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traditions EASY IDEAS TO MAKE YOUR FAMILY'S THANKSGIVING MEMORABLE

introducing your child to

MUSIC

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contents {NOVEMBER 2016}

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16 // Turkey Day Traditions Easy ideas to make your family's Thanksgiving memorable

{IN EVERY ISSUE}

18 // Introducing Your Child to Music

EDITOR'S NOTE

COM M U N ITY SPOTLIGHT

ON LI N E BUZZ

Simple ways to expose kids to this lifetime joy

24 // Sibling Strife Handling your kids' inevitable fights and feuds

28 // Open Adoption

Understanding how the process works

36 // Eight Great Museums for Kids Top picks all close to home!

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{RESOURCES & CALENDARS}

{GROWING HEALTHY FAMILIES}

MAKI NG A FAM I LY EM ERGENCY PLAN

{COMMENTARY & PARENTING}

PRIVATE SCHOOL OPEN HOUSE GU I DE

PRESCHOOL & EDUCATION GU I DE

DAI LY EVENTS

FOOTNOTES

ONGOI NG EVENTS

A DAD I N FLU ENCE

RESOU RCE DI RECTORY

ASK TH E TEACH ER

FU N & WACKY CALEN DAR

EDITO R ' S N OT E

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Thankfulness Can you believe it’s November already? The dust can hardly settle on the kids’ Halloween costumes before we’re knee deep in holiday shopping and Santa sightings. It’s easy to whiz by this month and see it as just a precursor to December’s festivities, but November has my favorite holiday – Thanksgiving. Sure, it’s not as flashy (or candy and present-driven) as the other holidays, but that’s why I like it. At the core, Thanksgiving is about dedicating one day to sharing a meal with our family and friends and stopping to reflect on what we’re grateful for. It doesn’t have to be bigger than that – it really shouldn’t be bigger than that, because that’s enough.

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With over 30 years behind us, we have a lot to be thankful for at Cincinnati Parent. We’re grateful to the thousands of parents who have picked up our publication over the years and trusted us to provide content they find valuable. We’re equally grateful to our advertisers who choose to be associated with our brand and make it possible for our magazine to continue to be a free, local resource.

As busy parents, it’s easy to get caught up in the day-to-day whirlwind of family life. But it’s also easy to know, when we slow down just long enough, what we’re most grateful for. See that little cutie on our cover? That’s Mila, the first child of our Associate Publisher. You can bet her mom is thankful for that adorable smile every day.

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community {SPOTLIGHT} //WHAT TO LOOK FOR IN NOVEMBER

God bless us everyone! Playhouse in the Park’s A Christmas Carol is one of the most cherished holiday traditions in Cincinnati – and it’s easy to see why. This version combines classic stor ytelling and enchanting special effects to tell Charles Dickens’ tale of a curmudgeon given one last chance at redemption. The stor y of Ebenezer Scrooge’s Christmas Eve transformation is one of hope and promise, guaranteed to get your family ready for the holidays. This year’s production of A Christmas Carol runs November 23-December 31, and features several family friendly matinees. www.cincyplay.com/

Enjoy a free dance class If your child dreams of being a ballet dancer, Cincinnati is a great place to live! The Cincinnati Ballet’s Otto M. Budig Academy is the city’s leading classical ballet training program. Students are taught by nationally and internationally recognized faculty at the Academy, which offers comprehensive dance education and specialized summer training programs for kids of all ages. Now through November 30, new students ages 2-8 are invited to tr y their first Cincinnati Ballet Academy class for free! Call (513) 562-1111 or email cbacademy@ cballet.org to schedule your child’s free class. http://cballet.org/wordpress/academy/childrens-division/

It’s a Viking invasion The Vikings have arrived in Cincinnati! Starting November 11, families can experience Viking culture at the Cincinnati Museum Center’s Vikings: Beyond the Legend exhibit. Learn all about the often-misunderstood Vikings at the largest exhibit of Viking artifacts in North America. Virtually explore and examine Viking ships through the exhibit’s electronic media. Walk alongside the longest Viking ship ever discovered: the 122-foot Roskilde 6, which will be making its North American debut right here in Cincinnati! Experience Viking daily life through the exhibit’s many interactive activities that explore traditional clothing, authentic Viking games and weaponr y. General admission tickets go on sale November 1. www.cincymuseum.org/vikings

Celebrate Thanksgiving circa 1800 Ever wonder what the first Ohio Thanksgiving was like? On Saturday, November 12, step back 200 years to relive the ver y first Thanksgiving on the Ohio frontier at Shawnee Lookout. Starting at 2 pm., reenactors from the Society of Northwest Longhunters will portray Shawnee Native Americans, early European settlers and militar y personnel during Thanksgiving on the Ohio Frontier. Kids can watch authentic exchanges between Native Americans and settlers ever y half hour, and samples of period fare will be available at this free, family friendly event. www.greatparks.org/

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Beware the wolf! One of the most famous children’s stories, Peter and the Wolf, is brought to life by Cincinnati’s most famous pop orchestra! On Saturday, November 1, head to the Taft Theatre for the Peter and the Wolf Lollipops concert. Led by conductor John Morris Russell, the whole Cincinnati Pops orchestra will take part to help portray this classic. From the friendly bird, cat and duck (flute, clarinet and oboe) to the intimidating wolf (French horns), your kids will delight in this family friendly musical odyssey. Arrive early (or stay late) and visit the Family Fun Zone to try orchestra instruments, make a craft and more! http://cincinnatisymphony.org/concerts-plusevents/lollipops-2016-17/peter-and-the-wolf/

Shop ‘til you drop Get a jump on holiday shopping at the Greater Cincinnati Holiday Market from November 11-13 at the Duke Energy Center. This indoor market is basically The City Flea on steroids, featuring aisle upon aisle of unique, one-of-a-kind boutiques and specialty stores from the greater Cincinnati area and beyond. Searching for a present for your kids’ teachers? Your out of town BFF? An impossible to shop for sisterin-law? Get one of a kind home décor, specialty clothing, gourmet food and more at this weekend long holiday market. www.duke-energycenter.com/events/greater-cincinnati-holiday-market

Got the groove? Did you know that early music education has lifelong benefits, including language development, listening and memor y skills, problem solving, coordination and selfexpression? And, little kids love music! As one of the top private schools in the city, it’s no surprise that Summit Countr y Day has its own early music enrichment program, “Music and Movement.” Designed for kids age 2 and under (and their caregivers), Music and Movement is a weekly 45-minute class aimed to exercise toddlers’ minds and bodies. Session II starts in Januar y (the fall session is currently wrapping up), so sign your tot up today!

Fröhliche Weihnachten! Indulge your inner German (we live in Zinzinnati, after all) November 18 – 20 at Christkindlmarkt, the oldest and most authentic German Christmas Market in the Cincinnati region. Shop for authentic German gifts, such as steins and glassware, nutcrackers and smokers, cuckoo clocks, linens, Christmas candy, Advent calendars, traditional music CDs and more! With holiday entertainment, German music, a children’s lantern parade, petting zoo, carolers and carriage rides, you’re sure to snap into the holiday spirit. Admission is just $3 (free for kids 12 and under) and the entire market takes place under cozy heated tents! (And in case you’re wondering, “Fröhliche Weihnachten” means “Merry Christmas” in German.) http://germaniasociety.com/christkindlmarkt/

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The Cincinnati Ballet goes to Washington This November, our ver y own Cincinnati Ballet will be traveling to Washington D.C. to present seven Nutcracker performances at the John F. Kennedy Center for the Performing Arts November 23-27. Each year, The Kennedy Center selects just one outstanding ballet company to present their unique version of the cherished ballet. In recent years, The Joffrey Ballet, Ballet West and American Ballet Theatre have toured their Nutcrackers to The Kennedy Center – and now the Cincinnati Ballet joins this group of esteemed American ballet companies. (Can’t make it to Washington? Make sure you catch The Nutcracker in Cincinnati December 9-18!) http://cballet.org/wordpress/cincinnati-ballet-kennedy-center/

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COMM E N TA RY & PA R E N T I N G

WORDS BY // KELLY BLEWETT

Footnotes //Thoughts from the margins of a mom’s life Something Weird About Kindergarten When my son started kindergarten this fall, I wasn’t sure what he’d make of everything: the little desks, the rows of bookshelves, the big gymnasium, the bright yellow bus. And once he comes home, the newest elementary school student can be on the quiet side. “Who’d you play with at recess?” I ask casually, though secretly I want to know more. My appetite for kindergarten stories is endless. In fact, I wish I could see the whole day unfold from a camera on the boy’s shoulder. “The girl across the bus from me picks her nose,” he reported one day. I was unsurprised. Which was quite different from the reaction I had hearing him describe to his old preschool teacher a new ritual that happens every morning in kindergarten.

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As he entered his old preschool classroom with a confident gait of someone who has seen bigger places, he immediately began to compare preschool with elementary school. The elementary room was bigger, and the work was a lot harder, and the playground was a lot cooler. Also, he colored a great picture of a frog at school. Did she want to see it? His preschool teacher assured him she would love to see his work. Then he admitted that there was something, well, a little bit weird about kindergarten. “What is it, William?” she asked. He leaned in close, as though sharing very confidential information. “All those people talk to the flag,” he replied. “The flag is hanging there at the front of the room, and they just talk to it. Everyday. And they say the same thing. Isn’t that so

weird?” The preschool teacher waited for a beat. Finally, she said, “Well, William, that’s called the Pledge of Allegiance, and a lot of schools start the day with it.” My son looked at her and cocked his head. “Oh, okay,” he said, as though that explained everything.

The preschool teacher and I made eye contact and start giggling. Of all the things I thought William would be surprised by in his new school it never occurred to me that “talking to the flag” was going to be one of them, although, on second thought, his confusion seems pretty normal

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COMM E N TA RY & PA R E N T I N G

WORDS BY // PETE GILBERT

A Dad Inf luence Being Thankful – That My Kids Are Growing Up Contrary to the popular opinion of most parents, I'm thankful my children are growing up.

Recently when my wife and I were traveling, we had a chance to watch a family with their young kids at the airport. I was reminded of the trips we took just a few short years ago – pushing strollers, hauling large amounts of baby gear through airports, installing car seats in rental cars and making sure hotel rooms had cribs or pack n’ plays available. Now when we travel, our kids wheel their own suitcases through the airport. Heck, my wife and I even give them their own row in the airplane while we sit across the aisle.

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Seeing this airport family got me thinking, what else do I no longer have to do now that my kids are older? Well, now that we no longer have babies, it's been years since I've changed a diaper in the trunk of my car in the parking lot. I can now also see and retrieve the food in our freezer since it no longer houses hundreds of ounces of frozen breastmilk.

Now that our kids all ride bikes, I was finally able to donate the bike trailer that I used to pull them around in for years and years. This is no small thing, because that bike trailer

seemed to weigh about a hundred pounds when the kids were in it and felt like I was pulling a parachute behind me when the wind wasn’t blowing in our favor.

So next time someone asks you if you’re sad your kids are growing up, think before you respond. Your answer may surprise you. Happy Parenting!

TURKEY DAY

TRADITIONS

Easy ideas to make your family’s Thanksgiving memorable

Get crafty Since you already need a tablecloth for Thanksgiving dinner, why not make it special? Start with a light colored cloth and some paint. Each year, have the kids add their handprints along the edge, along with their name and the year. Every holiday when you pull out the tablecloth, you can compare the growth of those little hands! Eventually you will be able to add the next generation of handprints, making it a true family keepsake.

Get cooking

WORDS BY // ANDREA LIMKE

Thanksgiving and tradition go hand in hand. From the big feast and Macy’s parade to a backyard football game and post dinner snooze, Thanksgiving is the perfect time for making family memories. Need some simple suggestions to make your holiday even more special? While you’re planning your turkey day menu, also plan to include one (or more) of these family bonding activities. Even the simplest traditions can become something your clan looks forward to every year.

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Do you ever wish you had that recipe for your great grandmother’s stuffing? Or your favorite aunt’s pecan pie? This year, start a cookbook filled with your family’s cherished recipes. Each Thanksgiving, ask family members to write down the recipe of the dish they’re bringing (and don’t forget to include yourself). Compile the recipes and add to it year after year. If you are techno savvy, try a site like My Cookbook Online to keep it all digital.

Get decorative Remember the “reason for the season” by having family members reflect on what they are most thankful for. Using a decorative pumpkin, write the year and have everyone pen their thoughts. Add to your collection each year and pretty soon you’ll have the perfect centerpiece for your table!

Get musical Here’s an idea to involve your tweens and teens. Put them in charge of creating and updating a Thanksgiving playlist each year. Connect with family members to create a playlist with everyone’s favorites and use it to provide a fun soundtrack during dinner. The list can be added to each year, and your family can laugh at previous year’s choices while chowing down. You never know, this may even lead to another tradition – a family dance-off!

Get outside You may already have the traditional family football game, but any activity that gets the whole group outside can be fun. If the weather allows, take a family trip to the playground or go for a hike in the woods after dinner. This is a great opportunity to reminisce about past Thanksgivings and squeeze in a little activity to make room for pumpkin pie!

Get sentimental A family photo on Thanksgiving may not be unique, but try a new tradition and take a photo within a photo. You’ve probably seen examples of this on Pinterest, and it’s a great way to have a special family picture that shows how your family has grown and changed year after year. Put last year’s photo in a frame and hold it in this year’s photo. Do the same thing next year and you’ll soon create a visual timeline of your family!

Get compassionate Thanksgiving is a wonderful time to come together as a family and start a tradition of giving. As we express our gratitude, it’s important to remember those in need. What better tradition to start than one of compassion? Check with your child’s school, a local church or other organization to see how your family can get involved. There are many opportunities to donate items to provide a meal for a family or serve others on Thanksgiving Day.

While the big feast often takes center stage on turkey day, Thanksgiving is about so much more. As your family comes together each year, remember to include traditions that bring you closer and reflect the true meaning of the holiday. A few simple rituals, honored every year, can be what your children anticipate and remember most! November 2016 // CINCINNATIPARENT.COM

introducing your child to

music Simple ways to expose kids to this lifetime joy WORDS BY // JENNIFER THOMPSON

Watch what happens to a room full of young children when they hear a song. They clap, they sing, they smile, they dance. Music has an instant effect on children, and from early on it permeates their lives. Lullabies are played in nurseries to help newborns sleep, parents sing to soothe crying babies and many children first learn the alphabet by song. Music elicits an emotional, intellectual and physical response â&#x20AC;&#x201C; and it helps us to learn. Literacy, language and math skills can all be positively influenced by music.

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It is easy to see why encouraging music exploration with your little one is worthwhile. What are some simple ways to start? Try these ideas to begin incorporating music into your childâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s life.

Make an instrument There are many items around your house just waiting to be transformed into musical instruments. For example, see what happens when you fill a milk jug with beans, seal it shut and hand it to your child for some shaking and music making. Try filling other containers with rice or other objects for different sounds.

Have a family musical performance After you create your instruments, gather for a performance. Sing a familiar tune, or come up with one of your own. Discover the joy of rhythm as you tap out the beats with your toes and clap your hands. Encourage self-expression and confidence with a solo performance.

Think about differences in sound What happens when you hit a glass with a spoon? What happens when you fill that glass with water? What common sounds do you hear in your house? What do you hear outside? Go on a sound walk and ask your child about the different sounds they hear. Take it one step further and bring a journal and crayons along. Have your child draw a picture to show what they heard and experienced on the walk.

Listen to different types of music There are many types of music and it benefits your child to be exposed to many different varieties. “Bringing music into the home is wonderful,” says Sheila Vail, owner of Indian Springs Academy of Music. “Exposure to a variety of styles and composers will quickly make music a part of life.

Listening to music with focused attention can make children aware that music is a form of expression.”

Try a music class “More than 80 national research studies document musical and cognitive advantages from investing in a structured music program,” says Rachel Kramer, President of Baldwin Music Education Center. “Studies have followed preschoolers through adulthood, sighting the broad-based benefits early music instruction provided. Students are more likely to stay in school, graduate from college, get a job, become active in their community and even vote.” Baldwin Music Education Center has been around over fifty years and has programs beginning at six months through high school.

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West Chester Academy offers a sequential series of classes from birth on up. “We find that private music students progress faster and have a heightened degree of musicianship if they take preschool music classes prior to beginning private lessons,” says Patsy Rabinowitz, West Chester Academy Director.

program goes beyond music and includes motor and sensory development activities that are embedded into fun playful games.” Songs for Seeds offers fun interactive music classes led by a guitar player, keyboard player and drummer.

Model the joy of music Indian Springs Academy offers several unique programs for children. “Exposure to music and an instrument at an early age helps develop fine motor skills, organizational thinking, creativity and increases spatial awareness,” says Vail. “Students engaged in group music programs learn to work with others in a unique way. They learn to take direction from a designated leader, synthesize their activity with those around them, appreciate the performance of others and [develop] a basic principle of working together towards a common goal.”

Songs for Seeds owner, Luis Diaz, says, “Children learn best through play. This is key for any early music program. In general, a successful preschool

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Joe Backer and his wife Anna, coowners and directors of the Cincinnati School of Music “always had music playing in the background. Many times it is active listening, other times passive. Being musicians, we often play piano for our daughters and sing to them. We let them explore sounds with different household objects (even if it drives us crazy sometimes) and sounds on our piano without trying to ‘teach’ them how to play. At a very early age, it is important to make it a game and keep it fun.” Their private lesson program makes music fun and also rewards kids for reaching certain milestones with their musical achievement program.

Attend family friendly concerts Opportunities to take advantage of musical performances abound in the Cincy area. According to Kramer, “Live concert attendance is fabulous and of course the Linton Series Peanut Butter and Jams concerts are unique to the Greater Cincinnati Area and should not be missed.” Check out the Cincinnati Parent Calendar of Events to find other musical activities and performances available in the area.

Whether your child makes their own rhythm by banging pots and pans in the kitchen, dances to a rock song in the family room or attends a concert to hear the sounds instruments make, each experience allows them the joy of creating and listening to music.

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GROW I N G H EA LT H Y FAM I L I ES

WORDS BY // Ashley Albertson, MSW, LISW, Cincinnati Children’s Hospital

Making a Family Emergency Plan Do your kids know what to do in the event of an emergency?

Can you say your family is truly prepared in the event of a house fire, natural disaster or other emergency? While children routinely practice safety drills at school, this doesn’t mean they are prepared for emergencies that can happen at home. According to the Federal Emergency Management Agency (FEMA), 60 percent of adults do not have a plan for what they would do during a disaster.

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What’s the first step to creating a family emergency plan? Do your homework. Look up any evacuation routes or procedures that your town may already have in place for a disaster or emergency. This can help you develop a more organized exit if an evacuation is necessary. Gather any important documents that your family might need in a place that you will remember and can quickly grab if a swift exit is required. Additionally, identify several people that your children could contact in case of an emergency, such as neighbors, extended family members or friends. Ask these individuals if they would agree to being part of your family safety plan, and let them know what that would entail.

After you’ve completed this preliminary work, the next step is to sit down with your children and discuss the plan. Let them know who they should call in the event of an emergency and also where they should go. Some children may feel that they would be in trouble if they left their home, even if there was a fire, so be sure that your kids understand that you want them to exit the home if there is danger inside and to go to your family’s designated meeting place. The American Red Cross suggests that families have two possible meeting points in case of an emergency. One location should be outside your home, as in the case of a house fire, and the other location should be outside your neighborhood in the event that an evacuation is required.

The next step is to practice the emergency plan with your family. Use a disconnected telephone to practice calling 911. Make sure your children know what information the dispatch worker would need to assist your family (name, address, what’s the emergency, etc.). Work with your kids to memorize the telephone numbers they may need to know. If your neighbors or family members are part of this plan, include them in the process as this helps ensure that everyone is clear about what should happen in the event of an emergency.

Finally, make sure to review your emergency plan periodically with your family. The American Red Cross suggests that families go over their plans at least twice a year. This will allow you to make any necessary changes to the plan if, for example, a neighbor has moved or a relative’s phone number has changed.

No one can anticipate the many types of emergencies that are possible, but having a plan of action in place for your family can help everyone feel more prepared and ensure a swift reunification if your family were to become separated. For further information on Family Emergency Plans, visit the American Red Cross and FEMA websites.

[Sources:] www.usfa.fema.gov/data/ statistics/fire_death_rates.html www.fema.gov/newsrelease/2015/04/28/sixtypercent-americans-not-practicingdisaster-fema-urges-everyoneprepare www.redcross.org/prepare/ location/home-family/plan

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SIBLiNG STRIFE Handling your kids’ inevitable fights and feuds WORDS BY // LAUREN LAWSON

Siblings make the best of friends – until they make the worst of enemies. From silly squabbles to “he said, she said” antics, parents often play referee between their children. See if these common scenarios sound familiar in your home, and read our local experts’ advice on how to resolve problematic issues, bring siblings closer together and ultimately make families stronger.

My 9 and 11 year-old sons are on the same soccer team and are highly competitive – with each other. I think this behavior is making them better players, but I’m worried that their constant rivalry may be unhealthy for their relationship. How can I make sure we are striking the right balance?

Playing sports is an appropriate outlet for boys to be aggressive, expend energy and also be competitive! In addition, team sports present a chance for boys to share the stage with others, accept their role and play as a team. (Sports for girls who tend to be better socialized to work together, allows them a chance to be aggressive and more competitive). As you noted,

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being competitive can be a good thing but not when it interferes with relationships. As their parent you can help them be less competitive by setting the scene before the game, watching and praising, discussing and teaching.

Set the scene: Before the game, talk with them about playing as a team; encourage them to be unselfish, pass the ball, defend, even high-five each other. Since they are on the same team, together they win or lose. That is the key…. together.

Praise: As you watch their games, remember some of their positive and subtle contributions and emphasize their effort rather than who scored or the outcome. Praise

both of them equally and remind them how proud you are for their team play and sportsmanship. Competition among siblings can be fueled by the need to be the best in their parents’ eyes, “prove” something to their siblings and to get attention. Boys need recognition, praise and acceptance of their work ethic, especially from their parents. The recognition and praise encourages them to be competitive with themselves (did you play the best you could) and not each other.

Teachable moments: If they are fighting about who was the best, or one is bragging, or the other is teasing his brother about his lack of skill, use these interactions as teachable moments. That is, talk with them about feelings, behaviors, values, better choices to make and how to influence a different outcome. Finally, outside of competitive sports, encourage them to do activities that require cooperation without a winner. Sheila S. Cohen, Ph.D. Child Psychologist BridgePointe Psychological and Counseling Services

I am recently remarried and my new husband and I bring a total of four kids to the marriage, ranging in age from 4 to 13. Things are not going smoothly with many arguments and hurtful words between them. We want our blended family to work. What are the key ground rules we should establish among the kids so they can build better relationships with each other?

With newly blended families, there is always a period of adjustment. During this period, it will be important for each parent to make an extra effort to spend some one-onone time with each child. During those moments, if your child does bring up one of the siblings in a negative way, try to reflect a bit and avoid lecturing. Sometimes, children just need to vent and feel heard. As difficult as it can be, ignore whining and complaining! However, for really hurtful words, aggression or violating boundaries, it may be necessary to start a house rule. Examples may include “no derogatory language” or “no going through others’ private

space.” Introduce this at a neutral time versus right after an incident. Be very clear about what the consequence will be for breaking the rule. For example, saying to the children, “There are many times when you all are respectful toward each other but sometimes you forget. We are starting a new family house rule to help us remember. If anyone calls anyone stupid, he or she automatically has a consequence.” The consequence could include discipline techniques such as time out or loss of a privilege. Make sure the consequence is developmentally appropriate and not too harsh. Taking away electronics for an evening is generally enough. Follow through with those consequences. That is, if you start a new house rule and anyone breaks it, there are no exceptions. Most importantly, catch your children doing nice things for one another and praise it (e.g., “Thank you for being patient with your sister”). Avoid adding an extra line of “I wish you would do that more often.”

Over time, with patience, your new family will make many new memories together and your children will have an added benefit of even more people to love throughout their lives. Erica Pearl Messer, PsyD Assistant Professor of Clinical Pediatrics Training Director, Mayerson Center for Safe & Healthy Children PCIT International Level II Certified Trainer

Despite our attempts to make everything fair among our three children, they always seem to find a way to feel that one child has more privileges, gets more things, etc. than the others. This situation causes almost daily fights and it’s driving us crazy. What can we do to have them understand that we treat them equally?

Children view fairness as everyone is treated identical. This is not possible because every child and situation is different. Fairness and equality are not the same thing, and there is no perfect equality in a family. Fairness means everyone gets what he or she needs. Parents must realize that in order to be fair to their children, each child must be treated differently. You need to see each child's unique needs and strengths and also recognize the differences between needs and wants. Parents should not feel guilty by children’s ideas on fairness and should put needs as priority. When there is more than one child, having conflict is unavoidable. This is also natural. It is the role of the parent to teach children how to compromise, understand their feelings and care for others. Also, to create

an environment that is safe and accepting where the child can learn to work out problems. Help children identify the problem at hand, hear all sides of the story and don't be judgmental. Ask kids to find a solution that works for everyone involved. Avoid comparisons and give each child their own separate attention. Family meetings can be helpful! Erin Robinson, MA, LPC Licensed Professional Counselor Sam Nabil Counseling Services/Erin Robinson Therapy Butler Behavioral Health Services Community Based Therapist/School Based Therapist

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private school open house guide Considering a private school for your student? Our area has plenty to choose from! Find the right match by visiting an upcoming open house to get all your questions answered. *

Archbishop McNicholas High School

Covington Latin School

Montessori Academy of Cincinnati

6536 Beechmont Avenue, Cincinnati, OH 45230

21 E. 11th St. Covington, KY 41011

8293 Duke Blvd., Mason, OH 45040

(513) 231-3500 www.mcnhs.org

(859) 291-7044 http://covingtonlatin.org

(513) 398-7773 www.montacademy.org

Open House: Sunday, November 6, 1:00 – 3:00pm

Open House: Sunday, February 12, 2017, 1:00pm and 3:00pm

Open Houses: 1-3:00pm on Sunday, November 13, 2016 and Sunday, January 29, 2017

Cardinal Pacelli School

927 Ellison Avenue, Cincinnati, OH 45226

Creative Tots

Madeira: 7803 Laurel Avenue, Madeira, OH 45243

(513) 321-1048 cardinalpacelli.org

(513) 272-2223

Open House: Friday, November 11, 2016, 9:30 – 11:30am

(513) 770-6776 www.creativetots.com

* Children’s Meeting House Montessori School 927 O’Bannonville Road, Loveland, OH 45140

(513) 683-4757 http://cmhschool.com Open House: Sunday, November 6

Cincinnati Hills Christian Academy

11525 Snider Road, Cincinnati, OH 45249

(513) 247-0900 chca-oh.org Open Houses: Saturday, November 12 and Saturday, January 28 Campus Visit Days: Feb 9, March 9, April 20

Cornerstone Christian Preschool

7600 Princeton-Glendale Road, Liberty Twp., OH 45011

(513) 874-7870 www.CornerstoneChurch.org/Preschool Open House: January 25, 2017 from 6-8pm, Please call or email to schedule a tour.

Mason: 6408 Thornberry Court, Ste. 210, Mason, OH 45040

Open Houses: Wednesday, December 14 from 9:30am – 12:00pm Please email us to schedule an appointment. *

Guardian Angels School

6539 Beechmont Avenue, Cincinnati, OH 45230

(513) 624-3141 gaschool.org Open House: Sunday, January 29, 2017 from 1 – 3:00pm *

Immaculate Heart of Mary School

7800 Beechmont Avenue, Cincinnati OH 45255

(513) 388-4086 www.ihomschool.org Open House: Sunday, January 29, 2017 from 12:30 – 3pm

Mars Hill Academy

4230 Aero Drive, Mason, OH 45040

(513) 770-3223 www.marshill.edu Open Houses: Friday, November 11, 9:30 a.m. & Saturday, January 21, 10 a.m.

Country Hills Montessori

Multiple Locations in Eastgate, Oakley, Harrison & West Chester, OH and Ft. Thomas, KY

www.chmschools.com Call for a personal tour.

Mercy Montessori Center

2335 Grandview Avenue, Cincinnati, OH 45206

(513) 475-6700 www.mercymontessori.org Preschool Open House: Sunday, November 13, 1:00 – 3:00pm

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Montessori Center Room

2505 Riverside Drive, Cincinnati, OH 45202

(513) 321-3282 http://montessoricenterroom.com Open House: Sunday, November 6, 2016 from 12:00 – 2:00pm

Mother of Mercy High School

3036 Werk Road, Cincinnati, OH 45211

(513) 661-2740 www.motherofmercy.org Open House: Sunday, November 6, 2016 from 1:00 – 4:00pm

The New School Montessori

3 Burton Woods Lane, Cincinnati, OH 45229

(513) 281-7999 www.newschoolmontessori.com Open Houses: Sunday, January 22 and April 23 from 2:00 – 4:00pm

Rockwern Academy

8401 Montgomery Road, Cincinnati, OH 45236

(513) 984-3770 RockwernAcademy.org We encourage prospective families to call us to schedule a personal tour.

Saint Ursula Academy

1339 E. McMillian Street, Cincinnati, OH 45206

(513) 961-3410 www.saintursula.org Open House: Sunday, October 30, 1:00 – 3:30pm Showcase Nights: Wednesday, November 9 and Tuesday, December 6, 6:30 – 8:30pm

St. Anthony School (K-8)

485 Grand Ave, Taylor Mill, KY 41015

(859) 431-5987 www.saintanthonytaylormill.org/school Open House: Sunday, January 28 10 a.m. – 1 p.m. or call to arrange a private tour

1085 Neeb Rd, Cincinnati, OH 45233

(513) 922-2703 http://sjwlc.org Open House: November 3, 2017 from 6-7:30pm

St. Gabriel Consolidated School

18 West Sharon Avenue, Glendale OH, 45246

(513) 771-5220 www.stgabeschool.org Open House: Wednesday, February 1, 2017 from 6:30 – 8:30pm

* St. John’s Westminster Learning Center

St. Peter in Chains, Hamilton

451 Ridgelawn Ave, Hamilton, OH 45013

(513) 863-0685 http://www.stpeterinchains.org Open House: Sunday, January 22, 2017, from 1-3 p.m.

St. Gertrude School

6543 Miami Ave, Madeira, Ohio 45243

(513) 561-8020 www.stgertrudesch.org Open House: Wednesday, November 2, 2016 from 11:00am – 1:00pm and 7:00 – 8:00pm; Sunday, Janaury 29, 2017 from 1:00 – 3:00pm

All School Open House: from 12:00 – 2:00 p.m. Sunday, January 22, 2017 Preschool through Junior High; (snow cancellation date: Sunday, January 29) *

Doherty Campus - 2726 Johnstone Place, Cincinnati, OH 45206

(513) 728-2400 7hills.org/welcome Informational Meetings: (grades PreK – 5) November 8 & 9

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St. Ursula Villa

3660 Vineyard Place, Cincinnati, OH 45226

(513) 871-7218 www.stursulavilla.org Informational Coffees: from 8:30 – 10:00am Tuesday, November 1: Showcasing Traditional Preschool for 2, 3, & 4-year-olds and Montessori for 3-, 4-, and 5-year-olds Thursday, November 10: Highlighting Traditional Kindergarten through Junior High

Seven Hills School

Hillsdale Campus - 5400 Red Bank Road, Cincinnati, OH 45227

The Summit Country Day School

2161 Grandin Road (Hyde Park), Cincinnati, OH 45208

(513) 871-4700, ext. 261 www.summitcds.org Parent Preview Days: (Age 2 – Grade 8) Thursday, November 10, 8:30am Upper School Open House: (Grades 9-12): Thursday, November 17, 6:30pm RSVP required for all events: 871-4700 ext. 261; Online registration available: http://www. summitcds.org/admission/key-dates.cfm

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WORDS BY // MEGAN S. BOHRER

open adoption Un de rs ta n di ng how t h e pro c es s WORKS

the birth family.” Adoptive families also receive ongoing education and support as they welcome a child into their home.

At what moment exactly does one become a parent? For some couples, it’s seeing two faint pink lines appear on a stick. For others, it’s hearing from a doctor that a medical procedure has finally worked. And some become parents by receiving a phone call saying they have been matched with a child to adopt. Modern adoption looks very different than it did just twenty years ago, with the stereotype of parents revealing to a surprised child that they are not his biological parents. Today, open adoptions are commonplace, which in general terms, means that there is communication between the biological family and the adoptive family.

How do open adoptions work? The level of communication between families in an open adoption can vary a great deal. How this is determined may be largely dependent on the preferences of the birth mother.

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Concerns about open adoption

It’s important to note that not all adoptions are open however. LaTania Thomas, a Certified Adoption Assessor in the State of Ohio and the Director of Adoption Connection in Cincinnati, states that not all birth parents wish to be known, saying “The reason why a family may choose a closed adoption can be varied and can be ever-evolving. Adoptive parents will normally respect the wishes of a birth family.” The particular rules governing adoptions vary from state to state. In Ohio, the Ohio Department of Job and Family Services (ODJFS) is responsible for adoptions, as well as governing the

state’s child and adult protective services, child care and other child support programs. For those considering adoption, families should know that support for the process continues well after the placement of a child. Agencies such as Adoption Connection provide services to all parties involved. Thomas says, “We help birth mothers by working with them to create birth family assessments, case management resource location and crisis intervention. If applicable, we help them develop a courageous and loving adoption plan, and we provide lifelong support to

It’s reasonable for parents considering open adoption to have some anxiety about how the birth parent may influence the child and their family. According to the website Adoptive Families (www.adoptivefamilies. com/), worrying that the birth parents will lack appropriate boundaries or want the child back, or being concerned that a child will grow up confused about who her parents are, is not uncommon. However, these problems are not typical and adoptive parents are the ones who make the parenting decisions after placement. (Source: www.adoptive families.com/openness/ guide-to-open-adoption/). Being flexible and maintaining clear boundaries will help establish positive relationships with everyone involved.

For birth mothers, having the opportunity to continue a relationship with their biological child, as opposed to closing the door on that connection permanently, can help to alleviate a sense of grief and loss and allow them to move forward in their life. For children, growing up with the support of their adoptive family and contact with their biological family can provide them with a more complete picture of who they are.

Deciding to place a child for adoption and deciding to become an adoptive parent are not easy decisions. Fortunately however, support systems for both types of parents are available to help them with this journey. And with both parties feeling informed and valued, the most important people in the process, the children, reap the benefits.

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COMM E N TA RY & PA R E N T I N G

WORDS BY // DEB KRUPOWICZ

Ask the Teacher Choosing books to encourage reading, planning for fall conferences and contemplating an ADD diagnosis

My second grade daughter is starting to get excited about reading and can read simple chapter books. How do I go about picking appropriate books for her?

When a young reader “turns the corner” and is ready to read longer books, it is such an exciting time! To keep the positive momentum going toward becoming a lifelong reader, proceed cautiously. Begin by selecting books on the easier side until your daughter demonstrates not only the ability to read at the level at which the book was written, but also has shown comprehension skills and the sustained attention span required for longer works. Ease her into more challenging books by reading the first chapter aloud to get her hooked. If she seems to give up on a book quickly, it may be a good one to read together by taking turns reading aloud. Start with authors whose books have been popular across generations, like E.B. White (Charlotte’s Web), Roald Dahl (The BFG) and Judy Blume (Freckle Juice). There are many engaging book series that may interest your daughter as well, such as the

Amelia Bedelia books, The Boxcar Children, The Magic Tree House series and Cam Jansen mysteries. Make a trip to your local library and choose a few of the first selections in the series books. She may be drawn to particular ones. If she cannot seem to get interested, try reading them aloud to help generate her interest.

Attending my son’s fall conference always makes me a little anxious. I am never quite sure if I should just be listening to the teacher or asking questions. What exactly should I be prepared to do? What kinds of questions would be good ask?

Teacher conferences should be a balance of talking and listening by both parents and the teacher. Because the conferences are typically scheduled for 15-20 minutes, being prepared ahead of time is the best way to make the most of your appointment. Listen to the teacher explain your son’s areas of strength and those that challenge him. If something is a surprise to you, say so. Ask the teacher to clarify how she has drawn that conclusion. If it is an area of weakness, request specific ways that you can help your son at home. A surprise disclosure of a weakness can catch you off-guard and bring a defensive response. Allow yourself to process the information for a bit before asking for more information. Base your own questions on trends and patterns that you observe in your son and in his work rather than on a particular question from one paper or his bad attitude about school one afternoon. Think about how you formulate your questions so that the teacher feels respected and is ready to partner with you for your son’s success.

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For the second year in a row, my child’s teachers have suggested somewhat indirectly that he should be tested for Attention Deficit Disorder. Why would anyone risk having a child labeled ADD?

If two teachers in two consecutive school years have suggested that your son be tested for ADD, they must be observing behaviors that indicate that he may be dealing with this. Teachers have a good understanding of developmentally appropriate behaviors and attention spans. Their experience and what they have seen in your son have led them to believe that he may have ADD. Testing by a respected pediatrician or child psychologist who takes teacher and parent observation into account will indicate or eliminate a diagnosis of ADD. If, indeed, that is what the professionals find, adjust your thinking. Rather than thinking about your son being “labeled,” think of this information as a diagnosis. Ultimately, we want all children to have respectful behavior, to be attentive in school and to complete the tasks assigned. With a diagnosis of ADD, your son’s behaviors and academic expectations will be viewed through a slightly different lens. An Individualized Education Plan (IEP) will be written to identify ways to support your son’s learning and development and help him learn effective ways to cope with his difficulty focusing. If it is determined that your son does not have ADD, different strategies will be used to teach appropriate behaviors for academic success.

ASK THE TEACHER // is written by Deb Krupowicz, a mother of four who holds a Master’s degree in Curriculum and Instruction. Deb has over twenty years of experience teaching preschool, elementary and middle school students. Please send your questions to her at asktheteacher@ cincinnatiparent.com.

EDU CAT I O N R ES O U R C ES

Preschool & Education Guide //CHILDCaRE & PRESCHOOL Chai Tots Early Childhood Center Academic excellence via a unique blend of Jewish and Montessori education offering strong academics, stressing life skills, interpersonal relationship skills and nurturing a love for life-long learning. Individualized curriculum customized for each student, expansive naturally lit rooms, low student ratio. Specials include yoga, music, Hebrew, Spanish, dance, drama, art and Tae Kwon Do. Flexible schedules, before and aftercare, web cams and after-school enrichment available. Transportation available to/from Mason schools. Limited space - now enrolling! 7587 Central Parke Blvd., Mason, OH 45040, Phone: (513)234-0600, www.ChaiTots.com, Ages/Grades: Infant, Toddler, Preschool, Kindergarten (6 weeks-6 years), Enrollment: 60

Hyde Park Community United Methodist Church Preschool At HPCUMC Preschool our goal is to encourage the development of each childâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s cognitive, social, emotional, and physical skills, as well as spiritual growth in order to prepare each child for the formal learning experience. We provide a learning environment where student-centered learning takes place through exploration, play, experimentation, and discovery. Your child will be encouraged to try new tasks, use their imagination, make friends, follow directions, focus their energy and develop a love of learning. HPCUMC Preschool is a Five-Star Step Up to Quality school. Registration for the 2017-18 school year begins December 5, 2016. Registration materials will be available online in late-November 2016. 1345 Grace Avenue, Cincinnati, OH 45208, Contact: Julie Vail, Phone: 513-979-8191, Email: jvail@hpcumc.org, http://hydeparkpreschool. org, Grades: 30 months to 5 years of age

CHILDREN INC. Early Education and Care (including Montessori and traditional curriculum) offered at multiple sites throughout Northern Kentucky and Cincinnati. Nationally accredited and multi-STAR quality rated. Generous tuition assistance is available for qualifying families based on income and family size. Phone: (859) 431-2075, www.childreninc.org, Grades: Infant through 12 years

Creative Tots, Mason Creative Tots has specialized in the private education of Toddler, Preschool and Pre-K children for 20+ years. Our holistic approach allows children the opportunity to learn, explore, play and grow while engaging in the fine arts and Montessori activities. Our modernized curriculum is rich in opportunities to use creativity, solve problems, use language, develop new vocabulary and reading skills, while engaging in intellectual activities. Enrichment Programs: Spanish, Music, Art, Yoga and Science. 6408 Thornberry Ct.,, Mason, oh 45040, Contact: Emilie Parry, Phone: 513-770-6776, Email: creativetotsmason@gmail.com, www.creativetotsmason.com, Grades: Toddler: 18 months-3 years, Preschool: 3-4 years; Pre-K: 4-5 years

YMCA of Greater Cincinnati The YMCA of Greater Cincinnati offers state licensed before and after school care at over 85 locations throughout Greater Cincinnati and Northern Kentucky. 1105 Elm Street, Cincinnnati, OH 45202, Contact: Trish Kitchell, VP Youth Development, Phone: 513-362-YMCA, Fax: 513-651-3540, Email: tkitchell@MyY.org, www.MyY.org, Grades: Ages 3-12, Enrollment: Stop by any YMCA of Greater Cincinnati location or check with your local school district.

//MONTESSORI Country Hills Montessori Providing programs for 3 to K. Small, individualized classes with low student-teacher ratios, under the guidance of Montessori certified teachers, in an inter-generational environment. Multiple Locations in Eastgate, Oakley, Harrison and West Chester Ohio and in Ft. Thomas KY. Visit chmschools.com for all location addresses & phones. Contact: Susan Schreiber, Owner, Email: susan@chmschools.com, www.chmschools. com/, Grades: 3 - K

Little Sprouts Montessori Preschool & Kindergarten Little Sprouts Montessori nurtures the natural curiosity and enthusiasm of children, helping them develop a lifetime love of learning. Our goal is to empower children to discover and hone their strengths as they explore the world. We recognize the importance of individualized education, and maintain a 1:6 ratio.

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7131 Plainfield Road, Deer Park, OH 45236, Contact: Christie Sawyer, Phone: 513-697-9021, Email: csawyer@leavesoflearning.org, www.little-sprouts.org, Grades: Preschool & Kindergarten, Enrollment: Families choose mornings two to four days per week (T/TH and/ or W/F), and/or afternoon sessions on Tuesday and Thursday.

Mercy Montessori Center Mercy Montessori is Cincinnati's first Catholic Montessori elementary school and provides students with a personalized education. Mercy offers a sliding scale tuition model, in-school swimming instruction starting at age three, and attracts students from over 50 zip codes. Mercy educates the whole child and develops a strong foundation for learning. 2335 Grandview Avenue, Cincinnati, OH 45206, Contact: Amanda Grimm, Admissions Director, Phone: (513) 475-6700 ext. 210, Email: agrimm@ mercymontessori.org, www.mercymontessori. org, Grades: Preschool - 8th Grade, Enrollment: 292

The Good Shepherd Catholic Montessori GSCM is a unique Catholic Montessori school set on a 12-acre campus. GSCM features nurturing Montessori teachers and individualized learning. 3, 4 or 5 day preschool options, full-day Kindergarten, and aftercare available. Spanish, unparalleled faith formation with the Catechesis of the Good Shepherd, art, music, dance and drama enrichment offered. Teacher/Student Ratio: 1:12. 4460 Berwick Street, Cincinnati, 513-271-4171, www.gscmontessori.org, Grades: 3-year olds through grade 8, including full-day Kindergarten, Enrollment: 200; Contact: Dan Teller, Principal, dteller@gscmontessori.org

The New School Montessori Centrally located and surrounded by wooded play yards and gardens, students benefit from a nurturing environment where Montessoricredentialed staff support high academic and personal achievement. Full-day, half-day and part-time AMS and ISACS accredited programs with healthy lunches included in tuition. 3 Burton Woods Lane, Cincinnati, OH 45229, Contact: Ceara Comstock, Phone: (513)2817999, Email: ceara.c@newschoolmontessori. com, www.newschoolmontessori.com, Grades: 3-year-olds through Grade 6, Enrollment: 125

// NON–PUBLIC Archbishop McNicholas High School A Christ-centered, Catholic co-ed community that embraces each student – spiritually, intellectually, morally, and physically. We provide a safe, nurturing, creative, and challenging campus where individuals will grow in knowledge and faith. We equip our students with opportunities and experiences that will enable them to achieve excellence, live out gospel values, and attain full stature in Christ. 6536 Beechmont Ave, Cincinnati, OH 45230, Contact: Christina Mullis, Director of Admissions and Enrollment, Phone: 513-231-3500, http://www.mcnhs. org, Grades: 9-12, Enrollment: 630

CINCINNATI CHRISTIAN SCHOOLS CCS has been creating lifelong learners, creative thinkers, passionate disciples, and visionary leaders for over 40 years. Our graduates are welcomed at universities because they’ve become the natural learners and inquisitive students that God created them to be. CCS knows that faith and learning go hand-in-hand. Outstanding. Proven. Elementary Campus: 7350 Dixie Hwy, Fairfield, OH, 45014, Junior/Senior High Campus: 7474 Morris Rd., Fairfield, OH, 45011, (513) 892-8500, Contact: Lisa Coombs, Admissions Director, lisa.coombs@ cincinnatichristian.org, www.cincinnatichristian.org, Grades: PS - 12

CINCINNATI HILLS CHRISTIAN ACADEMY CHCA is a vibrant, multidenominational, college preparatory school serving students Age 2- grade 12. We’re investing $9MM to deliver new levels of student engagement through expanded facilities including an expanded Early Childhood Learning Center, Innovation Labs, a Greenhouse, and Engineering and Applied Science Labs. CHCA is leading the way to higher levels of cognitive, relational, and spiritual engagement for each student. Open House January 20. Campus Visit days 2/9, 3/9, 4/20. RSVP @ chca-oh.org. 11525 Snider Road, Cincinnati, OH 45249, Contact: Natalie Pfister, Enrollment Director, Phone: (513)2470900, Email: admissions@chca-oh.org, www.chca-oh. org, Ages 2 - Grade 12, Enrollment: 1350

St. Ursula Villa An extraordinary family atmosphere and Christ-centered spirit of St. Angela Merici cultivates independent learners who achieve their potential through small classes, individualized instruction, and nurturing of the whole child. Program offerings begin with Toddler/2-year-old and Traditional or Montessori preschool continuing through Junior High, recognized for outstanding high school preparation. 3660 Vineyard Place, Cincinnati, OH 45226, Contact: Marta Runnels, Phone: 513-533-7373, Fax: 513-8710315, Email: m.runnels@stursulavilla.org, www. stursulavilla.org, Grades: 2 years old through 8th grade, Enrollment: 465

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THE SUMMIT COUNTRY DAY SCHOOL Founded in 1890, The Summit serves students from age 2 to Grade 12. A Montessori Program for ages 2-6 begins the academic journey followed by a college-preparatory program (Grades 1-12). The Summit educates students spiritually, academically, physically, socially and artistically while offering the academic excellence and one-on-one guidance of a top-tier Catholic independent school. 2161 Grandin Road (Hyde Park), Cincinnati, OH 45208, Phone: 513-871-4700, ext. 261, Email: pearl_e@summitcds.org,

Great Oaks Career Campuses Great Oaks offers career development training for high school students and adults. With four campuses--Scarlet Oaks in Sharonville, Diamond Oaks in Dent, Live Oaks in MIlford, and Laurel Oaks in Wilmington, high school students prepare for careers and college, and adults get training and certification to begin a new career or advance in a current career. 3254 East Kemper Road, Cincinnati, OH 45040, Contact: Jon Weidlich, Phone: 513-771-8840, Email: weidlicj@greatoaks. com, www.greatoaks.com, Grades: High school (grades 11-12) and Adult

www.summitcds.org

//PUBLIC Cincinnati Public SChools Our goal is to provide a rigorous curiculum that cultivates critical thinking and technology skills while encouraging collaboration, real-world connections and endless creativity. It’s not just about getting your children ready for graduation. It’s about getting them into college and preparing them for a thriving career! Phone: 513-363-0123, cps-k12.org

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//SPECIaL NEEDS Springer School and Center For more than 45 years, Springer School and Center has empowered students with learning disabilities to lead successful lives. Springer offers a day school for students ages 6-14 and outreach programs and learning disability resources for students, parents and teachers in the Greater Cincinnati area. The Springer Experience. Success Changes Everything. 2121 Madison Road, Cincinnati, OH 45208, Contact: Carmen Mendoza, Admissions Director, Phone: 513 871-6080 ext. 211, Fax: 513 871-6428, Email: cmendoza@springer-LD.org, www. springer-LD.org, Grades: 1 through 8, Enrollment: 200

//TUTORING Langsford Learning Acceleration Centers Is your child on track to be a successful reader? For over 16 years, Langsford has been applying an evidence-based approach to reading difficulties, including Dyslexia, to turn struggling readers into confident and successful students. Langsford’s approach is to identify the root cause of the reading difficulty and then to implement research-validated reading programs. Langsford offers support for reading, comprehension, and writing. Langsford is also an approved Jon Peterson provider; contact us to see if your child qualifies for a scholarship from the Ohio Department of Education. Blue Ash: 9402 Towne Square Ave. Ste B, Cincinnati, OH 45242 & West Chester: 7616 Cox Lane, West Chester, Oh 45069, Contact: Jeff Graham, Executive Director, Phone: 513-531-7400, www.WeTeach Reading.com, Grades: All ages

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EiGHT GREAT

MUSEUMS FOR KIDS Top picks all close to home! WORDS BY // Sarah McCosham

Boonshoft Museum of Discovery Dayton, OH www.boonshoftmuseum.org This Dayton gem is beyond cool, and features an impressive number of permanent and rotating exhibits. Kids will especially love the Treehouse, Explorers Crossing and Discovery Zoo (check out the meerkats, otters and a 16 1 ⁄2 foot Burmese Python named Rajeev). Tickets are $14.50 for adults, $11.50 for children 3-17 and free for kids under 3.

Carillon Historical Park Dayton, OH www.daytonhistory.org/visit/daytonhistory-sites/carillon-historical-park

As the weather turns cooler, it’s always nice to have a few ideas in your back pocket for indoor fun – and museums can be the perfect option! Living in Cincinnati, we’re lucky to have our own great museums to visit as well as being just a short drive from the museums of several other cities. Here’s a review of eight “not to miss” destinations worthy of a quick road trip!

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Behringer-Crawford Museum Covington, KY www.bcmuseum.org Located in Covington’s lovely Devou Park, the Behringer-Crawford Museum is four stories of interactive fun celebrating Northern Kentucky’s rich heritage. Kids will love the automobile exhibit on the second floor that features a freestanding “drive in” movie in a classic car, an old-time jukebox, and play table with cars and trucks and things that go. The museum is best-known for its interactive holiday toy train display, which is a must for little train lovers. Admission is $9/ adults, $5/kids ages 3-17 and free for members and tots under 3.

While not technically a children’s museum, with an indoor carousel, interactive engineering exhibits and the Original Wright Flyer III, this Dayton museum is as educational as it is kid friendly! Admission is $8 per adult (ages 18-59), $5 per child (3-17) and students, and free for children under 3 and Dayton History members.

COSI Columbus, OH www.cosi.org In 2008, the Center of Science and Industry (COSI) was named America’s #1 science center for families by Parents Magazine – and it’s easy to see why.

With a planetarium, energy explorers and space exhibits, science has never seemed cooler! For families with kids under 6, be sure to visit the Little Kidscape, which features a barn, tree house and farmers' market sure to capture your child’s attention.

Duke Energy Children’s Museum Cincinnati, OH www.cincymuseum.org While Union Terminal is undergoing major renovations over the next two years, the Duke Energy Children’s Museum remains open and as fun as ever! Highlights include The Woods, Little Sprouts Farm (for kids 4 and under) and brand-new Inside the Grin exhibit, which features a gigantic mouth, real dentist chair and interactive tooth-brushing and flossing fun. Also mark your calendars for November 11, when Vikings: Beyond the Legend opens!

Explorium of Lexington Lexington, KY http://explorium.com This Kentucky children’s museum features lots of hands-on activities; most notably, an interactive “Get Fit” wall where the projected game responds to your movement and “Sketch Pad” art classes. Admission is just $8 per person for guests 1 year and older.

Kentucky Science Center Louisville, KY http://kysciencecenter.org Kentucky Science Center is the largest hands-on science center in Kentucky, boasting three floors of interactive exhibits and experiences, a four-story theater, teaching laboratories, educational programs and distance learning capabilities. Plan to visit on a Friday or Saturday night for $5 after 5 pm, admission is only $5 per person for permanent exhibits during this time!

The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis Indianapolis, IN www.childrensmuseum.org Did you know that the biggest children’s museum in the world is just two hours from Cincinnati? The sheer size, variety and number of exhibits at this museum is simply astounding. (In fact, the longawaited Doc McStuffins exhibit just opened.) If possible, visit this museum on the first Thursday of the month for Target Free Family Night when admission is free between 4 -8 pm.

Also, if you have a membership to the Duke Energy Children’s Museum, you can enjoy free or discounted admission to COSI and the Kentucky Science Center. So, what museum will you visit first? With so many great options, you might just have to “binge visit” all of them!

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DAI LY EV E N TS

daily calendar {NOVEMBER 2016} TUES 01 Teen Tech Club: "Gingerbread" White House In honor of the presidential election, construct the White House out of sugar cookies, icing and candy! Time: 6 p.m., Location: Clifton Branch Library,

http://programs.cincinnatilibrary.org/ evanced/lib/eventcalendar.asp, Phone:

513-369-4447

WEDS 02 Octonauts Live Calling all Octo-Cadets! For the first time ever, The Octonauts are bringing their live stage show to the U.S. The Octonauts and the Deep Sea Volcano Adventure features brand new and fan favorite songs from the entire crew of beloved underwater explorers, led by the intrepid Captain Barnacles, Lieutenant Kwazii and Medic Peso. Join them as they embark on an exciting new quest through an aquatic world full of adventure, interactive opportunity, and ‘must-sea’ surprises from coast-to-coast! Octonauts Live promises to be the perfect theatre show for all fans of the Disney Jr. series!

You’re invited to drop in to any of the scheduled debates. After listening to the candidates, cast your vote for Highfield Discovery Garden President. Program included in Highfield admission: $5/person. Time(s): Wed–Sat, 10:45 a.m., 1 p.m. and 4 p.m. and Sun 1 and 4 p.m., Location: Glenwood Gardens/Highfield Discovery Garden, http:// www.greatparks.org/calendar#, Phone: 513-521-7275

WEDS 02 – SUN 13 (Wednesdays-Sundays only) Vote 4 Me The Discovery Garden presidential election is really heating up! Frog feels strongly about water quality and Mr. Lily couldn’t be more adamant about the importance of vegetables.

Time: 2 p.m., Location: Duke Energy Children’s Museum, https://www.cincymuseum.org/ programs/super-sprouts, Phone: 513-287-7000

FRI 04 THURS 03 Cincinnati Observatory Family Presentation Let’s explore the universe at the J! Dean Regas of the Cincinnati Observatory will lead this journey into space, visiting planets and the Moon on our way to the far reaches of the galaxy. Utilizing simulation software, Regas will help our families visit uncharted frontier. Afterward, we’ll have the opportunity to use telescopes and view the night sky for ourselves. For ages 7-12 and families. Time: 6:30-7:30 p.m., Location: Mayerson JCC, https://www.mayersonjcc.org/age/

families/cincinnati-observatory-familypresentation/, Phone: 513-761-7500

Time: 6:30 p.m., Location: Aronoff Center,

http://www.cincinnatiarts.org/events/detail/ octonauts, Phone: 513-621-2787

Monster Mash Make an awesome monster to celebrate this spooky time of year! Super Sprouts is free for members or admission to the Duke Energy Children's Museum.

Happy Sandwich Day! It's Sandwich Day! Created in 1762, the sandwich has been around for a long time and has many varieties! Join us on this delicious day as we read a couple of our favorite sandwich stories and create our own version with a yummy craft. Free; best for ages 3-6. Call 513-731-2665 to reserve a spot as space is limited. Time: 11 a.m.-12 p.m., Location: Blue Manatee Children’s Bookstore, http://www.

bluemanateebooks.com/home/activatees. html, Phone: 513-731-2665

Antique Christmas Celebration Get into the holiday spirit with this free party at the Taft! Enjoy holiday treats while listening to your favorite carols and browsing the festive Antique Christmas displays. Free; reservations required. Time: 6-8 p.m., Location: Taft Museum of Art, http://www.taftmuseum.org/events/lectures, Phone: 513- 684-4516

FRI 04 – SAT 12 Billy Elliot The Musical Billy Elliot The Musical is the spectacular show with the heart, humor and passion to be named TIME Magazine’s 'Best Musical of the Decade!' Based on the international smash-hit film, and featuring a score by music legend Elton John, Billy Elliot is an astonishing theatrical experience that will stay with you forever. Set in a northern English mining town against the background of the 1984 miners' strike, Billy Elliot is the inspirational story of a young boy's struggle against the odds to make his dream come true. Follow Billy's journey as he stumbles out of the boxing ring and into a ballet class, where he discovers a passion for dance that inspires his family and community... and changes his life forever. Rated R for strong language. Time: Check website for show times, Location: Aronoff Center, http://www.

cincinnatiarts.org/events/detail/billy-elliot,

Phone: 513-621-2787

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All-City Boychoir Festival Imagine it: three hundred boys united in song! It’s quite something to behold. For one day only, any and every boy in the region is invited to join us for a fantastic day of singing, music theory games and cookies to end the day. On stage at the 2000-seat Procter & Gamble Hall in the Aronoff Center for the Arts, boys engage their voices in song, meet new friends and experience what it’s like to be a member of the Cincinnati Boychoir. Best of all? It’s free! Time: 4 p.m., Location: Aronoff Center, http:// www.cincinnatiarts.org/events/detail/ cbc-all-city-boychoir, Phone: 513-621-2787

It's Election Day! Let's Play the "Who Was..." Trivia Game! Happy Election Day! We thought that holding a "Who Was..." trivia game this afternoon would be a great way to honor this day. Join us for a fun-filled friendly game and maybe even learn a little something along the way! The game is based on the Who Was biography series and we are even offering 20% off any Who Was/Who Is title during this event! Free; best for ages 8-11. Call 513-7312665 to reserve a spot as space is limited.

African Penguin Encounter Do you want a penguin to waddle around you? Learn about everything penguin? Examine penguin artifacts? If so, then this encounter is for you! Presented by The Wave Foundation at Newport Aquarium.

Time: 11 a.m., Location: Miami Whitewater Forest/Visitor Center, http://www.greatparks. org/calendar#, Phone: 513-521-7275

Shrinky Dinks for Teens Color then bake your own plastic designs to create jewelry, ornaments and more! All materials provided. Ages 12 to 18.

THURS 10

Family ARTventures: Art Stop Here’s the chance to interact with “touchable” art objects. These family oriented interactive stations actually allow you to do just that, and are led by our knowledgeable Cincinnati Art Museum docents. These tours are a favorite way for the family to get to know our collections. Time: 2 p.m., Location: Cincinnati Art Museum,

http://cincinnatiartmuseum.org/eventsprograms/events-list/, Phone: 513-721-2787

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bluemanateebooks.com/home/activatees. html, Phone: 513-731-2665

Powered by Wind This windy program features the oboe, clarinet, bassoon, French horn and piano. The music they make will blow you away!

SUN 06

cincinnatilibrary.org/evanced/lib/ eventcalendar.asp, Phone: 513-369-4462

Time: 1-3 p.m., Location: Blue Manatee Children’s Bookstore, http://www.

Time: 7-8 p.m., Location: Sharonville Branch Library, http://programs.cincinnatilibrary.org/ evanced/lib/eventcalendar.asp, Phone: 513-369-6049

Time: 10 a.m. and 11:30 a.m., Location: Mt. Washington Presbyterian Church, http:// lintonmusic.org/pbj-sessions-schedule/, Phone: 513-381-6868

Time: 3:30-4:30 p.m., Location: St. Bernard Branch Library, http://programs.

All About Owls Register your 2-4 year old for this exciting program all about the mysterious and wondrous world of owls. The program will be followed by story time and a craft. Cost is $6/child; register by 11/9.

Time: 11 a.m., Location: Delhi Township Branch Library, http://programs.

cincinnatilibrary.org/evanced/lib/ eventcalendar.asp, Phone: 513-369-6019

Star Wars Trivia Are you strong in the ways of the force? Test your Star Wars knowledge with Jedi Master Mike George from Cincinnati Parks.

Blue Manatee Customer Loyalty Night Calling our Cool Customers! Are you ready for some early holiday shopping? We are opening the store just for you this evening in appreciation for being loyal ManaFriends. Present your Cool Customer Card and receive 20% off your entire purchase. Check those lists and begin crossing things off tonight! We’ll be open from 6-8 p.m. for this special shopping soiree! Time: 6-8 p.m., Location: Blue Manatee Children’s Bookstore, http://www.

bluemanateebooks.com/home/activatees. html, Phone: 513-731-2665

FRI 11 – SUN 13 Greater Cincinnati Holiday Market Browse aisle of unique, one-of-a-kind boutiques and specialty stores from around the greater Cincinnati area offering you an unparalleled selection of home décor, specialty clothing, personal accouterments and gourmet food from the Cincy Specialty Food & Treats Show. Shop for countless other wonderful items for a truly exceptional gift buying experience! Cash or credit cards are accepted by most exhibitors. Time: Fri., 10 a.m.-6 p.m., Sat., 10 a.m.-7 p.m. and Sun., 10 a.m.-5 p.m., Location: Duke Energy Convention Center, http://

cincinnatiholidaymarket.com/

SAT 12 Powered by Wind This windy program features the oboe, clarinet, bassoon, French horn and piano. The music they make will blow you away! Time: 10 a.m. and 11:30 a.m., Location: Heritage Presbyterian Church, http://

lintonmusic.org/pbj-sessions-schedule/,

Phone: 513-381-6868

Spacey Tall Tales Lions and tigers and bears, oh my! Lift your eyes to the starry sky and leap into legends of nighttime. Afterwards, connect the dots with the Cincinnati Astronomical Society and their array of telescopes. Cost is $2/ person; register by Nov. 10.

SUN 06 Shining Stars Sports Basketball Clinic Advance your basketball skills in this fun clinic taught by trainers from the Shining Stars Sports elite basketball program. All abilities and skill levels are welcome. Participants will be divided into groups based upon age and ability to maximize their learning and growth. No tryouts required. Sign up for one or both clinics! For ages 6-12. Cost: J Member: $30, Public: $40. RSVP at MayersonJCC.org. Time: 1-3 p.m., Location: Mayerson JCC,

https://www.mayersonjcc.org/wellness- rec/sports/shining-stars-sports- basketball-clinic/, Phone: 513-761-7500

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Time: 6 p.m., Location: Winton Woods/Parky’s Farm, http://www. greatparks.org/calendar#, Phone: 513-521-7275

Superhero Night Join the Cyclones as some of your favorite super heroes take a break from fighting crime and stop by U.S. Bank Arena for photos and memories. Time: 7:30 p.m., Location: U.S. Bank Arena, http://cycloneshockey.com/, Phone: 513-421-4111

SUN 13 Luigi Bullooney's Circus Menagerie See the Butterfly Lady and the Bear Boy, the Strong Man and the Misfit Clown. Come to the puppet circus where all manner of strange and delightful characters come to life. Hosted with pizzazz by Luigi Bullooney, the alter ego of a certain well-known puppeteer, under the small big top filled with wonder. Recommended for all ages. Show starts at 2 p.m. and is $5 per adult and free for kids 12 and under. Time: 2 p.m., Location: Clifton Cultural Arts Center,

http://www.cliftonculturalarts.org/events/comingevents/second-sunday-family-showtime/, Phone:

513-497-2860

MON 14 Family Story time: Holiday Craft Workshop! Join us for simple crafts to make your holidays bright! Time: 6:30-7:15 p.m., Location: Covedale Branch Library, http://programs.cincinnatilibrary.org/ evanced/lib/eventcalendar.asp, Phone: 513-369-4460

Make-a-Mess Join Ms. Anne to enjoy this wonderful outlet for your child's creative side. Have fun listening to a good book and participating in an art-making activity with your child. Cost is $10/child. Reserve a spot for your 2-4 year old by stopping by the store or calling 513-731-2665. Please register by Friday, Nov. 11. Time: 10-11 a.m., Location: Blue Manatee Children’s Bookstore, http://www.bluemanateebooks.com/home/ activatees.html, Phone: 513-731-2665

TUES 15 Awesome Animal Adaptations Explore animal habitats and adaptations. Meet and touch live animals that may include a bat, snake, box turtle, tarantula and/or hissing cockroaches. Learn about and handle unique items like baleen, pronghorn antelope fur and armadillo armor. Presented by the Cincinnati Museum Center. Time: 3:30-4:30 p.m., Location: Madisonville Branch Library, http://programs.cincinnatilibrary.org/ evanced/lib/eventcalendar.asp, Phone: 513-369-6029

TUES 15 – WEDS 16 Growing Up Farm Kid: Turkey Day Meet our turkey and play turkey games to celebrate turkey day. For kids ages 2-5 accompanied by an adult. Cost is $10/child with one adult; $5/additional adult; register by Nov. 13. Time: 9:30-11 a.m., Location: Winton Woods/Parky’s Farm, http://www.greatparks.org/calendar#, Phone: 513-521-7275

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WEDS 16 Buttons, Buttons and More Buttons! It's Button Day and we are here to celebrate! Red, yellow, green, round, square, two-holed, four-holed... it doesn't matter what type of button it is! Join us for some of our absolute favorite button stories and a beautiful button-y craft - the perfect something just in time for the holidays! Cost is $3/child; best for ages 3-6. Time: 11 a.m.-12 p.m., Location: Blue Manatee Children’s Bookstore, http://www.

bluemanateebooks.com/home/activatees.html,

Phone: 513-731-2665

Thank Goodness for Cookies! Join us as we welcome Lisa Donaldson from Cincinnati Cake and Candy Supplies and learn to decorate delicious cookies! Ages 5-12. Registration recommended. See branch staff for more information. Time: 3-4 p.m., Location: Oakley Branch Library, http://programs.cincinnatilibrary.org/ evanced/lib/eventcalendar.asp, Phone: 513-369-6038

Teen Winter Ball Calling all Harry Potter fans: Join us for our first-ever winter ball for teens inspired by the Yule Ball from "Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire." Dance the evening away with friends under floating candles and magical lights! Make wizard wands, spell books, dance to your favorite tunes, and enter your name in a special Potter prize giveaway! Ball attire or wizard robes are encouraged; casual dress is welcome. Selfie stations with costume props are a feature, so you can immortalize the night!

THURS 17

Time: 6-8 p.m., Location: Deer Park Branch Library, http://programs.cincinnatilibrary.org/ evanced/lib/eventcalendar.asp, Phone: 513-369-4450

Crafty Kids Get crafty at the library, make-it and take it! Sponsored by the Kersten Fund.

FRI 18 – SUN 20

Time: 4-4:45 p.m., Location: Mariemont Branch Library, http://programs.cincinnatilibrary.org/ evanced/lib/eventcalendar.asp, Phone: 513-369-4467

FRI 18 Alice in Wonderland Unforgettable characters burst through the looking glass and onto our stage -- join Alice, the Cheshire Cat and the Mad Hatter for a fantastical evening of delirious fun through one of the most popular and influential stories in children’s literature. Tickets are $13/adult non-member and $11/adult member. Get up to 4 free tickets to children under 16 with each adult ticket purchased. Time: Free reception at 6:30 p.m.; Show starts at 7:30 p.m., Location: Fitton Center for the Arts,

http://fittoncenter.org/event-series/fittonfamily-fridays/, Phone: 513-863-8873

PNC Festival of Lights Member Preview Preview Night is only open to Zoo members and invited media and sponsors on Friday, Nov. 18. The event opens to the public on Saturday, Nov. 19. Time: 5-10 p.m., Location: Cincinnati Zoo,

http://cincinnatizoo.org/events/festival-oflights/, Phone: 513- 281-4700

Christkindlmarkt The oldest and most authentic Christkindlmarkt in the Cincinnati region, with traditional German food, German Bier and Gluhwein, German pastries, holiday entertainment, children’s lantern parade, and shopping for unique imported German gifts and crafts. Plus visits from St. Nikolaus and Santa Claus! Time: Fri., Nov. 18, 5-10 p.m., Sat., Nov. 19, 11 a.m.-10 p.m. and Sun., Nov. 20, 12-5 p.m., Location: Germania Park, http://

germaniasociety.com/christkindlmarkt/

SAT 19 Kindervelt's 18th Annual North Pole Express Welcome in the holidays on this vintage train ride during our unique, one-day event! The ride includes a narration of the holiday story, "The Polar Express," complete with Santa, elves, caroling and more! Groups wishing to sit together must send their orders together. Pajamas welcome on all rides! Come enjoy a special experience with your children, while also benefitting the children of Cincinnati Children's Hospital Medical Center. Time: Check schedule for ride times; Location: Lebanon Mason Monroe Railroad, http://

kindervelt.org/event/kv-8-north-pole-express/, Phone: 513-588-0074

Peter and the Wolf Introduce the whole family to this charming musical story. Every part of our orchestra helps bring this adventure to life, from the friendly bird, cat and duck (flute, clarinet and oboe), to the big, bad wolf (French horns)! Visit the Family Fun Zone to try orchestra instruments, make a craft and more! Open pre-concert starting at 9:30 a.m. and immediately following the concert. Time: 10:30 a.m., Location: Taft Theatre,

http://cincinnatisymphony.org/concerts-plusevents/lollipops-2016-17/peter-and-the-wolf/,

Phone: 513-381-3300

Turkey Day Table Décor Kids can help their grown-ups plan for next week’s big meal by creating some fall décor that will add to the festive feel of your family’s table. For ages 6 and up. Cost is $5/child; register by Nov. 16. Time: 10 a.m., Location: Glenwood Gardens/ Highfield Discovery Garden, http://www. greatparks.org/calendar#, Phone: 513-521-7275

The Comedy Ventriloquism of Lynn Trefzger Lynn Trefzger is a ventriloquist/comedienne with a trunk full of zany characters, a lovable camel, a cantankerous old man and a feisty little girl to name a few, that have accompanied her to stages throughout the country. Her vocal illusion talents were first brought to national audiences on TVs popular "Star Search" and she has since performed with artists including Jeff Foxworthy, Ray Romano, Drew Carey and Faith Hill. Recommended for grades K-8. Tickets are $7 each. Time: 7 p.m., Location: Calico Children’s Theatre at UC Clermont, http://www.

ucclermont.edu/community/arts/calico_ theatre.html, Phone: 513-558-2787

SAT 19 – SUN 20 Madcap Puppets: Monkey See, Monkey Do There’s no business like monkey business! Max and Vinnie are expert zookeepers, but keeping the rascally monkeys from getting into trouble is easier said than done. When Mr. Cleaver, the zoo manager, decides to send one of the monkeys to another zoo, it’s time for their great escape! Go with the monkeys as they explore new exhibits at the zoo. Each one is a backdrop for exciting stories from around the world. Time: Shows at 1 and 3 p.m. each day, Location: Cincinnati Art Museum, http://

cincinnatiartmuseum.org/events-programs/ events-list/, Phone: 513-721-2787

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SUN 20 Dancing Turkeys Get into the Thanksgiving spirit with the Taft. Make a turkey decoration to adorn your dinner table, learn about animal textures at the Art Cart, and enjoy a guided or self-guided tour of the Museum. At 2 p.m., join hip hop dancers from Elementz as they teach us a few moves to help work off our Thanksgiving Day feast. Free admission and parking. Time: 1-4 p.m., Location: Taft Museum of Art, http://www.taftmuseum.org/events/fundays, Phone: 513-241-0343

Global Day of Jewish Learning Join communities across the globe to explore themes of environmentalism, water, and global sustainability. See presentations from cutting-edge experts, movement workshops, and a diverse mix of scholars and organizations. The Cincinnati Day of Global Jewish Learning is excited to host Dr. Adrian Parr, UNESCO co-Chair of Water Accessibility and Sustainability as the keynote speaker. Time: 10 a.m.-4:30 p.m., Location: Mayerson JCC,

https://www.mayersonjcc.org/jewish-life/global-dayof-jewish-learning/, Phone: 513-761-7500

MON 21 Teen Chef Play with your food, and eat it too! Make a food related craft or creation. Time: 4-5 p.m., Location: Pleasant Ridge Branch Library,

http://programs.cincinnatilibrary.org/ evanced/lib/eventcalendar.asp, Phone: 513-369-4488

WEDS 23 Harvest Day On this Thanksgiving Eve join us to celebrate the fall harvest, learn about local Native American tribes and their culture. Make a charming craft to take home. Pack a lunch and drink and dress for the weather. For grades K-3; $15 per child prepaid by Nov. 21. Time: 9 a.m.-1 p.m., Location: Avon Woods Nature Preserve, http://www.cincinnatiparks.com/calendar/, Phone: 513-861-3435

THURS 24 The 107th W&S Thanksgiving Day 10K Run & Walk The first Cincinnati Thanksgiving Day Race was run by 21 runners in 1908, making it the 6th oldest race in America! Head to Paul Brown Stadium on Thanksgiving morning to take part in a Cincinnati tradition. Time: 9 a.m., Location: Paul Brown Stadium,

http://www.thanksgivingdayrace.com/

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SAT 26

Macy’s Light Up the Square Join us on Friday, Nov. 25 for the 2016 Macy’s Light Up the Square event. Festivities will begin at 5 p.m. with live music from Second Wind and a special appearance by Santa Claus. Fountain Square will also feature plenty of food, music, ice skating and a fireworks show that’s sure to be a blast!

Gingerbread House Class This is a Christmas experience your children will talk about for years. We assemble the house so you can spend the class sipping on hot chocolate and creating your masterpiece. The house is yours to keep and to use as a centerpiece for your holiday celebrations. Cost is $60/person.

Time: 5 p.m., Location: Fountain Square,

http://myfountainsquare.com/event/ macys-light-up-the-square-4/

#OptOutside Green Friday Hike Burn off that Thanksgiving Day turkey on the trails at Shawnee Lookout. We’ll start with hot chocolate around the fire before heading out for a 5.0-mile hike. Traveling through tall woods and past ancient earthworks, we’ll enjoy gorgeous overlooks of the Ohio River and try to spot some bald eagles. Free. Time: 8 a.m., Location: Shawnee Lookout/ Historic Log Cabin, http://www.great parks.org/calendar#, Phone: 513-521-7275

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Time: 1 p.m., Location: Bonbonerie, http://www.bonbonerie.com/events/, Phone: 513-321-3399

Santa Claus Limited Board the train at Grand Central Station in Connersville to pick up Santa Claus along the way. Once on board Santa will come and visit with each child on the train. Tickets are $10 ages 2 and up. Time(s): Train departs at 9:30 a.m., 11:45 a.m. and 2 p.m., Location: Whitewater Valley Railroad, http://www.whitewater valleyrr.org/excursions/, Phone: 765- 825-2054

Small Business Saturday at Blue Manatee Help us celebrate Small Business Saturday by joining us for two special story times with our story time extraordinaire Miss Sarah at 10 a.m. and our beloved Miss Katie at 4 p.m.! We’ll also kick off our holiday promotions today! Purchase a $100 gift card for $80 and a $50 gift card for $40. Plus, all blue manatee press titles are 20% off throughout the holiday season!

Time: 9:30 a.m.-6 p.m., Location: Blue Manatee Children’s Bookstore,

http://www.bluemanateebooks.com/home/ activatees.html, Phone: 513-731-2665

SUN 27 Holiday Season Kickoff at the Taft Enjoy free activities for the whole family at the Holiday Season Kickoff. The house will be decorated inside and out with lights, garlands, and Antique Christmas displays. Take a picture with Santa, make an old-fashioned ornament, and enjoy carolers in the galleries. Café reservations required. Time: 11 a.m.–4 p.m., Location: Taft Museum of Art, http://www.taftmuseum.org/events/ lectures, Phone: 513-352-5140

Westwood's 4th Annual Deck the Hall A free community even that features live holiday music, free kid's crafts, an artist fair, Madcap Puppets, The Cincinnati Kinderballet's production of "The Nutcracker," free food, drink and more! Time: 3-6pm, Location: Westwood Town Hall Recreation Center, facebook.com/Westwood

DecktheHall

TUES 29 Thomas the Tank Toddler Time Join us for train play with our Thomas the Tank train set and other activity. Time: 6:30-7:25 p.m., Location: Northside Branch Library, http://programs.cincinnatilibrary.org/ evanced/lib/eventcalendar.asp, Phone: 513-369-4449

WEDS 30 Wee Wednesdays: Into the Woods Your preschooler will learn about their local community through sensory play this Wee Wednesday. You and your toddler will wander through the galleries to find interactive art stops, as well as an art making activity. Recommended for preschoolers (ages 5 and under) accompanied by an adult. Free. Time: 10 a.m.-12 p.m., Location: Cincinnati Art Museum, http://cincinnatiartmuseum.org/eventsprograms/families-teens/family-programs/, Phone: 513-721-2787

{PLEASE NOTE} At Cincinnati Parent, we work hard to ensure our calendar and guide information is accurate. Occasionally, event specifics change after we go to press. Therefore, we encourage our readers to call locations or visit them on the web to verify information.

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ongoing calendar {NOVEMBER 2016} Antique Christmas

A Whimsical Wonderland

Much Ado About Nothing

November 4 through January 8, 2017

November 12 through January 8, 2017

November 18 through December 10

Get into the holiday mood by visiting the Taft’s annual display of antique ornaments, decorations and toys. Thanks to generous lenders from Cincinnati and beyond, you can escape to a winter wonderland of Christmas past. This year you will see a miniature log cabin in Christmastime woods; an antique clockwork Santa; an exhibit of early German nutcrackers; antique Christmas feather trees trimmed entirely with delightful red and pink ornaments, and a large-scale tree with old patriotic ornaments in red, blue and white. Festive greenery will deck the halls and exterior of the house and the Dining Room will be set for the holidays with sparkling china, crystal, and silver. Time: Open Tuesday-

Krohn’s holiday show features its iconic garden railway, botanical architecture, poinsettias, holiday lights and evergreen trees with a “Whoville” twist. Times: Open daily from 10

Beatrice and Benedick are the perfect match. It’s too bad they can’t stand each other. When their war of wits comes to a head, their friends decide there’s only one thing to be done: trick the hapless couple into falling hopelessly love. They set in motion a series of plots, pranks, plans and ploys all designed to bring the cynical Benedick and spirited Beatrice into a “mountain of affection.” Will their scheming succeed, or will it all be Much Ado About Nothing? Time: Shows on Thurs.-Sun. Check

Sunday. Closed Mondays, Thanksgiving Day, Christmas Day and New Year’s Day, Location: Taft Museum of Art, http://www.taftmuseum. org/upcoming-exhibitions-draft, Phone: 513241-0343

Christmas Nights of Lights November 11 through January 1, 2017

A new family holiday tradition begins this winter at Coney Island!. This family event features a 2-mile car ride through Christmas displays and light shows consisting of over one million LED lights, driven by more than ten thousand computer channels. Visitors of all ages will be awed by the larger-than-life trees, glowing snowflakes, dancing candy canes and fantastic tunnels of lights! In the warmth of your own car, you can sing along to the sounds of the season synchronized to each holiday display. Admission is $6 per person; kids 3 and under are free. Time: Nightly starting at dusk until 10 p.m. Christmas Nights of Lights will be open every night including holidays. Location: Coney Island, http://coneyislandpark.com/ event-calendar?cID=180, Phone: 513-232-8230

Santaland November 18-20 and November 25-December 23

After your tour of Holiday in Lights, head inside Sharon Centre for some more holiday magic. Enjoy live family friendly entertainment, share your wish list with Santa, check out the train display, do some holiday shopping at Nature’s Niche and pick up a sweet treat at Mrs. Claus’ Confectioneries. Time: Sun.-Thurs., 6-9 p.m.

Fri.-Sat., 5:30-10 p.m., Location: Sharon Woods/Sharon Centre, http://www. holidayinlights.com/santaland.html , Phone: 513-769-0393

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a.m.-5 p.m., Location: Krohn Conservatory

http://www.cincinnatiparks.com/calendar/,

Phone: 513-357-2604

Cincinnati Transportation: Past, Present and Future Through January 8, 2017

Cincinnati Transportation: Past, Present and Future features memorabilia connected to public transportation in the city of Cincinnati.

Time: Open daily, Location: Main Library Atrium, http://www.cincinnatilibrary.org/ programs/exhibits.html#transportation, Phone: 513-369-3173

Holiday Toy Trains November 12 through January 8, 2017

Behringer-Crawford Museum’s most popular exhibit features interactive elements perfect for small children. Time: Open daily, Location: Behringer-Crawford Museum, http://www. bcmuseum.org/, Phone: 859-491-4003

website for times, Location: Cincinnati Shakespeare Company, http://cincyshakes. com/events/much-ado-about-nothing/, Phone: 513-381-2273

Holiday in Lights Fri., November 18 through Sat., December 31

Come out for a Cincinnati holiday tradition! Enjoy more than a mile of fantastic seasonal lights all from the warmth of your car. See more than 120 moving and standing holiday-themed figures depicting everything from Santa to the 12 Days of Christmas. Cost is $13/car, $45/bus and 15-passenger van. Time(s): Sun.-Thurs., 6-9 p.m. Fri.-Sat., 5:30-10 p.m., Location: Sharon Woods, http://www.holidayinlights. com/, Phone: 513-769-0393

The Phantom of the Opera

The Polar Express

November 15-27

November 18-20; 25-27 and December 2-4, 9-11 and 16-18

Cameron Mackintosh’s spectacular new production of Andrew Lloyd Webber’s The Phantom of the Opera comes to Cincinnati as part of a brand new North American Tour. This production, which retains the beloved story and thrilling score, boasts exciting new special effects, scenic and lighting designs, staging and choreography and has been hailed by critics as 'bigger and better than ever before.'

The Polar Express comes to life when the train departs Connersville's Grand Central Station for a journey through the quiet countryside for a special stop at the "North Pole" to allow Santa Claus to board the Polar Express. Guests on board will enjoy hot chocolate and a cookie while listening and reading along with the magical story. Time: Check website for

Times: Check website, Location: Aronoff Center, http://www.cincinnatiarts.org/events/ detail/phantom, Phone: 513-621-2787

departure times, Location: Whitewater Valley Railroad, http://www.whitewatervalleyrr.org/ excursions/, Phone: 765-825-2054

A Christmas Carol

2016 Holiday Lights on the Hill

November 23 through December 31

November 18 through January 1

Faithful storytelling and spellbinding stage magic make this family favorite a must-see for the holidays. Time(s): Check website for show

See the lights at Cincinnati’s amazing outdoor sculpture park! Open daily (including holidays). On Monday-Thursday, cost is $20/ carload and $25/carload on Friday-Sunday.

times, Location: Cincinnati Playhouse in the Park, http://www.cincyplay.com/, Phone: 513-421-3888

Time: Open Monday-Thursday: 6-9 p.m. and Friday-Sunday 6-10 p.m., Location: Pyramid Hill Sculpture Park, http://pyramidhill.org/ holiday-lights/, Phone: 513-868-1234

PNC Festival of Lights November 19 through January 1

The Cincinnati Zoo is spreading Christmas cheer and making spirits bright this holiday season with the tri-state’s longest running holiday tradition – the 34th Annual PNC Festival of Lights. The event kicks off with a special preview event on Friday, Nov. 18 when more than two million LED lights will illuminate the Zoo. Closed Thanksgiving (open during the day), Christmas Eve (open during the day) and Christmas Day (closed all day). Time: Sun.-Thurs., 5-9 p.m. and

Fri.-Sat., 5-10 p.m., Location: Cincinnati Zoo,

http://cincinnatizoo.org/events/festival-of-lights/, Phone: 513- 281-4700

Santa Skates Saturdays and Sundays, November 26 through December 24

Every weekend until Christmas, Santa will lace up his skates and join families out on the ice for an hour of holiday-filled fun. Grab your friends, family and wish list get down to the Square before Santa makes his way back to the North Pole. Rink admission is $6 and skate rentals are $4. Children under 55 inches must be accompanied by an adult while on the ice. Time: 12-1 p.m., Location: Fountain Square Ice Rink, http://myfountainsquare.com/event/

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The Lights at Clifton Mill November 25 through December 31

Every hour, on the hour, all 3.5 million lights at Clifton Mill go out leaving guests in total darkness. As a hush falls over the spectators, orchestral music softly begins to play a medley of traditional Christmas songs and some of the lights on the covered bridge begin to twinkle on and then off again. As the music builds and builds, more and more lights on the covered bridge blink off and on in time to the music, lights on the pseudo trees swirl around and change color in a way that seems impossible. By the end of the song, the music is booming through Clifton Gorge, the lights on the covered bridge have become mesmerizing and everyone watching is completely enthralled. Time: Open daily until 9 p.m. (closes early on Christmas Eve, Christmas Day and New Year’s Eve), Location: Clifton Mill, http://www.cliftonmill.com/christmas. htm, Phone: 937-767-5501

Bobbleheads: The Exhibit Daily through December 31

In 2016, the Reds Hall of Fame and Museum celebrates the bobblehead collecting phenomenon with a new exhibit that highlights the many and varied designs and styles of one of the most unique and popular promotional items ever created. The Reds Hall of Fame and Museum's bobblehead exhibit highlights the bobblehead craze through the display of a wide array of bobbleheads dating to the introduction of the collectible as a novelty item in the early 1960s. Time: Open Tues.-Sun. Closed

Mondays. Check website for hours, Location: Cincinnati Reds Hall of Fame and Museum, http://cincinnati.reds.mlb.com/cin/hof/, Phone: 513-765-7923

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