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SIMPLIFYING FINANCES

CHILDBIRTH CHATTER

RESOURCES

NEWS & SHOPPING

NEWS YOU CAN USE

* HEALTH & WELLNESS

PROFILE: Pregnancy & Varicose Veins

WOMEN’S HEALTH: Moms on the Move

PEDIATRIC HEALTH: Eye Health and Safety

* AROUND TOWN

CINCY HOT SPOTS: Highland Discovery Garden

ARTS & ENRICHMENT: 10 Ways to Encourage the Arts

* COMMENTARY & PARENTING STAFF NOTES: The Potty Project

AGES & STAGES: Germ Control, Teaching Baby to Read, Celebration for Teens

TEENS & TWEENS: Idolizing Adults

THIS JUST IN: Being a Stay-At-Home Parent — Or Not

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The Potty Project

Potty Training is a Humbling Experience EVERY PARENT I know loathes potty training. This was a project I was not looking forward to because I knew it was going to change how we did everything—at least for a while. When you reach a point where you think you have some idea of what you are doing as a parent, a different stage sneaks up on you. My daughter, thankfully, had become very interested in the whole process, so I figured it was time to tackle the inevitable.

eternity—and we were next up in line. For the next 10 minutes, she let everyone in the store know that she had to go, screaming, “I gotta poopy, Mommy! Poopy now!” Amidst the laughter from the other customers, I tried telling her that everyone did not want to know that she had to go and she only had to tell Mommy. To that she sharply replied, “Everyone poopies Mommy.” Well yes they do, how could I have forgotten?

“I wish I could just smack myself every time I say the words “potty,” “pee,” or “poopy.” It’s so humbling to say these words out loud and in public. “

There are certain things you would never think you would do before having a toddler. The potty training process has had me doing and saying things that would have mortified me a few years ago. For the past two weeks, we’ve been driving around town with the travel potty in our car for emergencies. Earlier this week, I found myself clapping and yelling, “Yeah, you peed!” cheering my daughter on in the Bigg’s parking lot. If you happen to walk by me doing the potty dance, please try not to laugh and remember when you were here. I know it’s funny, but boy was I excited! I also wish I could just smack myself every time I say the words “potty,” “pee,” or “poopy.” It’s so humbling to say these words out loud and in public. I had my daughter in the store with me the other day and she began shouting that she had to go “poopy.” At first, I was so happy that she actually told me. But then I thought, “Oh god! What do I do now?”We had been in line with a full cart for what felt like an

This process has also brought about a new fascination with toilets. Now she wants to see the bathroom everywhere we go. What is that all about, anyway? The upside? I can now tell you where the public restrooms are in every store and restaurant that we frequent. She likes to walk around, check things out and proudly say, “I gonna pee pee in dere.”

So wish me luck (and patience) in the weeks to come. It’s a long shot, but maybe by next month’s column I’ll be able to say that we are diaper free.

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NEWS YOU CAN USE THE BEACH CELEBRATES 25TH ANNIVERSARY The Beach Waterpark is a premier travel destination in the Midwest, offering thrilling and relaxing water attractions, beach-themed music, real sand and authentic palm trees. The largest stand-alone waterpark in Ohio, The Beach was named the nation’s #1 waterpark in 2004 by Aquatics International Magazine. To celebrate their 25th year, The Beach is offering a variety of special events this summer including: • Club Aqua: Club Aqua, The Beach’s teens-only outdoor dance club, is returning for its seventh season. The party will take place at the Pearl and features a live interactive DJ and great music. (Must be 13-19 years of age). Tuesdays, June 9 – August 11 • Dive-In Movies: Dive into great family flicks on Saturday nights at The Beach. Pull up a lounge chair or float in an inner-tube in Kahuna Beach, the largest wavepool in Ohio. Visit www.thebeachwaterpark. com for a full movie line-up. Saturdays, June 27-August 15 • Surf Rockin’ Concert Series: The Beach’s NEW Surf Rockin’ concert series is a nostalgic review of the 1960s-era surf style music that originated in the U.S. Live bands bring the music of Dick Dale and the Beach Boys back on the Kokomo Kove Stage. Fridays, July 3-August 14 • Hot Salsa Concert Series: For any Cincinnatians who ever wanted to learn to Salsa: here’s your chance. The Beach’s NEW Hot Salsa

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Concert Series will feature live bands and Salsa instructors at the Kokomo Kove Stage. Saturdays, July 4-August 22 • Reggae Fest: Visit The Beach for a tropical ex per ience u n l i ke anywhere else in the Midwest. Each week The Beach will feature a new reggae band on the Kokomo Kove Stage. Sundays, July 5-August 23 • 25t h A n n iver s a r y Celebration Week: What can be better than a weeklong celebration of The Beach and all-things eighties? Live eighties music. Eighties movies. Even a few eighties in-park prices to relive The Beach’s first year, 1985. More contests and activities are being planned for this special week every day! The 25th birthday bash for The Beach is not to be missed! July 20-July 26 • Doggie Paddle Day: All dogs go to Heaven – but before that, they go to The Beach. The wavepool will be open for doggy swim. Contests will take place such as the Dog Dive where dogs can dive into the wavepool to fetch out tennis balls for prizes for both the dog and their owner. Dogs get in free and receive free treats upon entrance. September 13

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Local Tidbits for the Information-Savvy Parent NEW WEBSITES HELP PARENTS FIND CHILDCARE After being a stay-at-home mom for many years, Marie Wolf attempted to re-enter the workforce but found finding childcare providers and information on them nearly impossible. As a result, she started the My Child Care Guide website. (www.mychildcareguide.com) The website offers a step by step instruction of how to go about interviewing, touring, immunizations, paying, etc. for childcare. It also includes awareness for recalls and the community, a blog and information for providers, as well. Parents can find childcare facilities in their area and even rank the child care agencies, as well. Oftentimes the best source of information is from other parents though only you know what’s best for your child.

AMPUTEE COALITION OF AMERICA URGES CAUTION WHEN USING LAWN MOWERS THIS SUMMER WITH “LAWN MOWERS AND LEGS DON’T MIX” CAMPAIGN Every year, lawn mower accidents cause serious injuries to legs, arms, fingers, toes and other body parts. According to the U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission, more than 200,000 people—around 16,000 of them under age 19—were treated for lawnmower related injuries in 2007 with more than

Another site you can utilize is SitterCity. This website has been featured on hundreds of news outlets around the country. Looking for a babysitter on the fly? Just want a night out, to go shopping or maybe more? A search of just one zip code found more than 2200 results. Many of the caregivers will also provide background checks and more.You can search by location, education, experience, special needs experience, distance and even if they can cook, clean, help with homework and more. Visit www.sittercity.com to get started.

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• Do not allow other children to play nearby while you are mowing.

Accidents are preventable. Here are some tips they give parents this summer.

• As children mature, they will be capable of operating a lawn mower. Before they do, parents should explain the dangers of lawn mowers and their safe operation.

The Amputee Coalition offers these safety guidelines:

• Children should be at least 12 years old before operating any lawn mower.

• Use a mower with a control that stops it from moving forward if the handle is released.

• They should be at least 16 years old to operate a riding mower.

• Never pull backward or mow in reverse (pulling the lawnmower behind you).

• Never allow children to play on a lawn mower, even if it is turned off. • Never allow a child to ride on a riding lawn mower with you. • Have your young children stay indoors while you are mowing.

The American Academy of Pediatrics and American Academy of Orthopaedic Surgeons offer these additional tips:

• Always wear sturdy shoes—never sandals. • Before mowing, pick up stones, toys and debris from the lawn to prevent injuries from flying objects. • Always wear eye and hearing protection.

• Start and refuel mowers outdoors—not in a garage. Refuel with the motor turned off and cool. • Blade settings should be set by an adult only.

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Program Uses Audio-Visual Combination to Teach Babies to Read TEACHING YOUR BABY to read. You probably think it’s not possible, right? Think again. The Your Baby Can Read program has won the iParenting Media Award and has been seen on numerous television shows. And there’s a reason why—it works.Visit their web site and you’ll see children as young as nine months old reading words, understanding colors and able to know what words are as a parent spells words out loud.

Designed by Dr. Bob Titzer, this program works with the child in just a little time each day (or more, depending on time) to take advantage of your child’s rapidly growing brain. Studies show that the earlier a child learns to read, the better. This, in turn, translates to better performance in school and throughout life. By using this program, your child could be at a sixth grade reading level by kindergarten.

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The window of opportunity for teaching your child to read and communicate starts from birth. After all, your child’s brain development is roughly 90% complete by the time they turn f ive making your participation as your child’s f irst teacher through the use of this incredible learning program even more vital. Babies learn through play and the use of this fun and easy-to-use audiovisual program enhances the understanding of phonics. Once your child begins learning words and understanding how the letters interact and sound, it becomes easier to continue learning. Find more information at www.yourbabycanread.com.

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doorknobs and counters. When f inished, explain to her how touching these surfaces leaves her g l it ter everywhere and while we can see the glitter, you ca n’t see the germs. Now show her how hard it is to wa sh of f t he germs and the

2. Use the tissues. Have your child hold a tissue on the bridge of his nose and stand in front of a mirror. Tell him to cough a few times and watch how the tissue moves. Explain that when you cough without covering your mouth, your germs f ly in the wind just like that tissue did and other people breathe in those germs that could make them sick. You might also get fun with it and buy a pack of Sniff le Sleeves to teach your child to use his sleeve to cough or sneeze. (www.sniff lesleeve. com) Plus, you can even get aromatherapy drops to help

1. Try the glitter method. Rub glitter all over your child’s hands then shake her hand and have her touch

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Health Organization recently declaring the H1N1 virus (swine flu) being at pandemic level, it’s more important than ever to encourage good hand washing and germcontrol methods. Of course, parents must participate and lead by example, as well. (We have witnessed one too many parents leaving restrooms without washing their hands, believe it or not). Here are a couple tricks and tips to teach the kids why good germcontrol issues are imperative.

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10 Fun Birthday Celebrations for the Tween Years Ideas to Make Birthdays Special THROWING A BIRTHDAY party

for younger kids can be pretty easy. There are lots of great, local organizations that can help in the planning and making the best party ever. But what about the inbetween crowd? Tweens are pretty hard to plan parties for, so here are a few ideas to help you plan their special day. 1. Gaming Party. Take the party home

with your Wii, PS3 or other gaming console. Get a few games and pizza and let them spend the night gaming to their hearts content. 2. Cooking Party. Let your child pick

a few friends then split into groups to make the entrée, two sides, appetizer and dessert. Get them each personalized aprons at www.colorfulimages.com.

3. Mall Scavenger Hunt: Pair an

adult with a group of kids, give them

a disposable camera and a list of items to find and take photos of (i.e. a pair of rainbow socks, a sock puppet, etc.). When finished, convene back at the food court, give each kid $10 and let them go on their way to spend the money on items you put on another list ($1 gloss, $2 lotion, etc.). Send “fake credit card” invitations in the mail then send the developed photos as thank you cards. 4. Scrapbook Party: Get several small scrapbooks and supplies for cheap at a local craft store. Let the kids take photos of each other then print on a photo printer. Let them scrapbook the event together or have them bring their own photos. (Local options: Google “scrapbook” + “your city” to find local

scrapbook stores. Most of them host scrapbooking parties.) 5. Skating Party: Take the kids to a local roller skating rink to burn off some energy then bring them back for a sleep-over with pizza, ice cream and games. 6. Swimming Party: Most

schools or local recreation centers will let you use their pool for a specified number of hours affordably. When all else fails—just ask. 7. Go-Kart Party: Take to the internet

and find several great Go-Kart facilities in the city. Take the kids for games and racing fun.

8. Carnival Party: Use your local

school to host a birthday party. Rent a sno-cone machine and other party games then head to the dollar store to stock up on prizes. Check out www. birthdaypartyideas.com for ideas on how to make it fantastic. Tons of great ideas.

9. Amusement Park Party: Let your

child pick one person to take with him to a local amusement park for an all-day celebration. Prices for many parks have gone down in recent months and you can find coupons online.

10. At-Home Movie Theatre Party:

Get popcorn, rent some movies at your child’s request, buy candies and glow-inthe-dark goodies at the dollar store and then use monopoly money to let them purchase the items. By the end of the night they’ll be wheeling and dealing.

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Idolizing Adults

Why Teens “Reject”Their Parents For Other Adults THE SCREEN DOOR slams and in walks your 13-year old son. “Hey, Mom and Dad!” he calls. “Can I have $25? Jason’s mom says I’d be really good at woodworking. I’m going to sign up for a class.”

You and your son’s father exchange incredulous looks. Is this the same woodworking class that you’ve been telling him to take for months? The one that he scoffed at, and then sent you looks suggesting you were both crazy? This is a common exchange between a young teen and his parents. The average child at this age is beginning to gain the skills he needs to become independent, and one of the biggest changes he must make is a gradual separation from his family. He does this, in part, by “rejecting” his own parents and turning to other adults for both emotional support and guidance. Although this is a natural and essential step in growing up, the resulting shift in loyalties can feel frustrating or even unjust to the child’s parent. After years of nurturing and giving their best to their child, they are now seen as “old-fashioned” or “out of it” while the track coach or a youth group leader becomes a hero.

As trying as it may be for parents, the idolization of other adults is important for a number of reasons. While a young teen is ready to begin separating from the most important adults in her life, she still needs direction and nurturing from parental figures. Since it may feel “babyish” to cling to her own parents, she unconsciously seeks out substitute moms and dads to whom she can attach, and thus maintain her sense of security. Her dance teacher or her favorite aunt can provide the adult ties that she still needs without threatening her budding independence. During these growing years, a child learns more about the vast world that exists beyond his family. He begins to comprehend that not all adults think or act exactly like his parents, and that there are many ways of running households and living life. He becomes interested in the ideas and opinions of other adults and, at some point, he stops idolizing his parents. Still needing to idolize someone, however, he shifts his admiration to a figure outside the family. Also, while most young teens are ready to start thinking and acting for themselves, they may still lack full confidence in their own convictions. Connecting with a trusted adult outside the family

offers a safe stepping-stone into greater maturity and self-reliance. To ease the family through this phase of maturation, parents must be able to strike a healthy balance between letting go and maintaining control. Here are some suggestions: Allow your child to form and foster new relationships with other adults. Understand that this is not a personal rejection, but a necessary step for normal separation. When your preteen raves about how cool, smart and fun his biology teacher is, he is expressing his excitement not only about the individual person, but also about the fact that he has been accepted by a respected adult other than his parents. This knowledge helps raise his self-esteem and foster his feelings of self-worth. Keep abreast of which role models she chooses. Don’t hesitate to meet and monitor your child’s choice of mentors. Coaches, teachers, scout leaders, neighbors, aunts and uncles, parents of friends, counselors, faith leaders and step-parents may be good people for your child to connect with. But don’t assume. Learn enough about another adult’s background and relationship with your child to assure yourself that the connection is a safe and healthy one. A park district camp counselor is very

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Learning How Best to Handle the Family Budget

ART OF MANAGING it all as a working mom is typically handling the household budget. The most crucial thing you need to remember today when you manage your family’s budget is that you should not live at or beyond your means. Let me explain a bit.

Despite the fact that the majority of households in the U.S. earn two incomes, about 70 % of them live paycheck to paycheck. Further, there is more debt in America now than ever before. What is causing this f inancial crisis in the U.S.? It certainly wasn’t this way when our parents’ generation raised their families. Most of our moms didn’t work and yet they raised happy and healthy families, often larger in size than today. How did our parents do it? Why didn’t they rack up debt like households today? The answer is simple: they didn’t live beyond their means. In many households, there were strict budgets and they worked very hard to stay within them. On the f lip side, today most households live beyond their means by spending all that they make (and often more) thanks to credit cards. More income just means more “stuff.” A larger house, a more expensive car, more toys, more gadgets, more vacations, a second home, a boat—you name it. Unfortunately, most of the time it doesn’t mean more savings, more college funds for the children or more security if something should happen. This is why it is important to have a budget. This will help drive your f inancial choices and purchase decisions each month. Most families think about a budget as “how do we divide up our monthly income.” Unfortunately for most, there isn’t a “savings” line item in this type of budget. But gone are the days of relying on pensions, social security and other retirement income sources. Further, not saving means you must continue to work, leaving a working mom little options if she learns she would rather stay home with her kids, switch careers which may require additional schooling or time to look for the right job.

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The key to a good budget is being organized. It’s knowing exactly how much income is coming into the house each month. It’s knowing how you spent your money last year or the year before. It is about predicting what expenses you will have in the coming year. It’s about setting up a system for paying bills—be it electronic or writing checks. It’s about knowing how much you plan to contribute to your child(rens) college education. It’s about knowing when you want to retire and how much annual income you will need during retirement. So, it’s the short term (weekly or monthly), mid-term (annual expenses for things like vacations, children’s activities, Christmas) and long-term (college and retirement). Let’s break it down in steps to make it manageable for everyone.

STEP 1: Calculate your fixed monthly expenses. Be very choiceful on what you choose to spend your money on each month. You could join NetFlix and be charged monthly, or get satellite radio and pay monthly or add the movie channels to your cable bill. The question is: Do you really need these discretionary items? True monthly fixed expenses are Mortage or Rent, Taxes, Utilities (gas, electric, water, garbage), Phones, Cable, Internet, Student Loans, Groceries and Gasoline. Importantly, you also need to calculate what you can afford on the big ticket items like Mortgage/Rent. There are a couple of rules of thumb about how much you can afford on your mortage and taxes combined. Most experts say not more than 25% of your take home pay. Another way of calculating is your house’s worth (what you pay for it) should not be more than 3X your annual combined salaries of your household (including any bonuses). It is VERY important to stay within these guidelines, as evidenced by the housing crisis we are in today. If the housing market or interest rates change significantly you can find yourself in a terrible situation.

STEP 2: Determine how much you want to save each month. Sit down with a financial advisor and determine how much you need to be savings for children(s) education (usually a 529 account), your retirement or a rainy day. For your child’s education, try to get as detailed as possible: public or private university? What percentage do you expect to contribute? Do

you think you will qualify for any financial aid? For retirement the key question to answer is at what age and how much annual income will you need. A financial advisor can then help you determine what you need to save today (based on our age— sooner is always better to start saving) to enable the future your want.

STEP 3: Set a budget for flexible expenses each month. How much do you need each year for clothing, shoes, children’s activities, entertainment, eating out, vacations, gifts (Christmas, birthdays, weddings) and so on. The best way to go about this is to look at your credit card statements from the year before (try to charge everything for easy record keeping) or your Quicken account if you use a tool like that. This will change as you get older, from lots of wedding expenses in your twenties, to baby items, to children’s activites and so on. Once you have figured what a typical year looks like, divide it by twelve and give yourself a monthly budget. You may want to round up a bit just to make sure you have covered the things that come up. STEP 4: Do the math and actually run “water through the pipes.” Start with your net income (income after taxes or another way to say it would be “take home pay”) and deduct your monthly fixed expenses. Next subtract your savings goal. What is left should be higher than your monthly “flexible expenses” budget you calculated. If it does not, figure out what you can cut. Can you go without a vacation or a cheaper one? Can you give up a gym membership? One activity for your child? Whatever you do, don’t reduce your savings goal. In today’s economy, and with unemployment the highest it has been in years, it is crucial that every family is preparing for the worst. For a blank budget template go to www.millenniummom. com and for other great tips for the working mom pick up Millennium Mom today at a local bookstore in Cincinnati. JOANNA PROKOSCH ZUCKER is a wife, mother, Associate

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Being a Stay-at-Home Parent—or Not Respecting Your Parenting Decision

STAY HOME OR BE a working parent? It’s a tough choice that most of us have had to weigh, at least once. For most of us, it’s not an easy decision. Is living more comfortably worth being away from our kids one hour a day, let alone eight to ten hours a day? Do I want someone else helping to raise my children? Do I want to give up the career that took me so long to build?

Before I had my first son five years ago, I thought I knew it all. I remember saying, “I could never stay home. I’ll be a better mom if I work.” What does that mean?! Looking back, it seemed so simple. Like many of you, I had spent four years in college and many more beyond that trying to get the job in my field doing what I loved. Was I ready to give that up when I had a baby? The answer then was NO WAY! That was before I became a mom.

The moment my son was born the battle started. I’m not talking about the battle some parents have with each other. What someone else decides is right for them is none of my business. But the battle within ME began. I remember counting the days and fretting each day that my maternity leave grew shorter. How was I going to leave this little person with a babysitter? What was I going to miss? What if he got sick and needed me?

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I had all of these fears and the babysitter I had at the time wasn’t even a stranger—she was my sister! Twelve weeks flew by and, for our own personal reasons, my husband and I decided that I was going to return to work. It was harder than I had ever imagined. I remember calling home ten times a day to see if I had missed anything. As much as I told myself I wasn’t, I knew that I was. That was more than five years ago and since then I’ve had another little boy who happens to turn two this month. I work five days a week and even though I work second shift and my husband works first, our boys are still with a sitter about six hours a day, five days a week. I tell myself that quality time is what matters. I live for the weekends and try to be Super Mom in the mornings before I have to leave for work. That has always been my comfort—until a recent Monday night at the pool. I took the day off, just to have an extra day with my boys. I took them to a petting zoo, went exploring on some trails and even had a picnic by the lake. That evening we went to the community pool. It’s 5:30 p.m. and I look around to see all of these parents. Moms are watching the kids, dads are just getting home from work and rushing in with their swimsuits to take part. And it dawned on me that normally at 5:30 p.m. on a Monday night I’m at work in the middle of a newscast. It’s a Monday night and these families are enjoying something as simple as an evening swim together and I miss all of that. I’ll miss that most of the summer, unless it’s a Saturday or a Sunday. Making the decision to be a stay-at-home parent or a working parent is a tough decision. On this night, for me, it was even harder. I’ve always respected my friends who are stay-at-home moms. Now, I admire them even more. SHEREE PAOLELLO anchors the

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Pregnancy and Varicose Veins Why They Occur and How to Treat Them

THE PROCESS OF bringing a baby into the world is miraculous. The changes in a woman’s body to accomplish this feat are both ingenious and a bit frightening. Everyone is prepared for a big belly and labor pains, but few are ready for the other little (or big) bulges and purple skin markings that can occur in the legs (and places one could never imagine). Worst of all is the fear that these changes may not go away. In the world of the vascular surgeons at Vein Solutions these lumps (varicose veins) and markings (spider telangectasia) get better. The following information will help the expectant mother and the new mom understand these changes. The veins of the legs are thin-walled tubes that return the blood to the heart. The blood is pushed out of the tubes by the surrounding muscles. What makes the blood go up to the heart, instead of down to the ankle, is the presence of one-way valves within the vein. When muscles compress the vein, the valve below snaps shut, the valve above pops open, and blood is forced upward through the biggest vein in the body (the vena cava) into the heart. During pregnancy, as the baby grows, the uterus enlarges and can compress the vena cava. In addition, the hormonal changes of pregnancy make the body more pliable. These hormones affect not only muscles and joints, but also the veins. When the higher pressure from the baby lying on the vena cava is transmitted to the highly elastic leg veins, the one-way valves no longer come together. As a result, high pressure is propagated down the leg as a column of blood that extends from the heart to the ankle. (Picture one of those long thin balloons that clowns use to make animals. Now imagine f illing it with water from your faucet. It

makes the balloon very heavy.) All the veins (big and small) in the leg “see” the high pressure and “feel” the hormones. They enlarge and Voila—varicose and spider veins! As the baby gets bigger, the lower extremity vein pressure gets higher and things get worse. Leg swelling and heaviness, varicosities in the labia and extensive spider veins on the legs and ankles are not unusual. THE GOOD NEWS: 1. Nearly all vein problems of pregnancy are managed with conservative measures (support stockings and well-placed pressure). It is exceedingly rare to require surgery for venous problems during pregnancy. 2. Once the baby is delivered, the pressure of the uterus on the veins is immediately relieved. Over a period of 6 to 12 weeks after birth the hormones return to normal. Amazingly, many, if not all, of the spiders and varicosities disappear. 3. Varicose and spider veins that develop and persist after pregnancy can be treated in almost all cases with office-based injections (sclerotherapy) or minimally invasive surgery that provides long-lasting relief of symptoms and excellent cosmetic results. Charles L. MESH M.D. FACS, is a Board Certified Vascular Surgeon. Dr. Mesh’s office is located at VeinSolutions, a division of Cardiac, Vascular and Thoracic Surgeons Inc. He has been in practice since 1992.

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Remaining Active While Pregnant EXPECTANT MOMS OFTEN WONDER if they can continue their regular physical activity or if they were not previously active whether now is a good time to begin. “It can be done safely,” affirms Dr. Marvin Almquist of Seven Hills Women’s Health Center. Be aware of the benefits and risks of exercise. “Talk it over with your doctor and tell him what type of exercises you are doing,” encourages Almquist.You will be glad you did. The American College of Obstetrics and Gynecology notes benefits of exercise during pregnancy include improved mood, sleep, posture, energy, strength, muscle tone and even decreased aches. “Most women who are physically active do much better in labor,” notes Dr. Kelly Cole of Seven Hills Women’s Health Center. Some studies even show exercise to decrease the risk of gestational diabetes and preeclampsia. With certain medical conditions, you should not be on the move. “Pregnancy-specific conditions we do not want to exercise include high order pregnancy or people carrying twins (because of the risk of pre-term labor), people who have an incompetent cervix

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causing pre-term delivery and women having bleeding during pregnancy, especially during the second and third trimesters,” informs Cole. Other contraindications include high blood pressure, anemia and ruptured membranes. Take your time and begin with as little as fifteen minutes a day. “You definitely want to warm-down slowly so you can try to limit the cramps and things that can develop in legs and arms,” says Almquist. It is advised to stretch before and after to avoid sore muscles. The American College of Obstetrics and Gynecology advise drinking enough water, wearing clothes that will keep you cool, avoiding warm, humid weather, wearing a supportive bra, not exercising on your back after the first trimester and stopping before you feel exhausted. Although the changes in your body may have you feeling down, there is so much you can do. “Swimming is a wonderful exercise, especially during the third trimester when your pelvis is a little unstable because ligaments are stretching. Joints are more unstable, too. There is no risk for a fall, it takes a lot of pressure off your back and stomach and you do not typically get

overheated,” raves Cole. You may also try prenatal yoga. “I have seen those women (yoga moms) have increased flexibility and better sustained breast control and pushing efforts during labor,” adds Cole. Other great options include walking, riding a stationary bike and joining an aerobics class tailored for pregnant women. “I do not recommend contact sports like ice hockey, soccer or basketball, gymnastics, horseback riding or downhill skiing because it is too easy to get an abdominal trauma or lose balance and fall.” Almquist says.You should be able to carry a conversation as you exercise. Returning to your pre-pregnancy fitness routine usually takes about four to six weeks, so be patient.“You can slowly start to resume at about two weeks but have to look at everyone on an individual basis,” Cole reminds. As a mom on the move, you will be able to take better care of yourself and your baby. JAMIE LOBER’S passion is for health promotion and disease prevention. As a speaker and author of Pink Power (getpinkpower.com), she has empowered others to modify health behavior through knowledge.

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Eye Health and Safety Making Vision Care a Priority

WHEN YOU THINK OF pediatric health, a small and vital organ like the eye may not come to mind. Without taking precautions, the fragile eye can become the subject of injury, irritation or vision trouble. When you know the signs and act early, you will be insightful in an unexpected situation. Vision trouble may be subtle and your child may not always be direct in telling you. “A lot of squinting is the most obvious sign outward but the child may be asking what something is because he cannot tell,” says Dr. Theresa Derickson, pediatrician of Group Health Associates. His pediatrician should perform an annual eye exam to detect mild vision disturbances, usually to see if he can recognize letters. “We use pictures for preschool age kids who may not know the letters a and e but know a teacup is different from a heart,” Derickson tells. Irritation is common in the summer months. “Tree pollens causes a tremendous amount of eye allergies,” Derickson tells. Chlorine and chemicals from suntan lotion may annoy your child. “He can

get eye irritations from suntan lotions or from playing in the grass, getting fertilizer on his hands and rubbing his eyes,” Derickson explains. Act on the side of safety. “Kids should be wearing sunglasses with a UV protection factor to prevent solar damage. If they are going to be cutting the grass or doing yard projects where they will have access to saw dust or flying debris, they need to have safety goggles to protect their eyes,” Derickson encourages. Avoid high impact sports. “Baseball is the number one cause of eye injuries for children ages five through fourteen,” Dr. Karen Klugo, ophthalmologist of Eye Care Associates of Greater Cincinnati shares. Be cautious on the July 4. “Kids should not be around fireworks, especially bottle rockets,” says Klugo. You may face equally dangerous scenarios indoors. “You want to supervise kids when using scissors, forks and pencils and should be careful around things like coat hangers, bungee cords and rubber bands,” advises Klugo. Common household items can be your child’s worst enemy.

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If your child complains of something in his eye, do not panic. “The majority of things kids get in their eyes are just irritants, not actually harmful and will not do damage. If you wash it away, irritation should subside,” Derickson says. It is advised to rinse his eye with plain water for about twenty minutes. “If after twenty minutes your child still has significant redness, irritation or complains of pain, you need to seek further care,” Derickson insists. Know the difference between vision trouble and injury. “If your child complains of light sensitivity, excessive tearing or pain, it is a suspected injury,” Klugo notes. In this case, do not hesitate to contact an ophthalmologist. You can set a positive example by wearing protective eyewear and staying away from potential hazards. Make an annual vision screening a family tradition as it just might be sight-saving. JAMIE LOBER’S passion is for health promotion and disease prevention. As a speaker and author of Pink Power (getpinkpower.com), she has empowered others to modify health behavior through knowledge.

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Answers to Questions You’re Too Embarrassed to Ask YOU’VE READ THE books. You’ve been to the childbirth classes. You watch TLC’s “A Baby Story” regularly. But still, you have some questions—things your girlfriends only talk vaguely about, things you’re too embarrassed to ask about and bring up in conversation. Worry no more—we asked the questions you may be too embarrassed to ask and got the answers you’ve been longing to hear (or maybe not).

I’m scared to go to the bathroom after the baby is born. Will it hurt ?

I want to have a natural birth. But secretly, I’m scared. If, in the middle of it, I change my mind, is that OK? Will the nurses think less of me?

“Labor and delivery can be an emotionally and physically exhausting process. Lacking an instant maternal-infant bond can happen and is not a sign that you are a failure or a bad person. Sharing your feelings with your husband and your healthcare team is important so that we can monitor you through this adjustment. These feelings can linger and lead to depressive feelings, and your doctor needs to be aware of this to avoid complications with you and your baby.” —Dr. Denise W. Sutler

“Fear plays a big part in labor and can actually inhibit the progress of labor. If you want to have an unmedicated birth, you should begin early to work through your fears. Get educated, learn skills to cope with labor, read positive information about birth, and read positive birth stories as in Ina Mays’ Guide to Childbirth. The fear factor contributes indirectly and directly to the high rate of epidurals and cesarean sections. Birth is a normal process and women can birth their babies! Of course it’s okay to change your mind to get an epidural and the nurses will not think less of you. About 90 percent of laboring women get an epidural.” —Donna Luggen

I have hemorrhoids (thanks to the pregnancy). Will this make pushing more difficult ?

“No, but pushing can make the hemorrhoids worse! Sorry! Most hemorrhoids clear up nicely within a few weeks after delivery. Medications are sometimes needed to help speed up the process of healing.” — Donna Luggen

Is it true that, while pushing, it’s possible to have a bowel movement?

“Many times before labor even begins, women will have a series of cleansing bowel movements. This is her body’s own natural way of getting ready for the baby’s birth. At the same time, there is often a very small amount of waste that she will push out as she is pushing her baby out, and if this happens the nurses or doctor will gently wipe it away and she’ll probably never even know it happened. This is so common that no woman should ever feel embarrassed because most likely everyone she knows has done the same thing when they gave birth.” —Erica Konya

I’m scared of tearing. What happens if I tear? And if I have to have stitches, will I feel them?

“It’s OK to be scared, but remember that fear makes you tense, and tension makes you tighten your muscles, which is not good for tearing. If you do tear, whether you’ve had an epidural or not, you probably won’t feel it since the pressure of the baby’s head actually numbs that area. If you need stitches, your doctor will numb the site so you will not feel the repair work, but it may be a little sore for a few weeks while you’re healing.” —Erica Konya

Is delivering the placenta like delivering a baby? What does it look like?

“The placenta delivery is much easier than the baby and usual ly

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occurs within 30 minutes of the delivery. The placenta is like a big marshmallow in that it is soft but still has mass and cannot compress to completely flat. Mom may have to push a little bit to expel the placenta, but not too much. The maternal side of the placenta is beefy red to purple in color. The fetal side has a glistening off-white to gray color and is made of the “bag of water,” which is really the membranes, chorion and amnion. Under the surface of these membranes you can see large blood vessels traversing to each segment of the placenta called cotyledons where fetal blood and maternal blood pass near each other to allow exchange of nutrients and waste.” —Dr. Denise W. Sutler

“There is usually only discomfort if there was a tear or episiotomy, and even then it may not be an issue. Stool softeners help and are usually given as routine medication.” —Donna Luggen

What if I don’ t immediately bond with my baby. Is this normal?

I want to breastfeed, but when is it okay for me to have an alcoholic drink?

“An occasional beer or glass of wine can actually be okay. For some women, it can help them relax to aid in breastfeeding (it may help with the milk ejection reflex also know as the let-down). The alcohol does appear in the breast milk so quantity is an issue. In the case of the occasional consumption of higher alcoholic content drinks the mother should wait at least two hours after the last drink to breastfeed as the levels in the breast milk coincide with the alcohol blood levels of the mom. Alcohol is not stored in the milk so pumping and dumping doesn’t fix the milk.” —Donna Luggen

What about sex?

“There is no clear-cut rule as to when to resume sexual activity when no stitches are present. Most times we recommend you avoid sex until postpartum bleeding and discharge has ended. When stitches are present, these need to be given time to heal. At your doctor visit following delivery, your doctor will check the stitches and assure they are healing appropriately and instruct you on resumption of sex and other activities such as exercise. In both cases though, a typical duration of abstinence is six weeks.” —Dr. Denise W. Sutler KARA GEBHART UHL is a Fort Thomas, Ky.-

based freelance writer and editor. To read more of her work visit www.karagebhartuhl. com. To learn more about her family visit www. pleiadesbee.com.

ABOUT OUR EXPERTS: ERICA KONYA, owner of Nurture (www.NurtureBirth.com) is a certified labor/birth doula and early lactation care specialist. DONNA LUGGEN has been teaching for 26 years with the Childbirth Education Association. An RN, she’s also a certified doula and lactation counselor. She delivered all five of her children, now ages 22 to 30, without medication. DR. DENISE W. SUTLER is a mother of two and an Ob/ Gyn at Seven Hills Women’s Health Center (www.WomensHealthCenters.com).

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If your kid is crazy about Dora, Bob or the Movie Character of the Week, feel free to buy a few napkins or a cute disposable table cloth. But you don’t have to purchase everything that Hallmark makes. Supplement with solid color plates and cups which are inf initely less expensive and a little more restful to the senses. Though life-size cutouts and inf latable critters are fun, they are not necessary to life. A few streamers and balloons will make things festive. Let’s face it—the kids probably won’t notice anyway.

You don’t have to feed the masses.

In the old days, a birthday party included cake, punch, and ice cream. Set a new trend by serving classic refreshments. Make sure to choose a time when a meal won’t be expected, like midmorning or after lunch. Note in the invitations that “cake and ice cream will be served,” so that no child comes famished and expecting a full meal.

Serve a cute cake. A Wilton Cake Decorating Class is not necessar y to bake someone happy. And neither is an elaborate and expensive bakery dessert. Don’t even think of baking it from scratch or making that buttercream icing! (Trust me on this one.) A decorated sheet cake from the grocer’s bakery is pretty inexpensive these days. Peruse their catalog;

Limit your guest list. Help your child recognize that we can have many friends, but we don’t need to invite them all to every event. That is a hard thing to learn. Remember creating the guest list for your wedding? Don’t be guilt-tripped (...continued from page 20) into thinking that you absolutely have to invite every kid you cross paths with. You’ll drive yourself and your child nuts. Decide on how many before you talk about who to include.

Consider varying the type of guest list each year.

You might invite three families for a BBQ one year and have a multi-age celebration. Have f ive kids from the soccer team the next year. Maybe another year the birthday kid can invite a buddy for a sleepover or a trip to the amusement park. Be tactful, however, and don’t broadcast the party details to those whose feelings might get hurt. Likewise, when your child doesn’t get

invited to a friend’s party, remind him that it doesn’t have to be viewed as an affront. We can’t be all places all the time.

Watch the clock.

Two to three hours is a great amount of time for a party. You don’t need to sign on for an all-day shindig. You’ll f ind that the time will go quickly. Consider dividing the party into chunks of time featuring play, refreshments, piñata and gifts. Having guests depart while they’re still enjoying themselves is a much better alternative to meltdown endings.

Let the kids play.

Resist the urge to f ill every minute with games and activities. Some of our best parties have been when the kids just had plenty of room to run around outside. If your yard can’t swing it, consider a party at the park. Talk to your child beforehand about what things he thinks his guests would enjoy and have some organized games as backup. There can sometimes be one bored apple to spoil the whole bushel. Feel free to let kids be kids. Provide supervision. Let them enjoy one another’s company. If you plan a simple party, you may not be the talk of the town, but you’re sure to have some energ y left by the time it starts, let alone when it ends. Your child and her friends will enjoy some simple fun and the day will be f illed with laughter, love, and lots of good company. Let the festivities begin! JESSICA FISHER is a wife, mother and freelance writer making her home in San Diego. She regularly writes about fun, frugality, and the pursuit of a clean house at www.lifeasmom.com.

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Highfield Discovery Garden

Children, Nature and Play Come Together HIGHFIELD DISCOVERY GARDEN is not your typical playground—it is a play area that allows children to interact with nature. After pumping water from a well into a watering can, children are invited to water the many flowers and vegetables. They can also run through the vinecovered tunnel that lightly sprays a gentle mist to cool off on a hot day.

The center, located at Glenwood Gardens is part of the Hamilton County Parks District, offers many child-friendly programs and has the following several themed gardens:

BUTTERFLY GARDEN The plants in this butterfly-shaped garden were chosen because their colors and scents are favorites of butterflies. Sit and watch as butterflies flutter by, and see how many different kinds you can spot. You might even see one pop out of its chrysalis. Nearby, you may find caterpillars munching on their favorite plants as they get ready to “morph”. If you’d like to get a close up view of a butterfly, sit still with

an orange slice and a butterfly may land on your hand to have a sweet treat! DISCOVERY TREE Explore this interactive tree house and see who makes it their home. Some of the (pretend) creatures you might see include a raccoon, a woodpecker, an owl family, a termite, a beehive and a giant butterfly. The Discovery Tree face welcomes you inside where you can climb up to the nest and get a great view of the garden using a telescope. FROG AND TOAD’S POND Visit with Frog and Toad and some of their pond friends as you explore their watery world and the special plants that live here. Sit still on the dock and you might see a fish or salamander— or, maybe a dragonfly will zoom by overhead! Step a bit closer to the pond’s edge and take a better look at the frog—if he doesn’t jump into the water too quickly.

GRANDMA’S SCENT GARDEN Stop and smell the flowers and herbs in Grandma’s Scent Garden. Grandma and Grandpa have planted all their favorite sweet-smelling plants in this garden. Step into the tea house and have a pretend tea party. Don’t forget to plant all your favorite flowers in the window boxes before your guests arrive. A wooden swing hanging under the giant oak tree is the perfect spot to sit and relax while enjoying the sights and smells of Grandma’s Scent Garden. TROLLEY GARDEN Mr. Geier’s Garden Railway in the Trolley Garden has a train depot where you can operate a miniature train. Blow the whistle and turn on the crossing lights just like a real conductor! Make the trains appear from the tunnels and follow them as they pass by the homes of The Three Little Pigs, Snow White’s forest cottage, Rapunzel’s ivycovered tower and the woman who lives in a shoe. WIZARD’S GARDEN Following the wooden boardwalk into the edge of the woods, you can cross the suspension bridge above a wildflowerfilled ravine to make your way to the Wizard’s Garden. The pathway leads to a storyteller’s circle where you might hear a tale about

the creatures that live in the nearby forest or meet a screech owl who flew in to visit with you. Be sure to try on the giant wizard’s hat for size. But be careful that you don’t awaken the dragon you’ll discover sleeping in a shady corner of the garden! FAIRY GARDEN This newest addition to the gardens will delight all ages with the magical appeal of a tiny world of fairies. Every time you take a look, you discover a new detail that you haven’t noticed before. MORE INFORMATION: Highland Discovery Garden at Glenwood Gardens 10397 Springfield Pike 513-367-4774 www.discoverygarden.org Hours: Tuesday - Saturday: 10:00 a.m. 6:00 p.m.; Sun: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m.. Closed Mondays Cost: Adults are $4. Children ages 3-12 are $3. Ages 2 years and under are free. Annual Family passes are available for $30. Cost to enter park is $2 or $5 for the year. CARRIE SCHMIDT is a freelance writer whose work has appeared in The American Journal of Orthopedics, The Writer Magazine, Family Fun Magazine, The Cincinnati Enquirer and Senior Life.

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10 Ways to Encourage the Arts

Why the Arts Are Essential to Our Kids’ Education With science showing that arts, like music, enhance brain development in a very real way, it is counterintuitive for art education to receive low priority. If you haven’t seen the reports, arts are shown to positively influence the part of a child’s brain that is used in emotional perception, intuition and creativity. At a time when kids need every opportunity to learn about the real human condition instead of the virtual condition many live in today, we parents need to get involved and bring art to life for our kids.

TO DANCE IS TO live. That is according to the Peanuts cross-stitch my grandmother made me years ago. As a girl, I thought it made sense. As a mother, I know it makes sense. What doesn’t make sense, however, is what may be described as a lackluster emphasis our society places on the arts.

“Fostering creativity and developing criticalthinking skills is as important as learning math and other subjects experienced in normal school curricula,” says David E. Beck, president of the Middletown Arts Center board of governors. “In most cases, a child will reveal a partiality for certain matters. If art is one of them, encouraging them to pursue this interest is important and a parent should determine how their particular school system supports art education. In too many cases, art education is lacking altogether in elementary, secondary and high schools. In other cases, art education is one of the first to be eliminated when money is tight.” Tatiana Cameron (Tajci), performing artist and cofounder of the Clifton Performance Theatre, also feels arts are critical to a child’s development. “These days everything is so produced and children and adults don’t have the chance anymore to use their imaginations to really be creative. Look at earlier centuries, art is a reflection of time, culture, communities. It’s a form of self-expression. If you don’t have that, you have robots that just push buttons. It helps children find out who they are...and express themselves to their parents and to their community.” Her advice for parents is to “always look for resources. When I moved from L.A. to Cincinnati, I picked up Cincinnati Parenting magazine to look for programs. Though I am an artist, I can’t provide all I want for my children. It has to come from a variety of people who have different talents. I wanted to expose them to different programs. There are programs everywhere, parents just have to look.” Troy Brown, director of community education for the Art Academy of Cincinnati, says the arts help kids dialog about the world that goes on around them and suggests parents introduce the arts to

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their children early on. “The best and easiest way is just exposure. Exposure to all types of arts at the earliest age possible. That’s the key. If your kid has gone to a play, he will start being familiar with what goes on, how to behave, when to clap. If he doesn’t go, then he may become frightened [at the prospect of going to a play] because he won’t know how to perform or how to act.”

A believer? If so, here are a few tips to help you insert art into your child’s life.

Make arts and crafts supplies like paper and crayons available to your child and let your child create freely. Ask the child to share and describe what he or she has created.

2. Allow your child to experiment with simple

materials like paper bags, boxes, sticks, fabrics and tape to learn about building in threedimensional space. Invent a challenge, such as crafting an artwork that stands by itself but stretches between two chairs, and watch your child work toward a creative goal.

3. Celebrate your child’s artistic creations by hanging drawings on the wall or saving them in a book.

4. Read books, including books about the arts and biographies of artists.

5. Take

advantage of art in the community including museums, concerts and theater.

6. Create art at home through singing, playing music, reading, dancing and drawing.

Talk about how art is all around us. Notice art in unexpected settings like parks and grocery stores. Discuss how artists have helped design your child’s toys, clothes, magazines, furniture and more.

8. Talk about your artistic skills and interests and explore those of your child.

9. Enroll your child in art classes. 10. Speak

to your child’s school about the importance of art education and make sure arts education receives proper funding. Remember, art is not just about the ability to recognize a Picasso, it’s about the experience. After all, to dance is to live. CARRIE BISHOP is a freelance writer and mother of two young sons, whose daily antics inspire her work and her life.

K12 gets kids thinking big.

It’s what happens when they realize geography puts the world at their fingertips. When they get that time literally moves mountains. When they see how history leaves its mark on our world. That’s thanks to K12 and our award-winning curriculum, individualized to bring learning alive, one child at a time. Every subject is delivered online, with hands-on activities, plus books and support from expert teachers.

When kids get into learning, learning gets into them. Options include: • Full-time, tuition-free public schooling in many states • An accredited online private school available worldwide • Over 150 courses including foreign languages, AP, and electives available for direct purchase We’re America’s largest online curriculum provider for grades K through 12. Because we give every student a chance to think big. Learn more at

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Interested in a tuition-free online public school option for your child? The K12 program is available through the Ohio Virtual Academy, a full-time online public school for grades K-12 that offers state-licensed teachers, a vibrant school community, and a range of extracurricular activities. Discover what thousands of Ohio parents throughout the state already know—that the Ohio Virtual Academy gives kids an exceptional education. It’s not too early to start planning for the 2009-2010 school year. Learn more at an upcoming event.

Learn more at an Ohio Virtual Academy event 4July 14, Milford 4July 14, Sharonville 4July 29, Lebanon and West Chester

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school in Ohio by Business Week and GreatSchools.net www.K12.com/oh 866.339.9074

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Wildlife Comes to You

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Weds. July 01 LITTLE TYKE HIKE Water play galore! Other animals cool off, we can too! You and your three to six year old can splash into some nifty water activities. Wear clothes and shoes you don’t mind getting wet. . 11am. Winton Woods. 10245 Winton Rd, Cincinnati OH. www.greatparks.org. (513)521-7275.

PORCH SALE Join us on the porch of an 1835 farmhouse and find some outstanding bargains. Light refreshments will be available. Also occurring Sunday, July 5th 1 pm–3 pm . 10am-7pm. Farbach-Werner Nature Preserve. 3445 Poole Rd, Cincinnati OH. www.greatparks.org. (513)521-7275.

Fri. July 03

MUSIC GAMES PLAYSHOP

GLOW DISC GOLF

(ages 5-9). Aretta Baumgartner will teach music basics with hands-on fun and games. Register online or call 342BOOK (2665). . 4:30p.m. Walton Branch. 21 S. Main St. www.bcpl.org. (859)342BOOK. www.bcpl.org.

A game of disc golf is always fun, but playing it at night is even more fun! Bring your own glow disc or rent one of ours and try your skills on our glowing course! Winton Woods ($5.00 to play plus $3.00 to rent disc, 7/1) . 9pm. Winton Woods. 10245 Winton Rd, Cincinnati OH. www. greatparks.org. (513)521-7275.

Thurs. July 02 PAWS TO READ (ages 5 - 10) Dogs love books, too! Cuddle with a furry friend and share a great book. Call to register for your time slot. Register online or call 342-BOOK (2665). . 6:308 pm. Lents Branch. 3215 Cougar Path. www.bcpl.org. (859)342-BOOK. www. bcpl.org.

and find some outstanding bargains. Light refreshments will be available. Also occurring Sunday, July 5th 1 pm–3 pm . 10am-7pm. Farbach-Werner Nature Preserve. 3445 Poole Rd, Cincinnati OH. www.greatparks.org. (513)521-7275.

fish will receive a trophy and the largest fish caught in each category will receive a trophy and prize courtesy of Bass Pro Shops. 10 am. to 12 p.m. Lake Isabella.

Sat. July 04

MONTGOMERY JULY 4 PARADE

4TH OF JULY CELEBRATION The whole family will enjoy this spectacular music celebration as the Cincinnati Audiences will hear their favorite American songs and patriotic anthems including the Armed Forces Salute and, in honor of the Lincoln Bicentennial, a special performance of Copland’s Lincoln Portrait. The evening concludes with a dazzling display by Rozzi’s Famous Fireworks. The free “Family Fun Zone” starts at 6:30 PM. 8pm. Riverbend Music Center.

PICTURE PERFECT (ages 6 - 12) Make picture frames for your favorite photos of family and friends. Register online or call 342-BOOK (2665). . 10:30 a.m. Boone Co. Main Library. 1786 Burlington Pike,, Burlington KY. www.bcpl.org. (859)342-BOOK.

PORCH SALE Join us on the porch of an 1835 farmhouse

Parade entries will depart from various parking lots on Cooper Road, head east on Cooper Road, travel north on Montgomery Road where the parade will end at Montgomery City Hall (10101 Montgomery Road). Following the parade, the July 4th Festival will be held from 11 am-2 pm in Montgomery Park (10101 Montgomery Road). Contact: Joyce Yock 513792-8329. 10am.

ICE CREAM & TRIVIA HOLIDAY KID’S TOURNAMENTS AT LAKE ISABELLA These exciting holiday fishing tournaments, sponsored by Bass Pro Shops, are free of charge and all angling is from the shore. Registration begins at 9 a.m. For children 12 and under. All children who compete will receive a certificate. Any child who catches a

Bring the family to the park on either day to learn some fun facts about ice cream. Afterwards, you will have a chance to make ice cream in a bag! S . 1 and 3 pm. Sharon Woods. 11450 Lebanon Rd. www.greatparks. org. (513)521-7275. www. greatparks.org.

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Sun. July 05 CREEK CREEP Join us to explore to the Dry Fork Creek and learn about the creatures that live there. Waterproof or old shoes are recommended. . 1pm. Miami Whitewater Forest. 9001 Mt. Hope Rd, Harrison OH. www.greatparks. org. (513)521-7275.

RED, WHITE AND BLUE SCAVENGER HUNT Pick up a scavenger hunt from the naturalist at the trailhead anytime between 1 and 3 pm and search for things in nature that are every color in the rainbow! Return with your findings by 3:30 pm and receive a prize! l . 1-3pm. Winton Woods. 10245 Winton Rd, Cincinnati OH. www.greatparks.org. (513)521-7275.

ICE CREAM & TRIVIA Bring the family to the park on either day to learn some fun facts about ice cream. Afterwards, you will have a chance to make ice cream in a bag! S . 1 and 3 pm. Sharon Woods. 11450 Lebanon Rd. www. greatparks.org. (513)521-7275. www. greatparks.org.

Mon. July 06 FULL MOON WALKS Hit the trails at night and enjoy the full moon and natural history readings. Recommended for ages 8 and older. Preregistration is required. Call 9654246 before 5 p.m. day of walk for cancellation notices. Members free; nonmembers $5. 9:30 p.m. Cincinnati Nature Center - Rowe Woods. 4949 Tealtown Rd., Milford OH. www. cincynature.org. (513)831-1711.

LET’S GO CREEKIN’ We’ll hike to a nearby creek to go in search of fossils, frogs, salamanders, bugs and anything else that might call this habitat a home. . 2pm. Sharon Woods. 11450 Lebanon Rd. www. greatparks.org. (513)521-7275. www. greatparks.org.

Thurs. July 09

Sat. July 11

WILDLIFE COMES TO YOU

JOE WALTERS TO HOST SPECIAL OLYMPICS EVENT

PLAN & SCAN: REGISTRY WORKSHOP

Former Cincinnati Bengal will be leading the way. More than 900 area Special Olympic athletes will be supported by this event which will include an autograph session from the celebrities for all fans in attendance. Gates open at 3:30 p.m. Tickets are $10 and a part of the proceeds will go towards the Special Olympics. Fans can purchase tickets by calling (859) 594-HITS. . Champion Window Field.

Set your registry mysteries solved by our expert team, while you discover the baby-care essentials you can’t be without. You’ll also learn how your registry can help support the Bundled in Hope Campaign benefiting Save the Children. Reservations suggested. Florence Babies “R” Us - (859) 282 - 8921; Forest Park Babies “R” Us - (513) 671 - 2430

Kids can enjoy close encounters with a reptile, bird, mammal or insect today at Groesbeck Branch Library 2994 W. Galbraith Road (513) 3694454 at 2pm. In exchange, children’s librarians from the Public Library will be at the Zoo, along with Franklin at 10:30am! Zoo visitors can listen to stories, sing songs and Meet & Greet with Franklin! Log onto www.cincinnatilibrary.org to learn more.

CHILD SAFETY FINGERPRINTING

GREEN WEEK

JUGGLING WORKSHOP

Visit this exhibit to see how nature recycles and learn how we can live more lightly on the earth through games, crafts, live animals and other activities. July 7, 10 - 12 • 11 am 3 pm, July 8 & 9 • 6 pm - 8 pm. Farbach-Werner Nature Preserve. 3445 Poole Rd, Cincinnati OH. www.greatparks.org. (513)521-7275.

(8 & up) Learn how to juggle with Scott Sullivan. Register online or call 342-BOOK (2665). . 7:00 p.m. Scheben Branch. 8899 US Highway 42, Florence KY. www.bcpl.org. (859)342-BOOK.

Weds. July 08 BOOKWORM WEDNESDAYS Free admission to Madagascar 2 today when you present a book report at a participating Showcase Cinemas, Multiplex Cinemas or Cinema de Lux locations. Accompanying parents or guardians and children under six receive free admission and do not need to submit a book report. For participating theatres visit nationalamusements.com.

FRACTURED FAIRY TALES (6-10) Hear the other side of the story in hilarious retellings of some of your favorite classic fairytales. Register online or call 342-BOOK (2665). . 1pm. Scheben Branch. 8899 US Highway 42, Florence KY. w w w. b c p l . o r g . (859)342-BOOK.

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TEE-SHIRTS WITH A FLAIR (ages 6 - 12) Design a tee-shirt that shows YOUR personality. Bring a clean, white tee-shirt. Register online or call 342BOOK (2665). . 7pm. Boone Co. Main Library. 1786 Burlington Pike,, Burlington KY. www.bcpl.org. (859)342-BOOK.

RAPTOR RENDEZVOUS It’s a raptor party! Many of our winged friends have been invited and you are too. Enjoy this rare look at a number of live birds of prey. Learn about our local rehabilitation organization RAPTOR, Inc. . 2pm. Winton Woods. 10245 Winton Rd, Cincinnati OH. www.greatparks.org. (513)521-7275.

Fri. July 10 GOING GREEN BOOK BARTER Love books? Here’s a new twist on recycling - recycle knowledge. Bring up to ten books, to this unique exchange. Nature-themed books for all ages are best but any subject will do. We’ll provide the guidelines and you’ll go home with some “new” treasures of knowledge. . 1-3pm. Winton Woods. 10245 Winton Rd, Cincinnati OH. www.greatparks.org. (513)521-7275.

The Cincinnati Police Department will be discussing child safety measures and providing complete fingerprinting kits for children ages 1 year and up. Space is limited, so please RSVP. To register, please visit www.theplaceforfamilies.com or call 513-591-2332. 11:15. Cincinnati Family Enrichment Center. 4244 Hamilton Ave., Cincinnati OH. www.theplaceforfamilies. com. (513)591-CFEC.

FOSSIL IDENTIFICATION WITH CINCINNATI DRY DREDGERS, INC. he Dry Dredgers is a non-profit group of individuals of all ages, backgrounds, and levels of expertise, sharing a common and sincere interest in fossils. www.drydredgers.org. Members free; nonmembers pay daily admission. 10 a.m. to 12 p.m. Cincinnati Nature Center - Rowe Woods. 4949 Tealtown Rd., Milford OH. www.cincynature.org. (513)831-1711.

KIDS ON KEYS (ages 6 - 10) Musician, Katie Falcon, will present different types of musical instruments and the kids will have time to make their own. Register online or call 342-BOOK (2665). . 2pm. Florence Branch. 7425 US 42, Florence KY. www. bcpl.org. (859)342-BOOK.

TEE-SHIRTS WITH A FLAIR (ages 6 - 12) Design a tee-shirt that shows YOUR personality. Bring a clean, white tee-shirt. Register online or call 342BOOK (2665). . 10:30 a.m. Boone Co. Main Library. 1786 Burlington Pike,, Burlington KY. www.bcpl.org. (859)342-BOOK.

WET & WILD JAMBOREE! Register your three to five year olds to learn all about critters that live in the water. We’ll meet some live animals, make a fun water craft and visit Parky’s Wetland Adventure wet playground! Bring swimsuits and towels for your child to wear in the wet playground. ($4.00, 7/7) . 10am. Woodland Mound. 8250 Old Kellogg Rd. www.greatparks.org. (513)521-7275. www.greatparks.org.

NANNY MCPHEE & PETER PAN P&G Movei Night at Fountain on the Square! Families, couples, and groups of friends bring their own blankets, chairs, and pillows. Adult beverages, soft drinks, and movie snacks are available for purchase. Nanny McPhee showing at 7:30pm, Peter Pan showing at 9:30pm. Fountain Square. 520 Vine St., Cincinnati OH. www.myfountainsquare.com. (513) 352-4066.

SIZZLIN SUMMER CONCERT SERIES The concert series is free and open to the public. A Hamilton County Park District Motor Vehicle Permit ($5 for the year/$2 for the day) is required to enter the parks. Tonight featuring Buffalo

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Ridge Jazz Band! . 7-9pm.Winton Woods. 10245 Winton Rd, Cincinnati OH. www. greatparks.org. (513)521-7275.

Sun. July 12 BRUNCH, ART, MUSIC: MOTHERDAUGHTER DAY Celebrate the special relationship of mothers and daughters at the Art Museum. Enjoy a tour of Bessie Potter Vonnoh: Sculptor of Women with Curator of American Painting and Sculpture Julie Aronson, special activities for mothers and daughters to do together, a book signing at the Museum Shop, plus a special brunch menu in the Terrace Café. Cost: Free. Café reservations requested, call (513) 639-2986. Call (513) 721-ARTS or visit www.cincinnatiartmuseum.org for more information. 11am-2pm. Cincinnati Art Museum. 953 Eden Park Dr., Cincinnati OH. www.cincinnatiartmuseum.org. (513)721-ARTS.

BUGS TO MUNCH That’s right, we’re eating bugs! Humans have done so for centuries. Come learn new recipes or a twist on your favorites. There will be a slide show and a few tasty treats to sample. Bring an open mind and your appetite! . 2pm. Sharon Woods. 11450 Lebanon Rd. www.greatparks.org. (513)521-7275. www.greatparks.org.

opportunity to create a garden painting of their own during this time as well as learning about the beauty of flowers, vegetables and herbs. Glenwood Gardens/ Highfield Discovery Garden (513) 7718733 Occurring through Sunday, July 19th. Tues-Sat 10:45, 1pm and 4pm. Sun 1pm and 4pm. Glenwood Gardens. 10397 Springfield Pike, Cincinnati OH. www. greatparks.org. (513)521-7275.

COOL CREATURES Learn all about different kinds of reptiles with Cool Critters Outreach! . 2pm. Pleasant Ridge Branch. 6233 Montgomery Rd. www.cincinnatilibrary.org. (513)3694488. www.cincinnatilibrary.org.

(all ages) Learn origami as Jonathan leads you through the process step by step. Children of all ages will love his wacky, off-beat sense of humor. Space is limited; register online or call 342-BOOK (2665). Also occurring 7pm at Florance Branch. 2p.m. Scheben Branch. 8899 US Highway 42, Florence KY. www.bcpl.org. (859)342-BOOK.

Tues. July 14 ARTS & FLOWERS IN THE GARDEN We are celebrating the fifth anniversary of Highfield Discovery Garden this week by having kid-friendly art displays in the garden. Children will have an

(ages 9 - 14) Get ready for the release of the new Harry Potter movie on July 17. Register online or call 342-BOOK (2665). . 6:30 p.m. Boone Co. Main Library. 1786 Burlington Pike,, Burlington KY. www.bcpl.org. (859)342-BOOK.

WII GOT GAME @ THE LIBRARY!

Kids can enjoy close encounters with a reptile, bird, mammal or insect today at Madeira Branch Library 7200 Miami Avenue (513) 369-6028 at 2pm. In exchange, c h i l d r e n ’s librarians from the Public Library will be at the Zoo, along with Lyle Lyle Crocodile at 10:30am! Zoo visitors can listen to stories, sing songs and Meet & Greet with Lyle Lyle Crocodile! Log onto www. cincinnatilibrary.org to learn more.

Join us from 9:30 a.m. to 4:00 p.m., Thursday, July 16 at the Felicity Branch Library, 209 Prather Road, Felicity, 45120. Kids and teens are invited to play Guitar Hero and Wii Sports with others. For more information or to register, please call the library at 876-4131. Felicity Branch. 209 Prather Rd., Felicity OH. www.clermontlibrary.org. (513)876-4134.

Weds., July 15 Free admission to Everyone’s Hero today when you present a book report at a participating Showcase Cinemas, Multiplex Cinemas or Cinema de Lux locations. Accompanying parents or guardians and children under six receive free admission and do not need to submit a book report. For participating theatres visit nationalamusements.com.

GERMAN/ ENGLISH STORYTIME JONATHAN HEART, ORIGAMI WIZARD

HARRY POTTER PARTY

WILDLIFE COMES TO YOU

BOOKWORM WEDNESDAYS

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Thurs. July 16

(Ages 3+) “Do you want to be my friend?” “Wollen wir Freunde sein?” Funfilled bilingual storytime about friendship. Don’t forget to bring a friend! Register online or call 342-BOOK (2665). . 4:30 p.m. Scheben Branch. 8899 US Highway 42, Florence KY. www.bcpl.org. (859)342-BOOK.

HOW SWEET IT IS! Welcome to the world of honey makers and nectar takers. Insects and mammals may dine on nectar, which is Latin for “drink of the gods.” Observe some of these wizards in action as we hike to our nearby prairie. 2pm. Winton Woods. 10245 Winton Rd, Cincinnati OH. www.greatparks.org. (513)521-7275.

Fri. July 17 2009 MIDFIRST OHIO CHALLENGE It’s more than just hot air! Balloon Fights, Balloon Glows, Team Fastrax Skydiving, Carnival, Live Music including The Cleavers, 3-Feet Deep and Stagger Lee!. Car Show, Arts & Crafts, Balloon rides, great food and more! Smith Park, Middletown, Ohio. 4-10pm. For more information check out www.MidFirstOhioChallenge.com

SUMMER JAZZ BAND CONCERT Free concert being held in the Patricia Corbett Theatre. For more information, logo onto www.ccm.uc.edu. 4pm. University of Cincinnati CollegeConservatory of Music. Mary Emery Hall University of Cincinnati, Cincinnati OH. www.ccm.uc.edu. 513-556-6638.

WINE TASTING Sample a selection of wines from around the world with heavy hors d’oeuvres. Must be 21 years old to attend. See page 15 for details. Sharon Woods/Stonewood Banquet Center ($24.95 advance; $28.95 at the door) . 7pm. Sharon Woods. 11450 Lebanon Rd. www.greatparks.org. (513)521-7275. www.greatparks.org.

Sat. July 18 CAKE TOWN BY BUSKEN BAKERY Hands-on with “Mayor” of Cake Town Cami Smith, Cake Decorator

Extraordinaire. Children will decorate cookies in bright summer colors!. 10 a.m., 11 a.m., 12 p.m., 2 p.m., 3 p.m. $9.95. Hyde Park Busken Bakery. Madison Rd. & Edwards Rd., Cincinnati OH. www. busken.com/caketown.php. 513-8715330.

FREE WILLY AND LEMONY SNICKET’S P&G Movei Night at Fountain on the Square! Families, couples, and groups of friends bring their own blankets, chairs, and pillows. Adult beverages, soft drinks, and movie snacks are available for purchase. Free Willy showing at 7:30pm, Lemony Snicket’s A Series of Unfortunate Events showing at 9:30pm. Fountain Square. 520 Vine St., Cincinnati OH. www. myfountainsquare.com. (513) 352-4066.

PNC HEADLINERS – WOODSTOCK: A FLASHBACK To celebrate the 40th anniversary of Woodstock, the Pops presents an evening devoted to one of the most amazing events in rock history featuring songs by Crosby, Stills & Nash, The Who, Janis Joplin, Joe Cocker, Santana, Jimi Hendrix, The Band, Jefferson Airplane, and many more. Concertgoers are encouraged to wear their tie-dyes for a chance to win tickets to the Pops’ season opener at Music Hall. For more information, visit www.cincinnatipops.org or call 513381-3300. . 8pm. Riverbend Music Center.

2009 MIDFIRST OHIO CHALLENGE It’s more than just hot air! Balloon Fights, Balloon Glows, Team Fastrax Skydiving, Carnival, Live Music including The Cleavers, 3-Feet Deep and Stagger Lee!. Car Show, Arts & Crafts, Balloon rides, great food and more! Smith Park, Middletown, Ohio. 4-10pm. For more information check out www.MidFirstOhioChallenge. com

Sun. July 19 BUTTERFLY SUNDAE Join the fun at this midsummer celebration of butterflies! Children

can complete a take-home butterfly craft and do a scavenger hunt. Adults can see a butterfly show and visit the butterfly gardeners at their garden plots. Nature’s Niche will feature 10% off all butterfly merchandise today. Enjoy an old-fashioned ice cream sundae, lemonade, iced tea and grilled corn for a small fee. . 1-4pm. FarbachWerner Nature Preserve. 3445 Poole Rd, Cincinnati OH. www.greatparks. org. (513)521-7275.

DADDY, ME AND ICE CREAM! (ages 3-6) Celebrate National Ice Cream Day with Daddy or a special man in your life with stories and music then make an ice cream treats together. Register online or call 342BOOK (2665). . 3:00 p.m. Boone Co. Main Library. 1786 Burlington Pike,, Burlington KY. www.bcpl.org. (859)342-BOOK.

THIRD SUNDAY FUNDAY AT THE TAFT MUSEUM! Bring the whole family to the Taft Museum on the third Sunday of each month this summer to explore, create and play. Activities are ongoing, so drop in when you have time. Free with Museum admission. Taft Museum of Art. 316 Pike St. www. taftmuseum.org. (513)684-4524. www.taftmuseum.org.

Mon. July 20 BEAMZ! See and hear harmonious music created by laser beams! 2:00 p.m., All ages . Loveland Branch. 649 Loveland Madeira Rd., Loveland OH. www.cincinnatilibrary.org. (513)369-4476.

LEARN AFRICAN / HAITIAN DANCE Learn traditional African and Haitian dances using the Katherine Dunham Dance Technique with certified instructor, Jeanne Speier. Stay after the program to enjoy a healthy snack! Presented as part of the Humana Healthy Kids Zone. Ages 5-12 . 3pm. Price Hill Branch. 3215 Warsaw Ave. www.cincinnatilibrary.org. (513)369-4490. www.cincinnatilibrary.org.

Tues. July 21 PUMP & GO BREASTFEEDING WORKSHOP Ready, set pump! Get the scoop on breastfeeding and all the great products sure to make it easy to feed baby naturally. CINCINNATIPARENT.COM 27

R E SO U RC E S 6:30pm. Reservations suggested. Florence Babies “R” Us - (859) 282 - 8921; Forest Park Babies “R” Us - (513) 671 - 2430

Thurs. July 23 BAKUGAN

BALLERINA DREAMS (ages 6 to 11) Have you always wanted to be a ballerina? Here is your chance! You’ll learn the basic positions and make a fantastic tutu to take home with you! Register online or call 342BOOK (2665). . 4:30 p m . Lents Branch. 3215 Cougar Path, Hebron KY. w w w. b c p l . o r g . (859)342-BOOK.

CLAY POT CREATIONS (Ages 6-10) Turn a mini clay pot into a cute animal creation. Register online or call 342-BOOK (2665). . 7:00 p.m. Scheben Branch. 8899 US Highway 42, Florence KY. www.bcpl.org. (859)342BOOK.

VACCINATION DEBATE Should I or should I not vaccinate my children? Dr. Michaeld, DC will share the facts behind the benefits and risks of childhood vaccinations during this one-hour seminar. To register, please visit www.theplaceforfamilies.com or call 513-591-2332. 7pm. Cincinnati Family Enrichment Center. 4244 Hamilton Ave., Cincinnati OH. www.theplaceforfamilies. com. (513)591-CFEC.

WILDLIFE COMES TO YOU Kids can enjoy close encounters with a reptile, bird, mammal or insect today at Harrison Branch Library 10398 New Haven Road (513) 3694442 at 2pm. In exchange, children’s librarians from the Public Library will be at the Zoo, along with Madeline at 10:30am! Zoo visitors can listen to stories, sing songs and Meet & Greet with Madeline! Log onto www. cincinnatilibrary.org to learn more.

Weds. July 22 BOOKWORM WEDNESDAYS Free admission to Kung Fu Panda today when you present a book report at a participating Showcase Cinemas, Multiplex Cinemas or Cinema de Lux locations. Accompanying parents or guardians and children under six receive free admission and do not need to submit a book report. For participating theatres visit nationalamusements.com.

(6-12) Bring your Bakugan and cards and be ready to duel. Snacks and drinks provided. Register online or call 342-BOOK (2665). . 6:30p.m. Scheben Branch. 8899 US Highway 42, Florence KY. www.bcpl.org. (859)342-BOOK.

MADELINE’S TEA PARTY! Meet Madeline, have some tea or lemonade & make your own blank book! 2:00-3:00 p.m., Ages 5-12 . Symmes Township Branch. 11850 Enyart Rd. www. cincinnatilibrary.org. (513)369-6001. www.cincinnatilibrary.org.

MT. ADAMS CINEMA IN THE CITY OUTDOOR SUMMER MOVIES SERIES Playing tonight: To Catch a Thief. Celebrating its 200+ year rich history, Mt.Adams Civic Association in concert with City Parks and Planning is kicking off the inaugural FREE Cinema in the City Outdoor Summer Movie series at the newly renovated Seasongood Pavilion. The event and parking are free with live entertainment before the movies. . Gates Open at 7:30 p.m., Movies Begin at Dusk. Seasongood Pavilion, Eden Park. 1600 Art Museum Drive, Cincinnati OH. 513-241-8183.

Fri. July 24

The sounds of summer are in full swing - but who is making them? Come find out how these musicians in nature’s band produce their sound. Come prepared for a short walk, live animal guests and a wild jam session. Meet at the Shelter. For information, please call 751-3679. 9:00 a.m. - 10:30 a.m. Free. Mt. Storm Park. www. cincinnatiparks.com. 513-751-3679.

SHAKE IT UP! (ages 3-6) Calling all movers and shakers to hear stories, make an instrument, and provide the drum roll for a fun activity! Register online or call 342-BOOK (2665). . 11:00 a.m. Walton Branch. 21 S. Main St. www. bcpl.org. (859)342-BOOK. www.bcpl.org.

Sun. July 26 GOSPEL IN FOUNTAIN SQUARE

Learn all about different kinds of reptiles with Cool Critters Outreach! . St. Bernard Branch. 4803 Tower Ave. www.cincinnatilibrary.org. (513)3694462. www.cincinnatilibrary.org.

Gospel Occasional Sundays, 5-7 pm: Gospel groups and solo performers singing songs of hope and inspiration. . 5-7pm. Fountain Square. 520 Vine St., Cincinnati OH. www. myfountainsquare.com. (513) 352-4066.

FRIDAY NIGHT FLOAT: KAYAK BASICS

ROLLIN’ ON THE RIVER CAR SHOW

Enjoy a relaxing kayak outing in the cool of a summer’s evening. Get some pointers on kayaking, learn a little natural history of the lake then head out to enjoy the sunset. End the evening with some light refreshments. Participants must fit properly in provided personal flotation devices. ($10, 7/22) . 8pm.Winton Woods. 10245 Winton Rd, Cincinnati OH. www. greatparks.org. (513)521-7275.

Bring the family to Fernbank Park and enjoy a summer day checking out a variety of vehicles at the 20th annual Rollin’ on the River Car Show. From classics to contemporary, you’ll see the whole gambit of early vehicles and muscle cars. You can register your car in advance at www.rollinontherivercarshow. For more information, visit www. rollinontherivercarshow. com or call Al Duebber at (513) 941-7700. 9am-4pm.

Sat. July 25 P&G Movei Night at Fountain on the Square! Families, couples, and groups

Mon., July 27 PUPPET MASTERS Learn the basics of puppet-making and

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Puppet Show with the Storybook Puppeteers! All ages. . 10:30am. Harrison Branch. 10398 New Haven Rd, Harrison OH. www. cincinnatilibrary.org. (513)369-4442.

great product collections. At the quarter fest, you will find 60 - 100 different product collection that you could purchase for as little as a Quarter! Bring a bag of quarters and place your bid on the collections you ar interested in, and when your number is called, you win! There are more opportunities to win door prizes and raffels throughout the night. Proceeds will be donated to our local charity. Doors open at 6:30pm, Quarterfest to start at 7:00. $1.00. Edgewood Senior Center. 550 Freedom Park Drive. www.impresa-network. com. 859-818-0803.

Tues. July 28

Weds. July 29

BUCKLE UP & BOOGIE CAR SEAT SAFETY WORKSHOP

40TH ANNIVERSARY OF THE LUNAR LANDING

performance with puppeteer Aretta Baumgartner. Register online or call 342-BOOK (2665). . (ages 6 - 12) Main Branch, 1786 Burlington Pike, Burlington 859-342-BOOK (2665) 7:00 p.m. Boone Co. Main Library. 1786 Burlington Pike,, Burlington KY. www. bcpl.org. (859)342-BOOK.

PUPPETS NATURE’S MUSICIANS

COOL CREATURES

BEETHOVEN & BEST IN SHOW

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of friends bring their own blankets, chairs, and pillows. Adult beverages, soft drinks, and movie snacks are available for purchase. Beethoven showing at 7:30pm (Bring your dog night!), Best in Show showing at 9:30pm. Fountain Square. 520 Vine St., Cincinnati OH. www. myfountainsquare.com. (513) 352-4066.

There’s no wiggle vroom when it comes to safety. You’ll learn how to choose and use a car seat to keep baby safe…with rules of the road provided by Safe Kids Worldwide. 6:30pm. Reservations suggested. Florence Babies “R” Us - (859) 282 - 8921; Forest Park Babies “R” Us - (513) 671 - 2430

A Cincinnati Observatory speaker will present a program about the moon phases. There will be stories, space food, and lunar crafts. For more information or to register for the program call the library at 7525580 or sign up at the Amelia Branch. 6:30pm. Amelia Branch. 58 Maple St., Amelia OH. www.clermontlibrary.org. (513)752-5580.

BOOKWORM WEDNESDAYS OUTDOOR ARCHERY A certified archery instructor will teach you the basics of shooting a compound bow on our outdoor range. Then try out your new archery skills with a little target practice! Archers must be able to pull a minimum of ten pounds draw weight. Recommended ages eight to adult. ($15.00, 7/26) . 6pm. Winton Woods. 10245 Winton Rd, Cincinnati OH. www.greatparks.org. (513)521-7275.

Free admission to Pirates Who Don’t Do Anything: A Veggie Tales Movie today when you present a book report at a participating Showcase Cinemas, Multiplex Cinemas or Cinema de Lux locations. Accompanying parents or guardians and children under six receive free admission and do not need to submit a book report. For participating theatres visit nationalamusements.com.

Thurs. July 30 MONKEY BUSINESS Hear monkey stories and make a craft! 2:00-2:45 p.m. Forest Park Branch. 655 Waycross Rd, Cincinnati OH. www. cincinnatilibrary.org.

SALSA IN FOUNTAIN SQUARE TURTLE EXHIBIT WEEK See this exhibit including turtles and turtle activities. Occurring through August 2nd 11pm-3pm. Wed and Thurs 6-8pm. Farbach-Werner Nature Preserve. 3445 Poole Rd, Cincinnati OH. www.greatparks.org. (513)521-7275.

IMPRESA QUARTERFEST Quarter fests are a fun night out event hosted by the Impresa Business Network. The events are a great opportunity for our customers to get

Fountain Square can get hot in the summer, but it was a lot hotter on Thursday nights in 2008 when bands like Tropicoso, Salsa Caliente, Son del Caribe, and ¡Zumba! laid down spicy Latin rhythms. Tonight: Zumba!. 7-10pm. Fountain Square. 520 Vine St., Cincinnati OH. www. myfountainsquare.com. (513) 352-4066.

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ONGOING EVENTS BESSIE POTTER VONNOH: SCULPTOR OF WOMEN

Occurring Daily Through Sunday, September 06, 2009. Celebrate the grandmothers, mothers and young girls in your life with a visit to the Art Museum’s presentation of works by Bessie Potter Vonnoh (1872–1955), the leading sculptor of American womanhood of her time and a pioneer among female artists. Devoted to the artist, and spotlights the artist’s small sculpture and garden statuary portraying women as both icons of beauty and moral guardians of family and home. . Cincinnati Art Museum. 953 Eden Park Dr., Cincinnati OH. www.cincinnatiartmuseum.org. (513)721-ARTS.

BIGG’S FAMILY DAYS ON FOUNTAIN SQUARE

Occurring Each Saturday Beginning Saturday, June 20, 2009 Through Saturday, August 01, 2009. Featuring Cincinnatithemed activities for children 10 and under. Play stations include art making, story time, physical activities and a children’s performer on stage to end the day. Occurring every Saturday between May 30 and August 1, excluding July 4, 1-2:30pm This event is free and open to children 10 and under. Fountain Square. 520 Vine St., Cincinnati OH. www. myfountainsquare.com. (513) 352-4066.

CINCINNATI PUBLIC SCHOOLS’ PAINTING COLLECTION

Occurring Daily Through Monday, August 31, 2009. See selected works from the Cincinnati Public Schools&#8217; Painting Collection, marking the historic partnership between the Art Museum and the Cincinnati Museum Center. This first installation presents the Art Museum&#8217;s commitment to showcase the community&#8217;s artistic treasures alongside other noted Cincinnati artists in the Cincinnati Wing. . Saturdays, 1 p.m. and Sundays, 3 p.m. Cincinnati Art Museum. 953 Eden Park Dr., Cincinnati OH. w w w. c i n c i n n a t i a r t m u s e u m . o r g . (513)721-ARTS.

COMPUTER INSTRUCTION

Occurring Daily Beginning Wednesday, July 01, 2009 Through Friday, July 31, 2009. for adults will be available for scheduling in July at the Amelia Branch Library, 58 Maple Street, Amelia, 45102. Get help with computer basics, creating an email account, using Microsoft Word, and more. For more information or to register, call the library at 752-5580. Amelia Branch. 58 Maple St., Amelia OH. www.clermontlibrary. org. (513)752-5580.

DINOSAURS UNEARTHED

Occurring Daily Through Monday, September 07, 2009. Dinosaurs Unearthed will take you back in time with more than 20 life-sized

roaring, moving dinosaurs, full skeletons and newly discovered fossils. See it with the OMNIMAX film, Dinosaurs Alive!. Cincinnati Museum Center. 1301 Western Ave, Cincinnati OH. www. cincymuseum.com. (513)287-7000.

GRILLED CHEESE WEDNESDAYS

Ongoing Each Wednesday Beginning Wednesday, June 17, 2009. Come join us on special Wednesdays for a warm and gooey grilled cheese. Bring extras for your picnic or purchase a combo meal with sides and a drink. Hot dogs will also be available, as well as fun activities for kids after your picnic. Dates: June 3, 17, July 1, 15 & August 12. 11 am - 12:30 pm. Sandwich = $1, Combo = $2. Anderson Township Park District - Beech Acres Park Playground. 6910 Salem Rd, Cincinnati Oh. www.andersonparks. com/ProgramListing.html. 513-388-4513.

IMAGINE, CREATE, PARTICIPATE!

Occurring Daily Beginning Wednesday, July 01, 2009 Through Friday, July 31, 2009. Join the library on Thursdays, July 2, 9, 16, 23, 30 & August 6 from 9:30 a.m. to Noon to create your own book! Attendees in grades third through sixth will over six weeks create their own book with elements of photography, artwork, poetry and creative writing. . Bethel Branch. 611 W. Plane St, Bethel OH. www.clermontlibrary.org. (513)7342619.

LASER BEATLES

Occurring Daily Beginning Wednesday, July 01, 2009 Through Friday, July 31, 2009. The Beatles’ groundbreaking music comes alive in this special tribute to the composers of such songs as “Strawberry Fields Forever,”“Get Back,” and “I Am the Walrus.” Enjoy the dazzling laser display set to the amazing music we all know and love. Visit www.drakeplanetarium. org for showtimes and dates playing. Drake Planetarium. 2020 Sherman Ave., Norwood OH. www.drakeplanetarium. org. (513)396-5578.

LASER METALLICA

Occurring Daily Beginning Wednesday, July 01, 2009 Through Friday, July 31, 2009. Features the hard rock music of Metallica set to a pulsing laser light show. Come enjoy many of Metallica’s hits: “Fuel”, “One”, “Sad But True”, “Master of Puppets” and more. Visit www. drakeplanetarium.org for showtimes and dates playing. Drake Planetarium. 2020 Sherman Ave., Norwood OH. www. drakeplanetarium.org. (513)396-5578.

LASER U2

Occurring Daily Beginning Wednesday, July 01, 2009 Through Friday, July 31, 2009. Can’t get to U2’s concert this summer? Come rock out to the sounds of U2 set to an explosive laser show featuring many of your favorites

like “With Or Without You”, “New Year’s Day”, “Sunday Bloody Sunday” and more! Visit www.drakeplanetarium. org for showtimes and dates playing. Drake Planetarium. 2020 Sherman Ave., Norwood OH. www.drakeplanetarium. org. (513)396-5578.

LEGENDS OF THE NIGHT SKY

Occurring Daily Beginning Wednesday, July 01, 2009 Through Friday, July 31, 2009. This full-dome animated show brings the mythological stories of three constellations to life in a fun-filled, animated adventure, complete with a laser show. Bring the whole family! Visit www. drakeplanetarium.org for showtimes and dates playing. Drake Planetarium. 2020 Sherman Ave., Norwood OH. www. drakeplanetarium.org. (513)396-5578.

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phenomenal experience it is.Visit www. drakeplanetarium.org for showtimes and dates playing. Drake Planetarium. 2020 Sherman Ave., Norwood OH. www. drakeplanetarium.org. (513)396-5578.

SEE WHAT’S PARKED AT THE ART MUSEUM

Occurring Daily Through Monday, August 31, 2009. 1963 Corvette Stingray Z06 Now on View. This summer, see one of America’s most iconic and artfully designed automobiles, when the Art Museum presents the limited-production 1963 Corvette Stingray Z06. Call (513) 721-ARTS or visit www.cincinnatiartmuseum. org. . Cincinnati Art Museum. 953 Eden Park Dr., Cincinnati OH. w w w. c i n c i n n a t i a r t m u s e u m . o r g . (513)721-ARTS.

Occurring Daily Through Saturday, September 12, 2009. Bring your blankets, chairs, and pillows to the Square every Saturday night this summer for a free movie or two on the giant LED Board. Adult beverages, soft drinks and movie snacks are available for purchase. In 2009, concessions will include Skyline, Graeter&#8217;s and kettle corn. No outside alcohol, glass containers or pets, please. Fountain Square. 520 Vine St., Cincinnati OH. www.myfountainsquare. com/movies. (513) 352-4066.

SEWING MADE EASY!

ONE ON ONE INTERNET TRAINING FOR ADULTS

SUMMER READING: IT’S NOT JUST FOR KIDS!

Occurring Daily Beginning Wednesday, July 01, 2009 Through Friday, July 31, 2009. Available for scheduling in July. Learn how to do an internet search, how to email, and use Microsoft Word. For more information or to register, call the library at 528-1744. Union Township Branch. 4462 Mt. Carmel-Tobasco Rd. www.clermontlibrary.org. (513)5281744. www.clermontlibrary.org.

OUTSIDE THE ORDINARY: CONTEMPORARY ART IN GLASS, WOOD, AND CERAMICS FROM THE WOLF COLLECTION

Occurring Daily Beginning Saturday, June 20, 2009 Through Sunday, September 13, 2009. Stories told in clay, fluid forms in glass and wood, and colorful assemblies in all three media as it shows over 65 innovative works from the acclaimed Nancy and David Wolf Collection. . Cincinnati Art Museum. 953 Eden Park Dr., Cincinnati OH. w w w. c i n c i n n a t i a r t m u s e u m . o r g . (513)721-ARTS.

PINK FLOYD’S “THE WALL” LASER SHOW

Occurring Daily Beginning Wednesday, July 01, 2009 Through Friday, July 31, 2009. Travel back to the 70’s and experience an ever-changing universe of brilliantly colored laser light pulsing to the classic rock music of Pink Floyd’s “The Wall” album. If you have been to a Pink Floyd laser show, you know what a

Occurring Each Tuesday Beginning Tuesday, July 14, 2009 Through Tuesday, July 28, 2009. Join us for this informative three part series on Basic Sewing Techniques for adults. Bring your working portable sewing machine each week. For more information or to register for the event, call the library at 724-1070. Williamsburg Branch. 594 Main St., Williamsburg. www. clermontlibrary.org. (513)724-1070. www.clermontlibrary.org.

Occurring Daily Through Friday, July 31, 2009. Simply pick up a game card at any Library location around Hamilton County or download one from www. CincinnatiLibrary.org/SummerRead/ and start reading. Young readers and adults alike earn incentives for reading through several different prize levels. Stop by your local branch, or refer to the Library’s program calendar, to find out what’s happening throughout this eight– week program in your neighborhood. For more about Summer Reading 2009: Creature Feature, go to www. CincinnatiLibrary.org/ SummerRead/.

THE FROG BOG

Occurring Daily Through Thursday, December 31, 2009. Children-fr iendly, interactive exhibit features many species of frogs. Includes handson, visual and sound-rich experiences. Included with admission. Newport Aquarium. One Aquarium Way. www. newportaquarium.com. (859)261-7444. www.newportaquarium.com.

VIRGINS TO VIXENS: PICTURING AMERICAN WOMEN, 1880-1930

Occurring Daily Through Sunday, September 06, 2009. This companion exhibition in the adjacent gallery

features more than 20 rarely seen prints, drawings and photographs from the Art Museum’s permanent collections. Made during an era of rapidly evolving social roles, these works depict women at work and at leisure; as mothers, consumers and studio models. Featured are works by James Abbott McNeill Whistler, Mary Cassatt, Elizabeth Nourse, Edward Hopper and others. . Cincinnati Art Museum. 953 Eden Park Dr., Cincinnati OH. www.cincinnatiar tmuseum.org. (513)721-ARTS.

WHALE OF A TALE

Occurring Every Tue, Thu & Sat Beginning Tuesday, July 07, 2009 Through Thursday, July 30, 2009. Instill the love of reading within your child from infancy upward by participating in our multi-sensory story time. Weekly themes incorporate story telling, singing, and a simple takehome craft, if desired. Come with your “listening ears” on! Birth to 5 years @ 10:30am For more information, please visit www.theplaceforfamilies. com or call 513-591-2332. 10:30am. Cincinnati Family Enrichment Center. 4244 Hamilton Ave., Cincinnati OH. www.theplaceforfamilies.com. (513)591-CFEC.

WHAT PARENTS SHOULD KNOW ABOUT READING AND COMPREHENSION DEVELOPMENT

Occurring on the first Tuesday and third Tuesday of each Month Through Friday, December 18, 2009. Do you want to help your child develop into a strong reader? Have you wondered about your chld’s reading and learning development? Come learn what research says about reading and comprehension development: 5 critical cognitive processes all strong readers must acquire; which cognitive processes are assumed to be intact before starting school; why even smart kids can fail to acquire these processes; why good readers struggle with comprehension; important benchmarks for developing readers. 9:30 - 11:00 a.m. or 4:30 6:00 p.m. free. Langsford Learning Acceleration Center. 9402 Towne Square Ave.,Suite B, Cincinnati OH. w w w. L a n g s f o rd L e a r n i n g . c o m . 513-531-7400.

ZOO TALES WITH THE CINCINNATI PUBLIC LIBRARY

Occurring every Tuesday, now through July 21 at 10:30 a.m. Zoo visitors can listen to stories, singsongs and Meet & Greet with storybook costume characters each Tuesday in the Zoo’s Historical Vine Street Village. (Near Natural Selections Cafe) CINCINNATIPARENT.COM 29

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SCHOOLS Montessori MONTESSORI ACADEMY OF CINCINNATI 8293 Duke Blvd., Mason, OH 45040 (513)398-7773 www.montacademy.org Grades: 3 years – 8th grade Enrollment: 300

Now in our 20th year offering Montessori curriculum with an individualized nurturing approach. Experienced, degreed teachers foster a love of learning, promote independence and develop the necessary skills for success. New 7.5-acre campus! State Chartered. AMS Affiliated. Extended Care available on-site. THE NEW SCHOOL MONTESSORI 3 Burton Woods Lane, Cincinnati, OH 45229 (513)281-7999 www.thenewschool.cc Grades: 3 year-olds through 6th Grade Enrollment: 150

Founded on Montessori principles in 1970, our wooded playgrounds, home-cooked meals and family-like setting in North Avondale’s Mitchell Mansion provide a stimulating and nurturing environment for learning. We value diversity and create a caring and supportive community. Our graduates excel academically, but more importantly are empowered as citizens of our global community. (Accredited by AMS and ISACS).

Childcare/Preschool CHAI TOTS EARLY CHILDHOOD CENTER 7587 Central Parke Blvd., Mason, OH 45040 (513)234-0600 www.chaitots.com Grades: 6 weeks - 6 years Enrollment: 40

Academic excellence via unique blend of Montessori method and traditional Jewish education. Chai Tots teaches children the culture and traditions of Judaism, while developing their creativity skills and promoting 30 CINCINNATI PARENT * JULY 2009

independence. Flexible schedule. Before and Aftercare. THE CHILD’S PLACE 4936 Old Irwin Simpson Rd, Mason, OH 45040 (513)398-6928 www.montacademy.org Grades: 9 months – 5 years Enrollment: 150

Montessori Early Childhood Program! Exceptionally low ratios in a nurturing environment! Our 2-acre campus provides bike and cart paths. Separate play areas for toddlers and preschoolers. Spanish and Music classes offered! Full-time and Part-time available. AMS Affiliate.

PLEASANT RIDGE PRESBYTERIAN NURSERY SCHOOL 5950 Montgomery Rd., Cincinnati, OH 45213 (513)631-0170 www.prpc.org Grades: 2 1/2 - 5 years, Parent/ Child classes birth to 32 months Enrollment: 65

Professionally qualified teachers provide active, expressive, child-centered learning experiences at this 3-star awardwinning program. Choose 2, 3, 4, or 5 day AM or PM sessions. Excellent ratios, degreed teachers and spacious, sunny, classrooms await your preschooler. Parent and child classes also available for babies and toddlers.

Non-public LINDEN GROVE SCHOOL 4122 Myrtle Ave, Cincinnati, OH 45236 (513)984-2215 www.lindengroveschool.org Grades: Kindergarten – 8th grade Enrollment: 40

Mission: To work in partnership with families to create an integrated K-8 learning environment that combines academics, social skills and therapies in order to help the whole child achieve his or her greatest potential.

VILLA MADONNA ACADEMY THE GARDNER SCHOOL OF BLUE ASH 9920 Carver Road, Cincinnati, OH 45242 513-985-9444 www.TheGardnerSchool.com Grades: 6 weeks - Pre-K Enrollment: 200

This award-winning, academically focused preschool has recently opened in the Blue Ash Community. You want the best for your child, and so do we. With our nationallyrecognized curriculum taught by our degreed teaching faculty, we are committed to providing a nurturing environment for learning readiness where your child can prepare for academic achievement and lifelong success. HYDE PARK COMMUNITY UNITED METHODIST CHURCH PRESCHOOL 1345 Grace Ave., Cincinnati, OH 45208 (513)979-8191 www.hydeparkchurch.com Grades: Ages 2 1/2 to 5 years Enrollment: 200

Hyde Park Community United Methodist Church Preschool is currently enrolling for the 2009-2010 school year. We offer classes for children ages 2 1/2 – 5 years of age and have 2, 3, 4, and 5 day a week options. Please call for more info. or to schedule a tour at (513)979-8191 or email us at scristancho@hpcumc.org.

PRIMROSE SCHOOL Primrose School of Symmes 9175 Governors Way, Cincinnati, OH 45249 513.697.6970 Primrose School of Mason 5888 Snider Road Mason, Ohio 45040 513.336.6756 Primrose School of Symmes 9175 Governors Way Cincinnati, Ohio 45249 513.697.6970 Dick Geier www.primrosemason.com Grades: 6 weeks to 5 years in our child care programs and up to 12 in our afterschool program Enrollment: Up to 85

As the Leader in Educational Childcare, Primrose Schools has been successfully meeting parents needs through its Accredited Balanced Learning Curriculum enabling each child to thrive and grow through learning,play,selfesteem,and character development. Programs include, infants, toddlers, early preschool, preschool, private pre-kindergarten, private kindergarten and afterschool programing. CITA/NCS Accredited.

2500 Amsterdam Rd., Villa Hills, KY 41017 (859)331-6333 www.villamadonna.net Grades: K-12 Enrollment: 310 in K-8, 200 in 9-12

A Catholic, private, co-ed K-12 school offering a full day kindergarten program, foreign language, music, art and computer classes for K-8, and a college-prep high school curriculum with 14 AP courses and an outstanding fine arts program.

Virtual/Distance OHIO VIRTUAL ACADEMY

Best performing eSchool in Ohio (866)339-9072 www.ohva.org Grades: Kindergarten – 10th grade Enrollment: 3,300

Ohio Virtual Academy helps your K-10 children obtain an excellent public school education, tuition free! Under the guidance of licensed teachers, parents help their children learn at home using K12’s comprehensive curriculum and educational materials. YOUR LISTING HERE! Contact Rachel@CincinnatiParent.com

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THE MUSIC FACTORY 8005 Pfeiffer Rd., Cincinnati, OH 45242 (513)545-7125 www.themusicfactoryonline.com

The Music Factory offers fun and educational group music classes that build musical foundations for children ages 9 months through 5 years. The Music Factory offers a specialized, age-specific, curriculum that is designed to encourage learning through music. Classes are now available onsite for your Preschool and Daycare! MUSIKGARTEN Wyoming – Musi Kids Program

513-771-7675 www.theCenter4TheArts.org Clifton – Miss Amanda’s Music Garden 513-221-SING www.MissAmandasMusic.com Northern Kentucky Music for Us Studio 859-344-9445 www.musicforusstudio.com

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Northern Kentucky – Little Songbird Music Studio 859-547-8765 www.littlesongbirdmusic.com

Dance! Move! Sing! Play instruments! MusikGarten is a holistic, cross-cultural music curriculum for children from birth to age 9. Bathe your child’s ears with the language of music, while the absorbent mind is active! Come for the fun, stay for the education! Influence your child’s musicianship…for life! PIANO LESSONS IN YOUR HOME See our ad in the Classifieds! WEST CHESTER ACADEMY OF MUSIC 8374 Princeton Glendale Rd, West Chester, OH 45069 (513)829-2345 www.wcaom.com

Quality private lessons in piano, voice, guitar, violin, cello, clarinet, saxophone, flute, drums, harp, trumpet and steel drums. Also offers nationally acclaimed Music for Young Children, a group keyboard curriculum for ages 5 and up, and Music Pups, a music and movement class for birth to 4. Call for FREE trial class. ADD YOUR LISTING HERE!

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DAY CAMP: CO-ED BOOTCAMP JAMZ ROCK MUSIC DAY CAMP Purcell Marian High School 2950 Hackberry St. Cincinnati, OH 45207 888-491-8900 www.bootcampjamz.com Dates: June 22-26 July 6-10 July 13-17 Ages/Grades: Ages 9-17

Live your rock star dreams and perform live in concert Fridays of camp week at 5 pm at Jefferson Hall, Newport on the Levee with your band in front of hundreds of your fans. Join a band, play rock hits and write an original song. Guitar, Bass, Drums, Keyboards, Djing, and Vocals. CAMP MILLIONAIRE! 1821 Summit Road 866.994.5557 Toll Free www.empowerwealthohio.com Dates: June 8-12, June17-19 (Ages 10-14), June 24-26 (Ages 15-18), July 6-10, July 20-22 (Ages 10-14, July 27-29 (Ages 1518), August 3-7, August 15 (Financial Fun for the Entire Family) Ages/Grades: 10-18 years of age

At Camp Millionaire we empower kids with the knowledge that they are fully in charge of creating their own lives, and that includes how much money they want to have when they grow up and what they can do with it. We use accelerated teaching techniques and break down complicated financial concepts into understandable information by using a variety of role-playing, games, and activities. Kids will walk out of our program feeling like THEY can be a millionaire one day.

MERCY HEALTHPLEX KIDS CAMP 2009 (513)942-PLEX 7495 State Road (Anderson) 3050 Mack Road (Fairfield) 3131 Queen City Ave. (Western Hills) www.mercyhealthplex.com Dates: June 8 - August 14, 2009 Ages/Grades: 3-12 years

Includes a wide variety of indoor and outdoor activities. Learn to be a scientist, an artist, a chef, a sports hero or a princess. Have fun in a safe, nurturing environment. ZOO SUMMER CAMP 3400 Vine St., Cincinnati, OH 45220 513-559-7767 option 4 www.cincinnatizoo.org Dates: Weekly, June 1- August 21, 2009 Ages/Grades: 4-14 year olds

Explore the world of wonder through the Zoo’s Full or Half Day Summer Camps! Designed specifically to meet the needs of children 4- 14 year olds as they continue to discover the excitement and wonder of animals, your child will enjoy visits from animals, hikes, games, crafts, and more. Register online at www.cincinnatizoo.org.

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