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{holiday family stress} HANDLING THE MOMENTS OF THE SEASON THAT ARE LESS THAN Jolly

TO HELP YOUR PRESCHOOLER LOVE SCHOOL GETTING YOUR LITTLE LEARNER EXCITED ABOUT THIS NEW ADVENTURE

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Best Places to Ice Skate Around Indy

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TOP SHOPPING TIPS TO PLEASE KIDS AND PARENTS!

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GET INTO THE HOLIDAY SPIRIT AT CHRISTMAS AT THE ZOO

W O M E N ' S H E A LT H 12

PREGNANCY AFTER 35

C O M M E N TA R Y & PA R E N T I N G 18

RESEARCH TO REAL WORLD

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ASK THE TEACHER

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PRE SSED FOR PRE SE N T S? Try the gift of lessons, experiences and activities instead!

RESOURCES & CALENDARS 34

SPECIAL NEEDS CALENDAR

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SPECIAL NEEDS GUIDE

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EDUCATION & CHILDCARE GUIDE

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DAILY EVENTS

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ONGOING EVENTS

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SE V E N WAYS TO HELP YOUR PRE SCHOOLER LOV E SCHOOL

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FUN & WACKY CALENDAR

Getting your little learner excited about this new adventure

SPECIAL NEEDS

HOLIDAY FA M ILY ST RE SS Handling the moments of the season that are less than jolly

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SENSORY FRIENDLY HOLIDAY EVENTS

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All Wrapped Up!

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id the month of December sneak up on you like it did me?

Somewhere after Halloween, time seems to have sped up and unbelievably, we are wrapping up the year already. Of course this month is perhaps the busiest of all, with the holidays keeping families hopping from one festive activity or event to the next.

Is your holiday shopping wrapped up? Thinking of gift ideas for all the children on your list can be a challenge. (And how many kids really remember that “must have” toy they just had to get last year?) Instead of handing over another package, why not give a membership to a place they’ll love to visit again and again? Or tickets to a performance they’ll never forget? You might even inspire a new passion by giving lessons for art or music classes. Check out our article Pressed for Presents? for some ideas on finding a memorable gift that will be appreciated long into the new year. For more great gift-giving ideas, be sure to check out our 12 Days of Holiday Giveaways starting December 3rd!

WEB DEVELOPMENT // GRAPHICS Maria Tancredi | maria@indyschild.com

Shopping for presents is only one of the many items on your to-do list this December. Does the thought of squeezing in visits with relatives all over town or dealing with a Grinchy family member have you reaching for another Christmas cookie and glass of egg nog (maybe spiked?) This time of year can put a strain on even the jolliest among us – check out Holiday Family Stress for some expert tips on handling these moments in stride.

Finally, make sure you wrap up for all the fun wintertime activities available in our area! From Santa sightings and skating to holiday light displays and nature hikes, there’s so much to do this time of year. Get the scoop on all the happenings in our Community Spotlight and Daily Events Calendar.

As always, we thank you for picking up this issue of Indy’s Child. From our family to yours, we wish you the happiest of holiday seasons!

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Best Places to Ice Skate Around Indy A guide to where to lace up your skates!

Jeanine Bobenmoyer

On the Northside Fuel Tank at Fishers (317) 849-9930 indyfueltank.com/ Formerly the FORUM at Fishers.

All-week public skate times available: Mon-Thurs 12-2 pm, Fridays 12-2 pm and 7:30-9:30 pm, Saturday 1-3 pm and 7:30-9:30 pm, Sunday at 1-3 pm.

They also plan to offer peak vacation or school break skate times.

COMING SOON: The Rink at Hamilton Town Center (765) 623-4205 facebook.com/therinkhtc/ At the time of press, construction was underway for this new ice rink in Noblesville which will be adjacent to the Hamilton Town Center shopping mall. Stay tuned to their Facebook page for updates on skate times and rental fees.

In Central Indy Carmel Ice Skadium (317) 844-8888 carmeliceskadium.com Daily skate times available: MondaySaturday at 2 pm; Sundays at 1pm.

Cosmic skate open Friday-Saturday at 7:30 pm. Admission $7.25/pp during public skate ($6/pp for kids 10 and under); $9/pp for cosmic skate. Skate rental $3/pp. Group rates are available.

Coliseum at the Indiana State Fairgrounds (317) 927-7622 in.gov/statefair/fairgrounds/ 508.htm Daily skate times available: MondayFriday at 3 pm; Fridays at 7:30 pm; Saturdays at 2:30 pm and 7:30 pm; Sundays at 1 pm. Admission $6/pp {kids 3 and under free}. Skate rental $4/pp. NOTE: A $5 parking fee is enforced.

Arctic Zone Iceplex Westfield (317) 896-2155 thearcticzone.net Public skate times available: Monday and Friday at 2 pm; Wednesdays at 3 pm; Saturdays at 1:15 pm and Sundays at 1 pm. Cosmic skate open FridaySaturday at 7:30 pm. Admission $7.25/ pp during public skate {$6/pp for kids 10 and under}; $9/pp for cosmic skate.

Skate rental $3/pp. Group rates are available.

On the Southside Perry Park (317) 888-0070 facebook.com/IndyPerryPark Weekend public skate times available: Saturdays at 2 pm and 6 pm; Sundays at 3 pm. Perry Park also offers peak vacation or school break skate times.

Admission $6/pp {$5 ages 17 and under}. Skate rental $3/pp. Check their Facebook page for exact times – they do update frequently.

*Skate times are subject to change so phone ahead to confirm!

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spot l igh t Bre ak fa st w i t h Sa n ta… a nd t he Gr inch?

Move over Santa… the Grinch is back in town. And while Santa might be the perennial favorite, everyone’s favorite Christmas grump is playing host to his own holiday events this year at multiple places around town.

We’ve got the scoop for you over at IndysChild.com.

It ’s t i me for t he Gre ate st Show on E art h Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey Circus is arriving in Indianapolis once again with a show that is sure to delight kids and parents alike. If you need a break from all things holiday, it’s the perfect time to catch Circus XTREME – a show that combines traditional elements of the circus with never-before-seen spectacles, original fast-paced performances and incredibly hilarious moments. Ticketholders can also purchase an upgrade and go backstage with a VIP Behind the Scenes Tour of Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey.

Bankers Life Fieldhouse, downtown Indianapolis December 3-6 Check out more at: ringling.com/xtrememidwest/

Learn more at indyschild.com/ breakfast-with-grinch

W e ’ v e got t he sco op on all t he hol iday fun in Indy Like ALL of it. Where are the best holiday lights? What are the go-to spots for Santa sightings? Who has the best holiday happenings in the greater Indianapolis area?

Where are The Nutcracker performances being held this year? We’ve launched a HUGE section of holiday fun at IndysChild.com. Stay up to speed on returning holiday favorites and discover new places to make memories this season – we’ve got it all ready for you!

Hav e you e njoy ed a SymF UN y Sunday y et ?

The Indianapolis Symphony Orchestra (ISO) doesn’t just offer adultspecific programming. Their ongoing SymFUNy Sundays series beautifully captures the talent of the full orchestra in a shorter format perfect for families. Sunday, Dec. 6 features the IPL Yuletide Celebration that pairs the ISO with the magic of puppetry. More dates dot the 2016 calendar.

Hilbert Circle Theatre, downtown Indianapolis Sunday, December 6 at 2 pm Tickets available at www.indianapolissymphony.org

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C atch T he M agic Snowm a n show at T he Childre n ’s Museum If you haven’t seen a play at The Children’s Museum yet, it’s definitely time. Tickets are FREE (with paid Museum admission) for this seasonal show about a mysterious stranger who arrives in a village full of grumpy, gloomy and glum townspeople.

Part musical and part classic story, The Magic Snowman promises to be another delightful production. This show is suggested for ages 4+ and their families.

The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis Lilly Theater Located at 3000 N. Meridian St, Indianapolis Runs select days November 27-January 3 Visit childrensmuseum.org/visit/calendar/view/166 for more details.

New Ye ar’s E v e is up on us .

Here are some fa m ily-fr ie ndly ways to celebr ate .

New Year’s isn’t just for couples or the singles crowd anymore.

Indy is chock-full of family-friendly ways to celebrate. Try the Countdown To Noon at The Children’s Museum or a special Noon Year’s Eve Celebration with the Lawrence Branch Library. We’ve stockpiled a bunch of other options too at IndysChild.com.

Discover all the great family events for NYE at indyschild.com/new-years-eve.

T he P ol ar Be ar E x pre ss Join Santa and his friends on the Polar Bear Express!

It’s one of Indiana’s beloved holiday traditions for kids of all ages brought to you by the Indiana Transportation Museum. Journey to the North Pole on the Museum’s Nickel Plate Heritage Railroad. Visit with Santa and Mrs. Claus, enjoy a holiday story and treats along the way. Seats sell quickly! Purchase yours soon!

See website for schedule and ticket pricing.

Occurring select days through December 23rd Location: Fishers Train Station, 3 Municipal Drive http://itm.org/events/pbx/

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Pregnancy After 35 At 35, you can do just about anything you focus your time and energy on.

You can run a marathon, complete an advanced degree—or have a baby.

But, like those other tasks, you may find a few more obstacles in your way than when you were 25. Work and childcare responsibilities may take up a greater amount of your time. And your body, while quite capable of carrying out almost any task, may need a little more TLC to do so. If you’re contemplating pregnancy in your mid-30s or older, keep these factors in mind.

Balance. It can take longer to get pregnant after age 35 … and stress plays a role in as many as a third of infertility cases. So just as you would for any other important activity, make plenty of room in your work/family/life balance for this new endeavor. When you can, shift life stressors onto someone else, or put less important tasks on the back burner.

Consult. Well before you plan to conceive, make an appointment with your medical provider to ensure you’re in optimal health to become pregnant and carry a baby to term. Your provider can address issues such as family medical history, genetic concerns that may affect your baby, and possible outcomes of advanced maternal age. For instance, while you may be in slightly more danger of having a baby with chromosomal abnormalities, you are also somewhat more likely to have twins than a younger mother.

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Nurture. Even before you become pregnant, start to care for your body so you’ll be in the best shape possible to carry your baby. Regular exercise is important and may help protect you against some problems, including high blood pressure, that are more frequent in older expectant mothers. Also focus on fueling your body with nutritious foods, which can help you achieve a healthy prepregnancy weight and avoid complications such as gestational diabetes. You should start taking a prenatal vitamin with folic acid when you start planning a pregnancy.

Enjoy. If you’re a prospective mother in your 30s or older, you have a lot to offer your baby, including plenty of life wisdom. So take care of yourself, partner with excellent healthcare providers, and enjoy your new baby.

If you’re expecting, contact the St. Vincent Monogram Maternity program to learn how we can help you design the personalized birthing experience you want.

Visit MonogramMaternity.com to learn more or call 317.338.2229 to schedule your tour today.

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Top Shopping Tips to Please Kids and Parents!

Leslie Olsen and Cathy Southerland of The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis

“Toyland, Toyland, little girl and boy land. While you dwell within it, you are ever happy there,” or so says the famous holiday tune, but toy shopping might seem a little overwhelming for adults seeking quality and educational value as well as simple fun.

The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis may have made things easier by inviting a cadre of kids into The Children’s Museum Store to play with, test and vote for their favorites.

Who says learning can’t be fun?

Select a toy that either is active, or involves some interaction, or relates to something your child loves, and not only will the fun follow... but so will the learning.

For your shopping pleasure, the Top 10 are: • Crazy Bubbles Multiple shapes are featured that can help develop shape differentiation, dexterity, logic, scientific thinking and prisms.

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• Glow Pad Animator This light up LED glow pad promotes creativity, neon as a new vocabulary word, artistic expression, drawing and fine motor skills.

• SmartMax Magnetic Discovery This toy helps children understand magnetic attraction and repulsion.

• Doodle Track Car The car follows the twists and turns on a track you design with any black marker. It promotes imaginative play, fine motor skills, line tracking and creativity.

• RC Mini Racer This remotecontrolled racer is agile, has a long battery life and is known for its handling. It can be useful in developing eye-hand coordination in younger children.

• Robo Bug Build your own robot bug that crawls, climbs and chomps its pinchers. Fosters curiosity, scientific thinking and is a great introduction to robotics.

• Marble Maze This construction set inspires older kids to create a variety of marble runs. It helps them learn how to think through processes and test ideas (scientific thinking), spatial perception and problem solving.

These toys and thousands of others are available at The Children’s Museum Store. If you are searching for that last minute stocking stuffer, don’t forget the museum offers free admission on December 24th from 10 am -2 pm. Happy Holidays!

• Indoor Snowballs These soft snowballs allow lots of winter fun inside while developing hand-eye coordination and responsive socialization.

• Spiral Ball Use the springloaded shooter to fire marbles at a target to score points in another game to help promote hand-eye coordination.

• Bristle Block Soft to the touch and easy to connect, these unique building blocks are ready to transform into any structure your child can dream up. This toy can help teach principles of construction, tactile experience with soft bristles and fine motor skills.

[PHOTO CREDIT] The Children's Museum of Indianapolis

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Get into the Holiday Spirit at Christmas at the Zoo Guests can gaze at twinkling lights and visit their favorite animals while walking through a winter wonderland at the Indianapolis Zoo. Christmas at the Zoo presented by Donatos and Teachers Credit Union offers the best of the holiday season with a unique Zoo twist.

The Indianapolis Zoo started this beloved tradition in 1967, becoming the first zoo in the United States to host a holiday lights event. Now in its 47th year, visitors can experience the magic of Christmas at the Zoo from 5-9 pm Wednesdays through Sundays, Nov. 27-Jan. 3, plus Dec. 21, 22, 28 and 29. The Zoo will be closed on Christmas Eve and Day, New Year’s Eve and Day. The Zoo opens daily at noon, and guests are encouraged to come early to visit with some coldweather critters, including tigers, polar bear, sea lions, red panda, brown bears, walrus and more. All of the Zoo’s indoor exhibits will be open for visitors as well. Some of the animals also get into the Christmas spirit with dolphin presentations and special animal keeper chats.

As the sun sets, the Zoo will transform with beautiful holiday lights and animal displays, including We Three Trees presented by Central Indiana Honda Dealers and the All-A-Glow Light Show presented by UnitedHealthcare. As visitors stroll through the Zoo, they can sing along with traditional carolers and warm up near one of the campfires.

Inside White River Gardens, families can stop by Santa’s Workshop presented by Chickfil-A where the little ones can decorate cookies with Mrs. Claus, write letters to Santa and visit with St. Nicholas himself leading up to Christmas day. After Christmas, find plenty more crafts and activities still inside White River Gardens.

Christmas at the Zoo is free for members and included with regular Zoo admission. Discount tickets are available at participating Donatos and Teachers Credit Union locations.

Guests can also save money by purchasing advance tickets online at IndianapolisZoo.com.

[PHOTO CREDIT] The Indianapolis Zoo

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C O M M E N TA R Y & PA R E N T I N G

Research to Real World: The Link Between Play and Language Tonya Bergeson-Dana, PhD

The distinction between adultcontrolled play and guided play (child-led play that is scaffolded or extended by an adult) is an important one because it plays a role in early language development. Recent studies are beginning to show that young children learn new words and concepts best in guided play conditions as opposed to free play or even adult-controlled play conditions.

Deena Weisberg and her colleagues propose that play, and guided play in particular, are linked to early language development in four ways.

Christmas, Hanukkah and Kwanzaa are upon us, which means it’s open season on gift-giving. If you have young children, that likely means toys, toys and even more toys. And inevitably, after the initial giddiness of a new gift wears off, your little one is playing more often with the box than the toy itself. After a few weeks, no matter how many times you bounce that new mechanical dinosaur or sing-along Elsa doll in front of your little kiddo and say “Look at how the dino’s mouth is moving! Listen to Elsa’s rendition of In Summer!” your child just walks away and finds another piece of cardboard or one of the pots that’s been stashed in your kitchen cabinet since before she was born to play with. It’s as though she’s not even listening to you anymore.

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When adults lead play, the activities present themselves as work to children, despite how playful these activities might be.

What you’ve just experienced is one of the weaknesses of adultcontrolled play. In a recent review article in the American Journal of Play, researchers from the University of Pennsylvania, Penn State University, Temple University and University of Delaware suggest, “when the adults are in control, the activities resemble work dressed up in play clothes.” In other words, when adults lead play, the activities present themselves as work to children, despite how playful these activities might be.

• First, in many play scenarios, children learn the kind of symbolic thinking (e.g., pretending a cup is a hat) that underlies language (e.g., the sounds “d” – “ah” – “g” together refer to that furry, fourlegged animal your child always sees in the park).

• Second, many play contexts involve social interaction, negotiating roles and coordinating actions that leads to more complex language forms than children would use in non-play contexts (e.g., “I’m going to be a bunny and you can be the bunny’s mommy. We’re going to hop-hop-hop to the garden.”).

• Third, children use more language when playing with peers and grown-ups during play than non-play situations.

Kids are motivated to talk while playing!

• Fourth, children are more engaged and focused when they lead the play than when adults control play, ultimately resulting in better learning of new words and sentence structures.

What does this mean for you when you’re still holding techno-dino or sing-along Elsa and your child has run off to hide in the giant cardboard box that’s still sitting in your living room weeks after gift-opening? To create a teachable moment with maximum benefit for your child, put down the dino and the doll and follow your child over to the box (or pot or cup). When your child is looking at or touching a particular object, talk about that object. If your child looks up at you, ask them an open-ended question about the object they were just examining. If you’re still reeling from the price of techno-dino and sing-along Elsa, keep them in the vicinity and, if you’re lucky, your child will pick them up again. At that point you can mention the dino’s incredibly sharp teeth or Elsa’s superb singing voice. Not only will you get your money’s worth, but your child might also learn something in the process!

Cognitive psychologist Tonya Bergeson-Dana combines her real world experience as a mother with her professional training as a researcher to provide parents with a practical way to apply the most current findings in childhood development research to their everyday life. Tonya is also a co-founder of The Urban Chalkboard playcafe, and welcome questions and feedback from readers at experiencematters@ theurbanchalkboard.com.

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Lauren Lawson

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ow many kids actually remember the “must have” toy they got last year? Think outside the proverbial (gift) box this holiday season and place a more memorable present underneath the tree. Try giving the gift of a novel experience, lessons to learn something new or a memorable activity to share. Here are nine ideas that will have the children on your shopping list appreciating your special gift all year long.

Swim Lessons at the IUPUI Natatorium Swimming doesn’t have to be synonymous with summer. Make splish-splashing a winter activity by purchasing swim lessons at the IUPUI Natatorium this season.

Classes are offered for infants and toddlers, preschoolers and children ages 5 years and older. A great gift for novice swimmers, lessons are designed to teach skills for independent swimming, underwater safety, floating and introductory freestyle strokes. Older children will work on more competitive strokes too. To find a class, check out www. iunat.iupui.edu.

IUPUI Music IUPUI Music offers music classes for children ages 3-6 using the Harmony Road Program. This curriculum is an exciting comprehensive music program designed to help children discover the world of music through motivating materials and “hands on” activities: hearing, feeling, moving, singing, creating, sharing, reading, and playing percussion and keyboard instruments. This early background is most important for success in all future musical endeavors. For more info, visit http://music.iupui.edu.

Indianapolis Museum of Art Open the door to the world of art appreciation and gift a membership to the spectacular Indianapolis Museum of Art. World-renowned

collections and exhibits, as well as special classes for kids and families, truly make IMA a magical experience. Become a member and enjoy perks that include free general admission, access to educational programs and discounts in the Museum store. Art awaits at www.Imamuseum.org.

Art & Music Lessons at Gymboree Play & Music Play as a family this winter and purchase classes to Gymboree Play & Music. These sessions, which include Family Music, School Skills and Gymboree Play & Learn, provide an active learning environment that inspires imaginative play. Classes are designed with young learners in mind, helping them develop their physical, cognitive and social skills too. To become a member, visit www.Gymboreeclasses.com.

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Indianapolis Zoo

Conner Prairie

Unwrap adventure this holiday season with a family membership to the Indianapolis Zoo. Check out the wild exhibits and walk the stunning White River Gardens.

Open year-round, a membership to the zoo provides endless hours of wild fun with benefits that include free admission and parking during regular hours, as well as use of the exclusive members-only entry gate. Register online at www.

Indianapoliszoo.com.

Nothing builds excitement more than the planning of a minivacation. And Conner Prairie, Indiana’s only Smithsonian affiliate, is the perfect travel gift to bestow on the family this holiday season.

Explore all the areas of this historical site, including the 1836 Prairietown, the 1863 Civil War Journey, the Nature Walk, Craft Corner and more. Spend the day re-living history, while also dabbling in great food, shopping and interactive fun. Open yearround, visit www.Connerprairie. org to find out more.

Indiana Repertory Theatre For the passionate thespian, tickets to a theatre production are the ultimate, uber-exciting stocking stuffer. The Indiana Repertory Theatre offers a variety of fantastic productions for their 2015-2016 season. Kids hoping to jump behind the curtain will love the acting classes offered at IRT too.

To reserve tickets or register for a class, visit www.Irtlive.com.

The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis For the mini explorer, a membership pass to The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis is just the place to learn and play! With so many exhibits to discover, from Dinosphere to the Playscape, Science Works and more, kids will love uncovering the multitude of interactive dimensions and hands-on activities. A membership to the museum includes free admission for a full year, unlimited carousel rides and members-only hours. Learn more at www.

Childrensmuseum.org.

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Music Lessons at Meridian Music School Drop a beat this holiday season and make music a yearlong treat with lessons at the Meridian Music School. From piano to banjo, electric guitar and more, Meridian offers instruction for most musical instruments. Both private and group lessons are available for children starting at 18 months and older. Hit a high note and register today at www.Meridian musicschool.com.

Skip the crowded shopping centers and sweat-inducing cyber sales to wrap up a different kind of gift this year. Live in the present this holiday season (no pun intended) and give a memory that will last all year.

Happy Holidays!

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holiday family stress Handling the moments of the season t h at a r e l e s s t h a n j o l ly

Maggie Loiselle

Maybe it’s Facebook’s fault, with its constant feed of friends’ seemingly perfect family moments.

Or Pinterest is to blame, giving us an impossible holiday standard to achieve. But somewhere between orchestrating elaborate Elf on the Shelf hijinks and planning an entire Christmas feast, we often underestimate just how downright stressful this time of year can be.

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With parents off work, kids on winter break, relatives to visit and countless things to wrap, cook and clean in preparation, it’s no wonder the “magic” of the holiday season often doesn’t live up to our snow-draped, candle-lit expectations.

“Many people have visions of a Currier and Ives-type of holiday, when in all actuality, many of us can relate to Clark Griswold in Christmas Vacation,” laughs Melissa Porter, a licensed marriage and family therapist associate who practices in Broad Ripple.

The rapid pace of the holiday season can magnify normal everyday stress, and disagreements over how your family should spend its time and money can easily put a damper on the festivities. That’s why Dr. Maria Hanzlik, a clinical psychologist on Indy’s north side, advises couples to sit down together before the holidays to talk about expectations, budgets and potential pitfalls. “It’s important that you’re operating together as a team and really understand what your limits are as individuals, as a couple and as a family,” she says. “That way, when it gets hectic, you can always go back to the message of, ‘This is what we need, and this is what’s going to keep us sane for the holidays.’”

Worried about butting heads with your mother-in-law or dealing with an outspoken uncle? Even though we love them, spending time with relatives can send our blood pressure skyrocketing. Here we’ve asked our experts to share some tips for handling some common stressful scenarios this holiday season.

STRESSFUL MOMENT #1 Every year, your mother-inlaw expects your family to travel several hours to her house on Christmas Eve and wake up to open presents in her home. You have accommodated her wishes for the past four years, but your children are growing up fast, and you would really like to have a Christmas morning spent in your own home. This is a conversation you have been dreading with her because you know it won’t go over well. {Hanzlik} It’s important to talk to your partner ahead of time to make sure you’re both in agreement.

Then, when you talk to your mother-in-law, validate what her potential feelings might be while adding what you plan on doing.

You could start out by saying, “I know this might be disappointing because I know Christmas morning is special to you, and I wanted to let you know that we would like to spend Christmas morning in our own home. I hope we can come up with a compromise to still spend time together this holiday.” People tend to try to meet everyone else’s needs but often forget their own needs.

{Porter} Setting and adhering to boundaries can be difficult, and when it comes to our families, it can be an even greater challenge because we don't want to hurt those we love. Oftentimes situations such as this come about as a result of a desire to create lasting family traditions. A good approach to this situation might be to come up with a mutually agreed upon alternative that would create a new family tradition with the in-laws. By doing this, the in-laws feel valued without you having to compromise your own family traditions.

STRESSFUL MOMENT #2 You've recently learned that your son is allergic to gluten and nuts and have expressed these dietary restrictions to your mom and dad who are hosting the holiday dinner. As you all sit down to eat and you carefully select appropriate dishes for your son, your dad makes a loud proclamation that food allergies in kids these days is overblown hype.

Everyone appears uncomfortable and they look at you to see how you will respond. {Hanzlik} In the moment, you might try recognizing and relating to their opinion while still offering your own. You could say, “I understand how it could feel like food allergies are being overblown nowadays. I’m just glad we have more information now about how food can affect kids.” Remind yourself that other’s opinions are not fact. What dad said likely isn’t an attack against you, although it may feel that way. It’s just his

perspective. This situation can be a nice way to model for your kids that it’s okay to have differences of opinions. {Porter} In this case, you could choose to not respond to the comment. However, if a response is necessary, then it is best to acknowledge your dad's opinion and then explain your son's individual allergy and the reaction to those foods. It may not change your dad's mind, but it will show your son that you take the food allergy seriously.

STRESSFUL MOMENT #3 A relative gives a present to your child that you don’t approve of (think violent video games for your son or makeup for your 10 year-old daughter). To complicate things, your child loves the present. {Hanzlik} If you have an inkling that you have a relative who might do this, you can have a discussion with your kids ahead of present exchange time to talk about family rules and values. Remind them that they might get a present that isn’t in line with your family rules, but that they can say “thank you” anyway. You might say, “I get it. It seems unfair that you won’t be able to keep the present,” and then try to reach a compromise, like returning it to the store for a more appropriate gift. {Porter} If you have a close relationship with the relative, you are likely able to be a bit more direct explaining that, while you appreciate the thought, the gift is

not one that you feel comfortable allowing your child to have at this time. However, if the relationship is more distant, you might just want to say “thank you” and then explain to your children later why the gift is not appropriate. Open dialogue with your children regularly about what you find to be acceptable versus unacceptable will help when faced with these situations.

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At a family get-together, an uncle loudly starts to voice his political or religious views, which are very different from the values promoted in your family. Your kids are listening with rapt attention, looking like they expect you to say something in response. {Hanzlik} How you choose to deal with a situation like this really depends on your personality. If you’re extroverted and comfortable being more outspoken, you might try to respond with interest while still expressing where you stand on the issue. You can model for your children how to have a calm response in a conversation with others who have a difference of opinion. If you don’t feel comfortable voicing those opinions, you may choose not to say anything in the moment, but then on the way home, you could bring it up with your kids. You could say, “I know you heard what uncle so-and-so had to say. What did you think of that? What would you have done?” It’s an opportunity to have your kids think critically about the situation.

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{Porter} This is an excellent opportunity to model in front of your kids open-mindedness and respect, because they will be faced with this sort of conflict of beliefs time and time again. In this case, you could choose to not respond. However, if you decide to respond to your uncle, it is best to remain neutral and acknowledge his right to have differing views. I would encourage a parent to later process the situation with their kids to discuss how we are all unique individuals with views that don't always align, but we can still have love and compassion for those different from us.

STRESSFUL MOMENT #5 Your family has discussed a dollar limit for exchanging gifts. You really need to follow this guideline, but your sister keeps going way overboard on what she buys for your family, making you feel bad for sticking to your budget. {Hanzlik} Try speaking to your sister privately to tell her your feelings about this situation, and try to understand what prompted her to go over the limit. Maybe it was innocent and she was just excited about the gift exchange.

Do your best to stay calm and set the boundary about what your family’s needs are. If, on the other hand, this is a repeat offense, it may be time to consider sidestepping the gift exchange tradition.

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{Porter} In situations such as these, it is easy to feel bad, but it is important to remember that you cannot control what others spend or give. You could handle this situation in several ways, but I would suggest first having an honest conversation with your sister about the reasons the dollar limit was set and then how it makes you feel when that boundary is not respected. If that does not change things, then perhaps consider that even though a boundary has been set, your sister is getting joy out of the gifts she is giving.

Although spending time with family can be a highlight of the holidays, it can also have its share of uncomfortable situations and unintended hurt feelings.

Try to stay focused on the positive moments of the season that make it special for your family and do your best to keep the unpleasant ones from turning you into a Grinch. New Year’s is just around the corner, which might be the perfect time to make a few resolutions about how to handle next year’s holiday!

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SENSORY FRIENDLY

HOLIDAY EVENTS

Making the season fun for children with sensory sensitivities Bright lights. Loud music.

Lots of crowds. The hustle and

bustle of the holiday season can be overwhelming for kids with sensory sensitivities, including many on the autism spectrum. Fortunately our area has many events available with these kids in mind. Here are some of our favorite sensory-friendly holiday activities:

Visit with Santa Simon Malls’ Caring Santa events offer a subdued alternative to the typical mall meet-and-greet with Mr. Claus. Held before the malls open, lights are dimmed and music is turned off. Three area malls will host the events on Sunday, Dec. 6. Families can register for free, time-specific tickets at the websites below: Hamilton Town Center from 9:30-11 am www.eventbrite.com/e/caring-santa- tickets-19082711905

Castleton Square Mall from 9-10:30 am

Greenwood Park Mall from 9-10:30 am

Trains, trains, trains!

For a low-key model train experience, visit Conservatory Crossing at the Garfield Park Conservatory. In this smaller display, the trains pass through a detailed village set up right at kid level. Find details at www.garfield gardensconservatory.org.

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At Jolly Days, Sundays at 10 am are also calmer for kids to “skate” on an indoor “pond,” climb and slide down Snow Castle and barrel down the Yule Slide. The area on the mezzanine by the sunburst window is a quiet space if families need a break.

Also check out the museum’s new sensory maps, available at the Concierge Desk on Level 1 and online here at www.childrensmuseum.org/visit/ accessibility/sensory-maps.

Get outside Both Christmas at the Zoo and Outdoor Holiday Adventure at Conner Prairie Interactive History Park give kids plenty of space to run while families explore at their own pace.

Conner Prairie is calmest in the mornings as soon as the park opens, and families can access quiet spaces in the Conner Annex, the Necessary in Prairietown and the First Aid room in the Welcome Center, where sensory kits include a weighted blanket, sensory toys, lotion and books. To learn more visit www.connerprairie.org and www. indianapoliszoo.com.

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The Eiteljorg Museum’s Jingle Rails: The Great Western Adventure will be even bigger this year, as seven model trains traverse nearly 1,200 feet of track past miniature local landmarks and national treasures. There’s a lot going on, but the room is dark and it’s quiet during non-peak hours. For more info at www.eiteljorg.org.

Families of kids with sensory sensitivities headed to Celebration Crossing at the Indiana State Museum and Jolly Days Winter Wonderland at The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis would be wise to visit later on a weekday (after school groups have left) and early in the season for the calmest experience, reps for the museums say.

The model train displays, ride-on Santa Claus Express and open-concept playscape of Celebration Crossing get busier as Christmas nears (and showings of Star Wars: The Force Awakens at the IMAX will also bring more crowds after Dec. 17), so plan ahead. Find details at: www.indianamuseum.org.

Head to the movies A family trip to the movies can be a fun holiday treat, and several area theaters feature special showings for those with sensory sensitivities.

AMC Theaters just expanded its Sensory Friendly Films series to four showings a month, which now include movies for older kids, too.

Castleton Square 14 and Indianapolis 17 will show The Hunger Games: Mockingjay, Part 2 on Dec. 8 at 10 am; The Good Dinosaur on Dec. 12 at 10 a.m.; and Star Wars: The Force Awakens on Dec. 22 at 7 pm and Dec. 26 at 10 am.

Noblesville’s Hamilton 16 + IMAX runs Lights Up, Sound Down movies once a month on Saturday mornings, and will show The Good Dinosaur on Dec. 5 at 10 am. Families of children with special needs can RSVP with sponsor WestPoint Financial Group to get free tickets here: www.westpoint financialgroup.com. Studio Movie Grill on Indy’s northwest side also hosts Special Needs Screenings once a month on Saturday mornings, and will show The Good Dinosaur on Dec. 5 at 11 am.

Want more sensory-friendly events?

Check out more ideas on our Special Needs Calendar!

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MAKING A DIFFERENCE Mitch Bonar unites kids of all abilities through sports Maggie Loiselle

“Sport has the power to change the world,” Nelson Mandela once said. It’s one of Mitch Bonar’s favorite quotes – a saying the 19 year-old Noblesville High School graduate lives by every day.

When you graduated this spring, you were handpicked to deliver a surprise address to the student body. Were you nervous?

Mitch: When I looked up and saw everyone out there, I was nervous. But then I was like, “Nah, I got this.”

Born with cerebral palsy and mildly on the autism spectrum, Mitch always loved sports but had difficulty fitting in on the field. Bullied at school, he found refuge in video games and became withdrawn until a chance encounter with Special Olympics set him on a new path.

Kelly: We never in a million years would have dreamed that he would stand in front of his class of 750 students and give a speech. That’s after 18 years of speech therapy!

Mitch, his mom Kelly, and sister Tori, 16, share his inspiring story:

Mitch: And then (Special Olympics Chairman) Tim Shriver tweeted that it was the best graduation speech of the year, so that was really cool!

How did you first get involved with Special Olympics?

Kelly: When Mitch was in sixth grade, a family at church asked if we’d ever tried Special Olympics and we were like, “Oh no. He can run and play with these guys, he doesn’t need Special Olympics.”

But we went to a practice, and truly and honestly, I introduced him, watched for ten minutes and had to go to the car and cry! He finally fit in.

Mitch: I remember it was fun. Some of those kids, we’ve stayed friends and we still play sports together. It’s more than just sports. It’s a giant family.

On top of your Special Olympics sports, you’ve helped spearhead Unified Track & Field at Noblesville High School, an inclusive sports partnership between Special Olympics Indiana and the IHSAA (Indiana High School Athletic Association). What’s that experience been like?

Mitch: Unified sports are made up of half students with disabilities and half students without.

What we usually do in Noblesville is use our off-season athletes, so they have a chance to do a spring sport. It’s like opposites collide.

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What’s next for you?

Kelly: I remember people saying, “This isn’t going to work. You’re going to have the football players sitting together, and you’re going to have the kids with special needs sitting together.” But it worked! There was a ton of respect, and that’s the goal – to get more compassionate human beings out of all of this.

You’ve found that sports can be a great unifier within a school and even between rivals, right?

Mitch: Yes, Carmel High School and Noblesville are really big rivals, but after our first season together of Unified, it’s not a hateful relationship anymore. It’s changed how the athletes interact.

We’re more like brother and sister schools now.

Tori: I run Unified Track with Mitch, and I think it’s made everyone realize that you can be friends with whoever, because everyone has things in common.

I feel like without Special Olympics, I wouldn’t be as close to Mitch as I am.

Mitch: I want to continue making a difference for the state of Indiana and for Noblesville, the community that I love. I’m just 19 years old, and I already feel like I’ve made an impact. It’s just the beginning of a long way!

Mitch is taking part in Noblesville Schools’ Project Work, a transitional school-to-work program for students with special needs. He also visits schools across Indiana to promote Unified Sports, and he attends events and trainings across the country with Special Olympics.

Mitch wants to become the first Unified Sports coach with special needs.

Want to learn more?

National Special Olympics page on Unified Sports www.specialolympics.org/unifiedsports.aspx IHSAA page on Unified Track & Field: www.ihsaa.org/Sports/UnifiedTrack% C2%AEField/tabid/1698/Default. aspx#34411831-introduction See Mitch’s graduation address at www.youtube.com/watch?v= UtOtto0HRlg

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DECEMBER SPECIAL NEEDS EVENTS

SPECIAL NEEDS CALENDAR

Special Needs Movie Screening “The Good Dinosaur” Location: Studio Movie Grill, Indianapolis, Time: 11am, https://www.studiomoviegrill.com/Movies.aspx Family friendly movies are free for children with special needs and their siblings, with adult tickets available for before-noon price. The movies are shown with the lights up and the volume lowered, and children are free to move around, talk or even dance in the aisles during the movie.

W E DS 02 Joseph Maley Foundation Adaptive Yoga Location: Joseph Maley Enrichment Center, Indianapolis, Time: 6-6:45pm, http://www.josephmaley.org/ programs/joseph-maley-fitness/ This four-class series is geared toward children 4 and up of all abilities. YogaKids-certified instructor Connie Young will lead each child-centered class specifically planned around a theme with a corresponding children’s book.

Children will benefit from this non-competitive activity that encourages positive self-esteem, while increasing strength, balance and focus. Classes continue on Dec. 5th from 10-10:45 a.m.; Dec. 9 from 6-6:45 p.m.; and Dec. 12 from 10-10:45 a.m.

SUN 0 6 #IncludeU Film Festival Location: Westin Indianapolis, downtown Indianapolis, http://indianadisabilityawareness.org/conference/ film-festival/ Coinciding with the Conference for People with Disabilities, the inaugural film festival is part of the ReelAbilities national festival series and features films that promote awareness and appreciation of the lives, stories and artistic expressions of people with disabilities. Also runs Monday, 12/7.

Nutcracker Short And Suite

F R I 04 The Arc Of Indiana Appreciation Luncheon & Annual Meeting Location: Ritz Charles, Carmel, Time: 10:15am, www.arcind.org/event/the-arc-of-indianaappreciation-luncheon-annual-meeting Keynote speaker Randy Lewis, a businessman and author of “No Greatness without Goodness,” bet his career that he could create an inclusive workplace at one of America’s biggest corporations — Walgreens — where people with disabilities could not just succeed, but thrive. “No Greatness without Goodness” is the powerful story of a corporate executive who, after watching the world through the eyes of his own child with autism, realized that we all have a greater responsibility to make the world a better place for everyone, including those with disabilities.

S AT 05 Lights Up, Sound Down “The Good Dinosaur” Location: Hamilton 16 IMAX, Noblesville, Time: 10am, http://www.goodrichqualitytheaters.com/programs/ lights-up-sound-down/ Goodrich Quality Theaters is proud to present Lights Up, Sound Down (LUSD), a monthly program open to everyone, but specifically giving families & children with Autism and sensory issues the opportunity to enjoy their favorite movies in a comfortable, sensory – friendly setting with the lights turned up and volume turned down in the auditorium. RSVP for FREE tickets to attend. This program is sponsored by WestPoint Financial.

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Location: Monon Community Center, Carmel, Time: 2-3pm, www.villagedancestudio.com Everyone should experience the joy of The Nutcracker!

This performance is designed for both the general public and children and families with disabilities. The house lights will be raised, music will be lowered and there will be plenty of space for the audience to move and dance. The Nutcracker: Short and “Suite” is an artistic partnership between Village Dance Studio and Carmel Clay Parks and Recreation Adaptive Program. Come and enjoy this holiday classic! Tickets are $5 for children and $10 for adults.

MON 07 – T U E S 08 Indiana Governor’s Conference For People With Disabilities Location: Westin Indianapolis, downtown Indianapolis, http://indianadisabilityawareness.org/conference/ With the theme, ADA at 25: Moving Forward, Looking Back, this year’s conference creates a forum for attendees to continue the work of the disability rights movement, explore innovative ways to influence positive change, share experiences and learn from one another.

T H U R S 10 Joseph Maley Foundation IEP Session Focusing On Extended School Year Location: Joseph Maley Enrichment Center, Indianapolis , Time: 6-7:15pm, http://www.josephmaley.org/ Does your child have an Individualized Education Plan (IEP)? Are you interested in learning about Extended School Year (ESY) options for your child for next summer?

It’s not too early to get started. Join the Joseph Maley Foundation’s panel of legal and education experts to learn about ESY, qualifications, benefits and how to gather data to support a request for this service. Free event. Please RSVP to Allison Boyll, director of programs, at 317-3135322 or aboyll@josephmaley.org.

W E D 16 Autism Family Resource Center Parents’ Support Group Location: Easter Seals Crossroads, Indianapolis, Time: 5:30-7pm, http://www.eastersealscrossroads.org/ parents-support-group The Parents’ Support Group for parents of children with autism meets monthly at the Autism Family Resource Center at Easter Seals Crossroads.Their goal is to provide support and information to families living with autism. If you are a parent or caregiver of a child with autism, you are invited to join us to share your thoughts and ideas and learn from others.

THURS 24 Lights Up, Sound Down Christmas Eve Service Location: White River Christian Church, Noblesville, Time: 3:30-4:30pm, www.wrcc.org The Lights Up, Sound Down Christmas Eve Service gives families who have a child or adult with special needs or sensory issues a place to celebrate together. This is done in a comfortable, sensory-friendly environment, which includes the lights being up and the sound of worship turned down, along with multiple fidgets, sensory toys and activities to do to keep the child or adult engaged and occupied during the service.

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SPECIAL NEEDS RESOURCES

SPECIAL NEEDS GUIDE ABA Autism Services by Damar ABA provides proven research-based treatments and interventions for children with Autism and their families, ensuring that children learn, gain confidence and purpose, and engage in meaningful interactions in their everyday lives. 9905 Fall Creek Road, Indianapolis, IN 46256, Contact: Kristin Dovenmuehle, Director, Phone: 317-8134690, Email: info@damar.org, www.DamarABA.org

Applied Behavior Center for Autism Carmel CENTER ABC for Autism is proud to be Indiana's largest and longest running ABA therapy provider. With 7 locations throughout the state, we offer high quality one-on-one ABA and verbal behavior consulting and therapy. Our new Carmel center is also home to our state-of-the-art indoor, therapeutic pool.

This is home to our special needs swim lessons and free open swim days. 1341 Old Merdian St, Carmel, IN 46032 , Contact: Sheiletha Quinn, Phone: 317-573-KIDS, Email: Sheiletha@appliedbehaviorcenter.org, www.applied behaviorcenter.org, www.facebook.com/autismhope

Applied Behavior Center for Autism Early Childhood Center ABC for Autism is proud to be Indiana's largest and longest running ABA therapy provider. With 7 locations throughout the state, we offer high quality one-on-one ABA and verbal behavior consulting and therapy. Our Early Childhood Center (ECC) is a highly specialized center in which clients ages 2-6 grow and develop through individualized programming, typical peer interaction, and early intervention ABA therapy. 7857 E. 88th St, Indianapolis, IN 46256, Contact: Sheiletha Quinn, Phone: 317-849-KIDS, Email: Sheiletha@appliedbehaviorcenter.org, www.appliedb ehaviorcenter.org, www.facebook.com/autismhope

Applied Behavior Center for Autism Greenwood CENTER ABC for Autism is proud to be Indiana's largest and longest running ABA therapy provider. With 7 locations throughout the state, we offer high quality one-on-one ABA and verbal behavior consulting and therapy. Our beautiful Greenwood facility offers individualized one-on-one therapy programs for children and teens ages 2 and older. 374 Meridian Parke Lane, Greenwood, IN 46142, Contact: Sheiletha Quinn, Phone: 317-889-KIDS, Email: Sheiletha@applied behaviorcenter.org, www.applied behaviorcenter.org, www.facebook.com/autismhope

Applied Behavior Center for Autism IndIANAPOLIS North CENTER ABC for Autism is proud to be Indiana's largest and longest running ABA therapy provider. With 7 locations throughout the state, we offer high quality one-on-one ABA and verbal behavior consulting and therapy. Indy North is our corporate office which also offers individualized one-on-one therapy programs for children and teens ages 2 and older. 7901 E. 88th St, Indianapolis, IN 46256, Contact: Sheiletha Quinn, Phone: 317-849KIDS, Email: Sheiletha@applied behaviorcenter.org, www.appliedbehavior center.org, www.facebook. com/autismhope

Easter Seals Crossroads

Offering comprehensive disability services for people of all ages. Early Intervention, Autism Services, PT, OT, Speech Therapy, Feeding/Swallowing issues, Augmentative Communication, Assistive Technology, Multi-sensory Therapy Rooms, Summer Camps, Life/Social Skills Groups, Deaf Community Services, Autism Family Resource Center, 4740 Kingsway Drive, Indianapolis, IN 46205, Phone: 317-466-1000, Email: info@ eastersealscrossroads.org, http://www. eastersealscrossroads.org

HEAR INDIANA Applied Behavior Center for Autism IndIANAPOLIS West CENTER ABC for Autism is proud to be Indiana's largest and longest running ABA therapy provider. With 7 locations throughout the state, we offer high quality one-on-one ABA and verbal behavior consulting and therapy. Our Indy West center is proud to offer individualized one-on-one therapy programs for children and teens ages 2 and older.

6865 Parkdale Place, Indianapolis, IN 46254, Contact: Sheiletha Quinn, Phone: 317-849-KIDS, Email: Sheiletha@ appliedbehaviorcenter.org, www.applied behaviorcenter.org, www.facebook.com/autismhope

Autism Parent Care, LLC Offering one to one intervention to children and adults with autism. Academic subjects and ABA included.

Insurance Billable. 395 S 9th St Noblesville, Phone: 317-503-1296

For over 40 years, Hear Indiana has helped deaf and hard of hearing children achieve their full potential. Our mission is to empower children with hearing loss who communicate through listening and spoken language, and to support their families on this journey​. Hear Indiana offers a full range of diagnostic audiology services to evaluate hearing status from newborns to teenagers. ​​We also have speech-language patholog​ists who specialize in teaching children with hearing loss​to listen and speak through the use of amplification and/or cochlear implant.

Hear more at HearIndiana.org, 317-828-0211, info@ SHRCindiana.org. We accept most major insurance​plans​ as well as Medicaid.

Maria Montessori International Academy

Want a unique way to educate your child? Try MEBA! Montessori Education with Behavioral Analysis (MEBA) all in One! Half days or full time for working families.

Practical Life skills, OT, PT and Speech Therapy.

Zionsville, Carmel and Indianapolis locations, Contact: Vivian Cain, Phone: 317-769-2220, mariamontessori-intl.org

BEHAVIORWORKS ABA We work with you! BehaviorWorks provides Early Intervention for Autism and Indiana Medicaid Waiver Behavior Support Services. BehaviorWorks is a team you can grow with. We use the evidence-based strategies of ABA to create effective behavioral solutions. Are you looking for a fresh perspective? Take action for positive change with BehaviorWorks. 8206 Rockville Road No. 146, Indianapolis, IN 46234, Contact: Ann Baloski, Executive Director, Phone: 317-436-0037, Email: info@ behaviorworksaba.com, www.behaviorworksaba.com

Children's Therapy Connection We’ve grown! Come check out our brand new location, now with more resources than ever to help connect your child with their potential. Services include: First Steps, PT, OT, and Speech/Feeding Therapy, Social Work/Counseling, Social Skills/Communication/Feeding Groups, Kindermusik, Hanen Programs, and Therapeutic Yoga for Kids. We strive to be the provider of choice in central Indiana for quality, comprehensive, and family-centered pediatric therapy services for families of children with disabilities. Visit our website or follow us on Facebook to see how we have grown! 7478 Shadeland Station Way, Indianapolis, IN 46256, Phone: 317-288-7606, Email: info childrenstherapy connection.com, http:// childrenstherapyconnection.com

St. Joseph Institute for the Deaf St. Joseph Institute for the Deaf (SJI) is Indiana's only full-time school dedicated to helping young children (birth to age 8) who are deaf or hard of hearing develop spoken language and literacy skills with the focus of transitioning into their local, community school. Dramatic advances in technology, including sophisticated hearing aids and cochlear implants, give children with significant hearing loss access to sound. With appropriate speech therapy, auditory rehabilitation and language training, children are able to develop spoken language skills. St. Joseph Institute offers a variety of Listening and Spoken Language programs including: early intervention services, internet therapy, full-time preschool program, mainstream support, ongoing consultation, and comprehensive educational training opportunities for families and professionals. With over 175 years of experience, we are professional leaders in the field of Listening and Spoken Language education.

Visit our website for more information. 9192 Waldemar Road, Indianapolis, IN 46268, Phone: 317-471-8560, www.sjid.org

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Seven Ways to Help Your Preschooler

Love School Sarah Bricker-Hunt

Getting your little learner excited about this new adventure

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reschool is a big transition for kids.

It’s a bridge between toddlerhood and Kindergarten, and the change can make even the most excited little student a bit anxious. If you’ve got a preschooler at home, try these tips for helping him navigate this exciting (but sometimes scary) new world.

{1.} Get yourself excited “One way to really help a preschooler love school is for the parent to love school,” says April Reynolds, Director of W.E.E. Care Preschool & Kindergarten in Indianapolis. “Preschoolers are highly perceptive to their parent’s emotional investments and reactions,” she explains. “If you as the parent are emotionally invested, and most importantly, involved in and supportive of your child’s school, then your child will follow suit.”

Reynolds stresses that a parent’s enthusiasm must be authentic.

“You can’t fake this,” she says.

“You actually have to love the preschool you chose for your child.” She suggests taking the time to research, visit schools,

ask questions and above all “stick to your parent intuition when deciding on the best preschool for your child.”

{2.} Address your own anxiety As Reynolds says, children pick up on how their parents react to situations. Decrease any feelings of anxiety you have by taking the time really understand the policies and practices of the preschool you choose so that any fears you have are addressed. Make sure you know how to contact your child’s teacher and feel comfortable that staff will make time to address any concerns you have. When you feel informed and prepared, you will be more relaxed and your child will pick up on that vibe.

{3.} Establish a quick drop off routine Focus on quick but meaningful drop off rituals, like a high five or a kiss followed by a quick goodbye.

Extended, emotional goodbyes are hard on parents, students and teachers. Be ready to change up your drop off routine as the year progresses. You may find that your goodbye ritual can be shortened as your child becomes more and more comfortable going to school.

{4.} Get involved “Fundamental growth and student readiness and success, especially as your student gets older, is highly dependent upon a parent’s support

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and involved in that child’s school,” Reynolds says.

“Preschool is not just an excellent way for children to become acclimated to an academic environ- ment, it’s an excellent way for parents as well to learn their important role in their child’s academic career, which just begins in preschool.”

If possible, volunteer to read a book to the class, join classroom parties or find other ways to become involved in your child’s preschool activities. Your child will love having you share in their world.

{5.} Be positive and specific when talking about preschool Be mindful of the way you discuss preschool at home in front of your child. Jannis Strasser of the National Association for the Education of Young Children suggests celebrating your child’s small, specific successes. For example, “Tell her that you are proud of the way she tried to print her name,” she says. “Don’t expect perfection. If your child was perfect, she wouldn’t have to go to school.”

{6.} Add some helpful books to your bookshelf Many books are available that are designed to help kids overcome preschool anxiety and get excited to attend school. Try these titles for a good place to start: The Kissing Hand by Audrey Penn, Wemberly Worried by Kevin Henkes, Mommy

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Always Comes Back by Penny Schnee-Bosch and Llama, Llama Misses Mama by Anna Dewdney.

{7.} Keep things simple Avoid battles over things like what to wear or eating a big meal before the school day. Keep your focus on the more important goals of preschool. Also, Strasser suggests not dwelling on how many friends a child is making. “This is too abstract for most young children, and their friends change by the minute,” she says. Instead, ask open-ended questions like “Tell me about some of the children in your class.”

Most children will settle into a routine at preschool and grow to enjoy their time away from home within a few months. However, if your child seems increasingly anxious as time goes on, consult with the preschool director and your child’s teacher to address any stumbling blocks that are getting in the way of your child enjoying this important milestone experience. Helping your preschooler love school will make the transition to Kindergarten that much easier!

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Ask the Teacher School party stress, educational gifts and chaotic classrooms Deb Krupowicz

Q:

I am always guilted into signing up to organize my daughter’s classroom parties, and I almost always regret it. I become very anxious that the kids are not going to have fun and dread the craziness that is usually part of it. How can I turn this into a more pleasant experience?

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Parents tend to think that students require overthe-top games, treats and prizes to enjoy a school party. The truth is that even the simplest of parties is enjoyable in the school setting, where parties happen only a few times each year. Students are generally happy for any deviation from their typical routine.

First, do not assume that as the party coordinator you can do whatever you would like to do.

Consult the teacher. Ask her to define how much time she would like the party to last and what she would like it to include. If she is flexible, ask her to describe the most successful parties that have been held in her room. Plan accordingly, showing respect for her as the one in charge of the room and the one who knows what her particular students can handle well.

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Keep in mind that being well prepared includes more than just a good plan. Do as much as possible ahead of time so that set up takes almost no time. Select games with rules that are easy for students to understand. Choose simple treats that create only minimal mess. Be respectful of other volunteers and avoid micromanaging the part of the party they are responsible for. Model attentiveness when the teacher or other volunteers are speaking.

Allow time to clean up the classroom. Bring in a roll of paper towels and wet rags in plastic bags in case there is no sink in the room.

Make sure all surfaces are wiped down and free of food or craft scraps. Involve the students in picking up the floor and doing everything possible to return the classroom to its original condition.

The last thing a teacher needs after a long day is a big mess to clean up!

Q:

What suggestions do you have for holiday gifts that have educational value? This time of year seems like a great opportunity to purchase gifts that have purpose.

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The obvious educational gift is a book. Put a different spin on that always-appropriate selection by turning it into an outing. Purchase a gift card for a bookstore along with one for a restaurant or special dessert shop. Make arrangements to take the recipient out for the afternoon and turn the gift into a special event and memory.

Board games provide the opportunity to read and follow directions. Planning and forming strategies are key parts of playing traditional games like Risk, Sequence and chess as well as with more contemporary games, such as Ticket to Ride, Settling Catan and Carcassone Strategy Game. Critical thinking skills are put to use when calculating moves and responding to the moves others make.

Puzzles are also great for developing spatial reasoning and complex thinking. Jigsaw puzzles help to develop a keen eye for detail and multi-dimensional rationale. Crosswords expand vocabulary skills and foster out-of-the box thinking. Puzzles that require manipulation of pieces like Rush Hour and logic puzzle books help develop special strategy skills requiring prediction and visualization, as well as multi-step planning.

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My son is having a very tough year due to a new teacher who cannot handle the class. From his description, there is a constant state of chaos and he cannot work. I do not know if this is true or just an excuse. What should I do?

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A student’s perception of chaos may be an exaggeration, but it may also be quite accurate. In today’s educational environment of large classes with a small group focus, even what is very well organized may be noisy and make it difficult for some students to stay focused.

I would encourage your son to self-advocate for a quieter work environment. Role play with him so that he can practice using a respectful tone and choosing the right words to make his request of the teacher. He could offer to move to a quiet corner in the room or to work in the hallway.

If a simple solution does not solve the problem, request a conference with your son’s teacher. She will have additional insight regarding what is happening in the room and how your son is responding. A few minutes of an especially loud activity may have overshadowed the rest of the day in his mind, or one boisterous day could have translated to all days being that way to him. For some children, even the hum of the lights or the rattle of the fan can cause a distraction that seems chaotic and inhibits their productivity. The first place to start is to talk to the teacher who may have some strategies for your son to try so that he is able to get his work done.

[ A sk the T eacher ] is written by Deb Krupowicz, a mother of four who holds a Master’s degree in Curriculum and Instruction. Deb has over twenty years of experience teaching preschool, elementary and middle school students. Please send your questions to her at asktheteacher@ indyschild.com.

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E D U C AT I O N A N D CHILDCARE GUIDE [SCHOOLS & EDUCATION] carmel Carmel Montessori Schools, Inc. Carmel Montessori School is located on the beautiful campus at St. Christopher’s Church on the NE corner of Main St. and Meridian in Carmel. Our directress is American Montessori Certified with 16 years head-teaching experience. We offer a beautiful, peaceful and positive Montessori learning environment. Extended days available.

1402 W. Main St., Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Emily & Scott Rudicel, Phone: 317-580-0699, Email: info@carmelmontessori. com, carmelmontessori.com

DOWNTOWN Paramount School of Excellence Paramount School of Excellence is a tuition-free K-8 charter school that educates students in an innovative environment that instills high expectations for success. Paramount accomplishes its mission and teaches the mastery of Indiana State Standards through an emphasis on rigorous academics, technology and the environment. Integral to the school’s approach to education is school-wide use of computer technology, a green initiative, project-based investigations, community partnerships and three on-site Discovery Centers – an indoor Eco Center, Time and Space Center with a planetarium and an urban farm. 3020 Nowland Ave., Indianapolis, IN 46201 Contact: Peggy Purvis, 317.775.6660, school@paramountindy.org,

www.paramountindy.org

Clay Montessori A Montessori school offering morning, afternoon, and full-day programs. Available for ages 3-6 years old. Call for more information. (Affiliated with Fisher’s Montessori) 463 East Main St., Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Peggy White, 317-849-9519 or 317-580-1850

Maria Montessori International Academy (Carmel) “Can your 4 year old read this?” OURS CAN! Come discover why our programs are so successful that our kindergartens are in advance reading and math in first grade at both Zionsville and Carmel Public Schools! The program offers education for infants, toddlers, Pre-K, kindergarten, and elementary across subjects, even for very young children, including math, science, Spanish, art and music, as well as reading and writing. 3500 106th St. & Shelborne (Holy Trinity Orthodox Greek Church), Carmel, IN 46032, Phone: 317-769-2220, Cost/Tuition: please call, www.maria montessori-intl.org

Minds-in-Motion, Inc. Minds-in-Motion is a brain-training program based on NASA technology. It utilizes a unique blend of balance exercises, gymnastics and applied technology, all focused on strengthening the brains ability to process and organize information. Minds-in-Motion builds stronger bodies and smarter minds! 879 West Carmel Drive, Carmel, IN 46032,

Contact: Candace Meyer, Phone: 317-571-8752, Hours: 10-week Fall, Winter & Spring sessions + 4-week Intensive Summer, Email: info@mimlearning.com, www.mimLearning. com, Hours/Dates: 10-week Fall, Winter & Spring sessions + 4-week Intensive Summer Sessions, Ages/Grades: 3-18

Starting Line Preschool The Right Start for A Lifelong Love of Learning! Our strong academic-based curriculum prepares and encourages your child to succeed in school while discovering learning is fun!

All of our classes focus on an introduction to colors, number and letters with exciting art and science projects. Math, social studies and sight words are taught in the older classes.Develop Social Awareness & Friendships, Build Confidence and Master Academic Skills for Kindergarten. 110 Third Ave NE,

Carmel, IN 46032, Contact: Diane Atkins, Phone: 317-7539397, Email: dkatkins22@msn.com, http://www.

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fishers Fall Creek Montessori Academy Fall Creek Montessori Academy is a culturally diverse environment where children grow and develop their unique talents and gifts. Through child-centered learning, children excel physically, academically and emotionally.

Conveniently located one mile east of I-69 on 96th St. FCMA serves children at all levels. Programs are available two to five days per week. 8888 Fitness Ln, Fishers, IN 46037, Contact: Diana Brugh, Phone: (317) 436-8606, Email: diana@ fallcreekmontessori.com, www.fallcreekmontessori.com

Fishers Montessori A quality learning environment offering preschool, kindergarten and elementary. Certification through American Montessori Society.

12806 Ford Rd and 131st and Allisonville Rd., Fishers, IN 46038, Contact: Peggy White, 317-849-9519 or 317-580-1850

indianapolis // north Beth-El Zedeck Early Childhood Center OPEN TO THE PUBLIC. Full Academic Curriculum and Innovative ArtsEnrichment. Our Program recognizes that intellectual, social, emotional and physical development are interwoven. Our children will thrive on exploration, creativity, curiosity, discovery, spontaneity and more important, lots of love!

Type of School: Early Childhood Cost/Tuition: Please call or email for full brochure Hours/Dates: Flexible Hours. Full Time/ Part-Time available. Ages/Grades: 12 months old+, 18 months old+, 2s+, 3s+, 4s+, Pre-Kindergarten (Kindergarten Readiness Class)(3 day or 5 day option) Before/After School Care: Before and After School Care always available as needed. Early drop off as early as 7:30 am and late pick up anytime up until 6:00pm/5:30 pm on Fridays. 600 W. 70th St., Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Joanie Waldman, Phone: 317-259-6854, Fax: 317-259-6849, Email: jwaldman@bez613.org, www.bez613.org

Brebeuf Jesuit Preparatory School You are invited to visit the only Catholic Jesuit school in the state of Indiana that has been educating students in the Jesuit tradition for more than 50 years. Brebeuf Jesuit’s Mission Statement: Brebeuf Jesuit, a Catholic and Jesuit school, provides an excellent college preparatory education for a lifetime of service by forming

leaders who are intellectually competent, open to growth, loving, religious and committed to promoting justice. Fostering a culture of understanding and dialogue, Brebeuf Jesuit seeks and welcomes students from diverse religious, ethnic and socioeconomic backgrounds. Students at Brebeuf Jesuit are called to discover and cultivate the fullness of their God-given talents as a responsibility and as an act of worship. CORE VALUES: Education of the Whole Person, A Caring and Diverse Community, The Greater Glory of God. 2801 W 86th St, Indianapolis, IN 46268. Contact: Liz Otteson, Director of Admissions. Phone: 317-524-7090. Email: admissions@brebeuf. org, www.brebeuf.org

Children’s Circle Preschool at Second Presbyterian Church Children’s Circle Preschool is a developmentally appropriate, activity based, Christian preschool. We offer classes for children ages 9 months to 5 years old. We meet the needs of the whole child in a creative and loving environment. Our experienced staff embraces excellence in education by nurturing the whole child- physically, emotionally, spiritually, and intellectually. Please call for more information or to set up a tour. 7700 N. Meridian St., Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Cara Paul, Director, 317-252-5517, cpaul@secondchurch.org, www.childrenscircle.org

Children’s Day In Nursery School and Traditional Preschool

The Children's Day In Nursery School is a fully inclusive early childhood program with an emphasis on Christian values. It is designed to offer children ages 9 months to 3 years a positive and developmentally appropriate experience in the care of experienced caregivers. We play and learn! Classes are offered weekdays from 9 am to 2:30 pm. The Children's Day In Traditional Preschool program provides a quality developmentally appropriate education for 3, 4 and 5 year olds.

Our program includes weekly Christian Life Skills, First Steps in Music (ICC) and Book Club. Summer Camp CDI is our 4-week summer program for children ages 9 months to age 5 years.

Classes are offered on Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. Summer Camp CDI runs the month of June.

Please call, E-mail or visit for further information and registration forms. 5500 N. Meridian St., Indianapolis, IN 46208, Contact: Christy Whaley, Phone: 317-253-0472, cwhaley@meridianstreet. org, www.meridianstreet.org

A Children’s Habitat Montessori School For over 40 years, A Children's Habitat Montessori School has been providing a place where children thrive and discover their love of learning. Habitat provides a traditional Montessori school experience for families seeking a half-day preschool and kindergarten, or full-day elementary program.

We are a not-for-profit school based on the principles of Maria Montessori, and we are fully accredited by the American Montessori Society. For more information, visit our website: www.childrens-habitat.org. Hours/Dates: Monday - Friday Regular Day 8:30-11:30 Extended Day 11:30-1:30 Kindergarten 11:30-1:30. Ages/Grades: 18 months - 6 years. 801 W. 73 Street, Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Carmen Nieves, Phone: (317)726-5584, Email: info@ childrens-habitat.org, http://www.childrens-habitat.org

Early Childhood Center, The Church at the Crossing Our Mothers Day Out (12-35 mos) and Preschool (3 yrs-PreK’s) programs provide relaxed, playful, secure environments that nurture creativity and encourage the exploration of God’s world, with a wide variety of learning materials & readiness skills woven through each unit. Need longer hours? Try our child care ministry, The Neighborhood, designed

for 16 mos-PreK. 9111 N. Haverstick Rd., Indianapolis, IN 46240, Contact: John Drake or Kelly Belt, Phone: 317-575-6508, Fax: 317-575-6509, Email: jdrake@golove.org or kbelt@golove.org

Fairview Early Childhood Program Fairview ECP has been a part of the Meridian Kessler community for over 22 years. We offer a developmentally appropriate, experienced based curriculum in a warm and inclusive environment. Our program is designed to promote positive social behavior, respect for diversity, and encourages independence, creativity and critical thinking skills. 4609 N. Capital Ave., Indianapolis, IN 46208, Contact: Tracy Cooper, Director, Phone: 317-253-4990, Email: tcooper@ fairviewpresbyterian.org, Hours: 8:30 - 5:15 Monday through Friday, www.fairviewearlychildhoodprogram.com

Heritage Christian School Established in 1965, accredited through ACSI and NCA, HCS is the choice in college preparatory discipleship Christian education for 1,400 students each year grades Preschool-12.

Advanced, Honors and AP classes. Full Fine Arts and 2A IHSAA ATHLETICS. HCS is training up the next generation of Christian leaders through challenging, Biblically taught curriculum including internships and service to others. Bus transportation available. Schedule a tour today! 6401 E. 75th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46250. Contact: Admissions Department, 317-849-3441, Admissions@heritagechristian.net, www.heritagechristian.net

Maria Montessori International Academy (INDIANAPOLIS) “Can your 4 year old read this?” OURS CAN! Come discover why our programs are so successful that our kindergartens are in advance reading and math in first grade at both Zionsville and Carmel Public Schools! The program offers education for infants, toddlers, Pre-K, kindergarten, and elementary across subjects, even for very young children, including math, science, Spanish, art and music, as well as reading and writing. 7507 N. Michigan Road, Indianapolis, IN 46268, Phone: 317-291-5557, Cost/Tuition: please call, www.mariamontessori-intl.org

Montessori Centres Peace and respect for all is our main goal. Montessori Centres has worked with children to develop critical-thinking and time-management skills since 1966. Montessori-certified lead teachers serve children aged 3-3rd grade. Classroom structure and materials allow children to be self-directed and self-paced.

Our well-rounded curriculum includes French and Spanish, art, science, computer skills, grace and courtesy, social studies, nature and outdoor gardening. 563 West Westfield Blvd., Indianapolis, IN 46208, Contact: Lynn Boone, Director, Phone: 317-257-2224, Fax: 317-257-3034, Email: montessoricentres@ sbcglobal.net, www.montessoricentres.com/

The Orchard School The Orchard School, an independent, non-sectarian, progressive school, emphasizing experiential learning. Orchard teachers engage the natural curiosity of children, develop academic excellence, and provide leadership experience through wellrounded education. Orchard’s diverse community and commitment to multicultural education inspires responsible, global citizenship. Founded in 1922. NAIS, ISACS, NAEYS accredited. 615 W. 64th St., Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Kristen Hein, Director of Admissions, Phone: 317-713-5705, Fax: 317-254-8454, Email: khein@orchard.org, www.orchard.org

St. Richard’s Episcopal School SRES strives for academic excellence through its classic curriculum with innovative teaching methods; it also provides preparation and

knowledge in areas such as faith, leadership, civic responsibility, and global readiness. St. Richard’s offers a rigorous academic curriculum, three world languages, public speaking and leadership opportunities, a strong fine arts program and organized athletics for continued lifetime success. Our newly redesigned Early Childhood Program uses brain-based research and proven instructional practices that lay the foundation in math and literacy skills. The program features unique field experiences, community partnerships, year-round offerings, and a full-day curriculum along with part-time options. 33 E. 33rd Street, Indianapolis, IN 46205, Contact: Abby Williams, Director of Admission and Communications, 317-926-0425 x134, Fax: 317-921-3367, awilliams@strichardsschool.org, www.strichardsschool.org

Sycamore School At Sycamore, teachers trained in gifted education deliver a curriculum designed to challenge and engage gifted learners.

Art, music, Spanish, PE and technology are taught at all levels.

Extensive field trips, athletics, child care, financial aid, and a wide variety of after school activities are offered. 1750 W. 64th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46260, Contact: Dr. Susan Karpicke, Director of Admissions. 317-202-2500, Fax: 317-202-2501, skarpicke@sycamoreschool.org, www.sycamoreschool.org

indianapolis // northeast Metropolitan School District of Lawrence Township An “A” District, Lawrence Township offers a superior and diverse education pre-school through grade 12. Early Learning Centers appeal to the curiosity of the young child. Elementary schools provide strong academic foundations and progressive magnet foci. Secondary schools implement 1:1 technology and a growing list of rigorous courses and extracurricular activities. 6501 Sunnyside Road, Indianapolis, 46236, Contact: Welcome Center, Phone: 317-423-8200, Email: magnet@ msdlt.k12.in.us, www.ltschools.org

Polly Panda Preschool & Bridgford Kindergarten

Polly Panda provides a safe and healthy environment which enhances each child’s total growth. Our theme-based hands-on preschool program provides a wide-range of experiences that foster learning, creativity and problem solving in all areas. A child’s sense of self-worth, independence and growth in social skills are developed through positive interaction with peers and our well-qualified and loving staff. 2944 E. 56th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46220, Contact: Gail Hacker and Tammy Clark, Phone: 317-257-9127, Email: thepanda@pollypanda.com, www.pollypanda.com

indianapolis // SOUTH Center Grove Montessori and Indiana Montessori Community School Center Grove Montessori Program offers: Hands-on learning, multi-aged students learning together, a key element to the Montessori philosophy, a focus on the intrinsic motivation of children, carefully prepared classrooms balancing children's choice with structure, large blocks of uninterrupted time for learning and building concentration, peace education through global awareness, structured, self-directed learning. 1674 West Smith Valley Rd., Greenwood, IN 46142 and 531 US 31 S, White land, IN 46184, Contact: Brenda Enderle, Phone: 317-833-0335, Email: office@centergrovemontessori.com;info@centergrove montessori.com, http://www.center grovemontessori.com

Friendship Kids Preschool & Childcare Friendship Kids Preschool & Childcare is all about preparing your child for their academic futures by providing fun, interactive activities that engage your child's 5 senses, while also learning about

God! Learning should be fun, so we incorporate play in all of our activities! Check us out at friendshipkids.com! 963 E Worthsville Road, Greenwood, IN 46143, Contact: Jessica Seelye, Phone: 317-535-2544, Email: jessica@experiencefriendship.com

MIDTOWN Indianapolis Museum of Art Preschool Through a partnership with St. Mary’s Child Center, the IMA offers a preschool for children ages 3-5. Anchored in Reggio Emilia inspired teaching, every day the children experience original works of art, explore the gardens, and work on projects inspired by the 152 acre campus that surrounds them. Preschool is five days a week, half day from 9 - 11:30 a.m. and follows the IPS school calendar. With a low child to adult ratio (6:1), St. Mary’s Child Center at IMA provides personal attention to ensure optimal social, emotional, cognitive, and physical development of the students. Contact Heidi Davis-Soylu at hdavis-soylu@imamuseum.org, imamuseum.org/preschool

westfield Montessori School of Westfield, Inc. Located on 3 wooded acres in Central Indiana, the Montessori School of Westfield adheres to the academic traditions of Montessori while serving the present day child. The Montessori School of Westfield serves children from Indianapolis, Fishers, Carmel, Zionsville, Westfield, Sheridan, Noblesville, Cicero and Tipton. We serve children ages 18 months to 15 years. 800 E. Sycamore Street, Westfield, IN 46074, Contact: Mary Lyman, Directress, Phone: 317-867-0158, Fax: 317-896-5945, Email: montessori westfield@gmail.com, www.montessori schoolofwestfield.com

zionsville Advent Lutheran Preschool Advent offers a Christian learning environment for children ages 2 through 5, including a half-day kindergarten. Our well-balanced program supports emotional, social, cognitive, physical and spiritual development. All children, regardless of faith or church affiliation, are welcome. Call to schedule a tour. 11250 N. Michigan Rd., Zionsville, IN 46077, Contact: Deb Trewartha, Phone: 317-8736318, Email: dtrewartha@adventlutheran.org, www.adventlutheran.org/298544.ihtml

Maria Montessori International Academy (Zionsville) “Can your 4 year old read this?” OURS CAN! Come discover why our programs are so successful that our kindergartens are in advance reading and math in first grade at both Zionsville and Carmel Public Schools! The program offers education for infants, toddlers, Pre-K, kindergarten, and elementary across subjects, even for very young children, including math, science, Spanish, art and music, as well as reading and writing. 4370 Weston Pointe Dr., Zionsville/Carmel, IN 46077, Phone: 317-7692220, Cost/Tuition: please call, www.mariamontessori-intl.org

[childcare] Peanut Butter and Jelly 24/7 Childcare PB&J is a childcare that is a safe, nurturing environment where your child will get the attention and care that he or she needs. We are licensed and always working to meet and exceed all health and safety guidelines. You can rest assured that your child will be cared for with the utmost kindness, love and respect . Open late for lots of flexiblity. Stop in for more info. Follow us on twitter @pbj247childcare. 5501 E. 71st Street, Suite 4, Indianapolis, IN 46220, Contact: Anita Beck.

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Footnotes: Thoughts from the margins of a mom’s life Growing backwards and forwards

Kelly Blewett

According to Fred Rogers, "Play is the work of childhood." If this is true, and why shouldn't it be, then my children are working very hard indeed. Here are a few examples of recent games:

discovered, the game shifts gears and becomes more like tag. Monsters rush to home base – the counting couch – while the adult unsuccessfully tries to catch them from behind.

The Champion Ship: In this game, all champions (which includes any human or

Sit Trap: This is a favorite from the grandparents. Children sit on the laps of grown-ups only to discover that they can't get out. They are wrapped in the grownups' legs! They are "sit-trapped"! After a brief struggle, the trap opens and the child leaps away laughing madly. Stuffed animals may be sit-trapped by children.

dog in the house) must run to my son's bed (a.k.a. the Champion Ship) and leap in.

Any items on the floor of the room must also be put in the bed. Participants may cry, "Let's get to the Champion Ship!" The ship, which is rarely cleaned out as the captain prefers it to be as full as possible, contains an ice pack (now lukewarm), a flashlight, every stuffed animal on both of my children's shelves (totaling roughly 27 fluffs), empty cups, several pairs of pajamas and (most hilariously to the captain of the captain) underwear.

Ghost Pokes: Those five and under sneak up on adults in the house. Upon finding adults, they must yell, "I've got them! Ghost pokes!" and then jab fingers toward the adults while shrieking "bah! bah! bah!"

Monster Tag: This game begins like hide-and-seek. A grown-up sits on the couch in a living room and counts to ten very loudly. Then they seek the "monsters," saying the whole time “Where are you?” to ratchet up anticipation. When monsters are

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Circus: This game can only be played with Nana and my son. All items that could be part of a circus – tiny clowns, trains with animals inside the cars, a tent – are brought out onto a big carpet. Imaginative discussion ensues...and ensues...and ensues. Three hours later, the circus ends.

The list may look (and in fact be) exhausting, but frankly at 7 pm after a day of adulting, there’s nothing quite as invigorating and giggle-inducing as a round of Monster Tag. If this is my children’s work, the serious learning that helps them develop the skills they’ll need to grow, then it is for me precisely the opposite: a chance to unlearn grown-up-ness, to follow my children’s lead, to take a big jump to that magical, messy, imaginative realm I once inhabited all the time.

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A Dad Influence How to get your kids to do what you ask... every time Pete Gilbert

"Thank you for not poking your neighbor with scissors."

"You should be proud of the way you stayed calm when those mean things were said about you."

During my first year of teaching, I quickly learned I was not ready for the challenges ahead of me. I knew all about lesson plans and seating charts, but I wasn't prepared for fistfights and defiant seventh graders.

My school brought in a psychologist to assist the teachers and restore order to our classrooms. His approach was called “Nurtured Heart.” It was all about praising the positive (even if there was little to be positive about) and ignoring the negative. He explained that children act out to gain attention, and if I gave attention to the kids behaving well, negative behavior would stop and positive behavior would increase. I was skeptical, but desperate. It was hard to ignore a pencil being flung across the room, but I ignored that behavior and praised the

rest of the class for staying on task. Multiply this instance by 1,000 every class period of every day and that's what I did. Of course there were consequences for negative behavior, but they were swift and involved little interaction.

What does this have to do with parenting? The Nurtured Heart approach works on your own kids, too!

Try it tonight. Praise one of your kids for putting his napkin on his lap at dinner and watch the others do the same immediately. Just be prepared for them to request your praise as well. Or, tell your kids it's pajama time. Watch as one shuffles off to her bedroom while the other two ignore your request – until you praise the one child who is doing what you asked. Just like that, what would've been a twenty-minute battle has now turned into a fun, positive jammie race.

Even older kids who know what you are doing still can't help but participate.

Everyone likes to be told they are doing a great job.

Aren't you glad you took a minute out of your busy day to read this column?

Good for you! Well done!

See what I mean?

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DECE MBER calendar T U E S 01 – W E DS 02 Free LEGO Mini Build Location: The LEGO Store, Castleton Mall, Time: 5-8pm, http://shop.lego.com/en-US/

MiniBuilds The monthly mini model build has been a popular hands-on monthly event in LEGO® Stores since 2009! Visit the Castleton Mall LEGO Store on the first Tuesdays and Wednesday of every month to build a cool mini model, and take it home – for free! Due to safety and build experience standards, builders must be between the ages of 6-14 to participate. Registration is on a first come first serve basis and quantities are limited.

Registration is required to be done online or by calling the store directly. This event fills up fast so call early.

W E D 02 Central Indiana Dance Ensemble Performs “The Nutcracker” Location: Carmel Clay Library, Carmel, Time: 10:30am, http://www.carmel.lib.in.us/

Come and listen to the wonderful story of The Nutcracker as told by the beautiful dancers, including a performance by Clara, Fritz, and the Sugar Plum Fairy. Following the performance have your picture taken with your favorite character! This program will be held in the Program Room and is for children ages 3-6 and their caregivers. FREE

T H U R S 03 Free Admission At The IMA Location: Indianapolis Museum of Art, Time: 4-9pm, http://www.imamuseum.org/visit/

admission Following suit with some of our local museums and hotspots, the Indianapolis Museum of Art also offers free admission on the first Thursdays of every month from 4-9pm. Perfect for a date night, evening out with the family or a little ‘me’ time.

Handmade For The Holidays Location: The Urban Chalkboard, Carmel, Time: 4-8pm, http://www.

theurbanchalkboard.com/ Shop local for the holidays! Urban Chalkboard has partnered www. beindypendent.org (Create. Buy. Be. Local) for this sweet handmade shopping event.

Local businesses like Get Lathered, Cordial Kitten, Make My Play and Daniel Winery will pile into Urban Chalkboard for a fun shopping eve, including a visit from Santa

from 5:30-7pm! Watch too for Drop-Off to Shop days in December when parents can scoot out for a little holiday shopping while kids have supervised fun in the play café.

T H U R S 03 – SUN 0 6 Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey Circus Location: Bankers Life Fieldhouse, downtown Indianapolis, https://www.ringling.com/

xtrememidwest/ It's time for the Greatest Show On Earth!

Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey Circus makes its return visit to Indianapolis this month with their Circus Xtreme show.

Exhilaration awaits you in an imaginative journey, across the Seven Seas to surreal locations. From the hottest deserts, to the highest mountains and into the deepest jungles, Ringling Bros.® has scoured the globe and successfully discovered the most extraordinary of athletes, most exotic of animals and most exhilarating of thrills for Circus XTREME.

F R I 04 – S AT 05 Holiday Gingerbread Houses Location: Broad Ripple Park, Indianapolis, Time: 10:00am, http://www.broad

ripplepark.org/ Make from scratch your very own delicious gingerbread house to enjoy throughout the holiday season. Your house will be decorated with all kinds of ‘sweets’ that will be provided for you. All houses will be made with graham crackers for easier handling and decorating.

Children 5 and under must be accompanied by an adult. Advanced registration required.

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Breakfast With The Grinch

‘Twas The Night Before Christmas

Location: Silver Centre Event Hall, Lawrence, Time: 10am-1pm, http://www.eventbrite.

Location: Benjamin Harrison Presidential Site, Indianapolis, Time: 8:30-10am, http://

bhpsite.org/ Join in for the first 'Twas the Night Before Christmas at the Presidential Site. Kick off a season of celebration with a delicious continental breakfast, then create an ornament to keep and hear a special reading of the most famous Santa Claus story. After, head upstairs for a seasonal tour of the Harrison's home complete with members of the family, home for the holidays.

First Saturday Member Morning Location: Children’s Museum, Indianapolis, Time: 9-10am, https://www.

childrensmuseum.org/ Get your hands on all the fun an hour before everyone else! Enjoy all of your favorite exhibits at the Children’s Museum Of Indianapolis on the first Saturday of the month as the museum opens an hour early just for members. Ride the Carousel, scale the Rock Wall (a limited number of tickets available at 9am), and beat the crowds. No need to register ahead of time… just show up and start having a ball!

com/e/breakfast-with-the-grinch-tickets19226359559?aff=mcivte Families are invited to enjoy a hot Whoville Breakfast Feast with the Silver Centre Event Hall on the first Saturday of December! Real WHO's will serve Cindy Lou Who pancakes, Augustus May Who sausage and everyone’s favorite... Green Eggs & Ham! The children will also engage in Christmas activities, crafts and have their picture taken with the Grinch!

Family Day at the IMA: MadeIN Location: Indianapolis Museum of Art, Time: 10am-3pm, http://www.imamuseum.org/

familyactivities/family-day-gardensharvest Each month, the Indianapolis Museum of Art treats the local community to exciting Family Day programs on the first Saturday. Every Family Day event is tailored to a specific topic so in December it’s a special ‘MadeIN Day to celebrate special items made in Indiana.

Celebrate homegrown art and artists on this Family Day dedicated to Indiana’s local talent.

Kick off the day with children’s holiday film classics, design your own luminaria, make homemade gifts for your loved ones, and more.

Jingle Jamboree Location: Nickel Plate District Amphitheater, Fishers, Time: 6-8pm, fishers.in.us/PARKS

Jingle Jamboree offers holiday fun for the whole family! Enjoy a dedicated kids tent full of activities, a live ice carving demonstration, capture precious memories at an interactive photo booth, see live animals at the petting zoo and watch the beautiful holiday tree light for the first time this season. Light refreshments will be available and musical entertainment will be provided, with details to come. FREE

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Free Demo Class with Music Playhouse Location: The Music Playhouse, Carmel, Time: 10-11am, http://www.themusicclass.com/

Center/News-Events. aspx?id=7646&type=event Families who have never experienced The Music Playhouse program are invited to attend a free class at their upcoming Open House.

Open House Classes are for children ages birth-5 to enjoy with a parent or caregiver.

Additional adults and siblings welcome. Open House classes highlight elements from ALL programs including: Bunnies (infants/ non-walkers), Pups (0-5 years) & Cats (4-6 years). Registration required.

SUN 0 6 Indianapolis SymFUNy Sunday: IPL Yuletide Celebration Location: Hilbert Theatre, downtown Indianapolis, Time: 2pm, https://www.

indianapolissymphony.org/education/ families/symfuny-sundays-family-concerts Spark the imagination of your wigglers and gigglers as they explore a lifelong relationship with music during these one-hour, familyfriendly concerts with the Indianapolis Symphony Orchestra. Ring in the holidays with tap dancing Santas, festive carols and larger-than-life puppetry alongside Jack Everly and the ISO. Doors for these concerts open at 2:00 p.m. for interactive experiences with musicians and instruments of the Orchestra.

Luminary Walk Location: West Park, Carmel, Time: 6-9pm,

http://carmelclayparks.com/ccpr-events/ luminary-walk/ Carmel comes alive with thousands of luminaries, tasty delights, and music abound at West Park. Take a walk through the winter wonderland and enjoy carolers, cookies, and hot chocolate as you take in the ambiance lighting the path around Jill’s Hill, through the wintery forest, and floating over the lagoon.

Come see West Park in a new light!

staff at Garfield Park Conservatory do a wonderful job with their curriculum and style, but the setting along sets itself apart from the typical classroom environment. Registration required. $4/child. This program will also take place on 12/9.

Indiana's birthday. The Birthday Party will include interactive activities throughout the statehouse. Programs will also be taking place at the Indiana State Museum, Indiana Historical Society, and Indiana State Library so keep your eyes peeled for announcements.

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Star Wars: Jedi Academy

Breakfast with Santa

Location: Hamilton East Public Library – Noblesville Branch, Noblesville, Time: 6-7pm,

Location: Greenwood Community Center, Greenwood, Time: 9-11am, http://www.

http://hepl.lib.in.us/ Calling all young Padawans. Do you have what it takes to become a Jedi? Come test your skills and earn your right to become a Jedi master. Snacks will be provided.

Costumes are encouraged! FREE

T U E S 08 Train Tales at Garfield Conservatory Location: Garfield Conservatory and Sunken Gardens, Indianapolis, Time: 10-11am, http://

garfieldgardensconservatory.org/ Bring your preschooler to this monthly program with a focus on the natural world at Garfield Park Conservatory. This month’s program offers a train-related spin on their usual Jungle Tales program. Not only does the

Yelp’s Totally Bazaar Location: Central Library, downtown Indianapolis, Time: 6:30-10pm, http://www.

yelp.com/events/indianapolis-in-us In its fifth year, Yelp's Totally Bazaar is a free pop-up holiday shopping party! Come for food, drink, shopping, and entertainment – this event is perfect for a parents’ night out. In addition to over 120 local businesses selling everything from wooden stamps to homemade crayons alongside mulled wine, beer, a gift wrapping station, live wreaths, and so much more. Get all your holiday shopping done AND support our local Indy community while you’re at it.

F R I 11 Indiana Statehood Day Location: Indiana State House, downtown Indianapolis, Time: 10am, http://

indianamuseum.org/ Celebrate the day Indiana became the 19th state to join the Union! The Statehouse will host Indiana Statehood Day to celebrate

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greenwood.in.gov/topic/subtopic. php?topicid=70&structureid=17 Santa Claus is coming to town! This activity with the Greenwood Parks & Rec Department includes pancakes, sausage, eggs, fruit, juice, milk and coffee from Bob Evans Restaurants. Kids can visit with Santa and parents are welcome to take their own photo or have Pro-Tek Photography take a professional photo for $3 (two for $5). Space is limited and registration required.

Christmas At Garfield Location: Garfield Conservatory and Sunken Gardens, Indianapolis, Time: 10-1pm, http://

garfieldgardensconservatory.org/ Visit the Conservatory to meet Santa and see Conservatory Crossing, the holiday train and poinsettia show. You can also visit the Arts Center to make toys with Santa’s elves and head to the Burrello Family Center for more festive fun. All activities are free. Bring your own camera to take photos with Santa.

T U E S 15 – W E DS 16 Jingle Bell Rock Dance Party Location: Franklin Road Branch Library, Indianapolis, Time: 1:15pm, http://www.

imcpl.org/events/detail/?event_ id=3885&schedule_id=47204 Preschoolers ages 3 - 6 and an adult are invited to listen, jump and dance to holiday favorites with scarves and rhythm instruments. Being held Weds, December 16 at 10:15am and 11:15am. Registration is not required to attend. FREE

T U E S 15 Holly Jolly Holiday Party Location: Hamilton East Public Library – Fishers Branch, Fishers, Time: 6-8pm, http://hepl.lib.

in.us/ ‘Tis the season for holiday fun! The annual holiday event is back and better than ever at the Fishers Library! Jingle your way to the library to meet Santa, decorate cookies, and get creative in the elves’ workshop. At 6:30 pm, they’ll welcome a visit from a real reindeer thanks to Silly Safaris! FREE

W E DS 16 Preschool Art For Cool Cats: Workshop Inspired By Pete The Cat Location: College Avenue Branch Library, Indianapolis, Time: 10:30am, http://www.

imcpl.org/events/detail/?event_id=4169 Preschoolers ages 3 - 6 and an adult are invited for a groovy workshop presented by The Art Lab inspired by this favorite laid back feline.

Children will listen to a story and create their own multi-media projects. This program is made possible by Friends of the Library through gifts to The Indianapolis Public Library Foundation. Occurs multiple days throughout the month – check the website for schedule.

T H U R S 17 Community Day at the IMA: Winter Solstice Location: Indianapolis Museum of Art, Indianapolis, Time: 5:30-9pm, http://www.

imamuseum.org/special-event/communityday-winter-solstice Highlighting the Oldfields-Lilly House and Gardens—hundreds of luminaries will line the sidewalks of the IMA’s campus while guests experience everything from ice carving demonstrations, live reindeer, and musical performances to a 45-foot “tree” made of toys by artist Karl Unnasch. Local food trucks will be on hand with sweet and savory treats, and the Elder Greenhouse and Museum Store are open late for holiday shopping. The event will close with the community “disassembling” the toy tree to donate the toys to local charities.

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Gingerbread House Extravaganza Location: Hamilton East Public Library – Noblesville Branch, Noblesville, Time: 6-7pm,

http://hepl.lib.in.us/ Cozy up at the Noblesville Library with some hot cocoa while you create a gingerbread house that even Hansel and Gretel would eat. This is an open house, so come any time between 6-8pm. All supplies will be provided...just bring your creativity! FREE

F R I 18 Prairie Tykes: Holiday Party Location: Conner Prairie, Fishers, Time: 9:30-11am, https://www.connerprairie.org/

Things-To-Do/Events/2015/Prairie-Tykes-/ Prairie-Tykes

Prairie Tykes is custom made for little ones and parents or grandparents! Connect one-on-one while you make crafts, dance, sing and take part in the special activity of the day. This week, attendees will enjoy a holiday story, make a fun decoration and celebrate with music and dance.

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T U E S 29 Winter Break Movie Matinee: Home Location: Carmel Clay Library, Carmel, Time: 2pm, http://www.carmel.lib.in.us/

events/detail/?event_id=3961 Babies up to age 2 and an adult are invited for an interactive musical program with Bongo Boy Music Center. This program will include the use of musical instruments, action songs and movement, and will require the participation of the caregiver. This program is made possible by Friends of the Library through gifts to The Indianapolis Public Library Foundation.

Location: Lawrence Branch Library, Indianapolis, Time: 11-12:30pm, http://

Based on the novel The True Meaning of Smekday by Adam Rex, Home is a fun feature film that tells the tale of two friends - a loveable alien and a little girl - who embark on a great journey. This program is for children in grades K-5.

www.imcpl.org/events/detail/?event_ id=4196&schedule_id=46692 Families are invited to craft noisemakers, write wishes for the new year, and enjoy other hands-on activities. Participants will then gather for a story and countdown to noon with a balloon drop and bubble stomp!

Registration is NOT required. FREE.

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Family New Year’s Eve

Shake Rattle And Roll Baby Music Class Location: Warren Branch Library, Indianapolis, Time: 10:15am, http://www.imcpl.org/

Noon Year’s Eve Celebration

Countdown To Noon Location: Children’s Museum of Indianapolis, downtown Indy, Time: 10am-1pm, https://

www.childrensmuseum.org Celebrate the final day of 2015 with activities, music from Grammy-nominated musician Zak Morgan, and countdowns to 2016 at noon and 1 p.m., which allow families to experience the excitement of a countdown at a reasonable hour for the youngsters! Receive hats and other festive favors for the big moment! While supplies last.

Location: Indiana State Museum, downtown Indianapolis, Time: 6pm, http://www.

indianamuseum.org/ End the year with a bang as the Indiana State Museum offers a special family-friendly alcohol-free celebration in the Governor Frank O'Bannon Great Hall. Activities for all will include face painting, stilt walkers, clowns and music. A balloon drop at 8pm allows the littles to still celebrate the New Year in style!

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ONGOING C ALE N DAR A Christmas Carol November 14th through December 26th Location: Indiana Repertory Theatre, www. irtlive.com/plays-and-events/2015-2016season/a-christmas-carol A favorite holiday tradition. Indy’s favorite holiday tradition returns for its 25th year at the IRT. Scrooge’s visits to the past, the present and the future bring us hope in the dark of winter, when we need it most.

Charles Dickens’ A Christmas Carol celebrates the power of kindness, family and love in this beloved tale filled with laughter, tears and redemption. Tickets start at $15.

Jolly Days November 21 through January 3, 2016 Location: Children’s Museum Of Indianapolis,

https://www.childrensmuseum.org/ jollydays

Enjoy traditional holiday favorites such as the two-story Yule Slide, Jingles the Jolly Bear, and visits with Santa. Explore “outdoor” fun like ice fishing and sock-skating—all without the frozen fingers! “Bake” wintertime goodies and share memories with your family. Who knows? You may even be there when a “snowball” fight breaks out.

and Teachers Credit Union, with an extra weekend of fun added this year! A visit to Christmas at the Zoo is unlike any other time of the year as they bring together the best of the holiday season with a "wild" twist! As the sun sets over the White River State Park, enjoy the warm glow of twinkling lights, creating a magical nighttime experience. Enjoy a free visit with Santa, decorate cookies with Mrs. Claus, and enjoy a scavenger hunt. There is holiday fun for all ages!

Celebration Crossing At Indiana State Museum November 27th through December 31st Location: Indiana State Museum,

www.indianamuseum.org/

The wonder of Christmas arrives to the Indiana State Museum with the annual Celebration Crossing excitement. Families will enjoy seeing the showroom-style Santa’s House, live holiday music, holiday meals in the L.S. Ayres Tea Room, rides aboard the sweet L.S. Ayres train, and cheerful activities on the lawn of Santa’s home.

Jingle Rails November 21st through January 18th Location: Eiteljorg Museum, downtown Indianapolis, https://www.eiteljorg.org/

Christmas At The Zoo November 27th through January 3, 2016

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Location: Indianapolis Zoo and White River Gardens, www.indianapoliszoo.com/

One of our favorite holiday activities returns November 21 at the Eiteljorg Museum: Jingle Rails: The Great Western Adventure! Watch seven G-scale model trains traverse a land of natural materials, all decked in the halls of the holidays.

There are more than 30 different features including Mt. Rushmore and The Grand

events-and-groups/zoo-events/christmasat-the-zoo Surround yourself with the magic and beauty of the holiday season as the Indianapolis Zoo hosts its 47th year of Christmas at the Zoo presented by Donatos

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Canyon, and Indianapolis favorites Lucas Oil Stadium and the Soldiers And Sailors Monument. Your mini engineer will cheer to watch the trains go past one of the thirteen walk-under bridges too.

Magic Snowman Play at THE Children’s Museum December 5th through 31st Location: The Children’s Museum Of Indianapolis, downtown Indianapolis,

childrensmuseum.org/visit/calendar/ view/166 This interactive musical, based on the children’s classic tale, Stone Soup - offers a delightful message: When everyone makes a contribution to the snowman the collective impact makes a positive difference in all of their lives. Tickets are FREE - with paid Museum admission - for this seasonal show about a mysterious stranger who arrives to a village full of grumpy, gloomy and glum townspeople.

The show is recommended for kids ages 4+ and their families.

Peter Rabbit And Me November 21st through December 20th Location: Indiana Repertory Theatre, www. irtlive.com/plays-and-events/2015-2016season/peter-rabbit-and-me Cherished characters and their playful adventures. Meet young Beatrix Potter as she first begins to reshape her everyday life into the enchanting world of Flopsy, Mopsy and Cottontail. Join Peter Rabbit on his exciting adventures in Farmer McGregor’s Garden. This beloved classic is filled with humor, surprise, colorful characters and the simple magic of children’s imaginations. Tickets range from $8-$20.

Conservatory Crossing November 27th through December 31st Location: Garfield Conservatory and Sunken Gardens, http://garfieldgardens

conservatory.org/events.html

Enjoy the wonderland of the Garfield Conservatory as they transform their inner lobby into a beautiful winter paradise. See the Conservatory decked out in its holiday best with a brilliant display of poinsettias and enjoy model trains, train village and thousands of twinkling lights. Display done with support from The Indiana Rail Road Company.

The Polar Express On IMAX Now through December 17th Location: Indiana State Museum IMAX, downtown Indianapolis, https://www.imax.

com/oo/imax-indiana-state-museum/

It’s time for one of Indianapolis’ favorite holiday traditions: Seeing The Polar Express at the downtown IMAX theater inside the Indiana State Museum. Directed

by Robert Zemeckis and based on children's author Chris Van Allsburg's modern holiday classic, The Polar Express tells the story of Billy who longs to believe in Santa Claus. On Christmas Eve, a mysterious train visits promising to take Billy and a group of other lucky children to the North Pole for a visit with Santa. Catch this classic film in IMAX 3D with the whole family. Tickets required.

Christmas at the Puppet Studio December 8th through 28th

Jungle Jams: Preschool Rhythm Class December 1-2nd and 9-10th

Location: Peewinkles Puppet Studio, downtown Indianapolis, http://www.

Various Indianapolis Public Library branches, See http://www.indypl.org/events/

peewinkles puppets.com/

Join Mozart and Ludmilla, the mice that live in the studio’s piano, as they host a wonderful music-filled variety show of marionettes! Bring your whole family to this spirited holiday show which includes lots of audience participation, especially for a special rendition of the Twelve Days Of Christmas. Tickets $12; under 2 is free.

Conner Prairie By Candlelight December 4-5th, 11-12th, and 18-19th Location: Conner Prairie, Fishers, http:// www.connerprairie.org/Things-To-Do/ Events/2015/Family-Events/HolidaysOn-The-Prairie/Holidays-On-ThePrairie/Conner-Prairie-byCandlelight-(5) Venture out by candlelight on this family-friendly, 90-minute guided tour that takes visitors back more than 175 years ago to Prairietown where it’s the night before Christmas. Meet a variety of characters in their homes and help them with holiday preparation. This program is recommended for ages 7+. Registration is required.

Ride The Sullivan Santa Express Now through December 23rd Location: Sullivan’s Hardware, Indianapolis,

http://sullivanhardware.com/pages/ train-tickets-for-santa

Sullivan’s Hardware – located at 71st and Keystone – ups their usual holiday ante this year with a special Santa experience: The Sullivan Santa Express! Families will begin their journey in the Central Station (the main greenhouse), before proceeding to the ‘North Pole’ for a visit with Santa. The narrated train ride goes through bear country, the Sullivan tree lot and other fun stops. Tickets are required.

Science Masters Mini Golf December 29th through 31st Location: WonderLab Museum, Bloomington, Time: 11:30-3:30, http://wonderlab.org/

programs/events-calendar/sciencemasters-mini-golf.html

Play WonderLab's holiday indoor mini golf course with its ramps, tubes, water traps, and more to win prizes! Score one for science by learning about a different famous scientist at each themed hole. Tickets run $3 for an all-day golf pass. Additional museum admission is required.

detail/?event_id=4167&schedule_ id=46100 for exact locations.

The Indianapolis Public Library welcomes preschoolers under the age of 6 and an adult are invited to get ready to move to the beat of their favorite jungle animals.

Bongo Boy Music Center will bring animals to life by introducing basic rhythms and life skills, along with moving to the groove! This program is made possible by PNC through a gift to The Indianapolis Public Library Foundation.

Country Christmas At Stoneycreek Farm Now through December 21st Location: Stoneycreek Farm, Noblesville,

http://www.stonycreekfarm.net/ countrychristmas.htm

Continue a family tradition and take a hayride to the field to choose and cut your own Christmas tree! Stoneycreek Farm offers several varieties, including Canaan Fir, White Pine, Scotch Pine, and Norway Spruces. At the Greenhouse visitors will find a wide selection of freshly cut Fraser Fir trees, fresh wreaths, garland, kissing balls, and poinsettias. Call for more information.

The Nutcracker Ballet December 18th through 21st Location: Scottish Rite Cathedral Theater, downtown Indianapolis, http://www.

indyballet.org/performances/thenutcracker/

Just one of many local Nutcracker performances in the Indianapolis area (check www.indyschild.com/holiday-fun for a full listing!). This special show – offered by the Indianapolis School Of Ballet – brings the classic story of Clara and her beloved Nutcracker to life onstage at the Scottish Rite Cathedral Theater.

Bring home the holidays with a trip to see this yuletide classic. Be transported into Victorian Indianapolis where a Christmas tree grows over 20 feet before your very eyes! Tickets required.

Nickelodeon’s Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles “Secrets Of The Sewer” Occurring daily through April 10, 2016 Location: The Children’s Museum Of Indianapolis

https://www.childrensmuseum.org/ exhibits/future-exhibits Since 1984, these four iconic turtle brothers have rocked it with their talent and teamwork, inspiring generations. Now families can now join these pizza-eating, crime-fighting “Heroes in a Half-Shell” to hone their ninja skills and problem-solving intellects while learning the secrets of the sewer!

Nickelodeon’s CG-animated series breathes new life into the popular characters and now families will be able to join the team at The Children’s Museum Of Indianapolis.

Rad Science: Skatepark Physics September 5 through January 3, 2016 Location: Indiana State Museum

http://www.indianamuseum.org/exhibits/ details/id/887 Tweak your kickflip. Bust an ollie. Defy gravity and get some sick velocity. Every time your feet hit the skateboard, the laws of physics take you on a ride. Rad Science: Skatepark Physics explores the forces that make skateboarding the wicked fun pastime that heats up sidewalks, skateparks and half-pipes across the country. From constructing the perfect board to learning how to execute the perfect trick, this exhibition will use the power of physics to give your skateboarding savvy a rad new turn.

National Geographic Sacred Journeys Occurring daily through January 31, 2016 Location: The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis

https://www.childrensmuseum.org/ exhibits/future-exhibits Each year, more than 330 million people around the world—from all walks of life—journey to a sacred place. Through awe-inspiring immersive environments created with photography from National Geographic, visitors of The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis will be able to observe, discuss, and begin to understand some of the sacred journeys made by people around the world, from personal acts of faith to pilgrimages. Sacred journeys will include the Western Wall in Jerusalem, the Great Mosque in Mecca, the Ganges River in India, Bodh Gaya in India where Buddha is said to have achieved enlightenment, the Basilica of Our Lady of Guadalupe in Mexico City, and more.

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to ensure our calendar and guide information is accurate.

Occasionally, event specifics change after we go to press.

Therefore, we encourage our readers to call locations or visit them on the web to verify information.

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