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Soak Up the Summer

BUILDING BLOCKS OF EARLY LEARNING STRESSED OUT KIDS MOTHER’S DAY ESSAY CONTEST WINNER SOAK UP THE SUMMER

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Stressed Out Kids

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COMMUNITY SPOTLIGHT

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MAY EVENTS

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ONGOING EVENTS

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TRUE CONFESSIONS OF A STAY-AT-HOME DAD FOOTNOTES: THOUGHTS FROM THE MARGINS OF A MOM’S LIFE

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SLEEP ON IT!

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MAY HAPPENINGS

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NEARBY TO TRY

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ay is the month for moms – to celebrate all the wonderful ways our mothers impact our lives. Whether you’re an old pro as a parent or just embarking on this whirlwind ride, we hope this Mother’s Day you’re appreciated for all this demanding job entails.

Speaking of motherhood, there’s a common fallacy that the best moms always put themselves last on their list of priorities. Somehow, taking care of oneself seems like a selfish wish rather than a necessary commitment to our health and well-being. If this sounds like a familiar pattern for you, check out our article Making Moms Matter.

Also in this issue, we take a look at preschool programs. For those of you with little ones at home, choosing the right setting can seem like a daunting task. Many programs are guided by specific philosophies that direct how your child will spend his day. Building Blocks of Early Learning can help you understand these various approaches to evaluate which schools are good matches for your family.

Is childhood today more stressful than in years past? With taxing academic loads, changing social pressures and busy extra-curricular schedules, kids today have a lot on their plate. If daily life seems to be getting the best of your child, try reading Stressed Out Kids for suggestions on ways to help them cope.

Finally the beginning of May marks the start of warm weather activities – and we have a bucket list of things you’ll want to try. Soak Up the Summer gives your family a good jumping off point to take advantage of all the local fun waiting for you just around the corner!

We hope you enjoy our May issue! We’re sending a special “shout out” to all our mom readers – thanks for picking up Dayton Parent and Happy Mother’s Day!

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National Water Safety Month

Barnes & Noble Imagination Destination Join Dayton Parent magazine as we help kick off Barnes & Noble’s “Imagination Destination” Summer Reading Program. Children of all ages are invited to join us for story time, crafts, snacks and great resources from many local area businesses. The book being featured is Oh the Places You’ll Go by Dr. Seuss. The stories will be read at 11 a.m. and again at 1 p.m. Children in grades one to six are then invited (even if you don’t make it to the event) to join the Summer Reading Program. Read just eight books over the summer, turn in your form between May 20th and September 2nd and then those that complete the program will get to choose from a list of books to keep for themselves! Call 937-433-0750 for more information. Date: May 17th | Time: 11 a.m. - 2 p.m. | Barnes & Noble (near Dayton Mall) 2619 Miamisburg-Centerville Rd., Dayton, OH

Aullwood Farm Babies Where can you see newborn lambs frolicking in the fields, dozens of chicks peeping and piglets huddled for warmth? At Aullwood Farm! There’s food, fun, music and lots of baby farm animals! Admission is $5 per car.

Enjoy homespun farm crafts, hands-on demonstrations and exhibits, nonprofit organizations and delicious food made from Aullwood’s own meat!

Experience draft horse or tractor drawn wagon rides, make homemade butter, pet a real alpaca, create crafts and play games in the children’s activity tent. Let your imagination run wild as you crawl through a rock tunnel, walk across a log or build a fort in the Children’s Nature Play Area. Take a family photo by a new tractor. Bring your kids to see our kids! It’s always a stomping and squealing good time at Farm Babies Fest! For more information, call Aullwood at 937-890-7360 or visit the website at aullwood. center.audubon.org. Date: May 17th | Time: 10 a.m. 5 p.m. | Aullwood Farm, 9101 Frederick Pike, Dayton, OH 8 DAYTONPARENTMAGAZINE.COM

According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDCP), every day about ten people die from unintentional drowning. Drowning is the second leading cause of unintentional injury death for children ages 1 to 14 years, and the fifth leading cause for people of all ages. Ohio has the third highest rate in the nation for children. It is imperative that children learn to swim, not only so they can have fun in the water, but also to be safe in and around the water. Be sure to check out the brand new Aqua-Tots located in Springboro recently opened in March. Aqua-Tots teaches a “Lessons for Life” curriculum and classes start at 6 months old. Go to www.aquatotsdayton.com or call 937-688-3554 for more information. Location: 716 N. Main St., Springboro, OH

Therapeutic Riding Institute The race is on! The Therapeutic Riding Institute (TRI) of Springboro, OH invites you to take part in the 2nd Annual TRI Triple Crown. Visit TRIOhio.org and find out how you can support TRI Jockey’s Ana, Chrissie and Riley as they race for your donations. TRI has been offering therapeutic horseback riding lessons to children, youth and adults in Southwest Ohio for over 40 years as a PATH International Premier Accredited therapeutic riding center.

In 2013, they added programming for At-Risk-Youth and Veterans and additional classes to serve more students. Check out TRIOhio.org for more information on how to get involved with this life changing program. Call 864-650-4967 or visit Development@TRIOhio.org | Date: Month of May | Location: 5224 Dearth Rd., Springboro, OH

Humane Society of Dayton’s Furry Skurry Dust off those tennis shoes, grab your leashes and get ready for the 23rd annual Furry Skurry walk/run to support the Humane Society of Dayton! The more teams requesting donations, the more money raised to help animals in need! In addition to team prizes, each person on a team is also eligible to win an individual prize pack for raising more than $100. A team can be just you and your dog and can grow to be as big as you want. You do need to register under a team name and can set up a fundraising page through their web site. Children 12 and under are free, 13-18 are $20 and $30 for adults if coming on board after May 1st (discount for presale). Go to www.hsdayton. org for more information. Date: May 10th | Time: Registration opens at 7:30 a.m. 5K Run starts at 8:30 a.m. 1-Mile Walk starts at 10 a.m. Location: National Composite Center, 2000 Composite Dr., Kettering, OH

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MATTER Women who place their own health as a priority have family’s interest at heart Julie Costakis

ynn considers spending quality time with her three children of utmost importance. Trips to museums, parks, libraries, play group and music lessons, as well as kid-centered activities at home fill each day she is not at the office. At nap time she attacks cleaning, laundry and dinner preparations. After tucking her children in bed at night, she handles emails, bills and volunteer commitments before addressing the workload she brought from the office. Lynn leads a full life, but has no doubt that the pace she keeps is contributing to her health issues and a surprising sense of feeling unfulfilled.

Too often women believe that setting aside “mom time” is selfish, when in reality it has far-reaching benefits for her family. Mary Gambill, MSW LISW-S, Clinical Director for Womanline Counseling Center in Dayton, agrees. “A significant commonality among women I counsel is the lack of tending to self needs, including physical and emotional. They place everything and everyone else before themselves, often with serious ramifications.” Feeling drained from our everyday schedule doesn’t give the fuel required to be present as a mom. “Mothers put so much out from morning until night, and get so little in return. They become caught up in the tasks and forget to reflect and take in the joy,” says Gambill.

“Women set unrealistic standards of perfection and don’t realize it is acceptable for things to be ‘just okay.’” Gambill recommends moms begin with a brief, small pleasure like reading, yoga or a walk.

“Start being kind to yourself! Then work your way up to an interest you are passionate about.”

Dayton physician Kathleen Long Wittberg, M.D. encourages her patients at Main Street Family Practice to start with subtle changes in three areas for big results: sleep, exercise and nutrition. “Adequate sleep is restorative, promotes weight loss and is vital for maintaining

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mental sharpness and physical stamina,” says Wittberg. “Busy moms must find ways to integrate exercise. A morning jog can jumpstart your day; delaying until evening can be too easily trumped by homework, dinner and unexpected family matters. Instead of watching children’s practices from the sidelines, get up and walk briskly around the field.”

Wittberg emphasizes that nutrition is key to a healthy body and mind, and simple changes can have a profound impact.

“Think low carbohydrates, vegetables, whole grains, proteins from eggs, dairy, fish and nuts, meats low in saturated fats and select monounsaturated fats and oils.

Obesity is rampant in our society and the leading cause of epidemic levels of Type 2 diabetes, so eat wisely. Obese parents lead to obese children.” Expand healthmindedness across all areas of your life.

“Be smart while eating out. Diet busters include bread, sodas and alcoholic drinks which convert to sugar,” reminds Wittberg. “Save half the meal for the next day. Drink lots of water and if you smoke, quit! Smoking is a leading risk factor for heart attacks.”

For questions about one’s health, turn to reliable sources and health professionals for support. Wittberg recommends WebMD, familydoctor.org and cdc.gov.

Be cautious of advice from those who lack credentials and are unfamiliar with your background. “Partner with a board certified family physician who is best equipped to give sound advice on preventative testing based on your age and health history,” says Wittberg. “Developing a trusting relationship with your family physician is key to maintaining good health across the entire span of your life.”

Everyone agrees that family caregiving should be high on a mother’s list of priorities. Yet when her own needs are rarely addressed, physical and psychological wellbeing suffers. Optimal health begins by establishing regular times to nurture your physical, emotional and spiritual self.

And now is the perfect time to begin!

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Building Blocks of Early Learning

Jennifer Garcia

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t’s a big milestone – sending your little one off to preschool. Those first years of school are vital in forming a child’s life-long relationship with learning. Every parent wants to make the best school or daycare decision for their child, and it can be helpful to understand the educational philosophies and methods schools use.

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In recent years, many states have made a push toward regulating early childhood education programs to make certain children are prepared for kindergarten. The Ohio Department of Education and Job and Family Services created Step Up to Quality (SUTQ) to rate and recognize preschool and child care programs for demonstrating and maintaining high standards. This ensures children receive a quality learning and development environment, says Stephanie K. Siddens, Ph.D., director of the Office of Early Learning and School Readiness for the Ohio Department of Education.

terville this summer. “It’s our goal to provide a warm, caring environment with a combination of structured and non-structured activities that allow children to gain the self-confidence they need to grow.”

SUTQ builds on Ohio’s Early Learning and Development Standards, and schools that receive public funding for early childhood education are required to participate. “This ensures they are addressing all of the elements that research shows make a difference in the quality of an early childhood setting,” says Siddens.

At John F. Kenney Elementary School’s Pathfinders preschool, play is a child’s work, says Cindy Smith, Supervisor of the Office of Community Literacy Programs for Kettering City Schools. The reason educators are so focused on creating high-quality early learning programs is because preschool is vital to a child’s development.

While state regulations require that programs meet health and safety requirements, and provide quality experiences for young children, preschool and daycare programs still have flexibility to choose curriculum and lesson plans. Overwhelmingly, educators agree that children learn best through play and exploration of the world around them.

“Building a love of learning and giving children the tools to communicate and interact with teachers and other children is important at the preschool age. Teaching them skills that foster independence is essential,” says Emily Weaner, director of Kidz Watch, a brand new daycare center opening in Cen-

“In preschools and daycare centers, children are able to work through emotions, wants and needs using their words, listen to adults and follow directions, work independently and transition through many activities in the day,” says Smith.

Siddens agrees, saying, “When children play, they demonstrate knowledge of the world as they see it. It is up to the adults around them to create opportunities and experiences that encourage the healthy development children need to flourish. Research has shown that high-quality preschool experiences support children’s growth and development.”

Pathfinders incorporates the Project Approach into its curriculum, wherein children become researchers and study topics that interest them. The teacher is a facilitator in the process, supplying books, experts and other resources. “It’s a wonderful way to develop persistence in young children, as well as teaching cooperation,” says Smith.

Experiential Learning is a similar philosophy, in which lessons are structured so students don’t passively receive information from a teacher, but actively participate in the work. This is often used in conjunction with a Reggio Emilia and Montessori curriculum. These traditional approaches are based on the “constructivist theory,” which

allows children to learn through exploration of their environment, as opposed to direct instruction by a teacher. Executive Function, another philosophy, deals with the concepts of self-discipline, self-control, perseverance and problem solving.

“Preschool children are laying the foundation for future learning, even though it is seemingly just play,” says Weaner. “Peer interaction, teacher interaction, self-confidence, decision making, communication and self-sufficiency are all important skills learned through play.”

The preschool experience can be a wonderful first learning environment for your child. By learning about the foundation and philosophy of the various schools available, you can choose the best option that aligns with your own priorities for your child and your family.

do your homework

Parents can learn more online about how to find the best preschool or daycare program for their child, as well as determine whether their child is ready for kindergarten.

Step Up to Quality offers an optional star-rating system that both public and private preschools may apply for. One star indicates a basic level of quality while five stars is the highest level of quality and therefore the hardest to attain. Parents can search for star-rated programs online at www.odjfs.state. oh.us/cdc/query.asp.

Five to Thrive is a program under Dayton’s ReadSetSoar, an early childhood initiative working to ultimately create a stronger, more educated workforce.

Both offer tools to help parents understand skills a child should develop from birth to age five. A fast and fun quiz is available at www.fivetothrivedayton.org.

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ask the teacher

Ask the Teacher

High ability testing, extended school days, friendship triangles

By Deb Krupowicz

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We received a letter from my son’s school telling us that he qualified to be considered for the high ability program at his school, but that he would be required to take an additional test.

We don’t know if we should agree to the testing or why we would want him to be in the program. How should we decide if we should allow the testing?

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In recent years, many school corporations have expanded their offerings for students whose academic abilities are different enough from their peers that they are not easily met with the same curriculum offered for the majority of students.

Sometimes additional testing data is required to be sure that students are being placed appropriately. The school personnel take great care to understand each student’s needs so that they can provide academic challenge without imposing stress. By agreeing to the testing, you will be allowing the school to collect the data needed to determine if your child might benefit from a different academic program.

Should you agree to the testing and then find that the school offers to place your son in the

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high ability program, you will have to determine if you believe this to be the best placement for him. This decision is one that should be made by you and your son’s teachers, not by your son. Together the adults should determine if your son’s education would be enhanced by participation in a more academically challenging program.

School corporations’ approaches to high ability education are varied, so knowing whether your corporation’s program focuses on faster pacing, enriching concepts in the regular classroom or compacting curriculum will be important in making a good decision for your son.

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Our school corporation has opted to extend school days in order to make up all the lost time from the bad winter weather. For my elementary aged kids, this additional time each day seems to be a big challenge.

How can I help them keep a good attitude through the long days?

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Ensuring that your children get plenty of rest and eat well is always important, but it is even more critical when additional

demands are being made on their time. When rest or nutrition is compromised, a child’s ability to cope with typical demands is strained. The problem is multiplied when even more is expected of them.

Extra effort to stay organized will likely also be necessary. If there are more things to juggle, your children may need your help keeping track of additional work and deadlines.

Some students will be able to

ask the teacher handle this additional responsibility easily, but others may be over whelmed by it. Recognize that this is an unusual situation and your help may be needed.

Maintaining a positive attitude yourself will go a long way in helping your children to stay upbeat. If your kids detect that you are bothered by the school’s decision to extend days, they may see that as justification for not putting in the required effort.

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My eight-year-old daughter and a girl in her class seem to be constantly at odds.

The conflict between them centers on the attention of a third girl in the class. The triangle results in feelings be-

ing hurt on a regular basis. I don’t know how to advise my daughter on how to make this friendship work.

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Forming friendships can be one of the most difficult parts of school, and it can certainly color how children feel about all aspects of the school day. When children struggle with friendships, they may struggle to focus on academics. Typically, girls deal with this situation more than boys who seem more adept at letting comments and perceived slights roll off their backs.

Girls tend to take every interaction to heart.

Coaching the girls into forming a circle of friends rather than main-

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taining an exclusive one-on-one friendship will be to everyone’s benefit. To nurture this circle, encourage your daughter to include both girls in lunchtime and recess activities. You can play a key role in developing these friendships by inviting both girls to your home or to after school activities.

For at least some of the time that the three are together, it is important that you are directly involved in their activity or are

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Ask the Teacher is written by Deb Krupowicz, a mother of four and current teacher. Deb holds a Master’s degree in Curriculum and Instruction and has over twenty years of experience teaching preschool, elementary and middle school students. Please send your questions to her at asktheteacher@daytonparentmagazine.com.

FAIRMONT PRESCHOOL

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STRESSEDOUTKIDS HELPING YOUR CHILD DEAL WITH LIFE’S DEMANDS | MICHELLE SHIRK

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ur ideal image of childhood is one filled with bicycle rides, baseball games and sleepovers – not worry, stress and overcommitment. Unfortunately, today’s kids are often anxious about many aspects of their daily lives. As a parent, you can help your child live happier and healthier by understanding common childhood stressors and taking steps to address them.

What’s the problem?

Both kids and adults seem busier today than in the past, says Mary Beth DeWitt, Ph.D., a child psychologist at Dayton Children’s Hospital. Adults face increased work and home demands, while kids as young as two or three years old are busy with various enrichment programs.

Dr. DeWitt says that while extracurricular activities can positively impact children by providing structure and improving academic skills and prosocial behavior, the increased demands placed on today’s kids can also increase feelings of stress.

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Academic expectations, social demands and family concerns can add to stress levels as well.

The pressure only seems to increase as kids get older. The American Psychological Association’s 2013 Stress in America survey showed that the reported stress level for teens ages 13-17 during the school year was higher than the average reported stress level for adults. School was the most commonly cited stressor for teens, with 83% reporting that school was a somewhat or significant source of stress. In addition, 59% of teen participants reported that managing their time to balance all of their activities was a somewhat or very significant stressor.

Excessive stress and anxiety can take quite a toll. “Too much stress can lead to behavioral changes, such as irritability, moodiness, withdrawal and sometimes depression,” says Dr. DeWitt. In addition, because our minds and bodies are connected, unmanaged stress can also lead to physical concerns such as headaches, stomachaches and fatigue.

What can parents do?

“First, ensure proper rest and nutrition,” says Dr. DeWitt. The American Psychological Association (www. apa.org) advocates the use of physical activities such as yoga, hiking, walking or swimming to manage stress. In the group’s 2013 Stress in America survey, teens ages 13-17 who exercised at least once a week reported lower average stress levels over the prior month than those who exercised less frequently.

Dr. DeWitt also recommends that parents make sure kids take breaks to relax and reconnect with their families. Keeping an open line of communication is key. “Encourage kids to talk about their stressors and the emotions related to them,” she says. “Help them learn to problem solve and think things through.”

Finally, consider limiting your child’s extracurricular activities to one per quarter/season, suggests Dr. DeWitt. “I would encourage families to keep only what their child most enjoys and works best with the family schedules.”

What other resources are available?

For parents wishing to learn more about helping kids manage stress, there are a number of excellent resources online. Dr. DeWitt recommends four educational websites: www.kidshealth.org, www.healthychildren.org, www.pbs.org/parents and www.ces.ncsu.edu.

Finally, parents shouldn’t feel like they have to go it alone. “When the child’s stress or anxiety begins to interfere with daily functioning and enjoyment in activities, it may be time to seek professional help,” says Dr. DeWitt.

Don’t stress about childhood stress, but do put these strategies in place within your family dynamic and don’t hesitate to access professional help if necessary. Handling the many demands and pressures that daily life can deliver is a skill – one that kids can learn early and employ the rest of their lives.

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Congratulations to the Dayton Parent Mother’s Day Essay Contest Winner!

The Greatest Lesson I Learned From My Mother

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n honor of Mother’s Day, we asked our readers to tell us about their amazing moms. Our question: “What’s the most important lesson you learned from your mother?” The responses we received showed just how much our moms teach us every day, but one answer in particular won us over. Jesse Graham wrote the following:

In one simple word - tenacity. My mom struggled to raise me as a divorced mom that never quite had enough money to get through the month. I’m sure a lot of moms out there today (myself included) understand that cycle. She worked two and sometimes three jobs to make sure I had what I needed, putting her needs last.

Growing up I never quite ‘got it’ but once I became a mother, it hit me hard. I remember all the harsh teenage fights I started or the times I refused to help her around the house because I was ‘busy’.

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As I raise my own daughter and go through similar issues, I use my mom’s example to get through to the next day.

Currently my mom is struggling with a knee injury and has to use a cane, at the young age of 59. It breaks my heart to watch her, but she always keeps going and her outlook is positive. She refuses to slow down, volunteering at her church and the YMCA, packing free lunches for kids that might not have a healthy lunch waiting on them at home. She does it with a smile and her neverending tenacity that I have come to admire and hope to emulate.

Congratulations to Jesse who will receive four tickets to the Cincinnati Zoo and four tickets to the Cincinnati Museum Center. And thank you to all of our readers who sent in their wonderful stories!

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BELLA MUSICA

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confessions of a stay-at-home dad

Running Errands with Kids in Tow

True confessions of a stay-at-home dad

By Pete Gilbert

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rrands. Ugh. I’m a stay at home dad, which means I have the advantage of getting errands done during the week, not on the weekends like all the Nine-to-Fivers out there. But, since I choose to do this during the week, not on the weekends when my wife could watch our kids, I also have to run these errands while my kids are with me.

Weekday errand running has its advantages. There are definitely smaller checkout lines at most stores. Sometimes errands with kids can be beneficial too. The other day I was out getting supplies for my daughter’s school project when I happened upon a craft store. Apparently craft store customers (old “crafty” ladies) are on the same schedule we are. The place was BUSY, on a weekday morning! I was afraid we were going to have to wait in line, but luckily my screaming toddler helped move us up to the front of the line quickly. Traffic isn’t as bad driving around on weekday mornings either. Getting across town isn’t much trouble and the people that are out seem to be moving at a pretty relaxed pace, like me.

But there are also many disadvantages of hauling around your kids on these trips. First there are all the problems associated with watching a DVD in my minivan. “The sun is too bright, I can’t see the movie.

Turn it up! The DVD is skipping.” All before we’ve even pulled out of the driveway. There’s also the unhappiness with the color of the lollipop from the bank. “But I wanted pink not purple.” To which I calmly reply, “You get what you get and ...” she finishes my sentence, “you don’t throw a fit.”

Happy Parenting!

-Pete

Don’t forget to “like” my page on Facebook at True Confessions of a Stay at Home Dad for daily updates and links to my blog posts.

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footnotes

Footnotes: Thoughts from the margins of a mom’s life The Duck Farm

By Kelly Blewett

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ome parents are worried what will happen when their child discovers there is no Santa. Forget Santa. I’m worried what my son William will say when he finds out another truth: there is no duck farm that magically flies rubber ducks into his grandparent’s closet. Let me explain.

My mother thought it would be fun to hide a little treat for William when he comes to visit. Actually her mother used to do the same thing for me with silver dollar coins, which I would scramble around hunting for when I was a very small child. I understand where my mom’s coming from, and I remember how excited I used to be as a little girl. So I get it. But my mom doesn’t hide dollar coins; she hides little rubber ducks. The kind one can order for under a quarter at Oriental Trading Company. We now have a lot of these rubber ducks – they seem to multiply.

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William quickly got into this game, but (unlike me when I was a little girl hunting for coins) he soon wanted to know where the ducks were coming from. “From the duck farm!” we said, not really thinking about it. Then, one day while driving home from my parents, William eyed a painted barn next to an elementary school. He exclaimed, “There’s the duck farm! That’s where they come from!” Once I finally figured out what he was talking about, I smothered my laughter and didn’t correct him. It’s been several months now.

I can only imagine how disappointed he’ll be when he realizes the barn is not the home of hundreds of rubber ducks waiting to wing their way to my mother’s closet. No, that “duck farm” is instead a storage space for sports equipment that belongs to the school. But for now, for at least a little while longer, I wave with my son as we pass “The Duck Farm.” And just smile as our duck collection keeps growing.

TURNER TRAVEL

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sleep on it!

Sleep On It! Tips for catching better ZZZs

By Andrea Massimilian of Dayton Children’s Hospital

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s a parent you know how frustrating it can be to get your child to sleep… and stay asleep. If they don’t get rest, you don’t get rest. It’s a cycle that eventually ends up with many tired family members, which is no fun for anyone!

With summer right around the corner many parents may be wondering how to transition into a new sleep schedule. “The summer bedtime routine shouldn’t vary much more than an hour from what it is during the school year,” says Zach Woessner, Psy.D, child psychologist at Dayton Children’s. “And wakeup time should not vary more than 30-45 minutes.”

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Bedtime routine. Keep a consistent routine in the hour before bed. Wind the body down by doing a relaxing and calming activity such as reading.

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Light snack. Your child should not go to bed hungry. A light snack before bed is a good idea. Some milk, crackers or even just a couple carrots can help. Heavy meals within an hour or two of bedtime, however, may interfere with sleep.

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May is Better Sleep Month, making it a great time to review these seven tips on how to ensure your child is getting a good night’s sleep.

Caffeine. Make certain that your child is not eating or drinking anything that might have caffeine in the late afternoon or early evening (e.g. pop, energy drinks, coffee, tea and chocolate). With caffeine in their system, children may not be ready to settle down for the night.

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Sleep schedule. Make sure that your child gets to bed and wakes up around the same time every day (including weekends) so that their bodies are used to the same routine.

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Weekends. Don’t try to catch up on sleep on the weekends! Sleeping in could actually influence your child’s internal clock and make it more difficult for them to fall asleep that night.

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Electronics. Being on a laptop or cell phone in the hour before bed can interfere with falling asleep. The bright light does not help the brain to power down for the day.

Also, keep televisions out of children’s rooms. Studies show that children that have TVs in their bedrooms spend time watching TV rather than doing homework, reading or sleeping.

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Bedroom. Your child’s bedroom should be comfortable. Make sure it is

dark, quiet and not warmer than 75ºF. A bedroom warmer than that could make it harder for your child to fall asleep.

According to Dr. Woessner, the biggest “sleep mishap” that parents should avoid are negative sleep associations. “If a child learns to fall asleep with an ‘association’, such as a bottle or parent falling asleep with them, then it’ll be hard to break that sleep association. Associations can start as early as infancy, such as rocking a baby to sleep. Kiss your child goodnight in their crib or bed and then be sure to let them fall asleep on their own.”

What if your child can’t seem to fall asleep even after you’ve followed all the sleep tips? If they are old enough they can get out of bed and read 20-30 minutes, or until they feel tired. Make sure they’re not reading in bed, but instead that they get out of bed and read in a chair. If they stay in bed and read their bodies will start to connect reading with the bed, instead of sleeping, and this pattern may hinder sleep.

Hopefully these tips will help your child (and you) get the much needed rest necessary to enjoy all the summer activities that are right around the corner!

may happenings

May Happenings

Local fun all throughout the month!

By Lisa Seibert, Community Executive, DaytonLocal.com

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ay 11th is Mother’s Day. Mothers do so much with and for us; we should set aside this day to make sure our moms know how much we appreciate them! Check the calendar on DaytonLocal.com for activities and dining options to help you celebrate mom on her special day.

ny’s new Muppet friends quickly come to the rescue and discover “instruments” they never knew existed...rubber duckies, trash can lids and even cookie jars.

Elmo and friends teach children that everyone can make and enjoy beautiful music together.

Mayfair Plant Sale at Wegerzyn Gardens

600 E 2nd Street, Dayton, OH 45402 | (937) 228-2088 | Thursdays & Fridays 11 a.m. – 3 p.m., Saturdays 8 a.m. – 3 p.m.

1301 E Siebenthaler Ave., Dayton, OH 45414 | (937) 277-6545 | Saturday May 3, 10 a.m. – 4 p.m., Sunday May 4, Noon – 3 p.m.

Get a jump on spring and purchase unusual perennials, annuals and herbs for companion planting or simply to enhance your landscape at this annual plant sale. Organic vegetable plants also available for your home garden. Enjoy hanging baskets, just in time for Mother’s Day.

Elmo Makes Music & Sesame Street Live Hobart Arena, 255 Adams Street, Troy, OH 45373 | (937) 339-2911 | Tickets $15 - $48 | Saturday May 3, 10:30 a.m and 2 p.m., Sunday May 4, 3 p.m.

Jenny, an enthusiastic new music teacher, arrives on Sesame Street only to discover that her instruments are missing. Jen-

2nd Street Market

2nd Street Market is a localfood focused farmer’s market with many unique items sold by over 40 vendors. If homemade breads, local produce, flowers and lunch are on your list, let the Market be your one-stop shop!

A World A’Fair Dayton Convention Center | 22 East Fifth Street, Dayton, OH 45402 | (937) 333-4700 | Tickets: Adults $5 in advance $8 ($5 Seniors) at the door, Youth (6-18) $3 in advance, $4 at the door | Friday May 16, 5 p.m. – 11 p.m., Saturday May 17, 11 a.m. – 11 p.m., Sunday May 18, 11 a.m. – 6 p.m.

This festival is a celebration of diversity that showcases the food, dancing, music, costumes and cultural exhibits representing the ethnic backgrounds and cultures of Dayton and the greater Miami Valley.

10th Annual Patriot Freedom Festival Dayton VA Medical Center | 4100 W. Third Street Dayton, OH 45428 | (937) 267-7628 | Saturday May 24, 11 a.m. – 11 p.m., Sunday May 25, 11 a.m. – 6 p.m. | Admission & Parking are Free Come to our 10th Annual Patriot Freedom Festival! Children’s activities, historical re-enactors, historians, docents, food and vendors, free entertainment, Miami Valley Military History Museum – something for everyone! See the history of our Civil War veterans! See Still Standing, SWITCH2, Columbus Dance Troop & Co., 4 Freedom Equestrian Team and many more!

Miamisburg Spring Fling Festival Library Park - Corner of 5th & Central, Miamisburg, OH 45342 | Friday May 16, 5 p.m. – 10 p.m., Saturday May 17, 8 a.m.

– 10 p.m., Sunday May 18, 8 a.m. – 4 p.m.

Come enjoy the carnival rides in the parking lot behind Library Park throughout the Festival. The highlight of the weekend is the parade Saturday morning at 10 a.m. You’ll find the Arts & Crafts Show in Library Park both Saturday and Sunday; Children’s Activities in the Gazebo Saturday and Sunday.

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Nearby to Try: Dance Classes

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t the sound of music, even very young children are compelled to move to its rhythm.

Ballet, hip-hop, tap, jazz – dance

of wonderful things for children. It helps with learning, confidence, an understanding of one’s body, musicality and a joy of movement.

themselves in so many creative ways. Not only is it fun, dance pro-

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and balance. And getting on stage in a recital or performance is a great way for kids to feel the thrill of a live audience. Our area has a wealth of dance studios to suit any child’s interest – check out a class below.

Terre’s Dance 5819 Kentshire Dr., Kettering, OH Terre’s Dance Workshop, a 37 year Kettering institution, is proud to offer its annual professionally run and staffed Dance Camps for dancers from 5 to 18 years of age. To check out our dates and register, go to www.terresdanceworkshop.com.

Our Princess Camps are for children 5-6 and 7-8 years of age. They are June 16th through June 20th. Our Ballet Camp for dancers 12 years of age and up will be July 14-18 and July 21-25 from 10 a.m. to 3:30 p.m.

Our “So You Think You Can Dance” Camp for dancers 9-14 years of age will be July 7-11 from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m.

The youth dance program begins at the age of three and continues to the age of seven or eight. At that point students enter into the preprofessional ballet program and are also offered different dance forms, including jazz, hip-hop and modern dance. Dance can do a number

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Dance Expressions Going into their 18th season, Dance Expressions is located near Vandalia and is one of Dayton’s premiere dance studios. Home to over 500 dancers, Dance Expressions offer classes in Jazz, Tap, Ballet, Lyrical, Contemporary, Pointe, Hula, Acrobats and Hip Hop and can meet the needs of all ages and levels beginning with pre-classes all the way up to adult. For the competitive dancer, we have the Tiny and Mini Expressions. This is for grades 1st-6th by audition only (May 22nd 2014). For further information on the teams and our award winning 40 soloists, look us up at Danceexpressions.com or on Facebook. Director of the studio is Lori Downey, award-winning choreographer to the nationally ranked Butler Kickline. Her 34 years of experience includes training, teaching, studying, choreographing and judging and she comes highly recommended. Her dancers recently competed against dancers from the Lifetime show “Dance Moms.”

All About Dance 132 E. National Rd. Vandalia, OH All About Dance & Apparel features recreation dance for all ages. Our special preschool program “Sparks” has classes for ages 2 1/2 - Kindergarten combining dance and creative movement mixed together with a whole lot of fun. Also offering ballet, lyrical, tap, jazz, contemporary

and hip hop. See our website for a complete listing of classes: www.allaboutdancellc.com. Special Mighty Mites program allows pre-K students to learn basic martial arts technique taught by black belt instructor Kuk Sool Won. Let us celebrate with you. We will do all the work for your child’s birthday including one hour of entertainment...all you need to bring is the cake! Visit our newly remodeled store inside our studio for all of your dance wear needs or shop online at www.allaboutdancewear. com.

Dance Loft 1791 W. 2nd St. Xenia, OH Where the whole family can dance!

The Dance Loft Plus in Xenia, Ohio offers something for all ages. This summer along with Ballet, Tap and Jazz we will offer Dance Camps (ages 3-6), Mom & Me class (walkers and toddlers) and adults are invited to learn Ballet or Tap. Kids with special needs are invited to dance in our Special Abilities class. Call ahead or just walk in and join the fun! The Dance Loft Plus is located on the west side of Xenia just 20 minutes from the Greene & Fairfield Commons off SR-35. Our summer season runs June 9 - August 23 for just $10 a week! Check out our full schedule of summer fun at www.danceloftplus.com or call 937-374-1404 to learn more.

Smile Awhile Dance 941 East Franklin St. Centerville, OH LET’S DANCE! Ready for some fun and great exercise? Smile Awhile is the place for you! Miss Milea Manning is the director of the studio and the instructors are wonderful.

A variety of classes for everyone!

Kids and Adults! Tap, Jazz, Hip Hop, Break Dance, Ballet and Lyrical are offered for the kids. Adult Modern, Adult Ballet, Adult Tap, Adult Dance, Adult Hip Hop, Zumba and Yoga are offered for the adults. Special Needs classes are offered as well. Come dance with us! Smile Awhile dancers have fun dancing while learning cool moves! Smile Awhile Dance is a fun and casual, family-owned dance studio for all ages 2- 95. The Cutie Twos is the youngest dance group and there is a 95 year old Tap Dancer taking dance lessons.

Open enrollment…join in now! Not too late! Summer classes are offered also. Check out the website at www.

SmileAwhileDance.com. Please call Mary at 937-654-1830 to schedule a free trial class to see the beautiful studio and meet the teachers. You will then know why they named the studio….SMILE AWHILE!

Here are a few other places that offer dance classes in the Dayton area:

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soak up the summer

Soak Up The

A seasonal bucket list of things to do! |

hat’s not to love about summer? Longer days, loads of sunshine and an abundance of fun things to do! As the season approaches, here are some “must do” activities to include on the family calendar.

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Make a Splash Mix up your pool time fun with a visit to one of Dayton’s outdoor splash parks.

First up, there’s Activity Center Park in Centerville, a “sprayground” which has various features that spray and dump water.

Kids can dry off at the park’s all-access playground area with ramps, play structures and swings.

In downtown Dayton, check out Island MetroPark, an “urban oasis” of water slides and fountains for kids to enjoy. Outside the splash area, the park’s 33 acres contain a beautiful playground and lush walking trails to explore. If you’re up for a

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short road trip, there’s The Beach Waterpark, a 35-acre tropical paradise just north of Cincinnati.

Little ones will love the fountain area at Lil’ Kahunas Waterworks, while older kids will enjoy a vast variety of water slides. Parents can kick their feet up on a tube ride in the Kokomo Lazy River, which meanders through the entire park.

Also outside Cincinnati, there’s Soak City at Kings Island. With 50+ water activities, including slides, tropical lagoons and surfable waves, there’s plenty for kids to do. Soak City is included with Kings

Island park admission, so families can make a day out of both parks.

Festivals, Festivals, Festivals Dayton residents can celebrate their history – and Memorial Day – with the Dayton Heritage

Festival at Carillon Park. With fun exhibits and hands-on historical activities like musket firing and candle dipping, the whole family will enjoy this unique festival.

Bring a picnic and stay for a patriotic concert and fireworks on the Town Greene.

For a classic “festival” experience, complete with funnel cake and Ferris wheels, check out the calendar at http://ohiofestivals.net/schedule/. On any given weekend this summer, there is sure to be a festival in the greater Dayton area. Mark your calendar for the Church of the Ascension Parish Festival in Kettering June 20-22 (which includes a 5K race) and The Lebanese Festival at Saint Ignatius Maronite Catholic Church August 22-24.

Have an Adventure While big summer vacations are certainly fun, sometimes they aren’t feasible for families.

Here’s where the day trip comes in. “Daytrips are a great way for families to create shared memories together,” says Laura Hoevener, co-author of the book Adventures Around You: A Plan to Create Unforgettable Family Memories While Exploring Locally.

Hoevener says there are lots of really great “adventures” around Dayton.

“Dayton has a super variety of MetroParks. One of our favorites is Carriage Hill MetroPark. This is an 1880’s working farm where

you’ll find the staff dressed in period clothing and farming, cooking and living as they would have in the 1880’s.” Farm animals, hiking trails and an interactive children’s area make this a great adventure for families with kids.

As you’re planning activities this summer, be sure to include a few things off this “bucket list.” The Dayton area has so much to offer, there is no shortage of fun close to home!

Carillon Historical Park is another great Dayton destination says Hoevener. “It includes a plethora of Dayton history with over 30 historical structures, including a one-room schoolhouse, a gristmill and print shop.” She adds that the Carousel of Dayton Innovation is a full-scale, Ohio-made carousel featuring hand-painted figures from Dayton’s history.

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working through homesickness at camp

Working Through Homesickness at Camp Being away from home builds self-esteem and independence By the American Camp Association

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ne of the many joys of parenthood is helping children navigate new waters. And, while often these situations are met with hesitation, slight anxiety – or in the case of some first-time campers, homesickness – it is these moments that develop the twenty-first century skills needed in adulthood. New situations, such as going away to camp, serve as teachers in life’s classroom – developing leadership, self-esteem, teamwork, independence and problem-solving.

It’s important, even critical, for parents to help children overcome any feelings of hesitation in order to help them grow.

Take camp, for example. From a child’s perspective, camp is fun, fun, fun! Parents know that camp provides immeasurable growth opportunities, and is a vital part of childhood. As the day approaches, even the most excited campers sometimes get nervous about being away from home.

“Homesickness is completely normal,” said Michael Thompson, consultant, author and psychologist in a recent PBS article. “If a child loves his or her parents and has a good home, why wouldn’t he or she feel some longing for mom, for dad, for the dog, or for home cooking?”

It is up to parents, then, to help ease the transition to camp, and help their children grow from the

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experience. The American Camp Association suggests the following advice to help alleviate anxiety and get a jump start on life’s lessons.

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Encourage independence throughout the year. Practice separations, such as sleepovers at a friend’s house, can simulate the camp environment.

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Involve children in the process of preparing for camp.

The more they own the decision, the more comfortable they will feel being at camp.

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Make sure to understand the camp’s philosophy on how issues, such as homesickness, are addressed. Talk candidly with the camp director to understand his/her perspective on the adjustment to camp life.

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Discuss what to expect at camp before leaving for camp. Consider role-playing anticipated situations, such as using a flashlight to find the bathroom.

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Reach an agreement ahead of time on calling each other, but make sure to honor the camp’s policy on phone calls.

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Send a note or care package ahead of time to arrive the first day of camp. Acknowledge missing the child, in a

positive way. For example, saying “I am going to miss you, but I know that you will have a good time at camp,” lets the camper know that families are thinking about them, but confident in their ability to adapt to camp.

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Pack a personal item or two from home, such as a stuffed animal.

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Avoid bribing behaviors.

Families send the wrong message when they link a successful stay at camp to a material object. Families should focus on the real rewards – like new found confidence and independence.

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Don’t plan an exit strategy.

If a “rescue call” comes from the child, offer calm reassurance and put the time frame into perspective.

While most incidents of homesickness pass quickly, parents know their child best. If parents have concerns (for example, the child is not eating or sleeping, or appears overly anxious), they should immediately talk to their camp director. Camp staff

are trained to identify and ease homesickness, and are a valuable resource for parents as well as campers.

About ACA The American Camp Association® (ACA) works to preserve, promote, and enhance the camp experience for children and adults. ACA-Accredited® camp programs ensure that children are provided with a diversity of educational and developmentally challenging learning opportunities. There are over 2,400 ACAaccredited camps that meet up to 280 health and safety standards. For more information, visit www.ACAcamps.org.

Reprinted by permission of the American Camp Association. ©2014 American Camping Association, Inc.

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camp directory

CAMP&SUMMER PROGRAMGUIDE Music for Young Children Summer Camp

City of BeavercreekParks and Rec

Address: 2240 E. Central Ave. Suite 4, Miamisburg, OH 45342 | Phone: 937-865-6539 | Specific Categories: Day Camp | Dates: July 21 through July 25 | Grades: 3 - 12 | Cost: $150

Address: Rotary Park 2260 Dayton-Xenia Rd, Beavercreek, OH 45434 | Phone: 937-427-5514 Website: www.ci.beavercreek. oh.us | Specific Categories: Day Camp | Dates: June 16 - Aug 9 Ages: 6-12 | Cost: $110/week residents; $125/week non-residents

MYC is a multi-sensory approach to learning music that involves note-reading; music theory; keyboard skills; music history; ear training; movement; sight-singing & harmonization; composition; and rhythm ensemble practice. This intense week of music making will be age-appropriate in its curriculum and activities.

There will be a main theme or focus for the week that will incorporate several of the approaches listed above.

Cape Cod Children’s Farm Address: 3187 E. Centerville Rd., Spring Valley, OH 45370 | Phone: 937-901-2826 | Specific Categories: 2 hour day camp in Petting zoo with crafts and pony rides | Dates: starting June 2nd Mondays only 10 -12 2-4 thru August 30th | Ages/Grades: 4-10 years of age | Cost: $50 per 2 hour session Children will enjoy hands on with the animals/ mini riding lesson or pony ride/ zip line/ fishing/ playground.

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Campers will play a variety of activities, create crafts, play sports and meet new friends. Different theme and field trip each week.

Urban Adventures Summer Day Camp Address: Northwest Recreation Center, 1600 Princeton Dr., Dayton, OH 45406 | Phone: 937-333-8400 | Website: www. daytonrecreationandyou.com Specific Categories: Day Camp | Dates: June 9 - August 1, 2014 Grades: 3 - 12 | Cost: $80.00 per week Our youth summer camp program is themed “Urban Adventures” and will be an exciting and fun-filled time of learning, but most importantly…just plain “FUN”! Campers will experience the best of daily activities, games, field trips, and crafts. The camp is designed to help develop youth physically and socially.

Lunch and afternoon snacks are provided daily.

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Decoy Art Studio

Website: www.dabble-art.com | Specific Categories: Day CampArt Education | Dates: June 16- August 29 | Grades Pre K-12 | Cost: $50-$90

Address: 1561 Grange Hall Rd., Dayton, OH 45432 | Phone: 937-431-4838 | Website: www. decoy-art.com | Specific Categories: Summer Art Camps | Dates: Throughout the Summer | Grades: K-12th | Cost: $95-200

Join us in our debut as we open the doors to Dabble with our exciting summer camp program!

True to our name, students will dabble in all types of medias and techniques as we deliver fun and educational art projects with new topics for each week long camp. Camps are divided into age groups throughout the day for an age appropriate experience with a state certified art teacher. The end of each week will be celebrated with a fabulous art exhibit featuring original works by your young artist!

Dayton Rowing Club Address: 124 East Helena St. (across from Island MetroPark), Dayton, OH | Website: www.

DaytonJuniorRowing.org/LearntoRow | Dates: June 23- August 23 | Grades 7-12 | Cost: $90 | Requirements of Campers: must be 5’3” or taller | Activities Included: rowing Youth Learn-to-Row A 3-day introductory course that teaches rowing terms & technique, how to handle equipment, water safety, and teamwork. Prerequisites: • must be able to swim • students in grades 7 -12 (as of Fall 2014) • 5’3” or taller Register at www.DaytonJuniorRowing.org/ LearnToRow

At Decoy Art Studio, we thrive in helping others find their creativity. Learn the history, uses and create in each of our camps: pottery/clay, jewelry making, multi media super hero, painting, drawing, and graffiti art. Early enrollment rates - camp shirt included.

GymQuest Summer Camps 2014 Address: 3820 Kemp Rd., Beavercreek, OH | Phone: 937426-3547 | Website: www. gymquestsports.com | Specific Categories: Day Camp | Dates: June 9 - August 15, 2014. | Ages 7 and up | Cost: $120-$300 Each week we have a different theme for camp. all include basic gymnastics with the exception of our Olympian week in July.

Themes range from Artist week to Emergency Services. Descriptions and agendas can be found on our website. We promise lots of fun this summer!

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Hand 2 Hand Gymnastics

high school | Dates: June 16 July 25 | Age 3 through twelfth grade | Cost: $260 - $325 per week

Address: 270 Hiawatha Trail, Springboro, OH 45066 | Phone: 937-743-1466 | Website: www. hand2handgym.com | Specific Categories: Day Camp | Hours: Day Camp 8:30am - 12:30pm | Dates: June 23 - 27 July 14 - 18 August 4 - 8 | Ages 4 - 10 | Cost: $99 per child now through April 30 -$125 after

Summer At MVS offers fun, enriching day camps, athletic clinics, academic camps and special interest programs for children from age 3 through high school.

Our camps offer opportunities for innovative learning, inspired by curiosity and active exploration. They provide a safe, loving and encouraging environment. The strength of our camps comes from small group sizes, personal attention to every individual, and an experienced, professional staff committed to enriching students’ lives.

Join us for camp at H2H - each week is carefully planned with snacks, games, a daily craft and lots of gymnastics. Pick one week or come for them all! All Creatures Big & Small (June), Summer Blockbusters (July), Just Being a Kid (August)! 15% Sibling discount available. $99 through April 30 - $125 after April 30.

Camp Nature Kids Address: 790 N. Main St., Springboro, OH 45066 | Phone: 937-748-1260 | Specific Categories: Day Camp | Dates: June 9 - August 22 | Preschool/Pre-K: 2.5 - 5 years & School-Age: 6-12 years | Cost: Part-Time & FullTime Tuition Available An unforgettable ten-week odyssey that transforms campers into miniature scientists, explorers and adventurers as they investigate the world beyond their back door. LOTS of Field Trips (Cincy Zoo Overnight, Boonshoft, Camp Kern, Cincinnati Red’s Game etc.), Visitors (Dr. Insecta, Animals Alive!, etc.) and projects, activities, parties, games, art and more!

Miami Valley School Address: 5151 Denise Dr., Dayton, OH 45429 | Phone: 937-4344444 ext. 301 | Website: www. mvschool.com/summer-at-mvs | Specific Categories: Summer camps for pre-school through

Camp ChillerNTPRD Chiller Ice Rink Address: 301 W. Main St., Springfield, OH 45504 | Phone: 937-323-7465 | Website: www. ntprdchiller.com | Dates: June 16-20, July 14-18, August 11-15 | Ages 4-11 | Cost: $150 for the week, $35/day pre-registration, $45/walk up | Activities Included: Ice Skating Camp Chiller introduces your child to ice skating with more than an hour on ice daily. Off ice activities include skating & hockey themed games, art projects, indoor and outdoor activities and more.

Overfield Summer Camp Address: 172 S. Ridge Ave., Troy, OH 45373 | Phone: 937-339-5111 | Hours: 9am-1pm | Dates: July 7-11, 14-18, 21-25, July 28-Aug. 1, Aug. 4-8 | Ages 3-8 | Cost: $100 per week Join us for some old-fashioned summer camp fun! Overfield’s wooded campus bursts with opportunities for adventure. Our

naturalist will lead children in exploring nature, and in creating art in the midst of the many beauties that nature has to offer. Fort-building, tree-climbing and creek-trekking are all in the works!

Piano Preparatory School Address : 3899 Indian Ripple Rd. Beavercreek, OH 45440 | Phone: 937-426-6920 | Website: www. pianopreparatoryschool.com | Dates: June 2 - August 2 | Ages/ grades: 6 years - adult | Cost: $75 - $225 The PPS offers engaging summer programs for children and adults. Week-long camps include: music theatre workshop, philharmonious strings, science & music exploratorium, pop for pianists. “Jump start” classes allow participants to try piano, guitar or ukulele in a fun, small group setting. Mention Dayton Parent Magazine to receive 10% off!

Precious Ones Learning Center Summer Camp Address: 3009 Shakertown Rd., Beavercreek, OH 45434 | Phone: 937-429-9858 | Website: www. beavercreekchristian/polc | Ages 3-12 Fieldtrips, onsite arts and crafts, sports, community service and more. Part time and full time programs available!

TWIGS Kids Address: 1900 S. Alex Road, West Carrollton, OH 45449 | Phone: (937) 866-8356 | Website: www.twigskids.com | Specific Categories: Day Camp | Dates: All Summer Long! (June 9-Aug. 15) | Ages/Grades: 4-13 | Cost: $150.00 Weekly Rate or

$1,200 for the full summer!

TWIGS Kids has AWESOME week long summer camps for kids that like to move! Each week has a special theme with games and activities. Each week includes: gymnastics, trampoline, swimming, giant slip and slide, field trips, and crafts. (Full and half day options available).

University of Dayton - Campus Recreation Address: 300 College Park, Dayton, OH 45469 | Phone: 937229-2731 | Website: go.udayton. edu/campusrec | Specific Categories: Day Camp | Hours: 7:30a - 5:30p | Dates: Eight weekly sessions, June 2 - August 1 | Ages 6-12 | Cost: $160/week Inspiring 6 to 12 year-olds to lead healthy, happy lives. Eight weekly sessions are designed around a fun and interactive theme where campers and counselors become designers of their own learning through engaging activities. There will be opportunities for swimming, climbing, playing sports, creating art projects, and so much more.

YMCA Camp Kern Address: 5291 St. Rt. 350, Oregonia, OH 45054 | Phone: 513932-3756 | Website: www.campkern.org | Specific Categories: Residential & Day Camp Options | Dates: June 15th - August 9th| Ages 5-16| Cost: $265-$665 YMCA Camp Kern is a year round facility offering a various range of experiences in the outdoor world. Our Summer Camp Program run as individual one week sessions throughout the eight week summer. We have a variety of programming from Day Camp and Residential Camp, to Teen programs and fully themed Literary Camp such as Harry Potter, Percy Jackson, Rangers Apprentice and Star Wars!

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FRIDAY | 02 Kids Night In (AKA Parents Night Out!)

$20 per student, $18 with sibling Phone: 937-431-4838 Location: Decoy Art Studio.

1561 Grange Hall Rd., Beavercreek. www. decoy-art.com/young-artist-classes Perfect date night as the kids stay in at Decoy Art Studio creating, imagining and having a good ‘ole time meeting new friends. Includes all materials and pizza.

$15 Phone: (937) 228-7591 Location: Victoria Theatre. 138 North Main St., Dayton. http://www.daytonlocal.com/ things-to-do/kids/black-violin-victoriatheatre.asp Virtuoso violinists Kev and Wil B will raise the roof sky-high with their funky fusion of classical, jazz, hip-hop blues and R&B. Joining the duo are DJ TK on the turntables, Beatdown on drums and Joe Cello on cello. Apollo legends BLACK VIOLIN compose a concert just for kids with new beats, classic faves and cool pop covers smashing musical stereotypes by mixing Bach and Beyoncé and more!

Shrek at Town Hall Theatre

Town Hall Theatre. 27 N. Main Street, Centerville, OH, Centerville. http://www. daytonlocal.com/events.asp?rec=11670 In a faraway kingdom turned upside down, things get ugly when an unseemly ogre— not a handsome prince — shows up to rescue a feisty princess.

Throw in a donkey who won’t shut up, a bad guy with a SHORT temper, a cookie with an attitude and over a dozen other fairy tale misfits, and you’ve got the kind of mess that calls for a real hero. Luckily, there’s one on hand…and his name is Shrek. Recommended for Youth ages 4 & Up / Approximate Running Time: 90 minutes.

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SATURDAY | 03 Annual Dayton Book Expo

Sinclair Community College. 444 W 3rd St., Dayton. www.daytonlocal.com/ events/dayton-book-expo.asp For the fifth consecutive year, hundreds of book lovers will convene at the Dayton Book Expo. The all-day event includes panel discussions for aspiring authors, activities for children in the Kidz Zone and book signings with more than fifty authors! The event is free and open to public. Our featured authors are international gospel artist, Tonya Baker, and Essence best-selling author, Willam Fredrick Cooper.

Spring 5K Run/Walk

Registration is $20 before April 15th and includes a T-shirt. After April 15th, registration is $25. Location: Job Center. 1133 S. Edwin C Moses Blvd, Dayton. http:// stvincentdayton.org/news-events/svdpwalk/ For the past 6 years, St. Vincent de Paul has held the Friends of the Poor® Walk in September and has come up against some of the area’s largest 5k events on the same weekend. In an effort to increase awareness of our mission and to improve participation and support, St. Vincent de Paul has decided to move our fall event to the spring and make it a sanctioned 5k run/walk. Making the move to the spring provides a great opportunity to give the event a whole new look and name!

and at noon the book sale will be open to the public until 4:00 pm. On Sunday, there will be a BAG SALE - $3.00 per bag of books.

SUNDAY | 04 Bella Musica Faculty Recital

FRIDAY | 09 Great Dayton Adventure

The teachers of Bella Musica Lesson Studio will be presenting a music recital on Sunday, May 4, 2014 at 3:00 PM. Come hear our teachers perform and meet them after the recital. This is a great way to kick off National Music Week and come learn about all the great things Bella Musica has to offer.

This race is an urban scavenger hunt in downtown Dayton, starting and ending at RiverScape MetroPark. Experience Dayton in a new way as you weave your way through the excitement of Urban Nights with music and fun around every corner on a vibrant night downtown.

Team up with friends or tackle the challenge as a soloist for this adventure.

FREE Phone: 937-865-6539 Location: Baum Opera House. 15 S. 1st Street, Miamisburg. http://www.bellamusicadayton.com

Mother’s Day Tea

Price: $18 members; $20 non-members Phone: (937) 293-2841 Location: Patterson Homestead. 1815 Brown Street, Dayton. http://www.daytonhistory.org/ event/event-registration/?regevent_ action=register&event_id=404 A 19th century afternoon tea at the historic Patterson Homestead. Enjoy hot tea, a variety of breads, tea sandwiches and desserts served by interpreters in 19th century costume. Learn about the Patterson family history and take a tour of the Homestead.

TUESDAY | 06 Peter Pan

Friends of the Library Book Sale

Price: $5 Phone: (937) 228-3630 Location: Victoria Theatre. 138 North Main Street, Dayton. http://www.victoriatheatre.com/shows/peter-pan/

The Friends of the Beavercreek Library will be sponsoring a BOOK SALE, Saturday, May 3rd and Sunday, May 4th.

The doors will open Saturday at 10:00 am for paid up members of the Friends

Adapted from the classic tale by J.M. Barrie, PETER PAN explores the journey of a group of children in turn-of-thecentury London who use their imaginations to reenact the popular tale. As the children fly to Neverland and escape the evil Captain Hook and Mr. Smee, they recognize the importance of friendship as well as the value of being part of a family. This production encourages

Phone: (937) 352-4001 Location: Beavercreek Library. 3618 Dayton-Xenia Road, Beavercreek. http://www.daytonlocal.com/events/friends-of-thebeavercreek-library-book-sale.asp

children to let their imaginations take “flight” and to create their own adventures using household objects as props and puppets as characters. Grades K-6 welcome.

Price: $10 Phone: (937) 275-7275 Location: RiverScape MetroPark: RiverScape Pavilion. 111 E. Monument Ave., Dayton. www.topoadventuresports.org

SUNDAY | 11 Baby Jog & Family Fun Run 5K, 10K & 1-Mile Walk

Phone: 937-572-5018 Location: Eastwood MetroPark. 1385 Harshman Rd., Dayton. http://babyjogfamilyfunrun5k10k.itsyourrace.com/event. aspx?id=1744 Run Like a Kid Again! • Fun for the Whole Family • Kids Fun Runs & Kids Run Clinic • $$$ for 10K Male & Female Winners • Age Group Awards in the 5k & 10k • Master & Grandmaster Awards in the 10k • Awards for fastest Baby Jogger in the 5k & 10k • Awards for Para-athlete: Wheelchair Athletes, Visually Impaired Athletes, and Mobility Impaired Athletes in the 5k and 10k. Runners will complete an out and back route (turn-around is 180 degree turn around a cone) on the bike path, Ohio Bicycle Route 8. All races will start and finish in the parking lot west of the Rubgy Field. The Kids Fun Runs and Kids Run Clinics will be on the Rugby Field.

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SATURDAY | 17 Family Farm Chores

Price: FREE Phone: (937) 278-2609 Location: Carriage Hill MetroPark. 7800 E. Shull Road, Dayton. www.metroparks. org Join the historic farmer to feed animals, gather eggs, and clean stalls. Get to know some of the farm animals up close and personal. Meet at the farm. Ages 6Y-18Y. Registration required.

Space Fest

Price: Free Phone: (937) 255-3286 Location: National Museum of the United States Air Force. 1100 Spaatz St. WrightPatterson AFB, Dayton. www.nationalmuseum.af.mil/spacefest.asp Join us May 16-17, 2014 for a multitude of exciting space-related activities! The museum and a number of partner organizations will offer hands-on activities for all ages, including special appearances by astronauts, a 5K fun run/walk and 1-mile kids’ race, a star-gaze with telescopes, a chance to see the museum’s new space shuttle exhibit, model rocket building and launching, and much more. Admission to most activities is FREE!

SUNDAY | 18 Godzilla Fest! at the Boonshoft Museum Springfield

Price: varies Phone: (937) 328-5128 Location: Boonshoft Museum Springfield.

1465 Upper Valley Pike, Springfield. http://events.activedayton.com/springfield_oh/events/show/370170938godzilla-fest-at-the-boonshoft-museum-springfield#dates_and_ Boonshoft Springfield invites you to celebrate with us the big screen return of the worldwide pop culture icon.. Godzilla! Join the Education Department in special programming inspired by the King of Monsters and his foes. Programming includes: Make Your Own Monster Movie Monster Ala Cart The Monster Factory And finally, your whole family is invited to the world premiere of.. Giant Monster All Out Science.

A World A’Fair — A Celebration of Festivals

Price: Adults $8.00 Senior Citizens $5.00 Youth (6-18) $4.00. Presale tickets also available. Location: Dayton Convention Center. 22 E. Fifth Street, Dayton. http://www.aworldafair.org/AWfest.html Soin International and Dayton International Festival, Inc. present the 41st annual International Festival, A World A’Fair — A Celebration of Festivals. The festival is a celebration of diversity that showcases the food, dancing, music, costumes, and cultural exhibits representing the ethnic backgrounds and cultures of Dayton and the greater Miami Valley.

Miamisburg Spring Fling Festival

Location: Library Park. 426 E Central Ave, Miamisburg. www.miamisburgspringflingfestival.com/ May 16, 2014 - Friday Carnival Operating in the parking lot behind Library Park, 5pm till 10pm Arm bands will be available Friday night and Sunday afternoon which are good for four hours.

May 17, 2014 - Saturday Arts & Crafts Show Opens at 10am in Library Park which is located at the corner of Fifth & Central (view map) and closes at 6pm. If you have any questions, please call (937) 866-1779. Come and enjoy the many foods that are available, and visit the community and children’s activities. Spring Fling Parade Will start at 9:45am from the MMCIC parking lot and other locations along the parade route.

The parade will proceed down Mound Avenue to First Street and proceeding north to Central Avenue, turning right on Central and proceeding East past Library Park and disbanding at Sixth Street. If you are interested in participating in the parade, download application form Carnival Operating in the parking lot behind Library Park, 10am till 10pm. Children’s Activities In the Gazebo 11am - 4pm. May 18, 2014 - Sunday Arts & Crafts Show Opens at Noon in Library Park and will close at 6pm Come and enjoy the many foods that are available, and visit the community and children’s activities. Carnival Operating in the parking lot behind Library Park, Noon till 6pm. Arm bands will be avail-

able Sunday afternoon which are good for four hours. Children’s Activities In the Gazebo Noon - 4pm.

charge and Reserve Officers’ Training Corps with government issued ID.

WEDNESDAY | 21 Kettering Children’s Choir presents Nature Sings

10th annual Patriot Freedom Festival

Price: Adults: $12.00; Senior, Student, Child, Military discounted tickets available by phone or at the box office Phone: (937) 228-7591 Location: Mead Theatre - Schuster Center. 1 West Second Street, Dayton. https://www.ticketcenterstage.com/show.asp?shcode=2118 The four Choirs of the Kettering Children’s Choir, 175 singers from ages 8-18, present their spring concert, Nature Sings, with music inspired by the many forms of our natural world. The KCC will be accompanied on several pieces by members of the Dayton Philharmonic Youth Orchestra, Patrick Reynolds conducting. Original orchestrations for “Night”, “Lovely Day”, “Night” and “Music, Sing On” were written for this performance by Mark Barnard. “Music, Sing On” was written by Waynesville composer, Cynthia Gray, who will also conduct it as the final piece of the program.

SATURDAY | 24 Military Days at Kings Island

Phone: 513.754.5700 Location: Kings Island. 6300 Kings Island Drive, Kings Island. https://www.visitkingsisland.com/ events/things-to-do/events-and-promotions/Tribute-to-the-Armed-Forces Kings Island is once again honoring the brave men and women who serve in the U.S. military. All members of the military -- active and retired -- will receive free admission to Kings Island Memorial Day Weekend May 23-26 and during the Fourth of July holiday July 3-6. The offer also allows military personnel to purchase up to six (6) discount admission tickets for members of their immediate family for only $29.99 at the front gate admissions windows on the day of their visit. Military personnel who qualify for the free admission ticket and discount offer for family members include active military, retired military, National Guard, veterans with honorable or medical dis-

Price: Free entry and free parking Phone: 937-267-7628 Location: Dayton VA Medical Center Campus. 4100 W. Third Street, Dayton. http://americanveteransheritage.org/events.htm The Veterans of Foreign Wars Department of Ohio Charities presents the 10th annual Patriot Freedom Festival on Memorial Day weekend. Patrons can enjoy rides, food, a petting zoo, live music, and even a 5K run/walk.

SUNDAY | 25 Dayton Heritage Festival

Price: $8 per adult | $5 per child (ages 3-17) | Dayton History Members FREE Phone: (937) 293-2841 Location: Carillon Historical Park. 1000 Carillon Blvd., Dayton. http://www.daytonhistory.org/ event/event-registration/?regevent_ action=register&event_id=397 It is a Memorial Day weekend to remember with an old-fashioned patriotic celebration! Join us at Carillon Park for this fun filled day of history and music.

The whole family can explore all of the exhibits and buildings while participating in hands-on historical activities like musket firing and candle dipping. The day ends with a patriotic concert on the Town Greene by the Dayton Philharmonic with special performances from the Dayton Opera and Dayton Ballet. A great way to start the summer!.

10th annual Patriot Freedom Festival

Price: Free entry and free parking Phone: 937-267-7628 Location: Dayton VA Medical Center Campus. 4100 W. Third Street, Dayton. http://americanveteransheritage.org/events.html The Veterans of Foreign Wars Department of Ohio Charities presents the 10th annual Patriot Freedom Festival on Memorial Day weekend. Patrons can enjoy rides, food, a petting zoo, live music, and even a 5K run/walk.

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ongoing events 2nd Street Market

Zoo Babies

600 E 2nd Street, Dayton. http://www. metroparks.org/Parks/SecondStreetMarket/Home.aspx

Adults 13-61, $15; children 2-12 and seniors 62+ , $11. Phone: (513) 281-4700 Location: The Cincinnati Zoo & Botanical Garden. 3400 Vine St., Cincinnati. http:// cincinnatizoo.org/events/zoo-babies/

(Occurring Every Thursday, Friday and Saturday)

A local-food focused farmer’s market experience. Our local vendors literally have apples to zucchini and everything in between. Do lunch at our food court - Visit one of the delectable eateries where you will find anything from European pastries to the good ole’ sandwich. Find unique handmade items, wine, chocolates, pastries, freshly baked breads, pies & more!

Bring the whole family - even out of town guests - to experience the vibrant, downtown atmosphere.

(Occurring daily through May 31)

Help us celebrate our newest arrivals at the Cincinnati Zoo & Botanical Garden during May. Six-foot-tall pink and blue storks statues displayed throughout the Zoo will lead visitors to all of the cutest little baby faces.

PreSchool Open Gym (Occurring every Tuesday)

Price: $6 per child, max family $15 Phone: 937-743-1466 Location: Hand 2 Hand Gymnastics. 270 Hiawatha Tr, Springboro. http://hand2handgym.com/

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Pre School Open Gym is held every Tuesday from 11:00 am to Noon. Cost is $6 per child or $12 per family. Come swing on our ropes, run an obstacle course, play some games, and jump on our trampolines. Fun guaranteed Ages 2 to 6 accompanied by an adult. Advance registration is not required but we must have a current waiver on file. Please check our website for gym closures.

Saturday Morning Jammie Leap (Occurring every Saturday)

Price: $9.35 per child Phone: (937) 6403345 Location: LeapFrogs Party & Play Center. 2109 Lyons Road, Miamisburg. http://www.daytonlocal.com/things-todo/kids/saturday-morning-jammie-leapleapfrogs.asp LeapFrogs Party & Play’s Infamous Jammie Leap for the kids who get up early

// MAY 2014 on Saturday mornings! Hop in the car in your jammies and head on down for the best morning fun around! There’s nothing more fun than playing, partying and bouncing around in your jammies! Don’t forget your socks! Mom & Dad, a Special Note! We ALWAYS have FREE coffee on hand at LeapFrogs or we will make more!.

Poelking Lanes/ Cosmic BowlingWoodman, Marion and Wilmington Pike (Recurring every Friday)

Price: $12-$12.95 depending on location Phone: 937-293-3179 Location: PoelkingWoodman Lanes. 3200 Woodman Dr, Kettering. www.poelkingbowling.com Lights, music and a lot of fun! 3 person minimum, 2 hours of bowling, shoes included.

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