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November 2009 table of contents

RESOURCES

ADOPTION 101

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mom’s night out

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the benefits of boarding schools

* NEWS & SHOPPING

News You Can Use: Seminars, Dog Art and Music

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* Health & Wellness

PEDIATRIC HEALTH: Juvenile Diabetes

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women’s health: Inside Scoop on Infertility

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Special needs awareness: Working Together

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* Around Town

Arts & enrichment: Cultural Kids

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Profile: Cincinnati Museum Center

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* Commentary & Parenting

PUBLISHer’s NOTE: Happy Birthday, Cincinnati Parent

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This Just IN: Teaching Thanks

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dear teacher: Bossy, Unhappy and Bilingual Kids

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my parent. my mentor.: Money, Money, Money

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teens & tweens: From Holiday Kids to Holiday Helpers

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Adoption & fertility Guide

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Private school open house guide

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childcare & Education Directory

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calendar

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classifieds

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November is “National Inspirational Role Models Month.”

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Happy Birthday, Cincinnati Parent Celebrating 25 Years!

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an you believe that this issue marks our 25th anniversary of publishing Cincinnati Parent Magazine?

We have def initely come a long way and plan to serve the Greater Cincinnati Area for another 25 years.

I would like to share with you some of the exciting new plans we have made as we enter our 25th year. Soon we will kick-off our weekly e-newsletter that will be published and emailed each week to all subscribers. It will be sent out each Wednesday to help parents plan for the upcoming weekend and will include the best family events taking place throughout the Greater Cincinnati area.

tuned for details, but we guarantee that it will be a fantastic free event for your entire family. Our readers are the glue that holds our magazine together and we cannot thank you enough for being loyal readers and utilizing our advertisers who fund the printing and distribution of Cincinnati Parent. We hope that you will let our advertisers know that you found them through an ad in our magazine.

The e-newsletter will also offer an exciting weekly contest such as tickets to local museums, events and family getaways throughout the Midwest. You will also find tips on how to save some green and how to be green. Make sure to check out the December issue for information on how you can subscribe to our new e-newsletter.

We have had many readers ask how we are able give the magazine away free. The truth is that our advertisers make it all possible. It is a great little “circle” in which everyone benefits. Our advertisers pay to promote their programs, events, schools and stores to our you and in turn you use Cincinnati Parent each month to find out what is going on in the city, to learn the latest local parenting and family trends and to find needed resources through our advertisers. We are very grateful for our advertisers who help make Cincinnati Parent a valuable resource for all parents in the Greater Cincinnati area.

To extend the celebration, we will be hosting a 25th anniversary party for our readers next summer. You will have to stay

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Teaching Thanks

Teaching Our Little Ones to be Thankful, All Year Long As I was thinking about what to write for this article, it came to me. It’s November, and Thanksgiving is right around the corner. Last night, my son’s tooth fell out.

He’s f ive. It was his f irst tooth, so it was def initely a big deal to him but it was an even bigger deal to mom and dad. Immediately, my husband and I started discussing what the going rate is for a tooth. When I was a kid, I got a quarter. So, I f igured a buck was fair. My husband said since it was his f irst tooth, we should give him f ive dollars.

Five dollars?! It’s his f irst tooth. What will he expect when tooth number f ive falls out? So we compromised, and The Tooth Fairy brought Connor two dollars.

Two dollars still seemed like a lot to me but we were trying to find a happy medium. It wasn’t about the money. It rarely is. I spend more on a cup of coffee at Starbucks on a daily basis, but I want my boys to appreciate all that they have and not just the month of Thanksgiving, but for the rest of their lives.

Everywhere we go, there’s candy and toys. When was the last time you went to McDonald’s and didn’t buy the Happy Meal for your child? Half of the time my boys don’t even eat the Happy

Meal! So, in reality, I’m paying Everywhere we go, there’s candy and toys. When was the four dollars for a Happy Meal toy.

Getting through a check-out line last time you went to McDonald’s and didn’t buy the Happy is one of the most grueling things we parents do. “No you can’t Meal for your child? Half of the time my boys don’t even eat have a candy bar.” “No we’re not buying a match-box car.” “No. the Happy Meal! So, in reality, I’m paying four dollars for a No. No. No. No.” I feel like I say it all of the time, but I don’t Happy Meal toy. want to. I love giving to my kids. babysitting at eleven and I got a work permit in them go hungry. Birthdays and holidays are I do worry if we give too much, our children will grow up simply expecting things order to become a waitress at fifteen. I have been celebrations to most of us, but for them, it’s working ever since. I cleaned houses, ironed just another day, and it does not include gifts and never truly appreciating them. shirts, taught cheerleading lessons, anything I or cakes nor does it include tables filled with I still find myself telling my parents and in-laws could do in order to make money. I honestly endless helpings of food. to cool it on the gifts. My oldest son was the first think that’s the one quality that is missing in grandchild for both my mom and mother-in- so many kids today. Because we give them Luckily, a lot of children will never know law, so every visit from them brought Connor so much, they have no real work ethic. They that life, but that doesn’t mean they shouldn’t another “surprise.” It got so bad that years later, don’t want to buy their own cars or pay their understand that it exists. It’s certainly not easy when they’d stop in he’d say, “What surprise did way through school. And if they have to pay to say no. I’m terrible about it on some days. for college because parents can’t afford college But perhaps if we are mindful of all the little you bring me?” I would cringe. tuition, many of them are resentful. things, the money from the Tooth Fairy will When I was young, my family didn’t have the help our kids understand what Thanksgiving is money for toys and treats all of the time. My Every day, I drive through a neighborhood really all about. parents were good to me, but we usually didn’t where kids are playing ball in the middle of a Sheree Paolello is the Main get a gift unless it was our birthday or Christmas. city street. They’re in danger of getting hit by a Anchor for News 5. Beyond the Some years we’d get new school clothes, but if car because their playground is the street. The Desk, she’s a wife and mother of two boys. we didn’t have the money, we didn’t. That’s best meal these kids get daily is their school just the way it was. In order to help, I started lunch. When the weekend comes, many of

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Harlequin Haven in Bethel, Ohio, had an idea to raise money to help care for their homeless dogs—dog-made art. What began as a project without great expectations blossomed into an endeavor producing art works eagerly sought by buyers. Mozart, a Great Dane rescued by Harlequin Haven, found an outlet through art. His art is not only beautiful, it contains a message against puppy mills and irresponsible breeding, and for spay/neuter.

Mozart was purchased at the Ohio Amish Dog Auction but was discarded shortly after at a county dog pound. As a “product” of a Mennonite dog breeder, Mozart was terrified and didn’t know what to expect of humans and life outside a cage—he had been raised as livestock rather than as a pet.

Harlequin Haven Great Dane Rescue came to Mozart’s rescue. Mozart began painting with his paws less than 2 years ago, and his work continues to mature. His art work raises much- needed funds for HHGDR and helps bring attention to the plight of those dogs homeless and in puppy mills. Paintings are available at exhibitions and through the Rescue Web site at http://www.hhdane. org/mozart The Rescue is an all-volunteer-run 501(c)3 charity.

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Cincinnati Civic Orchestra to Perform in Springfield Township The Cincinnati Civic Orchestra will be performing their annual holiday concert at Springfield Township’s Grove Banquet Room on Sunday, December 13, beginning at 3 p.m.

This year’s performance is entitled An American Christmas and will feature many of your favorite classics including “White Christmas”, “The Christmas Song” and Leroy Anderson’s “Sleigh Ride” mixed in with more modern holiday hits, including “A Charlie Brown Christmas”, “I Want a Hippopotamus for Christmas” and songs from the “Polar Express.” The concert is a free and family friendly event. The Cincinnati Civic Orchestra has provided Greater Cincinnati area musicians the opportunity to play classical, light classical and pops music in a full symphony orchestra since its founding in 1929. All members are volunteers, including those with extensive professional training and experience.

The Grove Banquet Hall, 9158 Winton Road, is located at the rear of the Springfield Township Administrative Complex, behind the Senior/Community Center. For more information on this or other activities sponsored by the Springfield Township Senior and Community Center, contact them at 522-1154 or at the Township website – www.springfieldtwp.org

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Juvenile Diabetes

More Common Than You Might Think Juvenile diabetes is the most common autoimmune disease in which insulin-producing cells are destroyed and is affecting children. This condition may be detected through a routine physical examination, urinalysis or illness.

“Symptoms you would notice at home are excessive thirst, peeing a lot, no longer being able to sit through class or your favorite movie before you have to go to the bathroom, tiredness, headache, bellyache, abdominal pain, lower energy level or an overall sense that your child is not feeling well,” lists Dr. Nancy Crimmins, assistant professor of pediatrics and endocrinologist at Cincinnati Children’s Hospital Medical Center.

Type 1 diabetes comes from genetic predisposition and environmental influence but there is no prevention.

“If you have a family history of type 2 diabetes, you should work hard to keep your child active, keep his weight under control and watch what he is eating,” encourages Crimmins. If your child has been diagnosed, you may be fearful of hypoglycemia or low blood sugar but can be proactive. “We recommend drinking juice or getting carbohydrate intake prior to a soccer or basketball game,” says Crimmins.

Educate your child about juvenile diabetes. “The important thing for kids to know is that these kids are just like them. They are no different; they just need medicine and shots to stay healthy,” says Crimmins.

There is no reason children with juvenile diabetes cannot fit in with peers. “They live healthy, normal lives. It is a challenge but we expect really good things and have hope for these kids that we did not have twenty or thirty years ago,” insists Crimmins.

The medical community has made progress in dealing with juvenile diabetes. “Within the last couple years, we have started using glucose censors and glucose monitors which are devices that can measure glucose every couple of minutes and give readings. They are inserted under the skin and are really important in catching high and low blood sugars before they happen,” explains Crimmins. There is also a study going on at Cincinnati Children’s Hospital Medical Center called Trialnet. “The purpose is to test

children for the antibodies that cause diabetes down the line, if they have a first degree relative with the condition, to establish what their risk would be,” shares Crimmins, principal investigator.

There is hope for the future. “We ultimately would like to try to combine the technology from the glucose censors to the glucose pump to the insulin pumps to create an artificial pancreas.

The idea is that the glucose censors would be able to tell the insulin pump what the blood sugar is so it could deliver insulin accordingly,” tells Crimmins.

If you suspect your child has juvenile diabetes, it is advised to schedule a visit at the diabetes center. “None of the primary care doctors treat diabetes but we are very skilled in treatment and management, so your child would be in good hands at Children’s.

We are ranked fourth in the nation for endocrinology and diabetes by the U.S. World and News Jamie Lober’s passion is for health promotion and disease prevention. As a speaker and author of Pink Power (getpinkpower. com), she has empowered others to modify health behavior through knowledge.

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Inside Scoop on Infertility Advances in Fertility Treatments

The Pirate, Princess & Potato Pancake Party You may be frustrated to think that you could be part of the fifteen percent of the population who is unable to get pregnant or just wonder what it means to be infertile.

“The strict definition of infertility is having unprotected intercourse for one year without conception,” shares Dr. Michael Fesenmeier, obstetrician/gynecologist at Seven Hills Women’s Health Centers.

Before assuming a medical issue, gynecologists advise to time intercourse. “Ovulation is typically fourteen days prior to the end of the cycle. Many women forget that the first day of the cycle is their first day of bleeding. I typically recommend that women have intercourse on days twelve, fourteen and sixteen in order to find the time of ovulation,” advises Fesenmeier.

The cause is evenly divided between male, female and unknown factors. For males, sperm count may be low. Incidence of infertility tends to increase as women age. “We worry if they are ovulating, or if their hormones are imbalanced enough that they make an egg every month,” says Fesenmeier.

Disorders like polycystic ovarian disease can affect ovulation. “We also worry if their anatomy is normal, or if their uterus and fallopian tubes are open so egg and sperm can get together and get back to where they are supposed to be in the uterus,” expresses Fesenmeier. History of surgery, pelvic infections, endometriosis or sexually transmitted diseases can hinder fertility as well.

Your gynecologist plays an essential role in overcoming infertility. He may perform a workup including semen analysis, pelvic exam and taking medical history. Afterwards, he will determine appropriate treatment such as medication like Clomid to regulate ovulation or surgery to unblock tubes. “If the male sperm are low, you may work with a urologist or reproductive endocrinologist to get the sperm count higher or move on to intrauterine insemination where you take the sperm of the man and directly inject it into the uterus,” explains Fesenmeier. Treatment is individualized. “The rewarding part of being an obstetrician/gynecologist is that once you help couples, you get to carry them through the pregnancy and see the delivery of the child. We are also happy when someone gets to the limit where we refer them to a specialist and they come back so we can participate in their pregnancy,” shares Fesenmeier.

Do not be afraid to turn to your partner for support. “A lot of women are trying to handle the stress of checking basal body temperatures and pregnancy tests and it is not something to handle alone. It can be hard on your relationship,” acknowledges Fesenemier. We can be proud of how far reproductive medicine has come. “In today’s world, there are options that were not available twenty years ago.

There are new tests like the over-the-counter ovulation predictor kit and I think most people are aware of in-vitro fertilization and intrauterine insemination that have come about in the last five to ten years,” reiterates Fesenmeier. When you know the inside scoop on infertility and have an open relationship with your gynecologist, you will find that conception can be just a treatment away.

Jamie Lober’s passion is for health promotion and disease prevention. As a speaker and author of Pink Power (getpinkpower.com), she has empowered others to modify health behavior through knowledge.

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Working Together

A Parent’s Role in Learning Teachers are invested in understanding the way children’s minds work in order to create strategic learning environments for today’s diverse classroom population.

Equally as important, is the role of the parent as observer and nurturer of their child as a learner.

in school, including full sentences. It should also include opportunities to discuss issues in the news, to share opinions, to elaborate on experiences, all of which will build and refine thinking and verbal communication skills.

These two groups, teachers and parents, when working together, can significantly increase a child’s development – academically, socially, and psychologically. While the focus of educators and parents is usually on what can further be done at school to improve the academic success of the student, there is also the challenge for parents to provide an optimal home environment that supports and encourages further development.

Parents may also want to monitor what occurs during “freetime” activities. While downtime is important, making sure that a portion of the unstructured time is filled with cardioplay, using the imagination, and other nonelectronic stimulation is critical for growth and development of the whole child. In today’s society children tend to gravitate toward electronic games, television and the computer instead of creative play (like conjuring something up in the kitchen with you) or important outdoor play like bike riding and exploring nature.

Parents often need information and strategies to both support their children at home and advocate for them at school.

So what can a parent do to foster intellectual development within the home? Start by being excellent observers of your child as a learner and achiever. It is in this observation that you will come to know particular strengths, shortcomings, and areas of talent and natural inclination. As you gain insight into your child’s distinct profile, you will be better able to discuss areas of difficulty with the teacher and encourage areas of strength with your child.

It is through greater understanding of your child that strategies can be employed to improve areas of weakness and sharpen affinities.

Parents can also act as a bridge to instill intellectual content into the home environment.

Read, learn, discover together! Life at home should include the same type of language used

And finally, parents can build a collaborative partnership with the teacher so that what is learned at school can be reinforced at home. Having an open line of communication and sharing observations on both ends of the home-school connection will ensure that the needs of the child are being addressed. Never hesitate to share insights about your child, situational changes that may inhibit learning, or particular successes and affinities. These communications enhance the academic, and social-emotional health of your child.

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Culture Kids

Raising Kids to be Citizens of the World My grandparents are having a hard time keeping up with their 13 grandchildren. From San Francisco to New York, France to Africa and Pakistan soon enough, they marvel at how we “young people” maneuver our way through the world.

in helping our children know that it’s okay to recognize differences that we all have and that it’s okay to talk about them,” says Kara Wright, founder of Mindhearted, Inc., a diversity education company for parents.

diverse people, we are putting them at a disadvantage.”

Maureen Healy, founder of the worldwide organization Growing Happy Kids and author of “365 Perfect Things to Say to Your Kids,” due out in January, feels that raising culturally aware kids doesn’t have Despite Grandma’s legitimate worries to be complicated, but should start with about our ability to stay truly connected parents having a genuine interest in other to good friends, us grandkids, ages 20 parts of the world. to 39, are globally mobile. Among the great tasks of our lives will be to raise “Get a globe. Get a puzzle. Start to talk a generation of global citizens who may about the calendar year, or different types well view the world as their hometown. of food and music. There are kids all around the planet and [your kids] might want to Jackie Rowedder, principal at the learn how other kids learn,” Healy offers.

Academy of World Languages, says raising kids to have a global mindset is There are infinite ways to help raise “massively important.” kids who compassionately think about cultures different from their own, “As small as the world is becoming whether within or beyond the borders of because of technology and all of the our great 50 states. Here are just a few wonderful tools, it’s so much more ideas experts recommend: frequent that you interact with people from other cultures,” says Rowedder, Start the dialogue. “Talking about concepts like respect and whose student population consists of differences early in our children’s kids from 42 different countries. “If we lives can be as natural as talking don’t prepare kids to be able to work with to him or her about eating and

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Examine yourself. Wright also says that raising globally conscious kids who respect differences requires parents to tell the truth about what we see and examine our own values, beliefs and understanding for want we want for our children.

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Eat a cross-cultural cuisine.

The way to a kid’s heart is through his or her stomach, and it seems the Academy of World Languages agrees. Thanks to a USDA grant, the school has started a fresh fruit and vegetable program that incorporates education about the region from which the food came. The students may spend a week eating fresh foods that are native to Puerto Rico and learn about that part of the world through the food and elsewhere in the curriculum. What a great idea, and one that can transfer to home chefs too.

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Attend an international festival.

Share cultures informally by food, music and costume at local international festivals, such as Panegyri Greek Festival, that are held throughout the year.

sleeping. It is an important factor

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Get a pen pal. Work with your child’s teachers to encourage international pen pals to learn more about how kids live in other parts of the world. Pen pals can communicate via Skype or the old fashioned way - email.

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Celebrate holidays from other cultures. What a simple thing that can provide insight into the history of a culture or religion. The library is a great resource for discovering what and how other cultures celebrate.

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Watch foreign films. Seeing a story that is written and told in a language other than our own provides an often beautiful and sometimes jarring way to learn new points of view from those who live in other countries.

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L ea r n a not her la ng uage.

Learning a foreign language is more than learning how to say words in another tongue; it’s a new way of looking at the world.

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and house rules. But as parents, we are the ones who model to our kids how to respond to different cultures.

Sometimes that requires some soul searching of our own as parents.” How true.

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Allow kids to find their own way.

Janice Yester-Beyer, mother of three bi-racial children and author of the children’s book “Zebert The Rainbow Striped Zebra,” says her children had a hard time choosing a peer group to fit into as they did not want to offend either their African American mom or German dad. “I don’t think that parents should force their children to integrate with other kids; it should be a natural thing, and it will turn into a natural thing if parents open their kids up to different experiences and different people.”

Rowedder sums up the need for raising culturally aware kids when she says, “If parents can teach their kids to be accepting and to put aside their own thoughts and feelings as being the right way as opposed to being one way, that would probably be pretty powerful no Host exchange students or hire an matter what side of the globe you’re coming au pair. LiLing Pang, co-founder from.” I happen to agree. and editor of travel review website Trekaroo, says, “There is nothing like living with someone of a different culture to get to learn about their culture. Undoubtedly, your guest will break some of your social norms

Carrie Bishop is a freelance writer and mother of two young sons, whose daily antics inspire her work and her life.

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Uncover the secrets of Egypt

Cincinnati Museum Center Takes Visitors Back in Time Egyptian

Let Cincinnati Museum Center take you back thousands of years, to the wonders of an ancient past. This fall, uncover the secrets of Egypt with the new exhibit, Lost Egypt: Ancient Secrets, Modern Science and the companion OMNIMAX® film, Mummies: Secrets of the Pharaohs.

For centuries, Egyptian mummies have remained a mystery. Lost Egypt shows us what modern medical and forensic science can tell us about them. We know the Egyptian people created some of the world’s most astonishing art and architecture. Learn about it through theatrical sets, props and hands-on activities. The exhibit also features a full-size model of a camel that has lovingly been named Sarah. Be sure to bring your camera!

Share your pictures with Sarah on Museum Center’s Facebook page.

Lost Egypt is FREE for Museum Center members, and admission for non-members is included with the purchase of a Museums Pass.

Continue your journey through ancient Egypt in the Robert D. Li nd ner Fa m i ly OMNIMAX® Theater with the film, Mummies: Secrets of the Pharaohs.

Learn about the awesome 19th-century find of 40 hidden royal tombs, and what modern science can tell us about these incredible discoveries.

Mummies: Secrets of the Pharaohs f lashes back to tell the story of the pharaohs, of the first Egyptologist who was determined to uncover the tomb of a true pharaoh, and how that determination led him past the Valley of the Kings to a remote cave that yielded one of the greatest finds in history. Mummies also presents modern explorations of the genetic information scientists hope to obtain. Could DNA from a 3,000 year old mummy help doctors and

scientists find a cure for diseases today? It just might be possible!

Center kicks off the Passport to the World series with Latin American Culture Fest on November 21 and 22. Surround yourself with Hispanic music, dancers, arts, crafts and more. See a variety of performances representing Mexico, Argentina, Peru, Colombia, Brazil, Cuba and Panama. In addition to all the sights and sounds, you can learn about Latin American culture through interactive activities and shop for authentic goods in our bustling marketplace.

Also, this year by popular demand Museum Center will feat u re L at i n American food; sample recipes from all over the region for a nominal fee.

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Lost Egypt was produced by COSI in cooperation with the Science Museum Exhibit Collaborative, and was built by the Science Museum of Minnesota. Photography © 2008 Brad Feinknopf.

November 21 and 22 is also the opening weekend for Cincinnati’s favorite holiday tradition, Holiday

Junction! Visitors, young and old can explore miniature train displays presented by local model train clubs and collectors. Listen to carolers and storytellers and participate in hands-on craft activities. As always, children can ride the Cincinnatian train through a special holiday scene and after Thanksgiving, Santa Claus will be stopping by the exhibit so bring your cameras!

Remember to look for special holiday programming throughout the museums, and while your here check out the Toys Through Time exhibit in the Ruthven Gallery.

It’s free!

Whether you’re traveling around the globe, or celebrating the holidays, Cincinnati Museum Center has it for you this fall.

For up to date programming information and schedules, visit www.cincymuseum.org.

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Adoption is described as an incredible, joyful, ut terly raw emotional ride that brings new life to a family and family to a life.

Adop t ion 101 Your Guide

to Understand ing Adopt ion

Adop t ion

is described as an incredible, joyful, utterly raw emotional ride that brings new life to a family and family to a life. Yet, for all the joy, love and potential of adoption, adoption itself is very much a legal process that f irst-time adoptive families need to understand as they begin this new journey.

Fortunately, good agencies and attorneys are available right here in Cincinnati and throughout the country that can help you maneuver the legal side of adoption and provide counsel on the social or emotional parts of it as well. It’s because of these resources that 1.5 million adopted children are living in the United States, according to Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Institute. That’s over two percent of all children in our nation.

Strictly speaking, adoption is a legal process that creates a lifelong relationship between a parent and child who are not biologically related in which the child becomes a legal family member with all the rights and privileges of a birth child. All kinds of families are able to adopt, so long as they provide a loving, stable and secure family for the child. Adoptive persons can be married, single, divorced or widowed, and may or may not have other children. They must be at least 18 years old with a stable income. Adoptive persons can own or rent their home and can have any level of education. They can be heterosexual or homosexual (in all states except Arkansas and Florida). All prospective adoptive families must of course pass an in-depth analysis called a homestudy in order to be deemed f it for adoption. More on that later.

Types of Adop t ions Families can come to adopt in many ways. There are private agency adoptions, independent adoptions, public children services agency (PCSA) adoptions and international adoptions.

Private agencies can be non-prof it or for-prof it and must be licensed by the state.

Independent adoptions place children with adoptive parents through an attorney. PCSA adoptions place children who are in state care with adoptive parents, though these children can also be placed in homes through private agencies as well. International adoption is, as it sounds, the adoption of children from other countries. Private adoption agencies usually handle these types of adoptions.

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Select ing an Agency or A t torney Before committing to an agency or attorney, you should have a good understanding of the type of child you want to welcome into your family. This will require honest soul searching. Why do you want to adopt? Do you have what it takes to raise a special needs child? Is adopting an infant what’s most important to you? Are you looking to raise a child from another country? If so, which country?

Once you have answered these types of questions for yourself, start interviewing agencies and attorneys until you f ind the right f it for your family. Questions you will want to ask include: How many children and what type of children do they typically place? What is the fee schedule? How does the agency or attorney work with other agencies in and out of Ohio? Can they provide references from recent adoptive families? What are their policies on pre-adoption education? What services, including parenting classes, support groups and respite care, will be provided throughout the adoption process? What kind of counseling will the birth parent receive before and after the birth of the child?

If you are pursuing an international adoption, you will also want to f ind out how long the agency has had a program in the country from which you are hoping to adopt. It is wise to work with agencies that have long-term associations with the country.

Financial Check Before signing on the dotted line with an adoption agency or attorney, you need to have your f inances in order. Adoptions can be expensive and range dramatically from one adoption to the next, but be aware that private adoptions can cost thousands of dollars.

It’s important to obtain a fee schedule up front from the adoption professional with whom you are working. This includes medical, legal and birth mother living expenses.

“Any reputable agency will give you in writing what their fees are, when they are charged and under what circumstances they are refundable,” says Sheryl Linne, director of Adoption Professionals located in Cincinnati. Adoption Professionals is

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a private adoption agency licensed by the state of Ohio and has been recognized for its exceptional work with birth parents.

While adoptions can be expensive, some f inancial aid is available.

The federal Adoption Tax Credit, for example, exists to help defray adoption costs. In 2009, the maximum adoption credit is $12,150.

Federal and state subsidies are also available to adoptive children - both pre placement and post placement - who are placed by an agency. Your employer may also offer assistance beyond federal leave requirements established through the Family and Medical Leave Act of 1993.

The Homes tudy Once you have determined the type of adoption you will pursue, the agency you like and that you can f inancially afford the adoption process, you must complete a homestudy. Without a homestudy, no adoption can be f inalized.

In short, the homestudy is a process of education and self-examination required by every state that aims to help you learn about the challenges and rewards of parenting adopted children and to determine your strengths as an adoptive parent. You and your homestudy assessor will look at your family structure and support system, motivation for wanting to adopt, life experiences and history, f inancial stability and health among other things. It is the process that determines whether a family (or person) is f it to adopt—one of many reasons it’s important to feel comfortable with and trust your homestudy assessor.

The homestudy, which can only be performed by an agency that is licensed in Ohio (for Kentucky residents, the homestudy must be performed by an agency that is licensed in Kentucky), includes physical examination of applicants and medical statements of household members, f inancial statement, verif ication of marriage or divorce, criminal background checks for household members over the age of 18, and safety audit of the home, among other things.

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To be clear, the homestudy must be complete whether you are pursuing a domestic or international adoption. Cheri McCarthy, licensed independent social worker and adoption assessor with Adoption Connection, a program of Jewish Family Service in Cincinnati, recommends adoptive parents select a homestudy agency that is familiar with international adoption because there are differences in the way homestudies are prepared for domestic versus international adoption cases. For instance, international adoption homestudies are written in narrative form so they can be translated and sent to the country where the child is living whereas domestic adoption homestudies are f illed out on off icial forms.

Mat ching and Placement

The process of waiting to

family can test your patience

Once the homestudy roller coaster ride you won’t is complete, agencies or a t t or ne y s c a n adoptive family and they will place a chi ld in the a d o p t i ve f a m i l y ’s worth the wait. The child home.

Finding a ch i ld, ca l led arrived in due t ime. matching, can t a ke m a ny for m s depending on the t ype of adoption exper t you have chosen to work with. Some agencies allow birth mothers to choose the adoptive families while other agencies look at adoptive families and match them to specif ic children waiting for adoption. Some independent adoptions enter the entire process know ing their birth mother already. Because of these and so many other variables including an adoptive family’s requirements for the birth mother and interest in having an open or closed adoption, the length of each adoption process varies.

However, once the homestudy is complete, if you are working with domestic agencies you will begin preparing a dossier or personal prof ile for birthmothers to review if you have not already done so. If you are taking the independent path then you wil l beg in net working and marketing to identif y a bir thmother. If it is an international adoption you are pursuing, you will need to prepare the dossier and f ile U.S. visa paper work. From this point, it is a test of patience as you wait for a child, your child.

Once a chi ld is placed in your home, adoptive fam i l ies must remember that Ohio law says the placement is temporar y for six months. Th is means the agenc y is required to visit your home ever y month for six months until welcome a child into your the ch i ld is lega l ly adopted. Adopt ion and send your emotions on a Professiona ls’ Linne says that though some soon forget. Yet ask any couples are surprised at this law, the home tell you that their child was well v isits prov ide “g reat ppor t un it ies to t hat was meant for t hem opick the counselor’s m ind about the developmental stages of adoption or how to best deal with inappropriate questions asked by family or even total strangers.”

For international adoption, there are a series of other legal steps you will need to take. You will, for instance, need to fulf ill the U.S. Im m ig rat ion a nd Nat ura l izat ion Ser v ices requ i rement s and naturalize your child as a citizen of the United States. Your international adoption agency will be able to guide you through the maze of paper work.

Well Wort h t he Wait

“Adoption is a wonderful, joyful way to build a family. Even though there appear to be many hurdles in the process, it is certainly well worth it in the end. What I hear most adoptive parents tell me at the end of the process, they will say ‘This is the child we were meant to have. This is our child,’” says Adoption Connections’ McCarthy.

Linne too knows that the process of adoption may be overwhelming to some families, but takes a big picture view of the steps toward adoption. “This is just the tip of the iceberg. You are preparing for a child’s arrival. You are preparing for a new life to enter into your own.

It’s time to prepare for your child’s arrival. Support groups and preadoption and parenting classes are available and essential.”

For more informat ion Many quality adoption resources are available in Cincinnati and online.

A few include: • Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Institute, adoptioninstitute.org • North American Council on Adoptable Children, nacac.org • International Adoption Center at Cincinnati Children’s Hospital Medical Center, cincinnatichildrens.org • Ohio Department of Job and Family Services, jfs.ohio.gov • Adoptive Families magazine, adoptivefamilies.com • Child Welfare Information Gateway, childwelfare.gov • National Adoption Center, adopt.org • National Council for Adoption, adoptioncouncil.org Carrie Bishop is a freelance writer and mother of two young sons, whose daily antics inspire her work and her life.

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Adoption & Fertility Guide Adoption Connection 11223 Cornell Park Dr., Cincinnati, OH 45242 Contact: Angie Bowling (513)489-1616/866-489-1616 513-489-4713 abowling@jfscinti.org www.doptioncincinnati.org Domestic Adoption

Building families through adoption since 1943, Adoption Connection, a local, Ohio-licensed adoption agency, gives you the support you need to grow your family through adoption, including domestic, international, relative, and step-parent adoption.

Feel secure as we guide you through the adoption process and beyond by offering adoption services such as parenting classes, family counseling, birth parent counseling, post placement services and adoptionspecific education for your family.

Welcoming all regardless of number of children, religion, race, sexual orientation, marital status, or age.

Adoption Services of Kentucky 526 Greenup Street, Covington, KY 41011 Mindy Sponseller, M. Ed. PCC 859-240-4514 info@adoptky.com

http://www.adoptioncincinnati.org

Building families through adoption since 1943, Adoption Connection, a local, Ohio-licensed adoption agency, gives you the support you need to grow your family through adoption, including domestic, international, relative, and stepparent adoption. Let us guide you through your adoption journey, with.

Feel secure as we guide you through the adoption process and beyond by offering adoption services such as parenting classes, family counseling, birth parent counseling, post placement services and adoptionspecific education for your family.

Welcoming all regardless of number of children, religion, race, sexual orientation, marital status, or age Bethesda Center for Reproductive Health and Fertility 10506 Montgomery Rd, Suite 303, Cincinnati, OH 45242 Contact: Glen Hoffman, MD (513)865-1675/800-634-1222 bethesda_center@trihealth.com www.bethesdafertility.com

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Catholic Charities (formerly Catholic Social Services) 3629 Church St, Covington, KY 41015 Phone: (859)581-8974 Select Category: Domestic Adoption www.covingtoncharities.org

Providing comprehensive adoptive services in Northern Kentucky since 1948. Experienced masters level professionals, serving persons of all faiths. Free pregnancy counseling services. Affordable, supportive ongoing services.

Holly Hill Children’s Services 9599 Summer Hill Rd., California, KY 41007 Mary Claire Donaldson, CSW, Director of Foster Care and Adoption Services 859-635-0500 mdonaldson@hollyhill-ky.org www.hollyhill-ky.org Category: Foster Care

Holly Hill Children’s Services provides NKY residents with both foster care and adoption services. Parents must be certified as foster care providers to be eligible to adopt children placed within their home. Please call (859) 635-0500 for more information to find out how you can help these children.

International Adoption Center at CCHMC 3333 Burnett Ave. MLC 7036, Cincinnati, OH 45229-3039 (513)636-2877 International Adoption www.cincinnatichildrens.org/iac

The International Adoption Center at Cincinnati Children’s Hospital Medical Center is a non-profit organization committed to the health and wellness needs of internationally adopted children, their families and their communities.

The center provides essential medical services; emotional support, community

programs, and research that help internationally adopted children enjoy well-adjusted lives Positive Pathways 7000 Houston Rd. Bldg. 300, Suite 29, Florence, KY 41042 Anne Mangold 859-746-9272 ext. 102 annemangold@roadrunner.com www.positivepathway.com Special Needs

We are a holistic mental health practice that provide individual and family therapy for the special needs of all families especially involving adoption and attachment.

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or many moms, a night out without

children evokes, in addition to that “ahh” feeling, a sense of lightness. Vinyl bags stuffed with diapers, wipes, extra onesies, snacks and sippy cups are replaced with once-loved leather purses holding only a wallet, keys and lip-gloss.

There’s no need for a baby carrier or a stroller.

You have only one coat, one pair of gloves and one hat—and all are adult-sized; all belong to you. For a few brief hours you don’t have to think about the last time you nursed or fed or changed or burped. You don’t have to make sure the toy you gave your child is still with your child and not in the parking lot. You don’t have to worry about getting home in time for bedtime routines and bath struggles. The heavy burdens—and joys— of the every day are replaced with something different, something necessary, something new—a night out, just for you.

Mom’S Night OUt You Deserve It—Here’s Why and What to Do!

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Here local moms share their favorite night-out activities and why an occasional evening without children is so important. Plus, we talk to two members of local mom clubs that fully support nights out without children.

Get Out Tari Clidence, mother of twin toddler girls, likes meeting her girlfriends at Regal Deerfield Towne Center Stadium 16 or going to Newport on the Levee. “I truly believe you can’t be a good mother if you don’t have time to yourself once in a while,” she says. “It’s essential to keep your patience—like anyone, if you spend too much time with them, you grow weary and end up saying or doing things you wouldn’t ordinarily do. I’m sure our kids need a break away from us, too!”

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Christine Den Herder, mother of a son born in March, says she loves going to City View Tavern in Mt. Adams during the early evening to grab a burger, a beer and a fantastic view of the city. “I also enjoy walking around Newport on the Levee and stopping for a beverage at Claddagh [Irish Pub] or seeing a movie at the well-trafficked AMC theater—it’s great for people watching. Eating Indian in Clifton or Thai food in Hyde Park is also a favorite event—I feel so intercontinental while only 30 minutes away from my home.”

She says that even though she spends much of the evening talking about her son, a night out alone is a refreshing break from the norm. “It gives me a chance to wear my red heels and dangling necklaces that don’t see the light of day when I’m home with my son,” she says. “The night off lets me reconnect with the person I was before I had my child—I like that carefree girl who doesn’t have to worry about breastfeeding instead of eating dinner or cleaning up poop explosions.”

Rachel Dean, mother of two, likes going to Dancing Wasabi in Mt. Lookout for sushi and then across the street to The Stand for a few drinks. “If we are feeling more adventurous we go for karaoke or to see a concert at Southgate House,” she says. Dean says time away alone is important because you can’t miss your kids if you don’t get away from them for a little while.

“I appreciate and enjoy my family more after some time to myself,” she says. “A social night with friends is especially important because it gives you a chance get out some of the parts of your personality that you have to keep on the shelf most days. You can tell dirty jokes and wear impractical shoes.”

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Join the Club Lisa Gebhart, mother of two, has been a member of the MOMS Club of Hamilton/ Fairfield Twp. (www.momsclub.org) for five years. As a rule, club members get together without their children once a month. Activities include dinner and a movie, pizza and bowling, game night and appetizers, and ornament exchanges during the holidays. “It is very important for a mom to get back into the ‘real world,’ to go out and socialize,” Gebhart says. “Moms are always at home taking care of the kids 24/7 and not worrying about herself.

This way, the mom can look forward to going out for a few hours without the kids, the crying baby and to remember to pack a diaper bag. Mom’s night out is just a way to get out of the house to relax and go and have fun.”

Mothers & More (www.mothersandmorecincinnati.com) offers child-free chapter meetings, book clubs, game nights, mom’s night out, mom’s time out, runaway weekends and playgroups for just moms. “For mom’s night out, we almost always go out to dinner,” says Kim Gregg Skindzier, co-leader of Cincinnati Mothers & More. “We prefer to frequent independently owned restaurants to give our local businesses support. Some of our favorite restaurants have been Honey in Northside, The Summit Restaurant at Cincinnati State and The Wildflower Cafe in Mason. We have taken weekend trips to Lexington, Louisville, Columbus, Indiana and even did a ‘staycation’ weekend at Newport on the Levee.” She also suggests painting your own pottery, jewelry-making classes or scrapbooking parties.

Skindzier says she looks forward to sharing an evening of laughs with friends and fellow moms. “Each week I look forward to whatever event we have scheduled and I know I can expect a good time. It also allows my husband to spend some one-on-one time with our children.” She adds that Mothers & More provides moms the opportunity to take a time out for themselves for fun and rejuvenation, which then allows us to go home and be the good mothers and wives we want to be. “A happy mom is a good mom,” she says.

www.thebeachwaterpark.com Kara Gebhart Uhl is a Fort Thomas, Ky.-based freelance writer and

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Forget about your We encou r a g e pr e jud g me nt s of being in touch with boarding schools. Disregard the student’s counselor and “Dead Poets Society” pressures to carpe establishing a relationship with that person diem, “School Ties” focus on prejudices is pretty important. Dorm counselors are and the horrors of headmasters like in touch weekly with parents at the girl’s Aberforth and Ariana Dumbledore in the school. This is said to be more than they “Harry Potter” series. Boarding schools are going to get at a public high school,” offer a unique experience for students from Exploring the Unique Educational Structure of Boarding Schools said Weaser. ages five through their teenage years.

Benefits of Boarding School

Don’t be fooled, kids. It’s not college.

On average, the boarding school in America has enjoyed more than a century of continuous operation. The first boarding school in the United States was West Nottingham Academy, in Maryland. Founded in 1744, the boarding school is still going strong, as are many other boarding schools of that era including Phillips Exeter Academy and Milton Academy.

“Harry Potter” and “Dead Poets Society” are movies based on traditional, British boarding school models. In so many ways, we do not follow those traditional models. But there are still some important similarities. We do eat a family style dinner together as a full community several times a month.

Students often meet their best, life-long friends at boarding school,” said Josh Lawton, director of admission at The White Mountain School in New Hampshire. “We encourage students to find their academic passions, explore their strengths and address their weaknesses. The faculty includes highly skilled professionals who take pride in their work and care deeply about our students. Their mentor-ship is an important aspect of students’ lives. In both of those movies, however, these positive qualities were sometimes taken to the extreme with disastrous consequences. Our day to day lives simply aren’t as extreme or exciting as it is in the movies—thankfully.”

The first boarding schools were modeled after British schools, which were originally for white, wealthy, Christian boys. Later, they served a more practical purpose satisfying the challenges of long distance travel to finer educational institutions then evolving to provide an establishment that would be founded upon certain religious affiliations.

Boarding schools of the 21st Century In today’s society, boarding schools have maintained their traditions while also adjusting to cultural demands by including millions of dollars for f inancial aid, scholarship opportunities, utilizing technolog y to provide a safe environment for students and much more.

“We are able to meet students where they are which is pretty uncommon. We are intentionally small for that very reason. Low student: faculty ratios and the interactions our students have with faculty in the classroom, sports and dorm allow us to know each st udent wel l enough to meet their academic and social needs. All students have a faculty advisor who acts as a liaison between 24 CINCINNATI PARENT * NOVEMBER 2009

student, school and parent. We are, and have been since our inception in 1886, a school that emphasizes the importance of community,” said Lawton.

Boarding schools are student-focused because they have to be to aid in the youth’s success. They are not collegeaged and need a structure to succeed. The reasons parents and students choose boarding school are many, but often its to best equip them for success, experience diverse cultures and curricula and live life in a way they cannot at home and expedite their growth and maturity.

“At Lake Forest Academy our students come from 31 different countries, both day and boarding students mingle with each other. Students become educated about people with different perspectives. The day students are able to stay until 10:00 p.m. as they do their extra curricular activities which they are required to participate in,” said Loring Strudwick, dean of admission.

Parents welcome anytime, anyway, anywhere “Parents are invited to call, email, write, or visit when they want to. Each student has an assigned Adviser that does all off icial communications like progress reports and check in.

The adviser role goes beyond off icial communications,” said Lawton. “They connect with families at least once every two weeks by phone or email. Parents can also follow on Facebook, Twitter, Picasa, and You Tube. Many students also make connections with other faculty members who are always available to parents.”

The question is, is this more communication than what might take place at home for a public school student?

Laura Weaser, dean of girls at Culver Academy in Indiana, comments that she f ind relationships are stronger with parents by not being with one another every day saying “Make your bed, take the trash out” and it allows for more meaningful conversations. We view it as a partnership between the school and parents because we’re not going to be as good or as strong as it could be.

“At Culver, parents are welcome to visit anytime they can, being present on weekends and at sporting events if possible.

“Boarding school is very different than college. Institutionally, the rules lay the framework for the students and how they interact with the institution as well. Also, being small and family-oriented changes how students approach their new found freedom,” said Lawton.

“There is limited freedom. Students have a curfew, study hours, and a procedure to abide by when leaving campus including permission from the dean and an email or phone call from the parents. With each advance to the next grade comes more freedom. They are under 18, therefore our responsibility. One time caught drinking, one time with drugs and they’re gone,” said Strudwick. “Fortunately being located near Chicago, Lake Forest students have the luxury of Chicago trips to shop, experience dance and theatre shows along with a full oncampus schedule of activities.”

Rigorous and strict often describe boarding schools. There is a reason for that. Let them be terms synonymous with determination and success. “The faculty like that on “Dead Poets Society,” the relationship is rich between the adults and students as they are going through a very pivotal part of their life. They are doing it on their own, going through a very rigorous experience at Culver,” said Weaser. “Rigorous is definitely college prep, our kids are challenged everyday in the classroom. One of the things we pride ourselves on is high challenge, high support. The students are well supported to reach their goals. We have very competitive athletics. Boys have a military structure. Girls have a democratic structure to experience leadership positions-in all walks of their life at Culver. There is a lot jammed in the structured schedule. The students have made it this way by being who they are. The community aspect is hard to understand from the outside. The kind of support you get from one another and the adults is like family,” said Weaser.

The overwhelming list of opportunities and comforting notion of life-long friendships entices students and parents alike to disregard Hollywood’s depictions of boarding schools and experience education in the 21st century.

Nikki Keever is a freelance writer living with her husband and three children.

R E SO U rC E S

BOARDING SCHOOL GUIDE Culver Academies 1300 Academy Rd., Culver, IN 46511 Mike Turnbull, Director of Admissions 574-842-7000 Admissions@culver.org http://www.culver.org Grades 9 - 12

A college-preparatory co-educational boarding school with 792 students representing 39 states and 28 countries that educates its students for leadership and responsible citizenship in society by developing and nurturing the whole individual – mind, spirit, and body - through integrated programs that emphasize the cultivation of character. With strong academics and college placement, a scenic 1,800-acre lakeside campus, unparalleled facilities, 60 sports teams, dance and performing arts, Culver offers its students the opportunity of a lifetime – where tomorrow’s leaders learn, grow and mature.

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http://www.thekingsacademy.net 4 years - 18 years/PreK - 12th Grade

The King’s Academy is a Christ-centered day and boarding school reaching local, national and international students of all socioeconomic backgrounds, educating and preparing them academically, emotionally, physically, socially, and spiritually for the 21st Century. The Academy’s university preparatory curriculum provides for the common and general needs of students in an atmosphere where Christian beliefs and values are freely examined and expressed.

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Episcopal High School 1200 N. Quaker Lane, Alexandria, VA 22302 Emily Atkinson 703-933-4062 admissions@episcopalhighschool.org http://www.episcopalhighschool.org Boarding Episcopal Cost/Tuition/Financial Aid: $42,000/year (includes room and board) Open House - November 7, 2009 Grades 9 - 12

A coeducational, college preparatory boarding school near Washington, DC, Episcopal High School offers dynamic and rigorous academics, broad and inclusive arts and athletics programs, and an enduring commitment to service and spiritual inquiry. Our students, from 30 states and 14 countries, are encouraged to think creatively, work collaboratively, develop individual passions, and celebrate the talents of others.

The King’s Academy 202 Smothers Rd, Seymour, TN 37865 Janice Mink, Director of Admissions 865-573-8321 Fax: 865-573-8323 jmink@thekingsacademy.net

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School A P are n t ’ s H o w - T o G u ide o n S ch o o l Ope n H o u ses

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hile it may seem rather early in the school year to already think about next year, fall and winter are actually the perfect seasons to begin considering where to enroll

or transfer your child to for the coming academic year. School open houses—similar to touring a home before making an offer—provide an opportunity for prospective parents and their children to check out classrooms, meet teachers and administrators and chat with other parents and students before enrolling. Offered frequently in the fall by public and private schools, open houses are a great way to make sure the academic environment is a good fit for your child.

Much like a real estate open house, however, the sparkly wall hangings, shiny, clean desks and well-organized handouts can highlight, or mask, the true character of the home or school. Armed with specif ic questions to ask and clues to look for while visiting, savvy parents can leave the open house with the most relevant and useful information

needed to help make the best choice about their child’s educational future.

“You certainly want to know what the curriculum is,” says Peter Egan, director of admission and financial aid for The Seven Hills School. “You want to know what it is they’re going to be taught, and … how is it going to be taught.

"My 2-year-old son already has a best friend – they attended a Wiggles concert last week. After college, when I moved back to Cincinnati to work at the family business, I contacted Jody, a former Rockwern Ever ybody has dif ferent [Yavneh] classmate. Now, she and my wife see each other two or three times a week and our children approaches and styles,” he (who were born within weeks of each other) are best friends. I hear it over and over again - the ties that says. you make at Rockwern can really last a lifetime." — Brandon Guttman ’92, Harvard University ’00

It starts now

ADMISSION EVENTS November 11, 2009 - 9:30 AM All Grades Novmber 17, 2009 - 7 PM All Grades December 15, 2009 - 7 PM Kindergarten Parents January 10, 2010 - 3 PM Kindergarten Parent & Child February 7, 2010 - 3 PM Kindergarten Parent & Child Please call for more information or to schedule a personal tour.

Give them the world 8401 Montgomery Road Cincinnati, Ohio 45236 513.984.3770, ext. 3112 www.RockwernAcademy.org Greater Cincinnati’s Jewish community day school providing values-based education, serving children and their families across the spectrum of Jewish life.

To f ind out about the cur r iculum taught at a particular school, or to find about its educational mission or philosophy, parents can consult the school’s website before attending the open house, or ask a teacher or ad m in istrator dur ing the event. Listening to a faculty member explain the curriculum may sound like a lot of academic mumbojumbo, but a teacher’s ability to answer this question can clue parents in as to how attentive faculty members are to the school mission and curriculum.

New 21st Century classrooms featuring Promethean Active Boards State-of-the-art , generously resourced science labs 8 to 1 or better student teacher ratio Responsive values-based teaching approach which encourages children to build academic and socialemotional competencies

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Optional Spanish study beginning in Middle School 98% of Rockwern students taking the Walnut Hills exam pass it

Further, this conversation can lead parents to inquire

about the next most important topic for gauging a school’s appropriateness—how that curriculum is put into practice in classroom lessons, activities and assessments. Discussing this with a prospective teacher can trigger a conversation about teaching styles, materials used, topics covered and classroom or discipline practices. To really use this information, however, parents also need to consider how their child learns best, what sort of environment will support that learning, and what topics their child is most interested in.

Parents should ask questions about “class size … and how we differentiate instruction for the various levels of kids in the classroom,” says Dee Morgan, head of school and admissions director for Bethany School. She also recommends parents ask about the background and years of experience for each teacher. “Are the teachers qualified in that area, or is this just somebody they found to do gym? It’s important to find out what is being taught and what back ground they have,” she says.

For example, many schools have computers in the classroom, but Morgan suggests asking how or for what purpose students and teachers use the technology. “Are they just playing games, or are they learning keyboarding? You have to start really asking questions … to see if they’re using them in a meaningful way,” she adds.

Another way to assess if the school is truly practicing its mission and educational ideas is to ask about extracurricular activities. “You want to find out the main program, but also all the other options and opportunities the students have exposure to,” says Egan. “Some places will have the kids do trips, some schools will have guest speakers come in.

You want to find out what all the children are exposed to.”

Asking direct questions also provides an opportunity to listen and gain a feeling for each teacher’s personality. The conversations may be brief, but talking with and observing the conversations of as many teachers and administrators as possible is crucial to gaining a feel for the school.

In addition to talking to faculty, many administrators suggest talking to current students and their parents to hear a different viewpoint on the school. At many middle and high school open houses, current students participate as tour guides, enabling parents to hear the youths’ opinions.

“If they ask about lunches, they are going to get what the kids think. They feel like it’s a lot more transparent and it does provide for different perspectives to come out,” Morgan says.

Another important reason to attend an open house is to ask current parents about their experience with the school, says Egan. “Ask them about what they like best about the school, what attracted them to the school,” he suggests.

Overall, an open house may be a great time to have oneon-one conversations with teachers or students, but a major drawback is that such events are usually held in the evenings or on weekends when school is not actually in session. This means parents and prospective students won’t see how teachers actually conduct class, what discipline strategies they use, or how children treat one another in the halls. Another option, and one that many administrators strongly recommend, is for parents to attend an open house, and then make an appointment to return during school hours. Observing students and teachers in their normal daily routines gives parents and children a more realistic sense of what the school is like on a daily basis.

“If you are watching interactions between students and teachers, I think you can tell if it’s a positive interaction or

not. I think you can see how kids are treating each other in hallways,” Egan says.

After analyzing the school’s philosophy and curriculum, and asking about or observing teaching and classroom practices, there are a few other basic pieces of information parents might want to know. For elementary or preschool children, parents should be sure to inquire about safety—are children ever left alone—as well as are lunch and snacks provided, do they need a change of clothing, how long is rest time and what are the disciplinary techniques. For middle or high school students, parents might want to consider availability of extracurricular activities, sport teams or social activities. Every parent should also consider tuition, scholarships, or financial aid, as well as basic logistics such as the distance from home or work, bus pick-up or drop-off locations and school operating hours.

Finally, parents and children should leave the open house feeling like the environment was friendly, teachers were responsive and forthcoming, and that they can visit as many times as necessary to gather enough information to make the best decision.

“You’ll have more than one visit and that will allow you to confirm what you’re assessing,” Egan says. “Each visit might to allow you gather some new information.”

Keri Schwab is a freelance writer and

a doctoral student in the Dept. of Parks, Recreation, & Tourism at the University of Utah. She has experience working with youth and adults in a variety of educational settings including home-based early intervention, community afterschool programs, and undergraduate college courses.

Finally, even though parents usually make the decision about where their child will attend school, most administrators recommend bringing children to the open house so they can learn about and form an opinion on the school.

“We love for kids to come to our open house,” says Morgan, “because the kids will ask a question the parent wouldn’t think of, and then you can have an intelligent discussion with your child about how they felt about the school.”

Older children may want to check out the physical space, such as the cafeteria or sports fields, as well as personal space such as bathrooms and lockers, and may ask about amount of homework, extracurricular activities or social opportunities.

Younger children may be more interested in toys, playground equipment or the general sense of fun they feel in a classroom.

At any age, parents can watch their child’s reaction to the school, and listen to interactions with teachers and other students to gain an idea of how well the school may fit their child’s needs and personality.

Open House Guide

Cincinnati Country Day School 6905 Given Road, Cincinnati, OH 45243 Contact: Aaron Kellenberger 513-979-0221 Admission@countryday.net http://www.countryday.net

CCDS is an independent, co-educational, college preparatory school serving students 18 months through Grade 12. 100% of our students attend four-year colleges nationally and internationally. During our open houses on November 4 and 11, from 9 a.m. - 11 a.m., you will have the opportunity to meet students, faculty, the Head of School and take a tour, visit classes, and stay for lunch. RSVP at (513)979-0220.

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Bossy, Unhappy and Bilingual Kids Teachers Answer Your Tough Questions

UNHAPPY CHILD IN PRESCHOOL

Visit to make sure the teachers at a school are right for your child before enrolling Question: My 3-year-old son is not him. If .you like them, chances are that doing well at his current preschool. Two of he will, too. his teachers are very stern and strict – not too friendly either. (I’ve visited the classroom.) Helping a Bossy My son is afraid of them and is always crying First Grader

and unhappy. They don’t help him join in Question: My daughter is the youngest the activities either. The lead teacher doesn’t in her first grade class. She is spending all her think he is afraid of them specifically – but time trying to get the other girls to like her. of everything. She has suggested counseling. I She is coming off as being bossy, and the other wanted my son moved to another class, but the girls don’t like that. What can I do to help her director refused. At a different preschool last adjust? – Bossy’s Mom year, the teachers were gentle, and he had no problems. Unfortunately, there is no room for Answer: First of all, how does your him at that school. daughter behave with family members and neighborhood children? Do you see Should I keep him in this school or look a similar pattern of bossy behavior? One for another where he’d have to adjust effective way to change it is by playacting to a new environment? And how can different situations so she knows how to I tell what kind of teachers he’ll get? act appropriately.

– Unhappy Child Explain to your daughter that when she Answer: You’ve been to this school asks for things in a demanding way, the and seen it is not right for your son. It other girls will not want to play with doesn’t make any sense for him to stay and her. Help her to learn how to rephrase have a miserable experience. Put his name what she wants in a nicer tone like “May on the wait list at the previous preschool I play with you.” She needs to learn to and start looking for a new preschool. ask and not demand. When she exhibits

demanding behavior at home, ask her to rephrase what she wants. Also, you need to explain to her that sometimes other children will not respond favorably to her nice requests.

develop vocabulary slower than those who speak just one language.

To help your child learn both languages, she will need to hear each one frequently in order to acquire suff icient vocabulary Learning to speak them well. Use both languages Two Languages in a natural way in your home. It’s also a good idea to read books to your daughter as a Child Question: My husband and I both come in both languages to expand her listening from Spanish-speaking countries. Now that we vocabulary in each one. live in America, we want our daughter to be Was Skipping a Child the able to speak both languages f luently. How do Right Thing to Do? we do this without getting her mixed-up? – Question: After just a month in Two Languages kindergarten, my son was moved to first grade.

The principal never even told us about this. I Answer: Being able to speak both had to learn it from my son. The first-grade languages will def initely benef it your teacher is quite demanding. My child is now child in the future. If your daughter has having spelling tests every Friday. Will not been hearing both languages, she is well going to kindergarten affect him later on? I know on the way to learning each one. When that kindergarten would be boring for him and children pick up two languages before they think it would be too drastic to put him back. are three, one language may dominate at — Kindergarten Question times. Research shows, however, that early regular exposure to two languages allows Answer: It is rather astonishing that most children to become successfully the principal did not speak to you about bilingual. There is some disagreement moving your son to f irst grade. Talk to about whether or not bilingual children the f irst-grade teacher right away and f ind

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out if this move was truly appropriate for your child. If he is unhappy and struggling, he might need to return to kindergarten. On the other hand, if ever ything about the f irst-grade experience is going well, then it was a good move and your son did not need the kindergarten experience to prepare him for future schooling.

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Many parents who say that their children are bored in kindergarten will envy the fact that your child was removed from a class that could have been boring for him. The results of skipping like your son did are generally very successful.

You need to become more involved in your son’s education. When the move was originally made, you should have talked with the principal about whether skipping kindergarten was appropriate for your child. Please keep track of how your child is doing by talking to his teacher from time to time and whenever you have questions.

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Montessori Academy of Cincinnati 8293 Duke Blvd., Mason, OH 45040 (513)398-7773 www.montacademy.org Grades: 3 years – 8th grade Enrollment: 300

Now in our 20th year offering Montessori curriculum with an individualized nurturing approach. Experienced, degreed teachers foster a love of learning, promote independence and develop the necessary skills for success.

New 7.5-acre campus! State Chartered. AMS Affiliated. Extended Care available on-site.

The New School Montessori 3 Burton Woods Lane, Cincinnati, OH 45229 (513)281-7999 www.thenewschool.cc Grades: 3 year-olds through 6th Grade Enrollment: 150

Founded on Montessori principles in 1970, our wooded playgrounds, home-cooked meals and family-like setting in North Avondale’s Mitchell Mansion provide a stimulating and nurturing environment for learning. We value diversity and create a caring and supportive community. Our graduates excel academically, but more importantly are empowered as citizens of our global community. (Accredited by AMS and ISACS).

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Chai Tots Early Childhood Center 7587 Central Parke Blvd., Mason, OH 45040 (513)234-0600 www.chaitots.com Grades: 6 weeks - 6 years Enrollment: 40

Academic excellence via unique blend of Montessori method and traditional Jewish education. Chai Tots teaches children the culture and traditions of Judaism, while developing their creativity skills and promoting independence. Flexible schedule. Before and Aftercare.

The Child’s Place 4936 Old Irwin Simpson Rd, Mason, OH 45040 (513)398-6928 www.montacademy.org Grades: 9 months – 5 years Enrollment: 150

Montessori Early Childhood Program!

Exceptionally low ratios in a nurturing environment! Our 2-acre campus provides bike and cart paths. Separate play areas for toddlers and preschoolers. Spanish and Music classes offered! Full-time and Part-time available.

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The Gardner School of Blue Ash 9920 Carver Road, Cincinnati, OH 45242 513-985-9444 www.TheGardnerSchool.com Grades: 6 weeks - Pre-K Enrollment: 200

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faculty, we are committed to providing a nurturing environment for learning readiness where your child can prepare for academic achievement and lifelong success.

Goddard School Grades: Ages 6 weeks to 8 years To learn more about The Goddard School® in you neighborhood, call 1-800-GODDARD or visit online at www.goddardschool.com.

The Goddard School provides the foundation to encourage your child’s lifelong love of learning. Whether gently holding your infant, encouraging your toddler to share, or providing your preschooler with a variety of enriching activities, caring teachers support your child’s healthy development from 6 weeks to 6 years, and up to 8 years for after-school enrichment.

Pleasant Ridge Presbyterian Nursery School 5950 Montgomery Rd., Cincinnati, OH 45213 (513)631-0170 www.prpc.org Grades: 2 1/2 - 5 years, Parent/ Child classes birth to 32 months Enrollment: 65

Professionally qualif ied teachers provide active, expressive, child-centered learning experiences at this 3-star award-winning program. Choose 2, 3, 4, or 5 day AM or PM sessions. Excellent ratios, degreed teachers and spacious, sunny, classrooms await your preschooler. Parent and child classes also available for babies and toddlers.

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Archbishop McNicholas High School 6536 Beechmont Avenue, Cincinnati, Oh 45230 513.231.3500 www.mcnhs.org Grades: 9-12 Enrollment: 715

Archbishop McNicholas High School promotes a co-educational, Christ-centered, Catholic community that embraces each student - intellectually, morally, physically, and spiritually. We provide a safe, nurturing, creative, and challenging campus where individuals will grow in knowledge and faith.

Our campus consists of forty-eight acres, extensive academic facilities and an outstanding athletic complex.

www.countryday.net Grades: Early Childhood (18 months) – 12th grade Enrollment: 800

CCDS is an independent, co-educational school dedicated to educational excellence serving students 18 months through Grade 12. The School is nationally recognized for its innovative, integrated laptop computer program. Extended day and tuition assistance is available.

Linden Grove School 4122 Myrtle Ave, Cincinnati, OH 45236 (513)984-2215 www.lindengroveschool.org Grades: Kindergarten – 8th grade Enrollment: 40

Mission: To work in partnership with families to create an integrated K-8 learning environment that combines academics, social skills and therapies in order to help the whole child achieve his or her greatest potential.

Montessori Center Room 2505 Riverside Ct., Cincinnati, OH 45202 Nicole Sherrill 513-321-3282 mcr1966@fuse.net http://montessoricenterroom.com Grades: 3 - 6 years old

A child-focused, AMS-Aff iliated, 40-yearold program for children ages 3-6 years.

Before and after care available, Musikgarten is offered weekly.

Rockwern Academy 8401 Montgomery Road, Cincinnati, OH 45236 (513)984-3770 PS2 – 8th grade Enrollment: 230

Rockwern Academy, founded in 1952 as Cincinnati’s community Jewish day school, offers a superior and balanced academic program that is integrated with and informed by Jewish culture, values and identity. Small class sizes allow students to be intellectually engaged, spiritually aware, and socially responsible.

November 11, 2009 - 9:30AM All Grades November 17, 2009 - 7 PM All Grades December 15, 2009 - 7PM Kindergarten Parents January 10, 2010 - 3PM Kindergarten Parent & Child February 7, 2010 - 3PM Pre-school Parent& Child St. Ursula Villa

Cardinal Pacelli School 927 Ellison Avenue 513.321.1048 www.cardinalpacelli.org Grades: 3-4 Year Old Preschool through 8th Grade Enrollment: 385

Cardinal Pacelli School made significant investments in technology were made over the summer, working to further integrate technology into the daily curriculum. 90 computers, 60 laptops and 8 white boards are now in classrooms. Our Fall Open House is Sunday, November 8, 10:30am-1:30pm.

Registrations are accepted year-round.

(513)321-6348 or www.cardinalpacelli.org Cincinnati Country Day School 6905 Given Rd (513)979-0220

3660 Vineyard Place (513)871-7218 /www.stursulavilla.org Grades: Preschool – 8th grade Enrollment: 496

Academic excellence in the Ursuline tradition for boys and girls in preschool through 8th grade. Whole-child development, family atmosphere, dedicated faculty, Montessori or Traditional preschool options, small class size, individual attention, outstanding high school preparation.

Summit Country Day School 2161 Grandin Road (513)871-4700 www.summitcds.org Grades: Age 2 - Grade 12 Enrollment: 1100

Founded in 1890, the area’s only independent,

Catholic, co-ed, college-prep school serving students age 2 - Grade 12 is recognized as a leader in formalized Character Education, Credo. A diverse community of students benefit from a rich, classical and challenging curriculum within three contiguous divisions.

Extensive athletic and visual arts programs campus-wide.

Villa Madonna Academy 2500 Amsterdam Road, Villa Hills, KY 41017 (859)331-6333 admissions@villamadonna.net K-8 and 9-12 325 in K-8; 191 in 9-12

A Catholic, private, co-ed K-12 school offering 7:1 ratio in the full-day kindergarten program, foreign language, music, art and enrichment classes for K-8; strong college-prep high school curriculum with 16 AP courses; 12 high school varsity sports. Outstanding fine arts program for grades K-12.

Special Needs

The Olympus Center at The Children’s Home of Cincinnati 5050 Madison Rd., Cincinnati, OH 45227 (513) 272-2800 x4322 www.thechildrenshomecinti.org Grades: Ages 3 to adult

The Olympus Center offers comprehensive education evaluations to help identify learning challenges in preschoolers, young children, teens and adults. Services include: Evaluations: psychological, speech/language, educational, post-secondary; IQ testing; Developmental profiles; Reading screenings. Individualized strategies are provided to help students, parents, teachers and others address and overcome identified learning challenges.

Tutoring

Envision Learning Center 1977 Section Rd., Cincinnati, OH 45237 Cheryl McClung Garner 513-772-5437 www.envisionlearningcenter.org Grades: ages 4 - 1st year college

Envision Learning Center is dedicated to providing enrichment and tutoring for children of all academic levels to make certain that they meet and exceed daily academic standards in math, science, reading, and writing. We also offer Power Saturday classes which are intensive and interactive activities in math, science and critical thinking

Virtual/Distance

Ohio Virtual Academy Best performing eSchool in Ohio (866)339-9072 www.ohva.org Grades: Kindergarten – 10th grade Enrollment: 3,300

Ohio Virtual Academy helps your K-10 children obtain an excellent public school education, tuition free! Under the guidance of licensed teachers, parents help their children learn at home using K12’s comprehensive curriculum and educational materials.

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Teaching Kids the Value of a Dollar

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My daughter is obsessed with the ABBA song, Money, Money, Money.

Yes, it’s true, I let her watch Mama Mia. In the movie, the mother runs a somewhat dilapidated hotel. Okay, this is a Hollywood musical, so more like super fake looking dilapidation on a backdrop of the sparkling Aegean Sea. Never the less, it got me thinking about money and kids. We talk about mentoring our kids all the time, but how often do we teach them about money?

I got so curious, I decided to interview banking specialist, Julie Barcus, of Community First Credit Union. She told me her credit union as well as other banking facilities around the nation, are starting community based f inancial education programs for children. This goes beyond the “passport savings account” that we all grew up with. Here are some of Julie’s tips and some others I have come up with along the way.

Reinforce Smart Financial Habits Uh-oh. You know what that means. Teach by example. One of the best ways we teach by example is by showing kids our process. Think aloud as you make your purchases and let them “see” the process.

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Money to save- This is a smart f inancial habit. Saving shows children how they can “grow” money. Julie Barcus hands out quarter keepers at events. They hold $5 worth of quarters, but they are a powerful tool for teaching kids how money can grow. You can probably get one at your bank.

Money to give-Altruism and charity is a powerful value you can teach your child. Not only are you teaching your child to give to others, you are teaching your child they have the power to help others. Talk about conf idence building!

Weigh in Your Options Julie has this neat worksheet she gives out at her talks. She gives kids a pretend budget, pretend money and options on how to “spend” their money. Options for movies include, “borrow from the library for free,” “rent a movie” and “go to the movies.” Kids can see, when they choose cheaper options, they can do more. Very interesting. Go to my website and ask for a copy of “kid’s budget” if you would like the sample.

A Sea of Money Money is like the ocean. We can love it, have a great relationship with it, but it’s pretty important that we develop a respect for it. Respect means understanding money, knowing how to work with it and for it and developing good ways to spend it, too. Teaching our kids that money needs to be earned and respected is like teaching our kids how to swim in the ocean.

In rough waters or calm, they will know what to do. Try any of these tools to get your child on the way to having a healthy relationship with money.

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Helping Preteens Find a Place PASSPORT TO THE WORLD

Surround yourself with cultures from around the world with food, music, dance, crafts and more!

All Culture Fest activities in the Rotunda are FREE! (Programs that take place within the museums are subject to general museum admission) Passport to the World media sponsors are:

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Culture Fest Schedule, Noon to 5 p.m. each day: Latin American Culture Fest, November 21-22, 2009 African Culture Fest, January 16-18, 2010 Appalachian Culture Fest, February 20-21, 2010 Celtic Lands Culture Fest, March 13-14, 2010 Asian Culture Fest, April 24-25, 2010

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“Aw, Mom. I don’t want to sit with the little Emphasize increasing maturity. Ask your kids. They’re so dorky!” middle-years child to help with the younger children in a way that says that she’s different from “Oh no, please don’t make me sit with the the “little kids.” Let her know that her increasing knowledge, patience and practical skills set her grown-ups. They’re so boring!” apart from them. Then ask for her assistance with The holidays that bring families together can feeding babies, walking preschoolers to the park, cause young teens to stand apart. Too old to get or reading holiday stories. excited about Santa and too young to enjoy a relaxing cup of coffee around the fire, they may When you approach this request as a reflection of her maturity, she receives a compliment instead complain to cover up feelings of displacement. of feeling put-upon. Also, defining specific Helping preteens find a place to belong during or structured tasks makes them appear more holiday gatherings can be a challenging but not important, and gets a better response than does impossible task, and doing some pre-holiday a vague request to, “Keep an eye on the kids, brainstorming can make things easier for parents, will you?” too. Keep in mind that underneath their nagging to leave the table and get back to their rooms or Ease the interaction between generations. to the TV, they still have a strong need for the Many preteens feel uncomfortable conversing family connection that holidays provide. with older adults. They shy away from greatgrandparents or unfamiliar aunts because the The solution to the “displacement dynamic” is seniors appear to be so different from them. finding a workable middle ground, where your Planned activities can offer a safe way to preteen’s growing maturity is respected yet her encourage interaction while opening up lines limits are acknowledged. Consider some of the of communication and enriching relationships following suggestions to keep things running between older and younger family members. smoothly, both physically and emotionally, during your holiday season festivities: For example, ask your middle-years child to act as family historian, interviewing relatives “Hire” your child as a holiday assistant. about significant events in their lives; or give Giving her special responsibilities can help your her a list of questions such as, “What was your preteen find a place to fit in. Let her know that first job?” “What was the most embarrassing you need her help making the meal or party run (or funny) thing that ever happened to you?” smoothly. Assign tasks that are simple enough and have her collect answers from each person for her to handle by herself, yet give her a sense in the room. The shared experiences provide a of purpose. Then make the job more significant common ground and help children relate better and fun by adding a prop or two. For instance, to the older guests. A game of charades or a board let her give out “coat check tickets” when she game such as “Real Stories” can also serve as an carries guests’ wraps to the bedroom; or let her icebreaker and help kids feel more comfortable use a paper receipt book for taking dessert orders. interacting with older family members.

Offer a special activity. At family gatherings, young teens can easily get bored. They’re generally not mature enough to enjoy just “visiting” with relatives, yet they’re too old for many of the younger children’s pastimes. When making plans for your holiday gathering, include a simple, yet special, activity that appeals to your Spotlight special skills and talents. Letting young teen. Discuss possibilities with your child your young teen put his talents to use will keep ahead of time. him busy and boost his self-esteem at the same time. If he likes to take pictures, ask him to For example, you might agree that he will have be the official photographer, capturing your dinner with the family at noon, but later on he holiday with close-ups and candids, or recording can rent a movie, go out for ice cream, go to the the highlights with a video camera. If he is a arcade with Uncle John, or spend an allotted time musician, have him choose some mealtime music online chatting with friends. Help him to decide and selections for later on; he can act as his own on something that is both realistic and fun.

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If it fits with your regular allowance philosophy, give her a chance to earn some extra money by doing the supplementary cleaning chores that are needed before company comes. Try writing out a “work order” and giving her “coffee breaks” and a “paycheck.”

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Godshall. Ages 5-12. 4 p.m. $1 walk in. Clifton Performance Theatre. 404 Ludlow Avenue, Cincinnati OH. www. cliftonperformancetheatre.com. 513-861-SHOW (7469).

Voice Department Masterclass 3 p.m. All events are free unless othewise noted. CollegeConservatory of Music. Mary Emory Hall, Cincinnati OH. http://www.ccm.uc.edu. 513-556-4183.

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Monday 2 BALLET BASICS Bring your ballerinas in their pink tights, black leotards and ballet shoes* for a Ballet Class on Mondays at 4 pm. We have a brand new wood dance floor, wall mirrors, ballet barres, ballet music and a great new teacher Ms. Blair

Adventure Club: ArtReach presents: Henny Penny - A Story of Chicken Little Meet Henny Penny, Foxy Loxy and the entire silly cast of characters in this classic children’s fable! Ages 6-11.

Please register. 4 p.m. Carrico/Fort Thomas Branch. 1000 Highland Ave., Fort Thomas KY. www.cc-pl.org. 859-572-5033.

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Adults. Please register. 7 p.m. Cold Spring Branch. 3920 Alexandria Pike, Cold Spring KY. http://www.cc-pl.org.

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sport or playing competitively in school. Grades 3-4: 6:007:00 and Grades 5-6: 7:00 - 8:00. $65. TriHealth Pavilion.

6200 Pfeiffer Road, Cincinnati OH. www.trihealthpavilion. com. (513) 985-6747.

Wednesday 4 Grilled Cheese Wednesdays Come join us on special Wednesdays for a warm and gooey grilled cheese. Bring extras for your picnic or purchase a combo meal with sides and a drink. Hot dogs will also be available, as well as fun activities for kids after your picnic. Dates: June 3, 17, July 1, 15 & August 12. 11 am - 12:30 pm. Sandwich = $1, Combo = $2. Anderson Township Park District Beech Acres Park Playground. 6910 Salem Rd, Cincinnati Oh. http://www.andersonparks.com/ProgramListing.html.

513-388-4513.

Adventure Club: Sticky-Stucky Bingo!

Win sticky hands, sticky feet, and all things gooey at this sticky bingo game! Ages 6-11. Please register. 4 p.m.

Newport Branch. 901 E. Sixth St.. http://www.cc-pl. org. (859)572-5035. www.cc-pl.org.

Girl’s Instructional Volleyball Girls in grades 3-6 will learn how to play volleyball. Girls will build a solid foundation of the basics to give them a great start to a lifetime of enjoying the 34 CINCINNATI PARENT * NOVEMBER 2009

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Health Screening Blood pressure, height, weight, foot and spinal screenings.

Walk-ins welcome. Appointment recommended. 9 am- 12 pm. free. Burlington Family Chiropractic. 2612 Burlington Pike, Burlington KY. 859-746-2225.

Preschool Story Time with Miss Gail Get ready for f inger puppet fun, as well as other pleasant surprises with Miss Gail. 10:30 am. Free. Blue Manatee Children’s Bookstore. 3065 Madison Rd., Cincinnati OH. www.bluemanateebooks.com. 513-731-2665.

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members, students. Cincinnati Art Museum. 953 Eden Park Dr., Cincinnati OH. http://www.cincinnatiartmuseum.org.

(513)721-ARTS.

Adventure Club: Project Pillow Make yourself a cozy pillow to keep you warm in the cold months ahead! Ages 6-11. Please register. 4 p.m. Cold Spring Branch. 3920 Alexandria Pike, Cold Spring KY. http://www.cc-pl.org. (859)781-6166.

Cincinnati Cyclones vs.

Johnstown Chiefs Hockey. 7:30 p.m. Various.

U. S. Bank Arena. 100 Broadway, Cincinnati OH. http://www.cycloneshockey. com/. 800-745-3000.

Raising Charitable Children Raising Charitable Children is a free presentation for parents, educators, teens, college students, and anyone interested in helping youth learn the importance of community service and charitable giving.

Internationally-known speaker and author Carol Weisman, MSW, CSP, is the presenter on Thursday, November 5, from 6:00 to 7:00 p.m. at Xavier University’s Cintas Center. This event is presented by Impact 100 and sponsored by the Greater Cincinnati Foundation. It is free and open to the public. Visit www.impact100.org. 6:00 p.m. Free. Xavier University’s Cintas Center. 1624 Herald Avenue, Cincinnati OH. www. impact100.org. 513-677-2062.

STREET TEAM - Hip Hop Dance Class Come and dance! This electrifying class integrates hip hop and modern to get anyone moving. Appropriate for students with experience or without. Great exercise and guaranteed fun! Ages 7-16. 4 p.m. $15 walk in fee. Clifton Performance Theatre. 404 Ludlow Avenue, Cincinnati OH. www. cliftonperformancetheatre.com. 513-861-SHOW (7469).

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Cash and carry items will be available. 10 a.m. - 1 p.m. Free to enter. Mason United Methodist Church. 6315 S. MasonMontgomery Rd., Mason OH. http://www.masonumc.org.

513-754-8878.

St. Ursula Villa Informational Coffee Informational Coffees showcasing Traditional programs for 3 and 4 year olds, and Montessori classrooms for 3, 4, and 5 year olds. Events held Friday, November 6 and Wednesday, November 11, 2009 8:30-10:00 a.m. 8:30-10:00 a.m. St. Ursula Villa School. 3660 Vineyard Place, Cincinnati Oh. www.stursulavilla.org. (513) 871-7218 x2101.

Stay at home dads weekly playgroup This is a private group for at-home dads in Cincinnati. Sign up and register at http://cincinnatidads.ning.com/ to gain access to the announcements and regular updates. The weekly playgroup meets at various parks and attractions around Cincinnati and Northern Kentucky. http://cincinnatidads.ning.com/.

Saturday 7 A Day at the Movies in the 1920s Join us for an all day showing of three of cinema’s silent masterpieces of the 1920’s. Adults. No registration required. 11 a.m. Newport Branch. 901 E. Sixth St.. http://www.cc-pl.org.

(859)572-5035. www.cc-pl.org.

Cincinnati Sports Club Open House Come and see where your neighbors enjoy an active lifestyle.

Grand re-opening! The Sports Club second floor mezzanine area is complete providing a quieter, more welcoming area for non-traditional fitness users.. Additionally, the Sports Club recently installed a RenoSys Pool Shell Liner. This textured liner provides a nonabrasive, slip resistant surface that is watertight and easy to clean. The city’s finest club has been serving the eastside for more than 20 years and continues to reinvest in the Club and in you. 10am-4pm. FREE. Cincinnati Sports Club. 3950 Red Bank Road, Cincinnati Oh. www. cincinnatisportsclub.com. 513-527-4000.

Early Childhood Education Symposium Attendees are invited to select from an array of today’s most intriguing topics during a three-session breakout forum following a keynote address. RSVP preferred, walk-ins welcome. Please call 871-4700 ext. 261 or email admissions@ summitcds.org. 9 a.m. Free but reservations are preferred. The Summit Country Day School. 2161 Grandin Road, Cincinnati OH. http://summitcds.org. 513-871-4700 x 261.

Cincinnati Cyclones vs. Toledo Walleye

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Hockey. 7:30 p.m. Various. U. S. Bank Arena. 100 Broadway, Cincinnati OH. http://www.cycloneshockey.com/. 800-7453000.

12:15 p.m. All events are free unless othewise noted. CollegeConservatory of Music. Mary Emory Hall, Cincinnati OH. http://www.ccm.uc.edu. 513-556-4183.

Gino DiMario Faculty Fundraiser

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7 p.m. All events are free unless othewise noted. CollegeConservatory of Music. http://www.ccm.uc.edu.

513-556-4183.

Health screenings and information from The Christ Hospital, a health partner of the Cincinnati Sports Club. Various health and wellness topics will be featured to encourage individuals to be involved in an active lifestyle. Activities may include flu shots, Arthritis Foundation, American Heart Association, American Diabetes Association, Senior Care Preferred, the Wound Healing Center, Cardiac Rehab, the Cancer Center and Behavioral Health. 10am-4pm. Most Free. Cincinnati Sports Club. 3950 Red Bank Road, Cincinnati Oh. www. cincinnatisportsclub.com. 513-527-4000.

Kings Soccer Academy Adult Team Try Outs PLAYERS WANTED. . APPLY ON THE FIELD! Kings Soccer Academy Tryouts U8-U18 On-Line Registration Now Open! The Kings Soccer Academy (KSA) is currently inviting teams and/or players to join the areas BEST youth soccer organization in the area. The KSA format is designed to be the leading organization for the future of youth soccer development in the United States. We offer playing levels ranging from U8-U23 along with a year-round curriculum towards player development and an emphasis that all soccer players, parents and coaches are part of one big soccer family. See website for times. Town & Country Sports & Health Club. 1018 Town Dr., Wilder KY. http://www.kingssa.com. 859.442.5800.

Linton’s Peanut Butter & Jam Sessions present...Dancing Day - Bach, Vivaldi and Irish Jigs!

Dance along with the cello, piano, flute and Irish PennyWhistle! Children’s chamber music series for preschoolers and their families. Interactive, Educational, and Fun! Tickets available at the door or by calling 513.381.6868. Free Graeter’s cookies at every concert! 10am and 11:30am. $4.00 per person or $12.00 for Flex-Book of 4 tickets good at any PB&J concert.

Visit www.lintonmusic.org. 10am and 11:30am. $4/per person or $12 for Flex-Book of 4 tickets good at any PB&J. Good Shepherd Lutheran Church. 7701 Kenwood Road, Cincinnati OH. www.lintonmusic.org. 513.381.6868.

Novemberfest 2009 Indoor Fall FEstival - all the activities of an outdoor festival - inside! Giant inflatables, program demonstrations, skill games, music, food, entertainment, interactive activities with local businesses, community mascot appearances and more.

FREE!. 10am-4pm. FREE. Cincinnati Sports Club. 3950 Red Bank Road, Cincinnati oh. www.cincinnatisportsclub.com.

513-527-4000.

Passport to The Pacific Islands Please join us for the ninth annual Passport to Forever with a dinner, silent and live auctions and a children’s fashion show to benefit The International Adoption Center at Cincinnati Children’s Hospital Medical Center. Luau attire encouraged.

For more information, visit www.cincinnatichildrens. org/passport or contact Erin Cohen at 513-636-0795 or erin.cohen@cchmc.org. 6:30 p.m. $75. Jungle Jim’s International Market. 5440 Dixie Highway, Farifield OH. www.cincinnatichildrens.org/passport. 513-636-0795.

Thaddeus Rex - Read Like A Rock Star!

Spirit of the Beehive (El esp’ritu de la colmena) (1977) Set in the aftermath of the Spanish Civil War, Spirit of the Beehive focuses on Ana, a young girl living in a rural hamlet.

After a traveling projectionist screens James Whale’s 1931 Frankenstein for the village, Ana’s older sister tells her that the monster is not dead, but rather exists as a spirit inhabiting a nearby barn. When a fugitive from Franco’s victorious army hides out in the barn, Ana crosses from reality into a fantasy world of her own. Find the ghosts and the unnatural beings hidden in the Art Museum’s collections. Call (513) 721-ARTS or visit www.cincinnatiartmuseum.org for more information.

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A PBS veteran and award winning songwriter, Thaddeus Rex’s unique brand of high octane music and contagious enthusiasm has been hailed by the Washington Post as “party Monty Python, part Dr. Seuss” and by the L.A. Times as “a sincere celebration of reading”. He’s also been known to get kids excited about reading along the way! He travels the country non-stop, readin’, rockin’, and even promotin’ a writing contest that New York Magazine called “a more modest, kiddie version of American Idol”. 11 a.m. Tickets are: $7.00 for Adults and $5.00 for Children. Covedale Center for the Performing Arts. 4990 Glenway Ave., Cincinnati OH. http://www. cincinnatilandmarkproductions.com. (513)241-6550.

Holiday Shopping Event Come shop early for the Holidays and help support the MOPS program at Mason UMC. Many companies will be selling their products including: Arbonne, Tastefully Simple, Mary Kay, Scentsy Candles, Juice Plus, The Pampered Chef, ThirtyOne, and Usborne Books. More vendors likely to be added.

FAIRY TALE FOREST - Drama/Dance Exploration Dance like Cinderella. Huff and puff like the big bad wolf. Join us as we dance and act our way through classic fairy tales. 11 a.m. $12 walk in. Clifton Performance Theatre. 404 Ludlow

resources Avenue, Cincinnati OH. www.cliftonperformancetheatre. com. 513-861-SHOW (7469).

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Amazing Race Family Challenge Join in the free fun with other families as you go through the trails of Ault Park competing in a nature version of the amazing race. Small prizes for contestants. Geared for families with children ages 5-12. Reservations required, call 513761-4313. 1:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m. Free. Ault Park. 3600 Observatory, Cincinnati OH. 513-761-4313.

Cincinnati Bengals vs.

Baltimore Ravens Football. 1 p.m. $64-$82. Paul Brown Stadium. 1 Bengals Drive, Cincinnati OH. 513-621-8383.

More Signing, Less Whining! - Teach Your Child to Sign!

“Talk” to your hearing baby or toddler with American Sign Language -as early as 6 months of age! Benefits include preverbal communication, earlier speech development, enhanced intellectual development, and less frustration (less crying, fewer tantrums!). SmallTalk, a 2- hour parent workshop is taught by a Child Sign Language Specialist. The Nov. 10th, 6:45pm workshop, is held at Bethesda North Hospital, located at 10500 Montgomery Rd., Cinti., OH, 45242 To register, call TriHealth at 475-4500. A pictorial dictionary of over 100 signs and Signing Safari’s “Teach Your Child to Sign” DVD (a $20 value) are included. 6:45 p.m.

Registration is $45/couple. Bethesda North Hospital.

10500 Montgomery Rd, Cincinnati OH. http://www. signingsafari.com. (513)475-4500.

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Thursday 12 Adventure Club: Popcorn & a Movie Join us for a movie about a teenage girl who leads a double life as a famous singer! Ages 6-11. Please register. 4 p.m. Cold Spring Branch.

3920 Alexandria Pike, Cold Spring KY. www.cc-pl.org. (859)7816166.

Baby’s Amazing Journey This parenting workshop interactively explores expected 1st year developmental milestones, as well as offering effective strategies for dealing with typical eating, sleeping,& fussiness issues. The Nov. 12th workshop is held from 7-9:30pm at Good Samarital Hospital. To register call the TriHealth Hospitals at 475-4500. 7-9:30pm. Class fee is $35/parenting team. Good Samaritan Hospital. 375 Dixmyth Ave, Cincinnati OH. www.signingsafari.com. (513)475-4500.

Girl’s Instructional Volleyball

Starling Chamber Orchestra 7 p.m. All events are free unless othewise noted. CollegeConservatory of Music. Werner Recital Hall, Cincinnati OH. http://www.ccm.uc.edu. 513-556-4183.

Tessoro jewelry Dress to impress! Come by and see stunning and unique Tessoro jewelry designed from the bark of birch trees combined with copper and other metals create a truly one-of-a- kind jewelry line. Work up a thirst while shopping? Try a Birch Beer Float! This tasty carbonated beverage is similar to root beer but is actually make from the bark of birch trees. YUM! All ages.

The Arboretum Store. Noon - 4 p.m. The Morton Arboretum.

4100 Illinois Route 53, Lisle OH. www.mortonarb.org. 630968-0074.

Girls in grades 3-6 will learn how to play volleyball. Girls will build a solid foundation of the basics to give them a great start to a lifetime of enjoying the sport or playing competitively in school. Grades 3-4: 6:00- 7:00 and Grades 5-6: 7:00 - 8:00. $65. TriHealth Pavilion. 6200 Pfeiffer Road, Cincinnati OH. www.trihealthpavilion.com. (513) 985-6747.

STREET TEAM - Hip Hop Dance Class Come and dance! This electrifying class integrates hip hop and modern to get anyone moving. Appropriate for students with experience or without. Great exercise and guaranteed fun! Ages 7-16.

4 p.m. $15 walk in fee. Clifton Performance Theatre. 404 Ludlow Avenue, Cincinnati OH. www.cliftonperformancetheatre.com. 513861-SHOW (7469).

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Wednesday 11 St. Ursula Villa Informational Coffee Informational Coffee showcasing Traditional programs for 3 and 4 year olds and Montessori classrooms for 3, 4, and 5 year olds. Friday, November 6 and Wednesday, November 11, 2009 8:30-10:00 a.m.

8:30-10:00 a.m. St. Ursula Villa School. 3660 Vineyard Place, Cincinnati, Oh. www.stursulavilla.org. (513) 871-7218 x2101.

Friday 13 After-Hours Teen Game Night Go head-to-head against your friends in Guitar Hero, Wii, board games and much more. You may bring your own games, but ESRB rating must be T or E. Pizza and snacks provided. Ages 12-18. Please register. 7 p.m. Cold Spring Branch. 3920 Alexandria Pike, Cold Spring KY. www.cc-pl.org. (859)781-6166.

Grilled Cheese Wednesdays

Zak Morgan Music Land Grammy-nominated Zak Morgan presents an energizing and inspiring musical extravaganza. 2 p.m. Boone Co. Main Library. 1786 Burlington Pike,, Burlington KY. http://www. bcpl.org. (859)342-BOOK.

Monday 9 Adventure Club: Explore Japan Explore Japan with games, crafts, and snacks. Ages 6-11. Please register. 4 p.m. Carrico/Fort Thomas Branch. 1000 Highland Ave., Fort Thomas KY. www.cc-pl.org. 859-572-5033.

Teen Writers Club Get new ideas, offer and get advice from other teens. Ages 1218. Please register. 4 p.m. Cold Spring Branch. 3920 Alexandria Pike, Cold Spring KY. http://www.cc-pl.org. (859)781-6166.

Come join us on special Wednesdays for a warm and gooey grilled cheese. Bring extras for your picnic or purchase a combo meal with sides and a drink. Hot dogs will also be available, as well as fun activities for kids after your picnic. Dates: June 3, 17, July 1, 15 & August 12. 11 am - 12:30 pm.

Sandwich = $1, Combo = $2.

Anderson Township Park District - Beech Acres Park Playground.

6910 Salem Rd, Cincinnati Oh. http://www.andersonparks. com/ProgramListing.html.

513-388-4513.

Health Screening BALLET BASICS Bring your ballerinas in their pink tights, black leotards and ballet shoes* for a Ballet Class on Mondays at 4 pm. We have a brand new wood dance floor, wall mirrors, ballet barres, ballet music and a great new teacher Ms. Blair Godshall. Ages 5-12.

4 p.m. $1 walk in. Clifton Performance Theatre. 404 Ludlow Avenue, Cincinnati OH. www.cliftonperformancetheatre. com. 513-861-SHOW (7469).

Preschool Story Time with Miss Gail

Tuesday 10 Adventure Club: Anne Frank

Blood pressure, height, weight, foot and spinal screenings. Walkins welcome.

Appointment recommended. 9 am- 12 pm. free.

Burlington Family Chiropractic.

2612 Burlington Pike, Burlington KY. 859-746-2225.

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Join us in the secret annex where Anne and her family hid from the Nazis for two years. Ages 6-11. Please register. 4 p.m.

Newport Branch. 901 E. Sixth St.. http://www.cc-pl.org.

(859)572-5035. www.cc-pl.org.

Get ready for finger puppet fun, as well as other pleasant surprises with Miss Gail.

10:30 am. Free. Blue Manatee Children’s Bookstore. 3065 Madison Rd., Cincinnati OH. www.bluemanateebooks.com.

513-731-2665.

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Dessert & Dialogue with author Craig Holden

The Unity Center. 1401 East McMillen, Cincinnati OH. www.

HealingTouchProgram.Com. 513.221.1660.

Craig Holden visits the library to share his insights as a writer, and his experiences with writing The Jazz Bird. 7 p.m. Carrico/Fort Thomas Branch. 1000 Highland Ave., Fort Thomas KY. www.cc-pl.org. 859572-5033.

Second Saturday at Mount Washington ArtWorks

Level 4 Party in the Fountain Square garage on level 4. 8 p.m. Midnight. Fountain Square. 520 Vine St., Cincinnati OH. www. myfountainsquare.com. (513) 352-4066.

New Moonapalooza Edward or Jacob? Jacob or Edward? After the Library closes the debate opens. Pizza, trivia, vampire trinkets and much more! Please register.

Ages 11-18. 7 p.m. Newport Branch. 901 E. Sixth St.. www.cc-pl.org.

(859)572-5035. www.cc-pl.org.

Stay at home dads weekly playgroup

Join us for an exhibit and free class at our beautiful art studio the Second Saturday of every month. Make an art project, enjoy refreshments, and view an art class in session. All free. All ages welcome. 11:00 -3:00. Free. Mount Washington ArtWorks. 6450 Sherman, Anderson Township OH. cincinnatiartclasses.com. 513 232-3738.

BALLET BASICS Bring your ballerinas in their pink tights, black leotards and ballet shoes* for a Ballet Class on Mondays at 4 pm. We have a brand new wood dance floor, wall mirrors, ballet barres, ballet music and a great new teacher Ms. Blair Godshall. Ages 5-12. 4 p.m. $1 walk in. Clifton Performance Theatre. 404 Ludlow Avenue, Cincinnati OH. www. cliftonperformancetheatre.com. 513-861-SHOW (7469).

Tuesday 17

Vendor Event at Eastgate Mall

Adventure Club: Native American Crafts

Lots of fun and exciting new products from your favorite vendors. Kid friendly and Eco friendly products. Shop for the holidays all in one place. mall hours. free. Eastgate Mall. Eastgate Blvcd., Cincinnati oh. www.my.tupperware.com/riverboat. 513-769-3311.

Make Native American crafts with beads, feathers and cords!

Ages 6-11. Please register. 4 p.m. Newport Branch. 901 E. Sixth St.. www.cc-pl.org. (859)572-5035. www.cc-pl.org.

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Cincinnati Cyclones vs. Trenton Devils Hockey. 10:30 a.m. Various. U. S. Bank Arena. 100 Broadway, Cincinnati OH. www.cycloneshockey.com/. 800-745-3000.

This is a private group for at-home dads in Cincinnati. Sign up and register at cincinnatidads.ning.com/ to gain access to the announcements and regular updates. The weekly playgroup meets at various parks and attractions around Cincinnati and Northern Kentucky. cincinnatidads.ning.com/.

Accent chamber Music Recital

Home Sweet Habitat

6:30 p.m. All events are free unless othewise noted. CollegeConservatory of Music. Watson Recital Hall, Cincinnati OH. www. ccm.uc.edu. 513-556-4183.

Vendor Event at Eastgate Mall

ALICE IN WONDERLAND

Lots of fun and exciting new products from your favorite vendors. Kid friendly and Eco friendly products. Shop for the holidays all in one place. mall hours. free. Eastgate Mall. Eastgate Blvcd., Cincinnati oh. www.my.tupperware.com/riverboat. 513-769-3311.

Bring your children to be inspired and entertained by the cast of kids age 13 and under, who act, sing and dance like pros (but are really just ordinary kids). This musical adaptation of Lewis Carroll’s classic is family friendly, clever, artistic and entertaining for all ages. 2 p.m. Tickets are $7/child, $10/adults, $8/seniors. Clifton Performance Theatre. 404 Ludlow Avenue, Cincinnati OH. www. cliftonperformancetheatre.com. 513-861-SHOW (7469).

For ages 4-6. What are the basic needs of animals in their habitats? What are adaptations? Discover these and more through hands-on activities. Register by November 13, call 513-321-6070 ext. 16 for more information and to register.

10:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Avon Woods Nature Center. 4235 Paddock Road, Cincinnati OH. www.cincinnatiparks.com.

513-321-6070 ext. 16.

Saturday 14 Common Childhood Illness

Chandra: What X-Ray Astronomy Reveals

The Cincinnati Red Cross is offering a course on childhood illness.

Learn about specific childhood communicable diseases, how diseases are spread and what to do when a child is ill. Meets Ohio and Kentucky licensing requirements for daycare and preschool employees.

Certification valid for 3 years. Registration required. 9:00am-4:00pm. $25. Red Cross Northeast Office. 10870 Kenwood Road, Cincinnati OH. www.cincinnatiredcross.org. 513-792-4000.

This program features striking images that NASA’s Chandra’s X-ray astronomy has captured over the last 10 years and the scientific discoveries that resulted. Find out interesting facts, like why Cassiopeia A, a supernova in the Milky Way, acts like a pinball machine, or how stars and black holes are formed. 2 pm. $6 in advance, $7 at the door. Drake Planetarium. 2020 Sherman Ave., Norwood OH. www. drakeplanetarium.org. (513)396-5578.

Kathy Wade

Frisch Marionettes

8 p.m. $10 in advance, $12 at the door. Raymond Walters College.

9555 Plainfield Rd, Blue Ash OH. www.rwc.uc.edu. (513)745-5705.

Award-winning Frisch Marionettes delight audiences of all ages. 2 p.m. Boone Co. Main Library. 1786 Burlington Pike,, Burlington KY. www.bcpl.org. (859)342-BOOK.

Linton’s Peanut Butter & Jam Sessions present...Dancing Day - Bach, Vivaldi and Irish Jigs!

Dance along with the cello, piano, flute and Irish Penny-Whistle!

Children’s chamber music series for preschoolers and their families.

Interactive, Educational, and Fun! Tickets available at the door or by calling 513.381.6868. Free Graeter’s cookies at every concert! 10am and 11:30am. $4.00 per person or $12.00 for Flex-Book of 4 tickets good at any PB&J concert. Visit www.lintonmusic.org. 10am and 11:30am. $4/per person or $12 for Flex-book of 4 tickets good at any PB&J. Kennedy Heights Presbyterian Church. 6312 Kennedy Avenue, Cincinnati OH. www.lintonmusic.org. 513.381.6868.

FAIRY TALE FOREST - Drama/Dance Exploration Dance like Cinderella. Huff and puff like the big bad wolf. Join us as we dance and act our way through classic fairy tales. 11 a.m. $12 walk in. Clifton Performance Theatre. 404 Ludlow Avenue, Cincinnati OH. www.cliftonperformancetheatre.com. 513-861-SHOW (7469).

Healing Touch Practice Group Learn how to use your hands to relieve stress, tension, pain & calm emotions in yourself & your child. Different topics covered each month. Please contact Daniel Snyder - dsnyder004@cinci.rr.com Second Saturday of every month. 10:30 am - 12:30 pm. $10.00.

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Studio Sunday Join members of the Cincinnati Art Club for an informal afternoon of sketching in the Art Museum’s permanent collections.

Materials and instruction included. Reservations not required. Call (513) 721-ARTS or visit www. cincinnatiartmuseum.org for more information. 1-4 p.m. Cincinnati Art Museum. 953 Eden Park Dr., Cincinnati OH. www.cincinnatiartmuseum.org.

(513)721-ARTS.

Monday 16 Baby Adventurers Ages 1 - 2 with adult caregiver Mondays Sept. 21, Oct. 19, Nov. 23, Dec. 21 A perfect introduction to sharing nature with your toddler, this four-part program meets one Monday a month for four months. During each hour-long session, discover the wonders of nature with your child using simple sensory experiences and fun indoor and outdoor play. 9:30 -10:30 a.m. or 11:00 a.m.-12:00 p.m. $40 members; $50 nonmembers.

Cincinnati Nature Center. 4949 Tealtown Rd., Milford OH. www.cincynature.org. 831-1711.

Navigating Social Medicare/Medicaid

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Dennis Heywood, former SSA employee and expert on the federal benefits system, answers your questions and gives you tools to understand and navigate the system. Adults. Please register. 6:30 p.m. Carrico/Fort Thomas Branch. 1000 Highland Ave., Fort Thomas KY. www.cc-pl.org. 859-5725033.

Wednesday 18 20th Century Chinese History through Western Eyes Find out about the changing world of China during a special lecture with James Uhrig, Cin Liu Sister City Fundraiser. Cost: $20 general admission, $10 for Art Museum members, Sister City members, students and seniors. Reservations required.

7 p.m. 20 general admission, $10 Art Museum members.

Cincinnati Art Museum. 953 Eden Park Dr., Cincinnati OH. www.cincinnatiartmuseum.org. (513)721-ARTS.

Cincinnati Cyclones vs. Trenton Devils Hockey. 7:30 p.m. Various. U. S. Bank Arena. 100 Broadway, Cincinnati OH. www.cycloneshockey.com/.

800-745-3000.

Grilled Cheese Wednesdays Come join us on special Wednesdays for a warm and gooey grilled cheese. Bring extras for your picnic or purchase a combo meal with sides and a drink. Hot dogs will also be available, as well as fun activities for kids after your picnic. Dates: June 3, 17, July 1, 15 & August 12. 11 am - 12:30 pm. Sandwich = $1, Combo = $2. Anderson Township Park District - Beech Acres Park Playground. 6910 Salem Rd, Cincinnati Oh. www. andersonparks.com/ProgramListing.html. 513-388-4513.

Health Screening Blood pressure, height, weight, foot and spinal screenings.

Walk-ins welcome. Appointment recommended. 9 am- 12 pm. free. Burlington Family Chiropractic. 2612 Burlington Pike, Burlington KY. 859-746-2225.

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♪ Happy Birthday to You ♪ You bring the birthday and we’ll bring the party!

Choose from a variety of unique themes!

Limited Time! Egypt Party It’s perfect for your budding Archaeologist or Egyptologist. Make your very own amulet to take home, play a tomb robber game and create a cartouche of your name. You will even get to enjoy the Lost Egypt exhibit after the party ends!

Fish Tales Hear the story of Gumpy the goldfish, participate in a puppet show, and go looking for fish friends in the “Animal Spot” exhibit.

Pet Party Bring your favorite stuffed animal and learn about pet care as you visit the “Kids Town” veterinarian’s office. Enjoy a visit from one of our educational animals!

Construction Learn about bridge and arch construction while you use the giant crane in the “Kids at Work” exhibit.

Dinosaur Examine fossils and visit the “Dino Hall” exhibit as you delve into the fascinating world of dinosaurs.

Cave Enjoy a visit from a live bat and tour the exciting “Cavern” exhibit as you discover the “ins” and “outs” of cave life.

Tea Party Learn the basics of Tea Etiquette. Play dress-up and plan your ideal tea party when you visit the grocery store in the Kid’s Town section of the Children’s Museum! *Note: Apple juice, not tea, is served at the tea party*

Toddler Party (ages 3 and under) We now offer an open party for our youngest visitors. It is held in the Duke Energy Children’s Museum.

We provide cake, refreshments and a staff member to assist.

Sit back and relax…we’ll do all the work!

Parties include: amazing party presenters, a theme-related program, fun activities, an awesome Servatii’s cake, cool decorations and more!

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p.m. $10-$105. Music Hall. 1241 Elm St., Cincinnati OH. www. cincinnatisymphony.org/home2.asp. 513-381-3300.

Adventure Club: Corn Husk Dolls

Free Saturday Event: Vocal Care (Jill Dew)

Help with the Thanksgiving decorations around your house by making a traditional Native American corn husk doll. Ages 6-11.

Please register. 4 p.m. Cold Spring Branch. 3920 Alexandria Pike, Cold Spring KY. www.cc-pl.org. (859)781-6166.

12:15 p.m. All events are free unless othewise noted. CollegeConservatory of Music. Mary Emory Hall, Cincinnati OH. www. ccm.uc.edu. 513-556-4183.

Turkey Bowl FAIRY TALE FOREST - Drama/Dance Exploration

Chandra: What X-Ray Astronomy Reveals This program features striking images that NASA’s Chandra’s X-ray astronomy has captured over the last 10 years and the scientific discoveries that resulted. Find out interesting facts, like why Cassiopeia A, a supernova in the Milky Way, acts like a pinball machine, or how stars and black holes are formed. 7 pm. $6 in advance, $7 at the door. Drake Planetarium. 2020 Sherman Ave., Norwood OH. www.drakeplanetarium.org. (513)396-5578.

Do It Yourself: Teen Scrapbooking Learn how to make your memories special and create pages for your scrapbook. Ages 12-18. Please register. 4 p.m. Carrico/Fort Thomas Branch.

1000 Highland Ave., Fort Thomas KY. www.cc-pl.org. 859-572-5033.

STREET TEAM - Hip Hop Dance Class Come and dance! This electrifying class integrates hip hop and modern to get anyone moving. Appropriate for students with experience or without. Great exercise and guaranteed fun! Ages 7-16. 4 p.m. $15 walk in fee. Clifton Performance Theatre. 404 Ludlow Avenue, Cincinnati OH. www.cliftonperformancetheatre. com. 513-861-SHOW (7469).

Friday 20 Cincinnati Symphony Orchestra Then and Now: Music of Connesson, Mozart and Brahms. Featuring violinist Henning Kraggerud. Stephanie Deneve, conductor. 8 p.m. $10-$105. Music Hall. 1241 Elm St., Cincinnati OH. www. cincinnatisymphony.org/home2.asp. 513-381-3300.

Dance like Cinderella. Huff and puff like the big bad wolf. Join us as we dance and act our way through classic fairy tales. 11 a.m. $12 walk in. Clifton Performance Theatre. 404 Ludlow Avenue, Cincinnati OH. www.cliftonperformancetheatre.com. 513-861-SHOW (7469).

Sunday 22 Great Girls to Wonderful Women: Raising Confident, Competent Daughters Isaac M. Wise Temple Sisterhood, The Valley Temple Sisterhood and Jewish Family Service with help from a grant from the Jewish Women’s Endowment Fund of the Jewish Federation of Cincinnati will host “Great Girls to Wonderful Women: Raising Confident, Competent Daughters.” Rabbi Edythe Mencher, LSW, the co-author of the book “Resilience of the Soul: Developing Emotional and Spiritual Resilience in Adolescents and Their Families” is the featured speaker.

She will share her thoughts about raising emotionally resilient children in these times. Rabbi Mencher’s work is grounded in Jewish text and can serve as a guide for those seeking to support and strengthen teens and their families. The book addresses the realities of low self-esteem, depression, eating disorders, binge drinking, substance abuse, and selfinflicted violence among teenagers. This program is appropriate for mothers and fathers, grandmothers and grandfathers, aunts and uncles, educators and health care professionals or anyone who cares about kids (boys and girls). RSVP is encouraged so that we can plan for a light snack and beverages. To RSVP please send checks made out to Wise Temple Sisterhood to Joyce Alpiner, 8696 Birchbark Drive, Cincinnati, OH 45249. Questions? Call Gloria Wolfson (513-531-8958) or email Laura Beasley (laurabeasley@cinci.rr.com). 2 p.m. $5. Isaac M. Wise Temple. 8329 Ridge Road, Cincinnati OH. 513-531-8958.

White Mane & Red Balloon (1998) Discover Europe through a child’s eyes. In White Mane & Red Balloon, follow a boy throughout France as he interacts with a whitehaired, wild horse and a seemingly sentient red balloon. Follow objects and images that recur throughout the Art Museum’s collections. Call (513) 721-ARTS or visit www.cincinnatiartmuseum.org for more information. 7 p.m. $8 for general admission or $5 for Art Museum members, students,. Cincinnati Art Museum. 953 Eden Park Dr., Cincinnati OH. www.cincinnatiartmuseum.org. (513)721-ARTS.

PinkFest~Shopping for the cure!

Stay at home dads weekly playgroup

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This is a private group for at-home dads in Cincinnati. Sign up and register at cincinnatidads.ning.com/ to gain access to the announcements and regular updates. The weekly playgroup meets at various parks and attractions around Cincinnati and Northern Kentucky. cincinnatidads.ning.com/.

Saturday 21 Cake Town by Busken Bakery

Join us for a day of shopping fun with 85+ vendors and 100 raffle prizes to win. All raffles benefit Susan G. Komen for the Cure Greater Cincinnati! There will be something for everyone, and a great place to do your christmas shopping ~all while supporting a great cause. 10am-4pm. FREE. Receptions Eastgate. 4450 Eastgate Blvd, Cincinnati OH. www.cincypinkfest.com. 513 561-3355.

Adventure Club: History Detectives We found a time capsule, but we don’t know when it was buried.

Help us solve the mystery! Ages 6-11. Please register. 4 p.m. Carrico/ Fort Thomas Branch. 1000 Highland Ave., Fort Thomas KY. www. cc-pl.org. 859-572-5033.

Tuesday 24

Hands-on with “Mayor” of Cake Town Cami Smith, Cake Town Extraaordinaire. Children will decorate a cake to look like a turkey!.

10 a.m., 11 a.m., 12 p.m., 2 p.m., 3 p.m. $9.95. Hyde Park Busken Bakery. Madison Rd. & Edwards Rd., Cincinnati OH. www. busken.com/caketown.php. 513-871-5330.

Adventure Club: Turkey Jamboree

Cincinnati Symphony Orchestra

Babysitter’s Training COurse

Then and Now: Music of Connesson, Mozart and Brahms. Featuring violinist Henning Kraggerud. Stephanie Deneve, conductor. 8

The Cincinnati Red Cross is providing training courses for babysitters ages 11-15. Babysitters will learn accident prevention,

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emergency first aid, diapering and feeding as well as how to interact with children through games and activities. The Red Cross babysitting course is a great way to earn parents’ trust and to increase demand as a babysitter! Registration required. 5:00pm-9:00pm. $40.

Red Cross Northeast Office. 10870 Kenwood Road, Cincinnati OH. www.cincinnatiredcross.org. 513-792-4000.

Hoot, holler and play your homemade musical instruments along with Bear Foot Band! Ages 6-11. Please register. 4 p.m. Newport Branch. 901 E. Sixth St.. www.cc-pl.org. (859)572-5035. www.cc-pl.org.

The downtown community will get the opportunity to send turkeys flying! www.myfountainsquare.com/turkeybowl. Noon - 1 p.m. Fountain Square. 520 Vine St., Cincinnati OH. www. myfountainsquare.com. (513) 352-4066.

Wednesday 25 Cincinnati Cyclones vs. Kalamazoo Wings Hockey. 7:30 p.m. Various. U. S. Bank Arena. 100 Broadway, Cincinnati OH. www.cycloneshockey.com/. 800-745-3000.

Wednesday at the Movies Wednesday at the Movies: a monthly film discussion group will be held at 2 p.m., Wednesday, November 25 at the Batavia Branch Library, 180 South Third Street, Batavia 45103. The session is open to all interested adults. This month’s title is Munyurangabo directed

by Lee Isaac Chung of Rwanda. For more information, call the library at 732-2128. 2 p.m. Batavia Branch. 180 S. Third St, Batavia OH. www.clermontlibrary.org. (513)732-2128.

Health Screening Blood pressure, height, weight, foot and spinal screenings. Walkins welcome. Appointment recommended. 9 am- 12 pm. free.

Burlington Family Chiropractic. 2612 Burlington Pike, Burlington KY. 859-746-2225.

Thursday 26 FREE admission on Thanksgiving Day Happy Thanksgiving with FREE admission on Thanksgiving Day. Burn off the turkey and casserole with a walk around the grounds!

Buildings are closed, restrooms available outside, the Visitors Center, and Thornhill Shelter. All ages. 7 a.m. to 7 p.m. or sunset, whichever is earlier.

The Morton Arboretum. 4100 Illinois Route 53, Lisle OH. www. mortonarb.org. 630-968-0074.

Rock-N-Skate Grand opening of the U.S. Bank Ice Rink at noon with live music from 5pm to 9pm, beverages, and food. 5 p.m. - 9 p.m. Fountain Square. 520 Vine St., Cincinnati OH. www.myfountainsquare.com.

(513) 352-4066.

STREET TEAM - Hip Hop Dance Class Come and dance! This electrifying class integrates hip hop and modern to get anyone moving. Appropriate for students with experience or without. Great exercise and guaranteed fun! Ages 7-16.

4 p.m. $15 walk in fee. Clifton Performance Theatre. 404 Ludlow Avenue, Cincinnati OH. www.cliftonperformancetheatre.com. 513861-SHOW (7469).

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Hockey. 7:30 p.m. Various. U. S. Bank Arena. 100 Broadway, Cincinnati OH. www. cycloneshockey.com/. 800-745-3000.

Light Up the Square Arrive early and stay late as Cincinnati officially welcomes the holiday season at the annual lighting of the holiday tree on Fountain Square www.myfountainsquare.com/lightup. Fountain Square. 520 Vine St., Cincinnati OH. www. myfountainsquare.com. (513) 352-4066.

Stay at home dads weekly playgroup This is a private group for at-home dads in Cincinnati. Sign up and register at cincinnatidads.ning.com/ to gain access to the announcements and regular updates. The weekly playgroup meets at various parks and attractions around Cincinnati and Northern Kentucky. cincinnatidads.ning.com/.

Holiday Skies Laser & Star Show Looking for something special to do over the Thanksgiving weekend? Bring the entire family to Drake Planetarium for our unique Holiday Laser show. Enjoy a dazzling laser light display set to many of your Holiday favorites, both old and new. Featuring Mariah Carey, Bing Crosby, Randy Travis and many more! Reservations are recommended. 27 & 28: 7:00 pm; 29: 2 pm. $6 in advance, $7 at the door. Family Pack of Four tickets $20. Drake Planetarium. 2020 Sherman Ave., Norwood OH. www.drakeplanetarium. org. (513)396-5578.

Saturday 28 FAIRY TALE FOREST Dance Exploration

It wouldn’t be Christmas without a visit from Scrooge

Fountain Square. 520 Vine St., Cincinnati OH. www.myfountainsquare.com. (513) 352-4066.

Sunday 29 Cincinnati Bengals vs.

Cleveland Browns Football. 1 p.m. $64-$82. Paul Brown Stadium. 1 Bengals Drive, Cincinnati OH. 513-621-8383.

Cook Kids Nature Hikes

By Charles Dickens • Adapted by Howard Dallin

Calling all cool kids! Get out and stretch your legs with “Cook Kids Nature Hikes.” Take a 20 minute hike followed by a warm cup of cocoa.

Hike theme changes every 2 weeks and depends on weather conditions. All ages. The Children’s Garden. November 27 and 30: 10:30 a.m. and 11:30 a.m. November 28-29: 10:30 a.m., 11:30 a.m. and 12:30 p.m. The Morton Arboretum.

4100 Illinois Route 53, Lisle OH. www. mortonarb.org. 630-968-0074.

December 3 – 30, 2009 “For my money, there is no better local holiday entertaiment.”

- Cincinnati Enquirer

Special Price for children (age 5-12, under 5 not admitted) and teens (age 13-19).

Hoilday Skies Laser & Star Show Looking for something special to do over the Thanksgiving weekend? Bring the entire family to Drake Planetarium for our unique Holiday Laser show. Enjoy a dazzling laser light display set to many of your Holiday favorites, both old and new. Featuring Mariah Carey, Bing Crosby, Randy Travis and many more! Reservations are recommended. 27 & 28: 7:00 pm; 29: 2 pm. $6 in advance, $7 at the door. Family Pack of Four tickets $20 i. Drake Planetarium. 2020 Sherman Ave., Norwood OH. www.drakeplanetarium. org. (513)396-5578.

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Dance like Cinderella. Huff and puff like the big bad wolf. Join us as we dance and act our way through classic fairy tales. 11 a.m. $12 walk in. Clifton Performance Theatre. 404 Ludlow Avenue, Cincinnati OH. www.cliftonperformancetheatre.com.

513-861-SHOW (7469).

Holiday Skies Laser & Star Show Looking for something special to do over the Thanksgiving weekend? Bring the entire family to Drake Planetarium for our unique Holiday Laser show. Enjoy a dazzling laser light display set to many of your Holiday favorites, both old and new. Featuring Mariah Carey, Bing Crosby, Randy Travis and many more! Reservations are recommended. 27 & 28: 7:00 pm; 29: 2 pm. $6 in advance, $7 at the door. Family Pack of Four tickets $20 i. Drake Planetarium. 2020 Sherman Ave., Norwood OH. www.drakeplanetarium. org. (513)396-5578.

Macy’s Downtown Dazzle Santa rappels off a building at Fountain Square along with other holiday festivities produced

by Downtown Cincinnati, Inc. www. myfountainsquare.com/dazzle****. 6:30 p.m.

Do you want a pet that you don’t have to feed or walk? Join us and make your own special pet to take home. Ages 6-11. Please register. 4 p.m.

Carrico/Fort Thomas Branch. 1000 Highland Ave., Fort Thomas KY. www.cc-pl.org. 859572-5033.

BALLET BASICS Bring your ballerinas in their pink tights, black leotards and ballet shoes* for a Ballet Class on Mondays at 4 pm. We have a brand new wood dance floor, wall mirrors, ballet barres, ballet music and a great new teacher Ms. Blair Godshall. Ages 5-12.

4 p.m. $1 walk in. Clifton Performance Theatre. 404 Ludlow Avenue, Cincinnati OH. www.cliftonperformancetheatre.com.

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Cook Kids Nature Hikes Calling all cool kids! Get out and stretch your legs with “Cook Kids Nature Hikes.” Take a 20 minute hike followed by a warm cup of cocoa. Hike theme changes every 2 weeks and depends on weather conditions. All ages. The Children’s Garden. November 27 and 30: 10:30 a.m. and 11:30 a.m. November 28-29: 10:30 a.m., 11:30 a.m. and 12:30 p.m. The Morton Arboretum. 4100 Illinois Route 53, Lisle OH. www.mortonarb.org. 630-968-0074.

November 7 – December 31, 2009

By Connie Ray Conceived by Alan Bailey

The Sanders family is back! The sequel to one of the Playhouse’s most popular and beloved comedies returns with a heavenly evening of music, faith and old-fashioned fun.

Honoring the brave men & women in our armed forces.

Season presented by The Otto M. Budig Family Foundation and Heidelberg Distributing Company.

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Anderson Hills MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers)

Fall Floral Show - Backyard Birds & Wildlife

Ongoing on the first Thursday of each Month. Join other moms of children of ages birth through kindergarten in a fun, relaxing, helpful atmosphere. Each month a new topic is discussed relating to the world of motherhood. The group meets the first Thursday of each month, September through May. A new member’s first meeting is free, the cost thereafter is $23.95 for the year and $5 per meeting for supplies. Childcare is available at a rate of $4 per child per meeting, maximum of $10 per family. 9:30-11:30. Anderson Hills United Methodist Church. 7515 Forest Rd (Corner of Beechmont and Forest), Anderson Township OH. www.andersonhillsumc.org/ mops.php. (513) 231-4172.

Occurring Daily Through Sunday, November 01, 2009. Backyard Birds and Wildlife: discover a safari in our own back yard. We will teach you how to attract birds and wildlife into your yard by providing food, water and natural habitats. Krohn Conservatory. 1501 Eden Park Dr, Cincinnati OH. www.greatparks.org. (513)421-5707.

Boom at Know Theatre Occurring Daily Through Saturday, November 07, 2009. Know Theatre of Cincinnati is thrilled to open it’s twelfth season with the original premiere of Boom, a funny, slightly warped and ultimately hopeful look at the apocalypse that follows a young marine biologist as he prepares for the imminent end of the world. Performances at 8 p.m. and 3 p.m. on select days. Tickets are $12 in advance and $15 on the day of the performance. Know Theatre of Cincinnati. 1120 Jackson Street, Cincinnati OH. www.knowtheatre.com. 513-300KNOW.

Circle of Life Occurring Each Saturday Beginning Saturday, November 07, 2009 Through Saturday, November 28, 2009. Belly dancing has a long history of exercising the muscles that are used during childbirth and to strengthen and maintain muscle tone as we mature. Taking cues from Tribal Fusion Belly Dance, a combination of Middle Eastern Belly Dance, Flamenco, Classical Indian dances, North African and Salsa dances, this fun alternative exercise option teaches how to connect to the feminine aspects of strength, power and confidence along with connecting to a child that grows inside you. Join us as we prepare our bodies for the journey of childbirth and revel in our motherhood! Women at all stages of life welcomed.

11:30 a.m. to 12:15 p.m. Registration is $50/5-class package or $13/ class. Cincinnati Family Enrichment Center. 4244 Hamilton Ave., Cincinnati OH. www.theplaceforfamilies.com. (513)591-CFEC.

Crime Lab Detectives Occurring Daily Through Sunday, January 10, 2010. From the first clue of a shattered window, Crime Lab Detectives invites visitors to search for forensic clues and weigh the evidence to solve a trueto-life crime. Lift fingerprints, examine DNA, and document the scene of the crime as you sleuth your way through this CSI-style exhibition and learn what it takes to be a modern day detective.

Monday-Saturday, 11:00 a.m.-5:00 p.m.; Sunday noon-5:00 p.m.

Adults $8.50, Seniors (60+) $7.50, Children 2-12 $7.50, Children.

Boonshoft Museum of Discovery. 2600 DeWeese Parkway, Dayton OH. www.BoonshoftMuseum.org. 937-275-7431.

FAIRY TALE FOREST - Drama/Dance Exploration Occurring Each Saturday Beginning Saturday, November 07, 2009 Through Saturday, November 28, 2009. Dance like Cinderella.

Huff and puff like the big bad wolf. Join us as we dance and act our way through classic fairy tales. 11 a.m. $12 walk in. Clifton Performance Theatre. 404 Ludlow Avenue, Cincinnati OH. www. cliftonperformancetheatre.com. 513-861-SHOW (7469).

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recommended. Two children ages 12 and under get in free with paying adult during Summer Family Hours 4:30-7 p.m. Sunday-Friday. 10 a.m.- 6 p.m. $20, $13 ages 2-12. Newport Aquarium. One Aquarium Way, Newport KY. www.newportaquarium.com. (859)261-7444.

PETER PAN

Occurring Daily Beginning Friday, November 27, 2009 Through Sunday, January 03, 2010. All aboard the Holiday Railroad! Get in the holiday spirit with this holiday train display that will entertain visitors of all ages. Feel like you’re aboard the train yourself with a small camera that captures the ride and projects it on to a little screen. All ages. Visitor Center Events Room. Closed Christmas Eve, Christmas, and New Years’. 9 a.m.-4 p.m. The Morton Arboretum. 4100 Illinois Route 53, Lisle OH. www.mortonarb.org. 630-968-0074.

Occurring Each Sunday Beginning Sunday, November 01, 2009 Through Sunday, November 08, 2009. Children’s Repertory of Clifton Performance Theatre is performing PETER PAN, a Kathryn Schultz Miller’s adaptation with all of our favorite music numbers.

Join us on a journey to Neverland with this talented and inspiring all-child cast. Please log on to CliftonPerformanceTheatre.com or call 513-861-7469 to purchase tickets. SPACE IS LIMITED, SO PLEASE PURCHASE YOUR TICKET IN ADVANCE. 2 p.m. Tickets are $7/child, $10/adults, $8/seniors. Clifton Performance Theatre. 404 Ludlow Avenue, Cincinnati OH. www.cliftonperformancetheatre. com. 513-861-SHOW (7469).

Lake Isabella Fishing Boathouse

Pink Floyd “Dark Side of the Moon ” Laser Show

Occurring Daily Through Sunday, November 15, 2009. Full-service boathouse with rowboat rentals. Open fishing year-round in 28-acre lake with outdoor fishing pier from dusk to dawn. Mon. - Fri. 8 a.m.12 p.m.; Sat. and Sun. 7 a.m.- 6 p.m. $9.50 for 12-hour permit, free ages 12 and under and ages 60 and. Lake Isabella. 10174 LovelandMadeira Road, Cincinnati OH. www.greatparks.org/.

513-521-7275.

Ongoing Daily. Travel back to the 70’s and experience an everchanging universe of brilliantly colored laser light pulsing to the classic rock music of Pink Floyd’s “Dark Side of the Moon” album.

If you have been to a Pink Floyd laser show before, you know what a phenomenal experience it is. Come see this updated show that still captures the mood of the original. 9 p.m. 6 in advance, $7 at the door.

Family Pack of Four tickets $20 in. Drake Planetarium-4th floor of Norwood High School. 2020 Sherman Ave., Norwood OH. www. drakeplanetarium.org. (513)396-5578.

Holiday Railroad!

Macy’s Downtown Dazzle Occurring Each Saturday Beginning Saturday, November 28, 2009 Through Saturday, December 19, 2009.

Santa rappels off a building at Fountain Square along with other holiday festivities produced by Downtown Cincinnati, Inc. www.myfountainsquare.com. 6:30 p.m. Fountain Square. 520 Vine St., Cincinnati OH. www.myfountainsquare.com. (513) 352-4066.

Railway Museum of Greater Cincinnati Occurring Daily Through Wednesday, December 30, 2009. Climb aboard a caboose or a diesel switch engine. 10 a.m.- 4 p.m. $4, $2 ages 10 and under. Railway Museum of Greater Cincinnati. 315 W. Southern Ave., Covington KY. 513-574-7672.

Santa Skates Mom-to-Mom Occurring Each Thursday Beginning Thursday, November 05, 2009 Through Thursday, November 26, 2009. You’ve made it through the birth- now what? Where can you turn to for support, encouragement, understanding, and answers to your “new mom” questions? The CFEC! We’re here for you. Join us monthly for as long as you need the companionship of other new parents struggling with the same issues as you. We understand; we’ve been there. Cincinnati Family Enrichment Center. 4244 Hamilton Ave., Cincinnati OH. www. theplaceforfamilies.com. (513)591-CFEC.

New Lion Cubs at the Columbus Zoo! Occurring Daily Beginning Sunday, November 01, 2009 Through Monday, November 30, 2009. Three African lion cubs were born at the Columbus Zoo and Aquarium on September 22, 2009. The first arrived about 1:30 PM, the second a half-hour later, and the third cub was born about 8:30 PM. Lion cubs have not been born at the Columbus Zoo since 1985. The cubs are the first for mother Asali and father Tomo. Asali is caring for her babies in a secluded den, where they will remain for the next few months, and perhaps longer depending on weather. Viewing information will be announced as soon as it becomes available. 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. $12 for adults, $7 for children. Columbus Zoo & Aquarium. 4850 West Powell Road, Powell OH. www.columbuszoo.org. 800-666-5397.

Newport Aquarium Occurring Daily Through Thursday, December 31, 2009. Hours subject to change without notice. Purchasing tickets prior to visit

Occurring Every Sun & Sat Beginning Saturday, November 28, 2009 Through Sunday, December 20, 2009. Santa arrives at the ice rink on his Segway and skates with the children. Saturdays, 11am to noon & Sundays, noon to 1pm. Fountain Square. 520 Vine St., Cincinnati OH. www.myfountainsquare.com. (513) 352-4066.

Space Adventures Occurring Daily Through Sunday, January 10, 2010. Explore the coldest reaches of space as you re-live the adventures of favorite fictional space adventurers, and dream of what may be “out there” as you build a moon base, space station, space ship, or even go on a Galaxy Quest. Monday-Saturday 11:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m., Sunday 12:00-5:00 p.m. Adults $8.50, Seniors (60+) $7.50, Children 2-12 $7.50, Children. Boonshoft Museum of Discovery. 2600 DeWeese Parkway, Dayton OH. www.BoonshoftMuseum.org. 937-275-7431.

Three Sisters Occurring Daily Beginning Saturday, October 24, 2009 Through Saturday, November 21, 2009. The Cincinnati Playhouse in the Park will continue its Marx Theatre season with an exciting new version of Chekhov’s THREE SISTERS by Sarah Ruhl, one of America’s most acclaimed young playwrights and author of THE CLEAN HOUSE. John Doyle, the Tony Award-winning director of COMPANY will helm the production. Commissioned by the Playhouse, this poignant tale of love and dreams and the never-ending pursuit of happiness begins previews in the Playhouse’s Robert S. Marx Theatre October 24 and continues through November 21. Cincinnati Playhouse in the Park. 962 Mt. Adams Circle, Cincinnati OH. www.cincyplay.com. (513)421-3888.

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Titanic: The Artifact Exhibition Occurring Daily Through Monday, February 15, 2010.

Tickets are on sale for Titanic: The Artifact Exhibition, viewed by more than 22million people worldwide and hailed as a must-see. The exhibition features 150 artifacts and opens at the Louisville Science Center on October 3. 9:30 a.m. to 5 p.m. Sunday through Thursday; 9:30 a.m. to 9 p.m. Friday and Saturday. $18 for adults 13 and up, $14 for children 2-12. Louisville Science Center. 727 West Main Street, Louisville KY. www.LouisvilleScience.org. 502-560-7159.

c l assi f ieds Eastern Hills Twins or More Club presents our Babies’ and Children’s Fall Clothing & Equipment Sale!

Saturday, November 3rd. 8:00 am till 12:00 noon. Half-price sale @ 11am. Nagel Middle School, 1500 Nagel Road - corner of State & Nagel in Anderson. $1.00 door charge. CASH ONLY. All sales final.

What Parents Should Know About Reading and Comprehension Development Occurring on the first Tuesday and third Tuesday of each Month Through Friday, December 18, 2009.

Do you want to help your child develop into a strong reader? Have you wondered about your chld’s reading and learning development? Come learn what research says about reading and comprehension development: 5 critical cognitive processes all strong readers must acquire; which cognitive processes are assumed to be intact before starting school; why even smart kids can fail to acquire these processes; why good readers struggle with comprehension; important benchmarks for developing readers. 9:30 - 11:00 a.m. or 4:30 - 6:00 p.m. free. Langsford Learning Acceleration Center.

9402 Towne Square Ave.,Suite B, Cincinnati OH. www.LangsfordLearning.com. 513-531-7400.

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WIZARD OF OZ

Occurring Every Fri & Sat Beginning Friday, November 06, 2009 Through Monday, November 23, 2009. Combining story-telling with yoga movement and poses stimulates your child’s creativity and imagination, as well as promoting the physical benefits of aligning the body. Using stories and songs from a variety of cultures makes the world a little smaller for young children and reinforces that kids are kids - no matter where they live, what language they speak, or what color their skin is. As we explore India, China, Germany, Egypt, and Native American cultures, to name a few, your child will develop focus, concentration, self-discipline, inner awareness and relaxation skills, as well as gaining self-confidence and self-worth. 11:30 a.m. $70/7-class package or $13/class. Cincinnati Family Enrichment Center. 4244 Hamilton Ave., Cincinnati OH. www.theplaceforfamilies.com.

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Occurring Every Sun & Sat Beginning Saturday, November 21, 2009 Through Sunday, November 29, 2009. Follow Clifton Performance Theatre’s all child cast down the yellow brick road to see the Wizard.

Dorothy’s strange and beautiful journey becomes important to everyone she meets in this inspiring classic. Friends and foes sing our old favorite songs as we find our way back to a place where dreams do come true. 7 p.m. on Saturdays, 2 p.m. on Sundays.

Tickets are $7/child, $10/adults, $8/seniors. Clifton Performance Theatre. 404 Ludlow Avenue, Cincinnati OH. www.cliftonperformancetheatre.com. 513-861SHOW (7469).

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2770 Town Center Boulevard Crestview Hills, KY 41017 • 859.344.1310 Appointments Highly Recommended. Walk-ins are welcome but may be limited based on availability. Bring a change of clothes. No subject fee or additional charges.Only one $9.95 Holiday Portrait Special of your favorite pose per family or group from October 27, 2009 - January 3, 2010. Offer not valid for business purposes, individual adult subjects or unaccompanied minors. Offer subject to change at any time. Promotional and seasonal backgrounds may vary by studio location.

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