. “It has to be taught and instilled in each generation to preserve it for the future.”

Why do young people not vote?

One reason is that their parents never taught them to vote.

Kalgreen learned the value of voting from his parents taking him to the polls. Because he had these experiences, he was more likely to vote at age 18. Why? Because voting is considered a habitual act, an act that is often formed early on for kids and modeled by their parents. So, parents are a significant factor in whether kids vote.

According to a Tufts University survey, young people who recalled high-quality civics education experiences were more likely to vote, form political

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requirements differ from state to state and have become, in recent years, more restrictive.

To make things less confusing, parents and teens can access the League of Women Voters website, the county election board or the Secretary of State’s website for accurate voting information.

When in college, parents should find out the requirements for absentee voting so their kids can still vote.

Don’t Rely on Schools to Teach Civics Right now, only nine states require a full year of civics education, whereas ten states don’t require it at all. Even then, 31 states, including Indiana, require a mere semester of learning. Indiana now requires high school seniors to pass the U.S. Naturalization Test before they can graduate. No longer can parents rely on schools alone to

The Indiana Bar Association also sponsors an instructional program called We the People, where youth learn about government processes by participating in simulated congressional hearings. Find out more information about the program at inbf.org/ educational-programs/ we-the-people.

Most of all, parents can engage their kids, listen to what they think about the issues, and encourage them to think critically. That is, after all, the basis of our democracy.

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SPECIAL NEEDS

WORDS BY JENNIFER THOMPSON

Should We Get a Pet? Kids with autism can benefit from the companionship that a pet brings to a family.

Pets offer a unique type of unconditional love and companionship that children with special needs can benefit from.

Maybe you have been on the fence about bringing a fur baby into your home. How do you know if it’s the right fit?

Or the right time?

Maybe you are wondering if your child qualifies for a service dog?

Bringing a pet into your home is a big commitment, and there are many things to think about before taking the plunge into pet ownership. To help, we have asked Dr. Emily Roth, a pediatric psychologist with Riley Children’s Hospital in Indianapolis, to share her thoughts on the benefits of pet ownership and what families should consider before bringing home a pet.

What are some of the benefits of pet ownership for kids with autism?

There are many benefits to owning a pet. Specific to children with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), pets provide social companionship, increased opportunities for responsibility, communication and physical exercise.

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What should parents consider when choosing a pet?

Families need to make an educated choice when choosing a pet. When you bring any pet into your home, you want to make sure it is well trained, healthy, non-reactive and good with children. It is important for families to also consider the pet’s needs, such as exercise, training requirements and ownership costs.

What about service dogs?

There is limited evidence supporting service animals for children with ASD. Most research on children with ASD and pets assesses the benefits of owning a pet, rather than the benefits of having a service animal. Some

organizations do train dogs to help alert parents of safety concerns related to their child with ASD, such as leaving their bedroom at night or self-injurious behavior. Families should make this important decision in collaboration with their healthcare provider, given the limited research supporting these animals and their expense.

Pets bring a tremendous amount of joy to families, and this can be especially true for children on the autism spectrum. If you are considering pet ownership, talk to your child about the responsibilities of owning a pet and the changes they can expect once the pet is adopted into your family, such as where the pet will eat or sleep, and what kind of behaviors they may expect from the newest member of your family.

You may also want to take a few trips to the animal shelter, or the breeder, and allow your child to acclimate to the pet before bringing it home.

Also consider purchasing the supplies that will be needed a couple weeks before the animal is expected to arrive — such as food dishes, a kennel, a sleep mat, litter box, etc. — and place them around the house. If the changes happen gradually, this may help with the overall transition.

It may take time, but hopefully you will soon discover a blossoming friendship between your child and pet!

IC SPECIAL NEEDS GUIDE Bierman ABA Autism Center We work with children with autism spectrum disorders up to the age of 13. We specialize in providing early intervention, personalized and intensive Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) Speech & OT programs. Our early intensive intervention programs (EIBI) are designed to help children learn skills across many different developmental domains in order to be happy and successful in any environment, whether that be in the home, community or the classroom.

Whether your child was just recently diagnosed or has been in a traditional school setting but unable to make adequate progress, we deeply believe every child is capable of learning with the right programming in place. We are positive our dedicated and talented team can make a difference.

Locations in Broad Ripple, Westfield and Avon. • 6060 N College Avenue, Indianapolis IN 46220, Phone: (317) 815-5501, Email: info@biermanaba.com; biermanaba.com

Children's Therapy Connection Children's Therapy Connection offers a variety of engaging playgroups to help connect your child with their potential. Speech Therapy groups focus on improving communication and language skills. Social Skills playgroups encourage peer interaction through preschool preparation. Gross motor playgroups develop strength, balance, and coordination. Contact our office at (317) 288-7606 or follow us on Facebook for enrollment details. We strive to be the provider of choice in central Indiana for quality, comprehensive, and family-centered pediatric therapy services for families of children with disabilities. Visit our website to learn more about all of our noteworthy programs and services! •

7478 Shadeland Station Way, Indianapolis, IN 46256, Phone: 317-288-7606, Email: info@childrenstherapyconnection.com, childrenstherapyconnection.com

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LittleStar ABA Therapy

Offering comprehensive disability services for people of all ages. Early Intervention, Autism Services, PT, OT, Speech Therapy, Feeding/Swallowing issues, Augmentative Communication, Assistive Technology, Multi-sensory Therapy Rooms, Summer Camps, Life/Social Skills Groups, Deaf Community Services, Autism Family Resource Center. •

LittleStar ABA Therapy (formerly Little Star Center) was the first center-based ABA provider in the state and is a not-for-profit. We strive to be the best, not the biggest. Our clinical team is led by two PhDs, who make sure each person we serve is reaching their maximum potential and successful every place they go.

We offer clean, bright, well maintained centers and excellent customer service. LittleStar is often imitated but never duplicated! Your loved one with autism deserves the best services and the best possible outcomes and that’s what they’ll get at LittleStar. Come see the LittleStar difference! • 12650 Hamilton Crossing

4740 Kingsway Drive, Indianapolis, IN 46205, Phone: 317-466-1000, Email: info@ eastersealscrossroads.org, eastersealscrossroads.org

K1ds Count, LLC K1ds Count, LLC is a local pediatric therapy provider offering ABA therapy, speech therapy, occupational therapy, and physical therapy services to children on and off the autism spectrum in the Brownsburg, Avon, Danville, Crawfordsville, and Indianapolis areas. • Phone: (317) 520-4748; Email:

frank@kidscounttherapy.com, kidscounttherapy.com

Blvd. Carmel, IN 46032, Phone: 317-249-2242, E-mail: victoria@ littlestaraba.org, littlestaraba.org

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WORDS BY AMY SHAPIRO, MD, PEDIATRIC HEMATOLOGIST

Bleeding Disorders: What You Need to Know Common symptoms could mean an uncommon bleeding disorder.

Can you “catch” a bleeding disorder?

The scene is familiar: Your child is playing when they suddenly fall.

Unlike a cold or the flu, you cannot “catch” hemophilia or von Willebrand disease from another person. Bleeding disordersThese are largely genetic conditions (meaning, you are born with it). About one third of hemophilia cases occur without a documented or known family history.

They get up and dust off, hardly fazed by their freshly skinned knee or a bump to the head. For most kids, this happens routinely with very little setback. But for some kids — like those with a bleeding disorder such as hemophilia or von Willebrand disease (VWD) — this interruption could require emergency attention.

Does a bleeding disorder affect lifespan?

What is a bleeding disorder?

A bleeding disorder is a condition that affects the body’s natural ability to stop bleeding (form a clot).

Clotting allows the body to heal properly. However, in a person with a bleeding disorder, the ability to clot is slowed or stopped. It can result in significant blood loss or internal pooling of blood, which can cause major complications.

Who has bleeding disorders?

Males and females are both affected by bleeding disorders, as are all populations across the globe.

How will a parent know if their child has a bleeding disorder?

Easy bruising is an early symptom found in toddlers learning to walk when they fall or bump into objects.

If you notice easier-than-normal bruising, frequent nosebleeds, or

heavy menstrual bleeding in your child, an evaluation is recommended.

Other concerns might arise with prolonged bleeding after surgery or dental procedures.

How can bleeding disorders cause health problems?

Visible blood loss needs to be addressed, but it’s typically what happens inside the body that can cause some of the most severe long-term problems for people with bleeding disorders. Repeat injuries and stress to joints and muscles can cause vessels to break and then blood to collect in these areas. This can cause considerable pain and loss of mobility if not addressed properly.

Lower impact sports like baseball,

swimming, golf or tennis are recommended for people with bleeding disorders for this reason.

What do people with bleeding disorders need to do to stay healthy?

Depending on how severe the condition is, bleeding disorder patients might need to take medication prescribed by their doctor to replace or increase their clotting factor. This helps prevent or reduce complications if injured or in an accident. They should also always wear a medical ID noting their condition and who to call. If they are in an accident or need emergency surgery, healthcare providers need to be aware to provide appropriate care.

People with bleeding disorders can have a normal lifespan if they use preventative therapies and treat bleeding episodes when they occur.

Getting tied into a federally recognized hemophilia treatment center (HTC) like the Indiana Hemophilia & Thrombosis Center is key to successful outcomes. The IHTC has all kinds of medical specialties available who have specific knowledge of bleeding disorders.

HTC staff treat and teach patients how to care for themselves and advocate for their own health throughout their lifespan, as well as provide education and events that involve siblings, parents, grandparents, babysitters, school nurses, and more.

If you or your family member has a bleeding disorder, consider joining the IHTC community. Visit us online at www.ihtc.org.

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THINGS TO DO

january wed 01

CHRISTMAS NIGHTS OF LIGHTS

Last day! Christmas Nights of Lights is one of the most amazing drive-thru Christmas light shows you will ever experience! Over 1 million LED lights, driven by over 10,000 computer channels, synchronized to both traditional and new rocking Christmas music playing through your car radio. Pack your vehicle full of friends and family to enjoy the show as you begin a new Christmas tradition. This 35-minute interactive experience is open rain or shine. • Location: Indiana State Fairgrounds, christmasnightsoflights.com

thurs 02

FIRST THURSDAY NIGHTS

It’s fun for everyone! Visit at a discount from 4-8 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Choose from Riley Children's Health Sports Legends Experience ($5), the museum ($5) or a combo ticket ($7).

• Location: The Children's Museum of

Indianapolis, Time: 4-8 pm, childrensmuseum.org

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POTTERY FUN FOR KIDS

Kids will create their very own functional clay mug on the pottery wheel and snowman by handbuilding. All items made of natural clay. Glaze and decorate your clay to finish! No experience needed. All items will be delivered 3-4 weeks after class. $20. •

Location: Pecar Park Nature Center, Time: 6-8 pm, washingtontwpparks. org/nature-center.html

PRESCHOOL STORY EXPLORERS AT IRVINGTON

Preschoolers ages 3-5 and an adult are invited for stories, song and dance, and fun activities that build a love of reading and learning. •

Location: Irvington Branch Library, Time: 10:30-11:30 am, attend.indypl.org/ event/3062964 FREE

fri 03

PLAYTIME ON THE PRAIRIE: COLD THINGS

Brrrr! It’s cold outside and you can have lots of fun with cold things, including a popsicle snack!

Attendees will have the opportunity to play, explore, inquire and learn throughout each session. Each

FREE Free for families! *Ongoing A recurring event

session is designed to bring Conner Prairie to life in a developmentally appropriate way for children ages 0-5. • Location: Conner Prairie, Time: 11

am-Noon, connerprairie.org

PAJAMA-RAMA

Put on your cutest pair of pajamas, grab your favorite teddy bear and pack up an old blanket! Families looking for a fun program to enjoy with their toddlers and preschoolers will love the music educator from Moriah Music, who will lead everyone in songs and stories about some of their favorite animals. Best for families with children ages 1-7. • Location: Cool Creek Nature Center, Time: 7-7:45 pm, myhamilton countyparks.com FREE

SCHOOL'S OUT MAKER CHALLENGE: MICRO:BIT WORKSHOP

Visit the Ignite Studio to experiment with pocket-sized computers as you learn to code. Create a special message on the LED panel or play rock-paper-scissors against a

*SN Special needs friendly An Indy's Child favorite!

machine. This simple web-based coding is great for curious minds!

Ages 10+. Registration is required. •

Location: Hamilton East Public Library (Ignite Studio-Fishers), Time: 2-4 pm, hepl.lib.in.us/events-calendar

sat 04

NICK JR. LIVE! MOVE TO THE MUSIC

Sing, clap, dance and move to the music with all your favorite Nick Jr. friends. Nick Jr. Live! Move to the Music is an all-new, one-of-a-kind adventure. For the first time on stage together, this musical spectacular features characters from multiple Nick Jr. hit animated series, including Bubble Guppies, PAW Patrol, Dora The Explorer and more! • Location:

Old National Centre, Time: See website for specific times, oldnationalcentre. com

PAWS TO READ @ PIKE

Young ones who need to practice their reading skills are invited to tell a story to trained therapy dogs.

Reading to dogs has been shown to increase children's reading skills and confidence. • Location: Pike Branch Library, Time: 1-2:30 pm, attend.indypl.org/event/3403644

FREE

sun 05

TEA WITH LOVEY

Bring your favorite stuffed animal and enjoy high tea in the L.S. Ayres Tea Room. Afterward, enjoy an exclusive showing of the play, Bear's Winter Dream, in the auditorium and take a ride on the Santa Claus Express train.

Registration required 24 hours prior online or by calling 317.232.1637. • Location: Indiana State Museum, Time- 2-4 pm, indianamuseum.org

mon 06

MOTHER GOOSE ON THE LOOSE

Babies, toddlers and preschoolers and an adult are invited for an early literacy program. This program will use rhymes, songs, puppets and instruments to foster speech development, motor coordination, self-confidence and sensitivity to others. Adult participation is required. • Location: College Avenue Branch Library, Time: 10:30-11:30 am, attend.indypl.org/event/3417202

FREE

SMALL WONDERS: INSPIRED BY NATURE

Learn more about beloved author Eric Carle in this month’s Small Wonders program. From hungry caterpillars to grouchy ladybugs, your little ones will interact with the stories, art and science behind these childhood favorites. Together, you will experience an interactive story time, sensory play and a collaborative project. • Location:

Indiana State Museum, Time: 10-11 am, indianamuseum.org

PLAY DATE PRESCHOOL STORYTIME AT FOUNTAIN SQUARE

wed 08

Fountain Square Branch Library, Time: 11 am-Noon, attend.indypl.org/ event/3403813 FREE

Children of all ages and adults are invited to listen, move, jump and dance with Miss Kasey. Scarves and rhythm instruments will be provided for added fun. • Location:

Preschoolers and an adult are invited for stories, songs, fingerplays and rhymes, followed by playtime at the library. • Location:

tues 07

BREAKFAST WITH THE CHRISTMAS ANGEL

You are cordially invited to Union Chapel’s third-annual Breakfast with the Christmas Angel, which promises to deliver heavenly harps, holiday sparkle and charm — and the sweetest retelling of the Nativity Story by the Angel herself! •

FAMILY DANCE PARTY

Franklin Road Branch Library, Time: 10:15-11:15 am, attend.indypl.org/ event/3419848

FREE

thurs 09

fri 10 – sun 12

BABY STORYTIME AT FOUNTAIN SQUARE

FESTIVAL OF ICE

Featuring carving demonstrations by professional ice carvers, a fast-paced carve-off competition, a firehouse chili cook-off, an ice bar with luge presented, a kid play area, skating to a live DJ and more!

Grab your family, friends or significant other and join the fun! •

Babies up to 24 months and an adult are invited for stories, fingerplays and sing-alongs with Miss Shelby and her ukulele. •

Location: Fountain Square Branch Library, Time: 10:30-11:30 am, attend. indypl.org/event/3403776 FREE

Location: Center Green Carmel, Time: See website for specific times, theiceatcentergreen.com

fri 10

sat 11

NOBLESVILLE STORYTIME

Storytime is geared toward older toddlers through preschoolers and their caregiver. Sing, play and listen to stories, followed by an activity or craft and open play time. • Location:

MOVIES IN THE IGLOO: AVENGERS

Come watch The Avengers in a heated igloo! Popcorn and hot chocolate provided. Preregistration required. $5. • Location:

Hamilton East Public LibraryNoblesville, Time: 10:30-11 am, hepl. evanced.info/signup/Calendar

Penguin Park, Time: 6-8 pm, washingtontwpparks.org

FREE

SENSORY-FRIENDLY FRIDAYS AT KID CITY

SATURDAY SCIENCE PROGRAM: SNAKES & REPTILES

Every Friday, Kid City provides a comfortable and accepting environment for an evening of play.

These hours are for children with special needs and their families, focusing on the autism spectrum and sensory processing disorders, as well as physical disabilities. •

Location: Kid City at Greenwood Community Center, Time: 6-8 pm, greenwood.in.gov/ SUN parks *SN

Learn more about the natural world at the Indianapolis Zoo’s Saturday Science program, where kids can investigate zoological situations and use the scientific method. This program is for ages 9-12. $30 members/$35 nonmembers. •

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Location: Indianapolis Zoo, Time: 9-11:30 am, indianapoliszoo.com

TEA WITH LOVEY

Location: Union Chapel United Methodist Church, Time: 9-11 am, unionchapelindy.org

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WED 15

YOUNG EXPLORERS: BACKYARD ANIMALS

Young explorers will take a closer look at the animals that call Indiana home with the help of their museum exhibit Natural Regions. Learn more about habitats and animal adaptations through station explorations and an interactive story time. Other activities include nature-based art and sensory play. • Location: Indiana State Museum, Time: 1-2:30 pm, indianamuseum.org

mon 13

SECOND MONDAYS CHESS @ IRVINGTON

Chess players of all skill levels are invited to play and meet others in the local chess community. Chess boards and pieces are provided.

Players may bring their own chess clocks. • Location: Irvington Branch

Library, Time: 6-7:45 pm, attend.indypl. org/event/3247267 FREE

tues 14

JUNGLE TALES

Bring your preschooler to this program with a focus on the natural world. There will be a different nature-related story, activity and craft each month. Registration required. Ages 2-5. $5. • Location: Garfield Conservatory, Time: 10-11 am, garfieldgardensconservatory.org

wed 15

HOMESCHOOL EXPLORERS AT NORA

Homeschoolers are invited for fun and fact-based programs with lots of interaction. Most activities are geared toward children ages 6 and older, but there will be some for younger children. Some programs may be quite messy! • Location: Nora Branch Library, Time: Noon-2 pm, attend.indypl.org/event/2921634

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DINOSAUR WORLD LIVE

DINOSAUR WORLD LIVE!

Grab your compass and explore unchartered territories to discover a pre-historic world of astonishing (and remarkably life-like) dinosaurs.

Meet a host of impressive creatures, including every child’s favorite flesh-eating giant, the Tyrannosaurus Rex, a Triceratops, Giraffatitan and Segnosaurus, to name a few! • Location: Clowes Memorial Hall, Time: 10:30 am-12:30 pm, butlerartscenter. org

thurs 16

GLOW IN THE DARK PARTY

While some parties shine, this party will GLOW. Come in as they turn down the lights and let the glow sticks light up the night as you dance, do crafts and play games.

This glow-in-the-dark party won't just be lit, it will be fluorescent!

Grades K-5. Registration required. • Location: Hamilton East Public Library-Noblesville, Time: 6:30-8 pm, nickelplatearts.org/event/glow-inthe-dark-party FREE

fri 17

THE MAGIC SCHOOL BUS: LOST IN THE SOLAR SYSTEM

When the class gets lost on the way to the planetarium, Ms. Frizzle saves the day by blasting into outer space for an epic inter-planetary field trip!

But when rivalries both old and new threaten to tear the students apart, young heroes must learn to pull together or risk getting forever lost in the solar system. • Location: Clowes

Memorial Hall, Time: 10 am-Noon, butlerartscenter.org

FRI 17 − SUN 19

INDY GOLF EXPO SENSORY-FRIENDLY FRIDAYS AT KID CITY

Every Friday, Kid City provides a comfortable and accepting environment for an evening of play.

These hours are for children with special needs and their families, focusing on the autism spectrum and sensory processing disorders, as well as physical disabilities. • Location: Kid City at Greenwood Community Center, Time: 6-8 pm, greenwood.in.gov/parks *SN

fri 17 – sun 19 INDY GOLF EXPO

Enjoy free lessons, instructional seminars, golf fitness, kids’ areas, a 19th hole lounge and fun tests of skill, including long drive, putting, chipping and closest-to-the-pin contests. Saturday is kids & family day with prizes and games for kids throughout the hall and junior golf seminars on the main stage. • Location: Indiana State Fairgrounds, Time: Fri. 11-5 • Sat. 10-5 • Sun. 10-4, ingolfexpo.com

fri 17 – sun 26

INDIANAPOLIS HOME SHOW

The Indianapolis Home Show is a vibrant marketplace where you can shop for home-related products and services, experience stunning displays to help inspire your next home project, connect with industry experts, and enjoy informative presentations from renowned local and international home professionals. • Location: Indiana State Fairgrounds, Time: 10 am-8 pm, indianapolishomeshow.com

sat 18

INTRODUCTION TO SIGN, SAY & PLAY

Sign, Say & Play gives parents and their little one the opportunity to learn 37 of the most useful signs in the context of playful songs, games and activities. In this one-time session, parents will receive an overview of the complete six-week program and learn how songs, concept items and activities can make signing fun and useful in everyday life with their child. • Location: West Park-Jill Perelman Pavilion, Time: 9-10 am, carmelclayparks.com

PEANUT BUTTER & JAM: JEFFERSON STREET PARADE BAND

Raucous, lively, colorful and packed with outstanding musicians, this thrilling marching band digs into rhythms from Mexico, Cuba, West Africa, New Orleans, Eastern Europe and Latin America. The unique instrumentation and fun-filled performance will have you marching and stomping all the way home!

Designed for children ages 1-7. •

Location: The Palladium at the Center for the Performing Arts, Time: 10:30 am, thecenterpresents.org

sun 19

CLASSICAL CONCERTS AT CENTRAL

Adults and families are invited to experience the dynamic world of chamber music with members of the Indianapolis Symphony Orchestra. • Location: Central Library, Time: 2-3 pm, attend.indypl.org/event/3404208 FREE

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sun 19 – mon 20 THE ORIGINAL HARLEM GLOBETROTTERS

The world-famous Harlem Globetrotters will bring their new “Pushing the Limits” World Tour to Indianapolis. Globetrotters’ fans will experience even bigger moments and memories, including a live world record attempt at each game. • Location: Bankers Life

Fieldhouse, Time: Sunday 1 pm, Monday 2 pm, harlemglobetrotters. com

mon 20

See page 8 for Indianapolisarea museums offering free admission for Martin Luther King Jr. Day! MLK SING AND PLAY

Visit for a fun day of playing and learning about Martin Luther King Jr. There will be arts and crafts available all day. Crafts and open play geared to ages 2 to 8. • Location: Broad Ripple Park, Time: 10 am-Noon, apm.activecommunities. com/indyparks/Home FREE

tues 21

STORY TIME ON THE RESERVOIR: I SEE ANIMALS HIDING

Sometimes it's hard to see the animals that are around. They could be hiding in the leaves on the ground. Or they may prefer to blend in to the snow, or to hide out in the water below. This week is all about camouflage! Come ready to search for hidden animals, sing a song, make some animal art and play. Free with park admission. •

Location: Eagle Creek Park, Earth Discovery Center, Time: 9:30-10:30 am, eaglecreekpark.org

wed 22 – sun 26

DISNEY ON ICE - WORLDS OF ENCHANTMENT

Rev up for non-stop fun with four of your favorite Disney stories with Disney On Ice presents Worlds of Enchantment. Get ready to enter a dazzling world of Disney magic, live on ice where Lightning McQueen, Mater and the crew of Disney Pixar’s Cars perform high-speed stunts and race across the ice like you’ve never seen before. • Location: Bankers Life Fieldhouse, Time: See website for specific times, disneyonice.com

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wed 22

MINECRAFT CLUB @ GARFIELD PARK

Kids of all ages are invited to join the library's Minecraft Club and participate in Minecraft activities with others. • Location: Garfield Park Branch, Time: 4-6 pm, attend.indypl. org/event/3677567

thurs 23

LITTLE DUCKLINGS: BIG BIRDS

Learn easy ways to engage your preschooler in nature and encourage their curiosity in the natural world. A new topic will be introduced each class through hands-on activities, hikes, stories and take-home ideas for continuing the exploration at home. • Location: Eagle Creek

Park-Ornithology Center, Time: 10:30-11:30 am, eaglecreekpark.org

fri 24

PLAYTIME ON THE PRAIRIE: ROBOTS

Let’s learn about real robots and what they help us do. Build your own robot out of upcycled loose parts. Playtime on the Prairie is an early childhood experience tailored to the youngest guests. Each session is designed to bring Conner Prairie to life in a developmentally appropriate way for children ages 0-5. • Location:

Conner Prairie, Time: 11 am-Noon, connerprairie.org

fri 24 – sun 26 OWL PROWL WEEKEND

Despite the cold, owls are very active this season and more likely to be seen. This weekend is devoted to owl discovery with many ways for you to learn about these amazing creatures. Sign up for a night hike, drop-in to meet a live screech owl, enjoy a free owl craft, learn to identify owls, or watch a live owl show! Some activities require pre-registration and a fee. All ages welcome! •

Location: Holliday Park, Time: Fri-Sat 9 am-5 pm, Sun 1- 5 pm, hollidaypark. org

INDY LIBRARY STORE BOOK SALE

Buy new and used books and other items at discount prices.

Proceeds support library programs and services through The Indianapolis Public Library Foundation. • Location: Library

Services Center, Time: 10 am-4pm, attend.indypl.org/event/3403975

MOVIES IN THE IGLOO: HAPPY FEET

Come watch Happy Feet in a heated igloo! Popcorn and hot chocolate provided. Preregistration required. $5. • Location:

Penguin Park, Time: 6-8 pm, washingtontwpparks.org

sat 25

BIG BUBBLE BONANZA

Bubble rainbows with people inside. Audience members making volcano bubbles. Gigantic bubbles that blow their own bubbles. See the newest, funniest production from world-record master bubble wrangler Jeff Boyer as he takes his soap-bubble artistry to the max.

Mixing comedy, music and interactive bubble magic, Boyer engages and delights audiences of all ages. • Location: The Tarkington Theatre, Time: 10:30 am or 1 pm, thecenterpresents.org

PAWS TO READ

Do you like dogs? Would you like to practice reading to a specially trained Paws and Think dog who loves listening to stories? Come to the library for a chance to read to one of these therapy dogs, on a first-come, first-served basis. No registration is required. • Location:

Carmel Clay Public Library, Time: 10:30-11:30 am, carmel.lib.in.us/child

sun 26

CREATING COOL CRAFTS WITH NATURE

SUN 19 − MON 20

HARLEM GLOBETROTTERS

Make snake skin bookmarks, feather pencils, print with leaves and more! For ages 7+. Preregistration required. $5. • Location:

Pecar Park Nature Center, Time: 2-4 pm, washingtontwpparks.org

KIDS DAY AT INDY CD & VINYL

The last Sunday of every month is Kids Day, featuring live music for the whole family, free musicinfluenced arts and crafts, discounts on kids’ music and donations benefitting children’s charities in Indy. • Location: Indy CD

& Vinyl, Time: 3-5 pm, indycdandvinyl.com

mon 27

CREATE A HABITAT FOR MONARCHS AND OTHER POLLINATORS

Learn how you can create a habitat for monarch butterflies and other pollinators in your yard, church, business or neighborhood common area. Best for families with older children. • Location: Cool

Creek Nature Center, Time: 6:30-8 pm, myhamiltoncountyparks.com FREE

SENSORY SKATE DAY

A sensory-friendly event for families especially designed for children diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder, sensory processing disorder or any type for special need. Free admission and skate rental for families. Wheelchairs are welcome on the ice and ice walker supports are available. Rink will be closed to the general public.

Guardians must accompany on ice.

• Location: Center Green Carmel, Time: 4-6 pm, theiceatcentergreen.com *SN

tues 28

PRESCHOOL STORYTIME AT EAGLE BRANCH

Preschoolers ages 2-6 and an adult are invited for stories, songs and fun. An arts and craft time will follow. • Location: Eagle Branch

Library, Time: 10:30-11:30 am, attend. indypl.org/event/3701937 FREE

wed 29

WINTERTIME FUN

What is going on out there this winter? Learn about what our animal friends are doing while we're all bundled up inside. Program will include a story, craft and more!

Registration required. • Location: Garfield Conservatory, Time: 10-11 am, garfieldgardens conservatory.org

WARM HEARTS, WARM STORIES

Preschoolers are invited for cozy stories and activities about winter. • Location: Eagle Branch Library, Time: 11 am-Noon, attend.indypl.org/ event/3561436 FREE

thurs 30

TEDDY BEAR CONCERT SERIES WITH THE INDIANAPOLIS SYMPHONY ORCHESTRA

Preschoolers and kindergarteners with their families are invited to learn about the orchestra through story, movement and live music. ISO violinist Victoria Griswold has written each story, two of which are available as picture books, to be performed by five ISO musicians.

Teddy bears welcome! • Location:

Central Library, Time: 10:30-11:30 am, attend.indypl.org/event/3556506 FREE

TODDLER TIME

Bring your littlest learner (ages 18 to 36 months) to explore and discover at the museum. Children must be accompanied by an adult. This month, kids will explore the four seasons of the year through sensory play and movement. • Location: Indiana State Museum, Time: 10-11 am, indianamuseum.org

fri 31

ANIMAL FOLKLORE AND THE GROUNDHOG

Groundhog’s Day is coming. Let’s celebrate this soothsayer of weather. Can the best weather equipment outsmart Mother Nature? What is it about animals predicting weather? Test your nature knowledge, discover what animals do during the winter and make your own prediction the day before the groundhog comes out. • Location: Cool Creek Nature Center, Time: 3:30-4:30 pm, myhamilton countyparks.com FREE

YOUNG SCIENTISTS @ SOUTHPORT

Elementary school children are invited to learn about topics in science, technology, engineering and math through fun and interactive activities. • Location: Southport Branch Library, Time: 4:30-5:30 pm, attend.indypl.org/ event/3404145 FREE

ONGOING EVENTS JINGLE RAILS Through Jan. 20

A favorite family holiday tradition that is unlike any other. Marvel as model trains wind past miniature landscapes of Indianapolis and the American West. New this year: The Indianapolis Motor Speedway and historic Spanish Colonial missions of the Southwest. • Location: Eiteljorg Museum, eiteljorg.org

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LIGHTS AT THE BRICKYARD

WINTERLIGHTS

Through Jan. 5

Through Jan. 5

Lights at the Brickyard return another year and will feature dozens of colorful displays totaling more than three million bright lights on a 2-mile course through the IMS infield and historic oval, including the front stretch and world-famous “Yard of Bricks” start-finish line. •

Watch lights dance to music on the Lilly House lawn and stop to take photos at the Snowflake Bridge, Frosted Forest and other illuminated displays throughout the grounds. Special glasses will be available that transform every one of the 1.5 million lights into a shimmering snowflake. • Location:

Location: Indianapolis Motor Speedway, indianapolismotor speedway.com

THE 12 SNOWY WINTER DAYS Through Jan. 5

Continue the wintery fun by playing with snowballs, building a snowman in Santa’s Front Yard and caring for the young soft and stuffed reindeer at the reindeer pen. Warm up in Santa’s house by pretending to roast marshmallows by the fire, play with the toys in the toy chests and enjoy interactive story times with their resident North Pole elves and other special guests. • Location: Indiana State Museum, indianamuseum.org

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INDIANA HISTORICAL SOCIETY’S FESTIVAL OF TREES Through Jan. 4

Indulge in a winter wonderland of 92 beautifully decorated trees and special programs. There’s something magical happening every day. • Location: Indiana History Center, indianahistory.org

pack Santa’s sleigh with different sized presents, and assist new reindeer recruits as they practice their take-offs and landings. Take a break by Chimney Corner to read a story and more. In Santa’s Front Yard, you can build a snowman, have a "snowball" fight and decorate trees. • Location: Indiana

State Museum, indianamuseum.org

Newfields, discovernewfields.org

DOWNTOWN INDY, INC. CIRCLE OF LIGHTS Through Jan. 11

More than 100,000 people will gather on Monument Circle the Friday after Thanksgiving to celebrate the lighting of 4,784 lights strung from the Indiana Soldiers and Sailors monument. Millions of sightseers will take in this brilliant spectacle throughout the holiday season, lit through early January. • Location: Indiana Soldiers and Sailors Monument

JOLLY DAYS: WINTER WONDERLAND Through Jan. 5

Celebrate family traditions and holidays with Jolly Days Winter Wonderland! Enjoy favorites like the 47-foot Yule Slide, Jingles the Jolly Bear and visits with Santa. •

Location: The Children's Museum of Indianapolis, childrensmuseum.org

CELEBRATION CROSSING Through Jan. 5

Soak in pure holiday magic at the Indiana State Museum's holiday experience, Celebration Crossing!

Ride the Santa Claus Express train and visit Santa and Mrs. Claus in their house. At Santa's Workshop, kids can engineer the best way to

PLEASE NOTE At Indy's Child, we work hard to ensure our calendar and guide inform- ation is accurate.

Occasionally, event specifics change after we go to press. Therefore, we encourage our readers to call locations or visit them on the web to verify information.

fun and WACKY INDY'S CHILD

CALENDAR 01.2020

SUN

MON

TUES

WEDS

THURS

FRI

1 NEW YEAR’S DAY

SAT

4

3

2 SCIENCE FICTION DAY

HYPNOTISM DAY FESTIVAL OF SLEEP DAY

5

6 APPLE TREE DAY

8

7 OLD ROCK DAY

9 APRICOT DAY

BUBBLE BATH DAY

HOUSEPLANT APPRECIATION DAY

BIRD DAY

12

13

19

AUSTRALIA DAY

SOURCE: daysoftheyear.com

21 GRANOLA BAR DAY

POPCORN DAY

26

MUSEUM SELFIE DAY

STICKER DAY

20

27 CHOCOLATE CAKE DAY

16

MILK DAY

17

18 WINNIE THE POOH DAY

DRESS UP YOUR PET DAY MARZIPAN DAY

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14

11

10

22 ANSWER YOUR CAT’S QUESTIONS DAY

28 KAZOO DAY

29 PUZZLE DAY

APPRECIATE A DRAGON DAY

KID INVENTORS’ DAY

23 MEASURE YOUR FEET DAY

BELLY LAUGH DAY SEED SWAP DAY

30 CROISSANT DAY

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24

31 GORILLA SUIT DAY

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