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HAMILTON COUNTY

J U LY / AU GU S T 2015 FREE

WHAT'S IT REALLY LIKE TO BE A

foster family?

THREE LOCAL FAMILIES SHARE THEIR STORies

PLUS...

Q & A WITH

LOCAL PEDIATRIC DENTISTS

TOP 10 Hamilton County

PARKS NON-STOP FUN ALL SUMMER LONG!

CONTENTS

Meet the Staff

julu/august 2015

Publisher Mary Wynne Cox mary@hamiltoncountyfamily.com

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Associate Publisher & Advertising Sales Jennica Zalewski jennica@hamiltoncountyfamily.com

Editor Susan Bryant susan@hamiltoncountyfamily.com

Creative Director Katie Clark

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katie@hamiltoncountyfamily.com

Advertising Coordinator Karen Ring karen@hamiltoncountyfamily.com

Business Manager Roxanne Burns roxanne@hamiltoncountyfamily.com

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GREETINGS

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ON THE RADAR

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Swimming

HOOSIER NEIGHBOR?

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Kids and funerals

ASK THE EXPERT

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MOMMY MAGIC

WHAT's IT REALLY LIKE TO BE A FOSTER FAMILY?

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HIDDEN GEMS

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RECI-PLEASE

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TO DO WITH YOUR CREW

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THE LAST LAUGH

What is your perfect summer?

Free summer concerts, Museum of Miniatures and more!

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The interesting people living right next door!

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Pediatric dentists

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Three local families share their stories

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TOP 10 HAMILTON COUNTY PARKS FOR FAMILIES

Non-stop fun all summer long!

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MAKING OPPOSITES ATTRACT Connecting with a child very different from you

TO YOUR HEALTH

Public Relations and Events Wendy Cox wendy@hamiltoncountyfamily.com

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Emily Ungar, Trisha Shepherd, Joe Shearer, Emma Hostetter, Nicole Turner, Mary Susan Buhner, Stephanie Lowe-Sagebiel, Kate Burkhardt

"Pregnancy brain"

WHAT'S COOL AFTER SCHOOL

THE COUNSELOR'S CORNER

Contact Us: Hamilton County Family 6340 Westfield Blvd., Ste. 200 Indianapolis, IN 46220 (317) 417-3031 or (317) 710-6622

Unplugged summer fun

The best finds only the locals know!

Quinoa salad

July and August calendar of events

Crazy "dinner" concoctions

Hamilton County Family Magazine is published bimonthly.

Copyright 2015. All rights reserved. Reproduction without permission is prohibited.

ON THE COVER Mark and Josie Breving, with kids Morgan, Sutton, Ethan and Harper Photographer: Michelle Tiek Michelle Tiek Photography

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greetings

by: Jennica Zalewski, mom of 3

What is your perfect summer?

In my mind, the phrase “lazy days of summer” says it all. Laziness is not often a trait that parents condone, but summertime provides the perfect excuse. While some families thrive on structure and schedules, it is that carefree summer attitude that brings out the best in my family.

No busy schedules and no alarm clocks make for pleasant mornings around here.

Don’t get me wrong, we have “to do” lists to complete, but we try not to get too caught up on the “whens” and the “wheres” and instead just focus on the “nows”! There is just something about summertime that makes everything more fun!

And there are so many places in Hamilton County to get out and enjoy these beautiful summer days. If you are looking for new local adventures, our article Top 10 Hamilton County Parks for Families is a great place to start. This wonderful resource provided by our friends at Hamilton County Tourism is jam-packed with information on green spaces, trails and playgrounds to explore.

Still looking for more ideas on places to go and things to do? We’ve got a list of all the free summer concert series in our area, some “hidden gems” of Hamilton County you should definitely check out and a calendar filled with fun activities in the months of July and August. (I guess that doesn’t really fit with my “lazy” theme, does it?)

As always, thank you for taking the time to pick up our magazine. We really do appreciate your support and we welcome your feedback. If you have any ideas or interests you would like to see covered in an upcoming issue, be sure to drop me an email. My favorite thing about this magazine is that it is homegrown right here in Hamilton County! We are proud to serve such a wonderful community.

Happy carefree summer to all!

Jennica Zalewski

Associate Publisher jennica@hamiltoncountyfamily.com

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on the radar mark your calendar

get involved

other

FREE summer concerts Tuesday Summer Concert Series Sponsored

by IU Health Saxony Dates: Tuesdays through July 14 Time: 7-9 pm AMP After Dark Concert Series Dates: Fridays through August 28 Time: 9-11 pm Location: Nickel Plate District Amphitheater

Music and All that Jazz

Multicultural enrichment in Carmel The Russian School of Indiana was founded in the summer of 1993 by a handful of immigrant families who were looking for a way to stay connected to their Russian language and culture. More than twenty years later, the Russian School is now housed at University High School in Carmel and has evolved into a well-rounded enrichment center. In addition to Russian language, there are now classes in 16 other subjects, including chess, art and painting (taught by the famous Georgian artist Sandro), advanced math, music, Hebrew, theater, dance, ballet, programming and Yoga-Pilates fusion. Classes are offered in Russian and English for both children and adults. The curriculum is truly multicultural as is the cadre of instructors. The school recently held its annual Russian Festival, which attracted more than 1,100 visitors from across central Indiana.

People from more than 30 nationalities call Hamilton County and the surrounding areas home. The Russian school offers a truly multicultural experience that all can benefit from. For more information, visit www.indydeti.com.

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Dates: Fridays, August 7, August 21 and September 4 Time: 7-9 pm Location: Downtown Noblesville

Noblesville Summer Concert Series Dates: Thursdays through August 6 (no concert July 2) Time: 7 pm Location: Forest Park in July; Southside Park in August

Summer Concerts at the Carmel Gazebo Dates: Wednesdays through August 12 Time: 7:30 pm Location: Gazebo in Civic Square, Carmel

Carmel Parks & Recreation Kids Koncerts Dates: Mondays through July 27 Time: 10 am Location: alternates between River Heritage Park and West Park

IU North Hospital Jazz on the Monon Dates: Saturdays, July 25 and August 1 Time: 6-9 pm Location: southwest corner of the Monon & Main Street, Carmel

Beautiful dresses that make a beautiful impact

Museum of miniatures offers BIG fun

Local Fishers mom, Emma Hostetter, is branching out into the fun world of fashion. Her online styling and rental shop, The Borrowed Boutique, is full of gorgeous designer and boutique brands for children. From dresses and tutus to feather headbands and capes, her shop has it covered.

Emma loves working with moms and photographers styling and providing outfits for photo shoots and special occasions at a fraction of the purchase price. Simply shoot her a message and she will create a look for you, ship it to your doorstep, and then kindly ask for it back! The giving back doesn’t stop there. For every dress rented, The Borrowed Boutique helps protect little girls from sex trafficking and exploitation. While her online market has exploded in just a few short months, Emma has decided to expand her services to the local community as well by offering local pick up and drop off options. Check out her shop and stay tuned for model calls and inventory updates!

Wednesday, July 8 at 3 pm:

Contact Info:

Saturday, July 18:

Facebook: www.facebook.com/theborrowedboutique?fref=ts

BRING YOUR DOLL DAY

Website: theborrowedboutique@gmail.com

Everyone is invited to bring in dolls, share stories, and listen to readings of a book based on one of the museum’s dollhouses.

Visitors can also play with a dollhouse and go on a scavenger hunt of the museum.

Instagram: theborrowedboutique [Photo credit: Jamie Roush]

BREYER FUN DAY Enjoy the museum’s substantial collection of Breyer horses from the collection of Bea and Harold Abbott, enhanced with horsehair manes and tails, handmade bridles and saddles, and costumed riders.

Children can paint their own “stablemate” or have their picture taken with Breyer’s mascot Pal O’Mine.

july 3rd Compliment Your Mirror Day

july 10th Teddy Bear Picnic Day

july 15th

august 12th

Gummi Worm Day

Middle Child’s Day

july 31st

august 22nd

National Talk in an Elevator Day

International Tongue Twister Day

august 3rd

Visitors are invited to make miniature art with the guidance of self-taught artist and miniaturist Shel New, who believes that you can explore within yourself and heal the heart through art. All materials will be provided.

Saturday, August 8:

Just for Fun

National Watermelon Day

ALL MAKE MINIATURE ART

august 26th National Dog Day

Admission to the museum is $5 for adults; $3 for children under the age of 10 who must be accompanied by an adult. Hours are 11:00 am until 4:00 pm.

Call for information or reservations: 317-575-9466 or email mancinimmh@aol.com.

All events take place at The Museum of Miniature Houses, 111 East Main Street in Carmel

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HOOSI E R neighbor?

by: Emily Ungar, mom of 2

The interesting people living right next door!

Who are your greatest inspirations?

Carmel High School student Amy Bilquist started on a swim team when she was just four years old. She’s now a state and national record holder and has even qualified for the 2016 Olympic Trials. Read on to find out what’s next for Amy – and what time she wakes up in the morning to make it all happen.

You're well-known in the swimming community, and many say that you have a good chance at making the Olympic team. What will it take for that to happen?

I have dreamt about it since I was a little girl so it is surreal that I have come this far.

To make the dream come true I will need to put in an unbelievable amount of hard work and also have some luck to make the team.

I have already qualified for the 2016 Olympic Trials, where I will need to get top two in one of the events I compete in to make the team or make the top 6 in the 100 free to claim a relay spot on the team.

What events do you currently hold records in?

I am an American Record Holder in the 4x50 SCM Freestyle Relay that was at the 2014 SC World Championships held in Doha, Qatar. I hold two Junior World Records as a member of Team USA's 400 Medley and 400 Freestyle Relays at the 2014 Jr Pan Pacs held in Maui, Hawaii. I have been a part of multiple relays representing Carmel High School that have broken National High School Relay Records. I am the Indiana High School State record holder in both the 50 and 100 Freestyle. And I also hold numerous National Age Group Records with the relays I have swam on for Carmel Swim Club.

You're set to matriculate at the University of California-Berkeley next year. What made you decide to choose that school over the others that hoped to recruit you?

I chose Cal because I felt like it was the perfect place for me to be. It felt like home when I was there and the team was the perfect fit for me. I need a challenge to keep me motivated and I believe Cal will be a great challenge in both the classroom and the pool.

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My parents are my greatest inspirations because they strive to be the best they can be every day, and I hope to be half the people they are when I leave college.

Another inspiration of mine is my age group coach Ryan Kent. He still lives and coaches for my first club team in Arizona but he has taught me some of the most valuable lessons I have learned about life and he has made me tough and given me the ability to handle pain and adversity, and I cannot thank him enough for teaching me those things.

What is a typical day like for you?

A typical day for me is having my alarm go off at 4:55 am and rolling out of bed for swim practice, which is 5:30-7 and then I will change and eat then head to my classes. I go to school then head back downstairs to the pool for another practice from 3:30-6. I head home to eat dinner, do my homework and get ready for the next day and normally get to bed around 10 pm every night.

What are your favorite activities/ interests outside of the pool?

I used to play volleyball until I moved here to Carmel before my junior year...but I do not get the chance to do it often. I also love to hang out with my friends and go out to fun places for dinner. I also love to relax because I do not get a lot of free time to just sit back and kick up my feet.

I also love listening to Beyoncé's new songs. She is my favorite artist.

Congratulations Amy on all your success so far! We’ll be watching as you make your bid for the 2016 Olympic team!

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ask the expert PEDIATRIC DENTISTS What are dental sealants and when should my child get them?

Dental sealants protect the grooved and pitted surfaces of the teeth. Sealants are typically applied to the chewing surfaces of the molars or back teeth. Sealants are either clear or tooth-colored and protect the back teeth to help keep them cavity free. Saliva aids in keeping the smooth surfaces of the teeth clean, but it doesn’t wash out the grooved and pitted back teeth. Sealants “seal out” food and plaque, thus reducing the risk of decay.

The sealant procedure is completed in one visit. The tooth is cleaned, conditioned and dried. The sealant is “painted” on the tooth and a light hardens the material. Sealants can last for many years depending on the child’s oral hygiene and avoidance of biting on really hard things (ie. ice, suckers) or sticky foods such as

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taffy and really chewy caramels. The teeth most at risk are the six-year and twelveyear molars. Some patient’s parents elect to seal the baby molar teeth. There needs to be an element of some cooperation, so it is unique to each child when sealants are placed especially when sealants are applied to the primary molars. Most dental insurance companies cover sealants on permanent teeth. It is recommended to check with the benefits provider to see exactly what is covered.

Submitted by Dr. Michelle Edwards of Children’s Dental Center

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How can I help my child overcome his anxiety about seeing the dentist?

Start with thinking about how you talk about going to a dental appointment. The dental treatment children receive today is probably much different than your own experience growing up. Don't let any negative personal incidents you may have had interfere with your child's experience. Be careful not to let any fears you may have had become your child’s fears.

Also, never use going to the dentist as a threat for not taking proper care of your teeth. Use nice words to describe a dental appointment and explain that the dentist will count your child’s teeth, take pictures of them and clean their teeth. Emphasize that the dentist just wants to make sure their teeth are healthy.

Other tips include not scheduling an appointment during naptime, practice saying “ahh” so your child knows to open their mouth when the dentist asks them to and

start brushing your child’s teeth as soon as a tooth appears in their mouth. You can also look at books and videos about going to the dentist and show your child photos of the office. Also, consider taking your child to your dental appointment so they can see what to expect.

Submitted by Dr. Jennifer Satterfield-Siegal of Special Smiles Dentistry

Do cavities in baby teeth need to be filled?

Baby teeth serve many important functions in a child’s growth and development.

They are important for eating, speaking and holding space for permanent teeth. If a baby tooth with a cavity is left untreated it can lead to pain causing difficulty with eating, speaking, sleeping and also loss of concentration at school. Untreated decay can lead to a dental infection called an abscess. This infection could potentially affect the development of the permanent

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tooth developing under the baby tooth as well as result in the need for extraction.

Severe dental infection can even spread to other parts of the body compromising overall health.

Submitted by Dr. Ana Vazquez of Fishers Pediatric Dentistry

What’s

It

Really

Like

to Be a Foster Family?

Three local families share their stories

by: Joe Shearer, dad of 3

T

hink you could handle a few more kids at your house?

That may sound like a crazy question, but it’s exactly what foster parents have decided to do. And they come in all shapes and sizes – families with children of their own, single people, married couples with no children, empty nesters and one parent families. They all share one common trait however, they care deeply about kids.

Sharon Pierce, CEO of The Villages, a nonprofit organization that provides fostering services, says there is a need for foster families of all types. Although Pierce says that being a foster parent can at times be a challenge, the experience has the potential to be transformative for the child in need and the foster family.

of adding to their family and helping kids in need. Terra says, “Even if we only have them for a day, we knew we could make a positive difference in their lives.”

The couple does say that when a foster child must leave, although they’ve prepared for it, the process is still painful. “Even when you know it’s coming, it still hurts,” Terra says, adding that her girls have taken these departures hard too.

There are many upsides however. Terra and John adopted a little boy, three months old.

Terra says his biological parents were “just kids” and simply not equipped to care for their young son. The Barlows have gotten to know the couple and have nothing but respect for them, saying “They made the most difficult, selfless sacrifice so their son could have a better life.”

Here are the stories of three families who opened their hearts and homes to area foster children, with their ups and downs along the way.

The Marks Family After several years spent struggling unsuccessfully to conceive a child, Jeremy and Michelle Marks of Fishers decided to become a foster

The Barlow Family Fishers residents John and Terra Barlow were introduced to the idea of fostering by a friend, and were instantly interested. The Barlows have two young daughters and always dreamed of having a larger family. Unfortunately health issues prevented Tara from having more children. Fostering was their way

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family – and felt “all in” from the start. “Our only real fears were how we as new parents would handle parenting someone else’s kid while the state watched us, but even that turned out to be a non-issue,” Michelle says.

“Your heart will break with their stories, and your own kids will be jealous and act out. But if you don't do it, who will?”

Brianna says fostering is often difficult,

everyone in the family to make sure everyone

model of her parent’s kindness inspired her

Deciding to become a foster parent is a big

is on the same page.”

and Dave to make a difference.

decision and Pierce cautions those consider-

Since fostering, Jeremy and Michelle have adopted five children (four of which are biological siblings), and currently have two additional foster children.

The process hasn’t always been easy, and Jeremy suggests foster parents network with other parents for support. He also offers this

but very rewarding. “You will cry and be unsure of your parenting techniques, you will second-guess if this is the right thing for you to do,” she says. “Your heart will break with their stories, and your own kids will be jealous and act out. But if you don't do it, who will?”

advice: “Have an honest conversation with

ing it to involve the whole family in the con-

The VanGorder Family “We know we can’t save the world, but we can help a child in need one or two at a time.” This is the philosophy of Brianna VanGorder, who has fostered several children with her husband Dave, who are the parents of two daughters with special challenges. Their older daughter has epilepsy and their younger daughter deals with sensory processing disorder and speech delay. Despite these issues, the family still felt compelled to help other children. Brianna says that the

Initially, they had some uncertainty about

versation, especially the children. Prospective

what they were getting into. Brianna says

families complete a thorough screening and

their fears ranged from what she calls “silly”

training process to make sure they are well-

(how do you take care of a boy when you’ve

chosen and well-prepared. And when these

only had girls?) to serious (would angry bio-

factors are in place, the results are often spec-

logical parents attempt to find them?) The

tacular says Pierce. “Foster parents change

VanGorders eventually became respite par-

the lives not only of the children, but their

ents, which means they take foster children

lives as well. These people are champions

on weekends or when their regular foster

for children.”

parents need a break. They are also “therapeutic foster parents” caring for children with special medical or behavioral needs.

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Top 10 HAMILTON COUNTY

Parks FOR FAMILIES Non-stop fun all summer long! by: Kate Burkhardt, Communications Coordinator, Hamilton County Tourism

D

id you know Hamilton County is home to 62 parks spread across eight communities?

That’s a lot of green space, trails and playground equipment to explore! With so many parks and so little time, here are the top 10 best parks for families in Hamilton County:

1. Coxhall Gardens 200 W 116th St., Carmel

Coxhall Gardens on the west side of Carmel offers a sprawling landscape of picturesque architecture and lush lawns just begging for a game of tag or a blanket and book. It also has one of the most unique children’s areas in Hamilton County. The Children’s Garden – an adorable village of storefronts, tunnels, slides and paths – is perfect for imaginative play.

Park tip: Listen for the chiming of the 90-foot bell towers each hour and don’t forget to take a stroll through the Centerpiece, an amphitheater and gazebo reminiscent of European architecture.

2. Forest Park 701 Cicero Rd., Noblesville

Forest Park is Hamilton County’s mini amusement park with activities and amenities fit to fill an entire day. Explore the playgrounds, take a ride on the carousel

and play a round of miniature golf on the Tom Thumb course before heading to the aquatic center, complete with water slides, diving boards and a splash park.

Park tip: Don’t forget about the Indiana Transportation Museum, located right next to Forest Park. Check the departure schedule to book your train ride.

3. Morse Park and Beach 19777 Morse Park Ln., Noblesville

Who says you have to flee to the coasts to hit the beach? Morse Park and Beach is home to a brand new set of playground equipment – in the water! The floating aqua adventure park features colorful climbing areas and slides for kids to explore while cooling off. Don’t forget your sunscreen!

Park tip: Bring along a Frisbee to play Morse Park and Beach’s disc golf course.

4. Roy G. Holland Memorial Park One Park Dr., Fishers

Located in the heart of Fishers, Holland Park is known for its huge spread of playground equipment to keep kids wowed for hours of active play. A wide, paved path perfect for an afternoon stroll or bike ride borders the circular park as well.

Park tip: Take a soccer ball, basketball and a picnic lunch to make an entire afternoon out of the park!

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5. West Park 2700 W. 116th St., Carmel

Escape to West Park to get away from the city hustle and bustle. Right down the street from Coxhall Gardens, West Park is famous for its playground featuring a grain silo that kids can climb into with slides on all sides. The splash park is also a favorite among families during the July heat, while a sledding hill keeps everyone coming back in the winter.

Park tip: Be sure to explore the boardwalks that run atop five acres of pond and wetlands.

6. Cool Creek Park 200 E 51st St., Carmel

Cool Creek Park feels like a natural oasis in the middle of a maze of concrete. Located near the junction of US 31 and 151st Street, the park offers curious nature-goers four miles of trails to explore and plenty of sights and sounds to observe. Cool Creek Park is perfect for an afternoon hike or a Friday evening concert on the lawn at Cool Creek Park Pavilion.

Park tip: Bring a pair of binoculars for wildlife watching. Cool Creek Park is home to a myriad of woodland creatures.

7. Strawtown Koteewi 12308 Strawtown Ave., Noblesville

At 750 acres, Strawtown Koteewi is the largest park in Hamilton County with an array of outdoor adventures to offer – and even more on the way! Bring walking shoes, a bike or a horse to explore eight miles of trails, three of which run adjacent to the White River, making the park a perfect spot for fishing as well. Strawtown Koteewi is also home to Hamilton County’s first archery range, where families can rent gear to test their aim.

Park tip: Pay a visit to the Taylor Center of Natural History to see artifacts like arrowheads and pottery from the park’s first Native American inhabitants.

8 & 9. “Smart Parks” Simon Moon Park and Heritage Meadow Parks 2710 E 171st St., Westfield and 11233 Fountain View Ln., Fishers

Kids can activate their creativity at new “smart playgrounds” in Hamilton County, where Hans Christian Anderson fairytales are read aloud via smartphone as they explore the equipment.

Park tip: Make sure you have a QR code reader downloaded to your smartphone before you visit!

10. Flat Fork Creek Park Coming soon!

16141 E 101 St., Fortville

This newest park featuring 59 acres of green space, a mountain biking trail, tree houses and a 50 foot sledding hill will be opening soon!

* All photos courtesy of Hamilton County Tourism

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making

by: Trisha Shepherd, mom of 3

r act Opposites Attr Connecting with a child very different from you

S

he is a four-year-old free spirit who never met a stranger.

Her name is Penny.

And her shy mother is the exact flip side of that shiny coin.

“She is so the social butterfly,” says Penny’s mother, Bonna. “I never have been and never will be.”

The two are lookalikes, with their fair skin and strawberry locks, but they are polar opposites in terms of personality. “My husband and I joke about how when she gets older she will be everything I wasn't:

popular, bubbly and probably a cheerleader type.”

If you’re like Bonna, raising a child so different from you can present some challenges. When you don’t have a “mini me” for a son or daughter, how can you still develop a meaningful connection?

Dive into their world As parents, it’s natural to want to share our interests with our kids – and hope they feel the same spark. When we don’t give them space to develop their own passions however, an unnecessary divide can develop.

“One thing I see is parents trying to push kids into their own interests,” says Kristi Turner, MA, LMHC, owner of Hamilton

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Professional Counseling in Noblesville.

“I always encourage you to dive into what your kids are into and let them be the experts. Get out of your head, and into the kid’s head.”

Turner speaks from personal experience with her own 11-year-old son, who is in many ways her opposite. Recently he asked her to play Minecraft with him. “It was super important to him, so I carved out an hour,” she recalls. “He had a blast because I wasn’t very good at it, and he was. It’s a confidence boost for him to be the expert.”

Likewise, Bonna has found it rewarding to embrace her daughter’s differences rather than fighting them. “Your child doesn't have to be your clone. Don't try to restrain them from their natural instincts.”

Find (or create)

Understand their

Polar opposites can usually find some way to enjoy their time together, even if they approach it from different angles.

Molly, a mom of two from Carmel, discovered a fun way to bond with her sports-loving 13-year-old son, without feigning interest in athletic events. The two went on a four-hour kayaking trip together which appealed to both of them. Although Molly says, “There were times on the trip when he paddled way ahead of me, and other times when he wanted to connect our kayaks together and float in tandem downstream.”

Online tools and books can also help you uncover better ways to communicate and relate to your children. For example, The Five Love Languages system, developed by Gary Chapman, offers free online tests for children of different ages that reveal their preferred ways of receiving love: words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time or physical touch. (www.5lovelanguages.com)

common ground

She and her husband are also different from their daughter, who “lives for musical theatre, drama and singing, when neither of us ever set foot on stage.”

Still, they find common ground in reading books together. “Talking about the characters in books and how they are feeling is a safe way for her to express her thoughts and ask me questions,” says Molly.

communication style

It also helps to do your own investigating about how your child prefers you interact with them, says Turner, as long as you keep the tone light and casual. “Talk to your kids, and ask, ‘Hey, what kind of stuff do I do that makes you happy, and makes you feel good? What’s your favorite thing that we have done lately?’

It really helps to open up that dialogue.”

See the rewards

Sometimes, differences between you and your child can help you grow in ways you never expected. As Bonna says about her extroverted daughter, “She in some

ways has pulled me out of my comfort zone by giving me more opportunities to be social.” Bonna appreciates the way Penny provides instant connections to other people. “I am still quite a loner, but I do talk to more people. Sometimes I just love to stand back and watch her.

I encourage it, because I wish I were more like her.”

Bonding with a child who is your opposite takes conscious effort, and that alone may help you be more mindful of your unique parenting journey. Molly was struck by something during that kayaking trip with her son.

“I followed his lead, noticing a pattern of paddling ahead towards independence and hanging back for connectedness,” she recalls. “That is about the best metaphor for parenting that I know.”

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to your health

"Pregnancy Brain" Myth or reality?

Many pregnant moms vow that they are losing their memory and their minds at the same time!

“Pregnancy brain” is a term commonly used to describe the forgetfulness that many women experience during pregnancy and the postpartum period.

The verdict still appears to be out, however, on whether this pregnancy-related experience truly exists or is simply due to sleep deprivation, distraction, stress, depression or just an increased awareness that forgetfulness may occur.

by: Dr. Emma Hostetter, MD, MPH

Create intentional routines Most of us manage to make it through our daily tasks without much thought, but in pregnancy, creating specific routines may prevent us from washing our hair three times in a row, hunting for our keys for 30 minutes in the morning and showing up at work when we were supposed to be going to the dentist for an appointment.

Give your mind a break by creating intentional routines. Have a special spot for your keys and pattern yourself to put them there every time you enter the house. Use the same purse so you don’t absentmindedly grab the one without your wallet. Set your prenatal vitamins and any other medications in a visible place (out of reach of children) so you won’t forget to take them. In the evening, allow yourself time to think about what’s coming up the next day.

This will keep you from forgetting something important when you are rushing out the door in the morning.

Get a second brain According to Dr. Susan Benson, MD, OB/GYN with St. Vincent Fishers Hospital, pregnancy brain may be a real phenomenon.

Benson says that many of her patients complain about forgetfulness, and a recent study evaluating brain signals in pregnant women demonstrated that they had increased activity in the portions of the brain that control feeling and emotion and less in the areas of logic and memory. This shift may be due to pregnancy hormones, and is thought to be a natural change that encourages maternal bonding with the developing fetus.

So, this frustrating forgetfulness may actually have bonding benefits for you and your baby! Instead of being hard on yourself during this time, be encouraged that your temporary memory loss may lead to a better relationship with your newborn. Here are a few helpful ways to cope and keep you from feeling like you’re losing your mind.

Write it down Making lists is one of the best ways to keep track of your schedule. You may have been able to remember everything in your head before you became pregnant, but writing things down may be a better approach now. If you love old-fashioned paper and pen, pick out a pretty planner to jot down your appointments and lists.

If you’re more high-tech, set your iPhone with reminders, add important phone numbers to your contacts right away and keep your passwords in your notes section (with password protection).

As soon as pregnancy-related questions come to mind, jot them down for your next prenatal appointment. Keeping everything that you need to remember in one spot is key to eliminating frustration.

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Lastly, ask for help! Give your husband, partner, friends or whoever you’re with the job of being your second brain. You are much less likely to leave your purse at a restaurant if someone else has been tasked with reminding you to grab it. You will be asking for loads of help once the baby comes. Swallowing your pride and learning to ask for a little extra assistance now may be just what the doctor ordered.

Take time to take care of your pregnant self. Sleep when you’re tired, drink plenty of water and give your mind a break. Your body is growing an amazing little person – and a little forgetfulness may just be part of the process.

Dr. Emma Hostetter is a Fishers family physician and public health specialist. Find her blog “The Mom in Me, MD” on the Hamilton County Family web site or visit her at www.themominmemd.com.

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It’s just not summer without a trip to the pool!

Maximize the fun by making sure your child is a proficient and confident swimmer.

Learning to swim is not just a good time – it’s an essential skill to learn as well. Hamilton County has many quality swim programs offering everything from a baby’s first dip in the water to competitive programs for those ready to race. Check out a few of these local pools to find out more!

FAST – Fishers Area Swim Tigers Swim Lessons and Swim Team at Fishers High School Fishers High School Aquatic Center 13000 Promise Road, Fishers www.fasttigers.com swimmingtigers2013@ gmail.com

The FAST Tigers Progressive Swim Program offers year round swim lessons for children ages 3-12 for all swimming levels from beginner to swim team prep. Lessons in July will be offered twice a week in the morning or late afternoon.

The Fishers Area Swimming Tigers (FAST) is a competitive swim program that practices at Fishers High School. For an evaluation, call Head Coach Jay Chambers at (317) 6912695, or email coachchambers@ fasttigers.com. For more information and to register, visit www.fasttigers.com.

Fishers YMCA

Goldfish Swim School

9012 E 126th St, Fishers

271 Merchants Square Drive, Suite A-110, Carmel

(317) 558-3207 www.indymca.org/centers/ fishers/center-news/ www.OurCauseIsYou.org

The YMCA has been teaching children how to be safe and skilled in the water for over 100 years! YMCA Swim Lessons are progressive and deliver the YMCA’s mission of building healthy spirit, mind and body for all. The Fishers YMCA provides swim lessons to children as young as six months, teens, adults and those with special needs. Whether you’re interested in private or group lessons, the YMCA will teach you the necessary skills to enjoy water and water environments for a lifetime.

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(317) 810-0790 www.goldfishswimschool.com

11581 Geist Pavilion Drive, Suite 114, Fishers (317) 810-0790 www.goldfishswimschool.com

Goldfish Swim School offers swim lessons to children from 4 months to 12 years old in a Caribbeaninspired setting. Our friendly and highly trained instructors foster a love of swimming with an emphasis on water safety. Plus our 90-degree pools keep your children shiverfree! With locations in Carmel and Fishers.

Other swimming opportunities in our area include: Carmel Swim Club Infant Swimming Rescue Lifetime Fitness Monon Center Noblesville Swim Club Southeastern Swim Club Stony Creek Swim Club Viper Aquatics

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the counselor's corner

by: Stephanie Lowe-Sagebiel

Kids and funerals “At what age should a child attend a funeral? I think my six-year-old son is too young to go to his grandmother’s funeral and will be traumatized by the event. My husband thinks he will be fine and feels it is appropriate that he go. What’s the best way to handle this situation?”

Unfortunately, there is no steadfast rule on the best age for a child to attend a funeral.

Parents often have different viewpoints about when a child is ready for this type of experience. A funeral may be the first time that parents teach their children about grief and the religious traditions and rituals that surround death. Your first consideration in this matter is to think about how to share this type of information in an age appropriate way. Here are some suggestions for handling your child’s first end-oflife experience:

Use specific language. Although you may want to “soften” the way you tell your child that someone has died, saying phrases like “Grandma passed away” or “Grandma went to Heaven” can actually be confusing for very young children who tend to think in very concrete terms.

Stating simply that “Grandma died” can help the child define the situation in an immediate way. Undoubtedly, questions will follow. How did she die? Where is she now? Why did that happen? Being able to answer as simply and directly as possible will help your child through the grief process. Here are some examples of possible answers to these questions: How did she die? Grandma’s body stopped working.

Where is she now? Her body is in the funeral home, but her soul goes to Heaven.

Why did that happen? Sometimes, we don’t know why a person dies.

Reassure your child. When a family member or someone else dies, many children worry about their own safety or the safety of their parents. Let your child know that he or she is safe and will always be taken care of. Remind them that they are healthy and so are their mom and dad.

Understand that children grieve in different ways. Sometimes allowing children to attend all the events of a funeral (visitations, burial services, etc.) can actually help them process what happens when someone dies. If this is something you choose to do, assign an adult who is not intimately involved with the deceased to be with the child during all the various parts of the service so they can monitor how the child is coping and be ready to allow him or her to disengage if necessary.

Kids react to grief in many ways. Some may cry or feel unsafe because they see others are in distress. Many young children need space to “play out their grief” since they don’t yet have an advanced “feelings” vocabulary to articulate what they are experiencing and will need to process their intense emotions through play instead.

Allow them the flexibility and space to do this if necessary.

If there is an open casket, many children will be curious about what their loved one looks like or “what happens next.” Assure them that the person is not cold, hungry or in any pain. Be careful not to equate dying with sleeping. This idea may create anxiety for kids who worry they or others may never wake up if they go to sleep. If the child does not want to view the body, respect their feelings and don’t require him or her to do so.

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Above all else, be patient and sensitive to your child during this difficult time. Expect and allow questions for several days or weeks afterward. For many children, death can be a confusing concept. One day, they may seem to understand that Grandma has died and is gone, and the next day ask if she is coming to their birthday party. It will take some time for them to fully understand the permanency of death. By being open to discussing their feelings and questions on the subject, you will be showing them that death is a part of life, and something that we all can get through with the support of those around us.

Stephanie Lowe-Sagebiel is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with Centerpoint Counseling and Baume Psychological Services and has nearly twenty years of experience helping adults, teens and children develop healthy skills to manage life’s challenges.

Have a question for our counselor? Send it to editor@hamiltoncountyfamily.com.

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mommy magic

by: Mary Susan Buhner, mom of 3

Unplugged Summer Fun Tuning in to the classic joys of the season It's finally summer - no more backpacks, homework or school projects!

There is something about the freedom of summer that always takes me back to my own childhood. Windows down while driving the car, the smell of fresh cut grass, backyard cookouts… the feeling of longer and less hectic days.

Back then my parents both had their unique approach to getting us outside to play. Saying the phrase "I'm bored" to my mom was only going to earn me more chores or getting an "I'm sure I can find you something to do around the house" kind of project. She suggested we fill our time with bike rides, lemonade stands and running through the sprinkler. Without cell phones, laptops and iPads we actually read books and jumped rope for fun. My dad had a less subtle manner of getting me out of the house on a summer day. "Go outside!” he would say. “Do something anything! Play in the traffic if you have to. Just get outside!" He was kidding about playing in traffic of course, put his point was taken.

Being an unplugged generation back in the 1970's meant we had to make our own fun. We didn't Google or text about what we were going to do and didn’t Facebook or Instagram about what we were doing while we were doing it. There is an old saying that I love: "Dance like no one is watching."

There is a new twist on that saying now: "Dance like no one is watching.

Because they aren’t. They’re all on their cell phones.”

Two summers ago I decided to change the way our family did summer since during the first week all I could hear were my kids’ phones dinging from message alerts. I wanted my children to have that carefree feeling of the season that I felt growing up. So, I presented my girls with my plan to unplug from their devices. Much to my surprise, they felt relieved. I had given them permission to let go of this burden, and what unfolded was magic.

My second grader decided she wanted to learn how to make jam from fresh strawberries, much like how my grandmother had taught me. My middle school daughter said she wanted to ride her bike every day and wash our cars. Washing cars turned into water fights and water slides made from the tarp we had in the garage. My oldest daughter learned how to bake.

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made up some of her own. All of their endeavors overlapped and it was a wonderful thing for me to witness.

This summer I hope you’ll appreciate the freedom you have with your children during these few precious months. See what opportunities can arise if you “unplug” from your devices for awhile. You may be surprised to discover that the joys of summer you experienced as a child are the same ones that delight your kids.

Mary Susan Buhner is a Life Coach for Moms and author of “Mommy Magic: Tricks for Staying Sane in the Midst of Insanity.” Visit her Mommy Magic Fan Page on Facebook and her website at: www.Mommy-Magic.com.

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hidden gems

by: Kate Burkhardt, Communications Coordinator, Hamilton County Tourism

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The best finds only the locals know!

Look no further than Hamilton County for hidden gems worth discovering this July and August: Footgolf What do you call it when someone plays golf using his or her feet? This brand new sport is called Footgolf, and it’s sweeping Hamilton County! The rules are the same as golf, except for using your feet instead of a club – and the holes are soccer ballsized! Balmoral Golf Club in Fishers and Fox Prairie Golf Course in Noblesville offer Footgolf play for anyone old enough to kick a soccer ball! Visit balmoralgolfclub. com or foxprairie.com for more information.

Bub’s Café When most people think of Bub’s they think of burgers, so this pancake place right on the Monon is often forgotten! Perfect for a sunny summer morning treat, come to Bub’s for their pancakes and “Bub holes.” Order flapjacks with bananas, blueberries, chocolate chips or strawberries. Or, if you’re feeling ambitious, go for the Big Stack – a tower 12 pancakes tall to devour or split amongst the family! Visit Bub’s Café at 220 2nd St. SW in Carmel.

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reci-please by: Nicole Turner, Registered Dietician, mom of 2

Quinoa Salad

Have you tried quinoa yet? Quinoa is a whole grain that provides protein, magnesium, zinc, iron and folate and is available in beige, black, purple and red varieties. Whole grains are satisfying and are packed with nutrients. A whole grain contains all three parts of the grain – the bran layer (which is rich in fiber), the germ (which contains most of nutrients) and the endosperm. Refined grains have the bran and germ removed, leaving the starchy endosperm. Examples of refined grains include white rice and all purpose flour. Since refined grains have the nutrient dense parts removed, it is recommended to limit your daily intake of these grains and focus on whole grain options instead. Quinoa is easy to cook and its mild flavor lends itself well to sides and salads. This recipe has an oil-based dressing which makes it safe to transport during the warmer months of summer.

INGREDIENTS:

1 cup uncooked quinoa 14 oz. can garbanzo beans, drained & rinsed 1 red pepper, chopped 1 cup cucumber, chopped 1/4 cup red onion, finely chopped 1 cup corn (either fresh or frozen) 1/2 cup shredded carrots 1 cup chopped kale or spinach 4-5 tablespoons fresh lemon juice (about 2 small lemons) 1/4 teaspoon salt 1/2 teaspoon ground pepper 1 clove garlic, minced 1/4 cup fresh Italian parsley or basil, finely chopped 1/4 cup olive oil 1/2 teaspoon dried thyme (or 1-2 teaspoons fresh)

Steps:

1. In a medium pot, bring 3 cups water and uncooked quinoa to a boil. Reduce heat and cover, simmering for about 10-15 minutes (spiral-like threads will appear around each grain).

2. In a large bowl add garbanzo beans, red pepper, cucumber, red onion, corn, carrots and kale or spinach.

3. Add cooled quinoa to bowl.

4. In small mixing bowl, combine remaining ingredients to make the dressing. Whisk well.

5. Pour dressing over salad ingredients.

Toss well to coat.

6. Serve warm or chilled.

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to do with your crew july & august calendar of events

Saturday, July 04 Glorious Fourth Celebrate the Fourth of July with festivities, games, songs, and patriotic presentations in 1836 Prairietown. See website for complete schedule of events.

Times: 10:00 AM – 5:00 PM Cost: $15/adult, $14/senior, $10/youth (ages 2-12); free for members and youth under 2 Where: Conner Prairie, Fishers Phone: 317-776-6000 http://connerprairie.org/

Saturday, July 11 Noblesville Street Dance The annual Street Dance is downtown Noblesville’s biggest event of the year! One of the most popular features of the Street Dance is the Kid’s Zone which will take place from 4:00 pm – 8:30 pm. Free activities in the Kid’s Zone include: carnival games, video game truck, rock climbing wall, Toucha-Truck, airbrush tattoos, balloon artists, family-friendly vendors, and an ice cream eating contest.

Times: 4:00 PM – 11:00 PM Cost: Free Where: Downtown Noblesville www.noblesvillemainstreet.org/

Saturday, August 29 Back2School Bash Indy's Child and Hamilton County Family magazines are hosting the ultimate Back2School Bash! Meet with area schools and businesses. Enjoy handson activities, live entertainment, food, prizes and much more! Going back to school has never been so fun! Plus, guests of the Back2School Fair can enjoy the Monon Center Waterpark free of charge!

Times: 11:00 AM – 3:00 PM Cost: Free Where: Monon Community Center, Carmel Phone: 317-573-5243 www.hamiltoncountyfamily.com

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fri 03 — sat 04 CarmelFest 2015 This free outdoor festival features live entertainment; a KidZone with rides and games, water boats, mini-cars, Eurobungy and more; performances by the Carmel Symphony Orchestra; shopping at the MarketPlace; a parade and, of course, Fireworks! Friday 4pm-10:30pm & Saturday Noon-10:30pm. See website for complete schedule.

Cost: Free Where: Carmel Civic Square

thurs 16 — tues 21 Hamilton County 4-H Fair

Kids Koncerts - Island Breeze Duo

The Hamilton County 4-H Fair is fun for the whole family, featuring numerous open events for all ages as well as the large variety of 4-H events and shows.

Animals, livestock, foods, clothing, crafts, tractors, horticulture, dancing, and the talent show are just a few of the highlights. See website for schedule of events.

Kids can jump, sing and play outside at Carmel Clay Parks free summer kids koncerts. Kona Ice will be on hand selling shaved ice. A portion of the proceeds support department-wide scholarships.

Cost: Free admission Where: Hamilton County 4-H Fairgrounds, Noblesville https://extension.purdue.edu/ Hamilton

Westfield Rocks the 4th!

Westfield Rocks the 4th is the City of Westfield's largest event. A celebration of America's Independence Day, WR4 is a free festival with something for people of all ages. This festival features entertainment, food, and fun activities for the entire family to enjoy.

Times: 4:30 PM - 10:00 PM Where: Asa Bales Park, Westfield http://westfieldrocksthe4th.com/

sat 11 Fishers Parks and Recreation Mud Day

Times: 10:00 AM Where: West Park, Carmel https://www.carmelclayparks.com/ get-outside/parks/west-park

weds 29 — sun 02 Westfield Playhouse Presents: Peter Pan and Wendy

www.carmelfest.net/

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weds 22 Touch a Truck at Carmel High School This BIG annual celebration allows kids to get up close and personal with some of their favorite vehicles, including fire trucks, tractors, police cars...even limousines! Kids of all ages can sit in the driver’s seat and honk the horn to their hearts' content.

This production by the Main Street Productions Youth Theatre is sure to delight.

Adapted by Doug Rand from the novel

by J.M. Barrie. The Aug. 2 show will take place at 2:30 p.m. Visit website for tickets and more information.

Times: 7:30 PM Where: Westfield Playhouse Phone: (813) 896-2707 http://www.westfieldplayhouse.org/

Times: 10:00 AM - 12:00 PM Cost: $3 per child Where: Carmel High School Stadium Parking Lot, Carmel http://carmelclayparks.com/?s= touch+a+truck

Beach Babes

What happens when you combine 20 tons of topsoil with 50,000 gallons of water? A mud-filled day your kids will never forget! Rain or shine kids will finally have an excuse to get muddy as they compete for the title of Mud King and Mud Queen.

A small section will be blocked off for younger children who are interested in getting muddy. Parental supervision is required.

Escape the summer heat and let your little one play with sand, splash in the water and go magnet fishing! This event does take place outdoors, so be sure to bring sunscreen and a towel for the ride home. Register by July 15 using activity title TTTF Beach Babes.

Times: 11:00 AM - 1:00 PM Cost: Free

Where: Cumberland Park Building, Fishers

Where: Cyntheanne Park, Fishers

Phone: (317) 595-3150

http://www.fishers.in.us/Parks

http://www.fishers.in.us/parks

Times: 10:00 AM Cost: R $6/ NR $9

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fri 31 Music Bingo Bonanza Come play the classic bingo game with a musical twist! This program will feature games involving heroes, villains, tv shows and movies. This teen program is a lot of FUN so definitely make sure to check it out! Ages 12-19.No registration required.

Times: 3:00 PM - 5:00 PM Cost: Free Where: Hamilton East Library, Fishers Phone: (317) 579-0304 http://www.hepl.lib.in.us/

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sat 01 9th Annual Open House Fly-In & Air Race Each August, Montgomery Aviation hosts a Fly-In Open House & Air Race in support of Down Syndrome Indiana. Families from the community are invited to enjoy the sunfilled afternoon with vintage aircraft and vehicle displays, local food vendors, music, face-painting, bounce houses, candydrops, airplane rides and exciting raffle prizes. Proceeds and donations from the event will benefit Down Syndrome Indiana.

Times: 7:30 AM - 2:00 PM

fri 07 — sun 23 Indiana State Fair

Pre-School Splash Bash

The theme for this year's fair is "Year of the Farmer" and it promises to be a great showcase of the Past, Present & Future of Hoosier Agriculture. There will also be plenty of entertainment that the whole family will enjoy - from the thrilling Midway rides to exciting live concerts to mouthwatering fair food concoctions, Indiana knows how to put on a state fair. Don't miss it!

Younger kids can splash and play the morning away at the Waterpark while the older kids are at school! Swim in the kiddie pool, laze the morning away in the Lazy River, and enjoy fun games and crafts.

Cost: See website for ticket pricing Where: The Indiana State Fairgrounds, Indianapolis

http://www.dsindiana.org/Flyin.php

mon 03 Pokeman and Board Games Take a break from the summer heat with an evening of Pokeman and board games at the Carmel Clay Public Library. This program is for children entering K-5.

Times: 6:30 PM - 7:30 PM Cost: Free Where: Carmel Clay Public Library http://www.carmel.lib.in.us/

Classical Mystery Tour: Music of the Beatles The Classical Mystery Tour is back with their annual Marsh Symphony on the Prairie tribute to the band that changed rock and roll forever. Be sure to make your way to the stage to dance and sing along to your favorite Beatles classics. Gates open at 6 p.m.

Times: 8:00 PM Cost: See website for ticket pricing Where: Conner Prairie, Fishers https://www.indianapolissymphony.org

Cost: $10/child Where: Monon Community Center Waterpark, Carmel Phone: (317) 573-5243 http://www.carmelclayparks.com/

sat 22

sat 09

Westfield Historic Underground Railroad Ghost Walk

National S'mores Day! Join Fisher Parks and Recreation at Ritchey Woods Nature Preserve for our eighth annual National S’mores Day to celebrate one of the tastiest treats. Parents, supervision is required as children roast their own marshmallows and create the perfect afternoon snack! Roasting sticks, graham crackers, marshmallows and chocolate will be provided.

Cost: Free - Register by Aug. 7 using activity title S’mores Day Where: Ritchey Woods Nature Preserve, Fishers

thurs 13 — fri 14 Prairie Tykes: This Little Pig Prairie Tykes is custom made for little ones and parents or grandparents! Connect one-on-one while you make crafts, dance, sing and take part in the special activity of the day. In this class, attendees will get a chance to visit the Conner Prairie pigs, sing pig songs and play with pig puppets.

Times: 9:30 AM - 11:00 AM, 12:30 PM 2:00 PM (Friday only) Cost: $11 Youth member; $12 Youth non-member Where: Conner Prairie, Fishers http://connerprairie.org/

Cost: $18; seniors 65+ $13; children $13 http://unseenpress.com/

fri 28 — sun 30 GreekFest 2015

http://www.fishers.in.us/

Phone: (317) 776-6000

Join Unseen Press for a brief encounter with Westfield's most haunting legends and folk tales. This tour is filled with stories of ghosts of the Underground Railroad and those who helped them escape mixed with modern day gangsters and mischief from Westfield’s haunted history. Surprising spirits from the past of Westfield still roam the quaint and dark downtown today.

Where: Asa Bales Park, Westfield

Times: 4:00 PM - 7:00 PM

Phone: (317) 595-3458

fri 07 — sat 08

Times: 11:00 AM - 2:00 PM

http://www.in.gov/statefair/fair/

Cost: Free Where: Indianapolis Executive Airport, Zionsville

fri 21

The Indianapolis Greek Festival is an annual family-oriented festival celebrating the Orthodox faith and Hellenic culture with the community. Enjoy authentic Greek food, live music and dancing, kids' activities, guided church tours and much more.

Friday 4-10 p.m., Saturday 11 a.m.- 10 p.m., Sunday 11 a.m.- 4 p.m. Visit the website for a complete schedule of events.

Cost: Free admission Where: Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church, Carmel http://indygreekfest.org/

*PLEASE NOTE: At Hamilton County Family, we work hard to ensure our calendar information is accurate. Occasionally, event specifics change after we go to press. Therefore, we encourage our readers to call locations or visit them on the web to verify information.

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the last laugh

The craziest concoction I have ever passed off as "dinner" is...

Canned tuna with corn. It tasted as horrible as it sounds. – Stephanie A. Oatmeal and cheese. – Holly S. Soup, bananas, spaghetti and green beans.

– Ardith B Popcorn and cereal. – Gonda D. Threw a couple of cans of beans, tomato paste and spices into a pot and warmed it up. I thought it would taste like chili. Our two year old wouldn't touch it. I obviously need to use my wife's recipe next time. – James C. Bowl of Cheerios and honey roasted peanuts!

– Julie A. I had nothing to prepare so I mixed a lot of pantry items on a plate to make it look like a sampler. I passed! – Michelle S. Peanut butter and bread and butter pickle sandwich. – Stacey H.

*Cartoon by local Fishers artist Patrick Hankley of Drawpartner Graphics – www.drawpartner.com

Peanut butter and honey sandwich....which she had for lunch that day as well. – Dalhia S. Nutella stuffed crescent rolls. Who needs anything else with that?? – Leslie F.

Thanks to our readers for all their "creative" replies! *Comments taken from the Hamilton County Family magazine Facebook page

Cereal! Lol. Also, once we had fish sticks and eggs! Yuck! – Hollie C.

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