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id the month of December sneak up on you like it did me? Somewhere after Halloween, time seems to have sped up and unbelievably, we are wrapping up the year already. Of course this month is perhaps the busiest of all, with the holidays keeping families hopping from one festive activity or event to the next.

Is your holiday shopping wrapped up? Thinking of gift ideas for all the children on your list can be a challenge. (And how many kids really remember that “must have” toy they just had to get last year?)

Instead of handing over another package, why not give a membership to a place they’ll love to visit again and again? Or tickets to a performance they’ll never forget? You might even inspire a new passion by giving lessons for art or music classes. Check out our article Pressed for Presents? for some ideas on finding a memorable gift that will be appreciated long into the new year. For more great gift-giving ideas, be sure to check out our 12 Days of Holiday Giveaways starting December 3rd!

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Shopping for presents is only one of the many items on your to-do list this December. Does the thought of squeezing in visits with relatives all over town or dealing with a Grinchy family member have you reaching for another Christmas cookie and glass of egg nog (maybe spiked?) This time of year can put a strain on even the jolliest among us – check out Holiday Family Stress for some expert tips on handling these moments in stride.

Maggie Loiselle, Lauren Lawson, Sarah Bricker-Hunt, Pete Gilbert, Deb Krupowicz, Kelly Blewett, Tracey Staley, Heather Barnhart

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Finally, make sure you wrap up for all the fun wintertime activities available in our area! From Santa sightings and skating to holiday light displays and nature hikes, there’s so much to do this time of year. Get the scoop on all the happenings in our Community Spotlight and Daily Events Calendar.

As always, we thank you for picking up this issue of Dayton Parent. From our family to yours, we wish you the happiest of holiday seasons!

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Woodland Lights and Kids’ Party in the Park!

Woodland Lights returns for its 23rd season! Visitors to this nightly festival can enjoy the beauty of lights sparkling along a half-mile wooded path and reflecting against a woodland pond.

Along the trail, whimsical characters and illuminated critters prepare for the holidays, while a real-life Santa Claus visits with children inside a decorated historic log cabin. Highlights include carriage rides, amusement rides, face painting and live deer. On select nights, stop by the children’s activity area as they transform the Sam’s Club Entertainment Pavilion into a Kids’ Party in the Park! Enjoy games, crafts, stories and cookies in this enclosed outdoor space. Presented in partnership with The Booksellers at Austin Landing and Dayton Parent Magazine. Dates: Nightly Dec. 4- Dec. 30, 6-9 pm (closed Dec. 24 and 25). Kids’ Party in the Park held select weeknights. Tickets are $8 per person; under 2 is free. Visit www.washingtontwp.org/recreation/woodlandlights-2/ for more info. Location: Washington Township Recreation Center, 895 Miamisburg Centerville Rd. Dayton

Dayton Ballet presents The Nutcracker Join Dayton Ballet for their breathtaking production of The Nutcracker – the timeless story of little Clara and her adventures in the Land of Sweets. The Dayton Philharmonic Orchestra, under the baton of Neal Gittleman, once again takes up residence in the orchestra pit, giving Tchaikovsky's music the full, rich, gorgeous interpretation it deserves. The elegance, grace and sheer athleticism of Dayton Ballet's core ensemble and star dancers bring the drama to immediate, colorful life. Make Dayton Ballet's The Nutcracker a permanent part of your family's holiday tradition! Prices range from $21$72 per person. Tickets available at www.ticketcenterstage.com.

Dates: December 11 through December 21. Location: The Schuster Center, 1 W. 2nd St., Dayton

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Dayton Parent Playdate: Whole Foods SAVE THE DATE! On Saturday, January 16, we will host our very first Dayton Parent Playdate – an event you won’t want to miss! Children of all ages are invited to Whole Foods, where they will learn how to make healthy and delicious snacks. Parents will also have a chance to visit booths from other area businesses and the whole family can get in on the fun with our Mock Covers!

Plus, the first 50 people to RSVP will receive a special treat. Simply send your children’s names and ages to katy@daytonparentmagazine.com. This fun, FREE event is the perfect way to get your New Year off to a healthy start! We hope to see you there! Date: Sat. January 16, 1 pm. Location: Whole Foods, 1050 Miamisburg Centerville Rd., Dayton

The Legendary Lights of Clifton Mill 2015 For over 20 years, Clifton Mill has celebrated the Christmas season in a very special way. Today, their light display is one of the country's finest with over 3.5 million lights illuminating the mill, the gorge, the riverbanks, trees and bridges.

There is even a 100-foot "waterfall" of twinkling lights. The flip of one switch transforms night into a fantastical winter wonderland. Visitors can enjoy a Miniature Village, a Santa Claus Museum and a spectacular synchronized light and music show that features the old Covered Bridge. Every night until Christmas, sneak a peek into Santa's Workshop to see him hard at work. Every 15 minutes or so, watch him check his list and go up the chimney to load his sleigh (no photos with Santa though, as he is very busy!). Tickets are $10 per person, ages 7 and up; children under 7 are free! Dates: Daily, November 27 through New Year’s Day. Location: Clifton Mill, 75 Water St., Clifton, OH

Author Meaghan Fisher Book Release Party Head to Crossroads Church in Tipp City on Dec. 12 from 10 am-3 pm to celebrate the release of Meaghan Fisher’s newest children’s book, Tyler the Fish and Marty the Sturgeon! The multi-award winning author will be reading her new book at 11 am. Following the reading, Tipp City Library will present Meaghan with a Career Achievement Award. Books will be available for purchase to be signed by the author. Meaghan has received several Five Star Reviews and an Editor's Choice from Creative Child for her children’s books that each center on a moral lesson. For more information on Meaghan and her books: www.meaghanfisher. com & www.facebook.com/meaghanfanpage. Date: December 12, 10 am-3 pm.

Location: Crossroads Church, Tipp City, OH

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holiday family stress Handling the moments of the season that are less than jolly Maggie Loiselle

Maybe it’s Facebook’s fault, with its constant

feed of friends’ seemingly perfect family

moments. Or Pinterest is to blame, giving us an impossible holiday standard to achieve.

But somewhere between orchestrating

elaborate Elf on the Shelf hijinks and

planning an entire christmas feast, we

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ith parents off work, kids on winter break, relatives to visit and countless things to wrap, cook and clean in preparation, it’s no wonder the “magic” of the holiday season often doesn’t live up to our snow-draped, candle-lit expectations.

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“I really think if people said ‘no’ more, the holidays would be a lot less stressful,” says Nicole LaSelle, a clinical counselor with Professional Psychological Services, giving this example: “If you’re invited to ten parties and you really just want to go to two, it’s okay to pick and choose how you want to spend your time.” Setting your intentions before the holiday season begins can prevent you from spreading yourself so thin that you rush from place to place without really making meaningful connections with those most important to you.

Have other stressful moments you anticipate this time of year?

Here are some expert tips for handling common scenarios that tend to zap our good cheer:

stressful moment #1

Every year, your mother-in-law expects your family to travel several hours to her house on Christmas Eve and wake up to open presents in her home.

You have accommodated her wishes for the past four years, but your children are growing up fast, and you would really like to have a Christmas morning spent in your own home.

This is a conversation you have been dreading with her because you know it won’t go over well.

Mary Gambill

(social worker and clinical director at Insight Professional Counseling Center, a Womanline Program): It is crucial to convey to the mother in-law

many months ahead that the ritual and memory-building time with her at her home have been wonderful. However, now the children are in a place (age and stage) where they want to wake up in their own beds and rush to their family Christmas tree to celebrate. Offer a time for the mother in-law to be a part of that in the children’s family home. The important thing to remember is to SLOW down and enjoy building memories and rituals where time stops and families love on each other.

LaSelle: I think it’s first about talking to your spouse and making sure you’re on the same page in regards to your desires for the holiday, and then it’s time to have a conversation together with your mother-in-law. Whenever you’re going to challenge someone, the sandwich a p p ro a c h w o r k s well. Bring up something positive, tell them what you’d like to change and then end with something positive. In this case, you want to explain the difficulties of coming over to the mother-in-law’s house on Christmas Eve. The mother-in-law might be completely oblivious. If you don’t address the issue now, you’re going to feel resentful every Christmas Eve.

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Gambill: Here is an educational moment. You could say, “Yes, it does seem that way, however our pediatrician has strongly encouraged these restrictions due to some medical concerns regarding our son.”

Gambill: Accept the gift, and then address boundaries and limit-setting with your children.

Diplomatically express the graciousness of someone buying a gift for your child, and then explain that the rules of the house are as such, and the gift can be returned for something more appropriate. Depending on the relationship with the parents and the buyer, it is okay to explain your intentions regarding gifts for your children that are acceptable for the child’s age and stage.

You've recently learned that your son is allergic to gluten and nuts and have expressed these dietary restrictions to your mom and dad who are hosting the holiday dinner.

As you all sit down to eat and you carefully select appropriate dishes for your son, your dad makes a loud proclamation that food allergies in kids these days is overblown hype.

Everyone appears uncomfortable and they look at you to see how you will respond.

La S e l l e :

I think it’s important to educate dad about this privately. Tell him how difficult it is for your son to have a food allergy and what could happen if he eats certain things.

“I really think if people said ‘no’ more, the holidays would be a lot less stressful.”

Carly Nagel

(counselor with Access Counseling Services in Middletown): Whenever it comes to difficult family conversations, I always suggest to my clients for the person who is related to the family member in question to speak to them regarding the issue. Suggest a compromise.

Maybe you could alternate years between your house and hers.

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Nagel: When someone criticizes you in public, they are relying on you to be tempted to engage in a debate with them. As enticing as this can be, it’s important to show your children and other family members that you can act from your adult self. I would suggest calmly thanking him for his opinion, pointing out a few facts that he may have overlooked (such as your pediatrician’s opinion) and move onto another topic.

A relative gives a present to your child that you don’t approve of (think violent video games for your son or makeup for your 10 year-old daughter).

To complicate things, your child loves the present.

LaSelle: Whether or not you talk to the relative about the gift depends on the strength of the relationship. If it’s a relative who just drops by gifts at the holidays, it may not be worth the conflict.

But if it’s your sister who will be around every holiday, you may want to talk privately to her. Most importantly, it’s absolutely necessary to explain to your son or daughter that your relative didn’t know the rules of your family and that you’ll be returning the present to the store.

Nagel: What I would suggest would be to put the gifts up until the child is older and the gift is more appropriate. I would also suggest speaking with the relative in question and gently explain your concerns. In order to prevent this from happening again, maybe send an email to family members before the holidays with some suggestions of gifts for the kids.

stressful moment #4

At a family get-together, an uncle loudly starts to voice his political or religious views, which are very different from the values promoted in your family. Your kids are listening with rapt attention, looking like they expect you to say something in response.

Gambill:

This is a good time to inform children that although we may not agree with other’s opinions we offer respect and openly listen to their thoughts and opinions.

LaSelle:

You may want to have a private conversation with the uncle about his opinions and how and when he expresses them. The main part of this though is having a conversation with your children about how everyone is entitled to his or her opinions, but that your family values are different than the uncle’s.

Nagel: This is a great opportunity to demonstrate to your children how to deal with difficult people.

First, I would suggest taking a couple of deep breaths in order to gather your thoughts. Thank the family member for their opinion and ask, “Can we change the subject since this topic obviously can be divisive?” If they continue to goad you, simply change the subject on your own. On the drive home, talk to your children about how people have different opinions that’s okay.

stressful moment #5

Your family has discussed a dollar limit for exchanging gifts. You really need to follow this guideline, but your sister keeps going way overboard on what she buys for your family, making you feel bad for sticking to your budget.

Gambill: No one can make anyone feel anything unless you allow it. Therefore, stick to your budget no matter what, and, eventually, the sister will get the hint when she receives less than what she has put out year after year.

LaSelle: The sister probably has good intentions. Talking to her in private, you can thank her for her generosity, but explain how it makes you feel if you don’t give the same kind of quantity of gifts because you’re sticking to the budget.

Nagel:

Whatever her reason for spending more money than she was supposed to, it’s her choice to spend that money knowing that there is a limit. Just make sure to profusely thank her for her generosity. If you feel the need to be “even” with her, offer to babysit during the year or maybe make her cookies.

Although spending

time with family can be

a highlight of the holidays, it can also have its share

of uncomfortable situations and unintended hurt feelings. Try to stay

focused on the positive

moments of the season that make it special for

your family and do your

best to keep the unpleasant ones from turning you into

a Grinch. New Year’s is just around the corner, which

might be the perfect time

to make a few resolutions about how to handle next year’s holiday!

CINCY ZOO

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Try the gift of lessons, experiences and activities instead!

Lauren Lawson

How many kids actually remember the “must have� toy they got last year? Think outside the proverbial (gift) box this holiday season and place a more memorable present underneath the tree. Try giving the gift of a novel experience, lessons to learn something new or a fun activity to share. Here are nine ideas that will have the children on your shopping list appreciating your special gift all year long.

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RUN AROUND FUN TOWN PL AY PAS SES Bring outdoor fun inside this season by purchasing a Play Pass to Run Around Fun Town, a new indoor family entertainment center in Dayton. Kids can run, jump and play throughout this child-sized town with attractions that include inflatables, tubes, tunnels and more. A full service café with pizza for the kids and Wi-Fi for mom and dad makes this gift a list topper. Play passes are available in multipacks for up to 30% off at www.Runaroundfuntown.com.

BOOK A FIVE RIVER METROPARKS CAMPING TRIP Dreaming of a camping trip this spring? After the winter thaw, look forward to a fun family vacation right in Dayton’s great outdoors. Book a campsite at one of the many Five River MetroParks locations and soak up nature together. Tent it, rent it or rough it at camp areas that include Carriage Hill, Englewood, Taylorsville and Eagle Creek. Start planning today at www.Metroparks. org.

MUSIC LES SONS AT BELL A MUSICA DAY TON A gift that keeps on giving, music lessons make quite the present for kids who love a tune.

A variety of instrument lessons are offered as well as voice lessons. Pair this gift with tickets to the Dayton Philharmonic and make music come to life in a very special way. Hit a high note and find out more, visit www.Bellamusicadayton.com.

KET TERING ICE ARENA PAS SES Make the most of winter time this year with season passes to the Kettering Ice Arena, open late August through April.

For those interested in hockey, figure skating or leisure skating, this pass is the triple lutz of gifts. Families can spend time making rounds at open skate, or take advantage of lessons to help sharpen those skating skills. Warm up afterwards with a snack and a hot chocolate at the Kettering Ice Arena Concession Stand! Skate on over to www.Playkettering.org to learn more.

ART LES SONS AT DECOY ART STUDIO Family art lessons make a terrific present for kids who love taking creativity into their own hands – literally! Decoy Art Studio offers workshops for children, as well as family day classes on Sundays. Students utilize a variety of materials and work with teachers to create beautiful art. For dates and times, check out www.Decoy-art.com.

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CLIMBING MEMBER SHIP AT URBAN KRAG CLIMBING

THE DAY TON ART INSTITUTE

For the climber in the family, a membership to the indoor rock climbing facility Urban Krag is an epic stocking stuffer! With 8,000 square feet of sculpted vertical terrain, as well as an inclined bouldering wall, visitors are bound to have a rocky good time. Individual and family memberships are available for purchase. Classes also make for a fantastic gift for novice climbers too. Don’t be-lay, sign up at www.Urbankrag.com.

For the child who loves art, a membership to the Dayton Art Institute is a terrific present to use throughout the year. Families of all ages will enjoy the museum’s interactive art gallery with handson stations and activities. Parents and kids alike will also love touring the museum’s art collections and exhibits too. Don’t forget to grab a delicious lunch at Leo Bistro!

Members enjoy free admission and invitations to members-only events as well. Find out more at www.Daytonartinstitue.org.

BOONSHOFT MUSEUM OF DISCOVERY

FAMILY YOGA AT INDIGO YOGA Give the gift of Namaste and enjoy a little family yoga time with lessons at Indigo Yoga. Designed for parents and children, classes utilize age-appropriate poses, breathing exercises and relaxation techniques. Open to all children ages 3-10, yoga is a healthy way to spend quality time together as a family. Register for classes at www.Indigoyogadayton.com.

Explore the world of science and gift an out-of-this world membership to the Boonshoft Museum of Discovery. With so many exciting attractions, families can experience science firsthand with exhibits that include the Discovery Zoo and Space Theatre. Members enjoy free unlimited admission to all four Dayton Society of Natural History sites, as well as free Planetarium shows at the Boonshoft Museum’s Dome. Learn more at www.Boonshoftmuseum.org.

Skip the crowded shopping centersand sweat-inducing cyber sales to wrap up a different kind of gift this year. Live in the present this holiday season (no pun intended) and give a memory that will last all year.

Happy Holidays!

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Seven Ways to Help Your Preschooler Love School Simple tips to make your little learner excited about this new adventure Sarah Bricker-Hunt

Preschool is a big transition for kids.

It’s a bridge between toddlerhood and Kindergarten, and the change can make even the most excited little student a bit anxious. If you’ve got a preschooler at home, try these tips for helping him navigate this exciting (but sometimes scary) new world.

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1. Address Your Own Anxiety Children are very perceptive and easily pick up on how their parents react to situations. Decrease any feelings of anxiety you have by taking the time really understand the policies and practices of the preschool you choose so that any fears you have are addressed. Make sure you know how to contact your child’s teacher and feel comfortable that staff will make time to address any concerns you have. When you feel informed and prepared, you will be more relaxed and your child will pick up on that vibe.

2. Have A Quick Drop Off Routine For some kids, the few minutes of transition time at the beginning of the school day can be the hardest of all. Shayna Schroeder, Curriculum Director at First School in Dayton, recommends coming up with a drop off routine. “If the parent walks the child to the classroom, it could be the parent watching the child hang up their coat, followed by a hug and a high-five, and then the parent leaving for the day,” she suggests.

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Parents could also try introducing a routine that includes a cute phrase like “See you later alligator/After a while crocodile!” “The more repetitive the good bye becomes, the safer the child will feel with the parent leaving,” says Schroeder.

3. Establish Good Communication With Staff Get to know your child’s teachers. Take advantage of open-door policies. You will be working together to make your child’s experience a successful one.

If you have an issue you would like to discuss with staff, try contacting the teacher by email.

Drop-off and pick-up times are usually very busy and not a good time to have a conversation. For specific concerns, try emailing the teacher to set up a time to meet or talk on the phone.

of what’s going on. Your preschooler will love having you share in their world. Ask questions that help them talk about their experience. “If you ask ‘How was preschool today?’ you will probably not receive much of an answer,” says Schroeder. On the other hand, if you ask questions like “Who did you play with on the playground?” or “What book did you read in group time?” you will get the child to think about their preschool day and answer the question.

5. Stay Positive

4. Get Involved

Be mindful of the way you discuss preschool at home in front of your child. Children trust their parents’ perspective of a situation.

If possible, try to take advantage of opportunities to get involved at your child’s school. Volunteer to read a book to the class, join classroom parties or find other ways to be a part

Showing your enthusiasm and support for preschool will make

them feel confident about their experience.

Jannis Strasser of the National Association for the Education of Young Children suggests celebrating your child’s small, specific successes.

For example, “Tell her that you are proud of the way she tried to print her name,” she says. “Don’t expect perfection. If your child was perfect, she wouldn’t have to go to school.”

6. Add Some Helpful Books To Your Bookshelf Many books are available that are designed to help kids get reduce preschool anxiety and get excited to attend school. Try these titles for a good place to start: The Kissing Hand by Audrey Penn, Wemberly

Worried by Kevin Henkes, Mommy Always Comes Back by Penny Schnee-Bosch and Llama, Llama Misses Mama by Anna Dewdney.

7. Keep Things Simple Avoid battles over things like what to wear or eating a big meal before the school day. Keep your focus on the more important goals of preschool. Also, Strasser suggests not dwelling on how many friends a child is making. “This is too abstract for most young children, and their friends change by the minute,” she says. Instead, ask open-ended questions like “Tell me about some of the children in your class.”

Most children will settle into a routine at preschool and grow to enjoy their time away from home within a few months. However, if your child seems increasingly anxious as time goes on, consult with the preschool director and your child’s teacher to address any stumbling blocks that are getting in the way of your child enjoying this important milestone experience.

Helping your preschooler love school will make the transition to Kindergarten that much easier!

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a dad influence

A Dad Influence How to get your kids to do what you ask... every time

By Pete Gilbert

"Thank you for not poking your neighbor with scissors."

"You should be proud of the way you stayed calm when those mean things were said about you."

During my first year of teaching, I quickly learned I was not ready for the challenges ahead of me. I knew all about lesson plans and seating charts, but I wasn't prepared for fistfights and defiant seventh graders.

My school brought in a psychologist to assist the teachers and restore order to our classrooms. His approach was called “Nurtured Heart.”

It was all about praising the positive (even if there was little to be positive about) and ignoring the negative. He explained that children act out to gain attention, and if I gave attention to the kids behaving well, negative behavior would stop and positive behavior would increase. I was skeptical, but desperate. It was hard to ignore a pencil being flung across the room, but I ignored that behavior and praised the rest of the class for staying on task. Multiply this instance by 1,000 every class period of every day and that's what I did. Of course there were conse-

quences for negative behavior, but they were swift and involved little interaction.

What does this have to do with parenting? The Nurtured Heart approach works on your own kids, too!

Try it tonight. Praise one of your kids for putting his napkin on his lap at dinner and watch the others do the same immediately. Just be prepared for them to request your praise as well. Or, tell your kids it's pajama time. Watch as one shuffles off to her bedroom while the other two ignore your request – until you praise the one child who is doing what you asked. Just like that, what would've been a twenty-minute battle has now turned into a fun, positive jammie race.

Even older kids who know what you are doing still can't help but participate. Everyone likes to be told they are doing a great job.

Aren't you glad you took a minute out of your busy day to read this column? Good for you! Well done!

See what I mean?

-Pete

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footnotes

Footnotes: Thoughts

from the margins of a mom’s life Growing backwards and forwards

By Kelly Blewett

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ccording to Fred Rogers, "Play is the work of childhood." If this is true, and why shouldn't it be, then my children are working very hard indeed. Here are a few examples of recent games:

monsters are discovered, the game shifts gears and becomes more like tag. Monsters rush to home base – the counting couch – while the adult unsuccessfully tries to catch them from behind.

SIT TRAP: This is a favorite from THE CHAMPION SHIP: In this game, all champions (which includes any human or dog in the house) must run to my son's bed (a.k.a. the Champion Ship) and leap in. Any items on the floor of the room must also be put in the bed.

Participants may cry, "Let's get to the Champion Ship!" The ship, which is rarely cleaned out as the captain prefers it to be as full as possible, contains an ice pack (now lukewarm), a flashlight, every stuffed animal on both of my children's shelves (totaling roughly 27 fluffs), empty cups, several pairs of pajamas and (most hilariously to the captain of the captain) underwear.

GHOST POKES: Those five and under sneak up on adults in the house. Upon finding adults, they must yell, "I've got them! Ghost pokes!" and then jab fingers toward the adults while shrieking "bah! bah! bah!"

MONSTER TAG: This game begins like hide-and-seek. A grownup sits on the couch in a living room and counts to ten very loudly. Then they seek the "monsters," saying the whole time “Where are you?” to ratchet up anticipation. When

the grandparents. Children sit on the laps of grown-ups only to discover that they can't get out. They are wrapped in the grown-up's legs!

They are "sit-trapped"! After a brief struggle, the trap opens and the child leaps away laughing madly.

Stuffed animals may be sit-trapped by children.

CIRCUS: This game can only be played with Nana and my son. All items that could be part of a circus – tiny clowns, trains with animals inside the cars, a tent – are brought out onto a big carpet. Imaginative discussion ensues...and ensues... and ensues. Three hours later, the circus ends.

The list may look (and in fact be) exhausting, but frankly at 7 pm after a day of adulting, there’s nothing quite as invigorating and giggle-inducing as a round of Monster Tag. If this is my children’s work, the serious learning that helps them develop the skills they’ll need to grow, then it is for me precisely the opposite: a chance to unlearn grown-upness, to follow my children’s lead, to take a big jump to that magical, messy, imaginative realm I once inhabited all the time.

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discover nature this winter [branded content]

Discover Nature This Winter Enjoy the fun only this season can bring

By Tracy Staley

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his winter, open the door to magic.

The season offers a chance to connect with nature in a way impossible during the rest of the year, as snow and ice transform the most familiar backyards and parks into wonderlands ripe for discovery. (Just remember to wear layers and bundle up.)

Here are six outdoor activities to plan into your winter days:

Hit the hills. Most folks have a favorite hill, but why not try out a new spot this winter? Five Rivers MetroParks has sledding areas in Englewood, Germantown and Taylorsville MetroParks. The largest hill is at Germantown MetroPark.

Get on the trails. The trails are open year-round. Some paved trails – great for cycling, walking and running – are plowed. Natural trails for hiking, mountain biking, crosscountry skiing and horseback riding will be packed earth or snow. Birdwatching and animal tracking can be planned into a winter hike. “Through following animal tracks, you find yourself looking through the eyes of that animal, discovering what it ate, where it rested and where it might be,” said Joshua York, education supervisor at Five Rivers MetroParks.

Slice the ice. The MetroParks Ice Rink, in RiverScape MetroPark in downtown Dayton, is a must-do for families in the region. With skate rentals and hot chocolate available on site, outdoor ice skating makes a great way to burn energy and enjoy family time. The rink also can be rented on select dates for special

gatherings.

Visit www. m e t ro p a r k s . org/icerink for more information and a complete schedule.

Go ice fishing. Carriage Hill, Englewood and Possum Creek MetroParks all permit ice fishing.

Play hide and seek. Whether at home or in a park, hide and seek takes on a whole new spin in the winter. “The snow on the ground adds a new element of fun, as the seeker can track the hider, but the hider can also create ‘diversions,’” York says. “Of course, in an area as vast as a MetroPark, it is important to keep the 'countdown time' short so that all hiders are safe close by.”

Visit a nature play area. Hills & Dales, Sugarcreek, Englewood and Possum Creek are among the MetroParks with nature play areas – special places set aside for kids to discover nature. These areas, especially after a freeze, are a blast. York says, “A sheet of ice can be harvested to build structures or sculptures.”

For more ideas, visit www.metroparks.org/winter.

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four tips for keeping kids active in the winter

Four Tips for Keeping Kids Active in the Winter

By Heather Barnhart, Dayton Children’s Hospital

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he days are getting shorter and the nights are getting colder as we begin the winter

months. During this time it is so tempting to put on cozy clothes and curl up with a blanket in front of the television, but as parents it is important to fight the urge every now and then and do something active in order to be good role models for our kids!

“Maintaining a healthy weight is just as important for children as it is for adults, and the best way to do that is to keep them active,” says Stacy Meyer, MD and pediatric endocrinologist at Dayton Children’s Hospital and “Dr. Mom Squad” blogger.

“In fact, it is recommended that most children have a minimum of one hour of sweat-inducing activity every day.”

During the cold months this can be difficult to achieve. Listed below are four tips for keeping kids

the kids up for a snowball fight, or find a hill and have some sled races!

active in the winter:

1. ENJOY THE GREAT OUTDOORS Although it is definitely colder, winter is still a great time to go outside and get active. Family hikes at places such as Yellow Springs and the Narrows are great ideas when there isn’t much snow on the ground.

With a short drive you can go tubing, skiing or snowboarding and for something a little closer to the holidays, consider taking the family on a walk to look at Christmas light displays. On the days where there are ample amounts of snow, bundle

2. INTERACTIVE GAMES If you are able to, investing in an active gaming system that requires movement to play is a great way to keep the family active during the winter months. Don’t worry though, cheaper alternatives are right around the corner with a little creativity. For example, try challenging the kids to a dance-off or plan an indoor obstacle course or a treasure hunt.

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3. COMMUNITY OPPORTUNITIES For indoor options outside of the home, just look to the community for fun opportunities.

Dayton is full of places with fun activities for the whole family such as ice skating and roller skating rinks, bowling alleys, laser tag or an indoor trampoline park.

soccer. Additionally there are plenty of options for group or private lessons in ice-skating, martial arts, gymnastics and dance. Call your local community center, or visit their website, for class options and pricing.

Whatever it is you choose to do to stay active in the winter, make sure to follow appropriate safety guidelines. For indoor activities

4. WINTER SPORTS AND CLASSES

make sure there is enough room

Another great indoor option for the winter is to sign up for group classes and sports. Kids can choose from an array of team sports such as basketball, hockey and indoor

remember to dress properly when

to move around safely, and always going outside, with layers that will keep the body warm.

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ask the teacher

Ask the Teacher

School party stress, educational gifts and chaotic classrooms

By Deb Krupowicz

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I am always guilted into signing up to organize my daughter’s classroom parties, and I almost always regret it. I become very anxious that the kids are not going to have fun and dread the craziness that is usually part of it. How can I turn this into a more pleasant experience?

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Parents tend to think that students require over-the-top games, treats and prizes to enjoy a school party. The truth is that even the simplest of parties is enjoyable in the school setting, where parties happen only a few times each year. Students are generally happy for any deviation from their typical routine.

First, do not assume that as the party coordinator you can do whatever you would like to do. Consult the teacher.

Ask her to define how much time she would like the party to last and what she would like it to include. If she is flexible, ask her to describe the most successful parties that have been held in her room. Plan accordingly, showing respect for her as the one in charge of the room and the one who knows what her particular students can handle well.

Allow time to clean up the classroom.

Bring in a roll of paper towels and wet rags in plastic bags in case there is no sink in the room. Make sure all surfaces are wiped down and free of Keep in mind that being well pre- food or craft scraps. Involve the stupared includes more than just a good dents in picking up the floor and doplan. Do as much as possible ahead ing everything possible to return the of time so that set up takes almost classroom to its original condition. no time. Select games with rules that The last thing a teacher needs after are easy for students to understand. a long day is a big mess to clean up!

Choose simple treats that create only minimal mess. Be respectful of other What suggestions do you volunteers and avoid micromanaging have for holiday gifts that the part of the party they are responhave educational value? sible for. Model attentiveness when This time of year seems the teacher or other volunteers are like a great opportunity to purchase speaking. gifts that have purpose.

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The obvious educational gift is a book. Put a different spin on that always-appropriate selection by turning it into an outing.

Purchase a gift card for a bookstore along with one for a restaurant or special dessert shop. Make arrangements to take the recipient out for the afternoon and turn the gift into a special event and memory.

such as Ticket to Ride, Settling Catan and Carcassone Strategy Game. Critical thinking skills are put to use when calculating moves and responding to the moves others make.

Puzzles are also great for developing spatial reasoning and complex thinking. Jigsaw puzzles help to develop a keen eye for detail and multi-dimensional rationale. Crosswords expand vocabulary skills and foster out-ofthe box thinking. Puzzles that require Board games provide the opportuni- manipulation of pieces like Rush ty to read and follow directions. Plan- Hour and logic puzzle books help dening and forming strategies are key velop special strategy skills requiring parts of playing traditional games prediction and visualization, as well like Risk, Sequence and chess as well as multi-step planning. as with more contemporary games,

ask the teacher

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My son is having a very tough year due to a new teacher who cannot handle the class. From his description, there is a constant state of chaos and he cannot work. I do not know if this is true or just an excuse. What should I do?

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A student’s perception of chaos may be an exaggeration, but it may also be quite accurate. In today’s educational environment of large classes with a small group focus, even what is very well organized may be noisy and make it difficult for some students to stay focused.

I would encourage your son to selfadvocate for a quieter work environment. Role play with him so that he can practice using a respectful tone and choosing the right words to make his request of the teacher.

He could offer to move to a quiet corner in the room or to work in the hallway.

If a simple solution does not solve the problem, request a conference with your son’s teacher. She will have additional insight regarding what is happening in the room and how your son is responding. A few minutes of an especially loud activity may have overshadowed the rest of the day in his mind, or one boisterous day could have translated to all days being that way to him.

For some children, even the hum of the lights or the rattle of the fan can cause a distraction that seems chaotic and inhibits their productivity. The first place to start is to talk to the teacher who may have some strategies for your son to try so that he is able to get his work done.

Ask the Teacher is written by Deb Krupowicz, a mother of four who holds a Master’s degree in Curriculum and Instruction. Deb has over twenty years of experience teaching preschool, elementary and middle school students. Please send your questions to her at asktheteacher@ daytonparentmagazine.com

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education and childcare guide

education &

CHILDCARE GUIDE Antioch School

Dominion Academy

1160 Corry St., Yellow Springs, OH 45387 | 937-767 7642 | info@ antiochschool.org | www.antiochschool.org

925 N. Main St., Dayton, OH 45405 | (937)224-8555 | amanda. mcgill@dominionacademy.org | dominionacademy.org | Ages/Grades: Grades 1- 12

Antioch School was founded in 1921 and is considered among the oldest democratic schools in the United States. Children are encouraged to take the next step, to risk, to make mistakes and to try again as they find their own unique ways of learning. The Antioch School is a place where childhood is respected and children are enjoyed. Nursery - Sixth Grade.

Dayton Public Schools 115 South Ludlow Street, Dayton, OH 45402 | 937-542-5555 | www. dps.k12.oh.us Dayton Public Schools offers free full/half-day preschool for children ages 3-5. Classes meet Monday through Thursday. We provide a balanced schedule to meet the developmental needs of all children. Staff are licensed by the Ohio Department of Education. Families of all income levels are eligible to apply.

As a classical Christian school, Dominion Academy of Dayton is committed to learning well to love well. Our collegiate-model structure for grades 1-12 means flexibility to complement your family's needs (schedules range from one class to full-time). Our unique academic community cultivates a joyful love for truth, goodness, and beauty.

Love is a Hug 201 West Market St. Germantown, OH 45327 | 937-855-2150 | Liah@ woh.rr.com | www.loveisahug.org We are a quality Preschool for children 2 1/2 to pre-kindergarten. Our goal is to make sure every child is ready for Kindergarten, We are open 6:30 a.m. to 6:00 p.m. Preshool is from 9:00 a.m to 3:00 p.m. We offer day camps and school days out for Kindergarten to 5th grade when school is not in session.

The Miami Valley School

St. Matthew Lutheran Preschool

5151 Denise Dr., Dayton, OH 45429 | 937-434-4444 | susan. strong@mvschool.com | www. mvschool.com

5566 Chambersburg Rd., Huber Heights, OH 45424 | 937-8367294 | tpetrock@msn.com | http:// stmatthewlutheranpreschool.webs. com | Ages/Grades: 2.5-5 years of age

At The Miami Valley School, we adhere to a demanding scholarship built up a foundation of integrity and grit. Our teachers empower students to live life to fullest, to discover their true passion, and then to responsibly pursue their dreams with emotional and intellectual rigor. Students don’t just come to MVS. Here, they become. For early childhood-12th grade.

The Overfield School 172 S. Ridge Ave., Troy | 937-3395111 | office@overfield.org | www. overfield.org At Overfield, young children and teachers explore, problemsolve and build an exceptional educational foundation using indoor and outdoor classrooms on 83 acres. Serving ages 18 months-Kindergarten, with fullday options for ages 3-6. Established in 1960. Voted Best Preschool in 2014 in Dayton Magazine's Best of Dayton.

We are a small program that accommodates for 12 children in a classroom setting. Our Christian teachers are highly dedicated and qualified in Early Childhood Education.

YMCA of Greater Dayton 111 W. First St., Dayton, OH 45402 | 937-610-9622 | mresor@daytonymca.org | www.ymcaonline.org The YMCA is dedicated to providing high-quality, affordable care for children. With 49 Miami Valley child care locations, we serve families with infants up through the 6th grade. Our staff members partner with parents and caregivers, working together to help kids grow up healthy, happy and strong.

Financial assistance is available-call 937-610-9622 today.

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december events

r e b m e c de s t n e ev

TUESDAY | 1

At the Manger Nativity Exhibit: Christmas and Beyond

THURSDAY| 3

Angel Night: An Evening of Song & Celebration

SATURDAY | 5

Dayton Jingle Bell Run/Walk for Arthritis

Roesch Library at University of Dayton, 300 College Park Ave, Dayton, OH 45469 | 937-229-4265 |www. udayton.edu/libraries/manger/

Calvary Cemetery, 1625 Calvary Dr., Dayton, OH 45409 | (937)293-1221 |www.calvarycemeterydayton. org/news/upcoming-events/

Bellbrook Middle School, 3600 Feedwire Road, Bellbrook, OH 45305 | 513.399.8091 | www.arthritis.org/ ohio/events-in-your-area/

Celebrate the impressive diversity of the Christmas traditions in this year’s exhibit of more than 100 global Nativities. New this year, the model train travels through an 18-by-12 foot display. Ten stations depict the events surrounding Jesus’ birth and childhood.

A free, fun, family event at one of the most beautiful and peaceful sites in Ohio’s Miami Valley. Fifteen Victorian Angels are illuminated and tours by wagon, trolley, vans are given.

Music from local groups and a Carol singalong is in the chapel.

Wear a holiday themed costume. Tie jingle bells to your shoelaces. Raise funds to help find a cure for arthritis, the nation's leading cause of disability. Run or walk a 5 kilometer route with your team members!

Pub-Lit at the Brixx Brixx Ice Company, 500 E. First St., Dayton, OH 45402 |www.daytonmetrolibrary.org

Pub-Lit is a book club hosted by the Dayton Metro Library at the Brixx Ice Company American Grill. Have a drink while discussing an offbeat book.

WEDNESDAY | 2

Mannheim Steamroller Christmas at the Schuster The Schuster Center, 1 W 2nd St, Dayton, OH 45402 | (937) 228-7591 |www.victoriatheatre.com/shows/ mannheim-steamroller-christmas/

Grammy Award winner Chip Davis has created a show that features the beloved Christmas music of Mannheim Steamroller along with dazzling multimedia effects performed in an intimate setting.

FRIDAY | 4

Waynesville Christmas in the Village Waynesville, OH | 513-897-8855 x2 |www.waynesvilleohio.com/events/index.htm

Visit Waynesville this holiday season and capture the spirit of the holidays! Costume characters will be throughout the weekend to help bring a smile to your face. Don't forget jolly old St. Nick he will be here all weekend long!

Handmade Holiday Dayton Yellow Cab Tavern, 700 E. 4th Street, Dayton, OH 45402 | 937-424-3870 |www.facebook.com/handmadeholidaydayton

Pssst...this event would make a fun ladies night out, get some holiday shopping done without the kiddos, and come back Saturday with the family for a family holiday photo! Over 25 artisan vendors!

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Lebanon Carriage Parade & Christmas Festival Downtown Lebanon| lebanonchamber.org

Visit this family holiday event in Lebanon that is truly unique in both celebration and charm.

All day entertainment, numerous food and craft vendors, and all of the downtown merchants and eateries will be open to serve you.

A Rosewood Holiday Arts Festival Rosewood Arts Center, 2655 Olson Drive, Dayton, OH 45420 | (937) 296-0294 |www.playkettering.org/ rosewood/

Featuring artist vendors, demonstrations, art activities, theater and dance performances and art exhibitions, there is something for everyone! Admission is free and all are welcome.

Christmas for the City Beavercreek Church of the Nazarene, 1850 N. Fairfield Road, Beavercreek, OH 45432 | 937 426 3926 |www. bcnazarene.com/christmas-for-the-city-2/

Christmas for the City is a holiday party and a unique community experience for the community. Share the sights and sounds of the season as you also connect with local, non-profit organizations to find out ways you can serve others.

Cedarville Little Towns of Lights 25th Anniversary Downtown Cedarville | www.cedarvillechamber.com

Opening ceremonies start at 5:30, businesses are open from 5 to 9 parade is at 6 p.m. Holiday Wreath auction at 7:35 proceeds going to Cedarville Food Bank.

Holiday Gifts from Clay Rosewoods Arts Centre,2655 Olson Drive, Dayton, OH 45420 | (937) 296-0294 | http://www.playkettering. org/rosewood/

Kids, learn to make awesome, handmade holiday gifts! Use clay to create pins, bread warmers, trivets and much more. Ages 8 – 12. Preregistration required.

december events

Tippecanoe Christmas in the Village

MONDAY | 7

Historic Tipp City |www.downtowntippcity.org/christmas/index.html

Victoria Theatre, 138 North Main St., Dayton, OH 45402 | (937) 228-7591 | https://www.victoriatheatre. com/discovery

Take a traditional Holiday tour of Historic Tipp City. "Plaid Tidings" is the theme for the 10 homes decorated for Christmas in the West Broadway Boulevard neighborhood of Tipp City.

Trans-Siberian Orchestra The Ghosts of Christmas Eve Wright State University Nutter Center, 3640 Colonel Glenn Highway, Dayton, OH 4543 | (937) 775-3498 | http://www.nuttercenter.com

The story follows the journey of a young runaway who, on Christmas Eve, breaks into an abandoned vaudeville theater seeking shelter from the cold, and the ghostly visions she experiences from that concert hall’s past.

SUNDAY | 6

Doktor Kabooms Live Wire

Explore the fundamentals of electrical energy and the history of humanity’s adventures into its potential. Recommended grades 2-8.

Fellowship Family Skate @ Skateworld

A Christmas Carol at Victoria Theatre Victoria Theatre, 138 North Main St., Dayton, OH 45402 | (937) 228-7591 |www.victoriatheatre.com/ shows/a-christmas-carol/

The Nebraska Theatre Caravan brings us Charles Jones’ delightful adaptation of A CHRISTMAS CAROL brimming with traditional carols and memorable characters!

Dayton Liederkranz Turner, 1400 E. Fifth Street, Dayton, OH 45402 | 937-223-9013 |www.daytongermanclub.org

Holiday Concert at the National Museum of the Air Force

TUESDAY | 8

National Museum of the Air Force, 1100 Spaatz St., Wright-Patterson AFB, OH 45433 | 937-255-3286 |www.nationalmuseum.af.mil/Upcoming/PressRoom/ News/ArticleDisplay/tabid/466/Article/625900/ free-tickets-available-nov-4-for-holiday-concert-atmuseum.aspx

Animal Buddies

Activities will be designed to encourage empathy and respect for animals, and to encourage safe interactions with pets through engaging games, science, and art. Pre-registration online required. $6.

Homespun Christmas is a great opportunity to visit private homes, area businesses and select venues in Wilmington for handcrafted items and gifts.

K99.1 FM Country Bands Together with Little Big Town and Big & Rich featuring Parmalee, Maddie & Tae and Brothers Osborne. This concert benefits Dayton Children's Hospital.

We are dedicated to be the #1 fun spot for kids of all ages and we strive to provide you and your family with a clean, fun, friendly, and safe place to skate.

Aullwood Garden MetroPark, 955 Aullwood Road, Englewood, OH 45414 |www.metroparks.org/Parks/ AullwoodGarden/Home.aspx

Downtown Wilmington |www.clintoncountyohio.com

Christkindlmarkt at Dayton Liederkranz Turner

Skateworld of Kettering, 1601 E David Rd. , Kettering, OH 45429 | (937) 294-4032 |http://www.skateworldofkettering.com

SISCA, 2600 Wilmington Pike | http://www.sicsa.org/ animal-buddies

Homespun Christmas

Country Bands Together Concert

Visit the Christkindlmarkt at Dayton Liederkranz Turner for the annual celebration of the centuries old Christmas market tradition that originated in Nuremburg, Germany.

Aullwood Winter Luminary Walk

Welcome winter with a great evening walk through the luminary-lit paths of Aullwood Garden and then join us for a hot beverage and cookies at the house. We may even have a visit from Santa!

Feeling the need to release your creativity?

Drop in from 10 AM to 2 PM the Second Saturday of every month and chose to participate in a variety of art making activities! Each month includes a surprise option!

THURSDAY| 10

Santas Holiday in the Park at James Ranch James Ranch Park, 177 Fairground Road, Xenia, OH 45385 | 937-562-6440 | http://www.daytonlocal.com/ redirect.asp?id=6625&content=7540

Come join us at James Ranch in Xenia for this annual event the whole family can enjoy! Visit with Mr. and Mrs. Santa Claus. Admission is free, $1 Donation Per Person Appreciated. Live Reindeer Thursday-Saturday!

The U.S. Air Force Band of Flight will celebrate the holidays with a variety of new and classic holiday favorites at 7:30 p.m. on Saturday, Dec. 12 at the National Museum of the U.S. Air Force. Free admission but tickets required.

Miamisburg Community Holiday Event & Parade

Second Saturday Open Studio Dabble Creative Studio, 36 N Main Street, Germantown, OH 45327 | www.dabble-art.com

Annual South Dayton Dance Theatre: Nutcracker Dayton Convention Center, 22 East Fifth Street, Dayton, OH 45402 | 937.333.4700 | http://www.sddt.org

Sit back and let our dancers transport you to a magical world of life-sized soliders, dancing snowflakes and sugar plums.

TUESDAY | 15 Troy Night Market

The Troy REC, 11 N Market St, Troy, OH 45373 | (937) 216-0949 |www.facebook.com/Troy-Night-Market-495853657248880/timeline/?ref=hl

The Troy Night Market is a collaboration of local farmers market vendors who grow and produce ‘Local Foods” and food related items.

There will be samples and prizes.

WEDNESDAY | 16

Downtown Miamisburg | (937) 866-8999 |www. exploremiamisburg.com/community-holiday-eventparade/

The parade kicks off the event at 11:30 am.

Following the parade, visit an Elves workshop with games, crafts and entertainment in the Baum Opera House, have pictures taken with Santa, take carriage rides, and more!

Train Rides @ Carillon Park Railroad Carillon Park, 1000 Carillon Blvd, Dayton, OH 45409 | 937-293-2841 |www.railfestival.com

SATURDAY | 12

Wright State University Nutter Center, 3640 Colonel Glenn Highway, Dayton, OH 45435 | (937) 775-3498

Family Fun at the Carillon Historical Park Museum - take the kids for a train ride on their 1/8th scale railroad! Park admission required.

A Charlie Brown Christmas Blair Hall Theatre, 444 West Third Street, Dayton, OH 45402 |https://sinclair.brushfireapp.com/events

This classic holiday show is LIVE ON STAGE and back by popular demand due to last year’s sold out performances. Buy tickets online, $8 each!

At Dayton Parent, we work hard to ensure our calendar and guide information is accurate.

Occasionally event specifics change after we go to press. Therefore, we encourage our readers to call locations or visit them on the web to verify information.

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december events

Dayton's Got Talent

SUNDAY | 27

Dayton Funny Bone Comedy Club, 88 Plum Street, Beavercreek, OH 45440 | 937-429-5233 | https://www. facebook.com/DaytonsGotTalent/

Avengers: Age of Ultron

We will have a panel of judges that will weigh in on how they think each performer does but the voting will be up to you! Tickets are only $5 when you make reservations!

Jim Brickman Comfort & Joy Tour 2015 138 North Main St., Dayton, OH 45402 | (937) 228-7591 | www.victoriatheatre.com

Hailed by the Boston Herald as a "crowd-pleaser," Jim celebrates this one-of-a-kind concert event filled with lush instrumentals and soaring vocals. You’ll be reminded of what we cherish during the most wonderful time of the year. . .

Togetherness.

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Animal Advocates Camp SISCA Pet Adoption Center, 2600 Wilmington Pike, Kettering, OH 45419. | 937-294-6505 |www.sicsa.org/ animal-adventure-camp

Learn how you can help homeless animals during our most popular camp! Campers will do several service projects to help homeless pets. Ideal for ages 8-12.

Air Force Museum Theater, 1100 Spaatz Street, Dayton, OH 45324 | 937-253-4629 |www.afmuseum.com/ attractions/theatre/upcoming-events

The 2015 Hollywood Series at the Air Force Museum Theatre. When Tony Stark tries to jumpstart a dormant peacekeeping program, things go awry and it is up to the Avengers to stop the villainous Ultron from enacting his terrible plans.

ONGOING EVENTS: Woodland Lights 2015

December 4 - December 30 Countryside Park, 895 Miamisburg Centerville Rd, Washington Township, OH 45459 |www.facebook. com/WoodlandLights |

A Christmas Story: The Musical is the hilarious account of Ralphie’s desperate quest to ensure that this most perfect of gifts ends up under his tree this Christmas. Filled with nostalgia and quirky childhood innocence, this Ordway holiday production is a heartwarming event for the entire family.

Woodland Lights offers a fantasyland of holiday lights and displays along a half-mile wooded path. Revolving activities include Puppets

by Zoot Theatre Company, carriage rides, Kids Party in the Park, and entertainment by a variety of local arts groups.

Clifton Mill Christmas Lights 2015

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A Fairy Tale Christmas Carol the Musical

Wright State University Nutter Center, 3640 Colonel Glenn Highway, Dayton, OH 45435 | (937) 775-3498

December 4 - December 20

For over 20 years Clifton Mill has celebrated the Christmas season in a very special way. Our light display is one of the country's finest with over 3.5 million lights illuminating the mill, the gorge, the riverbanks, trees and bridges.

Harlem Globetrotters in Dayton Known as innovators of the game of basketball for decades, the world famous Harlem Globetrotters come to Wright State University's Nutter Center. Cost ranges from $27.50 to $106.50.

New Years Eve: Celebrate The Schuster Center, 1 W 2nd St, Dayton, OH 45402 | (937) 228-7591 |www.daytonperformingarts.org

All three members of the Dayton Performing Arts Alliance - the Ballet, Opera, and Philharmonic Orchestra - combine their abundant talents for an artistic celebration second-to-none.

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Town Hall Theatre, 27 N. Main Street, Centerville, OH 45459 |www.washingtontwp.org/recreation/theatre

A holiday classic gets a fairy tale twist in this new holiday musical featuring the Big Bad Wolf as Ebenezer Scrooge, Cinderella’s Prince Charming as his struggling down-on-his luck bookkeeper, and many more Disney characters!

A Christmas Story – A Musical November 4 - December 30 La Comedia Dinner Theatre, 765 W. Central Ave., Springboro, OH 45066 | (937) 746-4554 |www. lacomedia.com

Through Decemeber Clifton Mill, 75 Water St, Clifton, OH 45316 | 937-7675501| http://www.cliftonmill.com

Dayton Ballet – The Nutcracker December 11 - December 22 The Schuster Center, 1 W 2nd St, Dayton, OH 45402 | (937) 228-7591 |www.daytonperformingarts.org/balletperformance/nutcracker

Dayton's biggest and best holiday performance arts tradition... Dayton Ballet's beloved The Nutcracker. Join Dayton Ballet for their breath-taking production of The Nutcracker, the timeless story of little Clara and her adventures in the Land of Sweets.

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