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12th March 2016 ב’ אדר ב’ תשע"ו
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CHANGING OUR MIDDOS IS CHANGING WHO WE ARE
Rabbi Benjy Gordon
Jewish Futures Trust
And Moshe was not able to come to the Ohel Moed because the cloud was resting upon it, and the glory of Hashem filled the mishkan (Shemos 40:35). The medrash asks, could it possibly be the case that Moshe Rabbeinu could not enter due to the cloud? We know that earlier in Mishpatim (24:18), the pasuk says that Moshe went into the cloud. The Medrash explains that on this occasion because of the kavod that Moshe had towards Hashem he was not able to go inside. Rav Shimon Schwab zt’’l asks, if the pshat is that he had too much kavod to go any closer, why does it say he was not able to go closer? Surely he was able to go closer, but chose not to due to the kavod he had for the shechina. The answer is that Moshe Rabeinu had worked on his kavod so much, the midda had been internalised to the point that he was unable to enter since that did not show the correct amount of respect. When we work on improving out middos and becoming better people, we must try to make sure that the good middos and actions become so ingrained into our psyche that we are not able to do anything which goes against our good character traits. We find a similar idea when we examine the bracha given to a baby at a bris mila.
Riddle of the Week
At a bris we say ‘kshem shenichnas l’bris kein yikanes l’torah l’chupa ul’maasim tovim’. This means that just as a bris mila is done with no ulterior motive and is completely lishma, (as who would ever consider causing pain to an eight day old baby if it were not the commandment of Hashem). So too this child should
go l’torah,l’chupa ul’masim tovim completely lishma without any negios or ulterior motives. A strikingly obvious question on this bracha is why are the mitzvos bein adam le’makom not mentioned. Why do we not say kein yikanes l’torah, l’chupa, l’mitzvos,ul’maasim tovim? From the answer to this question we can once again see the concept which we learnt above. Bris mila is changing the natural state of something in order to make it better. So in the bracha to the child we are saying, just like with a bris where there was a positive change in nature made on the baby who went from being an arel to becoming a mahul, so too he should have a positive change through Torah. We know that when a person goes from being an am ha’aretz to becoming a talmid chacham there is a positive change in the person. L’chupa as before he was half a person and now he is complete, again a positive change in the nature of a person. Ul’maasim tovim, as becoming used to doing kind acts causes these character traits to become natural to a person and changes his teva as we saw from Moshe above. When it comes to mitzvos bein adam l’makom however, if a person’s teva would change to the point where he becomes used to doing the mitzvos and it becomes second nature then this will be a negative thing. He will then be doing the mitzvos by rote rather than keeping them new and fresh. As the Sifri says, we should make sure that mitzvos are being done as if they are new, therefore mitzvos are not mentioned in the bracha to the baby at his bris. We must learn from Moshe Rabbeinu that fixing our middos means internalising, it means changing our natural reactions and psyche so that good middos and maasim tovim becomes an integral part of who we are and everything we do.
So you think you know Sefer Shemos? This a group that is only once brought in its full entirety in the Torah not in Sefer Shemos. However on seven occasions in Sefer Shemos they are listed but each time one or more is missing. Twice in two different Sedros only one is missing in another Sedra once four are missing and another time only one is missing and the seventh and final time they are brought is in a different Sedra entirely and this time two are missing. What is this group and what are the Sedros involved? Any comments can be directed to bkahan47@yahoo.co.uk. Answer on back page.
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