Feb. 2016 | Indy's Child

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pregnancy {STEPS TO TAKE BEFORE YOU WANT TO CONCEIVE}

FIVE MISTAKES NEW MOMS MAKE {SOME COMMON SLIP-UPS TO AVOID}

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CHOOSING A

MONTESSORI SCHOOL {EVALUATING POTENTIAL PROGRAMS FOR THE BEST FIT}

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{ F EATURES}

{AROUND TOWN}

{IN EVERY ISSUE}

12 // 5 Mistakes New Moms Make

08 C HOC O L ATE : A SWEE T SO LUT I ON TE AC H I NG S I M P LE SC I ENC E !

05 ED I TOR 'S NOTE

Some common slip-ups to avoid

20 // Prepping for Pregnancy Steps to take before you want to conceive

{HEALTH & WELLNESS} 14 3 STEP S TO AVO I D P OSTPAR TU M ANXI E T Y 18 PED I ATR I C DENT I STRY

24 // Choosing a Montessori School Evaluating potential programs for the best fit

06 C O M M U N I T Y S P OT L I G HT

{RESOURCES & CALENDARS} 26 B EST I N DOOR P L AYG ROU N D GU I DE 39 CA M P GU I DE 44 EDUCAT I ON & C H I LDCAR E GU I DE 49 DA I LY E VENTS 52 ONGO I NG E VENTS

{COMMENTARY & PARENTING} 10 FOOTNOTES 16 R ESE ARC H TO R E A L WOR LD 36 DAY CA M P 42 AS K TH E TE AC H ER 46 A DAD I N F LUENC E

53 M AR K E TP L AC E 54 FUN & WAC K Y CA LEN DAR

{SPECIAL NEEDS} 30 TANTRU M S VERSUS SENSORY M ELTDOWNS 32 S PEC I A L N EEDS DON ' T D I SC R I M I NATE 34 S PEC I A L N EEDS GU I DE 35 S PEC I A L N EEDS E VENTS

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E D ITO R ' S N OT E WORDS BY // SUSAN BRYANT

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Baby Love

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un fact: Did you know that a new baby enters the world almost every four seconds?

That’s a lot of babies! And even more new parents suddenly asking a whole lot of questions.

This month’s special Baby and Maternity Issue focuses on a few things new parents, and soon-tobe parents, have on their radar. What are the most common mistakes new moms and dads make?

Find out on page 12. What crazy baby product can you avoid? See page 16. Do babies require dental care? Page 18 has the answer. And just for fun, what are the most popular names for babies born in Indiana? See the list on page 22. (Spoiler alert: Have you met any Emmas or Liams lately?)

Of course, before that little bundle of joy arrives, you’ll want to make sure you’ve done everything in your power to give your infant the best possible start. If planning for a baby is in your near future, check out our article on what to do before you get pregnant for the best tips on getting yourself in shape physically, mentally and even financially before the big day.

COMMUNITY OUTREACH Jeanine Bobenmoyer // jeanine@indyschild.com

Even the most well-prepared parent learns that babies have a way of following their own timetable though. (In just the time it took to write this note, at least 450 babies decided to come into the world!)

So when your little one arrives, maybe the most important advice is just to indulge in the happiness that this tiny person brings. As the saying goes, there’s no way to be a perfect parent, but a million ways to be a good one.

BUSINESS MANAGER Roxanne Burns // roxanne@indyschild.com

INTERN Meg Wynne // meg@indyschild.com

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Maggie Loiselle, Michelle Shirk, Lauren Lawson, Sarah Bricker-Hunt, Pete Gilbert, Deb Krupowicz, Kelly Blewett, Tonya Bergeson-Dana, Leslie Olsen, Denise Yearian

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community {SPOTLIGHT}

Gallery 924 presents The Young Collectors Show February 5 - 26 Curated and installed especially for children ages 3 12! Bring your little ones and join us as we celebrate the magical experience that can happen when young minds experience art for the first time.

Exhibition Opening: February 5, 6 – 9 pm Indy's Child Pop-Up Playdate: February 6, 10 am – 12 pm indyarts.org

Looking for ideas to keep the kids busy this winter?

We’ve got 99.

All right winter warriors – your season of snow and cooler temps has arrived! For those days when your idea of “chilling” means a cozy indoor spot, this list is perfect for you. Thanks to the input of our Indy’s Child readers and our own experiences as parents, this list of 99 Things to Do This Winter in Indianapolis should tickle your family’s fancy for indoor fun. (We tossed in some outdoor treats too!)

Find it at indyschild.com/winter-family-activitiesindianapolis/.

Prepare your pancakes: Sap To Syrup Day returns February 27.

It’s an annual day of educational fun at Holliday Park where visitors are invited to try a syrup taste test, complete a craft and enjoy a delicious Sugar Maker’s Sundae (which Park staffers promise will delight even the pickiest of palettes). The fun runs from 12:30-2:30 pm and advance registration is kindly requested.

Holliday Park, Indianapolis Saturday, February 27 hollidaypark.org/calendars/2016/ february2016.html

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Adorable winter preschool activities – for FREE! From their Snowy Science workshops that teach kids how snow is made to the Monkey Business art sessions inspired by Curious George, the Indianapolis Public Library (thanks to the IPL Foundation) is offering a wonderful educational winter program lineup for preschoolers. Plus they’re being offered at a branch near you for the grand total of FREE. Click on “Events For Kids” at indypl.org/ to get started.

Hendricks County families, there’s a special event for you.

The Hendricks County Community Youth Fair arrives Saturday, February 13 thanks to Macaroni Kids Hendricks and They’re Our Kids. This community fair will provide parents with information on clubs, organizations, sports, preschools and businesses that offer opportunities for local youth. Admission is free.

Presenting...

POP-UP PLAYDATES with Indy's Child !

We're so excited. That we just can't hide it. After much planning, Indy's Child proudly launches POP-UP Playdates in 2016. What are they? Mini events at businesses and organizations around town - come with family and friends to check it out, we'll fete you with snacks, swag, and unique fun. All for free. Why? Part of our goal in 2016 is to encourage readers to experience this great Indianapolis community we all call home. And if we introduce you to one of our valued partners and they become your new favorite, then call us happy as clams. Be on the lookout for announcements via email, our website, and on social media and put these on your calendar: February 6, 10am-12pm: Art Fun For Little Ones: Young Collectors Art Show at Gallery 924, downtown Indianapolis

Hendricks County Fairgrounds and Conference Center, Avon

February 22, 9:30-11am: Playdate at the Pool with Goldfish Swim School

Saturday, February 13, 10 am – 3 pm facebook.com/events/217268968604711/

Blue’s Road Trip through Indiana Join the Colts mascot, Blue, on a road trip as he shares some of his favorite places around Indiana.

From A to Z, readers will explore several of the state’s hidden treasures and well-loved attractions. This children’s book will be available online and at select book retailers later this spring. Visit colts.com/blue for more information.

Go on an adventure with a pirate. Or a princess.

You choose.

Now open is the brand new “Pirates and Princesses: Storybook Adventures” exhibit at The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis. Families have a chance to become the hero of their own adventure in this new offering from the Museum that’s sure to inspire every imagination.

The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis Runs through November Learn more at childrensmuseum.org/exhibits.

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A R O U N D TOW N WORDS BY // Leslie Olsen, Manager of Public Relations, The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis

Chocolate: A Sweet Solution for Teaching Simple Science!

It can be hard or soft, dark or light, bitter or sweet – even addictive, say self-proclaimed chocoholics. (In fact, several studies indicate there just might be some truth to that statement regarding chocolate!)The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis will have sweet tooths of all ages drooling when the Chocolate Slide and Café debuted January 23rd, just in time for Valentine’s Day. The Willy Wonka-inspired wonderland will find families sliding down a “river” of chocolate and landing near the decadent Chocolate Café filled with chocolaty confections and beverages, among other delicious delights.

Did you know that every second, Americans collectively eat 100 pounds of chocolate?

Certainly America’s penchant for chocolate contributes heavily to this $110 billion dollar a year global industry.

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Becky Wolfe, science program manager at The Children’s Museum, knows from experience that using chocolate is a yummy way to teach simple science to youngsters.

She shares a few ideas for parents.

Sink or float?

Gather one piece of Hershey’s KISSES® and a 3 Musketeers® Fun Size candy bar, along with a clear container filled with water.

Have children hold both pieces of candy.

Ask them to predict what will happen when they drop each piece of candy into the water. Some candy bars float because the air trapped inside them makes them less dense than other candy. (This experiment also works using a REESE’S Peanut Butter Cup, and a TWIX® or a KIT KAT.)

Solid to liquid to solid Make an easy fudge recipe that shows how solid chocolate melts, becomes liquid and then becomes solid again.

Easy Fudge • 2 cups (12 oz. pkg.) chocolate morsels • 1 can (14 oz.) sweetened condensed milk • 1 cup chopped walnuts • 1 teaspoon vanilla extract Line a 8 or 9 inch square baking pan with foil. Combine morsels and sweetened condensed milk in medium, heavy duty saucepan. Warm over lowest possible heat, stirring until smooth. Remove from heat; stir in nuts and vanilla extract. Spread evenly into prepared baking pan. Refrigerate for 2 hours or until firm. Lift from pan; remove foil. Cut into 48 pieces.

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The Children's Museum of Indianapolis

Easy as 1, 2, 3!

Here’s an easy and rewarding idea for those just learning to count. Ask children to count M and M’s before they are allowed to eat them! As Charles M. Schulz said, “All you need is love. But a little chocolate now and then doesn't hurt.”

our cover kid {HARPER RENEE BROWN} Age: 13 months {FavoriteS} Color // Pink Food // Mandarin oranges Sport // Dancing Ice Cream // Vanilla TV Show // Mickey Mouse Restaurant // Casler's Book // Goodnight Moon Movie // Frozen Super Hero // PJ Masks Toy // Bright Beats Dance & Move

{When I grOW up I want to be} Mom guesses a veterinarian because she loves animals!

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COMM E NTA RY + PA R E N TING WORDS BY // KELLY BLEWETT

Footnotes: Thoughts from the margins of a mom's life Craft Therapy

My daughter is getting ready to turn three, yet the child still sleeps in a crib. And has a pacifier. I know, I know – we should have taken it away at eighteen months, but we didn’t and then she became (as my pediatrician predicted) horribly, intensely, attached. Our plan is to simultaneously take away both the crib and the pacifier immediately following her birthday party. The absence will mark a milestone, and we will orchestrate a neat “set change” in her room (replete with a quilt covered by hand-sewn horses and a pillow stitched with her name) to persuade her that, yes, turning three is exciting and that cribs and pacifiers are for babies. And yet…

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I found myself in my daughter’s room today, staring at her crib. Or, more precisely, at the space above her crib. I saw her homemade seasonal mobile, with autumn leaves made of felt in various colors dangling from gossamer threads. Before the leaves, it was a small flock of brightly colored paper birds (last summer).

Before the birds, it was paper-cut snowflakes (last winter). I was startled to realize that these leaves – these horribly out-of-season leaves – would be the final mobile above my daughter’s crib. I had missed the transition back to snowflakes, like I’d missed the date to easily take the pacifier. I felt a sad sort of rebelliousness rise within me: the last mobile must not be leaves! If this is the last one, by heaven, it must be something worth celebrating.

And that is how I ended up with a dining room table covered with colored paper, rubber cement, little eyes and feathers. I’m making owls. Owls are very in fashion right now for my daughter, who received a stuffed owl with light-up eyes for Christmas. Further, this owl hoots if stroked on the back of its bright green head. A little creepy?

Perhaps, but my daughter sleeps clutching it to her side. And so I am caught up in a craftagainst-time, a final mobile of owls that will, once finished, hover watchfully for a mere two weeks until the big room change. Which I’m totally in favor of, by the way. There’s a time to stow the crib in the basement, to take away the pacifiers, to talk about being a big girl. But thankfully it’s not quite yet. Now, excuse me, I need to get back to my craft therapy.

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WORDS BY // Lauren Lawson

5 MISTAKES NEW MOMS MAKE Some common slip-ups to avoid Instead, make a quick phone call or brief appointment with your pediatrician or OB/GYN to address any questions you have. These medical professionals can discuss your particular situation and help ease any fears you have.

2. Overdressing an infant Who can resist little baby hats? And matching sweaters. With coordinating booties. While keeping your little one warm on a cold winter day may require multiple layers, at bedtime, keep it simple.

According to Dr. Margaret Workman, a pediatrician at Southpointe Pediatrics, overheating an infant is a common mistake. “This can increase the risk for SIDS. Infants should be dressed in light clothing for sleep. Usually ‘onesie’ pajamas that cover arms and legs are sufficient – and keep the room at a temperature that’s comfortable for adults.”

3. Worrying too much about what’s in the diaper With as much time as new parents spend analyzing baby poop, they ought to have a PhD in the art of bowel movements. Feed, poop, feed, poop – isn’t that how it is supposed to happen?

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here is just so much to know about having a baby! Even the most well-prepared, goodintentioned parents make a few errors. Here are a few “don’ts” to watch out for as you find your way in this new adventure called motherhood.

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1. Believing everything you read The internet is full of great information – and plenty of it doesn’t apply to you. Baby forums and parenting blogs can offer great advice and connection for new moms, but using the internet as your sole source of information, especially when it comes to health questions, can often result in unnecessary panic.

Not necessarily. Dr. Workman says that many moms are too concerned about their infant’s stooling patterns. “Some infants stool with every feeding and some only once a week,” she says. “If stools are consistently outpacing the feeding frequency or becoming progressively more watery, discuss these concerns with your physician.”

4. Changing formula too quickly Baby formula can take the rap for an infant’s fussiness, sleep issues, moods, etc. But deciding to change to a new formula may not solve the problem.

Dr. Workman recommends against changing formulas too quickly. “Parents often assume an infant’s fussiness, gas and spitting up are related to the formula,” she says. “Usually this is not the case. If there is a consistent pattern of fussiness during or after the feeding, consult your physician.”

5. Underestimating the baby blues While it’s normal to have emotional ups and downs after having a baby, an extended period of feeling not like yourself is a red flag for a larger problem.

According to the National Institute of Mental Health, common symptoms of postpartum depression include “feeling sad, hopeless, empty or overwhelmed; crying more often than usual for no apparent reason, and worrying or feeling overly anxious.”

If you’re experiencing any of these feelings, don’t wait to address them.

Postpartum depression can occur even months after giving birth. Talk to your OB/GYN, pediatrician, lactation consultant or a professional counselor for information and support.

As a new mom, you’re not expected to know all the answers!

Don’t be afraid to reach out for the help you need. Other moms are a great source of information and encouragement. For a listing of local support groups for moms, visit https://indyschild.com/ finding-your-momma-tribe/ to connect with other parents in your area.

We recently asked Indy’s Child Facebook readers: What mistakes did you make as a first-time parent?

I tried too hard. Flash cards, special music, mommy and me classes. Mothers day out preschool. We have 5 kids and the less I tried, the better the results. The more I just let them play and be kids the smarter they became and the happier we all were.

– Nicole O.

Biggest piece of advice is stop taking everyone's advice. It's nice to get ideas from other parents, but don't be afraid to take what you want and, more importantly, leave what you don't. Do what's right for you and your child and don't worry about how that compares to others.

– Jessi W.

Caring [about] what was 'normal' (especially in regards to breastfeeding.)

– Shelly R.

Take time for your marriage. The baby doesn't need every second of your attention.

– Sue G.

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3 Steps to Manage Postpartum Anxiety Excessive worry is quite common in women who have just given birth.

But there are effective ways to manage anxiety and enjoy the early days of motherhood.

According to the Anxiety and Depression Association of America, roughly 10 to 15 percent of women feel the effects of postpartum depression.

And that’s not to say they are sad all of the time. Instead, many women who have recently given birth experience postpartum anxiety, worrying about things that never bothered them before.

The stress can be caused by a number of factors. Environmental, physical and psychological variables may create imbalance in the body and mind, causing constant feelings of fear, self-consciousness and worry.

Finding the Bright Side Easing postpartum anxiety is not as simple as deciding you’re going to be in a better mood, but many of the solutions are relatively accessible and very effective. To take control of your circumstances and make more room for joy, try the following steps:

Increase your serotonin intake.

Talk with your doctor about how to boost your levels of this feel-good chemical. Certain prescriptions and supplements may help. So can a diet high in nutrients such as B vitamins and omega-3 fatty acids.

Pamper yourself. You have helped

create a new life, and now you’re working to nurture your baby 24 hours a day, seven days a week. Don’t forget to take care of you, too. Ask a loved one to babysit a couple of times each week so you can do something restorative.

Drop in on a yoga class. Take a stroll around your favorite museum. Or simply soak in a bubble bath for a half hour.

If you are working to manage your anxiety and still feel stress, talk with a trusted friend or healthcare professional about other solutions. A third party can often provide invaluable perspective and advice.

Learn more about ways you can #taketime4u and your health at stvincent.org/taketime4u.

Get moving. Regular exercise a few

times each week may help improve confidence in your physical abilities and appearance. And you don’t have to pump iron or run marathons to feel the effects. Gentle aerobic workouts two to three times each week may reduce symptoms of depression and improve mood.

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COMM E NTA RY + PA R E N TING WORDS BY // Tonya Bergeson-Dana, PhD

Research to Real World Broadcasting to Bellies By now you must have heard about the Babypod sound system. This information reached my Facebook feed in early January and then just wouldn’t stop. For the few of you who haven’t heard, the Babypod is a vaginal sound system that directly feeds music to a pregnant woman’s fetus. Imagine a tampon equipped with a sound system, and… umm, well… you’ve got the idea. Babies can naturally hear sounds inside Mom’s belly, and can remember some of these sounds once they’ve reached the outside world. The idea behind the Babypod is that if a little sound is good, then more is better. Makes sense, right? Except…

Melody Caregivers across the world speak to their babies with exaggerated melodies. These pitch contours give babies cues to the identity of their own mother and key words in an endless speech stream. Young babies also understand whether melodies in speech are happy, sad, prohibitive or comforting. Caregivers usually do not speak to other adults with exaggerated melodies because adults already understand the linguistic content. Of course, caregivers’ melodic input is also linked to babies’ developing sense of musical melody.

2) Is more (i.e., less filtered) sound helpful or harmful to babies? Babies with no help from Bellybuds or Babypods develop preferences for their own mother’s voice, their native language, and familiar songs and stories by the time they take their first breath. So what advantage might we expect from “enhancing” the sound?

Especially when we consider the risks.

Presenting sounds at a higher level might produce sounds that are too loud for the developing cochlea (or auditory system). Moreover, the natural filters of the mother’s womb might enhance exactly the right features for the developing abilities of language and social cognition.

Resources for parents www.engadget.com/2015/12/31/ give-your-fetus-a-concert-with-vaginalsound-system-babypod/ http://well.blogs.nytimes. com/2013/11/01/babies-can-learnmusic-in-the-womb/?_r= 0 www.parentingscience.com/baby-talk. html www.economist.com/news/scienceand-technology/21596923-howbabbling-babies-can-boost-theirbrains-beginning-was-word www.reuters.com/article/us-scienceanimals-rythymidUSBREA1E0ZL20140215

Rhythm First, fetuses already get valuable information from sounds they receive naturally through the womb. The womb provides a natural filter, emphasizing features such as melody and rhythm.

Melody and rhythm enhance the development of language and social cognition. Second, scientists still don’t know whether more (i.e., less filtered) sound is helpful for babies. It is equally possible that it may be harmful.

Let’s tackle one issue at a time.

1) Typically developing babies receive auditory signals through the womb and somehow manage to learn spoken language. And naturally filtered sounds have benefits for babies. Imagine yourself caught in the world of Charlie Brown and his friends listening to a grown-up. The sounds you hear might not sound like language (wa-wa-wawaaa) but they highlight melody and rhythm. It turns out that these two features are important for babies.

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Caregivers speak and sing to their babies much more slowly than they do to adults. They also take significant pauses after each sentence or phrase (e.g., “You’re getting sooooo big! …

Sooooo big!”). Babies likely take in the information more easily and efficiently at the slowed-down pace.

Babies are also getting simultaneous visual information from caregivers’ faces and tactile information from their touches. The timing of this input likely allows babies’ to learn about all the sources of information. Moreover, research shows that the development of the social bond among babies and their caregivers might be tied explicitly to the rhythm of speech and song.

Researchers studying the rhythm capabilities in young human babies suggest that keeping time and synchronizing with one another helps develop social connections. In fact, recent studies have also shown that this even holds true for nonhuman animals, like bonobo monkeys, sea lions, and parrots!

Hopefully by now you’re convinced enough not to spend big bucks on external or…ahem…internal sound devices for your unborn baby when they’re already getting such rich information about speech, music and social communication. Instead, focus on making your auditory input of the highest quality by speaking (and singing) to your baby with an attuned, musical voice.

Please join us when we discuss this topic in our Ask the Docs event at The Urban Chalkboard (Thursday, February 18th, 3 pm). We’d love to hear your thoughts on what you did (or are doing) with your baby-to-be!

Cognitive psychologist Tonya Bergeson-Dana combines her real world experience as a mother with her professional training as a researcher to provide parents with a practical way to apply the most current findings in childhood development research to their everyday life. Tonya is also a co-founder of The Urban Chalkboard playcafe, and welcome questions and feedback from readers at experiencematters@theurbanchalkboard.com .

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HEA LTHY & W E L L N ES S WORDS BY // Sarah Bricker-Hunt

Pediatric Dentistry Quick tips for baby teeth Even before that first tooth makes its debut, it’s important to start proper dental care. Here are a few points to remember for keeping your baby’s adorable smile in tip-top shape.

When should a baby’s first dental checkup be scheduled?

Schedule a visit with a pediatric dentist soon after your infant’s first tooth appears, or no later than his first birthday.

What is the difference between a pediatric dentist and a family dentist?

Pediatric dentists are similar to pediatricians. They are specialists who have received two to three years of post-dental school training and limit their patients to children. The office of a pediatric dentist is usually designed to make the experience of seeing the dentist positive and relaxed.

Are pacifiers bad for baby teeth?

Normal pacifier use during your child’s first few years shouldn’t create long-term dental problems. However,

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some dentists warn against prolonged pacifier use, since this may result in tooth misalignment issues if the practice continues for several years.

Can bottle feeding cause cavities?

When and how should a baby’s teeth and gums be cleaned?

Bottles filled with sugary drinks can cause tooth decay, especially when babies and toddlers are put to bed with bottles filled with beverages other than water. Give your child a sippy cup as soon as possible (typically around six months) to help prevent decay.

Start cleaning your baby’s gums after feedings. After the first tooth appears, brush teeth and gums carefully with a soft-bristled toothbrush with a small head at least once a day at bedtime.

Sources: The American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry, The Mayo Clinic, U.S. National Library of Medicine

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S teps to take before you want to conceive See your OB/GYN

WORDS BY // MAGGIE LOISELLE

You’ll also want to see your OB/

The path to a healthy pregnancy and baby starts long before conception. From getting any health concerns you have in check, to assessing your stress level and PUtting your finances in order, the more you can address now, the better prepared you will be when your little bundle of joy arrives.

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{YOUR HEALTH} The investment you make getting your body ready for pregnancy now will pay big dividends for your newborn.

Make a doctor’s appointment Let your primary doctor know that you’re planning on getting pregnant. Your physician will want to make sure any chronic conditions, such as diabetes, are managed. “Diabetes is very important to get under control before pregnancy because it can cause damage to the baby and complications during birth,” says Dr. Susan Benson, an OB/GYN with St. Vincent Medical Group. It may also be advisable to change some medications you take to those that are safe during pregnancy.

And be sure to tell your doctor about any over-the-counter medications, herbal supplements or essential oils you use, as some may not be safe to use while pregnant.

GYN to have a Pap smear and, if you’re older, a mammogram, too.

Preconception visits are also a good time to review family history on both sides, so get any background info you need on instances of diabetes, heart issues, birth defects, miscarriages and multiples.

Depending on your family history and ancestry, your doctor may recommend that you and your partner undergo genetic testing to assess the risk of inherited diseases.

Get vaccines up to date If you haven’t had a flu shot lately, go get one. Your doctor may also recommend that you update your MMR (measles, mumps and rubella) and Tdap (whooping cough, tetanus and diphtheria) vaccines. Make sure other members of your family are current on their shots, too.

so it’s best to have everything checked out before you become pregnant.

Start taking a prenatal vitamin Even before you’re actually pregnant, the nutrients in prenatal vitamins will help prepare your body for what’s to come. Prenatal vitamins should contain folic acid to help prevent neural tube defects and additional iron to promote strong growth and development.

Your doctor may also recommend higher doses of certain nutrients depending on your health history.

Cut back on caffeine If you need multiple cups of coffee to get through your day, start whittling down now. The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists recommends that pregnant women limit their caffeine intake to under 200 milligrams a day, which is about one 11 oz. cup of coffee.

Go to the dentist It’s important to take care of any issues with your teeth and gums before you conceive. Hormonal changes during pregnancy can cause tender gums that bleed easily,

Curb alcohol consumption As with caffeine, now is the time to cut back. Soon you will not be able to drink at all, so prep yourself in

advance if you think eliminating alcohol will be difficult for you.

life for three to six months before getting pregnant.”

Stop smoking Smoking during pregnancy is dangerous, leading to low birth weights and other complications. It can also hurt your chances of conceiving. Give yourself adequate time to quit smoking and if you’re having trouble, ask your doctor for help. The same goes for marijuana and other drugs.

Get moving Establishing a healthy exercise routine before getting pregnant will help you stay moving as your pregnancy progresses, keeping weight gain in check and preparing your body for the marathon of labor.

Being overweight increases the chances of various health problems, so getting fit before getting pregnant can go a long way toward a healthy nine months.

Eat better Along with helping you lose any extra pounds, it’s a good idea to get used to eating healthier now because it’s a change you will need to sustain while you’re pregnant. That means choosing nutrient-dense foods, like whole grains, healthy fats and leafy greens, while cutting back on sugar and processed foods. Attempting a complete diet overhaul probably isn’t realistic, so choose a few changes that will have the greatest impact and transition slowly.

“Pregnancy is not always the best time to start all these new and healthy habits,” says Victoria Floyd, certified nurse midwife and founder of Carmel Midwifery & Women’s Health. “It’s best to have these things already a part of your daily

“There’s so much misinformation about what a mood disorder looks like,” says Birdie Gunyon Meyer, coordinator of the Perinatal Mood Disorders program at Indiana University Health. “We have the idea that being depressed means you’re crying all the time, but it could mean jumping out of your skin with anxiety.”

{YOUR WELL-BEING} Just as you’re taking stock of your physical health, it’s important to evaluate your mental well-being before getting pregnant as well.

Assess your stress How stressful is your job? Are you dealing with family drama? Have you had difficult pregnancies or births before, or are you worried about being able to get pregnant? All of these things can contribute to increased anxiety surrounding pregnancy. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, takes steps to manage your stress now before conceiving.

Educate yourself on mood disorders No one expects to struggle with depression or anxiety during or after pregnancy, but the statistics don’t lie.

Twenty percent of new moms, that’s one in seven women, will deal with a Perinatal Mood and Anxiety Disorder. While some mood changes are expected during pregnancy, such as feeling more tired, irritable or worried, many women don’t realize that feelings like anxiety, anger, problems eating or sleeping and trouble remembering things could be signs of a larger problem.

Know your risk factors Ignoring signs of a Perinatal Mood and Anxiety Disorder during pregnancy increases your chances of dealing with postpartum depression after the baby is born. Also, you are at a higher risk for developing a problem if you have a personal or family history of depression and anxiety, or if you’ve dealt with issues such as severe PMS, infertility, pregnancy losses, abuse or health issues, especially thyroid disease and diabetes.

Think ahead What’s your life insurance strategy?

Many people have group insurance at work, but some experts recommend getting an outside policy as well. Planning ahead can also give you extra time to get in shape to get the best rates.

“Life insurance is one of those pieces of their financial picture that couples should be evaluating as soon as they know children will be in their future,” says Kyle Sanders, financial consultant and founder of Legacy Consultants Group, and dad of two.

“We find most couples need seven to 10 times each parent’s income to maintain financial security for the household. So if you have a parent who is making $200,000, you would need between $1.4 million to $2 million in protection.”

You’ll also want to have a will in place once your baby is born, and it’s not too early to start thinking about who you and your partner would name as your child’s guardian should both of you die. It’s also worth investigating Social Security survivor benefits (visit www.ssa.gov/ survivors for more information.)

{YOUR FINANCES} Let’s face it, kids cost a lot.

Getting your financial house in order now will let you focus more on the joy of parenthood later.

Eliminate debt Now is the time to get rid of highinterest debt. While car and house debt is expected, credit card debt can drain your savings with annual interest and hurt your ability to get future loans.

Create a budget How much will a baby cost your family? Sit down with your partner and estimate expenses such as child care, possible income changes and tax breaks. Creating a preliminary budget will help you figure out where you are now and where you may want to cut back when your family expands.

Build an emergency fund To have adequate funds in the event of an emergency, the rule of thumb is to have enough money to cover at least six months of expenses. The funds should be in a saving account, not invested, so they’re easily accessible if necessary.

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Examine health insurance options Priorities change once a baby arrives, and your health insurance selections may too. Low-premium, highdeductible plans are perfect for young, healthy couples without kids, but parents often find that a highpremium plan helps them better budget for out-of-pocket costs.

Investigate college funds It’s never too early to start thinking about how you’ll finance your child’s college education. Read up on different plans available, like 529s (www.irs.gov/publications/p970/ ch08.html) and Coverdell Education Savings Accounts (www.irs.gov/ publications/p970/ch07.html) so you can start funneling money there as soon as your baby is born.

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Feeling overwhelmed?

Don’t! You have time.

Set deadlines, be intentional and get help from your partner and other family members. By prepping for pregnancy well in advance, you’ll be able to celebrate more and worry less when you see those blue lines appear on your pregnancy test!

Most Popular Baby Names in Indiana So long Lucas, Alexander, Lillian and Addison! Make room for some new kids on the block. Check out the most frequently given names in our state! {Boys}

{Girls}

1. Liam

1. Emma

2. Noah

2. Olivia

3. Elijah

3. Ava

4. Mason

4. Sophia

5. William

5. Isabella

6. Jackson

6. Amelia

7. Benjamin

7. Harper

8. Owen

8. Charlotte

9. Jacob

9. Abigail

10. Carter

10. Elizabeth

Source: The Social Security Administration website, Popular Names by State, 2014 (most current data available). www.ssa.gov/oact//babynames/state/index.html

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choosing a MONTESSORI SCHOOL E va luat i n g p ot e n t i a l p ro g r a m s f o r t h e b e s t f i t WORDS BY // MICHELLE SHIRK

With notable alumni ranging from celebrated chef Julia Child to Google founders Larry Page and Sergei Brin, Montessori programs have a track record of producing smart, creative graduates. If you have a young child, you may be wondering if Montessori education is the right choice for your family.

“The Montessori pedagogy is based on the principles developed by Maria Montessori over 100 years ago,” says Cora Dustman, Directress of Indiana Montessori Academy. Montessori educators believe that all children “are naturally curious and want to learn,” says Emily Rudicel, Directress and Head Teacher at Carmel Montessori School.

Montessori classrooms include children of different ages. This allows students to learn from each other and act as both students and teachers.

Teachers (often called “directresses”) guide and direct children in the classroom environment. “Learning is individualized and at the child’s pace,” Dustman says.

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5 questions to ask Are you already sold on Montessori and ready to choose a specific program for your child? Not all schools with the Montessori label are created equal. Here are five important considerations when evaluating a potential school.

Is the school actually following Montessori principles?

“It’s popular to say you are Montessori, and anyone can buy the materials. If you aren’t trained on the materials, and all of the extensions, then [they] are just toys the children play with and they don’t get the benefit of what they are designed to teach,” says Rudicel.

Does the school have any professional affiliations?

“A certified Montessori school should have some form of accreditation through AMI (Association Montessori International) or AMS (American Montessori Society),” says Dustman. “Be aware that if a school and/or staff are not certified there is no formal organization that monitors how the classroom operates.”

Rudicel believes school membership (as opposed to certification) with a major Montessori governing body is sufficient. “We are a member school of AMS which means we adhere to their policies and standards.”

A school’s association with AMI or AMS should provide important clues regarding its approach to Montessori education. Rudicel explains that AMI schools try to strictly follow the methods developed by Maria Montessori, while AMS schools will adapt these principles as times change. She recommends parents educate themselves on both “branches.” “You can simply google ‘AMS vs. AMI’ and get a million results to decide which you feel fits your family best.” Or, visit the organizations’ official websites at www.amiusa.org (AMI) and www.amshq.org (AMS).

What is the classroom environment like?

Schedule a school visit to see teachers and students in action. Watch for happy children, flowing freely through the classroom and communicating frequently with each other, says Dustman. “The classroom should be calm and quieter than expected.” Parents should also ask about staff and student turnover, says Rudicel.

How does this school make me feel?

While the topics listed above are important ones, a school’s credentials are irrelevant if you just don’t feel comfortable there. Rudicel urges parents to pay attention to their first impressions and gut feelings when evaluating potential programs. “You should have a good feeling when leaving the school,” notes Dustman.

Who are the teachers?

A school’s head teacher should be certified through either AMS or AMI, says Rudicel. She received her certification through AMS and has used her knowledge to train Carmel Montessori School staff. At the Indiana Montessori Academy, all directresses hold AMI certifications, reports Dustman.

Of course, you will want to add to this list of considerations based on your family’s unique circumstances and preferences. By using these questions as a starting point, you can gather the information you need to choose the best program for your child.

To learn more about Montessori philosophy, Dustman recommends reading Montessori: The Science Behind the Genius

by Angeline Stoll Lillard.

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indy’s best indoor playgrounds WORDS BY // Shelly Bergman

{Take the fun inside at these local hot spots!}

Whether you love winter or want to hide indoors, February is a time when lots of families go in search for the perfect inside fun. And thankfully, the Indianapolis area has a smattering of indoor playground options (some even with wifi for parents looking to get a little work done). We’ve rounded up some of our favorites.

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The Center at The Well Community Center An indoor play spot made eco-friendly by using only re-purposed toys, furniture and even carpet tiles.

Free to the public and open to children of all ages.

Location: Well Community Center, 330 N. Green St., Brownsburg More info: (317) 244-3974 or visit thewell.community/ center/

Location: Brookville Community Church, 7480 US-52, New Palestine More info: {317} 861-3880 or visit brcconline.net/

The Park at Trader’s Point Christian Church

Create, climb, explore, play and pretend here!

Conner Prairie’s indoor fun includes a playscape, fort building zone, craft area, reading nook and more.

Included with paid general admission to Conner Prairie or free if you’re a member.

The Park is free and open to everyone in the community. It has a 3-story play structure for the big kids and a smaller section for the minis so whether the kids need to work off extra energy, meet friends or relax in a safe, fun environment, you’ll feel at home here.

More info: (317) 776-6000 or visit connerprairie.org

Location: Trader’s Point Christian Church, 6590 S Indianapolis Rd, Whitestown More info: Email park@tpcc.org or visit tpcc.org/ the-park-at-traders-point/

Recreation Unlimited The play zone comes packed with countless play structures. It costs $4-$12/child (depending on the day) but is well worth the money if you’re looking for an awesome way to burn off energy indoors.

Location: 15150 Herriman Blvd., Noblesville More info: (317) 773-3545 or visit recunlimited.com/ playzone/

west Lakeview Church A great play area that’s free to the public for all ages to enjoy. Bring along a sack lunch to enjoy at the picnic tables nearby. This spot is an easy way to spend an entire afternoon.

Location: Lakeview Church, 47 Beachway Drive, Indianapolis More info: (317) 243-9396 or visit lakeviewchurch.org

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Playland at Brookville Community Church Free to the community and great for kids of all ages.

The padded playground is a safe place for tots to tumble and kids to climb.

Discovery Station at Conner Prairie

Location: 13400 Allisonville Rd, Fishers

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central Playscape at The Children’s Museum The Playscape at the Museum originally opened in 1981 but it underwent a recent renovation and is definitely a favorite mid-town spot. The Playscape originally opened in 1981 but underwent a recent renovation and is definitely a favorite mid-town destination. There are separate spots for toddlers and babies, with a climbing pod, sand area and water play spot. Nursing moms have their private area too. Really, they’ve thought of everything.

Entrance is included with paid general admission.

Location: Children’s Museum of Indianapolis, 3000 N. Meridian Street, Indianapolis More info: {317} 334-4000 or visit childrensmuseum.org

IncrediPlex This place is intense with massive bouncey playscapes, arcade games, a euro bounce and more.

Pricing is based on the area you visit in the complex.

Location: 6002 Sunnyside Rd, Indianapolis, IN 46236 More info: Call {317} 823-9555 or visit incrediplex.com/

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The Treehouse at Plainfield Christian Church Free and open to everyone in the community, the play area at The Treehouse is designed for kids ages 2 to 12. There is ton for kids to climb and plenty of space for friends and conversation.

Location: 800 Dan Jones Road, Plainfield More info: Call {317} 839-2384 or visit plainfieldchristian.com

The Commons in Columbus A small drive from Indianapolis but well worth it. This huge indoor playscape has individual areas for tots, preschoolers and the big kids, plus it’s free! It’s such a blast that before long, parents may find themselves scaling the 3-story climber too.

Location: 300 Washington Street, downtown Columbus More info: Call (812) 376-2681 or visit thecommonscolumbus.com/

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Tantrums versus Sensory Meltdowns Misinterpreting the cause of “bad” behavior You know the scene – a child screaming, stomping his feet and crying. It’s the behavior we usually call a temper tantrum. For kids with sensory sensitivities however, including many on the autism spectrum, this type of outburst is not just a display of acting out.

Bright lights, loud noises, strong smells and even itchy clothing can cause sensory overload in some children, triggering reactions that look a lot like a tantrum. But children experiencing sensory meltdowns are not looking for attention; they need to get away from the stimuli that are bothering them.

“It’s important to remember that autism spectrum disorders are neurological disorders, so how children on the spectrum interpret the world and how the information comes in to them, is different than it is for us,” stresses Cathy Pratt, Director of the Indiana Resource Center for Autism at the Indiana Institute on Disability and Community at Indiana University. “Behaviors don’t randomly happen. They’re a response to a lack of skills or other issues.”

What’s behind the outburst?

The field of Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA), a scientifically validated approach to understanding behavior, addresses tantrums and meltdowns by first identifying the function of the behavior. In the case of a tantrum, a child might want something, like a parent’s attention. With a sensory meltdown, a child who can’t express that the room is too noisy for example, may act out to signal he is overwhelmed.

“When you have challenging behavior occurring, you first want to identify why they’re doing it. Are they trying to get something, or are they trying to escape something?” says Liz Lefebre, a board certified behavior analyst and Vice President of Programming and Strategy for Bierman ABA Autism Center in Indianapolis. “We can analyze the behavior to determine what skills they’re missing.”

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Staying calm amid a meltdown That analysis happens later though, after the child has calmed down. Lefebre says that it is futile to try and problem solve with a child in the middle of a tantrum or meltdown. Instead, parents like Tracy Mayer, an Indianapolis mom of a 12-year-old son with autism, do their best to keep their children from hurting themselves or others when they are in this situation. “I try to get my son some place that is not public, and then I talk to him very quietly, and remind him how he doesn’t like it when he gets upset and has ‘fits,’ as he calls them,” Mayer says.

“I ask him if he can use his words or write out why he’s upset. Most of the time he can’t, but the act of attempting can sometimes calm him. Sometimes he just has to get it out of his system for a few minutes.”

Mayer says she’s found that reminding her son of the fun things he can do once he calms down, like play on his tablet, can help him regain control.

When she sees that the meltdown is waning, she offers lots of encouragement and praise.

Eventually, therapists can work on teaching skills to handle sensory overload, and provide the motivation to use these behaviors. “Let’s teach this kid to say, ‘I don’t want to be in this loud, noisy mall anymore.’ And once they say that, you take them outside,” Lefebre says. “You want to arrange the reinforcer – escape or getting something they need – so they only get it when they use their new, more appropriate skills.”

For parents having trouble identifying what sensory input is triggering meltdowns for their child, experts recommend having a sensory profile done to evaluate sensory processing patterns.

Preparing in advance Anticipating situations that might cause sensory overload can be essential to preventing meltdowns.

Preparing a child for the lights, noises and smells he or she might encounter, what therapists call front loading, can also lessen the chance of a bad reaction. Social narratives and videos can also help in this area.

For Kathy Shreve, a Carmel mom whose 7-year-old son, Andrew, is on the spectrum, that means traveling with noise-canceling headphones, a stroller, chewing gum and a weighted blanket. The family also plans outings around Andrew’s tolerance level. “We build in quiet time breaks and limit our time at busy events. We only do one busy-type activity per day,” she says. “You just can’t try to squeeze it all in… it’s too much.”

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Special Needs Don’t Discriminate Connecting families across cultures and language From autism to Down syndrome, disabilities cross all cultural and racial lines. In Indianapolis, local advocacy organizations are making special efforts to make sure no family feels isolated in their experience raising a child with special needs.

The Spanish phrase “Cuenta Conmigo” roughly translates in English to “Count on Me,” and it’s a fitting name for the group that first welcomed America Schubert when she learned her son would be born with Down syndrome. “I wanted to know what was coming,” says Schubert, who is Latina and bilingual. “I wanted to actually see the children.

What’s the progress? Will my child be able to speak? How will I find out about therapy?”

Seven years later, Schubert now helps lead the community group as a volunteer, working to connect Hispanic and Spanish-speaking families in central Indiana who are affected by Down syndrome with the resources of Down Syndrome Indiana. “It’s been great to have a support group that you can not only get information from in your own language, but also connect with other families,” Schubert says. “We have a lot of families who don’t speak any English, and for every meeting, we make sure our presenter is bilingual or that we have an interpreter.” The group meets on the first Wednesday of each month from 6-8 pm at DSI’s offices. Down Syndrome Indiana’s network of community groups also includes a chapter of the Minority Families Down Syndrome Network, which meets the fourth Sunday of each month from 3-5 pm at DSI’s offices.

Volunteer leader Shauntel Neal-Howe, whose 10-year-old daughter, Zoe, has Down syndrome, stresses the importance of connecting families in the minority community with each other. “If you have new parents or people who are new to the area, it can be difficult to find each other,” she says. “It’s important for them to know that they’re not alone.

Nine times out of ten, there is someone there who has been through it before.”

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Meetings often feature guest speakers, panel discussions with local experts and social time designed for those with Down syndrome and their families, including siblings. Anyone who is affected

by Down syndrome is invited to attend. “It’s not that we have a minority group and we’re in our own silo,” Neal-Howe says. “We’re trying to bring others into the broader community. We’re more alike than different.”

While ASI doesn’t currently have any Spanishspeaking support groups, Renay says she hopes the organization can continue to find new ways to reach out to minority communities. “We have the ability to support all people, we just don’t always know the best way to reach them,” she says. “I would love for people to tell us, ‘This is what we need, and this is why we’re struggling.’”

Outside of the Down syndrome community, other advocacy organizations are also placing renewed focus on connecting families with things in common, be it location, language or culture.

More information about Down Syndrome Indiana’s community groups can be found at www. dsindiana.org/CommunityGroups.php. For a map of allies with the Autism Society of Indiana, visit www.autismsocietyofindiana.org/asiallies/4589375564.

Grupo de Apollo para Latinos con Autismo, or GALA, is a support group for parents and families of children with autism that’s headed by the Leadership Education in Neurodevelopmental and Related Disorder Program at the Riley Child Development Center.

The group meets on the first Wednesday of each month at 6 pm, also utilizing space at DSI’s offices.

Free childcare is provided while parents hear from area professionals who work with children with autism about local resources and current treatments and therapies.

The Autism Society of Indiana has local Allies across the state, including one who speaks Spanish, who are able to help direct families to nearby resources and support. Also, the Autism Resource Network of Indiana (www.ARNIonline. org) has thousands of resources about autism, including information on providers, insurance, Medicaid and schools, in both English and Spanish.

ASI Chief Executive Ally Dana Renay says, “For me, it’s really important that we’re able to support all people, no matter what their background is or what language they speak.”

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Special Needs Guide ABA Autism Services by Damar ABA provides proven research-based treatments and interventions for children with Autism and their families, ensuring that children learn, gain confidence and purpose, and engage in meaningful interactions in their everyday lives. 9905 Fall Creek Road, Indianapolis, IN 46256, Contact: Kristin Dovenmuehle, Director, Phone: 317-813-4690, Email: info@damar.org, www.DamarABA.org

Applied Behavior Center for Autism Carmel CENTER ABC for Autism is proud to be Indiana's largest and longest running ABA therapy provider. With 7 locations throughout the state, we offer high quality one-on-one ABA and verbal behavior consulting and therapy. Our new Carmel center is also home to our state-of-the-art indoor, therapeutic pool.

This is home to our special needs swim lessons and free open swim days. 1341 Old Merdian St, Carmel, IN 46032 , Contact: Sheiletha Quinn, Phone: 317-573-KIDS, Email: Sheiletha@appliedbehaviorcenter.org, www.appliedbehaviorcenter.org, www.facebook.com/ autismhope

Applied Behavior Center for Autism Early Childhood Center ABC for Autism is proud to be Indiana's largest and longest running ABA therapy provider. With 7 locations throughout the state, we offer high quality one-on-one ABA and verbal behavior consulting and therapy. Our Early Childhood Center (ECC) is a highly specialized center in which clients ages 2-6 grow and develop through individualized programming, typical peer interaction, and early intervention ABA therapy. 7857 E. 88th St, Indianapolis, IN 46256, Contact: Sheiletha Quinn, Phone: 317-849-KIDS, Email: Sheiletha@appliedbehaviorcenter.org, www.appliedbehaviorcenter.org, www.facebook.com/ autismhope

Applied Behavior Center for Autism Greenwood CENTER ABC for Autism is proud to be Indiana's largest and longest running ABA therapy provider. With 7 locations throughout the state, we offer high quality one-on-one ABA and verbal behavior consulting and therapy. Our beautiful Greenwood facility offers individualized one-on-one therapy programs for children and teens ages 2 and older. 374 Meridian Parke Lane, Greenwood, IN 46142, Contact: Sheiletha Quinn, Phone: 317-889-KIDS, Email: Sheiletha@ applied behaviorcenter.org, www.appliedbehaviorcenter.org,

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Applied Behavior Center for Autism IndIANAPOLIS North CENTER ABC for Autism is proud to be Indiana's largest and longest running ABA therapy provider. With 7 locations throughout the state, we offer high quality one-on-one ABA and verbal behavior consulting and therapy. Indy North is our corporate office which also offers individualized one-on-one therapy programs for children and teens ages 2 and older. 7901 E. 88th St, Indianapolis, IN 46256, Contact: Sheiletha Quinn, Phone: 317-849-KIDS, Email: Sheiletha@applied behaviorcenter.org, www.appliedbehaviorcenter.org,

Easter Seals Crossroads Offering comprehensive disability services for people of all ages. Early Intervention, Autism Services, PT, OT, Speech Therapy, Feeding/Swallowing issues, Augmentative Communication, Assistive Technology, Multi-sensory Therapy Rooms, Summer Camps, Life/ Social Skills Groups, Deaf Community Services, Autism Family Resource Center, 4740 Kingsway Drive, Indianapolis, IN 46205, Phone: 317-466-1000, Email: info@easterseals crossroads.org, http://www. eastersealscrossroads.org

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Applied Behavior Center for Autism IndIANAPOLIS West CENTER ABC for Autism is proud to be Indiana's largest and longest running ABA therapy provider. With 7 locations throughout the state, we offer high quality one-on-one ABA and verbal behavior consulting and therapy. Our Indy West center is proud to offer individualized one-on-one therapy programs for children and teens ages 2 and older. 6865 Parkdale Place, Indianapolis, IN 46254, Contact: Sheiletha Quinn, Phone: 317-849-KIDS, Email: Sheiletha@appliedbehaviorcenter.org, www.appliedbehaviorcenter.org, www.facebook.com/ autismhope

Autism Parent Care, LLC Offering one to one intervention to children and adults with autism. Academic subjects and ABA included.

Insurance Billable. 395 S 9th St Noblesville, Phone: 317-503-1296

BEHAVIORWORKS ABA We work with you! BehaviorWorks provides Early Intervention for Autism and Indiana Medicaid Waiver Behavior Support Services. BehaviorWorks is a team you can grow with. We use the evidence-based strategies of ABA to create effective behavioral solutions.

Are you looking for a fresh perspective? Take action for positive change with BehaviorWorks. 8206 Rockville Road No. 146, Indianapolis, IN 46234, Contact: Ann Baloski, Executive Director, Phone: 317-436-0037, Email: info@behaviorworksaba.com, www.behaviorworksaba.com

Children's Therapy Connection We’ve grown! Come check out our brand new location, now with more resources than ever to help connect your child with their potential. Services include: First Steps, PT, OT, and Speech/Feeding Therapy, Social Work/ Counseling, Social Skills/Communication/Feeding Groups, Kindermusik, Hanen Programs, and Therapeutic Yoga for Kids. We strive to be the provider of choice in central Indiana for quality, comprehensive, and familycentered pediatric therapy services for families of children with disabilities. Visit our website or follow us on Facebook to see how we have grown! 7478 Shadeland Station Way, Indianapolis, IN 46256, Phone: 317-288-7606, Email: infochildrenstherapy connection.com, http://childrens therapyconnection.com

Maria Montessori International Academy Want a unique way to educate your child? Try MEBA! Montessori Education with Behavioral Analysis (MEBA) all in One! Half days or full time for working families.

Practical Life skills, OT, PT and Speech Therapy. Zionsville, Carmel and Indianapolis locations, Contact: Vivian Cain, Phone: 317-769-2220, mariamontessori-intl.org

St. Joseph Institute for the Deaf St. Joseph Institute for the Deaf (SJI) is Indiana's only fulltime school dedicated to helping young children (birth to age 8) who are deaf or hard of hearing develop spoken language and literacy skills with the focus of transitioning into their local, community school. Dramatic advances in technology, including sophisticated hearing aids and cochlear implants, give children with significant hearing loss access to sound. With appropriate speech therapy, auditory rehabilitation and language training, children are able to develop spoken language skills. St. Joseph Institute offers a variety of Listening and Spoken Language programs including: early intervention services, internet therapy, full-time preschool program, mainstream support, ongoing consultation, and comprehensive educational training opportunities for families and professionals. With over 175 years of experience, we are professional leaders in the field of Listening and Spoken Language education. Visit our website for more information. 9192 Waldemar Road, Indianapolis, IN 46268, Phone: 317-471-8560, www.sjid.org

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February Special Needs Events WEDS 03 Mental Illness Education Course Location: Chapel Rock Christian Church, Indianapolis, Time: 6-8:30pm, sites.google. com/site/namiindianapolis/home This 12-week class is for parents, siblings, spouses, adult children, friends and significant others of persons with a serious psychiatric illness, such as major depression, bipolar disorder, schizophrenia and PTSD. Wednesdays, Feb. 3 through April 20.

Classes are offered without charge but, registration is required. To register, call NAMI Indianapolis at 317-257-7517 or email info@ namiindy@org.

SAT 06 Special Needs Movie Screening “Kung Fu Panda 3” Location: Studio Movie Grill, Indianapolis, Time: 11am, studiomoviegrill.com/ Movies.aspx Family friendly movies are free for children with special needs and their siblings, with adult tickets available for before-noon price. The movies are shown with the lights up and the volume lowered, and children are free to move around, talk or even dance in the aisles during the movie.

THURS 11 The Arc Of Indiana Valentine’s Day at the State House Location: Indiana State House, downtown Indianapolis, Time: All day Each February, SAI and The Arc of Indiana host “Valentine’s Day at the State House,” a day for self-advocates from across the state to learn about public policy and meet their legislators. Participants are encouraged to bring or mail Valentine’s cards to their legislators, thanking them for their support and sharing our story on how policy impacts us everyday. Legislators look forward to this day every year.

SAT 13 Indianapolis-Butler University Polar Plunge For Special Olympics Indiana Location: Butler Health & Recreation Complex, Butler campus, Indianapolis, Time: 8:30am, soindiana.org/polarplunge/

Support Special Olympics Indiana by joining the fun of the Polar Plunge. Join us for this extreme fundraising event for the warm at heart. Participants must raise a “bear” minimum of $75 ($50 minimum for students with a student I.D.) to take a daring dip into Indiana’s winter waters. All funds raised by the event benefit Special Olympics Indiana.

WEDS 17 Autism Family Resource Center Parents’ Support Group Location: Easter Seals Crossroads, Indianapolis, Time: 5:30-7pm, eastersealscrossroads.org/parentssupport-group The Parents’ Support Group for parents of children with autism meets monthly at the Autism Family Resource Center at Easter Seals Crossroads. Their goal is to provide support and information to families living with autism. If you are a parent or caregiver of a child with autism, you are invited to join us to share your thoughts and ideas and learn from others.

SAT 20 Monthly Cooking Club with Gigi’s Playhouse Indianapolis Location: Gigi’s Playhouse, Indianapolis, Time: 12pm, gigisplayhouse.org/ indianapolis/events/cooking-club-3/ Get cooking with your friends at GiGi’s!

This program is geared toward building safety awareness in the kitchen and preparing healthy recipes that taste great.

Recommended for youth and teens ages 10 and up.

SAT 27 Strike A Difference Bowl-A-Thon Location: Strike Force Lanes, Greenfield, Time: 4pm, fuseinc.org/strike-a-differencefor-fuse/ Support FUSE — Families United for Support and Encouragement — an organization that provides information, resources and support to families raising children with special needs. All bowlers are challenged to raise a minimum of $100.

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Day Camp

Preparing for adventures close to home crises that could affect your child – divorce, recent death, etc.

Day camp is a place where children can stretch their minds, exercise their bodies, develop new interests and forge lasting friendships. To help your child make the most of the experience, consider these 10 tips:

When filling out the emergency contact form, make sure the person you designate to help out in your absence knows in advance her name is listed. Every year camps contact the emergency person written down and she was not informed she was “on call.”

1. Consider interests. Day camps offer a host of options that include everything from one centralized activity to a variety of traditional camp fun. Talk with your child about what he would like to gain from the experience. Does he want an assortment of activities or to concentrate on one skill, such as soccer or art?

9. Peruse policies & procedures.

2. Ponder program length. Camps range from several hours to a full day and can run from one week to an entire summer. How long your child should participate in a program will depend largely upon his age, developmental level and previous camp experience. First-time campers would do well starting in a partial- to full-week program. Experienced campers may enjoy one that runs throughout the summer.

3. Look at location. If you choose a day camp close to home, commute time will be less and your child may already be acquainted with some of the other children. A day camp near your employer, however, would allow quick access to your child. But if your child needs additional morning or afternoon childcare, you may want to consider a program close to your sitter.

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4. Ask about staff. Find out about the camper-to-counselor ratio. Ideally it should be six campers to one counselor, as recommended by the American Camping Association. What experience and/or training do the counselors have? How are they selected? What is the camp’s discipline policy? Are they trained to take care of health concerns such as asthma, allergies and dispensing medicine?

5. Focus on the facility. Ask about indoor and outdoor facilities. Is there ample indoor space for children to play during inclement weather? Is the outdoor equipment and grounds well maintained? Are the children’s swimming skills tested before they are allowed to enter the water?

6. Investigate cost. Inquire about additional fees. Some day camps have a base price but charge extra for trips and special activities. If the camp you want to send your child to costs more than you can afford, find out if there is a scholarship program.

7. Arrange a pre-visit. Find out if the camp you have chosen has an open house. If not, make arrangements to visit. Before leaving home, jot down any questions you have. If they are not addressed during the meeting, ask to speak with someone before securing your deposit.

8. Fill out forms. When it comes to forms, be thorough and specific. For example, if your child was taking medication during the school year but will be off of it for the summer, make sure the camp is aware as this could cause an extreme change in behavior.

Insect and food-related allergies should be listed too. Also list family

Most camps have a weekly schedule so parents know the upcoming activities.

Talk with your child about what is planned. If she cannot participate due to health reasons, make sure you (not your child) inform the camp. Also, many camps have strict policies about leaving technology items at home. If restricted items are brought, they may be confiscated and returned at the end of the day in hopes the child gets the message.

10. Keep communicating. At the end of each camp day, find time to listen as he shares his adventures. If he is having a hard time articulating what happened, break it down by activities – “What crafts did you do?”

“Did you play any outdoor games that involved balls or running?” “Who did you play with at the pool?” Above all, encourage your child to always do his best, obey the rules and be respectful of others, and chances are he’ll have a great time.

Denise Yearian is the former editor of two parenting magazines and the mother of three children.

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Camp Guide { DAY CA M P S} Beth-El Zedeck Early Childhood Summer Camp 2016 600 W. 70th St., Indianapolis, IN; Phone: (317) 259-6854; e-mail: jwaldman@bez613. org; http://bez613.org/ Dates: Session 1: June 6 – July 1; Session 2: July 5 – July 29 Hours: Flexible hours. Half Days/Full Days. Other Options available: Early drop off as early as 7:30 am and late pick up anytime up until 6:00 pm/5:30 pm on Fridays.

Activities Included: Weekly creative themes, arts and crafts, water fun at the Sidney & Lois Eskenazi Aquatic Complex for 3's, 4's and 5's. Water play for 12 months +, 18 months + and 2+. Music/Creative Movement, Entertainment, Field Trip Fridays for 4's and 5's.

Our Summer Program “Commotion in the Ocean” is OPEN TO THE PUBLIC! Our Program recognizes that children learn through play. Play fosters total development and should be interwoven in everything children do.

During camp, children will experiment and explore by using all five senses. Our campers will thrive on creativity, exploration, discovery, spontaneity and lots of love.

Butler Community Arts School Butler University, 4600 Sunset Ave., Indianapolis, IN; Phone: (317) 940-6117; e-mail: mliffick@butler.edu; www.butler.edu/bcas Dates: June 12 - July 22, 2016 Hours: 9am-5:30pm Ages: 7-18 Activities Included: private lessons, ensemble, music theory Butler Music Camps meet for one week each. Camps for ages 12-18 include: Percussion, Bass, Snare and Tenor, String Scholars, Piano, Jazz, Voice, Oboe, Saxophone, Brass. Camps for ages 7-11 include: Piano, Strings, Arts.

Camps are directed by Butler faculty and include many sessions with Butler students.

Camp Carson YMCA 2034 Outer Lake Road, Princeton, IN; Phone: (812) 385-3597; e-mail: campinfo@ ymcacampcarson.org; www.campcarson.org

world in a camp family where all kids are Accepted, Challenged, Empowered. ALL new cabins built in 2014.

Carmel Clay Parks & Recreation 1235 Central Park Drive East, Carmel, IN; Phone: (317) 573-5240; e-mail: bjohnson@ carmelclayparks.com; http://carmelclayparks.com/ summercampseries/ Dates: May 31-July 29, 2016 Hours: Monday-Friday, 7am-6pm Special Needs Offered: Yes Ages: 5-15 Activities Included: arts, theatre, science, sports, nature, swimming, field trips The Summer Camp Series with Carmel Clay Parks & Recreation is a fun and exciting experience for kids. We offer 12 different camps for ages 5-15 years that focus on arts, theatre, science, sports, and nature. We hope you'll join us for some fun this summer!

Fly from the zipline, create a clay pot, ride horses or dirt-bikes. Build your confidence and self-esteem as you join campers and staff from around the country and the

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Central Indiana Academy of Dance 14950 Greyhound Court, Ste 4, Indianapolis, IN; Phone: (317) 581-2423; e-mail: suzannd@ciaodance.com; www.ciaodance.com The goal of Central Indiana Academy of Dance is to offer a high quality of dance training in a professional atmosphere regardless of the student.

Chinese Culture Camp IUPUI, University Boulevard, Indianapolis, IN; phone: (317) 278-7900; email: ciindy@ iupui.edu; www.iupui.edu/~china/courses/summer-camp/ Dates: June 13 - July 15 2016 Hours: 7:30am-6pm Ages: 5-13 Activities Included: Chinese martial arts, language, calligraphy, crafts and sports and more For language learning, the younger the better. To better prepare our children to learn Chinese language, the Confucius Institute in Indianapolis offers a Chinese Culture summer day camp for K-8 students. The camp is held on the IUPUI campus, and last for one to five weeks.

Cincinnati Reds Baseball/ Softball Camps Billericay Park: 12600-12883 Promise Rd, Fishers, IN 60555, Contact: Tim Rappe, Phone: 855-846-7337, Email: Trappe@reds.com, www.reds.com/camps Gender of Campers: Co-ed Basic Category: Sports Hours: 9a-3p; M-F

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Dates: 6/6-6/10, 2016 Ages/Grades: Ages 6-14 Cost: $395 Activities Included: VIP trip to Great American Ball Park, full Reds u​ niform (hat, jersey, belt, MLB-style pants), 4 game tickets Official Camps of the Reds. 30 hrs. of World Class baseball/softball training and unforgettable Reds experience. Meet a top player at GABP. 30 hrs. of instruction. Bring a buddy and save $25. Maybe the best baseball camp in America. Camp sold out last year so register early.

Conner Prairie 13400 Allisonville Rd., Fishers, IN; Phone: (317) 776-6000; e-mail: mccarthy@ connerprairie.org; www.connerprairie.org/ Dates: June 6-Aug 12, 2016 Hours: 8:30am-3:30pm (early drop off and late pick up available for additional fee) Ages: 5-15 Activities Included: backyard zip line, swimming, water fun, canoeing, fishing, line-led horse riding, crafts, hiking, challenge course, tire tower, archery and more!

Conner Prairie Adventure Camp provides a great outdoor, action-packed experience! Enroll your child in Adventure Camp for a week’s worth of fun and excitement in a unique environment staffed with skilled counselors. You have 10 weeks to choose from.

CYO Camp Rancho Framasa 2230 N Clay Lick Road, Nashville, IN; Phone: (812) 988-2839; e-mail: info@ campranchoframasa.org; www.campranchoframasa.org Dates: June 5 - July 29, 2106 Hours: 24/7 Special Needs Offered: Inclusive camp Ages: kindergarten - Adult Activities Included: Horseback riding, climbing wall and high ropes, archery, swimming, canoeing, arts & crafts, drama, outdoor skills, sports & games, campfires, cooking out, teen programs ACA accredited, established 1946. Located in Brown County, Indiana. Residential recreational programming.

Core Values - Camper-Centered; Inclusive; Staff Development; Catholic; Humility; Stewards of the Earth.

Member of the Green Camps Initiative. Also offering three weeks of our day camp program, located in Indianapolis.

Indianapolis Museum of Art 4000 Michigan Road, Indianapolis, IN; Phone: 317-923-1331; www.imamuseum. org/class/summercamp Dates: June 13 - July 22, 2016 Hours: Mon-Friday, drop off 8:30am Ages: 4-13 Campers, ages 4 – 13, experience hands on activities, both inside and outdoors catering to your child's educational and artistic needs across our 152 acre campus. Campers will experiment with traditional and nontraditional materials, make a portfolio of work to take home, and be featured in an end-of-the-week exhibition.

Register early as camps do sell out!

901 West New York Street, Indianapolis, IN; Phone: (317) 278-3727; e-mail: kewasylk@ iupui.edu; www.camps.iupui.edu Dates: June 6-August 12, 2016 Hours: 7am - 5:30pm Ages: 5-12 year olds Cost: $180 per week + $25 Before/After Care Activities Included: Daily Swim Lessons, Enrichments, crafts, sports, games Children ages 5 - 12 will participate in field trips, 11 & 12 year old leadership academy, crafts, games, and a variety of sports. Campers have the option of Jaguar Camp or a list of Enrichment camps. The Summer Day Camp Guide is online to download and includes the entire camp schedule, enrichment camps descriptions, before and after care, camp fees, and other registration information.

The Children’s House Summer Camp

reading and outdoor games. Enrollment for day camp is limited to 20 children. Our summer preschool program is limited to 15 children.

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The Park Tudor Summer Experience 7200 College Ave, Indianapolis, IN; Phone: (317) 415-2898; e-mail: jmcdowell@ parktudor.org; www.parktudor.org/summer/ Dates: June 6- July 29, 2016 Hours: Mornings 9am-noon; Afternoons 1-4pm Ages: 3-18 Looking for a rewarding and enriching academic summer program in Indianapolis? Look no further than Park Tudor, which offers a variety of fun and educational summer classes and camps. Park Tudor School invites all students ages 3-18 to attend its summer programs. In keeping with the mission of Park Tudor School, you will find our summer programs offer small class sizes and varied experiences that will foster creativity and a joy for learning.

2404 W 62nd St, Indianapolis, IN; Phone: (317) 253-3033; e-mail: childrenshouse08@ gmail.com; www.thechildrenshouseindianapolis.com Dates: June 13, 2016 to August 19, 2016 Hours: Camp day 9-4. Extended hours 7am-5:45pm Ages: 3-12 Activities Included: art activities; writing workshops; library reading program; puppetry; theater; swimming; hiking

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COMM E NTA RY + PA R E N TING WORDS BY // DEB KRUPOWICZ

Ask the Teacher

Classroom technology, phasing out phys ed, college for kids with special needs

Q:

I have a great deal of concern about the increased use of technology in classrooms at our son’s elementary school. It seems that more and more time is spent using electronic devices and less and less time is devoted to traditional paper/pencil activities.

How can kids possibly be learning when they are playing games so much of the time?

A:

There are sound arguments on both sides of the technology-use question, but the fact remains that all of our lives are infused with technology.

A balance of traditional and technological activities is likely the answer to developing skills and nurturing brain development in today’s kids.

The advancements in technology over the last several years are remarkable in terms of its ability to support academic growth and practice. The graphics and design of educational websites and software excite students. Games are a fun way to practice basic skills in all subject areas in a variety of formats.

Top-quality content, photographs, charts, maps and clips enhance introduction and exploration of topics in a timely way that textbooks and films simply cannot. Interaction with others is now possible as options for cooperation and collaboration are added. Content from a variety of

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resources can be manipulated in an advanced way, supporting out-of-thebox thinking.

Consider meeting with your child’s teacher so that he or she can show you what is being used in the classroom. You will likely be reassured that there is a great deal of learning happening in what has been disguised as fun!

Q:

Our school has removed physical education teachers and has replaced them with more STEM teachers. Why isn’t the health and physical well-being of our kids considered important?

A:

Each state has its own standards for physical education and its own requirements for how those standards must be met. If there is an allowance for a licensed teacher to teach physical education, even without a physical education background, regular classroom teachers may be given that responsibility. They can meet the standards requirements by providing basic activities, although a great deal is lacking when experts in the field of physical education are not involved.

School corporations are being pushed to create learning environments heavily weighted by STEM experiences (Science, Technology, Engineering and Mathematics). As they look to

divvy up their limited financial resources, administrators are required to make difficult decisions about what should be prioritized. In spite of research showing the need to develop positive habits for children in regards to their physical health, physical education often falls to the bottom of the priority list.

If parents around you share your concern, you can work together to gather information and approach your local school board about a change. It will be important for you to understand what your state requires, exactly how the schools are meeting those requirements now, how schools in neighboring communities and states prioritize physical education, and how the field of pediatrics views the need for physical education.

Q:

My daughter is a high school sophomore who struggles with school due to special needs. Her friends are all starting to talk about college, and she is jumping on the band wagon. How do I tell her that college is not in her future?

A:

College options for students with special needs have changed a great deal in the last several years.

Legislation has led to much more inclusive admissions criteria and support for students with disabilities and learning obstacles.

Begin with a very honest assessment of the challenges your daughter faces academically, socially and/or emotionally. Carefully consider what successes she has had and what supports were needed to achieve them.

Finding a college that will support your daughter’s needs may be difficult. Tap into the resources available through your high school guidance office, the special needs educators at your daughter’s school and/or the administrator who oversees your school corporation’s resource department. Also talk with other parents of students with special needs for any insights they have. If you are not able to learn from these sources of specific colleges that support special needs effectively, they may at least be able to recommend an advocate agency in your area.

After you have identified a few colleges that may be appropriate, the work of determining what schools are a good fit for your daughter begins.

All of the typical criteria are at play here, but additional scrutiny will be needed. Firsthand visits will be required to determine what resources are actually available and how students are able to access them.

Meeting with someone in the college’s student services department is a must. Ideally, they will be able to arrange a meeting with a student with similar challenges to your daughter so that you can learn how the college’s description of its support impacts student success.

A s k t h e Teac h er // is written by Deb

Krupowicz, a mother of four who holds a Master’s degree in Curriculum and Instruction. Deb has over twenty years of experience teaching preschool, elementary and middle school students. Please send your questions to her at asktheteacher@indyschild.com.

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Education & Childcare Guide // SCHOO LS + EDUCATIO N carme l Carmel Montessori Schools, Inc. Carmel Montessori School is located on the NE corner of Main St. and Meridian in Carmel. Our directress is American Montessori Certified with 18 years head-teaching experience and we a a full member of the American Montessori Society. We offer a beautiful, peaceful and positive Montessori learning environment. Extended days available. 1402 W. Main St., Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Emily & Scott Rudicel, Phone: 317-580-0699, Email: info@carmelmontessori.com, carmelmontessori.com

DOWNTOWN Paramount School of Excellence Paramount School of Excellence is a tuition-free K-8 charter school that educates students in an innovative environment that instills high expectations for success. Paramount accomplishes its mission and teaches the mastery of Indiana State Standards through an emphasis on rigorous academics, technology and the environment.

Integral to the school’s approach to education is school-wide use of computer technology, a green initiative, project-based investigations, community partnerships and three on-site Discovery Centers – an indoor Eco Center, Time and Space Center with a planetarium and an urban farm. 3020 Nowland Ave., Indianapolis, IN 46201 Contact: Peggy Purvis, 317.775.6660, school@paramountindy.org, www.paramountindy.org

Maria Montessori International Academy (Carmel) “Can your 4 year old read this?” OURS CAN! Come discover why our programs are so successful that our kindergartens are in advance reading and math in first grade at both Zionsville and Carmel Public Schools! The program offers education for infants, toddlers, Pre-K, kindergarten, and elementary across subjects, even for very young children, including math, science, Spanish, art and music, as well as reading and writing. 3500 106th St. & Shelborne (Holy Trinity Orthodox Greek Church), Carmel, IN 46032, Phone: 317-769-2220, Cost/ Tuition: please call, www.mariamontessori-intl.org

Minds-in-Motion, Inc. Minds-in-Motion is a brain-training program based on NASA technology. It utilizes a unique blend of balance exercises, gymnastics and applied technology, all focused on strengthening the brains ability to process and organize information. Minds-inMotion builds stronger bodies and smarter minds! 879 West Carmel Drive, Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Candace Meyer, Phone: 317-571-8752, Hours: 10-week Fall, Winter & Spring sessions + 4-week Intensive Summer, Email: info@ mimlearning.com, www.mimLearning.com, Hours/Dates: 10-week Fall, Winter & Spring sessions + 4-week Intensive Summer Sessions, Ages/Grades: 3-18

Starting Line Preschool The Right Start for A Lifelong Love of Learning! Our strong academic-based curriculum prepares and encourages your child to succeed in school while discovering learning is fun! All of our classes focus on an introduction to colors, number and letters with exciting art and science projects. Math, social studies and sight words are taught in the older classes.Develop Social Awareness & Friendships, Build Confidence and Master Academic Skills for Kindergarten. 110 Third Ave NE, Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Diane Atkins, Phone: 317-753-9397, Email: dkatkins22@msn.com, http://www.starting linepreschool.com

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Children’s Circle Preschool is a developmentally appropriate, activity based, Christian preschool. We offer classes for children ages 9 months to 5 years old. We meet the needs of the whole child in a creative and loving environment. Our experienced staff embraces excellence in education by nurturing the whole childphysically, emotionally, spiritually, and intellectually. Please call for more information or to set up a tour. 7700 N. Meridian St., Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Cara Paul, Director, 317-252-5517, cpaul@secondchurch.org, www.childrenscircle.org

Children’s Day In Nursery School and Traditional Preschool

A quality learning environment offering preschool, kindergarten and elementary. Certification through American Montessori Society.

12806 Ford Rd and 131st and Allisonville Rd., Fishers, IN 46038, Contact: Peggy White, 317-849-9519 or 317-580-1850

Children's Day In Nursery School and Traditional Preschool is a fully inclusive early childhood program with an emphasis on Christian values and learning through play. It is designed to offer children ages 9 months to 5 years a positive and developmentally appropriate first school experience in the care of experienced and loving caregivers. We play and learn! Classes are offered weekdays from 9 am to 2:30 pm. For the older kids, our program includes weekly Christian Life Skills, Music class taught by Indianapolis Children’s Choir instructors and Book Club. Summer Camp CDI is our 4-week summer program with classes from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. and can easily be added on to the end of the school year. Summer Camp CDI runs the month of June. Please call, E-mail or visit for further information and registration forms. Tours are individually set up at your convenience! 5500 N. Meridian St., Indianapolis, IN 46208, Contact: Christy Whaley, Phone: 317-253-0472, cwhaley@ meridianstreet.org, www.meridianstreet.org/cdi.

indianapolis – north

A Children’s Habitat Montessori School

Beth-El Zedeck Early Childhood Center

For over 40 years, A Children's Habitat Montessori School has been providing a place where children thrive and discover their love of learning. Habitat provides a traditional Montessori school experience for families seeking a half-day preschool and kindergarten, or full-day elementary program. We are a not-forprofit school based on the principles of Maria Montessori, and we are fully accredited by the American Montessori Society. For more information, visit our website: www.childrens-habitat.org. Hours/ Dates: Monday - Friday Regular Day 8:30-11:30 Extended Day 11:30-1:30 Kindergarten 11:30-1:30. Ages/Grades: 18 months 6 years. 801 W. 73 Street, Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Carmen Nieves, Phone: (317)726-5584, Email: info@childrens-habitat.org, http://www. childrens-habitat.org

Clay Montessori A Montessori school offering morning, afternoon, and full-day programs. Available for ages 3-6 years old. Call for more information.

(Affiliated with Fisher’s Montessori) 463 East Main St., Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Peggy White, 317-849-9519 or 317-580-1850

Children’s Circle Preschool at Second Presbyterian Church

fishers Fishers Montessori

OPEN TO THE PUBLIC. Full Academic Curriculum and Innovative ArtsEnrichment. Our Program recognizes that intellectual, social, emotional and physical development are interwoven. Our children will thrive on exploration, creativity, curiosity, discovery, spontaneity and more important, lots of love! Type of School: Early Childhood Cost/Tuition: Please call or email for full brochure Hours/Dates: Flexible Hours. Full Time/Part-Time available. Ages/Grades: 12 months old+, 18 months old+, 2s+, 3s+, 4s+, Pre-Kindergarten (Kindergarten Readiness Class)(3 day or 5 day option) Before/After School Care: Before and After School Care always available as needed. Early drop off as early as 7:30 am and late pick up anytime up until 6:00pm/5:30 pm on Fridays. 600 W. 70th St., Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Joanie Waldman, Phone: 317-259-6854, Fax: 317-259-6849, Email: jwaldman@bez613.org, www.bez613.org

Brebeuf Jesuit Preparatory School You are invited to visit the only Catholic Jesuit school in the state of Indiana that has been educating students in the Jesuit tradition for more than 50 years. Brebeuf Jesuit’s Mission Statement: Brebeuf Jesuit, a Catholic and Jesuit school, provides an excellent college preparatory education for a lifetime of service by forming leaders who are intellectually competent, open to growth, loving, religious and committed to promoting justice. Fostering a culture of understanding and dialogue, Brebeuf Jesuit seeks and welcomes students from diverse religious, ethnic and socio-economic backgrounds. Students at Brebeuf Jesuit are called to discover and cultivate the fullness of their God-given talents as a responsibility and as an act of worship. CORE VALUES: Education of the Whole Person, A Caring and Diverse Community, The Greater Glory of God. 2801 W 86th St, Indianapolis, IN 46268. Contact: Liz Otteson, Director of Admissions. Phone: 317-524-7090. Email: admissions@brebeuf.org, www.brebeuf.org

Early Childhood Center, The Church at the Crossing Our Mothers Day Out (16-35 mos) and Preschool (3 yrs-PreK5) programs provide relaxed, playful, secure environments that nurture creativity and encourage the exploration of God’s world, with a wide variety of learning materials & readiness skills woven through each unit. Need longer hours? Try our child care ministry, The Neighborhood designed for 16 mos - Pre K5. 9111 N. Haverstick Rd., Indianapolis, IN 46240, Contact: John Drake, Whitney Carriger, or Robin Crum, Phone: 317-575-6508, Fax: 317-575-6509, Email: jdrake@golove.org or wcarriger@golove.org

Heritage Christian School Established in 1965, accredited through ACSI and NCA, HCS is the choice in college preparatory discipleship Christian education for 1,400 students each year grades Preschool-12. Advanced, Honors and AP classes. Full Fine Arts and 2A IHSAA ATHLETICS. HCS is training up the next generation of Christian leaders through challenging, Biblically taught curriculum including internships and service to others. Bus transportation available.

Schedule a tour today! 6401 E. 75th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46250. Contact: Admissions Department, 317-849-3441, Admissions@heritagechristian.net, www.heritagechristian.net

Maria Montessori International Academy (INDIANAPOLIS)

indianapolis – northeast

“Can your 4 year old read this?” OURS CAN! Come discover why our programs are so successful that our kindergartens are in advance reading and math in first grade at both Zionsville and Carmel Public Schools! The program offers education for infants, toddlers, Pre-K, kindergarten, and elementary across subjects, even for very young children, including math, science, Spanish, art and music, as well as reading and writing. 7507 N. Michigan Road, Indianapolis, IN 46268, Phone: 317-291-5557, Cost/Tuition: please call, www.maria montessori-intl.org

The mission of Geist Montessori Academy's Pre-K program is to provide an environment where children can develop to their highest potential academically, emotionally, physically, morally and socially.

We offer half day and full day programs for children ages three to five. Our Pre-K directress is AMS certified with nineteen years experience. 13942 E 96th St., McCordsville, IN; Phone: 317-335-1158; e-mail: kswangma@gmail.com; www.gmacademy.org

Montessori Centres

Geist Montessori Academy

Metropolitan School District of Lawrence Township

Peace and respect for all is our main goal. Montessori Centres has worked with children to develop critical-thinking and timemanagement skills since 1966. Montessori-certified lead teachers serve children aged 3-3rd grade. Classroom structure and materials allow children to be self-directed and self-paced. Our well-rounded curriculum includes French and Spanish, art, science, computer skills, grace and courtesy, social studies, nature and outdoor gardening. 563 West Westfield Blvd., Indianapolis, IN 46208, Contact: Lynn Boone, Director, Phone: 317-257-2224, Fax: 317-257-3034, Email: montessoricentres@sbcglobal.net, www.montessoricentres.com/

An “A” District, Lawrence Township offers a superior and diverse education pre-school through grade 12. Early Learning Centers appeal to the curiosity of the young child. Elementary schools provide strong academic foundations and progressive magnet foci.

Secondary schools implement 1:1 technology and a growing list of rigorous courses and extracurricular activities. 6501 Sunnyside Road, Indianapolis, 46236, Contact: Welcome Center, Phone: 317-423-8200, Email: magnet@msdlt.k12.in.us, www.ltschools.org

The Orchard School

Polly Panda provides a safe and healthy environment which enhances each child’s total growth. Our theme-based hands-on preschool program provides a wide-range of experiences that foster learning, creativity and problem solving in all areas. A child’s sense of self-worth, independence and growth in social skills are developed through positive interaction with peers and our well-qualified and loving staff. 2944 E. 56th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46220, Contact: Gail Hacker and Tammy Clark, Phone: 317-257-9127, Email: thepanda@ pollypanda.com, www.pollypanda.com

The Orchard School, an independent, non-sectarian, progressive school, emphasizing experiential learning. Orchard teachers engage the natural curiosity of children, develop academic excellence, and provide leadership experience through well-rounded education.

Orchard’s diverse community and commitment to multicultural education inspires responsible, global citizenship. Founded in 1922.

NAIS, ISACS, NAEYS accredited. 615 W. 64th St., Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Kristen Hein, Director of Admissions, Phone: 317-713-5705, Fax: 317-254-8454, Email: khein@orchard.org, www.orchard.org

St. Richard’s Episcopal School SRES strives for academic excellence through its classic curriculum with innovative teaching methods; it also provides preparation and knowledge in areas such as faith, leadership, civic responsibility, and global readiness. St. Richard’s offers a rigorous academic curriculum, three world languages, public speaking and leadership opportunities, a strong fine arts program and organized athletics for continued lifetime success. Our newly redesigned Early Childhood Program uses brain-based research and proven instructional practices that lay the foundation in math and literacy skills. The program features unique field experiences, community partnerships, year-round offerings, and a full-day curriculum along with part-time options. 33 E. 33rd Street, Indianapolis, IN 46205, Contact: Abby Williams, Director of Admission and Communications, 317-926-0425 x134, Fax: 317-921-3367, awilliams@strichardsschool.org, www.strichardsschool.org

Sycamore School At Sycamore, teachers trained in gifted education deliver a curriculum designed to challenge and engage gifted learners. Art, music, Spanish, PE and technology are taught at all levels. Extensive field trips, athletics, child care, financial aid, and a wide variety of after school activities are offered. 1750 W. 64th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Dr. Susan Karpicke, Director of Admissions. 317-202-2500, Fax: 317-202-2501, skarpicke@sycamoreschool.org, www.sycamoreschool.org

Polly Panda Preschool & Bridgford Kindergarten

indianapolis – SOUTH Center Grove Montessori and Indiana Montessori Community School Center Grove Montessori Program offers: Hands-on learning, multi-aged students learning together, a key element to the Montessori philosophy, a focus on the intrinsic motivation of children, carefully prepared classrooms balancing children's choice with structure, large blocks of uninterrupted time for learning and building concentration, peace education through global awareness, structured, self-directed learning. 1674 West Smith Valley Rd., Greenwood, IN 46142 and 531 US 31 S, White land, IN 46184, Contact: Brenda Enderle, Phone: 317-833-0335, Email: office@centergrovemontessori.com;info@centergrove montessori.com, http://www.centergrovemontessori.com

Friendship Kids Preschool & Childcare Friendship Kids Preschool & Childcare is all about preparing your child for their academic futures by providing fun, interactive activities that engage your child's 5 senses, while also learning about God! Learning should be fun, so we incorporate play in all of our activities!

Check us out at friendshipkids.com! 963 E Worthsville Road, Greenwood, IN 46143, Contact: Jessica Seelye, Phone: 317-535-2544, Email: jessica@ experiencefriendship.com

MIDTOWN Indianapolis Museum of Art Preschool Through a partnership with St. Mary’s Child Center, the IMA offers a preschool for children ages 3-5. Anchored in Reggio Emilia inspired teaching, every day the children experience original works of art, explore the gardens, and work on projects inspired by the 152 acre campus that surrounds them. Preschool is five days a week, half day from 9 - 11:30 a.m. and follows the IPS school calendar. With a low child to adult ratio (6:1), St. Mary’s Child Center at IMA provides

personal attention to ensure optimal social, emotional, cognitive, and physical development of the students. Contact Heidi Davis-Soylu at

hdavis-soylu@imamuseum.org, imamuseum.org/preschool

westfie ld Montessori School of Westfield, Inc.

Located on 3 wooded acres in Central Indiana, the Montessori School of Westfield adheres to the academic traditions of Montessori while serving the present day child. The Montessori School of Westfield serves children from Indianapolis, Fishers, Carmel, Zionsville, Westfield, Sheridan, Noblesville, Cicero and Tipton. We serve children ages 18 months to 15 years. 800 E. Sycamore Street, Westfield, IN 46074, Contact: Mary Lyman, Directress, Phone: 317-867-0158, Fax: 317-896-5945, Email: montessori westfield@gmail.com, www.montessorischoolofwestfield.com

zionsville Advent Lutheran Preschool Advent offers a Christian learning environment for children ages 2 through 5, including a half-day kindergarten. Our well-balanced program supports emotional, social, cognitive, physical and spiritual development. All children, regardless of faith or church affiliation, are welcome. Call to schedule a tour. 11250 N. Michigan Rd., Zionsville, IN 46077, Contact: Deb Trewartha, Phone: 317-873-6318, Email: dtrewartha@adventlutheran.org, www.adventlutheran.org/ 298544.ihtml

Maria Montessori International Academy (Zionsville) “Can your 4 year old read this?” OURS CAN! Come discover why our programs are so successful that our kindergartens are in advance reading and math in first grade at both Zionsville and Carmel Public Schools! The program offers education for infants, toddlers, Pre-K, kindergarten, and elementary across subjects, even for very young children, including math, science, Spanish, art and music, as well as reading and writing. 4370 Weston Pointe Dr., Zionsville/ Carmel, IN 46077, Phone: 317-769-2220, Cost/Tuition: please call, www.mariamontessori-intl.org

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COMM E NTA RY + PA R E N TING WORDS BY // PETE GILBERT

A Dad Influence The Sweet Spot The sweet spot.

When you hit a baseball, there is a certain spot on the bat, the sweet spot, that makes better contact with the ball, making it go farther and hitting it harder than if you were to hit the same pitch further up or down on the bat.

Right now, my wife and I are in the sweet spot of parenting. I'm not sure it will ever get easier/ better than it is right now. Our kids are ages 9, 6 and 4. Our worries about them are fairly minimal.

They are all in good health. They all seem to be able to make and keep friends. For the most part, they are all polite. They can carry on

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conversations with adults and seem to be doing well in school. They are liked by their teachers and pick up on information quickly, needing little assistance with homework. Their problems are easily solved by Band-Aids, ice cream and heart-to-heart conversations.

We are past the "dark days" of parenting. The days when no one slept through the night. The days of constantly washing cloth diapers. We no longer have to oversee every moment, every bite of food, every crawl towards the stairs, every second in the bathtub, every afternoon in the backyard.

We have yet to enter what I imagine to be the "even darker days" of teenage-land. Of sleepless nights wondering what our kids are doing with their friends, of social media drama, boyfriend and girlfriend troubles, and driving cars (eek!)

Nope, right now we're smack dab right in the middle of these two worlds. I think we'll plead blissful ignorance as to what the future holds, and just stay right here in our own little happy place for the next few years.

Happy parenting to you all!

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daily calendar {FEBRUARY 2016}

TUES 02

Community Tuesday in downtown Indianapolis Location: Various, Time: 10am-5pm, indyschild.com/ community-tuesdays-downtown-indy/ And that means deals for you PLUS the entire family on a whole host of fun. In 2015 Community Tuesdays included $6 adult admission at Eiteljorg (youth free!), ½ price tickets at Indiana State Museum, $2 off IMAX movie tickets and $3 NCAA Hall Of Champions admission.

T H U RS 0 4

Preschool Reader's Theatre Location: Glendale Branch Library, Indianapolis, Time: 10:30am, imcpl.org/events/detail/?event_ id=4207 Preschoolers and an adult are invited as The Ripple Reader's Theatre from Broad Ripple Magnet High School for the Arts and Humanities will perform a reader's theatre version of a favorite picture book, followed by interactive activities and a craft. Watch for this program to pop up in April and May at Glendale Library as well.

Free Admission At The IMA Location: Indianapolis Museum of Art, Time: 4-9pm, imamuseum.org/visit/admission Following suit with some of our local museums and hotspots, the Indianapolis Museum of Art also offers free admission on the first Thursday of every month from 4-9pm. Perfect for a date night, evening out with the family or a little ‘me’ time.

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Pajama Rama Location: Cool Creek Nature Center, Time: 7-7:45pm, hamiltoncounty.in.gov/ Put on the cutest pair of pajamas, grab a teddy bear, pack up an old blanket, and join Cool Creek Nature Park for their monthly Pajama Rama! Families looking for a fun program to enjoy with their toddlers and preschoolers will love the music educator from Moriah Music, who will lead in songs and stories about favorite animals.

Peppa Pig’s Big Splash Live Show Location: Old National Centre, downtown Indianapolis, Time: 6pm, peppapiglive.com/ Peppa Pig’s Big Splash is an action-packed live show, based on the popular Peppa Pig television series, designed to deliver to preschoolers and young fans an unforgettable first live theater experience. A fully immersive musical production featuring a dozen familiar and original songs, as well as an interactive sing-a-long, the live stage show will have fans laughing, singing, dancing and of course jumping in muddy puddles too – just like Peppa. Tickets run $39.50/person.

Target Free Family Night at The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis Location: The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis, Time: 4-8pm, indyschild.com/family-nights-childrensmuseum-indianapolis/ Explore the world’s biggest and best children’s museum for free during Target Free Family Nights! Make discoveries, spark your creativity, be transported to other times and places, get your hands in sand and water, climb and jump... and have a ball doing it all. In February, families will honor Black History Month with special activities.

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First Saturday Member Morning Location: The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis, Time: 9-10am, childrensmuseum.org/ Enjoy all of your favorite exhibits at the Children’s Museum of Indianapolis on the first Saturday of the month as the museum opens an hour early just for members. Ride the Carousel, scale the Rock Wall (a limited number of tickets available at 9am), and beat the crowds. No need to register ahead of time… just show up and start having a ball!

Chinese New Year Celebration Location: The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis, Time: 10am-5pm, childrensmuseum.org/ Celebrate Chinese New Year with The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis! Discover why this traditional Chinese holiday is important. Participate in activities, watch performances from the Indianapolis Chinese Community Center, and have your name written in traditional Chinese calligraphy as we celebrate the Year of the Monkey.

Included with general admission.

Family Day at the IMA: Marionette Menagerie Location: Indianapolis Museum of Art, Time: 10am-3pm, imamuseum.org/familyactivities/familyday-marionette-menagerie Each month, the Indianapolis Museum of Art treats the local community to exciting Family Day programs on the first Saturday. Every Family Day event is tailored to a specific topic so in February it’s a special Marionette Menagerie! Enjoy a Cereal Cinema screening of Dark Crystal in The Toby

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Peanut Butter & Jam Series: Sancocho Music and Dance Collage Location: The Palladium at Center for the Performing Arts, Carmel, Time: 10:30am, http://www.thecenter fortheperformingarts.org/tickets/ production.aspx?PID=4143 Designed for children ages 1-7, Peanut Butter & Jam sessions encourage young children to become engaged in the arts. Join in for an exciting mix of African influenced percussion, songs and dances from Latin

American & the Caribbean. Children will get on their feet and moving as Sancocho teaches them some of the lively dance steps.

Cost: $10/child and 2 free adults with every child ticket purchase.

Princess Ball Location: Monon Community Center, Carmel, Time: 6-9pm, carmelclayparks.com/ccpr-events/ princess-ball/ Bring your princess to the Monon Community Center ballroom for an evening of dancing and fun. Cuddle together on the horse-drawn carriage ride through Central Park, enjoy a variety of hot hors d’oeuvres, serve yourself a bubbly refreshment from the punch fountain, and dance the night away.

This event is not exclusive to daddies and daughters only. Uncles, grandpas, and older male role models are more than welcome to attend with their little princess. The horse-drawn carriage and beautiful decorations turn this event into a magical evening you will never forget. Register early: $25/person.

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Parent and Preschooler Yoga Location: 38th Street Branch Library, Indianapolis, Time: 10:30am, imcpl.org/events/detail/?event_ id=3573&schedule_id=47944 Preschoolers and their parents are invited to enjoy the health benefits that yoga can offer during this 45-minute program presented by certified yoga instructors from the Greater Indianapolis YMCA. This program is sponsored by The Indianapolis Public Library Foundation. Watch for this program to pop up at other Indianapolis Public Library branches throughout the season!

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Snowy Science: Preschool Science Workshop Location: Decatur Branch Library, Indianapolis, Time: 10:30am, imcpl.org/events/detail/?event_ id=4298&schedule_id=47962 Preschoolers and an adult are invited for a snow day at the Library! Learn how snow is made, explore snowflakes, discover some of the snowiest places to visit, and build a snowman – no mittens required! Space is limited so registration is required. Watch for this program to pop up at other Indianapolis Public Library branches throughout the season!

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Love Monster and the Last Chocolate Storytime Location: Barnes & Noble Greenwood Park, Greenwood, Time: 11am, stores.barnesandnoble.com/ event/9780061754389-0 Monster comes home from vacation and discovers a box of chocolates on his doorstep. He knows he should share it with his friends, but what if there's none left for him after everyone has a piece? Join the Children’s Desk staff at Barnes & Noble of Greenwood for a special storytime featuring Love Monster and the Last Chocolate.

Activities and coloring will follow.

Love In Location: The Urban Chalkboard, Carmel, Time: 11:30am1:30pm, facebook.com/ events/1096446507046556/ Never been to a Love In? Come see what it's all about! Decorate cookies with love, listen to love music, and create lovely Valentines for moms, dads, grandparents, and friends.

Win a free admission in our conversation hearts candy guess. Free hugs for all!

Advanced registration required and included with paid general admission.

Little Lab Preschool Science Workshop Location: Hamilton East Public Library Fishers Branch, Time: 10am and 2pm, http://hepl.lib.in.us/evanced/ Kids are invited to join Professor Suann in exploring Science, Technology, Engineering, Art & Math. Each month they will READ, TALK, EXPLORE basic science concepts.

This month’s program explores healthy teeth!

Registration is required for this hands-on program designed for ages 3-6 and their caregivers. Perfect for inspiring budding scientists.

Mad About Science by Fishers Parks & Recreation Time: 1-2pm, Fishers.IN.us/PARKS Turn this flex day into a day filled with scientific hypotheses, experimentation and hands-on learning! Parents, spend the day with your child ages 6-10 while fostering their creativity. This one-day program includes science experiment stations that your child will remember forever.

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Trains, Planes, Boats and Hot Air Balloons: Preschool Workshop Location: Brightwood Branch Library, Indianapolis, Time: 6pm, imcpl.org/events/detail/?event_ id=4295&schedule_id=47885 Preschoolers who love things that go are invited to join Express Kids for music, activities and fun centered on transportation at this fun activity with Brightwood Branch Library. Space is limited and registration is required. This program is sponsored by The Indianapolis Public Library Foundation.

Watch for this program to pop up at other Indianapolis Public Library branches throughout the season!

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Shopkins Swap Fun Location: Earth Explorer Toys, Zionsville, Time: 1pm, earthexplorertoys.com/ Earth Explorers will host a Shopkins Swap and kids are encouraged to bring any Shopkins they would like to trade. Store staff will help moderate and encourage sharing, and families can take advantage of a special Buy One Get One Free for all remaining Season 3 Shopkins items.

Presidents’ Day Celebration with Gigi’s Cupcakes and Kits & Kaboodle Location: Gigi’s Cupcakes, Westfield, Time: 2:30 and 4pm, gigiscupcakesusa.com/westfieldindiana Gigi’s of Westfield will celebrate a belated Presidents’ Day with two interactive sessions featuring an Abraham Lincoln impersonator, a Teddy Roosevelt impressionist AND cupcakes. This event for ages 6 and up is available at 2:30 and 4pm; ticket prices $9/ea in advance or $12/ea day of.

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Reduced Admission Day at The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis Location: Children’s Museum of Indianapolis, Time: 10am-5pm, childrensmuseum.org/ Enjoy reduced priced admission at the Children’s Museum of Indianapolis on Presidents’ Day: Adults may enter at $5/ each and children for only $1 each! Let the Museum know about all the fun you had by posting to Twitter and Instagram using the hashtag #atTCM. {And while you’re at it, throw in an #ICWinter for Indy’s Child!}

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Storytime at Cool Creek Park Location: Cool Creek Park, Carmel, Time: 11am, hamiltoncounty.in.gov/ This winter come out and meet friends at the Nature Center and join in as the group reads fun stories about nature in their backyard.

This program also takes place on February 2. Pre-registration is kindly requested by calling the park or e-mailing cool. naturecenter@hamiltoncounty.in.gov.

Crunch & Munch Location: Garfield Park Conservatory & Sunken Gardens, Indianapolis, Time: 10am, garfieldgardensconservatory. org/#!programsevents1/ne75r Bring your little ones to meet some of the Conservatory’s critters and learn what they like to eat. Have fun with a craft and more!

Fee is $5/child and this activity is best suited for children ages 2-5.

TUES 23

Monkey Business: A Preschool Art Workshop Location: Franklin Road Branch Library, Indianapolis, Time: 10:15am and 11:15am, indypl.org/events/ detail/?event_id=4294&schedule_ id=47842 Preschoolers are invited to grab their yellow hats and bring their favorite curious little monkeys to a mixed media workshop led by The Art Lab and inspired by the book, "Curious George Builds a House." Space is limited. Registration is required. This program is sponsored by The Indianapolis Public Library Foundation.

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Homeschoolers Leap Year Party Location: Greenwood Public Library, Greenwood, Time: 1-2pm, greenwoodlibrary.us/ It's a Leap Year! Leap into fun with the Greenwood Public Library and other homeschooling families at a Leap Year themed party with games and activities to get you ready for February 29. Advanced registration is kindly requested.

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Superhero & Sidekick Challenge Location: Monon Community Center, Carmel, Time: 6-8pm, carmelclayparks.com/ccpr-events/ superhero-sidekick-challenge/ Previously known as the Mother-Son Challenge, this event has zipped to a whole new level of adventure full of mother and son fun! Activities will include pizza, bingo, costume contest, trivia, and scavenger hunt with a variety of challenges along the way!

This evening will be a night of laughter and bonding all moms and sons will enjoy. Aunts, grandmas, and older female role models are more than welcome to attend with their sidekicks. Ages 6 and up. Registration required: $15/person

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The Indy's Child Annual Summer Camp Fair Location: Nordstrom Court at The Fashion Mall, Time: 11am-3pm, indyschild.com/summer- camp-fair Indy's Child annual Camp Fair is the one day every year when families from all over Central Indiana have the opportunity to explore more than 60 overnight camps, day camps and summer programs all in one afternoon! We provide lots of fun entertainment, including face painters, our prize wheel, our mock cover photo booth and much more! It’s the perfect time to plan a summer of fun all in one day!

Museum By Moonlight Location: The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis, Time: 8pm-midnight, childrensmuseum.org/visit/ museum-moonlight The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis is excited to announce the new, adults-only extravaganza—Museum by Moonlight! On this special night guests over 21 can explore five floors of the museum, including Dinosphere, Treasures of the Earth, and Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles: Secrets of the Sewer, and more. Also includes live musical entertainment and shows. Tickets required and include one free drink ticket.

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Hot Jazz For Cool Kids Location: Central Library, downtown Indianapolis, Time: 3pm, imcpl.org/events/detail/?event_ id=3244&schedule_id=47523 Children and families are invited to this outstanding series of free performances by Indy's leading jazz musicians. These hour-long programs held in Central Library’s Clowes Auditorium are presented by the Learning Curve at Central Library in partnership with The Indianapolis Jazz Foundation and Indy Jazz Fest. Children will enjoy the variety of instruments, including trombone, drums, bass, piano, two trumpets, and two saxophones!

Kids Day at Indy CD & Vinyl Location: Indy CD & Vinyl, Broad Ripple, Time: 3-5pm, facebook.com/indycdandvinyl/ Check out the monthly kids music showcase on the last Sunday of each month complete with live kids music, music-influenced arts and crafts, discounts on kids music (CD & LP), and donations benefiting Girls Rock! Indy. Free playtime generally runs from 3-4pm, followed by live music at 4pm. This fun event is free and open to all ages.

MON 29

Winter Kids Concerts – Tides Duo Location: Monon Community Center, Carmel, Time: 10-11am, carmelclayparks.com/ Dig your way out of the snow and join in the fun of dancing and singing along to classical hits and kid favorites. Each hour-long performance provides an enriching and engaging experience for young children. February continues the series with family-friendly band Tides Duo. This event is geared to ages 2-5 years, and takes place in the MCC East Multipurpose Rooms.

[P L E A S E N O T E] At Indy's Child, we work hard

to ensure our calendar and guide information is accurate.

Occasionally, event specifics change after we go to press.

Therefore, we encourage our readers to call locations or visit them on the web to verify information.

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ongoing calendar {FEBRUARY 2016}

Pirates and Princesses: Storybook Adventures Occurring daily through November 27 Location: The Children's Museum of Indianapolis, https:// www.childrensmuseum.org/exhibits/ future-exhibits Tales of pirates, princesses, knights and other adventurers captivate us through books, movies, TV shows and in childhood daydreams. In Pirates and Princesses: Storybook Adventures, children and families are heroes of their own adventures, role playing as royals and rebels in an inventive exhibit that inspires the imagination.

National Geographic Sacred Journeys Occurring daily through February 21 Location: The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis, https:// www.childrensmuseum.org/exhibits/ future-exhibits Each year, more than 330 million people around the world—from all walks of life— journey to a sacred place. Through awe-inspiring immersive environments created with photography from National Geographic, visitors of The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis will be able to observe, discuss, and begin to understand some of the sacred journeys made by people around the world, from personal acts of faith to pilgrimages. Sacred journeys will include the Western Wall in Jerusalem, the Great Mosque in Mecca, the Ganges River in India, Bodh Gaya in India where Buddha is said to have achieved enlightenment, the Basilica of Our Lady of Guadalupe in Mexico City, and more.

The Chocolate Slide Occurring daily through April 17 Location: The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis, downtown Indianapolis, https://www.childrensmuseum. org/exhibits/future-exhibits Get ready for a sweet new experience – the all-new Chocolate Slide! With the museum’s Sunburst Atrium transformed into a Willy Wonka-inspired wonderland, you’ll zoom down a slide themed like a river of chocolate, and enjoy sweet treats and good eats in the Chocolate Café!

Winter Preschool Storytime Series with Kids Ink Bookstore February 3-5, 17-19, March 2-4, 16-18, 30-31 and April 1 Location: Kids Ink Bookstore, shops at 56th & Illinois, near Butler University, kidsinkbooks.com/ One of the best-kept secrets in the city, Kids Ink Bookstore, offers a winter storytime schedule perfect for preschoolers ages 2-5 and their parents or caregivers.

Each session includes 2-3 stories plus a craft before the store opens to the public.

Set in an intimate setting, the Kids Ink staff does a great job of theming each week around fun, kid-focused topics. February 3-5 will be “Won’t You Be My Kissaroo?”

February 17-19 is “Let’s Take A Nap.” March 2-4 will be “Boxes.” March 16-18 is “Good Green Books” and March 30-April 1 is “April Fool You.” Registration is required by calling the store at (317) 255-2598.

To Kill A Mockingbird Through February 28 Location: Indiana Repertory Theatre, downtown Indianapolis, http://www.irtlive.com/ Adapted from Harper Lee’s groundbreaking novel, To Kill a Mockingbird shares the story of how two siblings, Scout and Jem Finch, and their father, Atticus, changed the way many American’s perceived race and prejudice in the country. Coming of age in a small Depression-era community in the mid-30’s, the Finch siblings learn about social injustice as their lawyer father defends a man wrongly accused of a heinous crime. Emotions run high, relationships are strained and heartache spreads as innocents are sacrificed and children learn about the realities of a racially divided world.

Devour Downtown Occurring daily through February 7 Location: Various downtown restaurants – see website for full list, devourdowntown.org/ Devour Downtown returns this winter with plenty of downtown-based restaurants offering 3-course, valued-priced menus sure to delight diners – no special tickets or coupons necessary! Check out their website for a full list of the restaurants participating or to enter their daily gift card giveaway. And yes, there are plenty of family-friendly options that young foodies will enjoy, too.

Junie B. Jones The Musical Running February 19-March 19 Location: Beef & Boards Dinner Theater, Indianapolis, beefandboards.com The 2016 Live Theatre for Kids Series opens at Beef & Boards this year with a fun performance of Junie B. Jones The Musical!

In this show children will be introduced to Junie B. on her first day of first grade and a lot of things have changed for her: Junie’s friend Lucille doesn’t want to be her best pal anymore, her teacher thinks she needs glasses and she needs to compete in a kickball tournament. This production will run for one hour without intermission and is recommended for kids preschool age through fourth grade.

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Valentine’s Cabaret at Peewinkle’s Puppet Studio February 12-14 Location: Peewinkle’s Puppet Studio, downtown Indianapolis, peewinklespuppets.org/ It’s time for the annual Valentine’s Cabaret show at Peewinkle’s Puppet Studio. They invite everyone to ‘bring your sweethearts’ for this delightful and energetic show.

Tickets run $13, but kids under 2 are free.

Includes a drink and gourmet cookie with an optional post-show workshop for an additional $3 fee. See their website for exact dates/times.

Nickelodeon’s Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles “Secrets Of The Sewer” Occurring daily through April 10 Location: The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis, https:// www.childrensmuseum.org/exhibits/ future-exhibits Since 1984, these four iconic turtle brothers have rocked it with their talent and teamwork, inspiring generations. Now families can now join these pizza-eating, crime-fighting “Heroes in a Half-Shell” to hone their ninja skills and problem-solving intellects while learning the secrets of the sewer! Nickelodeon’s CG-animated series breathes new life into the popular characters and now families will be able to join the team at The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis.

Cat In The Hat Runs February 23-March 3 Location: The Tarkington Theater, Carmel, thecenterfortheperformingarts.org/tickets The Civic Theatre brings Dr. Seuss’ beloved story of The Cat In The Hat back to life for a limited run at The Tarkington.

Sensory-friendly performances will be available February 27 at 2pm and March 1 at 10am. Tickets can be purchased on The Center for the Performing Arts website; group prices available. Cost ranges from $10/seat and up.

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