Indy's Child // 08.2012

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a balanced adding child extracurriculars 1 INDYSCHILD.COM

SCHOOL > get ready for the new year > savvy school shopping > school year resolutions

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features 16 | AN INTERVIEW WITH FIRST LADY CHERI DANIELS Wife, mother, grandmother, first lady and dedicated hoosier

26 | KEEPING THE PEACE Coping with sibling rivalry

20 | A BALANCED CHILD Adding extracurricular activities to your family's schedule

14 | SCHOOL LUNCHES, CHILDHOOD OBESITY & NEW USDA GUIDELINES Keeping your child healthy at home and at school

around town 19 | MUSEUM NOTE Preparing your first-time preschooler for school

44 | BACK TO SCHOOL

47 | INDY ON A BUDGET

48 | SCHOOL YEAR RESOLUTIONS

special needs

Get ready for the new school year

Getting your family organized, healthy, and happy for the start of a new school year

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Savvy back-to-school shopping

The challenges of homework for a child on the autism spectrum

08 | COMMUNITY SPOTLIGHT 10 | ONLINE BUZZ

How to effectively communicate with your child's teacher

commentary + parenting

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34 | HOMEWORK AND AUTISM

41 | WHAT TEACHERS NEED TO KNOW ABOUT CHILDREN WITH SPECIAL NEEDS

06 | PUBLISHER'S NOTE

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resources

48 calendars

23 | ARTS/ENRICHMENT GUIDE

38 | SPECIAL NEEDS EVENTS

Stay-at-home dad, pete gilbert

36 | Special Needs GUIDE

57 | AUGUST EVENTS

30 | DEAR TEACHER

51 | education/childcare GUIDE

60 | ONGOING EVENTS

56 | KIDS EAT FREE GUIDE

63 | FUN + WACKY

28 | THE DAD OLYMPICS

health

61 | MARKETPLACE

12 | SPOT THE SIGNS OF A LEARNING DISABILITY

62 | BIRTHDAY PARTY GUIDE

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First Lady Cheri Daniels, Daughter Meredith & Granddaughter Audrey

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Indy’sChild

[ publisher’s note ]

FOUNDING PUBLISHER Barbara Wynne | barbara@indyschild.com PUBLISHER Mary Wynne Cox | mary@indyschild.com EDITOR Katie Wynne | kwynne@indyschild.com SALES & BUSINESS DEVELOPMENT Jennica Zalewski | jennica@indyschild.com

Balanced School Calendar to Boost Student Achievement Shorter summers, smarter kids

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ow it is August and all schools are back in session this month. The day-after-Labor-Day-school-start is probably gone forever!

Whereas most schools dedicate at least 180 days to student education, studies have shown that less knowledge is lost if the summer break is not three months long.

Math and science skills depend on pathways that require constant development. Teachers guide students through these pathways. They have to spend less time reviewing forgotten concepts with a shorter summer break and thus have more time to teach new materials.

There are many reasons to support the new calendar. Your children need to feel you’re behind them in everything they do. There can be some family benefits from the intersessions. The IPS Fall Break is from October 5-22 and can be a wonderful time to plan an enrichment program for your child. Many are already offered but you can find some of your children’s family friends and plan trips to the many wonderful museums right here in Indianapolis.

MSD Washington Township has a Balanced School Schedule for the first time with the first full day of school August 6th. Their calendar allows 10 weeks of summer vacation with five full weeks off during the school year.

Fall break is October 6-14. Thanksgiving break: November 17-25. Winter break is December 22-January 6.

Spring Break is March 23-31. Most school districts are having a two-week break at Christmas. All of these changes can bring new opportunities for enrichment programs and family travel.

This issue of Indy’s Child features enrichment opportunities for your children. It is time to plan sports and cultural opportunities for your children. Music, gymnastic and dance programs go into full gear this month. Your local Y has classes starting for both kids and parents. Soccer and indoor tennis classes have registrations this month.

I know it has been a very hot summer but may the early start of school bring us some cool Fall weather!

Barbara Wynne Cox Founding Publisher

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CREATIVE DIRECTOR Katie Pfierman | katie@indyschild.com EVENTS COORDINATOR & PUBLIC RELATIONS Wendy Cox | wendy@indyschild.com BUSINESS MANAGER Roxanne Burns | roxanne@indyschild.com ADVERTISING COORDINATOR Karen Ring | karen@indyschild.com INTERN Tessa Judge | tessa@indyschild.com AD CREATION Heather Lipe | heather@amplifydesign.com CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Angela Arlington, Krista Bocko, Mary Susan Buhner, Mary Wynne Cox, Marge Eberts, Pete Gilbert, Peggy Gisler, Amanda Grant & Dr. Sandeep Gupta– Riley Hospital for Children, Tessa Judge, Sarah McCoshamm, Peyton Manning Children's Hospital at St. Vincent, Cathy Southerland– Children's Museum, Andi Wilson CALENDAR OF EVENTS calendar@indyschild.com

CONTACT US 921 E. 86th Street., Suite 130 | Indianapolis, IN 46240 PHONE: 317.722.8500 | FAX: 317.722.8510 EMAIL: info@indyschild.com

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in every issue

[ community spotlight ]

community S POT L IGH T

trader’s point hunt charity horse show The Traders Point Hunt Charity Horse Show, benefiting Riley Hospital for Children, is being held at Wild Air Farms—one of the true jewels of the Midwest. This beautiful, private estate plays host to guests, horses, and riders on August 7-12. The Country Fair features a wide variety of antiques, jewelry, gifts, tack supplies, and clothing along with a variety food and beverages.

Kids Day will be Saturday Aug. 11th from 10:00 a.m. to 3:00p.m. They will offer free horse rides, Radio Disney, Pacer Fun Van, several bounce houses, face painting, air brush tattoos, balloon creations of all sorts and much more.

The entire show makes for a wonderful family event. Daily competition throughout the week begins at 8:00 a.m. and runs until the last class is over.

Country Fair is open daily until 5:00 p.m. Admission is $5 Tuesday-Saturday, $10 Sunday. Children under 12 are free with a paid adult.

Please visit www.traderspoint.org for detailed schedules, more information, and directions to the show.

lactation station returns to the indiana state fair For the 6th year in a row, moms, babies, and families will be offered a reprieve from the hot August sun during the Indiana State Fair and a place to breastfeed, socialize with other moms, and gather the latest information on women’s and infant health.

The Lactation Station, created by the Indiana Mothers’ Milk Bank in 2006, gives moms a clean, comfortable place to breastfeed their babies and care for their children, with two locations placed conveniently around the fairgrounds. The Lactation Station is equipped with relaxing rocking chairs, breezy fans, cold water, and welcoming volunteers armed with a mass amount of information on a variety of topics. Each station will be open daily from 10 a.m. to 9 p.m. during the fair’s 17-day run.

Come visit the Indiana State Breastfeeding Coalition Lactation Station at the Indiana State Fair from Friday, August 3 to Sunday, August 19, 2012. The Lactation Stations are located at the entrance to the Riley Fun Park on the northeast corner of the fair and adjacent from the covered bridge on the west side of the fair.

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For more information, visit www.IndianaStands.org or visit the ISBC on Facebook (facebook.com/indianastands) or on Twitter at @indianastands.

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thinking beyond the boundaries

The truth is that when we scrub joy and comfort from the classroom, we distance our students from effective information processing and long-term memory storage. Instead of taking pleasure from learning, students become bored, anxious, and anything but engaged. They ultimately learn to feel bad about school and lose the joy they once felt!

–Dr. Judy Willis, M.D., M.Ed.

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Please join Marian University’s School of Education on September 14-15 for an incredibly powerful conference on the social and emotional skills that drive learning and optimism inside our homes and schools. We excitedly invite you for an evening keynote address with Dr. Judy Willis followed by a reception on campus and then a full day of lively breakout groups and further dialogue with Dr. Judy Willis, Dr. Tish Jennings from Penn Sate University, and a discussion about research from University of British Columbia on mindful teaching practices through Mind Up curriculum.

Every conference participant will receive the newest software from BrainWare Safari with instruction from Betsy Hill. This conference is for all parents, educators and community members who care about the growing emotional, academic and social needs of all students, our future world citizens.

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For more information, contact Lori L. Desautels, Ph.D. at (317) 955-6761.

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indy’s child cutest baby contest at the indiana state fair!

This year, the Lactation Station at the Indiana State Fair will also be hosting the Cutest Baby Contest, sponsored

by Indy’s Child Magazine. Each Saturday of the fair – the 4th, 11th, & 18th – from 11 a.m. to 6 p.m. families can enter their little ones (18 months and younger) into the contest to win an amazing prize pack and the opportunity to be featured on the cover of the February 2013 issue of Indy’s Child Magazine.

LIV Photography will be on-site capturing the cutest babies in the city. Photos will be displayed on the Indy’s Child website for voting from August 21–September 14, where friends and families can vote for their chance to win the grand prize! Everyone that enters will be able to download a “mock” Indy’s Child cover with their baby on it from the Indy’s Child’s Facebook page, so everyone is a winner!

The Cutest Baby Contest is $5 to enter. All proceeds will be donated to Healthy Start.

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Indiana Dunes State Park! Also, just camped at Shades State Park and really enjoyed it! – Melissa J. Turkey Run is our fave. - Ayreka K. Eby Pines in northern Indiana - Megan B. I agree! We just went to Dunes! - Heather T. Turkey Run and Trail3 SpringMill village at our state parks. In Spring and Fall, we take a kayaking/camping trip along Indian Creek. Plus, Monroe Lake is good, too...although, the back yard works for younger kids! - Charlotte K.

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health

[ pediatric health ]

Spot the signs of a learning disability

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ach weekday morning, you say goodbye to your child, sending him or her to school to learn. Like any parent, you want to provide the best education you can. But what if your child experiences a gap between performance and age-level expectations? If that is a pattern with your child – aside from the occasional hit-and-miss – it may be an indication of something more: a learning disability.

“Roughly 15 percent of American schoolchildren are affected by learning disabilities,” says Ernest Smith, M.D., a developmental/behavioral pediatrician at Peyton Manning Children’s Hospital at St.Vincent. “Children with learning disabilities are just as smart as other children. They simply don’t learn in the traditional manner. Their brains take in and process information in a different way.”

If you have concerns, the next step is to schedule an appointment with a learning specialist for a comprehensive educational evaluation that detects any learning disabilities.

Behavioral symptoms In addition to struggling academically, children with learning disabilities sometimes act out their struggles in social contexts. This may be because they are having trouble learning or feel especially frustrated in the school learning disability to suffer from poor self-image as a result of the struggles.

Difficulty learning alphabet, colors, numbers

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Pronunciation problems

strengths and work on ways to develop them even more,”

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Speech delays

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Frustration and distraction

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Trouble following directions

Academic difficulties

says Dr. Smith. “Learning disabilities are manageable. Once

It can be very difficult to spot a learning disability. The signs can look confusing or like another problem altogether. Dr. Smith suggests these observational steps:

you figure out what specifically they are facing, then you can

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Meet with teachers to discuss his or her performance and behavior in the classroom.

Sit with your child as he or she does homework, and note difficulties that arise.

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TODDLERS & PRESCHOOLERS >

“The best way to counter any accompanying negative feelings

Watch how your child carries out your instructions at home.

Not surprisingly, learning disabilities may look different in children, depending on their age, grade, temperament, strengths, weaknesses and other associated learning problems.

environment. It’s also not uncommon for a child with a

The key, Dr. Smith says, is identifying learning disabilities early so parents, teachers and the child can work together to determine how they best learn.

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DIFFERENT AGES, DIFFERENT SYMPTOMS

help them get what they need to succeed to reach their full potential and feel good about themselves again.”

ELEMENTARY SCHOOL CHILDREN For this and other children’s health tips, Peyton Manning

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Organizational and time management problems

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Impulsivity

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Transposing or mixing up of words and letters

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Difficulty learning and recalling new information

Children’s Hospital at St. Vincent offers free kids’ health e-news. To sign up, visit www.KidsHealthLine.com.

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health

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School Lunches, Childhood Obesity & New USDA Guidelines Keeping your child healthy at home and at school Dr. Sandeep Gupta and Amanda Grant Dr. Sandeep Gupta is the Director of the Riley Hospital for Children POWER Program at Indiana University Health. Amanda Grant is a coordinator for the Riley Hospital for Children POWER Program and Indiana University Health.

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ou’ve seen the statistics: about 12.5 million children and adolescents 2 to 19 years old are overweight. Sadly, since 1980, the number of overweight/obese children and adolescents has nearly tripled, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.

While you may be taking steps at home to improve your child’s nutrition, there are new efforts under way to provide healthier breakfasts and lunches at school. Since these meals may account for 30 to 50 percent of a child’s daily caloric needs, the United States Department of Agriculture (USDA) is partnering with parents to increase the standards of school meals. Here’s what you need to know about these new guidelines and what you can do to encourage your child’s healthy eating at school.

What are the new standards?

The new USDA standards, which will be implemented over the next three years, call for more fruits and vegetables, whole-grain rich breads, and fat-free white milk. They also support increasing the number of trans-fat-free meals and decreasing the amount of salt in school breakfasts and lunches. The new guidelines have set a maximum number of calories for each meal. This will help reduce the overall calories in school meals.

Are there still unhealthy items in the cafeteria?

Yes. The USDA will still count pizza as a vegetable and will allow cafeterias to serve french fries two times a week. Also, many cafeterias still offer side items such

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as chips and brownies, so children may still purchase these items and not eat all of the healthy options that are part of their meal. In addition, school parties may offer fewer healthy options such as pizza or soda.

Some schools are trying to turn off vending machines during lunch hours and breaks, as well as decrease the number of sugar-sweetened products on school property.

What can you do to support these new standards?

The Riley Hospital for Children POWER (Pediatric OverWeight Education and

Research) Program at Indiana University Health has several

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Discourage the purchase of additional unhealthy side items at school.

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Serve water and low-fat white milk at home.

Encourage your child to drink these at school as well.

> Continue healthy ways at home by limiting fast- food meals and convenience foods, and using planned menus.

What if my child is overweight now?

The Riley POWER Program at IU Health can help your child lead a healthier life. POWER is a six-month weight management and fitness enhancing program based on the philosophy that weight loss is best achieved through a positive youth development approach. Ask your healthcare professional about a referral.

For more information, visit www.iuhealth.org/riley.

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INTERVIEW WI T H First Lady cheri daniels WIFE, MOTHER, GRANDMOTHER, FIRST LADY, AND DEDICATED HOOSIER Tessa Judge As the year steps past its halfway point, Cheri Daniels, wife of Governor Mitch Daniels, sees the end of her husband’s final term as bittersweet: “I’ll miss a lot of things. I’ll miss a lot of the people I’ve met along the way,” she says. “But I'm looking forward to fewer commitments and having more time to myself and my family.”

As a wife, mother, grandmother, First Lady, and active Indianapolis community member, Daniels spends much of her time as a caretaker of others in various ways. While she’ll be stepping back from certain obligations, post-First-Lady life will surely not hinder her caring spirit.

Her compassion immediately reaches out to the 5 M’s in her life: Mitch, Meagan, Melissa, Meredith, and Margaret. A supportive wife and First Lady, she encourages Mitch through every step of his career and personal life.

Meagan, her oldest daughter, is married and works for Habitat for Humanity.

Melissa, her second daughter, is married and expecting. Meredith, daughter number three, is a photographer and gave Daniels her first grandchild, Audrey, who is now 7 months old. And finally, Margaret, daughter number four, is a newly engaged investment banker living in New York City.

As if raising four extremely successful daughters wasn’t enough for her to do, Daniels works to raise awareness for something she feels particularly passionate about: women’s heart disease. Daniels has developed quite a passion for women’s heart disease awareness. And this passion stems directly from personal experience: “Well, my mother had heart disease so that was a driving force behind my passion to raise awareness,” she confesses. “My involvement came around the time when most women believed that breast cancer was their biggest worry. It’s not. Heart disease is the number one killer of both men and women.”

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Daniels’ involvement reaches as far as she can take it. She began by going to colleges and speaking with women about the dangers and risks of heart disease. Since then, her efforts have taken stride. She’s been to schools, women’s groups, and hospitals, just to name a few, to speak and raise as much awareness as she can.

Daniels battles her own risk of heart disease by staying physically fit. With a schedule as busy as hers, she still makes sure to fit exercise into her day: “I walk 10 miles a day in five mile segments, so two walks a day. I like to stay active. I try and life weights a couple times a week, I love to do Wii fit, I love Wii dance, I like to golf, and I like to swim. I just like to do anything I can to stay active outside,” she explains.

Through her actions and not just her words, she truly emphasizes the importance of taking care of one’s body in order to avoid heart disease and other health issues. “It’s important that people have some sort of activity. Even just 30 minutes a day is fantastic. I try to find fun things to do to make it seem like it’s not exercise.”

With the summer on its way out, Daniels is very much looking forward to the Indiana State Fair.

Since her husband has been in office, Daniels has made it a point to be involved with the fair: “Our fair is now 17 days long; I go every single day. I do all kinds of things. I’ve won the cow milking competition, the watermelon seed spitting competition, the cross-saw competition, the corn husking competition. You name it, I’ve done it. Usually I’ll do just about anything they ask me to do,” she says excitedly.

As much as she enjoys these competitions, a different aspect of the fair holds a special place in her heart. “Aside from the food, which I love, it’s the people. They really believe in what they’re doing. The people in Pioneer Village, many of which are 80+, come out here during the hottest part of the year every day and demonstrate farm equipment. Those people are very dedicated. They don’t get paid anything to be there. They are there for 17 full days. They’re there to set it up in the beginning and take it apart at the end,” Daniels gushes.

Her admiration for the people of Indiana and the admiration the people of Indiana have for her help make Indiana what it is. Born and raised a Hoosier, Cheri Daniels has dedicated her life to keeping fellow Hoosiers healthy and happy. Don’t think that no longer being First Lady will change any of that. Where will you find her in August next summer? At the State Fair again, most likely, shucking corn or driving a tractor. And if that isn’t a sight to behold, I’m not too sure what is.

THE FIRST GR ANDCHILD : BABY AUDRE Y What it’s like to be new mom…

“It’s fantastic! I absolutely love it. I’m very fortunate because Meredith lives less than 10 minutes from me which is great. I can help Meredith if she needs an extra hand and I get to spend a lot of time with Audrey and see how she’s changing every day,” says Daniels.

“Its great being a new mom. You never really prepare for it. It’s a million times better than I thought. She [Audrey] is really a great baby, we feel so lucky to have her. She is pretty content most of the time. She gets better every day; she learns new things every day, so it’s really fun!” says Meredith.

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What it’s like to be a new grandmother…

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[ museum note ]

around town

Preparing Your First-Time Preschooler for School Tips for parents to ensure a smooth transition Cathy Southerland

Cathy Southerland is the Preschool Program Manager at the Indianapolis Children’s Museum

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t’s that time of year . . . the newspapers are filled with back-to-school ads and information, and your child is starting preschool for the very first time. You’re excited for your child to begin this new venture, but you’re also a little worried. How will your child handle being away from you—perhaps for the very first time?

There are some steps you can take to help ensure that this transition is a smooth one:

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A couple of weeks before the start of school, begin a “count down” calendar so that your child will anticipate the start of school with excitement.

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Visit the preschool ahead of time; and if possible, take your child to meet the teacher(s) and tour the classroom. Many preschools have a built in “meet and greet” time already scheduled. Take photos of the teacher, the

classroom, and the outside of the school building. Perhaps you will want to make a book for your child using the photos you have taken.

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Learn about the structure of what a typical day in your child’s preschool looks like. Play “pretend school” with your child, taking turns being the teacher and student.

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Keep your own attitude positive and affirming. You know that your child is going to reap great benefits from being in preschool—try to keep any anxiety you may have from showing to your child.

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Develop a good-bye ritual. Keep it short, loving and consistent each day when you take your child to preschool. Once you have completed your good-bye routine, leave the classroom with a smile, knowing your child is going to have a wonderful time entering this new phase in his/her life. S/he is now a student!

visit the children’s museum website for additional updates on the coming of the new early childhood learning experience.

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a balanced child Adding extracurricular activities to your family's schedule One of the greatest joys of parenthood is watching your baby blossom into a child with their own interests, talents, and personality. This development becomes tangible as your child becomes involved in extracurricular activities.

Soccer practice, tae kwon do, piano lessons, art classes – there is an activity to match virtually any child’s hobby or interest. While outside activities are crucial to child development, they require an equal level of commitment by both child and family.

Kristen Hilliard is well aware of the time that goes into kids’ activities. Her 14-year-old twin daughters Laurel and Piper started ballet and gymnastics at age three, and have since participated in karate, basketball, cross country, tennis, and track. Son Louden, age six, also dove into extracurricular activities at an early age, participating in various summer camps, baseball, and basketball.

She says that she ultimately let her kids decide when they were ready to participate in extracurricular activities. “I didn’t want to put them in something that they weren’t going to enjoy,” she says. However, Hilliard took into consideration time, scheduling, and price when deciding on which activities to put her kids in.

There are lots of factors to take into consideration when deciding whether your child – and family – is ready to get into extracurricular activities. Read on for some advice from local experts on how to choose the right activity for your child, how to determine when your kid is ready, and how to make the most of your family’s time and resources.

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Sarah McCosham

STARTING EARLY Hilliard thinks that it’s important to get your kids into extracurricular activities before school. “So many kids go to Kindergarten and don’t have a lot of experience with social interaction,” she says. Being involved in different activities teaches your kids social skills and other “invaluable lessons” they can’t learn elsewhere, Hilliard concludes.

Many experts agree with Hilliard: “There are classes that start at a young age, such as Mommy and Me type activities — these would be good stepping stones before putting your child in an activity completely on their own,” says Jill Kniptash, Fine Arts Day Camp Director at the Indianapolis Art Center.

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EXTRACURRICULAR ACTIVITIES

According to Erin Mills, the Director of Early Childhood Education at the Indianapolis JCC, a parent will know their child is ready for their own extracurricular

HELP EXPOSE KIDS TO NEW AND EXCITING EXPERIENCES THAT MAY SPARK THE CHILD'S CREATIVITY, PHYSICAL ACTIVITY, AND PERSONAL GROWTH"

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Nerissa Bauer, Behavioral Pediatrician and Assistant Professor at Indiana University-Purdue University Indianapolis

activities when the child seeks more social interaction or shows interest in a particular activity or specific topic. Each child is different, adds Mills, so parents should take care to follow their child’s lead.

AVOIDING AN OVERSCHEDULED CHILD Many well-intended parents can fall into the trap of wanting their child to be “well-rounded,” so they enroll Susie in gymnastics, voice lessons, guitar classes, French tutoring, and Girl Scouts. This is how children can become burnt out and overscheduled.

“I would recommend getting a child involved in 1-2 activities and settling in before deciding to add in anything else,” says Nerissa Bauer, Behavioral Pediatrician and Assistant Professor at Indiana University-Purdue University Indianapolis. She adds that each activity requires outside time for study and practice.

“Plus, remember that once kids get involved in one activity, that will always open the door to other events, such as playmates, sleepovers, other shared interests, all of which add to the family’s schedule,” she concludes.

Kniptish agrees with this recommendation, adding that parents should watch for possible signs their child is overextended. “If the child acts exhausted or throws a fit because they do not want to go to the activity, then that is a good clue that they either do not like the activity, or they are doing too much,” she says.

LESSONS OUTSIDE THE CL ASSROOM Extracurricular activities have taught Hilliard’s kids time management, teamwork, and responsibility. She treats the activity as a commitment, ensuring that her kids follow through with what they signed on to do. “This is something that is applicable in the adult world,” she says. “You can’t just say ‘I don’t want to go today.’”

In addition to these practical skills, Bauer says that “extracurricular activities help expose kids to new and exciting experiences that may spark the child's creativity, physical activity, and personal growth — and in the process, the child is able to make new friends who share common interests.”

PUT TING FAMILY FIRST So now that your child is involved in piano lessons and soccer and is making friends and gaining self-confidence, it’s vital that you maintain a sense of family.

Setting time aside for regular dinners, special outings, and family downtime at home is key. “It is necessary to reserve and protect family time so that each family member has a time to reconnect with one another. This is especially important as your kids grow more independent,” says Bauer.

Balancing family time with a busy extracurricular schedule hasn’t been difficult for Hilliard, who has taken care to maintain a balance between home life and outside activities. One of her solutions: making each child’s game a family event.

“The kids’ activities have become family time… the kids all support each other at their events.” Both Hilliard and the experts agree, as long as you’re doing things together as a family, that’s what counts.

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arts + enrichment GUIDE [ arts and enrichment listings ]

ARTS

Celebrate Science Indiana!

Indianapolis Art Center Creativity enriches every aspect of life and is integral to cognitive growth. The Art Center offers quality art classes for toddlers through teens in a variety of art mediums, including glass blowing (ages 10 and up), ceramics, sculpture, jewelry making, fiber arts, painting and drawing. Or take a class with your kids!

820 East 67th Street, Indianapolis, Indiana 46220, 317-2552464, Email: info@indplsartcenter.org, www.indplsartcenter.org

Looking for a Free, Fun, & Educational event the whole family will enjoy? Join us on October 6, 2012 at the Indiana State Fairgrounds, Indianapolis. You’ll find interactive booths that will both entertain & amaze! Go to our website or Like Us on Facebook to see who will be there or to join our contests! 1202 E. 38th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46205, Contact: Indiana State Fairgrounds: Champions Pavilion, Email: exdir@celebratescienceindiana. org, www.celebratescienceindiana.org

JCC Indy Monart School of the Arts Art and drawing classes for all ages 4 to beginner adult. Learn how to create amazing art through the Monart method of drawing. Students learn drawing and painting and work in a variety of medias including markers, oil and chalk pastels, watercolor, acrylics, colored pencil and charcoal Classes are ongoing so you may start at anytime. At Monart, we teach everyone how to draw! Locations: 80 W. Pine St., Zionsville/1366 S. Rangeline, Carmel/60 N 9th St., Noblesville/1134 E. 54th St., Suite L, Indianapolis, Contact: Barb Hegeman, Phone: 317-774-3729(DRAW), Email: monart@indy.rr.com, www.indydraws.com

Half Baked Pottery & Gifts We offer after school art & enrichment classes, class projects, field trips, fall camps and workshops, and much more! Field trips start at just $6/child. We can come to you or you can come to us! We are also a great location for Girl Scout events and meetings. Call today to schedule the perfect art project for your group. 918 Broad Ripple Ave., Indianapolis, IN 462220, Contact: Christen Wall, owner, Phone: (317) 251-2386, Email: email@ halfbakedpottery.com, www.HalfBakedPottery.com

We have a long history of serving people just like you.

For more than 90 years the JCC has inspired people to live healthier, more active lives, motivated individuals to pursue and expand their interests, and worked with youth to develop skills and build self-esteem.

Regardless of your age, faith or background, you're welcome here. So please, explore our website and stop by for a tour of the JCC. We look forward to serving you. 6701 Hoover Road, Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Sarah Vonnegut, 317-251-9467, Email: sarahvonnegut@gmail.com, www.jccindy.com

DANCE

resources

Fox Hill Dance Academy, Inc. Ballet, tap, hiphop. Adults and children. Walk in registration Mon, Weds, and Fri. 1- 5 pm 255-0173.

2255 Fox Hill Drive, Indianapolis, In 46228, Contact: Betty Wright, Phone: (317)251-3007, Fax: 317-731-4093, Email: BJZWdance@att.net, www.foxhilldanceacademy.com

Indy Dance Academy Indy Dance Academy is a state-of-the-art growth and development facility serving over 23 metropolitan Indianapolis communities. We offer a variety of classes designed to promote a positive and educational experience for students of all ages! 9401 North Meridian Street, Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Kristen Tod, Phone: 317-218-3694, Email: marketing@ indydanceacademy.com, www.indydanceacademy.com

FITNESS + SPORTS Geist Sports Academy GSA is a children’s facility that offers gymnastics, tumbling, cheer, birthday parties, Summer Camps, Parent's Night Out, Gym Jams, a Fine Arts Academic Preschool and much more! You just have to check us out! 11960 East 62nd Street, Indianapolis, IN 46235, Contact: Dana Osler, Phone: 317-823-7734, Email: dana@ geistsportsacademy.com, www.geistsportsacademy.com

Ballerinas Academy of Dance Teaching dance as a performing art in a noncompetitive environment, Ballet-Tap-Modern-JazzBallroom. Preschool-Adult. Call 317-506-0545 for more information. 15262 Herriman Blvd, Noblesville, IN 46060, Locations also in Indianapolis, Noblesville and Sheridan, Indiana. Contact: Becky Van Briggle, Phone: 317 506 0545, Email: missbecky@ballerinasacademy.com, www.ballerinasacademy.com

Gymboree Play & Music Gymboree offers unique Play & Learn, Music or Art events & parties. These events are lead by our professional teachers in our clean, creative and colorful environment. We can also bring the event to you with our mobile program. Ages birth - 5 years.

12524 N. Gray Rd., Carmel, IN 46033, Phone: 317-5749626, Email: carmelin@gymboreeclasses.com

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The Gymnastics Company Recreational classes for boys and girls, ages 1 1/2 to Adult available in all sports. Competitive team program for gymnastics and cheer. Birthday parties, open gym, parents night out and day camps available. Gymnastics is the foundation for all sports. Sign up today. Free try-out classes available. Call for more information. 5311 Commerce Circle, Indianapolis, IN, 46237 or 8320 E. Brookville Road, Indianapolis, IN, 46239, Contact: Linda Barclay, Phone: 317-889-0118 or 317-375-1500, Email: thegymnasticsco@ cs.com , www.thegymnasticscompany.com

Spectrum Sports Spectrum is a gymnastics based facility for 20 months-18 years of age. We feature Gymnastics, Tumbling, Dance, Cheerleading and Hip Hop/Pom classes. Join the fun with our quality staff in any of our classes! Competitive programs available upon request. 138 W. Carmel Drive, Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Sherry Wood, Phone: 317-587-1503, Email: Sherry@spectrumgym.com, www.spectrumgym.com

YMCA of Greater Indianapolis We believe in offering programs as diverse as the people we serve. Which means an unparalleled selection of classes and activities—everything from foreign language classes to summer camp—is out there, just waiting for you and your family to explore.Multiple Locations, Indianapolis, IN, 317-6859705, Contact: Heather Perkins, Phone: 317-713-8553, Email: hperkins@indymca.org, www.indymca.com

MUSIC Fairview Music Studios Private music lessons in piano, violin and other strings, flute, guitar, and voice for children from first grade and for adults. Monthly tuition for 30-minute weekly lessons $90-$110. All instructors

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have university degrees in music. 4609 N. Capitol Avenue, Indianapolis, IN 46208, Contact: John Schmid, Director, Phone: (317) 253-5982, Fax: 317-251-2246, Email: jschmid@fairviewpresbyterian.org, www.fairviewmusicstudios.org

Indianapolis Children's Choir We offer preschool classes, a non-auditioned preparatory choir program for singers in grades 1 - 3, and our performing choirs for singers in grades 4 - 12, which require a simple vocal assessment.

Some activities are held on the campus of Butler University, and some in our regional county locations. 4600 Sunset Ave., Indianapolis, IN 46208, Contact: Laura Neidig, Marketing Director, Phone: 317-940-8545, Email: info@icchoir.org, www.icchoir.org

Indianapolis Suzuki Academy The Indianapolis Suzuki Academy offers a unique opportunity for children and parents to learn the joy of music together. The ISA develops beautiful hearts in children while they learn violin, viola, and cello in private lessons and group classes. Now enrolling for ages 3 - 18, visit www.

IndianapolisSuzukiAcademy.org for program details. Contact: Sarah Beck, Phone: 317-691-7529, Email: sarah_a_beck@yahoo.com, www.IndianapolisSuzukiAcademy.org

Klassical Keys We offer piano and art instruction in Broad Ripple!

Students of all ages are welcome. Select gift shop items available on Klassical Keys online boutique.

11631 Maple Street, Fishers, IN 46038, Contact: Courtney Bray, Phone: 317.594.3418, Email: kkpianostudio@hotmail.com, www.klassicalkeys.net

Meridian Music Meridian Music offers private lessons on almost every intrument. Harmony Road courses are also offered for children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years. 12725 Old Meridian Street, Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Hillary Blake, Director of Education, Phone: 317-575-9588, Fax: 317-575-9727, Email: hblake@meridianmusic.com, www.meridianmusic.com

THEATER Children's Theatre Institute Live professional performances for children ages 3-8. PLUS a New Youth Repertory Theatre Company for ages 8 -14 to perform - learn the process of developing a full production through exploration of design, painting, building, and acting through weekend rehearsals for a play, culminating in 3 public performances. - a fulfilling journey through creativity while learning life skills.7435 N. Keystone Ave, Indianapolis, IN 46240, Contact: James Leagre, Phone: 317-251-5100, Fax: 317-252-5700, Email: info@ IndyCTI.org, www.indycti.org

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keeping THE PEACE COPING WITH SIBLING RIVALRY Sarah McCosham

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t’s every parent’s dream: you have a family full of happy kids who entertain each other, learn from each other, and love each other.

However, the reality is that, at one time or another, those loving siblings are actually throwing toys at each other in the back of the minivan. You’re at your wit’s end, threatening to “turn this car around” or “cancel the vacation” if the kids don’t get along.

Sibling rivalry is as normal as it is frustrating. However, there are a few simple pieces of advice that may keep you sane, your kids content, and your travel plans intact.

Coping with Sibling Rivalr y New Additions– New Rivals Once an only child becomes a big brother or big sister, it’s likely that there will be some sort of jealousy as that child vies for his parent’s attention. “Sibling rivalry is a normal part of having a brother or sister,” says Nerissa Bauer, Behavioral Pediatrician and Assistant Professor at Indiana University-Purdue University Indianapolis.

Dr. Bauer continues: “Sibling rivalry describes the jealousy or competitiveness that often comes about between siblings. It can show itself in the form of feelings, verbal, or physical aggression.” She says that it’s extremely commonplace for these types of feelings to develop, as all children want attention and affection from their parents.

While the experience can be frustrating, parents should recognize that the root cause of sibling rivalry is the feeling their child has of not being important or loved.

As such, parents should be sure to provide the child verbal reassurance about the fact that they will always love and make time for him/her, explains Dr. Bauer.

Secondly, it is important for parents to celebrate the strengths and individuality of each of their children. “Remember, each person is unique with their own set of talents, abilities and skills,” says Dr. Bauer. “Each member of the family should be celebrated for their own strengths -- this will help alleviate some of the jealousy or competition that is typical of sibling rivalry,” she concludes.

For Shelly Slade, sibling rivalry started as soon as she brought her twins home to meet their big brother. “Matthew had just turned two before Josh and Jenna were born, and it was definitely an adjustment for him. He was used to our undivided attention.” Shelly says that at his age, Matthew wasn’t as vocal about his feelings, but his jealousy was present in other ways.

Lastly, parents should recognize that, like other stages your child goes through,

Sibling rivalry can happen at any age/stage of development, but is more likely to

she explains.

occur some time after the birth of a sibling. Dr. Bauer explains that “after the birth of a new baby, the older sibling may show signs of regression—such as bedwetting when previously dry, talking or acting like a baby to get mother's attention, clinginess, or aggression towards the parent or sibling.”

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sibling rivalry is completely normal, and will get better over time. Shelly agrees that sibling rivalry does get better naturally. “It seems that as the kids get older and more interested in their own activities, sibling rivalry seems to be less and less of an issue,”

So parents, take note: sibling rivalry is a natural part of growing up with a brother or sister, and it will pass! Stay calm, keep everything in perspective, and know that your children will eventually develop a special bond that will last a lifetime.

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commentary & parenting

[ pete gilbert...stay-at-home dad ]

The Dad Olympics True confessions of stay-at-home dad, Pete Gilbert Pete Gilbert

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n celebration of the Summer Olympics, I’ve created a list of Olympic games, just for dads. (Cue patriotic music)

Each participant is given a pot of coffee to consume before the event begins.

Unfortunately no dad is allowed to shower prior to the Olympics because his kids woke up before he did.

Diaper Change/ Toss – Dad, you will receive a large toddler with a very dirty diaper.

For this event you have three baby wipes and one clean diaper. You have one minute to clean and change the child, wrap up diaper and toss it into diaper pail.

Bonus points for keeping shirt clean during this event.

Stroller Obstacle Course – Be sure to avoid all the broken glass, dead animals and busted sidewalks. It is also important to keep the sun out of baby’s eyes at all times, and not let creepy bystanders touch your baby.

Making Lunch– Open soup with a can opener, spread peanut butter on bread then peel and chop a banana...while holding a baby.

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Car Seat Installation– You are given a convertible car seat, infant seat with a base and a booster seat along with thirty minutes to install them correctly. It’s 95 degrees out, and your car does not have the Latch carseat system. Your wife will be the official judge for this event.

Grandparent’s House Simulator– In the house you encounter a glass table, lamp cord, uncovered outlets and a fireplace. You must determine, in order, which items pose the most danger to your kids.

Grocery Store Trip– You have three kids with you. No dinner planned for the night.

Your middle child just ate your grocery list. You have 15 minutes. Go. Unfortunately, there are no awards given out to winners, but all dads do receive sympathetic looks from strangers and “atta boy” pats on the back for participating.

Happy Parenting!

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commentary & parenting

[ dear teacher ]

Dear Teacher Kindergarten readiness + class size + combined kindergarten/first grade Peggy Gisler and Marge Eberts

Ways to Determine if Your Child Is Truly Ready for Kindergarten

Q: A:

What recommendations do you have for parents who are unsure if their children are ready for kindergarten?

Determining whether a child is ready for kindergarten is a rather inexact science. There is a lot of talk about holding back children, especially boys, who have a summer birthday. This is so popular in some communities that as high as 60 percent of all summer birthday boys are held back.

On the other hand, the National Association for the Education of Young Children recommends that all children start school when they are age eligible to do so. The organization believes that it is the duty of the school to take children no matter what their readiness level is and provide them with an appropriate education.

On the other hand, others think that it is a great mistake to place any summer birthday child in kindergarten, especially since kindergarten in so many school districts is more like what first grade used to be. Research does indicate that there is some disadvantage academically for some younger children – not all.

Another way to look at readiness for kindergarten is to use a checklist. Most school districts will have a checklist listing the skills that are expected of children entering kindergarten. Parents definitely should look at these now. Even if your child is not ready now according to a checklist, he or she may be ready by August, as young children change so fast. So be sure to check again for readiness, if necessary.

You will also get a good idea of your child's readiness for kindergarten by talking to his or her preschool teacher and asking about your child's readiness level. This is an informed opinion that you need. Finally, go visit the preschool classroom. Notice how your child is handling the experience, socially, emotionally and academically compared to the other students. It will give you a good idea of how well the child would handle kindergarten.

When it comes down to making the decision about enrolling your child in kindergarten, remember that you are the one who best knows your child. Factor in the child's age, checklist results and pre-school experience in making this decision.

How Important Is Class Size?

Q: A:

Is it worth putting your child in a private elementary school so that the class sizes are smaller? Does it really make a difference? My son's third-grade class in our public school will have 30 students next year.

Before moving your child to a private school, do check out that there is a significant difference in the size of the class he will be in between

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the public and private schools. You do need to be aware that there is no single magical number below which class size suddenly produces a beneficial effect.

However, it is fairly clear that class size must get somewhere below 20 in order to make a real difference.

In recent years, several states have reduced class size, especially in the primary grades. It has been shown that if young children in kindergarten through third grade can be in classes ranging in size from 15 to no more than 20, there is definitely more growth in their reading levels compared to students in the same grades who have 25 or more in their classes. Additional studies also found that this holds true up through eighth grade when class sizes are smaller.

Keep in mind that reducing class size changes the classroom environment. The classroom atmosphere is usually friendlier. Students have more opportunity to speak in class. There are fewer students to distract each other. The noise level in the classroom is lower. Plus, each student is able to receive a larger portion of the teacher's instructional time.

Teachers like teaching smaller classes. They enjoy an increased flexibility in using different instructional approaches and assignments. And they can devote a larger amount of time to working with each of their student's parents.

Looking at a Combined Kindergarten/First Grade

Q:

My daughter will be entering kindergarten at a school where the kindergarten is combined with a first-grade class. She will have the same teacher for two years. Do you think that this is a good idea, or should I look for another school?

A:

Switching schools requires adjustments. It would be best for your child to stay in the same elementary school, whether it is one with the combined class or another school. Consider this in making your decision.

Children usually achieve about the same in single-grade and combined classes. In either class, the quality of your child's experience depends largely on the expertise of the teacher. There are some advantages to combined classes: both your child and the teacher will get to know each other well, so no time will be needed for this adjustment at the start of first grade. The child will have the experience of older role models in her same classroom, as well as the opportunity to be a role model herself when she is a first-grader.

Disadvantages of combined classes may include two years with a poor teacher and too much time being spent on seatwork while the other class is receiving instruction. Most teachers of combined classes avoid this by teaching many of the subjects to both classes at the same time.

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HOMEWORK

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AUTISM

The challenges of homework for a child on the autism spectrum

Angela Arlington

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omework can be a challenge for any child. When the child is on the autism spectrum, the challenges increase. Understanding why homework is so challenging, finding strategies to help your child, and advocating for your child with teachers can make the experience less stressful for the child and parent.

WHY HOMEWORK IS SUCH A CHALLENGE Children on the autism spectrum deal with a lot during the school day that most students don’t even think about. Edy Stoughton, the head of Midwest Academy of Indiana, explains one of the reasons children have such difficulty with homework: “One of the most daunting problems for students with autism spectrum disorders, when it comes to homework, is that for many of these students, it truly takes all they have to make it successfully through the school day. They struggle with understanding class requirements, social situations, their peers, teacher expectations, etc. In other words, social and situational understandings that come naturally to many of us, or at least are fairly easily learned, can be confusing for these students.”

Children with Asperger’s (a disorder on the autism spectrum) can also appear to understand what they are doing in a classroom, but are unable to carry it over to home. They seem to grasp what they are doing, so the teachers assume they understand and are able to complete the homework assignments.

“Added to this is the fact that these students tend to not always ask the teacher for explanations or help, so when they arrive home with their homework, they may not know what they are expected to do leading to tension between them and their parents,” Stoughton explains.

Another problem that some kids face is perfectionism. These children want their handwriting to be perfect and want no eraser marks on their papers.

Stoughton explains how this can make homework time last longer: “I have had parents report to me that homework that realistically would be expected to take a half hour takes two hours between a lack of understanding and the belief that it had to be ‘perfect.’”

STRATEGIES TO HELP YOUR CHILD When a child comes home from school, he or she needs time to decompress. Make a snack and talk. An hour or even 2 hours of free time, such as playing outside with a friend, playing a favorite game, or watching television, allows the child’s brain some downtime.

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dinner time to start on assignments can lead to the child being too tired and increases the chances of homework being a struggle to complete. Break down large assignments into 2 or 3 parts to do one at a time. Giving the child a chance to relax during long homework sessions can decrease frustration levels for both the child and the parent.

ADVOCATING FOR YOUR CHILD If homework is becoming too much for your child, talk to his or her teachers and see if there are some ways they can make accommodations for the student. Stoughton explains how Midwest Academy views homework and the role a teacher plays in helping the child to learn: “Teachers need to make sure that the homework they assign is really necessary and not just ‘busy work.’ They also need to check for understanding before it is sent home. We are very cognizant of this at Midwest Academy, and we work hard to maintain a balance between homework as a way to solidify learning and teach responsibility and homework that is simply ‘homework for homework's sake.’ We believe that learning should occur in the classroom.”

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special needs GUIDE GUIDE resources

[ special needs listings ]

Applied Behavior Center for Autism

To provide the highest quality ABA and Verbal Behavior therapy and consulting services to children and their families affected

by Autism Spectrum Disorders and Down Syndrome. We do this by providing proven researched based ABA methodologies delivered by highly qualified and certified professionals. Our programs focus on increasing language skills, social skills, academic skills, and reducing problematic behavior. 450 S. State Road 135, Greenwood, IN 46142, Contact: Jane Grimes, Phone: 317-889-KIDS, Email: jane@appliedbehaviorcenter.org, www.appliedbehaviorcenter.org

Applied Behavior Center for Autism

The mission of the Applied Behavior Center for Autism is to provide high quality ABA and Verbal Behavior therapy and consulting services to children and their families affected by Autism Spectrum Disorders by using researched based ABA methodology delivered by highly qualified and certified professionals to increase language skills, social skills, academic skills, and reduce problematic behavior. 7901 E. 88th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46256, Contact: Jane Grimes, Phone: 317-849-5437, ext 112, Email: jane@appliedbehaviorcenter.org, www.appliedbehaviorcenter.org

Applied Behavior Center for Autism

The mission of the Applied Behavior Center for Autism is to provide high quality ABA and Verbal Behavior therapy and consulting services to children and their families affected by Autism Spectrum Disorders by using researched based ABA methodology delivered by highly qualified and certified professionals to increase language skills, social skills, academic skills, and reduce problematic behavior. 6865 Parkdale Place, Indianapolis, IN 46254, Contact: Jane Grimes, Phone: 317-849-5437, ext 112, Email: jane@appliedbehaviorcenter.org, www.appliedbehaviorcenter.org

Applied Behavior Center for Autism Transition to L.I.F.E House

Recognizing the importance of developing real-world life skills in children and teens with autism, the Applied Behavior Center for Autism has launched a new program called Transition to Learning in Functional Environments (L.I.F.E.). The initiative aims to promote independence, quality of life and happiness through an intensive full-day program that takes place in an actual home, complete with kitchen, gym, pool and garden. The Transition to L.I.F.E. program is open to children ages 10-18, and uses the scientific principles of applied behavior analysis (ABA). It will emphasize community involvement through volunteer opportunities tailored to the clients’ interests and healthy living through nutritional meal preparation and daily exercise regimens. 7901 E. 88th St., Indianapolis, IN 46256, Contact: Jane Grimes, Enrollment Director, 317-849-5437, ext. 112, jane@appliedbehaviorcenter.org, w ww.appliedbehaviorcenter.org

Autism Consultation

Individually designed behavior and academic support and intervention strategies for families and children dealing with Autism Spectrum Disorders. With 35+ years experience in special education in public schools I am comfortable attending IEP meetings to advocate for the family and child. Introductory meeting at no charge. Providing service to central Indiana, Contact: Mika Adams, Phone: 866-968-3698, Email: mikaadams@sbcglobal. net, www.autismconsultation.net

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Autism Society of Indiana

We strive to improve the lives of everyone affected by autism in Indiana. We provide information and support, referral to resources, policy and educational advocacy, training, awareness, family programs, Spanish-speaking support group, summer camp programs, and oversight on the Indiana Comprehensive Plan of Lifetime Supports for Individuals with Autism 13295 Illinois Street, Suite 110, Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Dana Renay, Phone: 800-609-8449, Email: info@inautism.org, www.inautism.org

Behavior Analysis Center for Autism BACA 1

The Behavior Analysis Center for Autism (BACA) was established by Dr. Carl Sundberg and a group of highly-trained Behavior Analysts who have worked with Dr. Sundberg for years. BACA uses Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) to teach language, social, academic and life skills to children with autism and other related disabilities. 11902 Lakeside Drive, Fishers, IN 46038, Contact: Devon Sundberg, Phone: 317-288-5232, Email: dsundberg@thebaca.com, www.thebaca.com

Behavior Analysis Center for Autism BACA Prep

BACA Prep is a facility that utilizes the principles of Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) to teach essential living skills to young adults with autism ages 8-20. BACA Prep helps strengthen each individual’s life by addressing the areas of employment, leisure and living skills, hygiene, self-help and sexuality while decreasing and replacing maladaptive behavior. BACA Prep is under the direction of Dr. Carl Sundberg, Dr. John Esch, Dr. Pat McGreevy and Dr. Peter Gerhardt.9929 E. 126th St., Fishers, IN 46038, Contact: Devon Sundberg, Phone: 317-288-5232, Email: dsundberg@thebaca.com, www.thebaca.com

Behavior Analysis Center for Autism BACA-Z

The Behavior Analysis Center for Autism (BACA) was established by Dr. Carl Sundberg and a group of highly-trained Behavior Analysts who have worked with Dr. Sundberg for years. BACA uses Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) to teach language, social, academic and life skills to children with autism and other related disabilities. 5801 South 650 East, Whitestown, IN 46075, Contact: Devon Sundberg, Phone: 317-288-5232, Email: dsundberg@thebaca.com, www.thebaca.com

Brain Balance Achievement Center Indianapolis

Brain Balance Achievement Centers work with children who suffer from Developmental Disorders such as Autism Spectrum , Asperger’s, ADD/ADHD, Dyslexia, Tourette’s and other neurological disorders. The Brain Balance Program is unique in that it utilizes a comprehensive, multi-faceted approach designed specifically to address the various difficulties exhibited or experienced by each child. 9510 N. Meridian St. Suite D, Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Julie Peterson, Phone: 317-8439200, Email: jpeterson@brainbalancecenters.com, www.BrainBalanceIndy.com

Indiana Autism Scholarship Foundation

The Indiana Autism Scholarship Foundation’s mission is to provide scholarship funding to individuals in efforts to help offset costs for employment or college assistance for those affected with autism. 7987 Oakbay Dr., Noblesvillle, IN 46062, Contact: Jane Grimes, 317-403-6705, jane.grimes@iasfoundation.org, www.iasfoundation.org

Indianapolis Pediatric Dentistry

Our goal at Indianapolis Pediatric Dentistry is to have a lasting, positive impact on our young patients. We pay special attention to each patient’s needs and we take the time to make sure they’re comfortable. We go to great lengths to make sure that both the patient and parents understand what we’re doing, why we’re doing it and the long-term benefits. 8433 Harcourt Road, Suite 307, Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Dr. Erin Phillips and Dr. Kira Stockton, Phone: 317-872-7272, Email: info@IndyKidsDentist.com, www.IndyKidsDentist.com

Little Star Center

Little Star provides intensive applied behavior analytic services to maximize each child’s potential and empower their family.

Children in the 5 to 10 age range present with a unique set of needs. These learners often come from other settings in which they were not successful. After careful assessment, individualized programs are developed to ensure progress and growth. 100% not-for-profit, 10 years of service. Serving children 5 – 10 years old. 12726 Hamilton Crossing Blvd, Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Mary Rosswurm, Executive Director, Phone: 317-249-2242, Email: maryr@littlestarcenter.org, www.littlestarcenter.org

Little Star Center--Early Learner Program (ELP)

The Early Learner Program focuses on intensive intervention for very young children diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder.

The ELP applies the principles of behavior analysis in a warm, nurturing environment. The focus of the ELP is to develop a foundation of skills for the best possible outcome. Individualized programming is geared toward developing language, social, and pre-academic skills for learners as they prepare for the classroom. 100% not-for-profit. Serving children 5 and younger.

12726 Hamilton Crossing Blvd, Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Mary Rosswurm, Phone: 317-249-2242, Email: maryr@littlestarscenter.org, www.littlestarcenter.org

Middle Star Center

Indiana’s original applied behavior analytic center based program that focuses on the distinctive needs of tweens, teens and young adults affected by autism spectrum disorder. Started in 2008, Middle Star is an age appropriate environment that allows each learner to practice and learn the skills essential to be as successful and independent as possible at home, in the community, at school and at work. 100% not-for-profit. Serving learners 10 and up. 12726 Hamilton Crossing Blvd, Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Mary Rosswurm, Phone: 317-249-2242, Email: maryr@ littlestarscenter.org, www.littlestarcenter.org

Hopebridge Pediatric Specialists

Hopebridge Pediatric Specialists is an Occupational, Speech, Physical and Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) therapy provider servicing Indianapolis and the surrounding areas. Hopebridge Pediatric Specialists offers both in-clinic and in-home therapy for children diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder and other special needs. Locations in Kokomo, Lafayette, Marion and Fort Wayne, Contact: Kim Strunk, Phone:, 855-324-0885, Email: kstrunk@ hopebridge.com, www.hopebridge.com

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Adaptive Swimming Lessons

Phone: 317-718-0089 Location: Plainfield Recreation and Aquatic Center For families of children with special needs who wish to learn about the therapeutic benefits of pool time. Call for more information.

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First Friday Walk for Autism

Times: 4:30 PM Price: $10 Adults (18+); Free for children under 18 Phone: 765-243-0298 Location: Washington Street, Marion, IN www.mainstreetmarion.com There will be activities, rides, booths, and more. The walk is approximately one mile and is stroller/wheelchair friendly.

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Family Fun in the Sun

Times: 5:30 PM - 9:00 PM Price: $12 per person Phone: 317-848-7275 Location: The Monon Center, Carmel www.carmelclayparks.com Come and enjoy an evening with your family as we cookout and socialize with other families. Food, refreshments, and lawn games will all be provided.

Inlow Park also has a splash pad, playgrounds, and hiking trails so you and your families can explore and have an enjoyable evening in the park.

Indiana Epilepsy Foundation Community Awareness Day

Times: 1:00 PM - 4:00 PM Price: FREE Phone: 317-946-2752 Location: Indiana Colts Complex, Indianapolis www.indianaepilepsyfoundation.org Vendors - Children Activities Speakers and Auction Items.

6th Annual Down Syndrome Indiana Fly-in/Open House

Times: 10:00 AM - 2:00 PM Price: FREE Location: Indianapolis Executive Airport, Zionsville www.dsindiana.org/ Airplane displays, vendors, music and kids zones – something for everyone. Public welcome!

Lights Up Sound Down – Sensory friendly Movies

Times: 10:00 AM Location: Eastside 9, Lafayette, IN www.cornerstoneautismcenter.com Showing Ice Age: Continental Drift.

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Dyslexia Institute of Indiana's 3rd Annual Indiana Authors Breakfast

Times: 8:30 AM - 12:00 PM Price: Tickets are $40 Location: Meridian Hills Country Club, Indianapolis http://diin.org/ Published authors from Indiana will be honored guests at the breakfast. During the event, each author will have an opportunity to talk about their writing experiences.

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Down Syndrome Indiana Baby Shower Times: 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM Price: FREE Phone: (317) 931-9843 Location: St. Luke’s UMC Fellowship Hall, Indianapolis

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Epilepsy Foundation Support Group Picnic

Times: 11:00 AM - 3:00 PM Price: FREE Phone: June Sanow 219-670-8358 Location: Sahm Park, Indianapolis www.indianaepilepsyfoundation.org Please RSVP with the number of girls, boys, and adults attending.

Spa Night Indy for Mothers with Special Needs Blessings

Times: 4:00 PM - 6:00 PM Price: FREE Phone: 765-315-7370 Location: Speedway United Methodist Church, Speedway www.bentonparenting.com All kinds of businesses are coming to pamper you from head to toe while meeting new friends that also have special blessings.

Rsvp on facebook @bent on parenting or by calling the number above. Spots will fill up.

Special Olympics Indiana Plane Pull Challenge

Times: 8:00 AM - 6:00 PM Phone: 800-742-0612 ext. 236 Location: Indianapolis International Airport http://soindiana.org/specialevents/plane-pull-challenge/ Looking for a great team-building event for your co-workers, friends or family? Mark your calendars now for the 2012 FedEx Plane Pull Challenge to benefit Special Olympics Indiana.

The Indianapolis Epilepsy Support Group

Times: 2:00 PM - 3:00 PM Price: FREE Location: Avon-Washington Twp. Library Contact: Melinda Powers - 317-272-0552

www.dsindiana.org/ Down Syndrome Indiana is hosting a baby shower in your honor! This event is for moms that are expecting a baby with Down syndrome, have a new baby under 2 years old, have recently relocated to Indy, have recently adopted or are serving as foster parents to a child with Down syndrome.

Interactive Resource Day

Times: 10:00 AM - 3:00 PM Price: FREE Phone: (800)609-8449 Location: The Monon Center, Carmel www.inautism.org A "hands on" experience for Special Needs Families featuring activities and services offered by Easter Seals Crossroads, Noble of Indiana, and the Special Olympics of Hamilton County. Registration begins at 9am.

sat | 11

sat | 28

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weds | 15

Autism Family Resource Center Parents’ Support Group

Times: 5:30 PM - 7:00 PM Price: FREE Location: Easter Seals Crossroads, Indianapolis Contact: Amy Miller at 317-466-1000 x2488

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Teen Night Out

Times: 5:30 - 9:30 PM Price: FREE Location: The Monon Center, Carmel www.carmelclayparks.com Contact: Joelle Ogle at 317-466-2001 x2420

ongoing events Adaptive Sports

Date: See website for schedule Price: Varies by activity Location: The Monon Center, Carmel http://carmelclayparks.com

parent’s night out Easter Seals Crossroads Parents’ Night Out

East location Easter Seals Crossroads- 4740 Kingsway Drive, Indianapolis, IN 46205 1st, 2nd, 3rd, & 4th Friday of every month.

South location Indian Creek Christian Church- 6430 S. Franklin Road, Indianapolis, IN 46259 1st Friday of every month.

North location Trinity Wesleyan Church (Kids Kastle)11552 Fishers Landing Drive, Fishers, IN 46038 3rd Friday of every month.

West location Speedway United Methodist- 5065 West 16th Street, Speedway, IN 46224 4th Friday of every month.

From taekwondo to yoga to Flowrider® lessons, contact Carmel Clay Parks about their range of adaptive sports lessons.

Kayaking

Tuesdays through August 14, 2012.

Phone: 317-718-0089 Location: Eagle Creek Beach, 7602 Eagle Creek Beach Dr. This program is geared to families of children with special needs who wish to learn about the benefits of physical activity for their child.

For ages 6+. Abilities: head & trunk control, some arm movement. Physician permission required. Call for more information.

lectures/open houses

thurs | 2

Brain Balance Open House

support groups

weds | 08

Autism Family Resource Center Grandparents’ Support Group Times: 5:30- 7:30 PM Price: FREE

Location: Easter Seals Crossroads, Indianapolis www.eastersealscrossroads.org/ Contact: Diane Quillico at 317-882-1914 or Linda Knoderer at 765-438-4792

Times: 2:00 PM - 4:00 PM Price: FREE Phone: 317-843-9200

Location: Brain Balance Center, Indianapolis www.BrainBalanceIndy.com

tues | 7

Brain Balance Parent Lecture

Times: 6:00 PM Price: FREE Phone: 317-843-9200 Location: Brain Balance Center, Indianapolis www.BrainBalanceIndy.com

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What Teachers

NEED TO KNOW About Children with Special Needs

How to effectively communicate with your child's teacher

Angela Arlington

AN ABILITY THAT ANY TEACHER MUST HAVE IS THE ABILITY TO FIND A STUDENT’S STRENGTHS AND WEAKNESSES IN ORDER TO ACCURATELY ACCOMMODATE AND COMMUNICATE WITH THE STUDENT AND PARENTS. MEETING A STUDENT WITH SPECIAL NEEDS REQUIRES NOTHING MORE AND NOTHING LESS. LEARNING TO LOOK BEYOND ANY LABEL A CHILD MAY HAVE ACQUIRED IS KEY IN AIDING A STUDENT TO SUCCESS.

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KNOWING THE STUDENT AS AN INDIVIDUAL With classroom sizes increasing each year in many schools, it can be difficult for teachers to focus on the specific needs of each student. When students with special needs are in the classroom, the teacher must create lesson plans and homework assignments so that each child can learn what is being taught. Karen Rusk from IN*SOURCE encourages parents to type a onepage brief about their child to give to teachers. The page should be a brief bullet point list of things the teacher needs to know:

My child has______.

He struggles with__________.

Here are signs of when he’s becoming frustrated or overwhelmed_______________.

Here are things you can do_______________.

Things to do that will help him learn_______________.

Things to do that won’t help him learn____________________.

This one page summarizes strategies and information from the child’s Individual Education Program, while giving the teacher data that is easy to understand and have access to.

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What’s important for the teacher to understand is that no child should be treated with more or less favor than another based on the answers to these questions. It should never be assumed that because a child appears to have no behavioral issues, there aren’t other important issues that need addressing.

MAKING ACCOMMODATIONS When looking at the collective needs of the students in the classroom, it is often possible that what works for a child with special needs can benefit all of the students in the classroom.

Rusk gives an example: “If a child needs a fidget toy to help focus during class, create a box of fidgets for everyone to use. As adults, some of us have trouble sitting still without playing with something in our hands at times.

This applies to kids, so why not look at providing a resource to benefit the whole class? Setting up classroom rules and expectations can help all the students understand when and how they can be used.”

COMMUNICATION BETWEEN PARENTS AND TEACHERS Start off the school year by deciding the best way to communicate with your child’s teachers. Communication is a 2-way street that needs to be established right away and can be done through written daily comments, email, or telephone.

Written communication through assignment notebooks or daily log books that go from school to home can help both teachers and parents know how the child is doing. Sleep problems and homework problems are easily communicated this way. This information can really help the teacher when planning the day. The biggest problem with written communication is the possibility of it getting lost in transit. Many kids struggle with organization skills, so papers and notebooks may get misplaced or lost completely.

Some teachers prefer email to keep in touch. “If I have a concern or question and email my child’s teacher, she gets back to me right away. So then I know the issue is either taken care of or what actions need to be taken to deal with the situation,” Nicole Davis, mother of 2, explains. “My daughter has medical issues that restrict what she is allowed to eat. She also is on medication, and I need to know if there are any behavioral or emotional changes during the day.”

Technology is great, but is not always reliable. Computers freeze up and some parents do not have access to email. And written communication can often be misinterpreted. Quick telephone calls can be a great way for parents and teachers to communicate. This can be especially helpful if something worth reporting happens during the day.

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WHAT’S IMPORTANT FOR THE TEACHER TO UNDERSTAND IS THAT NO CHILD SHOULD BE TREATED WITH MORE OR LESS FAVOR THAN ANOTHER."

–Karen Rusk from IN*SOURCE Some parents need to know what has happened before school lets out, as their child may come home a bit frazzled. Rusk explains, “By the time the student has come home and tried to explain why they are upset, and the parent tries to call the school, often the teachers have already left for the day. So the parent does their best to deal with the issue without having all of the information. The delay of knowledge can be frustrating for the parent dealing with the emotional and behavioral needs of the child.”

Rusk’s final words of wisdom can be embraced by parents and teachers alike: “Good communication is key and with it, many frustrations from both the parent and the school can be avoided. Figure out what works best for both parties and go from there.”

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BACK-TO-SCHOOL Getting ready for the new school year Krista Bocko

Ready or not, the start of a fresh school year is here again. Before the bell rings, check out tips on how to make back-to-school shopping as easy and cost effective as possible.

And since back-to-school shopping is only one component of the new school year, check out our other ideas for helping to get the new year off on the right foot!

starting a new routine Organization at home will help make a smooth transition to school. Having a place for

often posted on that day and it’s exciting to help your child find out whom their

everything and everything in its place will make the mornings less stressful and

teacher is going to be. Getting to know your child’s school and teacher will help

provide a sense of calm and serenity to help ease the first day of school jitters.

make the transition easier for both of you, especially if it’s a new school. This is

Preparing the house can be a fun and creative time you can share with your

especially important for quieter children, who might be reticent to ask for help.

child(ren) as you set up a space for backpacks, school papers, lunches and

Assure your child that the adults at school are there to help if they need it.

homework.

Most schools offer ice cream socials or back-to-school open houses anywhere from

TIP: drop off your child’s supplies when you go to meet their

a few days to a week or so before school starts, so make plans to go. Class lists are

teacher.

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Buying school supplies, clothes, getting things organized at home and visiting your child’s school and teacher will probably go a long way toward getting your child

excited for school. You can also consider incorporating some special traditions to look forward to each year such as: a special breakfast, a new outfit, or a picture taken on the first day of school in the same spot to see how the child has grown since last year.

Once you have your child’s list for back-to-school shopping, take inventory of what you already have. You may already have scissors, pencils, binders, unused notebooks, erasers, and glue. It can be helpful to set a budget, and watch for sales. It’s often easiest to spread the shopping out over several days or weeks.

Tip: take reusable bags with you to the store and sort the items for each child into different bags as you check out.

local resources for back-to-school supplies, clothes & more Big box stores such as Target, Meijer and Walmart are standard places to shop for

school supplies, but also try office supply stores such as OfficeMax and Staples.

Watch for newspaper and online coupons. Consider stocking up on sale items and donating them to organizations serving needy kids (donation boxes can often be found in stores and libraries).

For school clothes, Children’s Place, TJ Maxx, Target, Justice and resale shops are all popular. For the teen crowd, Macy’s, Old Navy, Hollister and other teen stores top the list. Teenage girls might also enjoy shopping vintage stores for something different than the standard mall fare. Aside from some new warm weather clothes for the start of the year, many parents don’t buy a lot of clothes right up front since fall and winter clothes won’t be needed yet.

On the home front, The Container Store is an organization haven. Check it out for boxes, bins and other tools to help your household run smoothly.

Summer has flown by, as it always does, so enjoy it while it lasts. Take a little time to plan some fun things in the days leading up to when school starts. How about visiting a favorite park, lake, pool, nature trail, museum, baseball game, going out for ice cream, or having a picnic in a favorite spot? Establishing some ‘end of summer’ rituals and savoring the space between summer and school gives everyone time to enjoy each other. And since summer doesn’t officially end til September, keep on making the most of it on the weekends for as long as you can.

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“I have the kids’ new workspace ready and that’s helped them get excited about the new school year. I don’t need to do much more—they’ll be thrilled to get back to school to see their friends. I’ll make very special lunches for the first couple of days.

I have white [dry erase] boards for daily schedules and chore lists, and the kids move their magnets to the ‘done’ column when an item is completed. I think organization is essential, it’s important for the children to know what’s expected of them every day. We sometimes forget that children have a more fluid concept of time, and some kind of visual reference helps them navigate through their days.”

–Michelle M., Fishers, mother of an 8 & 6 year old

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“I get mailer, newspaper and online coupons for JoAnn Fabrics, Hobby Lobby and Hancock Fabrics. They usually have cuter and more unusual school supplies.

My teenager wears a uniform four days a week so we look throughout the year for polos and khakis. It’s a lot harder to buy a short-sleeve polo after September so we buy early! I send her moneyless to the mall to pre-shop with her friends and take her back later after she’s had time to think about what she wants.

We also buy things on super sale, and then put them in the box for needy kids. Places like Coburn Place, Dayspring and The Julian Center need supplies the whole year.”

–Mindi B., Noblesville, mother of a 15 & 3 year old

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Savvy Back-to-School Shopping Andi Wilson Summertime. Oh, what a blessing it is. The children are now out of school as

OfficeMax is normally a popular place for parents to shop for back-to-school

parents try to find some down time to take a family vacation. The only thing that

supplies and offers big back-to-school deals for kindergarten through college

may put an end to the lazy summer days at the beach while basking in the sun

students. In addition, if you purchase select backpacks online at $39.99, you

– back to school supplies.

receive free supplies. Visit www.OfficeMax.com for more information and store locations.

Still, it is important to recognize that the funds will soon be necessary for purchasing those oh-so-necessities for your child’s school. Remember, parents

Teacher Appreciation Days are happening on four different days at the

– back to school shopping is not just about the clothing anymore; it’s time to

United Art & Education Store, located at two different locations in

focus on the back-to-school supplies.

Indianapolis. The store provides various deals and closeout prices for many back to school items on your shopping list. Visit www.UnitedNow.com for more

How is any parent to purchase these supplies while on a school clothing budget?

information.

With so many stores to choose from, it is difficult not to find the best deals for

Fortunately, area stores offer spectacular deals for school shopping on a budget

the back-to-school supplies on your child’s list. The requested items may be

to help parents find those crucial supplies.

high, but if you shop at any of these stores, the prices will be low. Happy shopping and enjoy your summer!

Indianapolis provides not only some of the best one-stop shopping spots, it also offers some of the best prices for the penny-pinching budget. As any parent knows, school isn’t cheap on any level, so it is wonderful to find stores that provide the deals parents are looking for.

Lakeshore Learning Store, located at 1300 East 86th Street in Indianapolis, strives to promote education for families.

Not only does Lakeshore Learning offer kids of all ages free crafts and educational activities every Saturday, they offer school supplies for children of all ages. Better yet, from now until September 2, Lakeshore Learning offers 20% off all of their classroom resources, decorations, supplies, organizers and art essentials. Their supplies can also be ordered online at www.LakeshoreLearning.com.

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SCHOOL Y E A R

R es o luti o n s Getting your family organized, healthy, & happy for the start of the new school year

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new school year hides just around the corner, expecting new schedules, new mindsets, new routines. You look around the house and see damp bathing suits, sandals, half-eaten sandwiches, and flavored ice wrappers. You hear the kids giggling from whatever cartoon they’ve decided to watch, and it dawns on you that your family isn’t yet prepared for the structure of the school year.

You’ve started school years many times before, but how exactly did you do it?

What changes did you make to get your family back into the swing of things?

In case you’ve forgotten how to make the transition smoothly, here are a few school year resolutions that will be good for the whole family to take on.

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Tessa Judge

GET ORGANIZED

A key component of the school year (for both you and the kids) is organization.

When the year starts, the kids will be keeping their things in binders, folders, backpacks, lockers, and desks. These routines will make keeping school supplies, permission slips, and homework papers organized a habit rather than a chore: >

Whether it’s keeping the bedside table neat, or having a routine of taking shoes off and hanging up wet bathing suits in the same place every time they come home, they’ll start understanding that keeping things organized in the beginning will make everything easier later.

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Have them practice keeping their homework area organized before the year actually begins. Whether they decide to use labels, folders, or other organization supplies, they’ll know where everything is and will know how to navigate it all when the school year begins.

START EXERCISING

Summertime usually implies a much more active lifestyle for the kids, and that doesn’t always carry over into the school year. Resolution number 2 calls you to create an exercising plan for the family. Getting these fun routines in before the school year starts will get the kids staying active during the school year as well: >

Evening family walks after dinner. This is a sneaky way for you to get the family exercising and spending time together.

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Wii Fit, Just Dance for Wii, and other active video games can get the kids moving while still letting them play those video games they love.

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If you have a gym membership, make it a point to get to the gym a few times a week. Take the kids swimming in the lap pool or for a game of basketball.

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Make time for the Monon Trail every week. Even if it’s just on the weekends or one night a week, take the family down the Monon for some good family and, possibly, ice cream time.

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EAT HEALTHY, EAT TOGETHER

Start making it a goal to eat dinner as a family. While scattered summertime schedules may make that more difficult, the routine of the school year may make it an easier resolution to keep. While eating together every night may be an unrealistic goal, set a time for dinner and shoot for as many nights as you can. These meals will keep conversation flowing and you’ll know exactly what the kids are eating.

With that in mind, be sure to plan for healthy meals. A side salad, some veggies, or fruit for dessert are all good things to consider adding or ordering!

The healthy parts of your family meals will make the habit of eating healthier school lunches desirable rather than dreaded.

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MAINTAIN A CONSISTENT SLEEPING SCHEDULE

While most people like using the summer days to sleep in, this will make moving to an early school schedule more difficult. A week or two before school starts, begin waking the kids up a little earlier. When they’re waking up earlier, make sure they’re getting to bed a little earlier, too. Cranky kids aren’t the most fun kids!

With these resolutions in mind, make the transition into the school year with the ease and grace you so desire. Not only will school be easier to begin again, these are all tips that will lead to a healthier and happier family. Who doesn’t want that?

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Ti ps & Tri c ks fro m Th e Co ntai n er Sto re fo r Keep i n g an O rgan ized H o m e

With so many activities, appointments, deadlines, meetings and commitments to manage, families need a solid organization system to make the most of each day. Here are some of our favorite tips for keeping busy families more organized and less stressed:

Display a schedule– Place a wall-mounted calendar in a common area, such as the kitchen or family room, and include every family member’s schedule and chore list for the week or month. Use different colors to code each family member’s entries.

Start a collection basket– Place a large basket near the most accessible door to collect library books, video rentals, mail, dry cleaning, and items to be donated or delivered. Likewise, set up a bin near the stairwell to collect items that need to go upstairs or downstairs.

Master the mail– Don’t get caught in an avalanche of paper. Catch paperwork as it comes into the house by setting up a system near the main entrance of your home. Each family member should check their “in box” each

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afternoon and every morning.

Develop a central place for keys: Install hooks in a high-traffic area of the house to store keys and avoid any last-minute scavenger hunts for house and car keys.

Make lunch plans early– Involve the children and plan lunch menus a week in advance. Pack lunch boxes and sacks the night before a school day to save valuable morning time.

Organize the kids' closet– Like adults, if kids' closets are organized, they will have an easier time getting ready in the morning.

Create a filing system– Develop a file containing important documents for each child, such as report cards and medical records.

Make a list– Keep a list of all family errands on a single piece of paper or in a notebook, so that you’ll be more apt to accomplish everything in one trip.

education +childcare GUIDE schools & education carmel Carmel Montessori Schools, Inc. Carmel Montessori School is located on the beautiful campus at St. Christopher’s Church on the NE corner of Main St. and Meridian in Carmel. Our directress is American Montessori Certified with 13 years headteaching experience. We offer a beautiful, peaceful and positive Montessori learning environment. Extended days available. 1402 W. Main St., Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Emily & Scott Rudicel, 317-580-0699, info@carmelmontessori.com, www.carmelmontessori.com

Clay Montessori A Montessori school offering morning, afternoon, and full-day programs. Available for ages 3-6 years old. Call for more information. (Affiliated with Fisher’s Montessori) 463 East Main St., Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Peggy White, 317-849-9519 or 317-580-1850

The Montessori Learning Center The Montessori Learning Center offers a Montessori elementary program for grades 1-5. We focus on developing the whole child through interaction with an interdisciplinary curriculum. Our program specifically meets the needs of each child and is aligned with Indiana State Standards. 1402 W. Main St., Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Elizabeth Williams, 317-846-8182, elizabeth@ themontessorilearningcenter.com, www.themontessorilearningcenter.com

geist Sunrise Early Childhood Center The Sunrise Early Childhood Center offers preschool classes for 2 - 5 year olds, as well as an exceptional Kindergarten program. Classes meet from 9am - 1pm, with a variety of optional afternoon activities available. The Sunrise ECC offers reasonable rates, exceptional staff, and a caring Christian environment with low student to teacher ratios.

7551 Oaklandon Road, Indianapolis, IN 46236, Contact: Marcia Ramage, (317) 823-0123, Email: marciar@castletonumc.org, www.sunriseecc.org

fishers Fall Creek Montessori Academy Fall Creek Montessori Academy is a culturally diverse environment where children grow and develop their unique talents and gifts. Through child-centered learning, children excel physically, academically and emotionally.

Conveniently located one mile east of I-69 on 96th St. FCMA serves children at all levels. Programs are available two to five days per week. 8888 Fitness Ln, Fishers, IN 46037, Contact: Diana Brugh, (317) 436-8606, diana@fallcreekmontessori.com, www.fallcreekmontessori.com

Fishers Montessori A quality learning environment offering preschool, kindergarten and elementary. Certification through American Montessori Society. 12806 Ford Rd and 131st and Allisonville Rd., Fishers, IN 46038, Contact: Peggy White, 317-849-9519 or 317-580-1850

indianapolis - downtown Todd Academy, Inc.

Shaarey Tefilla Preschool At Shaarey Tefilla Preschool, children from two to five years old learn new skills, develop confidence and make new friends in a safe and loving environment. Fun-filled and diverse activities keep your children happy. Our program, with low child/teacher ratios is designed to meet the needs of each developmental level. 3085 W 116 Street, Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Rebecca Holloway, Phone: 733-2169, Email: billnbecca@gmail.com, Type of School: Early Childhood, Cost/Tuition/Financial Aid: Cost/Tuition/Financial Aid: 5 day Annual Tuition $4440, 3 days Annual Tuition $2775, 2 days Annual Tuition $1850 Additional children (10% discount, Hours/ Dates: August 13th 2012- June 31 2013 5 days a week 9:00am –3:00pm. Early drop off (7:00 – 9:00am) After care (3:00pm – 5:00pm), Ages/Grades: Two to five year olds, Religious Affiliation: The program is open to children of all religious and ethnic backgrounds while maintaining an emphasis rich in Jewish values. Before/After School Care: Early drop off (7:00 – 9:00am) After care (3:00pm – 5:00pm) no additional charge. www.shaareytefilla.org

855 N. East Street, Indianapolis, IN 46202, Contact: Sharon Todd, 317-636-3100, Fax: 317-636-3103, Email: admissions@ toddacademy.com

indianapolis - north A Children's Habitat Montessori Preschool and Kindergarten

For over 40 years, A Children's Habitat Montessori Preschool & Kindergarten has been providing a place where children thrive and discover their love of learning.

We offer a traditional Montessori preschool experience for families seeking a half day preschool and kindergarten program. Habitat is a not-for-profit school based on the principles of Maria Montessori. We have earned and maintain Full Membership in the American Montessori Society (AMS). 801 W. 73 STREET, Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Sarah Henning, Phone: (317)726-5584, Email: info@childrens-habitat.org, www.childrens-habitat.org

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Arthur M. Glick JCC Our loving caregivers and teachers demonstrate by example and encourage children to behave according to these values as the children are learning, playing and socializing with one another. The JCC embraces a learning-through-play teaching method to engage children in activities that promote creativity, accelerate learning and stimulate social interaction, all at each child’s individual pace. 6701 Hoover Road, Indianapolis, IN 46260, 317-251-9467, emills@JCCindy.org, www.JCCindy.org

Beth-El Zedeck Early Childhood Center OPEN TO THE PUBLIC. Full Academic Curriculum and Innovative Arts’ Enrichment. Our Program recognizes that intellectual, social, emotional and physical development are interwoven. Our children will thrive on exploration, creativity, curiosity, discovery, spontaneity and more important, lots of love! Type of School: Early Childhood, Full Time/Part-Time/Flexible Hours, Ages: 12 months old+, 18 months old+, 2’s+, 3’s+, 4’s/PreK (3 day or 5 day program) and Full Day Kindergarten (5 full-day program) (8:50 am to 3:00 pm) Before School/After School Care available daily as needed for all ages: Early drop off as early as 7:30 am and late pick up anytime up until 6:00 pm/5:30 pm on Fridays. Call or email for brochure. 600 W. 70th St., Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Joanie Waldman, Phone: 317-259-6854, Fax: 317-259-6849, Email: jwaldman@ bez613.org, www.bez613.org in.us

Children’s Day In Nursery School and Traditional Preschool The Children’s Day In traditional preschool and nursery school program provides a fully inclusive early childhood program with an emphasis on Christian values in a play based setting. It is designed to offer children ages 9 months to 5 years a positive and developmentally appropriate experience in the care of experienced teachers and caregivers. We play and learn! Classes are offered weekdays from 9 am to 2:30 pm. Children June attend up to 3 days a week. 5500 N. Meridian St., Indianapolis, IN 46208, Contact: Christy Whaley, 317-253-0472, cwhaley@ meridianstreet.org, www.meridianstreet.org

Children’s Circle Preschool at Second Presbyterian Church Children’s Circle Preschool is a developmentally appropriate, activity based, Christian preschool. We offer classes for children ages 9 months to 5 years old. We meet the needs of the whole child in a creative and loving environment. Our experienced staff embraces excellence in education by nurturing the whole child- physically, emotionally, spiritually, and intellectually. Please call for more information or to set up a tour. 7700 N. Meridian St., Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Cara Paul, Director, 317-2525517, cpaul@secondchurch.org, www.childrenscircle.org AUGUST 2012 [ indy’s child ] 51

Early Childhood Center, The Church at the Crossing Our Mothers Day Out (12-35 mos) and Preschool (3 yrs-PreK’s) programs provide relaxed, playful, secure environments that nurture creativity and encourage the exploration of God’s world, a wide variety of learning materials, & friendships, with readiness activities woven through each study unit. Need longer hours? Try our child care ministry, The Neighborhood designed for 2-PreK. 9111 N. Haverstick Rd., Indianapolis, IN 46240, Contact: John Drake or Kelly Belt, 317-575-6508, Fax: 317-575-6509, jdrake@golove.org or kbelt@golove.org

Heritage Christian School Established in 1965, accredited through ACSI and NCA. HCS is the choice in college preparatory discipleship Christian education for 1,400 students each year grades Prep K – 12. Advanced, Honors and AP classes. Full Fine Arts and 2A IHSAA Athletics. HCS is training up the next generation of Christian leaders through challenging, Biblically taught curriculum including internships and service to others. Bus transportation available. Schedule a tour today! 6401 E. 75th Street, Indianapolis, In 46250, Contact: Emily Iglendza, Director of Enrollment Management, 317-849-3441, Admissions@ heritagechristian.net www.heritagechristian.net

Meridian Hills Cooperative Nursery School Share your love of learning with your children. Founded in 1960 by involved parents like you, Meridian Hills Cooperative provides a positive, nurturing environment wherein children explore and learn by doing. Spacious classrooms. Beautiful, wooded playground. Caring, experienced staff. Adult/child ratios 1:4 - 1:6. Find us on Facebook. 7171 N. Pennsylvania, Indianapolis, IN 46240, Contact: See �Admissions/Tours� Info Online, Phone: 317-255-0831, www.meridianhillscoop.org

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Montessori Centres Stressing peace and respect for all, we’ve worked with children to develop critical-thinking and timemanagement skills since 1966. Montessori-certified lead teachers serve children aged 3-3rd grade. Our classroom structure and materials allow children to be self-directed and self-paced. Our well-rounded curriculum includes French and Spanish, art, and computer labs. 563 Westfield Blvd. W. Dr., Indianapolis, IN 46208, Contact: Lynn Boone, Director, Phone: 317-257-2224, Fax: 317-254-3034, Email: montessoricentres@sbcglobal.net

The Orchard School The Orchard School, an independent, non-sectarian, progressive school, emphasized experiential learning.

Orchard teachers engage the natural curiosity of children, develop academic excellence, and provide leadership experience through well-rounded education.

Orchard’s diverse community and commitment to multicultural education inspires responsible, global citizenship. Founded in 1922. NAIS, ISACS, NAEYS accredited. 615 W. 64th St., Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Kristen Hein, Director of Admissions, Phone: 317-713-5705, Fax: 317-254-8454, Email: khein@orchard.org, www.orchard.org

Park Tudor School Park Tudor School’s exceptional educators and extraordinary opportunities prepare students to become confident and resourceful lifelong learners.

The school community creates an inspiring collegepreparatory learning environment for highly motivated young people. Two-year Global Scholars program for juniors and seniors; 19 AP classes; full-day kindergarten; Spanish beginning at age 3. 7200 N. College Ave., Indianapolis, IN 46240, Contact: David Amstutz, 317-415-2777, info@parktudor.org, www.parktudor.org

St. Richard’s School Independent Episcopal day school offering a diverse community filled with academic rigor, faith based ecumenism and long-standing traditions. Its mission is to instill knowledge and values for a lifetime through the implementation of five Pillars for Success: Faith, Classic Curriculum, Leadership, Civic Responsibility, and Global Readiness. Pre-Kindergarten (3) through Grade 8. 33 E. 33rd Street, Indianapolis, IN 46205, Contact: Melinda W. Fisher, 317-926-0425 x134, Fax: 317-921-3367, mfisher@ strichardsschool.org, www.strichardsschool.org

Sycamore School At Sycamore, teachers trained in gifted education deliver a curriculum designed to challenge and engage gifted learners. Art, music, Spanish, PE and technology are taught at all levels. Extensive field trips, athletics, child care, financial aid, and a wide variety of after school activities are offered. 1750 W. 64th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Dr. Susan Karpicke, Director of Admissions. 317-202-2500, Fax: 317-202-2501,. skarpicke@ sycamoreschool.org, www.sycamoreschool.org

indianapolis - northeast Compassionate Angels Child Care Ministry We are a family ran business. We have over 30 years of experience. We accept children ages 6 weeks to 12 years and provide before and after school care. We are a Christian based ministry, using the bible and God’s word to teach morals and values. We teach through play and creativity so the children learn, and have fun doing

it. We have a very strong educational program that prepares your little one for first grade. From infancy through Kindergarten we have proper age appropriate curriculum and teaching. We are dedicated to the love, education and safety of your child or children. 2626 Ruth Drive, Indianapolis, IN 46240, Contact: Jody Teipen-Holbrook, Phone: 317-205-9264, Fax: 317-205-9263, Email:compassion ateangelsministry@gmail.com, www.compassionate-angels.com

CUMNS KIDS CUMNS KIDS is NAEYC accredited and provides education and care for children ages 6 weeks through Kindergarten. We are in our 44th year of providing quality early childhood care as a weekday ministry of Castleton United Methodist Church. 7101 N. Shadeland Avenue, Indianapolis, IN 46250, Contact: Robin Radtke, (317) 841-7491, Email: cumnskids@castletonumc.org www.cumnskids.com

Polly Panda Preschool and Bridgford Kindergarten Polly Panda provides a safe and healthy environment which enhances each child’s total growth. Our themebased hands-on preschool program provides a wide-range experiences that foster learning, creativity and problem solving in all areas. A child’s sense of self-worth, independence and growth in social skills are developed through positive interaction with peers and our well-qualified and loving staff. 2944 E. 56th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46220, Contact: Gail Hacker and Tammy Clark, Phone: 317-257-9127, Email: pollypandaindy@sbcglobal.net, www.pollypanda.com

indianapolis - northwest International School of Indiana At the International School of Indiana, we share your wish to prepare your children for the future we cannot imagine, and to give them the foundation and attitude to thrive in a changing world. An education that combines internationally respected academic standards with a truly international outlook. 4330 N. Michigan Road, Indianapolis, IN 46208, Contact: Sarah Harrison or Kate Lock, 923-1951 Ext. 369, admissions@isind.org, www.isind.org

St. Luke’s Early Childhood Programs St Luke’s Community Preschool is a weekday, developmentally appropriate and experience based program. Two well-trained, degreed teachers are in each classroom. Parents’ Day Out is a structured play experience that provides parents some time for themselves on a regular basis on M, Th, F. We provide a warm and loving Christian environment in which children can learn and grow. Tours available upon request. Visitors welcome. 100 West 86th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Bobbi Main-Jackson, Dir., 317-844-3399, mainb@stlukesumc.com, www.stlukesumc.com

Traders Point Christian Academy Fully accredited by ACSI and AdvancEd, Traders Point is a nondenominational Christian college prep school serving 600 students age 18 months to 12th grade.

Offering Fine Arts, Spanish, Technology, Honors, AP and dual-credit options within a Biblical viewpoint.

Interscholastic athletics in grade 2 - HS varsity.

Preparing students for high school and college, for a world without borders, and for a life of significance.

Located at I-65 North/SR 334, Zionsville exit. Visit us - for more information contact Mrs. Toni Kanzler, tkanzler@tpcs.org, at 317-769-2450. www.tpcs.org

indianapolis - south Busy Bee Childcare Ministry We offer quality care to ages 6wks and up in a Christian environment. Providing Diapers, Wipes, meals, Formula and all preschool curriculum using Abeka lessons daily.

4002 Southport Road, Indianapolis, IN 46237, Maggie Sumner, 317-605-4145, msumner317@comcast.net

Lutheran High School Students, parents, teachers, and staff will be on hand to answer questions about academics, fine arts, activities, clubs, sports, and more. Come see the limitless opportunities that will have a lasting impact. 5555 S. Arlington Ave., Indianapolis, IN 46237, Contact: Christie Hampton, Phone: 317-787-5474, Email: admissions@lhsi.org, www.lhsi.org

multiple locations Indiana Council of Preschool Cooperatives: ICPC Indianapolis Area Preschool and Kindergarten Cooperatives Preschools: great for your child, great for you! Children and parents learn and grow together in the classroom with caring, experienced teachers.

Multiple Locations in Indianapolis Area, ICPC Line: 317-767-7596

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St. Mary’s Child Center We are Reggio inspired preschool with 2 locations (Downtown and Ft. Harrison). We are Level 4 on the Path’s to Quality scale and accredited by NAEYC. We focus on inquiry based, authentic learning in small groups within beautiful environments. We accept tuition and CCDF vouchers along with offering scholarships.

901 Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. St., Indianapolis, IN 46202, Contact: Sharon Stuhldreher, 317-635-1491, Hours: 7:00 am - 5:30 pm, sstuhldreher@stmaryschildcenter.org, www.stmaryschildcenter.org

noblesville Polly Panda Preschool Polly Panda provides a safe and healthy environment which enhances each child’s total growth. Our theme-based hands-on preschool program provides a wide-range experiences that foster learning, creativity and problem solving in all areas. A child’s sense of self-worth, independence and growth in social skills are developed through positive interaction with peers and our well-qualified and loving staff. 17645 Oakmont Dr., Noblesville, IN 46062, Contact: Heather Hilbert, Phone: 317-773-0387, Email: pollypandaindy@sbcglobal.net, www.pollypanda.com

Primrose School of Noblesville Primrose School of Noblesville distinguishes itself by creating a safe and nurturing environment where children will take their first steps toward a lifetime of

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achievement. You will find certified, professional staff and many programs such as spanish, technology, music and physical fitness that will consistently challenge your child. 15707 North Point Blvd., Noblesville, IN 46060, Contact: Jackie Bell, 317-7734900, Fax: 317-773-4433, jbell@primrosenoblesville.com

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success, providing specific directions and instructions, acknowledging and encouraging each child’s efforts, creating challenges and supporting children in extending their capabilities. The Indiana Foundations for Young Children will be a resource/ framework for UP. 5555 S. 650 E., Zionsville, IN 46075, Contact: Donna Hudson, Phone: 317-873-2226, Email: dhudson@zcs.k12.in.us, http://cms.zcs.k12.in.us/?q=node/123

Montessori School of Westfield, Inc. Located on 3 wooded acres in Central Indiana, the Montessori School of Westfield adheres to the academic traditions of Montessori while serving the present day child. The Montessori School of Westfield serves children from Indianapolis, Fishers, Carmel, Zionsville, Westfield, Sheridan, Noblesville, Cicero and Tipton. We serve children ages 18 months to 15 years, and we are adding a new Toddler room for the 2012-2012 year. 800 E. Sycamore Street, Westfield, IN 46074, Contact: Mary Lyman, Directress, 317-867-0158, montessoriwestfield@gmail.com, www. montessorischoolofwestfield.com

zionsville Zionsville Community Schools Universal Preschool Universal Preschool at Boone Meadow provides a hands-on learning experience, focused on the whole child, in an inclusive and supportive environment that ensures maximum child growth, for life-long learning. We will provide a quality program through: Organizing the environment so it is conducive to

childcare Wee Folk Childcare Quality in-home child care serving caring families for 20 years. (CPR, 1st aid certified, and state licensed). Two meals and one snack provided daily along with baby food and regular formula. We provide quality learning through play in a nonsmoking Christian environment. Preschool program providing Kindergarten prep is available. Meridian Kessler Neighborhood, 317-926-3640

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KIDS EAT FREE GUIDE

A2Z Café 4705 East 96th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46240 www.a2zcafe.com | (317) 569-9349

Barlo's Pizza 1345 W. Southport Rd. Indianapolis, IN 46217; 5051 Kentucky Ave, Indianapolis, IN 46221 www.barlospizza.com | (317) 883-2222/ (317) 821-2220

bd's Mongolian Grill Many locations, check online for more details. www.gomongo.com | (317) 585-0700

Chef Mike's Charcoal Grill 7102 Woodland Dr., Indianapolis, IN 46278 www.chefmikescharcoalgrill.com | (317) 295-9490

Denny's Restaurants

Free kids meal per adult entrée purchased on Wednesdays and Thursdays for dinner.

Lonestar Steakhouse

Kids 10 & under eat free with adult meal purchased on Wednesdays.

Max and Erma's

One free kids meal per paying adult on Tuesdays from 5 – 9 p.m.

Free kids meals daily for kids 6 & under.

Many locations, check online for more details. www.lonestarsteakhouse.com

Free kids meals on Tuesdays.

12195 North Meridian St., Carmel, IN 46032; 8817 US 31, Indianapolis, IN 46227 www.maxandermas.com | (317) 705-9788/ (317) 882-4477

Moe's Southwest Grill Many locations, check online for more details. www.moes.com

Penn Station

Receive a free kids meal for each sub, fries, and drink purchased on Tuesdays after 5 p.m. Dine-in only, offered for a limited time.

Kids eat free on Tuesdays.

Kids 10 & under eat free with adult meal purchased on Tuesdays and Saturdays from 4 - 10 p.m.

Perkin's Family Restaurant

Golden Corral

Kids under 3 always eat free.

Scotty's Brewhouse

Granite City 150 W. 96th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46290 www.gcfb.net | (317) 218-7185

Grindstone Charley's 5383 West Rockville Road, Indianapolis, IN 46224; 5822 Crawfordsville Road, Indianapolis, IN 46224 www.grindstonecharleys.com | (317) 243-8760/ (317) 481-1870

Johnny Rockets 6020 E 82nd St, Ste 1411, Indianapolis, IN 46250 www.johnnyrockets.com | (317) 578-8015

5320 82nd Street, Indianapolis, IN 46250 www.perkinsrestaurants.com | (317) 842-9447

Many locations, check online for more details. www.scottysbrewhouse.com

Kids eat free with purchase of adult entrée on Sundays after 5 p.m.

Steak 'n Shake

Free kids meal per adult entrée purchased on Wednesday evenings.

Stir Crazy

Free kids meals per adult entrée and drink on Mondays, Tuesdays, and Wednesdays from 4 - 9 p.m.

Many locations, check online for more details. www.steaknshake.com

6020 East 82nd Street, Indianapolis, IN 46250 www.stircrazy.com | (317) 845-5600

Skyline Chili Many locations, check online for more details. www.skylinechili.com

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Free kids meal per adult entrée all day on Sundays and Wednesdays after 4 p.m.

Many locations, check online for more details. www.penn-station.com

Many locations, check online for more details. www.dennys.com

Many locations, check online for more details. www.goldencorral.com

Kids eat free with purchase of a dinner entrée on Tuesdays.

One free kids meal per adult entrée purchased on Sundays.

Kids eat free on weekends (Saturday and Sunday).

Kids eat free on Tuesdays and Thursdays after 4 p.m.

Kids 10 & under eat free with the purchase of an adult meal on Fridays from 5 - 9 p.m.

calendar weds | 01 Summer Olympics Times: 4:00 PM Price: FREE Location: Carmel Clay Public Library. Carmel, IN 46032 www.carmel.lib.in.us For children entering grades 1-2. Come celebrate the Summer Olympics with us! We’ll read stories and play our own Olympic games. Gold medals all around! No registration is required.

thurs | 02 Target Free Family Night Times: 4:00-8:00 PM Price: FREE Phone: (317) 334-3322 Location: The Children’s Museum.

Indianapolis, IN 46208 www.childrensmuseum.org/ Free museum admission 4-8 p.m. Kick off a wonderful school year with games, immunizations, and school safety information.

Summertime Cabaret

Thurs., August 2nd – Fri., August 3rd Times: 10:00 AM and 1:00 PM Price: $8, under two, free Phone: 317-917-9454 Location: Peewinkle’s Puppet Studio.

Indianapolis, IN 46204 www.peewinklespuppets.com Bring your campers or grandkids to this funfilled summertime marionette variety show presented by our puppeteer Heidi. The dancing, juggling, high flying and cycling trick marionettes are guaranteed to delight children ages 2 10yrs. Optional postshow workshops $3.

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Movies in the Park- Cars 2

Times: Dusk Price: FREE Location: West Park. Carmel, IN 46044 www.carmelclayparks.com What’s better than watching a movie on the couch?

A movie under the stars. Pack up the munchkins, grab your snacks, and enjoy the fresh air, while you watch a movie on the big screen in West Park.

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Star(lite) Art Cart: Facilitated Art Making Times: Noon - 4:00 PM Price: FREE Phone: 317-920-2659 Location: IMA. Indianapolis, IN 46208 www.imamuseum.org Stop by the Star(lite) Art Cart to find art-making projects inspired by works of art on view at the IMA. Projects are designed to be accessible and fun for museum visitors of all ages and all levels of art-making experience. Available every Saturday in August.

sun | 05 Left and Right Tea Times: 2:00 PM - 5:00 PM Price: $18 adults; $9 youth (6- 12 years); $6.00 children (2-5 years ) Phone: 317-638-7881 Location: Propylaeum.

Indianapolis, IN 46202 www.thepropylaeum.org Learn your left and right in this educational but fun tea. Enjoy a tea designed especially for children. Tea includes a mini etiquette lesson, a craft, finger sandwiches, and tea treats.

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Animation Day: Shadow Play

Times: 11:30 AM - 3:30 PM Price: $2; children 6 and under free Phone: 317-920-2659 Location: IMA. Indianapolis, IN 46208 www.imamuseum.org Join us in The Toby for an afternoon of animated tales from around the world featuring cut-outs and shadows. Featuring hand-cut silhouettes and hand-tinted backgrounds, The Adventure of Prince Achmed is the oldest surviving animated film.

mon | 06 Wii Fun Time

Times: 2:00 - 4:00 PM Price: FREE Phone: 317-579-0300 Location: Hamilton East Library. Fishers, IN 46038 www.hepl.lib.in.us/ Check out our Wii! Bring your friends and come game. We’ve got Guitar Hero, Sports and more!

For children in grades 4 to 6. Also on Aug. 13.

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Fishers Parks and Rec: NFL Punt, Pass and Kick

Times: 4:00 - 5:00 PM Price: FREE Phone: 317-595-3150 Location: Mudsock Fields.Fishers, IN 46037 www.fishers.in.us/parks Based on their age and gender in these three categories. Top scorer in all age divisions from each local competition will advance to the sectional competition. For the program format, go to www.nflppk.com for competition rules and to register online.

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The Wiggles Farewell Tour!

Times: 6:30 PM Price: see website for ticket prices Phone: 317-632-7469 Location: Old National Center. Indianapolis, IN 46204 www.livenation.com/murat The original Wiggles - Anthony, Greg, Jeff and Murray will be performing together for the last time during their 2012 Farewell Tour, before handing over the show to a new generation of performers.

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Look Out Kindergarten, Here I Come!

Times: 10:30 AM and 4:00 PM Phone: 317-844-3363 Location: Carmel Clay Public Library. Carmel, IN 46032 www.carmel.lib.in.us If you start Kindergarten this fall, join us for this fun program. We’ll read stories, play games, and make a craft, all guaranteed to get you ready for that first fun day. Registration is required and begins Aug 2 – online, in person, or by calling 844-3363.

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Indianapolis Art Center Open House Times: 6:00 - 8:00 PM Price: FREE Phone: 317-255-2464 Location: Indianapolis Art Center.

Indianapolis, IN 46220 www.IndplsArtCenter.org/Events Make Art – it’s easy, it’s fun, it’s FREE for the night. All studio classrooms are open to stop in and make some ART. There will be hands-on activities and unique art experiences, special offers on fall classes and workshops, a Chili Bowl Sale (purchase a handmade bowl and we’ll throw in the Yats’ for free) and much more.

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James and Ada’s Wedding

Sat., August 11th–Sun., August 12th Times: 2:00 PM Price: Included with cost of admission Phone: 317-776-6006 Location: Conner Prairie.Fishers, IN 46038 www.connerprairie.org Love is in the air as the citizens of 1836 Prairietown come together to celebrate a very joyous occasion. James Cox and Ada McClure are finally getting married, and you’re invited.

Come take part in this fun and funny event.

Going Native with Animalia

Times: 1:00 - 3:00 PM Price: included with museum admission Phone: 317-232-1637 Location: Indiana State Museum.

Indianapolis, IN 46204 www.in.gov/ism scientists encountered during their expeditions to young Indiana. Be sure to stop by to meet live animals such as a hawk, owl, crow, raccoon, opossum, skunk, and more!

IMA Saturdays at the Park

Times: 9:00 AM Price: FREE Phone: 317-920-2659 Location: IMA. Indianapolis, IN 46208 www.imamuseum.org One Saturday each month, partake in an interactive park adventure for ages 5 and beyond. In August, join us for Trust Walk: Move through areas of the park with only your ears as your guide. Meet at Lake Terrace.

sun | 12 Holliday Park Family Creek Stomp

Times: 1:30 - 2:30 PM Price: $5/individual Phone: 317-327-7180 Location: Holliday Park Nature Center. Indianapolis, IN 46260 www.hollidaypark.org Holliday Park is home to wetlands, ponds and seeps teeming with plants and wildlife. Have fun discovering the creatures that love these wet places. Wear old shoes and clothes that can get muddy. All ages, pre-registration required.

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Lego® Mania: School Challenge Times: 7:00 PM Price: FREE Phone: 317-773-1384 Location: Noblesville Library. Noblesville, IN www.hepl.lib.in.us Bring your friends and join us at a special Lego® mania challenge. It’s back to school time so create your own school. Please bring your own Legos® to create your masterpiece. You may temporarily leave your creation at the library for display. For ages 5-12. Registration required.

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Conversations About Education: Parent-Teacher Relationship Matters Times: 6:00 PM

Price: FREE Phone: 317-275-4100 Location: Central Library. Indianapolis, IN 46204 www.imcpl.org Parents and teachers are invited to a conversation about strategies for partnerships from preschool to high school, guidance on how to be a great parent-teacher partner, and ideas for effective two-way communication between home and school.

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Cool Back to School Party

Times: 5:30 - 7:00 PM Price: FREE Phone: 317-838-3801 Location: Plainfield-Guilford Township Library. Plainfield, IN 46168 www.plainfieldlibrary.net/ All ages enjoy activities, games, and crafts to celebrate the start of the school year.

Children can also explore a real school bus and receive free Playaway ear buds and lanyards. No registration required.

thurs | 16 Gen Con Indy 2012 Opening Day

Times: See website for show schedule Phone: 317-262-3400 Location: Indiana Convention Center.

Indianapolis, IN 46225 www.iccrd.com Gen Con Indy is the original, longest running, best attended, gaming convention in the world.

See website for ticket pricing and schedule.

Show runs throughSunday, Aug. 19.

Gen Con Indy Family Fun Day

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Holliday Park Family Friday Night Campfire

Times: 6:30 - 8:00 PM Price: $5/indvidual Phone: 317-327-7180 Location: Holliday Park Nature Center. Indianapolis, IN 46260 www.hollidaypark.org Come share in a fun adventure for the whole family.

We will start around the campfire and then focus on the topic of the evening – nocturnal animals.

You are welcome to bring hot dogs and make a meal of it! All ages, pre-registration required.

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IMS Kids Club Event: Red Bull Indianapolis GP

Times: 11:00 AM - 1:00 PM Price: Free for IMS Kids Club members

Phone:317-481-8500 Location: Indianapolis Motor Speedway.

Indianapolis, IN 46222 www.indianapolismotorspeedway.com For more information, visit the IMS Kids Club Facebook page at www. facebook.com/imskidsclub.

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Benjamin Harrison 179th Birthday Times: 1:30 - 4:00 PM Price: FREE Location: Benjamin Harrison Presidential Site. Indianapolis, IN 46202 www.presidentbenjaminharrison. org/visit/Events.php Join us as we celebrate Ben’s 179th birthday with FREE birthday cake and FREE ice cream, compliments of Blue Bell Ice Cream, not to mention FREE walk thru tour of museum’s first floor. Visit with President Harrison, home for his party, as well as several other family and staff members. If your first or last name is Harrison, you will receive a special gift, but ALL are invited to join us on his special day.

Price: see website for ticket pricing Phone: 317-262-3400 Location: Indiana Convention Center.

Indianapolis, IN 46225 www.gencon.com/2012 Family Fun Day will offer events specifically designed for family involvement along with a special registration kiosk where families can buy their badges. Keep in mind though, there will also be KID only events running throughout all 4 days. A family of four can enjoy Gen Con for a discounted rate.

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Family Story Celebrations at Wayne Times: 6:30 PM Price: FREE Phone: 317-275-4530 Location: Wayne Library. Indianapolis, IN 46231 www.imcpl.org Families with children ages 1 - 10 are invited to explore stories with crafts, songs and activities.

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Comic Book Crafts

Times: 3:30 - 4:30 PM Price: FREE Phone: 317-839-6602 Location: Plainfield-Guilford Township Library. Plainfield, IN 46168 www.plainfieldlibrary.net/ Teens in grades 6 through 12 use comic book pages to create a necklace or keychain.

All materials provided. Free; no registration required. Call (317) 839-6602, ext. 2123.

weds | 22 Mom and Me Outdoors

Times: 9:30 - 11:00 AM Price: $15 Phone: 317-843-3869 Location: Monon Community Center. Carmel, IN 46032 callen@carmelclayparks.com Nature is filled with early learning opportunities, so venture out with your tiny tot on a voyage through Central Park. Each session includes a story, discovery hike, and hands-on activity.

Come ready to learn and get dirty.

thurs | 23 Naturally Inspired Paint Out Silent Auction

Times: 5:30 - 7:30 PM Price: $10 members and guests, $25 non-members Phone: 317-630-2001 Location: Indianapolis Zoo.Indianapolis, IN 46220 www.indianapoliszoo.com/SitePages/ SpecialEvents/NaturallyInspiredPaintOut.aspx

On August 23, you are invited to attend a silent auction and artists’ reception inside the Hulman Riverhouse at the Gardens. This unique art event and silent auction is exclusive to the Indianapolis Zoo. You can bid on your favorite work of art or just enjoy the show. Ticket reservations are required.

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Here We Grow Again Kids Consignment Sale INDY Fri., August 24th–Sun., August 26th Times: 9:00 AM - 8:00 PM Price: FREE Phone: 636-346-7969 Location: Hendricks County 4H Fairgrounds. Brownsburg, in 46112 www.herewegrowagain.com You’ll find our seasonal consignment sale is a great way to make more money with less work. You just drop off your kids’ items, we sell them and then mail you a check! You set the price for your own items, you decide if you want your items sold at halfprice on the last day of the sale, and you earn up to 70% of each item’s selling price.

sat | 25 Race Across Hamilton County presented by Community Health Network Times: 7:00 AM - 7:00 PM Price: $30 per team Phone: 317-595-3150 Location: Ritchey Woods Nature Preserve, Fishers, IN 46038 www.fishers.in.us/parks Teams will compete in various mental, physical, passive, and miscellaneous challenges at five different sites around the county. No time will be recorded for travel. Three meals are provided and included in the registration price.

For ages 14 and up. Each team must have at least one member 18 years or older.

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Times: Noon - 3:00 PM Price: $20/person + tax & gratuity Phone: 317-638-7881 Location: Propylaeum. Indianapolis, IN 46202 www.thepropylaeum.org Grab a group of friends and try to solve the Mystery of the Lost Tea Cup. You will be treated to a three course luncheon and then you will try to solve the mystery. Each teen at the table will have a part and prizes will be awarded. Takes about three hours, but oh, so much fun. For ages 12-18.

Reservations required, 638-

7881.

Times: 10:00 AM and 11:00 AM Price: FREE Location: Carmel Clay Public Library. Carmel, IN 46032 www.carmel.lib.in.us For children ages 2-5 & their caregivers.

Join us for a few short, action-packed films based on popular children’s stories. No registration is required.

Teen Mystery Lunch

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Behind the Indiana Experience

Times: 12:30 PM Price: Included with admission Phone: 317-232-1882 Location: Emison Room, History Center. 450 West Ohio St., Indianapolis, IN 46202 www.indianahistory.org The IHS interpretation staff is fond of saying the research for a You Are There only ends the day the exhibition closes. The new stories we’ve heard and discovered over the last several months have added even more appreciation to this already amazing story. Join us as we share new stories and experiences before this exhibition closes on Sept. 29.

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Indianapolis Indians vs. Columbus Clippers

Times: 7:00 PM Price: see website for ticket pricing Phone: 317-269-3545 Location: Victory Field. Indianapolis, IN 46225 www.indyindians.com

Bring your appetite each Monday because hot dogs, peanuts, Cracker Jack, popcorn and potato chips are only $1 each.

thurs | 30 Storytime Express

Times: 11:00 AM Price: FREE Phone: 317-843-3869 Location: Monon Community Center. Carmel, IN 46032 callen@carmelclayparks.com All aboard! Jump on the literacy train for a fastpaced, interactive mix of stories, rhymes, and songs paired with a simple craft. Each week has a different theme and younger siblings are welcome.

fri | 31 Indianapolis Indians vs. Toledo Mud Hens Times: 7:00 PM Price: see website for ticket pricing Phone: 317-269-3545 Location: Victory Field.Indianapolis, IN 46225 www.indyindians.com Come watch the Indianapolis Indians take on the Toledo Mud Hens. This is the most popular night of the week - enjoy a spectacular post-game fireworks show following each Friday home game.

Dinner on the Deck Things-That-Go Rodeo Times: 10:00 AM - Noon Phone: 317-844-3363 Location: Carmel Elementary School, Carmel, IN 46032 www.carmel.lib.in.us The Carmel Clay Public Library invites children of all ages to get up close to a bubble truck, fire truck, ambulance, police car, school bus, dump truck, front end loader, and big rig truck!

This event is fun for all ages! No registration is required. For more information, call the Children’s Reference Desk at 844-3363.

Times: 5:00 PM - 9:00 PM Phone: 317-733-1700 Location: Traders Point Creamery, Zionsville, IN 46077 www.tpforganics.com Get your friends and family ready for a night of Green Market shopping and a delicious organic dinner outside on our garden deck Relax into the weekend with dinner, a glass of wine or beer and a scoop of ice cream all while listening to great live music. Each week’s dinner will feature a farm-to-table dishes full of organic goodness straight from our own farm and garden.

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ongoing events Indiana State Fair

Fri., August 3rd–Sun., August 19 Price: see website for ticket pricing Phone: 317-927-7500 Location: Indiana State Fairgrounds.

Indianapolis, IN 46205 www.in.gov/statefair During 2012 we will be “Celebrating the Hoosier Spirit”, utilizing the 17 day Indiana State Fair as a platform to highlight our great state’s fortitude. As a showcase for youth, agriculture and education in an entertaining environment, 2012 will be a shining example of the pride we share each summer from the county fairs to our great Indiana State Fair. See website for hours and programming.

Concerts on the Canal

Thursdays through August 9th Times: 6:00 - 8:00 PM Price: see website for pricing Phone: 317-232-1882 Location: Indiana History Center.

Indianapolis, IN 46202 www.indianahistory.org Enjoy a fun summer evening along the downtown canal at this popular outdoor summer concert series. You may reserve a table on the Terrace or bring your own chair or blanket and sit on the grassy hill across the Canal. Also enjoy FREE Museum Nights on the Canal through Aug. 9, enjoy free admission to the History Center on Thursdays from 4 to 8 p.m.

Nunsense

Through Sunday, August 26th Price: $37 to $60 Phone: 317-872-9664 Location: Beef and Boards. Indianapolis, IN 46268 www.beefandboards.com Winner of four Outer Critics Circle Awards, including Best Off Broadway Musical in its original New York production, Nunsense follows the misadventures of five nuns trying to manage a fundraiser. Discounts are available for groups and children ages 3-15.

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Animals and All That Jazz Thursdays through August 16th Times: 5:30 - 8:30 PM Price: Free with Zoo admission Phone: 317-630-2001 Location: Indianapolis Zoo. Indianapolis, IN 46222 www.indianapoliszoo.com After hours, the Zoo has a truly magical ambiance with lighter crowds, a private feel to popular exhibits, cooler temperatures and the sound of live music - and good vibes - throughout the grounds. Enjoy live performances by great jazz groups, prizes, featured rides and a full buffet while you chill out and enjoy the Zoo after hours.

Fishers Movies in the Park

Fridays through September 21st Times: Movies begins at dusk Price: Free Phone: Weather Line, 317-567-5057 Location: Fishers Heritage Park and Saxony Bring lawn chairs, blankets and your favorite snack to enjoy favorites like the Smurfs, Sherlock Holmes and Kung Fu Panda 2. Visit www.fishers.in.us/parks/movies for the entire schedule of movies and event locations.

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Taste the Past

Marsh® Symphony on the Prairie

Through Sun., September 23rd Price: Included with museum admission Phone: 812-337-1337 Location: Wonderlab. Bloomington, IN 47404 www.wonderlab.org This hands-on exhibition features the Giant Telescoping Lever, the Pulley Chair and the Giant Biomechanical Hand. Other parts of the science exhibition include using a catapult to lay siege to a block castle, building a model of an amusement park ride, and, for very young children, using a bucket on a pulley to lift stuffed animals into a preschool treehouse.

Daily through Friday, August 31st Times: 10:00 AM - 5:00 PM Price: Included with museum admission Phone: 317-776-6006 Location: Conner Prairie. Fishers, IN 46038 www.connerprairie.org Join Conner Prairie Interactive History Park in the month of August and try a variety of historic recipes throughout our five themed areas. Each day will offer a fun food adventure including everything from helping knead yeast bread before it’s placed in the brick oven to sampling a Civil War soldier’s hardtack. If you find something tasty you like, take a copy of the recipe and prepare it at home for family and friends.

Times: 8:00 PM

Hot Wheels For Real!

Price: see website for ticket prices

Through January 27, 2013 Price: Included with museum admission Phone: (317) 334-3322 Location: The Children’s Museum.

Indianapolis, IN 46208 www.childrensmuseum.org/ Family fun revs up in Hot Wheels For Real at The Children’s Museum! This all-new experience will feature rarely seen collectible Hot Wheels cars and amazing life-size versions of iconic favorites.

Fridays through October 26th Times: 4:00 - 8:00 PM Price: Admission is free Phone: 317-733-1700 Location: Traders Point Creamery.

Zionsville, IN 46077 www.tpforganics.com The vendors are on the front lawn with dinner being served on the deck from 5:00pm-dusk.

Check out our Upcoming Events section on the website to find out this weeks menu. Look for the vendors inside the Red Barn and dinner in the Loft in case of inclement weather.

17th annual Rib America Festival Fri., August 31st–Mon., September 3rd Times: see website for schedule Price: FREE before 5 PM on Friday and 1 PM Saturday, Sunday and Monday. $7 after. 12 and under FREE. Location: Military Park. Indianapolis, IN www.ribamerica.com Stop by and smell the barbeque… and taste it while you are there! For more information, log on to www.ribamerica.com.

Select nights through September 8th

Phone: 317-776-6000 Location: Conner Prairie. 13400 Allisonville Rd., Fishers, IN 46038 www.connerprairie.org/ Sit back, relax and enjoy the beautiful sounds of Symphony on the Prairie! If you’d like to make a day of it, come early and explore Conner Prairie before the symphony begins.

See website for a complete list of concerts.

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trail mix day

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