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18 departments In Every Issue 06 Letter from the Editor 07 Our Cover Kid

features Resources & Calendars 30 To Do With Your Crew 31 Fun & Wacky Calendar

Around Town 14 Outdoor Adventure

for All Ages at Wagner Subaru Outdoor Experience

26 Local Spotlight: Creek Safe

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Moving... with Children RULE #5: PURGE! Use this opportunity to go through all those kid toys that they don’t need and don’t ever touch. Bag them up and send them away to anywhere else!

If you Google “Most stressful things you can do,” your results will be death, divorce and moving.

Yes, moving sucks. There’s no pretty way to say it. I hate that what I do all day, every day, ultimately results in people having to shift all their stuff from one place to another. My husband and I have had eight addresses in the short six years we’ve been married. That’s partially because he married a real estate agent and partially because we had three children WAY faster than we ever anticipated. Because I am now experienced in moving with children, this article is for all of you who are not.

RULE #1: Think small. ONE thing at a time. Pack one box a day. Look around for whatever your family doesn’t need on a daily basis and pack it up. If you’re like me and get an Amazon box each day, utilize that. Fill it, tape it, done.

RULE #6: Label well. Don’t be my husband. He packs by shoving whatever items are near him into a box and then putting tape on it. Don’t be a Jon! When you pack a box, label it IMMEDIATELY with a marker as to what you put inside and what room that box belongs in at the new house. RULE #2: Start soon. Don’t wait until the day you are supposed to hand over the keys to your property to pack (and yes, I’ve had this happen). Start packing now. Slow and steady wins the race. One box a day translates to a big pile after a month! RULE #3: Give each child a “special” box that is their own moving box. I always give

my clients who have little ones a box that the child can color and put their own prized possessions in. That way the child can know and visually see very easily where their IMPORTANT stuff is.

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RULE #4: Get rid of your kids. If you have the ability in

ANY way possible, send the children elsewhere when it comes to actual moving day. There is too much happening. Mom and dad are too stressed. There are dangerous things being transported. Get the kids out of there if you have that option whatsoever. If you can, have the children brought home when their beds are put back together and there is some semblance of their space.

RULE #7: Talk to the kids about what is happening. It

gets them excited! Tell them as you drive by, “That will be your new bedroom window,” or “We will go for bike rides down this road!” If they see you are excited, they will be, too. Also remember that the idea of moving may be scary for them — there’s a lot of unknown. Talk to them, and let them talk, too.

As always, when you're thinking of buying or selling real estate, let's talk.

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Y’all!

10 ways to have a ball this season. WORDS BY HALEY PADDOCK

HE SUMMER HEAT IS GIVING WAY TO CRISP AUTUMN AIR, AND EVERYONE IS EXCITED TO CELEBRATE THE CHANGING SEASONS. CHECK OUT OUR LIST OF LOCAL ATTRACTIONS SO YOU WON’T MISS OUT ON ENJOYING SOME FAMILYFRIENDLY FALL ACTIVITIES!

Apple Country Farm Market

such as outhouse construction and a tricycle race!

Hidden Valley Orchards

Hayrides, corn mazes and pumpkin painting — what more could you ask for? These are just a few of the many fall attractions you’ll find at Apple Country Farm.

Where: 958 W Main St, Wilmington

Hidden Valley Orchards sure knows how to celebrate fall! Festivals and events are lined up for nearly every weekend in September and October, which include themes such as apple butter, scarecrows, apple cider and pumpkins. They also offer U-pick fruits and fresh veggies depending on the weather so be sure to check their website for crop forecasts.

Where: 2323 U.S. Route 42, Spring Valley 937-750-1005, applecountryfarm.com

When: Friday 5-8 pm, Saturday 1-9 pm and Sunday 1-6 pm

Clinton County Fairgrounds Corn Festival If you love corn and other famous fall cuisine, then this is the festival for you. The three-day seasonal celebration features a parade, games, tractor pull and the “Corn Olympics,” which includes events

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937-383-KORN, cornfestivalonline.com

When: September 6-8: Friday 11 am-10 pm, Saturday 9 am-11 pm and Sunday 9 am-6 pm

Grandma’s Gardens Fall fun at Grandma’s Gardens means visiting the spooky yet hilarious Graveyard of Lost Souls, several unique photo opps, a pumpkin patch and train rides for little ones! Where: 8107 N. SR 48, Waynesville 937-885-2740, grandmasgardens.net

When: Weekdays 9 am-6 pm, Saturday 9 am-5 pm and Sunday 10 am-5 pm

Where: 5474 North State Route 48, Lebanon 513-932-1869, hiddenvalleyorchards.com

When: Wednesday and Sunday 9 am-7 pm, Thursday through Saturday 9 am-9 pm

Lucas Bros Fall Fest Pick your own pumpkin, enjoy a free straw maze and visit with the farm animals. You might also like to take a hayride tour of the farm or attempt to find your way through the family friendly corn maze. Where: 3329 Ferry Road, Bellbrook 937-212-8020, lucasbrosfarms.com

When: Saturday and Sunday 11 am-6 pm

McMonigle Farms Pumpkin Fest Boasting not only the most affordable, but also the most unique pumpkin patch around, McMonigle Farms is a great place to take your entire family. Once you’re there, you’ll find cow train rides, a corn and straw maze, a large play area with two corn boxes and U-pick pumpkins!

Pumpkin Party at Austin Landing A fall celebration you’ll be sure to remember, the annual Pumpkin Party at Austin Landing features attractions you won’t find anywhere else. Internationally known pumpkin carvers offering live demonstrations, incredible chalk artists, and countless free activities for kids are only some of the highlights of the evening! Where: 10050 Innovation Drive, Miamisburg 937-291-6300, austinlanding.com

When: October 23, 3 pm-7 pm

Tom’s Maze Tom’s has claimed multiple awards for their amazing 8-acre maze. Promising to be more than “just a regular corn maze,” you’re invited to visit the farm, solve the puzzles and see if you can find your way out!

Where: 7441 Franklin Madison Rd, Middletown

Where: 4881 Germantown-Liberty Rd, Germantown

937-672-8248, fallpumpkinfest.com

937-866-2777, tomsmaze.com

When: Saturday and Sunday 12-6 pm throughout October

When: Thursday and Sunday 12-6 pm, Friday and Saturday 12-10 pm

Monnin’s Fruit Farm If you’ve already picked all the pumpkins you need but still want to get out in the cooler weather for some farm fresh fruit, head on over to Monnin’s Fruit Farm. Let your kiddos collect their own snack with U-pick grapes available midSeptember through October or apples available through November. Where: 8201 Frederick Pike, Dayton

Young’s Jersey Dairy Last but certainly not least, Young’s Jersey Dairy is another local favorite that does not disappoint when it comes to fall family fun! Visit the 43rd Annual Pumpkin Festival for pumpkin donut hole making, pumpkin painting and a pumpkin launcher. You can also experience wool gathering, Cowvin’s Corny Maze and haunted wagon rides this season.

937-890-4536, monninsfruitfarm.com

Where: 6880 Springfield-Xenia Rd, Yellow Springs

When: Monday through Saturday 8 am-6 pm and Sunday 9 am-5 pm

937-325-0629, youngsdairy.com

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Outdoor Adventure for All Ages at Wagner Subaru Outdoor Experience Keep it going: Your family can explore 265 miles of water trails in the greater Dayton region, some of which can be accessed in your MetroParks. For a casual paddle, stick to the Eastwood Lagoon. For a longer, more exciting paddle, start at Eastwood MetroPark and travel the four miles to RiverScape MetroParks’ RiverScape River Run. Learn more about paddling opportunities and programs at metroparks.org/paddle.

Five Rivers MetroParks’ Wagner Subaru Outdoor Experience (OutdoorX) is the perfect occasion to introduce children to all the adventures they can have in the great outdoors at your MetroParks. The Midwest’s premier outdoor adventure festival, the Wagner Subaru Outdoor Experience is Oct. 5 and 6 at Eastwood MetroPark and features more than 20 outdoor adventure activities for people of all ages to try.

Get on a bike: The Bike Village at OutdoorX offers opportunities to try a variety of demo bikes. Both youth and adults can visit the Batch Bicycles Try Cycling, Try Mountain Biking, the Mad River Mountain Pumptrack or the Tot Track to practice skills and get pointers from the pros. Children and adults both will get a thrill watching the Dialed Action Sports Teams perform gravity-defying stunts at the BMX and Mountain Bike shows. Keep it going: Don’t hop off your bike after OutdoorX; instead, spend the rest of the year exploring the 340 miles of paved recreation trail — the nation’s largest paved trail network. You can connect to the bikeways via a variety of MetroParks and conservation areas. Additionally, MetroParks offers mountain biking trails for all ages at MetroParks Mountain Biking Area (MoMBA). Take the tot track or a beginner track for some all-terrain fun. Visit metroparks.org/bike to learn more about how to hit the cycling trails in the region.

Reach new heights and find some balance: An OutdoorX favorite, the climbing

wall offers kids the chance to climb safely with help from experts. A fun balancing activity, slacklines will be available for kids to try.

Pet parents: People with pups consider them

part of the family, and there are plenty of things for your furry family to do at OutdoorX. Let your pup run around, go for a swim and make new friends at the Pooch Island Off-Leash Dog Park. Dogs can visit the Best Breed Pooch Playground to enjoy treats during Yappy Hour at the Bone Bar, or “pawticipate” in a variety of pup activities and crafts offered by the Greater Dayton Humane Society.

Slackline professionals will be performing exciting trickline shows and exhilarating highline shows, as well as offering clinics so you can learn from the pros. Keep it going: Large muscle and balancing activities are important physically and developmentally for children, both of which can be experienced at nature play areas. Different from traditional playgrounds, nature play areas utilize natural elements to create playscapes where kids can climb, play, jump and imagine. Find nature play areas in Englewood, Hills & Dales, Possum Creek, Sugarcreek and Wesleyan MetroParks.

Pick up a paddle: Get ready to paddle on the Eastwood Lagoon with help from HERO USA and American Kayaking expert instructors. Hop in a canoe, kayak or Bellyak prone kayak and get active on the water. The Mad River Run will feature pro surf shows and competitions throughout OutdoorX and is the perfect opportunity to watch exciting action on the white water.

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Keep it going: Did you know most MetroParks are pet friendly? Before you bring your pet on an outdoor adventure, check metropark.org/ places-to-go to double-check the pet policy. While at the park, your dog must always be leashed and under control for the safety and enjoyment of other park patrons and their animals. OutdoorX will also have kid-friendly eats and music for the entire family to enjoy. MetroParks is proud of OutdoorX’s award-winning wastefree initiative, so it asks that families bring reusable water bottles to help keep waste out of the landfill.

Learn more about OutdoorX at metroparks.org/outdoorx.

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PRIVATE SCHOOL PRIMER WHAT TO CONSIDER WHEN SEARCHING FOR THE PERFECT PRIVATE SCHOOL FOR YOUR CHILD. WORDS BY JENNIFER THOMPSON

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ublic, private, charter, magnet, faith-based, Montessori, homeschool and more. With so many wonderful education options available, choosing the type of school you feel is the best fit for your child can feel like a daunting task. For parents who are considering private school, we have asked two experts to field some questions to help parents in their private school search. Aimee Vorrasi is the chief operating officer of Creative World of Child Care, Inc., a parent company of Creative World of Montessori in Dayton. Polina Schroeder is the admissions and financial aid director of Dayton Christian School.

What are the differences between private and public schools? Schroeder: Private schools don’t rely on state or local funding. This gives private schools f lexibility in teaching methods and curriculum choices, as well as freedom to manage enrollment and create organizational culture. One should not underestimate the importance of a school’s culture, which often aides in providing meaningful education and values consistent with that being taught in a student’s home. Private schools are known to have smaller class sizes, personalized

education and more opportunities for experiential learning. Vorrasi: Finding the right school can be a difficult process. Every parent wants their child to have the best educational experience in a setting that meets the child's needs. Because private schools are not state or federal funded, they can be highly specialized and dig deep into their mission and philosophy, as well as how they implement and address their curriculum. Many private schools will incorporate and focus on academic areas that will be of high interest to their students, including the fine arts and STEAM. This is not to say that the public schools do not incorporate this into their instruction, but there are many other guidelines that are enforced because of the state funding and demands which may limit their creativity.

What should parents consider when looking for a private school? Schroeder: Navigating the world of private education can be intimidating. However, there are a few things to consider. First, most private schools are missiondriven when it comes to values and education, with a mission typically incorporated into educational methods, curriculum and community building. Therefore, it is important that a child attends a school with values the parents support.

Secondly, I would not focus on online reviews or grading when selecting a school. Often, they can be skewed or inconsistent.

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Instead, tour a school and meet with one of their key administrators. Talking to a family that is currently attending the school is also a great way to learn. Lastly, most schools provide some form of financial assistance. While it is rare to receive a full scholarship, some offer up to 40 percent in tuition assistance for candidates who qualify.

Vorrasi: When looking for a private school, parents should look at the school environment and philosophy and make sure it aligns with their family's expectations. It is important that the school looks at the whole child and meet the child's academic and social needs.

What questions should parents ask while touring a private school? Schroeder: As a parent, I would first want to know the mission and core values of a school. I would ask how the school provides individualized learning and encourages growth of students’ gifts. It is good to ask about faculty turnover and professional background. Teachers who have been loyal to a school, have experience in their subject area, and are involved in their school community speak volumes about organizational health. I also recommend gathering information on average class size and test scores, class offerings, extracurricular activities and how the school fosters students’ talents.

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What else should parents know about searching for a private school?

they can wait until the summer to enroll for the fall. At that point, children are often put on a waitlist because the classrooms are already full.

Vorassi: Finding the right educational setting can be a difficult decision for parents and their children. It is important for families to understand it is their right to advocate for their child and take time when making their decision. It is important to do the research early because enrollment for private schools for the fall usually starts in January and February. This can come up quickly for parents who think

Whatever route you decide to go, when searching for the best educational fit for your child, don’t be afraid to ask questions and trust your gut. You are your child’s advocate and know them best, and that knowledge goes a long way.

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BREAST HEALTH 5 THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT THE SECONDMOST COMMON CANCER AMONG AMERICAN WOMEN WORDS BY JENNIFER THOMPSON

sat in the waiting room, the pink top they gave me to wear was tied tightly around the side so as not to reveal anything. The room was filled with other women adorned in matching tops. One-by-one they went into the rooms designated for mammograms, and one-by-one they came out. Did they notice I hadn’t moved yet? I wonder when they will call my name? It has to be soon. It feels like I have been sitting in this place forever. I wonder if this will hurt? How long until I have the results? I hope whatever it is — that it’s benign. For some, this is a familiar story. Whether a personal diagnosis, or the diagnosis of a loved one, many of us know someone whose life has been affected by breast cancer.

As women, we are taught early on the importance of breast selfexamination and the necessity of annual mammograms for those who are 40 and over. We don’t learn these things to scare us, but because we understand the importance of early detection. According to breastcancer.org, about one in eight U.S. women (about 12%) will develop invasive breast cancer over the course of her lifetime. The website also states that “besides skin cancer, breast cancer is the most commonly diagnosed cancer among American women. In 2019, it's estimated that about 30% of newly diagnosed cancers in women will be breast cancers.” In honor of Breast Cancer Awareness Month, we have asked Dayton OB-GYN Kamlesh Sanghvi, MD — who has had a private practice for more than 30 years after a double residency and double board certifications — to answer some questions, with the hopes of relaying the importance of being proactive and taking the necessary steps for early breast cancer detection and prevention.

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Is there anything women can do to help decrease their chance of breast cancer?

hormone replacement therapy after menopause may increase the risk of breast cancer.

Let us not get confused by prevention and early cancer detection. If there is sufficient family or personal history, women can go for genetic counseling and, if high risk, can consider prophylactic chemotherapy, or mastectomy. Women who are considered high risk may benefit from annual mammograms and MRI evaluation, as well as physical examinations by physicians every six months. Early detection for an average-risk woman will include annual mammograms starting at age 40, annual physical exams with breast exam and self-breast exams monthly. Depending on the risk factors, mammograms may start at an earlier age. Also, there is some concern that the use of

Are all breast lumps potentially cancerous? No. Benign lumps are more common than cancer, especially in premenopausal women. However, each lump needs to be evaluated before writing it off as benign. Even young women can have breast cancer, so if you notice a change, do not ignore it. Generally, for younger women, most lumps tend to be benign. But if it is cancer, it tends to be more aggressive.

Is breast cancer genetic?

What else should women know?

Some breast cancers are genetic and also may increase the risk of other associated cancers in women, as well as in men.

Some women raise concern about the risk of radiation from annual mammograms. Generally, the benefits significantly outweigh the risks. Prevention and early detection is the key to saving lives. New 3D technology may further help early detection, as well.

Do you recommend genetic testing? Genetic counseling and testing is an advancing field with promising contribution to breast health. Women can have genetic testing done if there is significant family history. Even if the test comes back negative, because we do not know what the future holds with genetic testing and they are finding more and more genes that are abnormal, you can still have an increased risk based on family history alone. If the blood test comes back positive, the patient will know there is an increased risk.

My results did come back benign, but I know that isnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t the case for everyone. The earlier cancer is caught, the better the prognosis. Please be sure to perform your self-exams and schedule your yearly mammograms when the time comes. Letâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s be proactive with our health and encourage one another in the fight against breast cancer.

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Flu Shot Myth Busters Do you know your flu facts from flu fiction? “It’s not necessary to get the flu shot every year.”

ACHOO! SNIFFLE! COUGH! These are the sounds of sickness that are coming during the colder months. This flu season, knowing the difference between a cold and the flu, and brushing up on flu shot facts, can help prevent the spread of this contagious virus. “It’s important that parents understand flu prevention and its vaccine before we enter flu season,” says Sherman Alter, MD, division chief of infectious disease at Dayton Children’s Hospital. “We hear many myths surrounding the flu vaccine every year, and as infection preventionists at Dayton Children’s, we are always working to keep people healthy by relaying the truth.”

Here are some of the common myths about the flu shot: “The flu and a cold or stomach flu are the same thing.” The flu is different from a cold or stomach flu. Flu is a serious illness that makes you feel much worse than a cold. You generally can tell the difference between a cold and the flu

Everyone 6 months of age and older should get the flu vaccine each year, including pregnant women. The vaccine changes and the strains of flu also change, so you need to get this important flu prevention every year.

because you get the illness during flu season. Flu symptoms are fever, chills, muscle aches, headache, cough (sometimes severe), exhaustion, loss of appetite and sore throat. Cold symptoms are fever (if any), runny nose and a little coughing. A child's appetite and energy level are usually not affected with a cold.

“It’s too late to get the flu vaccine after Thanksgiving.” We want to try and give the vaccine to everyone who should get it by October 31. However, the flu season could be prolonged, so after Thanksgiving is not too late to get the flu shot; you can get the vaccine anytime.

“The flu shot can give you the flu.” The flu shot is a killed vaccine with no live virus. You can’t get the flu from a killed vaccine. If you feel you have flu symptoms after the shot, you could have picked up another infection, or you had already picked up the flu before your shot and it took some time for your immune system to respond.

“It’s better to get the flu than to get the flu vaccine.” There are very bad cases of the flu, and there can even be mortality in certain high-risk groups. It’s not worth it to get sick. Just get the vaccine.

“You can’t prevent the flu.” While there’s no guaranteed way to prevent the flu, these tips can help limit spreading germs: * Get your flu vaccine. * Keep kids home if they have the flu and stay home if you're sick. * Wash your hands well and often with soap. * Don't share cups and utensils. * Sneeze or cough into a tissue or into your elbow, not your hand.

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Local Spotlight: Creek Safe Working to make classrooms safer, one lock at a time School shootings are a parent’s worst nightmare, and a topic becoming all too familiar in the news. Although many would rather not even think about such a tragedy, one dedicated group of parents in Beavercreek decided they wanted to do more. Chris and Jennifer Beck, and Scott and Meghan Morgan were determined to join school district efforts to protect students if the unimaginable ever became a reality. Dayton Parent spoke to Jennifer Beck to learn more about Creek Safe and their mission.

How was Creek Safe started? After the 2018 Parkland shooting, Beavercreek schools held a meeting to inform parents of their plans to employ additional safety measures, including Anchorman barricade door locks. However, with the lack of funding available, the locks were only going to be installed on the doors of high-risk classrooms. After learning more, the four of us came together and decided we could work to raise the funds for all of the classrooms.

We met with the district, filed paperwork to secure our non-profit status, started a website and got rolling! We held over 60 events, raising more than $60,000, which allowed us to purchase a lock for every elementary school classroom in November 2018. Thanks to the Bellbrook Fence team, the locks were installed and we have now moved to Phase 2 of our mission: outfitting the middle schools, the freshman building and the high school with the Anchorman locks.

What are the benefits of the Anchorman locks? Anchorman locks were designed by two former SWAT officers is Los Angeles, and we are so proud to be working with this company!

The locks employ a simple two-step process to engage and require no fine motor skills to operate. Since the lock can be activated by anyone weighing over 50 pounds, it’s possible that a student could barricade a door, if needed. Perhaps the most important benefit is that first responders can open the lock with an Anchorman-issued key, allowing them to easily assist students in an emergency.

What advice would you give to someone who may want to help another district? We would love to see this take off in more schools. After meeting with school decision-makers and filing proper paperwork with the state, it’s just a matter of reaching out to family, friends, local businesses and anyone who shares the goal of keeping our kids safe at school. We have received so much love and support from the community, and it truly warms our hearts to see everyone come together.

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What’s next for Creek Safe? Once the locks are installed in every classroom, we would like to keep the organization active and continue to raise funds for maintenance and upkeep. We have also explored additional safety measures, such as a film to put on windows to make them more bullet resistant. We want to be sure we’re doing all we can to continue increasing the level of safety while eliminating additional fees for our school district. To learn more about Creek Safe and to support their goals, visit their website at www.creeksafe.com.

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