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maternity & baby

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“BABYMOONS”

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PUBLISHER’S NOTE

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BABY PROOFING 101

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ONLINE BUZZ

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FIVE STAR BIRTHING OPTIONS

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COMMUNITY SPOTLIGHT

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JULY EVENTS

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ONGOING EVENTS

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WACKY CALENDAR

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CHOOSING A SITTER OR NANNY

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SUMMER FUN WITHOUT THE SUN

INDY’S EIGHTH WONDER OF THE WORLD

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“Babymoons”

TRUE CONFESSIONS OF A STAY-AT-HOME DAD

FOOTNOTES: THOUGHTS FROM THE MARGINS OF A MOM’S LIFE

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ASK THE TEACHER

on the cover

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THE MODERN MILITARY PARENT

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THE SPORTS PHYSICAL

5 REASONS WHY GREAT PARENTS SEND THEIR KIDS TO CAMP

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JULY HAPPENINGS

JENNA MULLINS

(9 Months Old) photo by: Captivations Photography

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publisher’s note

Who can resist a new baby?

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hose impossibly tiny toes, that soft slump as they sleep on your shoulder, the first real smile – so worth the wait! Did you know that the scent of a newborn triggers the reward centers in your brain? That intoxicating baby smell isn’t just your imagination.

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ACCOUNT EXECUTIVES

One of the most important and personal decisions you have to make as a soonto-be parent is where you will give birth. Fortunately, the Dayton area is home to a wide variety of great hospitals to choose from. To help guide you in this process, check out Five Star Birthing Options for a breakdown of what area facilities have to offer you from pre- to post labor and delivery.

Jennifer Baum | Jennifer@daytonparentmagazine.com Katie Clark | Katie@daytonparentmagazine.com Marisa Brown | Marisa@daytonparentmagazine.com

Have you heard of a new trend called “babymoons”? (Think honeymoon before your new infant arrives.) Smart moms and dads are taking advantage of the time before the big day to go on a vacation, relax and have some fun before life is turned upside down. For a few suggestions on recommended destinations and travel tips, be sure to read our article on this great idea.

Jennifer Beahrs | Jbeahrs@daytonparentmagazine.com

It won’t be long before your swaddled newborn grows up and attempts his first escape from the crib. Making your home safe becomes a priority sooner than you might think. Baby Proofing 101 gives expert advice on the essential precautions every parent needs to take.

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CONTRIBUTING WRITERS

Do you have any childcare arrangements in place yet for your little one? At some point, he or she will be left in the care of someone else – whether it’s just for a few hours on a well-deserved date night or for a longer time frame for parents to return to work. Choosing a Sitter or Nanny gives tips and interview questions to help you feel confident you’ve chosen the right person to step in.

Trisha Shepherd, Sarah McCosham, Michelle Shirk, Megan Noel, Rebecca Hill, Pete Gilbert, Deb Krupowicz, Kelly Blewett, Molly Blake, Wendy Schrepferman, Lisa Seibert of DaytonLocal.com

Please enjoy this special “Baby and Maternity” issue of Dayton Parent. We hope you find our magazine a helpful resource for what is relevant to parents today.

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Nothing. Anyone who only gives me 10 minutes notice can witness the squalor that is my home.

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WE ASKED: IF YOUR MOTHER OR MOTHER-INLAW CALLED TO SAY SHE WAS STOPPING BY IN 10 MINUTES, WHAT WOULD YOU CLEAN FIRST?

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I wouldn’t clean up.. My mother in law rocks and she totally gets it as she raised 3 boys -Janis J. I clean more in 10 minutes before anyone comes over than in a whole morning!

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Learning Tree Farm

Kids Eat Free at Earth Fare Thursday nights!

Earth Fare started Family Dinner Night a few years ago with the goal to help eliminate childhood obesity. Earth Fare is dedicated to providing families with affordable, healthy alternatives to their conventional staples. That’s why every Thursday from 4-8 p.m. kids 12 and under eat free at Earth Fare with the purchase of an adult meal, valued at $5.00 or more. Visit www.earthfare.com/ community/events/family-dinner-night to learn more. Plus, pick up your copy of Dayton Parent while you are there!

Kidz Watch We are excited to have a new business in Dayton that offers flexible full time or drop in child care. Kidz Watch includes state-licensed facilities devoted to providing top-rate, dependable childcare on the spur-of-the-moment. Whether you need to go to an appointment, take in a movie, run some errands, or just need a backup to your regular childcare, Kidz Watch can meet your childcare needs. They also offer full time childcare for parents that need regular care for their children, especially for those non-traditional hours. Qualified preschool teachers run the program and the small, intimate setting allows your child to flourish. Call (937) 350-1001 for more information. Location: 101 E. Alex Bell Rd., Centerville (Cross Pointe Shopping Center)

Friends of the Library Sale Children’s materials, adult paperbacks, audio-visual materials including books on CD and a limited number of DVDs will be on sale for $1-$5 at the Friends of WCPL one day summer book sale! The sale is held in the parking lot and yard behind the Cataloging Center and the Woodbourne Library. Take advantage and stock up before they’re gone! Date: July 15 Time: 11 a.m.- 7 p.m. Location: 6060 Far Hills Ave., Centerville

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Learning Tree Farm is a nonprofit center for learning involving nature, the farm’s history and animals, Ohio history and more. Our mission is to facilitate hands-on learning experiences in a traditional farm setting.

We are open for school groups and child care centers during the day M-F. We allow drop in visits after 2 until dusk and on the weekends 10 to dusk. Admission is $3 per person or $10 per family. Go to www. learningtreefarm.org for more information. Location: 3376 S. Union Rd., Dayton

The Ohio Challenge/Hot Air Balloon Fest Come see nearly 40 competing hot air balloons, skydiving demos, fireworks, a laser light show, evening balloon glows, live entertainment, a carnival, car show and food and craft vendors. A new addition to the event this year is the Warrior Weekend to Remember. The Warrior Weekend will honor active duty and veteran men and women of the armed forces who have been injured in combat or training. Walk-in admission is $4 per adult (12 and under are free) or $10 per vehicle.

Saturday and Sunday morning balloon competition flights (free) take place between approximately 7-9 a.m. Visit www.ohiochallenge.com for more information. Date: July 11-13 Time: 7 a.m.- 9 a.m. morning lifts and then 4 p.m.-10:30 p.m. for festival and evening lifts. Location: 500 Tytus Ave. (Smith Park) Middletown, Ohio

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“Babymoons” Ten places to travel before your little one arrives | Michelle Shirk

A baby changes everything, including vacations!

So why not take a “babymoon” (like a honeymoon) before the big day? Whether you’re eagerly anticipating your due date or waiting for an adoptive or foster placement, make the most of those last months before parenthood with a trip to one of these fun-filled destinations.

3. New Orleans

This city makes a perfect long weekend getaway for music lovers. Catch a jazz concert at Preservation Hall, then munch some beignets at Café Du Monde’s French Market location.

7. Las Vegas

Today’s Vegas has much more than slot machines to offer its visitors.

See a Cirque du Soleil show, watch the Fountains of Bellagio dance or get up close and personal with predators at Mandalay Bay’s Shark Reef Aquarium.

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4. Grand Canyon National Park

The Grand Canyon forms a oneof-a kind scenic backdrop to any vacation. Book a couple of nights at El Tovar on the South Rim for easy access to dining, shopping and gorgeous views.

8.ARUBA

Aruba offers beautiful landscapes, charming Dutch style architecture and plenty to do. Stay in the Palm Beach area and you’ll be able to walk to a different restaurant every night.

1. New York City

2. Grand Cayman

If your energy level is high, head to the Big Apple to explore MoMA and see a Broadway show. Other mustdos include Central Park, the Statue of Liberty and lunch at one of the city’s fabulous delis.

Spend a few days relaxing on Seven Mile Beach. Don’t miss the rare blue iguanas that reside at Queen Elizabeth II Botanic Park in the island’s North Side district.

5. San Diego

6. Mackinac Island

Stay downtown for a long weekend of eclectic cuisine and leisurely strolls along the waterfront. World famous San Diego Zoo is just a short taxi ride away.

9. Walt Disney World

Disney isn’t just for kids! Use a prebaby visit to stroll around EPCOT’s World Showcase or book an unforgettable meal at Victoria & Albert’s, a AAA Five Diamond restaurant located at Disney’s Grand Floridian Resort & Spa.

This northern Michigan destination transports guests back to the Victorian era. Splurge on a stay at the historic Grand Hotel or choose one of the charming inns that hug the lakeshore. Be sure to take home a pound of fudge!

10. Niagara Falls, Ontario

This resort town offers a lot of scenery in a relatively compact area, making it a perfect pick for expectant moms who aren’t up to a lot of walking. Those beautiful falls are world famous for a reason!

Travel Safety Tips for Expectant Moms

Time your trip. The American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) suggests traveling during the middle portion of your pregnancy, or between the 14th and 28th weeks. Those traveling later may face reduced mobility and have difficulty sitting for long periods of time.

Look before you book. Policies regarding air travel during pregnancy vary by airline and may be more onerous for international flights. For example, United requires a woman traveling during her ninth month of pregnancy to produce an obstetrician’s certificate that meets specific requirements. In contrast, Delta imposes no restrictions on pregnant travelers.

Stretch your legs. For expectant moms traveling by car, ACOG recommends limiting drive time to a maximum of 5-6 hours per day and stopping frequently to stretch. Keep your seat belt fastened at all times.

Dine carefully. If you plan to visit a developing country, the Center for Disease Control offers a list of food and water safety measures for pregnant woman at wwwnc.cdc.gov/travel/page/pregnant-travelers. Recommendations include eating only cooked food, served piping hot, and sticking with bottled, sealed beverages.

Talk to your doc. There’s no substitute for advice from an OB/ GYN familiar with your medical history and risk factors. Discuss your travel plans and any questions you have with your doctor before you hit the road.

Did you have a “babymoon” to take advantage of the time before your infant arrived?

We asked Dayton Parent Facebook readers

Just ran away to Florida shortly after we found out we were pregnant. Long weekend and it was great!

– Abigail C.

No I was on complete bed rest with all four kids or hospital bed rest… - Missy P. Columbus hotel! – Anthony M. Medical problems with baby#1 so no and planned on it with #2 but baby came 4 weeks early! – Kristyn R. Chicago at Christmas for baby #1 and Destin, FL for baby #2 – Amy S. Cruise!! It was amazing! – Dawn O.

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Cabinets with cleaning supplies and medicines should be locked.

Water – in tubs, sinks and pools must be carefully monitored.

CALLING IN A PROFESSIONAL

For many parents, hiring a professional baby proofing company gives valuable peace of mind that security measures are in place correctly. Although the cost can run a few hundred dollars or more, knowing safety devices have been put in place by an experienced expert is worth the price.

Lockheimer adds that most baby proofing companies carry “superior products to those found in retail stores or Internet sites -- and ensure they are properly installed.”

No bubble wrap necessary!

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Sarah McCosham

nce Baby becomes mobile, everything changes: outlets morph into electrocuting devices, doors become finger traps and staircases tempt as a fatal lure.

Somewhere between padding your house completely in foam and taking a totally laissez-faire approach, is a medium ground for baby proofing your home effectively. According to a recent Dayton Parent Facebook poll, many parents say they’re waiting until their babies begin crawling or walking to see what they actually get into – and then mainly installing outlet covers, baby gates and cabinet locks. “Above basic baby proofing, we’re just teaching the kids what’s okay and what’s not,” stated one mother, speaking for the majority of parents who responded.

The truth is, you can’t predict what your child is going to get into. But by focusing on what’s really important, you can keep your home safe without going completely overboard.

THE ESSENTIALS

For first-time moms and dads, baby proofing is yet another new area of parenting to master. Robert Lockheimer, President and CEO of Baby Safe Homes, says that parents can feel anything from very overwhelmed and panicked by the process, to having a calm “my child wouldn’t get into that” attitude.

Every child is different, so a “one size fits all” approach to baby proofing doesn’t necessarily work.

“It’s important to follow [a baby’s] development and keep up with their needs as they grow and mature,” Lockheimer says. “Childproofing is not a one-time procedure.”

To identify potential hazards, Lockheimer say parents should continually monitor their child’s surroundings, as a crawling baby will encounter different risks from an ambling toddler. “Get down on your hands and knees and look around from your child’s perspective. This helps spot potentially dangerous objects.”

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Stairs, both top and bottom, must be secured.

Doors can pose serious injuries to little fingers, and several options are available to make them safe.

Anything that could pose a choking risk should be eliminated, including things like dry cleaning bags parents may not typically think of.

THERE’S NO SUBSTITUTE FOR SUPERVISION

Even with every baby proofing device in place, there are still children who will find a way to make something dangerous. Adults have to remain attentive, diligent and educated about safety hazards. And remember: what worked for your first child may not work for your second. Don’t make the mistake of becoming complacent about safety the second time around.

Finally, it’s important for parents to be educated in first aid and CPR. Here in Dayton, most hospitals offer parent and grandparent safety classes as part of their childbirth education programs.

In addition, Dayton Children’s Hospital’s website has a variety of checklists and pamphlets available online to help parents with the process, as well as links to safety resources from the American Red Cross and American Academy of Pediatrics. That information can be found at: www.childrensdayton.org/cms/kidshealth/cca964763851debd/ index.html.

With all the resources available to help parents baby proof their home, there’s really no need to feel overwhelmed with the task. By installing safety measures yourself or through a professional service, and being vigilant about watching your child, you can create a safe home for everyone.

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FIVE STAR BIRTHING

OPTIONS Local hospitals offer expectant mothers a host of delivery choices Trisha Shepherd

Welcoming a new baby involves many decisions: Should we find out if it’s a boy or girl? What color should we paint the nursery? What are we going to name our bundle of joy? But one of the most important and personal decisions an expectant mother can make is where and how she wants to give birth. Many modern hospital maternity suites are designed to feel so homey and comfortable they look more like an upscale hotel than a sterile hospital room. Along with more common offerings such as childbirth classes and breastfeeding support programs, some hospitals offer unique options such as certified nurse midwife deliveries and water birth, or advanced neonatal intensive care units for babies facing medical complications.

Here’s a look at some highlights of maternity services at major Daytonarea hospitals.

PREMIER HEALTH Premier Health has five birthing centers throughout southwest Ohio which provide private birthing and recovery suites and flexible birthing options to fit a variety of plans: Miami Valley Hospital, Good Samaritan Hospital, Atrium Medical Center, Upper Valley Medical Center and Miami Valley Hospital South.

Miami Valley Hospital is home to Dayton’s only high-risk maternity center, and offers a Level IIIB NICU, which means it can serve even the tiniest micro-preemies and offers advanced respiratory care such as high-frequency ventilation, plus a full range of pediatric medical subspecialists. The hospital also hosts a

unique feature, the Family Beginnings Birthing Center. It’s the only natural birth center located inside a hospital that has been accredited in the state of Ohio. Nurses are dedicated to natural labor support, and encourage use of movement, aromatherapy, music, positioning, labor tools and water therapy. Each room is equipped with a large tub for water births. Families are not separated unless complications arise, and your postpartum stay may be anywhere from six to 48 hours.

The Good Samaritan Family Birth Center includes a team of physicians, nurses and certified nurse midwives. Water births are an option for uncomplicated pregnancies, and all 12 birth suites are large and private with tubs and showers.

A Level II special care nursery can care for babies with minor complications including low birth weight and respiratory difficulty.

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Atrium Medical Center’s Family Birth Center offers birthing suites that include a Jacuzzi tub and shower, special bars for pushing, services such as aromatherapy and music therapy, and a Level II special care nursery. The hospital offers epidurals and other anesthesia options, and has two surgical suites in the labor and delivery unit for C-sections.

KETTERING HEALTH NETWORK Kettering Health Network offers maternity services at four hospitals: Kettering Medical Center, Southview Medical Center, Soin Medical Center and Fort Hamilton Hospital. Kettering’s facilities pride themselves on comfortable, private, homelike labor suites. Lactation specialists are on site to help support breastfeeding, and a wide variety of classes are available including childbirth preparation and infant CPR. Kettering Medical Center recently increased its neonatal service and now holds a Level IIIB NICU designation. “From delivery until you go home, you will feel like family while receiving expert care every step of the way,” says Kettering spokesperson Elyse Travis. “And when a mom or baby requires a more advanced

level of care within our family of hospitals, mom and baby are transported to Kettering Medical Center’s level IIIB obstetric and neonatal intensive care unit.”

COMMUNITY MERCY HEALTH PARTNERS Springfield Regional Medical Center’s Birthing Center is where 1,400 mothers give birth each year. Obstetricians, neonatologists and nurses offer the only birthing services in the Springfield community. The Birthing Center is a Level II facility, equipped to manage some high-risk pregnancies and neonatal problems, and includes eight labor and delivery rooms, 20 post-delivery rooms, and a C-section area.

The Springfield Regional Medical Center is also a Level II facility, with labor and delivery and postpartum rooms equipped for normal and high-risk births, and C-section surgery facility within the center. It also has the only Level II special care nursery in the area, and a perinatologist is on call for consultations regarding high-risk maternity patients.

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WILSON MEMORIAL Wilson Memorial Hospital in Shelby County prides itself on family-centered maternity care and its homey environment. The Copeland-Emerson Family Birth Center offers 10 spacious birthing suites, one of which features a whirlpool tub. A Csection surgical suite is nearby, with special postpartum suites for those mothers. Popular features at Wilson’s birth center include: natural childbirth classes; a skin-to-skin program that is encouraged between mothers and their newborns; and the Sweet Beginnings Boutique – a convenient place for new mothers to shop for breastfeeding products right in the hospital.

YOUR BIRTH, YOUR CHOICE As you make your decision on where to give birth, it’s wise to ask friends and family what they recommend, and look carefully at each facility’s amenities to see what best fits your priorities. When looking at hospitals without advanced NICUs, make sure you understand what would happen if your baby needed more advanced care. Check out websites, watch their videos and take advantage of free tours that most hospital maternity centers offer. Once you consider all the options, you can make a confident choice about where to experience one of life’s most joyful moments – holding your new baby in your arms for the first time.

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CHOOSING A SITTER OR NANNY F

inding quality care for your children is an issue most parents encounter at some point in their parenting journey. Whether it’s choosing a day care, finding an in-home nanny or simply securing date night babysitting for a few hours, finding the right caregiver is a very important – and sometimes stressful – process. Fortunately, with a few key considerations, you can feel confident you’ve chosen the best person to take care of your kids.

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What to consider when selecting a caregiver for your child | Megan Noel

Finding a good referral When looking for a caregiver for your children, the first step is often to ask friends or family for references. A number of agencies can also provide access to many suitable babysitters and nannies.

Here are just a few options: Care.com offers a wide variety of caregiving services including hundreds of babysitters as well as specialized care for seniors, pets and individuals with special needs. While searching the site is free, contacting potential caregivers requires a fee.

Sittercity.com is another online, fee-based search option, allowing you to create a family profile specifying your exact needs to find the right caregiver for your situation. Background checks are

available on many candidates, as are motor vehicle record checks.

The Sitter Connection has placed over 50,000 caregivers with thousands of families throughout central and southwest Ohio. Using this local service ensures parents can find a caregiver that has been secured through a professional process, including initial screenings, formal face-to-face interviews and background/reference checks prior to referring prospective nannies to interested parents.

The interview process Your next step is to choose a qualified person among your pool of candidates. It is important to meet with potential babysitters in person, whether

it is a formal interview, a parent supervised play date or babysitting trial. “I really like to be able to see how the sitter addresses my children and how she relates to them,” says Jenna S., a mother of three. “If they don’t have good chemistry it isn’t worth pursuing.”

Jill Kingston, founder/owner of The Sitter Connection, stresses the importance of being thorough during the screening process. “This includes checking non-familial caregiver references, fingerprinting and criminal background checks and personal interviews. Families may meet with a sitter/ nanny who seems to fit perfectly with their family, but they have to go through all the steps to make sure that person is safe to leave with their child.

There are no shortcuts to ensuring the safety of your children.”

Red flags The most obvious concern that can come out in the interview process is a big personality difference between you and the potential caregiver. If you have a specific parenting style or method that is important to your family, be sure the candidate displays that trait. Have your children present during part of the interview as well. How does the sit-

ter interact with them? Ask your children for their impression of the sitter to get a sense of how that relationship might go Also in regards to red flags, Kingston warns that poor communication, arriving late and discomfort making eye contact are some of the first signs of trouble in potential caregivers. When asked about choosing a teenager as a babysitter, Kingston says “Finding a good nanny has less to do with their age, but more to do with their experience…each parent needs to understand their sitter or nanny’s maturity level and their ability to make care giving decisions for another child.”

What should I ask a potential sitter or nanny?

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What is your experience with children? When are you available? What is your hourly rate?

Do you have a resume?

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What types of things do you envision doing with my children?

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How would you deal with difficult behavior issues? For example, if you were at the park and my child threw a temper tantrum because he didn’t want to leave, what would you do?

Once you choose a caregiver, there are a number of apps that can help track your child’s day – including feedings, diaper changes, activities and photo updates. Daily Connect and Baby Timer are just two examples to check out.

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Have you ever had to handle an emergency with a child? Are you CPR or First Aid certified?

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Would you be willing to follow certain discipline/comforting/parenting strategies even if they were different from your own philosophy?

With a little advance planning, finding a qualified sitter or nanny that best suits your family’s unique needs will result in a good match for you, your kids and your caregiver.

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Describe your ideal family/employer.

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What do you enjoy most about babysitting?

What do you enjoy least?

Staying in touch

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SUmmer

Fun WITHOUT THE SUN Indoor activities to beat the heat Rebecca Hill

When summertime temps start climbing higher and higher, the usual outdoor fun is no fun at all.

Try these ideas for some indoor options that will keep you and the kids entertained even in the scorching weather!

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Big Bad Bounce Big Bad Bounce is Ohio’s largest bounce house with a wide selection of over 20,000 square feet of inflatable bouncy fun. With two enormous slides, three obstacle courses, and specialty bounces like the “Wrecking Ball” your kids can bounce to their heart’s content. For toddlers, BBB offers Toddler Town – a 1,200 square foot area with five inflatable bounce units and interactive games.

Located at 6196 Poe Avenue (located in Scene 75). See website for hours of operation. Website: www.bigbadbounce.com

Boonshoft Museum of Discovery An interactive science museum, accredited zoo and planetarium and observatory, Boonshoft Museum of Discovery is a great place to spend a hot afternoon. The museum focuses on providing an interactive experience for its visitors with exhibits such as Inventors and Toolbox, an exploration of simple machines, physics and industry. Permanent exhibits include Bernouilli Blower, Explorers Crossing the Water, a water table, a pioneer cabin, a color wall and over sixty animals native to Ohio. Located on 2600 DeWeese Parkway. Hours of operation are Mon.-Sat., 9:00 a.m.-5:00 p.m., Sun., noon-5:00 p.m.

Website: www.boonshoftmuseum.org

Dayton Art Institute The Dayton Art Institute features worldrenowned collections of Asian, African, European, Native American and Oceanic art.

Current unique exhibits include Chihuly and Beyond, a glass art exhibit. The Museum of-

fers Tiny Thursdays – a morning of programs for preschool-aged children and Museum Kidd’s Club with fun gallery scavenger hunts and other activities just for kids. The Museum is located at 456 Belmonte Park North.

Hours of operation are Mon.-Fri., 11:00 a.m.8:00 p.m., Sat., 10:00 a.m.-5:00 p.m. and Sun., noon-5:00 p.m. Website: www.daytonartinstitute.org

EnterTRAINment Junction Imagine spending the day exploring all that railroading has to offer! At the EnterTRAINment Junction kids can see actual train equipment along with railroad artifacts, learn about railroad folklore and watch videos of today’s powerful diesel engines and yesterday’s steam trains. With 25,000 square feet of model trains, the museum includes Coney Island and train layouts from railroading’s early to modern periods. Located only thirty minutes north of downtown Cincinnati. Hours of operation are Mon. – Sat, 10:00 a.m.-6:00 p.m. and Sunday, noon- 6:00 p.m.

Website: www.entertrainmentjunction.com

The National Aviation Hall of Fame & National Museum of the Air Force If your child is into anything that flies, these are the museums for you. Airplanes, helicopters, space exhibits and more tell the history of flight and those that made these technologies possible. Both museums are located adjacent to each other at 1100 Spaatz Street. Hours of operation are daily, 9:00 a.m.-5:00p.m. Websites: www.nationalaviation.org and www.nationalmuseum.af.mil

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confessions of a stay-at-home dad

Just a day at the park

True confessions of a stay-at-home dad

By Pete Gilbert

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et’s go to the park.” It seemed like an innocent enough statement at the time. We had a free morning of nothing to do, and the park seemed like a good place to go before it got too hot.

My plan was that everyone would quickly flip on their flops, load up in the van and off we would go, but when do things ever go according to plan?

First everyone needed their sunscreen application. Every time my oldest applies sunscreen, it’s as if she’s going to visit the face of the sun, so I knew she would take a while.

As we covered ourselves in SPF 250, my son asked if he could bring his bike to ride around on the park path. Since he’s just now learning how to ride without training wheels, I agreed. This meant we now needed to load up his new (bigger) bike, his old bike and his balance bike. Once his sisters saw me putting his bikes in the car, I had no choice but to include their bikes and helmets as well.

We were just about to leave, when I remembered the park we were going to had a splash area. The last time we went there, my kids soaked their regular clothes and rode home, stripped down and half-naked, buckled into their car seats. So back in the house I went, rounding up swimsuits, towels and extra shoes they could wear in water area.

If we were going to play, ride bikes and swim we probably needed snacks too.

Somehow my simple “Let’s go to the park” statement turned into a five bike, three helmet, three swimsuit, three towel, three EXTRA pair of shoes, jar of peanut butter, loaf of bread, half-dozen bottles of water adventure.

I guess, with kids, no statement is “innocent enough.”

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footnotes

Footnotes: Thoughts from the margins of a mom’s life The Little Curmudgeon

By Kelly Blewett

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ometimes when I’m coming up the stairs at night, I flip the light.

Then I hear a little voice, “Turn that off!” It is my son. He is three and trying (unsuccessfully) to sleep. Though I am his mother and supposedly the one in charge, actually I need correction, at least from his point of view. I do things that make him shout orders, like listening to podcasts on my phone (“Who’s talking?!”), using the hall bathroom (“Be quiet! It’s night night time!”) and, yes, turning on the light (“Make it dark again!”)

When these orders are issued from behind his bedroom door, I often find myself falling in line. I hush the volume on my phone. I move like a cat on the stairs. I sometimes brush my teeth in the dark. I’ve even started keeping a flashlight in the top drawer of my nightstand. If I’m upstairs after 8 p.m. reading, I shine the bright beam on my book. The light is enough to read by, but not so bright as to capture the ire of the tiny tyrant next door.

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I wonder what my son would think if he knew that his worst nightmares about his parent’s behavior are actually true. I imagine telling him, “William, do you know what your dad and I do after we put you to bed? We run downstairs, get dessert and watch a movie!” The little boy whose screen time is limited to two 24-minute shows, who can only have a small dish of ice cream after finishing his whole dinner, whose juice consumption is capped at eight ounces per day: this little boy would be astonished. Then my tiny curmudgeon would have a lot of new material to talk about from his bedroom bully pulpit. But as it is, he seems to find enough to say. I can hear the pleasure in his voice as he shouts his dictums, and I am glad to humor him. After all, I want him to have a long, slumberous and independent “night night” as well.

Such a goal is worth keeping the flashlight in my nightstand and brushing my teeth in the dark.

And while I am at it, I will let him keep on believing that house rules are firm and fast, and that he is just as capable of enforcing the law of the land as any grown up.

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ask the teacher

Ask the Teacher

Books vs. movies, summer academics and middle school anxiety

By Deb Krupowicz

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We have more time for movie watching in the summer and I find myself wondering if I should make my kids read the book before we see the movie version. What do you recommend?

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Why not conduct your own study? Select a few combinations of books and movies, including both classic and contemporary selections. For a few of the choices, read the book

first and then watch the movie. Together make a list of the similarities and differences in the way the story was told in the two genres.

Have each family member explain his or her preferences.

Children are never too young or too old for this! If you start this when your kids are young, you will be establishing the foundation for discussion of critical topics as they mature. Use analysis of movies and books as well as television and newspaper reports to open a dialogue on local, national and international events as well as relationships. Guiding your children to

form positions and dispositions in a way that is a bit removed from them personally is an opportunity you don’t want to miss.

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How much time should my children spend working on academics over the summer? I’ve heard a lot about how much students lose over break; I hate to see them go backwards and have to make up lost ground when school starts back up.

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Rather than putting formal study time into the daily schedule, incorporate learning into your other family activities casually.

When at a stop light, see who can call out the most geometric shapes. Challenge math skills by playing the “Price is Right” by giving each child $10 to spend in a discount store and reward the child who is the closest to spending it all without going over. (Remind them about sales tax!) For a cheaper version of this game, give each child a store flyer instead with a higher dollar amount to “spend.”

After seeing a movie, have your child write a different ending to the movie or the beginning of its sequel. At the zoo, have your children take turns reading the information provided and then sharing the most interesting details with your family.

Involve your children directly with vacation planning. Have them calculate miles from one place to another and estimate driving times.

If you are flying, your child can figure the elapsed time for each leg of the trip as well as for the layovers. They can draw locations and events from a hat, research them, and then share what they have learned just prior to the event.

This can include safety practices like wearing seat belts, using sunscreen, recognizing poison ivy and swimming safely. You might even be able to cross a lecture or two off of your to-do list!

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The move from elementary school to middle school may be one of the most challenging for both the child and the parent. For the child, friendships often shift and academic expectations increase. For the parent, children are becoming more independent and your role is changing.

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I am really dreading my child moving into middle school next school year. The reports I hear really have me anxious about it.

When friendship issues arise, be a sounding board. Remember that someone who has been hateful to your child one day may be her best friend the next. If friendships are forming that you are uncomfortable with, encourage as many activities as possible at your home or under your supervision. This not only gives you firsthand insight, it provides a safety net for your child. Trying to choose your child’s friends rarely has a good outcome.

ask the teacher Recognize that increased academic expectations are part of maturing.

More and more of the responsibility for learning and organization should gradually transfer from the teacher and parent to the student. This is the natural progression. Your child must begin to take personal responsibility for organization and study habits for her future success.

As children move into adolescence, we see them go through personality changes. One day they are the sweet children we adore; the next day they are moody, difficult people we hardly recognize. Understand that while what is happening at school may be the subject of the mood, the cantan-

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kerousness is part of the transition between childhood and young adulthood. It would likely be happening at any middle school with any principal and any set of teachers. Allow your child the space to work through the moods while holding the line on respect for others.

Avoid every inclination to swoop in and fix everything. Instead, help your child to develop a rationale for problem solving when friendship challenges arise. Encourage her to be her own advocate when there are academic problems. Help her formulate her concern into a respectful question and practice with her through role playing.

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Ask the Teacher is written by Deb Krupowicz, a mother of four and current teacher. Deb holds a Master’s degree in Curriculum and Instruction and has over twenty years of experience teaching preschool, elementary and middle school students. Please send your questions to her at asktheteacher@daytonparentmagazine.com.

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the modern military parent

The Modern Military Parent A leap of faith

By Molly Blake

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ilitary-related headlines and holidays have dominated the news these past few weeks! Issues with the VA abound. A soldier was released after five years in captivity, the circumstances around which are proving controversial.

The last of the Code Talkers died, a YouTube Army platoon proposal went viral, and Lone Survivor was released on DVD. We also celebrated Memorial Day, Military Appreciation Month and Military Spouse Appreciation Day. But by far my favorite story is that of a 93-year old Dayton resident and WWII veteran who parachuted into Germany, for the second time, on June 6th.

Jim “Pee Wee” Martin’s first jump, as an original member of G Company in the 101st, was 70 years ago during the Allied invasion of Europe and he commemorated the occasion appropriately.

Since returning home to Ohio, Martin, who eventually secured Bastion in the Battle of the Bulge, has led scores of presentations on the legacy of WWII in local museums and area universities. Just a quick glance at his Facebook page – with an impressive number of likes, 7,861 and counting – is a worthwhile lesson in history and the grim realities of war. All too often, Martin will post on the passing of yet another WWII veteran, who according the Veterans Administration, are dying to the tune of 555 a day. It’s why Martin, I imagine, continues to speak on behalf of his brothers.

“Passing down the memories and lessons of what our unit experienced in both America and Europe during the Second World War remains a prime focus for me as a living representative for the guys in our outfit who are no longer here,” he wrote on his wall following a brief to some college stu-

dents. He’s done the television news circuit too, local and national. Did I mention he was awarded the Bronze Star and the Purple Heart?

My husband was in Iraq for Shock and Awe. He supported the March to Baghdad and the surge to re-take Al-Anbar province and so I can only wonder what he will do to mark those anniversaries in the years to come.

Will he want to embark on a memorial flight or travel to the Middle East?

Will we gather with current and former members of our beloved VMA-311 “Tomcats” squadron mates? Will editors and news directors assign reporters to track down Iraq-era vets like my husband for a commemoration piece?

Will my daughters recall the farewells, when he tipped his jet wings in an aeronautical wave, or the homecomings? What will happen in the 70 years between the actual war and the anniversary of wartime events?

I’m afraid that the reverence that our nation has for WWII vets will pale and fade. We need to continue learning from the Greatest Generation about what it means to wear the badge that we’ve been given, that of the Next Greatest Generation.

In every interview I read about Martin, not once did he complain or whine about what he was due or what he was owed. He only praised his fellow soldiers, the VA, the guys who led him to battle and even the pesky reporters covering the lead up to his historic leap.

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The National WWII Museum reports 42,383 living WWII veterans in Ohio.

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You can find more information about Martin and future lectures on the official Jim “Pee Wee” Martin Facebook page.

Molly Blake is a freelance writer. Her husband recently retired after serving 20 years in the United States Marine Corps. She attended the Uni-

versity of Dayton and writes about issues affecting military families and other parenting issues. Follow her on twitter @mblakewrites.

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the sports physical

The Sports Physical Don’t rush through this important exam

By Dayton Children’s Hospital

The sports physical serves three primary purposes.

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t may feel like summer just began, but soon enough it will be time for kids to head back to school and that includes school sports. Many times your child’s participation on a team requires you to be planning well before the school year starts. Beyond purchasing the right equipment and making sure you have the practice schedule on your calendar, you also must prepare for their sports physical.

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Identify old injuries. Children often injure themselves during the sports season. If it happens at the end of a season, they might not properly manage it.

Identify and treat these sorts of injuries before the next sports season gets going. Your child may not remember that ankle sprain during the last game last year, but it will be in their medical record.

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Identify and manage any conditions which could affect sports performance.

Conditions which can affect sports performance vary depending on the sport. Being near-sighted will affect a baseball player, but not a runner. Outdoor or seasonal allergies will affect the runner, but not a basketball player. Asthma can affect all sports. Your child’s primary care physician has a record of his or her previous medical conditions and can make sure your child is managed as best as possible so that the conditions do not affect sports performance.

With busy summer schedules it can often be tempting to simply stop by a “walk-in” clinic offering sports physicals. However, this is not always the best option for your athlete. In some situations, this can be a lifealtering decision rather than a convenient alternative.

“Unfortunately, even if your child is healthy and never had a problem with sports before, the sports physical is not something that should be rushed through or done by someone who does not know your child,” says Lora Scott, MD, co-director of sports medicine at Dayton Children’s.

“The best thing to do is have a preseason sports physical with your child’s primary care doctor, even if your child’s sport doesn’t require it. It’s important to receive a thorough history and physical exam by someone who knows your child and knows your family history. Often there are red flags, which provide clues that a further evaluation, possibly by a specialist, is necessary and can keep your child safe.”

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Identify rare conditions which could cause sudden death during exercise. The stories are out there, and they’re always tragic: a child dies during a sporting event and people wonder what could have been done to prevent it.

Again, it’s important to schedule a sports physical regardless if it is required or not. This gives your doctor time to address any issues found during the physical before the season gets going.

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Indy’s Eighth Wonder of the World Visit the Terra Cotta Warrior Exhibit at The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis Wendy Schrepferman

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ver the past decade, an explosion of scientific brain research has identified the first years of life as a critical time for a child’s development. It seems The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis has known this all along and has recognized that parents and children learn best by exploring together. Over 80 years ago, the Museum pioneered the philosophy that fine art, ancient fossils and priceless artifacts aren’t just objects to admire. Museum leadership believed such objects carried powerful, life-changing stories to be discovered by all ages.

The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis 3000 North Meridian Street | Indianapolis, IN 46208 www.childrensmuseum.org | 317-334-3322 Mon-Sun | 10:00 am - 5:00 pm GA ticket pricing: Youth: $14.50, Adult: $19.50 Terra Cotta Warrior exhibit tickets Youth $5.00, Adult $10.00 | Parking is free

This spring, The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis premiered two, new blockbuster exhibits: Take Me There China ® and Terra Cotta Warriors: The Emperor’s Painted Army.

Many refer to the discovery of the Terra Cotta Warriors as the “Eighth Wonder of The World.” By traveling a mere 117 miles east, visitors will find themselves face to face with an army of thousands,

buried in China’s Shaanxi Province for centuries to protect the country’s first Emperor.

The priceless statues and artifacts, which are rarely released from China, made their debut for the first time ever in a museum designed for children and families. Indianapolis will be the only opportunity to view the exhibit in the United States this year.

Complementing the ancient exhibit is Take Me There China®, one of the largest exhibits depicting contemporary China. Families are invited to explore daily life and culture through hands-on music, art and food activities. This is a favorite stop for younger children.

These extraordinary international exhibits are just one example of the learning opportunities for families at The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis. And while you’re there, don’t forget to zoom down the two-story Great Wall of China slide in the lobby.

After all, you will be in the “Racing Capitol of the World”!

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5 reasons why great parents send their kids to camp

5 Reasons Why Great Parents Send Their Kids to Camp

By Audrey Monke

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y shy, quiet nineyear-old went to camp not knowing a soul. Two weeks later, she came home transformed. She blossomed. She made friends, learned a multitude of activities, felt safe, loved, confident, and happy – really, really happy. As hard as it was on me, it was all worth it for her. It was the single best thing I have ever done for her.

– First-time camp parent Many parents won’t allow their child to go on a school field trip or school outdoor education trip unless they are chaperoning, so it’s no surprise that those same parents may find the idea of sending their child to sleep-away camp incomprehensible.

As a camp parent, you may get a shocked response from one of these “non-camp” parents. They may ask you things like, “How can you stand having your child away from you for so long?” or “How will she survive without you?” or “Isn’t he too young to go to camp alone?” Or, they may comment “I would never send my child away to camp for two weeks.”

In all of these negative responses, there is an underlying criticism of your parenting.

If you find yourself in the awkward position of being criticized for the decision to send your young child to camp, you may want some extra “ammunition” to defend your decision. And, if you are never in the position of defending your camp decision, let this list remind you about just a few of the many reasons why you are being a great parent by sending your child to camp!

At camp this summer, your child will...

Develop independence Going to camp has made me even more independent and a much better people-person. I am able to go confidently up to someone and introduce myself or hang out with someone new because of my time at camp.

– Fifth-year camper You are giving your child the opportunity to live and thrive without being with you and under your constant scrutiny. The growth in confidence and independence happen at camp BECAUSE you are not there.

Experience outdoor childhood fun and adventure You are giving your child the gift of magical childhood memories – dirt, adventure, story and joke-filled days and nights spent with friends outdoors, under the stars and around the campfire. These childhood memories will last forever. And, as Michael Thompson, PhD, so eloquently states, “Our best childhood memories do not include adults.”

Relax You are giving your child a break from the pressures and stress of competitive sports, school and you. Forgive me if that offends, but I, too, am a well-meaning but over-involved parent who provides just a bit too much advice, feedback and guidance to my children. Our kids need a break from our well-intentioned involvement in their lives.

a lot more than I think I would have if I didn’t go. I can go without my phone or connection to social media awhile because camp has shown me that amazing stuff happens when you put your phone down and have a nice conversation with someone.

– Fifth-year camper You are giving your child the chance to unplug and connect face-to-face with other kids and positive, young adult role models away from technology.

Become better at making and keeping friends I feel like I have become a kinder person and am better at making friends because of camp.

– Third-year camper The bonding and friendships that happen at camp are different from those that occur at school and on sports teams. The intensity of living together and experiencing life together, without distractions, creates the ideal setting to form lifelong friendships and really get to know people well.

So, if people ever question your decision to send your young child to

a traditional, longer camp stay this summer, let them know that it’s hard for you to let your child go, but that you’re giving your child a gift that will have more impact than any material item you’ve ever given.

Audrey Monke, with her husband Steve, has owned and directed Gold Arrow Camp (Lakeshore, California) for the past twenty-five years. They have five children (ages ten to twenty) who keep their life camp-like year round. Audrey has been a member of ACA since 1989 and was President of WAIC (Western Association of Independent Camps) from 2007–2010.

She writes about camp and parenting at sunshine-parenting.com. This article was originally published at http://sunshineparenting.wordpress. com/2014/03/28/five-reasons-greatparents-send-their-kids-to-camp/ About ACA The American Camp Association® (ACA) works to preserve, promote, and enhance the camp experience for children and adults. ACA-Accredited® camp programs ensure that children are provided with a diversity of educational and developmentally challenging learning opportunities. There are over 2,400 ACA-accredited camps that meet up to 280 health and safety standards. For more information, visit www.ACAcamps.org.

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Get unplugged Camp has helped me appreciate nature and the outdoors

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july happenings

July Happenings

Fests, fairs and a whole lot more!

By Lisa Seibert, Community Executive, DaytonLocal.com

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ur July calendar features plenty of fun things for your family to do!

If you’re looking for Fourth of July events and fireworks schedules, head on over to Dayton Local and click on the “2014 Local Independence Day Celebrations & Fireworks” link for a comprehensive list.

Centerville Summer Concert Series

Stubbs Park 255 W. Spring Valley Road Centerville, OH 45458 (937) 428-4782 Sundays in July, 7pm to 8pm Bring your lawn chairs or blanket.

July 3 – Centerville Community Band and Chorus July 6 - The Miami Valley Symphony Orchestra July 13 – Corky’s Old Time Rock and Roll July 19 – Tom Daugherty Orchestra July 20 - Berachah Valley July 27 - The Voices of Ohio

Clinton County Fair

958 West Main Street Wilmington, OH 45177 (937) 382-4443 Saturday July 5 - July 12, 2014 Bring the family for a fun day of rides and carnival games, enjoy the 4H projects, view the photography awards, watch a livestock show and take in the entertainment at the grandstand!

The Butterfly House

Cox Arboretum 6733 Springboro Pike Dayton, OH 45449 (937) 275-5053 FREE Admission Saturday July7 through August 29th, 8am - 8pm Several species of butterflies can be spotted inside the amazing Butterfly House. While you’re at this park, you should also climb the Tree Tower and hit the trails!

Beavercreek Summer Concert Series Dominick Lofino Park 640 Grange Hall Road Beavercreek, OH 45430 (937) 427-5535 Sundays in July, 7pm to 8pm

Bring your lawn chairs or blanket.

July 8 – James & Moore (Jazz & Blues) July 15 - Cotton (Country, Motown, Oldies) July 22 – New Mountain Heritage (Bluegrass) July 29 – Randy Mills (Acoustic based songs – Beatles, James Taylor…)

Super Saturday Family Days

Dayton Art Institute 456 Belmonte Park North Dayton, OH 45405 (937)223-4278 Saturday July 12, 1pm - 3pm Create artwork inspired by contemporary glass artists and touch a real Chihuly art work Sunday July 19, 1pm - 3pm Deck It Out – Come dressed up in a wacky costume and create accessories to put it over the top!

Kickin’ Chicken Wing Fest

Fraze Pavillion 695 Lincoln Park Blvd Dayton, OH 45429 (937) 296-3300 Saturday July 12, 10am - 6pm FREE Admission Back by popular demand, after a blistering good time last year – our Kickin’ Chicken Wing Fest! If you like bold food & live music then you’ll love this festival.

Warren County Fair

665 North Broadway Lebanon, OH 45036 (937) 686-0118 Saturday July 14 through 19, 2014 Fun, food, games, rides, demo derby, tractor pulls, live harness racing, livestock shows and sales, barn yard display, jungle island zoo animals, pony rides, musical groups, corn hole tournament, talent show, karaoke, and parade with hot air balloons.

Family Day: To the Moon

National Museum of the U.S. Air Force 1100 Spaatz St. Wright-Patterson AFB, OH 45433 (937) 255-4646 Saturday July 19, 10am - 3pm FREE Admission Commemorate the 45th anniversary of the first moon landing by learning about rocketry and space flight through fun demos and hands-on activities.

Shelby County Fair

655 South Highland Ave Sidney, OH 45365 (937) 492-7385 Saturday July 20 through 26, 2014 Join us for family entertainment, including domestic and livestock shows, 4-H exhibits, amusement rides, a demolition derby, a tractor pull, local band performances, cheerleading competitions, harness racing, crafts, a horseshoe pitching contest and of course, food galore!

For more family friendly events, select “Family Friendly Calendar” from the “Play” menu on DaytonLocal.com.

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TUESDAY | 01

Independence Day Family Value Week at Young’s Jersey Dairy

Price: $12 adults ( 12 & over). $6 children (11 & under) | Phone: 937-325-0629 | Location: Young’s Jersey Dairy | 6880 Springfield Xenia Rd, Yellow Springs | youngsdairy.com/july-4th-weekend/ Take advantage of a special value wristband good for all day, unlimited family fun at Young’s this Independence Day Week. Play Udders & Putters miniature golf, batting cages, Cowvin’s Fast Slide, Cowvin’s Kiddie Corral, the driving range or Moovers & Shakers.

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City of Dayton’s Lights in Flight Fireworks Show and Festival

Price: free | Phone: (937) 333-8400 | Location: RiverScape MetroPark. 111 E. Monument Avenue, Dayton.

Celebrate Dayton with a fun filled evening of live music, food, beverages and kid’s activities. Watch as RiverScape MetroPark comes alive and the City of Dayton lights up the night sky with a spectacular visual display over the Great Miami River.

City of Kettering Fireworks - Rock n’ Boom

Price: free | Phone: (937) 296-2486 | Location: Delco Park. Delco Park Dr., Kettering | www.daytonlocal.com/thingsto-do/city-of-kettering-fireworks.asp The City of Kettering and Kettering Health Network unite to celebrate Independence Day and Kettering Medical Center’s 50th Anniversary. Celebrate with national entertainment, the ultimate family fun zone, and the largest fireworks show Kettering has ever seen!

City of Vandalia Star-Spangled Celebration

Price: free | Phone: 937-415-2340 | Location: Vandalia Recreation Center. 1111 Stonequarry Road, Vandalia | www.daytonlocal.com/things-to-do/city-of-vandalia-star-spangled-celebration.asp Join us at the Vandalia Sports Complex 36 DAYTONPARENTMAGAZINE.COM

for family activities and food vendors with entertainment. Fireworks begin at 10:00 p.m.

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49th Fourth of July Car Show

Phone: 937-372-8621 | Location: Greene County Fairgrounds. 120 Fairground Road, Xenia | www.daytonlocal.com/ things-to-do/fourth-of-july-car-showgreene-county-fairgrounds.asp

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Price: free | Phone: 937-335-1725 | Location: City of Troy. 100 South Market St, Troy | www.daytonlocal.com All day festivities sponsored by the City of Troy. Fireworks 10-11 pm.

First Friday Downtown Dayton

Location: Downtown Dayton | www. downtowndayton.org

Friday, July 4th, 2014 is the Greene County Antique and Classic Car Club 49th Car Show & Swap Meet at the Greene County Fairgrounds!

Explore. Create. Stay out late. The beginning of every month starts with a bang in downtown Dayton. First Friday is a free art hop event held from 5 to 10 p.m. in several locations throughout downtown.

Americana Festival

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Price: free | Location: Stubbs Park. N Main St. and W 3rd St., Dayton | http:// events.activedayton.com/dayton_oh/ events/show/367524903-americanafestival The day’s events include a 110+ unit parade, a 5k family run, antique, classic and custom auto and truck show, children’s activities, entertainment, and fireworks.

Centerville Americana Festival and Fireworks

Phone: (937) 433-5898 | Location: Downtown Centerville | americanafestival.org The Centerville-Washington Township Americana Festival started in 1972 as a sidewalk sale promoted by the city’s downtown merchants. Today, more than 75,000 people attend the festival annually, which features a parade, shopping, entertainment, a 5K run, fireworks, and more!

City of Englewood Fireworks Celebration

Phone: (937) 836-5106 | Location: City of Englewood. 333 West National Road, Englewood.

Filling the air with patriotic tunes, the Englewood Civic Band will perform beginning at 7 p.m. Children will be aglow with excitement as the Englewood Fire Association will sell glow rings. Join us as we celebrate Independence!

City of Troy 4th of July Parade & Fireworks

Rebel Without a Cause

Price: $6.00 | Phone: (937) 228-7591 | Location: Victoria Theatre. 138 North Main St., Dayton | www.victoriatheatre. com/shows/rebel-without-a-cause/ Probably James Dean’s most iconic role. A classic drama about a rebellious young man with a troubled past-and feckless parents-who comes to a new town to start fresh, quickly falling in-and out-with a tough crowd. Part of Victoria Theatre’s Cool Films Series.

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A Grand Old Independence Day

Price: free | Phone: (937) 278-2609 | Location: Carriage Hill MetroPark: Carriage Hill Historial Farm. 7850 E. Shull Rd., Dayton.

Visit Carriage Hill Farm for a community celebration of our country’s independence. Enjoy some period games and contests and step back in time as we celebrate the holiday.

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What’s New @ 2: Flower Flags

Price: free; no registration required | Phone: (937) 277-6545 | Location: Wegerzyn Gardens MetroPark: Skeeter’s Shelter. 1301 E. Siebenthaler Avenue, Dayton | metroparks.org/ChildrensGarden Create flower flags using the flower pounding technique and learn about which flowers different pollinators are attracted to. Ages 3 and up.

THURSDAY | 10 Family Films: Muppet Treasure Island

Price: $3.00 | Phone: (937) 228-7591 | Location: Victoria Theatre. 138 North Main St., Dayton | www.victoriatheatre. com/shows/muppet-treasure-island/ Yo ho ho, and a bottle of FUN! The Muppets’ twist on the classic tale about a young orphan who meets up with an infamous pirate, Long John Silver. Part of Victoria Theatre’s Cool Films Series.

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Kite Tales Aerospace Camp

Price: $10 Phone: (937) 255-3286 | Location: National Museum of the United States Air Force. 1100 Spaatz St. WrightPatterson AFB, Dayton | www.nationalmuseum.af.mil/education/camp/index. asp Campers will learn about the history and aerodynamics of kites as they make and fly two different types of kites. Open to kids ages 9-12.

SATURDAY | 12 Free Yoga on The Greene

Price: free | Phone: (937) 490-4990 | Location: The Greene: On the Quad.

4489 Glengarry Drive, Beavercreek | www.thegreene.com/Events/EventDetail/tabid/3371/ArticleId/4500/FREEYoga.aspx Free Yoga at The Greene is provided

by Indigo Yoga, located 1 mile east at 3979 Indian Ripple Road, Suite B, Beavercreek. No yoga experience is needed and all are welcome to practice together in a dynamic live class on the quad.

Flight By Night: Overnight Program at Carillon Historical Park

Phone: 937-293-2841 | Location: Carillon Historical Park. 1000 Carillon Blvd., Dayton | www.daytonhistory.org/ event/event-registration/?regevent_ action=register&event_id=467 Discover flight in an entertaining, educational, and interactive way. Space is limited; register today!

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Shop ‘Til You Drop

Price: $2 admission | Location: Hara Arena Conference and Exibition Center.

1001 Shiloh Springs Rd, Dayton | www. haracomplex.com/Shoptillyoudrop Patrons can shop ‘til you drop at over 170 booths that include crafts, clothing, jewelry, painted glass, decor items, lapidary, pottery, potpourri, collectibles and much more. An admission of only $2 buys you a full and unique shopping experience.

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REPLAY America: The Ultimate 80s Festival Price: Tickets Phone: (937) Fraze Pavilion. vard, Kettering america/

range from $40-$60 | 296-3300 | Location: 695 Lincoln Park Boule| www.fraze.com/replay-

Take a summer vacation from the day to day and come out to Mix 107.7 SummerFest 16. Relive some of your favorite artists from the 80’s and support their sounds of today. Featuring performances by The Go-Go’s, Patty Smyth of Scandal, Martha Davis & The Motels, Cutting Crew and Naked Eyes featuring Pete Byrne.

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Free Night at the Boonshoft Museum

Price: free | Phone: (937) 275-7431 | Location: Boonshoft Museum Springfield. 2600 DeWeese Parkway, Dayton | www.boonshoftmuseum.org/programsevents/community-events The Boonshoft Museum is proud to offer free admission during each of the temporary exhibitions. Admission to the Boonshoft Museum is free from 4:00 to 7:30 p.m. on July 15.

Friends of the WCPL Summer Book Sale

Price: $1- $5 | Phone: 937-433-8091 | Location: Woodbourne Library. 6060 Far Hills Ave., Centerville | Open 11AM - 7 PM Children’s materials, adult paperbacks, audio-visual materials including books on CD and a limited number of DVDs will be on sale for $1-$5 at the Friends of WCPL one day summer book sale! The sale is held in the parking lot and yard behind the Cataloging Center and the Woodbourne Library. Take advantage and stock up before they’re gone!

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What’s New @ 2: Indigo Tie Dye

Price: free; no registration required | Phone: (937) 277-6545 | Location: Wegerzyn Gardens MetroPark: Skeeter’s Shelter. 1301 E. Siebenthaler Avenue, Dayton | metroparks.org/ChildrensGarden

1301 E. Siebenthaler Avenue, Dayton | metroparks.org/ChildrensGarden

Many plants can be used to create natural dyes. Learn about some of these species and use natural dye to create your own tie dyed cloth. Ages 3 and up.

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Price: $3.00 | Phone: (937) 228-7591 | Location: Victoria Theatre. 138 North Main St., Dayton | www.victoriatheatre. com/shows/the-apple-dumpling-gang/

Price: $3.00 | Phone: (937) 228-7591 | Location: Victoria Theatre. 138 North Main St., Dayton. | www.victoriatheatre. com/shows/willy-wonka/

Here’s to the comedic genius of Tim Conway and Don Knotts-it never goes out of style! Everything goes awry when these two wannabe outlaws tangle with legendary lawman Wooly Bill Hitchcock.

Part of Victoria Theatre’s Cool Films Series.

Family Films: Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory.

The beloved fantasy about a poor boy who wins the opportunity to tour the most eccentric and wonderful candy factory on earth in its first film adaptation. Part of Victoria Theatre’s Cool Films Series.

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Price: Adults: $18.50 Seniors (62+): $15.50 Children (5-16): $15.50 Toddlers (2-4): $8.50 Infants (1 yr. & under): FREE | Phone: 513-933-8022 | Location: LM&M Railroad. 127 S. Mechanic St., Lebanon | www.lebanonrr.com/steam.html Join the LM&M Railroad for a one hour train ride behind steam engine Flagg Coal Co. #75! Ride behind the steam engine, talk with the crew, watch the maintenance and servicing, and take pictures of the locomotive in action!

SUNDAY | 20 Michelob Dayton Blues Festival

Location: Dave Hall Plaza. 23 East Fifth Street, Dayton | www.daytonlocal.com/ things-to-do/michelob-blues-festival. asp The 29th annual Michelob Dayton Blues Festival line up features the best blues bands and performances this side of the Mississippi.

WEDNESDAY | 23 Dayton Dragons vs. Quad Cities

Price: varies | Phone: 937-228-2287 | Location: Fifth Third Field. 220 North Patterson Blvd., Dayton.

What’s New @ 2: Weaving with Natural Materials

Price: free | (937) 277-6545 | Wegerzyn Gardens MetroPark: Skeeter’s Shelter.

Make a unique, decorative craft using natural materials on a miniature loom.

Ages 3 and up.

Family Films: The Apple Dumpling Gang Rides Again

The Bacon Brothers at The Greene

Price: free | Phone: (937) 490-4990 | Location: The Greene. 4489 Glengarry Drive, Beavercreek | www.thegreene. com/Events/EventDetail/tabid/3371/ ArticleId/4472/The-Bacon-Brothers. aspx Join us for a free concert featuring The Bacon Brothers with opening act Mark Cantwil and the PDH!

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Annie Oakley Days Festival

Price: free Location: York Woods. Intersection of State Route 127 and State Route 242, Greenville | www.annieoakleyfestival.org/ The Annie Oakley Festival began more five decades ago with sidewalk sales in lovely downtown Greenville. Since then, visitors and locals alike have enjoyed shooting contests, a car show, fast draw competitions, melodramas, historical tours, a pilgrimage to Annie’s grave, special displays at Garst Museum, a Saturday parade, antique market and concessions.

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Dayton Dragons vs. Cedar Rapids

Price: varies | Phone: 937-228-2287 | Location: Fifth Third Field. 220 North Patterson Blvd., Dayton.

All Steamed Up

Price: Adults: $18.50 | Seniors (62+): $15.50 | Children (5-16): $15.50 | Toddlers (2-4): $8.50 | Infants (1 yr. & under): FREE | Phone: 513-933-8022 Location: LM&M Railroad. 127 S. Mechanic St., Lebanon | www.lebanonrr.com/steam. html Join the LM&M Railroad for a one hour train ride behind steam engine Flagg Coal Co. #75! Ride behind the steam engine, talk with the crew, watch the maintenance and servicing, and take pictures of the locomotive in action!

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Dayton Celtic Festival

Price: Free | Phone: (937) 372-9788 | Location: RiverScape MetroPark. 111 E. Monument Ave., Dayton | www.daytoncelticfestival.com/ Saturate your senses in the sights, sounds, and tastes of our Celtic heritage. Discover the magic that keeps people returning to Dayton’s Celtic Festival year after year.

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Miami Valley Youth and Teen Talent Show

Price: free | Phone: (937) 296-2587 | Location: Fraze Pavilion. 695 Lincoln Park Boulevard, Kettering | http://www.fraze. com/youth-and-teen-talent-show/ Come see tomorrow’s stars compete in this annual showcase! Youth from every community around the Miami Valley compete in preliminary tryouts for a spot in the finals. Don’t miss out on the best of new talent in the Miami Valley.

Family Films: The Goonies

Price: $6.00 | Phone: (937) 228-7591 | Location: Victoria Theatre. 138 North Main St., Dayton | www.victoriatheatre. com/shows/the-goonies/ Spielberg and Donner combined forces to create a family adventure that became an iconic movie for a generation-and it’s still great family entertainment today. A big developer wants to foreclose on a neighborhood to build a huge golf course, but a band of misfit kids is determined to stop them! Part of Victoria Theatre’s Cool Films Series.

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ongoing events // JULY 2014 West Carrollton Farmers Market

(Occurring Tuesdays from June 3-October 31) Price: free | Phone: 937-847-4634 | Location: West Carrollton Farmers Market. 833 E. Central Ave, West Carrollton | www.daytonlocal.com/specials/westcarrollton-farmers-market.asp Family-Friendly Farmers Market with vendors from Anderson Brick Oven, Blairquist Speciality Meats, Downing Fruit Farm, Gypsy Chick Farm, Spring Valley Farm, Rib-N-It BarBQ, Rice Family Farms, Tom’s Garden, and more.

2nd Street Market

(Occurring Every Thu, Fri & Sat Through Wednesday, December 31, 2014) Phone: (937) 228-2088| Location: 600 E 2nd Street, Dayton, OH 45402 A local-food focused farmer’s market experience. Our local vendors literally have apples to zucchini and everything in between. Do lunch at our food court - Visit one of the delectable eateries where you will find anything from European pastries to the good ole’ sandwich. Find unique

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handmade items, wine, chocolates, pastries, freshly baked breads, pies & more!

Bring the whole family - even out of town guests - to experience the vibrant, downtown atmosphere.

Pony Rides @ Carriage Hill Farm

(Occurring Saturdays beginning June 7 through October 25, 2014) Price: $5.00 per child | Phone: (937) 278-2609 | Location: Carriage Hill Farm and MetroPark.

7800 E. Shull Road, Dayton | www.daytonlocal.com/things-to-do/pony-ridesat-carriage-hill-farm.asp Hand-led pony rides, for youngsters ages 2 - 8, are offered on Saturdays only beginning June 7 through October 25, 2014 from 12:00 noon until 3:30. Don’t forget your camera!

Christmas in July

(Daily from July 1-31) Price: Included with Do-It-All Admission | Phone: 513-8988000 | Location: EnterTRAINment Junction. 7379 Squire Court, West Chester | www.entertrainmentjunction.com/cincinnati_entertainment_and_attractions_cal-

endar Think some Christmas Cheer might help get you through the summer heat? Come on over to EnterTRAINment Junction for Christmas in July to cool off and enjoy all our great attractions. Be sure to make your way to the North Pole where you can get your mid-year check up with Santa himself!

Washington-Centerville Public Library Children’s Summer Reading Club

(Occurring 6/2/2014 - 7/26/2014) Price: FREE | Phone: 937-433-8091 | Location: Woodbourne Library. 6060 Far Hills Ave., Centerville | www.wclibrary.info Register for Summer Reading Club to prevent the “summer slide” and earn fun prizes and coupons just for reading!

Babies and toddlers participate by completing activities with parents while preschool-5th grade track books or hours read. Create crafts, attend free programs and enter contests for more fun!

Poelking Lanes/ Cosmic Bowling- Woodman, Marion and Wilmington Pike

(Recurring every Friday) Price: $12-$12.95 depending on location | Phone: 937-2933179 | Location: Poelking- Woodman Lanes. 3200 Woodman Dr, Kettering | www.poelkingbowling.com Lights, music and a lot of fun! 3 person minimum, 2 hours of bowling, shoes included.

Family Leap Night

(Occurring each Wednesday) Price: $9.35 per child | Phone: (937) 640-3345 | Location: Leapfrogs, Miamisburg | www. leapfrogsplay.com Order Food upon arrival and have dinner in one of our party rooms following the fun! A great opportunity for the whole family to spend quality time together!

Race mom & dad through our Giant obstacle course, see who’s the best in our Air Cannon Alley game or see who can climb our infamous Spider Mountain the fastest! Kids will always remember what a great time they had with their family.

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