Relationships Relationship dynamics hold some of our most pertinent and entrenched attachments; leading us to develop ingrained beliefs and perceptions about our lives and our position with it, and how we are viewed in the world. The following musings are drawn from the Facebook group started in 2018; which serves to store the living and direct statements from those working with Liberation. I dreamt I was back with an old girlfriend, a relationship that had ended quite badly and abruptly and in the dream she was about to give birth and we were happy. I woke with a start but since this never happened I was able to let go of the ‘what if’ scenario I had been harbouring in my memory and leave it behind once and for all. Now this was from years ago and I had not thought of her in 10 years, yet somewhere in my cells there was the unfinished thought which could not reach completion until I had seen and felt the outcome, even though the outcome never came to be. Once I saw and felt the outcome in the dream I was able to leave it behind forever - my body could relax and let it go.
Now this is of course a huge part of karma, the things that could have been but never were. Now once something is frozen like this in suspended animation the body goes into a pause space until we finish the story. The finishing of the story for better or for worse is the letting go and is often best accomplished in a dream which is actually the easiest and most realistic place to let play out. The implications for karmic cleansing of the songs unsung, the words left unspoken or the actions untaken are huge and often why we are bound to repeat things. But once we play it out, feel what it would have felt like even for a moment, the body is able to move beyond the space of not knowing and truly make peace with it by letting go. Liberation represents the possibility of clearing a lot of this memory forever, things that are frozen in time in the body waiting for completion. - A
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