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ZOOBOO BRINGS EVEN MORE FAMILY FUN TO THE ZOO

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DIGGING IN AT THE CHILDREN'S MUSEUM

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RESEARCH TO REAL WORLD

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FALL FUN!

Enrichment activities for the preschool crowd

From apples and pumpkins to ghosts and ghouls, this season has it all!

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BREAST TEST BREAKDOWN

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STEPPING INTO STEP-PARENTING

A guide to breast cancer screening and early detection

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SPECIAL NEEDS CALENDAR

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PRIVATE SCHOOL OPEN HOUSE GUIDE

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DAILY EVENTS

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FUN & WACKY CALENDAR

Suggestions for navigating this new territory

SPECIAL NEEDS 28 CHANGING SEASONS AND KIDS ON THE SPECTRUM 30 USING TECHNOLOGY WITH DYSLEXIA

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All that's Fall!

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hat’s not to love about October?

Thirty-one days of color floating down from the trees, warm apple cider taking the chill off a cool afternoon, plump pumpkins waiting to be transformed into jack o’ lanterns… and a grand finale of candy and costumes at the end of the month!

This time of year is packed with ways to make the most of this vibrant season. To get you started, check out our Fall Fun article and October Events Calendar for a rundown of local apple orchards, hay mazes, pumpkin patches, harvest festivals and Halloween festivities your family will love.

October is also National Breast Cancer Awareness Month. Advances in early detection mean ever-increasing survival rates; read Breast Test Breakdown for a description of the most popular screening methods doctors are using today.

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enrichment activities for this age group are almost endless in our area and Pint-sized Pursuits can help you find just the right one to stimulate your child’s interests and make some new friends along the way.

Also in this issue we take a look at the often complex nature of step-parenting. If you’re new to this role, you know that finding your way in this relationship can be tricky. For some suggestions from the experts, and from parents who have been in your shoes, take a look at Stepping into Step-Parenting to help guide your path.

As always, thank you for picking up this issue of Indy’s Child. We wish you an October filled with caramel apples, spooky fun and snuggles in cozy blankets!

EDITORIAL ASSISTANT Wendy Schrepferman | s.wendy@indyschild.com

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Michelle Shirk, Maggie Loiselle, Steffy McCourt, Sarah Bricker-Hunt, Deb Krupowicz, Kelly Blewett, Tonya Bergeson, Melissa Trumpey of The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis

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I'm a silly girl and want to be an artist when I grow up!

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spotlight Halloween fun for special needs children St.Vincent Pediatric Therapies will host the annual “Trunk or Treat” for kids with special needs. Visitors can select treats from over 20 community organizations offering support and services for special needs children. Additional activities include face painting, a zip line, games, prizes, home safety activities, free child ID cards and more!

October 25, 2014, 1:00 pm - 3:00 pm 12425 Old Meridian Street, Carmel, IN 46032 Free - Please R.S.V.P. at 317-338-CARE (siblings welcome)

Learn tips and tricks from a LEGO M aster Builder!

The LEGO Master Builder Academy is just one of the many exciting areas families can visit during the LEGO KidsFest, a giant, hands-on, traveling LEGO extravaganza!

Visitors will also enjoy DUPLO and LEGO building areas with thousands of bricks, The Challenge Zone, Creation Nation, an incredible LEGO Model Museum and more in a three acre space! All sessions offer the same exhibits and activities and all activities are included in the price of admission. Come be amazed!

November 7 - 9, 2014 Friday: 4:00 pm - 8:30 pm Saturday and Sunday: Session I: 9:00 am - 1:30 pm, Session II: 3:00 pm - 7:30 pm Indianapolis Convention Center - Halls I, J, K 100 South Capitol Avenue, Indianapolis, IN 46225 Tickets: $20 for kids, $22 for adults

SP OOK Y F UN! SPOOK Y RUN! Grab your brooms for the first ever Black Hat Dash at The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis! Creepy costumes and spooky shoes are encouraged as are princess and pumpkin costumes and the like. The officially timed and sanctioned 5K and 2K races begin and end at the museum with the roads along the route closed off and supervised by police. Peru Circus performers and Halloween surprises pop up along the route with ghostly giveaways and kid-friendly entertainment!

Saturday, October 11, 2014, 9:00 am Children’s Museum of Indianapolis 3000 North Meridian Street, Indianapolis, IN 46208 317-334-4000 | www.childrensmuseum.org

317-262-3400 | www.legokidsfest.com

Hit the Streets for A iOP! The inaugural Art in Odd Places public art and performance festival is coming to Indy!

Artists of all disciplines, levels of experience and artistic mediums will present projects that surprise, actively engage and encourage the public to see the “everyday” in a new light. The festival will include music, sound, dance, performance, site-specific installations, video projections, painting, sculpture, and more.

October 17 - 18, 2014, Free

Register to R ace during Breast C ancer Awareness Month In just six months, The Susan G. Komen Race for the Cure will turn the city of Indy pink, bringing together more than 16,000 participants including an inspiring parade of survivors supported by their family and friends. Registration is now open for the Saturday, April 18, 2015 event. October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month and race organizers are offering a $10 discount on registration fees!

Visit www.komenindy.org for details.

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Trading Baby's Health for (False) Convenience The tail end of a pregnancy is often marked by a perfect storm of excitement and exhaustion. You’re tired. You can’t sleep. Your feet are swollen, your back hurts, and your energy tanks. And sometimes, the timing stinks – you have places to be and things to do. Most of all, you can’t wait to see your baby’s face.

It’s no wonder, then, the idea pops up: “Wouldn’t it be easier to induce labor a little early?” Many moms do. And many moms (and babies) pay dearly for it.

There’s nothing convenient about early elective deliveries (EED), experts say.

Early induction for non-medical reasons can trigger severe risks to mom and baby, including disability and death.

EED Risks to Babies Babies need 39 weeks of gestation to fully develop. Vital organs like the brain, lungs and liver still undergo big changes up to the 39th week. EEDs could mean babies never catch up to the development they missed in the womb.

“Moms look at their newborn and think, ‘Oh, they have 10 fingers and toes; they look fine,’” says Beth McIntire, a regional coordinator for maternal, fetal and neonatal services at St.Vincent Women’s in Indianapolis. “But they might be surprised to learn their baby isn’t eating well or can’t maintain their temperature.”

In addition to difficulty sucking, swallowing and keeping warm, premature babies can also suffer infection, breathing problems, and life-long deficiencies including autism, learning disability, and chronic respiratory problems. Long-term ramifications are more common than you’d guess: Dr. Niceta Bradburn,

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a medical director at St.Vincent, cautions that half of babies induced early have learning disabilities later.

EED Risks to Moms Even at 39 weeks, when baby is ready, it’s also important for the mother’s uterus and cervix to be ready. Inducing labor before then increases the chance that a cesarean, or C-section, will be needed.

Cesareans create scar tissue in the uterus and abdomen. That scar tissue can prevent placenta from implanting correctly in subsequent pregnancies, increasing the risk for hemorrhage – the leading cause of maternal deaths worldwide.

Even without a cesarean, inducing labor before the body is ready often results in a longer, more strenuous labor and muscle exhaustion. When uterine muscles fail to contract with the delivery of the baby and placenta, hemorrhage may follow. A worst-case hemorrhaging scenario would require blood transfusions and result in a hysterectomy, loss of fertility or death.

Merck, an organization devoted to reducing maternal deaths, makes a donation each year to a country where maternal hemorrhages have surged. “This year the recipient was the United States,” said Bradburn. “It has to do with C-section complications related to EEDs.” From a financial perspective, EEDs cost more, given the longer hospital stay, recovery, and occasional re-hospitalization. “There really isn’t a benefit from inducing someone electively who isn’t ready for it,” says McIntire.

Healthcare Industry Reacts Risks stemming from EEDs are so significant, a growing number of healthcare organizations, including the American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists and Society for MaternalFetal Medicine, have launched efforts to end it. So has the government: “In Indiana, three branches of Medicaid no longer pay for EEDs prior to 39 weeks,” McIntire explains.

McIntire and Bradburn stress that there are clinical reasons when early induction or cesarean may be necessary. Their intent is not to discourage those patients, but to educate mothers who want an EED for the sake of convenience or personal preference, unaware of the risks that follow.

Designing Your Birth Experience There’s still much moms can control without risking their health and baby – namely, their birth plan.

A birth plan may begin with a hospital tour, meeting the medical staff, and learning about labor, coping and baby care tools at your disposal. Armed with information, you can then clarify your chosen labor options with your provider.

Monogram Maternity at St.Vincent, which personalizes childbirth experiences, offers massage therapy, aromatherapy, and baths as relaxation tools for birth plans.

“Patients come from a broad range of age groups and cultures,” McIntire adds.

“Some want minimal intervention, some want their whole family in the room and some want to honor a cultural tradition. If their request doesn’t pose a health risk, we try to accommodate their wishes.”

Parting Thoughts Experts advise expectant mothers to ask their provider to clarify EED risks and benefits so they can make informed decisions. All things considered, “this is 40 weeks of your life that will impact your child’s entire lifetime,” Bradburn concludes. “We owe it to our children to give them the best we can.”

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Research to Real World: The Secret Life of Motor Skills Tonya Bergeson-Dana, PhD

attention. The important finding was that these results were independent of the individual babies’ language skills, and were related only to whether the babies interacted with their mothers from a crawling or walking position. Further support for the amazing and unexpected relationship between motor milestones and language is the consistent finding that language development is related to the age at first steps, regardless of the age of the babies. First words and first steps often occur fairly close in time.

When my son was a baby, I celebrated each time he hit one of the major (and even the not-so-major) motor milestones with whoops and hollers, hugs and kisses. We have videos and photos galore of first rollovers, first crawls and first steps. I laughed at the irony of my son, whose father was a racecar driver, practicing those first steps in a series of leftward laps around his grandmother’s open-design house as though he had some sort of Indy 500 gene.

I’m pretty sure I’m not the only parent celebrating these motor moments!

What we probably don’t think about so much while celebrating, however, is how newly acquired motor skills allow babies to see the world and interact with their environment in a new way, greatly influencing their social-cognitive development. In one recent study out of New York University, researchers tracked 12-month-old infants’ gaze direction, field of view and head orientation as they crawled or walked down a straight path towards their caregiver, who was holding a motivating toy. As you might expect, crawlers spent most of their time looking down at the floor, whereas walkers looked ahead at their caregivers and the toys. This somewhat obvious difference in the visual field between a crawling baby and a walking baby has cascading effects on how they explore objects (e.g., toys, blankets, pets, Cheerios), how they interact with the people around them and how they develop language.

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So go ahead and celebrate all of those motor milestones and be on the lookout for new skills your baby shows you that might have been triggered by them.

One example of the connections between motor milestones and language is that around the age of 7 months rhythmic arm movements such as shaking a rattle seem to be related to the onset of babies’ babbling. Several groups of researchers have performed studies that suggest that rhythmic arm movements are a way for babies to practice the skills that underlie repetitive babbling. That is, shaking a rattle back and forth produces highly redundant, multimodal feedback (i.e., the baby sees and hears the rattle) that will help babies become more aware that their actions produce sound patterns. This awareness will help babies produce similar repetitive sounds on their own, such as “babababa.” Who knew!

Crawling allows babies the independent skills necessary to physically follow social signals such as crawling over to an object that mom is pointing towards – an important skill for developing joint attention between babies and caregivers. The transition from crawling to walking leads to even more opportunities for communicative interactions between babies and caregivers. Research out of the College of Staten Island and New York University showed that mothers of walkers typically offer more “action directives” such as “Let’s stack the blocks” than mothers of crawlers, simply because walkers are capable of moving toward them carrying an object with their now-free hands.

Moreover, mothers of crawlers in their study were twice as likely not to respond to their babies’ bids for

Cognitive psychologist Tonya BergesonDana combines her real world experience as a mother with her professional training as a researcher to provide parents with a practical way to apply the most current findings in childhood development research to their everyday life. Tonya is also a co-founder of The Urban Chalkboard playcafe, and welcomes questions and feedback from readers at experiencematters@ theurbanchalkboard.com.

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ZooBoo Brings Even More Family Fun to the Zoo There’s no need to fear as summer draws to a close – just bring your wild things to see ours! One of the Indianapolis Zoo’s most beloved fall festivities, ZooBoo presented by Central Indiana Honda Dealers, is headed back with even more spooktacular activities, plus an extra weekend of fun!

Fall is already one of the best times to visit the Zoo with the animals out and active in mild temperatures. Add Halloween decorations, photo opportunities and all your favorite ZooBoo activities for a day your family will love!

From 2-7 pm for four thrilling weekends, Friday to Sunday from October 3-26, parents can bring their youngsters to

enjoy Halloween activities with a Zoo flair.

Along with the tradition of themed Dolphin Adventure Shows and animal chats throughout the celebration, this year’s event offers a few new games your group won’t want to miss out on!

Love a little competition? Go head to head with other families on the Brain Freeze Game Show from Circle City Game Shows, or race down Broomstick Alley presented by State Farm. Then stop by to see our elephant herd get into the Halloween spirit with the pumpkin splattering fun of the Elephant Pumpkin Smash.

Check out Macy’s ZooBoo Activity Center in the Party Pavilion for fan

favorites like Pumpkin Bowling presented by SmarTravel, the Spider Ring Toss and bounce house presented

by MetroPCS. Enjoy dancing to monster music, or getting a cookie to decorate too!

Little ones are encouraged to dress up in their favorite costumes and bring a reusable goodie bag for a small trick-or-treat adventure along the path of our Plains exhibits. To not scare our younger guests, full masks are only permitted for children ages 12 and under, but for those who need help enhancing their costume, just visit one of the talented artists at a face-painting booth!

Enjoy the bewitching fun of the Roller Ghoster presented by Outback Steakhouse and the carousel moving in reverse, our Round-Go-Merry presented

by Geico.

ZooBoo is included with regular Zoo admission and free to Zoo members.

Guests are encouraged to save time and money by planning their visit at IndianapolisZoo.com. Discount tickets are also available at Indianapolis-area Marsh and Indiana Members Credit Union locations.

Climb aboard the White River Junction Train presented by Marathon for an enchanted ride that includes some Halloween surprises and a special treat.

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>> Enrichment activities for the preschool crowd Sarah Bricker-Hunt

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f there’s one word that most accurately describes preschoolers, it’s “busy.” Not quite big kids, but beyond the wobbly toddler stage, preschoolers are constantly seeking new challenges and activities.

Indianapolis is home to a wide array of enrichment opportunities for this age range. Read on for a closer look at a few of these, and be sure to check out our Preschool Enrichment Guide as well!

The preschool age group covers a diverse range of abilities and interests. Consider where your child is in terms of his or her independence when selecting an enrichment activity.

Happier on your lap Many preschoolers are just not ready for an independent or parent-child class yet, but don’t worry. These little observers have plenty of enrichment choices, too. For example, Beef and Boards Dinner Theatre plays host to a “theatre for kids” series. For something even less formal, don’t be afraid to ask if you can observe a group music, gymnastics or art class. Your hesitant preschooler may feel more prepared to try something new after watching from the sidelines at first.

PHOTO CREDIT (LEFT) // SUMMER KEGERIS

Not quite ready to leave your side If your little one likes joining in on the action, but wants your company too, consider enrolling in a parent-child class. Options like Mommy & Me movement and music classes set the stage for fun and parental bonding while giving your preschooler an introduction to a class setting with their peers. Parent-child music options can be found at Musical Beginnings in Carmel or independently-led Kindermusik and Music Together classes all around town. Several local businesses offer preschool parent-child classes with various activity levels. Check out activitytree.com for an extensive list.

Independent spirit When your preschooler has reached the point of handling an independent class while you catch a break (or work on that errand list), consider options like dance or gymnastics classes, where parents generally aren’t required to observe class. There are dozens of outstanding choices in our area – see our list for a few notable options. Be sure to clarify drop off and pick up rules with your child’s instructor before signing up for a session.

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Nature kids Some kids just need to be outside – so find an activity that nurtures their wild side. Indianapolis is home to several nature-focused organizations that offer preschool programs throughout the year. Garfield Park Conservatory and Sunken Gardens offers affordable, occasional programs (usually monthly) for the preschool set, including upcoming fall classes like “Leaf Hoppers” and “Creepy Creatures.”

The Indy Parks and Recreation department offers special parent-child nature interactions and a preschool program called Nature Discovery and Natural History.

Uniquely Indy Several local preschool enrichment opportunities exist close to home that you simply can’t find anywhere else.

Take advantage of programs offered at uniquely Indy places like The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis. Here, kids can participate in rotating, free-with-

admission programs like “Experiencing Art Together” in the museum’s Playscape. The Indianapolis Public Library offers preschool story times at branch locations all over town as well as activities you might not equate with the library experience – music, movement, Lego Club and many others. Check out programs at other Indianapolis institutions such as the Indiana State Museum and the Indianapolis Museum of Art. Here, preschoolers can learn about local history, participate in science experiments and gain cultural awareness.

No matter which activity you and your preschooler choose, remember to relax and have fun. At this age, the very best enrichment activities are the ones your little one enjoys most.

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PRES C H OOL ENRI C H M ENT G UIDE Interesting, exciting activities for young children can be found all over town – here are some options to get you started!

ART AND MUSEUM PROGRAMS The Children's Museum of Indianapolis Indianapolis’s famous Children’s Museum offers a huge variety of preschool-friendly attractions. Don’t miss the Playscape, where interactive programs like “Experiencing Art Together” take place on a rotating basis. Free with museum admission.

3000 N Meridian St. Childrensmuseum.org (317) 334-4000

Indianapolis Museum of Art The Wee Wednesdays program is a caregiver-child program for ages 2-5 featuring pretend play, sing-a-longs, gallery art hunts and hands-on art activities.

4000 Michigan Rd. Imamuseum.org (317) 923-1331 Indianapolis Art Center This popular Broad Ripple attraction offers a variety of classes for even the smallest artist. Mommy, Matisse & Me and the Preschool Mixed Media offerings are perfect for preschoolers.

820 E 67th St. (317) 255-2464 Indplsartcenter.org

ANIMAL AND NATURE PROGRAMS Conner Pr airie Inter active History Park This historic site features fun kids programs like Prairie Tykes, a caregiver-child program that includes arts and crafts, music, movement and rotating educational activities.

13400 Allisonville Rd., Fishers (317) 776-6006 Connerprairie.org

Garfield Park Conservatory and Sunken Garden

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Gymboree Active preschoolers will love the offerings at Gymboree. Play & Learn, Music, Art, Sports, Family and School Skills classes are offered throughout the year and are targeted to the preschool set.

IU Natatorium

901 W New York St. (317) 274-3518 Iunat.iupui.edu

Indianapolis Zoo

YMC A of Gre ater Indianapolis

Indy Parks and Recre ation preschool progr ams Sign up for a variety of affordable sports and nature activities for active preschoolers.

Meridian Music

12725 Old Meridian St., Carmel (317) 575-9588 Meridianmusic.com

2505 Conservatory Dr. (317) 327-7580 Garfieldgardenconservatory.org

1200 W Washington St. (317) 630-2001 Indyzoo.com

Various Carmel locations (317) 815-9381 InternationalTalentAcademy.org

Meridian is the second largest music school in the state. Individual and group instrument lessons (strings, brass, piano, organ, woodwinds and voice) for preschoolers and beyond.

Rotating preschool enrichment classes are available like Jungle Tales, Backyard Nature, Leaf Hoppers and Creepy Creatures.

Check the zoo’s calendar for a list of themed activities that are sure to delight your animal-loving preschooler. The zoo has special events at Christmas, Easter, Halloween, a Party for Penguins and much more.

theater, show choir, early reading and writing, etiquette programs and more.

1001 N State Rd. 135, Greenwood 12524 N Gray Rd., Carmel (317) 885-9154 Gymboreeclasses.com

The Learn to Swim program teaches basic swimming skills to kids as young as 6 months old. A preschool class is offered as well. Kids five and up can participate in the highly acclaimed Swim America program.

Various locations (317) 327-PARK Indy.gov/parks

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The Y offers a full menu of activities sure to delight preschoolers. Fun, creative options include Edible Art, Little Engineers, Gym and Swim and sports and music classes. Classes at the Y are open to the public with members receiving priority registration and discounted fees.

Various locations (317) 266-9622 Indyymca.org

MUSIC AND PERFORMANCE International Talent Ac ademy Budding performance artists will love the offerings here. Classes for preschoolers are offered in music,

OTHER OPTIONS Indianapolis Public Libr ary Preschool story times, Lego Club, music, movement and much more.

Check the library’s online calendar for offerings at your local branch.

Various branch locations (317) 275-4100 Imcpl.org

The Urban Chalkboard Le arning Studios & Pl ay C afé More than a "kid friendly" coffee shop. With a host of activities and classes designed by moms who just happen to be PhD child-development experts, this is the perfect place for parents and their children to connect, get the most out of their relationships and grow together.

452 East Carmel Dr., Carmel Theurbanchalkboard.com (opening soon)

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Digging In Melissa Trumpey, Director of Public Events and Family Programs, The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis

It’s time to get out your pointed trowel, become an archaeologist and begin to search for clues about the past!

Archaeologists are scientific detectives – they examine artifacts, artwork, writing and other kinds of evidence about our past. You can discover the world of archaeology by visiting the National Geographic Treasures of the Earth exhibit at The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis.

The exhibit focuses on three unique archaeological finds – the terra cotta warriors from the Shaanxi province in China, Captain Kidd’s shipwreck located off the coast of the Dominican Republic and the tomb of Seti I in Egypt’s Valley of the Kings.

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On October 18, the museum is participating in International Archaeology Day. Visitors will be able to dig in to a variety of archaeological activities. They can interact with archaeologists and help answer some of the questions archaeologists often ask, such as: What is it? What was its shape? and What does it mean?

The museum’s Extraordinary Underwater Archaeologist-in-Residence, Charles Beeker, will be present at International Archaeology Day. Professor Beeker will share information about the archaeological work being done on significant historic shipwrecks in the Dominican Republic. Professor Beeker is the director of the Office of

Underwater Science in Indiana University’s School of Public Health.

Don’t miss your chance to learn from archaeologists doing field research, visit with Professor Beeker, see the work that is being done in the Archaeology Lab and visit the temporary exhibit, Terra Cotta Warriors: The Emperor’s Painted Army. (There is a small additional fee for this exhibit.)

Terra Cotta Warriors: The Emperor’s Painted Army is presented by Eli Lilly

and Company Foundation. Visit The Children’s Museum website at childrensmuseum.org for more information about International Archaeology Day and related programs.

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From apples and pumpkins to ghosts and ghouls, this season has it all!

Steffy McCourt

“I’m so glad I live in a world where there are Octobers.”

– L.M. Montgomery, Anne of Green Gables

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n Indiana, October lays itself down like a well-loved quilt, bringing friends and family closer together as the leaves and temperature drop. Ditch the rake, grab a sweater and head to one of these fun fall activities before the month is over.

The apple orchard beckons this time of year, with the crisp fall air rivaling the first bite of a Jonagold – still warm from the sun. Indulge your senses with a trip to one of the Hoosier state’s many orchards.

Just north of Indianapolis, take a hayride through Stuckey Farm to pick apples and enjoy a cup of hot cider while watching the cider mill make the very stuff you’re drinking. Or head to the home of the Guinness World Record Holder for the fastest apple picker at Adrian Orchards, just south of Indianapolis, where George Adrian picked 365 ½ bushels (15,351.5 pounds) of apples on September 23rd in 1980. Celebrate Adrian’s 89th season at the free Harvest Fest on October 4 -5.

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the proceeds right back to Conner Prairie, and it’s only open through October 31st.

For a more grown-up version of fall fun, trek down to Bloomington’s Oliver Winery to sample wines made from grapes grown right here in Indiana. Pack a picnic and spend the afternoon in the beauty of the well-planned and tended gardens. Be sure to take a free tour of the winery, and a free taste of the Beanblossom Hard Cider. Make it an event by spending the night at Scholar’s Inn Bed and Breakfast where the dessert tray that greets you is worth the cost of the room.

yourself to lead your family through a corn maze – the exit of the maze opens right up to the pumpkin patch!

Got little ones that need a little spooking?

Make a reservation for Peewinkle’s “The Slightly Haunted Puppet Studio” where a wacky witch entertains the young (even babies!) and young-at-heart with her Halloween puppet friends. Be sure to sign up soon, this tiny theatre fills up quickly!

And of course, the greatest show in October is right outside your front door. Visit one of Indiana’s incredible state parks for a hike or rent a canoe from Sugar Valley Canoe Trips and paddle down Sugar Creek. The overnight canoe trip will take explorers through Turkey Run and Shades State Park and under four historic covered bridges.

When it’s time to find the perfect pumpkin, head to Noblesville for Stony Creek Farm’s Pumpkin Harvest Festival taking place the entire month of October. Visit the pumpkin patch via the traditional hayride or make like a witch and fly over it via the 40-foot-high zip line.

With bounce houses, a pumpkin train, a haunted house and maze, along with a terrific assortment of fall food favorites, your family will be hitting the metaphorical hay completely satiated after a visit here.

Conner Prairie’s Headless Horseman cannot be missed. Running October 10-12, 16-19 and 23-26 from 6-9 pm, families can enjoy Conner Prairie’s historic grounds transformed into Conner Scairie.

Your calendar is sure to fill up quickly with all of the fun, local adventures waiting for you this October!

For a true farm experience, visit Brownsburg’s Hogan Farm to pick your pumpkin and learn about how a real farm operates. If you have never seen sheep dogs at work, this is your chance! And what a treat it is! All ages are sure to be entertained by how the dogs are able to corral the sheep in just a matter of minutes.

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“Conner Scairie is a monster world inhabited by comical, fun-loving ghouls. It’s been left leaderless… it’s up to the humans who visit Conner Scairie to elect the new mayor. Six of Conner Scairie’s illustrious citizens are vying to take control of this haunted town. Who will you vote for?” says Duane Brodt, Director of Public Relations at Conner Prairie.

In addition, families are sure to enjoy a haunted hayride, puppet show, movie and a mystic.

While at Conner Prairie be sure to stop by The Apple Store for a mouth-watering caramel apple; it’s run by volunteers who donate all of

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CHANGING S EASON S AND KIDS ON THE SPECTRUM // Planning ahead to ease this transition for children with autism Anti c i pate an d co m m u n i cate Parents can help ease the stress of the changing seasons by anticipating the type of assistance their child will need and communicating changes clearly.

“It’s important to try to keep to a routine and set clear expectations as you transition,” says Maren Oslund, licensed clinical social worker with Easter Seals Crossroads Using social narratives, including pictures and stories, can help prepare children for the changes ahead, while sharing daily and weekly schedules lets them know what’s coming next, she says.

G e t c r e ative Maggie Loiselle

While falling leaves, football season and the approaching holidays make autumn a much-loved time of year, the seasonal upheaval can be chaotic for children with autism.

Dropping temperatures mean more layers of clothes for kids who are often extra sensitive to itchy fabrics, while outdoor activities are replaced by overstimulating indoor options. The looming holiday season will also bring changes to daily routines, along with stressful activities, such as loud family gatherings.

“Any time that people start acting differently can be difficult for our kids,” says Dr. Cathy Pratt, Director of the Indiana Resource Center for Autism. “What we should do is not focus on how difficult it is going to be, but be prepared to help our children through the transition.”

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For children with autism who dislike fall’s heavier wardrobe or who relish the opportunity to exert energy outside, the cooler months bring difficult adjustments.

“A big part of it goes back to sensory challenges. If a child is sensitive to varying temperatures or different kinds of clothes, changing into a colder season can be very challenging to them,” Oslund says. She encourages parents to seek creative solutions to clothing aversions, including trying different fabrics and layering to help keep children both warm and comfortable.

Extra effort will also be needed to compensate for the loss of summer’s outdoor play options. “Indoor play spaces tend to be very overwhelming, with lots of kids and lots of screaming,” Oslund warns.

“The challenge parents face is trying to find activities that are not overwhelming but still get the child out of the house.”

She suggests seeking out sensory friendly options, including low sensory roller skating, indoor adaptive swim lessons or movies shown with the lights on and sound down.

Talk w ith r e l ative s When end-of-year plans include spending time with extended family, reaching out to them before a visit to discuss the challenges the season brings for your child can help relatives know what to expect.

“The most effective things parents can do is give digestible tips, like, ‘Christmas is coming up. Here are things not to say to my child,’” Pratt says.

“Don’t give a laundry list of tips. Focus on what’s most important.”

Email works well to share simple suggestions, complete with links to articles that provide more insight. Education is the main goal, Pratt stresses.

“It’s important that a child’s reaction to his or her environment is not looked at as just bad behavior or willfulness,” she says.

G e t co n n ec te d When dealing with the stresses of the changing seasons, parents should also ensure they’re making time to connect with their own support system, Oslund emphasizes.

“There’s a risk of families becoming more isolated during the colder months,” she says. “Parents need to be more intentional about finding connections with other people, getting involved with support groups and going to different events with fellow families.”

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// Helping to remove the barriers to classroom learning Maggie Loiselle

A smartpen that follows along with lectures. An app that types as you speak. For students who struggle with dyslexia, current technology can help them overcome considerable obstacles in the classroom.

Dyslexia is a language processing disorder, and the goal of assistive technology is to help eliminate the hurdles that dyslexic students face – including difficulty reading, trouble listening and writing at the same time and trying to put thoughts to paper.

“The latest technology is getting exciting,” says Melodie Hornickel, Director of Family and Tutor Services with the Dyslexia Institute of Indiana.

“You’re getting down to what the student really knows by taking away some of the obstacles to learning.”

H e lp w ith r e ad i n g Whether it’s a textbook or a Word file, dyslexic students often process and retain information better when they can hear what they’re reading.

Popular audiobook programs include Learning Ally, Audible and Bookshare, which are each available online and through apps, cataloging thousands of textbooks and other required reading.

“We import Bookshare files into an app called Voice Dream, which highlights the text as it’s being read,” says Nanci Sears Perry, founder of grassroots education group Decoding Dyslexia-IN and mom of twin high school freshmen sons who are dyslexic. “The boys can adjust the speed of the voice, which is great for students who like to ‘ear read’ a little faster or slower than the pace of the typical speaking voice.”

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When it comes to hearing electronic content, screen readers like Read&Write can vocalize everything from websites to worksheets, and Word also comes equipped with its own text-to-speech feature.

H e lp with n ote taki n g Taking notes in class can be a multitasking challenge for students with dyslexia, requiring them to listen and process at the same time, often while struggling with writing letters and spelling.

Fortunately, technology has advanced significantly since the bulky cassette recorders of generations past. In the iPad age, note taking help is wireless and discreet. “Some apps simply record the audio, while others put it back into print,” says Lisa Hoffman, Director of the Children’s Dyslexia Center of Indianapolis. “The student who struggles with auditory learning can listen and follow along with the text, which is so powerful.”

The Echo Smartpen by Livescribe, a wireless, lightweight pen about the size of a marker, records as a student writes on special paper and then allows them to go back to a specific spot in a lecture simply by tapping on their notes. “It’s probably one of the most exciting things I think to help with lecture note taking, and it’s great for study groups, too,” Hornickel says.

H e lp with wr iti n g an d s pe lli n g While students with dyslexia are often bright and creative, the process of putting thoughts to paper can be a challenge.

“For students who struggle with writing, something like, ‘The white stallion gallops,’ often changes to, ‘The horse runs,’ because it’s easier to spell and write, but you’re losing so much creative expression,” Hornickel explains.

With speech recognition programs like Dragon Naturally Speaking, students can say what they’re thinking and it is automatically turned into text. Some computers come pre-loaded with similar software.

Hornickel also recommends graphic organizers, such as Inspiration and Kidspiration, which help dyslexic students assemble their thoughts before they start writing.

Th e futu r e More options mean more opportunities for students with dyslexia to excel. Wearable, voicecontrolled technology like Google Glass could be the next frontier of assistive technology, with new apps developed every day.

“Technology in the classroom is much more accepted now than it was even just a few years ago,” Hoffman says.

“There’s a lot more understanding and awareness about dyslexia and how we can accommodate those students.”

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Joseph Maley Foundation Bowling Event Fundraiser Location: Stardust Bowl Time: 5:00 PM to 8:00 PM. Price:$35 per ticket www.josephmaley.org/ A bowling event organized by the JMF Junior Board of Directors for families with children of all abilities. The event proceeds will go towards "serving children of all abilities."

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Self-Regulation in Children: Keeping the Body, Mind and Emotions on Task Location: Caribbean Cove Hotel Time: 8:00 AM to 4:00 PM Price: $199.99 Single Registration - $189.99+ www.arnionline.org/index.php?option=com_content&vie w=article&id=11404:self-regulation-in-children-seminarindianapolis

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Children who have trouble self regulating throughout the day are missing out on typical childhood experiences in school, on the playground and with their families. This workshop looks at the underlying factors of poor self-regulation and how they affect the child.

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17th Annual Buddy Walk速 presented

by Down Syndrome Indiana Location: Celebration Plaza at White River State Park Time: 9:00 AM to 3:00 PM Price: FREE www.dsindiana.org/buddyWalk.php Gather to celebrate in beautiful downtown Indianapolis for the Buddy Walk速, a no-fee, non-competitive event open to all children and adults with Down syndrome, their families, friends and thousands of local supporters. Down Syndrome Indiana does encourage friendly competition in fundraising.

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Service Anmials and You Webinar Time: 3:00 PM to 4:00 PM. www2.gotomeeting.com/register/530843658 The United Spinal Association will present "Service Animals and You." Service animals play a valuable role in the lives of people living with a disability. This webinar will explore the importance of service animals and how they impact and affect a person's health and overall well-being.

Treat or Treat at the Autism Family Resource Center Location: Easter Seals Crossroads Time: 4:00 PM to 6:30 PM Price: Free www.eastersealscrossroads.org/family-resource-center

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Autism Family Resource Center Parents' Night Out: North Location: Broadmoor Country Club Time: 6:00 PM to 10:00 PM Price: $40 www.eventbrite.com/e/tapas-wine-jazz-tickets-12309234251 FAR invites you to TAPAS WINE and JAZZ fine wines, excellent food, the music of Janiece Jaffe and Curtis Cantwell Jackson, a silent auction featuring unique items and more to ensure a memorable evening for a great cause. All proceeds from the event directly benefit children and their families.

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The Arc of Indiana Annual Conference Location: Horizon Convention Center Time: 8:00 AM www.arcind.org/

FOR A FULL LIST OF EVENTS, VISIT WWW.INDYSCHILD.COM .

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SPECIAL NEEDS RESOURCES

SPECIAL NEEDS GUIDE ABA Autism Services by Damar ABA provides proven research-based treatments and interventions for children with Autism and their families, ensuring that children learn, gain confidence and purpose, and engage in meaningful interactions in their everyday lives. 9905 Fall Creek Road, Indianapolis, IN 46256, Contact: Kristin Dovenmuehle, Director, Phone: 317-813-4690, Email: info@damar.org, www.DamarABA.org

Applied Behavior Center for Autism Carmel The mission of the Applied Behavior Center for Autism is to provide high quality ABA and Verbal Behavior therapy and consulting services to children and their families affected by Autism Spectrum Disorders by using researched based ABA methodology delivered by highly qualified and certified professionals to increase language skills, social skills, academic skills, and reduce problematic behavior. 13431 Old Meridian St, Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Jenny Lanham, Phone: 317-573-KIDS, Email: jennyL@appliedbehaviorcenter.org, www.appliedbehaviorcenter.org

Applied Behavior Center for Autism Early Childhood Center This center houses some of our clients ages 2 to 6. At the Early Childhood Center, typical peers are also present, and therapeutic opportunities for interaction are incorporated into many of the children's individualized treatment plans. A program designed to facilitate transition into an on-site behavior analytic preschool program with typical peers is also offered to appropriate candidates. 7857 E. 88th St, Indianapolis, IN 46256, Contact: Jenny Lanham, Phone: 317.849.KIDS ext 112, Email: jennyL@appliedbehaviorcenter.org, www.appliedbehaviorcenter.org

BEHAVIORWORKS ABA Applied Behavior Center for Autism Indy North The mission of the Applied Behavior Center for Autism is to provide high quality ABA and Verbal Behavior therapy and consulting services to children and their families affected by Autism Spectrum Disorders by using researched based ABA methodology delivered by highly qualified and certified professionals to increase language skills, social skills, academic skills, and reduce problematic behavior. 7901 E. 88th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46256, Contact: Jenny Lanham, Phone: 317-849-5437, ext 112, Email: jennyL@appliedbehaviorcenter.org, www.appliedbehaviorcenter.org

Applied Behavior Center for Autism Indy West The mission of the Applied Behavior Center for Autism is to provide high quality ABA and Verbal Behavior therapy and consulting services to children and their families affected by Autism Spectrum Disorders by using researched based ABA methodology delivered by highly qualified and certified professionals to increase language skills, social skills, academic skills, and reduce problematic behavior. 6865 Parkdale Place, Indianapolis, IN 46254, Contact: Jenny Lanham, Phone: 317-849-5437 ext 112, Email: jennyL@appliedbehaviorcenter.org, www.appliedbehaviorcenter.org

ASD Services of Indiana ASD Services is dedicated to serving children through adults with autism or other diagnosis in their homes and in the community. Our mission is to teach each individual the skills they need to lead their most independent life.

Contact: Leah McKenzie, MS, BCBA Executive Director, Phone: 317-695-7876, Fax: 317-747-7786, Email: lmckenzie@ asdservicesofindiana.org, www.asdservicesofindiana.org

Autism Consultation Individually designed behavior and academic support and intervention strategies for families and children dealing with Autism Spectrum Disorders. With 35+ years experience in special education in public schools I am comfortable attending IEP meetings to advocate for the family and child. Introductory meeting at no charge. Providing service to central Indiana, Contact: Mika Adams, Phone: 866-968-3698, Email: mikaadams@sbcglobal.net, www.autismconsultation.net

Applied Behavior Center for Autism Greenwood

Behavior Analysis Center for Autism BACA

The mission of the Applied Behavior Center for Autism is to provide high quality ABA and Verbal Behavior therapy and consulting services to children and their families affected by Autism Spectrum Disorders by using researched based ABA methodology delivered by highly qualified and certified professionals to increase language skills, social skills, academic skills, and reduce problematic behavior. Address: 374 Meridian Parke Lane, Greenwood, IN 46142, Contact: Jenny Lanham, Phone: 317-889-KIDS, Email: jennyL@appliedbehaviorcenter.org, www.appliedbehaviorcenter.org

The Behavior Analysis Center for Autism (BACA) has four locations throughout Indiana. This includes BACA 1 and Prep in Fishers, BACA Z in Zionsville and BACA Hart in Elkhart. BACA uses the principles and procedures of Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) to teach language, social, self-help, academic, daily living and life skills to children ages 2-21 with autism and related disorders.

BACA was established by Dr. Carl Sundberg and a group of highly trained Board Certified Behavior Analysts.

11902 Lakeside Drive, Fishers, IN 46038, Contact: Devon Sundberg, Phone: 317-288-5232, Email: dsundberg@ thebaca.com, www.thebaca.com

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We work with you! BehaviorWorks provides Early Intervention for Autism and Indiana Medicaid Waiver Behavior Support Services. BehaviorWorks is a team you can grow with. We use the evidence-based strategies of ABA to create effective behavioral solutions. Are you looking for a fresh perspective?

Take action for positive change with BehaviorWorks.

8206 Rockville Road No. 146, Indianapolis, IN 46234 Contact: Ann Baloski, Executive Director, Phone: 317-4360037, Email: info@behaviorworksaba.com,

www.behaviorworksaba.com

Children's Dentistry of Indianapolis Pediatric dentistry for children and special needs patients of all ages. Our main priority is to make every patient & parent/ guardian feel comfortable and deliver the highest quality of care based on individual needs. We treat you like family! 9240 N. Meridian ste 120, Indianapolis, IN, Contact: Tina, Practice Manager, Phone: 317-580-9199, Email: childrens dentistrystaff@yahoo.com, www.indychildrensdentist.com

Children's Therapy Connection

Children’s Therapy Connection is a therapist-owned and family-operated pediatric therapy provider in Indianapolis. We strive to be the provider of choice in central Indiana for quality, comprehensive, and familycentered pediatric therapy services for families of children with disabilities. Services we offer include: First Steps, private PT, OT, and Speech Therapy, Social Skills/ Communication/Gross Motor Playgroups, Feeding Groups, Kindermusik, Apraxia Groups, Hanen Programs, and Therapeutic Yoga for Kids. Visit our website or follow us on Facebook to see how we are Connecting Kids with Their Potential! 7424 Shadeland Station Way, Indianapolis, IN 46256, Phone: 317-288-7606, Email: info childrenstherapy connection.com, www.childrenstherapy connection.com

Special Smiles Pediatric Dentistry Dr. Satterfield-Siegel is a Board Certified Pediatric Dentist specializing in providing dental care for infants, children and patients that have special needs. We provide routine dental care, fillings, in office sedations and hospital dentistry for all of our patients. We build long-lasting relationships with our families through active listening and understanding. New patients are welcomed! 10801 N Michigan Rd Suite 210, Carmel, IN 46077, Contact: Jennifer Satterfield-Siegel, D.D.S., Phone: (317) 873 3448, Email: info@specialsmilesdentistry.com, www.specialsmilesdentistry.com

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Ask the Teacher // Correcting a teacher, reasonable bedtimes, feeling unliked by a teacher Deb Krupowicz

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My daughter came home in tears because of a graded paper that had been returned to her with something marked wrong that actually appears correct. I can understand how disappointed she is, but I don’t know what to do about it. Is it out of line to call the teacher about her mistake?

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Look over the entire assignment with your daughter to be sure that she understands the concepts covered – paying close attention to those that were correct and to the one that was marked wrong. Verify that your daughter followed directions, spelled answers correctly and followed any other instructions that were required. If you agree that the answer she provided was correct, explain that the teacher may have made a mistake. By calmly discussing with her that everyone makes a mistake from time to time, you will be modeling the attitude that you want your daughter to use when she talks to her teacher about the situation.

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Talk over together what your daughter could say to her teacher about the answer she marked wrong.

Help her understand that how she phrases her comments can either be interpreted positively or negatively.

Role play to help your daughter feel confident about the discussion.

Emphasize the importance of using a respectful tone of voice.

Learning to approach her teacher in a way that is appropriate and respectful is a stepping stone to the important life skill of self-advocacy.

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What is a reasonable bed time for a second grader? My daughter whines every night that no one her age goes to bed as early as she does.

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Your daughter’s conclusion that no one else has the same bed time as her may actually be based on the comments of one other child!

However, even if every other child does not go to bed as early as she does, the hour that your daughter turns in may still be the best time for her.

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Choose a bed time based on the time your daughter needs to wake up and the amount of sleep she requires to be at her best. Most health care professionals recommend that children your daughter’s age get about ten hours of sleep; others suggest twelve hours is more appropriate. Based on your daughter’s needs, determine how many hours of rest she requires.

Show her how her bedtime is a logical conclusion based upon how much sleep she needs and when she must get up in the morning.

First, talk with your son about exactly what the teacher has said or done that makes him think she doesn’t like him. If your son cannot think of anything specific, then a conversation may be in order about how we cannot assume how others feel about things. Suggest that he make a list of ways the teacher shows that she does like him. Helping your son to focus on these positive actions may help him change his perception of how she feels about him.

Help your daughter understand that you will make decisions based on what is in her best interest rather than on what other people are doing.

This is a great opportunity for explaining that others’ opinions and practices may differ from yours simply due to the differences between families.

Should your daughter’s bed time whining continue, a consequence for the whining is necessary. Make the point that whining is a behavior of a tired child, and that she will need to go to bed fifteen minutes earlier any time that she whines about bed time so that she is rested enough to stay pleasant all evening.

My fifth grade son is convinced that his teacher does not like him. What should I do to help him understand that this isn’t true?

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Perhaps your son’s teacher does not like behavioral choices that your son has made. If he has been disciplined by the teacher, he may misinterpret her disapproval of his actions as dislike of him personally. Making that distinction is very difficult. Draw a parallel between the way that you feel about him when he misbehaves and the way his teacher does. A teacher’s care and concern for her students does not stop because a child is not perfect any more than a parent’s love does. A loving parent must discipline a child for poor behavior, and so must a caring teacher.

// Ask the Teacher is written by Deb Krupowicz, a mother of four and current teacher. Deb holds a Master’s degree in Curriculum and Instruction and has over twenty years of experience teaching preschool, elementary and middle school students.

Please send your questions to her at asktheteacher@indyschild.com.

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Indy’s ChilD Private School Open House Guide The Indianapolis area has a variety of quality options for families considering private schools for their children. Indy’s Child has gathered open house dates for the 2014-2015 academic year for several area schools. Prospective parents are always encouraged to contact schools to arrange tours outside of the formal open house dates. It’s a great idea to tour schools during the day to see the students in action, as well!

Lutheran High School

Open House: October 30, 2014 6–8:30 pm (Upper School)

(317) 787-5474 | www.lhsi.org Grades 9–12 Open House: November 12, 2014, 6:30 pm

St. Joan of Arc School

5555 S. Arlington Ave, Indianapolis

Midwest Academy 1420 Chase Ct, Carmel

(317) 843-9500 www.mymidwestacademy.org Grades 4–12 Call to schedule a tour.

The Oaks

Bishop Chatard High School 5885 Crittenden Ave, Indianapolis

(317) 251-1451 www.bishopchatard.org Grades 9–12

Open Houses: October 18, November 15, 2014 Guerin Catholic High School

15300 North Gray Rd, Noblesville

Open House: November 6, 2014, 5:30–8:00 pm

(317) 582-0120 www.guerincatholic.org Grades 9–12

Brebeuf Jesuit Preparatory School

Open House: November 9, 2014, 1–3:30 pm

(317) 524-7050 | www.brebeuf.org Grades 9–12

Heritage Christian School

2801 West 86th St, Indianapolis

Open House: November 2, 2014, 12–3:00 pm Cathedral High School 5225 East 56th St, Indianapolis

(317) 542-1481 www.cathedral-irish.org Grades 9–12 Open House: November 13, 2014, 5:30–8:00 pm The Children's House

2404 W. 62nd St, Indianapolis

317-253-3033 thechildrenshouseindianapolis.com Open House: November 3, 2014, 1–3:00 pm Covenant Christian High School 7525 West 21st St, Indianapolis (317) 390-0202 www.covenantchristian.org Grades 9–12 Open House: November 4, 2014, 7–8:30 pm Student shadow days are also offered.

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Brookside Campus: 3092 Brookside Parkway North Dr, Indianapolis

(317) 822-4900 www.theoaksacademy.org PreK–3 Call to schedule a tour.

Fall Creek Campus: 2301 North Park Ave, Indianapolis

(317) 931-3043 www.theoaksacademy.org Grades 4–8 Call to schedule a tour.

6401 East 75th St, Indianapolis

The Orchard School

(317) 849-3441 www.heritagechristian.net PreK–12

(317) 251-9253 | www.orchard.org PreK–Grade 8

Open House: November 11, 2014, 6:00 pm International School of Indiana

615 West 64th St, Indianapolis

Open Houses: November 2, 2014, 1–3:00 pm December 9, 2014, 8:30–10:30 am January 27, 2015, 8:30–10:30 am

Lower School: 200 West 49th St, Indianapolis

Our Lady of Grace Catholic School

Upper School: 4330 North Michigan Rd, Indianapolis

7200 North College Ave, Indianapolis

Open Houses: November 9, 2014 & February 8, 2015, 2–5:00 pm Legacy Christian School

470 Lakeview Dr, Noblesville

(317) 776-4186 www.legacychristianonline.org PreK–8 Call to schedule a tour.

(317) 283-1518 | www.sjoa.org PreK–8 Open Houses: October 17, 2014, January 25, 2015 St. Luke Catholic School 7650 N. Illinois St, Indianapolis

(317) 255-3912 www.stluke.org/school K–8 Open House: October 30, 2014, 9–11:00 am; January 26, 2015 (Time TBA) St. Richard’s Episcopal School 33 East 33rd St, Indianapolis

(317) 926-0425 www.strichardsschool.org PreK–6 Open House: January 23, 2015 Sycamore School

1750 West 64th St, Indianapolis

(317) 202-2500 www.sycamoreschool.org PreK - 8 Open Houses: Early Childhood: October 12, 2014, 1–3:00 pm PreK screening: February 7, 2015 Middle School: April, 2015 (Final Date TBA) Traders Point Christian Academy

(317) 923-1951 | www.isind.org PreK–3 Open Houses: October 16, 2014, 8:30–11:30 am & 4–6:00 pm November 18, 2014, 8:30–11:30 am & 4–6:00 pm February 26, 2015, 8:30–11:30 am & 4–6:00 pm

(317) 932-1951 | www.isind.org Grades 4–12

500 E. 42nd St, Indianapolis

9900 East 191st St, Noblesville

(317) 770-5660 | www.ologs.org PreK–Grade 8 Call to schedule a tour.

Park Tudor

(317) 415-2700 | www.parktudor.org Junior K–12 “See us in action” Mornings (8:30 am, Call to register): Early Education: October 23, November 14, January 12 & February 4 Lower School: October 24, November 11, January 16 Middle School: October 14, November 20, January 20 & February 27 Upper School: October 21, November 12, December 2 & January 15

6600 South Indianapolis Rd, Whitestown

(317) 769-2450 | www.tpcs.org Pre K–Grade 12 Open Houses: October 28, 2014, 6:30–8:00 pm January 26, 2015, 6:30 pm (Kindergarten Round Up Parent Night) February 10, 2015, 6:30pm–8:00 pm University High School 2825 West 116th St, Carmel (317) 733-4475 www.universityhighschool.org Grades 9–12 Open Houses: November 2, 2014, 2–4:00 pm, March 8, 2015, 2–4:00 pm Prospective Parent Breakfasts: October 8, 2014, 8:30–10:30 am November 12, 2014, 8:30–10:30 am January 14, 2015, 9–11:00 am April 21, 2015, 8:30 am–10:30 am

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E D U C AT I O N A N D CHILDCARE GUIDE [ S C H O O L S & E D U C AT I O N ] carmel Carmel Montessori Schools, Inc. Carmel Montessori School is located on the beautiful campus at St. Christopher’s Church on the NE corner of Main St. and Meridian in Carmel. Our directress is American Montessori Certified with 16 years head-teaching experience. We offer a beautiful, peaceful and positive Montessori learning environment. Extended days available. 1402 W. Main St., Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Emily & Scott Rudicel, Phone: 317-580-0699, Email: info@carmelmontessori.com, carmelmontessori.com

Clay Montessori A Montessori school offering morning, afternoon, and full-day programs. Available for ages 3-6 years old. Call for more information. (Affiliated with Fisher’s Montessori) 463 East Main St., Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Peggy White, 317-849-9519 or 317-580-1850

Starting Line Preschool The Right Start for A Lifelong Love of Learning! Our strong academic-based curriculum prepares and encourages your child to succeed in school while discoving learning is fun! * Develop Social Awareness & Friendships, Build Confidence and Master Academic Skills for Kindergarten. All of our classes focus on an introduction to colors, number and letters with exciting art and science projects. Math, social studies and sight words are taught in the older classes. 110 Third Ave NE, Carmel, IN 46032. Contact: Diane Atkins. Phone: 317-753-9397. Email: dkatkins22@msn.com, www.startinglinepreschool.com

fishers Fall Creek Montessori Academy Fall Creek Montessori Academy is a culturally diverse environment where children grow and develop their unique talents and gifts. Through child-centered learning, children excel physically, academically and emotionally. Conveniently located one mile east of I-69 on 96th St. FCMA serves children at all levels.

Programs are available two to five days per week. 8888 Fitness Ln, Fishers, IN 46037, Contact: Diana Brugh, Phone: (317) 436-8606, Email: diana@fallcreekmontessori. com, www.fallcreekmontessori.com

Fishers Montessori A quality learning environment offering preschool, kindergarten and elementary. Certification through American Montessori Society. 12806 Ford Rd and 131st and Allisonville Rd., Fishers, IN 46038, Contact: Peggy White, 317-849-9519 or 317-580-1850

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indianapolis // D OWN TOWN IUPUI Center For Young Children Spaces are available for 3-to-5-year-olds for the 2014-2015 academic year. Enroll by September 15, 2014, and the first four weeks of tuition will be 50% off. Call (317) 274-3508 to set up a tour. Please visit our website for more information.

321 Limestone, Indianapolis, IN 46202, Contact: Dave Sandrick, Phone: 317-278-7801, Hours: 7:00 am. - 6:00 p.m.; Monday-Friday, Email: dsandric@indiana.edu, www.childcare.iupui.edu, Ages/Grades: 3-5

PARAMOUNT SCHOOL OF EXCELLENCE Paramount School of Excellence is a tuition-free K-8 charter school that educates students in an innovative environment that instills high expectations for success. Paramount accomplishes its mission and teaches the mastery of Indiana State Standards through an emphasis on rigorous academics, technology and the environment. Integral to the school’s approach to education is school-wide use of computer technology, a green initiative, project-based investigations, community partnerships and three on-site Discovery Centers – an indoor Eco Center, Time and Space Center with a planetarium, and an urban farm. 3020 Nowland Ave., Indianapolis, IN 46201 Contact: Peggy Purvis, 317.775.6660, school@paramountindy.org, www.paramountindy.org

Brebeuf Jesuit Preparatory School You are invited to visit the only Catholic Jesuit school in the state of Indiana that has been educating students in the Jesuit tradition for more than 50 years. Brebeuf Jesuit’s Mission Statement: Brebeuf Jesuit, a Catholic and Jesuit school, provides an excellent college preparatory education for a lifetime of service by forming leaders who are intellectually competent, open to growth, loving, religious and committed to promoting justice. Fostering a culture of understanding and dialogue, Brebeuf Jesuit seeks and welcomes students from diverse religious, ethnic and socio-economic backgrounds. Students at Brebeuf Jesuit are called to discover and cultivate the fullness of their God-given talents as a responsibility and as an act of worship. CORE VALUES: Education of the Whole Person, A Caring and Diverse Community, The Greater Glory of God. 2801 W 86th St, Indianapolis, IN 46268. Contact: Liz Otteson, Director of Admissions. Phone: 317-524-7090.

Email: admissions@brebeuf.org, www.brebeuf.org

Bureau of Jewish Education The BJE challenges you child through a nurturing environment that stimulates creativity, community, learning through nature and outstanding academic programming.

Highly trained teachers emphasize both group and individualized learning in the classroom with encouragement throughout. Open to the public. Cost/Tuition: Call for more info; Financial Aid: Call for more info; Hours/Dates: 7:45 am to 5:45 p.m; Ages/Grades: 12 months to 6 years; Restrictions: None - open to the public; Uniforms/Dress Code: none; Before/After School Care: yes; Open House Dates: ongoing - will arrange family visit upon request. 6711 Hoover Road, Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Elaine Fairfield, Phone: 317-255-3124 ext 3704, Email: efairfield@ bjeindy.org, www.bjeindy.org

indianapolis // north Arthur M. Glick JCC Our loving caregivers and teachers demonstrate by example and encourage children to behave according to these values as the children are learning, playing and socializing with one another. The JCC embraces a learning-through-play teaching method to engage children in activities that promote creativity, accelerate learning and stimulate social interaction, all at each child’s individual pace. 6701 Hoover Road, Indianapolis, IN 46260, 317-251-9467, emills@JCCindy.org, www.JCCindy.org

Beth-El Zedeck Early Childhood Center Fall School Year. OPEN TO THE PUBLIC. Full Academic Curriculum and Innovative Arts’ Enrichment. Our Program recognizes that intellectual, social, emotional and physical development are interwoven. Our children will thrive on exploration, creativity, curiosity, discovery, spontaneity and more important, lots of love! Type of School: Early Childhood, Full Time/Part-Time/Flexible Hours, Ages: 12 months old+, 18 months old+, 2’s+, 3’s+, 4’s/PreK (3 day or 5 day program) and Full Day Kindergarten (5 full-day program) (8:50 am to 3:00 pm) Before School/After School Care available daily as needed for all ages: Early drop off as early as 7:30 am and late pick up anytime up until 6:00 pm/5:30 pm on Fridays. Call or email for brochure. 600 W. 70th St., Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Joanie Waldman, Phone: 317-259-6854, Fax: 317-259-6849, Email: jwaldman@bez613.org, www.bez613.org in.us

Children’s Circle Preschool at Second Presbyterian Church Children’s Circle Preschool is a developmentally appropriate, activity based, Christian preschool. We offer classes for children ages 9 months to 5 years old. We meet the needs of the whole child in a creative and loving environment. Our experienced staff embraces excellence in education by nurturing the whole child- physically, emotionally, spiritually, and intellectually. Please call for more information or to set up a tour. 7700 N. Meridian St., Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Cara Paul, Director, 317-252-5517, cpaul@secondchurch.org, www.childrenscircle.org

Children’s Day In Nursery School and Traditional Preschool The Children’s Day In traditional preschool and nursery school program provides a fully inclusive early childhood program with an emphasis on Christian values in a play based setting. It is designed to offer children ages 9 months to 5 years a positive and developmentally appropriate experience in the care of experienced teachers and caregivers. We play and learn! Classes are offered weekdays from 9 am to 2:30 pm. Children attend up to 3 days a week. 5500 N. Meridian St., Indianapolis, IN 46208, Contact: Christy Whaley, 317-253-0472, cwhaley@ meridianstreet.org, www.meridianstreet.org

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A Children’s Habitat Montessori School For over 40 years, A Children's Habitat Montessori School has been providing a place where children thrive and discover their love of learning. Habitat provides a traditional Montessori school experience for families seeking a half-day preschool and kindergarten, or full-day elementary program. We are a not-for-profit school based on the principles of Maria Montessori, and we are fully accredited by the American Montessori Society. For more information, visit our website: www.childrens-habitat. org. 801 W. 73 Street, Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Carmen Nieves, Phone: (317)726-5584, Email: info@ childrens-habitat.org, www.childrens-habitat.org, Type of School: Montessori, Hours/Dates: Monday - Friday Regular Day 8:30-11:30 Extended Day 11:30-1:30 Kindergarten 11:30-1:30, Ages/Grades: 18 months - 6 years, Before/After School Care: No

appropriate groupings of ages 5 to 7 year olds and 8 to 12 year olds. 8350 Ditch Rd, Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Bradley Wilson, Director, Phone: (317) 523-3478, Email: info@littlefriendsofgod.com, www.littlefriendsofgod.com

Meridian Hills Cooperative Nursery School Share your love of learning with your children. Founded in 1960 by involved parents like you, Meridian Hills Cooperative provides a positive, nurturing environment wherein children explore and learn by doing. Spacious classrooms. Beautiful, wooded playground. Caring, experienced staff of trained and degreed lead teachers.

Adult/child ratios 1:4 - 1:6. Find us on Facebook. 7171 N. Pennsylvania, Indianapolis, IN 46240, Contact: See Admissions/Tours Info Online, Phone: 317-721-2322, www.meridianhillscoop.org

The Children's House, inc The Children's House was founded in 1971 to provide a classical education through individual instruction. in an atmosphere free of competition, the child can discover her or his own unique talents on the way to becoming a self-actualized person. 2404 W. 62nd St., Indianapolis, IN 46268, Contact: Mary Sexson, Phone: 317-253-3033, Email: childrenshouse08@gmail.com, www.thechildrens houseindianapolis.com, Cost/Tuition: 2014 school year: preschool $5,500, elementary $6,500. Financial aid available to qualified registered applicants. Hours/Dates: 9 am to 3 pm Extended care also available 7 am-5:45 pm .

Sept. through May. Summer School/Summer Camp June through August. Ages/Grades: 2 1/2 years - 14 years of age, Before/After School Care: yes, Open House Dates: Sunday, November 9, 2014

Montessori Centres

Early Childhood Center, The Church at the Crossing

The Orchard School

Our Mothers Day Out (12-35 mos) and Preschool (3 yrs-PreK’s) programs provide relaxed, playful, secure environments that nurture creativity and encourage the exploration of God’s world, with a wide variety of learning materials & readiness skills woven through each unit. Need longer hours? Try our child care ministry, The Neighborhood, designed for 16 mos-PreK. 9111 N. Haverstick Rd., Indianapolis, IN 46240, Contact: John Drake or Kelly Belt, Phone: 317-575-6508, Fax: 317-5756509, Email: jdrake@golove.org or kbelt@golove.org

Peace and respect for all is our main goal. Montessori Centres has worked with children to develop criticalthinking and time-management skills since 1966.

Montessori-certified lead teachers serve children aged 3-3rd grade. Classroom structure and materials allow children to be self-directed and self-paced. Our well-rounded curriculum includes French and Spanish, art, science, computer skilles, grace and courtesy, social studies, nature and outdoor gardening. 563 West Westfield Blvd., Indianapolis, IN 46208, Contact: Lynn Boone, Director, Phone: 317-257-2224, Fax: 317-257-3034, Email: montessoricentres@sbcglobal.net, www.montessoricentres.com/

The Orchard School, an independent, non-sectarian, progressive school, emphasizing experiential learning.

Orchard teachers engage the natural curiosity of children, develop academic excellence, and provide leadership experience through well-rounded education. Orchard’s diverse community and commitment to multicultural education inspires responsible, global citizenship. Founded in 1922. NAIS, ISACS, NAEYS accredited. 615 W. 64th St., Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Kristen Hein, Director of Admissions, Phone: 317-713-5705, Fax: 317-254-8454, Email: khein@orchard.org, www.orchard.org

Heritage Christian School

Park Tudor School

Established in 1965, accredited through ACSI and NCA. HCS is the choice in college preparatory discipleship Christian education for 1,400 students each year grades Prep K – 12. Advanced, Honors and AP classes. Full Fine Arts and 2A IHSAA Athletics. HCS is training up the next generation of Christian leaders through challenging, Biblically taught curriculum including internships and service to others. Bus transportation available. Schedule a tour today! 6401 E. 75th Street, Indianapolis, In 46250, Contact: Rhyan Smith, Director of Admissions, 317-8493441, Admissions@heritagechristian.net, www.heritagechristian.net

Financial Aid: $15,330 for Jr. Kindergarten; $17, 760 for Sr. Kindergarten-Grade; and $18,830 for Grades 6-12.

Ages/Grades: Junior Kindergarten (ages 3-5) - Grade 12.

Uniforms/Dress Code: Dress code varies by grade level.

Before/After School Care: Before- and after-school care offered. Open House Dates: Visit web site for a complete listing. 7200 N. College Ave., Indianapolis, IN 46240, Contact: Cathy Chapelle, Phone: 317-415-2700, Fax: 317-254-2714, info@parktudor.org, www.parktudor.org

Little Friends of God International Childcare Ministry Our full-time childcare ministry offers the finest facilities available for children ages 6 weeks to school-aged. We offer an extensive school-age program for before and after school and planned activities to keep them busy with age

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St. Luke’s Early Childhood Programs St Luke’s Community Preschool is a weekday, developmentally appropriate and experience based program. Two well-trained, degreed teachers are in each classroom. Parents’ Day Out is a structured play experience that provides parents some time for themselves on a regular basis on M, W, Th, F. We provide a warm and loving Christian environment in which children can learn and grow. Tours available

upon request. Visitors welcome. 100 West 86th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Mollie Smith, Director, 317-844-3399, smithm@stlukesecp.com, www.stlukesumc.com

St. Richard’s Episcopal School SRES strives for academic excellence through its classic curriculum with innovative teaching methods; it also provides preparation and knowledge in areas such as faith, leadership, civic responsibility, and global readiness.

St. Richard’s offers a rigorous academic curriculum, three world languages, public speaking and leadership opportunities, a strong fine arts program and organized athletics for continued lifetime success. Our newly redesigned Early Childhood Program uses brain-based research and proven instructional practices that lay the foundation in math and literacy skills. The program features unique field experiences, community partnerships, year-round offerings, and a full-day curriculum along with part-time options. 33 E. 33rd Street, Indianapolis, IN 46205, Contact: Abby Williams, Director of Admission and Communications, 317-926-0425 x134, Fax: 317-921-3367, awilliams@strichardsschool.org, www.strichardsschool.org

Sycamore School At Sycamore, teachers trained in gifted education deliver a curriculum designed to challenge and engage gifted learners.

Art, music, Spanish, PE and technology are taught at all levels. Extensive field trips, athletics, child care, financial aid, and a wide variety of after school activities are offered.

1750 W. 64th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Dr. Susan Karpicke, Director of Admissions. 317-202-2500, Fax: 317-202-2501, skarpicke@sycamoreschool.org, www.sycamoreschool.org

indianapolis // south The Children's Cottage The Children's Cottage is a privately owned preschool, providing a loving and playful environment for toddlers thru school age children. Our compassionate and experienced staff offers a developmentally appropriate curriculum that stimulates creativity and promotes learning through play. Our small classrooms provide the individual attention your child needs and deserves. We are a paths to quality level three. Please call for more information or to set up a tour. 5935 S. Shelby St, Indianapolis, IN 46227, Contact Ann Derheimer or Echo Shepheard 317-787-2990

indianapolis // northeast Polly Panda Preschool & Bridgford Kindergarten

Polly Panda provides a safe and healthy environment which enhances each child’s total growth. Our themebased hands-on preschool program provides a widerange of experiences that foster learning, creativity and problem solving in all areas. A child’s sense of selfworth, independence and growth in social skills are developed through positive interaction with peers and our well-qualified and loving staff. 2944 E. 56th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46220, Contact: Gail Hacker and Tammy Clark, Phone: 317-257-9127, Email: pollypandaindy@ sbcglobal.net, www.pollypanda.com

multiple locations Indiana Council of Preschool Cooperatives: ICPC Indianapolis Area Preschool and Kindergarten Cooperatives Preschools: great for your child, great for you! Children and parents learn and grow together in the classroom with caring, experienced teachers. Multiple Locations in Indianapolis Area, ICPC Line: 317-767-7596

Maria Montessori International Academy Maria Montessori International Academy offers a child centered Montessori program allowing children to learn at their own pace and to be treated with respect. Children learn how to think for themselves and how to solve problems in original and creative ways and have a positive self-image.

Children participate in math, language, music, art, practical life, science, geography, and foreign language. The lead teachers possess bachelor degree and certification in Montessori Education. Offering programs for infants, pre-k, kindergarten and elementary. Indianapolis: 7507 N. Michigan Rd. 317-291-5557; Zionsville: 4370 Weston Pointe 317-7692220; Carmel: 3500 106th St. & Shelborne 317-733-9204, indymontessori@msn.com, www.mariamontessori-intl.org

westfield Montessori School of Westfield, Inc. Located on 3 wooded acres in Central Indiana, the Montessori School of Westfield adheres to the academic traditions of Montessori while serving the present day child. The Montessori School of Westfield serves children

from Indianapolis, Fishers, Carmel, Zionsville, Westfield, Sheridan, Noblesville, Cicero and Tipton. We serve children ages 18 months to 15 years. 800 E. Sycamore Street, Westfield, IN 46074, Contact: Mary Lyman, Directress, Phone: 317-867-0158, Fax: 317-896-5945, Email: montessori westfield@gmail.com, www.montessori schoolofwestfield.com

conducive to success, Providing specific directions and instructions, Acknowledging and encouraging each child’s efforts, Creating challenges and supporting children in extending their capabilities. The Indiana Foundations for Young Children will be a resource/framework for UP. Preschool Sites are at Boone Meadow, Pleasant View and Union Elementary Schools. 900 Mulberry St., Zionsville, IN 46077, Phone: 317-873-1251, Email: GROW@zcs.k12.in.us, http://zcsgrow.zcs.k12.in.us

z ionsville Advent Lutheran Preschool Advent offers a Christian learning environment for children ages 2 through 5, including a half-day kindergarten. Our wellbalanced program supports emotional, social, cognitive, physical and spiritual development. All children, regardless of faith or church affiliation, are welcome. Call to schedule a tour.

Registration is open for the 2014-15 school year. 11250 N. Michigan Rd., Zionsville, IN 46077, Contact: Deb Trewartha, Phone: 317-873-6318, Email: dtrewartha@ adventlutheran.org, www.adventlutheran.org/298544. ihtml; Type of School: Early Childhood; Hours/Dates: Mornings and afternoons Monday through Friday. See website for details; Ages/Grades: Ages 2-5; Mom's Morning Out, Preschool, Pre-K and day Kindergarten; Open House Dates: Call to schedule a tour.

Zionsville Community Schools Universal Preschool The ZCS Universal Preschool provides a hands-on learning experience, focused on the whole child, in an inclusive and supportive environment that ensures maximum child growth, for life-long learning.We will provide a quality program through: Organizing the environment so it is

[ childcare ] Peanut Butter and Jelly 24/7 Childcare PB&J is a childcare that is a safe, nurturing environment where your child will get the attention and care that he or she needs. We are licensed and always working to meet and exceed all health and safety guidelines. You can rest assured that your child will be cared for with the utmost kindness, love and respect . Open late for lots of flexiblity.

Stop in for more info. Follow us on twitter @ pbj247childcare. 5501 E. 71st Street, Suite 4, Indianapolis, IN 46220, Contact: Anita Beck. Phone: 317-205-9211, Email: peanutbutter_jelly18@yahoo.com, www.peanutbutterjelly.info

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Michelle Shirk

Breakdown A guide to breast cancer screening and early detection

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s a woman, it’s tough not to get nervous at the thought of someday receiving a breast cancer diagnosis. Fortunately, those who face this disease often survive and thrive, particularly when the cancer is caught early. According to the Breast Cancer Research Foundation, there are currently more than 2.8 million breast cancer survivors living in the United States alone!

We talked to Thomas Hagman, M.D., lead interpreting physician for mammography with Riverview Health, about some of the screening options available to women today. Read on to learn about five of the most popular tools for early detection of breast cancer.

B RE A ST SEL F EX A M What is it? As the name implies, a breast selfexam involves a woman looking at and feeling her own breasts and armpits to search for signs of breast cancer. Notable findings include lumps, thickened areas and skin or nipple retraction.

Who should consider it? Dr. Hagman encourages all women in their 20’s or older to perform monthly self-exams.

What else should women know? There is no longer an official recommendation that women do breast self-exams, says Dr. Hagman. However, “A significant number of breast cancers are first detected when a woman feels a lump.”

CLI N ICA L B RE A ST EX A M What is it? A clinical breast exam is an examination of a woman’s breasts performed by her health care provider.

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Who should consider it? All women age 40 and over should have an annual clinical breast exam, while women in their 20s and 30s need one approximately once every three years.

What else should women know? Doctors perform clinical exams to look for signs of cancer as well as to evaluate areas that patients have become concerned about during a self-exam, says Dr. Hagman. The downside? “Like any test, [clinical exams] can turn up benign abnormalities that have to be evaluated to make sure they are not cancer.”

GE N E TIC TESTI N G What is it? A lab test is run on the patient’s DNA, which can be obtained from either blood or saliva.

The test searches for mutations of the BRCA1 and BRCA2 genes. Women with these mutations have a “markedly increased” risk of breast cancer plus an increased risk of certain other cancers, says Dr. Hagman.

Who should consider it? Women who have been diagnosed with breast or ovarian cancer at a young age as well as those with a concerning family history may be candidates for genetic testing.

What else should women know? Dr. Hagman believes women considering this option should receive genetic counseling both beforehand and afterward to ensure testing is the right decision and they understand the potential results.

M A M M O GR A M What is it? A mammography machine gradually compresses a woman’s breast

against a platform. Pictures of the breast are taken using low-dose x-rays.

Who should consider it? “Most women should get mammograms every year beginning at age 40,” says Dr. Hagman. Some women should begin earlier due to risk factors such as family history or a genetic tendency toward breast cancer.

What else should women know? “Most women are surviving breast cancer, in large part due to early detection from mammograms,” says Dr. Hagman. Unfortunately, mammograms do carry a risk of false positives. Typically additional mammography or an ultrasound will clear up any uncertainties, but sometimes the patient must undergo a biopsy as well.

MRI What is it? During an MRI examination, the patient must lie face down on a table that slides inside an

MRI scanner. Contrast dye given through an IV helps doctors detect potential abn-ormalities. This test uses a magnetic field and radio waves to take pictures of the breasts.

Who should consider it? “Most women do not need an MRI,” says Dr. Hagman. However, the approximately 2% of women who have a high level of risk should undergo an MRI annually.

What else should women know?

Breast MRI is the most sensitive screening test. It can find breast cancers even before they are detectable by mammogram or ultrasound. Still, an ultrasound can be considered as an alternative if an MRI can’t be performed because the patient has claustrophobia, a pacemaker or some other issue, says Dr. Hagman.

Dr. Hagman. If you think you may be at high risk for breast cancer, he recommends talking to your doctor to see if any other screening tests should be added to your regimen.

Ease your mind and celebrate National Breast Cancer Month by making an appointment today!

[Additional Source: www.bcrfcure. org/breast-cancer-statisticsresources]

Not sure where to start after reading about so many options?

“Yearly mammograms should be the basis of any screening program,” says

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Stepping into Step-Parenting Megan Noel

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he step-parent/step-child relationship can be a delicate one.

If you’re new to this role, it can seem like every day brings unexpected challenges. Here are a few tips to keep in mind as you find your place in this new family dynamic.

Handling difficult emotions “Kids and step-parents can both feel jealous and competitive about the biological parent just married,” says Melody Stiles, licensed clinical social worker and Indianapolis private practice therapist. “And if there is a difficult relationship with the ex, kids can get caught in loyalty binds and end up feeling confused and angry.” As a new step-parent, being patient with children’s various emotions, and your own, can help keep your reactions in check.

Suggestions for navigating this new territory

Easing the transition If children are moving between two different households, with new step-parents (and possibly new step-siblings), they can feel as if their worlds are being turned upside down. Early on in the process, try to maintain established routines in as many areas of the children’s lives as possible. Be sensitive to how any changes that must be made will be received.

Forming a relationship Rather than expecting an instant bond with your new step-child, give the relationship time to grow naturally.

Stiles cautions that it can be tricky to remember that your role, in most cases, is not to replace your step-child’s biological parent. Take things slowly and plan activities the family can do together to strengthen connections.

Dealing with negative behavior Children react to change in a variety of ways. “If kids become quiet, sullen, whiny or display rebellious or regressive behavior, these are signs that the situation is stressful,” says Stiles. “It doesn't necessarily mean the attitude is permanent. Everyone needs time to adjust.” Make sure that kids are getting enough alone time with their biological parents. When spending time with your new step-child, listen to their interests and find ways to share in them.

Talking without judgment Be very careful about how you discuss your stepchild’s other biological parent. Even if that relationship is difficult, a child can still feel allegiance to him or her.

If your spouse has negative comments to make about the other parent, resist jumping in. Your new step-child needs to see that you won’t partake in an “us” versus “them” situation.

Many step-parents will agree that forging a relationship with new step-children can be very difficult (see comments from our readers) but the rewards can be great as well. As a new step-parent, you have the opportunity to play an important role in

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the life of a child undergoing a significant life-changing event. With patience, understanding and perseverance, the process can lead to a meaningful relationship for everyone.

We asked Indy’s Child Facebook readers who were stepparents for their advice to those new to the role. Here’s what they had to say: It's not always like the movies! Sometimes you don't feel that instant connection with a step child, and that's ok....don't wait for them to come to you… Hug them every day and tell them how thankful you are to be a part of their life! The connection will grow and grow!! – Jamie S. When you and your spouse are on the same parenting page, the step-child will see no gap in which to divide and conquer. Be gentle. LISTEN. Find something to bond over. I love my stepdaughter like she is my own kid. I don't ever refer to her as my "step" daughter. She's my daughter…

I tell [her] that I wish I could've seen her first steps, heard her first word and held her hand on her first day of school because I love her that much. She tells me stories that she remembers from when she was younger, it helps us grow together sharing stories like that. – Rebecca D. Be patient. Be honest. Communicate to your spouse, don't hold anything in because it can start to divide the family with resentment. Stay out of any issues with the ex, that's a big one. Put yourself out there and let your step child know how you feel about them, it may take them awhile to reciprocate but at least they will know they are part of your world and you love them. Include them in everything. – Jessica M. Love and treat them like your own but remember there is another parent that they belong to. Be sure to develop a good relationship with that parent, do not step on their toes but let them see your love for the children. – Amanda V.

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calendar W edS 01 The Witches Time: 6-7 p.m Price: Free Phone: 317-432-8352 Location: Central Library Auditorium yatkids.org Where imaginations run free, and the magic is real: The Witches is a creepy, family-friendly shows that pushes the boundaries of creativity.

www.fishersrenfaire.com Celebrate and experience the period of 16th-century Renaissance at the 10th annual Faire! Experience the golden age of Queen Elizabeth I at The Fishers Renaissance Faire.

There will be over 250 costumed characters, jousting by the Knights of Valour, period music and dance, Shakespeare vignettes, roving comedy, swordplay, knighting ceremonies, parades, and over 70 artisans and merchants, many food vendors, and free kid’s games.

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Holy Name Oktoberfest Time: 5 p.m.

Price: Free Phone: 317-784-5454 Location: Holy Name of Jesus Catholilc Church Parish www.holyname.cc/parish/oktoberfest/ Oktoberfest 2014 is the main festival event and fund-raising venue for Holy Name of Jesus Catholic Church parish. A lively and entertaining street festival in the heart of Beech Grove, Oktoberfest draws revelers and families from across the Indianapolis area. It's a weekend devoted to food, fun and fabulous prizes. The well-known Indianapolis bands, the Flying Toasters and Polkaboy will be performing once again this year.

Fantastical: Down the Rabbit Hole Time: 2:30-5 p.m.

Price: $35 adults, $15 youth until 9/20 Phone: 317-432-8352 Location: Biergarten at the Rathskellar yatkids.org Join us for an Alice in Wonderland themed fundraiser supporting our scholarship fund.

Come dressed as your favorite Alice in Wonderland character, sample delicious tea with the Mad Hatter, search for the Chesire Cat, visit the Queen of Heart's beauty shop, get a spray on tattoo from the White Rabbit, view a show by NoExit Performance, bid on the silent auction, and dance the day away to fun music.

S at 04 Circle of Lights Auditions Time: 9 a.m.-12 p.m.

Price: FREE Location: Electrical Training Institute www.indydt.com/COLAuditionNotice.cfm Calling all entertainers, singers, musicians, dancers, choral groups and more – you’re invited to audition to perform at the 52nd annual Circle of Lights® presented by the Contractors of Quality Connection and Electrical Workers of IBEW #481, which takes place on Monument Circle in Downtown Indianapolis on Friday, Nov. 28. Auditions will be recorded and made into an RTV-6 Circle of Lights® audition special.

S AT 04 – SUN 05 Fishers Renaissance Faire Time: 10 a.m.-6 p.m.

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Mon 0 6 Indy Word Lab Time: 7-9 p.m.

Price: FREE Location: Indy Reads Books www.meetup.com/IndyWordLab/ Indy Word Lab is an experimental writing group that has been described as, "what writing workshops are SUPPOSED to be."

Join us every first Monday for this free event, whether you're a seasoned writer or just starting out.

T ues 07 Community Tuesday at the Indiana State Museum Time: 10 a.m.-5 p.m.

Location: Indiana State Muesum www.indianamuseum.org/events/ details/id/1349 Start the month off right by joining us for Community Tuesday. Guests will receive a 50% discount off standard admission fees on

// OCTOBER 2014 the first Tuesday of the month. Please note that this discount is good for full-fee admissions only, and cannot be redeemed in conjunction with any other discount or promotion.

T hurs 09 Doubleclicks Concert Time: 7-9 p.m.

Price: $8 Phone: 317-384-1496 Location: Indy Reads Books http://thedoubleclicks.com The Doubleclicks, a folk-pop sister duo from the Internet, will be playing at Indy Reads Books in Indianapolis on Thursday, October 9. The Doubleclicks are a nationally-touring, Billboard charting nerd band with a cello, a meowing cat keyboard, and songs about dinosaurs, Cats and Netflix, space and Dungeons and Dragons. Their YouTube videos boast over 2 million.

FREE Crouching Tigers Demo Time: 10:30-11 a.m.

Price: FREE Phone: 888-761-5151 Location: Flanner House Library www.crouchingtigers.com Join founder, Olivia Roney Spahn, and the Crouching Tigers team for a 30 minute lesson filled with punching, kicking and storytelling Just for kids ages 2-7. Crouching Tigers is a martial arts and resilience building program for young children. In this free session, children will learn some basic martial arts skills and self-defense.

Holliday Park Fall Break Fun Day Time: 9:30 a.m.-3:30 p.m.

Price: $20/child Phone: 317-327-7180 Location: Holliday Park Nature Center www.hollidaypark.org If you are looking for a fun and educational outdoor adventure during fall break, this is a day for you! We will learn about the animals that call Holliday Park home, where to find them and how they survive. Using hands-on learning, participants will explore the park and will even get to meet some animals up-close! For children ages 6-12, preregistration required.

Zombie Makeup Time: 3:30-4:30 p.m.

Price: FREE Phone: 317-839-6602 Location: Plainfield Public Library www.plainfieldlibrary.net/ Zombies have taken over the library! Learn how to create realistic looking wounds with zombie makeup made from common household products.

F ri 10 Danny Gokey with Special Guest Brianna Caprice Time: 7 p.m.

Price: $15 - $30 Phone: 317-733-4833 Location: Zionsville Performing Arts Center www.ZvillePerformingArts.org ‘American Idol’ Alum Danny Gokey performs at Zionsville Performing Arts Center. Gokey brings us the music of his new album Hope in Front of Me, and other favorites. You don’t want to miss this show as Gokey delivers a potent collection of songs brought vividly to life by his warm, soulful voice.

Black Hat Bash Time: 6:30 a.m.

Price: $19.50, adult; $18.50, seniors (60 and older); $14.50, youth (2-17). Children under two are free Phone: 317-334-3322 Location: The Children's Museum of Indianapolis www.childrensmuseum.org Come one, come all to this enchanting event--the third annual Black Hat Bash! This hair-raising hullaballoo is back, and it's a soiree so spirited that it's supernatural!

Costumes encouraged! Halloween hilarity throughout the museum, Fab-BOO-lous food stations from area restaurants, Spellbinding spirits and beautifully batty beverages, Crazy costume runway show, Dance to tunes played by a devilish DJ, Lights-on and frightening hours tours of the Haunted House.

S at 11 Chocolate Fest Time: 12-4 p.m.

Price: $15 at door; kids under 12 are free Phone: 317-925-4043 Location: Indiana State Fairgrounds http://chocolatefestindy.com/

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Join us at Chocolate Fest for a sweet celebration supporting local arts in education programs. For $15 (or $12 if purchased ahead of time), sample sweet treats from more than 20 of our favorite local vendors including Louise’s Sweets, Best Chocolate in Town, and Sun King Throughout the day we will have arts programs, live performances, and food trucks. See you there.

Ghost Stories at Crown Hill Cemetery Time: 7:30-10 p.m.

Price: $5/Children ages 5 - 12, $20 for adults, $50 Family Pass - all those living Phone: 317-828-7855 Location: Crown Hill Cemetery www.storytellingarts.org/113.html Join us among the headstones for a night of tales of the dead and the undead. Pack a picnic or pick up dinner from a variety of food trucks at the event, and bring your cooler, lawn chairs and blanket. Stories are appropriate for older children. Rain or shine.

Indy Family Fest Time: 9 a.m.-4 p.m.

Price: $12 per family of 4 Location: Indiana State Fair Grounds Expo http://indyfamilyfest.com Indy Family Fest is the ultimate day to celebrate families! Entertainment, giveaways, parent panels, shopping, demos and over 30 hands-on activity stations will delight all ages.

Each hour, ten lucky attendees will receive a “swag tote” filled with amazing products!

Sun 12 Walk to End Alzheimer's Time: 12 p.m.

Phone: 800-272-3900 Location: Military Park The Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer’s® is the world’s largest event to raise awareness and funds for Alzheimer’s care, support and research. Held annually in more than 600 communities nationwide, this inspiring event calls on participants of all ages and abilities to reclaim the future for millions.

Together, we can end Alzheimer’s disease, the nation’s sixth-leading cause of death.

T hurs 16 – S at 18 Holliday Park Hauntless Halloween Time: 5:50 to 7:30 p.m. on Thursday and 5:50 until 8:00 p.m. Friday and Saturday Price: $8/adults, $6 children 12 and under, children two and under are free Phone: 317-327-7180 Location: Holliday Park Nature Center www.hollidaypark.org Join Holliday Park and Booth Tarkington Civic Theater for an enchanted evening of family fun! Families will hike along candlelit trails to visit with some forest inhabitants who have come alive for these very special evenings, then venture back to the nature center to enjoy a campfire, refreshments, crafts and more! Hikes start every 10.

Pre-registration required.

F ri 17 – S at 18 Oktoberfest on the Farm Time: 12-7 p.m.

Price: $10, children 10 and under free Phone: 317-733-1700 Location: Traders Point Creamery www.traderspointcreamery.com Celebrate Oktoberfest at Traders Point Creamery with a whole hog roast, German biergarten, fresh farm fare, PolkaBoy band, artisan farm market, hayrides, pony rides, and fun farm activities for the whole family.

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#BigDrawIndy Time: Friday: 5-9 p.m. & Saturday: 10 a.m. to 4 p.m.

Price: Free Phone: 317-232-1882 Location: Eli Lilly Hall | Eugene and Marilyn Glick History Center www.indianahistory.org When was the last time you drew just for the joy of it? We’re turning Lilly Hall into a giant art studio. From creating a part of a large mural to form the shape of the Hoosier State

to crafting leaves for a public art piece for TEDxIndianapolis to using a historic photo as a starting point, you’ll find different stations and mediums to entice you into expressing yourself.

S at 18 Conner Prairie at Dawn Time: 7-10 a.m.

Price: $10 nonmember, $9 member Phone: 317-776-6000 Location: Conner Prairie Interactive History Park www.connerprairie.org For photographers, artists, bird watchers and early risers During Conner Prairie at Dawn, we will open the grounds early to adults looking to explore our beautiful setting.

Guests are welcome to take photos, paint, sketch, hike or simply enjoy our natural setting before the park opens to the public.

Space is limited and is available only to guests age 18 and older.

SUN 19 Disney Live! Mickey's Music Festival Price: $28 - $96 Location: Bankers Life Fieldhouse www.bankerslifefieldhouse.com/ event/2014-10-19-disney-live-mickeysmusic-festival/ Mickey Mouse and friends rock the world with the stars from The Little Mermaid, Aladdin and Disney/Pixar’s Toy Story in their new touring show Disney Live! Mickey’s Music Festival. Disney hits are remixed to the hottest sounds of today featuring hip hop, pop, swing, reggae, rock, country and much more!

F ri 2 4 Hocus Pocus and Candy Bar Time: 6-8 p.m.

Price: FREE Phone: 317-839-6602 Location: Plainfield Public Library www.plainfieldlibrary.net/

Join us for a free screening of Hocus Pocus for Halloween. Halloween night is in for a fright after three 17th century witches are conjured up in present-day Salem, where they brew a hilarious cauldron of mischief and mayhem.

Sun 26 Disney Junior Live on Tour!

Pirate and Princess Adventure Price: $20-$55 Phone: 800-745-3000 Location: Old National Centre http://oldnationalcentre.com/ In this original storyline, Mickey and Minnie lead the audience on an exciting adventure that will have families rooting for their favorite pirate Jake and Disney's first little girl princess Sofia. Disney Junior Live On Tour!

Pirate and Princess Adventure begins with a special interactive pre-show featuring the loveable 6-year-old doctor to toys and stuffed animals, Doc McStuffins. Children and their parents will sing “The Check-Up Song” along with Doc as she provides tender love and care.

Holliday Park Fall Festival Time: 1-5 p.m.

Price: Free Phone: 317-327-7180 Location: Holliday Park Nature Center www.hollidaypark.org Celebrate autumn during the annual Holliday Park Fall Festival! Join us between 1:00 and 5:00 for a campfire, crafts, refreshments and fun fall activities.

Halloween Happenings at Natural Valley Ranch Time: 2-5 p.m.

Price: $35/family up to 6 people. $5 each add'l person Phone: 317-852-6615 Location: Natural Valley Ranch www.NaturalValleyRanch.com/ FamilyFun.html Goblins and ghosts of all ages including youth groups, scout troops and families are invited

to come out in their Halloween finery for a fun evening complete with costume contests.

And there will be a haunting good time with Halloween activities for all ages. In addition to costume contest prizes there will be door prizes Bonfire, hayrides, petting zoo, catch and release fishing and much more.

T ues 28 Monster Mash Time: 4:45-5:45 p.m. and 6:45-7:45 p.m.

Location: Carmel Clay Public Library Storytime Room www.carmel.lib.in.us For children in grades 1-5. Join us for an action-packed, spine-chilling, crafty Halloween party. Costumes are encouraged!

Clowes 4 Kids – Charlotte's Web Time: 10-11 a.m.

Price: $15 Children and Adults Phone: 317-940-6444 Location: Clowes Memorial Hall of Butler University http://cloweshall.org/ This production of Charlotte's Web is based on E.B. White's loving story of the friendship between a pig named Wilbur and a little gray spider named Charlotte. Wilbur is a pig with a problem Unless he gets some help, he is sure to wind up as pork chops on someone’s dinner table Thank goodness for his true friend Charlotte who devises a solution that just might save him.

// ONGOING EVENTS Trick-or-Treat at the Library Time: 5:30-7:30 p.m.

Price: FREE Phone: 317-839-6602 Location: Plainfield Public Library www.plainfieldlibrary.net/ Dress up in your favorite costume and Trick-or-Treat throughout the library This family program is designed to provide a safe, dry place to Trick-or-Treat in the Plainfeild community. Visit with library staff and other business and organizations to pick up candy and freebies. All are welcome.

"The Slightly Haunted Puppet Studio" October 11th Through 16th Time: 10:30 a.m.-1 p.m.

Price: $12 Under two free Phone: 317-917-9454 Location: Peewinkle's Puppet Studio www.peewinklespuppets.com Witch Gertrude will let you into her kitchen and even let you meet her ghoulishly funny marionette friends.

Halloween ZooBoo October 3rd Through 26th, Occurring Every Fri, Sat & Sun Time: 2-7 p.m.

Price: Included in Zoo admission; free for Zoo members Phone: 317-630-3265 Location: Indianapolis Zoo www.indianapoliszoo.com/ Guests can get into the festivities this fall with an extra weekend for ZooBoo Enjoy Zoo activities with a Halloween twist From family games and treats to the Elephant Pumpkin Smash your family will have lots of spooktacular fun.

Fall Exhibition Series Opening Occurring Daily Time: 6-8 p.m.

Price: Free Phone: 317-255-2464 Location: Indianapolis Art Center http://indplsartcenter.org/exhibitions/ future/ "Not A Cup: Sculptural and Conceptual Ceramics," an exhibition of ceramicists working outside the boundaries of functional claywork. Recent Futures: Work by Harry William Sidebotham II," Sidebotham presents paintings that play with the concepts of geometry, op-art, and tonal scale Headless Horseman at Conner Prairie October 10th Through 26th Time: 6-9 p.m.

Price: $10 advance/$12 gate Thursday+Sunday; $14 advance/$16 gate Friday+Saturday Phone: 317-776-6000 Location: Conner Prairie www.connerprairie.org Join Conner Prairie for this popular fall festival as we transform our beloved grounds into “Conner Scairie”, a haunted land inhabited by fun-loving ghouls all vying for your vote to be elected "Mayor" after their former leader, Lord Moldy Wart accidentally and irreversible turned himself into a cute, fuzzy, bunny with an errant spell. Enter the gates, if you dare, to meet Conner Scairie’s fun-loving ghouls. Catch Beautisha the cosmetics-loving witch as she conjures magical beauty tips with the audience.

Meet Dr. Acula, PhD – the vampire expert of Magic, Monsters and All Things Pertaining to the Underworld and be sure to attend his Magical Creatures show.

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Holliday Park Beastly Brunch Time: 10-10:30 a.m.

Phone: 317-327-7180 Location: Holliday Park Nature Center www.hollidaypark.org What is your favorite breakfast food? The animals at Holliday Park love crickets, worms and even mice! Come see the nature center animals eat and learn all about these cool creatures. All ages, no registration required.

The War of the Worlds Time: 6:30-8:30 p.m.

Price: $3, free for IHS members, required registration Phone: 317-232-1882 Location: Frank and Katrina Basile Theater, Indiana History Center www.indianahistory.org Prepare for Halloween night with a dramatic – and spooky – evening. We are staging a reading of the 1938 radio play The War of the Worlds in honor of its 76th anniversary on the stage of our Frank and Katrina Basile Theater. The War of the Worlds, a science fiction novel by H.G. Wells written in the late 1800s, was developed into a 62-minute radio play as well as several films.

Terra Cotta Warriors Exhibit Through November 2nd Cost: See website for ticket pricing Phone: (317) 334-3322 Location: The Children's Museum of Indianapolis www.childrensmuseum.org/ An army of thousands, buried for centuries, protecting an emperor's tomb - come see the Terra Cotta Warriors in their only U.S. appearance in 2014! Examine more than 100 ancient artifacts and enjoy hands-on interactives that will let families become part of the research team and explore the scientific research underway that helps us picture the army in its original vibrant colors.

Old National Centre Farmer's Market Occurring Each Friday in October Time: 11-2 a.m.

Price: free Phone: 317-536-6514 Location: Old National Centre www.facebook.com/pages/Old-NationalCentre-Farmers-Market/205906462952051 The Old National Centre invites you join our venue for the first year of our Farmer’s Market. Located just outside of Mass Ave, our goal is to promote and support local farmers, bakers, and crafters, as well as bring locally created goods to the hands of downtown Indianapolis.

Rhythm! Saturday Programs Occurring Each Saturday Phone: 317-275-9030 Location: Rhythm! Discovery Center http://rhythmdiscoverycenter.org/ Rhythm! offers a special program every Saturday of every month! From drum circles, to concerts, to instrument building, to very special events, Rhythm! will be your home for educational and interactive events every Saturday.

Children's Museum Guild's Haunted House: Creepy Carnival October 11th Through October 31st Price: $7; Xtreme Scream tickets are $12 Location: The Children's Museum of Indianapolis www.childrensmuseum.org/hauntedhouse Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, step right up for the ride of your life at the Creepy Carnival, the Children’s Museum Guild’s 51st Annual Haunted House! From the midway to the sideshows, this carnival of characters will have you squealing with fright and delight.

The Haunted House offers IPL’s Lights-On Hours (for children who scare easily) and Defender Direct’s Frightening Hours (with the lights off, for children who dare to be scared).

XTREME SCREAM late nights take fright to the next level on select Friday and Saturday nights for super-brave visitors.

Monday Madness Occurring Each Monday Location: Carmel Clay Public Library Storytime Room www.carmel.lib.in.us For children in grades 1-5 on their own.

4:00-5:00 p.m. and 6:30-7:30 p.m. Monday, October 6: Minecraft; Monday, October 13: Build It; Monday, October 20: Glow in the Dark. If you like on-your-feet action and making your brain cells spark, join us for Monday Madness at the library! This isn’t your traditional storytime – no sirree, Bob. We’ve got madcap activities lined up back to back to back for an hour of nonstop fun.

PLEASE NOTE // At Indy's Child, we work hard to ensure our calendar and guide information is accurate.

Occasionally, event specifics change after we go to press.

Therefore, we encourage our readers to call locations or visit them on the web to verify information.

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