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BETTE R BR ACE S CAMP:

Positive Solutions for Today's Challenges

INFANT

CHILDCARE

options

post baby body

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contents

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in every issue

14 | BETTER BRACES

08 | PUBLISHER'S NOTE

New approaches in orthodontics for kids and adults

10 | COMMUNITY SPOTLIGHT

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12 | ONLINE BUZZ

18 | DIFFERENT STUDENTS, DIFFERENT NEEDS Finding the schooling option that best suits your child

20 | CAMP: POSITIVE SOLUTIONS FOR TODAY’S CHALLENGES

commentary + parenting 13 | MOMMY MAGIC Inviting positivity into your life

Helping kids connect to each other and the natual world

16 | KIDS AND CASH

24 | ONCE UPON A PURIM

17 | WHAT’S NEW AT SCHOOL

A family-friendly way to celebrate a popular Jewish holiday

Ready for high school, sooner

25 | LAST ON THE LIST

Decisions, decisions

32 | DEAR TEACHER

Where do YOU rank on your list of priorities?

Reading expectations, “troublemakers” and organizational skills

26 | POST BABY BODY BLUES

35 | TRUE CONFESSIONS OF A STAY-AT-HOME DAD

Reclaiming your former physique

Bedtime: not exactly routine

28 | INFANT CHILDCARE OPTIONS Returning to work with your baby in good hands

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resources 21 | CAMP GUIDE

31 | KEEPING THE ROMANCE ALIVE – WITH KIDS

33 | education/childcare GUIDE

More sizzle, less fizzle

41 | MARKETPLACE

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31 calendars 37 | FEBRUARY EVENTS 40 | ONGOING EVENTS 43 | FUN + WACKY

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in every issue

Cincinnati

[ publisher’s note ]

PARENT PUBLISHER Mary Wynne Cox | publisher@cincinnatiparent.com SALES MANAGER & CREATIVE DIRECTOR Katie Pfierman | katie@cincinnatiparent.com EDITOR Susan Bryant | susan@cincinnatiparent.com ACCOUNT EXECUTIVE Holli Hinerman | holli@cincinnatiparent.com ACCOUNT EXECUTIVE Melissa Wittenbaum | melissa@cincinnatiparent.com

Greetings!

BUSINESS MANAGER Roxanne Burns | roxanne@cincinnatiparent.com

With winter’s firm grasp still keeping us indoors, snuggling under a warm blanket with a good read

EVENTS COORDINATOR & PUBLIC RELATIONS Wendy Cox | wendy@cincinnatiparent.com

seems the only logical option. This issue of Cincinnati Parent will give you plenty of reasons to remain cozy inside while you catch up on the latest parenting information and things to do in Cincinnati (when you do decide to brave the elements).

For those lucky moms snuggling up to a new infant, we have two articles you’ll be interested in.

Post-Baby Body Blues discusses the reality of what that little bundle of joy has done to your former shape—with some tips on how to reclaim it again. If heading back to work is in your future, you’ll want to check out Infant Childcare Options to help you think about what type of childcare best fits your situation.

It doesn’t seem long before those babies exchange their pacifiers for braces, and our Better Braces article will make sure you are up-to-date with all the latest advances in the field of orthodontics. Finding the right educational setting for kids is always on our parental radar, and

EDITORIAL ASSISTANT Wendy Schrepferman | s.wendy@cincinnatiparent.com INTERN Maria Tancredi | maria@cincinnatiparent.com CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Mary Wynne Cox, Sarah McCosham, Nancy Edwards, Holly Kline, Susan Bryant, Mary Susan Buhner, Pete Gilbert, Dr. Julia Heath of The University of Cincinnati, Dawn Grady of Cincinnati Public Schools, Peg Smith of American Camp Association, The Mayerson Foundation, Peggy Gisler and Marge Eberts

Different Students, Different Needs provides the helpful information you need to compare the

CALENDAR OF EVENTS calendar@cincinnatiparent.com

various opportunities available in our area.

Finally, this is the month that officially celebrates “love”. Remember to make your spouse a priority with Keeping the Romance Alive…with Kids and have a special Valentine’s Day to remember – whether you “go big” or stoke those romantic flames with smaller gestures.

ENJOY!

COPYRIGHT Mary Wynne Cox Publisher

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in every issue

[ community spotlight ]

community S POT L IGH T

the difference is “dramatic! “ When children have the opportunity to harness their creativity, improve communication skills and relate confidently with peers and adults, the difference is truly dramatic!

Now operating in several school districts, Drama Kids of Cincinnati is providing area children with the opportunity to achieve these skills. The weekly program offers on-site, after school enrichment opportunities for students in grades K-12 and is designed to accommodate new enrollment throughout the year.

Owner Marina Giller explains, “Quality enrichment programs should complement the school curriculum.

Drama Kids uses proven, fun activities to enhance students’ ability to deliver oral reports, read aloud in group settings, participate in classroom discussions and conduct or participate in interviews.

Also, we provide convenience to busy families by offering programs right at the school.”

To find out how to bring the Drama Kids program to your school, or to enroll in an existing session, email Ms. Giller at dramakidsoh2@gmail.com or visit www.dramakidsinc.com.

love, learn and live well February 1, 2013, marks the 10th Year of the American Heart Association’s Go Red For Women movement — 10 years of fighting to save women’s lives from heart disease.

The facts about women and heart disease are alarming: *One in three women suffers from heart disease, but only one in five believes she is personally at risk. *Heart disease is still the number one killer of women, taking the life of one woman every minute. *90% of women have one or more risk factors for developing heart disease. *80% of cardiac events in women may be prevented if the right choices involving diet, exercise and abstinence from smoking are made. *Since 1984, more women than men have died from heart disease, yet women comprise only 24% of participants in all heart-related studies.

Visit www.goredforwomen.org to join the movement and find the tools you need to prevent heart disease. It’s free, it’s easy and it could save your life.

experience the rich history of the underground railroad Ravine to Freedom Sunday, February 10th, 1:00 pm - 3:00 pm LaBoiteaux Woods Nature Preserve Call 513-542-2909 to register. Cost: $5.00 During the 1840’s and 1850’s College Hill was one of the most important communities along the Cincinnati Underground Railroad connection. Learn about the Fugitive Slave Act, traverse the very ravine used by escaping slaves and hear stories of the abolitionists and area families. Geared toward older children and adults, this program leads visitors on a 1.5 mile hike.

Quilting in History: A Hands on Lesson Saturday, February 16th, 9:00 am - 12:00 Avon Woods Nature Preserve Call 513-861-3435 to register. Cost: $5.00 Quilting played an important role during the Civil War and was a vital communication tool for The Underground Railroad. Program attendees will learn the fascinating history of hand-quilting and make a themed quilt square. Beginner quilters are welcome.

To learn about these programs and other events, visit www.cincinnatiparks.com.

attention writers and illustrators!

Children are invited to celebrate the power of creating stories and illustrations by submitting original pieces to the PBS KIDS GO! Writer’s Contest, presented

by CET. The event is a local and national contest for students in kindergarten through third grade, designed to help children advance their reading and writing skills through hands-on learning.

The Cincinnati area deadline for the PBS KIDS GO! Writers Contest is Friday, March 15, 2013.

Visit www.pbskids.org/writerscontest to download entry forms and for official rules.

Entries can be dropped off at the station or mailed to: PBS KIDS GO! Writer’s Contest CET: 1223 Central Parkway, Cincinnati, OH 45214 Contact Jason Dennison at 513-345-6545 or by email at jdennison@cetconnect.org with questions.

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[ mommy magic ]

commentary and parenting

Mommy Magic Inviting Positivity into Your Life: Good (and bad) attitudes rub off Mary Susan Buhner

My dad used to say life is 10 percent what happens to you and 90 percent what

embrace challenges to grow and opportunities to better themselves. We all

you make of it. We all have challenges, some of us more than others, and will face some form of adversity during our lifetime. How you react to these obstacles tells a lot about how you view life in general. I find that if I surround myself with people who view life’s challenges as an opportunity to grow and evolve that helps hold me accountable to do the same. If I let those who are negative in nature and choose to dwell on not making the most of things, I can easily get stuck trying to motivate and encourage someone who has absolutely no intention of helping themselves.

These people are, in fact, happy complaining and thinking that everyone else has it better. We all know someone like this. Recently, we were surprised with an enormous amount of snow shortly after Christmas. What a perfect time to enjoy all the fun and excitement that snow brings for children. A person I know who always seems to find the negative in most things announced, “Great. Now we all have to deal with the snow.” As if snow itself had done something personally to offend this person. What an exhausting way to view life, I thought to myself. How

typically start our day with our “energy tank” on full. If you surround yourself with negative people you are more likely to hit “E” faster than you would if you surround yourself with people who are encouraging and upbeat. These people can, in fact, add fuel to your energy tank instead of depleting it.

sad to let 10 percent of life get you down when you can decide to embrace and find joy in the 90 percent that is up to you!

A few years ago I was driving to Chicago from Indianapolis and pulled into a gas station to use the bathroom. While waiting in line I saw a small framed picture hanging in the hall with a quote that changed my life. It was in the most

I recently heard that research shows that if you surround yourself with healthy

unexpected place, but had the most powerful message that really spoke to me.

people that are making good choices regarding physical health, you have a better

So much so, in fact, that I wrote it down at the moment and now carry it in my

chance of making good choices and being a healthier person overall. Makes

wallet. The great American runner, Steve Prefontaine said, “To give anything less

sense. If you hang around people who inspire and motivate you to do healthy

than your best is to sacrifice your gift.” I love that he reminds us that we have the

things, then you are more likely to make similar choices.

choice to do our best. It is, indeed, the 90 percent rule. We may have challenges, but if we apply ourselves and associate with positive thinking people, we are

It occurred to me after I heard this that the same probably goes for people who choose to view the glass “half full” and be positive versus those who view life as

more likely to do our best and reach our goals. This is a great lesson not only to learn ourselves as parents, but to teach our children as well.

“half empty” and choose to be negative. We do have a choice (most of the time) for who we spend our leisure time with and it can, in my opinion, impact your

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choice to be positive or negative in nature. Personally, I find that I have much

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more energy and clarity when I am around those who are upbeat, positive and

supports and encourages moms in Cincy with helpful tips for motherhood!

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BETTER BRACES New approaches in orthodontics for kids and adults Flashing a silver smile seems to be a rite of passage for many children—and an increasing number of adults who didn’t have a “metal mouth” when they were young are choosing to straighten their smiles now. The latest advances in the field of orthodontia make the long process of achieving perfectly aligned teeth more tolerable than ever before.

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Nancy Edwards

Traditional braces – with flair If you had braces as a teen and ever took a class picture with an awkward smirk trying to conceal your metal-covered teeth, you might have viewed the experience differently if you could have “colorized” your smile.

“We offer elastic bands in 40 different colors,” says Dr. Desatnik of Desatnik Orthodontics in Cincinnati. Got school spirit? Sport elastic bands to match your school colors. Love the holidays? Rest assured there are colors to match every celebration. “We’ve got Cincinnati Bengals colors and whatever’s in trend,” says Desatnik.

Ceramic braces – for less flair Older teens may reach a point when colored bands are no longer cool.

“A less visible option are clear ceramic braces,” says Desatnik. “We use these mostly for older teenagers and adult patients who want to minimize the appearance of their braces.” Ceramic braces are made of composite materials. They are durable and generally don’t stain. Patients often choose them because they “blend in” with their teeth.

Invisalign – removable braces If you don’t like the feeling of braces because you can’t take them out to brush and floss or you don’t like the limitation on certain foods and drinks while wearing them, Invisalign may be the perfect choice for you.

Invisalign is known as the invisible way to straighten teeth. “Actually, they are removable clear plastic trays which fit teeth perfectly. We change Invisalign trays with adjustments every several weeks for the most effective progress,” says Desatnik.

Wearing the aligners will gradually and gently shift your teeth into place.

There are no metal brackets to attach and no wires to tighten. Invisalign aligners are removed only to eat and drink, brush and floss, says Desatnik. “You must be willing and able to wear it virtually all the time except for an hour or two a day.”

No more headgear!

As an alternative to headgear, Dr. Desatnik recommends the use of temporary anchorage devices (TAD). A TAD is a very small titanium alloy screw which is placed in a child’s gum and jaw bone, acting as an anchor point and assisting with tooth movement.

Local anesthesia is used to numb the gum, and the mini implant is inserted. TADs are normally in place for a few months and removed when needed without any need for anesthesia. The TAD process is more aesthetically pleasing for patients and can lead to a quicker treatment process.

A grin from ear to ear The latest trends in orthodontics offer several ways for patients to achieve their perfect smile. New advancements mean more efficient, less costly procedures for patients with better results. “It is so gratifying to me and my staff to know we are making a real difference in the lives of our patients,” says Desatnik.

That’s something to smile about.

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commentary and parenting

[ kids and cash ]

Kids and Cash Decisions, Decisions: How to help your children make good ones Dr. Julia Heath, Director, Economics Center and Professor, Alpaugh Family Chair of Economics, University of Cincinnati

Have you ever made a decision that you later regretted? We all have and while there are lessons to be learned from making these mistakes, helping our children learn how to make good, regret-free decisions should be a high priority. There are many ways to approach teaching decision-making, but the best way—even for very young children—is to focus on opportunity cost.

Opportunity cost is what is given up when a choice is made—the next best alternative (not all the other alternatives). In other words, the opportunity cost of a choice is the alternative that came in second place. Why is it important that children (and grown-ups!) know about opportunity cost? Framing decisions in terms of opportunity cost not only forces you to consider what you are giving up if you do (buy) something, but also the follow-up question: is it worth it? Thinking of opportunity cost leads to more thoughtful, less impulsive decisions.

Teaching children about opportunity cost is easy. Here are some suggestions about how to get this message across in a way that fits into everyday life—after all, the goal is to help children learn how to think about their decisions in many different contexts so that thinking about opportunity costs becomes second nature.

Coloring. If your child is very young, find a page in a coloring book that has a picture that he/she likes on each side. Have them color both pictures. Then tell them that they can choose which one to display. After the choice is made, tell them to cut that picture out. (Cutting out one of the pictures destroys the picture on the other side.) Casually, mention that he/she gave up the opportunity to hang up one picture in order to hang up the other.

Shopping. Young children have trouble understanding the value of money—what does having $5 mean, anyway? But if you can express the price of something in terms of what else could be purchased with the money, this helps them get an idea of both the value of money and the concept of opportunity cost. So while shopping, help your child develop good decision-making skills by saying, “I know you want that car. It costs $5. Let’s think about what else you could do with $5.” Once you have some ideas, ask your child what his/her second choice is from the list. Then ask if the car is worth giving up the chance to do or buy the second choice. It is important to note that on that list could be (with some help from you) the option to save the money in order to buy something of higher value in the future.

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Reading. Any children’s book is rich with opportunities to teach economic and financial literacy, particularly opportunity cost. If one of the characters makes a choice—that’s a chance to talk about opportunity cost. Peter Collington’s Clever Cat, Alexander Who Used to be Rich Last Sunday by Judith Vorst and Tops and Bottoms by Janet Stevens are all great books that illustrate opportunity cost.

Teaching our children to make good decisions begins with understanding opportunity cost, not as a vocabulary term, but as a concept to be lived every day.

When your child chooses what to wear, what to eat, one activity over another—these are all opportunities for you to say, “If you choose X, that means you don’t get to do Y. Is that what you want?” Your goal should be to incorporate opportunity cost into your child’s lives so that it becomes a natural part of their thinking—and yours.

Articulate the options you face in your life and identify the opportunity cost.

Modeling good decision-making is the best way to teach it to your children.

[ what’s new at school ]

commentary and parenting

What’s New at School Ready for high school, sooner Dawn Grady, Manager, Marketing and Communications, CPS Cincinnati Public Schools is changing the structure of its high schools to better prepare students for success under new, more rigorous Common Core Academic Standards in English/Language Arts and Mathematics that were introduced this year.

Beginning in the 2013-14 school year, all CPS high schools will serve grades 7-12, moving away from the 9-12 grade structure in place since the late 1970s. In addition to stronger performance under more rigorous standards, the structure allows students to earn high school credits earlier, and gain access to more extracurricular and co-curricular opportunities. Seventh and 8th graders also will be taught by teachers who are content specialists and can help students to not only master content but also understand its relevance in the real world.

The district started the process this year with Western Hills University High School, which now serves grades 7-12. Other current 7-12 high schools include Clark Montessori, Dater, Gamble Montessori, Hughes STEM, Shroder and Walnut Hills. All remaining high schools – Aiken, Taft Information Technology, Withrow University and Woodward Career Technical – will begin the new structure next year.

Schools serving grades K-12 or PreK-12 are not impacted. The Academy of Multilingual Immersion Studies, the Academy of World Languages, Hartwell School and Roberts Paideia Academy will remain K-8 schools so students can continue to benefit from the specialized language-assistance programs offered. Roselawn Condon School will remain K-8 because of its high population of students with special needs, and Sayler Park School will remain K-8 because of its location.

Any student living in the Cincinnati Public School District who will be in, at least, the 7th grade by August 2013 is welcome to apply to attend any CPS high school. The online application process begins February 11, 2013.

For more information, please visit CPS’ website: www.cps-k12.org.

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DIFFERENT STUDENTS, DIFFERENT NEEDS Finding the schooling option that best suits your child

Nancy Edwards

The right academic fit for a child can make all the difference in how he or she feels about learning. Those students who may have struggled in a traditional public school setting may thrive in a different environment better suited to their individual needs. The Cincinnati area has a variety of schools that offer alternative educational choices – with a few of these options described here.

Independent school with a Montessori twist Cincinnati Waldorf School uses an interdisciplinary, hands-on approach to learning for students in kindergarten through eighth grade. The concept of a Waldorf education began in Stuttgart, Germany by Rudolf Steiner in 1919. The Waldorf School has become the largest independent, non-denominational educational movement, with over 800 schools in the nation.

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awakening of the senses in the young child. Teachers have the same students in their classrooms for several years to develop close and comfortable relationships.

“The emphasis is on intrinsic motivation rather than extrinsic,” says Administrative Team Leader Christine Masur. “Grades and test scores are not the emphasis.” The focus is on music, dance, theater, writing and literature as much as a child’s intellectual, emotional, spiritual and service-oriented growth.

Holli Stevenson, a parent of a seventh grader at Waldorf, has another child who attended

the school until he graduated in eighth grade. One of her children is “very logical and linear” and one is “incredibly creative” she says. “The Waldorf method is such that two children like this in the same classroom can be taught at the same time without compromising their unique qualities.”

Stevenson added that the Waldorf School has exposed her daughter to a variety of interests that she enjoys: from woodworking to music theory to Spanish classes.

Before her son attended Waldorf last year, Stevenson said he “was miserable, hated school and was counting down the years until he could drop out. In a single year, (teacher) Jodi Harris took him from a defiant, hostile boy who had given up, to a competent, mature man who is now talking about a double major in college when he graduates high school.”

Virtual learning Students in grades Kindergarten through 12 at Cincinnati Digital Academy may need more of an individualized approach to learning and work at their own pace at home for a variety of reasons. Some students require flexibility due to working or raising children. Others may be home-schooled, bullied at traditional schools and looking for another option, or become easily distracted in a classroom environment.

The Cincinnati Digital Academy offers a free, high-quality desktop computer with Internet access and technical support, easy access to transcripts and an opportunity to take the ACT college entrance test for free. As well, students may meet their teachers, take extracurricular activities at their neighborhood school, and partake in field trips, special events and other enrichment opportunities.

The tuition-free school offers 24-hour access to the curriculum. For more information, go to digitalacademy.cps-k12.org or call 513.363.2093.

College prep schools Prior to the early 20th century, families who wanted their children to have the best college preparatory experience possible sent them to eastern boarding schools. The Country Day School movement sought to recreate the educational rigor, atmosphere, camaraderie and character-building aspects of the best college prep schools while allowing students to return to their families at the end of the day.

In 1926, Cincinnati Country Day School was established to provide students with superior preparation for success in college and in life. Today, there are 833 students attending – from ages 18 months to 18 years.

“We inspire a passion for learning and independent thinking through a steadfast commitment to academic excellence, personal integrity and service to others,” says Director of Admissions Aaron Kellenberger. “We encourage discovery that makes students grounded and well-rounded.”

Kellenberger adds that a demanding curriculum that promotes growth and success is best for students who are highly motivated, exemplify a positive attitude toward scholarship, and value hard work, honesty, loyalty, sportsmanship, persistence and respect for others. “We create a community that instills a strong sense of self.”

Right fit + right student = success Children don’t come with cookie cutter personalities and abilities—which means their education should ideally be suited to their unique needs. Different learning styles, special circumstances and individual preferences all play a role in determining which educational option is the right one for your student. With the best match between student and school, parents can provide their child with a springboard of success for their future.

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CAMP: Positive Solutions for Today’s Challenges

Helping kids connect to each other and the natural world

Peg L. Smith, CEO, American Camp Association

As I write this, recent world events and tragedies — some even right in our own

have fewer and fewer opportunities to be outdoors, the camp experience

communities — weigh heavily on my heart and mind. It seems achingly clear to

advances the outdoor learning environment. As we become more concerned

me that our children today need strong, positive connections with others as well

about saving the planet, we run out and make DVDs and videos about it. But the

as nature. Inherently, camp experiences have the power to provide these things to

environment needs to be experienced to be appreciated. Kids need to catch

children — to transform their lives, ways of thinking and sense of self for the

tadpoles in the creek, wander among the trees and feel the sun on their faces to

better. These lessons make me believe that our children and youth need camp

understand the importance of those things. What happens to a generation that

experiences now more than ever.

may grow up not seeing stars in the dark of the night?

Camp promotes community. Camp creates this great space that shows kids how to live together and care for one another. There are norms and negotiation of boundaries; there are rules. Kids are able to create positive human connections.

Camp is a place where kids can "practice" growing up and stretching their social, emotional, physical and cognitive muscles outside the context of their immediate family. This is what childhood is supposed to provide.

A quality camp experience provides children the opportunity to learn powerful lessons in community, character-building, skill development and healthy living — it is a meaningful, engaged and participatory environment. The camp experience translates back in real-world experience an "I can" attitude — which is something this generation of children and youth must have as they create positive solutions to today’s challenges.

Camp teaches critical thinking. We need to remember how important it is to be actively involved in the learning process, and camp affords that. We're going to need

With nearly three decades of experience as a change agent in youth development

really strong problem solvers in the next century. We need the science, math, and

and transformation, Peg L. Smith is the chief executive officer of the American

biology, but without the ability to relate, connect, empathize, or inspire innovation,

Camp Association® (ACA). ACA is the champion of better tomorrows —

how will our kids be able to make a difference in the challenges now facing us?

providing resources, research, and support for developmentally appropriate camp experiences. Learn more at www.CampParents.org or www.ACAcamps.

The camp experience embraces the natural environment. While children

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RESIDENTIAL CAMPS Camp Carson YMCA 2034 Outer Lake Road, Princeton, IN 47670, Contact: Mark Scoular, Phone: 812-385-3597, Email: campinfo@ymca.evansville.net

www.campcarson.org Gender of Campers: Coed Hours: 1pm Sunday - 7pm Friday Dates: Weekly through June and July Ages/Grades: 7-16 years Cost: traditional week ranges $499-$599 (range of all programs from $270 - $1000) Only 3.5 hours from Cincinnati. Join campers and staff from over 25 different states and 7 countries at southern Indiana’s premier summer resident camp.

YMCA Camp Carson has it all! Truly “An Experience that lasts a Lifetime!” Activities include horseback, motorized dirt-bikes, archery, canoeing, sailing, swimming, kayaking, archery, marksmanship, climbing, pottery, woodworking, fishing, crafts, soccer, basketball, mountain bikes and mountain-boards “The Blob”, water zip-lines, Tom Sawyer Swing and more!

CYO Camp Rancho Framasa 2230 N. Clay Lick Road, Nashville, IN 47448, Contact: Kevin Sullivan, Phone: 8129882839 X 24, Email: info@campranchoframsa.org

www.campranchoframasa.org Basic Category: Teen Tours/Travel, Traditional Specific Categories: Traditional, Inclusive, Trip and Teen programs offered Special Needs Camps Offered: Inclusive camp program, children of all abilities Hours: Office open from 8 AM - 5 PM Dates: June 9 - August 2, 2013 Ages/Grades: Ages 5 - 19 Cost: $145 - $445 Activities Included: Traditional recreational camp activities ACA accredited. Operated by the Catholic Youth Organization. A United Way agency. Established in 1946. Three day and 6 day overnight sessions available. Eight total weeks of residential camp in Nashville, IN and 2 one week sessions of day camp in Indianapolis.

Falcon Camp 4251 Delta Rd SW, Carrollton, OH 44615, Contact: Dave Devey, Phone: 800/837-CAMP, Email: info@ FalconCamp.com

www.falconcamp.com Gender of Campers: Coed Dates: 2,4,6,8 week sessions available from June 23 – August 17 Ages/Grades: Ages 6 - 16 Cost: $2190 to varies with length of session Requirements of Campers: Willing to have fun and try new things!

Activities Included: Sailing, horseback riding, riflery, archery, tennis, crafts, drama, woodslore, canoeing, swimming, basketball, softball, sports, overnight camping, dances, creative arts, video, mountain biking and much more!

Ohio’s premier summer camp since 1959. Boys and girls enjoy wide variety of activities with outstanding staff. “Fun for Now, Skills for Life” is motto and environment created at Falcon. Located on beautiful 8 mile Leesville Lake in hundreds of acres of woods, great food, great fun, lifetime of memories.

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Falcon Young Adventure Camp 4251 Delta Rd SW, Carrollton, OH 44615, Contact: Dave Devey Director/Owner, Phone: 800/837-CAMP, Email: info@FalconCamp.com

www.falconcamp.com Gender of Campers: Coed Dates: August 4 – 10 and August 11 – 17 Ages/Grades: ages 6 - 9 Cost: $1010/wk Requirements of Campers: Designed for first time sleep away camp experience.

Activities Included: Program same as Falcon Traditional Camp; includes horseback riding, swimming, canoeing, archery, air rifles, crafts, sports, rocketry, fishing, nature study, sailing and much more.

A unique and exciting introduction to overnight camping for boys and girls ages 6 -9. These oneweek programs are designed with care to guide the campers in being successful with their first great “Young Adventure” away from home. 1:2 staff/ camper ratio provides individual attention, instruction and parental oversight.

YMCA Camp Ernst of Cincinnati 7615 Camp Ernst Rd, Burlington, KY 41005, Contact: Eli Cochran Program Director, Phone: 859-586-6181, Fax: 859-586-6214, Email: ce@myYcamp.org

www.myYcamp.org Gender of Campers: Coed Dates: One week sessions June 9-Aug 4; Also offer 24 hour overnights as well as a Half-Week session Ages/Grades: Ages 6-15 Cost: $505-690 Requirements of Campers: Registration is required.

A co-ed residential summer camp, YMCA Camp Ernst is your child’s ultimate summer destination!

Steeped in tradition and built on positive values, YMCA Camp Ernst hosts campers, ages 6-15, who enjoy top-notch counselors and make friends doing a wide variety of activities including a 100-foot water slide, zipline, the BLOB, archery, horseback riding, giant swing, and a banana boat. While participating in our 24 daily activities, your child will also develop in spirit, mind, and body. Come see why people are calling us “The Best Camp On Earth”!

DAY CAMPS Academy Kung Fu Tai Chi 4927 Glenway Avenue, Cincinnati, OH 45238, Phone: 513-481-4406, Email: academyofkungfutaichi@gmail.com

whkungfu.com Gender of Campers: Coed Basic Category: Sports Hours: 9:00 AM to 11:00 Am or 12:00 AM Dates: June 3-7 June 10-14 June 17- 21 June 24-28, July 1-5, (closed the 4th) july 8-12, July 15-19 Ages/Grades: 3-6 years 7-12 years old Cost: $142 weekly $150 weekly discounts for taking all sessions Requirements of Campers: No previous martial arts experience needed 22 CINCINNATIPARENT.COM

Activities Included: Bully prevention, Listening skills, building self-confidence, motor skill, building leadership skills, positive motivation martial arts skills Real Kung fu techniques. Tien Shan Pai & Northern Shaolin Kung fu taught by certified Kung Fu instructors. Building life skills, only school in Cincinnati that is member of United State Kuo Shu (Kung Fu) Federation. 2 World Certified Judges,11 members made the United States Kung Fu Team 2000-2009. It’s something you always wanted to do.

Camp Invention

Various Locations in Cincinnati and Surrounding Areas, Contact: Michele Millikan, Phone: 800-9684332, Email: campinvention@att.net

www.campinvention.org Gender of Campers: Coed Specific Categories: Science Enrichment Hours: 9:00am to 3:30pm; Times May Vary – Based on Location Dates: See web site for details.

Ages/Grades: Entering Grades 1-6 Cost: $180 to $220 Camp Invention inspires CREATIVITY and INVENTIVE thinking during a weeklong summer adventure of FUN and EXCITING real-world challenges led by qualified educators! Discounts are available to new and returning children.

Locations nationwide. Visit www.campinvention.org or call 1-800-968-4332 for a location near you.

Cincinnati Parks Summer Nature Day Camps Day Camps are located at Ault Park, Burnet Woods, French Park, S, Cincinnati, OH 45216, Contact: Erin Morris, Phone: 513-321-6208 ext 11, Email: erin. morris@cincinnati-oh.gov

www.cincinnatiparks.com Gender of Campers: Coed Ages/Grades: ages 3 to 14 Cost: Fees range from $35 - $75 per camp and discounts are available for multiple camp registrations.

Activities Included: Beyond our themed camps with special activities, all camps include trail hikes, arts and crafts, outdoor games, interactions with live animals, and many more fun, hands-on activities!

Our summer camps were voted “Best of the City” in 2012 by you and Cincinnati Magazine for the best value in educational, fun-filled outdoor activities… and economical too! Hikes, crafts and games are part of the daily schedule. The most popular “NatureCamps in the Parks” Camp serves ages 5-12 every week and their preschool siblings can attend Discovery Mornings at the same park during the same week! Also Astronomy, Nature Art and Theater and Outdoor Skills camps. Camp activities are new for your child each year! Online registration is available in late February.

D1 Sports Training & Therapy 510 E-Business Way, Cincinnati, Oh 45241, Contact: Natalie Ewers, Phone: 513-530-3000, Email: natalie. ewers@d1sportstraining.com

d1sportstraining.com Gender of Campers: Coed Basic Category: Sports Hours: 12 pm-3pm

Dates: April 3-5 Ages/Grades: Ages 6-12 Cost: $200 Requirements of Campers: Must have a positive attitude and determination Activities Included: Training, Games, Kick Ball, Trash Can Football, etc.

This camp will include hands on instruction on fitness and strength training from D1 coaches and competitive events. Awards presented to Challenge winners.

Painting with a Twist 6196 Tylersville Road, Mason, OH 45040,, Phone: 513-229-7700, Email: mason@paintingwithatwist.com

www.paintingwithatwist.com Basic Category: Arts Ages/Grades: 8-14 years old Cost: $25-$35 per student; All supplies to paint and instruction included in fee We have a special selection of art for our younger artists at Painting with a Twist! Our young Picasso’s will work on a full sized 16x20 canvas and create a masterpiece they can be proud of! Our camp is taught by a professional artist that will lead them step by step through a 1.5 or 2 hour painting (difference is the degree of detail and difficulty)!

Please check our website for more details about our camp, and the calendar for Spring Break and Summertime Camp classes.

Springer School and Center 2121 Madison Rd., Cincinnati, OH 45208, Phone: 871-6080 ext. 402

www.springer-ld.org Gender of Campers: Coed Dates: June 17-July 12, 2013 Ages/Grades: Ages: 1st – 8th grade “Adventures in Summer Learning” is designed for students of at least average potential who are not making expected progress. The morning program helps children become confident in the basic skills through small group instruction. The afternoon program consists of specialized courses in math, writing, social skills, and creative expression.

YMCA of Greater Cincinnati Summer Day Camps 2013 12 locations throughout the Greater Cincinnati and Northern Kentucky, Phone: 513-362-YMCA Gender of Campers: Coed Specific Categories: Themed Day Camps, Pre-school Camps, Teen Camps, Counselor-in-Training programs, Specialty Camps, Sports Camps Ages/Grades: Ages 3-15 Date/ Cost: Dates vary depending on each camp.

Pricing Information is available on our website.

www.MyY.org At the YMCA, we make learning fun while giving youth the opportunity to engage in creative problem solving and team building. This summer, in addition to all the fun traditional and creative camp activities, all sites will also include time for summer programs integrating the arts with math and language standards.

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ONCE UPON

[ ADVERTORIAL: The Mayerson Foundation ]

A Purim

A family-friendly way to celebrate a popular Jewish holiday

It will be an engaging afternoon of “Happily Ever After” for young families in the Jewish community when Shalom Family and the Mayerson JCC present, Once Upon a Purim, on Sunday, February 24th from 3-5pm at the Mayerson JCC, featuring a live stage production of the classic tale, Rumpelstiltskin, presented by ArtReach, a division of The Children’s Theatre of Cincinnati. Then, in traditional fairytale fashion, something magical will happen… …Before you can say “bibbidi, bobbidi, boo” an entire Purim carnival will materialize out of nowhere -- featuring lots of fun games and prizes galore, plus bounce houses, face painters, balloon sculptures, a free family storybook photo session, including a portrait to take home, storytelling with the PJ Library, and of course, fruit- and chocolate-filled hamentaschen for all guests, to insure a very sweet and happy ending to a perfect day!

For the fifth year in a row Shalom Family, an initiative of The Mayerson Foundation, has partnered with the Mayerson JCC to put on a community-wide Purim party with all the trimmings! “Hundreds of families are expected to attend this annual event which has become one of our most popular programs of the year,” says Julie Robenson, Shalom Family’s Event Coordinator. “While the theme is different every time, guests can count on the same level of fun for everyone, which always includes lots of hands on activities for the kids, plus plenty of opportunities for parents to visit with one another in a great, family-friendly atmosphere.”

"This event offers a great way for young families, especially those who aren’t affiliated with a congregation, to take part in some type of communal Purim festivity,” says Rabbi Shena Potter Jaffee, Director of Jewish Life at the Mayerson JCC. “It's so much fun to see kids - and people of all ages - dressed in costumes and celebrating together. It's really an event not to be missed."

Children are encouraged to dress up as their favorite Purim character or in any costume of their choice. As a special treat before the main performance, the JCCilly Players will warm up the audience with a whimsical re-enactment of the story of Purim in their own fun and silly fairytale style.

Once Upon a Purim is free with advance reservations by February 22nd and is open to young families with children, ages 12 and under, in which at least one parent is Jewish.

Siblings and grandparents are always welcome. The event includes the live stage performances, unlimited carnival tickets, a free family portrait, snacks and more.

The event is being held in celebration of the holiday of Purim, considered one of the most festive Jewish holidays of the year. It recounts an event that took place more than 2,000 years ago in Shushan, Persia when a beautiful heroine named Esther, became queen and was able to save her people from a plot by the evil Haman to destroy the Jewish people.

To RSVP, or to learn more about Shalom Family and all the programs it offers throughout the year, go to www.myshalomfamily.org. For more details on the Mayerson JCC and the many programs it offers for children and families, go to www.JointheJ.org.

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Fairytales and Fantasy are in store for young families in the Jewish community.

LAST on the LIST Where do YOU rank on your list of priorities?

Susan Bryant

Juggling the demands of work and family life can leave the average parent feeling weary and frazzled. With so many responsibilities vying for your attention, finding time for yourself can seem an impossible task.

Although “downtime” may seem like a luxury you can’t afford, this investment in yourself is essential to replenish the reserves you need to fulfill your obligations to everyone else. How can you know when your commitments to others should take a back seat in order to redirect the focus back on you? Take our quiz to find out.

I can’t remember what I used to do for fun.

YES

NO

I make sure my kids have “enriching” activities, but have nothing similar in place for myself.

YES

NO

I’ve lost a sense of who I am outside of my relationships to family or work.

YES

NO

If I have unexpected free time, I fill it with more tasks to complete.

YES

NO

I feel guilty spending any time or money on myself.

YES

NO

If I’m not accomplishing some sort of task, I think I’ve wasted my time.

YES

NO

I can’t remember what it feels like to be completely rested, calm and reenergized.

YES

NO

I feel like I’m on a treadmill of kid/work/family activities that never stops.

YES

YES

NO

It’s hard for me to feel gratitude or joy for my life because I’m so exhausted most of the time.

YES

NO

NO

I am perpetually run-down and seem susceptible to illnesses.

YES

Sometimes I resent my spouse, children or employer because their needs always seem to come first.

NO

Each “YES” response is a red flag that making time for yourself should probably be a bigger priority in your life. Try a radical move and put your interests at the top of your “to do” list – or better yet, pitch the “to do” list entirely for little awhile. Spend some time thinking about what you need to recharge your battery – from connecting with friends who make you laugh to a quiet cup of tea by yourself. You may be surprised how fulfilling your own needs will benefit those around you as well.

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Post-Baby Body

blues Reclaiming your former physique Holly Kline

Any mom who is guilty of still wearing maternity clothes when her “baby” is already walking and talking knows how hard it is to lose that last baby weight. Squeezing in time for a workout and planning healthy meals can become low priorities when the needs of your family, work and other obligations demand your attention. Take heart however—with baby steps in the right direction, you can lose that baby body.

THE HARD TRUTH Although celebrities seem to leave the hospital with their bikini bodies immediately, the fact is even after your uterus begins to shrink, you may still look somewhat pregnant after giving birth for several weeks or longer. This “fun fact” from babycenter.com is not the only tough news to know. Other common complaints new moms have include incontinence, swollen feet, hemorrhoids, hair loss, back and hip pain and a belly “paunch”. (It’s a good thing babies can redeem themselves by being so cute.)

Find exercise any way you can When choosing a physical activity, it’s important to find something you like to do says Susan Leytze, Senior Program Director and ACE Certified Trainer for the YMCA of Greater Cincinnati. “Walking and swimming are great starting points.

Gradually add alternate modes of aerobic activity like cross trainers, bikes and group classes.”

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“

Any routine that is low to

moderate and gradually increases

the food you eat throughout the day and it will keep a running total of actual calories against the goal. You will quickly be able to see how to eat lowercalorie foods in order to stay within your limit.

in intensity, and combines strength

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training will give you results. New moms can also increase their odds by napping more.

Appreciate your amazing body Although it may take some time to regain your former physique, it’s important to remember what your body was able to accomplish. Leytze reminds us that the number on the scale is not the most important thing, but how happy and healthy you are. “You have a beautiful magnificent body that gave you the

If you are interested in a gym, find one that includes childcare. Consider

best gift ever!”

paying extra for a personal trainer; he or she can teach you how to use the equipment properly and design a custom workout so you get the most out of your time there.

It’s still possible to work in fitness throughout the day at home or work. “I’m not a gym person,” says Keely M., mom to two babies. “I walk with both kiddos in a stroller and the dog when it’s nice outside. We go to the pool whenever possible. I walk in a lot of airports for work. We also play chase in the house and have dance parties.”

Realistic expectations “It took nine months to gain weight,” says Leytze, “and it can take the same amount of time to get the weight off. Any routine that is low to moderate and gradually increases in intensity, and combines strength training will give you results. New moms can also increase their odds by napping more. The more rested Mom is, the less cravings of high calorie, high sugar foods she will have.”

The skinny on eating “Nutrition is huge,” says Christy O’Connor, registered and licensed dietician and founder of Personal Newtrition in Cincinnati. “Your diet has to be a good 75-85% of the time while being cautious about portion size.”

It’s all about preparation. “Chop vegetables and put them in baggies as soon as you get home from the store,” advises O’Connor. “Pre-bag almonds according to serving size and keep apples in the car. If people truly want to lose weight, they have to have a plan.”

Be smart about the smartphone Use technology to your advantage and find an app designed to help you get fit like “Lose It!” This free app enables users to track daily calories and exercise. “Lose It!” can walk you through designing a daily calorie goal. Enter FEBRUARY 2013

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Infant Childcare OPTIONS Returning to work with your baby in good hands 28 CINCINNATIPARENT.COM

Holly Kline

As a new mother, or expectant mom, the safety and security of your infant is your utmost priority. With newborns so vulnerable, leaving them in the care of another person when you must go back to work can be an enormous source of concern. How can you find a childcare situation that allows you to return to your job knowing your baby is getting the same loving attention you would provide?

www.workingmomsagainstguilt.com. “I really wanted to get it all in place before I delivered but that didn’t happen,” she says. “I visited places, but nothing felt right or they didn’t have openings. So, right at the last minute, I slid in there and found a place.”

If you’re considering a commercial daycare center, the National Association for the Education of Young Children (NAEYC) conducts a rigorous accreditation program. To find local NAEYC accredited centers, visit www.naeyc.org.

The infant room Choosing a professional caregiver For those parents who do not have the option of a family member taking care of their infant, daycares and nannies are often the path they choose.

“We started searching (for a daycare) when I was maybe five or six months pregnant with our first. Safety was our biggest concern,” says one local mom.

“We chose our center by calling four to six places and visiting three. We loved the center that we chose. When we found out about the pregnancy of our second, we immediately reserved her spot at the same center.”

For others, the process can be a little more difficult. “I did not find a daycare until about three weeks before I was scheduled to go back to work,” says Tela Durbin, advertising professional in Cincinnati and contributor to

When visiting daycare centers, pay particular attention to the ratio of caregivers to infants. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, babies from birth to age one should be cared for with a ratio of three babies to one caregiver, with a maximum of six total babies.

Expect to bring diapers and wipes—most places will provide bottles but parents bring the formula or pumped milk. As your baby becomes older and begins eating solid food, daycare centers typically provide the meals and snacks.

Home daycares Private, licensed daycares that are located in a caregiver’s home can also be an option. Many parents choose this situation because of the “family feel” it provides.

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A quality home daycare will have: • A good reputation

• A qualified, committed caregiver

• Established ground rules

• Clean, safe facilities

• A stimulating curriculum

• A current license

(source: babycenter.com)

Of course, your gut reaction to a particular home daycare is also very important.

Your parental radar should be up for anything that seems “off” to you.

Considering a nanny If a daycare center is not ideal, an in-home nanny may be the best option. The obvious benefit to hiring a nanny is that babies stay home. Non-traditional working hours can often be accommodated which may be an attractive advantage to parents.

Susan Cornish, President of Greater Cincinnati College Nannies + Tutors, says, “Our families value education. We provide good role models for their children.”

Like other agencies, College Nannies + Tutors legally employ their nannies and the company is responsible for the employee’s payroll and benefits. Typically nannies will work full-time or part-time and even when parents are home if requested.

“

According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, babies from birth to age one should be cared for with a ratio of three babies to one caregiver, with a maximum of six total babies.

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Why didn’t we think of that?

“The best thing I did with my babies was to send them to daycare the week before I went back to work,” says one mom. “It gave me time for trial runs without the worry of being late.”

Once a family has secured a safe and loving childcare situation, there may be a surprising benefit: off-hours babysitting. Who better to watch your baby than the same person who cares for him or her during regular hours? For example, College Nannies + Tutors offers an on-call service which can be used for date nights or even a baby who is too sick for daycare, but not seriously ill.

Back in the groove After a thorough search for the right childcare option for your situation, you can feel relaxed and confident about going back to work knowing that your infant is well-cared for. With a loving caregiver in place, your baby will enjoy his day – so you can too.

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Keeping the Romance Alive…

WITH KIDS More sizzle, less fizzle Sarah McCosham

Valentine’s Day is just around the corner, and if you’re like many parents, you’ll be hiring a sitter and going out on a special date. Sounds great, but what about the other 364 days of the year?

Don’t blame yourself if you’ve cancelled a date night or two as a result of being “too tired” or “too busy”.

Romance takes effort and energy – two things often

husband plan random day dates. “We take off work,

what feed a relationship. She suggests making a

in short supply for busy parents. However, it’s crucial

drop off our son and spend some time with just the

“connection list” of simple things you’d like your

that you take time to nurture your romantic

two of us—I don’t think it needs to be dinner and

partner to do.

relationship, both for your sake and your kids’. Below

movie out to take time for your relationship,” she says.

“Your list should have the things you desire from

are some simple tips on how to keep the spark alive.

Once you’ve had kids, planning is crucial when it comes to having time with your partner, says marriage

Make Time for Romance

and family therapist TeNnile Ray. “Carving out time to

Every parent knows it’s important to go on regular

be a couple is essential to the health of a relationship.

dates, but by the time the weekend comes, it’s easy

Regular time away from your children gives you the

to blow off a night out in favor of sleep! Here’s where

opportunity to connect,” she says.

it helps to think outside the box.

For Oakley mom Maureen and her husband, weekends have become “family” time with their 17 month-old son, so they’ve gotten creative during the week. “We do more lunch dates, since we’re already

your partner. It might include a loving glance in the midst of a tantrum, a squeeze in just the right spot, taking over a chore for the other person or marking hellos and goodbyes with a kiss and/or a hug prior to greeting your child.”

Happier Parents, Happier Kids Ray emphasizes that couples don’t have to plan extravagant date nights; just taking time out together is enough.

By taking time for your relationship, you’ll be a happier spouse and parent, says Ray. “Daily intimate connection makes co-parenting possible. When you feel like you are in it together, it makes everything more tolerable.” So, as you’re scheduling the

at work,” she explains. In addition, since their son is

Everyday Gestures

upcoming week, pencil in some time for your spouse

enrolled in childcare, Maureen says she and her

In fact, Ray says that the little, everyday gestures are

– you and your kids will be glad you did!

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commentary and parenting

[ dear teacher ]

Dear Teacher Reading expectations, “troublemakers” and organizational skills Marge Eberts & Peggy Gisler

Expected Reading Accomplishments from Pre-primer to 11th Grade

Q:

How do I know if my young children in kindergarten and third grade are reading on grade level? Also, can you give me a list of books for these grades? — Want to Know

A:

Report cards and teacher conferences should already have told you about your children's reading level in both grades. If not, ask their teachers for this information. Be aware that reading on grade level can mean different accomplishments at different schools. Plus, you should expect bright children to be reading one or more years above their grade level.

As far as his records go, you will not be able to take out any information that teachers have put into them. However, you can look at the records and put in information expressing your take on his behavior for the middle school teachers to see.

Realistically it is past time for your son to change his image. When you meet with his teacher, ask what can be done right now to help your son eliminate the troublemaker label. Suggest that a behavior modification plan be developed immediately so some improvement in his behavior can begin to take place at once.

Helping a Child Who Is a “Disorganized Mess” On our website, www.dearteacher.com, you will find the San Diego Quick Assessment that will let you quickly gauge your children’s reading ability. It is the first item under “Checklists.” All you have to do is have your children read lists of words. This is a first-step screening procedure. However, research has confirmed that it is a fairly accurate estimate of children’s ability to read. Not only will it tell you the grade level where your child is actually reading. It will also tell you the grade levels where they can read independently and those where they will struggle.

The best way to get a list of suggested books for your children to read is to request one from your child's teacher or the school librarian. It also can be helpful to ask friends about books their children are enjoying.

Child Is Labeled a Trouble Maker

Q:

Since third grade my child has been labeled as a trouble maker.

He is currently in fifth grade and everything he does no matter what he gets a detention. We have a meeting scheduled with his teacher because I have heard that this information is being sent over to his middle school – labeling him even before he arrives? — Concerned

A:

You have been hearing about your son’s behavior for several years now. Why did he start acting this way in third grade? What happened in third grade to make the year different from first and second grade before he had a label? And the big question: Why hasn’t something been done to change his behavior by you or the school?

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Q:

My daughter is in the second grade, and the teacher says that she is a disorganized mess in class. The child often can't find missing books and is not willing to look for them.

— Needs Organization

A:

Organization is a skill that young children usually learn at home. Is she organized at home? We are guessing the answer is "no."

Getting your child to be more organized needs to be a two-pronged attack by you and the teacher.

Let's first focus on the classroom and the missing book situation. If the child does not have a desk to keep her things in, books not being used always must be placed in a basket or cubby. At the start of the day, all books are to be taken from her backpack and stored appropriately. Your daughter needs to have a chart that she can check when this is done. She must also check the chart that a book has been put away when another is opened. The teacher should check the chart frequently and insist on this organization before other activities can be started. The chart can be taped to the top of the child’s desk or table where she sits.

At home, choose just one aspect of your daughter's life that ties in with school – possibly getting her backpack organized before 8 o'clock each evening. You can use an alarm clock to remind her about this. You also will need to supervise this activity for some time.

Parents should send questions and comments to dearteacher@dearteacher. com or ask them on the columnists’ website at www.dearteacher.com.

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education + childcare GUIDE Child Care & Preschool Armstrong Chapel United Methodist Church Preschool Language and Literacy, Math and Science, Art and Dramatic Play, Bible Time, Outdoor or Gross Motor Play, Lunch Bunch option available from noon-1:00. Armstrong Chapel United Methodist Church is opening a Christian based preschool that combines a strong academic curriculum with Christian values. Visit our website or call for a tour! One, two and three day classes available 9:00 am to noon. 5125 Drake Road, Cincinnati, OH 45243, Contact: Jennifer Hock, Director, Phone: 513-561-4220, Email: jhock@armstrongchapel.org, www. armstrongpreschool.org, Ages: 2 1/2 - 4 year olds

Chai Tots Early Childhood Center Academic excellence via unique blend of Montessori method and traditional Jewish education. Chai Tots teaches children the culture and traditions of Judaism, while developing their creativity skills and promoting independence. Flexible schedule. Before and Aftercare.

7587 Central Parke Blvd., Mason, OH 45040, (513)234-0600, www.chaitots.com, Grades: 6 weeks - 6 years, Enrollment: 40

The Compass School Ages 6 weeks-6 years plus after school & summer camp up to age 12. Offering outstanding Reggio-Inspired full and part-time Infant, Toddler, Two’s, and Preschool programs, as well as Kindergarten, After School, and Summer Camp for school-age children. Degreed teachers, extensive parent communication, and welcoming family environment. Setting the standard in early care and education. Call today for your personal tour. 9370 Waterstone Blvd., Cincinnati, OH 45249, Contact: Laura Carr, Phone: 513-683-8833, Email: CompassLC@yahoo.com, www.TheCompassSchool.com

First Step Co-Operative Preschool Through cooperative curriculum planning and direct participation in classroom activities, parents help to customize and tailor the program to the needs and interests of their children. By playing an active role in your child’s early development and preschool education, we prepare our children for kindergarten and beyond. 4309 Cooper Road, Blue Ash, OH 45242, Contact: Jill Staggs Co-Director, Phone: (513) 400-3727, Email: fscops71@gmail. com, www.firststeppreschool.org, Grades: We have 2 different classes. The Early Childhood Development Cless (ECD) is for children ages 1-3. The Pre-Kindergarten class is for children ages 3-5. Enrollment: You can enroll at any time during the school year (September-May) Tuition is $60/year for each child, or $30/semester. Classes meet Tuesdays and Wednesdays from 9-11:30 a.m.

Hyde Park Community United Methodist Church Preschool HPCUMC Preschool is proud to be a Step up to Quality Preschool. At HPCUMC Preschool, we focus on learning through play. Our activities are developmentally appropriate for children ages 2 1/2 to 5 years of age. Your child will be encouraged to try new tasks, use their imagination, make friends, follow directions, focus their energy and develop a love of learning. Our goal is to prepare children for school, while instilling in them a sense of dignity and self-worth as individuals. Registration happening now. Questions please call Jo Louis at 513-979-8191 or email to jlouis@hpcumc.org 1345 Grace Avenue, Cincinnati, OH 45208, Contact: Jo Louis, Phone: 513-979-8191, Fax: 513-871-1180, Email: jlouis@hpcumc.org, hydeparkpreschool.org, Grades: 30 months to 5 years of age

Kinder Garden School Together with interaction of child, staff & family, we develop the complete child. We provide formative encouragement and knowledge with hands-on staff taking a personal interest in family and holistic education decisions for the child.

Devoted to growing a child’s wish to flourish and learn by cultivating curiosity and problem-solving proficiency.

Enlightenment Is Our Mission. Blue Ash& West Chester locations. BA: 513-791-4300, WC: 513-874-3100, www.kindergardenschool.com, Grades: 6 weeks – K

Creative Tots Preschool Creative Tots has specialized in the private education of Toddler, Preschool and Pre-K children for 20 years. Our research-based curriculum provides age-appropriate, high-quality academics designed to exceed Ohio Academic Content Standards; which assures accountability for educational objectives in Ohio. Our modernized curriculum is rich in opportunities to use creativity, solve problems, use language, develop new vocabulary and reading skills, while engaging in intellectual activities. For more information please contact the director and owner, Emilie Parry. Phone: 513-770-6776. www.creativetotsmason.com. Programs: Toddler 18 months - 3 years; Early 3’s 2 1/2 -3 years; Preschool 3 - 4 years; Pre-K 4-5 years. Enrichment Programs: Spanish, Music, Art, Yoga and Science. M-F 9-11:30 or 12-2:30.

Little Bud Preschool Little Bud is a star rated program with highly qualified teachers and aides. Watch your child bloom in our spacious classrooms and wonderful facility. We believe that children need to explore, investigate, manipulate to learn their world. Choose from 2, 3, or 4 day AM sessions with affordable rates. Located in the Northgate area. 3301 Compton Road, Cincinnati, OH 45251, Contact: Teresa Sedam, Phone: 513-385-8404, Email: tsedam@christ-lcms. org, www.christ-lcms.org, Grades: Ages 3 - PreK, Enrollment: Enroll your child today for Fall. Our 3’s class is Monday/Wednesday or Tuesday/Thursday. Our 4’s class is Mon/Wed/Friday or Tues./Thurs. Our PreK class is Mon.Thursday or Mon/Wed./ Thurs.

Pleasant Preparatory Preschool PPP offers a learning environment rich in educational activities that balance academic readiness with imagination, play and free exploration. We encourage our parents to be actively involved in their child’s early childhood education. We offer half day programs for ages 2.5 through PreK, and will work with you and your child through the potty training process if necessary. Classes have low student teacher ratios which allow our highly experienced and degreed teachers to work with each student both individually and as part of a group. Contact us today for your personal tour. 3401 Hamilton Mason Rd, Hamilton, OH 45011. Contact: Brenda Roberts, Administrator.

Phone: 513-893-3222. Email: pleasantpreppreschool@gmail. com. www.pleasantpreppreschool.org

Pleasant Ridge Presbyterian Nursery School Professionally qualified teachers provide active, expressive, child-centered learning experiences at this 3-star award-winning program. Choose 2, 3, 4, or 5 day AM or PM sessions. Excellent ratios, degreed teachers and spacious, sunny, classrooms await your preschooler.

Parent and child classes also available for babies and toddlers. 5950 Montgomery Rd., Cincinnati, OH 45213, (513)631-0170, www.prpc.org, Grades: 2 1/2 - 5 years, Parent/Child classes birth to 32 months, Enrollment: 65

The Willow Tree House Daycare & Preschool The Willow Tree House is centrally located just 5 minutes from downtown and Good Sam Hospital. We are also within walking distance of U.C, and University Hospital.

Our teachers goal is to have happy children and instill a life long love of learning. 2651 Highland Avenue, Cincinnati, OH 45219. Contact: Jean Walker. Phone: 513-281-8733. Email: willowtreehouse@aol.com. thewillowtreehouse.com. Grades: Serving ages 6 wks–5 years in our Preschool Program

Montessori

Central Montessori Academy We invite you to call and schedule a tour to come see our new Natural Playground and Outdoor Learning Environment, as well as our redesigned Elementary classrooms! For parents of Toddlers and Preschoolers, be sure to ask about our new “Montessori My Way” flexible early childhood programs designed for today’s familyfriendly work schedules. 1904 Springdale Rd., Cincinnati, OH 45231, Contact: Laura Saylor, Phone: 513-742-5800, Email: info@centralmontessoriacademy.com, www. centralmontessoriacademy.com, Grades: Infancy-6th Grade, Enrollment: 110

Children’s Meeting House Montessori School An authentic Montessori school program resting on 6.5 acres. Extraordinary and rigorous hands-on learning inside and outside of the classrooms creating life long learners, critical thinkers and passionate leaders.

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927 O’Bannonville Road, Loveland, OH 45140, Contact: Meg Thomas, Head of School, Phone: 513-683-4757, Email: thomas@cmhschool, www.cmhschool.com, Grades: Preschool through Sixth grade, Enrollment: 150

Montessori Academy of Cincinnati Celebrating 25 years of offering Montessori education in the Greater Cincinnati area. Providing a supportive learning environment, the school focuses on individualized education, through which students are offered opportunities for self-paced acceleration.

Experienced, degreed teachers are committed to the success of each student. Self-motivation and an excitement about learning are encouraged. 7.5 acre campus! State Chartered. AMS affiliated. Extended care available. 8293 Duke Boulevard, Mason, OH, 45040, Contact: Pat Elder, Head of School, Phone Number: 513-398-7773, Fax Number: 513-398-1031, www. montacademy.org, Ages/Grades: 18 months through grade 8, Enrollment: 250

Non-Public Bethany School

Bethany School is an independent preparatory school where students experience an appreciation for many cultures. Laptop computers, on-line grading, a dynamic music program, rigorous curriculum, and a variety of extracurricular programs provide a truly extraordinary educational environment. 555 Albion Avenue, Cincinnati, OH 45246, Phone: (513)771-7462, www.bethanyschool. org, Grades: Grades: K – 8th grade, Enrollment: 250

Cincinnati Country Day School CCDS is an independent, co-educational school dedicated to educational excellence serving students 18 months through Grade 12. The School is nationally recognized for its innovative, integrated laptop computer program. Extended day and tuition assistance is available. 6905 Given Rd, Cincinnati, OH 45243, Phone: (513)979-0220, www.countryday.net, Grades: 18 months–12th grade, Enrollment: 800

The New School Montessori Founded on Montessori principles in 1970, our wooded playgrounds, home-cooked meals and family-like setting in North Avondale’s Mitchell Mansion provide a stimulating and nurturing environment for learning. We value diversity and create a caring and supportive community. Our graduates excel academically, but more importantly are empowered as citizens of our global community. 3 Burton Woods Lane, Cincinnati, OH 45229, (513)281-7999, www.thenewschool.cc, 3 years through 6th Grade, Enrollment: 150

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St. Ursula Villa Academic excellence in the Ursuline tradition for boys and girls in preschool through 8th grade. Whole-child development, family atmosphere, dedicated faculty, Montessori or Traditional preschool options, small class size, individual attention, outstanding high school preparation. 3660 Vineyard Place, Cincinnati, OH 45226, (513)871-7218, www.stursulavilla.org, Preschool – 8th grade, Enrollment: 496

SPECIAL NEEDS Springer School and Center For more than 40 years, Springer School and Center has empowered students with learning disabilities to lead successful lives. Springer offers a day school for students ages 6 - 14 and outreach programs and learning disability resources for students, parents and teachers in the Greater Cincinnati area. The Springer Experience.

Success Changes Everything. 2121 Madison Rd., Cincinnati, OH 45208, Phone: (513)871-6080, www. springer-ld.org, Grades: 1st - 8th grade, Enrollment: 200

TUTORING Langsford Learning Acceleration Centers Langsford is a private educational organization dedicated to developing life-long, independent learners. Since 2001, we have been teaching reading, spelling, comprehension, and writing in an atmosphere of enthusiasm and encouragement.Our successful model identifies where the breakdown in the reading and writing process is occurring and then we apply targeted instruction using research validated approaches. 9402 Towne Square Ave. Ste B, Cincinnati, OH 45242, Contact: Jeff Graham, Executive Director, Phone: 513-531-7400, www.WeTeachReading.com, Grades: All ages

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Bedtime: Not exactly routine True confessions of stay-at-home dad Pete Gilbert

I dread bedtime.

When our oldest made the transition from a crib to a bed it was really tough, but only for a week or so, then everything was great. My wife and I would put her to bed and she would stay there. End of story. We never could understand parents that complained about their kids not staying in bed.

Until about a month ago our two littlest both slept in cribs. We could get home late from dinner out or a night at a friend’s house and my wife and I could get all three kids in their jammies in bed in seven minutes flat. It was awesome! We always had time to ourselves at the end of each night. A couple hours of kid-free time, where we could watch non-animated television, carry on an uninterrupted conversation or just sit in sweet, sweet silence.

My son is out of a crib and in a toddler bed. We tried the same methods (starting a bedtime routine, not engaging in his negative behavior) we used with our daughter, but not much seemed to work. During the day my son is the sweetest little guy, but whenever bedtime rolls around he turns into a little demon toddler. Since the switch to a toddler bed, I’ve been bitten, spit at, scratched, had wooden Thomas trains thrown at me and once I was almost peed on. Seriously.

This battle happens most nights of the week. It usually lasts a couple of hours and finally ends when he’s too exhausted to continue, or my wife and I finally go to bed.

I’m not sure where to go from here, but I’m certain of one thing. I now cherish those rare kid-free nights more than ever.

Happy Parenting!

Those days are over.

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Times: 7:00 PM Price: $35.00 Phone: 513.271.2793 Location: Cheers to Art, Madeira www.cheerstoart.com Paint a single heart on 16 x 20 canvas or come as a couple and paint two separate hearts on 10 x 20 canvas to make one heart. You choose the background, heart and ribbon colors.

Times: 7:00 PM Price: FREE Phone: (513) 521-7275 Location: Sharon Woods, Sharonville greatparks.org Did you know that the night sky is brightest in winter? Many of the brightest stars that we can see are visible right now, so join us as we view them with a telescope (weather permitting)!

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Occurring Each Wednesday Times: 2:00 PM - 3:00 PM Price: $24 for 4 classes Phone: 513-651-5679 Location: The Spotted Goose, Cincinnati www.facebook.com/ ConversaTheFrenchSchoolInCincinnati Classes at Conversa are fun and educational programs designed to expose your child to a foreign language. Children will learn the basic communication skills in French through story-telling and creative project. All classes are teaching with a native-speaking French instructor.

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SYMPHONY IN SPACE Times: 10:30 AM Price: Adults: $12; Children: $7 Phone: 513.621.1919 Location: Music Hall, Cincinnati cincinnatisymphony.org Step aboard the Spaceship Cincinnati Pops with JMR as we blast off for the best musical ride of your life! This concert is jam-packed with sonic spectaculars, including music from Holst’s The Planets and Mozart’s Jupiter Symphony, set to breathtaking NASA images.

Cabin Fever at CNC Times: 10:00 AM - 11:30 AM Price: $4 for CNC members; $6 for nonmembers Phone: 513-831-1711 Location: Cincinnati Nature Center, Milford www.cincynature.org Warm yourself by the fire in the authentic Abner Hollow Cabin as we learn about the lives of early pioneers. Enjoy story-telling, folk songs, and other activities of the time, then treat yourself to a bowl of fire-cooked soup and cornbread in front of the hearth. Dress for the weather.

Get Up Groundhog!

Times: 3:00 PM Price: FREE Phone: (513) 521-7275 Location: Sharon Woods, Sharonville greatparks.org Groundhog won’t get up! Will spring ever come? Bring your family to this fun puppet show all about Groundhog’s special day. We’ll meet a surprise guest too.

“Sirius-ly” Bright Skies Night

Afternoon Fun-time Times: 3:00 PM - 4:30 PM Price: Free Phone: 8593422665 Location: Boone County Public Library, Burlington, KY Gaming Internet Snacks and more Drop in the Teen Scene when school is in session.

French Activities for Kids

Times: 6:30 PM - 8:00 PM Price: $30/ child, $15/adults Phone: (513) 474-6364 Location: Miami Township Civic Center, Milford www.starglazers.com/ Make your own pieces with kiln-fired clay! Family class ages 5 and older. Parents participate too! Bring the kids or come by yourself!

Growing Up a Farm Kid: Cool Colors Times: 9:30 AM - 11:00 AM Price: $10.00 per child/extra adult Phone: (513) 521-7275 Location: Winton Woods Parky’s Farm, Cincinnati greatparks.org The sky may be blue and the snow may be white, but can you find a black animal at Parky’s Farm?

Practice your colors as you explore the winter farmyard. Dress for the weather. Recommended for ages two to five with one adult caregiver.

Location: Contemporary Arts Center, Cincinnati contemporaryartscenter.org/ Come paint wooden sculptures and help design a giant balloon collage inspired by the Dutch artist, Merijn Hos.

Monster X Tour Occurring Fri., February 8 Through Sat., February 9 Price: $37 Gold Cricle, $27 lower lever, $17 children’s lower level, $12 upper level; plus fees Phone: 800-745-3000 Location: Bank of Kentucky Center, Northern Kentucky University, Highland Heights www.bankofkentuckycenter.com Giant trucks compete in racing, wheelie contests, and freestyle action. Meet the drivers and see the trucks up close at the pre-event autograph pit party. Lineup is subject to change without notice.

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Culture Kids: Art, Paper, Scissors

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Maple Sugaring Days for Homeschool Families Times: 10:00 AM - 12:00 PM Price: $5 per participant; children 3 and under are free Phone: 513-831-1711 Location: Cincinnati Nature Center, Milford www.cincynature.org Delve into the science and lore of turning sap into sweet maple syrup. This program includes a guided hike into the sugar bush, a look into the Native American origins of sugaring, and a visit to the sugar house. Home-schoolers will tap a tree with a hand drill, help with sugaring work, and sample warm maple syrup right off the evaporator. This program takes place outdoors regardless of the weather.

thurs | 07 Thursday Art Play: Spots of Color Times: 10:30 AM Phone: (513) 345-8400

Times: 10:00 AM Price: FREE Phone: 513-721-2787 Location: Cincinnati Art Museum, Cincinnati cincinnatiartmuseum.org Especially for ages 2-5. Art wins every time. Enjoy a docent-led tour through our galleries and then try your hand at using paper and scissors to make art!

sat | 09 My Furry Valentine Occurring Sat., February 9 Through Sun., February 10 Times: 11:00 AM - 5:00 PM Price: Free Phone: 513 827-2060 Location: Flexi USA, West Chester www.myfurryvalentine.com My Furry Valentine is a Super Pet Adoption Event that will feature hundreds of adoptable animals from shelters and rescues throughout the Greater Cincinnati and Northern Kentucky areas under one roof. If you’re looking for a new furry friend, My Furry Valentine is a convenient way to meet lots of homeless animals so that you can find your perfect match All adopted pets go home with free pet supplies, products, toys, food and a flexi retractable leash. Saturday 11 am to 5 pm. Sunday 11 am to 4 pm.

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Clifford the Big Red Dog’s 50th Birthday Celebration Times: 1:00 PM - 3:00 PM Price: FREE Phone: 513-345-6508 Location: CET Studios, Cincinnati www.cetconnect.org/kidsandfamily/ clifford-birthday Join us for activities including crafts, story time, viewings of Clifford programs, meet and greets with the pup himself, special mascot visits and more. This event is free and open to the public, but reservations are a must. Please RSVP to the Kids Club Hotline at 513-345-6508 or email cderkson@CETconnect.org by Friday, February 1st.

Macy’s Arts Sampler Price: FREE Phone: 513.871.2787 www.theartswave.org Macy’s Arts Sampler returns in 2013 with three Saturdays of free art all across our region. Discover the arts that make Cincinnati amazing with free theater, music, dance, crafts, museum tours and more. This annual event is generously sponsored by our friends at Macy’s. Shows and music with Cincinnati Playhouse in the Park and the Cincinnati Art Museum. See website for full schedule.

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Sensory Sunday: Stories, Songs and Fun for You and Your Little One Times: 2:00 PM - 3:00 PM Price: FREE, RSVP online!

Phone: 513-703-3343 Location: Gymboree, Mason www.myshalomfamily.org Now Shalom Family has a great new way for parents and babies to get connected to one another and the Jewish community. Presenting private interactive playgroups that are FREE and feature the popular Miss Meliss, who keeps babies and their parents engaged and entertained with her unique brand of fun. Play dates always include a snack. Dates and times are subject to change, please check the website for updates.

Sensory Sunday is a program of Shalom Family, an initiative of The Mayerson Foundation. Open to families in the Jewish community with children two years and younger in which at least one parent is Jewish. Plus, two families will each win a $50 Target Gift Card at every event!

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Books Alive For Kids at the Library Times: 6:30 PM Price: Free Phone: 513-369-4478 Location: Forest Park Branch, Cincinnati www.CincinnatiLibrary.org Celebrate Black History Month with a takehome craft and live performance from Books Alive For Kids. The evening features a reading of the book “What A Wonderful World: The Life of 38 CINCINNATIPARENT.COM

Louis Armstrong” written by George David Weiss and Bob Thiele, and illustrated by Ashley Bryan.

This Caldecott Medal Winner is a wonderful depiction of the world-famous song by Louis Armstrong, as portrayed by Wesley Barnfield.

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Cincinnati Cyclones VS Ft. Wayne Komets

Valentine’s Day Craft Times: 10:00 AM Price: FREE Phone: (513) 521-7275 Location: Sharon Woods, Sharonville greatparks.org Bring your kids out to make a nature-related Valentine’s Day craft with the naturalist.

Times: 7:30 PM Phone: (513) 421-4111 Location: US Bank Arena, Cincinnati www.cycloneshockey.com/ Come cheer on the Cyclones as they take on the Ft. Wayne Komets! Plus, it’s Nascar Night - fans are encouraged to wear your best NASCAR gear!

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Occurring Thurs., February 14 Through Fri., February 15 Phone: 513.621.5282 Location: Aronoff Center, Cincinnati cballet.org All it took was a look from across the room, and thus began the greatest love story of all time. Nearly 420 years later, the story of starcrossed lovers has not waned in its ability to captivate audiences as they witness the unfolding of a great romance destined for the grave. Despite its tragic end, you will be swept away by the beauty and purity of sidelong glances, stolen moments and lingering embraces while hoping for a different fate.

Bring your Krazy Valentine’s to Lazer Kraze on the 14th!

Times: 4:00 PM - 9:00 PM Phone: 859-371-KRAZ or 513-339-1030 Location: Lazer Kraze, Erlanger, KY and Deerfield Twp, OH www.LazerKraze.com Buy a one hour jump pass for $14 and get a free laser tag mission in Erlanger or purchase two laser tag missions for $14 and get your 3rd one free at either Cincinnati location. Must be 4 or over in Erlanger and wearing tennis shoes - laser tag generally recommended for ages over 5. Parent-signed waiver and socks required for the Trampoline park.

Appalachian Culture Fest Occurring Sat., February Through Sun., February 17 Price: FREE with Museum Admission Phone: (513) 287-7021 Location: Cincinnati Museum Center, Cincinnati www.cincymuseum.org/ Experience the mountain culture of Appalachia during the Appalachian Culture Fest, an extension of the popular springtime Appalachian Festival held annually in May at Coney Island. Co-sponsored by the Appalachian Community Development Association, the event features great food, skilled mountain crafters selling handmade wares, traditional arts demonstrators, storytellers and performances by talented bluegrass musicians.

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HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY! Romeo & Juliet

the fun. Call 513-321-6070 to register, class size is limited. $5/child. Learn more about Lisa Desatnik Visit: www.somuchPETential.com

Bring Your Own Craft (BYOC): Sharpie Projects

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THE MAGICAL ADVENTURES OF MERLIN Select Days Occurring Fri., February 15 Through Sat., February 23 Phone: 513.569.8080 x10 Location: Taft Theatre, Cincinnati www.thechildrenstheatre.com This world-premiere musical will introduce audiences to the teenage wizard, Merlin, and his mysterious and magical youth. This coming-of-age tale will share the backstory of Merlin, his boyhood friend King Arthur, and the beautiful, bewitching Morgana as teens in mythical ancient England. Featuring magic tricks, slight-of-hand, illusions and more!

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Me and My Best Friend Times: 10:00 AM - 12:00 PM Price: $5/child Phone: 513-321-6070 Location: The Bettman Center, Cincinnati www.cincinnatiparks.com Children ages 6-8 will have fun and learn how to be a good friend to their new puppy, or their current 4-legged family member. Cincinnati Parks’ Explore Nature Department is pleased to partner with Lisa Desatnik, dog trainer, to present a fun and educational program on the do’s and don’ts of playing safe and caring for their dog. Special crafts and games add to

Times: 1:00 PM Price: FREE Phone: 513-721-2787 Location: Cincinnati Art Museum,

Cincinnati cincinnatiartmuseum.org Feeling crafty and want some fellowship?

BYOC (Bring Your Own Craft) to the museum on the third Sunday of every month, and create art in a casual, stress-free environment with like-minded individuals. Don’t have a project you’re working on? No problem. Each month, a simple creative prompt, materials, and encouragement will be supplied. If you will be bringing your own craft material, please note: materials for projects are limited to those that can fit in an 11” x 15” tote bag (dry media only).

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Presidents’ Day at the J Times: 9:30 AM - 3:30 PM Price: J Member: $48; public: $58 Phone: 513-761-7500 Location: Mayerson JCC, Cincinnati www.JointheJ.org For kids in grades K - 6. When school is out, the J is in! Kids have fun in the waterpark, gym, art room, and awesome game room. Bring a lunch with a drink, bathing suit & towel, and closed-toed shoes each day! Add $6 for before care (8 - 9:30am); $8 for after care (3:30 - 6pm); $12 for both.

Parents must complete a Medical Authorization Form (for each child) and return it to the JCC on or before the first day of the program. Advanced registration is required. Questions? Contact Ilana Nadel, 513.722.7258 or inadel@mayersonjcc.org.

President’s Day Kidsports Camp Times: 7:30 AM - 6:00 PM Phone: 513-527-5026 Location: Cincinnati Sports Club, Cincinnati cincinnatisportsclub.com Kidsports Camp is a great way to keep your kids active during holiday breaks. We offer AM, PM, half-day and full-day camps filled with games, indoor sports, crafts, movies, swimming and more. Camp runs Monday, February 18th; for information and registration, call Chris Perkins at 513-527-5026.

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Times: 7:00 PM Price: $18/person Phone: 513-321-5186 Location: Cincinnati Observatory, Cincinnati www.cincinnatiobservatory.org Constellations change in the heavens from season to season. In this class you will study the imaginative figures we call constellations. Learn to use a planisphere to find any constellation at any given time and date. If the weather is clear, we will go outside to find many of the brighter constellations; and you will also have the option of looking through the observatory telescope.

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Sunset on the Beach Times: 7:00 PM Price: $35.00 Phone: 513.271.2793 Location: Cheers to Art, Madeira www.cheerstoart.com Get out of the cold and come paint this beach sunset painting.

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Thursday Art Play: Glass Works Times: 10:30 AM Phone: (513) 345-8400 Location: Contemporary Arts Center, Cincinnati contemporaryartscenter.org/ You break it, you make it! First we’ll break apart twisty straws, wires and clear plastic into lots of different shapes and sizes. We’ll take these broken materials and build unique glass-like sculptures, candle holders and collages.

Cincinnati Auto Expo Occurring Thurs., February 21 Through Sun., February 24 Price: $11; $2 ages 13 and under Saturday and Sunday, free ages 13 and under Thursday and Friday Phone: 513-797-7900 Location: Duke Energy Convention Center, Cincinnati www.duke-energycenter.com

Showcase of auto manufacturers, prototypes, after-market items and motorcycles. Save $3 on admission when purchasing tickets at any area Kroger with Kroger Plus Card.

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Purim Preview Times: 10:30 AM - 12:00 PM Price: FREE Phone: 513-761-7500 Location: Mayerson JCC, Cincinnati www.JointheJ.org Everyone is welcome! Celebrate Purim with a tasty Hamentaschen (fruit filled cookie) treat!

Watch the JCC Early Childhood School Purim Parade and enjoy some Purim fun! Purim (February 24) is a fun and celebratory holiday that commemorates the Jewish people’s survival against great odds, as chronicled in the Book of Esther in the Hebrew Bible.

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Price: $5 Phone: 513-745-5600 Location: UC Blue Ash College, Cincinnati www.ucblueash.edu/performingarts/ artrageous.html Join Thumbelina, the miniature heroine who emerges from a flower, as she encounters her friends (Toad, Fish, Field Mouse, Mole, and Swallow) in a series of astonishing, delightful, and sometimes perplexing adventures in nature’s tiny, enchanted world. THEATRE IV brings Hans Christian Andersen’s beloved fairytale of heroism and surprise to life in a joyous musical adaptation.

Searchin’ for Salamanders Times: 1:00 PM Price: FREE Phone: (513) 521-7275 Location: Miami Whitewater Forest, Harrison greatparks.org Some salamanders can only be seen above ground at their breeding hole. Help search for them at our vernal pond.

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Once Upon a Purim

Times: 3:00 PM Price: FREE with Advance RSVP by February 21st.

Phone: 513.703.3343 Location: Mayerson JCC, Cincinnati www.myshalomfamily.org Shalom Family & The Mayerson JCC invite families in the Jewish community to step inside a storybook for the afternoon when they present Once Upon a Purim, a FREE program for young families in the Jewish Community. The fun begins with Children’s Theater of Cincinnati’s production of Rumplestilskin and continues with a fairytale-fantasy themed Purim carnival, complete with games, prizes, professional face painters, balloon artists, Hamentaschen

cookies and much more! Kids are encouraged to come dressed as characters from the Purim story or in other costumes. Open to families in the Jewish Community with children 12 and younger, in which at least one parent is Jewish.

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Art Afternoon (middle and high school) Times: 4:00 PM Price: Free Phone: 8593422665 Location: Boone County Public Library, Hebron, KY Be inspired and make a colorful, geometric Kandinsky felt creation. Register.

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Wee Wednesday: Walk on the Wild Side Times: 10:00 AM Price: FREE Phone: 513-721-2787 Location: Cincinnati Art Museum, Cincinnati cincinnatiartmuseum.org

Welcome to the jungle! You’re in for a wild ride through our galleries where you can enjoy four interactive story times with our specially trained docents. Wander at your own pace and stop in our Terrace Café for a special lunch discount. Perfect for ages 2–5.

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Thursday Art Play: Dot Party!

Times: 10:30 AM Phone: (513) 345-8400 Location: Contemporary Arts Center, Cincinnati contemporaryartscenter.org/ Who doesn’t love polka dots? Join us as we learn about the Japanese artist YoyoiKusama. We’ll create dot collages on everything from clothing to beach balls!

NOTE: At Cincinnati Parent, we work hard to ensure our calendar and guide information is accurate. Occasionally event specifics change after we go to press. Therefore, we encourage our readers to call locations or visit them on the web to verify information.

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ongoing events Everything Thomas At EnterTRAINment Junction Occurring Daily (except Wed) Beginning Fri., February 1 Through Sun., March 3 Price: Admission starts at $9.95. FREE parking Phone: (513) 898-8000 Location: EnterTRAINment Junction, West Chester www.entertrainmentjunction.com Everything Thomas At EnterTRAINment is a magical indoor celebration of kids’ favorite Thomas the Train, with Thomas wooden train layouts, Thomas HO scale electric train display, videos, Thomas & Friends scavenger hunts with prizes and crafts, an indoor train ride, and an incredible hobby & toy shop with the area’s largest selection of Thomas merchandise 15%-50% off. Voted “Ohio’s Best Family Entertainment Center,” EnterTRAINment Junction features two world-class attractions under one roof – the world’s largest indoor model train display and the circusthemed A-Maze-N FunHouse (“The Greatest FunHouse on Earth”) with 9,000 square feet of “wild, weird and wacky” attractions; Open every day except Wednesdays Jan.-March.

Hours: Mon.-Sat. 10 a.m.-6 p.m., Sundays noon-6 p.m.

FAMILY JUMP NIGHT Occurring Each Thurs.

Times: 5:30 PM - 7:00 PM Price: $7.00 per child.

Phone: Call 513.829.7867 Location: Pump It Up, West Chester www.pumpitupparty.com/oh/west-chester Come play on our giant, soft, fun-filled interactive inflatables during our evening Pop-In Playtime! Share quality time and promote physical fitness while bouncing, sliding, climbing and jumping at Pump It Up. Enjoy spending time with your family, meeting other families and making new friends in a safe, clean, climate controlled environment. Call Us For Details!

A Wonderland of Fairytales exhibit Occurring Daily Through Sun., February 17 Times: 9:00 AM - 5:00 PM Price: Free Phone: 513-369-6900 Location: Main Library., Cincinnati www.cincinnatilibrary.org Revisit the childhood wonders of “Cinderella,” “Little Red Riding Hood,” “The Night Before Christmas” and other 1880s books published by Peter G. Thomson at his Race Street printing shop during the “A Wonderland of Fairytales” exhibit at the Main Library.

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Creative Dramatics Occurring Each Thurs. Beginning Thurs., January 24 Through Thursday, March 7 Times: 5:00 PM Price: $75 per child Phone: (513) 558-1215 Location: Calico Children’s Theater, Batavia www.ucclermont.edu/community_ arts/calico_theatre.html Designed for children enrolled in grades K-2 with a maximum enrollment of 15 students.

Winter Family Days at the Newport Aquarium Occurring Daily Through Thurs., February 28 Times: 10:00 AM - 6:00 PM Price: Two kids get in FREE with each fullprice adult ticket purchased.

Phone: 1-800-406-FISH 3474Location: Newport Aquarium, Newport, KY www.newportaquarium.com Kids get in FREE during Winter Family Days at the Newport Aquarium. Two children are admitted for FREE with each full-price adult ticket, available all day, every day from Jan. 4 to Feb. 28, 2013. Come down to the Aquarium and say “Good-Bye” to Mighty Mike Tickets are available at our ticket window, through our website, www.NewportAquarium.com, or through our toll-free phone number, 1-800-406-FISH (3474).

FREE PLAY at Recreations Outlet Occurring Every Tue, Wed & Thu Times: 9:00 AM - 11:00 AM Phone: 513-831-7383 Location: Recreations Outlet, Milford www.recreationsoutlet.com Maybe it’s raining and they need to burn off some steam...

Or you want to beat the weather... Or they have just been “extra good” lately? Bring them into our temperature controlled showrooms for the best indoor play available. You will have fun watching them and they will sleep well tonight!

The Last Reef Occurring Daily Through Friday, February 15 Price: $6 Phone: (513) 287-7021 Location: Cincinnati Museum Center, Cincinnati www.cincymuseum.org/ A thrilling underwater journey that uses unprecedented cinematography to bring the teeming world of coral reefs to life.

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Dead Sea Scrolls: Life and Faith in Ancient Times Occurring Daily Through Sun., April 14 Price: $15 member adults, $10 member children (ages 3-12), $23 non-member adults, $15 nonmember children, $20 ages 60 and up Phone: (513) 287-7021 Location: Cincinnati Museum Center, Cincinnati www.cincymuseum.org/ Features the most comprehensive collection of ancient artifacts from Israel ever organizedincluding one of the largest collections of the priceless 2,000-year-old Dead Sea Scrolls.

Proven Parenting Classes Occurring Each Weds. Beginning Weds., January 30 Through Wednesday, March 13 Times: 6:00 PM - 8:30 PM Price: $325 for 7 classes, including all materials. Childcare per class: $10 per c Phone: 513-272-2800 Location: Children’s Home of Cincinnati, Cincinnati www.thechildrenshomecinti.org In just seven weeks, we’ll teach you proven, researchbased skills that address communication, discipline, decision-making, relationships and self-control. You’ll learn how to...avoid power struggles and better control emotions, balance discipline with affection and more.

Dance Classes for Kids Occurring Every Mon, Wed & Fri Through March 15 Times: 5:00 PM - 8:00 PM Price: $50 / Month Phone: 513-279-ARTS 2787Location: Studio-D, Cincinnati www.RevoDance.org Quality Dance Classes at an affordable rate now available at StuDio-D. Your kids can study Ballet, Modern and Contemporary dance under the professional artists of Revolution Dance Theatre.

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clean out your computer day

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trading card day

how to celebrate: Rearrange your card collection and see if any of your friends want to trade!

how to celebrate: See if you can name the first 10 presidents of the U.S.!

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quiet pistachio day day

how to celebrate: Write a nice letter to your best friend just because!

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the Boy Scouts were founded in 1910

how to celebrate: Go outside to shout "Hoodie-hoo!" to scare away Winter and make way for Spring!

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gumdrop day

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how to celebrate: Watch the weather to see if he sees his shadow or not!

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bathtub day how to celebrate: Take a bubble bath and read your favorite book!

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nylon was patented in 1937

banana bread day

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how to celebrate: Find some use for those really ripe bananas and make some fresh bread!

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polar bear day

public sleeping day

how to celebrate: Bundle up and head to the Zoo to see the polar bears!

how to celebrate: Sleep in a few extra minutes or take a quick nap on the bus ride home

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groundhog day

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Make sure to send a valentine to your family and friends!

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on this day hoodie hoo day Mr. Roger's Neighborhood debuted in 1968

friend day

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president's day

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mardi gras!

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random acts of kindness day

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Rosa Parks was born in 1913

how to celebrate: Spend an hour deleting all those old files and start fresh!

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