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traditions EASY IDEAS TO MAKE YOUR FAMILY'S THANKSGIVING MEMORABLE

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{ F EATURES}

{AROUND TOWN}

{RESOURCES & CALENDARS}

18 // Turkey Day Traditions

14 SANTA'S AR R I VA L AT TH E C H I LDR EN 'S M USEU M

43 PR I VATE SC HOO L OPEN HOUSE GU I DE

16 CATC H TH E G R E ATEST SHOW ON E AR TH !

46 EDUCAT I ON & C H I LDCAR E GU I DE

Easy ideas to make your family's Thanksgiving memorable

20 // Introducing Your Child to Music Simple ways to expose kids to this lifetime joy

23 // Open Adoption

Understanding how the process affects everyone involved

26 // Sibling Stife

Handling your kids' inevitable fights and feuds

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52 ONGO I NG E VENTS

{WOMEN'S HEALTH} 12 PERINATAL MOOD AND ANXIET Y DISORDERS

50 DA I LY E VENTS

54 M AR K E TP L AC E 55 FUN & WAC K Y CA LEN DAR

{COMMENTARY & PARENTING}

{SPECIAL NEEDS}

40 AS K TH E TE AC H ER

30 SUPPORTING FAM ILIES OF

C H I LDR EN W I TH AUT I S M DU R I NG TH E HO L I DAYS

48 FOOTNOTES 49 A DAD I N F LUENC E

{IN EVERY ISSUE} 06 ED I TOR 'S NOTE 08 C O M M UN I T Y SP OT LIGHT 10 OUR SOC I A L N E T WOR K

32 HOW TO TA L K TO C H I LDR EN ABOUT TH EI R S PEC I A L N EEDS 34 S PEC I A L N EEDS GU I DE 36 S PEC I A L N EEDS E VENTS

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E D ITO R ' S N OT E WORDS BY // SUSAN BRYANT

M ee t t h e Sta f f FOUNDING PUBLISHER Barbara Wynne // barbara@indyschild.com

PUBLISHER Mary Wynne Cox // mary@indyschild.com

EDITOR Susan Bryant // susan@indyschild.com

SALES & BUSINESS DEVELOPMENT Jennica Zalewski // jennica@indyschild.com

ADVERTISING COORDINATOR Karen Ring // karen@indyschild.com

CREATIVE DIRECTOR

Thankfulness

Katie Clark // katie@indyschild.com

DIGITAL PUBLISHER + EVENTS Wendy Hasser // wendy@indyschild.com

Can you believe it’s November already? The dust can hardly settle on the kids’ Halloween costumes before we’re knee deep in holiday shopping and Santa sightings. It’s easy to whiz by this month and see it as just a precursor to December’s festivities, but November has my favorite holiday – Thanksgiving. Sure, it’s not as flashy (or candy and present-driven) as the other holidays, but that’s why I like it. At the core, Thanksgiving is about dedicating one day to sharing a meal with our family and friends and stopping to reflect on what we’re grateful for. It doesn’t have to be bigger than that – it really shouldn’t be bigger than that, because that’s enough.

We have a lot to be thankful for at Indy’s Child. This magazine was started over 30 years ago by a mom with six children trying to find the best opportunities in Indy to take advantage of with her family – and share that information with other families. Her daughter and granddaughter carry on that vision, along with the rest of our talented staff. We’re grateful to the thousands of parents who have

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picked up Indy’s Child over the years and trusted us to provide content they find valuable. We’re equally grateful to our advertisers who choose to be associated with our brand and make it possible for our magazine to continue to be a free, local resource.

WEB DEVELOPMENT + GR APHICS Kahlie Cannon // kahlie@indyschild.com

DIGITAL EDITOR Jeanine Bobenmoyer // jeanine@indyschild.com

BUSINESS MANAGER As busy parents, it’s easy to get caught up in the day-to-day whirlwind of family life. But it’s also easy to know, when we slow down just long enough, what we’re most grateful for.

See that little cutie on our cover? That’s Mila, the first child of our Creative Director. You can bet her mom is thankful for that adorable smile every day.

Roxanne Burns // roxanne@indyschild.com

INTERN Meg Wynne // meg@indyschild.com

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Maggie Loiselle, Jennifer Thompson, Andrea Limke, Lauren Lawson, Deb Krupowicz, Pete Gilbert, Kelly Blewett and Becca Wolfley

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our cover kid {MEET MILA} Age: 8 months {FavoriteS} Book // The Very Hungry Caterpillar Toy // My light up turtle that plays music!

SONG // The Itsy Bitsy Spider Color // I love all colors!

Food // Green beans or pears ACTIVITY // Riding on my dad's shoulders

{FUN FACT} I had a full head of hair when I was born, and despite what everyone said, I haven't lost a single strand yet! *Cover by Lisa Hezlep Hezlep Photography – www.hezlepphotography.com

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community {SPOTLIGHT}

November kicks off all your favorite holiday fun.

From Jolly Days at the Children’s Museum to gingerbread houses to all the Santa sightings your heart can handle, we have our eye on the holiday fun to come this season. Follow along with us as the Indy’s Child Insider Crew scours Indianapolis for all the holiday happenings you need to know about!

Get started at indyschild.com/holiday-fun/

Speaking of holidays, Christmas at the Zoo kicks off this month.

Presented by Donatos and Teachers Credit Union, the Indianapolis Zoo invites families to relive the fun tradition of Christmas at the Zoo as it transforms into a winter wonderland.

Enjoy the glow of twinkling lights, sip on hot beverages while you stroll and sit by campfire locations. Christmas at the Zoo begins November 25th and runs thru December 30th.

State planning your visit: indianapoliszoo.com/ events-and-groups/zoo-events/ christmas-at-the-zoo

Become the drummer at Rhythm Discovery Day Enjoy hands-on drumming fun at Rhythm Discovery Day 2016, coming to the Indiana Convention Center November 12th. Presented by Rhythm!

Discovery Center, PAS, and the PAS Interactive Drumming Committee, Rhythm Discovery Day is the first annual community-friendly event that coincides with PASIC, the world's premier drum and percussion festival​. This all-ages event is geared towards people of all backgrounds that have an interest in learning about interactive drumming, finding fun ways to create rhythm, and making music with friends! Admission for children 10 and under is FREE (must be accompanied by an adult).

Learn more at: https://pasic.org/rhythm-discovery-day/

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Disney goes LIVE at Bankers Life Fieldhouse.

It’s a line most every parent of small children knows: “Heyhey everybody, it’s me, Mickey Mouse! Would you like to come inside my clubhouse?” And no doubt he’ll deliver this month when “Mickey and Minnie’s Doorway to Magic” show arrives at Bankers Life on November 6th.

Snag your tickets at: disneylive.com/ticket-info/ Mickey-and-Minnies-Doorway-to-Magic/112205

Take advantage of teacher discounts!

Build. Grow. Lowe’s offers free, kid-centered build workshops.

Got a little builder at home? Check out Lowe’s Build & Grow Clinics which are perfect for kid-friendly, construction-themed fun. Registration is required for this free program, so sign up for some fun with your little one!

Read our review: indyschild.com/exploring-the-lowes-build-and-grow-clinics/

Did you know a huge number of stores and services around Indy offer discounts just for teachers and educators?

Anywhere from West Elm to the Apple Store to Half Price Books and everything in between. (Hot tip: Buy from this list for appreciation gifts and let teachers stretch their dollar even more!)

See the whole list: indyschild.com/discounts-guidefor-teachers/

The first Indy’s Special Child Resource Fair arrives this month.

On November 5th, Indy’s Child magazine will host our first Resource Fair designed for families of children with special needs who live in and around central Indiana. It’s a chance to connect with other families, local organizations and more at the Monon Center of Carmel from 11am2pm. Watch for more info this month.

Learn more: facebook.com/events/1634012243558080/

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As in our list? We send out a weekly newsletter designed to help you plan your weekend, give sneak peek new activities in the area, announce giveaways and so much more. Give us your email address and we promise to give you fun goodies each week.

Get on the list: indyschild.com/newsletter-signup/

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We’re chatting up a storm over on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram.

Come find us for quick laughs throughout the day, parenting tips, must-sees-in-the-city, giveaways and more!

It quickly became one of our most popular posts on Facebook last month: President Obama signed the “Bathrooms Accessible in Every Situation Act" also know as the BABIES Act, requiring both mens and womens restrooms in publically accessible federal buildings contain baby changing tables.

It’s about &%$^@#! time. There’s nothing worse than having to walk out to your car just to change a diaper, or better yet try and change a squirming child in a sink.

– Sasha G.

It’s a great step in the right direction! My husband would get SO MAD when the men’s room didn’t have a changing area.

What about women’s restrooms? I typically have worse luck than my husband does when looking for a changing table in the restroom.

– Megan H. {FACEBOOK.COM/ INDYSCHILDMAGAZINE}

– Rachel W.

be on the lookout for this month's online contests!

Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey® Presents Out Of This World™, Disney Live! Mickey and Minnie’s Doorway to Magic, Win Tickets to the Children’s Museum of Indianapolis and 2 Night Stay at Gaylord Opryland Resort!

we're @indyschild We have our nose to the grindstone on Twitter, retweeting your favorite local hotspot announcements, parenting trends and more.

follow us at @INDYSCHILD Come along with our IC Insiders as we check out sneak peeks around town and show off other behind-the-scenes fun.

The “Just My Height” Art Show

The Stutz Art Gallery launched a kidfriendly gallery show called “Secret Doors” where all art is hung 36” from the ground – perfect for little ones to get an up close and personal view.

Visiting the Children’s Museum in style

October always brings out the opportunity for costumes and Sophie showed hers off during a visit to the Children’s Museum Haunted House. Until next year #atTCM! Tour of Lucas Oil Stadium

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Our IC Insiders – and their families!

– took to the field at Lucas Oil Stadium during a team outing. The view from the suites, press booth, locker rooms and 50-yard line were amazing.

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HEA LTH & W E L L N ES S − BRANDED CON T ENT

Fighting the Stigma of Perinatal Mood and Anxiety Disorders Don’t let the stigma surrounding perinatal mood and anxiety disorders (PMADs) keep you silent. #taketime4u to learn what treatment you need and where to get it.

Feeling exhausted, anxious, weepy or lonely after the birth of your child is common—but what happens when those feelings don’t go away, and instead leave you uninterested in your baby or your daily life?

The “baby blues” are a common occurrence for women following the birth of their child, thanks to shifting hormone levels, but for some women, these blues turn into a more serious condition. PMADs can last for weeks, months or longer, making it difficult to care for your baby or yourself.

history of mental illness, or women who have experienced other emotional stressors, such as the death of a loved one, employment or financial concerns, or have a history of pregnancy loss may be at higher risk.

Symptoms of PMADs can vary greatly from woman to woman, and most often appear within the first three months after you give birth but can appear within the first year. They include: • Fatigue and exhaustion

Who Experiences PMADs? Every woman is at risk during or after her pregnancy, however some women have additional risk factors that may put them at a higher risk of developing a mood or anxiety disorder. Women with a history of depression or anxiety, with a family

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There is a stigma surrounding PMADs—a cultural attitude that makes you feel like you’ve done something wrong, or like admitting you need help means you don’t love your child enough—but that isn’t the case. It’s not your fault, you’re not alone, and treatment is available so you can feel well again.

• Crying

How Are PMADs Treated?

• Frequent anxiety, panic or excessive worry

Pushing past the stigma and talking to your doctor is important when it comes to PMADs, as symptoms can worsen if left untreated. Your doctor can recommend the treatment method that is best for you, which may include:

• Obsessive and intrusive thoughts • Difficulty falling or staying asleep

One in every seven women will experience postpartum depression or anxiety after she gives birth. Despite the stereotype, it’s one of the most common problems new moms face.

It can happen anytime in the ensuing weeks, months or first year after the birth of your baby—and it isn’t your fault.

While most new mothers recognize many of these symptoms, you should speak to your doctor if you experience them consistently for longer than two weeks.

• Appetite changes • Feelings of guilt, worthlessness or helplessness • Irritability or mood swings including anger and frustration • Lack of interest in your baby and/ or other family members and friends • Feelings of being overwhelmed or trapped • Not feeling like yourself • Thoughts of hurting yourself or your baby

• Therapy, including one-on-one counseling or support groups with other mothers going through the same thing

• Hormone therapy, as estrogen levels can fall quickly after childbirth and contribute to your symptoms • Antidepressants or other medications While there is currently stigma surrounding PMAD treatment, it’s important for you to remember that help is available, and that you’re not alone—many new moms struggle with these exact feelings. Talk to your doctor about getting the help you need to get back to your life, and your baby.

Learn more about emotional health disorders and how St. Vincent can help at stvincent.org/taketime4u.

A R O U N D TOW N WORDS BY // Becca Wolfley, The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis

Santa Will Arrive at The Children’s Museum to Ring in Winter Fun! Before the air turns frigid and the snowflakes begin to fall, join Santa at The Children’s Museum to ring in it all!

Santa’s two-seater sleigh is on its way, zooming in for the beginning of the jolliest days! Clear your calendar the morning after Thanksgiving and join us for Santa’s Big Arrival and Jolly Days: Winter Wonderland!

Santa arrives at the museum Saturday morning as chauffeur Ed Carpenter, driver and owner of the #20 Ed Carpenter Racing IndyCar, skids to a stop in the museum’s plaza around 9:00 am. Come join the fun, along with the elves, as you enjoy a free cup of cocoa. Welcome the jolly old elf into the museum with a sing-along led by The Chorduroys.

After Santa takes his annual ride down the Yule Slide, have some family fun at the opening of the Jolly Days: Winter Wonderland exhibit. View festive decor, ride the Yule Slide, buy a seasonal snack from the Gingerbread Café and make a creative holiday craft.

Traditionally this time of year, bells are used to “ring out the old and ring in the new” each season. At the museum,

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we’ll have all the supplies ready for creating a bell necklace, bracelet or ornament at Santa’s Big Arrival. If you don’t have time to create your craft during the festivities, you can make yours at home!

• Gather small bells and ribbon of different lengths depending on whether you want to make a necklace, bracelet or ornament.

• Customize your bell with different colors of ribbon, jewel stickers or even a plastic poinsettia flower to make a unique instrument for the holiday season.

• Tie the ends of the ribbon together and ring in the holiday season!

If you make this craft before Santa’s Big Arrival, bring it with you to celebrate! Be sure to visit with Ed Carpenter for an autograph or catch a viewing of The Elves and the Shoemaker in Lilly Theater.

Jolly Days: Winter Wonderland will be open through January 8th. Families can visit Santa through December 24th.

While in the exhibit, visitors can participate in pretend fishing, iceskating and holiday baking. Throughout the exhibit, there will be plenty of programming happening during this festive time so that families can always experience something new.

Earn your elf ears, join in “snowball” fights, sing along with The Mistletoes and talk to animated winter characters!

View the museum’s online calendar to see what’s happening on the day of your visit!

PHOTO CREDIT // The CHILDREN'S

MUSEUM OF INDIANAPOLIS

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A R O U N D TOW N WORDS BY // JENNIFER THOMPSON

Catch the Greatest Show on Earth!

For almost a century and a half, Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey have been entertaining children of all ages with daring stunts, acrobatic feats, comedic clowns and aweinspiring animal performances. This year is no exception. Be prepared to be dazzled as Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey Presents Out of This World, December 1-4 at Bankers Life Fieldhouse in Indianapolis.

Out of This World will take the crowd on a futuristic quest of good versus evil as they travel through planets of ice, fire, sand and water. Ringmaster Johnathan Lee Iverson weaves a thrilling story that will leave the audience wanting more. This multitalented performer and vocalist is back for his eighth edition of The Greatest Show on Earth. Keep an eye out for his son who will also be performing this year.

You won’t want to miss the Simet Family Astronauts performing the only one of its kind aerial “space walk” and the Heilongjiang Provincial Acrobatic Troupe showing, for the first time in America, their mastery of skilled Chinese acrobatics (such as an 11-person human pyramid) while on ice!

Watch as flyer and catcher soar through the air on the Double-Wide Flying Trapeze exhibiting stamina, strength and incredible trust. Estefani Evans, a fifth generation trapeze artist says, “The circus is my life. I didn’t realize it was a job until I was a teenager.” She started with a single somersault and is now able to perform a triple. “I am not nervous or afraid of

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heights. I have respect for what I do.”

Her husband, a third generation performer, is working on one of the highest somersaults in the world, a quadruple. “We have two young children. One is already saying he wants to be like his daddy. It is beautiful,” says Evans.

Tickets are on sale now, by phone at Ticketmaster (800-745-3000), or in person at Bankers Life Fieldhouse box office. Tickets start at just $11.

The Early Access Experience is free with every ticket purchase. Arrive early for a unique pre-show experience including mobile apps, sneak peek performances, clown appearances right at your seat and an exciting dance party show countdown.

Show Schedule: Thursday, December 1, 7:00 pm Friday, December 2, 7:00 pm Saturday, December 3, 11:00 am, 3:00 pm and 7:00 pm Sunday, December 4, 1:00 pm and 5:00 pm

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WORDS BY // ANDRea LIMKE

TURKEY DAY TRADITIONS Easy ideas to make your family’s Thanksgiving memorable

Get cooking Do you ever wish you had that recipe for your great grandmother’s stuffing? Or your favorite aunt’s pecan pie? This year, start a cookbook filled with your family’s cherished recipes. Each Thanksgiving, ask family members to write down the recipe of the dish they’re bringing (and don’t forget to include yourself). Compile the recipes and add to it year after year. If you are techno savvy, try a site like My Cookbook Online to keep it all digital.

Get decorative

Thanksgiving and tradition go hand in hand. From the big feast and Macy’s parade to a backyard football game and post dinner snooze, Thanksgiving is the perfect time for making family memories.

Need some simple suggestions to make your holiday even more special? While you’re planning your turkey day menu, also plan to include one (or more) of these family bonding activities. Even the simplest traditions can become something your clan looks forward to every year.

Get crafty Since you already need a tablecloth for Thanksgiving dinner, why not make it special?

Start with a light colored cloth and some paint.

Each year, have the kids add their handprints along the edge, along with their name and the year. Every holiday when you pull out the tablecloth, you can compare the growth of those little hands! Eventually you will be able to add the next generation of handprints, making it a true family keepsake.

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Remember the “reason for the season” by having family members reflect on what they are most thankful for. Using a decorative pumpkin, write the year and have everyone pen their thoughts.

Add to your collection each year and pretty soon you’ll have the perfect centerpiece for your table!

Get musical Here’s an idea to involve your tweens and teens.

Put them in charge of creating and updating a Thanksgiving playlist each year. Connect with family members to create a playlist with everyone’s favorites and use it to provide a fun soundtrack during dinner. The list can be added to each year, and your family can laugh at previous year’s choices while chowing down. You never know, this may even lead to another tradition – a family dance-off!

Get outside You may already have the traditional family football game, but any activity that gets the whole group outside can be fun. If the weather allows, take a family trip to the playground or go for a hike in the woods after dinner. This is a great

opportunity to reminisce about past Thanksgivings and squeeze in a little activity to make room for pumpkin pie!

Get sentimental A family photo on Thanksgiving may not be unique, but try a new tradition and take a photo within a photo. You’ve probably seen examples of this on Pinterest, and it’s a great way to have a special family picture that shows how your family has grown and changed year after year. Put last year’s photo in a frame and hold it in this year’s photo. Do the same thing next year and you’ll soon create a visual timeline of your family!

Get compassionate Thanksgiving is a wonderful time to come together as a family and start a tradition of giving. As we express our gratitude, it’s important to remember those in need. What better tradition to start than one of compassion? Check with your child’s school, a local church or other organization to see how your family can get involved. There are many opportunities to donate items to provide a meal for a family or serve others on Thanksgiving Day.

While the big feast often takes center stage on turkey day, Thanksgiving is about so much more. As your family comes together each year, remember to include traditions that bring you closer and reflect the true meaning of the holiday. A few simple rituals, honored every year, can be what your children anticipate and remember most!

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introducing your child to

music Simple ways to expose kids to this lifetime joy

WORDS BY // Jennifer Thompson

Watch what happens to a room full of young children when they hear a song. They clap, they sing, they smile, they dance. Music has an instant effect on children, and from early on it permeates their lives. Lullabies are played in nurseries to help newborns sleep, parents sing to soothe crying babies and many children first learn the alphabet by song.

Music elicits an emotional, intellectual and physical response – and it helps us to learn.

Literacy, language and math skills can all be positively influenced by music.

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It’s easy to see why encouraging musical exploration with your little one is worthwhile. What are some simple ways to start? Try these ideas to start incorporating music into your child’s world.

Try a music class Hillary Blake, Director of Education at Meridian Music School in Carmel, says, “Early childhood group music classes help students learn concepts of listening, sharing and taking turns.

There are many benefits to exposing children to music at an early age.”

Meridian Music School offers a piano-based curriculum called Harmony Road Music Class for children as young as 18 months.

Musical Beginnings provides Kindermusik and Simply Music classes for children from birth to seven years, with studios in Westfield and Carmel.

Instructors involve parents in the learning process, using the latest research and teaching them the “why” behind the activities. They also believe there is no “right” way to explore and create, and will celebrate each child’s unique learning style.

Lauren Southard, Director of Outreach and Choir Programs for the Indianapolis Children’s Choir has seen firsthand the social and emotional growth that takes place when a child becomes involved in music, and especially performance, saying

“It takes a level of comfort, maturity and confidence that few adults possess to stand in front of their peers and sing a song from the heart.”

that grandpa likes to listen to, in contrast with what mom listens to.”

She also suggests attending different cultural festivals to experience music in new and authentic ways.

Make an instrument

Attend family friendly concerts

There are many items around your house just waiting to be transformed into musical instruments. For example, see what happens when you fill a milk jug with beans, seal it shut and hand it to your child for some shaking and music making. Try filling other containers with rice or other objects for different sounds.

Have a family musical performance After you create your instruments, gather for a performance. Sing a familiar tune, or come up with one of your own. Discover the joy of rhythm as you tap out the beats with your toes and clap your hands.

Encourage self-expression and confidence with a solo performance.

Think about differences in sound What happens when you hit a glass with a spoon? What happens when you fill that glass with water? What common sounds do you hear in your house? What do you hear outside?

Go on a sound walk and ask your child about the different sounds they hear. Take it one step further and bring a journal and crayons along.

Have your child draw a picture to show what they heard and experienced on their walk.

Listen to different types of music There are so many styles of music and it benefits your child to be exposed to many different varieties.

“Tune in to a new style of music in the car every once in a while,” says Southard. “What a great connection to be able to say this is the music

Opportunities to take advantage of musical performances abound in the Indy area, and according to Blake: “One of the best ways to expose children to music at a young age is to attend family friendly concerts.”

Many Indianapolis Symphony Orchestras offer a family concert at least once a year. Check out the Indy’s Child Calendar of Events to find out what’s happening near you.

Model the joy of music “Most importantly, parents need to model the idea that anyone can make music and the music they create is valuable in its own way,” says Southard. “Sing when the mood strikes you. Be silly. Sing the to-do list while you’re driving and running errands. Move to the music in a natural way without looking to see who is watching.” She says it’s important to show your children how much you enjoy music and to embrace the music they will undoubtedly create for you.

Whether your child makes their own rhythm by banging pots and pans in the kitchen, dances to a rock song in the family room or attends a concert to hear the sounds instruments make, each experience allows them to experience the joy of creating and listening to music.

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open adoption

WORDS BY // Megan Bohrer

Un de rs ta n di ng how th e pro c es s a ffec t s e ve ryon e i n volve d

At what moment exactly does one become a parent? For some couples, it’s seeing two faint pink lines appear on a stick. For others, it’s hearing from a doctor that a medical procedure has finally worked. And some become parents by receiving a phone call saying they have been matched with a child to adopt.

Modern adoption looks very different than it did just twenty years ago, with the stereotype of parents revealing to a surprised child that they are not his biological parents. Today, open adoptions are standard practice. “We won’t work with families that don’t embrace open adoption, because long-term it’s what’s best for the adoptee,” says Amanda Hammond, the Director of Birth Mother Services at the Adoption Support Center for the past 19 years and passionate spokeswoman for adoption.

To understand open adoptions, it is important to understand their counterpart, closed adoptions, which were typical in the past. A closed adoption meant that a birth mother placed her child up for adoption, signed away her rights and then could have virtually no contact with her child ever again.

When the adoptee turned 21, birth parents would have the ability to go to the Indiana Adoption History

Registry and register themselves, which would signal to the adoption agency that the birth parent would be willing to open a dialogue.

However, if this step never occurred, it could mean that the adoptee might never have the opportunity to connect with his or her biological family. Hammond feels that closed adoptions didn’t seem fair to the birth mother or child, saying “To have a need [to know where you came from] like that that goes unmet can be very detrimental.”

Adoption scenarios today have markedly changed. Due in large part to the advent of technology and social media, open adoption can allow birth parents and adoptive parents to friend each other on social media, exchange text messages or FaceTime on a regular basis.

Open adoption and the birth mother At the Adoption Support Center, birth mothers work with advocates and coordinators to determine a level of communication they feel comfortable with in order to place their child with adoptive parents.

“The birth mother is handing over her child, so whatever she needs is appropriate and healthy,” says Hammond. “Every woman is different based on how they will grieve and cope.”

Hammond focuses much of her time on birth mothers, saying that while society often views adoptive parents and the adopted child in a positive light, birth mothers can be burdened with guilt and shame.

Leah Roller, a coordinator with the Adoption Support Center, says “Adoption is the hardest decision anyone has to make. Grieving is a very real thing in adoption.” She urges birth mothers to know that they are not alone and whatever they’re feeling is entirely valid.

With open adoption, Roller says “It’s not good bye, it’s see you later.”

Prior to the advent of open adoptions, placing a biological child with another family meant the end of a relationship with that child.

Now, birth mothers can have the chance to continue a relationship – and have the support of others familiar with what this entails.

Hammond wants birth mothers to know: “Absolutely, without a doubt, you do not have to do this alone. Women need to realize that there are places that will walk the journey with them.” Hammond and Roller strongly encourage birth mothers to work with an agency that provides ongoing support and aftercare not only for the first year after pregnancy (which can be particularly challenging) but into the future as well.

Open adoption and the child Part of the reason Roller feels so strongly about the benefit of open adoption comes from her own experience. She was placed for adoption in 1993 through the Adoption Support Center. Her adoption was open, and letters and photographs were exchanged between her birth mother and her adoptive parents. Roller says she always knew she was adopted, and she always knew who her birth mother was. When she was a teen, she began a relationship with her birth mom on Facebook as well as with her three half-brothers. She was also able to learn the identity of her birth father and has since forged a relationship with his daughter.

Roller's journey with adoption took an unexpected turn when she became pregnant as a senior in high school. Her parents called the Adoption Support Center and Roller met with a caseworker. Her son was placed for adoption in 2012 with “parents that are very much like my parents” she says.

Roller receives pictures, communicates through social media and visits with her son. Although she says her decision to place her child up for adoption was far from easy, she doesn’t regret it. In her position now, she spends her days counseling birth mothers. “I feel like I have trained my whole life for this job,” Roller says. “The strength of these women never ceases to amaze me.”

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Open adoption and the adoptive parents As an adoptive parent, Kendra of Indianapolis got the news of her baby’s arrival on a moment’s notice.

Three weeks before her daughter (now four years old) was supposed to be born, Kendra received a phone call telling her to get on a plane; her adoptive daughter was on the way.

She met her daughter’s birth mother for the first time in the delivery room and has kept in contact with her and her family through text messages and pictures ever since.

“I like knowing that we can reach out and find out more about her background and her family history,” Kendra says. And despite worries about the birth mother “being a big scary unknown” Kendra says she is an extended part of the family and a constant in her daughter’s life. Although she experienced four previous failed matches, Kendra is still very positive about the adoption process.

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the process is going to be difficult, but that uncertainty will end,” she says. Kendra highly recommends choosing an agency that provides ongoing assistance and becoming part of a support group, saying “If you meet another adoptive parent, you know you have an immediate connection.” Kendra and her family are currently in the process of adopting again and are hopeful that they will be able to add to their family.

“Indiana is one of the best states to adopt in,” says Sara of Indianapolis, mother to an eight-year-old son and a five-year-old daughter.

Both of her children came to her through open adoption, and each adoption is unique. Although she had reservations about open adoption at first, she says “I truly think open adoption is the best thing for my kids.” Sara maintains regular communication with her children’s birth parents through

email, pictures, text messages and in-person visits. “Knowing that my kids understand how they came to be a part of our family is very important,” she says. “And I want them to have that connection to their biological family.” Because her two children have their own biological families who communicate differently and with different frequency, this can present a challenge. However, Sara is a champion of open adoption, saying “You will get the child you were meant to raise.”

Hammond wants adoptive parents to know that the process of adoption is not as hard as people may think. On average, she says it takes 9-10 months before becoming a parent. Although people can be deterred by the time and cost, she recommends seeking out a professional and supportive agency for guidance.

Deciding to place a child for adoption and deciding to become an adoptive parent are not easy decisions.

Fortunately however, we’ve come a long way in knowing how to support both types of parents along the way.

And with both parties feeling informed and valued, the most important people in the process, the children, reap the benefits.

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SIBLiNG STRIFE Handling your kids’ inevitable fights and feuds WORDS BY // LAUREN LAWSON

Siblings make the best of friends – until they make the worst of enemies. From silly squabbles to “he said, she said” antics, parents often play referee between their children. See if these common scenarios sound familiar in your home, and read our local experts’ advice on how to resolve problematic issues, bring siblings closer together and ultimately make families stronger.

My 9 and 11 year-old sons are on the same soccer team and are highly competitive – with each other. I think this behavior is making them better players, but I’m worried that their constant rivalry may be unhealthy for their relationship. How can I make sure we are striking the right balance?

It’s great that your sons share common interests and a passion for soccer. Having siblings on the same team can be a great way for your children to bond and develop the intimate relationship we all hope our children will grow to have throughout their lives. However, you are smart to be mindful of how the rivalry between your sons may manifest in negative and unhealthy dynamics between them.

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Your boys, at ages 9 and 11, are growing in their sense of independence, and their desire to be seen as individuals separate from the family is greater than it has ever been. This desire to be seen as a separate and unique individual is likely at play within your boys’ rivalry. It is important to praise both boys for their individual strengths in

the sport. For example, if one of your sons is a strong offensive playerpraise his effort and confidence to take a shot. And if your other son is a strong defender- praise his effort to hustle back and stop the opposing team. Emphasizing hard work and effort over ability will keep your sons focused on the team aspect of soccer which can help decrease the rivalry to be seen as “the star” or better player.

Encourage your sons to acknowledge each other’s strengths as well.

Modeling this talk often within the family will teach your sons how to support one another and help them develop the skills crucial to developing a healthy sense of self: belonging, purpose, competence, ability to make decisions, personal responsibility, trust and empathy.

Kristen Pastrick, LCSW, LCAC, Psychotherapist and Owner of KAP Counseling, LLC in Broad Ripple

I am recently remarried and my new husband and I bring a total of four kids to the marriage, ranging in age from 4 to 13. Things are not going smoothly with many arguments and hurtful words between them. We want our blended family to work.

What are the key ground rules we should establish among the kids so they can build better relationships with each other?

Having a blended family is hard.

First thing, as parents define for yourselves what your new combined family values and traits of importance are, kind of like a map.

You need to know where you are going before you decide how to get there. Stick to 3-5 things and make sure they are realistic! For example: everyone contributes to the house, be respectful or be helpful every day.

Next, write out concrete rules and specific, corresponding consequences; everyone needs to follow these including parents. Each rule needs to reinforce the family values. I encourage parents to make a list of 5 and have the kids make a list of 5, then meet and agree on 10 total. For example, one of my favorites (and a non-negotiable) is “no hurts.” This means no hitting, name-calling, fighting, ex-spouse bashing, etc.

Lastly, but most importantly, invest in your relationships with each kid. This is a super hard transition for everyone.

Each week, each parent should have a "date night" with one child 1:1. If leaving home isn't an option, let that child stay up late and do something (non-electronic) with them 1:1.

Another option is allowing the child to pick and help make dinner one night of the week.

Jessica Hood, MSW, LCSW Child and Adolescent Therapist, Indy Child Therapy

Despite our attempts to make everything fair among our three children, they always seem to find a way to feel that one child has more privileges, gets more things, etc. than the others. This situation causes almost daily fights and it’s driving us crazy. What can we do to have them understand that we treat them equally?

This seems to be a common dilemma among parents who have multiple children. First off, please understand that it is impossible for siblings to be treated equally by their parents due to each child’s specific needs and stage of development. The goal might better be set as trying to be fair, instead of equal. If you find yourself in the moment and are desperate for a way to cope with these types of conversations, you can focus on redirecting the conversation to another topic. The difficult situations you are experiencing will likely lead to growth among your children as they practice conflict resolution. It might not be your duty as a parent to be a referee or clear up issues as they arise. Instead of looking at how to problem solve issues as they happen, focusing on building relationships will be an amazing asset for when conflict

occurs. Individualized time a parent offers their child can be a time to refrain from negative attention, but to focus on reinforcing positive behaviors the child is demonstrating.

Colleenia Korapatti, MA, LMHC Private Practice, Groff and Associates

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Supporting Families of Children with Autism During the Holidays Small gestures can make all the difference for kids on the spectrum Let’s face it: Holidays can be hard for parents. While the idea of relaxing and reconnecting with family sounds great, the reality of upending a child’s daily routine, spending time traveling and facing uncertain bedtimes can often seem like anything but a break.

“I wish people wouldn’t mock what I bring my kids to eat,” says April M., a Westfield mom of a 7-year-old with autism. “I bring something easy that I don't have to worry about cooking because they don't have anything my diet-restricted child will or can eat. For us, family gatherings are not an appropriate time to work on trying new foods.”

This dichotomy is especially true for parents of children with autism, who often also have to plan around sensory sensitivities and food preferences, all while having to explain their child’s needs in settings that can be overwhelming for all involved.

Create a quiet spot

The good news is that family and friends can help ease some of the stress that comes along with the holidays.

If you have a family of a child with autism joining your celebrations this year, here are some tips from parents on how to make them feel comfortable.

Consider sensory sensitivities Bright lights, loud noises and intense smells can be overwhelming for children on the spectrum. Ask parents ahead of time if their child has any specific aversions, and, if possible, simplify the environment by keeping the TV and music turned down and not overdoing it with fragrant candles.

Ask about food preferences Children with autism often have very specific food likes and dislikes, and big family gatherings are likely not a place they’ll choose to venture outside of their culinary comfort zone. Tell parents what will be on your menu ahead of time so they can prepare. You could offer to make something the child especially likes, or invite the parents to bring some special dishes, even if that means adding unconventional food to your holiday table.

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Consider setting up a room in your home where the child with autism and his or her parents can retreat if the holiday festivities get to be too much. Invite parents to bring familiar toys, sensory items and technology to stash there so it’s available if they need a break.

“It’s nice having a quiet place to go when sensory things become too much, and the family should not be offended when the kiddo uses it,” says Mikka Mabius, a Fishers mom whose 15-year-old son has autism.

Set a schedule, but be flexible It can be helpful for the parents to know a basic outline of the holiday festivities – when people will start arriving, when dinner is served and any other planned activities.

Children on the spectrum tend to like routine, so be understanding if the family shows up late or the child isn’t interested in eating when everyone else does.

Don’t go overboard on presents When the December holidays roll around, keep in mind that more isn’t always better for kids on the spectrum.

Too many presents all at once can be overwhelming.

Perhaps ask others if they would consider drawing names for exchanging gifts, or be understanding if the family wants to set aside some gifts for later.

When it comes to helping a child with autism and their family feel comfortable at a holiday gathering, think ahead, ask for guidance and stay flexible. If you try to understand rather than judge, the experience will be better for everyone – and you’ll be showing others what the holiday spirit is really about.

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How to Talk to Children About Their Special Needs Positive ways to approach this dialogue Ask Christopher Willman, 10, what the world would be like if everyone looked and acted the same, and he won’t hesitate to tell you how boring that sounds.

Talking to children about their special needs can be a daunting task for parents, who must weigh how and when to address the topic, along with their child’s cognitive abilities to understand the information.

“You have to allow yourself to have grief as a parent and then move on and celebrate what you have,” Ciccarelli says. “Only after that can you begin to learn as much as possible to help your child.”

Starting when he was very young, Brownsburg parents Cathy and Eric Willman explained to Christopher that his colon issues – which necessitated several early surgeries and kept him in diapers longer than his peers – were just a way that God had built him a little differently. Later, when he was diagnosed with autism and ADHD, he understood these issues as just another aspect that made him unique, Cathy says.

It’s a question that comes up frequently for Carol Crawn, a Health Information Specialist with Family Voices Indiana and mom to Faith, 12, who has autism, seizures and food allergies. She encourages families to start the dialogue with their child early.

Using everyday language

“We talk about how he has a special brain, which just means he thinks things and has to learn things a little differently than mommy and daddy and some other people,” says Cathy. “We tell him that sometimes it makes it hard for him to sit still, but that it also means that he thinks of things in ways that would never have occurred to me, and I love highlighting it when those things pop up.”

“I tell families to just be open about it. When you try to hide things, that’s when people start to think there’s something wrong with it,” she stresses. “As the child gets older, and if parents haven’t had that conversation, the child will know something is going on and will wonder, ‘Why are mom and dad not talking to me about this?’”

Address your own emotions first Before addressing a child’s special needs with them, experts say it’s important that parents allow themselves to work through their own emotions first.

“That reset for families when they get a diagnosis is hard. Life is altered from what you anticipated when the child came into your family,” says Dr. Mary R. Ciccarelli, Director of the Center for Youth and Adults with Conditions of Childhood, or CYACC, at Eskenazi Health, and Associate Chair of Pediatric Education at the Indiana University School of Medicine.

She cites the popular essay “Welcome to Holland,” written in 1987 by Emily Perl Kingsley, which uses a metaphor of a tourist bound for Italy who ends up in Holland instead and must then grapple with the initial disappointment and eventual appreciation of the beauty of the unexpected destination.

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Once parents are ready, they should start incorporating discussion of a child’s special needs into their daily life, giving the child information at the level he or she can understand and use, experts say.

For example, a young child with cystic fibrosis can learn that medicine sprinkled on his or her food will help them feel better after they eat. While there will be conversations later about how the enzymes work to counteract thickened digestive juices, the key is providing age-appropriate details.

“Parents shouldn’t feel afraid to use the diagnosing term or to be specific about the child’s condition.

The key is not being negative or focusing just on what they can’t do,” Crawn says. “As soon as Faith was diagnosed at 3, we've been using the word ‘autism,’ and her brother, he doesn't know a world without autism. This is just normal life for them.”

How your child views their special needs will depend largely on how you view it yourself. Take time to think about how you want to talk to your son or daughter now and in the future. As always, other families in the same situation can provide valuable tips and support. Try contacting Family Voices Indiana (www.fvindiana.org), About Special Kids (www.aboutspecialkids.org) or IN*SOURCE (www.insource.org) for more information.

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Special Needs Guide ABA Autism Services

by Damar

Children's Therapy Connection

ABA provides proven research-based treatments and interventions for children with Autism and their families, ensuring that children learn, gain confidence and purpose, and engage in meaningful interactions in their everyday lives. 9905 Fall

We’ve grown! Come check out our brand new location, now with more resources than ever to help connect your child with their potential. Services include: First Steps, PT, OT, and Speech/Feeding Therapy, Social Work/ Counseling, Social Skills/ Communication/Feeding Groups, Kindermusik, Hanen Programs, and Therapeutic Yoga for Kids. We strive to be the provider of choice in central Indiana for quality, comprehensive, and family-centered pediatric therapy services for families of children with disabilities. Visit our website or follow us on Facebook to see how we have grown!

Creek Road, Indianapolis, IN 46256, Contact: Kristin Dovenmuehle, Director, Phone: 317-813-4690, Email: info@ damar.org, www.DamarABA.org

Applied Behavior Center for Autism The Applied Behavior Center for Autism is Indiana’s largest ABA therapy provider with 7 different facilities throughout the state. Each our centers offers unique attributes that allow us to provide high quality treatment to children and teens with autism. With nearly 20 years in the industry, ABC is truly building brighter futures every day. In addition to two Indianapolis locations, we have locations in Carmel, Greenwood, Richmond and Terre Haute. 7901 E. 88th St., Indianapolis, IN 46256.

Phone: 317-849-5437 x 238; E-mail: missingpiece@ appliedbehaviorcenter.org; http://applied behaviorcenter.org

BEHAVIOR ANALYSIS CENTER FOR AUTISM BACA uses the principles and procedures of ABA to teach language, social, self-help, academic, daily living and life skills to individuals with autism and related disorders. BACA was established in 2009 by Carl Sundberg, Ph.D., BCBA-D, and a group of highly trained BCBAs. Located in Fishers, Zionsville and Elkhart, IN. 9929 East 126th Street,

Fishers, IN, United States, Phone: 317-436-8961, Contact: Colin Clayton, Email: cclayton@thebaca.com, http://thebaca. com/

BEHAVIORWORKS ABA We work with you! BehaviorWorks provides Early Intervention for Autism and Indiana Medicaid Waiver Behavior Support Services. BehaviorWorks is a team you can grow with. We use the evidence-based strategies of ABA to create effective behavioral solutions. Are you looking for a fresh perspective? Take action for positive change with BehaviorWorks. ​2680 E. Main Street Suite 127,

Plainfield, IN 46234​, Contact: Ann Baloski, Executive Director, Phone: 317-436-0037, Email: info@behaviorworksaba.com, www.behaviorworksaba.com

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7478 Shadeland Station Way, Indianapolis, IN 46256, Phone: 317-288-7606, Email: infochildrenstherapy connection.com, http://childrenstherapyconnection.com

Disability & Autism Services of Indiana (DASI) DASI has proudly served Indiana families since 2008. Our mission is to provide the highest quality ABA Therapy and supporting Speech Therapy to children with Autism in their natural environments. DASI specializes in outreach ABA Therapy services for children ages two to twenty-two. We utilize the most effective researchbased 1:1 behavioral interventions and specialize in maximizing learning opportunities and outcomes. With over 75 years of combined experience, our families choose DASI because of the care and specialized services we provide. With Fishers & Greensburg, Indiana locations; we offer in home, school, clinic and community based ABA Therapy. 9780 Lantern Rd. Suite 130 Fishers, IN 46037, Phone: (317) 863-8110;

www.dasikids.com

Easter Seals Crossroads Offering comprehensive disability services for people of all ages. Early Intervention, Autism Services, PT, OT, Speech Therapy, Feeding/Swallowing issues, Augmentative Communication, Assistive Technology, Multi-sensory Therapy Rooms, Summer Camps, Life/ Social Skills Groups, Deaf Community Services, Autism Family Resource Center, 4740 Kingsway Drive, Indianapolis, IN 46205, Phone: 317-466-1000, Email: info@easterseals crossroads. org, http://www.eastersealscrossroads.org

LITTLE STAR CENTER Little Star Center is Indiana’s first center-based, therapeutic applied behavior analysis (ABA) service provider serving children, teens and young adults with autism. Since 2002, this professional team has impacted the lives of hundreds of learners affected by autism by building skills and helping them achieve milestones once believed impossible. Little Star's statewide centers are located in Carmel, Lafayette and Bloomington, with the newest center now open in West Lafayette. Little Star Center also provide in-home ABA services. 12650

Hamilton Crossing Blvd, Carmel, IN, United States 46032, Phone: 317-249-2242, info@littlestarcenter.org, www.littlestarcenter.org

St. Joseph Institute for the Deaf St. Joseph Institute for the Deaf (SJI) is Indiana's only full-time school dedicated to helping young children (birth to age 8) who are deaf or hard of hearing develop spoken language and literacy skills with the focus of transitioning into their local, community school. Dramatic advances in technology, including sophisticated hearing aids and cochlear implants, give children with significant hearing loss access to sound. With appropriate speech therapy, auditory rehabilitation and language training, children are able to develop spoken language skills. St. Joseph Institute offers a variety of Listening and Spoken Language programs including: early intervention services, internet therapy, full-time preschool program, mainstream support, ongoing consultation, and comprehensive educational training opportunities for families and professionals. With over 175 years of experience, we are

professional leaders in the field of Listening and Spoken Language education. Visit our website for more information. 9192 Waldemar Road, Indianapolis, IN

46268, Phone: 317-471-8560, www.sjid.org

Unlocking the Spectrum Unlocking The Spectrum was created with the mission of making ABA Therapy accessible to ALL children with autism by providing high quality ABA Therapy services throughout Indiana. Unlocking The Spectrum specializes in bringing the therapy to the client--in their home and in their community. Clients receive services in a wide variety of settings including their home, school, Unlocking The Spectrum's Centers, and the community to ensure that skills are generalized across all environments.

Intensive parent training and collaboration with all members of a client's team are an essential part of every individualized program developed. Contact us for a free initial consultation. Indianapolis: 8646 Guion Rd.,

Indianapolis, IN 46268; Columbus: 1015 3rd St Suite C, Columbus, IN 47201; Terre Haute: 3464 South 4th Street, Terre Haute, IN 47802; Bloomington: 417 S Clarizz Boulevard, Bloomington, IN 47401, Phone: (855) INFO-UTS; e-mail: info@unlockingthespectrum.com;

www.unlockingthespectrum.com/

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November Special Needs Events TUES 01

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Gigi’s Playhouse Volunteer Orientation

Down Syndrome Indiana Dads Meeting

Location: Gigi’s Playhouse, Indianapolis, Time: 6pm, gigisplayhouse.org/Indianapolis GiGi’s Playhouse is a volunteer run organization and relies on the skill and dedication of volunteers of various levels of expertise to keep programs vibrant, educational, fun and free. Parents, family members, clinicians, and individuals who believe in the GiGi’s Playhouse mission act as volunteers in GiGi’s Playhouse programs, events, administrative offices, and on our Board of Members. Volunteer orientations take place on the first Tuesday of every month from 6-7pm. All volunteers must complete an online application prior to orientation.

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Wrightslaw Special Education Law and Advocacy Conference with Pete and Pam Wright Location: Lafayette Courtyard by Marriott, Lafayette, Time: 8am-4:30pm, wrightslaw. com/speak/16.11.in.htm# This one-day special education law and advocacy program will focus on four areas: special education law, rights and responsibilities; tests and measurements to measure progress & regression; SMART IEPs; and introduction to tactics & strategies for effective advocacy. Wrightslaw programs are designed to meet the needs of parents, educators, health care providers, advocates and attorneys who represent children with disabilities regarding special education. The program is not disability specific.

Time: 6:45pm, http://www.dsindiana.org/ DADS.php This community group aims to assist and support, through fellowship and action, the fathers and families of individuals with Down syndrome. Any dad – or grandfather, uncle, brother, teacher, physician – who cares for someone who has Down syndrome, is invited.

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One-Stop Shop: Education Location: Down Syndrome Indiana, Indianapolis, Time: 9am-12:30pm, dsindiana.org This One-Stop Shop: Education will provide lots of Education related resources in one convenient location! Families can listen to speakers and visit the exhibit area. Families are invited to come for an hour or two or stay for the entire day. This event will offer a unique opportunity for vendors and other not-for-profit organizations to showcase the services they provide for our community. Stay tuned for a list of speakers and topics! The exhibit area will be open from 10:15 - 12:30. This event is free to attend.

Our Starry Night Special Needs Prom Location: Traders Point Christian Church, Time: 6:30-9:30pm, tpcc.org/prom/ This prom event for adults with special needs features the glamour of a typical prom, complete with salon makeover, red carpet entrance, dinner, dancing, games, karaoke and photography. The event is free. Please RSVP by Nov. 4. Register online at www. tpcc.org/prom or call 317-769-5557.

Youth Fun Night Location: Monon Community Center, Time: 6-9pm, thebaca.com/event/youth-funnight-15/ The Behavior Analysis Center for Autism will host a special Youth Fun Night at the Monon Community Center on the 2nd Friday of November. Call {317} 436-8691 for more details.

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Epilepsy Foundation of Indiana Community Awareness Day Location: IU Goodman Hall, Indianapolis, Time: 1-4pm, epilepsy.com/local/indiana/events This educational fair is presented to offer information, resources and support for those affected by epilepsy. Literature, booths, exhibits, speakers and kids' activities are all on the agenda. Topics include seizure first aid, school and work issues, treatment options and more. This is a free event, but registration is encouraged.

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Family and Friends CPR Location: Virtual program, Time: 7-8:30pm, ucansavelives.com Family & Friends CPR/AED is a video-based classroom course designed for members of the general public. It is for people who want to learn CPR, but do not need a course completion card for a job or other requirements. This course is ideal for students, new parents, grandparents, babysitters, and others interested in learning how to save a life.

Classes are led by certified instructors who have real life experience.

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Collaborative & Proactive Solutions: Understanding and Helping Students with Social, Emotional, and Behavioral Challenges Location: Westfield High School Auditorium, Westfield, Time: 8am-4pm, iidc.indiana.edu/ pages/ross-greene-workshop Sponsored by the Indiana Resource Center for Autism in collaboration with Westfield Washington Schools, the workshop will cover the empirically supported model Dr. Ross Greene describes in his influential books, “The Explosive Child” and “Lost at School.”

Participants in this workshop will leave with an understanding of the underpinnings of the model, along with practical assessment and intervention tools that can be brought back to and used in diverse settings.

The Arc of Indiana 2016 Conference, Impact Awards Luncheon & Annual Meeting Location: Horizon Convention Center, Muncie, Time: 9am-3pm, bit.ly/2dNorBI Learn the DDRS vision and plan for the future, and receive key information on the implementation of the ABLE Act. Attendees will also hear from a provider panel embracing innovative ideas for employment.

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Special Needs Screening: “Fantastic Beasts and Where To Find Them” Location: Studio Movie Grill, Indianapolis, Time: 11am, studiomoviegrill.com/Movie/ Film-Series/Special-Needs-Screenings Family friendly movies free for children with special needs and their siblings, with adult tickets available for before-noon price. Special Needs Screenings are shown with the lights up and the volume lowered and children are free to move around, talk, or even dance in the aisles during the movie.

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best MUSEUMS

for kids {in Indianapolis} WORDS BY // Jeanine Bobenmoyer

It’s a fact: There is no shortage of museums in Indianapolis – from those that focus on arts to culture to history and everything in between. But we’re taking a look at the museums that just get it. And by ‘it’ we mean they offer the activities and amenities that make kids want to overstay their welcome à la Ben Stiller in Night At The Museum. Here are a few of our favorites: Rhythm! Discovery Center Circle Centre Mall, 110 W. Washington St., downtown Indianapolis Sure, parents might yell “Don’t bang on that in my house!” but at R!DC it’s not only welcomed; it is encouraged. Visitors learn the history of the art of percussion, set sights on evolutionary instruments, and then are set wild on an entire room of tester percussion items. Featuring weekly Family Drum Circles and special events, R!DC is the perfect spot for your budding John Bonham and your stress relief.

Kids 5 and under are always free. Tickets begin at $6/pp for other visitors.

See rhythmdiscoverycenter.org for more details.

Indiana State Museum 650 W. Washington St., downtown Indianapolis Not just a place for field trips, the Indiana State Museum is perfect for your aspiring historian. Level 1 divides exhibits into special tales about the natural history of Indiana and Level 2 focuses on cultural history ranging from Stutz Cars to Abraham Lincoln. The IMAX Theater in the lower level offers wonderful 3D and regular films for viewing. And kids of all ages are sure to delight in the museum’s newest residents: Peewinkle’s Puppet Studio. Be sure to end your visit by taking the kids for a walk on the downtown Canal.

Free for kids under 2. Tickets begin at $8.50/pp for other visitors.

See indianamuseum.org for more details.

Indianapolis Museum of Art 4000 Michigan Rd., Indianapolis Your idea of fun with the kids might not involve an art museum… but it should. The IMA offers special Family Art Packs designed to keep kids ages 4 and up engaged in the museum’s exhibits, plenty of drop-in activities, and, of course, a regular Family Day on the first Saturday of noted months in the year (check the museum’s website for a full schedule).

Kids 5 and under are always free. Tickets begin at $10/pp for other visitors.

See imamuseum.org for more details.

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Conner Prairie Interactive History Park

The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis

13400 Allisonville Rd., Fishers

3000 N. Meridian St., Indianapolis

Okay, so some might not view Conner Prairie as a traditional museum, but it most definitely is! The expansive acreage of Conner Prairie contains more than meets the eye: Five historic areas, a special balloon voyage, a modern museum center and more.

There are things for kids big and small to enjoy – from the animal barn to the indoor Discovery Station. A smattering of fun programs dot their calendar as well, including Prairie Tykes classes.

You didn’t think we’d miss the cream of the crop, did you? This past season brought a slew of fun new exhibits at The Children's Museum, including “Beyond Spaceship Earth” and “Doc McStuffins,” but permanent exhibits like the enormous replica dinosaurs in Dinosphere and the water table, music room and play climbers in the redesigned Playscape keep kids returning again and again. Best of all, Target sponsors “Free Family Nights” on the first Thursday evening of each month making the museum truly accessible for all.

Free for kids under 2. Tickets begin at $8/pp for other visitors. See connerprairie.org for more details.

Eugene and Marilyn Glick Indiana History Center 450 West Ohio Street, Indianapolis History literally comes to life at the Eugene and Marilyn Glick Indiana History Center. Kids can step into another era in the three “You Are There” exhibits: 1948: Communities Can!, 1816: Indiana Joins the Nation, and the newly opened Eli Lilly at the Beginning. Using a combination of historic photographs, touch screen interactives and costumed actors, these exhibits allow visitors to see, hear and touch the history of our great state as it unfolds before them. Ever wanted to travel back in time? In “Destination Indiana,” eight “drive yourself” time-travel stations allow visitors to do just that. The Indiana History Center is also home to a number of family-friendly events throughout the year.

Free for kids under 2. Tickets begin at $8/pp for other visitors. See childrensmuseum.org for more details.

Can we offer some honorable mentions as well? These area museums also pack quite the family-friendly punch: The Eiteljorg Museum, NCAA Hall of Champions, Indiana State Police Museum, Indianapolis Motor Speedway Museum and the Museum of Miniature Houses and Other Collections.

Free for kids under 5. Tickets begin at $5/pp for other visitors. See http://www.indianahistory.org for more details.

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Ask the Teacher

Choosing books to encourage reading, planning for fall conferences and contemplating an ADD diagnosis

Q:

My second grade daughter is starting to get excited about reading and can read simple chapter books. How do I go about picking appropriate books for her?

A:

When a young reader “turns the corner” and is ready to read longer books, it is such an exciting time! To keep the positive momentum going toward becoming a lifelong reader, proceed cautiously. Begin by selecting books on the easier side until your daughter demonstrates not only the ability to read at the level at which the book was written, but also has shown comprehension skills and the sustained attention span required for longer works. Ease her into more challenging books by reading the first chapter aloud to get her hooked. If she seems to give up on a book quickly, it may be a good one to read together by taking turns reading aloud.

Start with authors whose books have been popular across generations, like E.B. White (Charlotte’s Web), Roald Dahl (The BFG) and Judy Blume (Freckle Juice).

There are many engaging book series that may interest your daughter as well, such as the Amelia Bedelia books, The Boxcar Children, The Magic Tree House series and Cam Jansen mysteries. Make a trip to your local library and choose a few of the

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first selections in the series books.

She may be drawn to particular ones.

If she cannot seem to get interested, try reading them aloud to help generate her interest.

Q:

Attending my son’s fall conference always makes me a little anxious. I am never quite sure if I should just be listening to the teacher or asking questions. What exactly should I be prepared to do?

What kinds of questions would be good ask?

A:

Teacher conferences should be a balance of talking and listening by both parents and the teacher. Because the conferences are typically scheduled for 15-20 minutes, being prepared ahead of time is the best way to make the most of your appointment.

Listen to the teacher explain your son’s areas of strength and those that challenge him. If something is a surprise to you, say so. Ask the teacher to clarify how she has drawn that conclusion. If it is an area of weakness, request specific ways that you can help your son at home. A surprise disclosure of a weakness can catch you off-guard and bring a defensive response. Allow yourself to process the information for a bit before asking for more information.

Base your own questions on trends and patterns that you observe in your son and in his work rather than on a particular question from one paper or his bad attitude about school one afternoon. Think about how you formulate your questions so that the teacher feels respected and is ready to partner with you for your son’s success.

Q:

For the second year in a row, my child’s teachers have suggested somewhat indirectly that he should be tested for Attention Deficit Disorder. Why would anyone risk having a child labeled ADD?

A:

If two teachers in two consecutive school years have suggested that your son be tested for ADD, they must be observing behaviors that indicate that he may be dealing with this. Teachers have a good understanding of developmentally appropriate behaviors and attention spans. Their experience and what they have seen in your son have led them to believe that he may have ADD.

Testing by a respected pediatrician or child psychologist who takes teacher and parent observation into account will indicate or eliminate a diagnosis of ADD. If, indeed, that is what the professionals find, adjust your thinking. Rather than thinking about your son being “labeled,” think of this information as a diagnosis.

Ultimately, we want all children to have respectful behavior, to be attentive in school and to complete the tasks assigned. With a diagnosis of ADD, your son’s behaviors and academic expectations will be viewed through a slightly different lens. An Individualized Education Plan (IEP) will be written to identify ways to support your son’s learning and development and help him learn effective ways to cope with his difficulty focusing. If it is determined that your son does not have ADD, different strategies will be used to teach appropriate behaviors for academic success.

Ask t h e Te ac h er // is written by Deb

Krupowicz, a mother of four who holds a Master’s degree in Curriculum and Instruction. Deb has over twenty years of experience teaching preschool, elementary and middle school students. Please send your questions to her at asktheteacher@indyschild.com.

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2016 private

school open house guide

Considering a private school for your student? Our area has plenty to choose from!

Find the right match by visiting an upcoming open house to get all your questions answered.

A Children’s Habitat Montessori School 801 W. 73rd Street, Indianapolis, IN 46260

(317) 726-5584 | www.childrens habitat.org/ Learn more about #ourhabitat at facebook. com/achildrenshabitat.

18 months-12 years Open House: Saturday, November 5, 2016, 1-3pm

Cathedral High School

Hasten Hebrew Academy

5225 E 56th St, Indianapolis, IN 46226

6602 Hoover Rd, Indianapolis, IN 46260

(317) 542-1481 | www.gocathedral.com Grades 9-12

(317) 251-1261 | www.hhai.org Grades PreK-8 Call to schedule tour.

Set up your Shadow Day Visit at gocathedral.com/2016shadow Sign up for a Parent Day Preview at gocathedral.com/2016preview

Colonial Christian School

Ace Preparatory Academy

8140 Union Chapel Rd, Indianapolis, IN 46240

5326 Hillside Ave., Indianapolis, IN 46220

(317) 253-0649 | www.ccsindy.org Grades K4-12 Kindergarten Round-up and Parent Preview: Tuesday, February 21, 2017, 7:00 p.m.

(317) 744-9847 | www.aceprep academy.org Grades K-5 Call to schedule a tour.

Apogee School for Gifted Children 4550 Central Avenue, Indianapolis, IN 46205

www.apogeeschool.com Grades K-12 Contact David (DBonner@ApogeeSchool. com) to schedule a private tour and consultation to see if our student centered, strength based gifted education program is right for you.

Bishop Chatard High School 5885 Crittenden Ave, Indianapolis, IN 46220

(317) 251-1451 | www.bishopchatard.org Grades 9-12 Open House: Thursday, November 3, 2016, 5:30- 8:00pm

2801 W. 86th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46268

(317) 524-7050 | www.brebeuf.org Grades 9-12 Open House*: Sunday, November 6, 2016, 12:00– 3:00pm *online registration required

6401 E 75th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46250 (317) 849-3441 | www.heritage christian.net Grades PreK-12 Open House: Thursday, November 10, 2016, 5:30-8:00pm

Covenant Christian 7525 West 21st Street, Indianapolis, IN 46214

(317) 390-0202 | www.covenant christian.org Grades 9-12 Open Houses*: November 1, 2016; January 26, 2017; February 21, 2017; March 14, 2017. All open house events begin at 7pm *register online

Culver Academies

Upper School: 4330 N Michigan Rd, Indianapolis, IN 46208 USA Lower School: 200 W 49th St, Indianapolis, IN 46208 USA

Upper School: (317)923-1951, Lower School: (317) 255-1951 | www.isind.org Grades 3PreK-12 Upper School Open House: Sunday, November 13, 2016, 2:00-4:00pm Lower School Open House: Tuesday, Nov. 8, 2016; Thursday Nov. 10, 2016, 8:00-11:00am

Kingsway Christian 7979 East CR 100 North, Avon, IN 46123-7915

Highlands Latin School P.O. Box 4462, Carmel, IN 46082

(317) 519-5501 | indylatinschool.org Grades K-12 Email admissions@indylatinschool.org to find out more.

(317) 272-2227 | www.kingswayschool.org Grades 3 years-8 Open House: Friday, November 11, 2016, 7:00-9:00pm

Legacy Christian School 470 Lakeview Drive, Noblesville, IN 46060

Horizon Christian School 7702 Indian Lake Rd, Indianapolis, IN 46236

(317) 823-4538 | www.horizon indy.org/school Grades PreK-12 Open House: March 9, 2017

(317) 776-4186 | www.legacychristian online.org Grades Preschool-12 (highschool will be added in fall of 2016) Open House: Tuesday, November 15, 2016, 6:30pm-8pm

1300 Academy Rd, Culver, IN 46511

(574) 842-7000 | www.culver.org Grades 9-12 Call to schedule a tour.

Guerin Catholic High School Brebeuf Jesuit Preparatory School

Heritage Christian High School

International School of Indiana

15300 Gray Road, Noblesville IN 46062

Howe Military Academy 5755 IN-9, Howe, IN 46746

(260) 562-2131 | www.thehowemilitary.org Grades 7-12 To schedule a tour call (888) 462-4693 or email admissions@howmilitary.org.

Midwest Academy 1420 Chase Court, Carmel, IN 46032

(317) 843-9500 | www.mymidwest academy.org Grades 4-12 Call or email kfoster@mymidwest academy.org to schedule a tour.

(317) 582-0120 | www.guerincatholic.org Grades 9-12 Open House: Sunday, November 6, 2016, 1:00-3:30pm

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Our Lady of Grace Catholic School

Phalen Leadership Academy

St. Richards Episcopal School

9900 E. 191st St., Noblesville, IN 46060

2323 N. Illinois Street, Indianapolis, IN 46208

33 East 33rd Street, Indianapolis, IN 46205

(317) 770-5660 | www.ologs.org Grades Preschool-8 Call to schedule a tour.

(317) 333-6980 | www.phalen academies.org/ Grades K-5 Open House: Sunday, November 6, 2016, 3-5pm

(317) 926-0425 | www.strichards school.org Grades PK-8 Call to schedule a tour.

Our Lady of Mount Carmel 14596 Oak Ridge Rd Carmel, IN 46032

(317) 846-1118 | www.olmc1.org Grades K-8 Call to schedule a tour.

Park Tudor

St. Louis De MontFort 11441 Hague Road, Fishers, IN 46038

(317) 842-1125 | www.sdmlfishers.org Grades JK-8 Open House: Thursday, November 3, 2016, 8am-11am

7200 North College Ave, Indianapolis, IN 46240

(317) 415-2700 | www.parktudor.org Grades JK-12 Visit website for dates and times of “See Us in Action” Days throughout the year.

St. Maria Goretti 17104 Spring Mill Road, Westfield, IN 46074

(317) 896-5582 | www.smgonline.org Grades K-8 Call to schedule a tour.

The Orchard School 615 W 64th St, Indianapolis, IN 46260

(317) 251-9253 | www.orchard.org Grades PreK-8 Open Houses: Sunday, November 6, 2016 1pm-3pm

Sycamore School

Traders Point Christian Academy

1750 W 64th St, Indianapolis, IN 46260

6600 S Indianapolis Rd, Whitestown, IN 46075

(317) 202-2500 | www.sycamoreschool.org Grades PreK-8 Weekly tours offered most Wednesdays at 9:00-11:00am

(317) 769-2450 | www.tpcs.org Grades PreK-12

The Children’s House

Open House: February 7, 2017 at 6:30 pm *RSVP requested at admissions@tpcs.org

2404 W. 62nd St. in Indianapolis, IN 46268

University High School

(317) 253-3033 | www.thechildrens houseindianapolis.com Open House: Sunday, November 6, 2016, 1:00pm

(317) 733-4475 | www.university highschool.org Grades 9-12

2825 W 116th St, Carmel, IN 46032

Open Houses: Sunday, November 6, 2016, 2-4 p.m.; Sunday, March 5, 2017, 2-4 p.m.

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Education & Childcare Guide // SCHOO LS + EDUCATIO N carme l Carmel Montessori Schools, Inc. Carmel Montessori School is located on the NE corner of Main St. and Meridian in Carmel. Our directress is American Montessori Certified with 18 years head-teaching experience and we a a full member of the American Montessori Society. We offer a beautiful, peaceful and positive Montessori learning environment. Extended days available. 1402 W. Main St., Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Emily & Scott Rudicel, Phone: 317-580-0699, Email: info@carmelmontessori.com, carmelmontessori.com

Clay Montessori A Montessori school offering morning, afternoon, and full-day programs. Available for ages 3-6 years old. Call for more information.

(Affiliated with Fisher’s Montessori) 463 East Main St., Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Peggy White, 317-849-9519 or 317-580-1850

Midwest Academy Midwest Academy inspires and equips students to achieve their potential by providing a progressive educational environment that fosters academic achievement, self-acceptance, personal growth, and individual accountability. We serve students in grades 4-12 in need of a small classroom environment, those living with school anxiety, students with ADD/ADHD, high functioning autism and learning differences. 1420 Chase Court, Carmel, IN, United States 46032, Phone: (317) 843-9500; e-mail: kfoster@mymidwestacademy.org, http://www.mymidwestacademy.org

Starting Line Preschool The Right Start for A Lifelong Love of Learning! Our strong academic-based curriculum prepares and encourages your child to succeed in school while discovering learning is fun! All of our classes focus on an introduction to colors, number and letters with exciting art and science projects. Math, social studies and sight words are taught in the older classes.Develop Social Awareness & Friendships, Build Confidence and Master Academic Skills for Kindergarten. 110 Third Ave NE, Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Diane Atkins, Phone: 317-753-9397, Email: dkatkins22@msn.com, http://www.starting linepreschool.com

DOWNTOWN KIPP Indy Public Schools KIPP Indy is a network of free, college preparatory, public charter schools that prepares students for college and beyond!

Transportation available. 1740 E 30th St, Indianapolis; Phone: (317) 547-5477; e-mail: fjohnson@kippindy.org; Contact: Fatima Johnson, http://kippindy.org/

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Paramount School of Excellence

Brebeuf Jesuit Preparatory School

Paramount School of Excellence is a tuition-free K-8 charter school that educates students in an innovative environment that instills high expectations for success. Paramount accomplishes its mission and teaches the mastery of Indiana State Standards through an emphasis on rigorous academics, technology and the environment.

Integral to the school’s approach to education is school-wide use of computer technology, a green initiative, project-based investigations, community partnerships and three on-site Discovery Centers – an indoor Eco Center, Time and Space Center with a planetarium and an urban farm. 3020 Nowland Ave., Indianapolis, IN 46201 Contact: Peggy Purvis, 317.775.6660, school@paramountindy.org, www.paramountindy.org

You are invited to visit the only Catholic Jesuit school in the state of Indiana that has been educating students in the Jesuit tradition for more than 50 years. Brebeuf Jesuit’s Mission Statement: Brebeuf Jesuit, a Catholic and Jesuit school, provides an excellent college preparatory education for a lifetime of service by forming leaders who are intellectually competent, open to growth, loving, religious and committed to promoting justice. Fostering a culture of understanding and dialogue, Brebeuf Jesuit seeks and welcomes students from diverse religious, ethnic and socio-economic backgrounds. Students at Brebeuf Jesuit are called to discover and cultivate the fullness of their God-given talents as a responsibility and as an act of worship. CORE VALUES: Education of the Whole Person, A Caring and Diverse Community, The Greater Glory of God. 2801 W 86th St, Indianapolis, IN 46268. Contact: Liz Otteson, Director of Admissions. Phone: 317-524-7090. Email: admissions@ brebeuf.org, www.brebeuf.org

fishers Fishers Montessori A quality learning environment offering preschool, kindergarten and elementary. Certification through American Montessori Society.

12806 Ford Rd and 131st and Allisonville Rd., Fishers, IN 46038, Contact: Peggy White, 317-849-9519 or 317-580-1850

indianapolis – north ACE Prep ACE Prep is a brand new, tuition free, public elementary charter school currently enrolling students in Kindergarten and First Grade for the 2016 school year. With a strong focus on literacy, numeracy and character development, ACE Prep offers a longer school day, small group instruction, enrichment opportunities, and an unwavering commitment to the families and community we serve.

5326 Hillside Avenue, Indianapolis, IN; Phone: (317) 759-1315; e-mail: ashults@ aceprepacademy.org; www.aceprepacademy.org

Apogee School for Gifted Children The Apogee School for Gifted Children is an affordable private school for students in grades K-12 where every detail was designed to be an ideal learning environment for gifted children. The focus is to serve the social, emotional, academic, and physical needs of gifted students and be exceptional at it.​Contact: David Bonner, info@ ApogeeSchool.com, ApogeeSchool.com

Beth-El Zedeck Early Childhood Center OPEN TO THE PUBLIC. Full Academic Curriculum and Innovative ArtsEnrichment. Our Program recognizes that intellectual, social, emotional and physical development are interwoven. Our children will thrive on exploration, creativity, curiosity, discovery, spontaneity and more important, lots of love! Type of School: Early Childhood Cost/Tuition: Please call or email for full brochure Hours/Dates: Flexible Hours. Full Time/Part-Time available. Ages/Grades: 12 months old+, 18 months old+, 2s+, 3s+, 4s+, Pre-Kindergarten (Kindergarten Readiness Class)(3 day or 5 day option) Before/After School Care: Before and After School Care always available as needed. Early drop off as early as 7:30 am and late pick up anytime up until 6:00pm/5:30 pm on Fridays. 600 W. 70th St., Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Joanie Waldman, Phone: 317-259-6854, Fax: 317-259-6849, Email: jwaldman@bez613.org, www.bez613.org

Children’s Circle Preschool at Second Presbyterian Church Children’s Circle Preschool is a developmentally appropriate, activity based, Christian preschool. We offer classes for children ages 9 months to 5 years old. We meet the needs of the whole child in a creative and loving environment. Our experienced staff embraces excellence in education by nurturing the whole childphysically, emotionally, spiritually, and intellectually. Please call for more information or to set up a tour. 7700 N. Meridian St., Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Cara Paul, Director, 317-252-5517, cpaul@secondchurch.org, www.childrenscircle.org

Children’s Day In Nursery School and Traditional Preschool

Children's Day In Nursery School and Traditional Preschool is a fully inclusive early childhood program with an emphasis on Christian values and learning through play. It is designed to offer children ages 9 months to 5 years a positive and developmentally appropriate first school experience in the care of experienced and loving caregivers. We play and learn! Classes are offered weekdays from 9 am to 2:30 pm. For the older kids, our program includes weekly Christian Life Skills, Music class taught by Indianapolis Children’s Choir instructors and Book Club. Please call, E-mail or visit for further information and registration forms.

Tours are individually set up at your convenience! 5500 N. Meridian St., Indianapolis, IN 46208, Contact: Christy Whaley, Phone: 317-253-0472, cwhaley@meridianstreet.org, www.meridianstreet.org/cdi.

The Children's House, INC The Children's House was founded in 1971 to provide a classical education through individual instruction. In an atmosphere free of competition, the child can discover her or his own unique talents on the way to becoming a self-actualized person. 2404 W. 62nd St., Indianapolis, IN 46268, Contact: Mary Sexson, Phone: 317-253-3033, Email: childrenshouse08@gmail.com, www.thechildrenshouseindianapolis. com, Hours/Dates: 9 am to 3 pm (Extended care available), School Year: September through May, Ages/Grades: Preschool through 8th Grade

Early Childhood Center, The Church at the Crossing Our Mothers Day Out (16-35 mos) and Preschool (3 yrs-PreK5) programs provide relaxed, playful, secure environments that nurture creativity and encourage the exploration of God’s world, with a wide variety of learning materials & readiness skills woven through each unit. Need longer hours?

Try our child care ministry, The Neighborhood designed for 16 mos - Pre K5. 9111 N. Haverstick Rd., Indianapolis, IN 46240, Contact: John Drake, Whitney Carriger, or Robin Crum, Phone: 317-575-6508, Fax: 317-575-6509, Email: jdrake@golove.org or wcarriger@golove.org

Fall Creek Montessori Offering the highest quality of early-childhood education based on the Montessori method. Our traditional Montessori academic program is offered in multiple formats to fit your families needs. 7770 E. 88th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46256; info@fallcreekmontessori.com; www.fallcreekmontessori.com/

Heritage Christian School Established in 1965, accredited through ACSI and NCA, HCS is the choice in college preparatory discipleship Christian education for 1,400 students each year grades Preschool-12. Advanced, Honors and AP classes. Full Fine Arts and 2A IHSAA ATHLETICS. HCS is training up the next generation of Christian leaders through challenging, Biblically taught curriculum including internships and service to others. Bus transportation available. Schedule a tour today! 6401 E. 75th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46250.

Contact: Admissions Department, 317-849-3441, Admissions@heritagechristian.net, www.heritagechristian.net

The Orchard School The Orchard School, an independent, non-sectarian, progressive school, emphasizing experiential learning. Orchard teachers engage the natural curiosity of children, develop academic excellence, and provide leadership experience through well-rounded education. Orchard’s diverse community and commitment to multicultural education inspires responsible, global citizenship. Founded in 1922. NAIS, ISACS, NAEYS accredited. 615 W. 64th St., Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Kristen Hein, Director of Admissions, Phone: 317-713-5705, Fax: 317-254-8454, Email: khein@orchard.org, www.orchard.org

indianapolis – SOUTH Center Grove Montessori and Indiana Montessori Community School Center Grove Montessori Program offers: Hands-on learning, multi-aged students learning together, a key element to the Montessori philosophy, a focus on the intrinsic motivation of children, carefully prepared classrooms balancing children's choice with structure, large blocks of uninterrupted time for learning and building concentration, peace education through global awareness, structured, self-directed learning. 1674 West Smith Valley Rd., Greenwood, IN 46142 and 531 US 31 S, White land, IN 46184, Contact: Brenda Enderle, Phone: 317-833-0335, Email: office@centergrovemontessori.com;info@centergrove montessori.com, http://www.centergrovemontessori.com

westfie ld Montessori School of Westfield, Inc.

Located on 3 wooded acres in Central Indiana, the Montessori School of Westfield adheres to the academic traditions of Montessori while serving the present day child. The Montessori School of Westfield serves children from Indianapolis, Fishers, Carmel, Zionsville, Westfield, Sheridan, Noblesville, Cicero and Tipton. We serve children ages 18 months to 15 years. 800 E. Sycamore Street, Westfield, IN 46074, Contact: Mary Lyman, Directress, Phone: 317-867-0158, Fax: 317-896-5945, Email: montessori westfield@gmail.com, www. montessorischoolofwestfield.com

// AfTER SCHOO L EN RICH M ENT FOX HILL DANCE ACADEMY, INC. Ballet, tap, hiphop. Adults and children. Walk in registration Mon. & Fri. 1-5 and Weds. 2-6. 2255 Fox Hill Drive, Indianapolis, IN, Phone: 317-255-0173, e-mail: Bjzwdancer@gmail.com, www.foxhilldanceacademy.com

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Sycamore School At Sycamore, teachers trained in gifted education deliver a curriculum designed to challenge and engage gifted learners. Art, music, Spanish, PE and technology are taught at all levels. Extensive field trips, athletics, child care, financial aid, and a wide variety of after school activities are offered.

1750 W. 64th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Dr. Susan Karpicke, Director of Admissions. 317-202-2500, Fax: 317-202-2501, skarpicke@sycamoreschool.org, www. sycamoreschool.org

indianapolis – northeast Polly Panda Preschool

Polly Panda provides a safe and healthy environment which enhances each child’s total growth. Our theme-based hands-on preschool program provides a wide-range of experiences that foster learning, creativity and problem solving in all areas. A child’s sense of self-worth, independence and growth in social skills are developed through positive interaction with peers and our well-qualified and loving staff. 2944 E. 56th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46220, Contact: Gail Hacker and Tammy Clark, Phone: 317-257-9127, Email: thepanda@ pollypanda.com, www.pollypanda.com

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COMM E NTARY + PA R E N TING WORDS BY // KELLY BLEWETT

Footnotes: Thoughts from the margins of a mom's life Something Weird About Kindergarten

When my son started kindergarten this fall, I wasn’t sure what he’d make of everything: the little desks, the rows of bookshelves, the big gymnasium, the bright yellow bus. And once he comes home, the newest elementary school student can be on the quiet side. “Who’d you play with at recess? ” I ask casually, though secretly I want to know more. My appetite for kindergarten stories is endless. In fact, I wish I could see the whole day unfold from a camera on the boy’s shoulder. “The girl across the bus from me picks her nose,” he reported one day. I was unsurprised. Which was quite different from the reaction I had hearing him describe to his old preschool teacher a new ritual that happens every morning in kindergarten.

As he entered his old preschool classroom with a confident gait of someone who has seen bigger places, he immediately began to compare preschool with elementary school. The elementary room was bigger, and the work was a lot harder, and the playground was a lot cooler. Also, he colored a great picture of a frog at school. Did she want to see it? His preschool teacher assured him

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she would love to see his work. Then he admitted that there was something, well, a little bit weird about kindergarten. “What is it, William? ” she asked. He leaned in close, as though sharing very confidential information. “All those people talk to the flag,” he replied. “The flag is hanging there at the front of the room, and they just talk to it. Everyday. And they say the same thing. Isn’t that so weird? ” The preschool teacher waited for a beat. Finally, she said, “Well, William, that’s called the Pledge of Allegiance, and a lot of schools start the day with it.” My son looked at her and cocked his head. “Oh, okay,” he said, as though that explained everything.

The preschool teacher and I made eye contact and start giggling. Of all the things I thought William would be surprised by in his new school it never occurred to me that “talking to the flag” was going to be one of them, although, on second thought, his confusion seems pretty normal. This makes me wonder, as I often do, what else he thinks is going on in kindergarten.

COMM E NTARY + PA R E N TING WORDS BY // PETE GILBERT

A Dad Influence

Being Thankful – That My Kids Are Growing Up Contrary to the popular opinion of most parents, I'm thankful my children are growing up.

Recently when my wife and I were traveling, we had a chance to watch a family with their young kids at the airport. I was reminded of the trips we took just a few short years ago – pushing strollers, hauling large amounts of baby gear through airports, installing car seats in rental cars and making sure hotel rooms had cribs or pack n’ plays available. Now when we travel, our kids wheel their own suitcases through the airport. Heck, my wife and I even give them their own row in the airplane while we sit across the aisle.

Seeing this airport family got me thinking, what else do I no longer have to do now that my kids are older? Well, now that we no longer have babies, it's been years since I've changed a diaper in the trunk of my car in the Trader Joe's parking lot. I can now also see and retrieve the food in our freezer since it no longer houses hundreds of ounces of frozen breastmilk.

Now that our kids all ride bikes, I was finally able to donate the bike trailer that I used to pull them around in for years and years. This is no small thing, because that bike trailer seemed to weigh about a hundred pounds when the kids were in it and felt like I was pulling a parachute behind me when the wind wasn’t blowing in our favor.

So next time someone asks you if you’re sad your kids are growing up, think before you respond. Your answer may surprise you.

Follow Pete on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram for updates and links to all his current blog posts for Indy’s Child at @adadinfluence.

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DA I LY EV E NTS

daily calendar {NOVEMBER 2016}

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Community Tuesday in downtown Indianapolis Location: Select White River State Park attractions, Time: 10am-5pm, indyschild. com/community-tuesdays-downtown-indy/ Community Tuesdays take place the first Tuesday of the month, with special savings at select White River State Park attractions such as $6 adult/senior admission at Eiteljorg (youth free!), ½ price tickets at Indiana State Museum, $2 off IMAX movie tickets and $3 NCAA Hall of Champions admission.

Bingo Bonanza Location: Monon Community Center, Carmel, Time: 6-8pm, carmelclayparks.com/ ccpr-events/bingo/

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Target Free Family Night at Children’s Museum – The Power of Children and National Adoption Month Location: Children’s Museum of Indianapolis, Time: 4-8pm, indyschild.com/family-nightschildrens-museum-indianapolis/ Explore the world’s biggest and best children’s museum for free! Come one, come all for Target Free Family Nights. Make discoveries, spark your creativity, be transported to other times and places, get your hands in sand and water, climb and jump... and have a ball doing it all. Celebrate National Adoption Month and learn about the museum's Power of Children Awards, which recognize youths who exemplify an extraordinary commitment to public service and social responsibility.

Free Admission At The IMA Location: Indianapolis Museum of Art, Time: 4-9pm, imamuseum.org/visit/admission Following suit with some of our local museums and hotspots, the Indianapolis Museum of Art also offers free admission on the first Thursdays of every month from 4-9pm. Perfect for a date night, evening out with the family or a little ‘me’ time.

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B-I-N-G-O! Join Carmel Clay Parks and Recreation for an evening of this classic game with family and friends. Five in a row, four corners, black out, and other fun patterns will be potential winners. Pizza will be provided and prizes from local restaurants, entertainment sites, and more will surely be won! Register early as this event does fill up quickly. $8/pp.

First Saturday Member Morning Location: Children’s Museum, Indianapolis, Time: 9-10am, childrensmuseum.org/ Get your hands on all the fun an hour before everyone else! Enjoy all of your favorite exhibits at the Children’s Museum of Indianapolis on the first Saturday of the month as the museum opens an hour early just for members. Ride the Carousel, scale the Rock Wall (a limited number of tickets available at 9am), and beat the crowds. No need to register ahead of time… just show up and start having a ball!

Power Recycling Weekend Location: Indianapolis Zoo, downtown Indianapolis, Time: 9am-3pm, indianapoliszoo.com/events-and-groups/ zoo-events/power-recycling-weekend You have the opportunity to join the Zoo in a mass recycling effort held twice a year! At Power Recycling Weekend, you can get rid of all your clutter and help the environment too. Just drop off your old electronics, phone books, cardboard, and paper ready for shredding in the Zoo parking lot during Power Recycling Weekend and our recycling partners will take it from there! In addition to doing good, you'll receive a discount coupon for $2 off Zoo admission.

Also takes place Sunday, November 6.

Indy Donut Festival Location: Speak Easy, Indianapolis, Time: 11am-1pm, relay.acsevents.org/site/ Calendar?id=120768&view=Detail A festival of donuts and coffee? SIGN US UP. The hosts say to come hungry to sample donuts and coffee from Indy-based donut shops and bakeries. After you’ve sampled some of Indy’s best donuts, you will vote on your favorite. This is a family-friendly event with live music, fun activities and great food!

Cereal Cinema: Mary Poppins Location: Indianapolis Museum of Art, Time: 10am-12pm, indyfilmfest.org/events/ cereal-cinema/ Cereal Cinema is an event created by the partnership of Indy Film Fest, The Athenaeum and the Indianapolis Museum of Art (IMA). The event features a classic movie that the whole family can enjoy and a cereal bar! The collaborative project takes place on select Saturdays of the month at 10 a.m.

Tickets are just $5, and include admission to the film, as well as the cereal buffet.

Fall Fest Location: Ritchey Woods Nature Preserve, Fishers, Time: 1-6pm, Fishers.IN.US/PARKS Families who haven’t had a chance to explore Ritchey Woods Nature Preserve are truly in for a treat! Join the Fishers Parks and Recreation team for Fall Fest, a program that invites families to gather around the campfire for games, crafts and nature artifacts before heading out on a group hike. Roasting sticks, marshmallows, apple cider and hot chocolate are provided. FREE.

SUN 06

Disney Live: Mickey and Minnie’s Doorway to Magic Location: Banker’s Life Fieldhouse, downtown Indianapolis, Time: 12pm, bankerslifefieldhouse.com/ Open the door to reveal mesmerizing worlds of unforgettable Disney moments and grand illusions when Disney Live! Mickey and Minnie’s Doorway to Magic takes the stage.

Tickets start at $20.

Holliday Park Fall Festival Location: Holliday Park, Indianapolis, Time: 1:30-4:30pm, hollidaypark.org/calendar/ Celebrate autumn during the annual Holliday Park Fall Festival! Join the fun at Holliday Park between 1:30 and 4:30 pm for music, a campfire, refreshments, and fun fall activities. Pack a blanket or your own picnic!

Sponsored by the Friends of Holliday Park.

FREE.

MON 07

Montessori Info Session Location: The Urban Chalkboard, Carmel, Time: 11am, theurbanchalkboard.com/ class-info/events/ Special guest is Carrie Wisser, Head of School at Community Montessori School in Fishers. Join us for this half hour session where Carrie will be discussing her passion for Montessori and how it values family time, encourages an atmosphere conducive to learning and is an advocate for the child’s independence. Each person attending will receive 50% off their entrance fee to Urban Chalkboard for joining this discussion. Enjoy complimentary coffee and muffins while you discover if Montessori might be the right fit for your child.

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Harp Songs and Stories: Infant and Toddler Music Class Location: Lawrence Branch Library, Indianapolis, Time: 10:30am, Indypl.org Babies and toddlers under the age of three and an adult are invited for a special introduction to the concert harp. They’ll explore the connection between language and music and share stories. Call 317-2754320 to register.

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Jungle Tales Location: Garfield Conservatory and Sunken Gardens, Indianapolis, Time: 10-11am, garfieldgardensconservatory.org/ programsevents Bring your preschooler to this program with a focus on the natural world. Join for a different nature-related story, activity and craft each month. Registration required. This program is designed for kids ages 2-5.

THURS 10

Dinosaurs!

Location: Irvington Branch Library, downtown Indianapolis, Time: 10:30am, Indypl.org Preschoolers ages 3 - 6 are invited to join Silly Safaris to learn about dinosaurs. They'll meet modern day reptiles and compare them with the reptiles of the past.

THURS 10

Indy's Child POP-UP Playdate: Playtime at the Pool!

Location: Goldfish Swim School, Carmel, Time: 9:30-11am, facebook.com/ indyschildmagazine Launched in February 2016, POP-UP Playdates are mini events at businesses and organizations around town – come with family and friends to check it out, we’ll fete you with snacks, swag and unique fun. All for free. Enjoy this morning of fun at Goldfish Swim School with prizes, photos, and playtime in the pool. Parents are required to be onsite with kids. Visit the Indy’s Child Facebook page to RSVP: facebook.com/ indyschildmagazine.

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PlayFit Location: Children’s Museum of Indianapolis, Time: 10am-3pm, Childrensmuseum.org Join Kevin Kammeraad and Friends for a fitness extravaganza! Celebrate healthy choices and active play. Dance and sing along to music. Enjoy a puppet show.Get moving!

Try It: Modern Dance Location: Carmel Clay Library, Carmel, Time: 10-11am, carmel.lib.in.us Want to learn about modern dance? This dance style grew out of ballet and is infused with African cultural dances and other ethnic influences. Come prepared to move and learn basic modern choreography led by a dance instructor. This program will be held in the Storytime Room and is for children ages 7-10 on their own

Beyond the Exhibit: Gingerbread Houses Location: Children’s Museum of Indianapolis, Time: 10:30am-12pm, Childrensmuseum.org Get your gumdrops ready! Gingerbread house-building at the Children’s Museum is back for ages 6+with a registered adult.

Build your best gingerbread house, learn the origins of gingerbread, compare the different variations of "The Gingerbread Boy."

Lantern Fest Location: New Castle Motorsports Park, New Castle, Time: 2pm-dusk, thelanternfest. com/location/indianapolis/ When gates open at 2pm, families can settle in to roast s’mores, decorate their lanterns, and enjoy entertainment, including: a stage show, face painters, princesses, inflatables and live music. After sunset, participants will come together to release their lanterns, painting the sky gold with their hopes and dreams.

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Preschool Reader’s Theatre Location: Glendale Branch Library, downtown Indianapolis, Time: 10:30am, Indypl.org Preschoolers and an adult are invited as The Ripple Reader's Theatre from Broad Ripple Magnet High School for the Arts and Humanities will perform a reader's theatre version of a favorite picture book, followed by interactive activities and a craft. Call 317-275-4410 to register.

FRI 18

Midnight Shopper on Mass Ave Location: Participating stores on Mass Ave in downtown Indianapolis, Time: 5pm-12am, downtownindy.org/events/2505/midnightshopper-/ Shop local, shop late. Enjoy all that Mass Ave has to offer on this late night of shopping devoted to helping customers get a jump start on their holiday shopping!

Participating shops will be open until Midnight so patrons can enjoy a late night of Indy's best shopping, dining, drinking and entertainment!

Family Friday Night Campfires Location: Holliday Park, Indianapolis, Time: 6:30-8pm, hollidaypark.org/calendar/ Join the folks at Holliday Park for a fun family Friday night adventure around the campfire.

Each night focuses on a different topic (the 18th will explore constellations), starts around the campfire, and ends with a hike.

Roasting sticks and s’mores provided, bring your own hot dogs and make a meal of it! $5/pp.

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Santa’s Big Arrival Location: Children’s Museum of Indianapolis, Time: 8:30am-10am, childrensmuseum.org/ visit/calendar/view/119 Ladies and gentlemen, Santa and elves . . . start your engines! Santa is arriving at The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis in an Indy Racing Experience two-seater IndyCar! A special police and elf escort will lead the way for the sleigh—driven by Ed Carpenter, driver and owner of the #20 Ed Carpenter Racing Indy car, when it arrives the day after Thanksgiving.

Downtown Indy’s Circle of Lights presented by IBEW 481 Location: Monument Circle, downtown Indianapolis, Time: 6-8pm, downtownindy. org/events/257/circle-of-lights-presentedby-quality-connection-ibew-481/ More than 100,000 people will gather on Monument Circle the Friday after

Thanksgiving to celebrate the lighting of 4,784 lights strung from the Indiana Soldiers and Sailors monument. The event kicks off at 6 p.m. and the lights will come on at approximately 7:50 p.m. Millions of sightseers will take in this brilliant spectacle throughout the holiday season, lit through early January. Travelocity named the Circle of Lights® one of the top five “must-see Christmas trees” in the nation. FREE

SUN 27

Moscow Ballet’s Great Russian Nutcracker Location: Old National Centre, downtown Indianapolis, Time: 3-5pm The biggest Christmas experience of the year, direct from Russia, is an Indianapolis tradition… the original Moscow Ballet’s Great Russian Nutcracker! “Knock Out!” Raves the New York Times. Enchant the whole family with larger than life magical props, a 60 foot growing Christmas tree and spectacular Russian-made costumes and sets.

Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer: The Musical Location: Clowes Hall, Butler University, Indianapolis, Time: 4:30pm, butlerartscenter. org/event/rudolph-red-nosed-reindeermusical The beloved TV classic Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer soars off the screen and onto the stage this holiday season.

Come see all of your favorite characters from the special, including Santa and Mrs. Claus, Hermey the Elf, the Abominable Snow Monster, Clarice, Yukon Cornelius and, of course, Rudolph, as they come to life in Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer: The Musical. It’s an adventure that teaches us that what makes you different can be what makes you special. Don’t miss this wonderful holiday tradition that speaks to the misfit in all of us.

TUES 29

Annual Ronald McDonald House of Indiana Home for the Holidays Open House & Giving Tuesday Location: Ronald McDonald House, downtown Indianapolis, Time: TBD, rmhccin.org Details are still being finalized for this annual celebration at the Ronald McDonald House but mark your calendar because they are coming! Stay tuned in to the RMH Indiana Facebook page for details.

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Day of the Dead Altar Exhibition Runs Through November 5, 2016 Location: Indiana State Museum, downtown Indianapolis, indianamuseum.org/ The Indiana State Museum will host a month-long celebration of El Día de los Muertos, or Day of the Dead. See aspects of this traditional Mexican holiday which honors the lives of the deceased and celebrates the continuation of life with a belief that death is not the end, but rather the beginning of a new stage in existence. Price is included with museum admission ($8.50-$13).

Santa’s Mailbox November 14-December 12, 2016 City Hall or Fishers Parks and Recreation, Fishers, Fishers.IN.us/PARKS Let Fishers Parks and Recreation deliver some magic from the holiday straight to your mailbox! Children in 4th grade and younger are invited to write a letter filled with their precious holiday wishes and drop it off at Santa’s Mailbox. Letters need to be dropped off by December 12 at 4:30pm to ensure Santa has enough time to reply! Please include a self addressed, stamped envelope with letters.

Celebration Crossing November 25-January 1, 2017 Indiana State Museum, downtown Indianapolis, www.indianamuseum.org/ The wonder of Christmas arrives to the Indiana State Museum with the annual Celebration Crossing excitement. Families will enjoy seeing the showroom-style Santa’s House, live holiday music, holiday meals in the L.S. Ayres Tea Room, rides aboard the sweet L.S. Ayres train, and cheerful activities on the lawn of Santa’s home.

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Rodgers and Hammerstein’s Cinderella November 15-20, 2016 Clowes Memorial Hall, Butler University, Indianapolis, indianapolis.broadway. com/shows/rodgershammersteins-cinderella/ Rodgers + Hammerstein’s Cinderella is the Tony Award-winning Broadway musical from the creators of Oklahoma!and The King and I that’s delighting audiences with its contemporary take on the classic tale. This lush production features an incredible orchestra, jaw-dropping transformations and all the moments you love—the pumpkin, the glass slipper, the masked ball and more— plus some surprising new twists! Be transported back to your childhood as you rediscover some of Rodgers + Hammerstein’s most beloved songs, including “In My Own Little Corner,” “Impossible/It’s Possible” and “Ten Minutes Ago,” in this hilarious and romantic Broadway experience for anyone who’s ever had a wish, a dream... or a really great pair of shoes.

Jingle Rails November 19-January 16, 2017 Eiteljorg Museum, downtown Indianapolis, eiteljorg.org/explore/exhibitions/ jingle-rails-the-great-westernadventure- %282016%29 Now in its eighth year, the Eiteljorg Museum’s Jingle Rails is a journey to the Great American West – the real West and the West of the imagination. Watch nine trains wind past the local treasures of downtown Indianapolis, including the Eiteljorg Museum, Monument Circle, Union Station, the Indiana State Fairgrounds and Lucas Oil Stadium, where you will hear veteran Colts radio announcer Bob Lamey call a game. The trains then head through the national parks of the American West, passing legendary sites, including grand railway lodges, Northwest Coast Native villages, and wonders both natural and humanmade—Mt. Rushmore, Grand Canyon, Yosemite Falls, Old Faithful, the Las Vegas Strip, Hoover Dam and much more.

Conservatory Crossing November 25-January 1, 2017 Garfield Conservatory and Sunken Gardens, Indianapolis, garfieldgardens conservatory.org/programsevents Come enjoy the winter wonderland at Garfield Conservatory! See the Conservatory decked out in its holiday best with a brilliant display of poinsettias and enjoy model trains, train village and thousands of twinkling lights. Special evening hours until 8pm December 16, 17, 21, 22, 23. Display done with support from The Indiana Rail Road Company.

The Elves and the Shoemaker: A musical holiday fable November 25-December 30, 2016 Children’s Museum of Indianapolis, childrensmuseum.org/content/ lilly-theater This fun-filled musical holiday tale retells the traditional story with a unique twist. Written with singalongs, dancealongs, and lots of audience participation, The Elves and the Shoemaker will delight children of all ages. Mr. Twinkle dreams of opening a cobble shop. The problem is that he doesn’t know how to make shoes! Enter elves who make midnight visits to Mr. Twinkle’s shop, creating the most wonderful shoes ever seen. But business goes well only as long the elves make their secret visits. In the end, the elves find out that the best gift for Mr. and Mrs. Twinkle is something else entirely.

A Christmas Carol November 19-December 24, 2016 Indiana Repertory Theatre, downtown Indianapolis, irtlive.com/plays-and-events/201617-season/a-christmas-carol-2016 The spirits of Christmas bring new life to Ebenezer Scrooge in his journey from dark night of the soul to bright joyous morning. Celebrate the season with Indianapolis’s favorite holiday tradition. God bless us, every one!

Jolly Days November 25-January 8, 2017 Children’s Museum of Indianapolis, Childrensmuseum.org It’s cold outside... but it’s FUN (and warm) in here! See the sparkling lights, experience the warm traditions, and enjoy all the fun of winter weather without the soggy socks! You can even become an elf in training and earn elf ears by participating in winter activities in Jolly Days, including skating in socks on an indoor “pond,” climbing and sliding on the Snow Castle, “ice” fishing, pretend-baking holiday goodies in the Tradition Kitchen and indoor snowball fights.

For many visitors, a highlight of their trip to Jolly Days includes a visit and photo with Santa who will be waiting to hear what’s on the wish lists of young museum visitors.

Christmas At The Zoo November 25-December 30, 2016 Indianapolis Zoo, downtown Indianapolis, indianapoliszoo.com/events-andgroups/zoo-events/christmas-atthe-zoo Surround yourself with the magic and beauty of the holiday season as the Indianapolis Zoo hosts annual holiday tradition, Christmas at the Zoo presented by Teachers Credit Union and Donatos, with an extra weekend of fun added this year! The Zoo is open from noon to 9pm Wednesday to Sunday, with event activities starting at 5pm. Come out early to grab a great parking spot, see some animals and watch as the lights come on to transform the Zoo into a winter wonderland. You'll see some changes happening near the front of the Zoo this year due to the exciting work on our Bicentennial Pavilion project, so make sure to check your map to find all your favorite festivities!

The Little Mermaid Runs Through November 12, 2016 Location: Beef and Boards Dinner Theatre, Indianapolis, beefandboards.com/ children/index.html This whimsical retelling of the original 1837 fairytale features an adventurous mermaid named Melody, who wants to emerge from the safety of the deep sea and explore what's beyond the ocean surface: the human world.

When Melody slips away from her own birthday party, she winds up rescuing a drowning prince and falling in love with him. Along with her friends Bobell, the frog, and Turtell, the turtle, Melody sets out to find her land legs and true love! Tickets $15.50/pp.

Pirates and Princesses: Storybook Adventures Occurring daily through November 27 Location: The Children's Museum of Indianapolis, https://www.childrensmuseum.org/ exhibits/future-exhibits Tales of pirates, princesses, knights and other adventurers captivate us through books, movies, TV shows and in childhood daydreams. In Pirates and Princesses: Storybook Adventures, children and families are heroes of their own adventures, role playing as royals and rebels in an inventive exhibit that inspires the imagination.

Beyond Spaceship Earth Location: Children’s Museum of Indianapolis, Childrensmuseum.org This all-new, immersive exhibit will tell the dynamic story of space exploration from NASA’s Project Mercury program, which sent the first Americans into space, to the International Space Station (ISS).

Experience the real scientific work of ISS astronauts, both inside the space station and outside the airlock!

Discover the future of space exploration that is being developed by NASA and partners like SpaceX, and don’t miss the Indiana Astronaut Hall of Fame, celebrating the many astronauts and engineers connected to Indiana. Exit the ISS into the all-new Schaefer Planetarium and Space Object Theater featuring the NASA space capsule Liberty Bell 7—which was piloted by astronaut and Indiana native Gus Grissom in 1961 on America’s second manned space flight.

Doc McStuffins The Exhibit Now through January 31, 2017 Location: Children’s Museum of Indianapolis, Childrensmuseum.org Doc McStuffins has checked in to the Children’s Museum of Indianapolis with the first-ever collaboration the Museum has hosted with Disney. Fans of the show will be delighted by the large interactive experience where children can explore health care in a fun environment. Children are invited to help Doc perform check-ups and diagnose toy patients, while learning about healthy habits, compassion and nurturing care.

Bongo Boy Music School Family Drum Circle Saturdays Time: 10:15-11 am, Location: Bongo Boy Music School, Indianapolis, bongoboymusic. com/RMC/Programs/Kids.aspx Imagine a community where music, rhythm, movement, and drumming have become a weekly outlet for socializing and living a happier, healthier lifestyle. At the weekly Bongo Boy Family Drum Circle you’ll enjoy recreational music making through rhythm, movement and rhythm based games. Older kids and parents play supportive rhythms from the circle while younger kids explore the various instruments in the center of the circle. Parents are highly encouraged to participate and must stay with their kids.

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