Hamilton County Family | May/June 2015

family HAMILTON COUNTY

M AY / J UN E 2015 – F R E E

GET AWAY FOR THE DAY

READY OR NOT? WHEN TO ALLOW KIDS MORE FREEDOM

TONS OF FUN & BACK BY BEDTIME!

PLUS...

5 THINGS

TO KNOW ABOUT

MONTESSORI

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Meet the Staff

may/june 2015

Publisher Mary Wynne Cox mary@hamiltoncountyfamily.com

Associate Publisher & Advertising Sales Jennica Zalewski jennica@hamiltoncountyfamily.com

Editor Susan Bryant susan@hamiltoncountyfamily.com

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Creative Director Katie Clark katie@hamiltoncountyfamily.com

Advertising Coordinator Karen Ring karen@hamiltoncountyfamily.com

Business Manager Roxanne Burns roxanne@hamiltoncountyfamily.com

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GREETINGS

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ON THE RADAR

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Summertime already?

HIDDEN GEMS

The best finds only the locals know!

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Mango grape salsa

GET AWAY FOR THE DAY

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Children's art classes

READY OR NOT?

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HOOSIER NEIGHBOR?

THE COUNSELOR'S CORNER

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WITH SO MANY OPPORTUNITIES, WHY CAMP?

Fishers Freedom Festival, Farmers' Markets and more!

Tons of fun and back to bedtime!

When is the right time to allow kids more freedom?

When children worry about their divorced parent

ASK THE EXPERT

Skincare advice

5 THINGS TO KNOW ABOUT MONTESSORI How this philosophy differs from a traditional educational approach

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TO YOUR HEALTH Gluten-free diets

RECI-PLEASE

WHAT'S COOL AFTER SCHOOL

MOMMY MAGIC Small moments

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Emily Ungar, Rebecca Wood, Julie Costakis-Smith, Emma Hostetter, Nicole Turner, Mary Susan Buhner, Stephanie Lowe-Sagebiel, Kate Burkhardt Contact Us: Hamilton County Family 6340 Westfield Blvd., Ste. 200 Indianapolis, IN 46220 (317) 417-3031 or (317) 710-6622

Hamilton County Family Magazine is published bimonthly.

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ON THE COVER The Hoffner family from Westfield

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TO DO WITH YOUR CREW

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THE LAST LAUGH

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The interesting people living right next door!

The many benefits of camp experience

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Public Relations and Events Wendy Cox

May and June calendar of events

Embarrassing parent moments!

Photographer: Nikki Zimmerman 4 Men & A Lady Photography

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greetings

by: Jennica Zalewski, mom of 3

Summertime already?

I feel like we were just preparing for the first day of school, and somehow, the last day has already arrived!

This past school year brought a first to our family – we sent our oldest daughter off to college. It took some time to get the hang of parenting someone who doesn’t live in your home anymore. (The control freak in me had to do some adjusting!) Your family, like ours, may be going through some changes too. That’s part of motherhood, I suppose, so make sure to appreciate even the smallest experiences as much as possible. As Dr. Seuss said, “Sometimes you will never know the value of a moment until it becomes a memory.”

On a lighter note, warm summer days just beckon a road trip, don’t they?

When an expensive, far away vacation is not in the cards, a destination close to home can do the trick. Check out our article Get Away for the Day for some tips on great travel spots that require just one tank of gas.

Of course, some of the best places for summer fun are right here in our own backyard! We’ve started a new column called Hidden Gems of Hamilton County to showcase all the wonderful things to do right here at home.

Have a hidden gem we should know about? Send me an email at Jennica@hamiltoncountyfamily.com and we just may include it in our next issue!

Will your kids be asking for a little more freedom from you this summer?

Whether it’s staying home alone, getting a job or going on a first date, it can be tough to know when kids are ready for these kinds of responsibilities. For some advice on the subject, try reading Ready or Not? and get some tips from the experts.

May and June are big months for us parents with Mother’s Day and Father’s Day right around the corner. We hope your family gives you all the recognition you deserve!

We certainly appreciate you as our loyal readers, and hope that our magazine helps you just a little bit along this parenting path we all share!

Jennica Zalewski

Associate Publisher jennica@hamiltoncountyfamily.com

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on the radar mark your calendar

get involved

other

Get it fresh!

Nothing beats the fresh tastes of summer – find them all at one of these local farmer’s markets!

Carmel Farmers Market

Fishers Freedom Festival

Come join the fun at one of the largest festivals around that attracts thousands from near and far every year. This two day event has it all: a 5K run/walk, arts and crafts vendors, live entertainment, food vendors, children’s and teen area, disc dog competitions… and a parade and fireworks!

June 27 – June 28, 2015 Roy G. Holland Memorial Park 8:00 am – 10: 00 pm For more information, call (317) 595-3195 or visit www.fishersfreedomfestival.org.

Canned goods or school supplies are appreciated with admission!

Do you wish that you had Jessie’s Girl?

Then join the other fans of Rick Springfield and see him live in Fishers on May 9th! His “Stripped Down” tour, from B105.7 Soft Rock, will take place at the Nickel Plate District Amphitheater. The best part? It’s free!

Beginning Monday, April 13, B105.7 will be setting up hour-long free ticket stops at sponsor locations. The free ticket window will be open each weekday from April 13 until May 8. Check their website (www.b1057.com) or listen to the radio for information on where and what time ticket windows will be open.

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May 2 – September 26 Saturday mornings from 8:00 am – 11:30 am Location: 1 Center Green, Carmel

Fishers Farmers Market May 2 – September 26 Saturday mornings from 8:00 am – 12:00 pm Location: Nickel Plate District

Noblesville Farmers Market May 9 – October 17 Saturday mornings from 8:00 am – 12:00 pm Location: Riverview Health overflow parking lot

Saxony Market May 23 – September 12 Saturday mornings from 8:00 am – 12:00 pm Location: Saxony Market, 131st and Olio in Fishers

Thursday Market June 4 – September 17 Thursday evenings from 5:00 – 8:00 pm Location: South Alley, next to Noblesville Visitors Center on the Historic Courthouse Square

Westfield Farmers Market June 5 – August 28 Friday nights from 5:00 pm – 8:00 pm Location: Ameriana Bank of Westfield

Calling all chalk artists!

Hamilton Town Center will host its annual Chalk Art Festival on Saturday, June 20 from 10 am - 5:00 pm. Amateurs and professionals alike are invited to bring their artistic talents to the village streets.

All registrants are assigned one parking space to design. The top three winners in each category will win a Simon Mall gift card.

Register by June 6 to ensure a spot! Registration will also be accepted the day of on a first come, first served basis between 9:00 am and 10:00 am.

Just for Fun may 1st No Pants Day

may 6th No Homework Day

may 9th Lost Sock Memorial Day

This family friendly event will also feature live music, face painting, balloon artists, a beer and wine garden and much more! Plus FREE chalk for the kids to add color and life to the community street mural! Rain date will be June 27. Call Lindsey or Kyle at (317) 214-6956 for more information or to register.

may 14th Chicken Dance Day

may 24th Tiara Day

Hit the streets Take a tour of all the great attractions of Noblesville… by foot! The 2nd annual Noblesville Mini Marathon takes place May 23 and will showcase the city’s most beloved attractions: Morse Beach, Forest Park, Potter’s Bridge and the Courthouse Square. Multiple distances will be offered to appeal to runners and walkers of every ability. Choose from a half marathon, 10K or 5K distances. There’s even a Kiddie Run open to kids age 6 and under that will take place on the football field. Kids will start on the 10 yard line with their very own Noblesville Mini Marathon football in hand, run to the other 10 yard line, and return to the starting point (160 yards).

june 5th Donut Day

june 8th Best Friends Day

june 18th International Panic Day

june 19th Sauntering Day

Register now at https://noblesvilleminimarathon.com!

Racing beds?

Yes! Come see custom designed beds on wheels race down 9th Street in Noblesville on June 5 – or get your own team together and hop on board!

The “Put School to Bed and Race Into Summer” campaign benefits the Boys & Girls Club of Noblesville and Noblesville Parks and Recreation.

All proceeds from the event go directly to scholarships for both programs. The registration deadline is June 5 so visit www.cityofnoblesville.org and search “bed race” for details!

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for the day

To n s o f f u n and bac k by bedtime! by: Julie Costakis-Smith, mom of 3

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ar-away destinations and lengthy blocks of time typically come to mind when we think of vacations. Yet the occasional day trip can refresh everyone in the family and be just what your crew needs to reconnect and create some spontaneous memories.

Fort Wayne abounds in family fun, with its renowned Fort Wayne Children’s Zoo, Science Central, Botanical Conservatory, Fort Wayne Museum of Art, Moose Lake Christian Craft Village and Firefighter Museum as well as several venues for dramatic and musical arts.

Festivals include Riverpalooza (May 30), Germanfest (June 10-13), Ribfest (June 18-21) and Three Rivers Festival (July 10-18). Enhance the day with a visit to Pokagon State Park, Lake James or Fun Spot Amusement Park (Angola).

So, set your compass and start planning!

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NORTH Beaches, Historic Encounters, Family-Friendly Fort Wayne Indiana Beach Amusement and Water Park (Monticello) is hard to beat for a classic summer escape. And on your drive home, stop by Battle Ground, Indiana for an evening “Wolf Howl” at Wolf Park. Longing for Lake Michigan?

Head to Indiana Dunes National Lakeshore (Portage) or nearby Indiana Dunes State Park (Chesterton). Consider stopping at Fair Oaks Farm as you make your way along I-65. Step back in time in Shipshewana, Amish Acres (Nappanee) or the Circus Capital of the World (Peru) which hosts amateur circus performances July 10 - 18 and an annual parade July 18.

Day ton , Ohio In less than two hours, you can “soar” to the National Museum of the United States Air Force. Check out the Carillon Historical Park, Wright Brothers Aviation Center, Boonshoft Museum of Discovery and the unique Sunwatch Indian Village & Archaeological Park.

Summer events include Feast of the Flowering Moon (May 21-24), Strawberry Festival (June 6-7), Banana Split Festival (June 12-13), Dayton Air Show (June 20-21) and Rail Festival (June 27-28).

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SOUTH Cincinnati, Louisville and Indiana Adventures Notable attractions in Cincinnati include the Cincinnati Reds’ Great American Ballpark, the Children’s Museum, Cincinnati Zoo and Botanical Garden, Art Museum and King’s Island. Don’t overlook Hueston Woods State Park, EnterTRAINment Junction, Coney Island, Queen City Underground and Newport Aquarium. Festivals include Appalachian Fest (May 8-10), CincItalia (May 16-17) and Ohio River Paddlefest (June 18-20).

Begin your sightseeing of Louisville with a short cruise on “The Belle of Louisville,” America’s last true Mississippi River steamboat. Afterwards, consider the Kentucky Science Center, Slugger Museum/Factory and the Kentucky Derby Museum. For more fun, try an underground experience with zip lines and biking at the Louisville Mega Cavern or a family competition in the Louisville Quest.

Indiana State Parks are perfect summer getaways! Brown County (Nashville), McCormick’s Creek (Bloomington), and Clifty Falls (Madison) are three southern gems. Cavers will enjoy Indiana Caverns (Corydon), Bluesprings Caverns (Bedford) or Marengo Cave (Marengo).

Holiday World & Splashin’ Safari (Santa Claus, IN) is widely known for its familyfriendly, clean atmosphere, thrilling rides and spectacular water park. Santa’s Candy Castle and the Christmas Store are quaint stops in town. Save time for a quick stop at the nearby Lincoln Boyhood National Memorial.

WEST Rugged Beaut y Along Sugar Creek

And, don’t leave without a visit to the Bubble Ring in the Water Works area, where you can be completely enclosed in a giant bubble!

Remember that moments of free time rarely just present themselves; they must be intentionally carved out from the crush of commitments of daily life. Don’t let your moments pass by – plan a fun family getaway today!

Turkey Run State Park (Marshall) is the perfect destination for first time or seasoned hikers, with breathtaking views of many natural wonders.

Horseback riding and canoeing are also great options.

In just over an hour from Indy, you’ll find the Terre Haute Children’s Museum. With a focus on science and technology, this museum is filled with fun, hands on activities for kids. Check out the multi-level tree house and the news broadcast exhibit.

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enhance your day trip Amp up the fun with these simple tips!

Be Mysterious. Plan a mystery trip - nothing excites kids more than the unknown.

Days leading up to the trip can include clues or even a treasure hunt.

Be Silly. Have each family member choose a new nickname for the day – with everyone trying to use only those names.

Be Inclusive. Let each child help plan your trip with activities they think everyone would enjoy.

Be Original. Once you choose your destination, log onto www.roadside america.com to discover some quick, fun stops to add along your drive - unique oddities and landmarks to make everyone smile!

Be a Travel Agent. Exchange trip planning with another family with each group mapping out a fun day for the other.

Be Kind. Ask each family member to extend a small act of kindness in some way during the trip (brighten the day for an overworked waiter, pay ahead for the next customer in line, offer a helping hand to a mom with a stroller or someone wheelchair bound, or surprise a sibling with an unexpected pleasure).

Be the Chamber of Commerce. Have kids record the highlights and “must see” places of your trip – maybe creating their own video road trip show!

Be Free. Turn off or limit the use of mobile devices -- or leave them at home (except one phone for emergencies.)

Be Spontaneous. If an unexpected opportunity arises along the route, consider it!

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Ready or Not? When is the right time to allow kids more freedom?

by: Rebecca Wood, mom of 4

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ixteen-year-olds can drive.

Eighteen-year-olds can vote.

Parents and teens anticipate these milestone moments, but when other privileges should be granted may not be as concrete.

If no legal guideline exists to indicate what age is appropriate for a child to assume a new responsibility, parents may wonder about their son or daughter’s readiness for new challenges. Here we asked local experts for their advice when contemplating these decisions.

Staying home alone Indiana law sets no minimum age for leaving a child home alone. Dr. Sarah Hill, a pediatrician with Meridian Pediatrics in Carmel and mother of two sons, says the maturity of the child is the most important factor to consider. She also recommends parents evaluate other circumstances such as: • the safety of the neighborhood • the distance and accessibility of a parent • the availability of neighbors and friends to step in

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• guidelines on having others in the home while a parent is away • whether the child is comfortable being home alone For more detailed information on the subject, The Indiana Department of Child Services offers a Home Alone brochure (http://www.in.gov/dcs/2330.htm) with questions that help parents assess a child’s readiness to stay home alone, as well as the key components that should be in place before making this decision.

Being a babysitter Again, there is no legal age required in Indiana to become a babysitter. Donna Willis-Brown, Safe Sitter Trainer and Program Support Specialist at Safe Sitter National Headquarters, says rather than a certain age being the primary consideration, parents should think about the maturity of their child when determining when he or she should babysit. “Sitters need to have the patience and maturity to stay in control of themselves and stay in control of the children they are watching.”

Willis-Brown also suggests that parents gauge whether their child enjoys and seems comfortable taking care of younger children. For those ready to babysit, enrolling in a Safe Sitter course can help new sitters learn the skills necessary to care for young children and how to respond in an emergency situation.

When a child first starts to babysit, parents should limit the hours they initially work and check in often to make sure they are acting as competent caretakers.

Getting a cell phone Opinions vary widely on the appropriate age for a child to acquire a cell phone.

“You should consider a cell phone for your child when it is necessary for you, the parent, to reach them, not when your child says he or she needs a phone,” says Dr. Hill. For many families, the 8th grade year is often when a child receives a cell phone to communicate with parents about pickup times from sporting events and other activities, she adds.

When considering a cell phone, parents and kids should discuss the potential risks associated with them, costs and expectations on usage, and under what circumstances this privilege could be taken away.

One-on-one dating “Going out” is a nebulous term with today’s young people. Determining what is considered a date, and under what circumstances a child is ready to date, can be a challenge.

Karyn Mitchel, Program Director for Creating Positive Relationships, an organization that travels to many Hamilton County schools to discuss healthy relationships, encourages teens to hold off dating until high school. Before that time, she says teens should be urged to hang out in groups and really get to know one another as friends.

Prior to a first one-on-one date, Mitchel recommends that parents talk to their kids about any dating expectations they have and what family rules must be followed (curfew, whereabouts, other teens going, etc.)

Getting a first job With few exceptions, Indiana law requires children to be at least 14 years old before obtaining employment.

Eric Mehl, Monon Community Center Assistant Director, hires many teens to staff the waterpark and fill other positions within the facility. He says volunteering is a great way for teens to gain work experience before acquiring a first job. The Monon Community Center accepts volunteers as young as 14. They look for teens that are excited, independent, mature and who can focus completely on their job (without cellphone distractions).

Mehl says the first step in finding employment is for parents to talk with their child about what they are really interested in doing. “I have seen a lot of kids pushed into getting a job that they don’t really want,” he says. “Therefore, they don’t work very hard to keep it. There are all kinds of opportunities for kids today to find something to get involved with that doesn’t really feel like a job.”

An important part of growing up is being given more responsibility. As a parent, the tricky part is knowing when to allow these new freedoms and privileges. What works for one child in a family may not necessarily work for a sibling, so be mindful of each child’s maturity level, personality and readiness to handle new challenges.

Good luck!

In Indiana there is no minimum age required by law for a child to stay home alone. What age do you think is appropriate?

I really think it depends on the child. I teach 5th grade and many of the 11 or 12 year olds in my class are very responsible and I feel would do just fine at home by themselves. On the other hand, there are many of them who are not ready. Parents have the right to make this decision about their own child, as they know them best. – Megan W. I agree. It depends on the child. My almost 8 year old would be ok maturity wise but would be scared to death to stay by herself. I also know some 11-13 year olds that would burn the house down if alone. – Tara F. If a child can understand what to do in an emergency, can dial a phone, knows his/her address, and is capable of feeding and cleaning his/ herself, then he/she is capable of being home alone. For some kids, that might mean age 6.

For others that might mean 13. Most kids are probably capable by age 9, but since our modern social standards involves children having constant adult supervision, I am doubtful many children stay home alone before their teen years.

– Yolanda L. I don't think it's a matter of maturity but rather being able to handle an emergency. Creepers look for kids who are home alone, they follow patterns. Could my 12 year old respond to somebody breaking in the house? Probably not. So for that reason alone my kids will not be allowed to stay home alone for quite a while. Even adults can't handle that type of emergency but children are targets and I wouldn't put my kids in that situation. Nothing is that important. – Jessica M. 9 - only if they have 2 phone numbers: 1) parent 2) neighbor that the child can reach immediately for emergencies and for their own comfort. They should not be left longer than 90 minutes.

– Kathy H. If they are old enough to take a safe sitter class, they are probably old enough to stay alone. Ideally parents would know their kids and know when they are ready, but in order to protect young children from negligence there needs to be some kind of standard set. I say 11 years old.

– Jennifer W.

*Comments are taken from the Hamilton County Family Facebook page.

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the counselor's corner

by: Stephanie Lowe-Sagebiel

When children worry about their divorced parent "My sister is recently divorced and her ex-husband has already remarried and seems immersed in his new life with his wife and step kids. Although she is doing her best to be positive about the situation for her two children, my niece and nephew are having a tough time seeing their dad so happy with his other family and their mother alone.

What can I do to help them?"

Divorce and remarriage can be a particularly confusing and tumultuous time for most children – and statistics are showing that the majority of children in the U. S. will have to navigate their parents’ or even their own divorce at some point in their lives.

When children are born into a family, they find value and worth in whatever role they play in that family. If a family structure alters because of a divorce, a death or a remarriage, a child may say to himself, “I thought I knew what family was and now I’m not so sure. I thought I knew what my job was in the family, but now I don’t know anymore.” These changes necessitate guidance from adults about new family definitions. Kids may need new language to understand how to define their new structure.

Even more importantly, children need help identifying the new roles they play and are expected to play with both parents.

In this instance, for example, the children have become part of a blended family with a step mom and step siblings in their father’s home. At the same time, their mom has transitioned into single parenthood.

Although it is natural for children to worry about one or both parents during or after a divorce, it is not their job to take care of their parent’s emotional needs.

These transitions in family structure can also be difficult for adults. Many parents are reluctant to cry or appear “weak” in

front of their children. In actuality, there may be a benefit to expressing their emotion as long as it is not extreme in nature and children are not put in the position of helping a parent process their feelings. It can be a valuable experience for children to watch their parents feel intense emotions and take note of how they care for themselves in healthy ways in the midst of a difficult situation.

It can also be helpful to identify the source of worry for the child. For example, children may worry about what their mother does when they have to leave her. Reassuring them that she will be alright and may even get to do something she enjoys, like taking a long bath or going out with friends, can help alieve their anxiety.

The following steps might also help in this particular scenario with your sister:

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Help your niece and nephew understand that it is okay if their mom has a bad day or is sad occasionally because she has the resources to take care of herself.

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Remind them that they did not cause, nor can they fix, her sad feelings.

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Talk about how a divorce is an emotional time for everyone, and it is the responsibility of each person to ask for what they need and take care of

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their own emotional health – and this applies particularly to adults.

The best way for you to be helpful is to reinforce to your niece and nephew that their mom has the tools and resources she needs to take care of herself and that she is going to be okay. You can also encourage them to process their feelings about their mom with you. As their aunt, they may be more comfortable “leaving” their worries with you than their mom.

Stephanie Lowe-Sagebiel is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with Centerpoint Counseling and Baume Psychological Services and has nearly twenty years of experience helping adults, teens and children develop healthy skills to manage life’s challenges.

Have a question for our counselor? Send it to editor@hamiltoncountyfamily.com.

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ask the expert Skincare Advice I was an avid sun worshipper in my youth – now I’m worried about the effect of all that time I spent outdoors without any sunscreen. How do I know if the changes I’m seeing in my skin indicate possible skin cancer?

Different types of skin cancer present in a variety of ways. It is important to pay close attention to any changes in your skin. This includes, but is not limited to, unusual growths such as moles or sores.

You should also watch for any abnormal skin discoloration. Unusual growths or sores may be pink or skin colored, brown or black or have flecks of any of these colors within them. Abnormal skin conditions may bleed easily, struggle to heal, ooze and crust over.

It is always best to establish yourself with a local dermatologist whom you are comfortable with, so when these situations arise, you know exactly who to see. Regular skin evaluations should be performed based on your history and your

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dermatologist’s recommendation. A dermatologist will recommend how frequently one should come for their skin exam.

Sun exposure is the most preventable risk factor for all skin cancers, including melanoma. Applying a sun protection factor (SPF) of 30 or more to all exposed skin is the best way to be sun smart. Broad spectrum provides protection from both ultraviolet A (UVA) and ultraviolet B (UVB) rays. Re-application of sunblock every two hours is crucial to maintain a protection barrier.

Submitted by Dr. Gerstein of Meridian Dermatology

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5 Things

to Know About Montessori by: Emily Ungar, mom of 2

How this philosophy differs from a traditional educational approach

If you’re considering a Montessori education for your child, you may be wondering exactly how this method is different from that of a more typical classroom. What are the hallmarks of Montessori that would guide your child’s day?

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Child-centered learning

In the Montessori method, learning is led by the individual interests of the child and guided by teachers who fit into the child’s world – rather than the other way around.

You will most likely find teachers interacting on the child’s level, on the floor, rather than teaching children as a group. “The Directress is the name we refer to as the ‘teacher’ of the classroom,” says Kris Spence, Founder and Directress at Indiana Montessori Academy in Carmel. “Montessori Directresses are called such because we truly believe the child is leading his or her learning and the Directress is there to guide the classroom and the community of children based on their individual interests.”

Kim Szymczak’s daughter Lauren is currently in the eighth grade at the Montessori School of Westfield. “My husband and I chose a Montessori education to give our children the opportunity of free expression in an educational environment,” says Szymczak.

“We embraced the Montessori philosophy of independence and autonomy, free expression, leadership building and the ‘work at your own pace’ style that Montessori schools offered.”

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Progressing at one’s own pace

According to the American Montessori Association, the teacher is aware of each student’s progress toward a particular skill and knows when to step in to offer extra help and when to provide additional challenges as a student is ready to move on to the next skill. "Montessori education differs from other types of education in that its aim is not mental growth, but helping the child reach his full potential,” says Carrie Wisser, Head of School and the Elementary Directress at Community Montessori School in Fishers.

“This is achieved by allowing the child to work according to his own clock. [Maria] Montessori understood that the child constructs himself and that the role of the adult is to assist in that construction.”

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Work cycles

In order to allow full concentration and the opportunity to explore interests and work freely in their environment, students typically work in cycles. “Children work continuously through an uninterrupted morning work cycle of 3 hours,” says Spence. “The afternoon work cycle, for children who stay all day, is at least another 2 hours of uninterrupted work.”

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Mixed ages

Children are grouped according to age, however, each group encompasses a wider range of ages – typically a three year span.

Older kids mentor younger kids. This allows younger children to have a “peek” at what’s

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to come. “In primary, that is 3-6 years of age. In elementary, children are mixed communities of 6-9 and 9-12 years of age,” says Spence. “I marvel at how the children form a community of learning and show leadership and mentoring to younger children.”

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Real-life skills

In the classroom, children use skills to help others and keep the community running smoothly. They prepare their own meals, clean up after themselves and help others.

They know where to find learning materials and where to return items when finished.

“The most important idea to keep in mind is that every unnecessary help is a hindrance to independence,” says Wisser. “We are there to aid life: helping the child reach his full potential and become independent."

With skill mastery comes confidence and a readiness for a world beyond the classroom.

Szymczak says, “Each school provided our children with the ability to gain self confidence in their own achievements, compassion towards others and a teaching style that fostered mastering concepts before advancing on.”

Choosing an educational environment that best meets your child’s needs is an important decision. Finding the right setting can make all the difference in helping kids thrive in and out of school. To learn more about the Montessori method, begin your search by visiting the American Montessori Society website (www.amshq.org) or Association Montessori International/USA (www. amiusa.org).

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to your health

by: Dr. Emma Hostetter, MD, MPH

Gluten-free Diets Who needs these restrictions – and who doesn’t?

A current dietary restriction hitting the headlines, gourmet “foodie” magazines and grocery aisles is the gluten-free diet. While this diet is an absolute must for some people, it isn’t necessary or even healthy for others. Let’s dig in to the details to see if going gluten-free makes sense for you and your family.

What is a gluten-free diet?

There is a common misunderstanding that gluten is wheat. Gluten is a protein found in wheat but it is also found in other grains such as rye, barley and triticale. While this may not sound like that many ingredients to avoid, remnants from each of these grains tend to make their way into a large number of foods. Even oats, which do not contain gluten may be grown or processed along with wheat, contaminating them with gluten. Salad dressings, beer, soy sauce and even some vitamins contain gluten, which makes following a true gluten-free diet challenging. Thankfully, for those who do need strict gluten-free foods, more and more options are now available in health food stores and even mainline grocery stores; but, these items often come at a premium price.

Is a gluten-free diet healthy or necessary for everyone?

Many magazines and health resources have recently been pushing the gluten-free diet as a healthier alternative for everyone, but in reality this may not be the case. Many gluten-free foods simply substitute wheat and other gluten containing grains with rice based products. While brown rice may be a healthy alternative, white rice breaks down into a simple carbohydrate (or sugar) and may not be ideal for metabolism regulation or weight loss.

Some of these products may not include the vitamin fortification found in gluten-based breads and cereals. Thus, those following a gluten-free diet should be aware of the risk for inadequate amounts of iron, fiber, calcium, riboflavin, thiamine, niacin and folate, and make sure that they are supplementing appropriately.

Additionally, if you suspect that you might have gluten sensitivity, you should be tested prior to fully cutting gluten out of your diet. Eliminating gluten prior to testing may result in false negative results and a missed diagnosis for Celiac disease.

So, if the gluten-free diet isn’t necessary for the general public, then who should be following it?

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Reasons to go gluten-free For some people a gluten-free diet is absolutely necessary. Let’s take a look at three groups of people who need this dietary restriction.

1. True wheat allergy

Some people have a true allergy to wheat. For these people following a wheat-free diet (not necessarily gluten-free) is absolutely necessary. Some signs and symptoms of a wheat allergy include rashes, swelling of the lips and tongue, headaches, nasal congestion, diarrhea, nausea and vomiting, and sometimes even a life threatening reaction called anaphylaxis.

2. Celiac disease

Celiac disease is an autoimmune disease that results in inflammation in the small intestine when gluten related products are consumed. This reaction results in bloating, abdominal discomfort, diarrhea and weight loss. Over time and with repeated exposure, gluten can damage the intestine permanently resulting in malabsorption of necessary nutrients. This can lead to malnutri-

tion, vitamin and mineral deficiencies, and even poor growth and development in children. This inflammation can also result in some types of intestinal cancer. For those who suffer from celiac disease, a strict gluten-free diet is absolutely necessary.

3. Non-celiac gluten sensitivity

The diagnosis of gluten sensitivity has been a controversial topic in the medical community, but according to Dr. Patterson, MD, local allergist in Hamilton County, gluten sensitivities and related disorders do exist. The problem is that the medical community doesn’t have a full understanding of this condition or a test to diagnose these issues. According to Patterson, patients who have a negative workup but yet insist that they feel better when avoiding foods such as gluten are not crazy. They may actually have an underlying medical condition called Irritable Bowel Syndrome. IBS is poorly understood, but patients often feel better when they avoid gluten, dairy and other products in their diet. Dr. Patterson says that physicians need to take the time to explain to patients that although a test doesn’t yet exist to diagnose their condition, they do have a true disease that warrants attention and treatment.

While switching to a gluten-free diet isn’t necessary for most people, for some a gluten-free diet is medically necessary. Talk with your doctor if you or someone you love suffers from any of the symptoms mentioned above, and check out the sources below for more on the topic of gluten related diseases.

Dr. Emma Hostetter is a Fishers family physician and public health specialist. Find her blog “The Mom in Me, MD” on the Hamilton County Family web site or visit her at www.themominmemd.com.

Sources: Dr. Patterson, MD-Local Allergist in Hamilton County, Indiana www.academyallergy.com/index.php www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/wheatallergy/basics/symptoms/con-20031834 www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/celiacdisease/basics/definition/con-20030410 www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-living/nutritionand-healthy-eating/in-depth/gluten-free-diet/ art-20048530 www.glutenfree.com/#/articles/the-top-4-questions-to-ask-clients-considering-a-gluten-freediet www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/22237879

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hidden gems

by: Kate Burkhardt, Communications Coordinator, Hamilton County Tourism

of hamilton countY

The best finds only the locals know!

Hidden gems are everywhere – sometimes all it takes is a fresh set of eyes to see them! Here are two Hamilton County spots worth uncovering in May or June: Big Hoffa’s Bar-B-Que Located in Westfield, Big Hoffa’s has “swashbuckling” good food! Bring your little buccaneers to the pirate themed restaurant for some unexpected twists on classic barbeque favorites. Big Hoffa’s is famous for the Hoffanator – an “everything-but-thekitchen-sink” platter of fries topped with mac and cheese, baked beans, pulled pork, barbeque sauce and ranch dressing. Smaller appetites can look to items like mini sandwiches garnished with a tiny pirate flag from the “Little Hoffa’s” menu.

Tabby Tree Weaver Tucked away in the northern Hamilton County town of Arcadia, shop owner Linda Adamson spends her days using wooden looms to create scarves, rugs and other custom fabrics – when she’s not busy teaching others her secrets! During the summer, Tabby Tree Weaver offers special motherchild classes on how to weave, spin yarn or dye wool, suitable for kids ages 10 and up. All classes will provide participants with a “souvenir” to take home! Call (317) 984-5475 to request a time and date.

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reci-please by: Nicole Turner, Registered Dietician, mom of 2

Mango Grape Salsa Sometimes the easiest way to amp up a meal is to top it off with a unique flavor.

Whether baking, broiling or grilling, this simple fruit salsa can be a delicious way to change the tempo without adding a lot of calories or fat. This addition pairs well with chicken, fish or pork, but it can also top a salad or cottage cheese. Mangoes have vitamins A and C which support good immune function. If you’re not a fan of mango, cantaloupe would be a good substitute, as it is a good source of vitamins A and C too. Red grapes not only provide a pop of color, but are rich in antioxidants as well. .I NGREDIENTS:

• 2 mangoes with pit removed, peeled & diced • 1 cup seedless green grapes, halved • 1 cup seedless red grapes, halved • 1/4 cup minced red onions • 2 tablespoons fresh lime juice • 1 jalapeño pepper, seeded and minced • 2 tablespoons chopped fresh cilantro

STEPS: 1. Combine all ingredients in a medium-sized bowl. Mix well.

2. Cover and refrigerate until ready to serve.

Enjoy! *This recipe makes approximately 4 cups

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what's cool after school

BRANDED CONTENT

{children's art classes}

Children are natural born artists – and encouraging that creativity is one of the greatest gifts you can give them. From pencils and paper to canvas and clay, there are so many ways for kids (and adults) to express themselves artistically. Why not enroll in a class or two for some expert instruction? Here’s a few local opportunities to check out.

A Space to Create 65 E. Cedar Street, Zionsville (317) 658-6913 www.aspacetocreateart.com

Art House 195 S. 10th Street, Noblesville

Hamilton County Artists’ Association 195 South 5th Street, Noblesville

Nickel Plate Arts 107 South 8th Street, Noblesville

(317) 773-0038

(317) 776-2278

www.nickelplatearts.org

http://arthousenoblesville. blogspot.com/

http://www.hcaa-in.org/ classes.php

Carmel Academy of the Arts 27 East Main Street, 2nd Floor, Carmel (317) 844-0005

Indianapolis Art Center.

Marilyn K. Glick School of Art 820 East 67th Street, Indianapolis

(317) 452-3690

Sullivan Munce 205-225 West Hawthorne Street, Zionsville (317) 873-4900 www.sullivanmunce.org

www.magdalenagallery.com/ academy.html

(317) 255-2464

Color Me Mine Clay Terrace 14300 Clay Terrace Blvd, Suite 110, Carmel

MyArt 622 South Rangeline Road, Suite M, Carmel 12244 East 116th Street, Fishers 39 North 10th Street, Noblesville

www.theartstudioofcarmel. com

(317) 443-6831

80 W. Pine Street, Zionsville

The Paint Cellar 581 S. Rangeline Road, Carmel

(317) 774-3729

(317) 759-4278

www.myartindy.com

https://paint-cellar.com/

www.indplsartcenter.org

The Art Studio of Carmel 30. N. Rangeline Road, Carmel (317) 213-7572

(317) 575-0077 www.carmel.colormemine. com/

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HOOSI E R neighbor?

by: Emily Unger, mom of 2

The interesting people living right next door!

Do you have any favorite success stories of people who have been through the Motorsports Academy so far? Have there been any surprises?

On the athletic side of things, Darrell Wallace Jr, a young, high-profile African American driver; Kyle Larson, a young Japanese-American Driver, and Daniel Suarez from Mexico are all in the NASCAR national series. None of them would have been able to participate if it weren’t for the program. Walter Thomas III, who is a fairly well-known young man – about 14 years old here in Indianapolis – is now racing late model stock cars, but he started with us.

You’ve been quoted as saying that “involvement in sports and entertainment saved my life.” Could you elaborate on that?

Max Siegel will be accelerating the careers of local youth with Rev Racing Motorsports Academy, opening its new location in Fishers this spring.

Siegel’s vision reaches beyond business and academics; he is focused on helping women and minorities break into this lucrative occupation while broadening the perspective of motorsports jobs. Read on to learn how he’s doing it.

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There are tons of distractions and negative influences available to our young people. Getting involved in athletics, I learned a lot about getting involved in leadership, discipline, teamwork and self-esteem building.

I have been fortunate enough to get involved in sports from the time I was in middle school, and it’s a profession now. I think that it’s a powerful and exciting way to introduce young people to careers with huge earning potential, in non-traditional ways. The sooner young people learn about all of those elements that put it on [racing] not just the competition, it gives them some context for learning. So if math is not something you necessarily like, but you understand it, it will help you become a big race engineer. It gives more meaning to classroom learning.

A lot of the girls are gravitating toward the industry. It’s been really exciting.

I have a fair number that have come through with an interest in being race car drivers that really love all the other elements of it. Some of them have gravitated toward the marketing side of the sport.

And the Academy is known for providing opportunities for people who otherwise may not have them?

The MSI Youth Foundation provides scholarships and stipends for the Academy. And then there will be 25 camp scholarships for at-risk youth.

Is there a minimum age requirement for the application?

We start at eight years old, all the way up through professionals who participate in the industry in a number of different capacities. It’s a rolling application process, and then we have summer camps and will be offering classes throughout the year.

To learn more about Max Siegel and the Rev Racing Motorsports Academy, visit their web site at http://revracing. net/rracademy/.

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with so many oppOrtunities,

why camp?

The many benefits of a camp experience by: The American Camp Association

Families today have more options than ever before – a buffet of movies, museums, picnics, parks, classes, vacations and so much more. With all of these options, why should families choose camp?

Choose to learn

Camp is an experiential education like no other. Children learn life lessons like independence, leadership and self-confidence in an environment designed specifically for them. Camp is made up almost entirely of teachable moments. Through fun and hands-on experiences, campers have the opportunity to grow and develop the skills needed to be productive, successful adults.

“Childhood is not passive, and children are natural learners when provided the appropriate environment,” says Peg Smith, chief executive officer for the American Camp Association. “Camp serves as the solution to many of the gaps in our current education system – teaching values such as self-esteem, teamwork and caring.” And because of the hands-on nature of camp, everyone, not just the "A" student and the athlete, has the opportunity to thrive and enjoy the process of learning.

Camp is fundamental in the national discussion around the need for high-quality summer programs to keep students engaged in learning, and encourage them to develop new skills and previously unseen talents.

According to the National Summer Learning Association (NSLA) and research conducted

by Johns Hopkins sociology professor Karl Alexander, intentional summer programs, like camp, help stem summer learning loss – providing experiences that challenge children, develop talents, keep them engaged and expand horizons.

The camp community is committed to providing positive experiences for all children.

It is projected that ACA camps provide more than $216 million annually in tuition assistance. There is a broad range of camps that serve every interest and every family situation – there is literally a camp experience perfect for every child.

Choose nature

Camp also provides critical contact with the natural world. In her article, “A Field Guide to Preserving Childhood,” Smith writes, “For generations, children grew up outside. They walked to school, rode their bikes and walked barefoot through the grass. Childhood was characterized by innocence, imagination, wonder and laughter.”

Today’s generations are losing more than just time in the outdoors. In a study by two Cornell University environmental psychologists, findings show that being close to nature can help boost a child’s attention span. And studies show that time in nature can help reduce stress and protect children from future stress. In some instances, camp may be the only time a child is in contact with the natural world.

Choose powerful play

Kids often spend over seven hours each day plugged in to some kind of electronic medium.

That’s more time than they spend doing anything else besides sleeping. With schedules packed with homework, chores, music lessons and organized sports, children are losing time to play. Emerging research continues to show that good, old-fashioned play is important to physical and psychological development.

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According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, free and unstructured play is healthy and, in fact, essential for helping children reach important social, emotional, and cognitive developmental milestones, as well as helping them manage stress and become resilient.

Choose camp

Camp allows children the opportunity to relax and just be kids. They can unplug from electronics, and plug into the world around them – taking time to really invest in developing relationships with peers and mentors. Camp teaches that friends come in all shapes and sizes, and from all backgrounds. ACA research indicates that 96 percent of campers made new friends, and 93 percent of campers met people that were different from them. The camp experience helps develop authentic friendships and a sense of community, while making children more aware of the world around them.

For over 150 years, camp has been about making memories, honoring traditions and being a part of something bigger. Why should families choose camp? Because it’s good for life!

How can families begin their own camp experience?

By visiting ACA’s family resource site, www.

CampParents.org, families have access to information and guidance as they search for the perfect camp experience. ACA’s Find A Camp search allows families to look for a camp based on region, activity, cultural focus, budget, session length and much more! In addition, families can follow ACA on Facebook and Twitter for helpful hints and camp information.

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mommy magic

by: Mary Susan Buhner, mom of 3

Small Moments Appreciating the simple daily events that make up our lives “A big life is made up of small moments.” I borrowed this tagline from a friend of mine. As a photographer, she is an expert at capturing the small moments that happen between people on film. She also is a breast cancer survivor, having battled breast cancer twice before the age of 40. She is not only a survivor, but a warrior in my opinion, and her mantra of capturing the small moments is one I embrace.

We all have busy, chaotic, hectic lives.

Sometimes it feels like a blur and the weeks melt together to form an entire month that has gone by in a blink. As Ferris Bueller said, “Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it."

As a mom, I feel like that a lot. I am so busy sometimes that I feel like I might be missing it – the small moments that make up this big life.

Recently, we had some home movies put on DVD. Of course, for the first two kids I kept up with this process as they grew up. With my third, I had a stockpile from birth to age seven that needed to be transferred. Each time my girls watched home movies, there were none of my youngest daughter and she would ask, “Where am I?” So I got them done and we had a movie night in her honor. My kids and husband sat on the couch and hooted and hollered at all the funny times we’ve shared over the years. As I sat next to them, I realized that I didn’t remember a lot of the small moments that we were watching. I was there (obviously), but I could not recall many of the details that were unfolding right in front of my eyes. I looked happy in the movies, so that was a relief in a way,

but I was sad that I couldn't track a lot of the moments I had shared with my children. At the time, with three little girls six and under, I felt like I was on a train going 100 miles an hour all the time. My life was filled with small, precious moments but I hadn’t truly appreciated them.

What I’ve since learned is that slowing down doesn’t mean that I’m pursuing less. I’ve gotten better at prioritizing my time and energy and setting boundaries. I’m more aware of what and who is draining to me and what people and activities are good resources for me.

With the train going slower now, I am better able to enjoy the small moments with my family.

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And, the funny thing about small moments is that sometimes they become treasured traditions. The simplest acts done over and over can make a lasting impact on a family. And that’s the magic really; the way even the smallest events form the connection between us.

Mary Susan Buhner is a Life Coach for Moms and author of “Mommy Magic: Tricks for Staying Sane in the Midst of Insanity.” Visit her Mommy Magic Fan Page on Facebook and her website at: www.Mommy-Magic.com.

to do with your crew may & june calendar of events

Friday, May 1 through Sunday, May 3 Sesame Street Live: Let's Dance!

Sesame Street Live “Let’s Dance!” offers an up-close, interactive experience!

Favorite Sesame Street friends join audiences on the floor – dancing with fans of all ages! In addition to ongoing dance parties, Elmo uses his imagination to "Do the Robot," Cookie Monster teaches all ‘feets’ to dance, and Ernie shares the fun of dance with the Sesame Street favorite “Shake Your Head One Time.”

Cost: $15 - $50 Where: Murat Theatre at Old National Centre http://m.ticketmaster.com/venueartist/41109/2002096/

Saturday, May 16 Cinderella Central Indiana Dance Ensemble presents the timeless tale of a beautiful young girl, jealous stepsisters, manipulating stepmother and a handsome prince. This tale is bound to warm your heart and make you feel that true love conquers all. There will be a second performance at 7:30 p.m.

Times: 2:00 PM Cost: Tickets Start at $18 Where: The Palladium at the Center for the Performing Arts, Carmel Phone: (317) 843-3800 http://thecenterfortheperformingarts.org/

Friday, June 12 - Wednesday, June 17 Alice in Wonderland, JR. Lewis Carroll’s famous inquisitive heroine comes to life in Disney’s Alice In Wonderland JR. Times: Friday at 7pm, Saturday at 2pm, & 5pm, Monday – Wednesday at 10am and 1pm Cost: $15 for Adults and $10 for Students (under 18) Where: The Palladium at the Center for the Performing Arts, Carmel Phone: (317) 843-3800 http://thecenterfortheperformingarts.org/

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M AY

sat 02

Mother's Day Pottery Participants ages 2 through 10 are invited to create a square hanging flower pot with copper wire and beads. All supplies are provided during this program and all creations will be kiln fired for pick up at the Fishers Parks & Recreation office one week after the event.

Times: 1:00 PM Cost: R$22/NR$33 Where: Roy G. Holland Memorial Park, Fishers https://register.parksreconline.com

Peanut Butter & Jam: Salaam Salaam introduces Middle Eastern culture with a fun and educational musical journey. Explore a multitude of musical genres alongside your children. Purchase of child’s ticket allows admission of two adults, no additional charge. The experience is 30 minutes of music, with 15 minutes for the families to touch and play with the musical instruments, including Q&A with the artists. The entire matinee experience is under 1 hour and is especially geared for youth ages 1-7.

Times: 10:30 AM Cost: $10 per child, and 2 free adults with every child ticket purchase Where: The Palladium at the Center for the Performing Arts, Carmel Phone: (317) 843-3800 http://thecenterfortheperforming arts.org/

fri 08 - sun 10

sat 09

The March of Dimes March for Babies Gather your family, friends and coworkers together in the fight to give every baby a healthy start at White River State Park.

Help raise money for babies right here at home. Indy’s Child will be there too with fun activities for the whole family.

Where: White River State Park www.marchforbabies.org/event/ centralindiana

Children's Bureau's Spring Fling Family Fun Day Fun for the Whole Family! * Lots of safety information * FREE safety items * FREE raffes, including a boys' bicycle, a girls' bicycle, 10 bike helmets and a Noblesville pool pass!

Times: 12:00 PM - 3:00 PM Where: Hamilton County Fairgrounds, Hall A, Noblesville http://business.noblesville chamber.com/

sat 16 - sun 17 Civil War Days

Make your way through Prairietown and immerse yourself in a Civil War home front and battlefield. Fire an authentic Civil War rifle ($5), ask President Lincoln about his presidency during his live address and much more. Battle re-enactments at 2:30p.m. both days.

Times: 10:00 AM - 5:00 PM Cost: Included with admission Where: Conner Prairie, Fishers Phone: (317) 776-6000 http://connerprairie.org/

Mother's Day Heirloom Plant Sale Bring mom out for the day and browse through a selection of heirloom plants.

Choose from tomatoes, peppers, herbs and geraniums. Knowledgeable volunteers will be on hand to answer any questions.

Times: Friday, 4-7p.m.; Saturday and Sunday, 10a.m. to 5p.m.

Cost: Prices vary Where: Conner Prairie, Fishers Phone: (317) 843-3800 www.connerprairie.org/

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Broad Ripple Art Fair Indy’s #1 art fair features high-quality, one-of-a-kind, original art by more than 225 artists and artisans. Food and drinks will be available for purchase and Kids will love the WFYI Kids’ Stage inside in the Basile Auditorium and the 3 Prizm creativity tents.

Times: 10:00 AM Cost: See website for ticket pricing Where: Indianapolis Art Center http://indplsartcenter.org/

mon 18

Jammie Time!

Children ages 2-5 & their caregivers will enjoy stories, rhymes, and songs – and don’t forget to wear your jammies or bring your favorite stuffed animal! No registration is required.

Times: 7:00 PM Cost: Free Where: Carmel Clay Public Library, Carmel www.carmel.lib.in.us/

weds 20 Zoopolis 500

This unique Zoo event and race fan favorite is held annually the Wednesday before the Indianapolis 500. The Zoopolis 500 presented by the American Dairy Association Indiana includes lots of family-friendly activities and features our radiated tortoises hustling to the finish line. But these natives of Madagascar aren't racing for a trophy. Instead, they're after the delicious fruits waiting in the winner's circle. After the race, you can meet the winning tortoise and his "pit crew," our very own Zookeepers who can answer any tortoise-related questions and tell you all about our efforts to help these endangered animals.

Times: 10:30 AM - 12:30 PM Cost: Zoo Admission Where: Indianapolis Zoo www.indianapoliszoo.com/eventsand-groups/zoo-events/zoopolis-500

mon 25

Give Hope Ride Come support a great cause while enjoying the beautiful spring weather. There is something for everyone at this community bike ride, including an adult ride, family ride and safety lessons for the kids.

Proceeds benefit St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital. See website for event times and registration.

Where: Fishers Heritage Park, Fishers www.givehoperide.com

J UNE

fri 05 - sat 06 Family Campout

Become one with nature and enjoy scavenger hunts, tie-dying t-shirts, hot dogs, games, and of course s'mores! Pre-registration required by June 3.

Times: 5:00 PM - 9:00 AM Cost: $10 per person Where: West Park, Carmel www.carmelclayparks.com/get-outside/parks/west-park

fri 05

Noblesville Bed Race Come and watch the tradition of racing beds in downtown Noblesville. As part of the First Friday celebration and Nickel Plate Arts Weekend, the Bed Race helps kick off a great weekend. Driven by a community that supports its youth, the Boys & Girls Club of Noblesville and Noblesville Parks and Recreation collaborate to provide positive, healthy, safe and fun activities for the children of Noblesville and Hamilton County.

Times: 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM Cost: Free Where: 9th Street, Noblesville www.cityofnoblesville.org/parks/

sat 06

National Trails Day This free event is designed to get the entire family ready to hit all of Westfield's wonderful trails this summer - whether on foot or by bicycle. Attendees will learn health and safety lessons as they pertain to the road, sidewalk and trails. Children are encouraged to bring their own bicycle and helmet to learn bicycle safety. There will also be music, prize raffles, and more!

Times: 11:00 AM - 2:00 PM Cost: Free Where: Quaker Park, Westfield www.westfield.in.gov/

*PLEASE NOTE: At Hamilton County Family, we work hard to ensure our calendar information is accurate. Occasionally, event specifics change after we go to press. Therefore, we encourage our readers to call locations or visit them on the web to verify information.

sat 13 - sun 14 Curiosity Fair

Celebrate inquisitive spirits during this festival of wonder and exploration! Kids (and kids at heart) are invited to play, create and investigate the mysteries of the world around them.

Times: 10:00 AM - 5:00 PM Cost: Included in general admission Where: Conner Prairie, Fishers Phone: (317) 776-6000 http://connerprairie.org/

thurs 18

ongoing EVENTS Saxony Movies in the Park Saturdays, May 23, June 6 and June 20 Come out to Saxony's Witten Park with your friends, family, blanket and picnic basket and enjoy free movies in the park.

Admission is FREE and the event will be from dusk to around 9:30 PM. Cost: Free Where: Witten Park, Fishers www.saxony-indiana.com/

Kids Koncerts

Have a Blast!

Enjoy some father son time as we kick this event off with a scavenger hunt, but this hunt isn’t just for fun, you’re on a mission to find your marshmallow blaster pieces! After finding the pieces, duos can assemble their blasters, decorate them and create protective gear for battle to follow. This program is best suited for father and sons ages 5 through 12 and registration is required.

Times: 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM Cost: $15/$23 Where: Roy G. Holland Memorial Park, Fishers https://register.parksreconline.com

Occurring Each Monday Beginning Monday, June 1 Through Monday, July 27 Kids can jump, sing and play outside at Carmel Clay Parks free summer kids koncerts. Kona Ice will be on hand selling shaved ice. A portion of the proceeds support department-wide scholarships.

Times: 10:00 AM Cost: Free Where: Rotates between River Heritage Park and West Park (see website) Phone: (317) 573-5243 www.carmelclayparks.com/

Summer Concerts at the Gazebo Occurring Each Wednesday Beginning Wednesday, June 3 Through Wednesday, August 12

fri 19 - sat 20

Marsh Symphony on the Prairie: Disco Days & Boogie Nights: Music of the 70s Opening weekend at Marsh Symphony on the Prairie puts the 1970s front and center. No matter what crowd you ran with during that era, Jack Everly’s got the music to match - from disco anthems like “I Will Survive” and monster rock hits like “Bohemian Rhapsody” to the singersongwriter tunes like “American Pie.”

Enjoy Free summer concerts at the Gazebo this summer, featuring performers like the Flying Toasters and the Indianapolis Jazz Orchestra. Ruditoonz will be on hand for a special kids' concert at 6 p.m. on June 3 and July 8.

Times: 7:30 PM Cost: Free Where: Civic Square www.carmelgazeboconcerts.org

Times: 8:00 PM Cost: See website for ticket pricing Where: Conner Prairie, Fishers Phone: (317) 776-6000 www.indianapolissymphony.org/season/marsh-symphony-on-the-prairie

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the last laugh As a child, did you ever think your parents had some sort of magical super power? (Or do your kids think you have any?)

I was sure that my mom was invisible, that woman always knew where I was, but I would never see her.

– Secrena D. My son thinks I have "mind reading power." He is blown away how I can tell when he is telling a fib... although really the silly little look on his face says it all. – Julia M. My dad had super hearing. I could whisper something four rooms away with a closed door and he would hear it. – Grace H. My daughter thinks I can see her at school (kindergartener) since I know everything she did that day!

(Thanks to the teacher email I get before she gets off the bus!) – Amber F. I thought my mom could hear everything from miles away, but then I realized she just hung out outside my bedroom door and snuck away before getting caught. – Mandi L. My mom is deaf, I always thought growing up she really could hear and she was just testing us.

It's funny because my daughter used to think the same thing. – Kim C. My mom used to tell me she had eyes in the back of her head! I used to try to find them. – Sharon D.

*Cartoon by local Fishers artist Patrick Hankley of Drawpartner Graphics – www.drawpartner.com

I used to think my dad could change the stop lights on command. He would snap his fingers and our light would turn green for us to go. My son thinks that I have this super power now. So fun!! – Michelle H. My mom was a single mom when I was growing up, she had to have had super powers!! She could turn a $1 into $50, always made sure we had food and everything we needed!! – Natalie N.

Thanks to our readers for all their great replies! *Comments taken from the Hamilton County Family magazine Facebook page

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