Indy's Child | May 2015

M AY 2 0 1 5 // F R E E

WHAT YOU DON't KNOW

ABOUT FOSTER CARE

Common misconceptions about the process

GREAT DATE NIGHTS

STUDENTS

WHO SHINE

A SPOTLIGHT ON LOCAL EXCEPTIONAL TEENS

FUN IDEAS MEANT JUST FOR TWO

MOTHER'S DAY FUN GUIDE INSIDE»

2015 CAMP GUIDE

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contents M A Y 2 0 1 5 // I N D Y S C H I L D . C O M

AROUND TOWN 12

MAY 'S FANTASTIC FIVE

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PUT THE PEDAL TO THE METAL

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MORE THAN THE RACE

C O M M E N TA R Y & PA R E N T I N G 42

HALTING HOMESICKNESS AT CAMP

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ASK THE TEACHER

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FOOTNOTES

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TRUE CONFESSIONS

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RESEARCH TO REAL WORLD

C H I L D R E N ' S H E A LT H 10

H E L P I N G K I D S B E AT C A N C E R

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F E AT U R E S

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ONLINE BUZZ

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GRE AT DAT E NIGH T S

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W HAT YOU D ON ' T K NOW ABOU T FOST E R C ARE

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SPECIAL NEEDS CALENDAR

Common misconceptions that prevent families from becoming involved

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SPECIAL NEEDS GUIDE

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SUMMER CAMP GUIDE

ST U DE N T S W HO SHI NE

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EDUCATION & CHILDCARE GUIDE

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MOTHER'S DAY FUN GUIDE

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SHOU LD MY CHILD SE E A ME N TAL H E ALT H PROF E SS IONAL?

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DAILY EVENTS

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ONGOING EVENTS

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MARKETPLACE

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FUN & WACKY CALENDAR

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Fun ideas meant just for two

RESOURCES & CALENDARS

A spotlight on local exceptional teens

Understanding when to seek outside help

TOP 5 HE ALT H QU E ST IONS WOME N WON DE R ABOU T Making moms' health a priority too!

SPECIAL NEEDS

GRE AT L AK E S BE ACH TOWNS Hit the shores close to home!

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APPLIED BEHAVIOR ANALYSIS: THROUGH THE YEARS

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ACCESSIBLE PLAYGROUNDS

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E D ITO R ' S NOT E

M ee t t h e S taff FOUNDING PUBLISHER Barbara Wynne | barbara@indyschild.com

PUBLISHER Mary Wynne Cox | mary@indyschild.com

EDITOR Susan Bryant | susan@indyschild.com

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Happy Mother's Day!

Wendy Cox | wendy@indyschild.com

BUSINESS MANAGER Roxanne Burns | roxanne@indyschild.com

“Mama.”

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sn’t that one of the greatest words we can ever hear? The name that gives us so much joy when our baby first utters it? Pretty soon we become “Mommy.” These are the playdate/ popsicle stick craft/ what is that mess?/ toys everywhere years. Somewhere after that we graduate to “Mom” – sometimes yelled as in “MOM! Where is my uniform I need for practice today?! ” or barely whispered as in “Mom? Why wasn’t I invited to that party?”

Each name change reflects the stages our children go through and the changes we must make as their mother to continually be able to give our kids what they need. They don’t know just how much we second guess ourselves and fumble along the way. To our children, it seems we always know the answers. (Well, maybe not to our teenagers.) But as moms, we are the constant, steady force in their lives – sometimes so under the radar that our efforts go unnoticed and not appreciated at all. But make no mistake; a mom is a force to be reckoned with!

Who hasn’t felt that primal mother bear instinct to protect their child in the face of even the most minor of dangers? And this trait doesn’t just apply to biological moms – adoptive moms, step moms, foster moms – we’re all moms. Becoming a mother to one child kind of makes us a mother to all children. Suddenly we feel every child’s hurt or pain in a way we never had before.

This Mother’s Day we hope you are celebrated and appreciated by your family for the many ways you give your love to them every day.

And if by chance, May 10th comes and goes and your brood somehow lets it slip by without proper recognition, maybe this quote will help: “The only mothers it is safe to forget on Mother’s Day are the good ones.”

Karen Ring | karen@indyschild.com

WEB DEVELOPMENT // GRAPHICS Maria Tancredi | maria@indyschild.com

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Sarah Bricker-Hunt, Summer Daily, Michelle Shirk, Emma Hostetter, Lauren Lawson, Jeanine Bobenmoyer, Meg Wynne, Pete Gilbert, Deb Krupowicz, Kelly Blewett, Jessica Beer, Dan Satterthwaite

COVER PHOTOGRAPHER Hannah Hilliard

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A M EL IA DUNCA N AG E : 7 FAVORIT ES... c olor: Teal m ovie: Cinderella fo od: Chicken and rice re staurant : Chili's tv show: Peppa Pig s p ort: Dance

ice cream : Rainbow sherbert book: Pigeon Needs a Bath toy: My stuffed unicorn! school su b j e c t : Reading super hero : The Hulk candy bar : Kit Kat

INT E REST ING FACT. . .

Amelia plays the piano, the the violin and loves to dance.

She is the youngest member of her traveling hip hop dance team and got to perform at a Pacers game this year!

WHEN I GROW U P. . .

I want to be a veterinarian and a dance teacher in my spare time.

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spot l igh t E njoy art in t he heart of Broad R ipple The 45th Annual Broad Ripple Art Fair is back May 16-17 offering visitors a chance to see the work of more than 225 artists. Enjoy fine cuisine, live entertainment and create your own art to take home at the Indianapolis Art Center. Kids can take part in special creativity tents just for them. Indy’s Child is a proud sponsor of this yearly event!

Join Carmel Parks and Recreation at Program Palooza, a free showcase of their great upcoming summer programs.

Try free classes, take tours, win prizes and more! Get online and check out their new Summer Escape Guide too!

Saturday, May 2, 1-3 pm Monon Community Center www.carmelclayparks.com − (317) 848-7275

W elcome back warmt h at Indi a na Stat e Park s Get outdoors and celebrate spring at all Indiana state parks and reservoir locations May 2-3 during Welcome Back Weekend. Admission is free (regularly $5/vehicle) with special programs available for families to enjoy.

To learn more visit www.in.gov/dnr/parklake.

Saturday & Sunday, May 16-17, 10 am-5 pm Preview party Friday, May 15 www.indplsartcenter.org/events/braf

M ARCH FOR A C AUSE Walk with purpose on Saturday, May 9 at the annual March of Dimes “March For Babies” event. All funds raised go directly to March of Dimes research efforts and family members are welcome to walk with teams. Afterward, enjoy the Indy’s Child – theCityMoms Family Fair complete with bounce houses, food and more.

Saturday, May 9; 9-10 am registration 10-11 am walk, 11 am-1 pm Family Fair www.marchforbabies.org

C atch t he e n t repre neur i al spir i t Now in its sixth year, Lemonade Day returns to Greater Indianapolis! This free, interactive initiative teaches kids of all ages how to start, own and operate their own business: A lemonade stand. Stay tuned to the Lemonade Day website and social media to learn about workshops and special events the whole family will enjoy.

Saturday, May 16 www.indianapolis.lemonadeday.org

Walk in t he st eps of your a nce stor s Civil War Days return to Conner Prairie May 16-17; free of charge with general admission. Walk through Prairietown where the year is 1863 and learn first-hand about the Civil War homefront, Union and Confederate camp life, battle tactics, food and technologies used during war. An Abraham Lincoln impersonator will speak about his presidency and what it was like leading the country during this difficult time.

Saturday & Sunday, May 16-17 10 am-5 pm; battle re-enactment at 2:30 pm each day www.connerprairie.org

Ge t ‘ em w hile t hey ’ re Hot (W heel s) Beginning May 9, the Children’s Museum of Indianapolis will open another exciting exhibit: Hot Wheels: Race To Win. Families can transform into a race team working to build and test the world’s fastest machines, using Hot Wheels® cars to experiment and play.

May 9 - Aug 16 The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis www.childrensmuseum.org − (317) 334-4000

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C H I LD R E N ' S H E A LT H / / BR ANDED CONTENT

Using research and personalized care to help kids beat cancer At Peyton Manning Children’s Hospital at St.Vincent, nearly nine out of every ten young patients diagnosed with cancer are able to participate in the kind of clinical research trials that can lead to improved cures and better therapies.

The hospital’s Center for Cancer and Blood Diseases is led by Dr. Bassem Razzouk, an internationally recognized clinician and researcher in pediatric leukemia, lymphoma and supportive care, who came to Indianapolis from St.Jude Children’s Research Hospital.

“Our Children’s Oncology Group, or COG, is a cooperative study group funded by the National Cancer Institute,” says Dr. Razzouk.

“As many as 98 percent of our patients who are on clinical protocols are sponsored by COG.”

Over the years, major treatment advances have dramatically changed the outlook for children diagnosed with cancer. Today, more than 80 percent of patients survive five years or more, a leap from a rate of barely 20 percent in the 1960’s. Much of that success is based not on new drugs, but on more effective treatment.

According to Dr. Razzouk, “We have learned over time how to better use existing drugs, how to give supportive care, how to intensify therapy for some and decrease therapy for others.”

Dr. Jessica Goodman is also part of the care team at Peyton Manning Children’s Hospital at St.Vincent as a specialist in pediatric hematology/oncology.

“We have a good working relationship with our subspecialists,” says Dr. Goodman.

“I think we are very lucky to have some great pediatric surgeons, neurosurgeons and neurologists.

I also appreciate our pediatricians and pediatric hospitalists who are always available to our patients.”

Dr. Razzouk agrees. “It’s a familycentered, multi-disciplinary approach that includes pediatric psychologists, nutritionists, social workers and child-life specialists, all of whom have expertise in caring for children. But we also offer attending level care, which is an important distinction compared to some other teaching institutions. At the Center for Cancer and Blood Diseases at Peyton Manning Children’s Hospital at St.Vincent, patients have access to an attending physician 24/7 – either me or one of my colleagues – which is not the case many places.”

Treating children with cancer has a special meaning for the care team at Peyton Manning Children’s Hospital at St.Vincent. “We’re not trying to just give them a couple of years,” says Dr. Goodman. “We’re trying to give them a lifetime.”

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A RO UN D TOWN

May's Fantastic Five in Downtown Indy Exciting events and activities for kids this month!

Dan Satterthwaite, Downtown Indy

Lemonade Day Celebration Celebrate the entrepreneurial spirit with this unique event series teaching kids how to start, own and operate their own lemonade stand. Lemonpalooza is May 1 on Monument Circle with live music and plenty of lemony treats from local Indy chefs. On May 9 beginning at 2 pm., White River State Park will host Indy’s Best Lemonade and Lemonade Stand Contests.

Sesame Street Live: Lets Dance Elmo, Abby, Erie, Cookie Monster and friends – the gang’s all here! Join our friends from Sesame Street for this up-close, interactive show sure to have the whole audience singing and dancing along. You’ll have six chances to see this one of a kind performance May 1 – 3 at Old National Centre.

500 Festival Kids' Day The 500 Festival Kid’s Day celebration is the largest free outdoor event for kids in the state of Indiana and it’s right downtown on Monument Circle. With over 10,000 prizes, mini-car racing,

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arts and crafts, games, great food, live entertainment and more, no one leaves empty handed. The fun begins on May 9 at 10 am.

At 10:30 am kids ages 3 - 12 are invited to take part in the Chase 500 Festival Rookie Run. This non-competitive fun run/walk is a great way to encourage kids to stay physically fit. All participants will receive a goodie bag, runners bib with the number one and a finisher's medal – just like the Mini-Marathon participants.

Register in advance for $16 to get a commemorative t-shirt or the day of for $8 - $10.

Homeschool Day at ISM - The Great Outdoors: Science and Art Come to the Indiana State Museum on May 19 to learn fun and interesting science facts and see first-hand the kind of influence science has on art. Get creative with hands-on art activities and check out several gallery activities. Along with art making, see what creates weather patterns and how they influence Indiana’s climate. Kids can learn about native Indiana flora and fauna, too.

There are only 300 spots available, so register soon www.indianamuseum.org.

Zoopolis 500 presented by the American Dairy Association Indiana Each year on the Wednesday before the Indy 500, hundreds of fans meet at the Indianapolis Zoo to witness one of the greatest sports spectacles in Indy: the Zoopolis 500 tortoise race! On May 20 at 10:30 am, cheer on your favorite tortoises as they race towards the finish line. Stay after for family-friendly activities from the Indianapolis Zoo staff.

The month of May offers so much to Indy families – be sure to take advantage of all there is to do!

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Put the Pedal to the Metal Test theories of physics, science and motion in Hot Wheels™: Race to Win All roads lead to Indianapolis as the world’s largest children’s museum opens Hot Wheels™: Race to Win just in time for the Indy 500. All kinds of immersive activities await mom, dad, grandma and grandpa and of course the little ones. Visitors are invited to be part of a dynamic race team using Hot Wheels® diecast cars to experiment and play.

This behind-the-scenes look at the thrilling world of racing investigates the scientific process for designing super-fast cars, and helps families who have the need for speed understand how that is achieved. “There’s no better place than the racing capital of the world to show families how speed, power and precision are used to make cars go faster. This family learning experience will provide hands-on opportunities for parents to explain complex physics concepts in fun ways utilizing the popular Hot Wheels toy cars as they experiment with different principles to see what makes a car

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or truck go fastest,” said Dr. Jeffrey H. Patchen, president and CEO, The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis.

Whether it is competing against mom and dad or grandma and grandpa, kids will love the Pit Stop Challenge where they can race the clock to change tires and refuel a car. A downhill track, looping jump track, precision track and crash track are just a few of the ways visitors will be able to test their theories regarding the science of racing and cause and effect. Real race car parts, authentic artifacts and memorabilia will round out the experience.

You can extend the learning beyond a visit to the museum by having your youngster build his/ her own track at home using the principles learned at the museum.

Explain to your child that when she is playing with the Hot Wheels cars on those orange tracks, she is testing theories of physics, science and motion. Like a real

scientist, kids are observing physical phenomena, making a hypothesis, testing a hypothesis, observing the results of the experiment and developing a conclusion. Ask your child to share that process with you and explain to them the complex side of the fun they’re having.

Hot Wheels™: Race to Win is presented by TCU. Supporting sponsors are Church Brothers and One America.

[Photo Credit] The Children's Museum of Indianapolis

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Great Date Nights Fun ideas meant just for two Lauren Lawson

Segway the Canal Walk The Indianapolis Canal Walk is an urban refuge where city life meets wild life. Walk this three mile trail or speed up the date on a Segway tour of the canal. Learn about the rich history of this area with a knowledgeable guide who can delve into Indiana’s past.

Romantic Dates: Fueling the passion Blue Ribbon Carriage Company

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t’s that rare occasion, a trifecta of sorts: the babysitter is booked, the evening is reserved and your schedule is cleared for an official date night. It’s on the calendar, and it’s happening. But what is the best way to utilize this precious time away from your kids?

Whether you’re looking for an adventure, a little romance, a culinary experience or a money-saving good time, we’ve got you covered with a list of some of the best spots in Indy to woo your main squeeze.

Adventurous Dates: An adrenaline rush for two “Go Ape” together Engage that fight or flight response with an adrenaline pumping date at Go Ape’s adventure course in Eagle Creek Park. Challenge each other to a ropes course, where different activities such as the “log balance” or “flying carpet” will end in an exciting zip lining trip. After sailing high above the trees, take a well-deserved break and enjoy one of the many peaceful picnic areas for lunch and maybe a drink to calm the nerves!

Indiana Pacers Bikeshare Peddle into a great date and tour Indy’s downtown area together by renting a bicycle from Indiana Pacers Bikeshare. With over 25 stations and 250 available bike rentals, couples looking to explore the city on wheels are able to do so in an affordable and adventurous way.

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Take a fairytale tour of downtown Indy, where a horse and carriage ride awaits for a very romantic date. Blue Ribbon Carriage Company offers antique horse-drawn carriage rides throughout the downtown area, including the Wholesale District, the World War Memorial, Canal District or Historic Lockerbie Square. Bump up the romance factor with some red roses and local chocolates that are sure to make any evil stepsisters jealous of this charming date night. Reservations are required and pricing and length of tour will vary for each district.

Indianapolis Symphony Orchestra Dim the lights! Date night at the orchestra is a special experience. With a variety of musical compositions to choose from, the Indianapolis Symphony Orchestra is a great way to spend time with a significant other and enjoy a cultured night on the town. Purchase tickets to one of the many symphonies in May, such as a Tchaikovsky reproduction or an ensemble of music from the Mad Men era. This date is sure to end on a good note.

Foodie Dates: Indy culinary coolness Brugge Brasserie Known as one of Indy’s best local restaurants, Brugge Brasserie is a great spot for a cold brew and a Belgian inspired meal. With an impressive list of European craft beers (highly recommended is the

Triple de Ripple Brugge), and meal options that include the classic pomme frites of Belgium, this date will definitely please foodies looking for an international treat.

History Center, the IHS is a leading research library with archives on the history of Indiana and the Old Northwest. This date could be one for the history books!

Locally Grown Gardens

YMCA

“Eat local” – the mantra of Locally Grown Gardens, proves that seasonal food is really the best food. This restaurant is a farm market open year round and is both chef-owned and operated. The beautiful simplicity and local flavor of this menu truly honor the food of the Midwest.

Release endorphins together on a date night at a local Indy YMCA facility. Although a monthly membership fee is required to join, the YMCA offers multiple classes and exercise options to keep couples in shape together. Free on-site babysitting is also available, making this the kind of date you can have again and again.

Affordable Dates: Fun on a budget Indiana Historical Society The past will come alive on a date to the Indiana Historical Society. At $7 per adult, this reasonably priced outing is not only affordable, but educational as well. Located in the Eugene and Marilyn Glick Indiana

Plan your own date night today! From adventurous encounters to romantic dinners, Indy provides plenty of interesting options for you and your special someone.

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WHAT YOU DON ' T KNOW

ABOUT FOSTER CARE Common misconceptions that prevent families from becoming involved Summer Daily

In the U.S. nearly 300,000 children have been placed in the foster care system due to neglect or abuse. They need stable families who can provide temporary homes and safe, loving environments while their biological families work to become better parents.

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Unfortunately, there are more foster children than foster parents and 58,000 kids will be placed in group homes and other state institutions rather than in a family. Oftentimes, suitable adults are misinformed about the foster care system and don’t realize how they could play a part in the life of a young person needing their support. Sharon Pierce is the president and CEO of The Villages, a local foster care agency, and Gale Bellamy is an Indianapolis-based therapeutic foster care supervisor with Bethany Christian Services.

Together, they discuss the issues commonly misunderstood about foster care.

It’s actually not that complicated The overall functions of the foster care system are pretty simple. Most children are referred to Child Protective Services for neglect or abuse.

The state then evaluates the family situation and will decide whether or not to put the child in foster care. When it comes to the nitty-gritty details like legal questions and family placement, the foster care agency helps you as the foster family work through these issues. They provide the training and license you must obtain, perform extensive background checks and then choose a child they think would be a good match for you or your family.

After deciding to become a foster parent, the process only takes about three to six months, and the agency won’t leave you high and dry.

Most agencies offer support and advice throughout the entire training process as well as after a foster child is placed in your home.

The money issue is a moot point “I think one of the grave public misconceptions is that people do this for the money, and that just breaks my heart,” says Pierce, “The foster parents I know really feel called to care for a vulnerable child.” Pierce also points out that while parents do receive payment during training and then per diem after a child is placed in their home, reimbursement rates have been steadily reduced over the last eight years in Indiana.

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You don’t have to be a perfect parent Or a parent at all, for that matter. Foster agencies are not looking for the Brady Bunch, and they welcome people from many different homes and lifestyles. During training, you do have to prove that you are financially stable and can provide a safe environment, but otherwise you can be a 21-year-old who lives in an apartment alone, parents with kids of your own or 65-year-old empty nesters. Most agencies don’t discriminate against marital status or sexual orientation. Pierce explains that “in Indiana there are over 12,000 children who are abused or neglected and needing residential foster care, so you can imagine the unique differences that each of those children bring. We want a cadre, if you will, of foster families that reflect that diversity of child need.”

"...you will often work with the biological family as they learn how to make choices that will provide a safe, nurturing environment for their kids. It is important to remember that foster care is not a roundabout path to adoption."

You are not adopting these children “What I normally tell new foster parents is that for the majority of children, their permanency plan is reunification with their parents,” says Bellamy.

There are times that the biological family is not going to be a placement option, and then the court will offer permanency. But those are extreme cases, and still, less than 15% of foster care children are adopted by foster families. In fact, you will often work with the biological family as they learn how to make choices that will provide a safe, nurturing environment for their kids. It is important to remember that foster care is not a roundabout path to adoption.

None of this means that foster care is easy “Kids that come into foster care are in foster care for a reason. Many of them have been traumatized,” explains Bellamy. Although you will receive training and advice on how to care for children who have suffered trauma, it is often an uphill battle.

Bellamy believes that the most important element to being a successful foster parent is flexibility.

“Foster children have a difficult time at changing,” she explains, “When kids are coming into your home, as the foster parents you have to do most of the changing: changing your parenting style and changing how you address their issues to be able to meet that child’s needs.”

More foster families are desperately needed Perhaps the greatest misperception is that there will be someone else to care for these children.

“There’s definitely a great need here in Indiana for foster parents,” says Bellamy, “Whether you have your own birth children or you’re empty nesters that don’t have kids, you can serve a child in some type of capacity by being a foster parent."

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Students Who Shine A spotlight on local exceptional TEENS

Adriana Allman Senior, Class of 2015, Brebeuf Jesuit Preparatory School What high school achievement are you most proud of?

I spend around twenty hours a week competitively dancing. I’m proud of myself for the scholarships I’ve earned and for pushing myself through all the blood, sweat, and tears, while maintaining a consistent 3.99 grade point average. I hope to finish off these four years with a 4.0.

What are your future plans?

It could go in multiple directions. However, I know I am going to the University of Michigan this fall to double-major in dance and economics. I plan on applying to Ross Business School for my sophomore year.

I used to live in Ann Arbor, so I am a diehard Wolverines fan. Go Blue!

How has Brebeuf Jesuit Preparatory School prepared you for your future?

Brebeuf Jesuit has prepared me for the future by teaching me time management skills, the value of hard work, and giving me the ability to connect with people on a deeper level. The community and sense of camaraderie at Brebeuf has given me confidence to tackle the future head-on.

Anne Gregory Senior, Class of 2015, Cathedral High School What high school achievement are you most proud of?

I am most proud of my leadership role as class president. The class of 2015 has many achievements: winning the Winter Fest talent-off, building a Habitat for Humanity house, and winning the Homecoming competition.

Each member of the class is special and I am grateful for the opportunity to lead the class.

What are your future plans?

Although I have not yet decided on a university, my academic interests are in marketing and broadcast journalism. I plan to major in marketing and pursue classes in broadcast journalism. I enjoy the thought of a job that is constantly changing.

How has CATHEDR AL HIGH SCHOOL prepared you for your future?

Cathedral High School has challenged me academically while allowing me to grow spiritually and emotionally.

I have developed relationships that will last a lifetime. My teachers have dedicated an endless amount of hours to provide me with the best education possible. Through my rigorous course work I have developed a work ethic that will carry me through life.

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Connor Tomlin Senior, Class of 2015, Heritage Christian School What high school achievement are you most proud of?

The high school achievement I am most proud of is having the opportunity to portray Cinderella in the fall of 2014. Musical Theatre is my passion and to be able to perform, do what I love, and see the looks of wonder on little girls' faces is something I'll never forget.

What are your future plans?

I plan to attend Auburn University, in Auburn, Alabama starting in the fall of 2015. I will be dual majoring in Musical Theatre and Nursing.

How has HERITAGE CHRISTIAN prepared you for your future?

Heritage has provided an environment filled with people who want me to succeed so I can learn about academics and also gain knowledge about my faith so both my mind and spirit are well equipped for me to stay true to myself in the coming years.

Devin Becktell Senior, Class of 2015, Hoosier Academies What high school achievement are you most proud of?

I am most proud of my ability to balance a challenging amount of schoolwork and extracurricular activities while maintaining good standing in both.

What are your future plans?

I am set to go to Purdue University in the fall of 2015. I want to major in mechanical engineering, and I hope to use my degree to enter into the job field.

How has HOOSIER ACADEMIES prepared you for your future?

The flexibility that Hoosier Academies has given me has allowed me to take classes that are truly enjoyable for me. The independent learning that is encouraged at Hoosier Academies gives students the drive for self-motivation. These two factors have given me the ability to succeed in college and beyond.

Reyan Coskun Senior, Class of 2015, International School of Indiana What HIGH school achievement are you most proud of?

My proudest achievement is my two summer internship that I completed through Project SEED. I got hands on scientific experience at Dr. Philip Johnson and his PhD student Lauren Federici's IUPUI neuroscience lab. The research I conducted there allowed me to participate and win state/national science competitions.

What are your future plans?

As a future Wells Scholar at Indiana University - Bloomington, I plan on double majoring in neuroscience and biochemistry while minoring in French and English literature. I plan on continuing my scientific research and participating in many of IU's extracurricular activities. Eventually, I want to get an MD/PhD.

How has INTERNATIONAL SCHOOL OF INDIANA prepared you for your future?

The International School of Indiana has truly prepared me for my academic path by giving me the opportunity to learn French and Spanish fluently. Aside from this global engagement, ISI has given me a rigorous education through its IB Diploma program.

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Grace Null Senior, Class of 2015, Midwest Academy What high school achievement are you most proud of?

I am most proud of maintaining a good grade point average throughout my high school years. I am also very proud of the improvement I made on my initial ACT scores which increased my choices of colleges and universities.

What are your future plans?

I know the accommodations and support that are necessary for a student with significant hearing loss to reach their full potential in the classroom. I have a severe hearing loss and would like to coach other students with hearing disabilities to reach their dreams. I will take the first step toward MY dream when I attend the University of Indianapolis in the fall and major in Elementary Education.

How has MIDWEST ACADEMY prepared you for your future?

Because of my hearing loss, I need accommodations and at times one on one support to understand and access information from the classroom. Midwest Academy provided the support and help I needed to be a successful student. They used a variety of techniques to meet my learning needs. Midwest Academy also helped me learn to be a better advocate for myself.

Mia Blackburn Senior, Class of 2015, Northpoint Homeschool

Ben Price 8th Grader, St. Richard’s Episcopal School What MIDDLE school achievement are you most proud of?

The middle school achievement that I am most proud of is the Reverend Dr. James B. Lemler award. It is for a student who has been a positive influence in the Arts, Academics, and School Community. It is the biggest award a seventh grader can get.

What are your future plans?

My future plans are to go to North Central High School. I will be a part of the IB and AP programs. IB is International Baccalaureate and AP is Advanced Placement.

How has ST. RICHARDS EPISCOPAL SCHOOL prepared you for your future?

St. Richards has prepared me for my future in many ways. They have challenging programs for those who need challenges.

The teachers are always there to help you, and the way you are taught is perfect because each teacher is able to give individual support.

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Faizan Khatib 8th Grader, Sycamore School What MIDDLE school achievement are you most proud of?

I am probably most proud of my science test grades this year. Each test requires a large amount of time and effort to prepare for and I feel a great sense of accomplishment each time I receive my grade.

What are your future plans?

I plan to attend North Central High School, and want to go to medical school and study to become a doctor.

I have always been interested in becoming a doctor and using what I know to help others.

How has Sycamore School prepared you for your future?

My teachers and my peers have pushed me to improve and have shown me what I am capable of.

Sycamore has prepared me for the many challenges that I will face later in life.

Eibhlin Ewald 8th Grader, The Orchard School What MIDDLE school achievement are you most proud of?

I would say that my proudest middle school achievement is that I have stayed true to myself, whether it be going to a different high school than most of my friends, defending my beliefs, and not changing my personality or myself for anyone. Most girls my age change themselves to fit the needs of the popular crowd, or to make room for a romantic relationship. I never saw the point in that.

What are your future plans?

I will be attending Park Tudor in the fall. I’m not sure what I want to study once I graduate from high school, but I’m thinking I could work for the government or perhaps a news agency. I speak fluid Chinese, so perhaps I’ll be able to use that skill in my career.

How has THE ORCHARD SCHOOL prepared you for your future?

The Orchard School is such a supportive community. If you need help with anything, all you have to do is ask and there is always someone who is willing to help. I also love the fact that at Orchard, you can be your own person. It’s great how everyone is valued and allowed to be who they want to be. The teachers at The Orchard School are amazing!

Lizzie Berry Senior, Class of 2015, University High School What high school achievement are you most proud of?

I am most proud that I took full advantage of the opportunities available at University High School and that my high school career wasn’t passive. I’m thankful for the encouraging environment at University that allowed me to be involved in sports, student government, community service, the mentoring program, and January Term.

What are your future plans?

Next year I will be attending Rollins College in the Sunshine State. I intend to double major in Spanish and psychology and go on to study psycholinguistics at the graduate level. My plans will probably change, and I’m excited for that. I feel prepared for whatever the future holds.

How has UNIVERSIT Y HIGH SCHOOL prepared you for your future?

University High School has prepared me for the future by exposing me to a diverse range of knowledge and experiences. I attribute the expansion of my character to the academics that challenge students to see the world from a new perspective and the community that supports one another in their growth.

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should my child see a

Mental Health Professional?

Un d ersta n d i n g w h en to seek outsi d e h elp Sarah Bricker-Hunt

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ll kids experience some challenges as they go through childhood, and most of the time these “rough patches” come and go without too much cause for worry. Sometimes though, a troubling phase lingers, bringing to light a mental health issue that could be resolved with

the help of someone well-versed in the area of childhood development.

Determining when a situation has crossed over into an area of true concern isn’t always easy.

For example, while it is normal and even expected for children to experience sadness at times, a child who is sad most of the time and having difficulty getting through their normal activities might be experiencing depression.

Similarly, although many children have nightmares on occasion, troubling dreams that increase in intensity and frequency could indicate feelings of extreme anxiety.

It can be difficult to know when these types of symptoms may pass on their own or when the assistance of a mental health professional would be in order. Katy Feeser, a clinical therapist with Indy Counseling Professionals says that emotional and social problems, self-esteem issues, family problems or issues related to a major life adjustment or loss can become cloaked by exterior problems that come across as “bad” behaviors or defiance in child. When a parent is unable to help their son or daughter manage a situation, it is typically a sign to seek outside help.

Feeser says “a child who seems out of control on the outside feels out of control on the inside.” She adds that overwhelmed kids often struggle with daily tasks and sometimes display big emotional responses when feeling helpless. Kids dealing with these feelings can be helped to restore a sense of calm through adaptive behavior therapy.

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Mental health issues can look different from child to child, and there are a wide variety of symptoms that can affect kids. A parent’s knowledge and intuition regarding their child goes a long way in helping to identify a problem. It is important to note that warning signs change as children age. Younger children tend to exhibit mental health issues through their behavior, while older adolescents may exhibit symptoms through their emotions.

The National Alliance on Mental Illness ( NAMI ) outlines se ver al signs to watch for in younger children that could indicate a potential problem : • Changes in school performance • Excessive worry or anxiety, for instance fighting to avoid bed or school • Hyperactive behavior • Frequent nightmares • Frequent disobedience or aggression • Frequent temper tantrums Feeser also adds impaired concentration, clinginess and trouble making and keeping friends as signs that a child is struggling.

Parents of adolescents SHOULD take note of these troubling behaviors : • Feeling excessively sad or low • Excessive worrying or fear • Substance abuse • Social avoidance • Changes in eating habits • Multiple physical ailments without obvious causes (headaches, stomach aches, vague and ongoing “aches and pains”)

Feeser says other signs might include risky, harmful behaviors and avoiding school.

If you are concerned about your child’s mental health, NAMI recommends erring on the side of caution. Even mild symptoms can be helped, and more severe issues respond best when treatment is sought in earlier stages. Feeser suggests asking your pediatrician for a referral and checking with your child’s school to see if they offer counseling services. She also recommends parents consider a local private practice counseling center or a community mental health center.

The online Psychology Today database (www.PsychologyToday. com) lists provider information sorted by zip code, cost, specialty and other factors. She says families without insurance or with high deductibles can consider checking with private practitioners to see if they can provide services on a sliding scale.

Most importantly, don’t hesitate to reach out for help. As a parent you wouldn’t think twice about seeking a professional opinion for a physical problem your child might have. Mental health should be viewed in the same way. Professional therapists, social workers, counselors and psychologists are trained to identify problematic behaviors in kids, and work with parents as partners in helping their child.

• Inability to carry out daily activities or handle daily problems and stress

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Top 5

Health Questions

Women Wonder About Making moms’ health a priority too!

As moms, our lives are filled with doctor’s appointments. We manage our children’s health like champions, but do we take the time to manage our own health? Keeping up with continually changing women’s health recommendations is tricky, especially when our schedules are packed. So, for all of you busy moms who need the facts in five minutes or less, here are some quick answers.

1.

How often do I really need a pelvic exam?

Pelvic exams…what a way to break the ice! Recently Pap smear recommendations have changed, confusing many women on how frequently they need one. While some women may be able to stretch their Pap smears out to every three years (depending on their risk factors), this doesn’t mean that they get to skimp on pelvic, breast and even rectal exams according to Dr. Pratima Stuhldreher, MD, an Indianapolis gynecologist at Clear Vista Women’s Care. The complete pelvic exam looks for changes in the external genitalia, uterus and ovaries, not just the cervix. Since ovarian cancer often lacks early stage symptoms, a yearly pelvic exam could be lifesaving.

In short, a yearly well woman appointment should still be on your schedule!

2.

Am I going through perimenopause?

If you’re soaking the sheets with night sweats, noticing hot flashes during the day and having irregular vaginal bleeding, then you’re probably experiencing perimenopause. Does this mean that full-blown menopause is right around the corner? Not necessarily.

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According to Dr. Stuhldreher it is hard to predict exactly when menopause may occur. It could still be ten years before your periods are gone for good. In the meantime, keep a fan and panty liners handy.

3.

Do I still need to get vaccines as an adult?

Immunizations aren’t just for infants! Staying up to date on your shots is important for your health and for the little ones around you. Booster immunizations allow your body to once again build up a defense against specific illnesses such as tetanus, diphtheria and pertussis. Recent guidelines from the Centers for Disease Control now recommend that a mother have a pertussis shot with every single pregnancy. With whooping cough on the rise, getting this shot during pregnancy will pass a larger amount of protective antibodies to your unborn child, affording him more protection during the vulnerable period of infancy.

Travel immunizations are also important to remember.

Don’t forget to check the CDC website several months in advance for specific recommendations depending on the country and region that you will be visiting.

Check with your doctor to see if you are up to date on your standard immunizations. Prevention is key!

Dr. Emma Hostetter, MD

osteoporosis. If you find that your energy is strangely low, you’re gaining unexplained weight or having other symptoms, contact your doctor for an evaluation.

5.

Can I skip on a daily vitamin if I’m eating healthy?

While eating a healthy diet is of paramount importance, you still may not be getting all of the nutrients that you need from your food alone. Many of us don’t eat enough iron-containing foods such as red meat to prevent iron deficiency. Adding in a daily women’s multivitamin is a great way to make sure you are getting 100% of your daily recommended values.

But, don’t go overboard! Too many vitamins can actually be harmful. A calcium supplement with vitamin D is also incredibly important for preventing osteopenia and osteoporosis (weakened bones more likely to fracture). Keeping your bones strong with supplements and regular resistance training is an important way to prevent bone disease.

Don’t forget that you matter too! Prioritizing your own health will make you a better mom and a happy and healthier person.

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Am I gaining weight because my metabolism is slowing down or is something else going on?

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www.ecommunity.com/cpn/pl/cpn-clearvistawomens-care/pratima-stuhldreher/

After menopause many women have a challenging time maintaining their weight or losing extra weight.

Hormones fluctuations can play a large role in adding a few pounds around the middle. Instead of getting frustrated, focus on creating a healthy lifestyle filled with a nutritious diet, aerobic exercise and resistance training. By building muscle you will burn more calories even when resting. Resistance training will also strengthen your bones, decreasing your risk for

www.cdc.gov/pertussis/pregnant/mom/getvaccinated.html

www.cdc.gov/nutrition/everyone/basics/vitamins/ calcium.html

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APPLIED B EHAVIOR ANALYS I S THROUGH THE YEARS

A conversation with longtime therapist Jennifer LaMarca Maggie Loiselle

Jennifer LaMarca remembers April 1, 1995 like it was yesterday. As a Child Development and Family Studies major at Purdue University, it was the first time she used her training in the relatively new field of Applied Behavior Analysis.

“I pretty much knew after the first day that I wanted to do it for the rest of my life,” she laughs.

Twenty years later, LaMarca is one of the longest-tenured ABA providers in Indiana. Her career led her to the Lovaas Institute in New Jersey during the replication research of Dr. O. Ivar Lovaas’ Young Autism Project, and then back home to become the first ABA consultant residing in Indiana to help families run early, intensive, home-based therapy.

Now a Home-Based Program Manager for Little Star Center, LaMarca is fulfilling her passion of working with children with autism every day.

She talked with Indy’s Child about how ABA has evolved over her career and its inspiring success stories.

When you started in the field, what was it like for parents to get ABA therapy for their child?

It was prohibitively expensive. You had to bring in an ABA consultant who trained therapists you hired locally on how to implement the therapy. I made it my mission after I graduated to gain the experience necessary so there would be someone locally who could offer services rather than having to fly out a behavior analyst from California or New Jersey.

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What drew you to in-home therapy?

The beauty of an in-home setting is you’re going into a family’s home and getting to know their child. I saw, early on, that there was great benefit in parents taking part in a child’s therapy. We’re a team, and we’re trying to figure this out together. It’s really important for children with autism to have that consistency, a way for learning to carry over from what’s done in therapy to what happens the other hours of the child’s day.

Being in the field for 20 years, how fulfilling is it to see success with ABA? I have kids every single year who are catching up to their peers. A couple years ago, I received a letter from a family whose kid is now in college on a full-ride scholarship. I started working with another boy on his third birthday when he was nonverbal. Now he’s away at college and studying screenwriting. Another girl, who started therapy when she was 3 and a half, is now 12 and is in a classroom with typically developing peers.

Really, I am humbled by the successes I see.

What some might consider a small success is really a huge success in the eyes of a parent or in the life of a particular child.

How do you impart the big picture to parents who are just starting out?

ABA is a lot of breaking down skills into smaller components, and it can be hard for parents in the beginning to see why certain prerequisite skills matter. But once you see your child making progress, especially going from

nonverbal to verbal, parents get a lot of comfort from that. I’m a strong advocate of keeping parents informed of the progress their child is making and how that relates to other children I’ve worked with throughout the past 20 years.

What advice would you give to parents who are looking at ABA options?

I think the most important thing to look for in an ABA consultant is someone who will be collaborative, with a strong focus on play and conversation. Therapy must be dynamic. These children are bright, they just don’t always learn as easily through the natural environment, and so it’s our job to figure out how to make them thrive. As Dr. Lovaas always said, “If a child cannot learn in the way we teach, we must teach in a way the child can learn.”

LaMarca is currently pursuing her masters in ABA. She and husband, Vince, who is the clinical director for Little Star Center, live on Indianapolis’ southeast side with their four boys.

Indiana is home to a number of quality in- home and center-based ABA providers.

Autism Speaks has a comprehensive list here: www.autismspeaks.org/resource-guide/ state/IN.

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ACCESSIBLE

P L AYG R OU N D S Designed with everyone in mind Maggie Loiselle

Forget the messy wood chips and ramps to nowhere of playgrounds past. The new generation of play spaces features inclusive designs and seamless accessibility aimed at every age and ability level.

interactive elements between levels and a music area. It also includes an accessible trail and wheelchair-height basketball hoop.

Founders Park 11675 Hazel Dell Pkwy, Carmel

From easy-to-navigate solid rubber play surfaces to multi-level ramps and gliders big enough to hold multiple wheelchairs, new equipment has come a long way toward making playgrounds a place for everyone.

This popular Carmel playground features a large ramp up to the main structure, plenty of ground level activities and supportive swings. There are also accessible bathrooms.

“The designs have gotten so good that you can’t pick out what the accessible elements are,” says Greg Beilfuss, State and Community Recreation Planner with the Indiana Department of Natural Resources and coauthor of the state’s Accessible Playground Toolkit. “The kids who are out there playing, it never even occurs to them. Any kid can tackle anything.”

Freedom Trail Park

The Americans with Disabilities Act requires that public playgrounds integrate accessibility into routes to the structure, play surfacing, ramps, ground level activities and more. It’s an edict that many central Indiana communities have embraced wholeheartedly, going above and beyond basic ADA compliance to create truly inclusive play spaces.

That’s welcome news for parents who once had to watch their children be left out of the fun.

And accessible play options don’t only engage children in wheelchairs. A cushioned play surface, easily reachable interactive elements and swings with extra support make a trip to the playground easier for many people: young children, those with temporary injuries, pregnant mothers, the elderly and parents with disabilities, too. “These designs benefit virtually everyone,” Beilfuss stresses.

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500 Deer Walk Trace, Westfield

Here are some of our favorite inclusive parks to play in Indianapolis and surrounding areas:

This out-of-the-way Westfield park features an accessible playground, a wheelchair-height sand table and a sensory garden anchored by giant wind chimes. But don’t trust your GPS to get you there. Take Hoover Street east from Westfield High School; the park dead ends in the parking lot.

Rhodius Park Brooks School Park

1720 W. Wilkins St., Indianapolis

11780 Brooks School Road, Fishers

On the near-southwest side of Indianapolis, Rhodius Park features a sprawling play structure with ramps throughout, a variety of interactive elements at ground level and supportive swings.

The walkway to this Fishers gem features a wide bridge over Mud Creek, allowing all children to view the rushing water from above. A large play structure with multi-level ramps and engaging sensory panels anchors this compact but varied space, which also includes supportive swings and wheelchair-accessible picnic tables. The park is encircled by an ADA-accessible trail.

Independence Park 2100 S. Morgantown Road, Greenwood The 8,000 square feet of play space at this Greenwood park is older than some others but still engaging, featuring ramp access to two structures,

Roy G. Holland Memorial Park 1 Park Drive, Fishers This large, newly renovated Fishers park features some of the best accessible playground elements in the area, with multi-level ramps, activities at varying heights, accessible hanging rings and supportive swings. There is also an accessible splashpad and bathrooms.

3400 N. Hawthorne Lane, Indianapolis Near 34th Street and Emerson Avenue, this music-themed playground features ramps that traverse the entire structure and sensory activities on each level. The large nearby splashpad is also accessible.

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Taylor’s Dream: Boundless Playground Kreager Park, Fort Wayne This accessibility standout features three circular pods based on age group, including activity areas on different elevations with connecting ramps and a multi-use rocker that can accommodate two wheelchairs.

There’s also an accessible splashpad.

Freedom Field Playground 1400 Parkside Drive, Columbus “One of the most mindblowingly accessible playgrounds I’ve ever seen,” is how Beilfuss describes this 1.5 acre play area in Columbus. The park features a large space for older children and a smaller one for toddlers, both full of subtle accessible elements, including a huge glider that can accommodate wheelchairs.

Interested in improving playground accessibility in your community?

Check out the state’s Accessible Playground Toolkit at www.in.gov/ dnr/outdoor/files/or-IDNR_ Accessible_Playground_ Toolkit_2010.pdf.

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SPECIAL NEEDS CALENDAR Special Needs Ministry Ongoing Every Sun & Thu. Location: White River Christian Church, Email: Brooke Taflinger at btaflinger@wrcc.org, Every Thursday at 6:30 and Sunday at 9:00 and 10:45

MON 04 Free Community Drum Circle For Adults/Teens With Special Needs Occurring Each Monday Location: Bongo Boy Music School, Time: 6:30 PM to 7:30 PM, Phone: 317-771-0241 This drum circle is specifically tailored for the Adults/Teens with special needs community. We welcome families, music and recreational therapists & their clients, and organizations working with children and adults with special needs. It is required that all caregivers/therapists stay with their clients and we ask that the ratio stay at 1 caregiver/2 clients, unless cleared

by Lisa Colleen, our lead Facilitator. This allows our facilitators to properly lead the group and keep the groove in motion.

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Discovering FOOD Feeding Group Location: Children's Therapy Connection, Time: 2:00 PM to 3:30 PM, Phone: 317-288-7606, www.childrens therapyconnection.com The SOS (Sequential Oral Sensory) Approach to Feeding focuses on increasing a child’s comfort level with eating by exploring and discovering the different properties of food and allowing a child to interact with food in a playful, non-stressful way. This program is founded on 20 years of clinical research led by Dr. Kay Toomey, a pediatric psychologist.

CTC’s Discovering FOOD feeding group follows the principles of the SOS Approach to Feeding, utilizing a team of therapists to help guide you and your child through the process from exploring different foods to enjoying mealtime. Participation includes a comprehensive feeding and nutrition evaluation and weekly therapy sessions, including parent education. Whether you have a picky eater or a problem feeder, Discovering FOOD is the answer for you!

Children will be enrolled on a first come, first served basis. All participants must meet inclusion criteria. Parent participation is a vital and required aspect of the program. Please contact our office at info@childrenstherapyconnection.com or (317) 288-7606 for additional details.

F ri 08 North Central Indianapolis Drum Circle Location: Carmel Lutheran Church, Time: 6:00 PM to 7:30 PM, Phone: 317-590-5319 Sponsored by Meaningful Day Services, this is an event where

people of all abilities can participate and be successful. The goal areas addressed at a drum circle include increasing social interaction skills, eye contact, active attending skills, motor co-ordination, gross and fine motor skills, sensory-processing skills and receptive and expressive communication skills. RSVP to Leigh Ann Fuller 317-590-5319 or leighfuller@gmail.com.

Parents Night Out- Respite services provided by Easter Seals Crossroads Location: South Indian Creek Christian Church, Time: 6:00 PM to 10:00 PM, www.eastersealscrossroads.org/ parents-night-out Parents' Night Out is a scheduled event for children with disabilities or special needs. The program provides care for children and their siblings ages 6 months through 12 years.

Parents' Night Out is available at several locations throughout the city. Reservations and a completed registration form is required.

F ri 15 Ongoing on the third Friday of each month

Parents Night Out- Respite services provided by Easter Seals Crossroads Location: Trinity Wesleyen Church (Kids Kastle), Time: 6:00 PM to 10:00 PM, www.eastersealscrossroads.org/ parents-night-out Parents' Night Out is a scheduled event for children with disabilities or special needs. The program provides care for children and their siblings ages 6 months through 12 years.

Parents' Night Out is available at several locations throughout the city. Reservations and a completed registration form is required.

F ri 22 GiGi's Playhouse Grandparent Brag Location: GiGi's Playhouse - Down Syndrome Achievement Centers, Time: 9:30 AM to 10:30 AM, Phone: 317-288-8235, http://gigisplayhouse.org/indianapolis This group is for grandparents of a child with Down syndrome.

This is a chance for them to enjoy conversation with one another, network and even watch some programs running.

F ri 29 About Special Kids Golf Outing Location: Hickory Stick Golf Club, Time: 11:00 AM, www.aboutspecialkids.org/2015-golf-outing/

Adaptive Masquerade Prom Location: White River Christian Church, Time: 6:30 PM to 9:00 PM, www.wrcc.org/specialneeds All individuals with special needs 16 years and older are invited to attend this prom The evening will include dancing, snacks, drinks, flowers, pictures and gifts for the guests. Hair, make-up, dresses or suits provided upon request.

Down Syndrome Indiana's D.A.D.S. Golf Outing Location: Eagle Creek Golf Course, Time: 10:30 AM, Phone: 317-925-7617, www.dsindiana.org/Golf.php Each spring, the DSI D.A.D.S. host an annual golf outing from which funds raised directly benefit the mission of DSI D.A.D.S. and help to help sponsor Riley Hospital for Children’s "Camp Hi-Lite," a one-week, outdoor-living experience for school-aged and adolescent children who happen to have Down syndrome.

S at 30 Sensory Friendly Films: "Tomorrowland" Location: AMC Castleton Square 14, Time: 10:00 AM, Phone: 317-577-9538, www.amctheatres.com/movie-theatres/ indianapolis/amc-castleton-square-14

Walk Now for Autism Speaks Location: Celebration Plaza in White River State Park, Time: 11:00 AMto 1:00 PM, www.walknowforautismspeaks.org/faf/ help/helpEventInfo.asp?ievent=1128646&lis=1&kntae112864 6=41F556D745EA413BB7CBF4B0934BA Walk Now for Autism Speaks is an inspirational and impactful opportunity to raise money and awareness to help change the future for all those who struggle with autism. Participating in Walk Now for Autism Speaks empowers you to make a difference and provides you with an opportunity to honor someone with autism.

SPECIAL NEEDS Applied Behavior Center for GUIDE Autism IndIANAPOLIS West CENTER ABA Autism Services by Damar ABA provides proven research-based treatments and interventions for children with Autism and their families, ensuring that children learn, gain confidence and purpose, and engage in meaningful interactions in their everyday lives.

9905 Fall Creek Road, Indianapolis, IN 46256, Contact: Kristin Dovenmuehle, Director, Phone: 317-813-4690, Email: info@damar.org, www.DamarABA.org

Applied Behavior Center for Autism Carmel CENTER ABC for Autism is proud to be Indiana's largest and longest running ABA therapy provider. With 7 locations throughout the state, we offer high quality one-on-one ABA and verbal behavior consulting and therapy. Our new Carmel center is also home to our state-of-the-art indoor, therapeutic pool.

This is home to our special needs swim lessons and free open swim days. 1341 Old Merdian St, Carmel, IN 46032 , Contact: Sheiletha Quinn, Phone: 317-573-KIDS, Email: Sheiletha@appliedbehaviorcenter.org, www.applied behaviorcenter.org, www.facebook.com/autismhope

ABC for Autism is proud to be Indiana's largest and longest running ABA therapy provider. With 7 locations throughout the state, we offer high quality one-on-one ABA and verbal behavior consulting and therapy. Our Indy West center is proud to offer individualized one-on-one therapy programs for children and teens ages 2 and older. 6865 Parkdale Place, Indianapolis, IN 46254, Contact: Sheiletha Quinn, Phone: 317-849-KIDS, Email: Sheiletha@appliedbehaviorcenter.org, www.applied behaviorcenter.org, www.facebook.com/autismhope

BEHAVIORWORKS ABA We work with you! BehaviorWorks provides Early Intervention for Autism and Indiana Medicaid Waiver Behavior Support Services. BehaviorWorks is a team you can grow with. We use the evidence-based strategies of ABA to create effective behavioral solutions. Are you looking for a fresh perspective? Take action for positive change with BehaviorWorks. 8206 Rockville Road No. 146, Indianapolis, IN 46234, Contact: Ann Baloski, Executive Director, Phone: 317-436-0037, Email: info@behaviorworksaba.com, www.behaviorworksaba.com

Children's Therapy Connection Applied Behavior Center for Autism Early Childhood Center ABC for Autism is proud to be Indiana's largest and longest running ABA therapy provider. With 7 locations throughout the state, we offer high quality one-on-one ABA and verbal behavior consulting and therapy. Our Early Childhood Center (ECC) is a highly specialized center in which clients ages 2-6 grow and develop through individualized programming, typical peer interaction, and early intervention ABA therapy. 7857 E. 88th St, Indianapolis, IN 46256, Contact: Sheiletha Quinn, Phone: 317-849-KIDS, Email: Sheiletha@appliedbehaviorcenter.org, www.appliedb ehaviorcenter.org, www.facebook.com/ autismhope

Applied Behavior Center for Autism Greenwood CENTER ABC for Autism is proud to be Indiana's largest and longest running ABA therapy provider. With 7 locations throughout the state, we offer high quality one-on-one ABA and verbal behavior consulting and therapy. Our beautiful Greenwood facility offers individualized one-on-one therapy programs for children and teens ages 2 and older. 374 Meridian Parke Lane, Greenwood, IN 46142, Contact: Sheiletha Quinn, Phone: 317-889-KIDS, Email: Sheiletha@applied behaviorcenter.org, www.applied behaviorcenter.org, www.facebook.com/ autismhope

Applied Behavior Center for Autism IndIANAPOLIS North CENTER ABC for Autism is proud to be Indiana's largest and longest running ABA therapy provider. With 7 locations throughout the state, we offer high quality one-on-one ABA and verbal behavior consulting and therapy. Indy North is our corporate office which also offers individualized one-on-one therapy programs for children and teens ages 2 and older. 7901 E. 88th St, Indianapolis, IN 46256, Contact: Sheiletha Quinn, Phone: 317-849-KIDS, Email: Sheiletha@appliedbehaviorcenter.org, www.appliedbehavior center.org, www.facebook.com/ autismhope

Children’s Therapy Connection’s Preschool Prep Summer Camp is now enrolling! This is a summer day camp program for children of all ability levels ages two through five. The camp follows a curriculum very similar to your local developmental preschool, with weekly themes and ample opportunities for age-appropriate play and fun. Our summer camp provides a creative and enriching setting for young children to enjoy their summertime with same-aged peers. Our focus is geared towards preparing your child for preschool across all domains of child development (fine/gross motor, cognitive, social, and communication). Staffed with the same high quality therapists who work with our First Steps program, our camp will allow your child to be immersed in a nurturing, educational, and therapeutic environment. Children will be enrolled on a first come, first served basis. Ratios are kept low to allow each child individual attention and instruction, so space is limited. Enroll your child today! Visit our website or follow us on Facebook to see how we Connect Kids With Their Potential! 7424 Shadeland Station Way, Indianapolis, IN 46256, Phone: 317-288-7606, Email: info childrenstherapy connection.com, www.childrenstherapyconnection.com

UNLOCKING THE SPECTRUM Unlocking The Spectrum was created with the mission of making ABA Therapy accessible to ALL children with autism by providing high quality ABA Therapy services throughout Indiana.

Unlocking The Spectrum specializes in bringing the therapy to the client--in their home and in their community. Client's receive services in a wide variety of settings including their home, school, Unlocking The Spectrum's Centers, and the community to ensure that skills are generalized across all environments. Intensive parent training and collaboration with all members of a client's team are an essential part of every individualized program developed.

Contact us for a free initial consultation. Locations in Indianapolis, Bloomington, Columbus and Terre Haute; Indianapolis: 8646 Guion Rd Indianapolis, IN 46268, Columbus:1015 3rd St.Suite C IN 47201, Terre Haute::3464 South 4th Street IN 47802, Bloomington: 417 S Clarizz Boulevard IN 4740; Contact: Ilana Hernandez, Director, Phone: 855-INFO-UTS, Email: info@unlockingthespectrum.com, www. unlockingthespectrum.com MAY 2015 // INDYSCHILD.COM 41

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Halting Homesickness at Camp Simple solutions to help separation issues The American Camp Association

Overcoming homesickness is one of the most powerful lessons a child can learn. Camp nurtures children’s independence and prepares them for the future. It can provide an amazing opportunity to experience personal growth. As a parent, it is up to you to foster this growth by encouraging your child to get the most out of his or her camp experience.

Homesickness is a natural part of youth development, especially for children who may be away from home for their first summer at camp.

For years, studies have shown that most children, spending at least two weeks away from home at summer camp, experience some form of homesickness. While this situation is usually mild, some campers may feel distress that can hinder or even bring to an end an otherwise positive camp experience. Fortunately, homesickness is something that campers can learn to cope with. The American Camp Association (ACA) offers the following advice on helping your child combat homesickness both before and after he or she has left for summer camp.

Foster excitement Positive camp preparation is vital. The best way to avoid homesickness at camp is to keep children excited about their camp experience from beginning to end. A child that participates in his or her camp decision-making process is likely to be more comfortable with the idea of spending time there. In addition, your attitude goes a long way. An optimistic parent will encourage his or her child to look forward to the camp experience. An anxious or nervous parent, on the other hand, will create similar feelings in his or her child; increasing the likelihood that child will develop homesickness.

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Encourage independence ACA encourages parents to arrange for their children to have “practice time” being away from home, such as visiting friends or family overnight to allow them the experience of sleeping somewhere else. Additionally, resist the temptation to arrange a “pick-up deal” in case your child should want to leave after the camp session begins. While you may see this as a safety net, it actually encourages your child to leave rather than urging him or her to enjoy the experience.

Remain positive What about a child who is dealing with homesickness after he or she has already arrived at camp? Most camps designate time for campers to call home, and even those who have a “no call” rule will allow campers and

parents to correspond through letters.

When communicating with your child, encourage him or her to stay positive and busy at camp. Remind kids that camp offers fun, physical activities that can surely take their mind off of home. It also provides a fantastic opportunity to make new friends and try new things they wouldn’t have if not for camp.

Resist the guilt Above all, you should never feel guilty about encouraging your child to stay at camp. If you have lingering concerns about how your child is doing, don’t hesitate to reach out to camp staff to inquire about your child’s adjustment. The staff is trained to keep kids comfortable and involved, and a little extra attention from counselors may be all a child needs to feel more secure in their new environment.

The American Camp Association® (ACA) works to preserve, promote and enhance the camp experience for children and adults. ACA-Accredited® camp programs ensure that children are provided with a diversity of educational and developmentally challenging learning opportunities. There are over 2,400 ACA-Accredited camps that meet up to 290 health and safety standards.

For more information, visit www.

ACAcamps.org.

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2015 Indy's child

SU M M E R C A M P G UI D E DAY CA MPS

Beth-El Zedeck Early Childhood Summer Camp 2015 600 W. 70th St., Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact:, Joanie Waldman, Phone: 317-259-6854, Email: jwaldman@bez613. org, www.bez613.org

Specific Categories: Traditional/OPEN TO THE PUBLIC Hours: Flexible hours. Half Days/Full Days.

Other Options available: Early drop off as early as 7:30 am and late pick up anytime up until 6:00 pm/5:30 pm on Fridays.

Dates: Session 1: June 1-26, Session 2: June 29-July 24 Ages/Grades: 12 mos.+, 18 mos.+, 2 yrs.+, 3 yrs.+, 4/5 yrs+ Cost: Call or email for full brochure.

Our Summer Program Jammin In The Jungle is OPEN TO THE PUBLIC! Weekly creative themes, arts and crafts, water fun at the Sidney & Lois Eskenazi Aquatic Complex for 3's, 4's and 5's. Water play for 12 months +, 18 months + and 2+. Music/Creative Movement, Entertainment, Field Trip Fridays for 4's and 5's. Our Program recognizes that children learn through play. Play fosters total development and should be interwoven in everything children do. During camp, children will experiment and explore by using all five senses. Our campers will thrive on creativity, exploration, discovery, spontaneity and lots of love!

Bricks 4 Kidz 11057 Allisonville Rd #299, Fishers, IN 46038, Contact: Bridget Stark, Phone: (317) 572-7357, Email: bbeltrame@ bricks4kidz.com, www.bricks4kidz.com

Gender of Campers: Co-ed Basic Category: Traditional, Specific Categories: Science and Engineering Special Needs Camps Offered: Can accommodate most special needs Hours: Half Day or Full Day Dates: Weekly, June- August Ages/Grades: ages 5 and up Cost: $150+ Activities Included: LEGO®-themed building and activities

Bricks 4 Kidz offers a variety of LEGO®themed camps that challenge, inspire, and entertain. Our camps offer unique creative play, motorized builds, and LEGO-based activities. Themes changes weekly to challenge every interest and skill level. See website for theme details. We Learn. We Build. We Play- with LEGO Bricks!

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Butler Community Arts School 4600 Sunset Avenue, Indianapolis, IN 46208, Phone: 317-940-5500, Email: bcas@butler.edu, www.butler.edu/bcas

Gender of Campers: Co-ed Type of Camp: Day AND Residential Specific Categories: Art, Music, and Theatre Hours: Varies by camp. See website for start times.

Dates: Camps run in June and July.

Ages/Grades: Ages 7-18 Cost: Varies by camp. See website for details.

Take advantage of multiple camps offered at the Butler Community Arts School, including: Arts, Bass, Jazz, Piano, Percussion, Strings, Snare/Tenor, Theatre, and Voice. Most camps serve ages 7-12 and 12-18, and offer commuter and residential options. With so many options, students are bound to find a camp that fits!

Camp Invention Locations in the greater Indianapolis area, Contact: Camp Invention, Phone: 800.968.4332, Email: campinvention@ invent.org, www.campinvention.org

Gender of Campers: Co-ed Basic Category: Traditional, Specific Categories: Science Enrichment Hours: 9:00 to 3:30 Times May Vary – Based on Location Dates: Varies per location, see our website for listings Ages/Grades: K-6 Cost: $225, discounts available

Led by local educators, the weeklong Camp Invention experience immerses elementary school children in hands-on activities that reinvent summer fun. Discounts are available! Visit www. campinvention.org or call 800.968.4332 for information!

Camp Mommawatchi (AtHome Camp Curriculum) Camp AYS Decatur Twp., Washington Twp., IPS, Noblesville, North West Hen, Indianapolis, IN, Contact: Christa Martini, Phone: 317-283-3817, http://www. ayskids.org

Gender of Campers: Co-ed Basic Category: Academic/Pre-college, Adventure/Tripping, Arts, Special Needs, Sports, Traditional, Special Needs Camps Offered: Inclusive camp Hours: 7am-6pm (times vary by site) Dates: End of May to end of July (varies by location) Ages/Grades: Children ages 3 years old to grade 6 (varies by location).

Cost: varies by location Activities Included: We offer a variety of adventures – science, environment, arts, and health and fun activities focused on weekly themes.

Camp AYS aims to help children enjoy new experiences, grow as individuals and build new friendships. Campers will have the opportunity to go on field trips, participate in small group activities and go swimming weekly. Arts and crafts, sports, science and nature activities will help children enjoy their summer in a safe, positive environment. Counselors are trained in child development, conflict resolution, teambuilding and safety, which includes CPR and first aid certification. Counselor-camper ratios allow for a variety of small group activities.

P.O. Box 5011, Zionsville, IN 46077, Email: mommaowl@campmommawatchi.com, www.campmommawatchi.com

Specific Categories: at-home camp Ages/Grades: preschool and elementary age children Cost: $24.95 for each camp curriculum purchase ($16.95 for digital only) Activities Included: Arts & Crafts, Games, Activities, Field Trips, Momma Time Activities

Camp Mommawatchi is an online retailer that specializes in at-home camp curriculum. Our curriculum allows moms to do camps at home with their preschool and grade school children. We currently have four themes - sports, the arts, secret agent and science. Each camp purchased comes with an instruction booklet and digital downloads - everything moms need to host their own camp.

Moms and kids will love all of the activities, games, crafts, recipes and field trips. Start a new, fun tradition this summer and make lasting memories with your little ones. Visit www. campmommawatchi.com. (Note: we are not a camp for kids to attend, but a camp for you to do yourself.)

The Children's House Summer Camp 2404 W. 62nd St., Indianapolis, IN 46268, Contact: Mary Sexson, Phone: 317-2533033, Email: childrens house08@gmail. com, www.the childrenshouse indianapolis.com

Gender of Campers: Co-ed

Basic Category: Traditional Hours: Camp Day 9-4; extended hours 7 am-5:45 pm Dates: 6/15/14 to 8/21/14 Ages/Grades: 3-12 Cost: $160/wk. Sibling discount and 5wk prepaid package discount available.

Requirements of Campers: Campers provide their own lunch; need to have a swimsuit, towel, pool shoes; good walking shoes needed for some field trips.

Activities Included: Art/theater/library reading program/field trips/swimming/ picnics/outside play/museums/ birdwatching/puppetry The Children's House Summer Day Camp provides weekly themed activities in a relaxing environment free of competition. Day Camp activities include arts and crafts, theater, puppetry, a writer's workshop, recreational swimming, field trips, reading, and outdoor games. Enrollment for the preschool camp is limited to 15 children, and the regular day camp enrollment is limited to 25 children.

Chinese Culture Camp IUPUI, Indianapolis, IN 46202, Contact: Noah Buonanno, Phone: 317-278-7900, Fax: 317-278-7919, Hours: 7:30am to 6:00pm, Email: ncbuonan@iupui.edu, www.iupui.edu/~china/courses/ summer-camp/

Gender of Campers: Co-ed Basic Category: Academic/Pre-college, Arts, Sports, Specific Categories: Chinese Culture Hours: 7:30am to 6:00pm Dates: June 22 - July 24 Ages/Grades: 5-13 years old Cost: $150/week; $625/5weeks; Pre/After Care $25 week; $15 material fee; Parking $13/week or $28/month Requirements of Campers: Bring own snack, lunch, backpack, notebook and pencil Activities Included: Chinese martial arts, language, calligraphy, crafts, sports & more For language learning, the younger the better.

To better prepare our children to learn the Chinese language, the Confucius Institute in Indianapolis offers a Chinese Culture summer day-camp for K-8 students. The camp is held on the IUPUI campus, and last for one to five weeks. Students will have a full curriculum of Chinese martial arts, language, calligraphy, crafts and sports and more. Classes are taught by local Chinese Teachers and Teaching Assistants from IUPUI.

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Cincinnati Reds Baseball/ Softball Camps Billericay Park: 12600-12883 Promise Rd, Fishers, IN 60555, Contact: Tim Rappe, Phone: 855-846-7337, Email: Trappe@ reds.com, www.reds.com/camps

Gender of Campers: Co-ed Basic Category: Sports Hours: 9a-3p; M-F Dates: Billericay Park in Fishers; 6/15-6/19, Ages/Grades: Ages 6-14 Cost: $395 Activities Included: VIP trip to Great American Ball Park, full Reds uniform (hat, jersey, belt, MLB-style pants), 4 game tickets, digital swing analysis.

Official Camps of the Reds. 30 hrs. of World Class baseball /softball training and unforgettable Reds experience. Meet a top player at GABP. 30 hrs. of instruction. Bring a buddy and save $25. Maybe the best baseball camp in America. Camps sold out last year so register early.

Eagle Care Day Camp 6401 East 75th Street, Indianapolis, In 46250, Contact: Carol Williamson, Phone: 317-849-3441, Fax: 594-5863, Email: eaglecare@heritagechristian.net, www.hcsconnect.net/community/ welcome.aspx

Gender of Campers: Co-ed Basic Category: Religious - Traditional, Specific Categories: Christian Day Camp Special Needs Camps Offered: None Hours: 7:30-9:00 Early Drop off, 9:00-3:30 Camp Programming 4:00-5:30 Extended Care available Dates: 6/1/15 through 7/31/15 Ages/Grades: 5-11 Cost: $150-$250 Requirements of Campers: Bring a lunch, swim suit, beach towel, sun screen, tennis shoes Activities Included: Academic Enrichment, Hands on Experiments, Crafts, Daily Bible Devotions, Fun/ Silly Games, Outdoor Play Eagle Care Day Camp will again be offered for the summer of 2015 with a new addition call Camp Invention. Our day camps are designed to teach kids entering K-5 healthy living habits, keep them active, stimulate their minds, and learn about Jesus. With a different theme each week, 6 day camps will be offered through-out the summer on the Heritage Christian School campus. June 1-5 Detectives in Training, June 8-12 Fairy Tale/Superhero Week, June 15-19 Lego Week, June 22-26 Let's Join the Circus, July 6-10 Beach Party, July 13-17 Spring Hill, July 20-24 Camp Invention, July 27-31 Wild Wild West.

Freetown Village 4601 N. Emerson Ave., Indianapolis, IN 46226, Contact: Miriam Umar, Phone: 631-1870, Fax: 317-631-0224, Email: marriam@freetownvillage.org, www.freetownvillage.org

Gender of Campers: Co-ed

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Basic Category: Academic/Pre-college, Arts, Traditional, Specific Categories: Enrichment Hours: 8:00 a.m. - 5:30 p.m.

Dates: June 8 - July 24, 2015 Ages/Grades: 5 - 14 (K - 8th) Cost: $75.00/week Requirements of Campers: Must bring own sack lunch.

Activities Included: Academic enrichment (language arts/social studies/math), theater (with Asante Children's Theater), art & crafts, team building, manners & etiquette, gardening & nutrition, weekly field trips.

Seven weekly sessions of learning and fun! Our camp fosters discovery, appreciation of the arts, and personal growth. Highlighting African American history and culture, campers will develop a stronger sense of purpose, while learning about themselves and their community. Each week ends with a performance showcase of the activities.

Girl Scouts of Central Indiana, Camp Dellwood 2301 North Girls School Road, Indianapolis, IN 46214, Contact: Diana Keely, Phone: 317-924-6800, Email: girlscouts@girlscoutsindiana.org, www.girlscouts indiana.org

Gender of Campers: All-Girl Dates: Day camp runs each week from June 8 - July 24.

Ages/Grades: Grades K-7 Cost: $110-140

Sample the arts, discover the wonders of the outdoors, play games, experiment with science and technology, make new friends and lasting memories. And for one night, you'll camp out under the stars. Girls who are not Girl Scouts may register to attend. Financial assistance available.

Herron School of Art & Design Creativity Camps 735 W. New York St., Indianapolis, IN 46202, Contact: Jodie Bailey, Phone: 317-278-9404, Email: sschool@iupui.edu, www.HerronCommunity.org

Gender of Campers: Co-ed Basic Category: Arts, Specific Categories: Creativity, Arts & Academic Enrichment, Special Needs Camps Offered: Can accommodate some special needs Hours: 8:30 a.m. - 4:30 p.m.

Dates: June 15-19, June 22-26, July 6-10, July 13-17 Ages/Grades: Grades 2 to 10 Cost: $300 per week per child Requirements of Campers: Must bring own lunch.

Activities Included: Field trips to nearby museums and the White River State Park Herron’s creativity camps are for kids who like to explore, discover, and make things with their hands. If they can THINK IT, they can

MAKE IT. Camps are designed to seed inspiration, foster curiosity, and channel enthusiasm, turning the wonder of children’s imagination into objects of invention and creativity.

Indianapolis Children's Choir 4600 Sunset Ave., Indianapolis, IN 46208, Contact: Lauren Southard, Phone: 317-940-8065, Hours: 9am - 4pm, Email: lashby@icchoir.org, www.icchoir.org/summercamp

Gender of Campers: Co-ed Basic Category: After School Programs, Arts Specific Categories: Music, Singing, Arts, Instruments Special Needs Camps Offered: Yes (Specific Dates) Hours: 9am-4pm Dates: June 15-19, July 20-24 Ages/Grades: Grades 3 - 8 Cost: $185 Requirements of Campers: Loves to sing!

Activities Included: Singing, Playing Instruments

Does your child love to sing? Join us for the annual Indianapolis Children's Choir Summer Choral Fest! Half day and all day sessions are available for children going into the 3rd-8th grades next school year (2014-2015). Camp runs June 16th-21st or June 21st-25th. For more information and to register, please visit www.icchoir.org/summercamp or contact Lauren Southard at lsouthar@icchoir.org or 940-8065.

Hours: 7am - 5:30pm Dates: Camps on weekly basis from June 2 - August 8 Ages/Grades: Summer Day Camps & Enrichment Camps 5 – 12 yo; Sports Camps 8 – 18 yo Cost: Summer Day Camp $195/wk IUPUI Summer Day Camp, Enrichment Camps and Sports Camps run for ten weeks beginning June 2 through August 8. With 28 yrs. of experience, Summer Day Camp offers children ages 5 – 12 y.o. an opportunity to explore different sports and enrichment activities taught in a safe, non-competitive environment.

Kidzart 9351 E 300 S, Oxford, IN 47971, Contact: Tamara Cox, Phone: 317-625-2973, Email: tcox@kidzart.com, www. westcentralin.kidzart.com

Dates: June 15 - July 20. See website for listings Ages/Grades: ages 4-6 preschool camp, 6-12 KidzArt camp Cost: $135 - $190

Get creative, explore, experiment & have tons of fun creating artwork with many media forms such as paint, watercolor, collage, sculpture, acrylic on canvas & much more! Our unique art camp encourages each camper to work to their personal ability with a fun & interactive format.

Preschool camps themes(age 4-6): Pirates & Princesses and Doodle Bugs & Painted Flowers.

KidzArt themes(age 6-12): Water Adventure & Mixed Media to the Max. Art show each Friday.

All supplies included.

Indy Tech Kids Phone: (317) 721-1538, Email: enrollment@indytechkids.com, www.indytechkids.com

Dates: Saturday Summer Workshops starting May 16, 2015 Ages/Grades: Ages 9-13 Cost: $99 Indy Tech Kids uses engaging, hands-on activities to teach kids that technology is a medium with which they can create. Using the best tools available, kids learn skills and fundamental concepts that translate directly to the real worldfostering interests that can turn into hobbies and translate into careers.

IUPUI Summer Day Camp, Enrichment Camps & Sports Camps 901 West New York Street, Indianapolis, IN 46202, Contact: Beth Tharp, Phone: 317-278-3727, Hours: 7am - 5:30pm, Email: tharpe@iupui.edu, www.camps. iupui.edu

Gender of Campers: Co-ed Basic Category: Academic/Pre-college, Sports, Specific Categories: Sports, crafts, backyard games, music, arts, enrichment subjects (languages, science, STEM focused)

MMA Summer Camps 204 North Grand Street, Mexico, MO 65265, Contact: Marc Wilson, Phone: 573-581-1776, www.missouri militaryacademy.com

Gender of Campers: All-Boy Type of Camp: Day AND Residential Basic Category: Academic/Pre-college, Sports, Traditional Dates: 6/21-7-3, 6-21-7/17, 7/6-7/18, 7/12-7/18 Ages/Grades: 8-11, 11-17, rising seniors and rising juniors, High school and 7th & 8th grades Cost: $700, $960, $1,500, $2,000, $3,750 Requirements of Campers: Physical and immunizations, if applicable transcript Activities Included: Paint ball, wall climbing, marksmanship, academics, swimming, young journalist workship, ACT/SAT bootcamp ACT/SAT Boot Camp 6/21-7/3 co-ed; Summer Academy 6/21-7/17; Leadership Camp 7/3-7/18; Confidence Camp 7/3-7/12 and or 7/12-7/18; Young Journalist Workshop 7/12-7/17 (co-ed)

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MYART Locations: 622 S. Rangeline, Carmel /12244 E. 116th St., Fishers /39 North 10th St., Noblesville/80 W. Pine St., Zionsville, Contact: Sylvia Runningen, Carmel, Fishers, Noblesville 317-443-6831or sylvia@ myartindy.com Barb Hegeman, Zionsville 317-774-3729 (DRAW) or barb@myartindy. com, www.myartindy.com

Gender of Campers: Co-ed Basic Category: Arts Hours: Weekly camps: Mon-Thurs (9:30am-12:00pm) and Friday one day camps (9:00am-12:00pm) Cost: $140 and includes all art supplies (Friday camps $40)

Myart offers weekly and one day summer art camps for ages 5 and up. Students learn drawing and painting techniques to create amazing art all centered on a specific theme.

Weekly camps include Cartooning, Wild Animals, Pets, Fantasy, Alaska, Desert, and Under the Sea. One day camps include Horses, Little Pony. Ninja Turtles & Pokemon.

Campers work in a variety of media, including markers, oil and chalk pastels, watercolor, and acrylics on canvas. Every year we offer brand new projects so returning campers are always creating something new and fun!

The Orchard School 615 W. 64th St. jgailey@orchard.org, Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Jane Gailey /Summer Camp Manager, Phone: 317-713-5702, Fax: 317-713-5702, Email: jgailey@orchard.org, www.orchard.org

Gender of Campers: Co-ed Type of Camp: Day, full or half Basic Category: Arts, Sports, Traditional, Specific Categories: academics, sports, science, canoeing, cooking, drama, hiking, sewing, sports, great outdoors Hours: 7am-6pm Dates: June 1-July 24 Ages/Grades: ages 3 - 8th grade Cost: $140- $220 Requirements of Campers: none Activities Included: varied

Orchard Summer camp is an opportunity to play, meet new friends and take part in camps that meet your interests. We offer before and after care as well as a special early childhood program for 3-5 year olds. Orchard summer camps offer sports, cooking, drama, arts, hiking, camping, music and academics.

Explore what we have to offer and find a passion of your own.

Prep at Brebeuf 2801 W 86th St, Indianapolis, IN 46268, Contact: Hadley Moore, Phone: 317-524-7010, Email: prep@brebeuf.org, https://brebeuf.org

Gender of Campers: Co-ed Basic Category: Academic/Pre-college, Arts, Sports, Specific Categories: Arts, Science, Literature, Performance, Popular

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Culture, History, Athletics Hours: 9am-12pm, 1pm-4pm or 8am - 5pm Dates: June 9-13, June 16-20 Ages/Grades: Grades 5,6,7, and 8 Cost: $130 - $190 Requirements of Campers: Some materials may be requested Activities Included: Potential for field trips, outdoor activities, performances, cross-cultural learning experiences, instruction by elite faculty members Prep at Brebeuf is a middle-school summer engagement program that will introduce our outstanding Brebeuf offerings and faculty to a younger crowd. These summer workshops will provide middle-school students with engaging activities and experiences to enhance their summer vacation. Before and after care will be available.

Primrose School at WestClay 13096 Moultrie St, Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Kendra Dunagan, Phone: 317-873-0123, Email: kdunagan@ primrosewestclay.com, www.primrose westclay.com

Special Needs Camps Offered: Yes (During everyday camps) Dates: June - August Weekly Themed Camps Ages/Grades: 4 years - 10 years Cost: $100 - $275 - varies on camp/ days

Your child will love each unique themed camp week such as: adventures of the culinary, film productions, sports week, deserted island exploration of hidden treasures, a travel back in time, great inventions including their own, medieval fun, aquatics and much more! Field trips galore!

Primrose School at Bridgewater

Stony Creek Swim Center

14711 N Gray Rd, Noblesville, IN 46062, Contact: Nikki Knott, Phone: 317-848-0123, Email: nknott@primrosebridgewater.com, www.primrosebridgewater.com

15550 Stony Creek Way, Noblesville, IN 46060, Contact: Kim Walters, Phone: (317) 773-7399, Email: kim@stonycreek swimcenter.com, http://stonycreek swimcenter.com/programs/summercamps/

Special Needs Camps Offered: Yes (During everyday camps) Dates: June - August Weekly Themed Camps Ages/Grades: 4 years - 10 years Cost: $100 - $275 - varies on camp and days

Your child will love each unique themed camp week such as: adventures of the culinary, film productions, sports week, deserted island exploration of hidden treasures, a travel back in time, great inventions including their own, medieval fun, aquatics and much more! Field trips galore!

Primrose School of West Carmel 3746 W. 96th Street, Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Kelly Spelman, Phone: 317-876-0123, Email: kspelman@ primrose westcarmel.com, www. primrose westcarmel.com

Gender of Campers: Co-ed Basic Category: Arts, Special Needs Camps Offered: Yes (During everyday camps) Dates: June - August Weekly Themed Camps Ages/Grades: 4 years - 10 years Cost: $100 - $275 - varies on camp/ days

Your child will love each unique themed camp week such as: adventures of the culinary, film productions, sports week, deserted island exploration of hidden treasures, a travel back in time, great inventions including their own, medieval fun, aquatics and much more! Field trips galore!

Gender of Campers: Co-ed Basic Category: Arts, Sports Specific Categories: Daily swimming, arts, crafts Hours: 9AM-4PM Dates: 6/8-7/31 Ages/Grades: 4-13 Cost: $225 Each camp has activities and adventures structured around unique, specific themes.

Activities will include sports, crafts, swimming, and water safety. Every day campers will have a swimming lesson and each week campers will have a field trip or an adventure that ties into the theme for that week.

SullivanMunce Summer Art Camps 2015 205-225 West Hawthorne Street, Zionsville, IN 46077, Contact: Cynthia Young, Phone: 317-873-4900, Email: cynthiayoung@sullivanmunce.org, www.sullivanmunce.org

Gender of Campers: Co-ed Basic Category: Arts Hours: 9 am - 5 pm and 2:30 pm - 5 pm Dates: June, July, August Ages/Grades: 4-6; 7-11 and Teen Cost: $80-$350 Requirements of Campers: Full Day Campers Bring Sack Lunch Activities Included: Art, Drama, Science, Ceramics Looking for a fun and unique experience for your kids during summer break? At the SullivanMunce Cultural Center children will gain experience working with a variety of art

materials while learning about famous artists.

Drawing, painting, sculpture, clay, mixed media, drama and more!

TP Kiddie Academy 4501 N Post Rd., Indianapolis, IN 46226, Contact: Katrina Jones, Phone: 317-898-4420, Fax: 317-898-4423, Email: kjones@tpschoolsindy.com, www.tpschools indy.com

Gender of Campers: Co-ed Basic Category: Academic/Pre-college, Adventure/Tripping, Animals, Arts, Religious - Traditional, Specific Categories: Christian Summer Camp Hours: 6am-6pm Dates: June 8- July 25 Ages/Grades: 3-12 year old Cost: Preschool- $130 a week K-6th grade- $90 a week plus activity fees Requirements of Campers: All campers must have current immunization records, completed physical from, and signed discipline policy to accompany registration Activities Included: All Activities.

TP Kiddie Academy is a Registered Ministry of Turning Point Family Worship Center. We strive to provide a fun, affordable, and safe Christian childcare program throughout the summer for children ages 3-12 years old. We offer summer learning enrichment for all campers daily. Our staff will focus on character development, Christian morals, and values; all while having an exciting line up of age appropriate activities, arts and crafts, indoor/outdoor games, field trips, and much more weekly.

University of Indianapolis Day Camp 1400 E. Hanna Ave., Indianapolis, IN 46227, Contact: Terri Reinhardt, Phone: 317-788-6164, Email: treinhardt@uindy. edu, www.uindy.edu/summer

Gender of Campers: Co-ed

UIndy summer day camps offer programs for youth ranging in age from elementary to high school. Students improve skills, make new friends, and get a glimpse of college life.

Choose from music, volleyball, theatre, creative writing, and professional development, and lots more.

Wolf Adventures Camp at Saints Francis & Clare 5901 Olive Branch Road, Greenwood, IN 46143, Contact: Emily Reynolds, Phone: 317-215-2826, Email: ereynolds@ ss-fc.org, www.ss-fc.org/camp

Gender of Campers: Co-ed Special Needs Camps Offered: Yes (During everyday camps) Dates: Mud Madness (6/8-6/12); Amazing Animal Adventures (6/15-6/19); Harry Potter (6/22-6/26); Made in America (6/29-7/3); Around the World in 5 Days

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(7/6-7/10); Rube Goldberg (7/13-7/17); Just Dance (7/20-7/24); Sports of all Sorts (7/27-7/31) Ages/Grades: Preschool - 8th Grade Cost: $165 Open to Preschool-8th Grade: 8 themed week long camps starting June 8.Flexible Scheduling and Pool Days Available.

Indianapolis area and surrounding counties.

Campers range in age from 3 to 15! We have something for everyone! Join us for the Best Summer Ever! (Indianapolis, Greenwood, Fishers, Lebanon, Sheridan, Avon, Greenfield)

esteem as you join campers and staff from around the country and the world in a camp family where all kids are Accepted, Challenged, Empowered. ALL new cabins. New Yurts for Wrangler and Dirt-bike camps.

OV E R N IGH T C A MP S

Camp Lakeview/ Lakeview Villages

Camp Carson YMCA YMCA of Greater Indianapolis 615 N. Alabama Street, Suite 400, Indianapolis, IN 46204, Contact: Jennie Broady, Phone: 317-484-9622, Email: daycamp@indymca.org, www.indymca.org

2034 Outer Lake Road, Princeton, IN 47670, Contact: Mark Scoular. Phone: 812-3853597, Email: campinfo@ymcacampcarson. org, www.camp carson.org

Gender of Campers: Co-ed Basic Category: Adventure/Tripping, Arts, Sports, Traditional, Specific Categories: Traditional, Sports, Enrichment Hours: 6:30 AM to 6 PM Dates: May 27 - Aug 7 Ages/Grades: ages 3-15 Cost: $99-$400 Requirements of Campers: 3-15 Activities Included: Hiking, Canoeing, Archery, Candle Making, OLS, Environmental Education, Crafts, Drama, Sports, Group Games, Teambuilding, Leadership, and more!

Gender of Campers: Co-ed Basic Category: Traditional, Specific Categories: Traditional, plus horseback and dirt-bike camps, Special Needs Camps Offered: Type 1 Diabates, also free weeks of camp focused specifically on our military families.

Hours: Week long residential Sun 1pm - Fri 7pm Dates: June and July Ages/Grades: 7-16 Cost: Ranges from $500-$625 plus add on fee for horses, dirtbikes, weekend trips Activities Included: Canoeing, Kayaking, Sailing, Fishing, Waterziplines, Blob, Waterslides, swimming, etc and on land - horseback, dirt-bikes, archery, riflery, mtn boards, mtn bikes, climbing, athletics, soccer, crafts, pottery, nature studies, radio, drumming, woodworking, & more

The YMCA of Greater Indianapolis Day Camp Program has over 25 locations in the Greater

Fly from the zipline, create a clay pot, ride horses or dirt-bikes. Build your confidence and self-

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13500 W Lake Rd, Seymour, IN 47274, Contact: Tom Franke, Phone: 812-342-4815, Email: office@camplakeview.com, www.camplakeview.com

Ages/Grades: Grades 4-12 Cost: $185-350 Resident camp is an experience filled with excitement, delight, laughter, and friendship.

Camp sessions include horseback riding opportunities, themes like moonlight mischief, coaster crazy, care and keeping of magical creatures, splendid spelunking, and surf divas.

Girls who are not Girl Scouts may register to attend. Financial assistance available.

Gender of Campers: Co-ed Dates: Weekend and week long camp sessions offered in both June and July Ages/Grades: K-12 Cost: $295 / Week; $50 / Weekend

University of Indianapolis

The best value in Christian camping. We exist to provide a Christian experience of growth, inspiration, and recreation, for people of all ages through a year-round outdoor ministry.

UIndy summer overnight camps offer programs for youth ranging in age from elementary to high school. Students improve skills, make new friends, and get a glimpse of college life. Choose from music, volleyball, theatre, creative writing, and professional development, and lots more.

1400 E. Hanna Ave., Indianapolis, IN 46227, Contact: Terri Reinhardt, Phone: 317-788-6164, Email: treinhardt@uindy. edu, www.uindy.edu/summer

Girl Scouts of Central Indiana, Camp Gallahue 6758 N Bear Creek Rd, Morgantown, IN 46160, Contact: Diana Keely, Phone: 317-924-6800, Email: girlscouts@ girlscoutsindiana.org, www.girl scoutsindiana.org

Gender of Campers: All-Girl Dates: Each week from June 7 - July 24

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A RO UN D TOWN

More Than the Race

Meg Wynne

Take part in all the family-friendly activities at this year’s 500 event This May, the Indy 500 and Indianapolis Motor Speedway have plenty of fun-filled activities the whole family will enjoy!

The Second Annual Angie’s List Grand Prix of Indianapolis happens May 9, with activities such as camping, viewing mounds and the chance to cheer on your favorite drivers! Qualification tickets start at $20 and General Admission tickets for race day on May 9 start at $25. (Practice on May 7 is free!) Combo tickets may also be purchased for both Friday and Saturday for $41 – one of the best deals offered.

The free Kids Zone is open all through May, and will be full of dancing, crafts, prizes and many more fun activities. The Kids Zone also includes participation in the IMS Lost Kids Program. Parents can fill out a wristband that will enable a member of the Safety Patrol to reunite any lost children with their family.

Glamping is another opportunity available this May allowing fans to get into the race spirit in a fun way. Families are invited to sleep in the middle of the

Indianapolis Motor Speedway in style over race weekend, May 21-25. A limited number of high quality weatherproof set-up tents will be available to rent.

Be sure and check out the awesome concert opportunities during the Indy 500

as well. One of the most family friendly shows this year is Legends Day Honoring Al Unser presented by Firestone on May 23. This country concert features musical act Florida Georgia Line, with special guests Thomas Rhett and Frankie Ballard.

This year’s Indy 500 is sure to be a blast for all families attending!

For schedules and information on all events visit www.ims.com.

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C O M M E N TA R Y & PA R E N T I N G

Ask the Teacher ADD, internet safety, introverted kids Deb Krupowicz

Q:

When my husband and I went to our son’s spring conference, his teacher said that she thought my son had ADD. I just do not see the busyness in him that I associate with that. Should I have my son tested?

A:

We tend to use the acronym ADD to refer to all attention problems.

However, while Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) and Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) both result in a child’s struggle to attend to a task, they each manifest themselves differently. A student with ADD often operates under the radar because he tends to be quiet and get lost in thought; he may appear to just “zone out.” ADHD is more obvious, as the child struggles to sit still or even to stay seated at all. If he stays seated, he may be fidgety and easily distracted by anything and everything.

To have a solid understanding of what is happening with your son, ask his teacher to elaborate specifically on what she is seeing in class. Is there a predictable time of day when she observes the behaviors she describes? Can he focus better in the morning or in the afternoon, or does he struggle all day? Ask the teacher to have a counselor or special education professional observe your son for a block of time and record everything he does so that you can see beyond the generalization offered by the teacher.

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Ask what strategies have been used to help encourage his attention.

Simple things like changing where your son’s desk is relative to the teacher’s point of instruction or implementing a behavior plan with specific steps to achieve appropriate goals should be attempted before concluding that a disorder might be present.

If the problem persists after changes like these have been made, talk to your pediatrician. After a checklist evaluation is completed by you and his teacher, the pediatrician can determine an appropriate course of action and whether or not a disorder is indicated.

Q:

I see lots of references to teaching kids about internet safety, but I am reluctant to frighten my kids unnecessarily. How do I help them be safe without making them scared?

A:

Teaching internet safety is just as important as teaching children to cross the street safely. Walking into traffic without looking will have horrible consequences; navigating the internet naively can as well.

For the games and activities that you have set up for your young children, an explanation of safety precautions isn’t necessary. However, once kids begin to search the internet

Exposure to inappropriate material is a very real danger. Risking your child’s innocence is serious. Accidental exposure can lead the most responsible 10 or 12 year old to pornographic material. The importance of this threat cannot be overemphasized. Use filters and blocks and keep all computers and phones in high traffic areas where you can monitor activity.

Q:

My second grade daughter is so introverted. She is just unable to make friends. What can I do to help her? independently, they must be aware of the potential danger they are exposed to.

Children must understand that they should never put personal information such as an address, phone number or email contact on a website. Explaining why this is dangerous is just as important as explaining why a child

should not approach the car of a stranger offering candy.

Discuss the issue of cyberbullying at length. Talk about how typed words can be understood differently than what was intended, and explain the lasting nature of published thoughts. Even the quietest child can find power behind a keyboard and screen.

A:

If a child’s introversion makes her uncomfortable or unhappy, it’s time to step in.

Sometimes a quiet child can be overwhelmed by outgoing children or a large number of kids and may not be aware of someone else with a similar disposition or interests as her own.

Begin by asking the teacher to recommend a few girls from the class

who she thinks would be compatible with your daughter. Have her choose someone she would look forward to seeing.

When the classmate comes, start the playdate with an activity in which you are involved – play a board game, do a craft or bake cookies for example. You will be able to help the girls start conversations and get to know one another. This will nudge them along to playing independently without you.

If your daughter is more content on her own than with others, consider reading Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking by Susan Cain. This book will give you a new understanding and appreciation for this special personality.

[ A sk the T eacher ] is written by Deb

Krupowicz, a mother of four and current teacher.

Deb holds a Master’s degree in Curriculum and Instruction and has over twenty years of experience teaching preschool, elementary and middle school students. Please send your questions to her at asktheteacher@ indyschild.com.

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E D U C AT I O N R E S O U R C E S

E D U C AT I O N A N D CHILDCARE GUIDE [SCHOOLS & EDUCATION] carmel Carmel Montessori Schools, Inc. Carmel Montessori School is located on the beautiful campus at St. Christopher’s Church on the NE corner of Main St. and Meridian in Carmel. Our directress is American Montessori Certified with 16 years head-teaching experience. We offer a beautiful, peaceful and positive Montessori learning environment. Extended days available.

1402 W. Main St., Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Emily & Scott Rudicel, Phone: 317-580-0699, Email: info@carmelmontessori. com, carmelmontessori.com

fishers Fall Creek Montessori Academy Fall Creek Montessori Academy is a culturally diverse environment where children grow and develop their unique talents and gifts. Through child-centered learning, children excel physically, academically and emotionally. Conveniently located one mile east of I-69 on 96th St. FCMA serves children at all levels. Programs are available two to five days per week.

8888 Fitness Ln, Fishers, IN 46037, Contact: Diana Brugh, Phone: (317) 436-8606, Email: diana@fallcreekmontessori.com, www.fallcreekmontessori.com

Fishers Montessori Clay Montessori A Montessori school offering morning, afternoon, and full-day programs. Available for ages 3-6 years old. Call for more information. (Affiliated with Fisher’s Montessori) 463 East Main St., Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Peggy White, 317-849-9519 or 317-580-1850

Maria Montessori International Academy (Carmel) “Can your 4 year old read this?” OURS CAN! Come discover why our programs are so successful that our kindergartens are in advance reading and math in first grade at both Zionsville and Carmel Public Schools! The program offers education for infants, toddlers, Pre-K, kindergarten, and elementary across subjects, even for very young children, including math, science, Spanish, art and music, as well as reading and writing. 3500 106th St. & Shelborne (Holy Trinity Orthodox Greek Church), Carmel, IN 46032, Phone: 317-769-2220, Cost/Tuition: please call, www.maria

montessori-intl.org

Minds-in-Motion, Inc. Minds-in-Motion is a brain-training program based on NASA technology. It utilizes a unique blend of balance exercises, gymnastics and applied technology, all focused on strengthening the brains ability to process and organize information. Minds-inMotion builds stronger bodies and smarter minds! 879 West

Carmel Drive, Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Candace Meyer, Phone: 317-571-8752, Hours: 10-week Fall, Winter & Spring sessions + 4-week Intensive Summer, Email: info@ mimlearning.com, www.mimLearning.com, Hours/Dates: 10-week Fall, Winter & Spring sessions + 4-week Intensive Summer Sessions, Ages/Grades: 3-18

Starting Line Preschool The Right Start for A Lifelong Love of Learning! Our strong academic-based curriculum prepares and encourages your child to succeed in school while discoving learning is fun! * Develop Social Awareness & Friendships, Build Confidence and Master Academic Skills for Kindergarten. All of our classes focus on an introduction to colors, number and letters with exciting art and science projects.

Math, social studies and sight words are taught in the older classes.

110 Third Ave NE, Carmel, IN 46032. Contact: Diane Atkins.

Phone: 317-753-9397. Email: dkatkins22@msn.com, www.startinglinepreschool.com

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A quality learning environment offering preschool, kindergarten and elementary. Certification through American Montessori Society. 12806 Ford Rd and 131st and Allisonville Rd., Fishers, IN 46038, Contact: Peggy White, 317-849-9519 or 317-580-1850

indianapolis // north Beth-El Zedeck Early Childhood Center OPEN TO THE PUBLIC. Full Academic Curriculum and Innovative ArtsEnrichment. Our Program recognizes that intellectual, social, emotional and physical development are interwoven. Our children will thrive on exploration, creativity, curiosity, discovery, spontaneity and more important, lots of love!

Type of School: Early Childhood Cost/Tuition: Please call or email for full brochure Hours/Dates: Flexible Hours. Full Time/Part-Time available. Ages/Grades: 12 months old+, 18 months old+, 2s+, 3s+, 4s+, Pre-Kindergarten (Kindergarten Readiness Class)(3 day or 5 day option) Before/After School Care: Before and After School Care always available as needed. Early drop off as early as 7:30 am and late pick up anytime up until 6:00pm/5:30 pm on Fridays. 600 W. 70th St., Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Joanie Waldman, Phone: 317-259-6854, Fax: 317-259-6849, Email: jwaldman@bez613.org, www.bez613.org

Brebeuf Jesuit Preparatory School You are invited to visit the only Catholic Jesuit school in the state of Indiana that has been educating students in the Jesuit tradition for more than 50 years. Brebeuf Jesuit’s Mission Statement: Brebeuf Jesuit, a Catholic and Jesuit school, provides an excellent college preparatory education for a lifetime of service by forming leaders who are intellectually competent, open to growth, loving, religious and committed to promoting justice. Fostering a culture of understanding and dialogue, Brebeuf Jesuit seeks and welcomes students from diverse religious, ethnic and socioeconomic backgrounds. Students at Brebeuf Jesuit are called to discover and cultivate the fullness of their God-given talents as a responsibility and as an act of worship. CORE VALUES: Education of the Whole Person, A Caring and Diverse Community, The Greater Glory of God. 2801 W 86th St, Indianapolis, IN 46268. Contact: Liz Otteson, Director of Admissions. Phone: 317-524-7090. Email: admissions@brebeuf. org, www.brebeuf.org

Children’s Circle Preschool at Second Presbyterian Church Children’s Circle Preschool is a developmentally appropriate, activity based, Christian preschool. We offer classes for children ages 9 months to 5 years old. We meet the needs of the whole child in a creative and loving environment. Our experienced staff embraces excellence in education by nurturing the whole childphysically, emotionally, spiritually, and intellectually. Please call for more information or to set up a tour. 7700 N. Meridian St., Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Cara Paul, Director, 317-2525517, cpaul@secondchurch.org, www.childrenscircle.org

Children’s Day In Nursery School and Traditional Preschool

The Children's Day In Nursery School is a fully inclusive early childhood program with an emphasis on Christian values. It is designed to offer children ages 9 months to 3 years a positive and developmentally appropriate experience in the care of experienced caregivers. We play and learn! Classes are offered weekdays from 9 am to 2:30 pm. The Children's Day In Traditional Preschool program provides a quality developmentally appropriate education for 3, 4 and 5 year olds.

Our program includes weekly Christian Life Skills, First Steps in Music (ICC) and Book Club. Summer Camp CDI is our 4-week summer program for children ages 9 months to age 5 years.

Classes are offered on Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. Summer Camp CDI runs the month of June.

Please call, E-mail or visit for further information and registration forms. 5500 N. Meridian St., Indianapolis, IN 46208, Contact: Christy Whaley, Phone: 317-253-0472, cwhaley@meridianstreet. org, www.meridianstreet.org

The Children's House, INC The Children's House was founded in 1971 to provide a classical education through individual instruction. In an atmosphere free of competition, the child can discover her or his own unique talents on the way to becoming a self-actualized person. 2404 W. 62nd St., Indianapolis, IN 46268, Contact: Mary Sexson, Phone: 317-253-3033, Email: childrenshouse08@gmail.com, www.thechildrens houseindianapolis.com, Hours/Dates: 9 am to 3 pm (Extended care available), School Year: September through May, Summer Camp: June 15th through August 21st, Ages/Grades: Preschool through 8th Grade

Early Childhood Center, The Church at the Crossing Our Mothers Day Out (12-35 mos) and Preschool (3 yrs-PreK’s) programs provide relaxed, playful, secure environments that nurture creativity and encourage the exploration of God’s world, with a wide variety of learning materials & readiness skills woven through each unit. Need longer hours? Try our child care ministry, The Neighborhood, designed for 16 mos-PreK. 9111 N. Haverstick Rd., Indianapolis, IN 46240, Contact: John Drake or Kelly Belt, Phone: 317-575-6508, Fax: 317-575-6509, Email: jdrake@golove.org or kbelt@golove.org

Heritage Christian School Established in 1965, accredited through ACSI and NCA, HCS is the choice in college preparatory discipleship Christian education for 1,400 students each year grades Prep K-12. Advanced , Honors and AP classes. Full Fine Arts and 2A IHSAA ATHLETICS . HCS is training up the next generation of Christian leaders through challenging, Biblically taught curriculum including internships and service to others. Bus transportation available. Schedule a tour today! 6401 E. 75th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46250. Contact: Angela Proctor, Director of Admissions, 317-849-3441, Admissions@ heritagechristian.net, www.heritagechristian.net

Maria Montessori International Academy (INDIANAPOLIS) “Can your 4 year old read this?” OURS CAN! Come discover why our programs are so successful that our kindergartens are in advance reading and math in first grade at both Zionsville and Carmel Public Schools! The program offers education for infants, toddlers, Pre-K, kindergarten, and elementary across subjects, even for very young children, including math, science, Spanish, art and music, as well as reading and writing. 7507 N. Michigan Road, Indianapolis, IN 46268, Phone: 317-291-5557, Cost/ Tuition: please call, www.mariamontessori-intl.org

curriculum, three world languages, public speaking and leadership opportunities, a strong fine arts program and organized athletics for continued lifetime success. Our newly redesigned Early Childhood Program uses brain-based research and proven instructional practices that lay the foundation in math and literacy skills. The program features unique field experiences, community partnerships, year-round offerings, and a full-day curriculum along with part-time options. 33 E. 33rd Street, Indianapolis, IN 46205, Contact: Abby Williams, Director of Admission and Communications, 317-926-0425 x134, Fax: 317-921-3367, awilliams@strichardsschool.org, www.strichardsschool.org

Montessori Centres

Sycamore School

Peace and respect for all is our main goal. Montessori Centres has worked with children to develop critical-thinking and time-management skills since 1966. Montessori-certified lead teachers serve children aged 3-3rd grade. Classroom structure and materials allow children to be self-directed and self-paced.

Our well-rounded curriculum includes French and Spanish, art, science, computer skills, grace and courtesy, social studies, nature and outdoor gardening. 563 West Westfield Blvd., Indianapolis, IN 46208, Contact: Lynn Boone, Director, Phone: 317-257-2224, Fax: 317-257-3034, Email: montessoricentres@ sbcglobal.net, www.montessoricentres.com/

The Orchard School

At Sycamore, teachers trained in gifted education deliver a curriculum designed to challenge and engage gifted learners. Art, music, Spanish, PE and technology are taught at all levels.

Extensive field trips, athletics, child care, financial aid, and a wide variety of after school activities are offered. 1750 W. 64th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Dr. Susan Karpicke, Director of Admissions. 317-202-2500, Fax: 317-202-2501, skarpicke@ sycamoreschool.org, www.sycamoreschool.org

indianapolis // northeast Metropolitan School District of Lawrence Township

The Orchard School, an independent, non-sectarian, progressive school, emphasizing experiential learning. Orchard teachers engage the natural curiosity of children, develop academic excellence, and provide leadership experience through well-rounded education. Orchard’s diverse community and commitment to multicultural education inspires responsible, global citizenship. Founded in 1922. NAIS, ISACS, NAEYS accredited. 615 W. 64th St., Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Kristen Hein, Director of Admissions, Phone: 317-713-5705, Fax: 317-254-8454, Email: khein@orchard.org, www.orchard.org

An “A” District, Lawrence Township offers a superior and diverse education pre-school through grade 12. Early Learning Centers appeal to the curiosity of the young child. Elementary schools provide strong academic foundations and progressive magnet foci.

Secondary schools implement 1:1 technology and a growing list of rigorous courses and extracurricular activities. 6501 Sunnyside Road, Indianapolis, 46236, Contact: Welcome Center, Phone: 317-423-8200, Email: magnet@msdlt.k12.in.us, www.ltschools.org

PARAMOUNT SCHOOL OF EXCELLENCE

Polly Panda provides a safe and healthy environment which enhances each child’s total growth. Our theme-based hands-on preschool program provides a wide-range of experiences that foster learning, creativity and problem solving in all areas. A child’s sense of self-worth, independence and growth in social skills are developed through positive interaction with peers and our well-qualified and loving staff. 2944 E. 56th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46220, Contact: Gail Hacker and Tammy Clark, Phone: 317-257-9127, Email: pollypandaindy@sbcglobal.net, www.pollypanda.com

Paramount School of Excellence is a tuition-free K-8 charter school that educates students in an innovative environment that instills high expectations for success. Paramount accomplishes its mission and teaches the mastery of Indiana State Standards through an emphasis on rigorous academics, technology and the environment.

Integral to the school’s approach to education is school-wide use of computer technology, a green initiative, project-based investigations, community partnerships and three on-site Discovery Centers – an indoor Eco Center, Time and Space Center with a planetarium, and an urban farm. 3020 Nowland Ave., Indianapolis, IN 46201 Contact: Peggy Purvis, 317.775.6660, school@paramountindy.org, www.paramountindy.org

St. Luke’s Early Childhood Programs St Luke’s Community Preschool is a weekday, developmentally appropriate and experience based program. Two well-trained, degreed teachers are in each classroom. Parents’ Day Out is a structured play experience that provides parents some time for themselves on a regular basis on M, W, Th, F. We provide a warm and loving Christian environment in which children can learn and grow. Tours available upon request. Visitors welcome.

100 West 86th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Mollie Smith, Director, 317-844-3399, smithm@stlukesecp.com, www.stlukesumc.com

St. Richard’s Episcopal School SRES strives for academic excellence through its classic curriculum with innovative teaching methods; it also provides preparation and knowledge in areas such as faith, leadership, civic responsibility, and global readiness. St. Richard’s offers a rigorous academic

Polly Panda Preschool & Bridgford Kindergarten

indianapolis // SOUTH Friendship Kids Preschool & Childcare Friendship Kids Preschool & Childcare is all about preparing your child for their academic futures by providing fun, interactive activities that engage your child's 5 senses, while also learning about God! Learning should be fun, so we incorporate play in all of our activities! Check us out at friendshipkids.com! 963 E Worthsville Road, Greenwood, IN 46143, Contact: Jessica Seelye, Phone: 317-535-2544, Email: jessica@experiencefriendship.com

800 E. Sycamore Street, Westfield, IN 46074, Contact: Mary Lyman, Directress, Phone: 317-867-0158, Fax: 317-896-5945, Email: montessori westfield@gmail.com, www.montessori schoolofwestfield.com

zionsville Advent Lutheran Preschool Advent offers a Christian learning environment for children ages 2 through 5, including a half-day kindergarten. Our well-balanced program supports emotional, social, cognitive, physical and spiritual development. All children, regardless of faith or church affiliation, are welcome. Call to schedule a tour. 11250 N. Michigan Rd., Zionsville, IN 46077, Contact: Deb Trewartha, Phone: 317-873-6318, Email: dtrewartha@adventlutheran.org, www.adventlutheran.org/298544.ihtml

Maria Montessori International Academy (Zionsville) “Can your 4 year old read this?” OURS CAN! Come discover why our programs are so successful that our kindergartens are in advance reading and math in first grade at both Zionsville and Carmel Public Schools! The program offers education for infants, toddlers, Pre-K, kindergarten, and elementary across subjects, even for very young children, including math, science, Spanish, art and music, as well as reading and writing. 4370 Weston Pointe Dr., Zionsville/Carmel, IN 46077, Phone: 317-769-2220, Cost/Tuition: please call, www.mariamontessori-intl.org

Zionsville Community Schools Universal Preschool The ZCS Universal Preschool provides a hands-on learning experience, focused on the whole child, in an inclusive and supportive environment that ensures maximum child growth, for life-long learning. We will provide a quality program using social language curriculum through: Organizing the environment so it is conducive to success, providing specific directions and instructions, acknowledging and encouraging each child’s efforts, creating challenges and supporting children in extending their capabilities. The Indiana Foundations for Young Children will be a resource/framework for UP. Preschool Sites are at Boone Meadow, Eagle, Pleasant View, Stonegate and Union Elementary Schools and there is also a site at Zionsville West Middle School.

900 Mulberry St., Zionsville, IN 46077, Phone: 317-873-1251, Email: GROW@zcs.k12.in.us, http://zcsgrow.zcs.k12.in.us

[childcare] Peanut Butter and Jelly 24/7 Childcare PB&J is a childcare that is a safe, nurturing environment where your child will get the attention and care that he or she needs.

We are licensed and always working to meet and exceed all health and safety guidelines. You can rest assured that your child will be cared for with the utmost kindness, love and respect . Open late for lots of flexiblity. Stop in for more info.

Follow us on twitter @pbj247childcare. 5501 E. 71st Street, Suite 4, Indianapolis, IN 46220, Contact: Anita Beck. Phone: 317-205-9211, Email: peanutbutter_jelly18@yahoo.com, www.peanutbutterjelly.info

westfield Montessori School of Westfield, Inc. Located on 3 wooded acres in Central Indiana, the Montessori School of Westfield adheres to the academic traditions of Montessori while serving the present day child. The Montessori School of Westfield serves children from Indianapolis, Fishers, Carmel, Zionsville, Westfield, Sheridan, Noblesville, Cicero and Tipton. We serve children ages 18 months to 15 years.

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Gr e at L a k e S

Beach Towns Hit the shores close to home!

Michelle Shirk

Is your family craving sun and sand this summer? There’s no need to hop on a plane to enjoy a beach vacation.

Instead, choose one of these five destinations for a fun and easy Great Lakes getaway.

Ch e st e rton, I n di a na Start your outdoor adventures at Indiana Dunes State Park (www.in.gov/dnr/parklake/2980. htm). The park contains exciting trails and over three miles of beautiful Lake Michigan beachfront. Families with young children may choose to stick close to the beach and nature center. However, for hikers experienced enough to cover substantial distances, Trail 10 (5.5 miles) provides a moderately challenging trek with wonderfully varied scenery.

After your hike, enjoy Italian favorites at Popolano’s (www.popolanosrestaurant.com).

No matter what you order, be sure to sample the restaurant’s “legendary” cream of chicken dumpling soup. If your trip falls between May and October, a Saturday morning visit to Chesterton’s European Market (www.chestertons europeanmarket.com) is sure to be a highlight.

While you’re there, keep an eye out for the delicious fruit pies sold by Marilyn’s Bakery (www.marilynsbakery.com), a market regular.

Hol l a n d, M ichiga n Searching for a destination filled with culture and history? Experience Holland’s Dutch heritage by taking a stroll around Windmill Island Gardens (www.cityofholland.com) or shopping for klompen (wooden shoes) at Nelis’ Dutch Village (www.dutchvillage.com). The annual Tulip Time Festival (www.tuliptime.com),

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scheduled from May 2 - 9 in 2015, brings with it a variety of entertainment options ranging from Dutch dance performances to carnival rides.

Holland also has all the standard beach town essentials. Visitors can swim, fish and scope out iconic Big Red Lighthouse at Holland Beach State Park (www.michigan.gov/holland).

The city’s downtown houses charming shops and eateries, like the not-to-be-missed Alpen Rose Restaurant (www.alpenroserestaurant.com).

T r av e r se Ci t y, M ich iga n For a quintessential beach vacation experience, look no further than Traverse City. Families can relax on one of the city’s public beaches (www.traverse citymi.gov/tcpublicbeaches.asp), then enjoy a Moomers Ice Cream Sail through Grand Traverse Bay on the Tall Ship Manitou (www. tallshipsailing.com). The Traverse City branch of Pirate’s Cove (www.piratescove.net/traversecity) offers a variety of family-friendly attractions including two mini golf courses, go-carts and a ropes course.

When you’re ready to get out of the sun, head downtown for an afternoon of boutique browsing or check out the specialty shops at the Grand Traverse Resort and Spa (www.grand traverseresort.com). If you have time for a side trip, nearby Sleeping Bear Dunes (www.sleeping beardunes.com) provides a scenic, albeit potentially exhausting, hiking experience. Stop in at the Cherry Republic Grand Café (www.cherryrepublic.com) in Glenn Arbor for a grilled cheese on your way back.

M ack i nac I sl a n d, M ich iga n A weekend on peaceful Mackinac Island (www.mackinacisland.org) is basically the definition of “getting away from it all.” This island maintains a strong Victorian-era vibe, thanks largely to its ban on personal vehicles. Get the lay of the land via a selfguided eight-mile bike tour around the island’s perimeter, with stops at Arch Rock, British Landing and other popular landmarks as desired.

Families may also enjoy visiting one of the island’s two butterfly houses or picnicking at Marquette Park. And, of course, no trip to Mackinac Island would be complete without fudge. This writer believes JoAnn’s Cookie Crunch Fudge (www.joannsfudge.com) ranks number one, but you’ll want to conduct your own taste test.

Ch icago, I l l i noi s While most wouldn’t exactly call Chicago a “beach town,” its Lake Michigan location means tourists looking for watery fun have plenty of choices. The 18-mile Chicago Lakefront Trail grants pedestrians and cyclers access to Shedd Aquarium, Navy Pier, parks, beaches and more. Find a detailed trail map at www.cpdit01.com/resources/ brochures/pdf/Lakefront%20Trail%20Map.pdf.

In addition, a variety of river-based architecture tours provide a closer look at some of Chicago’s most famous buildings. Shoreline Sightseeing (www.shorelinesightseeing.com) boasts frequent departure times from convenient Navy Pier and Michigan Avenue locations. Advance reservations for your tour time of choice are strongly recommended.

As you can see, freshwater getaways can be just as exciting as saltwater ones. We hope your family can work one of these fun spots into your summer itinerary!

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Confidence in me

Kelly Blewett

Footnotes: Thoughts from the margins of a mom’s life Lately around my house there’s been a lot of “The Sound of Music” playing. It began with William, our four-year-old, who learned “Do-Re-Mi” at preschool. His singing prompted me to pull out my old CD of the musical, which I had stashed in the basement. When I was in high school and we put on the show, I played a nun. Now I have more in common with Maria herself, riding herd on two young children, looking for sweet moments to teach them and counting on raw confidence to bring me through the tough times. Such confidence is not limited to a mother, however.

I caught a glimpse of it recently on the face of my two-year-old daughter, Caroline. It was a spring morning, and we were outside in the bright, sweet-smelling air. And she was trying something new. She didn’t want to walk while sitting on her tricycle, she wanted to ride it. She had a look of raw determination on her face. Her feet strained against the pedals, her back pitched forward, her eyes glued to the pavement. But the bike wasn’t moving. Though the road seemed to be flat, upon closer inspection it was evident that actually there was a very slight incline. I wondered whether she’d break into tears and braced myself for a tantrum. Instead, she

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relaxed her legs briefly and allowed the bike to roll backwards momentarily. Then she thrust her feet down with renewed energy. The wheels began to turn. She was doing it. As she hit a regular rhythm, Caroline turned and gave me a wide grin that I knew I'd always remember.

The sun reflected off her sunglasses and her coat flew up in the air behind her. I applauded.

Sometimes as a mom it occurs to me that life has so much to teach our little ones. If they can muster the determination and the confidence to face something small, like a little hill in the street, I believe they'll handle the big stuff just fine. And in the meantime, we can celebrate these little triumphs with them; those rare moments when our own lives seem part of some bigger production – even something fit for the musical stage.

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Five ways to raise a gentleman True confessions of stay-at-home dad Pete Gilbert I want nothing more than for my five-year-old boy to grow up to be a gentleman. (Of course, I know he’s watching my every move and learning more from the way I act than from what I say, so I must be a gentleman, too.) Here are five tips I’m encouraging in him.

he should do three things: make eye contact, give a firm handshake and say “Nice to meet you.” Properly meeting people is important because a limp handshake, looking away from a person and mumbling “hey” is not going to help make friends, make a good impression at a job interview, and most importantly, it’s not going to help meet girls.

1. Say “thank you” When someone does something nice for you, tell them “thank you.” It may seem like such a simple thing to do, but it can really mean a lot. Saying “thank you” comes naturally to my son. Even on nights I know he doesn't like what I’ve cooked for dinner he still tells me, “Thank you for making dinner Dad.” Or at night while we’re reading books he'll say, “Thanks for reading my story” or “Thank you for helping me learn that word.”

4. Serve others first This is another task that is not always easy for kids – especially if we’re talking about passing out dessert. But, when my son is in charge of passing out a snack, drinks or dinner he’s been taught to give to his sisters first, then himself last

5. Be honest 2. Hold doors open for others A gentleman holds doors open for others, men or women, it’s just the polite thing to do.

Yes, it is annoying when it's the middle of winter and your son insists on standing out in the cold holding the door open for everyone at preschool, but instilling this lesson is worth it.

3. Learn a proper greeting

Did you clean your room? Did you punch your sister? Honesty – the most important characteristic can also be the hardest one to teach.

If you have other ways to help raise a gentleman, I’d like to hear them! Please post them on my True Confessions of a Stay at Home Dad Facebook page. [www. facebook.com/petetheblogger]

This is one task kids have a tough time with. I tell my son that when he meets someone,

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Research to Real World: Executive Function: What is it?

It’s time to leave but your toddler screams, runs away and goes limp, so you pick her up and haul her out the door. Your preschooler wants the engine, not the coal car, so he grabs it from his playmate, and a series of “that’s mine, no I had it first” ensues.

Your school-age child plays with the dog and talks to himself in the mirror rather than getting ready for school and misses the bus. It’s 8 pm and your teenager tells you she has to have red poster board and illustrations of cell parts and functions – for a project due in the morning. Do any of these scenarios sound familiar?

What is executive function?

This term refers to the set of skills these children will practice and strengthen over time to help them regulate their emotional reactions, control their behavior and plan and organize their thinking. The three primary executive functioning skills are working memory, inhibitory control and mental flexibility.

Working Memory is our capacity to hold information in mind and manipulate it in our heads for a short period of time. This is the skill the school-age child will need to remember to get dressed, brush his teeth and walk downstairs to breakfast.

Inhibitory Control is the skill we use to control our emotions and thoughts so we can focus our attention amidst distractions and impulses. This is the skill our preschooler will develop to

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help him wait until it is his turn to play with the engine.

Mental Flexibility is the ability to switch gears depending on the situation and to adjust our thinking in the presence of new information, and it allows us to fix our mistakes. Next time our teenager has a big project she may learn to start in advance of the due date, bring home materials needed to complete the assignment and give her parents a heads up in case she needs their help.

These skills begin to emerge in infancy but the full range of executive functioning skills continues to develop throughout young adulthood with improvements in attention and coordination among the different executive skills.

Why is it important?

Executive functioning skills are often referred to as the “air traffic control system” for the brain. They are the skills we use to navigate the challenges of our day-to-day world.

The more efficient our air traffic control system, the better able we are to make good decisions, develop healthy relationships, be productive learners and resist negative impulses.

The development of strong executive skills will support academic learning and socialization. Children will find it easier to pay attention in structured classroom settings, take the perspective of another to negotiate differences and regulate their emotional reactions to everyday challenges. In fact, longitudinal

Jessica Beer, PhD

studies show that executive function in early childhood predicts positive health, financial stability and lower incidence of criminal offenses in adulthood.

What improves it?

Current research shows that executive functioning skills are shaped by early experience and, although rarely taught, they can be improved, especially in young children. So what works?

Children who attend preschools that encourage dramatic play, role-play, child-to-child teaching, hands-on learning, learning through play and focus on building social skills often show better executive functioning skills, reading and math than children enrolled in preschools focused on direct instruction. Montessori curricula, Tools of the Mind, and in our area, Indianapolis Cooperative Preschools are designed specifically with these goals in mind.

Positive parenting (when your child has a problem, discuss it with them), higher monitoring (keeping track of what your child is seeing), and lower levels of punishment are associated with good development of inhibition skills in 2- to 8-year-olds. Early parent-child relationships where parents are more mind-minded (engage in conversations about their own and their child’s feelings and thoughts), sensitive (provide appropriate and consistent responses to their child’s cues) and supportive of a child’s autonomy

(encouraging and hinting, letting children make their own choices in problem-solving situations) are related to improvements in children’s’ executive function.

There is also evidence that aerobic exercise, martial arts, yoga and mindfulness practice (meditation, sensory awareness) improves executive function. For some great resources on what you can do day to day to shape your child’s executive functioning skills check out the following resources: Executive Skills in Children and Adolescents: A Practical Guide to Assessment and Intervention

by Peg Dawson and Richard Guare No Mind Left Behind: Understanding and Fostering Executive Control – The Eight Essential Brain Skills Every Child Needs to Thrive

by Adam J. Cox Indianapolis Area Cooperative Preschools http://preschoolco-op.org/

Developmental psychologist Jessica Beer combines her real world experience as a mother with her professional training as a researcher to provide parents with a practical way to apply the most current findings in childhood development research to their everyday life.

Jessica is also a co-founder of The Urban Chalkboard playcafe, and welcomes questions and feedback from readers at experiencematters@ theurbanchalkboard. com.

mother's day fun guide Perfect ideas to make Mom smile Jeanine Bobenmoyer, Chief Mom Officer of theCityMoms

Okay Mom, we know you’re the one reading this – oftentimes you’re the one who makes the plans for your special day. Maybe you even cook your own dinner or buy your own gift!

At Indy’s Child, we know the attention you deserve though. So take this guide and tack it to your frig with some not-so-subtle hints for your family about which ideas appeal to you most!

Cook (or let someone else cook!)

A Cut Above Catering, located in Carmel, offers a special mommy + me class for kids ages 6 and older. Mothers and their “extra pair of hands” will make fruit kabobs with chocolate sauce, while learning basic knife skills and techniques. They can also prepare a delicious blueberry French toast casserole to take home. With a little help, kids can bake it Sunday morning just in time for Mother’s Day brunch.

Cut Above Catering 12955 Old Meridian St, #104, Carmel Saturday, May 9, 10 am-12 pm www.acutabovecatering.com/event/ moms-love-kids-who-cook (317) 575-9514

Celebrate Mother’s Day with a delicious buffet meal at Conner Prairie. Then venture outside and explore acres of interactive awesomeness! Brunch reservations are required and rates vary from $9.95-$23.95 depending on member status. Later, enjoy reduced admission to Conner Prairie by showing your brunch buffet ticket.

Conner Prairie 13400 Allisonville Rd, Fishers Sunday, May 10, 11 am-2 pm www.connerprairie.org (317) 776-6000

Indulge Mom’s sweet tooth with some goodies from The Cake Bake Shop of Broad Ripple. Stocked with all the salted caramel cake, macaroons and other sweet goodies Mom will love, anything you choose will be sure to delight.

The Cake Bake Shop 6515 Carrollton Ave, Indianapolis M-W 10 am-6 pm; Thursdays 10 am-8 pm; F-Sat 10 am-10 pm www.thecakebakeshop.com

Walk on the wild side Come to the Indianapolis Zoo for a special day celebrating all moms – human and animal! Grab a free cupcake at the Café on the Commons, try the Zoo-wide scavenger hunt and take advantage of special Mother’s Day photo ops located throughout the Zoo

The Indianapolis Zoo 1200 W. Washington Street, Indianapolis May 9-10, 9 am-5 pm www.indianapoliszoo.com/events (317) 630-2001

Fashion Mall 8702 Keystone Crossing May 4-10. Mall hours vary by day.

(317) 569-9144

Pamper her Enjoy the spring weather with a trek outside at beautiful Fort Harrison State Park. The Park is hosting special Mother’s Day hike -- no registration is required. Bring the baby carrier; park officials note trails will not be stroller friendly.

Bath Junkie of Carmel offers the perfect spot to pop in and create a product Mom will love, from scrubs to lotions to conditioners. Even if you forget her favorite scent, owner Melissa will help guide you through some of their most popular to find one sure to please.

Fort Harrison State Park 5753 Glenn Road, Indianapolis Sunday, May 10, 2 pm (317) 591-0904

The Bath Junkie 741 Hanover Place, Carmel M-Sat 10 am-7 pm; Sun 12-5 pm www.shop.bathjunkiecarmel.com (317) 805-1850

Get crafty Tuesdays at You Are The Potter of Greenwood are already deemed “Mommy/Daddy + Me Days” when drop-ins receive 10% off their craft and purchase. The studio will be open on Mother’s Day from 12-5 pm for a little mom + me time. Check web site for current details.

Take mom to Tricoci University and Beauty School for a real stretch to those pampering dollars. All services are provided by students (and supervised by instructors) for a fraction of their spa competitor costs. Example: Facials begin at $20 and half day spa packages run $65.

You are the Potter 1211 N. Madison Ave, Greenwood Closed Mondays; T-Th 12-6 pm; Fri 12-8 pm; Sat 10 am-5 pm; Sun 12-5 pm www.youarethepotter.net (317) 884-4905

Tricoci University and Beauty School 9725 Crosspoint Commons, Fishers Closed Sun-Mon; Tues 9:30am-10pm; Wed 5:30-10pm; Th-F 9:30am-10pm; Sat 9:30 am-5 pm www.tricociuniversity.com (317) 841-9400

Top off a shopping spree with a free fun tissue-paper flower craft center open from May 4-10 at Pottery Barn Kids.

Employees are available to help guide children through the craft or kids can channel their inner artist solo.

However you choose to celebrate, we wish a very happy Mother’s Day to all the wonderful moms in our area!

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may cale n dar F R I 01

F R I 01 – SUN 03

Lemonade Day Lemonpalooza

Sesame Street Live: Let’s Dance

Location: Monument Circle, Time: 11:00 AM to 3:00 PM, http://indianapolis.

Location: Murat Theatre @ Old National Centre, Time: 6:30 PM to 8:30 PM, Phone: 800-7453000, www.sesamestreetlive.com

lemonadeday.org This first time event celebrates Lemonade Day. Registration information for Lemonade Day will be available as well as live entertainment and lemon-flavored treats by local chefs.

Movies in the Park - Planes: Fire and Rescue Location: Nickel Plate District Amphitheater, Time: 8:30 PM, www.fishers.in.us/calendar.

aspx?EID=2715 Families are encouraged to arrive early and secure their seats as all movies will begin at dusk. Movies are free to the public and families are encouraged to bring blankets, chairs and their favorite movie snacks! Movies sponsored

by XFINITYTM. Adventure flies higher than ever before in this sequel that finds championship air-racer Dusty Crophopper (voice of Dane Cook) beginning an exciting new career fighting forest fires. In the wake of another successful racing season, Dusty returns home to Propwash Junction to resume his training.

"Family Fridays" At Grand Park Sports Complex Location: Grand Park - the Sports Campus at Westfield, Time: 6:00 PM to 8:00 PM

The community is invited to “Family Fridays” at Grand Park! Spend the evening enjoying the outdoors and Grand Park’s state-of-the-art playing fields. Attendees should bring their own equipment to play games, enjoy special activities hosted by the staff, and possibly meet some local sports celebrities. All are welcome, so please join us for the great action! “Family Fridays” will be held on the synthetic multipurpose fields at Grand Park.

F R I 01 – S AT 02 The Somewhat True Tale of Robinhood Location: Zionsville Performing Arts Center, Time: 7:00 PM, Phone: 317-733-4833,

www.ZvillePerformingArts.org Yeah, it's sure is hard to be humble when you're a swashbuckling, egocentric, forest dwelling super-hero. Combined with an expandable band of spoon-wielding Merry Men whose collective IQs equal six, and you've got an irreverent jaunt through Sherwood Forest you won't soon forget.

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Live “Let’s Dance” offers an up-close, interactive experience that includes dance parties. Elmo uses his imagination to “Do the Robot,” Cookie teaches all ‘feets’ to dance, Abby leads a rhyming game, and Ernie shares the fun of dance with the Sesame Street favorite “Shake Your Head One Time.”

Favorite friends join the audience on the floor - dancing with fans, not just for them. It’s Sesame Street Live like you’ve never experienced it before.

S AT 02 Cereal Cinema - Pee-Wee's Big Adventure Location: Indianapolis Museum of Art, Time: 10:00 AM, http://indyfilmfest.org/events/

Relay for Life Firefighters Challenge Location: Franklin Community Middle School, Time: 9:00 AM to 5:00 PM, Phone: 317-5062866

Firefighters challenge and Kids challenge to raise money for American Cancer Society. Will be fun activities for the kids and watch the firefighters from around the area compete.

Vendors and displays.

MON 04 Infant CPR Location: Babies R Us, Phone: 317-577-2200 ,

www.babiesrus.com This course is led by a certified CPR instructor and intended for those who want to learn CPR but don't need certification. It's ideal for new parents, grandparents and anyone interested in learning life-saving techniques.

Lego Mania

For children in grades K-5. Hey, kids, join us for a fun-filled evening of Legos! We’ll provide the Legos; you provide the creativity. No registration is required.

Disney’s Beauty and the Beast

Location: Indiana State Museum, Time: 10:00 AM to 5:00 PM

Based on the Academy Award-winning animated feature film, this eye-popping spectacle has won the hearts of over 35 million people worldwide. This classic musical love story is filled with unforgettable characters, lavish sets and costumes, and dazzling production numbers including “Be Our Guest” and the beloved title song. Experience the romance and enchantment of Disney’s Beauty and the Beast at Clowes Memorial Hall.

Lights Up Sound Down Sensory Friendly Movies: "Paul Blart: Mall Cop 2" Location: Hamilton 16 IMAX, Time: 10:00 AM,

www.westpointfinancialgroup.com/ Sponsored by WestPoint Financial. RSVP online for free tickets.

Chase 500 Festival Kids' Day on Monument Circle Location: Monument Circle, Time: 10:00 AMto 2:00 PM, Phone: 317-927-3378,

cereal-cinema/ Join us for a unique family friendly experience!

Cereal Cinema features the two things every family needs on a Saturday morning—a classic movie that the whole family can enjoy and a cereal bar! Families will have the opportunity to explore two cultural locations: The Athenaeum and the IMA. Cereal Cinema will alternate between the two cultural locations every other month. Tickets are just $5, and include admission to the film, as well as the cereal buffet.

Location: Clowes Memorial Hall of Butler University, Time: 2:00 PM, Phone: 317-9406444, http://cloweshall.org/

Registration opens at 9 a.m.; the walk will begin at 10 a.m. After the walk everyone will return to Celebration Plaza for the Family Fair which will include interactive booths, a kids' zone, entertainment, music, food, and much much more!

Location: Carmel Clay Public Library Storytime Room, Time: 6:30 PM to 7:00 PM, Phone: 317 844-3363, www.carmel.lib.in.us/

www.500festival.com/KidsDay Indiana's largest outdoor free festival for children with 10,000 prizes from dozens of exhibitors, mini car racing, arts and craft, games, face painting, clowns, food, entertainment, and more.

Fancy Nancy and the Cinderella Ballet Location: Carmel Clay Public Library Program Room, Time: 10:30 AM to 11:30 AM, Phone: 317-844-3363, www.carmel.lib.in.us/

For children ages 3-6 & their caregivers. Come dressed in your Fancy Nancy finery and enjoy a performance by members of the Central Indiana Dance Ensemble as they perform portions of the story Cinderella. Ooh la la! There will be a craft, activities, and a snack as well.

Virginia Avenue Folk Fest

T ues 05 Community Tuesday at the Indiana State Museum

Start the month off right by joining us for Community Tuesday. Guests will receive a 50% discount off standard admission fees on the first Tuesday of the month. Please note that this discount is good for full-fee admissions only, and cannot be redeemed in conjunction with any other discount or promotion.

S AT 09 Indy's Child Family Fair & Central Indiana March for Babies Location: White River State Park, Time: 9:00 AM to 1:00 PM, Phone: 317-722-8500, www.indyschild.

com/SitePage-18659.114134-Indys-ChildFamily-Fair-March-for-Babies.html Join us at the 4th annual March for Babies Family Fair brought to you by Indy's Child Magazine and the CityMoms! The March for Babies walk is approximately 3.1 miles long.

Location: Fountain Square Cultural District, Time: 10:00 AMto 10:00 PM, www.

virginiaavenuefolkfest.com A celebration of a thriving creative community and a chance to experience all that Virginia Avenue has to offer, from Fountain Square to Fletcher Place! Featuring seven stages with 60 local and regional acts. All ages welcome.

S AT 09 – SUN 10 Mother's Day Weekend Location: Indianapolis Zoo, Time: 9:00 AM to 5:00 PM, www.indianapoliszoo.com/

events-and-groups/zoo-events/mothersday-weekend The Indianapolis Zoo puts the spotlight on all moms — both human and animal — during Mother's Day weekend Join us in May for the fourth-annual Mother's Day Weekend celebration. The recognition begins right as you enter the Zoo with a special "proud mom" sticker. Head to Cafe on the Commons next and pick up your free Mother's Day cupcake to satisfy your sweet tooth and enjoy a Zoo-wide scavenger hunt

SUN 10 Mother's Day Brunch Location: Conner Prairie Interactive History Park, Time: 11:00 AM, www.connerprairie.org

Celebrate Mother’s Day with a delicious buffet meal at Conner Prairie. Then, venture outside and explore acres and acres of interactive awesomeness! Save $3 per person on the price of admission to Conner Prairie’s grounds by showing your brunch buffet ticket.

accidentally drops his sweater in the sink - all before breakfast Alexander can already tell it’s going to be a terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day! It’s enough to make you want to move to Australia Laugh and sing along with Alexander’s misadventures in this hilarious musical, featuring book and lyrics by Judith Viorst, author of the best-selling classic book.

Arcadia May Festival

S AT 16 Eggfest 2015

MON 11 Pokemon & Board Games Location: Carmel Clay Public Library Storytime Room, Time: 6:30 PMto 7:30 PM, Phone: 317 844-3363, www.carmel.lib.in.us/

For children in grades K-5. Do you love playing Pokemon games and trading Pokemon cards with other fans? Or maybe you just love hanging out and getting a little wacky playing board games. Either way, we’ve got you covered! Come to the Storytime Room to play and talk to your heart’s content. We’ve got the board games; you just need to bring your own Pokemon games and cards. No registration is required.

Location: Chef JJ's Back Yard parking lot at 1040 Broad Ripple Avenue, http://chefjjs.

com/grilling-classes/egg-101/ eggfest-2015.html#.VSP3DMbjTIW Chef JJ's Eggfest is happening on May 16th from 10am-2pm. An event dedicated to the Big Green Egg smoker, “Eggheads” (Egg Enthusiasts), family and friends. Whether you own a BGE or just want to sample some unique new tastes from wood-fired BBQ to baked goods, then Eggfest is for you! We will be offering Demo Eggs and MiniMax Eggs in a Box at a great price! Limited quantities so get your voucher now!

Indianapolis Congenital Heart Walk

W E DS 1 3 Celebrations of Creativity and Craftsmanship Location: Museum of Miniature Houses, Time: 3:30 PM to 4:30 AM, Phone: 317-575-0240,

www.museumofminiatures.org The Celebrations series is all about creativity and craftsmanship. Every second Wednesday is geared to children under 12 who must be accompanied by an adult. We have singers, storytellers, musicians and more. Check the web site for performers.

Location: Butler University, Time: 9:00 AMto 12:00 PM, www.congenitalheartwalk.org

Please join us for a family friendly (1 or 2.5 mile route) walk to support the millions of adults and children impacted by congenital heart disease, the #1 birth defect in the US. Join a team or walk on your own There will be plenty of family activities including face painting, balloon animals and food trucks.

Honorary Walk Chair, Former US Senator Richard Lugar

S AT 16 – SUN 17 Clowes 4 Kids - Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day Location: Clowes Memorial Hall of Butler University, Time: 10:00 AM to 11:00 AM, Phone: 317-940-6444, http://cloweshall.org/

Have you ever had a really rotten day?

Alexander has! He wakes up with gum in his hair, he trips on a skateboard, and then he

Art Center, the 12-acre ArtsPark and the North Side Optimist Opti-Park. Featuring more than 225 artists, live bands/performers on five entertainment stages, children's activities, food vendors providing a variety of cuisine, two wine and beer gardens, cultural booths and more!

45th Annual Broad Ripple Art Fair Location: Indianapolis Art Center, http:// indplsartcenter.org/events/braf/ Two fun-filled days to purchase original artwork, savor the sights, smells and tastes of spring, participate in hands-on activities and enjoy live music rain or shine. The art fair takes place on the grounds of the Indianapolis

Location: Downtown Main Street, Phone: 317-220-2204, www.visithamiltoncounty.

com/includes/events/Arcadia-MayFestival/20707/341/ Enjoy arts, crafts, flea market, games, a moonwalk and activities for kids. Food, entertainment both days. Car show on Sunday, noon - 4 p.m. The Depot, Arcadia's Historic Museum, will be open Saturday and Sunday from 11am - 2pm. Visit to see our magnificent Arcadia Glass collection and many other artifacts of the early years in Arcadia.

Civil War Days Location: Conner Prairie Interactive History Park, Time: 10:00 AM, www.connerprairie.org

Free with general admission. Make your way through Prairietown where the year is 1863 and immerse yourself in the Civil War homefront and battlefront. Learn about Union and Confederate camp life, battle tactics, food, various technologies used during wartime, and medicine including a field hospital tour and surgery demonstration. Feel the boom from a Civil War-era cannon firing and learn about the intricacies of Civil War artillery and the skill it took to work them.

Fire an authentic Civil War-era rifle ($5) and discover the impact of the war on free blacks in Indiana through an interactive play about the Roberts Settlement. Battle re-enactment at 2:30 pm each day.

SUN 17 Lemonade Day http://indianapolis.lemonadeday.org/ Lemonade Day teaches kids how to start, own and operate their own business: a lemonade stand! We’re inspiring the next generation of Hoosier entrepreneurs. Each year, over 10,000 kids register to participate in the Greater Indianapolis area!

Walking for Dreams Family and Pet walk Location: Indianapolis Downtown Canal at Buggs Temple, Time: 2:00 PM, www.

walkingfordreams.org/ Walking for Dreams is an approximately 5K Family and Pet Walk that was started in 2004 to help local Indianapolis non-profit organizations raise needed funds to enable them to do more of what they do so well – serve the youth and families of Indianapolis.

Walking for Dreams pulls together local organizations to share in a joint fundraiser.

Walkers of all ages will join together to support their special organization by raising pledges and participating.

MON 18 Jammie Time Location: Carmel Clay Public Library Storytime Room, Time: 7:00 PM to 7:30 PM, Phone: 317 844-3363, www.carmel.lib.in.us/

For children ages 2-5 & their caregivers. Join us for stories, rhymes, and songs – and don’t forget to wear your jammies or bring your favorite stuffed animal! No registration is required.

weds 20 Zoopolis 500 Location: Indianapolis Zoo, Time: 10:30 AM to 12:30 PM, www.indianapoliszoo.com/

events-and-groups/zoo-events/ zoopolis-500 The Zoopolis 500 presented by the American Dairy Association Indiana includes lots of family-friendly activities and features our radiated tortoises hustling to the finish line.

During the race, you can cheer on your favorite tortoise as they race towards the finish line But these natives of Madagascar aren't racing for a trophy. Instead, they're after the delicious fruits waiting in the winner's circle.

After the race, you can meet the winning tortoise and his "pit crew," our very own Zookeepers who can answer any tortoiserelated questions and tell you all about our efforts to help these endangered animals.

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Crescendo @ White River State Park

2015 Racing to Recovery May Gala

Location: Farm Bureau Insurance Lawn at White River State Park, Time: 7:30 PM to 9:30 PM, Phone: 317-283-3531, rescendo2015.

Location: Lucas Estate, Time: 5:00 PM to 9:00 PM, Phone: 317-569-0039, http://

eventbrite.com Join the Indianapolis Opera and Indianapolis Chamber Orchestra as they join forces to present the first great party of the summer, Crescendo @ White River State Park. The evening features Indianapolis Opera’s own artists and chorus along with the Indianapolis Chamber Orchestra featuring selections from Opera’s greatest hits, Broadway show tunes, symphonic pops and Indiana favorites.

Movies in the Park - Earth to Echo Location: Nickel Plate District Amphitheater, Time: 9:00 PM, www.fishers.in.us/calendar.

aspx?EID=2718 A group of young friends come to the aid of a mysterious visitor from a distant planet in this kid-friendly sci-fi adventure in the tradition of E.T. and The Goonies. Shortly after a massive construction project begins driving out the residents of their serene Nevada neighborhood, best friends Tuck (Astro), Munch (Reese Hartwig), and Alex (Teo Halm) notice that their mobile phones are being flooded with a series of enigmatic, encoded messages.

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conquerparalysisnow.org/TopLinks/ Events.aspx Conquer Paralysis Now presents one of the premiere events of the month of May in Indianapolis This year, join us for great food, live music, a silent and live auction plus a special tribute to the brave men and women in our armed forces.

IPL 500 FESTIVAL Parade Location: Downtown Indianapolis, Time: 12:00 PM to 1:30 PM, www.500festival.com/

parade Grown to be one of the signature events held in the United States each year. The parade is the only 500 Festival event that has taken place every year since our founding in 1957. 300,000 spectators are expected to line the streets of Indianapolis, joined by another one million watching from their televisions around the country, to view one of the nation’s premier parades, alongside the Pasadena Tournament of Roses and the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade.

Naptown Roller Girls - Star Wars Bout Location: Indiana Farmers Coliseum,

www.naptownrollergirls.com The Tornado Sirens and the Warning Belles are proving to Indianapolis and the world that roller derby isn't just a bunch of fights and flash; it's the coolest sport there ever was for women. Bouts are family friendly but very loud! Our fans are excited! You may also want to bring ear protection for young children.

W E DS 27 High School Waterpark Palooza Location: Monon Community Center Waterpark, Time: 8:00 PM to 11:00 PM, Phone: 317-8487275, www.carmelclayparks.com

Finals are over, school is out, and it's time to hit the waves.. at The Waterpark Join us, in partnership with the Carmel Mayor's Youth Council, for a high school night filled with live music, food trucks, Waterpark fun, and more For high school students only.

F R I 29 Movies in the Park - Big Hero 6 Location: Nickel Plate District Amphitheater, Time: 9:00 PM, www.fishers.in.us/calendar.

aspx?EID=2719 When a criminal plot threatens the hi-tech metropolis of San Fransokyo, brilliant young robotics whiz Hiro Hamada (voice of Ryan

Potter) leaps into action with his tech-savvy friends, and his robot companion Baymax (voice of Scott Adsit) in Disney Animation's adaptation of the popular Marvel Comics series. Author: Jason Buchanan. Start times are approximate. Movies begin at dusk.

S AT 30 Sensory Friendly Films: "Tomorrowland" Location: AMC Indianapolis 17, Time: 10:00 AM, Phone: 317-784-0989. www.amctheatres.

com/programs/sensory-friendly-films

Wicket World of Croquet® Location: Benjamin Harrison Presidential Site, Time: 1:00 PM, Phone: 317-631-1888, www.

presidentbenjaminharrison.org/events/ signature-events/wicket-world-of-croquet Join us Saturday, May 30, at the Benjamin Harrison Presidential Site for the 21st annual Wicket World of Croquet®. The 2014 event was a tremendous success with 48 teams of two taking to the president's lawn in their traditional game whites. Money raised at this event supports the educational programming at the home of the only president from the State of Indiana.

ONGOING EVENTS

ONGOING C ALE N DAR Transformers: Robots in Disguise™ Occurring Daily Through July 26th Phone: (317) 334-3322, Location: The Children's Museum, www.childrens

museum.org/ As Hasbro’s TRANSFORMERS franchise celebrates its 30th Anniversary, get ready for a museum exhibit that shows the fun and innovation that has gone into the creation of the iconic robots. This exhibit will showcase the heroic Autobots and villainous Decepticons, including favorites like Bumblebee, Optimus Prime and Grimlock.

The excitement and fast-paced action of a brand new animated series, Robots in Disguise from Hasbro Studios will debut in 2015 and the exhibit will feature new characters that will be sure to inspire families to create even more new stories.

Butterfly Kaleidoscope Occurring Daily Through September 7th Times: 9:00 AM - 4:00 PM, Price: Zoo Admission, Location: White River Gardens at White River State Park, www.

indianapoliszoo.com/plan-your-visit/ white-river-gardens Presented by Citizens Energy Group. Immerse yourself in the beauty of 40 species of butterflies as these wonderful winged insects are coming back in the Hilbert Conservatory.

We've transformed the indoor gardens into a tropical paradise to bring you butterflies in a way that you've never experienced them before! As you walk through the warm, aromatic indoor garden, 40 species of butterflies will flit nearby — and one might even land on you!

Spotlight Art @Clowes 2015 Occurring Daily (except Sat & Sun) Through May 15th Time: 9 a.m.-4 p.m., Price: Free Admission, Phone: 317-940-6444, Location: Clowes Memorial Hall of Butler University,

http://cloweshall.org/art/artatclowes/ event/310-spotlight-art-clowes-2015exhibit In its seventh year, the exhibition complements the annual performing arts fundraiser, SPOTLIGHT, to raise money for the Indiana AIDS Fund and HIV/AIDS education and prevention. Artists have agreed to donate a portion of their sales to the fundraiser. The exhibition theme of “Courage and Hope” is relevant to all, and is especially meaningful to those living with HIV, as well as those who work to prevent the future spread of the disease.

Actors Theatre Of Indiana Presents: Xanadu Occurring Daily May 1st Through 17th Location: the Studio Theater, www. thecenterfortheperformingarts.org/ tickets/ Xanadu follows the journey of a magical and beautiful Greek muse, Kira, who descends from the heavens of Mt. Olympus to Venice Beach, California in 1980 on a quest to inspire a struggling artist, Sonny, to achieve the greatest artistic creation of all time - the first ROLLER DISCO…hey, it's 1980! But, when Kira falls into forbidden love with the mortal Sonny, her jealous sisters take advantage of the situation and chaos abounds.

Celebrations of Creativity and Craftsmanship Occurring Every Wednesday Location: Museum of Miniature Houses, Time: 3:30 PM to 4:30 PM, Phone: 317-575-9466,

www.museumofminiatures.org The Museum will host a series of encounters on Wednesday afternoons to celebrate both craftsmanship and creativity and will feature musicians, storytellers, singers and songwriters. The Museum will also hold story-writing opportunities and the creation of visual art works inspired by museum exhibits. Both stories and artwork will be posted on the Museum’s Facebook page.<br>The inaugural session on January 28th will feature violist Csaba Erdelyi, lead viola of the Indianapolis Chamber Orchestra, who was viola soloist in the film score of Amadeus.

PETER PAN Occurring Daily Beginning May 14th Through July 3rd Location: Beef and Boards Dinner Theatre

The imaginations of the young and young at heart will soar to Neverland with the beloved Tony Award-winning musical. Fly with Peter and his friends to a land of mischievous fairies, an Indiana tribe, a ticking crocodile, bungling pirates and the famous Captain Hook, played by Jeff Stockberger. This production features $10 discounts off tickets for all kids ages 3-15.

Children's Story Time Occurring Every Tuesday and Friday Location: Books & Brew, Time: 4:00 PM to 5:00 PM

Children's Story Time is back! From 4pm-5pm every Tuesday and Friday come join us for an hour of stories and fun! Parents and kids are encourage to bring their own games, crafts, or books for us to read.

Hats Off to Dr. Seuss Exhibit Occurring Daily May 15th Through June 1st Location: The Art of Dr. Seuss Presented by J.S. Yopp Gallery, Time: 9:00 AMto 9:00 PM, Phone: 866-997-3877, www.jsyopp.com

The Art of Dr. Seuss Presented by J.S. Yopp Gallery, one of the premier fine art galleries in Indianapolis, Indiana is honored to present Hats Off to Dr. Seuss. In celebration of the 75th anniversary of Dr. Seuss’s second book, The 500 Hats of Bartholomew Cubbins, Dr. Seuss’s never-before-seen hat collection will be exhibited from May 15 – June 1, 2015 at the gallery. This exhibition will also feature Dr. Seuss’s little-known Secret Art Collection, a series of Estate authorized works adapted from Ted Geisel’s original drawings, paintings, and sculpture, which will also be available for acquisition. Hats Off to Dr. Seuss is a rare and exciting exhibition as this is the first time any of these hats have traveled outside the Seuss Estate. Meet the Art of Dr. Seuss Collection Curator, Bill Dreyer, May 15, noon to 2pm. Please call 866-997-3877 for visit www.jsyopp.com for additional information.

Koala presented by Citizens Energy Group Occurring Daily Beginning May 23rd Throuh September 7th Location: Indianapolis Zoo, Time: 9:00 AMto 5:00 PM, www.indianapoliszoo.com/

plan-your-visit Experience a bit of the Outback when koalas return to the Indianapolis Zoo for a limited time this summer From Memorial Day weekend through Labor Day, Koala presented

by Citizens Energy Group will offer you up-close views of these fuzzy forest dwellers.

Journeying from the San Diego Zoo, two adult koalas will make their home away from home in the Zoo’s Forests exhibit, where renovations are currently under way to transform the previous Bat exhibit into a comfy eucalyptus-filled habitat.

Gayla Hodson and Laura LaForge Exhibit Occurring Every Monday Through Friday Location: Clowes Memorial Hall of Butler University, Time: 9:00 AM to 4:00 PM, Phone: 317-940-6444, http://cloweshall.org/art/

artatclowes/event/312-gayla-hodsonlaura-laforge-exhibit Since the 2000-2001 season, Clowes Memorial Hall has collaborated with Hoosier artists to display their works in the lobby as part of a rotating art exhibit. Exhibits are free and open to the public during regular business hours, Monday thru Friday, 9am to 4pm.

Hot Wheels - Race to Win Occurring Daily Beginning May 9th Through August 16th Location: The Children's Museum of Indianapolis, Phone: 317-334-3322, www.

childrensmuseum.org Speed, power, performance.. buckle up and race with the most famous toy vehicles on the planet—Hot Wheels! Be part of a dynamic race team working together to build and test the world’s fastest (and safest) speed machines, using Hot Wheels® diecast cars to experiment and play. This behind-the-scenes look at the thrilling world of racing investigates the scientific process for designing super-fast cars.

Hands-on experiences, authentic race gear, and captivating memorabilia will engage families in the process of experimenting with speed, power, and performance using Hot Wheels cars and track as the their tools.

Indy Word Lab Ongoing on the first Monday of each Month Times: 7:00 PM - 9:00 PM, Price: FREE, Location: Indy Reads Books, www.meetup.

com/IndyWordLab/ Indy Word Lab is an experimental writing group that has been described as, "what writing workshops are SUPPOSED to be".

Join us every first Monday for this free event, whether you're a seasoned writer or just starting out.

[PLEASE NOTE] At Indy's Child, we work

hard to ensure our calendar and guide information is accurate. Occasionally, event specifics change after we go to press. Therefore, we encourage our readers to call locations or visit them on the web to verify information.

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