November/December 2013

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Contents

Publisher Mary Wynne Cox mary@hamiltoncountyfamily.com

NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2013

Editor Susan Bryant susan@hamiltoncountyfamily.com

10 | On the Radar Westfield in Lights, Holiday on the Square, Noblesville Ice Festival, Forever Plaid and more!

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12 | Little Isn't Less Than

14 | An Interview with Laura Lavalle

Associate Publisher Advertising Sales Jennica Zalewski jennica@hamiltoncountyfamily.com

Fishers teen's singing career taking off

Creative Director Katie Clark katie@hamiltoncountyfamily.com

16 | Making Second Semester A Success Strategies to finish the year on a high note

Advertising Coordinator Karen Ring karen@hamiltoncountyfamily.com

20 | To Your Health Kids and migraines

22 | DĂŠcor Next Door Come in from the cold

24 | Holiday Stress

Editorial Assistant Wendy Schrepferman s.wendy@hamiltoncountyfamily.com

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Business Manager | Accounting Roxanne Burns roxanne@hamiltoncountyfamily.com

How do YOU handle these typical holiday scenarios?

26 | A Lesson in Etiquette Why manners still matter

Public Relations and Events Wendy Cox wendy@hamiltoncountyfamily.com

28 | Mommy Magic Holiday magic or madness?

30 | Holiday Fun Guide

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CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Karen Ring, Michelle Shirk, Trisha Shepherd, Elizabeth Henderson, Carolyn Loub, Nicole Turner, Mary Susan Buhner, Susan Bryant

32 | Ask the Expert Attorneys

34 | What's Cool After School Art classes

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38 | Reci-please Wild rice stuffing

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Good or bad elf?

40 | To Do With Your Crew 42 | The Last Laugh Favorite funny family moments

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Michelle Tiek Contact Us:

39 | In Our Opinion

Family fun activities

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Greetings NOVEMBER/ DECEMBER 2013

Warm Holiday Wishes Before the flurry of holiday activity begins and time is scarce, let yourself take a minute and enjoy the pause.

Do you find it is music to your ears when you hear a child use good manners? I start to worry that with face-to-face experiences being replaced with technological communication, our children are becoming less adept at interacting with others in person.

Phone manners go by the wayside when texting, abbreviations and short cuts become routine. Do manners still matter?

Yes, I think they do! Take a minute to read A Lesson in Etiquette to be reminded of the very important social skills it is our responsibility as parents to still teach.

If you have school age children, first semester grades are out. What can you do if your child’s grades were not as good as expected? Hamilton County is superb when it comes to educating our kids, but when a little additional help is needed, plenty of top notch local resources are available. If grades have veered a bit off path this semester, check out Making Second Semester a Success to get things back on track.

This time of year is when we turn our thoughts to that of giving thanks. And while I have so many people and so many things to be thankful for, this year I am especially thankful for all of my coworkers. Our team strives to produce a quality product for you, our reader. We all do a “balancing act” each and every issue as we juggle our work life with our priorities as moms and wives. But I cherish how we all pull together as a team to do what we love!

Happy Holidays Hamilton County families, we hope you enjoy reading what we enjoy delivering to you each issue!

Jennica Zalewski Associate Publisher

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On The Radar NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2013 Mark Your Calendar

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Holiday on the Square in Carmel Co-sponsored by the City of Carmel and the Carmel Arts Council, this event will kick off the season in style! Holiday entertainment, holiday farmers market, Santa, his elves and live reindeer provide a festive atmosphere for the city’s lighting ceremony on Civic Square. The Mayor officiates this event and children can get their picture with Santa for a small fee. Join the action on November 23rd from 4:30 – 6:30 p.m. Admission is free!

To learn more, visit the city’s website at www.carmel. in.gov or call 317-571-2400 for additional information.

Hamilton Town Center Holiday Festival Stilt walkers, jugglers, fire breathers, balloon artists plus live music and entertainment – all in one day at this holiday festival! Delicious food from local food trucks will also be available as well as appearances by the Indianapolis Colts, Indy Ice and Zooperstars. Santa will make his arrival and a fireworks extravaganza will complete the festivities.

Bolt for the Heart Holiday Run The Second annual Bolt for the Heart is set for Thanksgiving morning, November 28th, starting at the Carmel Palladium. The 3.3 family mile walk/run will benefit Heart Reach Carmel for the placement of life-­saving automated external defibrillation (AED) devices throughout Central Indiana.

Portable AED’s are used to restart someone’s heart in the event of sudden cardiac arrest (SCA). Each year, sudden cardiac arrest kills 335,000 people of all ages and fitness levels without warning because CPR and defibrillation usually occur too late. Proceeds from the Thanksgiving Day run will be

This fun and free event runs from 1:00 – 9:00 p.m. November 9th at Hamilton Town Center. For more information, visit www.simon. com/mall/hamilton-town-center or call 317-847-5658 to learn more.

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used to purchase portable defibrillators.

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Westfield in Lights Celebrate the start of the holiday season in Downtown Westfield on Friday, December 6th from 5:30 -8:30 p.m. at the annual Westfield in Lights celebration. See the lights while on a carriage ride on North Union Street, and check out the live nativity scene that will adorn Hadley Park. The Winter Market will feature unique arts and crafts, and music and lights will add to the evening's ambiance. Don't miss the tree lighting at 7:00 p.m. And of course, the evening wouldn't be complete without a visit from Santa and Mrs. Claus!

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For more details, call 317-804-3182 or visit www.westfield.in.gov/parks.

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Christmas ExtravaGALA at Guerin Catholic High School

Noblesville Main Street Holiday Ice Festival

Looking for just the right present for someone special this holiday? Try the Christmas ExtravaGALA – a one-day holiday bazaar with a wide variety of interesting and unique items, just in time for the gift-giving season.

Noblesville Main Street is excited to announce the 1st Annual Holiday Ice Festival. Indiana Ice Studio has been invited to carve the ice during the festival and there will be activities and fun for all ages! Bundle up and join everyone on December 6th – 7th at the Historic Courthouse Square for a wintry good time!

Come to Guerin Catholic High School on November 23rd from 12 – 4 p.m. to check out the goods. Admission is free!

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For more info call 317-374-4033 or visit www.guerincatholic.org.

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Contact Noblesville Main Street at 317-776-0205 to find out more.

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"Forever Plaid: Plaid Tidings" at Belfry Theatre Need a break from the holiday hustle and bustle? Come to the Belfry Theatre in Noblesville and see the show that promises “1950's tunes and holiday gems with a big plaid Christmas bow on top.” Show times run November 29th - 30th, December 6th - 8th and 13th – 15th, Friday and Saturday at 8:00 p.m. and Sunday at 2:00 p.m.

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Visit www.thebelfrytheatre.com or call 317-773-1085 for more information.

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little isn't LESS THAN When Fishers mom Leslie Spencer first learned her daughter would be born with dwarfism, her world was forever altered. She now embraces what makes her little girl special – and hopes the rest of us will too.

“I remember it like it happened yesterday... although it was almost a year ago. Thirty two weeks pregnant, an ultrasound appointment that seemed a little too long, an antsy almost two-year-old, a mama trying to entertain with old school Mickey Mouse episodes on the phone... and the doctor that walked in. I knew it on his face – the news was bad. He spoke the words that would forever change my life... ‘I think your daughter has dwarfism.’

The weight on my shoulders was almost too much to bear. The sting of that word cut me deep and continuously. I couldn't sleep because I wouldn't let myself forget, not even for a moment – where I would be ripped from that former life and into my new reality. I was scared. I was scared because I was afraid of what I did not know. And about dwarfism, I knew nothing.

My husband and I are 5' 8" and 5' 11" and have no history of dwarfism in our families. And now I know that achondroplasia (the most common type of dwarfism) occurs during conception when there is a "misspelling" of a particular chromosome, a one in 40,000 chance.

I could write an entire book on what happened next, but to give you an idea, it involved three things. 1) We believe God does not make mistakes and we trusted that He knew what He was doing and we had confidence in that. 2) Our friends and families rallied behind us and gave us so much belief that we were chosen for this role and we could handle anything that came our way. 3) We promised to each other that we would do everything in our power to give our daughter the best life possible. And that started with the decision to move forward.

Lilah Rose is ten months old. She has rocked our world in a way that's unexplainable. I will tell you that who I am now and who I was then are two totally different people. She has forced us to do some good 'ol sole-searching and focus on the real nitty-gritty of what is important in life. I found that it's "the magic" that happens in those ordinary moments of everyday life that holds the secret to happiness. It is a giggle, her curiosity about the littlest thing , the realization of a word understood, the crinkle of her nose, the way her eyes catch the light – this is the life worth living.

My hope for her future is simple. I want her to love life. I want her to know that each day is a gift and it should be spent doing what you love with those you love. I want her to understand that this world is full of good people. I want her to know that life is always filled with ups and downs but laughter can go a long way in healing the soul. I hope she follows in His footsteps and chooses love to be her guide.

And for everyone else, I hope you allow her to find a place in your heart where she can settle in for the long haul. I hope you get to meet her when you are out and about in the community and you see her for personality, her sense of humor, her heart. I hope you teach your children about differences and not just that they exist, but that they make this world a better place and need to be celebrated.” – Leslie Spencer

Read more from Leslie on her blog: www.dreambiglittleone.com.

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AN INTERVIEW with

Laura Lavalle Fishers teen’s singing career taking off

If you haven’t heard of Laura Lavalle yet, you will! At fourteen, the teen is already an accomplished singer and song writer. Hamilton County Family caught up with Laura to talk about her budding career.

Tell us about your musical background. When did you start singing? What kind of training have you had?

I have been singing since I could talk, but my first performance was my second grade talent show. I have been working with Blair Clark, at the Midwest School of Voice, for almost a year. Blair is not only my vocal coach, but my manager too. I’ve been writing songs for quite some time, but recently I have started writing with Narada Michael Waldon, Preston Glass and Blair Clark.

What do you most enjoy about singing?

I love singing because it's a different way of talking and expressing your feelings.

Tell us about the music video you made for one of your songs at Hamilton Southeastern Junior High last year. What was that experience like?

The making of the music video was really fun! Everyone including me was so worn out by the end of the day, but overall it was great!

What kind of music do you like to listen to? What artists do you admire?

My favorite type of music to listen to is R & B and pop. Justin Bieber is my absolute favorite artist because I have loved him since 2008. He came from nothing and he has worked so hard to get to where he is now and he cares so much about his fans. Some of my favorite female artists are Tori Kelly, Ariana Grande, Demi Lovato and Rihanna.

What would you like to do with your singing career? Any goals you’d like to accomplish?

The only thing that I want to do with my life is sing. My goal is to be signed by a major record label and to make music that people love.

Check out Laura’s music video “Overexposed” filmed at Hamilton Southeastern Junior High on YouTube!

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by: Michelle Shirk, mom of 1

Making Second Semester

A SUCCESS Strategies to finish the year on a high note

As first semester draws to a close, hopefully your children will receive praise and A’s for their efforts. If your child is struggling in school however, you’ve still got half the year to help him turn things around. Read on to learn how to get your student “back on track” academically for second semester.

up in class, to do their homework or to get good grades on their tests, they lose confidence in their abilities, then in most cases motivation becomes an issue and they stop trying,” says Kurt Spitler, Owner and Executive Director of Huntington Learning Center of Carmel.

What’s the problem?

Help at home

If a parent sees a poor grade, she should ask the student to explain the situation and what steps he has taken to remedy it, says Liana Giles, an 8th Grade English teacher at Clay Middle School. In Giles’ experience with middle schoolers, problems often stem from a lack of organization and an inability to juggle competing responsibilities.

Shannon Jones, Center Director for Lindamood-Bell Learning Processes in Carmel, agrees that difficulties in school can be caused by poor study habits or an overly busy schedule.

However, she says that students also commonly struggle as a result of an underlying issue with language processing – a problem their center specifically addresses.

Unfortunately, difficulties in school can cause students to become discouraged. “If they don’t have the skills to keep

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So what can you do to help your child? Spitler recommends parents set up a consistent time for students to study and complete homework. “Motivate, encourage and support your kids, but don’t do their assignments for them,” he says.

Jones stresses that parents should keep things positive when working with their children. “If a student gives a wrong answer, there’s probably something in that answer that is correct, so try to find the part that is correct and validate it,” she says. Parents should also keep in mind that all students learn differently, says Giles. School guidance counselors can help parents learn how to address their children’s specific needs.

Outside help

For parents looking for backup, any kind of one-on-one assistance will be helpful, says Giles. Teachers are often willing to

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For parents seeking a structured academic program, Huntington Learning Center in Carmel offers services for students from kindergarten through college, says Spitler. The center takes a multi-step approach that starts with an extensive evaluation and includes tutoring, interim conferences and (with permission) school visits.

Another option for one-on-one tutoring is Chyten Educational Services in Carmel. Parents are kept “in the loop” about what a student is covering and how they are progressing through online notes written by the tutor after each session. Chyten also specializes in preparing students for standardized tests such as the ACT, SAT, PSAT and others.

Lindamood-Bell Learning Processes is known for its one-onone intensive sensory-cognitive instruction, says Jones. "It’s a matter of getting to the root of the difficulty," she explains.

"We’re actually working to strengthen the parts of the brain that are weak, that are causing the difficulties, and then showing [the students] how to apply those sensory-cognitive processes to content, to schoolwork.” Instruction is typically delivered five days a week, one to six hours per day.

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Can we fix it?

Is it possible for a student to dramatically improve his grades from first to second semester? Giles says yes, “but it takes a lot of work. It doesn’t happen magically, and it doesn’t happen overnight.” She lists routine, organization, communication and parent involvement as key factors to success.

Of course, goals for improvement should be achievable and measurable, says Spitler. He cautions that in many cases, there is a skill gap between the student’s current grade level and the skills he has mastered. Closing this gap takes time and practice. Spitler recommends rewarding your child when a goal is achieved, perhaps by cooking his favorite dinner or renting a movie.

Don’t be discouraged by less-than-stellar first semester grades.

Instead, use the tips and resources outlined here to help your child take steps towards academic improvement and end the year successfully.

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Goals for improvement should be achievable and measurable... in many cases, there is a gap between the student's current grade level and the skills he has mastered.

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stay after school or come in early to help kids, but communication is key. “I can’t stress enough how important it is for kids to advocate for themselves, especially in middle school,” she says.

Other options for academic support include a National Honor Society student looking for volunteer hours or a paid tutor.

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to your HEALTH. Kids and Migraines Treatment options for managing pain

Eleven-year-old Camden Jordan of Carmel says his migraines feel like a “headache times 100.”

Nine-year-old Mya Burow of Fishers says hers are “really, really miserable.” “You cannot think at all,” she says. “You keep saying things, like, ‘Go away!

Go away!’ It HURTS.’” It’s the kind of suffering no parent wants to watch their child endure. But how can you tell if your child’s headaches are actually migraines – and what can you do to help them escape the cycle of pain?

Five classic symptoms In order to diagnose a headache as a migraine in a child, doctors look for at least two of these signs: • Throbbing or pulsing pain • Moderate to severe intensity • Sensitivity to light and/or sound • Pain that worsens with activity

That’s the treatment pattern Mya Burow has followed. Her mother, Andrea Burow, says she helps Mya recognize symptoms early, so she can get to a comfortable place before she

• Nausea or vomiting

starts vomiting.

St. Vincent pediatric neurologist Dr. Lisa McGuire says your

Medications can help Mya relax and fall asleep faster, but they

child’s behavior is a good indicator of how intense their pain is. “What I tell people is, if it’s a migraine, you’re not going to sit there and play video games or watch TV. Generally with a migraine you see light or sound sensitivity, children will prefer to lie down or be still because movement makes it worse, and

don’t really manage her pain. Andrea says it’s hard when Mya’s migraines spoil important moments. “Last year she was a flower girl in a wedding,” recalls Andrea. “We made it through the day, but then she couldn’t make it to the reception. Those are the things you don’t want to miss in life.”

you’ll see nausea or vomiting, or both.” Like adults, children may also experience an aura with migraines, which can create

Treatment option #2: Preventative medications

visual disturbances. “Sometimes kids will describe flashing

For children whose migraines occur more than four times

lights, black dots or partial loss of vision,” says McGuire.

per month, physicians often recommend a daily, preventive medication. Camden Jordan’s family ultimately decided on a

Treatment option #1: One headache at a time If a child’s migraines are occurring four times per month or less, Dr. McGuire recommends avoiding a daily preventive medication, focusing instead on finding the best abortive medication to stop them once they start.

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daily medication, since his migraines were so frequently getting in the way of school and sports. “It is absolutely disruptive,” says his mother, Jennifer Jordan. “He would come home from school and have a headache and just want to lie in bed and not do homework. That was kind of becoming a big deal.”

Camden also takes Excedrin Migraine as soon as possible

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after a headache begins, and drinks Gatorade, since dehydration can be a trigger.

Even with these tools, he often has to just let the migraine run its course. “If he throws up, he lays down and falls asleep, and when he wakes up it’s gone”, explains Jennifer. “If he doesn’t throw up, it lasts longer.”

Treatment option #3: Natural methods A variety of natural methods have also been found effective in preventing and treating childhood migraines. Physicians often recommend keeping food and activity diaries to identify triggers, and resting in a darkened, quiet room after a migraine begins. The Burows say Mya seemed to benefit from cranial massage (which can address secondary muscle tension prompted by migraines), and the Jordans say Cam is doing better after they eliminated chocolate and hot dogs from his diet.

Dr. McGuire also says, based on results of a recent study, she began recommending some of her patients take 3 milligrams of melatonin about 30 minutes before bedtime. “I tell most of my migraine patients the hour before bed at night not to watch TV or look at a screen, because there is some evidence that screen light tricks your brain into thinking it’s day and suppresses melatonin,” says Dr. McGuire.

Empowerment: The best medicine For most children, there is no perfect solution to migraines. That’s why Dr. McGuire says it is critical for parents to empower their kids and celebrate all successes. Make sure they know you believe they are in pain, and are proud of what they are doing to improve their migraines. “It’s important to let them know they are part of the treatment plan. It helps them feel better faster, and causes fewer other issues.”

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DÉCOR

N EX T DOOR

COME IN FROM THE COLD

Create a warm and welcoming

winter home by: Carolyn Loub, mom of 4

When outside temperatures drop, it’s time to warm up our interiors.

Whether you intend to cuddle up with a good book or host a candlelit dinner party, a few key elements will help you create a warm, welcoming home that’s perfect for the cold weather season.

Rather than redecorate with the changing season, try layering. Just as we layer our clothing in colder weather, our homes should be layered for warmth and comfort. Drape throws over sofas, chairs and beds, or keep them accessible in large baskets. Tartan, hounds tooth and cable knit blankets are perfect for this time of year. You can switch out cool-colored toss pillows for warmer ones, or simply mix some textured pillows in with your existing ones.

Layer textiles in unexpected ways. Cover a dining table with blankets instead of a traditional tablecloth. Simply drape one blanket over the table so that it falls to the floor, and add a smaller throw on top. Make a chair more comfortable by tossing a sheep skin over it. Warm up wood floors by layering a hide over a chunky knit rug. Layer rugs anywhere you wish to add visual texture… under the coffee table or at the foot of a bed.

Burlap, linen and velvet are wonderful materials for creating texture. Use them to create table runners or wreaths or add touches of them to candleholders, vases or lampshades. Layer your accessories, too. Use trays throughout your home to group favorite items. Bundle books together with twine, raffia or ribbon and stack on tables.

Bring the outdoors in. Greenery on the mantel or a table centerpiece, winterberry branches in an urn, sprigs of holly in bud vases and a bowl of pinecones are simple ways to add freshness and beauty.

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Wood is the perfect natural element to add to your autumn and winter decor. Whether you burn it daily or use it just for decoration, stacked firewood, cut logs or a bundle of twigs adds texture and character to the winter home. Birch logs can be used in many ways. Lean them against a bare wall, or place them in a bucket with greenery and wrap them in white lights for instant ambiance. They can also be cut down or hollowed out and used as candleholders.

On a cold day, there’s nothing quite like basking in the warm glow of candlelight. If you’re feeling crafty, here are some ways to “dress” your candles for the season: • Wrap velvet ribbon around a pillar candle and secure with pearl pins.

• Use spray adhesive to glue greenery to the outside of a glass candleholder.

• Use old sweater sleeves or wool socks to create candle cozies.

• Spray glass votive candleholders with sparkly adhesive and glue an old earring or broach to them.

• Fill a mason jar with artificial snow and place candles inside.

Give your home a warm, welcoming aroma with scented candles or a stovetop potpourri. Many candles evoke the season with scents of cinnamon, pumpkin, pine or baked goods. For a quick and easy aroma, use the old trick of putting a drop of vanilla extract or your favorite essential oil on light bulbs.

When the lights are turned on, the bulb heats the oil and makes the house smell amazing.

Make sure you have plenty of lamps to emit a warm glow throughout your home. And put overhead lighting on dimmer switches to create a cozier atmosphere.

Come in from the cold to a home that wraps you in the warmth, comfort and aroma of the season.

For more great ideas, visit Carolyn’s blog at http://sweetchaoshome.blogspot.com.

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HOLIDAY STRESS by: Susan Bryant, mom of 2

It’s the most wonderful time of the year – and maybe the most stressful too. Between shopping, baking, decorating, school parties, teacher gifts and out of town guests, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed instead of merry. Grab a cup of cocoa and take our little quiz to see how you tend to manage this busy season.

It’s time to take the family photo for this year’s Christmas card. A few minutes on Pinterest provides adorable ideas for posing your family. Unfortunately, with each attempt at a good shot, the kids are growing more cranky, rumpled and restless – and you’re in a sweat. Only the dog appears photogenic. How do you respond?

A. B. C.

B. C.

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Take five, regroup and put everyone through the process again. This will be an adorable family photo!

B.

Buy a generic package of cards to send and try again next December.

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Chuck the whole idea and tell people your cards must have gotten lost in the extra holiday mail this time of year.

Your daughter has noticed that Santa uses the same wrapping paper as Mom and Dad. She is also questioning the logistics of his around-the-world travel in one night.

How do you handle her skeptical probes?

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Relatives in three different towns expect you to travel to see them over the course of a few days. You really just want your family to spend the holiday in your own home.

Your reaction is to:

Panic and quickly try to think of plausible explanations to keep the “Christmas magic” alive.

Consider that it may be time to let her in on the secret and find the fun in keeping it going for younger kids.

Fess up and deliver the news about the Easter Bunny and Tooth Fairy too.

Grumble about it but road trip anyway between family members so as not to ruffle any feathers.

Politely but firmly tell some of the relatives you won’t be able to make it.

Go all Scrooge and tell everyone you’re staying home.

Your child has received a gift from a family member that was not approved by you/ is too expensive/not appropriate etc. Your child, of course, loves it and thinks this relative is awesome. You respond by:

A. Smiling and accepting the gift begrudgingly.

B. Having a private talk with the gift giver later thanking them for the gift, but explaining why you can’t accept it.

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Publicly ask the relative if the receipt is included some- where in the wrapping.

MOSTLY A's: Your tinsel may be wrapped a little too tight.

Consider some spiked egg nog and find some ways to let loose so you can enjoy the season too!

Sugar cookies, gingerbread men, candy canes – they’re all tempting you. Even the fruitcake is calling your name.

What’s your strategy?

A.

Stick to the straight and narrow – this is no time to start looking like Mrs. Claus.

B. Indulge modestly – just in the treats you really look forward to.

C. Dive in – this is what new year’s resolutions are for.

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MOSTLY B's:

You’ve found a good balance between making the most of the holidays without putting too much pressure on yourself. Spread your holiday wisdom to other parents!

MOSTLY C's: You might just find yourself on the naughty

list this year. But then again, maybe Santa is used to seeing you there!

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A LESSON in Etiquette

by: Karen Ring, mom of 2

Why manners still matter

The word “etiquette” may conjure up images of a room full of elegantly clad ladies sipping tea, pinkies raised. In reality, etiquette is an essential part of our lives, providing the code of behavior necessary to maintain a civil society.

John A. Scott, president and founder of The Etiquette and Leadership Institute of Indiana (ELII), introduces etiquette to his students by presenting them with a traffic light. He explains that much like the traffic light allows drivers to interact with others in a positive and safe manner on the road, the rules of etiquette allow us to interact with other human beings in a positive manner during our daily encounters.

In this fast-paced, technology-driven age, it is easy for manners to get lost in the shuffle. Below we offer advice on incorporating the rules of etiquette in your family’s daily life.

Repeat after me As a parent, it is easy to feel like a broken record spewing forth an endless stream of phrases like, “Say excuse me!” and “Now, how do we ask nicely?” However, consistent reminders reinforce the importance of polite behavior and let your child know that such behavior is an everyday expectation.

Even when it seems your child is simply going through the motions when responding to cues to include a “thank you” or a “please”, each use of a common courtesy teaches him a valuable lesson regarding the effect his behavior has on others.

“Manners are all about making others feel comfortable,” said Barb Munson, director of The Indiana School of Etiquette and Protocol. Take a moment to emphasize this by explaining how manners benefit everyone involved: “That was nice of Johnny to share his toys with you. I like the way you thanked him when he let you borrow his favorite action figure.”

Set a good example Children look to their parents to understand how they should act, so when it comes to manners it is important to model good behavior. Scott points out that it is easy for parents to get

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caught up in the expectations we have of our children and forget to use our manners when addressing them; however, adding the word “please” in front of “Turn off the T.V. and set the table!” puts them on the receiving end of good manners.

Munson feels it is so important for parents to teach by example, she offers etiquette courses for the entire family in their home. “If the parents aren’t modeling proper behavior, a child can learn etiquette, but he can’t own it,” she emphasized.

Renae Weghorst, founder of Etiquette Indianapolis, adds that it is particularly important to set a good example when it comes to technology-based etiquette. “With an increased use of technology, we are losing the verbal part of our communication,” she said. Show your kids that there is a time and a place for technology by putting the phone down when your attention should be elsewhere – especially when having a conversation with your child. “If you aren’t giving your kids your complete attention, you cannot expect them to give you their complete attention. Eye contact is critical, always,” Weghorst explained. Teaching your child the value of an uninterrupted, face-toface interaction will go a long way in ensuring his future success.

Practice makes perfect “Just like it takes practice to master a sport or a musical instrument, it takes practice for etiquette to become instinctual,” Scott remarked.

The dinner table offers the perfect training ground, not only for working on social graces but also for practicing the art of conversation.

Munson suggests gathering everyone at the dinner table at least twice a week – even if that occasionally entails bringing take-out food to the table. Once the routine is established, Munson advises, “Focus on one or two issues at a time.” Start with a basic courtesy such as waiting until everyone is seated before beginning the meal. When that lesson is engrained, you can move on to the next item on the list.

Providing your child with a foundation in etiquette goes well beyond turning him into a well-mannered dinner companion. It fosters a sense of confidence and poise that will serve him well in his future endeavors.

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Mommy Magic Holiday Magic or Madness?

by: Mary Susan Buhner, mom of 3

Choosing which perspective to take The. Holidays. Are. Here. Well, almost anyway. We are, in fact, heading into the holiday season. If you are like me you are still trying to figure out where time went once school started back in August. I love the holidays and all the special moments that come with it. Most of all, I love my kiddos reaction to the many holiday festivities and family traditions from Thanksgiving through December.

There is, in my opinion, two schools of thought on the holidays.

One school of thought is labeling the season as “Holiday Madness.” We all know people who fall into this category. Typically, they are rushing around even more than usual and appear stressed every time you see them. Furthermore, they firmly believe that the countdown to Christmas is a personal conspiracy again them. They are exhausted, exhausting to be around and usually want you to join in on their holiday misery.

The other school of thought is to embrace the hustle and bustle and frame it as “Holiday Magic.” (And by magic I mean enchanting not supernatural.) Finding moments that draw you in rather than make you spin like a top. I admit, it can be a fine line between “magic” and “madness.”

The shopping, preparation, cooking, decorating, wrapping... all of it can feel overwhelming on top work, school and carpool.

But you can decide early in the holiday season which school of thought you are in and decide if that is where you want to be.

(No surprise, I encourage you to embrace the magic instead of the madness!)

The holidays can be filled with tension and stressful scenarios (family, finances, travel etc.) so staying clear of people who thrive on the drama of these situations is paramount. Also, try pulling out your calendar and working backward from major events.

Spread out your “to do list” rather than cramming it all in at the last minute - this makes the process more manageable and more enjoyable.

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After you come up with a plan, ask for help. Yep...I said it. Ask for help. Figure out who you can rely on and ask them to help you out. A friend, a parent, an in-law – call them now and set a time for them to take your kids so you can actually accomplish a holiday task and enjoy it. Finally, surround yourself this holiday season with people, friends and family that make you happy.

Choose to spend time with those who understand that the season is about small moments that are special and not huge drama that is stressful. This strategy will give you more time and energy and allow you to focus on the true meaning of the holiday season.

Mary Susan Buhner is a Life Coach for Moms and author of “Mommy Magic: Tricks for Staying Sane in the Midst of Insanity.”

Visit her Mommy Magic Fan Page on Facebook and her website at: www.Mommy-Magic.com.

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Fishers Parks and Recreation Santa’s Mailbox

Holiday Adventure

November 18th through December 16th

November 29th & 30th and December 1st, 7th, 14th & 21st

Santa has dropped off a very special mailbox that will send your letters directly to his workshop. He has promised to reply to each letter he receives. All letters must include a self-addressed stamped envelope so Santa can get back to you without delay. For fourth grade and younger.

Experience a family-friendly daytime winter adventure through Prairietown as the outdoor grounds open for 1830s holiday fun. Find out what holiday treats, games and gifts were offered and even what pranks were played more than 175 years ago. This program is ideal for little ones and family members who prefer to move at their own pace.

Time: 8:30 AM - 4:30 PM Price: Self-addressed stamped envelope Location: Fishers Town Hall and Fishers Parks & Recreation Website: www.fishers.in.us/parks/summerconcerts

Time: 10:00 AM - 4:00 PM Price: $12/adult; $9/youth (ages 2-12); members free Phone: (317) 776-6000 Location: Conner Prairie, Fishers Website: http://connerprairie.org/

Country Christmas 2013

The Nutcracker, Central Indiana Dance Ensemble

November 23rd through December 22nd Continue a family tradition and take a hayride to the field to choose and cut your own Christmas Tree. You will also find a wide selection of freshly cut trees, fresh wreaths and garland at the greenhouse. Sip hot cider and browse through the gift shop featuring custom made wreaths and other unique items.

Time: 10:00 AM - 6:00 PM Price: Prices vary Phone: (317) 773-3344 Location: Stonycreek Farm, Noblesville Website: www.stonycreekfarm.net/

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December 13th through December 15th Come spend the holiday with the Stahlbaum family and witness Clara’s dreamlike journey with her Nutcracker Prince while being enchanted by Tchaikovsky’s beautiful score.

In addition to the performances, CIDE presents the Sugar Plum Fairy Dessert Party prior to each Nutcracker matinee performance at 12:30pm.

Price: Adults $30; students (up to 18) $23 Location: Zionsville Performing Arts Center Website: http://cidedance.org/performances/the-nutcracker/

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Festival of Carols

Conner Prairie by Candlelight

Sunday, December 22nd Featuring your favorite Christmas carols performed by choir and orchestra, “Festival of Carols” is the Hoosier concert annually creating new holiday traditions for kids from 1 to 92. The concert features the 150-voice Indianapolis Symphonic Choir along with the Indianapolis Chamber Orchestra and the Circle City Ringers.

Times: 3:00 PM and 7:00 PM Price: $20 to $38 Phone: (317) 843-3800 Location: The Palladium, Carmel Website: www.thecenterfortheperformingarts.org/

6th Annual Christmas on the Farm

Fridays and Saturdays, December 6th through December 21st This family-friendly, 90-minute guided tour takes you back more than 175 years ago to Prairietown where it’s the night before Christmas. Meet a variety of characters in their homes and help them with holiday preparation. Following the guided tour, laugh and joke with Prairietown partiers around the bonfire. This program is ideal for guests who prefer a more structured program in the evening hours.

Reservations required.

Time: 6:00PM –9:00 PM Price: $15 adult/ $13 for members; $13 youth/ $11 for youth members (ages 2-12) Phone: (317) 776-6006 Location: Conner Prairie, Fishers Website: www.connerprairie.org/

Saturday, December 14th Traders Point Creamery transforms itself into a winter wonderland, complete with Santa himself sitting on a chair made of hay bales! Christmas on the Farm is a holiday extravaganza for the whole family. Old St. Nick, live Elk, Sleigh hayrides around the farm, music and caroling, craft making opportunities for the kids and a Green Market that is chock full of fun holiday gift ideas for the stocking stuffers in all of us.

Holiday in the Arts District

Time: 9:00 AM - 2:00 PM Price: Free admission Phone: (317) 733-1700 Location: Trader’s Point Creamery, Zionsville Website: www.tpforganics.com

Time: 3:00PM-6:00PM Price: Free admission Location: Carmel Arts & Design District Website: http://carmelartsanddesign.com/FEATURES/ holiday/

Saturday, December 14th Experience the wonder of the holidays in the Arts & Design District with elves and reindeer, carolers from the Midwest School of Music, carriage rides, a visit from Santa and Mrs Claus, special activities and more! Presented by IU Health North Hospital.

Santa Stops at Piney Acres November 23rd & 25th, December 1st, 2nd, 8th, 9th, 15th & 16th If you are looking for Santa, you can find him at Piney Acres on select days this holiday season. Piney Acres Farm creates a holiday tradition for the whole family to enjoy. Take a wagon ride out to the field, where you can pick out that perfect tree. Enjoy warm refreshments and find those last-minute gifts in our Christmas Shop. See website for tree farm hours.

Time: Daily noon – 4:00 PM Price:: Free admission Phone: (317) 326-1700 Location: Piney Acres Farm, Fortville Website: www.pineyacresfarm.com

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EXPERT: ATTORNEYS

“My spouse has just asked for a divorce, which was unexpected news for me. What do I need to focus on first?”

The first question to ask yourself is “how well do I know my marriage?” What do you know about the finances? Who deals with which elements of your children’s schedules? What is the current state of household bills and debts and how are they paid? While, understandably, emotions run high at this point and there seem to be a thousand things to consider, the most overlooked information to be concerned with is the literal state of the marriage.

You should know all the banks or financial institutions used; you should have copies of your past tax returns, mortgages, and most of all, you should consider where your money currently goes. Is your paycheck direct deposited in a joint account? What expenses are automatically deducted from that account? While it may not seem so in the big picture, these are the most immediate issues.

The issues with children will also have practical considerations first and foremost as well. They still must get to school; they still have choir practice or baseball games. Spouses that truly have their children’s best interests at heart will worry first about limiting potential disruptions and save their discussions of “where we go from here” until the children are not present.

Divorce is often cited as the second most stressful event in an individual’s life, only behind the loss of a close family member. If you have to go through a divorce, however, being educated on how the dissolution process works and your options moving forward can help you through this difficult time. When you know what to expect during your divorce, you can begin to take control of your future.

Submitted by Elizabeth Eichholtz, Attorney, Hollingsworth & Zivitz, PC

“What is a Living Will? How does this differ from having a Power of Attorney?”

A Living Will is often confused with a Power of Attorney, but they are distinctly different documents and, for the majority of people, having both is a good idea.

A Living Will is a fairly simple document that evidences your personal wishes for care should you be unable to express them yourself. Picture a time when you have been in an accident and are seriously injured or a degenerative disease has progressed to the point you are comatose. By having a properly prepared and executed living will you can essentially spare your family from making very difficult decisions regarding your continued care.

In Indiana, your living will can express your desire to withdraw or continue feeding and hydration in the case that your doctors have indicated such actions will be futile. Remember, this document only addresses situations in which you are unable to communicate and you are highly likely to die from the injury or disease.

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A Power of Attorney (POA), on the other hand, is much more flexible. You can use a POA to give authority to others to conduct your affairs in very limited or very general ways. A general POA does not address end-of-life decisions.

(Indiana does allow a health care POA that lets you appoint someone to make your health care decisions.)

The most common mistake people make with Living Wills is not supplying a copy to their physician(s) ahead of time. Make sure you do so before it is needed!

Submitted by Tom Faulconer, Licensed Attorney and Certified Financial Planner, The Faulconer Law Firm and Family Financial Advisors

“What part do children play in determining custody arrangements during a divorce?"

Children generally play a small part in the determination of custody during divorce proceedings. The judge bases custody upon the “best interests” of the child. If the parents cannot agree upon a custodial arrangement, the court is required to consider the established relevant factors pursuant to the Indiana statutes. Some of these include the age and sex of the child, the child's interrelationships with family and others who significantly affect the child and the child’s environment at home. The wishes of a child are also a relevant factor to be considered together with the other relevant factors – with more consideration given to a child at least 14 years of age. The child's wishes may be brought to the court's attention using different methods. These approaches include the use of a counselor, guardian ad litem, interview with the judge in chambers, expert witness report or by direct testimony. However, it may not be a good idea to have a child involved in the litigation. Proceed with caution. Judges sometimes frown upon litigants who recklessly involve their child in a divorce. The best thing to do is to consult an attorney regarding your divorce and the role a child may have, if any.

Submitted by Shawn Blumenthal, JD, Attorney at Law

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WHAT'S

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ART Classes

As our world gravitates to the use of more technology, many parents are eager to get their kids involved in more “hands on” activities – and art instruction can provide the perfect outlet. Hamilton County families have a variety of art studios to choose from to spur their child’s imagination. The following are a few local places kids can have fun expressing their creative side.

A Space to Create offers art classes, workshops, art camps, birthday parties and more. Children as young as three and four are able to explore their creativity through classes at the studio. Founder Jenny Tucker, a Zionsville artist and art teacher, says “By the age of four, most kids have a better handle on their fine motor skills, and are able to hold a pencil, crayon or paint brush.

If their fine motor skills are weak or need strengthening, giving them the opportunity to draw, paint and use clay can really help their hands to gain strength and dexterity, and because they are enjoying themselves, they don’t realize that it’s even happening!”

by: Elizabeth Henderson

while teens and college students can be mentored by a professional artist or become an intern with the organization.

To learn more about Nickel Plate Arts, visit www.nickelplatearts.org.

Myart offers drawing and fine art instruction for children, teens and adults as well as art camps, painting parties and journal art workshops.

Sylvia Runningen, owner of Myart, says “We believe that drawing is a teachable subject and that there are no mistakes in art. Myart students not only learn how to draw and paint, they develop creative problem-solving skills and increased confidence in themselves.”

Myart offers weekly art classes in Noblesville, Carmel and Fishers. Visit www. myartindy.com for further details.

With the variety of art instruction available in our area, your child can tap into his inner creative self in no time. Enroll in a local art class and see what inspires your young artist!

A Space to Create also offers a variety of art classes for all ages using paints, oil pastels, drawing and clay. For more information on upcoming classes and workshops, check out www.aspacetocreate.com.

Nickel Plate Arts invites students to “unplug and create.” Created by the Hamilton County Convention and Visitors Bureau, Nickel Plate Arts provides art experiences in six communities along the Nickel Plate Railroad.

Younger kids can get involved with after school programs or host an art-themed birthday party at the Noblesville campus,

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Reci Please by: Nicole Turner, Registered Dietician, mom of 2

Some of my favorite holiday memories have been spent tableside. Food and fellowship always make for a great time. Maybe that’s why most people pull out their “special” recipes this time of year; to leave a lasting memory on the minds of those gathered together. I like to cook up my “special" recipes too, hoping to hook family and friends on a more nutritious version of their holiday favorites. This stuffing recipe is made with wild rice – widely touted for its higher protein, fiber, vitamin and mineral content as compared to white rice and other refined grains. Put a spin on tradition with this recipe and make a lasting impression on those gathered around your table.

Wild Rice Stuffing • 1/2 cup wild rice • 1/2 cup brown rice • 2 1/2 cups water • 1 tablespoon instant chicken bouillon granules • 1/4 teaspoon ground sage or nutmeg • 3 cups sliced, fresh mushrooms • 1 cup chopped celery • 6 green onions, sliced • 1/2 cup slivered almonds, toasted (optional)

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STEPS 1. Place wild rice in a strainer and rinse under cold water for about 1 minute.

2. In a large saucepan, combine water, both rices, bouillon granules and sage (or nutmeg).

3. Bring to a boil. Reduce heat. Cover and simmer 20 minutes.

4. Stir in mushrooms, celery and onions. Cook, covered over medium-low heat for 25 minutes (or until vegetables are tender) stirring frequently.

5. Garnish with toasted almonds and serve. *From HOLIDAY CELEBRATIONS™ 2000, a Better Homes and Garden Special Interest Publications®

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In Our Opinion NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2013

Good or Bad Elf? Secret Santas, school parties, homemade presents – the holidays are filled with extra activities this time of year.

Do these experiences add to the fun of the season or just feel overwhelming at times? We asked readers for their opinion on one tradition popular among many families:

Is “Elf on the Shelf” a cute holiday tradition or just added pressure for parents during an already busy holiday season?

It’s fun, until you climb into bed and remember you forgot to move him...so you get back up and try to think of something cute to do really quickly. But it’s all worth it the next morning when your little ones find

A fun tradition! We started a little late wit h our kids but they love see ing him move all around. Wh y didn't I get him sooner ??!!

– Kris R.

him. – Ashley C.

It does add to the already busy schedule but it's fun! It makes Christmas last! Instead of waiting all month for the day of presents, the kids get to focus on something else.

– Veronica S. I'm one of those people who think it is totally ridiculous. There are some very funny blog posts out there about the cra ziness of Elf on the Shelf. I just about died reading some of them last year. – Anna L.

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Cute idea, but more stress.

– Tracy S.

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To Do With Your Crew NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2013

November | sun 03 – mon 04 Disney Junior Live Pirate & Princess Adventure Time: Sun., noon, 3 & 6 PM; Monday 6 PM Cost: see website for ticket pricing Where: Banker's Life Fieldhouse Phone: 317-917-2500 http://www.bankerslifefieldhouse.com/ Grab your tiaras and doubloons and join us for Disney Junior Live On Tour! Pirate & Princess Adventure. Mickey and Minnie are taking their seats too at this never-before-seen live show featuring your favorite characters from Disney Junior's hit series, Sofia the First and Jake and the Never Land Pirates.

Phone: 317-776-6000 http://connerprairie.org/ This award-winning, nationally acclaimed program provides an immersive, reallife encounter of what it was like to be a fugitive slave in one of Indiana's most compelling periods of history. For ages 12 and over.

November | fri 08 Prairie Tykes: Indiana Indians Times: 9:30 AM and 11:00 AM Cost: $12/youth ($11/member youth) Where: Conner Prairie, Fishers Phone: 317-776-6000 http://connerprairie.org/ Celebrate Lenape Indian culture by learning about wigwams and Lenape clothing.

Make a drum and listen to Indian songs.

November | tues 19 Holiday Entertaining with Style

November | mon 04 Graphic Novel Night Date: Monday, November 04 Times: 7:00 PM Cost: Free Where: Hamilton East Library, Fishers Phone: 317-579-0304 www.hepl.lib.in.us/ There is more to a graphic novel than meets the eye! Learn the literary elements of graphic novels. Talk about your favorites, create your own! Great for reluctant readers. This program for those in grade 6-8, meets the first Monday of each month.

November 04 – 23 | thursdays, fridays & saturdays Follow the North Star Times: 6:30 PM Cost: $20/person, $17/member Where: Conner Prairie, Fishers

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Where: Indiana State Fairgrounds www.jlindy.org/ The 2013 Holiday Mart brings more than 100 unique merchants from across the country to the Marsh Blue Ribbon Pavilion at the Indiana State Fairgrounds.

Advance discount tickets are available at Marsh Supermarkets. Tickets are also available at www.JLIndy.org or at the door. See website for shopping schedule.

November | sat 09 Saturday Family Matinee Times: 2:00 PM Cost: Free Where: Hamilton County East Library, Noblesville Phone: (317) 773-1384 www.hepl.lib.in.us Bring a pillow and get comfy while watching family favorites on the big screen.

Free popcorn is included! These family movies are for all ages. Also on 11/23.

November | weds 13 – sun 17 Junior League Holiday Mart Cost: $15 door; $10 advance; 12 and under free

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Times: 10:30 AM Cost: Free Where: Indiana Design Center, Carmel www.indianadesigncenter.com Please don't fret about the holidays David Jackson is here to help you.

Thanksgiving or Christmas tabletop designs need only be treated with beautiful ease. All you need to do to enjoy this hour is bring your most joyous open mind, creativity and a good memory (or pictures) of all the tabletop goodies you have stored at home.

November | sat 23 "Sleeping Beauty" Times: 7:00 PM Cost: Tickets start at $15 Where: Booth Tarkington Civic Theatre, Carmel Phone: (317) 843-3800 http://thecenterfortheperformingarts.org Your family will be filled with wonder as storyteller, musician, poet and actor David Gonzalez presents his fun, fanciful,

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rhymed verse interpretation of the classic fairy tale "Sleeping Beauty" complete with live music and video projections.

November | thurs 28 3rd Annual Fishers YMCA Wishbone 5K Times: 8:00 AM Cost: $25 per person; $75 family of 4 Where: Fishers YMCA, Fishers www.indymca.org/wishbone-5k/ Celebrate the holiday and good health with the Fishers YMCA! This run is open to the public and strollers are welcome.

December | sun 01 Noblesville Holiday Parade Times: 2:00 PM Cost: Free Where: Downtown Noblesville www.cityofnoblesville.org/ The parade will kick off at 2pm at 16th and Harrison and will travel south on 16th Street to Logan Street, west on Logan to 9th Street, north on 9th to Monument Street, and east on Monument to 16th Street where it will end. The last entry in the parade will be Santa Claus himself, making his debut for the season! Boys and girls are invited to stop by his house on the courthouse square after the parade from 3:00pm - 5:30pm and tell him what they'd like for Christmas.

December | fri 06 Prairie Tykes: Gingerbread Jamboree www.hamiltoncountyfamily.com

Times: 9:30 AM and 12:30 PM Cost: $12/youth ($11/member youth) Where: Conner Prairie, Fishers Phone: 317-776-6000 http://connerprairie.org/ Meet the gingerbread man, learn how gingerbread is made, listen to the gingerbread man story and decorate a gingerbread man cookie. For children ages 2-5.

December | fri 06 – sun 08 The Nutcracker Cost: $20 for Adults - $15 for Students and Seniors Where: Pike Performing Arts Center, Indianapolis Phone: 317-216-5455 www.pikepac.org This full-length modern version of the holiday classic is presented by, and features the highly talented dancers of G2, the pre-professional company of Gregory Hancock Dance Theatre. G2 is joined by many other young local student dancers filling the stage with movement and color!

December | sat 07 Snowmen at Christmas Times: 1:00 PM - 2:00 PM Cost: R$20/NR$30 Where: Billericay Park Building, Fishers www.fishers.in.us/parks This is story time with the preschool-age child in mind! Santa will read Snowmen at Christmas and then children will paint a 3D snowman ornament and enjoy some cookies! For ages Kindergarten through 4th grade (parent or guardian must stay).

December | sun 08 Max & Ruby in the Nutcracker Suite Times: 12:00 PM and 3:30 PM Cost: $25 to $50 Where: Murat Theatre Old National Centre, Indianapolis http://oldnationalcentre.com/ Max & Ruby bring to life a wonderful tradition this holiday season as they take to the stage their most magical performance yet! Inspired by one of the greatest musical scores ever composed – Tchaikovsky’s Nutcracker Suite – the beloved bunny siblings star in Koba Entertainment’s brand new musical production Max & Ruby in the Nutcracker Suite.

December | weds 11 – thurs 12 Pictures with Santa Times: 6:00 PM - 7:30 PM Cost: Free Where: Fishers Town Hall, Fishers www.fishers.in.us/parks/summerconcerts Your children can have their picture taken with Santa Claus for free while they share their Christmas list for this year. For all ages.

December | sat 14 Breakfast with the Grinch Times: 9:00 AM Cost: R$12/NR$18 Where: Roy G. Holland Memorial Park, Fishers www.fishers.in.us/Facilities/Facility/ Details/Billericay-Park-1 The Grinch invites you and all your little Who’s to join him for breakfast, activities, pictures and holiday merriment. Enjoy a breakfast featuring Dr. Seuss-themed items such as Grinch Fingers, CindyLou’s Sausage, and everyone’s favorite, Green Eggs and Ham. For families of all ages (children must have parental supervision), price is per person.

December | tues 17 Candy Cane Hunt Times: 5:00 PM - 5:30 PM Cost: R$4/NR$6 Where: Billericay Park Building, Fishers www.fishers.in.us/parks Despite his busy winter schedule, it is rumored that Santa is going to hide hundreds of candy canes around Billericay Park. Join us as we search for hidden candy canes. Afterwards, warm up with hot cocoa while completing a craft. Cost is per child.

At Hamilton County Family, we work hard to ensure our calendar information is accurate.

Occasionally, event specifics change after we go to press. Therefore, we encourage our readers to call locations or visit them on the web to verify information.

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Last LAUGH

Thanksgiving may have a parade and football, but dinner is the highlight of the day. Expectations can be high to pull off the perfect feast – but the mishaps are what families usually remember!

What culinary calamities have happened at your dinners over the years?

Several years we have found the corn in the microwave the next morning. One year we forgot to turn the oven on to cook the turkey. We spent the evening meal at McDonalds.

– Jen K. Wanted to add cauliflower to my mashed potatoes to make it healthier. I was so exhausted from cooking all day that I forgot to cook the cauliflower. I threw it in the blender and just let it blend with some milk. It was the most gritty, disgusting mashed potatoes I have ever had. – Jamie G. I made a cranberry rice dish. I was supposed to use fresh herbs but used dried instead, not changing the measurements. It ended up with so many herbs we couldn't eat it!!

– Karen B. The power went out halfway through roasting the turkey. Luckily the people on the other side of our street are on a different power grid. We ran the half-baked turkey down the street to a neighbor's oven. – Anna L. I walked in to my mother-in-law’s kitchen to find one of the cats on the stove having just figured out how to remove the turkey neck from the cooking pot of gravy. This cat was determined, shoo-ing though I was, and hot though the neck was, to take this neck to his little kitty cave and hissed at me while batting the neck across the floor. . . I was sworn to secrecy, and that gravy was served. – Jacquie S. Cooked the turkey with the bag of gizzards still inside....ooooops. – Sarah A. Forgetting to add sugar to the pumpkin pie. Good thing there were 2 apple pies!

– Kristin M. Our yellow lab Jake ate the turkey carcass and was outside puking during nap/football game. Let’s just say nobody wanted pie that year. – Teri P.

Have something funny you can share?

Send it to susan@hamiltoncountyfamily.com to be included in our next issue!

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