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table of contents

pampering perks

finding hope through postpartum depression

in this issue NEWS & SHOPPING

Choosing the RIght Camp

Health & Wellness

around town

montessori schools: providing another option commentary & parenting

Local Go-Getters, Green Alternatives, Camps & More!

Brighten Your Smile With Cosmetic Dentistry

Hear Ye, Hear Ye—New Exhibit at the Children’s Museum

Building Self Confidence in Your Children

Breaking Into The Biz: Kids Can Learn Life Skills On Stage

Understanding Your Tween’s Newfound Self-Awareness

Support Local Sports

Watch, Don’t Wait: Learning to be a Watchful Parent

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Mommy makeover

ages & Stages

Museum Notes

Cutting-Edge Products for Kids Ages 0 - 12

Special Needs Awareness Special Needs Kids and the Challenges With Driving

February Sweets and Treats

Make Family Health Fun in February

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Arts & enrichment

pediatric health

Teens & Tweens

My Parent, My Mentor

profile

women’s health

DEAR TEACHER Adjusting to Growth, Report Card Anxiety, Test Weakness

Give All Your Heart to Your Health

growing up online Talking With Your Children About Online Avatars

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Building Self Confidence in Your Children I have a T-shirt with “Praise the Children and They Will Blossom,” and it ranks as one my favorite. It has colorful flowers and a watering can pouring out hearts. Just as we fertilize and water our flowers to produce the fullest blossoms, we must remember how important the loving structure we give our children is to help them grow into responsible adults. When you see or hear your child do an act of kindness, praise him. When he comes down to breakfast on time with a few chores done, praise him. It’s the little things that can make a difference, and children learn more from positive Enjoy family time reinforcement.

together at Indy’s Child’s 20th Annual Summer Camp Fair at the Indiana State Museum on February 28th from 10 a.m.-5 p.m.

My seamstress and her family arrived from Viet Nam when her children were ready for school. They not only learned English, but by the time they graduated from North Central, Long and Hi were also first and third in their graduating classes. Thuan Quan’s constant praising, high expectations and positive reinforcement by posting papers and grade cards all over the kitchen to recognize her children’s achievements certainly contributed to their success in school. Both boys received full academic scholarships to Duke University. When your child questions newspaper stories or the often violent reporting on the news, praise him for having empathy and try to explain the news the best way you can. Today’s news topics can be very stressful with children pictured on TV running from gunfire in war zones and the constant news

commentary about uncertain times we are experiencing. They must be encouraged to believe that the future will be bright for those who work hard and persevere. Parents are the primary teachers of their children. The first five years are the most important formative years for children. They will observe your reading, eating and exercise habits because they want to be like you, because they know that will please you. I was pleased to read that the Obama daughters will continue to clean their own rooms and make their own beds. Michelle Obama knows that there is life after the White House and she wants her children ready to adjust to different situations. Likewise, giving your children responsibilities they can handle is important. Sometimes the responsibilities need to be shared. Don’t be a martyr by doing them yourself. Instead, praise your child for helping in all areas of your home. In laying a good foundation for your child, consider a commitment to religious faith or joining familyoriented mentoring groups and organizations in your community. Most churches or family programs have classes and activities that build moral values and also create new friendships through peer groups that help build self-confidence. Additionally, having activities that you do together as a family is ideal. This can include attending church together or participating in family-oriented programs, going to athletic events, going to the movies, visiting grandparents, working in the yard, taking a walk or riding bicycles together. During all of these activities, your children will have a family bonding experience and lots of fun, too. They need to feel valued, so ask them to help out on these out-

ings. Unconditional love is the goal for families to share with each other. February is the shortest and the coldest month in Indiana. Don’t allow cabin fever to keep you inside all of the time or take away from your positive outlook. Valentine’s Day is a perfect opportunity to praise your children with poems and homemade valentines. You can also get out of the house together as a family and enjoy Indy’s Child’s 20th Annual Summer Camp Fair at the Indiana State Museum on February 28th from 10 a.m.-5 p.m. and find over 100 camps and summer programs. However your family expresses its feelings or bonding, remember that mutual respect for each other and hope for a better tomorrow are always part of the love they need. In closing, a friend gave me a good book for Christmas: Intentions, by Dianne Martin, a Butler professor. I like it very much because I have always claimed my middle name was “Good Intentions.” I always mean to do what I say, however, sometimes I have some difficulty finding the time.This book is a self-help book by seeking to help the reader absorb the good “intentions” into his/her own life. An example of such an intention: “I intend to give high priority to spending time with my family and friends, to know them, to care for them on a more personal and thoughtful level, to be responsive to their hopes, fears, aspirations and needs and to acknowledge that their presence in my life is a blessing.” Barbara Wynne is the Founding Publisher of Indy’s Child Parenting Magazine

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Local Go-Getters, Free Camps, Green Alternatives & More! Indy-Related Tidbits You Don’t Want to Miss

Free Camps for Military Kids The National Military Family Association, with funding through the Sierra Club and The Michael and Susan Dell Foundation, is sponsoring a camp program called Operation Purple® Camps. This is a FREE week of camp for children who have a parent or parents currently, recently or soon to be deployed and is exclusive to military families of all branches of the armed services, including Reserves and National Guard. With the theme “Children Serve Too,” it’s a chance to celebrate and explore the sacrifices the children make, as well.

Stay-At-Home-Mom Friendly Careers in Cosmetology With a souring economy, many SAHMs are finding the need to re-enter the workforce. During this time period there has been a tremendous upswing in the area of cosmetology including stylists, make-up artists, manicurists, massage therapists, estheticians and more. This flexible career is perfect for many moms, and it pays quite well, too. Average earnings for cosmetologists start at around $38,843 (excluding tips), while colorists, massage therapists and estheticians making even more. The versatility of such a position also opens doors to working in hotels, nursing home, cruise ships, in-home settings and much more. To find a listing of schools in your state, visit www.beautyschools.org.

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Camp organizers plan everything from bringing in Humvees, a Black Hawk Helicopter, visits from politicians and more all to encourage and support military children. The service that this camp provides families is critical to the region. Despite the number of parents deployed, kids are often the only one in their class dealing with the issues that face military families. This camp provides a safe haven for military children by surrounding them with others in the same situation. With over 100 of these camps around the country, three reside in Indiana. One near Purdue and YMCA Camp Carson in Princeton, Indiana, will host two weeks in 2009 serving about 220 kids. For more information visit www.nmfa.org and click on “Operation Purple® Camps.”

Local Farms Offer Great Addition to Green Living Trying to move to buying more of your produce locally? Consider becoming a member of a CSA or “Community Supported Agriculture.” This concept allows you to become a member or “shareholder” to a particular farm. Every month or week you make payments, most quite reasonable, in exchange for a weekly basket of produce that you pick up (some even deliver). To find a local CSA near you visit http://www.localharvest.org/csa/.

Indiana Father Earns his Ears as Sole Dad on Walt Disney World Moms Panel Doug Ingersoll of Carmel will join the 2009 Walt Disney World Moms Panel (www.disneyworldmoms.com) as a Disney-savvy vacation planner. Chosen from thousands of applicants, Ingersoll is one of 16 new parents to sit on the interactive online forum and will offer free trip planning advice to vacation planners. Ingersoll and his fellow panelists will offer personal tips and strategies to guests planning Walt Disney World vacations. As a member of the 2009 Walt Disney World Moms Panel, Ingersoll will field vacation-planning questions from park-goers looking to make the most of their Walt Disney World experience. Due to its popularity and invaluable compilation of the best and brightest Disney planning secrets for all families, the 2009 Moms Panel has extended its roster from 12 to 16 members to help field even more questions. Growing up in cities all around the world—from Madrid to Mexico City—the Ingersoll family spent every summer with the Mouse, which sparked a love of Disney knowledge. In 2009, Ingersoll authored The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Walt Disney World. As the only male on the panel, he hopes to bring a dad’s perspective to planning a Walt Disney World vacation, making sure that planners enjoy not only the parks, but also all the perks that Disney has to offer. “While planning a Walt Disney World vacation is very exciting, it can be quite intimidating, especially to the first-time guest,” says Meg Crofton, president of Walt Disney World Resort. “Our 2009 panel has the insight and know-how to help eliminate the guesswork and enhance any Disney experience.” Families planning a Disney vacation can log on to the Walt Disney World Moms Panel site at www.disneyworldmoms.com to receive valuable tips, perfected strategies and secrets from the 2009 panelists.

FEbruary 24 is Pancake Tuesday at IHOPs Across the U.S. Due to a tradition dating back to the 1500s, the English have “flipped” for pancakes in celebration of Shrove Tuesday, which heralds the beginning of fasting during Lent. Long ago, strict rules prohibited eating of all dairy products during Lent, so pancakes were made to use up the supply of eggs, milk, butter and other dairy products —hence the name Pancake Tuesday. This celebration will take place at IHOPs across the nation. On this day, they will be giving out free short stacks of buttermilk pancakes in exchange for a donation of the cost of the pancakes. One hundred percent of the proceeds will be given to local Children’s Miracle Network Hospitals.

Indiana Mom Launches Natural Skincare Line Develop-

ment of Green Elly Corporation™ was born within weeks of the namesake of her daughter, Elly. Founder Melissa Malcom was born and raised in Carmel, Indiana, and is a graduate of Indiana University. “I wanted a product that had a boutique feel, but was safe and healthy for my daughter,” she says.”I couldn’t find one on the market that met my high standards, so I developed the products after extensive research.” Her daughter was born with sensitive skin, so Melissa became more concerned with the warnings and harmful chemicals that littered most products. Cancer, reproductive and developmental issues seemed to follow virtually everything in sight. Green Elly products are made with natural, organic (when available), safe ingredients and are manufactured the green way. All products are made with 100% vegetarian ingredients and do not contain synthetic fragrances, colors, mineral oil, petroleum or propylene glycol—all of which are present in the majority of mainstream baby products. Products are also 100% paraben-free, phthalate free, sodium laurel sulfate-free, 1, 4 dioxane-free and Chirally-Correct™, meaning using only the best part of a molecule. For more information, visit www.greenelly.com.

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There’s good news for families with small babies that are seeking big savings: By law, less expensive store-brand infant formula must meet the same strict nutritional and packaging regulations determined by the Food and Drug Administration (FDA) as more expensive national brands. Experts agree mother’s milk is best for babies — and the least expensive — but many parents choose to supplement breast-feeding with formula or to formula-feed exclusively.

“New parents today are met with a dizzying array of marketing messages when it comes to doing what is best for their babies,” said Dr. Barbara Levine, Associate Professor of Nutrition in Medicine, Weill Medical College of Cornell University. “Nowhere is this truer than in the area of infant formulas. Thanks to strict government regulation, the fact is that there is very little, if any, differentiation in the nutritional values touted by the various national brands on the market, which means it’s OK to switch your baby to a store-brand formula.” For more information, visit www.parentschoiceformula.com or www.membersmarkformula.com.

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There are lots of ways to learn about your culture, and one that is getting a warm welcome from parents is an animated DVD series called â&#x20AC;&#x153;Global Wonders.â&#x20AC;? One of the first titles is designed to help children identify new places, people and customs from the African-American culture and from around the world by joining with main characters Trey and Alisha in a playdate of dreams and imagination.

In â&#x20AC;&#x153;Global Wonders: African-American,â&#x20AC;? viewers discover the famous art of Horace Pippin, the groundbreaking music of Louis Armstrong and the monumental contributions of Jackie Robinson. The series was created with support from developmental experts and cultural advisers Lori Lakin Hutcherson and Warren Hutcherson (â&#x20AC;&#x153;Everybody Hates Chrisâ&#x20AC;?). According to J. Kevin Nugent, Ph.D., Brazelton Institute, â&#x20AC;&#x153;The Global Wonders DVD titles encourage cooperative friendships and promote the values of curiosity, concern, generosity, loyalty and commitment in childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s relationships with each other.â&#x20AC;? Each DVD includes interactive features leading to deeper facts and discoveries, and participation-based musical segments introducing a culturally rich vocabulary. For more information, visit GlobalWonders.com.

A study published in the Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders from Cambridge University has found that watching the DVD for just 15 minutes a day for four weeks allowed children with autism to learn to recognize emotions as other non-autistic children do. For more information and where to purchase, visit thetransporters.com.

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Understanding Your Teen’s Newfound Self-Awareness Striking a Liveable Balance of both fear and excitement—fear about the loss of childhood, and excitement at the glimpse of adolescence. As a result, young teens need time and privacy to do some self-exploration: What is happening to my body? Why do I feel so stupid sometimes? Who do I want to be?

If you’ve heard any of these comments in your house, chances are you have a tween-age child. During this stage, your child’s developing sense of self often manifests itself in a need for his or her own physical space—a sanctuary from intrusive others. The young teen’s room is more than just a place to store belongings. It offers privacy and a sense of control, as well as a safe haven for exploring and practicing his or her identity. When a child reaches the teen years, her body, mind and emotions all begin to expand in scope and complexity. This maturation becomes a source

It also gives your young teen a rare opportunity to escape all the rules set for her by her parents, teachers, coaches, school bus drivers and even older kids. Often her room is the only place where she may be “queen of the castle,” and enjoy talking on the phone, doing homework or just daydreaming alone. Of course, not every family can give each child her own room. But you can do the next best thing

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Or, try “space scheduling”—allowing each child to have the bedroom (or other private place) alone for at least one hour a week. When the space is theirs, no one may intrude. (Ideally, there will be a door that can be closed for privacy; a large walk-in closet might even suffice.) Whenever possible, let your child make her own decisions in finding a way to personalize her space. Choosing her own colors, fabrics, and posters gives her a healthy way to try out his emerging identity and can ultimately help her find himself. “Fine,” you might say, “but does my child’s room have to be such a mess?” While most adults can handle letting a child make a few decorating choices, they are much less willing to give up their own standards of cleanliness just so their 13-year old can feel like a queen or king.

it also just seems so much easier, saving precious time and energy for more important activities like television, hockey, or nuzzling the dog.) Try to relax your ideals while holding firm to your bottom line. Nudging your expectations down a notch may make it possible to keep out the things that are completely intolerable, such as food or drinks in the room or laundry piled up for weeks, while still enabling your young teen to have some control. Also, consider the big picture: Does your child pick up after herself in the rest of the house, hang up her coat, and put pop cans in the recycling bin? This can make it easier to tolerate clothes on her floor or an occasional unmade bed. Some parents find that as long as their child’s room doesn’t become a fire hazard or begin to give off an odor, they can put up with dust or clutter. Some also find that given a little flexibility, their child eventually gets tired of the mess herself and cleans it up without being asked. Lisa Schab is a licensed clinical social worker in Libertyville, Illinois, and the stepmother of two, ages 25 and 29. She can be reached at 847-7821722.

Try to strike a livable balance between your limits and your child’s need to make decisions about her own space. In a preteen’s world, there are rules everywhere. Dropping clothes on the floor is a way to reject the adult rules and make her own; it is one small way of asserting her independence. (To the younger brain

ON THE WEB As a parent of a tween or teen, what self-awareness support tips do you have for others? What questions do you have? Visit www.indyschild.com and click on this column to leave your feedback.

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Does this sound familiar? “Mommmmmmm! Get her out of my room! She’s touching my things!” How about this: “I want to paint the ceiling black and put those glow-in-the-dark stars on it.” Or this: “Let’s go into my room so they can’t keep bugging us.”

This new sense of selfawareness often brings with it an increase in self-doubt, as well as some discomfort due to all the changes and uncertainties. Having a private place to ponder her transforming body and emotions, or to “hide” when she is feeling uncertain, can help your child wrestle with her doubts, practice the feeling of being alone and independent, and discover herself as a person separate from anyone else. It gives her the opportunity to work on making the transition from child to teen.

by finding a way to give her a space of her own— whether that is one side of a shared bedroom, a corner of the basement, or a card table in the family room. The important thing is to make sure that this area belongs to that child alone, and is respected by all family members.

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Watch, Don’t Wait: Learning to be a Watchful Parent Simple Steps Can Make a World of Difference Remember the phrase “Wait and see?” I used to hate that saying as a child because it meant ambiguity and living with the unknown. It certainly does imply holding off to see how things pan out. Sometimes, as parents, we adopt a wait and see mindset, but I think we should develop a watch and see mindset in its place. Last night, my son was helping with the dishes. He is 6, so this was quite comical—the dinner plates were like giant saucers in his hands. As I watched, I realized he had no idea what he was doing. Normally, I am so busy doing my thing, I miss things like that. All he needed was a little bit of direction. What could have ended up being a chipped plate or something crashing to the floor, coupled with tears and a sense of failure, turned out instead to be a learning experience and a confidence builder. All because I decided to watch instead of wait. “Watch and see” is a slightly different way of thinking. When we watch and see, we are being an active participant. When we wait and see, we are being more passive. And let me tell you, I know how long the day can get. There are many times I would rather “wait and see” from the fetal position under the covers than deal with what is going on in my house. But the truth is, when we pay attention and watch what is going on, we push our parenting skills to the proactive level. Issues like meltdowns, forgotten homework and fighting are often headed off by “watching.” By committing to watch, we develop a keen eye for issues on the horizon. It doesn’t take that much work, just a commitment to look out and pay heed to what is going on.

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Remember the phrase “Wait and see?” I used to hate that saying as a child because it meant ambiguity and living with the unknown.

Okay, that sounds great, until it is 8 p.m. and you are exhausted and all you can think about is the ten thousand things you have left on your “to do” list. How do you develop a watch and see mindset, and why should you? As far as the why goes, well, there are so many reasons.We can head off conflict, discover things we didn’t know about our kids, and make our lives a lot easier. We also teach our kids to avoid the emotional roller coaster that comes with conflict. What a gift to give our children, the gift of heading things off before they get out of control. We begin to “wire” our kids to address things before they escalate.

And now the how. The how of being a watchful parent is not so hard. It is a commitment to be present whenever possible. The key: Learning to be watchful takes a bit of practice. Here are some strategies. • Practice checking in several times a day. Assess how things are going. • Be mindful of pressure cookers. (Key times of day, people and places that are triggers; before school, after school, bedtime, transitions, certain friends, particular stores.) Know your family’s pressure cookers and watch over them. • Know the warning signs. (Voices getting louder and louder, or worse, silence, that hyper giggle that comes before a “crash,” banging, slamming.) • Take action. Put your vision to good use. Do what you need to do. Intervene, show by example, separate, distract, you name it. Put all that good awareness to use and watch how much you can minimize conflict and strife in your home. Try it and see what happens.

Maria Murphy is a speaker, consultant and writer. Her book and blog column can be found at www.simplyputtogether.com. Her new blog for parents and mentors can be found at www.mentoringsimplyput. blogspot.com. Maria Murphy writes a monthly mentoring column for Tutor/Mentor Connection of Chicago. Her column is distributed throughout mentoring agencies of N/E Florida. She is also a columnist for My Nassau Sun, of the Jacksonville Times Union.

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Hear Ye, Hear Ye — New Exhibit at The Children’s Museum Summoning all LEGO® Builders and Fans! As any parent can attest to, kids are natural builders. It isn’t long before they take a pile of blocks, shapes, and especially LEGO bricks, and figure out that they can stack them up to create a masterpiece. In the newest exhibit at The Children’s Museum, LEGO® Castle Adventure, children and families will get to do just that, using one of the greatest building materials of all time: LEGO bricks! The king and queen of the LEGO realm need a new castle and have summoned the best castle builders in the land to create a new home for their family. Enter the royal kingdom and learn from the secrets of the Master Builders about what it takes to build a castle able to withstand a mighty siege. Start your journey through the kingdom in the royal castle and see their majesties’ thrones.View the king’s treasure room, but don’t touch anything or you might end up being thrown in the dungeon. Wander the castle grounds to learn about life in the Middle Ages. Children can dress up in medieval-themed costumes or test out their knight skills on the safe “jousting field,” donning suspender-style horses with foam-rubber ® lances and jousting at soft targets. Start developing your family’s building skills by constructing a LEGO brick topiary for the courtyard. In your quest to create a new castle home for the king and queen, study secrets from real-world castles such as Blarney, Arundel and Neuschwanstein, which have been re-constructed by LEGO Master Builders out of LEGO bricks. Created specifically for LEGO Castle Adventure, these castles allow your family to examine how real castles were planned and built.

Lego Castle Adventure is open Jan. 31 through May 3, 2009 at the The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis.

It takes all kinds of people to build and run a castle. Using your new engineering skills, build your own castle—LEGO brick by LEGO brick—in one of three age-appropriate build areas. Toddler “Apprentice Builders” will enjoy creating a castle from soft, oversized LEGO foam bricks; 3- to 6-yearold “Journeymen Builders” can construct their creations from DUPLO® bricks; and “Master Builders” (ages 7 and up) can use their new-found knowledge to build their castle from standard LEGO bricks. Master Builders can even plan out their build on simulated LEGO “brick paper.”

Once your family has learned the building skills necessary to construct your lord and lady’s new home, test out your castle’s defenses from attack. Virtually build your castle walls using a 3-D computer program and test your fortress’ strength against a real-world catapult! Using trial-and-error, discover the best method for constructing walls able to withstand a siege. And, of course, no trip to a castle would be complete without a resident dragon. In the dragon’s cave, your family can create and share a fantastical story about knights and kings, princesses and dragons. Watch out though, like all moms, this mama dragon is protective of her baby. A world of imagination and learning is constructed for children and families in LEGO Castle Adventure. Created by The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis in conjunction with LEGO® Systems, Inc., LEGO Castle Adventure is open Jan. 31 through May 3, 2009. Castles might belong more to the Middle Ages, but the skills of planning, creativity and imagination learned in a trip through LEGO Castle Adventure are valuable to every age. Jaclyn Falkenstein is the public relations coordinator at The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis.

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H e a lt h & W e lln e ss

mommy makeover

Brighten Your Smile With Cosmetic Dentistry See Yourself in a New Light A smile can brighten your face, light up a room and express feelings of happiness, love and understanding. But if you are unhappy with your teeth, smiles are often dimmed or avoided altogether. This should not be the case any longer. With a variety of

cosmetic dentistry options, you don’t have to settle for stained, chipped or misshapen teeth—you now have choices that can help you smile with confidence. Even a subtle change in your smile can make a dramatic difference in the way you look and feel about yourself.

A protective gel or rubber shield is used to protect the gums. More than one visit may be required. Another option is an at-home bleaching agent dispensed by your dentist. These whiteners contain peroxide, which actually bleaches the tooth enamel. They usually come in a gel, placed in a mouthguard, and are used daily or overnight for a week or two.

A smile can brighten your face, light up a room and express feelings of happiness, love and understanding. Cosmetic dentistry options include: • Tooth whitening, or bleaching, which brightens teeth that are discolored or stained. Bleaching may be done completely in the dental office, or the dentist may dispense a system for you to use at home. For in-office whitening, a bleaching agent is applied to the teeth, and a special light or laser is often used to enhance the whitening action.

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• Braces – they’re not just for kids. Orthodontics can correct problems such as crooked or crowded teeth, overbites and under bites. The biological process of moving teeth is the same at any age, although adult treatments may take a little longer. Braces today don’t have to be as noticeable as those shiny silver smiles we remember from junior high. Brackets—the part of the braces that attach to each tooth—are smaller and can sometimes be attached to the back of the tooth.They can be made of metal, ceramic, plastic or a combination of materials; some are even clear or tooth-colored. If you want to impress your kids—or support your favorite team—you can even get brackets shaped like hearts or footballs and elastics (rubber bands) in your favorite colors.

• Bonding, which can improve the appearance of teeth that are chipped, broken, cracked, stained or have spaces between them. With bonding, tooth-colored materials are applied, or bonded, to the tooth surface. • Enamel shaping – this involves modifying teeth to improve their appearance by removing or contouring enamel. The process, which often is combined with bonding, usually is quick and comfortable, and the results can be seen immediately. • Veneers, which are thin custom-made shells designed to cover the front side of teeth. Made of tooth-colored materials, veneers are used to treat spaces between teeth and teeth that are chipped or worn, permanently stained, poorly shaped or slightly crooked. To learn more about cosmetic dental options that might be right for you and your smile, talk to your dentist or visit the American Dental Association Web site at www.ada.org. Lisa Young Stiers is Senior Staff Writer for Indy’s Child and Cincinnati Parent. She lives in Brownsburg, Indiana with her two sons and husband.

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FEATURE

pampering perks

Local Maternity Centers Offer a 4-Star Experience

century ago, when nearly all women gave birth at home, with little luxury or convenience, Methodist Hospital’s Maternity Center welcomed its first baby, a boy named Fletcher born to missionary parents home on furlough from India. Fletcher’s parents, Rev. and Mrs. David O. Ernsberger, would likely not even recognize today’s modern maternity centers. Filled with perks and pampering options for both expectant parents, the labor and delivery suites at local hospitals can rival a four-star hotel — in addition to the top-notch medical care Indianapolis families have come to expect. “You can have all these amenities, but if you don’t give good care it doesn’t make any difference,” says Jan Schoonveld, clinical director of Maternity Services at Community North. “We try to help meet patients’ needs and make it a four-star experience.” Families have come to expect good care, so these special options may tip the scales in determining which hospital a family selects for delivery. “At the end of the day, they all expect good care wherever they go in Indianapolis, so they really are looking at the amenities,” says Michelle Slayman, clinical director of OB Services at St.Vincent Carmel. “They seem to be very popular with families.” Preplanning ease BirthNotes, offered by St.Vincent Carmel Hospital, offers parents a free, one-on-one visit with a registered nurse to answer questions, address concerns and make plans for the upcoming birth. A private tour and help with pre-admission are also included, so the actual day of delivery is less hectic. “Our idea with that is for parents to gain some control over their birth experience and alleviate some of the fears of the unknown,” Slayman says. “It takes some of the nervousness away from the father and mother and empowers them.” Space for family While a private labor/delivery/recovery room is standard, these rooms are now expanding to include space for spouses, grandparents, siblings and anyone else a new parent wants to invite to visit. 20 INDY’S CHILD * FEBRUARY 2009

At Community North, this extra space is affectionately called the “Daddy Den,” Schoonveld says. It includes a sofa, chair, desk — and a second television, so fathers and family members don’t disturb a resting mom. The extra square footage also allows more people to attend the big event. “We allow (expectant parents) to create their own birth experience, meaning they can have whomever they would like in their labor-delivery-recovery room as long as the physician can still provide the best possible care to the patient,” says Joy E. Smith, Clarian North spokesperson. At Riverview Hospital, a private area, called the “Dads’ Retreat,” offers families a place to go when mom needs a break. Families often use it as a place to wait during delivery or to have a pizza celebration with siblings, says Theresa Lueder, clinical operations director of Women and Children’s Services at Riverview. Room service Babies don’t keep a schedule, neither before they’re born nor after, and now parents don’t have to scrounge for food outside normal dining hours. Restaurant-style room service is available at several maternity centers, including Community North, Clarian West, Clarian North, St.Vincent Carmel and Riverview. “Our on-demand room-service style meals are well-received, not only because the food is great and delivered on a tray with a flower by a food service caregiver but it is also flexible,” says Cathy Stoll, Clarian West spokesperson. “After a long day in labor, if what mom really wants is pancakes and eggs for dinner, she can have it.” Riverview Hospital offers around-the-clock access to a Nourishment Center filled with snacks and drinks for both mom and dad. St.Vincent Carmel also offers a warm cookie lounge and a birthday cake celebration for families. Clinical aromatherapy Laboring mothers at Community North Hospital now have an extra weapon in their arsenal to manage the pain of childbirth: clinical aromatherapy, or the use of pure essential oils, to help them relax, relieve pain and nausea and enhance their birth experience. Trained nurses have a repertoire of essential oils that can be used in a variety of ways—from body

application and massage to soaking in a warm bath, inhaling on a cotton ball or spritzing the room. Aromatherapy is a complimentary therapy and doesn’t take the place of quality medical care and technology, but it can act as a bridge, for example, when it’s too early for an epidural. Personalized web pages Free, personalized web pages allow families to create an online scrapbook, posting pictures and information about the new baby, and to invite family members and friends to view them and post congratulations. “It is a quick and easy way to communicate the news that the baby is born and therefore cuts down on the number of phone calls the new parents have to make,” says Smith of Clarian North’s CarePages. Other perks Modern electronics — flat-screen tvs, dvd players, Internet access — are nearly standard, along with refrigerators. But many local maternity centers have unique perks. On the maternity floor at Riverview Hospital is a photography studio, where a professional photographer offers black-and-white photos, family portraits, birth announcements, and more.The nursery also features a charming “starlight” ceiling. Riverview also features a Women’s Boutique with gifts, breastfeeding supplies for sale or rent and bra fitting service. Every new mom receives a special gift from the boutique and information about services. St.Vincent Carmel offers complimentary massages for new moms. At Clarian West, every patient room has either a garden or water view. Lisa Young Stiers is Senior Staff Writer for Indy’s Child and Cincinnati Parent. She lives in Brownsburg, Indiana with her two boys and husband.

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Planning a family can be overwhelming. Clarian North Medical Center is here to help. We offer a variety of educational classes to walk you through preconception, pregnancy and beyond:

Back to Work & Breastfeeding FEBRUARY 10, 10:30 A.M. – NOON MARCH 10, 10:30 A.M. – NOON Clarian North Medical Center $25 per couple

Especially for Children FEBRUARY 7, 9:30 A.M. – 10:30 A.M. MARCH 7, 9:30 A.M. – 10:30 A.M. Clarian North Medical Center $20 per family

Mommy and Baby Yoga FEBRUARY 26, 11:30 A.M. – 12:45 P.M. Clarian North Medical Center $90 per couple

FREE Toddler Time TUESDAYS, 10:00 A.M. – 11:30 A.M. Clarian North Medical Center

Going back to work? Breastfeeding? This 90 minute class, taught by a registered nurse certified as a lactation counselor or consultant, is for you! Generally, taking this class about 4 weeks before returning to work will help prepare you and your family for this next step. Based on class members' needs, topics may include: breast pumps and supplies, milk storage and pumping, baby and mommy transition and timing, working with your employer and daycare provider, and best tips for success! Babies welcome!

Help your children prepare for their new role of big brother or sister. Class is filled with activities to help explain how siblings may feel and how they can safely play and help with the new baby. Children are assured that they are very special people in their families and will remain loved as much as ever after the birth of the baby.

Learn and enjoy the many benefits of a gentle yoga routine during the childbearing years. Taught by a certified instructor, this 6-week series will help prepare you for birth, and help you tone up after birth. Yoga can help reduce aches and pains related to pregnancy, and speed recovery postpartum.

Join us for this support group for parents of toddlers ages one to three. Discuss topics such as potty pitfalls with a Pediatric Nurse Practitioner while you meet other moms and dads.

To register, please visit clariannorth.com/classes. Call 317-688-2465 with questions. Clarian North Medical Center is located at 116th & North Meridian in Carmel. INDYSCHILD.COM 21

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FINDING

through

PO S TP A R T U M DEPRESSION Kelly Huff didn’t know she had postpartum depression (PPD). “I knew the way I was feeling wasn’t normal or healthy. I’m not a person that goes to the doctor a lot, but I knew that something was wrong,” she says. The 30-year-old Indianapolis mother of 2 swallows back tears as she admits there was a time when she had a hard time liking her son. “For a few months of motherhood, I was going through the motions of being a mom, but not the emotions of it.” Instead, she felt very irritable and short-tempered. She also experienced what Huff describes as a physical manifestation of anxiety. “There was a buzzing feeling in my neck. Almost an electrical feeling. I had great pressure on my chest.You think you are having a heart attack, but it’s not constant.” What was constant was her feeling of being in a depressed state. She says her mood was low and she could be angered easily. And it was at the height of these bad times when her physical symptoms kicked in. “Lack of sleep was a huge trigger,” as were times when her new son was out of sorts. On top of extreme fatigue she felt hopeless. “I knew I didn’t want to kill myself. I knew if I could step outside of myself I would see I had a great life and tons of people would do anything to have my life.That’s when I knew there was something wrong.” She adds, “What was I going to do? Was I going to write a letter to my kids telling them I couldn’t hack it?” Huff ’s despair grew into obsessive thoughts of killing herself. “I couldn’t help but think about it. Like in bed at night. I would think ‘I don’t want to do it, but if I did, what would I do?’ I thought ‘I could go down to the car right now and shut all the doors and call somebody and tell them to get the kids and then just go to sleep.’” Postpartum depression affects between 10 and 20 percent of all new moms and can occur anytime within the first year of having a baby, according to the president of Postpartum Support International and coordinator for Clarian Health’s Perinatal Mood Disorders Program Birdie Gunyon Meyer, RN, MA, CLC. If left untreated, it can become chronic. Meyer says that through it all, there is hope and health. “It’s 100 percent treatable.You need to know that you’re not alone. You’re not to blame. With treatment you will be well.” The treatment Meyer speaks of comes in various forms and may include getting education on PPD, taking better personal care of yourself, finding a personal support system, seeking counseling, taking medications, doing acupuncture, hospitalization or any number of other treatments depending on individual needs. Because Huff believed that something was physiologically wrong with her, she went to her doctor armed with specific notes on her thoughts, emotions and actions on bad and so-so days. “There were no good days.” Her doctor, who is trained in both alternative Eastern medicine and Western osteopathic medicine, talked with her about her symptoms and ran some tests. The results revealed she had PPD. “Just reading that piece of paper, I felt like I was going to be okay. It confirmed it was a real thing. I’m not just freaking out because I have two kids. It was liberating.” While depression affects the new mom, it also affects her children and significant other. Huff says that it was difficult for her husband to understand her depression at first, but when he saw the diagnosis from the doctor, it was easier for him to understand her emotions and behavior. Huff chose to take a natural road to recovery. Her regime includes acupuncture, cranial sacral therapy and supplements. Within the first month, she felt much better. She also emphatically points to her friends, who have provided support every step of the way.

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Unlike Huff, not everyone immediately recognizes the need to seek help. Despite experiencing rapid weight loss and depression, Khristie, a 30-yearold mother of three who lives in Noblesville, says it was her son’s doctor who first said something to her during a routine infant well check. “He knew right away I had PPD. I didn’t even realize that is what I had or that it was even noticeable to other people.” “I felt so mad at myself for not being able to be happy that my son was finally here. I couldn’t understand why I was not just happy.” She went so far as to look into giving her son up for adoption. Once he had been given up, she planned to take her own life. Fortunately her depression was caught and treated before it was too late. Once diagnosed with PPD, the doctor put her on medication and called her once a week. “He was the best doctor I have ever had. I believe he saved my life.” Meyer says people often don’t realize that they have PPD.They often act as if it is a weakness or that they shouldn’t get it because they are too strong for a mental illness. They need to realize that it is not their fault. Because so many women experience PPD, expecting and new moms and their families should know the signs of PPD. They include: • Loss of interest or pleasure in life • Loss of energy and motivation to do things • Sleeping too much or too little • Eating too much or too little • Feeling like life isn’t worth living • Irritability, anxiety or restlessness • Feeling worthless and guilty • Feeling overwhelmed • Doubting self • Experiencing anger • Withdrawal from friends and family • Having trouble remembering, focusing or making decisions • Crying a lot • Having thoughts of hurting yourself • Thinking about hurting your baby If a new mom exhibits signs of PPD, St. Vincent’s Roberta Murphy, MSW, LCSW says women should seek help sooner than later. “The first thing they can do is take good care of themselves and get good support. They shouldn’t just grit their teeth and bare it. Take as good physical care of themselves as they can, get help with the nighttime feedings and seek a doctor immediately. There is hope. There is help.” For help or more information on PPD contact Clarian Health at 9628191, St.Vincent Hospital at 415-7676, Community Health Network at 621-7828 or Postpartum Support International at 800-944-4PPD or go to postpartum.net. There is also a two-day conference on PPD March 12 and 13 in Bloomington. Call 317-962-8078 for more information.

Carrie Bishop is a freelance writer and mother of two young sons, whose daily antics inspire her work and her life.

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From Sippy Cups to Student Loans:

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The Urgency of Saving Now Tuition and fees. Textbooks. Room and board. Campus activity fees. These words may not be part of your vocabulary today, but they will be soon. Today your shopping cart holds sippy cups and baby blankets, but before you know it, the check-out will include much larger items. I often have the opportunity to speak to crowded rooms of young parents to urge them to begin saving. When I speak of the expected cost of a college education for the high school class of 2020, fear and disbelief appear in the eyes looking back at me. CollegeBoard, a group that studies trends in collegiate pricing, reports that last year’s college costs increased 6.4 percent and estimates the cost of a four-year public institution for today’s newborns will be $170,000. A private school or college will be double that figure. To provide a current perspective, the 2008 graduating college class walked off campus carrying two things: a new diploma and, on average, $22,700 in debt. The need to save has never been greater. Market conditions during the last several months have scared many away from investing. But investing is never a short-term mission; it should always be viewed for the long term. Let’s look at that debt that this year’s graduates are bearing. If their parents had opened a 529 plan account 18 years ago and had started saving just $44 per month, with a 7% return (the historical average during that period), they would have accumulated $22,700. Now, according to The College Board, the average student graduates college with $22,700 in student loans, so the student could have used the 529 funds and graduated with zero debt. On the other hand, for those graduates who now have to pay off the $22,700, if they acquire the funds with a 7% loan, it will cost

them $236 a month and will take nearly twenty years before they’re debt free. Said differently, you can invest, and thus “pay” yourself $44 dollars a month for eighteen years, or pay back someone else at $236 a month for twenty years. Clearly, it costs less to save than to borrow. Indiana’s CollegeChoice 529 plan was recently re-launched with UPromise Investments, Inc. as plan administrator. UPromise provides a direct plan for those who wish to invest on their own (please see www.CollegeChoicePlan.com) or an advisor plan for those who already use the services of a financial professional. Either plan offers great opportunities to invest and both offer the UPromise Rewards program, which allows you to receive cash back for routine credit card purchases, and UGift, which allows savers to invite family and friends to help save for a child’s education. These programs make the point in these difficult times that saving should be a daily event and offer up to a 20 percent tax credit against Indiana income taxes. Soon, instead of fitting car seats and strollers into a shopping cart, you’ll be writing checks for the one item that will never be outgrown, worn out or be unused: a college education. The future is coming fast, so start investing today. Richard Mourdock is the Indiana State Treasurer.

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Choosing a sleep-away camp experience can be scary for parents—especially for first-time campers. It’s important to remember that there is a camp ideally suited for every child. The benefits of camp—independence, self-confidence, leadership and social skills, a chance to unplug and interact with nature, and an opportunity to take healthy risks in a safe environment—last a lifetime. When making the decision to send your child to sleep-away camp, it’s important to determine if your child is ready. Children are ready for new experiences at different stages. Parents know their children best and these questions can help gauge whether this is the summer your child will start camp. • What is your child’s age? Children under age 7 may not adjust easily to being away from home. Consider the day camp experience to prepare them for future overnight camp. • How did your child become interested in camp? Does your child talk about camp on a sustained basis? How much persuasion is necessary from you? • Has your child had positive overnight experiences away from home? Visiting

paring him or her for an overnight camp in the future.

relatives or friends? Were these separations easy or difficult? • What does your child expect to do at camp? Learning about the camp experience ahead of time allows you to create positive expectations. • Are you able to share consistent and positive messages about camp? Your confidence in a positive experience will be contagious. Camps offer widely varying options to help parents and children reach their goals for summer fun and exploration. Talking with your child about the goals you both share helps determine which choice is right for you, and the choices are many. Camp can last for just a few days or stretch to all summer long. It’s well worth the trouble to investigate the variety of choices offered by camps before your child packs a backpack. Day camp can be the perfect fit if your child is ready for camp, but not overnight away from home. Day camp can also be the perfect first camp experience for a younger child—pr

If your family decides on a resident camp, the next question is where do you want your child to go to camp? Locally or far away? A local camp is easier to evaluate and visit; friends and family are likely to be familiar with the camp; there are minimal travel costs; and your child will likely have contact with classmates or children from the same region. A far away camp opens up more possibilities and more choices; offers the opportunity for different experiences, different geography, and even different languages; promotes independence— particularly for early and late adolescent campers—and provides your child with the chance to interact with a diversity of campers. There are other things to consider as a family— short or long sessions that run from one week to all summer. Does your child prefer a singlegender camp or a co-ed camp? Choices also abound when it comes to camp programs. One may highlight a wide variety of activities geared to campers of all ages and skill levels; others, because of their setting and expertise, may con-

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The Montessori philosophy was developed by Dr. Maria Montessori, the first Italian woman to graduate from medical school in Rome in 1896. Her philosophy supports the fundamental tenet that a child learns best within a social environment that supports each individual’s unique development.

Montessori Schools: Providing Another Option A Different Approach to Education

A soft buzz of activity f ills the elementary classroom at Maria Montessori International School on Indianapolis’ Northwestside. Tucked in a corner, two girls quiz each other on math facts. At a table nearby, another girl proudly declares that she has found a book on Indiana and begins researching the state. Sitting in the middle of the floor, a boy fills his mat with French, matching words and pictures in a language activity. The walls are lined with low shelves, neatly holding educational supplies and tools, and small child-sized tables are scattered throughout the room. There are no rows of desks, and no distracting clutter filling the walls. Montessori classrooms like this one are drawing interest on all sides of the city for their child-centered philosophy, based largely on the developmental needs of each child, a non-competitive environment, hands-on education, and independent and individualized learning plans. The Montessori philosophy was developed by Dr. Maria Montessori, the first Italian woman to graduate from medical school in Rome in 1896. Her philosophy supports the fundamental tenet that a child learns best within a social environment that supports each individual’s unique development. “Montessori is a unique method of introducing the pre-school child to a lifetime of enjoyable learning,” says Ranee Dhadialla, president and directress of The International Montessori School in Indianapolis, which serves preschoolers and kindergarteners, ages 3 to 6. “Special materials, largely manipulative in nature, help the child’s developmental needs, enabling the child to learn how to do things for himself. He develops self-confidence and a positive self-image from these experiences. The whole concept of Montessori education is based on the premise that given the right environment every child can learn at his or her own developmental capacity.” That student driven environment impressed Susan Berry, whose three children all attended a Montessori program. Her youngest son, now a first grader, attended International 30 INDY’S CHILD * FEBRUARY 2009

Montessori School for both preschool and kindergarten. “It’s very tailored to your child,” Berry explains. “My children are smart, and they were able to move along at a pace that was good for them. But because of the individualized structure, all children co-exist in a classroom and they move along at their own pace.” When she discovered the Montessori philosophy, Jama McKinney was looking for a school that would support her 4-year-old daughter as an independent learner. “I had my daughter in a traditional educational daycare. I would get comments from the teachers saying they were concerned because Sarah wasn’t participating in the group activities or she wasn’t willing to stop one activity to go on to another,” McKinney says. “Deep down, I really didn’t see this as something to be concerned with. I saw it as Sarah exploring and focusing on activities that were challenging or interesting to her. When I asked what the group activities were, I found that they were things she already had mastered.” A year ago, McKinney enrolled Sarah at Center Grove Montessori, where she is thriving. “I like that her natural interests are explored and guided,” McKinney says. “She is able to focus on an interest without interruption. The teachers guide her to let her know what is available and how to f ind information. They are loving and genuinely interested in the success of every child.” Personalized Instruction In a Montessori classroom, each child’s academic goals are individualized, based on his strengths, weaknesses and interests. This allows each child to master a skill without the pressure of keeping up with — or waiting for — other students in the class. While students are given a choice of academic activities, it is a misconception that Montessori students are allowed to do whatever they want, educators say. “There are freedoms with limits,” says Michelle Foster, administrator and teacher’s assistant

at Center Grove Montessori, which serves ages 2 ½ to 6. “We’re constantly observing and evaluating, and we direct them to a variety of learning jobs. In the Montessori classroom, everything has a purpose.” At Maria Montessori International School, elementary students meet with the teacher each Friday to develop a contract outlining planned accomplishments for the next week. Then, students are free to select which subjects and activities they work on each day, as long as they work their way through the entire contract during the week. Completed activities are recorded on the contract. “If a child wants to work on math and it takes the whole day to do it, then it takes the whole day to do it,” says Vivian Cain, founder and lead directress of Maria Montessori International School, which serves children from toddlers through age 9. Infant care (ages 3 months and older) will be added in May. A second location in Brownsburg serves ages 1 to 6 years, while a third location, serving children ages 3 months to 6 years, will open in Zionsville in May. Cristina Hernandez, whose two children attend Maria Montessori International School, appreciates that students have some control over their education. “They’re not demanded to do something,” she explains. “It comes from their own free will.” Hernandez says her 7-year-old daughter, now a f irst grader, has learned discrimination and independent thinking because of the freedom she’s given as a Montessori student. “I wanted her to learn to choose based on her own values — to analyze whether something is right or wrong,” says Hernandez, who valued the Montessori philosophy so much that she earned Montessori certif ication and now teaches preschoolers. Students do not receive traditional grades; instead, mastery is key. Teachers are constantly observing and evaluating so they can present information again if a student

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is struggling. “If they fail a task, you don’t tell them they failed,” Cain says. “Teachers present the information again. You don’t just go on. It’s a matter of mastery, not A, B, C or D.” As children progress, they build on these mastered skills. “We continually build on what they know. Nothing is ever presented once,” Foster says. “It’s a much more well-rounded education. Students are not boxed in to learn just for a test.” Information is very deliberately presented — from concrete to abstract, from simple to difficult. The Montessori method generally starts with an overview. Then, the details follow, so that children understand how the details fit into the whole, instead of seeing them as just unrelated facts. Much of the learning is hands-on, using the approximately 500 specially designed materials that fill a Montessori classroom. Guest instructors and field trips are also common. One special visitor for preschoolers at Little Flower Montessori Preschool in Zionsville recently was a live llama — in the classroom. Children were able to touch and feel the llama’s wool, then learn how to use a spinning wheel to spin the wool into yarn and use it to knit. “The children had a real profound experience that they still remember today. As a class, we went on to dye the wool into a rainbow of colors and felted the wool to make beautiful pictures,” says Robin Fowler, owner and di-

rector of Little Flower Montessori, which plans to open a second location in Carmel this fall for preschoolers and f irst through third graders. “I truly believe in offering children a ‘whole experience.’” Classroom Design A Montessori classroom is a very carefully designed learning environment, one that is stimulating, interesting and developmentally appropriate. Materials are neatly organized on low shelves, contained in small, color-coordinated baskets and childsize furnishings encourage independence.

“They know exactly where everything goes,” says Cain, noting that even in the toddler room children neatly put things away before selecting another activity. An important aspect of Montessori materials is that they are beautiful, simple, appealing and interesting. The child wants to handle them — to touch them, manipulate them and hold them. That means from the beginning they are drawn to the materials and start to use them instinctively. For ages 3 to 6, activities are neatly arranged on the shelves in sequential order, from top to bottom and left to right. Once one activity is mastered, children can advance independently to the next, building on skills they have learned. Classroom layout is also important. Montessori classrooms are divided into sub-

ject areas, each with specif ic activities and learning materials. Areas are: • Language arts, both spoken and written components • Math • Culture, which includes geography, botany, history, zoology, science, art and music • Sensorial, which helps students discover the world through their senses. • “The sensorial materials help the child become aware of details, differentiations and gradations,” Dhadialla explains. “Each isolates one defining quality, such as color, weight, shape, texture, size, sound or smell.” • Practical life Mixed-age Classes Maria Montessori discovered that putting older and younger children together helps them learn from and teach each other. So, classrooms group students as such: typically ages 3 to 6 (preschool and kindergarten), 6 to 9 (first to third grades), 9 to 12 (fourth to sixth grades) and 12 to 13 (seventh and eighth grades).

“Children learn and develop at different rates. By mixing the ages in the classroom, all the emphasis is placed on the child’s developmental age and not chronological age,” Dhadialla explains. “Students also learn to

work with both younger and older students. This helps to improve their social skills and instills responsibility in older children for their younger colleagues.” Specialized Teachers To be a Montessori teacher, called a directress, professionals must receive specialized training in addition to a traditional college degree. The specialized training includes learning to become a scientif ic observer and a guide through the Montessori materials. The educator provides an environment that is developmentally appropriate to help students grow in all areas: social, cognitive, emotional and physical.

Certif ication is available through organizations like the American Montessori Society (www.amshq.org) or the International Montessori Society (www.imsmontessori. org). Montessori is not a trademarked name, so it’s important to investigate a potential school to ensure teachers are certif ied and the program truly follows the Montessori philosophy, Cain says. Lisa Young Stiers is Senior Staff Writer for Indy’s Child and Cincinnati Parent. She lives in Brownsburg, Indiana with her two boys and husband.

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education directory Brownsburg Maria Montessori International Academy 431 E. Northfield Dr. Brownsburg 317-852-3900 www.mariamontessori-intl.org Ages: 12 months to 6 years Maria Montessori International Academy offers a child centered Montessori program allowing children to learn at their own pace and are treated with respect. Teachers encourage and inspire children to do not only the minimum, but also their best, where learning should be a happy, joyous experience! Children learn how to think for themselves and how to solve problems in original and creative ways and have a positive selfimage. Children participate in math, language, music, art, practical life, science, geography, and foreign language. Discover the Difference at the Maria Montessori! Now accepting applications for all ages toddlers, Pre-K and Kindergarten.

Carmel Carmel Montessori Schools, Inc. Emily & Scott Rudicel 1402 W. Main St. Carmel 317-580-0699 info@carmelmontessori.com www.carmelmontessori.com Ages: Pre-school through Kindergarten. Carmel Montessori School is located on the beautiful campus at St. Christopher’s Church on the NE corner of Main St. and Meridian in Carmel. Our directress is American Montessori Certified with 10 years head-teaching experience. We offer a beautiful, peaceful and positive Montessori learning environment. Extended days available.

Clay Montessori Peggy White 463 East Main St. Carmel 317-849-9519 or 317-580-1850 Ages: 3-6 Call for more information. (Affiliated with Fisher’s Montessori). Morning, afternoon and fullday programs.

The Montessori Learning Center Elizabeth Williams 1402 W. Main St. Carmel 317-846-8182 elizabeth@themontessorilearningcenter.com 34 INDY’S CHILD * FEBRUARY 2009

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The Montessori Learning Center Elementary program focuses on developing the whole child through interaction with an interdisciplinary curriculum. Our program specifically meets the needs of each child and is aligned with Indiana State Standards.

317-849-9519 or 317-580-1850 Ages: 3-9 A quality learning environment offering preschool, kindergarten and elementary. Certification through American Montessori Society. 9-12, 12:30-3, 9-3.

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Carmel - Zionsville Maria Montessori International Academy 6857 West Stonegate Drive Zionsville 317-769-2220 www.mariamontessori-intl.org Ages: 3 months to 6 years old Maria Montessori International Academy offers a child centered Montessori program allowing children to learn at their own pace and are treated with respect. Teachers encourage and inspire children to do not only the minimum, but also their best, where learning should be a happy, joyous experience! Children learn how to think for themselves and how to solve problems in original and creative ways and have a positive self-image. Children participate in math, language, music, art, practical life, science, geography, and foreign language. The lead teachers possess bachelor degree and certification in Montessori Education. Discover the Difference at the Maria Montessori! Now accepting applications for all ages starting 3 months to 6 years located in Stonegate, Zionsville, IN.

Central IUPUI Center for Young Children Beth Jeglum, Director 321 Limestone Indianapolis 317-274-3508 bjeglum@iupui.edu childcare.iupui.edu Ages: 2-5 year olds NAEYC Accredited; State Licensed. Spanish at age 2. Located on the IUPUI campus, the Center for Young Children offers a hands-on approach to learning and play that helps children develop to their full potential. The 30,000-square-foot facility was designed to foster the development of young children. $162-$221 per week. 6:30-6 M-F. Call today for a tour!

Fishers Fishers Montessori Peggy White 12806 Ford Rd and 131st and Allisonville Rd. Fishers

Mindy Smith 12290 Olio Road (Olio Road between 116th street and 126th street) Fishers 317-577-9480 mindy@primrosegrayeagle.com Ages: Infants thru full day kindergarten. Before/after care available. At Primrose School at Gray Eagle we offer much more than a daycare experience. Our exclusive Balanced Learning curriculum prepares your child for academic success while fully integrating character development - creating a well-rounded young individual. Our safe, secure environment will provide you with peace-ofmind, knowing that your child is safe, happy and growing everyday! Full Time: $220 - $320 per week depending on age. Visit www.PrimroseGrayEagle.com for more information.

Geist My Backyard Fine Arts Preschool at Geist Sports Academy 11960 East 62nd Street Indianapolis 317-823-7734 www.geistsportsacademy.com Ages: 2 year-Pre K (5 year) NOW ENROLLING FOR 2008-2009. Children will discover their unique selves and learn about the world around them through exploring the visual arts, creative movement and music appreciation. 9-11:45 a.m. M-Fri; MWF 9-1:30pm.

gram providing Kindergarten prep is available. $130/week. 7:15-5:30 M-F.

Meridian St. Michigan Rd. Maria Montessori International Academy 7507 N. Michigan Road Indianapolis 317-291-5557 www.mariamontessori-intl.org Ages: 3 months to 9 years old Maria Montessori International Academy offers a child centered Montessori program allowing children to learn at their own pace and are treated with respect. Teachers encourage and inspire children to do not only the minimum, but also their best, where learning should be a happy, joyous experience! Children learn how to think for themselves and how to solve problems in original and creative ways and have a positive self-image. Children participate in math, language, music, art, practical life, science, geography, and foreign language. The lead teachers possess bachelor degree and certification in Montessori Education. Discover the Difference at the Maria Montessori! Now accepting applications for all ages starting 3 months to 6 years located in Stonegate, Zionsville, IN.

Multiple Locations AYS Inc. Various Locations throughout Indiana 317-283-3817 www.ayskids.org Ages: 3 yrs - 6th grade AYS operates youth programs At-Your-School, including before- and after-school, early childhood, kindergarten, and summer programs. At AYS, children receive homework help, hands-on learning, art & music enrichment, exercise, nutritious snacks, socialization and FUN! Our highly trained staff makes AYS the safest place for kids. Visit our website to see if we are at your school!

Meridian Kessler Wee Folk Child Care Meridian Kessler Neighborhood Indianapolis 317-926-3640 Ages: 4 weeks+ Quality in-home child care serving caring families for 20 years. (CPR, 1st aid certified, and state licensed). Two meals and one snack provided daily along with baby food and regular formula. We provide quality learning through play in a nonsmoking Christian environment. Preschool pro-

Indiana Council of Preschool Cooperatives: ICPC Multiple Locations in Indianapolis Area For schools, see below. ICPC Line: 317-767-7596 Ages: Preschool classes for ages 2-5; other programs vary - Kindergarten, Stay & Play, Enrichment/Extended Days. Indianapolis Area Preschool and Kindergarten Cooperatives Cooperative Preschools: great for your child, great for you! Children and parents learn and grow together in the classroom with

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= childcare caring, experienced teachers. Indiana Council of Preschool Cooperatives (ICPC) member schools are: Apple House: 6121 E. County Rd 100 S, Avon, 797-5925 Butler: 2411 Indianapolis Ave, Indy, 226-4287 Downey: 111 S. Downey Rd, Indy, 359-5304 Edgewood: 4040 E. Thompson Rd, Indy, 767-7730 Fishers Point: 9959 E. 126th St, Fishers, 767-4312 Geist Orchard: 7879 N. 700 West, McCordsville, 336-7008 Meridian Hills Nursery School and Kindergarten: 7171 N. Pennsylvania, Indy, 255-0831 Meridian Street: 5500 N. Meridian St, Indy, 767-3003 Northeast Cooperative Preschool and Kindergarten: 5805 E. 56th St, Indy, 592-9790 Parkview: 4550 central Ave, Indy, 380-0628 Speedway: 3000 N. High School Rd, Indy, 356-2804 Willowcreek: 8170 Hague Rd, Indy, 578-5488

Polly Panda Preschool and Bridgford Kindergarten Gail Hacker & Tammy Clark & Mandy Galle 2944 E. 56th St. and 17645 Oakmont Dr. Indianapolis/Noblesville 317-257-9127 (Indy) 317-773-0387 (Noblesville) pollypandaindy@sbcglobal.net Ages: Six weeks through Kindergarten Polly Panda provides a safe and healthy environment, which enhances each child’s total growth. Our theme-based hands-on preschool program provides a wide-range experiences that foster learning, creativity and problem solving in all areas. A child’s sense of self-worth, independence and growth in social skills are developed through positive interaction with peers and our well-qualified and loving staff.

North A Little Angel’s Child Care Center Alice Glenn-Artis 2254 W. 86th Street Indianapolis 317-872-8080 alittleangel@att.net Ages: 6 weeks - 12 years (before & after care) A Christian learning environment with a very diverse student population. We strive to satisfy all children’s needs and offer a well-rounded program stressing learning through directed play, which emphasizes “Reading, Writing, Arithmetic and Respect.” Conveniently located at North Willow Mall (86th & Township Line Rd). Summer programs for 1st-6th grade. Extended care available.

Beginnings Parents’ Day Out and Preschool First Baptist Church of Indianapolis 8600 N College, Indianapolis, IN 46240 Carol Mann 317-574-6454 cmann@fbcindy.org www.fbcindy.org Ages/Grades: 6 months - Preschool Beginnings is designed to provide secure, loving care for young children and to offer parents a consistent time to care for themselves. Offering flexibility for days of choice, Beginnings strives to meet the physical, spiritual, social and emotional needs of children from six months through age five. Openings available now.

Open House Dates: Wednesday, February 18, 6:30 - 7:30 PM; Tours also available

Beth-El Zedeck Early Childhood Center Joanie Waldman 600 W. 70th St. Indianapolis 317-259-6854 jwaldman@bez613.org www.bez613.org Ages: 12 mos.+, 18 mos.+, 2’s+ (8:5012:30 or 3pm and choice of days). 3’s+ (8:50-3 pm and choice of days). 4’s+/PreK and K (5 full-day program 8:50 am-3 pm) OPTIONS FOR ALL: Flexible early drop off at 7:30. After school program until 6pm/5:30 on Fri. School opens on August 19, 2009. Full Academic Curriculum and Innovative Arts’ Enrichment. Our Program recognizes that intellectual, social, emotional and physical development are interwoven. Our children will thrive on exploration, creativity, curiosity, discovery, spontaneity and more important, lots of love! Open to the public!

Bureau of Jewish Education Elaine Fairfield, E.C. Director 6711 Hoover Rd. Indianapolis 317-255-3124 efairfield@bjeindy.org Ages: 2 years to Kindergarten The BJE offers Preschool, Jr. Kindergarten and Full Day Kindergarten programs for ages 2 - 6. Special area teachers for: Music, Library, Creative Movement, Swim, Gym, Hebrew and Art. Our developmental program encourages your child through curiosity, exploration and active participation. Extended days and morning care are offered.

Children’s Day In Nursery School and Traditional Preschool Christy Whaley 5500 N. Meridian St. Indianapolis 317-253-0472 cwhaley@msumc.org www.msumc.org Ages: Nursery School and Preschool The Children’s Day In Nursery School is a fully inclusive early childhood program with an emphasis on Christian values. It is designed to offer children 9 months to 3 years a positive and developmentally appropriate experience in the care of experienced caregivers. Classes are offered weekdays from 9 am to 2:30 pm. CDI Preschool program provides a quality developmentally appropriate education for 3, 4 and 5 year olds. Program includes weekly Christian Life Skills, First Steps in Music (ICC) and Book Club. 3’s: T & Th, 4/5’s MWF. 9-2:30 pm. Summer Camp available.

Children’s Circle Regina Covey for Registration Director Susan Stewart for Curriculum 7700 N. Meridian St. Indianapolis 317-252-5517 rcovey@secondchurch.org Ages: 7 months to 5 years

Children’s Circle is a weekday, developmentally appropriate, activity-based Christian program. We embrace excellence in education by nurturing the whole child -- physically, emotionally, spiritually and intellectually. Activities are designed to develop motor skills, problem solving, creativity, and independent thinking. Mother’s Day Out provides an opportunity for young children to be cared for safely and lovingly. Most children come two or three days per week from 9-2:30.

Early Childhood Center, The Church at the Crossing John Drake or Kelly Belt 9111 N. Haverstick Rd. Indianapolis 317-575-6508 jdrake@churchatthecrossing.org www.churchatthecrossing.org Ages: 12mos - Pre-K 5’s Our Mothers Day Out (12-35mos) 9:15-2:30 and Preschool (3yrs-PreK’s) programs provide relaxed, playful, secure environments that nurture creativity and encourage the exploration of God’s world, a wide variety of learning materials, & friendships, with readiness activities woven through each study unit. Need longer hours? Try our childcare ministry, The Neighborhood designed for 2-PreK 6:30-6pm M-F. Call for information and to schedule tours.

Fairview Early Childhood Program Melissa Peterson 4609 N. Capital Ave. Indianapolis 317-253-4990 mpeterson@fairviewpresbyterian.org www.fairviewpresbyterian.org Ages: 12 mo-5 yrs. (or up to Kindergarten) Fairview ECP has a developmental, experienced based curriculum in a warm and inclusive environment. Curriculum is designed to promote positive social behavior, respect for diversity, positive self-concept, independence, creativity and critical thinking skills. Come and visit us!

International School of Indiana Denise Wagner, CFRE 4330 N. Michigan Road Indianapolis 317-923-1951 ext. 316 www.isind.org Ages: 3 years old-12th grade ISI is founded on the belief that an introduction to a second language, exposure to different nationalities and ethnic backgrounds and an International Baccalaureate-driven curriculum all work together to foster critical and independent thought. $12,250 pre-k through 8th grade and $12,960 for High School. Financial aid available for qualifiers.

KinderCare-Woodfield Crossing Meagan Koeneman 8485 Woodfield Crossing Indianapolis 317-257-3911 070739@klcorp.com www.kindercare.com/070739 Ages: 6wks - 12 years

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Monday-Friday 6:30am - 6:00pm. Tuition varies with phonics and math programs.

Meridian Hills Cooperative Nursery School & Kindergarten 7171 N. Pennsylvania, Indianapolis, IN 46240 School phone 255-0831 Ages/Grades: Ages 2, 3, 4 and Kindergarten Founded in 1960, Meridian Hills Cooperative School is dedicated to helping children, parents and teachers grow together. Classes provide a positive, nurturing environment for 2-yearolds through Kindergarten with a special emphasis on parent education. Parents help daily in the spacious classrooms, on a beautiful halfacre playground and with a caring, experienced staff. Northside.

Montessori Centres Lynne Boone, Director 563 Westfield Blvd. W. Dr. Indianapolis 317-257-2224 montessoricentres@sbcglobal.net Ages: 2 1/2-3rd grade Stressing peace and respect for all, we’ve worked with children to develop criticalthinking and time-management skills since 1966. Montessori-certified lead teachers serve children aged 2 1/2-3rd grade. Our classroom structure and materials allow children to be self-directed and self-paced. Our well-rounded curriculum includes French and Spanish, art, and computer labs. True Montessori environment serving children at all levels from gifted to special needs. Pre/K: 8:30-11:30 or 8:30-3:15.

Northside Montessori School Judy Edwards 1224 E. 52nd St. Indianapolis 317-251-2979 judithe9@aol.com Ages: 3 to 6 year olds and 1st through 6th grade Located in Broad Ripple area. NMS provides an environment with dedicated teachers to meet each child’s curiosities and natural love of learning. Call for an appointment to visit us to fully appreciate Montessori in action! 8:3011:30 or 8:30-3pm.

Park Tudor School David Amstutz 7200 N. College Ave. Indianapolis 317-415-2700 info@parktudor.org Ages: Preschool (age 3) - Grade 12 An independent school for students in preschool through grade 12, Park Tudor School’s mission is to provide the highest quality, well-rounded college preparatory education within an atmosphere that is responsive to the needs of the child and parents. Call for more information on Open House dates. College prep; Global Scholars program; 21 AP classes; Spanish beginning at age 3. Pre/Jr K (1/2 day) - $8,750; Senior K-5th - $14,590; 6-12th - $15,470. Financial aid available. Contact Reba Cooper at 317/415-2776.

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Parkview Cooperative Preschool 4550 Central Avenue, Indianapolis 317-380-0628 tsschmitt@aol.com www.parkviewpreschool.org Since 1965 Parkview has been educating children and parents in social skills,child development and ways to enjoy those short years before elementary school. Children have hands on experiences in creative art projects,music, literature, large and small muscle activties all in a learn through play enviroment. Open house March 10th 6:30 -8pm. Tours available M&W 10-12.

St. Luke’s Early Childhood Programs Bobbi Main-Jackson, Dir. 100 West 86th Street Indianapolis 317-844-3399 mainb@stlukesumc.com www.stlukesumc.com Ages: Preschool 3 yrs (by Sept 1)-5 yrs, Parents’ Day Out 10 mos (by Sept 1)-3 yrs. Developmentally appropriate play-based curriculum provided in which children grow socially, emotionally, cognitively, and physically. Readiness skills, motor development and music incorporated into curriculum. Parents’ Day Out is a structured play experience in a warm and loving environment for parents of young children to have time for themselves. Open registration for 2009-10 Feb 9 @ 9:30 am. Tours available. Hours are 9-1.

Sycamore School Dr. Susan Karpicke, Director of Admissions 1750 W. 64th Street Indianapolis 317-202-2500 skarpicke@sycamoreschool.org Ages: 2 years 8 months - 8th grade. At Sycamore, teachers trained in gifted education deliver a curriculum designed to challenge and engage gifted learners. Art, music, Spanish, PE and computer technology are taught at all levels. Field trips, athletics, and a wide variety of after school activities are offered. Admission testing required. Scheduled parent tours most Wednesdays throughout the school year. Private tours may be arranged. $4,900-$13,155 (0809). Financial assistance available. Please contact dridings@sycamoreschool.org

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The Orchard School Kristen Hein, Director of Admissions 615 W. 64th St. Indianapolis 317-713-5705 khein@orchard.org www.orchard.org Ages: Preschool 3/4 through Grade 8 The Orchard School, an independent, non-sectarian, progressive school, emphasized experiential learning. Orchard teachers engage the natural curiosity of children, develop academic excellence, and provide leadership experience through well-rounded education. Orchard’s diverse community and commitment to multicultural education inspires responsible, global citizenship. Founded in 1922. NAIS, ISACS, NAEYS accredited. Call to schedule a personal tour, and check our Web site for the date and time of our annual Open House. Applicants are selected without regard to their ability to pay tuition. Every effort is made to provide financial assistance where needed. Tuition is all-inclusive. Before/after care available.

Northeast Indianapolis Jr. Academy Crystal Willis 2910 E. 62nd. St. Indianapolis 317-251-0560 ijacademy@comcast.net www.ijacademy.com Ages: Preschool - 8th Grade Founded in 1963, Indianapolis Jr. Academy provides a well-rounded educational program with emphasis on spiritual, mental, physical, and social development. Our teachers are dedicated Christians who desire to prepare children academically and socially in an accepting environment where Christian principles are modeled and taught. Offering grades Pre-K-8th and 3’s Pre-School program M-Th 8:15-3, Fri 8:152:30 with before/after care. Admission is subject to review by School Board. We participate in the Educational CHOICE Charitable Trust Program, call for rates.

rebecca.forsythe@us.army.mil Ages/Grades: Ages 2-5 years We’ve provided high quality preschool for over 50 years. Among our many goals for education of young children is to provide experiences which help a child express himself creatively and to maintain an environment which stimulates and nurtures intellectual curiosity. One of the first NAEYC accredited preschools in the area. Open registration for next year begins February 9th.

International Montessori School, Inc. Ranee Dhadialla 2150 West 96th Street, Indianapolis, IN 46260 317-575-8733 rkd1948@sbcglobal.net www.intlmontessori.com Ages/Grades: 3 - 6 years A unique & warm place for children ages 3-6 years providing quality Montessori Education including exposure to diverse cultures, languages, art, music and more.

South Center Grove Montessori Michelle Foster 5293 Old Smith Valley Rd, Greenwood, IN 46142 317-544-8508 info@centergrovemontessori.com www.centergrovemontessori.com Ages/Grades: 2 1/2 - 6 years Center Grove Montessori Program offers: Hands-on learning, multi-aged students learning together, a key element to the Montessori philosophy, a focus on the intrinsic motivation of children, carefully prepared classrooms balancing children’s choice with structure, large blocks of uninterrupted time for learning and building concentration, peace education through global awareness, structured, self-directed learning. Before/After School Care available.

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Our Shepherd Lutheran Church

Becky Forsythe 5252 W. 52nd Street, Indianapolis, IN 46254 317-293-1555

Nancy Hebel 9101 West 10th Street Indianapolis 317-271-9100

nhebel@ourshepherd.org Ages: 3 years-8th Grade Enrollment begins for the public in February. Call the school office to set up a time to visit or come to one of our open houses. Check out our view book on our Web site. Visiting Our Shepherd Lutheran School is the most important homework you can do for your child. Scholarships are available for those that qualify. Financial aid and extended care is available. Open House Dates: February 17 5-7m, 19th 9am-4pm, 22nd 1-3pm

The Children’s House Susan Catania or Louise Brannon 2404 W. 62nd St. (near Michigan Rd.) Indianapolis 317-253-3033 childrenshouse@sbcglobal.net Ages: 2 1/2 years - 14 years of age The Children’s House offers a Montessori preschool. The four areas of our preschool are practical life, sensorial, math and language. The Montessori preschool is available on a nine or twelve month calendar. The elementary level is an ungraded, continuous-progress school where children discover and pursue their unique talents and needs. 9-3 with extended care available.

Westfield Montessori School of Westfield, Inc. Mary Lyman, Directress 800 E. Sycamore Street Westfield 317-867-0158 montessoriwestfield@gmail.com Ages: Toddler- 15 months to 3 years; Ages 3-Kindergarten; Elementary 1: Grade 1-3; Elementary 2: Grade 4-8 Located on 3 wooded acres in Central Indiana, the Montessori School of Westfield adheres to the academic traditions of Montessori while serving the present day child. 7:30 a.m. to 5:30 p.m. Aug-June Summer School-call for more information.

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Special Needs Kids and the Challenges With Driving Parents Learn to Loosen the Reigns I was secretly hoping the day would never come, but just last week, it did. I reluctantly handed the car keys over to my 16-yearold son and uttered, “Please be careful.” Sure, he has had his driving permit for many months and has driven many times with me coaching him from the passenger seat. Still, the idea of him maneuvering tons of steel with his bare hands and without my constant prompting and coaching scares me. Mastering the level of coordination and decision-making necessary for driving is difficult for any young motorist. The confidence and skills necessary for safe driving can be especially challenging for young people with special learning and/or developmental needs. Parents of teenagers and young adults with special needs face unique challenges when considering driving privileges for their children. While all parents should be concerned with the statistics on teen drivers, those of teens with special needs may face greater challenges and risks.Young people with learning, cognitive and behavioral/emotional disabilities may have increased difficulty paying attention, controlling impulses, responding in a timely manner and making immediate decisions. When combined with a lack of driving experience and immature judgment, the risk of accident and injury for special needs drivers may be two to four times the rate for young drivers. 08305 VT_INDY CHILD AD

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While many teens and young adults with special needs can master safe driving skills, some may not be ready to drive in the near future— or ever. Teens with severe impulsivity, angry outbursts, delayed maturity, severe inattention or distractibility, or limited cognitive functioning should not be permitted to drive. If you are unsure of the level of functioning of your child, consult your physician or behavioral health professional for advice. However, for many special needs youth and young adults, driving can become a reality. Obtaining a driver’s license can increase self-esteem, enhance social networks, improve the probability of obtaining employment and boost independence. Driving can assist youth and young adults with special needs to more fully integrate into mainstream society. For those parents of special needs children who are considering driving privileges, the following hints may be helpful.

Address your child’s special needs that may impact his/her ability to drive safety. When special needs may increase driving risks, teens and parents must make an effort to understand these complications and work to minimize the risks involved. Special considerations and circumstances should be openly discussed (i.e. need to pay special attention, need to call home before starting the AM car, etc.) 10:58 Page 1

Does your child have a learning problem? Your child may have 20/20 eyesight and have a hidden vision problem affecting the ability to learn up to potential. Are any of these signs present? • Number and letter reversal, such as “b” and “d” • Difficulty copying from the board • Sloppy handwriting • Loss of place when reading • Frequent careless errors • Eyestrain, headaches, poor concentration and attention span • Restlessness, unable to stay on task

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Address medical concerns that may impact his/her ability to drive safety Teens and young adults with special medical conditions such as seizure disorder, fainting spells, panic attacks, etc. should only drive with the approval of their physician. In addition, many medications can influence attentiveness, alertness, and reaction time.

Openly discuss safe driving expectations. Be very clear about safe driving behavior. Consider creating a driving contract for your teen and the consequences for not living up to the agreement. Failure to adhere to the driving contract may be a sign of immaturity and evidence that your teen is not ready for the responsibility of driving a vehicle.

Some prescribed medications may influence driving in a positive way. For example, several studies have indicated that teens prescribed psychostimulant medications to help improve their behaviors (i.e. Ritalin, Concerta) carried over to improve driving skills. Parents should consult with their prescribing physician regarding the effects of medication on driving.

Prepare for driving emergencies. Role play and practice emergency situations. Special needs teen drivers should practice what to do when a fire truck or ambulance approaches, what to do if involved in an accident, what to do if stopped by a police officer, etc.

Model safe driving behaviors. Your child observes you regularly behind the wheel. Encourage your child to watch how you handle starts, stops and turns. Talk out loud when making driving decisions so you child can see how you handle yourself behind the wheel. Determine your child’s maturity and driving readiness. Turning 16 or even 18 does not mean that your child is emotionally or functionally ready to drive. Be realistic regarding the readiness of your child to assume driving responsibilities.

Supervised behind the wheel driving experience is the key to developing safe driving habits. Parents need to work with their special needs teens to help them gain the needed experience and judgment. When safety and special risks are appropriately evaluated and managed, many special needs youth can become safe and effective drivers.

Dr. Jim Dalton, Psy.D., HSPP, is a licensed child psychologist and the Senior Vice President and Chief Operating Officer at Damar Services, Inc. Visit Damar online at www.damar.org

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Make Family Health Fun in February Using Games to Introduce Exercise February can be a challenging month for families who want to stay active and fit. It’s often not possible to go outside with the cold, ice, snow and ever-changing winter weather. What you and your family do on those blustery February days, however, can help you keep your January resolutions to stick with healthy habits throughout the year.

Valentine’s Day is an opportunity to help your family show their love for each other by making a commitment to be a healthy family every day. When it’s cold outside, you can still stay fit and healthy together—use the entire month as an opportunity to try these new activities and develop healthy habits: • Change the way your family interacts. Take healthy snack breaks between school, work and/or television/computer/nap time. Make sure your family’s snacks and drinks are nutritious so everyone gets used to only those choices. Your children can even take turns making healthy snacks. Put a time limit on couch cruising, and try different fitness activities so that your family learns that fitness includes all kinds of movement. • Do fun physical activities. A family that regularly exercises together is more likely to sustain this practice whether inside

or outside the home. Don’t let your kids convince you that the only physical activity they can do is with a Wii™ controller in their hands. Jumping rope, for example, is an excellent physical fitness activity that defies boredom.You can jump rope to any music you like, and there are many different kinds of jumps to master over time. People of all ages and abilities can jump rope anywhere and at any time. Why not make your home a haven for jump ropers in February?

• On Valentine’s Day, give your family members a jump rope (yes, instead of chocolate!) so they all literally jump together. Be sure to check out the Web site, www.jumpkidsjump.org, for more information about the Jump Kids Jump Movement™ resources available to help encourage jump roping as a year-round, life-long physical fitness activity. • Involve your family in healthy eating and exercise. Family relationships are the key to long-term success in being able to encourage, support and change behaviors. Offered by Clarian, Committed to Kids is a program that teaches families how to adopt healthy eating

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habits and exercise together. For more information about Committed to Kids, contact Anne Graves at 317-962-9017 or www.clarian.org/committedtokids. February is a perfect time to help those you love make healthy choices and introduce some “fun” into your family’s health and fitness routines. This article was prepared by Dr. Karen Bruner Stroup, Director, Riley Hospital Community Education and Child Advocacy, with assistance from Emily S. McQuade, MPA, MA, Healthy Children Programs Manager www.rileyhospital.org/kids1st

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Kids Can Learn Life Skills On Stage No one would ever mistake me for an actor (I can’t even impress my 2-year-old with my pig imitation), yet live performance ignites my imagination like nothing else. I have my grandmother to thank for this—she took me to more musicals than I can recall. One show roused me so much that I kicked my shoe into a poor woman’s lap while trying to prove that I too could dance like the actress on stage. Fortunately the woman was the forgiving kind. Unfortunately, though, somewhere between being that young girl and being the mother of two children, I have put theater on the back burner. Now my sons are the very reason I need to reprioritize it back into my and my family’s life. Not to mention, it’s simply enjoyable. “A play is alive. Theater is so human and so tangible for a child that it’s really a sort of sensory experience,” says Ernie Nolan,associate artistic director of Emerald City Theater in Chicago, Professor of Theater of Indiana University South Bend and board member of Theatre for Young Audiences/USA. He adds that because theater allows children to experience color, sound and light first hand, it creates a sort of magic. “There is a sense of imagination that happens in theater that makes it special.” Priscilla Lindsay, associate artistic director of the Indiana Repertory Theatre (IRT), agrees that imagination comes to life on stage and views it as key to a child’s growth. “I think it’s vital for a child to be able to find an artistic outlet for self expression and to explore their emotions and exercise his or her imagination.” When young people role play, be it as a character or pretending that their living room rug is a magic carpet, they are building an imagination that is needed throughout life. Similarly, when kids engage in the more formal play called acting, they combine words with actions and emotions for a deeper understanding of life and its situations. Lindsay says that by exercising these skills children “will be more articulate, have a greater grasp of language and richer means of self expression.” Milicent Wright, manager of outreach programs for IRT, says that kids who enroll in her company’s theater classes are in for more than rote memorization of lines. They learn life skills like team building, collaboration, brainstorming and how to use imagination. She makes an interesting point when she says “our kids probably interview for jobs better than anyone else.” Makes sense since theater arts helps develop literacy, critical thinking, social skills and imagination. Need help? The following are some ways to get your child interested in theater: Just do it. “It has been my experience that the best way to get a child interested in theater, or in any of the fine arts, is to directly expose them to it,” says Brent Marty, director of music and education for the Indianapolis Civic Theatre. “Take the kids to a play or a musical. Talk to them about the subject matter, explain the difference and ‘special-ness’ of live performance as opposed to film and television, share those moments—and we all have them—when you were first introduced to live theatre. Was it with a class at school? Did Grandma or Grandpa take you?” Play, play and play some more. Parents should encourage imaginative play. They should also actively participate in play with their child. I recently read that children step up their game of play when parents join the fun by taking the child’s lead. For instance, if you are playing grocery shopping, ask “Do you want to buy fish or a hot dog?” or “Do you think teddy bear knows where the pickles are?” As the child develops a rich imagination, an interest in theater may come naturally. Act out bedtime stories. TYA/USA’s Nolan suggests that parents read bedtime stories and even try acting them out. He also believes that playacting can help children as they deal with different situations: “Say to your child ‘I will be the teacher and you be yourself and we can solve this problem.’ It’s an easy situational drama practice that children and parents can do at home.” Explore the arts early. Debbie Aikman of The Music Playhouse says that if a child has a desire to be part of musical theater, it is critical they have early exposure to music. “If children are not exposed to a variety of music, then they won’t develop an aptitude for it,” she says. The Music Playhouse is a great example of how to accomplish this. While the classes focus on music, The Music Playhouse also helps children express emotions by encouraging kids to act out how they feel based on how the music feels and sounds to them. Aikman also suggests that families do as much as they can at home. Listen to music, act out the music and listen to all kinds of music from a variety of cultures. Act out memory lane. Nolan has a fun idea when he suggests that families take wellknown family legends and dramatize them. I know my family could make some new memories

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by re-enacting Uncle Dale and Aunt Florence’s date at the movies in the 1930s, when Dale inadvertently tucked Florence’s skirt into his trousers.

Enroll in theater classes. “Indianapolis is a treasure trove of theater opportunities,” says Eddie Curry. Curry is Beef and Boards’ producer, casting director and producer of the Pyramid Players, which is live theater for kids. In fact, Indianapolis has a ton of theater classes available to kids starting as young as three years old. The IRT, Civic Theater, The Young Actors Theatre and Children’s Theatre Institute are just some of the places that offer acting classes as well as other types of theater-related education.

Getting your kids involved in the Central Indiana theater scene is attainable and could be as simple as child’s play. Even I can do that, and so can you.

Carrie Bishop is a freelance writer and mother of two young sons, whose daily antics inspire her work and her life.

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Excellent Value in a Tough Economy: Support Local Sports The Best Five Dollars You Can Possibly Spend Whether you’re watching network news, reading a hometown newspaper or visiting with a colleague at the proverbial water cooler, one topic trumps all others these days: the economy. And more times than not, the tone falls more toward the negative. But here’s a positive twist to “the topic of the day.” Granted, it’s not going to save our automakers or reverse the direction of the NYSE, but it is a practical way for you and your family to enjoy an evening of entertainment at a price most families can afford, even in today’s coupon-clipping world. Here it is: This Friday or Saturday night, take your family to a girls’ or boys’ high school basketball game. Tickets at most Indiana high schools are only $5 each. Parking is free and the hot, freshly popped popcorn costs about a dollar a bag, so a family of four can enjoy an entertaining night out for less than $30, depending on the choices you make at the concession stand.

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There are other positives, too. In most cases you’ll be able to sit in unreserved, floor level seats on a first-come, first-served basis—the kind of front row seats that usually sell for hundreds of dollars at most professional sports venues. There’s nothing as much fun or engaging as being close to the action, especially if you have children in your family. And for most of us, the high school in our community is located just minutes from home, so it won’t take much time or cost much money to get there.

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enough revenue to be self-sustaining. It’s also an investment in the young men and women who are learning that being a representative of their school means they also are representatives of their community. By supporting them now, we are affirming the importance of citizenship, sportsmanship and community service in years to come. Most importantly, attending a high school sporting event is an investment in the children in your own family. They will see firsthand how attributes such as dedication, hard work, persistence and teamwork have their just reward. And their role models are likely to become the high school players they watch perform: young men and women who are physically fit and mentally prepared. These are tough times for many of us living in Indiana. But as it’s been said, with adversity comes opportunity. And the opportunity to introduce your family to Indiana high school basketball (or any other high school sport) will not only be welcome from an entertainment standpoint, but it will also prove to be a wise investment in your family, your high school and your community. In short, buying a ticket to an Indiana high school basketball game is the best $5 you could possibly spend. Blake Ress is a former high school teacher, coach, referee, athletic director and principal. He currently is the commissioner of the Indiana High School Athletic Association.

In reality, the modest sum of money spent to attend a high school sporting event is more of an investment than an expense. That’s because high school ticket revenue is used to pay for team uniforms, upgrade equipment and help support sports like cross country, swimming and diving, tennis and track and field; sports that do not typically generate

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Adjusting to Growth, Report Card Anxiety, Test Weakness Your Questions for Teachers Answered GROWING UP TOO FAST

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Question: I know that most parents write in with questions about problems or troubles with their children. I am just the opposite; the problem is me. My son is growing up so fast and isn’t my cute little boy anymore. We used to be so close. Now that he’s in middle school, he has best friends, wants to do sleepovers and has ideas of his own about everything. It’s very hard to deal with at times.

• Communicate with his teachers.

I know I have to eventually let go and let him be his own person and grow up. But I miss that little boy that used to sit around the house and use his imagination to play with his toys. How do I get through this time of so many changes? He seems to be dealing with them wonderfully. It almost depresses me at times to think about it all. - Losing My Baby Answer: Be proud of yourself for the great job you have

done in raising an independent young man. Of course your son is growing and changing.You are going through the same thing that every parent does as their children grow up. Share your thoughts with others having this same experience. Ask for their advice. The last thing that you want to do is to handicap your son by letting him think that you still need him to be a little boy. Think of how fantastic this new stage of his development is. Both you and your son are embarking on a whole new journey. You will have many wonderful times together as he continues on into high school and college. Trust us, he will need your help to get through these years. Here are some things that you can do that will keep you involved in what your son is doing in a positive way: • Be his supporter—go see every game or activity in which he participates.

• Get involved in the Parent Teacher Organization. • Volunteer at the school. • Drive all the necessary carpools. • Encourage him to have friends over. • Spend the dinner hour or some other time catching up with his activities every day.

If you can’t look forward and enjoy each step that your son takes toward independence, you might consider counseling.

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grader is extremely anxious because report card time is coming. Her fear of report cards just gets worse each year. She worries about the C’s she got on a few quizzes and that she might not name the honor roll.What can I do to help her relax as she really is a good student? – Report Card Worrier Answer: First of all, you need to make sure that you are not

putting so much emphasis on grades and report cards that she is afraid of disappointing you. Even if you don’t voice your expectations, she may believe that you expect her to get all “A” grades and be on the honor roll every time. There is another possibility.Your daughter may be a perfectionist who can’t face the possibility of getting less than excellent grades. Try to convey a very low-key attitude toward report cards and grades. Don’t ask her how she did on a quiz or test or if her homework was done correctly. Instead, ask what she enjoyed doing in school that day. To further de-emphasize her fear of report cards, look at her work every day and stress what she has

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learned rather than comment on the grade—and avoid giving awards for getting good grades. Your daughter needs to start regarding a lower grade as a sign that she has not mastered some content rather than a disaster that means a lower report card grade. Encourage her to focus instead on learning what she doesn’t know. Try to help her become more realistic about grades and understand that they reflect all the work that she does in a grading period rather than just a few poor scores.

great work at home, poor grades at school Question: Whenever my first grader has a math test, he gets

poor grades even though he has done the same work correctly at home with me. How can this be? – Failing Tests Answer: The reason that this is happening may be because your son is doing his math homework with you. It’s possible that you are giving him some hints on how to proceed or actually giving him too much help. Try backing off completely in giving him any help with his homework, and this includes reading the directions. Then notice how he does working completely on his own —it is likely that you will see some problems. You may discover that he is not able to read or follow directions on his own, lacks some basic skills or is careless. Address these weaknesses and his test scores should improve. Doing the work on his own should also increase your son’s confidence in his ability to do math. Parents should send questions to Dear Teacher, in care of this publication, PO Box 395, Carmel, IN 46082-0395 or DearTeacher@excite.com.

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Give All Your Heart to Your Health Preventing Heart Disease Busy moms between the ages of 20-40 often think they don’t have to be concerned with heart disease. They tell themselves they’re too young, or they believe heart disease really only affects men, not women. But the reality is that heart disease is a top killer of both men and women — in fact, more than 50,000 women die from it each year. It’s also a disease that is often years in the making with poor eating and exercise habits that grow worse over time. Every woman, regardless of age, should be on top of her cardiac risk. You need to keep yourself healthy for your family and encourage healthy lifestyles with your children at the same time. What’s significant about this disease is that it’s one that you have a lot of power in preventing. There are multiple things you can do to guard yourself against this killer. Don’t smoke While it’s not new information, it’s worth

repeating over and over because too many still succumb to heart disease because of long-term nicotine habits. The number one thing you can do to protect yourself against heart disease is not to smoke. If you do, quit. There are numerous programs available that are designed to help you kick the habit. If you don’t smoke, keep it that way. It’s also well proven that smoking — including second-hand smoke — increases the incidence of heart attacks. That’s why there’s currently legislation in Indiana to make the Hoosier State smoke-free. Pump up the volume The next thing you can do for

yourself is exercise daily. I know that seems difficult when you’re working full-time, have children underfoot or are constantly running someone somewhere, but as I tell my patients it must become a priority. Figure out how, when and where to make it work for you. If finding time to do it on your own seems impossible, make it a family activity. You could walk or run with the stroller, go on a family bike ride or go swimming. And if it’s too cold to go out and you can’t join a gym, running the stairs at home is a great way to get your heart beating and work up a sweat. You should aim for 30 minutes of exercise every day. While you can exercise any time of the day, those who are successful at maintaining a regular exercise routine tend to exercise in the morning, before they start their day. Exercise isn’t just good for your cardiovascular fitness, it also helps maintain muscle mass, healthy bones and joints, reduces anxiety and depression, helps control blood pressure and blood sugar levels and improves flexibility and strength.

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Eat heart-healthy meals

One of the most significant ways you can improve your heart health is through what you eat. Changing your diet may seem overwhelming at first — there’s so much information out there about what’s good for you, what you need more of and what you should avoid. But take heart: it’s actually fairly easy to establish a heart-healthy diet. I tell my patients to eat: • “Top Five” antioxidants regularly: berries (blueberries, blackberries and raspberries), vegetables like broccoli, tomatoes, red grapes and garlic • 4-5 servings of fruits and vegetables each day • 6-8 servings of grains each day (half of those should be whole grains) • Fish twice a week • Limited intake of saturated and trans fat and cholesterol • Fat-free and lowfat products • Lean meats

I also recommend eating protein with every meal. It’s good for you and helps you to feel fuller. Know your numbers The

last thing you can do to be heart smart is to know your numbers — blood pressure, cholesterol (triglycerides; low-density lipoprotein, or LDL; and highdensity lipoprotein, or HDL) and body mass index (BMI). If you regularly keep aware of those numbers, you’ll know your personal risk and what actions you need to take to get and stay healthy. It’s also important to know your family history as it relates to heart disease. Bottom line, know your numbers and then own them for your health. Too often, I see people make lifestyle changes after a diagnosis of heart disease. But it’s far easier and less painful to make those lifestyle changes now— you may just save your own life.

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Talking With Your Children About Online Avatars Understanding the Difference Between Imagination and Reality

You know your child’s favorite stuffed animal. You’ve probably been introduced to his or her imaginary friend. But do you know your child’s avatar? An avatar is a virtual representation of a person. It may be a little two dimensional graphic that pops up whenever a child sends a text or posts a message, or it may be a fully formed animated character that a child creates as part of a game or online environment.Your child may not call these characters “avatars;” that word is actually a Hindu term for the physical incarnation of a deity such as Vishnu. It’s also been adopted by gamers as well as researchers who are taking an avid interest in what effect these virtual incarnations have on their owners.

An avatar is a virtual representation of a person. It may be a little two dimensional graphic that pops up whenever a child sends a text or posts a message, or it may be a fully formed animated character that a child creates as part of a game or online environment.

Parents should also take an interest in avatars, especially those that children create in virtual worlds. There are now dozens of these worlds specifically designed for kids. (A list including age ranges is available at http://www.virtualworldsmanagement.com/2008/youthworlds0808. html.) Newer video games are also likely to include avatars—Wii, for example, encourages players to created Mii’s by making choices about things like hair color and eyebrows. As kids move on to more complicated virtual environments, they make more sophisticated choices about how they will appear to other participants.This can be an intoxicating experience for preteens and teens who are trying to come to grips with their very real bodies in the off line world. In a study of teenagers done earlier this year by OTX Research, only 68 percent were happy with their looks, but 78 percent were happy with how they appeared online. The interesting question is how these virtual representations might change the way kids think about themselves in real life. Researchers at the Virtual Human Interaction Lab at Stanford University have been asking just that. In their specially designed lab, they assign people specific avatars to see how their behaviors and attitudes change. They have found, for example, that having an attractive avatar made people just a little more confident in social interactions both on screen and in real life, and having a taller avatar made them just a little more aggressive. As researcher Nick Yee puts it, “Avatars are usually perceived as something of our own choosing…[yet] our avatars also come to influence our behavior and interactions with others.” In childhood, when identity is still fluid, avatars are only one of many factors that contribute to formation of a stable sense of self. It’s too early for parents to make “rules” about avatars because we don’t yet know enough about their impact on imagination, much less behavior. Still, it’s perfectly reasonable for parents to show curiosity and, on occasion, express concern about how children are interacting with these virtual versions of themselves. If nothing else, parents can ask questions that will help children think more clearly about what choices they are making and why. Here are some areas that deserve conversation. Boys and Girls. Back in the day, it seemed as though virtual worlds might be a place where people could operate without the rules that govern male and female behavior in the real world, but things haven’t exactly worked out that way. In many virtual worlds, characters take on very exaggerated sexual characteristics. Females have the most improbable proportions and often wear skimpy or provocative clothing, and males have equally improbable muscles and often carry enormous weapons.

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At the very least, parents can point out how silly these images are. You can also talk about why people assume boys and girls should look or behave in certain ways. Creating an avatar of the opposite sex (or trying to create a neutral avatar) can also be an eye-opening experience for young people. One young man found that people were nicer to him when his avatar was female—they gave him things and offered to help him play the game—but they also pestered him to flirt with them. Stereotypes and Empathy. It’s not surprising that most kids create avatars that are more attractive and powerful than they are. On the other hand, this artificial “perfection” can perpetuate stereotypes that make it harder for people to deal with the differences that are inevitable in real life. Some games, for example, don’t offer skin colors that reflect genuine human diversity, and they never include avatars that are sick or disabled.

Some adults are starting to protest this kind of virtual conformity. In Second Life, for example, the “Ugly Avatars” group makes a deliberate attempt to create more complicated avatars that weren’t superficially “beautiful people.” Creating imperfect avatars may actually be an opportunity to cultivate empathy. The Stanford researchers found, for example, that when they gave students an elderly avatar, their attitudes toward older people became more compassionate.When they gave white students a black avatar, they became less anxious about racial differences. Talk to kids about how participating in a virtual world would be different if their avatar wore different clothes, belonged to a different ethnic group or had a disability. In some games and virtual worlds, children can adopt avatars that are animals or robots. How does that change the way other participants interact with them? Accumulating points which can be traded for everything from nifty clothes and fancy furnishings to magic potions and lethal weapons. To quote a famous bumper sticker, the person with the most toys wins— or at least has higher status. Parents might start by asking whether that’s a good way to evaluate success. Because they want to acquire stuff faster, players often look for shortcuts, also known as “cheats.” In the real world, of course, cheating means taking unfair advantage but that’s not exactly what it means when avatars do it. One researcher put together a list of ways to cheat ranging from using Easter eggs (features included in the game that aren’t widely known) to True Cheating (stealing passwords and user names to undermine other players). Talk to kids about the difference between cheating and smart game-playing. Is it “cheating,” for example, to use real money to buy stuff in virtual worlds? When you have these conversations, remember that nobody yet knows the right answers to many of these questions. Avatars exist at the intersection between imagination and reality, and it isn’t clear whether they should be governed by the open-ended rules of fantasy or the Golden Rule of real life morality. What is clear is that parents should take an interest if only because getting to know your child’s avatar is one more way to understand your child. Carolyn Jabs, M.A., has been writing about families and the Internet for over 15 years. She is also the mother of three computer-savvy kids. Other Growing Up Online columns appear on her Web site www.growing-up-online.com.

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Open Gym Open Swim The times are 1-5pm at the Westfield HS Pool and Multi-purpose Facility. The cost is $5, children 2 and under are free. All Children under 12 must be accompanied by an adult. Lifeguards will be on duty. For more information, please call 317-804-3185. 1-5PM. $5. Westfield High School. 18250 North Union Street, Westfield. westfield.in.gov. 317-804-3185. Art Therapy Ongoing Every Mon & Tue. Using art to explore your grief process following the death of a loved one. Adults only. No fee. Appointments available for Mondays or Tuesdays. FREE. St. Vincent Hospice. 8450 N. Payne Rd., Ste. 100, Indianapolis. www.stvincent.org/ ourservices/hospice/default.htm. 317-338-4008. Bunny Hop Playtime Occurring Each Friday Beginning Friday, February 06, 2009 Through Friday, February 27, 2009. Bundle up your babies and bring them to our new creative playtime! We’ll share a story and information about how you can help your little one prepare for reading readiness. And we will cap it off with the opportunity to play or participate in a special activity. Some sessions will be free playtime for just you and your little one. 10-11am. Free. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Children’s Programming Room, Fishers. www.hepl.lib.in.us/. 317-579-0304. Cats - A Musical Occurring Daily Beginning Thursday, February 12, 2009 Through Sunday, April 05, 2009. Through the music of Andrew Lloyd Webber, fantastic costumes and some of the most exciting choreography ever seen on stage, CATS has become America’s favorite musical sensation and Beef and Boards most popular production ever. Tues/Sat 6-8pm, Weekdays 11:30am-1pm, Sunday matinee 12-1:30pm, Sunday 5-7pm. Buffet included. $38-$51. Beef & Boards Dinner Theatre. 9301 N. Michigan Rd, Indianapolis. www.beefandboards.com. 317-872-9664. Chakaia Booker Installation Occurring Daily Through Wednesday, April 01, 2009. This New York City sculptor will present nine pieces made from recycled tires throughout the downtown area to enliven the city. Downtown Indianapolis.

Create-a-Story Occurring Each Thursday Beginning Thursday, February 05, 2009 Through Thursday, February 19, 2009. Children learn to tell, write, draw or craft stories based on characters from books. This is a creative story time for those in kindergarten through 3rd grade. Registration is required. 4:30-5:15pm. Free. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Children’s Programming Room, Fishers. www.hepl.lib.in.us/. 317-579-0304. Crime and Punishment Occurring Daily Beginning Tuesday, February 10, 2009 Through Sunday, March 08, 2009. A three-actor adaptation that compresses this staggering novel into a 90- minute rush of tension between the young student, Raskolnikov, and the police inspector, Porfiry, as they debate criminal intentions in a world gone mad with lawlessness and self-interest. Multiple Times. $19-$49 (Varies based on age and day of week). Indiana Repertory Theatre. 140 W. Washington St, Indianapolis. www.indianarep.com. 317-635-5252.

Don’t Dress For Dinner

Occurring Daily Through Sunday, February 08, 2009. One of the funniest shows you’ve never seen. A side-splitting farce with the perfect recipe for mad-cap hilarity. One part cheating husband, two parts confused and flabbergasted lady loves, several cases of mistaken identity, and a bumbling friend to spice things up then bake until you explode with laughter. Tues/Sat 6-8, Weekdays 11:30-1, Sunday Matinee 12-1:30, Sunday 5-7. Buffet included. $38-$51. Beef & Boards Dinner Theatre. 9301 N. Michigan Rd, Indianapolis. www.beefandboards.com. 317-872-9664.

Emma and Addison’s World: Childhood Stories of 19th Century Zionsville - An Exhibit

Occurring Daily Through Saturday, October 31, 2009.Through October, 2009. This exhibit features four areas around which the Higgins children’s childhood revolved: their home, their school, the I.C.&L railroad depot and businesses along Zionsville’s main street. Plus the back center of the exhibit space will feature a small porch which will serve as a stage for intimate programs for approximately 20 children. Sullivan Munce Cultural Center. 225 W. Hawthorne St., Zionsville. www.sullivanmunce.org/. 317-873-4900.

Ensemble Voltaire Ongoing Daily Beginning Friday, January 30, 2009. “Telemann in Paris” www.ensemblevoltaire.com. 7:30 pm. $15/Seniors $10/ Students $5. Trinity Episcopal Church. 3243 N. Meridian St., Indianapolis. www.indybaroque.org. 317-202-0546. INDYSCHILD.COM 47

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JCC’s 3rd Annual Indoor Triathlon

Anyone 13 and over is invited to take the challenge of swimming, biking and running twenty minutes each in the JCC’s Indoor Triathlon. 7:30am-3pm. Competitive Athletes: $32/M, $39/NM; Noncompetitive: 25/M, $32/N. Arthur M. Glick JCC. 6701 Hoover Rd, Indianapolis. www.jccindy.org/. 317-251-9467 x2238.

Pet Adoption Day

Visit the pets up for adoption from the Humane Society of Johnson County. 1-5pm. Johnson County Public Library’s Franklin Branch. 401 State Street, Franklin. www.jcplin.org. (317) 738-2833.

Monday 02 Computer Class—Beginning Computers

For teens and adults. 10am. Free. Johnson County Public Library: Franklin Branch. 401 State St., Franklin. www.jcplin.org. 317-738-9711.

Paws and Read

Young children who are reluctant readers are invited to practice their reading skills by reading to a trained and patient therapy dog provided by Therapy Dogs International. Excludes 12/8 and 12/22. 7pm. FREE. Warren Library. 9701 E. 21st St, Indianapolis. www.imcpl.org. 317-275-4550.

Tuesday 03 Homeschooler’s Special: Landfill Cookie

Come to the Franklin branch for this special program just for homeschoolers. What goes into our garbage watch day? Learn about reducing, reusing, and recycling and share a tasty “landfill cookie” treat. Sign up soon as space is limited!. 2pm. Free. Johnson County Public Library: Franklin Branch. 401 State St., Franklin. www.jcplin.org. 317-738-9711.

Indiana Pacers vs. Minnesota Timberwolves

7pm. $10-$650. Conseco Fieldhouse. 125 S. Pennsylvania St, Indianapolis. w w w. c o n s e c o f i e l d h o u s e . c o m . 317-917-2500.

Primary School Age Program

Designed for children kindergarten to fourth grade. This year’s theme is “Dissecting Dewey”. Each month we will focus on the Dewey decimal system and break it down subject by subject. Registration is required. 4:305:15pm. Free. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Children’s Programming Room, Fishers. www. hepl.lib.in.us/. 317-579-0304.

treasure boxes, and partake in sumptuous refreshments. Dress as fancy as your heart desired for this elegant affair. Space is limited and registration is required. 6:30-7:30pm. Free. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Children’s Programming Room, Fishers. www.hepl.lib.in.us/. 317-579-0304.

Target Free Family Night

Movie Matinee: Escape to the Greek Islands

Ice Miller Indy Wine Fest hosted by WFYI

PG-13; Children 13 and under must be accompanied by a parent/guardian. 2pm. Free. Johnson County Public Library: Franklin Branch. 401 State St., Franklin. www.jcplin.org. 317-738-9711.

Speed Dating

Want to meet new people in a safe, friendly, non-bar environment? Speed dating is a formalized matchmaking process or dating system whose purpose is to encourage people to meet a large number of new people. Ages 25 – 39 years old with picture ID required. Strict observance of the age range. Future programs will be available for other age ranges. 7-9pm. Free. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Fishers. www.hepl.lib.in.us/. 317579-0304.

Storytime

Fishers United Methodist Church at 9690 E 116th St will hold storytime for toddlers through kindergarten every first and third Wednesday of the month. The stories and crafts begin at 10:00 am. Free, but space is limited so please call the church at 317-849-1805 to register. 10:00 am. free. Fishers United Methodist Church. 9690 E 116th St, Fishers. www.fishersumc.org. 317-849-1805.

Fancy Nancy Party

Are your children enamored with the finery in the Fancy Nancy stories by Jan O’Connor? Now they can come to the library and have a blast being fancy! We will paint our nails, read our favorite Fancy Nancy stories embellish elaborate 48 INDY’S CHILD * FEBRUARY 2009

Friday 06 6-9pm. $50 in advance; $60 at the door. Indiana Roof. 140 W. Washington St, Indianapolis. www.indianaroof.com. 317-236-1870.

Indiana Pacers vs. Orlando Magic

7pm. $10-$650. Conseco Fieldhouse. 125 S. Pennsylvania St, Indianapolis. consecofieldhouse. com. 317-917-2500.

RAIN: A Tribute to the Beatles

The dancers of LINES Ballet and the Shaolin Monks of China collaborate to present “Long River, High Sky,” an unprecedented synthesis of Eastern and Western classical forms. This collaboration represents both a blending of distinct cultural traditions -- ballet and martial arts -- and recognition that these arts of movement are convergent and intertwined. 8pm. Adults: $35, $30, $25; Students/Seniors: $28, $24, $20. Clowes Memorial Hall. 4602 Sunset Avenue, Indianapolis. www. cloweshall.org

Winter Nights: Breathless

7pm. $5 members; $9 adults; $7 students; $5 ages 12 &. Indianapolis Museum of Art. 4000 Michigan Rd, Indianapolis. www.imamuseum.org. 317-923-1331.

Bunny Hop Playtime

Thursday 05 Southside Mothers and More Monthly Meeting

The Southside chapter of Mothers and More will host its monthly meetings on the third Thursday of every month at 7 p.m. in the Methodist Medical Plaza on SR 135 in Greenwood. Because a mother is more than any single role she plays at any given time, our group promotes the value of all the work mothers do and we address moms’ needs as individuals and members of society. In addition to regular play dates and mom’s only events, our monthly meetings provide moms with an opportunity to get together without kids, in an informal setting to enjoy a featured speaker and the company of other local moms. Email mothersandmore39.comcast. net for directions, featured speakers or more information. 7:00 p.m. Methodist Medical Plaza. SR 135, Greenwood.

Primary School Age Program

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Sponsored by Target, the first Thursday. 4-8pm. Free. The Children’s Museum. 3000 N. Meridian St, Indianapolis. www. ChildrensMuseum.org. 317-334-3322.

Designed for children kindergarten to fourth grade. This year’s theme is “Dissecting Dewey”. Each month we will focus on the Dewey decimal system and break it down subject by subject. Registration is required. 10-10:45am. Free. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Children’s Programming Room, Fishers. www.hepl.lib.in.us/. 317-579-0304.

Bundle up your babies and bring them to our new creative playtime! We’ll share a story and information about how you can help your little one prepare for reading readiness. And we will cap it off with the opportunity to play or participate in a special activity. Some sessions will be free playtime for just you and your little one. 10-11am. Free. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Children’s Programming Room, Fishers. www.hepl.lib.in.us/. 317-579-0304.

7898 N. Hague Rd, Indianapolis. 317-275-4460.

Aesops Bops! told by David Gonzalez

Fast-paced, funny, and packed with audience participation, Aesop Bops! features a potpourri of Aesop’s classic stories including “The Lion and the Mouse,” “The Fisherman and His Wife,” and “The Turtle’s Shell.”This feast of funky, physical storytelling leaves young audiences feeling like they had just performed the show too!. 1pm. FREE. Lawrence Library. 7898 N. Hague Rd, Indianapolis. www.imcpl.org. 317-275-4460.

Black History Month Celebration: Historic Communities of Indiana

10-3pm. Free with admission. The Children’s Museum. 3000 N. Meridian St, Indianapolis. w w w. c h i l d r e n s m u s e u m . o r g / . (317) 334-3322.

Indiana K-9 Search and Recovery

Meet Ruger, a search and recovery dog for the Johnson County Sheriff ’s Department. Deputies Brian Baird and Beth Baird will demonstrate how he finds and rescues missing people. 1pm. Free. Johnson County Public Library’s Franklin Branch. 401 State Street, Franklin. www. jcplin.org. (317) 738-2833.

Jazz Orpheus and More told by David Gonzalez

7:30-9:30pm. $15 in advance, $18 at door. Indiana History Center. 450 W. Ohio St, Indianapolis. www.indianahistory.org. 317-232-1882.

Race in America Film Series: Crash

7pm. $5 members; $9 adults; $7 students; $5 ages 12 &. Indianapolis Museum of Art. 4000 Michigan Rd, Indianapolis. www. imamuseum.org. 317-923-1331.

O.K. Program (For Boys)

Police officers work with boys who want to follow the right path in life. Boys will learn how to address diversity, respond to problems at school and how to handle other issues. 10 am - 4 pm. FREE. Windsor Village Park. 2501 Kenyon Ave, Indianapolis. www. indygov.org. 317-327-7162.

Sunday 08 Family Fun! from the Carmel Symphony Orchestra

A family favorite—this concert, sponsored by Pedcor Companies, is one of our most popular! Young and youngat-heart are invited to sit on stage among the musicians of the orchestra and hear excerpts of the world’s great classics. The concert will feature the winner of the CSO’s 2008 Young Artist Competition, sponsored by Meridian Music: Daniel Perry, double bass, senior at North Central High School (Indianapolis). 3pm. $20 adults; $15 seniors; $5 students; children free. Carmel Symphony Orchestra. 18250 North Union St, Westfield. www.carmelsymphonyorchestra.org. 317-844-9717.

Sunrise: A Song of Two Humans

2:30pm. $5 members; $9 adults; $7 students; $5 ages 12 & under. Indianapolis Museum of Art. 4000 Michigan Rd, Indianapolis. www.imamuseum.org. 317923-1331.

Monday 09 Paws and Read

Toddler Time

Programs consist of activities such as finger plays, songs, stories and a simple craft. For children, three and under, with a caregiver. Registration is required. 2-2:30pm. Free. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Children’s Programming Room, Fishers. www. hepl.lib.in.us/. 317-579-0304.

Tuesday 10 24th Annual Celebration of Black History 7:30pm. Free. Hilbert Circle Theatre. 45 Monument Circle, Indianapolis. www. indianapolissymphony.org.

Indianapolis Symphony Orchestra Lilly Classical Series: Hilary Hahn - A World

Fri. 8 pm; Sat. 5:30 pm. $16 $68. Hilbert Circle Theatre. 45 Monument Circle, Indianapolis. www.indianapolissymphony.org.

Saturday 07 Aesops Bops! featuring David Gonzalez

Fast-paced, funny, and packed with audience participation. Features a potpourri of Aesop’s classic stories including “The Lion and the Mouse.” This feast of funky, physical storytelling leaves young audiences feeling like they had just performed the show too. 1pm. Free. Lawrence Branch Library.

Pet Adoption Day 02.01.09

Indiana Pacers vs. Cleveland Cavaliers

7pm. $10-$650. Conseco Fieldhouse. 125 S. Pennsylvania St, Indianapolis. www. consecofieldhouse.com. 317-917-2500.

Owls of Indiana

A live demonstration by the wild bird rescue and rehabilitation organization Return to the Wild. Come nose to beak with hawks, falcons, and, of course, owls from Indiana. 7-8pm. Free. Johnson County Public Library’s Trafalgar Branch. 424 Tower Street, Trafalgar. www.jcplin. org. (317) 878-9560.

Preschool Storytime

Ages 3-K. 10:30am and 1:30pm. Free. Johnson County Public Library: Franklin Branch. 401 State St., Franklin. www. jcplin.org. 317-738-9711.

Primary School Age Program

Designed for children kindergarten to fourth grade.This year’s theme is “Dissecting Dewey”. Each month we will focus on the Dewey decimal system and break it down subject by subject. Registration is required. 4:30-5:15pm. Free. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Children’s Programming Room, Fishers. www.hepl. lib.in.us/. 317-579-0304.

Wednesday 11 Father/Daughter Sweetheart Dance

Fathers and daughters are invited to join us for a special evening of fun and dancing. A photographer will be on hand to take pictures for an additional cost. Prizes and refreshments. Semi-formal dress. For girls 5-12 years old and their fathers. Registration begins 01/02/09 and ends 02/04/09 or when sold out. 7-8:30pm. Resident: $8/Non-Resident: $12 (per person). The Mansion at Oak Hill. 5801 E. 116th St, Carmel. www.fishers.in.us/parks. (317)595-3155.

Home School Day: Almost Suwarrow?! The History of Indianapolis

Participate in educational programs that include a house tour and hands-on activities that correlate to the Indiana Academic Standards. Students will learn fun and interesting facts about their city, will work with maps of Indianapolis and Indiana, and will have the chance to write letters or journal entries from the point of view of early Indianapolis citizens and leaders. The cost is $3 per child and adult chaperones are free. Must be at least five years old to participate. Individual registrations are accepted from independent homeschool educators. To make reservations or if you have questions please call or email the Morris-Butler House at 317-636-5409 or mbh@historiclandmark.org. 10am-12pm. $3 per child; adult chaperones are free. Morris-Butler House. 1204 N. Park Ave, Indianapolis. www.historiclandmarks.org. 317-636-5409.

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Fairy Tales Can Come True Ongoing Daily Beginning Saturday, January 31, 2009. Children ages 8 and younger and an adult are invited to find that fairy tales can come true for all princes and princesses at the InfoZone’s first Storybook Party. 1:30pm. FREE. InfoZone Library Branch. 3000 N. Meridian Street, Indianapolis. www.imcpl.org. 317-275-4430. Fetch a Good Book Occurring Daily Beginning Sunday, February 01, 2009 Through Saturday, February 28, 2009. Register your family for Johnson County Public Library’s winter reading program. Earn rewards for library visits and quality reading time. Clark Pleasant Branch (317) 535-6206 Franklin Branch (317) 738-2833 Trafalgar Branch (317) 878-9560 White River Branch (317) 885-1330. All Johnson County Public Library branches. www.jcplin.org. First Friday Evening at WonderLab Occurring on the first Friday of each Month Through Thursday, December 31, 2009. The museum will be open from 9:30 am, with reduced admission of just $3 per person after 5pm. Pizza and juice available to purchase in the evening. 5-8:30pm. Reduced admission: $3/person after 5:00 pm. WonderLab Museum of Science, Health and Technology. 308 West Fourth Street, Bloomington. www.wonderlab. org. 812-337-1337 ext. 25. First Friday Family Movie Night Ongoing on the first Friday of each Month. For ages 5-12; must be accompanied by an adult. 6-7:30pm. FREE. Washington Park. 3130 E. 30th St, Indianapolis. www. indyparks.org. 317-327-PARK. Free Community Breakfast Occurring on the first Saturday of each Month Through Sunday, August 02, 2009. Breakfast served to the community every first Saturday of the month (excluding November). Free will offering accepted. 7am. FREE. Eden United Methodist Church. 2122 East Eden Rd., Greenfield. www.gbgm-umc.org/eden. 317-326-2212. Free Community Drum Circle Ongoing Each Thursday Beginning Thursday, January 22, 2009. Bongo Boy Music School is proud to announce our new affiliation with REMO, Inc. Bongo Boy Music School hosts a FREE Community Drum Circle every Thursday Night. No experience necessary. All ages and levels are welcome. Drums will be provided by Bongo Boy Music School and REMO. Parents bring your kids. Kids bring your parents and friends. 7:30-8:30pm. FREE. Bongo Boy Music School. 8481 Bash St. Suite 1100, Indianapolis. www.bongoboymusic.com. 317-595-9065. Game Space: Dance Dance Revolution Ongoing Daily. For more information, call the Young Adult desk at 814-3983. 2-4pm. FREE. Carmel Clay Library. 55 Fourth Ave. Southeast, Program Room, Carmel. www.carmel.lib.in.us/. Girls Night Out Ongoing on the fourth Saturday of each Month. Massage, Hand & Foot Treatments,Food & Fun. Bring a friend and come hang with the girls . 6-9PM. $30 includes everything. Eden’s Pathway. 2700 E. 55th Pl. STE. 5, Indianapolis. www.edenspathway.com. 317.205.9377.

Harper Lee’s To Kill a Mockingbird Occurring Daily Beginning Friday, January 23, 2009 Through Saturday, February 21, 2009. Racial tensions run high in a small southern, Depression-era town, in this highly theatrical adaptation of Harper Lee’s best selling Pulitzer Prize winning novel. Atticus Finch must teach his children, Scout and Jem, difficult lessons about racial tolerance, violence and prejudice when he goes against the community by defending a young black man falsely accused of a crime against a white woman. One of America’s greatest stories movingly adapted for the stage, and a must-see in every generation. Various prices. Indiana Repertory Theatre. 140 W. Washington St, Indianapolis. www.indianarep.com. 317-635-5252. Hearthside Suppers Occurring Every Sun, Fri & Sat Beginning Friday, January 23, 2009 Through Sunday, March 22, 2009. You’re invited to an intimate dinner in central Indiana’s first brick home. Help with preparations by the hearth, sip on hot cider and indulge in a delicious multicourse meal. Great fun for individuals or groups. * Prepare and eat a delicious, 19th–century meal by candlelight * Tour the 1823 Conner House * Visit with a costumed host and other guests * Enjoy evening entertainment Reservations are required. Recommended for ages 10–adult. 6-9pm. $55/non-members. Conner Prairie. 13400 Allisonville Road, Fishers. www.connerprairie.org/ events/hearthside_suppers. 317-776-6000. How You Could Get Free Money for College Using Scholarships Ongoing Daily. Presented by Indy College Funding. This free seminar for parents is sure to fill up quickly. Please register online at www.indycollegefunding.com/seminar. php or call 888-217-3190. 6:30-8pm. FREE. Carmel Clay Library. 55 Fourth Ave. Southeast, Program Room, Carmel. www.carmel.lib.in.us/. Junior Gardener Club Ongoing on the second Saturday of each Month. Children ages 6-12 are invited to enjoy a fun-filled time in the Children’s Garden. There will be a different topic each month. Registration required. 11am-12pm. Free. Garfield Park Conservatory. 2505 Conservatory Drive, Indianapolis. www.garfieldgardensconservatory.org. 317327-7580. Kinderdance Occurring Each Wednesday Beginning Wednesday, January 21, 2009 Through Wednesday, April 29, 2009. Dancers aged 5-6 will develop strength, coordination and their imagination through ballet, jazz and creative dance. Wednesdays 2:15-3 pm. $154 members, $210 nonmembers. JCC. 6701 Hoover Rd, Indianapolis. www.jccindy.org/page.aspx?id=172703. 317-251-9467. Mother-Daughter Book Club Ongoing Daily. For girls in grades 4 & 5 and their mothers. September Book: Willow Run by Patricia Reilly Giff. Special treats! Registration is required and begins Tuesday, September 2, either in person or by calling the Children’s & Youth Services desk at 8443363. 6:30-7:30pm. FREE. Carmel Clay Library. 55 Fourth Ave. Southeast, Storytime Room, Carmel. www.carmel.lib.in.us/. Nature Crafts Ongoing Each Wednesday Beginning Wednesday, January 21, 2009. We’re going to use items from nature to make fun and creative crafts to hang in your home and share with your friends and family. 5:30-6:30pm. $6. Raymond Park/Indy Island. 8575 E. Raymond St., Indianapolis. 317-327-PARK.

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1230 N. Delaware St, Indianapolis. www. pbhh.org. 317.631.1888.

Monument Circle, Indianapolis. www. indianapolissymphony.org.

Annual Tootsie Pops Concert

Movin Out

Performed by North Central High School Orchestras. A 40-minute concert filled with musical surprises designed to introduce young people to the joys of orchestral music. After the concert, try all the instruments at our musical instrument petting zoo and stop by our craft table to make your own simple instrument to take home! Cost: $3 per person. Tickets available by advance purchase or at the door. For more information, call or email Ann Crutchfield at 257-6747or arc7@comcast.net Ticket order forms may be downloaded at www.northcentralorchestras.org . 9:30am and 11am. $3 per person. North Central High School. 1801 E. 86th Street, Indianapolis. www.northcentralorchestras.org. 317-257-6747.

Engineer’s Day

10-3pm. Free with admission. The Children’s Museum. 3000 N. Meridian St, Indianapolis. www.childrensmuseum. org/. (317) 334-3322.

Cirque Du Soleil: Saltimbanco

Occurring Daily Beginning Thursday, February 12, 2009 Through Sunday, February 15, 2009. a story and Price: $35 - $90; $28 - $72 ages 12 & under information Phone: 317-917-2500 about how Location: 125 S. Pennsylvania St, Indianapolis, IN 46204 you can help your Thurs. 7:30 pm; Fri. & Sat. 3:30 pm & 7:30 pm; little one prepare for Sun. 1 pm & 5 pm reading readiness. And Valentines to Make and Take

Show off your creativity by making Valentine cards for your friends, family, and sweethearts. All materials supplied. 4pm. Free. Johnson County Public Library: Franklin Branch. 401 State St., Franklin. www.jcplin.org. 317-738-9711.

WonderLab’s Discovery Time

Stop by for a special story, animal demonstration or hands-on science activity! Call 812-337-1337 ext. 2 to learn the topic of the week. This program is intended for children, age 6 and younger, with their caregivers. Older siblings are welcome. 10:30 am - 11:00 am (drop-in format). Included with museum admission.WonderLab Museum of Science, Health and Technology. 308 West Fourth Street, Bloomington. www. wonderlab.org. 812-337-1337 ext. 25.

Thursday 12 Lincoln’s Birthday

10-2pm. Free with admission. The Children’s Museum. 3000 N. Meridian St, Indianapolis. www.childrensmuseum. org/. (317) 334-3322.

Race in America Film Series: Harold & Kumar Escape from Guantanamo Bay

7pm. $5 members; $9 adults; $7 students; $5 ages 12 &. Indianapolis Museum of Art. 4000 Michigan Rd, Indianapolis. www.imamuseum.org. 317-923-1331.

Together Again: Music & Poetry - Love Songs & Poems for Your Valentine

7:30pm. $15; $25/couple. American Cabaret Theatre. 401 E. Michigan St., 50 INDY’S CHILD * FEBRUARY 2009

Indianapolis www.actindy.org 317-6310334 Ext. 115.

Primary School Age Program

Designed for children kindergarten to fourth grade. This year’s theme is “Dissecting Dewey”. Each month we will focus on the Dewey decimal system and break it down subject by subject. Registration is required. 1010:45am. Free. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Children’s Programming Room, Fishers. www. hepl.lib.in.us/. 317-579-0304.

Cirque Du Soleil: Saltimbanco

Thurs. 7:30 pm; Fri. & Sat. 3:30 pm & 7:30 pm; Sun. 1 pm & 5 pm. $35 - $90; $28 - $72 ages 12 & under. Conseco Fieldhouse. 125 S. Pennsylvania St, Indianapolis. www.cirquedusoleil.com/ Saltimbanco. 317-917-2500.

Friday 13 Love Stinks Party for Teens

Tired of the sappy stuff? Come to an antivalentine’s party with other teens. 4pm. Free. Johnson County Public Library: Franklin Branch. 401 State St., Franklin. www.jcplin.org. 317-738-2098.

Syd Mead

6pm. $5 members; $10 public. Indianapolis Museum of Art. 4000 Michigan Rd, Indianapolis. www.imamuseum.org. 317-923-1331.

Bunny Hop Playtime

Bundle up your babies and bring them to our new creative playtime! We’ll share

we will cap it off with the opportunity to play or participate in a special activity. Some sessions will be free playtime for just you and your little one. 10-11am. Free. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Children’s Programming Room, Fishers. www.hepl.lib.in.us/. 317-579-0304.

Cirque Du Soleil: Saltimbanco

Indianapolis Symphony Orchestra Evening Pops Series

Valentines Weekend with Michael Feinstein. Fri. & Sat. 8 pm; Sun. 7 pm. $20 - $73. Hilbert Circle Theatre. 45 Monument Circle, Indianapolis. www. indianapolissymphony.org.

Movin Out

Five-time Grammy winner Billy Joel and legendary director and choreographer Twyla Tharp have joined forces to create the spectacular new musical Time Magazine declares “The #1 show of the year!” . Various times and prices. Murat Theatre. 502 N. New Jersey St., Indianapolis. www. livenation.com/murat. 317-632-7469.

Saturday 14 ”Romance and Remembrance”

A romantic evening of Victorian love letters, poetry and readings, followed by dinner at the Indianapolis Propylaeum. 6pm. $130 per couple; $120 for members. President Benjamin Harrison Home.

Saturday Movie Matinee

PG; Children 7 and under must be accompanied by a parent/guardian. 2pm. Free. Johnson County Public Library: Franklin Branch. 401 State St., Franklin. www.jcplin.org. 317-738-9711.

Traveling with Pets

2:30pm. $5 members; $9 adults; $7 students; $5 ages 12 &. Indianapolis Museum of Art. 4000 Michigan Rd, Indianapolis. www.imamuseum.org. 317-923-1331.

O.K. Program (For Boys)

Your Curious Kid and You

This program is for preschoolers and a parent or caregiver. The program will begin with stories and crafts and then there will be free time with books and make-and-take crafts available. Information about the six basic readingreadiness skills that every child needs to know will be available at each program. No registration is required. 1012pm. Free. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Children’s Programming Room, Fishers. www.hepl.lib. in.us/. 317-579-0304.

Cirque Du Soleil: Saltimbanco

Indianapolis Symphony Orchestra Evening Pops Series

Valentines Weekend with Michael Feinstein. Fri. & Sat. 8 pm; Sun. 7 pm. $20 - $73. Hilbert Circle Theatre. 45

Sunday 15 Open Gym Open Swim

The times are 1-5pm at the Westfield HS Pool and Multi-purpose Facility. The cost is $5, children 2 and under are free. All Children under 12 must be accompanied by an adult. Lifeguards will be on duty. For more information, please call 317-804-3185. 1-5PM. $5. Westfield High School. 18250 North Union Street, Westfield. westfield.in.gov. 317-804-3185.

Cirque Du Soleil: Saltimbanco

Indianapolis Symphony Orchestra Evening Pops Series

Valentines Weekend with Michael Feinstein. Fri. & Sat. 8 pm; Sun. 7 pm. $20 - $73. Hilbert Circle Theatre. 45 Monument Circle, Indianapolis. www. indianapolissymphony.org.

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Monday 16 Intermediate School Age Program

Children in grades 4 through 6 are invited to celebrate Abraham Lincoln’s 200th birthday with stories about his childhood, family and time in the White House. Be fascinated by interesting facts about Mr. Lincoln, George Washington and other presidents. Please register, as space is limited. 7-7:45pm. Free. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Children’s Programming Room, Fishers. www.hepl.lib.in.us/. 317-579-0304.

President’s Day and Opening of 2009 “William Henry Harrison: Tippecanoe and History, Too” Exhibit

Through October 31. Re-enactment tour of the historic home during President’s Day. Opening of the 2009 exhibit exploring the life of William Henry Harrison, who grew up during the American Revolution and would lead men in the Battle of Tippecanoe and the War of 1812. Exhibit includes letters,

documents and other artifacts from his tenure as Governor of the Indiana Territory. 10am-3.30pm. Adults $9; Students (5 to 17) $4. President Benjamin Harrison Home. 1230 N. Delaware S, Indianapolis. www.pbhh.org. 317.631.1888.

President’s Day Celebration

10-5pm. Free with admission. The Children’s Museum. 3000 N. Meridian St, Indianapolis. www.childrensmuseum.org/. (317) 334-3322.

Paws and Read

Tuesday 17 Drop in on Your Day Off

Join us on your day off for a drop in program with a make and take craft. No registration is required. 12-2pm. Free. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Children’s Programming Room, Fishers. www.hepl.lib.in.us/. 317-579-0304.

Indiana K-9 Search and Recovery

Meet Ruger, a search and recovery dog for the Johnson County Sheriff ’s Department. Deputies Brian Baird and Beth Baird will demonstrate how he finds and rescues missing people. 6:30pm. Free. Johnson County Public Library’sWhite River Branch. 1664 Library Boulevard, Greenwood. www. jcplin.org. (317) 885-1330.

Indiana Pacers vs. Philadelphia Sixers

7pm. $10-$650. Conseco Fieldhouse. 125 S. Pennsylvania St, Indianapolis. www. consecofieldhouse.com. 317-917-2500.

Music of the Americas

7:30pm. $20; $15 senior citizens; $10 students and AFM members. Hilbert Circle Theatre. 45 Monument Circle, Indianapolis. www.indianapolissymphony.org.

Ronen Chamber Ensemble - Music of the Americas - A Concert

With composers from Canada, Brazil and the USA, featuring a World Premiere by U. of Indpls. composer John Berners. 7:30pm. $20 general admission, $15 for senior citizens, and $10.00 for s. Hilbert Circle Theatre. 45 Monument Circle, Indianapolis. www. ronenchamber.org. 317-846-9334.

Wednesday 18 Medieval Catapult Wars

Come build your own mini catapult! We will pair off into teams; each team will build its own castle, which they will have to defend using their mini catapults. Which team’s castle will fall first? Who will be victorious? Come find out, and take your mini catapult

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Nursery Time Occurring Each Wednesday Beginning Wednesday, February 04, 2009 Through Wednesday, February 18, 2009. Nursery Time is for ages newborn up to two years of age. A parent or caregiver is required to attend. Program consists of activities, fingerplays, songs and a craft. Registration is required. 10-10:30am. Free. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Children’s Programming Room, Fishers. www.hepl.lib.in.us/. 317-579-0304. O.K. Program (For Boys) Occurring Each Saturday Beginning Saturday, January 24, 2009 Through Saturday, October 31, 2009. Police officers work with boys who want to follow the right path in life. Boys will learn how to address diversity, respond to problems at school and how to handle other issues. 10 am - 4 pm. FREE. Windsor Village Park. 2501 Kenyon Ave, Indianapolis. www.indygov.org. 317-327-7162. Orly Genger Occurring Daily Through Sunday, April 26, 2009. Known for transforming common nylon ropes into elaborate, monumental sculptures, New York-based artist Orly Genger’s work for the IMA is her largest and most ambitious to date. Thousands of feet of painted rope piled into an all-encompassing installation, Genger’s sculpture is conceived in response to its surroundings and invites viewers to explore its interior. The work challenges typical associations with craft and textile handiwork through its highly physical creation process—wrestling rope into knots and stacking the forms to create persistent and imposing sculptural objects. According to Genger, her sculptures are suggestive of “things that are beyond our control, they spill, flood and spread through space. Even as they stand still like steel monuments bolted to the ground, they threaten to envelop their surroundings like molten lava chasing anything in its path.”. 11 a.m. to 5 p.m. Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Saturdays; 11 a.m. to 9 p.m. Thursdays and Fridays. Free. Indianapolis Museum of Art. 4000 Michigan Rd., Indianapolis. www.imamuseum.org. 317-923-1331. Parents Night Out Ongoing Each Saturday Beginning Saturday, January 24, 2009. Parents, do you need a night out without the kids? Bring them to Bates on the first Saturday of the month for a few hours of freedom. Kids will be able to swim, watch movies, and participate in other activities. Snacks and drinks will be provided. Don’t forget your bathing suits. 6-9pm. $5. LaShonna Bates Aquatic Center. 1450 S. Reisner St., Indianapolis. 317-327-PARK. Paws and Read Ongoing Each Monday. Young children who are reluctant readers are invited to practice their reading skills by reading to a trained and patient therapy dog provided by Therapy Dogs International. Excludes 12/8 and 12/22. 7pm. FREE. Warren Library. 9701 E. 21st St, Indianapolis. www.imcpl.org. 317-275-4550. Peewinkle Meets Zeno Occurring Daily Beginning Saturday, February 28, 2009 Through Sunday, March 08, 2009. Join Zeno, the little space alien, as he learns about springtime wonders on the planet Earth. Ages 2-10. Times Vary. See www.peewinklespuppets.com for details. Tickets: $8, Post show workshop: $3; under two: free. Peewinkle’s Puppet Studio. 25 E. Henry St, Indianapolis. www.peewinklespuppets.com. 317-283-7144.

President Benjamin Harrison Home Tour Info Occurring Daily Through Thursday, December 31, 2009. Tours are on the hour and half hour, 10 a.m. to 3.30 p.m. Monday through Saturday. Sunday tours in June and July from 12.30 - 3.30 p.m. Holiday closings: Harrison Home is closed Jan. 1 - 18, Indy 500 Parade and Race days, Memorial Day, Labor Day, Thanksgiving Day, and December 24, 25, 26 and 31, 2009 and Jan. 1, 2010. AAA discounts are available; $5 adults and $2.50 students. Group rates are available; reservations must be made two weeks in advance. Please call to schedule (317.631.1888.) . 10 a.m. - 3.30 p.m. Adults (18-64) $8; Students (5 to 17) $3; Seniors (65 and older). President Benjamin Harrison Home. 1230 N. Delaware St., Indianapolis. www.pbhh. org. 317.631.1888. Primary School Age Program Occurring Each Tuesday Beginning Tuesday, February 03, 2009 Through Tuesday, February 10, 2009. Designed for children kindergarten to fourth grade. This year’s theme is “Dissecting Dewey”. Each month we will focus on the Dewey decimal system and break it down subject by subject. Registration is required. 4:30-5:15pm. Free. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Children’s Programming Room, Fishers. www. hepl.lib.in.us/. 317-579-0304. Primary School Age Program Occurring Each Thursday Beginning Thursday, February 05, 2009 Through Thursday, February 12, 2009. Designed for children kindergarten to fourth grade. This year’s theme is “Dissecting Dewey”. Each month we will focus on the Dewey decimal system and break it down subject by subject. Registration is required. 1010:45am. Free. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Children’s Programming Room, Fishers. www.hepl.lib. in.us/. 317-579-0304. Ready to Read Storytime Occurring Each Thursday Beginning Thursday, February 05, 2009 Through Thursday, February 19, 2009. Come learn how you can help your child learn to read. Ready to read parent/child story time. Registration is required. 2-2:30pm. Free. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Children’s Programming Room, Fishers. www.hepl.lib.in.us/. 317-579-0304. Sleeping Beauty Occurring Daily Through Sunday, February 08, 2009. An elegant, amusing version of the Perrault romance, with just the right balance of comedy and suspense, and a touch of classical dance. Sleeping Beauty will be sure to delight even the most discerning young princess! Don’t miss this wonderful evening of classic fairy tale theatre, spend a moment with your child, create a memory that will last a lifetime. Multiple times. $15/adults, $11/12 and under. The Artist Studio. 12810 Ford Dr., Fishers. www.artists-studio. com. 317-594-5070. Soaringwords Art Exhibit: SoaringHaikus Occurring Daily Through Wednesday, April 15, 2009. Library patrons are invited to view the art and stories of Indianapolis Public Schools 4th graders who were invited to “pay it forward” by inspiring hospitalized children at Wishard Health Services with their personalized messages and artwork. It’s part of the United Way of Central Indiana’s ReadUP program. An opening reception will be held on Thursday, January 15 from 5 - 7 p.m. During library hours. FREE. Fountain Square Library. 1066 Virginia Ave, Indianapolis. www.imcpl.org. 317-275-4390.

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home with you after the program!. 4pm. Free. Johnson County Public Library: Franklin Branch. 401 State St., Franklin. www.jcplin.org. 317-738-2098.

Thursday 19 Intermediate School Age Program

Children in grades 4 through 6 are invited to celebrate Abraham Lincoln’s 200th birthday with stories about his childhood, family and time in the White House. Be fascinated by interesting facts about Mr. Lincoln, George Washington and other presidents. Please register, as space is limited. 10-10:45am. Free. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Children’s Programming Room, Fishers. www.hepl.lib.in.us/. 317-579-0304.

you can help your little one prepare for reading readiness. And we will cap it off with the opportunity to play or participate in a special activity. Some sessions will be free playtime for just you and your little one. 10-11am. Free. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Children’s Programming Room, Fishers. www.hepl.lib.in.us/. 317-579-0304.

Meridian Street Preschool Co-op Open House

“Pop-in” for a tour of our school. Meet the teachers, parents and children that make our school so special! Children are welcome and encouraged to attend. 9:30-11am. Free. Meridian Street United Methodist Church. 5500 N. Meridian Street, Indianapolis. www. meridianstreetco-op.org. 317-767-3003.

Race In America Film Series: Skins

Circle of Stars Gymnastics Invitational

Responsible Pet Ownership

Indianapolis Symphony Orchestra Lilly Classical Series: Biss Performs Mozart

7pm. $5 members; $9 adults; $7 students; $5 ages 12 &. Indianapolis Museum of Art. 4000 Michigan Rd, Indianapolis. www.imamuseum.org. 317-923-1331.

Indiana Convention Center. 100 South Capitol Avenue, Indianapolis.

Come learn how to be a responsible pet owner. The Humane Society of Johnson County will discuss how to care for your pet and what it means to be a responsible owner. Also hear the wonderful story of Mira (Miracle) and how she came to be a HSJC Ambassadog and meet the animals that will accompany the educators. Refreshments provided. Door Prizes!. 7pm. Free. Johnson County Public Library: Franklin Branch. 401 State St., Franklin. www.jcplin.org. 317738-2098.

Fri. 8 pm; Sat.8 pm. $16 - $68. Hilbert Circle Theatre. 45 Monument Circle, Indianapolis. www.indianapolissymphony.org.

Meridian Street Preschool Co-op Open House

Dark Star Orchestra

Friday 20 The Peking Acrobats

The Peking Acrobats, from the People’s Republic of China, celebrates a folk art form dating back to the Ch’in Dynasty (221 B.C. - 207 B.C.).Audience members will be amazed by daring maneuvers atop a precautious pagoda of chairs, wire walking, somersaulting, gymnastics and much, much more. The show will include the sounds of a live orchestra performing with traditional Chinese instruments. 6pm. $25 and $20 available at box office or Ticketmaster.com. Madame Walker Theatre. 617 Indiana Ave., Indianapolis. www.walkertheatre. com. 317-236-2099.

Winter Nights: The General

7:30pm. $5 members; $9 adults; $7 students; $5 ages 12 &. Indianapolis Museum of Art. 4000 Michigan Rd, Indianapolis. www.imamuseum.org. 317-923-1331.

Bunny Hop Playtime

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Saturday 21 Black History Month Celebration: Visual Art

10-3pm. Free with admission. The Children’s Museum. 3000 N. Meridian St, Indianapolis. www.childrensmuseum. org/. (317) 334-3322. 8pm. $22.50 in advance. Murat Theatre. 502 N. New Jersey St., Indianapolis. www. livenation.com/murat. 317-249-2710.

Marley and Me Book Discussion

Join a fun and lively discussion of the award-winning book turned movie, Marley & Me, by John Grogan! Joann White, member of the Home Avenue Book Club and retired English teacher, will facilitate the robust and engaging discussion. Refreshments provided. 1pm. Free. Johnson County Public Library: Franklin Branch. 401 State St., Franklin. www.jcplin.org. 317-738-9711.

The Dog Says How told by Kevin Kling

7:30-9:30pm. $20 in advance, $125 at door. Indiana History Center. 450 W. Ohio St, Indianapolis. www. storytellingarts.org. 317-576-9848.

Thirsty, Thirsty

2:30pm. $5 members; $9 adults; $7 students; $5 ages 12 &. Indianapolis Museum of Art. 4000 Michigan Rd, Indianapolis. www. imamuseum.org. 317-923-1331.

Welcome Kaya, an American Girl!

10-4pm. $8 adults; $7 ages 65 & up; $5 students age 5-17. Eiteljorg Museum. 500 W. Washington St, Indianapolis. www.eiteljorg.org/. 317-636-WEST.

ZUMBA for the CURE

Cost: $10 to participate. Pproceeds go to The Indianapolis Affiliate of Susan G. Komen for the Cure. “PLEASE ARRIVE 30 TO 45 MINUTES EARLY” for registration purposes.Where: International

School of Indiana - 4330 North Michigan Road, Indianapolis, IN 46208. It will be in the gym in the Blackwell building. Cost: $10.00 per participant - all proceeds will go to Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer Foundation. Additional donations will be accepted. We can only accept CASH or CHECK, “NO CREDIT CARDS”. Details: Let’s join together to raise money towards finding a cure for Breast Cancer and at the same time we will have fun doing Zumba. 10-11:30am. $10 per particpant. International School of Indiana. 4330 N. Michigan Road, Indianapolis. www.zumbacesar.com. 317507-4924, Cesar Acosta.

Indianapolis Baroque Orchestra - A Concert

O.K. Program (For Boys)

Preschool Storytime

Circle of Stars Gymnastics Invitational

Indiana Convention Center. 100 South Capitol Avenue, Indianapolis.

Indianapolis Symphony Orchestra Lilly Classical Series: Biss Performs Mozart

Fri. 8 pm; Sat.8 pm. $16 - $68. Hilbert Circle Theatre. 45 Monument Circle, Indianapolis. www. indianapolissymphony.org. Sunday, February 22

Big Band Dance Series

5-9pm. $14. Indiana Roof. 140 W. Washington St, Indianapolis. www. indianaroof.com. 317-236-1870.

Indiana Pacers vs. Chicago Bulls

Noon. $10-$650. Conseco Fieldhouse. 125 S. Pennsylvania St, Indianapolis. www. consecofieldhouse.com. 317-917-2500.

You Make the Call

1:30 pm; 4 pm. $16 - $36. Hilbert Circle Theatre. 45 Monument Circle, Indianapolis. www.indianapolissymphony.org..

Indianapolis Baroque Orchestra - A Concert

Features “Les Nations” Barthold Kuijken, artistic director. 7:30pm. $15/Seniors $10/Students $5. Trinity Episcopal Church. 3243 N. Meridian St, Indianapolis. www.indybaroque.org. 317-202-0546.

Monday 23 Singsation

6pm. FREE with admission. Madame Walker Theatre. 617 Indiana Ave., Indianapolis. www.walkertheatre.com. 317-236-2099.

Paws and Read

Features “Les Nations” Barthold Kuijken, artistic director. 7:30pm. $15/Seniors $10/Students $5. Trinity Episcopal Church. 3243 N. Meridian St, Indianapolis. www.indybaroque.org. 317-202-0546.

Tuesday 24 Laughin on the Avenue

7pm. $10. Madame Walker Theatre. 617 Indiana Ave., Indianapolis. www. walkertheatre.com. 317-236-2099. Ages 3-K. 10:30am and 1:30pm. Free. Johnson County Public Library: Franklin Branch. 401 State St., Franklin. www. jcplin.org. 317-738-9711.

Wednesday 25 Bumper Sticker Madness

Looking for a new way to express yourself? Those, ages 10 and up, are invited to join us as we make our own unique bumper sticker creations. Stickers and markers will be provided. Please register, as space is limited. 2-2:45pm. Free. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Children’s Programming Room, Fishers. www. hepl.lib.in.us/. 317-579-0304.

Indiana Pacers vs. Memphis Grizzlies

7pm. $10-$650. Conseco Fieldhouse. 125 S. Pennsylvania St, Indianapolis. www. consecofieldhouse.com. 317-917-2500.

Teen Gaming Night - Wii

We’re bringing out the Wii, bring your friends and come game. We’ve got Guitar Hero, Sports and more! . 6-8pm. Free. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Teen Programming Room, Fishers. www.hepl.lib.in.us/. 317-579-0315.

Storytime

number of extras available. We will provide the stuffing materials. Make one, take one home with you, and make your pet happy!. 4pm. Free. Johnson County Public Library: Franklin Branch. 401 State St., Franklin. www.jcplin.org. 317738-2098.

Friday 27 Pet Puppets

Are you looking for the perfect pet? Make a pet puppet to take home. It’s cute and fun, and you don’t even have to feed it!. 4pm. Free. Johnson County Public Library: Franklin Branch. 401 State St., Franklin. www.jcplin.org. 317738-2098.

Bunny Hop Playtime

Hilbert Circle Theatre

Fri. 8 pm; Sat. 5:30 pm. $16 - $68. 45 Monument Circle, Indianapolis. www. indianapolissymphony.org.

Indianapolis Symphony Orchestra Lilly Classical Series

Sounds of the City - Gershwin & Berstein. Fri. 8 pm; Sat. 5:30 pm. $16 - $68. Hilbert Circle Theatre. 45 Monument Circle, Indianapolis. http:// www.indianapolissymphony.org.

Saturday 28 Black History Month Celebration: Music and Authors Parlor

10-3pm. Free with admission. The Children’s Museum. 3000 N. Meridian St, Indianapolis. http://www. childrensmuseum.org/. (317) 334-3322.

Indiana Ice vs. Cedar Rapids RoughRiders

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7:30pm. $12 - $16; $9 - $13 seniors & ages 12 & under; 2 & under FREE. Conseco Fieldhouse. 125 S. Pennsylvania St, Indianapolis. http://www.consecofieldhouse.com. 317-917-2500.

History Makers: Distinguished Speakers Series: James Swanson

One-Two Punch: M dir. By Fritz Lang/ M dir. By Myung-se Lee

7pm. $15; $10 members. Indiana History Center. 450 W. Ohio St, Indianapolis. www.indianahistory.org. 317-232-1882.

Jeff Dunham: Spark of Insanity Tour

7:30pm. $45.50. Conseco Fieldhouse. 125 S. Pennsylvania St, Indianapolis. www. consecofieldhouse.com. 317-917-2500.

Make Your Own Pet Bed

In honor of our Winter Reading Program theme, come make a bed for your pet! Please bring either a large pillow case of a large t-shirt. If you are unable to bring either of those, we will have a limited

1 & 3 pm. Per film $5 members; $9 adults; $7 students; $5 ages 12 &. Indianapolis Museum of Art. 4000 Michigan Rd, Indianapolis. http://www.imamuseum. org. 317-923-1331.

Pet Adoption Day

Visit the pets up for adoption from the Humane Society of Johnson County. 1-5pm. Johnson County Public Library’s White River Branch. 1664 Library Boulevard, Greenwood. www.jcplin.org. (317) 885-1330.

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The Seafarer Occurring Daily Beginning Thursday, February 05, 2009 Through Saturday, February 28, 2009. Thurs at 7pm, Fri and Sat 8 pm. $15 ages 24 & under; $25 ages 25 & older; $15. The Phoenix Theatre. 749 N. Park Ave, Indianapolis. phoenixtheatre.org/. 317-635-7529. The Sudden Compliance Program Webinar Series Ongoing Mon-Sat. The Sudden Compliance Program Webinar (Web conference) series is a highly effective program that helps parents significantly and swiftly improve their child’s behavior at home, school, and within the Family Fun! from the Carmel Symphony Orchestra community. This program comes in a series Date: Sunday, February 08, 2009 Times: 3pm of 8 powerful (1-hour) sessions that can be conveniently viewed from a computer. These Price: $20 adults; $15 seniors; $5 students; children free skill and tool-packed sessions include all the Phone: 317-844-9717 necessary topics to significantly and swiftly Location: 18250 North Union St, Westfield, IN improve child behavior. You can attend any or all A family favorite—this concert, sponsored by Pedcor 8 sessions and can enter the program at any time Companies, is one of our most popular! Young and youngat-heart are invited to sit on stage among the musicians as it is ongoing. The program is presented live. You of the orchestra and hear excerpts of the world’s great are simply required to have a computer with an Internet classics. The concert will feature the winner of the CSO’s connection. For a limited time offer, you can pre-register to 2008 Young Artist Competition, sponsored by Meridian attend session one for free. As our gift for attending a session, Music: Daniel Perry, double bass, senior at North Central you will receive a free copy of the “Standing Up To Bullying” High School (Indianapolis). Computer game (Anti-BullyingComputerGame.com). This game, designed to teach children anti-bullying skills, can be played in classrooms, homes, or therapy settings. If you would like more Southside Mothers and More Chapter Meetings information or would like to register to attend a Webinar, please visit www. Ongoing on the third Thursday of each Month. Indianapolis suddencompliancewebinars.com today! Varies. First session is free. Web Southside Mothers and More is a non-profit organization that cares for the caregiver. Meetings are held the third Thursday of every Conference. N/A, N/A. SuddenComplianceWebinars.com. 800-777-0955. month. If you would like more information on our group send an e-mail to our membership chairperson Faith at mothersandmore39@ comcast.net. 7-9pm. Methodist Medical Plaza. 8830 S. Meridian St, Indianapolis. mothersandmore39.home.comcast.net. (317) 862-3525. Southside Mothers and More Monthly Meeting Ongoing Each Thursday Beginning Thursday, January 22, 2009. The Southside chapter of Mothers and More will host its monthly meetings on the third Thursday of every month at 7 p.m. in the Methodist Medical Plaza on SR 135 in Greenwood. Because a mother is more than any single role she plays at any given time, our group promotes the value of all the work mothers do and we address moms’ needs as individuals and members of society. In addition to regular play dates and mom’s only events, our monthly meetings provide moms with an opportunity to get together without kids, in an informal setting to enjoy a featured speaker and the company of other local moms. Email mothersandmore39.comcast. net for directions, featured speakers or more information. 7:00 p.m. Methodist Medical Plaza. SR 135, Greenwood. Story Time Occurring Every Mon & Tue Beginning Monday, February 02, 2009 Through Tuesday, February 17, 2009. Programs consist of stories and a simple craft. For children ages four through six who can attend independently. Registration is required. 10-10:30am. Free. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Children’s Programming Room, Fishers. www.hepl.lib.in.us/. 317-579-0304.

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Storytime and Craft Ongoing Every Tue, Thu & Sat Beginning Tuesday, January 20, 2009. Reading of children’s books and a related craft. 10:30am. Free. Mudsock Books and Curiosity Shoppe. 11631 Fishers Station Drive, Fishers. (317) 579-9822. Target Free Family Night Occurring on the first Thursday of each Month Through Thursday, June 04, 2009. Sponsored by Target, the first Thursday. 4-8pm. Free. The Children’s Museum. 3000 N. Meridian St, Indianapolis. www. ChildrensMuseum.org. 317-334-3322.

Toddler Time Occurring Every Mon, Tue, Wed & Thu Beginning Monday, February 02, 2009 Through Thursday, February 19, 2009. Programs consist of activities such as finger plays, songs, stories and a simple craft. For children, three and under, with a caregiver. Registration is required. 11-11:30am. Free. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Children’s Programming Room, Fishers. www.hepl.lib.in.us/. 317-579-0304. WonderLab’s Discovery Time Occurring Each Wednesday Beginning Wednesday, January 21, 2009 Through Thursday, December 31, 2009. Stop by for a special story, animal demonstration or hands-on science activity! Call 812-337-1337 ext. 2 to learn the topic of the week. This program is intended for children, age 6 and younger, with their caregivers. Older siblings are welcome. 10:30 am - 11:00 am (drop-in format). Included with museum admission. WonderLab Museum of Science, Health and Technology. 308 West Fourth Street, Bloomington. www.wonderlab.org. 812-337-1337 ext. 25. Y-Teen Zone Ongoing Each Saturday Beginning Saturday, January 24, 2009. A sage, fun hangout for teens ages 11-19. Tournaments, guest speakers, basketball, ping-pong, games, music, fitness and nutrition workshops, swimming, other special events adn computers. Participants may enter using their YMCA membership cards; those who are not members of the YMCA must have a school identification card and all must complete a registration form. 7-10pm. Free to members; $5 for all others. Benjamin Harrison YMCA. 5736 Lee Rd, Indianapolis. www.indymca.org/locations/branch.asp?id=18. 317-547-9622. Your Curious Kid and You Occurring Each Saturday Beginning Saturday, February 07, 2009 Through Sat. Feb. 28, 2009. This program is for preschoolers and a parent or caregiver. The program will begin with stories and crafts and then there will be free time with books and make-and-take crafts available. Information about the six basic reading-readiness skills that every child needs to know will be available at each program. No registration is required. 10-12pm. Free. Hamilton East Library (Fishers). Five Municipal Dr., Children’s Programming Room, Fishers. www.hepl.lib.in.us/. 317-579-0304. INDYSCHILD.COM 53

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Animal Camp at Silly Safari Station Alligator Aaron, Director 12104 Southeastern Ave., Indianapolis, IN 46259 317-862-9003 alligatoraaron@sillysafaris.com Specific Categories: Animals, Education, Theater Special Needs Camps Offered: Yes, during everyday camps. Call to discuss. Hours: 9 am - 4 pm Dates: June 22-26, July 13-17, July 20-24, July 27-31 Ages/Grades: Animal Camp 5-12 & TEEN Animal Care Camp 13-15 Cost: Animal Camp $249, TEEN Animal Camp $150 Activities Included: Hands on positive humananimal interaction. Public speaking. Description: At Animal Camp, every activity revolves around exotic and domestic animals. It is the only place where campers can have real hands on experiences with the exotic animals they see on TV. At the end, the campers star in their very own Silly Safari Live Animal Show at a cookout for family.

Character Counts Summer Camp Elaine Scaife 2902 Cold Spring Rd., Indianapolis, IN 46222 317-926-0358 elaine_scaife@yahoo.com www.indynewlight.org Financial Aid Offered: Yes. (Limited Number) Hours: 6 am to 6 pm Dates: June 8 - August 7 Ages/Grades: 2 - 12 years old Cost: $68 per week Activities Included: Character Education, Financial Literacy, Real World Business Bazarr, Skating, Swimming, Arts & Crafts, Bowling, Laser Tag, Circus, Indy Parks, Indiana Museum of Art, Football, etc. Description: Our program is for families who are seeking quality summer enrichment and fun. It is age appropriate, challenging, educational, and and offers unique opportunities for children to improve their character and behavior, boost their self-esteem, and increase their life skills knowledge in a structured setting through our Character Education program.

Congregation Beth-El Zedeck Presents: “Hangin’ in Hawaii” Summer Camp 2009 Joanie Waldman 600 W. 70th St., Indianapolis, IN 46260 317-259-6854

jwaldman@bez613.org Hours: Flexible/Call for brochure/ Part-time available for all ages. Dates: Session 1: June 8 - July 2; Sesson 2: July 6 - July 31 Ages/Grades: 12 mos.+, 18 mos.+, 2 yrs.+, 3 yrs.+, 4 and 5 years + Cost: Call for full brochure. Activities Included: Weekly creative themes, arts and crafts, water fun at the Sidney & Lois Eskenazi Aquatic Complex for 3’s, 4’s and 5’s. Water play for 2’s and under. Music/Creative Movement, Entertainment, Field Trip Fridays for 4’s and 5’s.

Ages/Grades: Ages 5-12, Grades K-6 Cost: $150 (base camp cost, exact cost depends on location and camp type). Activities Included: All camps feature hands-on science activities.

Description: Five different camps!! Rockets and Space Adventures: Five days of planets, moons, stars, comets, rockets and more. Kid’s Lab: Ideal for budding young scientists. A different topic each day. Secret Agent Lab: Create codes, examine evidence, match crime scene “blood”; just for starters. Robots: Build the Air Zinger robot. This robot tracks, spins and pivots. For Girls Only!: Girls will see how science affects their daily lives.

Description: Our Summer Program recognizes that children learn through play. Play fosters total development and should be interwoven in everything children do. During camp, children will experiment and explore by using all five senses. Our campers will thrive on creativity, exploration, discovery, spontaneity and lots of love. Open to the public.

Let’s Get Cooking Reynaldo De La Rosa, MD 12955 Old Meridian St., Carmel, IN 46032 317-571-0770 carmellin@youngchefsacademy.com www.youngchefsacademy.com Specific Categories: Cooking Classes Hours: 9 am to 12 pm and 1 pm to 4 pm Dates: June-August Ages/Grades: 6-15 Requirements of Campers: Get ready to cook up some fun!! Activities Included: Cooking, food preparation, meal etiquette. Description: Young Chefs Academy is a cooking school for kids. This is more than just peanut butter and jelly sandwiches. We teach children the joy of cooking in a kid friendly and cafe environment. Summer camp’s theme changes every week. Get ready to have some fun! To reserve your spot, email carmelin@youngchefsacademy.com

RESIDENTIAL CO-ED Camp Carson YMCA Mark Scoular, Executive Director 2034 E Lake Road, Princeton, IN 47670 812-385-3597 campinfo@ymca.evansville.net www.campcarson.org Specific Categories: Dirt-Bikes and Horseback Specialty Camps Financial Aid Offered: Yes Hours: 1pm Sunday - 7pm Friday Dates: weekly through June and July (starts June 7th) Ages/Grades: 7 – 16 years Cost: traditional week ranges $470$570 (ranges from $260 - $960) Activities Included: Horseback, motorized dirtbikes, archery, canoeing, sailing, swimming, kayaking, archery, marksmanship, climbing, pottery, woodworking, fishing, crafts, soccer, basketball, mountain-boards “The Blob”, water zip-lines, Tom Sawyer Swing, drumming, radio station and more. Description: Only 2.5 hours southwest of Indianapolis. Join campers and staff from over 25 different states and 7 countries at southern Indiana’s premier summer resident camp. It’s easy to see why we were voted # 1 area resident camp by Kentuckiana Family Magazine. YMCA Camp Carson has it all! Truly “An Experience that lasts a Lifetime!”

Mad Science of North Central Indiana Summer Camps Jane O’Connor, Executive Director/Summer Camps 6204 LaPas Trail, Indianapolis, IN 46268 317-388-0988 jane@indymadscience.org www.sciencecampfun.com Specific Categories: Hands-on Science Dates: June 1 – July 31

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