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Dear Readers, You are holding the latest edition of Premier Bride, your local wedding guide designed especially for brides and grooms-to-be looking for the latest trends, the newest venues, the greatest loved classic venues and the area’s best vendors in the Greater Milwaukee Area. Premier Bride itself is a local business based in SE-WI. We love working with and promoting other local wedding businesses that makes your wedding day so special! This is actually one our favorite aspects of what we do and the majority of our advertising partners are all small locally owned businesses just like us. That being said planning a wedding isn’t easy. We know this first hand as five of us have planned our own MKE weddings and the lucky sixth is in the process now! It’s difficult to navigate through the countless number of pins you’ve likely been collecting since before your engagement. We aim to cut through the noise and give you clear, sensible and reliable information from local writers and experts who love weddings. We want Premier Bride to be entertaining, informative and inspiring, but above all useful. Inside you’ll find informational articles, real weddings, features, and helpful planning tools to begin your nuptial journey. Be sure to visit our website for an in-depth look at area wedding vendors, local wedding shows, fun polls and quizzes and the chance to win amazing prizes. We hope you enjoy this issue. Congrats on your engagement! Now let’s plan your wedding...
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IS YOUR RING INSURED? As soon as bring your engagement ring home, make sure that your insurance policy is updated to offer adequate protection in the event of a loss or theft.
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The Circle of Love THE BASICS BEHIND THE PURCHASE It’s amazing that a piece of jewelry can convey such powerful meaning. Engagement rings and wedding bands represent the never-ending love you have for each other and let the whole world know you are married! Besides the exquisite beauty of wedding rings, there is a lot to know about metals, diamonds, and the care involved. This ring primer will cover all the basics.4
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metals are 100% hypoallergenic and relatively
14-karat yellow gold is classic, popular,
inexpensive. Titanium can be oxidized to
durable enough for daily wear, and can be
create some brilliant accent colors, creating a
polished easily. Rose gold is gaining popularity.
very unique look. Tungsten carbide is twice as
White gold is made by mixing pure gold with
hard as steel and almost impossible to scratch,
other white metals such as nickel, palladium,
making it a great metal for active men. These
or zinc, and can be a less-expensive alternative
metals cannot be resized once the ring is made,
to platinum. Extremely popular in the last
so order the size carefully.
decade or so, platinum is a very white, heavy, and durable metal, ideal for engraving. A sister
KNOW YOUR DIAMOND
metal to platinum, palladium is a naturally
You will quickly be introduced to the “Four
white metal (whiter than white gold), and like
Cs” - cut, color, clarity, and carat. All four make
platinum, it is strong, non-tarnishing, and
a dramatic impact on quality and price of a
hypoallergenic. It’s also less expensive than
diamond.
platinum, making it a good metal to consider
CUT. Cut really refers to the proportions of
if you like the white metal look. Titanium
a diamond and its facets, as opposed to its
and tungsten carbide have become popular
shape, which includes round (brilliant), oval,
for men’s wedding bands, and both of these
pear, marquise, emerald, square (princess or
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radiant), heart, and triangle. Regardless of
CARAT. Diamonds are weighed in carats, which
shape, a diamond gets its brilliancy from the
may also be expressed as “points,” where one
cutting and maximizing the reflection of light.
carat equals 100 points. A diamond of 50
COLOR. Color refers to the lack of color in a
points, for example, equals .5 carat. Diamonds
diamond. White diamonds are graded on a D–Z
of more than one carat are extremely rare (one
scale, D being the most colorless and Z having
in a thousand), and therefore very valuable.
a distinct body color.
But remember that carat weight is only one
CLARITY. Clarity is defined by the number,
factor in determining value. Two diamonds of
color, nature, size, and position of natural
the same size can vary considerably in value
marks (called inclusions) contained in the gem.
depending on the other three factors – cut,
Inclusions occur naturally during the process of
color, and clarity.
crystallization, when minute traces of minerals are trapped in the diamond. Excellent clarity
APPRAISE IT
means light can pass unimpeded through the
Request a written estimate of the value of
stone, increasing its value. The Gemological
your jewelry, which should include specific
Institute of America (GIA) judges clarity based
indications of the four Cs.
on a standard 11-point scale from “Flawless”
Immediately after purchase, photograph
through “Imperfect 3” (see clarity scale below).
your jewelry for insurance purposes, and make
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The Rotunda HISTORIC ELEGANCE
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VENUES RINGS sure your current policy has adequate coverage, including “mysterious disappearance.”
TAKE GOOD CARE Although diamonds are the hardest natural substance known to man, a hard blow could still chip one, so don’t wear your ring when doing rough work. You should also avoid direct contact with chlorine bleach and chlorinated
At the wedding, the head table is where the bride & groom sit. Depending on the arrangement, some or all attendants & parents may join them. It is usually distinguished from the other tables with a floral arrangement or distinct centerpiece.
pool water, which could pit and discolor the
sweetheart
mounting. To clean your jewelry, regularly soak it for
TAB L E
about 30 minutes in either a commercial jewelry cleanser or a homemade solution comprised of equal parts cold water and ammonia. Scrub the stones gently with a soft toothbrush, then rinse thoroughly under warm
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water and pat dry with a lint-free cloth. Use this solution only on diamonds and precious metals
A table for just the bride & groom at the focal point of the room. Traditionally, the groom sits to the right of the bride.
party TAB L E
as some gemstones and alternative metals are more delicate. Have your rings checked annually by your jeweler for loose prongs or settings. Just one broken prong could cause you to lose your stone. These precautions and gentle care will
BRIDESMAID
GROOMSMAN
MAID OF HONOR
GROOM
BRIDE
BEST MAN
BRIDESMAID
GROOMSMAN
pay you back with years of enjoyment and pride in this precious symbol of your union.
DIAMOND CLARITY SCALE
A rectangular table at the focal point of the room for the bride, groom, maid of honor, & best man.
family TAB L E
• FL & IF: Flawless and Internally Flawless (inclusions not visible under 10x magnification) • VVS1 & VVS2: Very, Very Slight Inclusions (extremely difficult to see under 10x) • VS1 & VS2: Very Slight Inclusions (difficult to see under 10x) • SI1 & SI2: Small Inclusions (noticeable under 10x) • I1, I2 & I3: Imperfect (flaws visible to the unaided eye)
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MAID OF HONOR
FATHER
MOTHER
GROOM
BRIDE
FATHER
MOTHER
BEST MAN
This arrangement honors the couple’s parents by sitting them at the head table along with the maid of honor and best man.
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MANAGING A BUDGET
making the right choices to stay in budget Now that you’re engaged the wheels are
to pay for absolutely everything yourself, usually
turning in your mind and the possibilities for
the bride’s family will help with the dress and
everything just seem endless and overwhelming.
the groom’s family will help with something like
Before you get wrapped up in everything, the
catering. Just don’t depend on them for everything!
first thing on a newly engaged woman’s mind
If you happen to know anyone in the
is the date. The date is important for the price
bridal industry, such as a baker, seamstress,
factor, and determines the expenses to match
photographer, etc, now is the time to call in
the season especially if a holiday lands around
the favors. Usually if they’re your friends, they
your set wedding date. You don’t want to go over
have no problem discounting their work for you
budget because you forgot Valentine’s Day is in
or doing your wedding free of charge. If your
February. Oops!
friends give you a discount or work for free for
On average, a wedding costs roughly as much
you, keep this in mind and remember to get
as a new car, and today it’s the bride and groom
them a little something extra as a thank you.
paying, not the parents. This is a huge financial
This could be anything from a present to a nicer
burden to take on, especially when you are just
hotel room when they come for your ceremony.
starting out together. However, there are ways
After your parents have helped you some
to get help with your wedding. It isn’t necessary
and all your friends have been called up, its
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VENUES MANAGING A BUDGET time to start crunching numbers. Figure out just how much you can afford without going overboard. Keep in mind you want to include your honeymoon in the budget so that you have somewhere nice to go after all has been said and done! We all want to have the Hollywood budget when it comes to our weddings but sadly we just can’t drop a million dollars when we decide to get married. Unless you win the lottery of course! Since you probably don’t have a clue how much things actually cost, try looking up some price averages for venues, dresses, cakes, etc. This will give you a good idea of the price point you’re looking at. Next, make a list with these price points and start narrowing down your search in an area such as dresses. Look online for styles you like, then search stores in your area with similar dresses and check the prices. If they’re out of your budget, then find out when trunk shows are and plan on going early in the morning. After all, to get a good deal you’ll be there most of the day! Since you don’t want to deplete your savings add up what you and your fiancé have collectively. Look at your average price point, then look at what you actually found locally and liked it and it’s price. Add up
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your rough estimate of your likes. If it’s an eye popping number, don’t freak out! Everyone starts off over budget at first Now that you know what you like and have an idea of all the things you want and need, start thinking of ways to cut corners. For example, if you like a certain flower arrangement and the florist wants and arm, a leg, and an eye, then go to a craft store and try to put together the same arrangement you liked. Usually do it yourself things cost you less overall. Just be prepared to put more time and effort into prepping for
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your wedding! If you can copy the arrangement
or less
then you can buy the flowers and equipment
Not sure who to invite? Use this quick guide to help you in that process!
flower distributors and see if you can get a deal
Are they family?
be arranged the day before or the day of if
yes
needed and pre arrange them yourself. If you were set on having real flowers, then call local on them. Keep in mind that the flowers should they’re real to ensure that they will be fresh and
no
Immediate?
Friend?
yes no
yes no
un-wilted. There are also many DIY tutorials and guides on the web for your wedding to give you cost saving ideas. For example, invitations
Are they the Have you talked in immediate family or the past 5 years? the spouse of your immediate family?
(aunts & uncles, grandparents, etc)
yes no
yes no Do you like them?
Have you talked in the past 6 months?
yes no
yes no Have you talked to them in the past 5 years?
yes no Would you be upset if they didn’t invite you to their wedding?
yes no
Practice your calligraphy or print invitations/ cards yourself at home. Using commonplace items such as fruits, pine cones, vegetables, stones, etc are great ways to save money when it comes to seating cards. All you need to do is etch names directly into the fruit! After your guests know where they are seated they can eat their seating card!
Coworker?
The reception will probably be one of the
yes no
most costly events of your wedding. This is in part because of the food, the cake, the dj,
Do you spend time together outside of the office?
yes no Ex?
yes no Everyone else
Can you imagine your big day without them?
no
and seating cards are a great way to save up!
yes
the bar, and the place itself. Food is always expensive, so one way to avoid insane food costs is to reduce your amount of guests. Don’t invite everyone you know and their relatives. Invite the essentials such as your families, close friends, and a few others. This will also assure that your locations won’t need as much space and will cost less! Obviously doing these things are just a taste of ways to save money. The possibilities are only as limited as your creativity! So have fun and let the creative juices flow, ladies! What are some of your ideas for your
INVITE
DON’T INVITE
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consider planning your wedding for a Friday or a Sunday. Choosing a day not in high demand can be less expensive and more relaxing, and there are other benefits as well. • You’ll find everyone you must engage for a wedding service is more open to negotiation, and sometimes will reconsider price or adding extras. • Vendors will probably cheer your off-day business by doing an extra-attentive job. • Getting married on alternative days suits the bride who prefers less pressured planning. • It’s more likely that a hotly requested band, emcee, caterer, photographer or videographer will be on hand for the wedding of your dreams
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• Fridays and Sundays can require less notice. Choosing a Friday or a Sunday also allows you to avoid making several calls to numerous vendors only to hear, “Sorry, we’re booked on that date.” • Getting treasured guests into town may be easier if extra days are options. • On a Friday, you’ll probably have your wedding in the evening which means that the ceremony is followed immediately by dinner. This means that you will avoid the extra cost and hassle of a one-to-two-hour interim reception or cocktail party. Having the ceremony and reception back to back may ensure more people at the church ceremony. • The rehearsal dinner could be easier and less costly for a restaurant if it was scheduled on a Thursday as opposed to a Friday night.
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ATTENDANT’S RESPONSIBILITY the best man
• Assists groom with wedding details such as accommodations for out-of-town groomsmen and ushers.
• Coordinates the ushers and makes sure they are properly dressed and understand where to seat the guests.
• Sees that the groom is properly attired and at the church or synagogue on time. Ties bowties, provides drinks, if applicable and otherwise supports the To-Be-Wed.
• Proposes the first toast to the newlyweds.
• Gives the minister a sealed envelope with payment (from the groom) immediately following the ceremony. • Signs the marriage license as a witness. • Holds the bride’s ring during the ceremony. • Sits to the bride’s right at the reception providing charming conversation throughout. • May dance with the maid/matron of honor during the first dance.
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• Holds luggage under lock and key until the bride and groom depart. • Helps the groom change into going-away attire. • Escorts the bride and groom to their limousine or drives them to the hotel or airport. • Returns all formalwear rentals on time, and to the correct formalwear shop. • Assists maid of honor in transporting gifts to the bride and groom’s home.
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ATTENDANT’S RESPONSIBILITY the maid/matron of honor
• Assists the bride with pre-wedding tasks including smiling while making tiny favors out of birdseed, because that’s what she really wanted.
• Stands next to the groom in the receiving line and sits to his left at the head table.
• Assists bride in setting a date to have bridesmaid’s dresses fitted and coordinates other bridesmaids to ensure they get to the proper location on time.
• Helps the bride bustle her train, remove her headpiece and change into going-away outfit.
• May dance with the best man during the first dance.
• Arranges the bride’s veil and train before the grand walk down the aisle
• Attends to the bride throughout the day such as running errands and tying up loose ends, calming nerves and otherwise ensuring the success of the wedding celebration.
• Holds the bride’s bouquet during the ring exchange.
• May assume responsibility for transporting the bride’s gown home or to the cleaners.
• Holds the groom’s ring during the ceremony.
• May assist the best man with transporting gifts to the bride and groom’s home.
• Attends all pre-wedding parties and hosts a bridal shower with other bridesmaids.
• Signs the marriage certificate as a witness.
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CHOOSING BRIDESMAIDS how to pick out your wedding party
If you’re like most brides-to-be, you’ve probably
on the number of bridesmaids in your party.
had your bridesmaids picked out for a while. The
It’s much easier to coordinate bridesmaid dress
daydream typically includes mimosas and all
shopping and fittings with three girls, as opposed
your best girlfriends in fluffy white robes. But
to ten.
once you’re engaged, the decisions get real and
FAMILY FIRST. Once you determine the number,
sometime’s there more than just your daydreams
start with the obvious candidates: Family. How
to consider. There are sisters, future sisters-in-
many siblings do you have? And your fiancée?
law, college friends, childhood friends, and other
If you each have one or two siblings (and an
important ladies in your life - how do you narrow
equal number of ladies and gents), it can be
it down? Here are some things to ponder as you
easy to fit them into the wedding party. If you’re
go about choosing your bridesmaids.
outnumbered (say, the groom has five siblings
SIZING UP. You can have as many or as few
and you have none), you might want to go a
bridesmaids as you like, but it’s not uncommon
different route. Remember that you can always
to see large wedding parties at larger weddings
ask siblings to be ushers or readers - a part of the
and smaller parties at more intimate affairs. Still,
wedding, if not officially in the party.
there’s no rule, so do what works for you. Also
YOU’VE GOT A FRIEND. Once you’ve figured out
consider cost and coordination when deciding
how to include close family members in your
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CHOOSING BRIDESMAIDS bridal party, it’s time to move on to friends. This seems like a no-brainer - just pick your best girlfriends! But it’s not always that simple. First, think about the number of bridesmaids and groomsmen you and your fiancée settled on. If you have seven best friends and he has two, you might have to pick the best of the best and forego the rest to keep things even. Also, consider where your ladies are at in life: Are any pregnant? Raising a toddler? Living across the country? Traveling a ton for work? Though they love you and want to celebrate with you, don’t assume everyone you ask will jump at the chance to be in your wedding. Should any of your potential bridesmaids voice hesitation, be understanding of that decision and have a backup in mind. Just as with family members, if you have a close friend you’d like to include in the wedding but don’t have enough space for her as a bridesmaid, think about giving her a different part to play.
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#4 – REHEARSE! Be sure to include them in the rehearsal so they feel more comfortable with what is going to happen. Even young kids will benefit by making everything feel more comfortable and familiar. #5 – A SPECIAL GIFT. Consider making or
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What is the capacity for the space?
purchasing a special gift for them to honor their
• Find out if table set-up affects capacity • Ask about your layout options
this special event and their involvement. Gifts
What are your deposit and cancellation policies?
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article below. #6 – KEEP PARENTS CLOSE. For younger children, keep parents seated up front. It’s ideal if young
Will I have access to spaces besides the event room?
(a parent, bridesmaid or groomsman), and
• Ask about bridal suites and places to take pictures • Determine if there are enough parking spaces and restrooms on-site
in front. It’s way too much to expect a young
What on-site coordination services do you offer?
Does your staff have health and safety training? • Verify if staff is trained in CPR and First Aid • Ask about T.A.M. training (Techniques of Alcohol Management)
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• Ask when deposit and full balance are due • Find out how late you can cancel and still get a refund
• Find out who will be in charge of the event on the day • Ask if there will be a host or hostess on-hand for guest needs
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participation. This will also help them remember
Is your catering menu flexible?
children can walk down the aisle with someone then sit down immediately with their parents child to stand quietly up front during the whole ceremony! #7 – OH GOODY, GOODY BAGS. Goody bags at the reception (or even during the ceremony if they’re filled with non-messy, quiet items) for kids are a great way to keep them entertained for awhile. Babysitters, special kids’ meals, art supplies on a table in the corner, and videos playing in a corner or adjoining room are all good ideas if children will be participating in your Big Day. #8 – NEED A NAP? For young children, be sure to
• Browse the selections for variety • Find out if you can design your own menu
take their nap and bed times into consideration!
What is your bar policy?
If your rehearsal or wedding will take place
• Ask if you can have an open bar • Look for variety, including frozen and non-alcoholic drinks
then you may want to reconsider the extent of
What special amenities do you offer? • Ask about secondary food services • Find out if complimentary mints and coffee services are provided
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Tired children are impossible, trust me on that. after their bedtime or during their nap time, their involvement. Perhaps instead of walking down the aisle as a flower girl, she could dress up in a special outfit, and be carried by Mom or Dad. Then have a trusted babysitter nearby ready to take her home when necessary.
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BE A GRACIOUS BRIDE making it a great day for everyone
“It’s your day, do it your way,” is true! It’s a time to express your true self, to be authentic,
much as possible, to craft your day’s schedule with the guests in mind.
and to drown out the expectations of others.
JUMP ON THOSE THANK YOU NOTES. Guests are
On the other hand, it’s easy to take this concept
excited to get you something wonderful in
too far. A recent “Dear Abby” letter described
honor of your marriage, and they can’t wait to
a bride at a wedding who preferred to dance
hear if you not only received it, but if you liked
on an empty stomach so she had guests wait
it! Write a conversational, personalized note and
five hours for their dinner and had the dancing
respond as quickly as possible.
first! That’s a great example of taking it too
GIVE OTHERS GRACE. Just know that weddings
far. Here are a few tips about being a gracious
are an emotional time for your close relatives,
bride.
especially parents, siblings and close friends. In
UNDERSTAND YOUR GUESTS’ PERSPECTIVE. How
addition to the joy, there can also be this strange
does the day’s schedule look from your guests’
sense of “loss,” that they’re losing you, and this
viewpoint? Awkward gaps of time between the
can bring up unexpected emotions. As much as
ceremony and reception are difficult for guests,
possible, when people around you are driving
and asking them to drive more than 30 minutes
you crazy, give them grace and, maybe, a warm
between locations is usually too much. Try, as
hug. Best wishes to you, gracious bride!
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GET
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arrangements
Maybe
and
discussing
seating
charts
floral
NO BASHING. It’s quite likely that your stressed
makes
out bride-to-be will complain bitterly at
your eyes glaze over. That’s fine! Figure out
moments about her dear family and close
what DOES interest you and get involved.
friends. It happens to the best of us. Listen to
The entertainment, the food, the cake, the
her, be empathetic to her distress, but do NOT
transportation, the honeymoon… Pick your
join in on the complaining. She’ll get over her
areas, own them, make them happen. Keep the
stress, but she may remember, and feel badly
bride in the loop and be open to her input. She’ll
about your negative comments.
love knowing she’s not doing this wedding thing all by herself.
SHOW YOUR ROMANTIC SIDE. Share your deepest, loving feelings! Here are a few ideas. Write her
SPEAK UP. Be an active team member by
a letter that she can open the morning of the
sharing your opinion, voicing your support,
wedding. Have her favorite flowers delivered
and offering words of encouragement and
the week before the wedding along with a
appreciation. It’s also important that you be
supportive note. Plan a special, relaxing evening
the primary contact with your family. These are
for the two of you in the weeks before the
important skills not only during the wedding
wedding where she can escape for awhile from
planning, but forever!
the wedding planning stress.
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Plan in ADVANCE
PARENT’S RESPONSIBILITY parents of the bride
In addition to offering their love and support,
You just got engaged! Now what?
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SEEK OUT
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parents also play a big part in the celebration generally as follows, though you may want to customize this list for your personal situation. • Parents formally announce your engagement in the newspaper in your hometown, your fiancé’s hometown and the town where you’ve chosen to make your home. • Hosting the engagement party. • Inviting the groom’s parents to their home. • Assisting you with scheduling the rehearsal, ceremony and reception. • Offering opinions and advice during the planning, but respecting your wishes. • Preparing a list of restaurants should the groom’s parents ask for recommendations for the rehearsal dinner. • Composing their portion of the guest list as early as possible. If needed, they may tactfully remind the groom’s mother that you need her list too. • The mother of the bride should select a gown in a style and color that complements the bride’s gown, and inform the groom’s mother of her selection. • Parents inform the groom’s family on a regular basis of all RSVPs from their list. • The father of the bride should offer a toast to the newlyweds after the best man, groom and bride have shared their toasts.
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Current Trends DRAMATIC AND DOWN-TO-EARTH Brides and grooms are all about putting their own unique spin on wedding traditions, going for bold, outside-the-box details while maintaining a certain approachable vibe. From dramatic dress silhouettes to down-to-earth accessories, meticulouslychosen invitations to just-gathered blooms, these wedding trends strike a balance that keeps things both romantic and real. 4
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VENUES CURRENT TRENDS STYLE: FROM SEVENTIES TO SIGNATURE In 2020 trends, brides are looking to the 1970s for style inspiration while still aspiring for a unique, signature look. See the seventies in silhouettes like capes and halter necklines. On runways, bride style includes jumpsuits and pantsuits with detachable trains for maximum drama and versatility. Gown details continue to trend toward boho with lace and crocheted detailing. Look for hints of color mixed in with white dresses, such as an ombre veil or colorful embroidered bodice or trim. Many gowns will feature three-dimensional floral accents and sleeves ranging from playful bell-shaped beauties to pretty and puffy. While
not
shying
away
from
drama,
brides are also working in their own unique signatures to keep it real on their wedding day. Instead of dressing too formally and out of character, brides are adding their own character to more traditional gowns. From whimsical headbands to leather jackets to showing off tattoos loud and proud, bride style in 2020 aims to balance elegance with the every day.
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As for the bridesmaids, mix and match is where it’s at, but brides will certainly still have a say in what’s being worn. Dresses may be less formal than in previous years, perhaps even off-the-rack rather than ordered at a bridal salon. The goal is to work in various
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VENUES CURRENT TRENDS As brides get on board with color, so do
Rustic-chic weddings are still common, but
the grooms. For the more daring fella, suits
the trend is shifting to combine earthy-glam
in sophisticated shades of blue, burgundy,
with a touch of edginess. You’ll see elements
brown, and green are taking the place of
like crystal chandeliers and eclectic antique
traditional black tuxedos. Shoes also reflect
place settings juxtaposed with neon signs. As
this colorful range. Further accessorizing with
with dress trends, the overall look of wedding
patterned shirts, ties, pocket squares, and
themes and décor in 2020 is one that hits
socks lets the groom and groomsmen have
the right note between boldly bespoke and
some fun with their fashion, too.
unpretentiously homey. This begins with the invitations as couples
WEDDING THEMES: MAKE IT YOUR OWN While the classic wedding is always in style,
choose coordinating paper products with a lot of personality. From custom graphic designs to
personalized
watercolor
illustrations,
couples are also choosing reception venues
these invitations set a one-of-a-kind tone.
that allow for a lot of creativity — sites where
Couples want to put their own spin on current
you pay to rent the space, but are responsible
trends, including unique foods, hanging
for bringing your own décor, catering, and
installations, meaningful centerpieces, and
other rentals.
creative lighting.
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CURRENT TRENDS FLOWERS: LUSH & LEAFY WITH BOLD BLOSSOMS
FOOD & DRINK: TASTY FAVORITES + VEG & VEGAN VARIETY
The floral industry is experiencing a return
The traditional sit-down, three- or five-
to the botanical, cascading bridal bouquet and
course meal is enjoying a sort of revolution.
more saturated colors. Brides want flowers
While you’ll still see these formal dinners at
with a natural and undone feeling: lush, loose,
more traditional weddings, many brides are
and looking like they were just plucked from a
turning food into an interactive event. Family-
garden.
style meals, buffets, and food trucks are
Some brides are turning to exotic blooms,
increasingly common, as brides and grooms
while others work with their florist for bouquets
seek a more help-yourself style for a relaxed,
full of locally-gathered foliage. Sometimes,
social setting.
the flowers themselves are few. Some brides
Couples also want their food and drinks to
are opting for an abundance of greenery and
have meaning, so they’ll work with caterers to
branches instead.
create custom meals and craft cocktails that
To bring the drama, you’ll see canopies of
feature some of their favorite things. Dinners
leaves, vines, and blooms, hanging arrangements,
that feature sustainable catering with locally-
and archways or wall-like backdrops trimmed
grown and in-season ingredients are also highly
with flowers for a beautiful photo op.
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VENUES CURRENT TRENDS dinners go hand-in-hand with family-style dining to foster a comfortable, homey environment. When it comes to desserts, interactive is still the name of the game. You’ll see dessert tables of pie, ice cream, candy, cupcakes, or donuts. Some couples choose to have both a classic wedding cake (it’s tradition!) along with a dessert bar just for fun. And just as food trucks are gaining popularity, so are dessert “trucks” like gelato carts and gourmet popsicle stands.
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Then there’s the late-night snack — a treat that many guests have almost come to expect nowadays. Couples can go for a crowd favorite like pizza or sliders, or offer a hometown specialty. Late-night snacks are not only yummy, they’re yet another opportunity for the bride and groom to get creative and show off their personality and style. In all stages of the meal, couples are being increasingly conscious of food preferences and allergies. More and more people prescribe to specialty diets nowadays, and if you aren’t one of them, odds are someone on your guest list lives a gluten-free, vegetarian, or vegan life. Whether due to health reasons or a lifestyle choice, it’s important to accommodate those guests. Luckily, wedding and event caterers are keeping up with the times, offering plenty of scrumptious meals to suit all palates.
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PERSONALIZED VOWS expressing it in your own way
Depending on your religion you might decide
As time progresses many couples have begun
to forget about tradition and create your own
to take offense to the wording in traditional
wedding vows for your big day. The sky is really
wedding vows such as the word “obey.” If you are
the limit in this case, and there is no better way to
offended by this term, then create a new phrase
begin your life together than to take the time to
that reflects who you are as a couple. Perhaps
really let one another know how you feel.
“love, respect and trust” fits into your life plan
Just like destination weddings have gotten
much better.
quite popular within the last few years, so has
When you do personalize your wedding vows
personalized wedding vows whether proclaimed
think about those things that are really important
on the beach, spoken in a church or just shared
to you such as the meaning of marriage, why you
between the two of you in a romantic and casual
are planning to spend your lives together and
setting.
how you will make this arrangement work for
If you do decide that you want to write your
better or for worse. Too many times nowadays,
own vows, then meet with the officiant to discuss
couples don’t realize that marriage is supposed
what you want to do.
to be a lasting bond of togetherness through the
Think about what is truly important for you
good and the bad times.
to express to each other during the ceremony.
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PERSONALIZED VOWS Another uncomfortable statement in the
is to remember why you fell in love in the first
wedding vow is “until death do us part.” How
place. Often during the hassles of the wedding
about something traditional, but less morbid like
this is easy to forget. Perhaps bringing it all back
“as long as we both shall live.”
together in front of your family and friends will
No matter how far astray you want your
make a bond that will never be broken.
wedding vows to go, it might be a good idea
Talk about the experiences you have shared
to start with the familiar. There is definitely
together while making memories. These are
something beautiful about the words in a
often very important moments frozen in time
wedding ceremony and perhaps just adding a few
and will also help to build your future as you look
of your own personalized additions throughout
ahead at what makes your marriage so important
the wedding is all that will be needed to add that
to both of you. What do you want for your future?
special touch.
This will be a good start as to what you want to
Of course, you want to make sure that you and your fiancé are in agreement when it comes to
promise each other as you stand before God and man becoming husband and wife.
changing the vows during the wedding. Talk about
Never let your partner see your personal vows
the things that make your life together unique
until he/she hears them during the ceremony
and different and the plans you have for your
as it’s much more suspenseful and dramatic to
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PERSONALIZED VOWS hear them for the first time while looking at each
poem about your lives together will work much
other.
better.
If you and your fiancé have an eclectic style
Should you decide to honor your parents at
or personality, then by all means let that come
the wedding, this can be incorporated by a poem
out in your personalized vows. In the long run, it
either written by both of you or a tried and true
might make it easier for you to express your real
one that has been used for years. In addition to
feelings anyway.
the vows, other ways to personalize what you
Poems can be quite popular for the wedding
have to say is through your actions. Using a cake
vows, however let’s face it, not everyone is a poet.
top that is identical to the one your parents had
If you must write a poem and you are sure you
is a nice touch as is walking down the aisle to the
don’t want to steal from one of the great masters
same song your mother used years ago.
then sit down and decide on a theme. Obviously,
However you choose to make your vows
the theme will have to do with love and your lives
special, keep in mind that the wedding is really
together, but go deeper and take it a step further.
about you and your spouse and it is the only
Try not to use the same tired themes that
big day you will ever have like this in your lives.
have been overdone in the past. Think about
This way, the true meaning of love really will
who you are and your style. If you aren’t one
shine through by your actions as well as by your
for sentimental gushing, then perhaps a happy
words.
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You’ve asked your best girls to be your bridesmaids - and they said “yes!” Now for the tricky part: dresses. These ladies are your dearest friends, sisters, and sisters-to-be; you chose each for her own special reason so why put them all in a cookie-cutter dress? Nowadays, it’s on trend to work with your bridesmaids to find dresses that suit each girl’s body type, skin tone, hair cut, signature style, and personality.
The Basics of Mixing and Matching The idea behind mixing up your bridesmaid dresses is that all your girls will coordinate, but not match. In general, you could mismatch in terms of color, style, or length. Changing up one or more of these in each dress not only adds visual interest to your bridal party in photos, but your bridesmaids will be ever-grateful to you for letting them have a say in how they outfit their own body. But it’s imperative to set some ground rules. These rules could be as openended as “Find a dress with a floral print” or as refined as “Here are two dresses; pick one.” Though each girl will be dressed differently
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You’re engaged – hooray! Now the fun begins
STAY ORGANIZED. The two critical elements of
(you think) of planning a lovely wedding:
staying organized include keep everything
trying on wedding dresses, registering for
together in one assigned location and write
gifts, choosing the perfect party favor… fun,
everything down.
fun, fun. Then reality sets in, and you discover
GET HELP. The very best thing you could do
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for a stress-free experience (and a relaxing,
amount of work. It requires making countless
stress-free wedding DAY) is to hire a wedding
decisions, handling thousands of details,
consultant. Many couples feel that this just ‘isn’t
juggling endless tasks and errands, and doing
for them and yet, without question, it could
it all while also maintaining your relationships,
make the critical difference between having a
job, life and sanity. What’s a stressed-out
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TAKE BREAKS. Take regular restorative breaks
START EARLY. Obviously, the more time you have
from wedding planning where you don’t think
to plan, the more breathing room you have,
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ALTERNATIVES TO CHURCH ceremony options
Contrary to popular belief, not every couple gets married in a church. Nowadays, many couples are choosing to say their vows in the location where they hold the reception. If you prefer to wed in a simple, yet religious atmosphere, a nondenominational chapel could be the answer. This is especially common if your religious backgrounds differ or if there are other complications such as annulment delays. The intimate setting of a chapel also allows for the freedom to add
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REHEARSAL DINNER CEREMONY / REHEARSAL What’s the point of rehearsing your marriage
you’re getting married in a church, then there
ceremony the night before the wedding? There’s
are sure to be a few rules. There’s also a lot
so much more to a wedding ceremony than just
of symbolism in a religious ceremony, and the
taking a walk down the aisle. A rehearsal for
rehearsal is an opportunity for the officiant to
the entire bridal party and anyone involved in
walk you all through the various traditions and
the ceremony is a chance to set the stage and
explain their meaning.
work out any bugs, and to bring your closest friends and relatives together in anticipation of the big day.
PRE-REHEARSAL PREP Before your rehearsal and ceremony, there
A rehearsal also allows you and your bridal
are obvious things to think about such as
party to get comfortable in the ceremony
who will walk the bride down the aisle. But
space. You’ll find out where you can all get
you also have to think about who is escorting
ready the next day, which entrances to use,
the mothers-of, pairing the bridesmaids and
and where the bathrooms are — things that
groomsman, and the order the couples will
are often taken for granted. You’ll also learn
proceed down the aisle. The order will vary
any venue rules and get answers to pressing
depending on if you have junior bridesmaids
questions, such as, are music and mimosas
and flower girls and whether you want the
allowed in the church bridal room? Yes, if
groomsmen to escort the bridesmaids down
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every word of the ceremony. Rather, you’ll be
halfway. And in today’s wedding world, it’s not
blocking out the words and actions: when the
uncommon to see the bride and groom walking
bouquet is handed off and taken back, when
down the aisle together – a nice touch if you’re
you sit and when you stand, etc. The bride and
game to shake up tradition.
groom are usually asked to say a few lines just
Once you have the procession order all set,
to work out the pace and volume of their vows.
there are still plenty of other details to hammer
If there are any readings, the reader will also
out. For example: will you need microphones
rehearse a few lines.
during the ceremony? Is your venue wheelchair-
If not all of your key players can be present
accessible? Depending on your venue, these
at the rehearsal, it’s okay. In fact, it is standard
are the kinds of details that a site manager or
practice for the musicians to be absent; if
a priest will help you consider ahead of time.
you’ve hired professional musicians or if the church provides a pianist or organist, they
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already know what to do. It’s also possible
Rehearsals are quick, not comprehensive,
that the officiant might not be present at your
and are meant to act as an overview so that
rehearsal. If this happens, make sure they
everyone knows what happens when. Once the
offer stage directions beforehand, or if the
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As you’re going through the stages of the
If members of the bridal party can’t make it
ceremony, ask questions if you don’t know
to the rehearsal, don’t stress! Just designate
what to do or if there’s something you don’t
another member of the party to fill them in on
understand. Bottom line, don’t be afraid to ask!
all the details the next morning.
REHEARSAL DINNER THREE SECRETS TO SUCCESS
After finishing up the ceremony rehearsal,
Be on time and organized. Most rehearsals are
it’s customary for the bride and groom and/or
allotted just one hour and sometimes a venue
their parents to host a dinner for all involved.
has more than one rehearsal on a given night.
This is a fun pre-wedding event that kicks
Remember that everyone’s time is valuable
off the festive spirit and can be as simple or
and the rehearsal can’t start until everyone is
extravagant as you like. You could rent a party
present.
room at a nearby restaurant or just invite
Practice patience and respect. Don’t get
everyone back to your parents’ house for
flustered or anxious if there are bugs to work out
homemade eats. It’s up to you! Just have fun
— after all, that’s why you’re having a rehearsal
with it and keep it within your budget. After all,
in the first place. Be sure to respect the venue,
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especially if it’s a religious establishment.
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may not sit well if your parents are divorced so
groom’s parents are divorced or the extended
try to include both parent’s names on the invites.
family is mixed. If you or your fiancé have
Then there’s the escort question: Who will
divorced parents who are on good terms, count
walk the bride down the aisle? When dealing with
your blessings. If their relationship is bitter or
mixed families, the lines sometimes blur between
merely polite, then correct handling of delicate
the biological father and step-dad and the
matters on your wedding day can help avoid
biological mother and step-mom. Again, throw
unwanted tension. Toss out the traditional
tradition out the window and ask yourself, “Who
wedding rulebook and, above all else, be sensitive
deserves to walk me down the aisle?” It might
to the situation.
be your dad, mom, both parents, a step-parent,
Start by considering wedding traditions and
two dads, two moms – that’s for you to decide.
anticipate ways to prevent any hurt feelings by
What matters in the end is that you choose the
keeping the lines of communication open with
person or pair of people who have earned the
both parents right from the get-go. For instance,
honor of being your escort. Do your best to avoid
it’s tradition for the parent with whom you’ve lived
hurting anyone by, again, keeping the lines of
the longest to issue the wedding invitations. This
communication open. This same logic holds true
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for the traditional father/daughter and mother/ son dance at the reception. While following your heart to create the wedding of your dreams (and possibly shirking tradition in the process), stay sensitive to your family’s feelings and recognize when to be the bigger person. In an ideal world, you’d be able to explain your decisions to your divorced parents and each would be entirely supportive – but that’s not always the case. Remember that it might be within your power to ease tensions and keep everyone happy. Perhaps you’ll have
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to compromise on whose names appear on the invitation or who walks you down the aisle, but those are small sacrifices to make to keep your wedding day running smoothly. Similarly, think about how the choices you make on this one day might affect the family dynamic for years to come. Your wedding day could result in tensions flaring up, or it could be a chance for forgiveness and healing. Talk to your divorced parents about what this day symbolizes to you: the creation of a new family. Remind your parents and step-parents of this especially if there are any major points of contention between family members. Appeal to their rational side and encourage everyone to set aside their differences for this one day in celebration of this new family. A few more practical ways to avoid any awkwardness: If one of your parents is remarried and the other is single, encourage the single parent to bring a guest to the wedding. Brief your wedding professionals on the family dynamics so they know who not to push together for a photo or special dance. You’ll also want to determine the ceremony and reception seating ahead of time. In the end, for every decision that affects you and your divorced parents or mixed family, ask yourself, “What’s right for me and my family?” and do just that.
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Time to Celebrate! WHAT TO KNOW BEFORE YOU BOOK A SITE You’ve said the “I do’s,” kissed the bride, and now it’s time to party! You want your reception to be unforgettable. The venue itself, the food, the ambiance, and the overall guest experience determines just how your reception will be remembered for years to come. Where to host your reception is a huge, day-defining decision. There’s so much to consider. Luckily, we’re here to help! 4
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than a 30-minute drive from the ceremony –
to look at for your reception, ask yourself some
ideally less. If the place is difficult to find, or
broad questions. What style of wedding do you
if the spot is inconvenient (say, located near a
envision? A relaxed, summer wedding and a
baseball stadium on game day), you might want
formal, winter wedding are better-suited to very
to provide transportation for your guests.
different reception sites.
SIZE AND LAYOUT. Is the venue in question just one large room, or will cocktail hour, dinner,
CONSIDER YOUR STYLE, HEAD COUNT, AND BUDGET.
and dancing each take place in separate rooms? Make sure the cocktail and dinner areas are
To start: Nail down your wedding’s preferred
large enough for guests to mix, mingle, and dine
style and season. Next: How many made the
in comfort, and see that the dance floor is big
guest list? You’ll need a head count so you can
enough for everyone to bust a move!
find a reception site to suit your needs. Finally:
PRIVACY. If the reception site caters to multiple
How big is your budget? Sometimes, your
events simultaneously, find out if there are any
budget will determine the number of guests you
other bookings on the date you have in mind. If
can afford to have.
there are, work with your site contact person to ensure that you will have adequate privacy for
SEARCH FOR SITES THAT SUIT YOUR NEEDS. Typical venues include hotels, banquet halls, community centers, and country clubs. Other
your celebration. PARKING. Make sure there is convenient, welllit, ample parking for your guests. If not, find out if the site offers valet or shuttle services.
options might be historic homes, city parks,
TECHNICAL DETAILS. Whether you go for a DJ,
college facilities, museums, and boats. Each of
band, or iPod playlist, inquire after any music
these venues will be one of two things: on-site or
restrictions. Is there sufficient power for
off-site. Most on-site locations offer the majority
speakers and amplifiers? Are the acoustics
of services needed to host a reception so on-site
suited to live music? Also find out if the site has a
is often appealing. Off-site locations usually
built-in public-address system that can be used
provide only the facility for a flat fee. The nice
to introduce the wedding party and to toast the
thing about off-site is you have the freedom to
bride and groom.
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with two hundred people. You also need to think about if you are going to pick the pet up. Will their paws stain your dress? Keep that in mind. If you are the type of bride that is very traditional, then you might want to steer clear of having your friend at the ceremony, since you might not know what he/she will do. If you decide to have your pets present on your wedding, keep in mind that some guests might be allergic, and some guests might not even be animal lovers. Have a designated handler to keep watch of the dog throughout the day as well as take them home that evening. You might want to have your pet present for the ceremony only, and then have the handler take him/her home directly after pictures.
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UNIQUE GUEST BOOK IDEAS 8 unique wedding guest book ideas
Why have a plain guest book at your wedding
lace, ribbons, sequins, photos, drawings,
when you can do something unique and
your wedding invite, collages of words from
creative to make a lasting keepsake of wedding
magazines or poetry, leaves, flowers or any
memories? Here are eight great ideas.
other enhancements your creative, brilliant
#1 – THE PHOTO GUEST BOOK. Your photographer,
mind can envision.
a graphic designer or you can put together a
#3 – HANDMADE WITH LOVE. Make your own
small book of photographs of you and your
guest book with handmade paper and an
fiancé. You can have some text about your
interesting binding (ribbon, aluminum screw
love story. Allow enough white space for your
posts, rivets, etc.) Check out your local paper
guests to write a short message. This is better
stores for classes, materials and other help.
suited to smaller weddings because it’s more
#4 – FINGERPRINT TREE. Start with a print of a
time-consuming per guest. You may have a
tree. You can make your own or purchase one.
picture book of your city or someplace you
There are quite a few on etsy.com. Include your
visited that guests can sign, too.
names and wedding date. Put out the print with
#2 – BRING ON THE EMBELLISHMENTS. Take a plain guest book, and adorn it with beads,
some ink pads and have your guests ink a “leaf” with their finger.
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#7 – SERVE IT ON A PLATTER. Use a white ceramic
photo of you and your sweetie – perhaps your
platter and a special pen to create a unique
engagement photo or something similar – and
guest book! Some are decorative only, others
frame it using a very wide, bright white mat.
can be made food and dishwasher safe after
Have your guests sign the mat using fine-tip
firing it in your oven (30 minutes at 300
black markers. For a more classic or modern
degrees.) Or, use a sterling silver platter and
look, try a black and white photo with a black
an engravable pen.
mat and have your guests sign with either a
#8 – A DEEP WELL OF WISHES OR A WISHING TREE.
white pen or metallic pen. Be sure to use
Invite your guests to write a brief message to
products that are acid free so that they don’t
you on pre-cut, small pieces of beautiful paper,
ruin the photo over time. This is a beautiful and
and drop them into a “wishing well” such as:
personal art piece to hang in your new home.
a glass vase, large bowl, bird cage, decorated
#6 – A PUZZLING IDEA. Here’s a very unusual idea:
box, etc., or have ties and hang the messages
a photo of you and your fiancé is adhered to a
on branches to make a tree. After the wedding,
wood backing and created into a puzzle. Your
you can either store these good wishes in a
guests sign the back of each puzzle piece with a
memory box or special container, or use them
fine tip black marker. Learn more and see photos
in a scrapbook.
at MGC Puzzles web site – mgcpuzzles.com.
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together. Another type of head table is a tiered table, where the party is one level higher than the other. Naturally the bride and groom would appear on the higher of the two levels. Gone are the days of this long redundant table,
and
enter
the
sweetheart
table.
The sweetheart table consists of a small, usually round table that can function as the centerpiece of the room. You can decorate it however you want, but in the end, its just you and your sweetheart at the table. A plus to the sweetheart table is that everyone in your bridal party can sit with whomever they want to sit with. This also formally presents you as a duo instead of being apart of a larger party. You might want to put your bouquet as the centerpiece of the sweetheart table as this would be the centerpiece of the table. In addition, you might want your bridesmaids to put their bouquets in the same area so that it can decorate your table. This is a way to cut costs on additional flowers needed for the reception.
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They’re the friends you have known for years or perhaps soon-to-be in-laws who you admire and cherish for their special words of love and laughter. Wedding attendants play a large part in weddings and it’s no surprise that brides often languish and toil over the perfect wedding attendant gift. Weddings attendants include your maid or matron of honor, bridesmaids and flower girls. Each of these special friends will help to make your day complete, will not argue with PHOTO BY ARTISTGROUP.NET
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who are helping to round out your day. This could include singers, organists, attendants at your reception and even parents of important people who have helped your day come together in such a unique way. A special gift is also in order and you might even want to present it to the attendants at the luncheon if you desire.
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friends
sit nearest to the bride and groom. Those generally seated together are families, work friends, people of the same age (teenagers or the elderly), and groups of friends. For interest, mix the bride’s and groom’s friends at one table. Do not sit together divorced couples and/or feuding families.
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It ’s no secret that men and women are
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have their children be part of the ceremony. For
or a third time, there are also the common
example, sons might play the part of an usher
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the children, the daughter can also take part
Brides who are walking down the aisle for
in the ceremony as a flower girl or even as a
at least the second time tend to be more
bride’s maid. The bride’s son or daughter might
mature and ready to take on the world
stand next to the bride in a show that the groom
in a more sophisticated manner. Often,
is not only marrying the mother, but is also
they are busy career women barely able
acknowledging he is taking the child as his own.
to fit a wedding into their schedule. With commitments such as work, children and a personal life, it can be a tricky balancing
Choosing the right dress and style for you and the wedding party
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Veils are not a good choice for second time brides as it reflects the innocence of the first
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garter toss are absent and replaced by having
dress, regardless of the color, that brings out
the longest married couple in the room be
the beauty of the bride. Hemlines are shorter
awarded these items.
and the colors are often soft and pastel.
The wedding invitations are issued from the
Overall, dresses tend to be less ornamental
bride and groom, in third person, without titles.
with better quality silk or silk satin and the train
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is not as long. Another trend for a second time bride is a hairstyle donning fresh flowers. Wedding parties also tend to be pared down and attendants are usually allowed to pick their favorite cocktail dress that is within the brides color scheme or theme.
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Smaller, intimate weddings are definitely the
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Waistline TYPES
ENGAGEMENT PARTIES let the fun begin
After the engagement ring has been slipped on your finger and the excitement over your impending new lives together has finally settled in, someone might approach you and want to
SQUARE WAIST Falls below the natural waistline and dips into a “V” or “U” shape.
give you an engagement party. Engagement parties, often thrown by a family member or a good friend, are quite popular. However, remember that there are some etiquette rules to follow when you’re putting this important event together. For one thing, in today’s society, there is a good chance that the bride and groom might not even be from the same city or state. That
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dreams than surrounded by family and friends in a comfortable setting. Here are a few things to remember when considering the engagement party. • The party should be held at the beginning of your engagement. It’s not about the wedding, but about the particular exciting time during your engagement. With this party you are commemorating the steps you have taken to spend your life with that someone special. • What a great time for all your family and friends to admire your engagement ring, right? Invite individuals who are close not only to you, but also to the groom. Whether a large or small affair, make sure the time is
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ENGAGEMENT PARTIES special by sharing your party with the ones you love in attendance. • Traditionally, it is the bride’s parents that host the engagement party. Sometimes the groom’s parents will also be interested in helping to host. However, don’t get caught up in outdated rules. If you and your fiancé want to host this event, then do it. If it turns out that someone else is hosting the party, then be sure you and your fiancé take a look at the list of guests so no one is overlooked. • Be sure that the people you invite to the engagement party are also guests you will invite to the wedding and reception. In some cases, location might make it impossible for your engagement party guests to attend, but it’s important that they are invited nevertheless.
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The Factory on Barclay 1120 South Barclay St., Milwaukee 414-481-3337 thefactoryonbarclay.com
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Jan Serr Studio 2155 N. Prospect Ave., Milwaukee 414-256-8765 janserrevents@sazs.com
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Kimpton - The Journeyman 310 E. Chicago St., Milwaukee 414-291-3970 journeymanhotel.com
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Marcus Center for the Performing Arts 929 N. Water St., Milwaukee 414-276-2030 sazamas.com
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The Astor Hotel 924 E. Juneau Ave., Milwaukee 414-271-4220 theastorhotel.com
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Canal Street Yacht Club 1200 W. Canal St., Milwaukee 414-273-8300 CanalStreetyachtClub.com
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Charles Allis Art Museum 1801 N. Prospect Ave., Milwaukee 414-271-3656, ext 2 charlesallis.org
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DOWNTOWN 1451 Renaissance Place 1451 N. Prospect Ave., Milwaukee 414-272-1451 renaissanceplace.com
Venue Curio Loft at Antiques on Pierce 1512 West Pierce Street, Milwaukee 414-988-1554 fstreethospitality.com
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South Second 838 S. 2nd St., Milwaukee 414-256-8765 southsecondmke.com
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Story Hill.Firehouse 407 N Hawley Rd., Milwaukee 262-477-5813 storyhillfirehouse.com
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Tripoli Shrine Temple 3000 W. Wisconsin Ave., Milwaukee 414-933-4700 tripolishrinecenter.com Turner Hall Ballroom 1040 N. Vel R. Phillips Ave., Milwaukee 414-286-6164 turnerhallballroomweddings.com The Venue at MKE Brewery 1128 North 9th St., Milwaukee 414-988-1554 mkebrewing.com
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Brookfield Conference Center 325 S. Moorland Rd., Brookfield 262-789-0220 brookfieldconferencecenter.com
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The Carriage House 6996 Pennsylvania St., Oconomowoc 262-269-9095 carriagehouseatlaclabelle.com
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10-200
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3
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20-650
Villa Terrace Art Museum 2220 N. Terrace Ave., Milwaukee 414-271-3656, ext 2 villaterrace.org
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The Pfister Hotel 424 E. Wisconsin Ave., Milwaukee 414-390-3802 marcusweddings.com
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Historic Courthouse 1893 916 N. East Ave., Downtown Waukesha 262-574-9170 courthouse1893.com
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Holiday Inn Pewaukee N14 W24140 Tower Place, Pewaukee 262-506-6300 holidayinn.com/pewaukee-wi
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Panos Banquet Center 20290 W. Bluemound Rd., Brookfield 414-308-4960 panosbanquetcenter.com
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The Barn at The Bog 3121 County Road I, Saukville 262-292-0740 golfthebog.com
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Chandelier Ballroom 150 Jefferson Ave., Hartford 262-673-4946 chandelierballroom.com
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Davian’s Catering & Conference Center N56 W16300 Silver Spring Dr., Menomonee Falls. 262-781-3333 davians.com Hubbard Park Lodge 3565 N. Morris Blvd., Shorewood 414-273-8300 hubbardparklodge.com Milwaukee Beer Bistro 2730 N. Humboldt Blvd., Milwaukee 414-562-5540 milwaukeebeerbistro.com The Peck and Bushel Barn 5454 County Road Q, Colgate 414-935-5014 bartolottas.com Schauer Arts & Activities Center 147 N. Rural St., Hartland 262-670-0560 schauercenter.org/ourfacility
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Hawk’s View 7377 Krueger Road, Lake Geneva 877-429-5788 hawksviewgolfclub.com
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Lake Geneva Cruise Line Rivera Docks 812 Wrigley Dr., Lake Geneva 262-248-6206 cruiselakegeneva.com
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A Memorable Menu CUISINE & CATERING
It’s sad but true that stereotypical wedding food sets the bar pretty low. Guests tend to anticipate chicken breast, rice pilaf, a side of steamed veggies, and a basket of dinner rolls. Luckily, catering services have certainly raised the bar in recent years, and personal, memorable, delicious meals are becoming the new normal. 4
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RECEPTION GAMES Wedding reception games are a great way to keep your guests entertained while you are being photographed before the reception or as they wait for food! Some games are also a fun way for your guests to get to know you and your partner a little better!
Couple Mad Libs
Bride and Groom Trivia
Create a Mad Libs-style template
I SPY Place a disposable camera on each
for your guests to fill out at
Create a list of trivia questions
guest table with a list of special
their tables for marriage and
for each guest to fill out at the
moments to capture. Each group
love advice. This is a wedding
table. Have a member of the
will have a different shot from
game guests can do alone, or the
wedding party collect and read
their perspective. Some examples
whole table can get in on the fun,
the cards to determine the
could be the first dance, “cheers,”
sharing their tips on how to keep
winner. The guest with the most
table selfie, or just let them
the romance alive, fun ideas for
correct answers wins!
choose! You won’t know what you
“married dates,” and other words
end up with until you take the
of wisdom.
cameras to be developed!
Whether you are in the mood for something a little more traditional, looking for a specialty themed event, or looking for the best Texas Style Barbeque in town, we have a variety of catering styles to serve you.
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A MEMORABLE MENU Nowadays, as brides and grooms are getting
be a nice juicy steak and the groom’s might be
a little adventurous with their cuisine, caterers
chicken and waffles — and that’s okay! The more
are offering more bold flavors, meaningful
you embrace what makes you unique, the more
meals, and fun experiences. Sit-down meals are
memorable your wedding will be.
gravitating toward family-style, where larger
There’s also been an emphasis on unique,
portions of dishes are passed around the table.
locally-sourced meals. Couples like to support
This style works with everything from homey
local purveyors, since hosting a locally-harvested
meat and potatoes to build-your-own tacos.
meal means they’re not only building up their
Ethnic cuisine is a great way to bring a little flavor to your reception. Take your guests around
own community, but also enjoying the freshness of a farm-to-table feast.
the world with a variety of food stations offering everything from sushi to French cheeses. It’s a great way to inspire conversation! Food trucks are another popular way to up the fun factor, and
7 STEPS TO HIRING A CATERER From research to getting it in writing, we’ll walk you through it.
late-night snacks like popcorn, pizza, or grilled cheese sliders are a huge hit with guests.
Step 1: Start the search
To get really personal, think about hosting
Some reception locations require that you use
each of your favorite meals. The bride’s might
their in-house caterer or banquet services, which PremierBrideMKE.com PREMIER BRIDE • 93
CATERING A MEMORABLE MENU makes your choice fairly simple. This usually
Step 2: Decide on your style
applies to venues like hotels and country clubs.
With all of the general specifics in place, such
If your reception location allows you to bring in
as sit-down or buffet, it’s time to factor in your
an independent caterer, you still might have to
wedding’s style and degree of formality. Right
choose from a pre-approved list.
off the bat, caterers will want to talk about your
If you’re able to choose your own caterer, try
personal tastes (and budget!). Think about the
to narrow down your options to no more than
vibe your wedding — is it a classic ballroom affair
three. Otherwise, after a month of tastings, all
or a rustic outdoor bash? Do you want the food to
the flavors will blur together. As you call caterers,
be posh or playful? Such details will help a caterer
make sure to have as much information on hand
determine what they can offer that falls in line
as possible. They’ll want to know your wedding
with your vision.
date, time, approximate number of guests, and
Step 3: Schedule a tasting
whether you’d like a sit-down or buffet-style meal. If you already have some ideas for your
When you finally narrow down your list of
menu or any specific limitations (think vegetarian
prospective caterers, it’s time for the fun part —
or gluten free), let the caterer know so they can
tastings! Speak up during your tastings and don’t
better prepare for the initial meeting. Ask to see
be afraid to ask if they can tweak something to
sample wedding menus and references.
your tastes. This is your day and your meal, and
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• What packages do you offer? What do they include? • Have you worked at my reception site before? • Do you provide beverage service? • Do have opening or corking fees? • When is the deadline for the final guest count? • When will we need to finalize the menu? • Can you provide entrees for my guests who have special dietary needs? • Will you provide flatware, china, stemware, etc? • Do you supply or arrange tables, chairs or linens? • How will you and your staff be dressed? • Do you provide wait staff? How many are appropriate for my wedding? • Do you have references from previous weddings? • How far in advance must I book your services? • What is your cancellation policy? • Is a deposit required? If so, when and how much?
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your wedding meal. Here’s a bit about what
your wishes as much as they can.
you can expect in terms of pricing: Facilities with in-house catering departments may have
Step 4: Finalize the menu
a minimum charge or set-up fee, while an
Gather inspiration from magazines, websites,
independent caterer will usually work within
and bridal shows to clarify what you like and
any reasonable, agreed-upon budget. Keep
dislike in a wedding meal. Think about weddings
in mind that buffets are usually priced higher,
you’ve attended, or ask friends for favorites
since they’ll have to account for a little more per
and failures. When in doubt, ask your caterer
person.
and trust them. They’ve seen lots of weddings
Caterers usually require your final guest
and know what works best for the number of
count one week before the wedding. This is the
people, time of day, and location, so take their
number of people you’ll actually be charged
professional advice to heart.
for, though most caterers will factor in a few last-minute guests, too. Decide if you’ll include
Step 5: Calculate the cost
meals for wedding-related personnel, such as
Finalizing the menu and calculating the cost
the DJ, musicians, photographer, and on-site
might happen somewhat simultaneously, since
coordinator. If cost is an issue, ask your caterer
your budget will surely affect the direction of
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WEDDINGSBYANTIGUA.COM A MEMORABLE MENU Finally, make sure to ask what extras are
Make sure to talk with your caterer ahead of
included in the catering cost. Find out if
time to make sure that the servers’ style of
your caterer will provide table linens, plates,
dress works with the style of your wedding.
glasses, crystal, silverware, and serving pieces — otherwise you’ll need ample time to make other arrangements.
Step 7: Get it in writing Sign a contract with your caterer only after you have all of the details spelled out: date,
Step 6: Hire the servers
time, address of site, food items by course,
With a finalized menu all priced out and good
beverages and bar guidelines, number of
to go, it’s time to determine how many wait
guests covered, provisions for special meals,
staff you’ll need to serve the feast and keep
time of cocktail hour, time meal is served,
the reception running smoothly. Your caterer
contact people, number of wait staff and
will give you their expert opinion, but a safe
bartenders, linens, terms of payment, and
bet is one server for every 10 to 12 guests for a
liability insurance. There will probably be an
sit-down dinner, and two servers for every 50
advance deposit when you sign the contract
guests for a buffet-style dinner. If you’re having
— and don’t forget to check the cancellation
a full open bar, too, that will require more help
policy.
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drinks for your wedding. Before hiring a professional bartender for your wedding, do your research. First, inquire with your venue and caterer. Some have restrictions on who’s allowed to serve alcohol on site. Others require that the venue or caterer provide the alcohol, as opposed to purchasing it off site. How many bartenders do you need? Check your guest count. A general rule is 75 people per bartender. When budgeting, figure two to three drinks per person during cocktail hour and one drink per person, per hour, for the rest of the night. To determine whether or not a professional bartender is the right fit for your wedding, meet with a professional near you!
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Making it Stress-Free HIRE A PROFESSIONAL TO MASTER THE DETAILS The best gift a bride and groom can give each other is a professional wedding coordinator. Today, planning a wedding is more complicated than ever. Most couples have high expectations for their special day, but are novices at planning such a big event. 4
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CONSULTANTS WEDDING CONSULTANTS
THE ADVANTAGES OF HIRING AN
event planner less stress details
Besides handling all the time consuming, stress inducing details, a wedding coordinator can help make the planning process an enjoyable experience. There are so many fine
vendors
points that go into planning a wedding that it can be difficult for today’s couples with busy careers to enjoy the process. Wedding consultants can essentially do
budgeting
tie breaker
everything you need so that you don’t have to worry about it. From handling pre-wedding plans to coordinating the events on the wedding day, wedding consultants offer services that include as much or as little as you need. Many
local expert
your go-to
offer “day-of” services as well. Wedding coordinators should be detailoriented, organized and reliable. They stay
experience
on top of their field by attending seminars and constantly watching what’s hot across the country. Many belong to bridal consultant groups or associations related to the event industry. They network with vendors, stay on top trends and are experts in exceeding your vision to create something beyond what you ever dreamed. Another common trait they possess is creativity. They work within the couples’ own style and apply it in a way that works for their wedding creating a beautiful, timeless event. While many couples prefer to pick their own vendors, flower arrangements, cake design and location, wedding consultants can assist or do this for you. It is not unusual for wedding consultants to work with the bride, choosing the color of her wedding, flower arrangement and even the wedding gown. On the other hand, consultants are also good at just taking over the small details. In some cases they are only there to coordinate everything on the day of the wedding.
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WEDDING CONSULTANTS If you do decide to choose a wedding consultant, it’s vital it be someone you truly like and who works well with your personalities. The caliber of wedding planners varies greatly. Hiring a friend because he/she loved planning his/her own wedding might work for you, but beware. That doesn’t make him/her an experienced professional who knows how to orchestrate your event, handle unexpected challenges and take criticism if you have disagreements.
FINDING THE RIGHT COORDINATOR 1. Ask a trusted caterer, another bride or the quality wedding consultants listed in this publication. 2. A professional coordinator should offer an introductory meeting free of charge. Discuss
your ideas and see if you click with each other. 3. Look for someone with experience and find out how long they have been in business. 4. Questions to ask when you check references should include: did the consultant help to achieve what you wanted? Did he/she listen to your comments and concerns? Did he/she pay close attention to your wedding budget? Would they use them again? 5. Is he/she a member or certified with a professional Association of Bridal Consultants, such as ABC.
OTHER IMPORTANT NOTES 1. Find out exactly how much the wedding coordinator charges. Some charge an hourly rate; others bill a flat rate or perhaps a PremierBrideMKE.com PREMIER BRIDE • 101
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Selecting a Wedding Consultant ASK THE RIGHT QUESTIONS! • What packages do you offer? What do they include? • Are your fees based on total cost of wedding or an hourly or flat rate? • Have you done weddings similar to mine? • What cultures and traditions are you familiar with? • Do you offer “day of the wedding” assistance? • Will you be willing to work with the coordinator at my reception location? • Can you provide me with special rates when working with various vendors? • How far in advance must I book your services? • What is your cancellation policy? capturingyourday.com
• Is a deposit required? If so, when and how much?
WEDDING CONSULTANTS percentage of the overall wedding budget. Still others take a fee or commission from vendors they trust and use often.
work and can confer with vendors in the area
2. Ask how payments to vendors are made and what exactly the planner does on the wedding day. Read carefully the paperwork the planner provides.
paying the airfare, food and accommodations
3. A good wedding coordinator is like a good accountant. In the long run, he/she can save you time and money. That translates into a happier and more relaxed day for you.
to negotiate the best prices. However, in most cases, the couple will be responsible for for the exploratory visit and during the actual wedding. Wedding consultants can be especially helpful for couples who are short on time, live away from the location they are to be married or would simply prefer a professional handle the arrangements while they totally enjoy the experience.
THE DESTINATION WEDDING
The best wedding planners love what
In the case of destination weddings, a
they do. Their desire is to bring your vision
planner will even travel with the bride and
to life and exceed your expectations while
groom to look at a destination beforehand.
maximizing
A wedding consultant can offer important
consideration to hiring a qualified wedding
advice on why a destination will or will not
consultant.
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SAME SEX MARRIAGE a new frontier in weddings
The United Stated Supreme Court announced
their ceremony in a church while others are
in January 2015 that it will decide whether the
married at their reception location. You’ll see
Constitution mandates same-sex marriage,
two brides in gowns, two brides in suits, or a
and whether individual states are permitted to
combination of the two. You might find two
limit it. What does this mean? It’s possible that
grooms walking down the aisle hand-in-hand
any remaining gay marriage bans might not be
or with their parents. It’s true that although the
relevant much longer. U.S. citizens nationwide
standards of certain wedding etiquette should
will be able to marry whoever they love, paving
be observed, gay marriages are a relatively new
the way for lots of same-sex couples to finally
frontier for U.S. couples so there is unlimited
celebrate a wedding day of their own. Here
room for creativity.
are some considerations for same-sex couples planning a wedding.
When it comes time to hire vendors for your wedding day, most foster an atmosphere of
First, remember that there’s no right or
acceptance and love, adding to the happiness of
wrong way to have a wedding. Create an
the day. If for any reason, you’re not comfortable
experience that speaks to you, and don’t feel
with a particular vendor, then move on. There are
confined by the typical wedding’s structure
websites out there whose sole purpose is to link
and traditions. Some same-sex couples hold
gay couples to gay-friendly wedding vendors.
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Personalized Rentals ADDING THE PERFECT FURNISHINGS AND DÉCOR As you start wedding planning, you might be surprised to learn that tables and chairs, eclectic vintage glassware, and even the dance floor aren’t typically stored in your venue’s basement. Whether it’s a glamorous reception hall or a tent in your own backyard, it’s extremely common to rent both necessities and decorations for your wedding. Here are some of the basics to help you navigate the world of rentals and design. 4 PremierBrideMKE.com PREMIER BRIDE • 105
RENTALS PERSONALIZED RENTALS ™ Even if you’re working with a venue that already provides things like tables, chairs, linens, and place settings, rentals might still end up on your checklist. Ask your site to see their items, in case you want to upgrade — splurging on real silver utensils or linens in a finer fabric. Of course if you’re hosting a wedding where the venue doesn’t provide furnishings, it’s up to you to procure every last champagne flute
MOBILE PARTY BARS Give friends and family a one-of-a-kind place to celebrate your love. Containers Up place to celebrate your love. Containers Up brings an original venue to your wedding day, wedding shower, your bachelor and bachelorette parties, and rehearsal dinner.
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The newest and nicest portable toilets on time and on budget.
and salad fork. You can buy these pieces, but if you own these items, it’s up to you to press the linens beforehand and wash the dishes afterward. Renting and working with a professional event designer will relieve a lot of stress.
CHOOSING A RENTAL COMPANY Your site coordinator should be able to recommend their preferred vendor who has dressed your wedding space in the past. No site coordinator? Ask one of your other vendors, perhaps your florist or caterer, if there’s a company they’d recommend. If you don’t have a trusted industry professional to consult, meet in person with multiple rental companies in your area. Visit each company’s showroom so you can compare not only price, but quality. While costs can be
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surprisingly similar, quality can vary greatly. Make sure you’re seeing actual pieces from the company’s stash and not just pretty samples on parade.
WHAT TO RENT
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No two brides will have the same rental needs for their wedding day. In general, these are the main furnishings you’ll need: tables, chairs, linens, plates, flatware, serving pieces,
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PERSONALIZED RENTALS utensils, and glassware. Other large rentals
hour are a must — cloth napkins, too. If you
might be a dance floor, band stage, portable
have the choice between cotton and polyester
toilets for an outdoor wedding, a free-standing
fabric and the price is comparable, go for
bar, or lounge furniture. Also consider any
cotton; it lends a nicer, higher-quality feeling.
heating or cooling needs, depending on your
Hosting a breezy outdoor reception? Make sure
venue and time of year.
you have table weights, hidden tablecloth clips,
Now let’s dig a little deeper into your most basic rentals, as these are, for the most part, non-negotiable for all weddings.
and napkin rings. You’ll need seating not just for dinner, but possibly the ceremony and cocktail hour, too. Have high chairs or booster seats for any little
TABLES, CHAIRS & LINENS
ones. Chair covers add color and texture to
At most weddings, you’ll see round tables,
the space, however, stylish Chiavari chairs and
long family-style tables, or a mix. You may also
fresh, white folding chairs work wonderfully, no
need buffet tables, a sweethearts table, taller
covers necessary.
cocktail tables, and tables for things like cake and the guest book.
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Selecting Rentals ASK THE RIGHT QUESTIONS! • What items are available for rent? • What is the rental fee? Do you have a price list? • Have you worked at my reception location before? • Do you provide delivery, set-up and pick-up? Is this included in the cost? • When will the items be delivered and picked up? • Will you move decorations from the ceremony to the reception site if needed? • If tents are needed, do you recommend one large tent, or multiple smaller tents at my reception location? • What is your policy on damaged or missing items? • Who will be my contact on the day of the wedding? • How far in advance must I book your services? • What is your cancellation policy? • Is a deposit required? If so, when and how much? 108 • PREMIER BRIDE PremierBrideMKE.com
RENTALS PERSONALIZED RENTALS need plates for cocktail hour, salad, dinner, and dessert. Always order about a dozen extra place settings in case a plate drops or shows up chipped. For glassware, you might need champagne flutes, glasses for water, beer, wine, cocktails, and cups for non-alcoholic drinks like coffee or tea. You need to keep the clean glassware coming, so either hire a dishwasher or work around it. Calculate three or four glasses per person, or make it clear that guests should reuse their one glass the entire evening.
TIPS & TRICKS If you have to place your rental order before your final guest count is confirmed, it’s best to round up. Thoroughly read your rental agreement and the itemized list of goods coming your way. Make sure the amounts and times of drop-off and pick-up are all correct, and understand the state in which goods are to be returned. Do dishes have to be washed? Chairs folded? Also be aware of added fees,
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such as a service charge or tip. Ask for the company’s direct contact information for the day of your wedding, in the event that you need to get a hold of someone.
FUN & DECORATIVE RENTALS Consider antiques, bird cages, vintage books or board games, chandeliers, a disco ball, neon or marquee lighting, vintage vases, or gilded mirrors. Want fun on a bigger scale? Popcorn
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HOW MUCH?
up to $500 or 15% of $5 - $10 personal fee, or a per person gift gift
15 - 20%
WHEN?
after the honeymoon
if gratituity no, but a is not donation included, is a nice then yes gesture 15 - 20%
$100 $500
optional
optional
optional
RECEPTION/ CATERING STAFF
DJ
yes
BAND
not if not if for he/she he/she exemplary owns the owns the service business business
CEREMONY MUSICIANS
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when the at the after you driver picks rehearsal upon after the at the at the at the at the are made- you up, or or delivery honeymoon ceremony reception reception reception up after the rehearsal last ride dinner
Remember, being appreciative and a personal thank you note go a long way, too!
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THE PERFECT VENDOR what every bride should expect
One of the most unique customer service
Romantic comedies and reality TV have
models is the wedding industry. Here, you have
conditioned us to think that weddings are this
dozens of businesses hired months in advance
stressed-out event that tears people apart and
to complete an individual task that will be carried
reduces the strongest people to a fetal position.
out on a particular day. What makes this more
It doesn’t have to be that way. Look carefully at
interesting is that there can be no do-overs on
training, qualifications and talent and don’t be
your wedding day. It is like a “live” stage play that
afraid to ask for an example of how well they
will be orchestrated and presented in real time.
work with other vendors. Look at how you will be
We have all heard the saying “beauty is only
treated as a customer, how quickly they return
skin deep”. It implies what you see on the surface
your phone calls and respond to your inquiries.
is only part of the equation. The same is true in
Follow your instincts and select vendors who
the wedding business. The photos you expect
care as passionately about you and the success of
from your photographer or the music you discuss
your event as they do about their own vocation.
with your DJ is important, but only represents
Contacting vendors listed in this publication is
one level of service expectation. The products
a good place to start since your local publisher is
and service provided is important – so too is the
extremely involved and knowledgeable in your
manner in which they are delivered!
local bridal market.
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Domestic, tropical and international locations, travel tips and more!
Hawaii
HONEYMOON & DESTINATION WEDDING LOCATION
A Maui Resort at sunset
Just the name Hawaii conjures thoughts of breathtaking beauty, endless beaches, luaus with exotic music and dancing, all wrapped in romance and gorgeous sunsets. The Hawaiian Islands are all that and SO much more. There is no language barrier or currency exchange, which adds to the simple perfection of this destination. But perhaps Hawaii’s most unique feature is it’s aloha spirit; the warmth of Hawaii’s people that beautifully complements the Island’s ideal temperatures. THE ISLANDS Each island has its own distinct personality, offering different adventures, sites and activities. Interisland flights are frequent and cost effective. Oahu If this is your first trip, we recommend spending some time on Oahu. Known attractions like Waikiki, the Polynesian Cultural Center, hiking atop Leahi (Diamond Head) and of course Pearl Harbor make this a must. You could spend your entire time on this island alone, especially if your time is limited, exploring the popular and less traveled parts of the island.
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Maui This magic island is dotted with quaint towns, artist communities and endless jewel-tones sand beaches. Laid back with the perfect mix of activities, beauty and outstanding food, many couples head right to Maui. Watch the sun rise above a sea of clouds high atop Haleakala. Lose count of the waterfalls along the road to Hana, with narrow one-lane bridges, hairpin turns and incredible island views. Just past Hana, you’ll discover the famous Pools of Oheo, tiered pools fed by waterfalls. Take a dip in these tranquil pools or countless other options along the way. Maui’s highest peak is located at Haleakala National Park. Haleakala’s graceful slopes can be seen from just about any point on the island. Kauai Known as the “Garden Isle”, this completely accurate description sums up Kauai. Draped in emerald valleys, sharp mountain spires and
HAWAII jagged cliffs, this oldest island with centuries of growth have formed tropical rainforest, forking rivers and cascading waterfalls. Some parts are only accessible by sea or air, reveling views beyond your imagination. Waimea Canyon, sometimes called the Grand Canyon of the South Pacific, is breathtaking. A must for hike lovers, forest trails are filled with birds, wild flowers, canyon views, wet forests and sweeping views of valleys opening up the North Shore. Although not as plentiful as other islands, Kauai can boast of some beautiful beaches, including Poipu. Culture found in its small towns, this laidback island is a perfect escape. The “Big Island” of Hawaii It’s big, young and still changing with one of the most active volcanoes in the world (Kilauea). Full of adventure, this island offers a little of everything. From molten magma flowing from Hawaii Volcanoes National Park to the snowcapped heights of Mauna Kea; from the green rainforest of the Hamakua Coast to the famous jetblack sand beaches of Punaluu. Almost twice as big as all the other Hawaiian Islands combined, this dramatic size is perhaps one of the most exciting things about this islands
unbelievable geographic diversities, creating a microcosm of environments and activities. Molokai & Lanai Unspoiled country and untouched beaches. No skyscrapers or stoplights. From the highest sea cliffs in the world along Molokai northeast coast to Lanai’s stunning views atop the pine-lined Munro Trail, these islands capture a special place to find serenity and intimacy. An easy way to visit these islands is a day trip by boat, departing from the more populated islands daily. ACTIVITIES It would be easier to name what you can’t do. Almost every activity you can think of is available on the Hawaiian Islands. From whale watching (Dec-May), swimming with manta rays, horseback riding ,world class golfing, hiking, surfing, kayaking, scuba diving, snorkeling, zip-lining, biking down a mountain top, 4-wheel driving adventures, sailing, deep sea fishing, site seeing by plane or helicopter, the list goes on. Hawaii is just about perfect. From your first aloha and lei upon your arrival to your last aloha upon departing, you’ll make a promise to return some day.
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A remote trail along the east end of Molokai Island leads to a beautiful beach facing a very untraveled part of Hawaii
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through a vibrant autumn forest; snuggling in front of a cozy fire as snowflakes fall gently outside; discovering the first wildflowers of spring along a winding, wooded trail; or basking in the sun on a white sand beach as waves gently lap the shore. With over 300 miles of shoreline and its quiet, wooded landscape dotted with quaint harbor side villages and historic lighthouses; Door County provides an ideal backdrop for a romantic getaway. Small wonder this Wisconsin peninsula was named one of the top ten travel destinations in North America by Money Magazine. Nestled among the Door County scenery are a variety of honeymoon accommodations to
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suit every budget and lifestyle. Options range from luxurious hotels and condominiums with complete honeymoon packages, to antique-filled bed and breakfasts, rustic cottages and scenic campsites. The ten villages that make up Door County offer dozens of specialty shops, galleries and studios to browse through. Local restaurants feature everything from traditional Door County fish boils to candlelight gourmet dinners. Many newlyweds enjoy a winery tour or two at the five wineries in Door County. Others take in one of the many seasonal festivals or sample cultural offerings ranging from chamber music festivals and theater in the woods, to drive-in, double feature movies under the stars. For couples who prefer to get away from it all,
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there are countless breathtaking views in Door County just waiting to be discovered. Cave Point, on Lake Michigan’s shore, is one popular spot for honeymooners, with its spectacular rock formations and pounding waves. And to many, nothing is more romantic than exploring the back roads on a bicycle built for two.
DOOR COUNTY Some newlyweds enjoy Door County’s shoreline
Want some help in planning your next romantic
scenes from an elegant concert or dinner cruise, a
Door County getaway, or even your destination
snug little paddle-boat, a tranquil canoe, or even
wedding?
a picnic blanket on the shore. Others comb the
Bureau at 800-527-3529 for personal assistance
waters of Lake Michigan in search of legendary
or visit DoorCounty.com for lots of information
shipwrecks. Even winter can’t put a damper on
and ideas about planning your honeymoon
the romance in Door County, with its picturesque
or wedding. Take advantage of their specially
horse-drawn sleigh rides, serene cross-country
tailored romantic winter vacation packages that
skiing, snow-laden trees and cozy inns.
are a part of the annual Door County Nature
No matter what the season, budget or lifestyle, Door County is the perfect honeymoon destination.
Contact the Door County Visitor
of Romance promotion, with packages good December through March each year.
There is a magical lure to Door County that draws
For other great ideas on what to do the next
couples back again and again. Its closeness to
time you visit the Cape Cod of the Midwest, be
home makes it ideal for romantic getaways long
sure to check out Explore The Door, an award
after the honeymoon is over, keeping the romantic
winning video travel podcast about Door
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our beautiful day on a beautiful bay.
Every storybook wedding deserves a great beginning.
The Landmark Resort is an enchanted place for a wedding, rehearsal dinner or reception. The resort has a variety of banquet rooms and outdoor settings designed to meet your needs. And a destination wedding at the Landmark Resort captures the essence of Door County. We invite you to experience your beautiful day on a beautiful bay. 4929 Landmark Drive Egg Harbor, WI 54209
www.thelandmarkresort.com
1-800-273-7877 The Landmark Resort was named one of the "Top Ten Wedding Locations in Wisconsin" by Resorts & Lodges.
It’s always ‘wedding season’ at Stone Harbor Resort, regardless of the time of year!
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Honeymoon Getaway
Spacious one & two bedroom suites with whirlpools, fireplaces and full kitchens. Indoor & Outdoor pools, whirlpool, sauna and fitness room. Free continental breakfast daily! Great Egg Harbor location walking distance to shops, restaurants & attractions.
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7888 Church St., Egg Harbor, WI 54209
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December or May, big or small, afternoon or evening, traditional or decidedly not. Whatever your preference, the staff at Stone Harbor Resort will help you make your dream a reality.
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Capture the Mood FINDING SOMEONE THAT FITS YOUR STYLE After months of fittings, tastings, and planning down to the very last detail, the day you’ve always dreamed of will seem to come and go in a blur. That’s why quality photography is a must! You want to be able to preserve the day and look back on everything that happened. Through pictures captured in a style that speaks to you, you can remember, relive, and cherish each moment for the rest of your lives. 4 PremierBrideMKE.com PREMIER BRIDE • 133
PHOTO / VIDEO CAPTURE THE MOOD Determining a photography style that speaks to you is the first order of business. Below are a few styles you might consider. DOCUMENTARY: Candid, spontaneous, not styled or posed. Capturing moments as they happen — shots of decorative details, action, and people. PORTRAIT: Classic and posed. Poses can be staged with traditional backdrops (such as a church alter) or more creative (like lounging on a vintage sofa or holding hands in front of a vibrant city mural). FINE ART OR EDGY & BOLD: Dramatic and dreamlike, Where every woman’s natural elegance, beauty, and grace shine.
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with interesting angles and framing. Photos will represent the photographer’s vision, such as using more muted tones for a film-like effect. In the end, worry less about what a photographer calls their style and more about whether or not their work makes you happy.
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SHOP AROUND Collect referrals from friends, review local wedding magazines and websites, and check out bridal shows near you. Browsing local photographers’ websites, blogs, Facebook pages, and Instagram feeds is the quickest way to get a feel for the talent in your area. But beware of amateur photographers with limited real-world experience. Choose someone with a strong portfolio of quality work, testimonials from happy clients, the right gear, well-thought-out contingency plans, and a professional attitude.
MEET IN PERSON Don’t underestimate your meetings with photographers! Even if your artistic visions align, it’s just as important that your personalities click. Remember, this person is shadowing you on
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your wedding day. They should be professional, respectful, and know when to hang back, while
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Selecting a Photographer ASK THE RIGHT QUESTIONS! • Will you be taking the pictures? If not, can I meet him/her? • How long have you been a wedding photographer? • What packages do you offer? What do they include? • What type of photography do you specialize in? • Have you photographed at my ceremony or reception location before? • How many other weddings do you have this night? How long can you stay? • Do you offer online ordering for my guests? • Can we purchase all of our images on disk? • Can we order additional prints later? • What happens if you are sick or have an emergency on my wedding day? • How far in advance must I book your services? • What is your cancellation policy? • Is a deposit required? If so, when and how much?
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CAPTURE THE MOOD also being bold enough to go after great shots
out what’s included, as well as the cost of any
and draw natural expressions from your guests.
add-ons. A photography package may or may not include the following: second shooters,
QUESTION & EVALUATE
additional hours, high-res jpgs, photo albums, or
First, only meet with photographers within
engagement sessions. Some photographers offer
your budget. It’s disappointing to fall in love with
such services a-la-carte, so you can choose only
a photographer’s work only to later discover their
what’s of value to you.
rates exceed your spending allowance.
Speaking
At these meetings, ask to see a complete album
of
photographers
files, how
ask they
any back
potential up
your
of a wedding shot in a similar venue or with a
photos; if their answer doesn’t come swiftly
style similar to yours. If you’re only gauging a
and confidently, that can indicate a lack of
photographer’s work off their online portfolio,
professionalism. Also ask about their typical
you might be seeing a highlight reel; it’s best to
timeline for delivering proofs and final photos.
get the whole picture.
Bear in mind that faster isn’t always better. Some professionals shoot weddings nonstop
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during the high season, then spend the next six from
one
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Selecting a Videographer ASK THE RIGHT QUESTIONS!
• Will you be shooting my wedding? If not, can I meet him/her? • May I see samples of your work? • What packages do you offer? What do they include? • How many cameras and microphones will be used and where will they be located? • Are you able to work with the restrictions on lights and tripods at the ceremony or reception site? • How long will it take to get our completed video? • Can I keep the raw, unedited footage? • Can you film while a photographer is present? • Will backup equipment be on hand for the event? • How far in advance must I book your services? • What is your cancellation policy? • Is a deposit required? If so, when and how much?
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When you finally make your decision, get everything in writing. When is payment due?
If there are friends and family that you want to
Will there be a backup camera? What’s the
be sure to snap a photo with or a particular time in
contingency plan should your photographer fall ill
the ceremony or reception that you want captured,
or have a family emergency? When will proofs be
it helps to put that in writing as well. Download our
ready to view? Answering all of these questions
planner online at premierbride.com where you’ll
up front will ease your mind and manage your
find a list of questions to ask your photographer
expectations.
and a checklist of can’t-miss moments.
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pre-ceremony
bride getting ready
venue, dress, shoes, flowers, rings, invitations
hair & makeup, candid, gift exchange
buttoning dress & putting on shoes
groom getting ready
first look
bride & groom portraits
jacket, tie, cufflinks, & shoes
when he sees you for the first time
kisses, rings, & posing
ceremony decor
ceremony
wedding party
flowers, set up, & aisles
down the aisle, groom’s reaction, & first kiss
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bride’s family
groom’s family
bride & groom sunset
Mom, Dad, & family
Mom, Dad, & family
first photos of the married couple
reception decor
reception
send off
tables, centerpieces, cake, flowers, menu
cut the cake, first dance, tosses & toasts
down the aisle & driving away
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INVITATION TIP Have an A-List and B-List of people you want to invite. Send out the A-list eight to ten weeks in advance and use the B-list as alternates for those from the A-list that decline.
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First Impression SETTING THE STAGE
Invitations seem like such a basic item on your wedding “to do” list, but there’s a lot that goes into them and a lot that comes out of them! Invitations set the stage and build excitement offering guests a peek at your wedding’s style. With creativity and proper etiquette, your invites will give a great first impression.4
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INVITATIONS THE FIRST IMPRESSION
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Wedding invitations typically consist of several parts: a ceremony card, a reception card, a response card with its stamped/addressed envelope, a card with directions to the ceremony/ reception and hotel information for out-of-town guests, and an inner and outer envelope. But feel free to think outside the box with your design if that suits the style of your wedding day. An experienced professional will be able to assist you more with the details of these various parts and the proper wording for each. To address the envelopes, you can run them through your printer in a beautiful font, handwrite them yourself, or hire a hand-letterer to do the job for you. Avoid using labels at all costs. Include your return address on the back of the envelope
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These are not hard and fast rules (except for the thank you cards!), but they serve as a starting point. Destination Weddings (D) Timeline is on the top, and Local Weddings (L) are on the bottom.
SAVE-THE-DATES
INVITATIONS
RSVP DEADLINE
THANK YOUS
( D) 8-12 MONTHS ( L) 6-8 MONTHS
( D) 3-4 MONTHS ( L) 4-8 WEEKS
( D) 3-5 WEEKS ( L) 2-3 WEEKS
( D) IMMEDIATELY ( L) IMMEDIATELY
Save-the-dates give your guests a friendly headsup. They are not always necessary, but are never a bad idea. Your guests may decide to turn your destination wedding into a getaway trip, so those save-the-dates can be sent up to a year in advance.
There is such a thing as too early! Send invitations so that your guests’ maximum anticipation lines up with your big day. Invitations for destination weddings should be sent far enough in advance for your guests to make their travel plans.
Your RSVP Deadline will depend on how much lead time your wedding professionals need. The first one to consider is your caterer’s meal count. Check with each vendor to determine when they need a final number, and set the RSVP return date for a week before that.
Believe it or not, you’ll start receiving gifts even before you walk down the aisle. Send thank you cards immediately. Once you’re back from your honeymoon, kick it into high gear to get them out no later than six weeks after the wedding.
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INVITATIONS
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Selecting Invitations ASK THE RIGHT QUESTIONS!
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• May I see samples of your work? • What packages do you offer? What do they include? • What kinds of products do you offer? • How long will it take to have each order processed? • Will we see a proof before the invites are printed? • Do you offer discounts if we order other items at the same time such as thank you notes? • Do you offer custom designs? • Do you offer labels? • Can you create a program for the ceremony? • How far in advance must I book your services? • What is your cancellation policy? • Is a deposit required? If so, when and how much? • Are you able to fill future orders such as monogrammed stationery or additional thank you notes?
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Consider adding small branches of wild flowers to your bridal bouquet for a just-picked feeling.
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Flower Power DEFINING YOUR WEDDING WITH BLOOMS From bouquets for the bridal party to reception centerpieces to blooms for the groom’s lapel, flowers make a wedding day wonderful. They can frame the scene, offer a breathtaking backdrop, make a wearable statement, act as a conversation piece, and help define not just the color scheme, but the mood of the entire day.4
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FLOWERS FLOWER POWER If possible, book a florist 8 to 10 months before your wedding. Start with any trusted sources for recommendations such as a local publication or website, or look into florists who have already worked with your venue and whose creations you admire. Select two or three florists to meet with in-person or over the phone. Have a budget in mind and don’t be afraid to share that with the florist. Know your wedding colors along with ceremony and reception locations. If you have a picture of your wedding dress and any fabric swatches from the bridesmaid dresses, share those with your florist as well.
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FOR YOU AND YOUR WEDDING PARTY You’ll first want to determine the look of your bridal bouquet. Bouquets range in size and shape these days. From showstopping oversized designs to sweet, small bundles of blooms to even hoop-shaped designs, work with your florist to find a style that compliments your vibe and budget. Then there’s the bridal party flowers: These might be a smaller version of your bridal bouquet, or perhaps a simple gathering of greenery to contrast with the bride’s bounty of blooms. Floral jewelry is also a viable option for the bridal party with flower-embellished cuff bracelets taking the place of the traditional bouquet.
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addition if your venue and budget allow. From
arrangements, towering displays adorned with
flower clouds to draped garland to single
feathers and stone fruits, eclectic small vases
blooms laced together, there’s no better way
dotted with just-picked blooms, and so much
to create impact and ambiance and draw
more. Potted plants and succulents are a
the eye upward. Living walls and full-floral
sustainable choice, as well as something special
backdrops also look lovely.
for guests to take home. Greenery trailing the
Tropical leaves, such as vibrant palms, are a
length of each table adds a lush touch. Florists
shapely warm-weather addition to bouquets
can create centerpieces at a variety of heights.
and even place settings. For the boho bride,
The key is to either make the arrangements low
more faded and monochromatic palettes
enough to talk over or high enough to talk under.
feature dried flowers, such as seed pods, dried
If your bridal party bouquets are doubling as
grasses, and preserved blooms. Color stories
decoration at the reception, equally spacing the
might be anything from rich and vibrant to
bouquets at the head table is a lovely way to go.
barely-there. Florists are also incorporating
Finish off the table with a garland of greenery
foliage found in local plant-life for a field-to-
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Selecting Flowers ASK THE RIGHT QUESTIONS! • What packages do you offer? What do they include? • How can we make the most of our floral budget? • Do you deliver the flowers? Is there a charge? • Do you provide any other kinds of decorating? • Do you rent or provide decorations and props? • Will you come to the ceremony and reception site to plan out the decor? • Do you set up at the ceremony and reception sites? • Can you move the flowers from the ceremony to reception? • Can you provide fresh flowers for the cake? • How far in advance must I book your services? heathercookelliott.com
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FLOWER POWER FLOWERS IN ALL SEASONS Everything has its season, and flowers are no exception. One of the most important things for you and your florist to factor into your choice of flowers is the season in which your wedding falls. You’ll find that flowers that
SUMMER: Anemone, Azalea, Camellia, Daffodil, French Tulip, Hyacinth, Jasmine, Lily of the Valley, Mimosa, Pansy, Primrose, Violet FALL: Celosia (Cockscomb), Chinese Lantern, Chrysanthemum, Crocosnia, Dahlia, Statice. YEAR-ROUND:
Baby’s
Breath,
bloom during the month of your wedding will
Cattleman,
be more affordable and will last longer than
Orchid, Daisy, Dendrobium, Orchid, Freesia,
those that are out of season. Also keep in
Gardenia,
mind that around certain holidays, flowers will
Lily, Rose, September Aster, Snapdragon,
increase in price across the board. Let’s look
Stephanotis, Tuberose
at some popular flowers in each season to kickstart your search. Daisy,
Heather
Gerbera
Daisy,
Cymbidium
Gladiolus,
Iris,
Whatever your wedding’s theme, style, and season, collaborating with a professional florist
WINTER: Amaryllis, Casablanca Lily, Freesia, Gerbera
Chrysanthemum,
Carnation,
Holly,
Narcissus,
Poinsettia, Rose, Stephanotis SPRING: Peony, Sweet Pea, Lilac, Ranunculus,
is a must. Work together, but always remember to trust your florist’s expertise for wedding flowers that are as dreamy as can be.
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A Sweet Ending CAKES & DESSERTS
Imagine a picture-perfect wedding cake. You’d probably envision a tiered confection with elegant embellishments crowned with fresh flowers, a porcelain cake topper, or the bride and groom’s initials. While such classic cakes are never out of style, there are lots of ways to freshen up tradition or even stray from it entirely, while still serving a sweet that is timeless, delicious, and uniquely you. 4 PremierBrideMKE.com PREMIER BRIDE • 155
CAKES & SWEETS A SWEET ENDING DESSERT DECISIONS
buffs? Work your love of cinema into the cake
A good place to start when deciding on your
with fondant rolls of film and famous characters
wedding cake or dessert is to consider the rest
perched on each tier. Did the groom propose
of your wedding. The look and feel of your sweet
in Paris? Find a baker who can craft a veritable
treat should match your day, whether that’s
Eiffel Tower of cupcakes, brimming with French
classic elegance, rustic romance, whimsical fun,
romance. If you have a uniquely sweet idea, seek
or megawatt glam.
out a professional who can bring your vision to
If your wedding is black tie, a traditional tiered
life.
wedding cake is probably the way to go — it will
TIERED STYLE
certainly make a statement as a centerpiece of the room. If your wedding is outdoors or in a
Tiered cakes are a timeless choice for a
barn trimmed with twinkle lights, a naked cake
reason — they’re impressive, eye-catching,
or lattice-topped pies add ample charm to the
and make for a very pretty picture. There’s no
scene. More casual affairs might host dessert
end to the myriad of styles you can apply to
that’s even more outside the box, such as candy
this classic design. Tiers might be adorned with
buffets or ice cream sundaes.
textural elements or ruffles for a cake with lots
As you style your dessert, think about what
of delightful dimension. Metallic luster or edible
speaks to you as a couple. Are you both big movie
sequins and gold leafing bring the glam. For more
Cake SERVINGS GUIDE ROUND
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WEDDING CAKE PIECES (1X2) PARTY CAKE PIECES (2X2)
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A SWEET ENDING colorful weddings, consider a painted, illustrative,
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or ombre cake that draws out the color story of
centerpiece.
your wedding. Watercolor, geode, sculptural, or tile-inspired designs are modern showstoppers, while painted or fondant monogramming and lace details are a classic, elegant way to go.
A LITTLE VARIETY It’s not uncommon to see a traditional cake paired with other sweets like cookies, truffles, or whole tables chock full of candy. Candy also
DECORATIVE DISPLAYS
makes a great favor, as you can give each guest
While a lone tiered cake can be a stunner,
a cute bag for filling with candies of their choice.
there are lots of ways to feature your dessert
You can even think further outside the box to
table as décor. Instead of just one large wedding
make your dessert experience an exceptionally
cake, consider three to five smaller tiered cakes
memorable one. Having an outdoor wedding?
displayed at staggered heights. Cupcakes are
Invite guests to roast marshmallows and stack
another way to expand your wedding cake’s
their own s’mores, or build their own sundaes,
presence: Try showcasing the central cake
complete with a well-stocked toppings bar.
surrounded by towers of matching cupcakes.
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A SWEET ENDING be fun and whimsical. Or choose two desserts —
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SWEETS TO SIP Favor Boxes
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chocolate drizzle, and peppermint stirring sticks. A coffee bar also makes a wonderful late-night treat.
FINDING A BAKERY Whatever you decide on, take advantage of all food tastings. Go with your gut and choose the
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the bakery’s efficiency and professionalism. The timely manner, be flexible with your needs, have some familiarity with your reception venue, and
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PRICING Wedding cakes are typically priced by the slice, depending on the style, ingredients, size, and embellishments. Your reception site might also charge a plating fee, often per person, to cut and serve the cake. But ask about this; it might be negotiable.
THE FIRST BITE If you’re planning on a traditional cake cutting, make sure you have a knife and lifter set to go; these might be engraved with your initials or decorated with ribbons in your wedding colors.
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LAKE GENEVA LAKE GENEVA So here is my Answer. Start with the simple
Hugh Hefner chose Lake Geneva as the home
questions “WHY?” Why have you decided to
for the nationally acclaimed Playboy Club &
have a Lake Geneva Wedding? There are a
Resort, now the Grand Geneva Resort & Spa.
lot of great reasons to have a wedding in lake
If your into to a nautical theme, you can’t
Geneva. Your reasons may vary but here are
beat lake Geneva. The Geneva Lake area is
some good ones:
the home of Buddy Melges, 1972 Olympic
It’s Gorgeous. It is one of the most beautiful
yachting gold medallist and helmsman of the
Lakes in North America. Geneva Lake is the
winning America’s Cup team in 1992. There
second deepest lake in Wisconsin (5,500
are several regatta’s throughout the summer.
acres, 152 feet deep, 21 miles around, 3 miles
It may be the best wedding your guests
wide, and 9 miles long). An has many deep
ever attend! Give them a vacation on the way
caves and is rumored to have a sea monster
to your wedding! Lake Geneva is hopping
similar to Loch Ness living deep within.
with boaters, swimmers, parasailers and
It is the original Chicago destination and
paddleboarders. The shopping is incredible,
reminiscent of the roaring 20’s and GREAT
the nightlife impeccable, and there are more
events. It is and always has been one of the
resorts and Bed and Breakfasts than you
best party towns in the country… but comes
could probably visit in a year. Lake Geneva’s
with an eloquence that is extremely unique.
unique 26 mi shore path along with Boat
Whether you’re planning an intimate family gathering to celebrate an anniversary or a wedding for 400 guests, you’ll find the Veterans Terrace is the perfect venue.
Just a scenic, 13-minute ride from Lake Geneva is Southeastern Wisconsin’s premier venue for indoor/outdoor weddings, corporate events, fundraisers, conferences and more. Veterans Terrace is located in historic downtown Burlington and is situated on the banks of the White River and Echo Lake dam. As a bonus, we’re blessed with a front row seat to the most stunning lakeside sunsets every evening. We’d love to host your wedding and look forward to sharing our passion for weddings, corporate events and our wonderful small town with you! Check out our 3-D tour at www.veteransterrace.com.
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LAKE GENEVA
LAKE GENEVA Tours, Skiing, Horseback riding, hunting,
choose Lake Geneva?” There are so many
fishing and all kinds of other activities make
great reasons to choose Lake Geneva, I think
this one of the best gifts you could give back
the better question is “why wouldn’t you
to your guests.
choose Lake Geneva!”
But more importantly in regard planning a wedding, it offers some of the best wedding resorts in the Midwest often at a fraction of the cost of a Downtown Chicago Venue. Finally the local Lake Geneva Wedding vendors know their town like no other. From wedding planners, officiants, photographers, and florists and more you will find some of the best customer service available and delivered with a smile and a warm welcoming handshake. So how do you find the best? Well I think you have! Premiere Bride proudly displays the best Lake Geneva has to offer! So “why
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REGISTRY ETIQUETTE IN INVITATIONS Bridal Etiquette, when it comes to registries is very simple. Never include registry information in wedding or shower invitations. Instead, spread the word through the grapevine. Make your bridal party and families aware so they can tell your guests who ask. Include this information if you have a wedding website.
LAKE GENEVA
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Did you know DJs often provide lighting and audio-visual services, too? Ask your musicians about any perks they might offer!
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Face the Music THE SOUNDTRACK OF YOUR SPECIAL DAY Imagine a wedding without a soundtrack. Sounds crazy, right? From moving songs at the ceremony to classy cocktail hour tunes to the late-night dance jams, music does so much to set the tone at a wedding. Here are the many ways you might incorporate music into your wedding day, and some helpful tips for ensuring that your soundtrack goes off without a hitch.4
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MUSIC / ENTERTAINMENT YOUR WEDDING SOUNDTRACK CEREMONY MUSIC What have you always envisioned for the soundtrack to your ceremony? A vocalist? String quartet? Solo pianist? Think back to past weddings you’ve attended. What did you like about the music for each ceremony? What didn’t work so well? When weighing your options for ceremony musicians, consider your vision, but also look to your wedding’s style and venue. Once you and your fiancé have some ideas in mind, check out local musicians. Visit bridal shows, review bridal publications and online sources like premierbride.com, or ask for referrals from recently married friends or from your ceremony officiant. Narrow down your options, and arrange meetings to hear your musicians in person before signing. Most musicians who specialize in weddings have a lot of valuable experience and will be a great resource for song suggestions. Also, you may have to have the music approved by the
BANDS LIVE MUSIC DJS
officiant, depending on your ceremony location.
COCKTAILS AND DINNER MUSIC Background music is a must for bringing romance to the latter part of your wedding day. Conversation is key during cocktails and dinner, so the tunes should set the mood, but not intrude. For live music, some solid options include chamber music, classical or acoustic guitar, or a jazz ensemble. A seasoned pianist can also be a fun choice if he or she can play a wide range of musical styles and take requests! If you go with your reception’s DJ or band, make sure they keep it on the softer side. You might even want to make a list of songs to be played during this time to keep the soundtrack on, well, track.
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allows. The key is finding a band that caters to
First and foremost, ask yourself: live band
weddings. These musicians offer versatility and
or DJ? There are pros and cons to each but it
will appeal to guests of all ages. Keep in mind
comes down to personal taste and budget.
that any live entertainment will require breaks,
Start researching musicians early, once you find
so find a solution that ensures music is always
someone you like, availability is less likely to be
playing. In terms of expense, a live band will
an issue.
almost always cost more than a DJ.
Live music gives the evening a sort of festive
A DJ will be more cost-effective and can
energy and is a wonderful option if your budget
offer an almost infinite variety of music – truly
Selecting Music ASK THE RIGHT QUESTIONS! • What packages do you offer? What do they include? • May I see your references and a demo CD? • May I see you perform at an event or bridal show? • If I provide you with a list of songs, will you be able to play them? • Can we control the volume of the music? • How will you and other musicians be dressed? • How long do you play with how many breaks? • How long will you need to prepare or set up? • Will you be able to act as master of ceremonies? • When do you begin charging overtime? • How far in advance must I book your services? • What is your cancellation policy? capturingyourday.com
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• Is a deposit required? If so, when and how much?
MUSIC / ENTERTAINMENT
YOUR WEDDING SOUNDTRACK something for everyone. Some keys to finding
THE NITTY GRITTY
happiness in a DJ: 1) If possible, see them live
Consider your ceremony and reception site
before booking. 2) Consider personality. Are
and how this might impact your choice of music
you looking for a crazy-fun, “put a ring on
and entertainment. Communicate with your site
it” party animal or an upscale, keep-it-classy
so you’re aware of any restrictions and so that
entertainer? 3) Ask for, and follow up on,
he/she is aware of your plans ahead of time.
several references. 4) Communicate. Clarify
If your entertainment has never performed at
what songs and events (first dance, father &
your chosen ceremony or reception site before,
bride dance, bouquet & garter toss, etc.) you
ask the site manager when they can visit the
do or do not wish to include. Decide on the
venue to make sure it meets their needs in
details ahead of time; make a “do not play”
terms of space, electricity, and lighting.
list of any songs you simply can’t stand and
As with other wedding vendors, make sure
a “must play” list of songs you don’t want to
the ins and outs of your agreement with your
miss.
musicians is very clear and in writing. Once
All things considered, whether you go for
you’ve done your homework, hired musicians
a band or a DJ, your dance party will be a
for each stage of your wedding day, and worked
guaranteed success as long as you treat your
out the details, you can rest easy. That is, until
guests to a wide variety of music.
it’s time to start practicing your dance moves.
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MOST REQUESTED
Wedding Songs FIRST DANCE 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9
Perfect Can’t Help Falling In Love From the Ground Up Say You Won’t Let Go Thinking Out Loud In Case You Didn’t Know All of Me Yours You Make it Easy
CAKE CUTTING
Ed Sheeran Elvis Presley Dan & Shay James Arthur Ed Sheeran Brett Young John Legend Russell Dickerson Jason Aldean
FATHER DAUGHTER DANCE 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8
I Loved Her First My Little Girl Butterfly Kisses My Wish My Girl What a Wonderful World The Way You Look Tonight Cinderella
Heartland Tim McGraw Bob Carlisle Rascal Flatts Temptations Louie Armstrong Frank Sinatra Steven Curtis Chapman
MOTHER SON DANCE 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8
My Wish What a Wonderful World Humble and Kind A Song For Mama Simple Man I Hope You Dance You’ll Be in My Heart In My Life
Rascal Flatts Louis Armstrong Tim McGraw Boyz II Men Lynyrd Skynyrd Lee Ann Womack Phil Collins Beatles
1 2 3 4 5
Shut Up and Dance Can’t Stop the Feeling I Gotta Feeling Cupid Shuffle September
Walk The Moon Justin Timberlake Black Eyed Peas Cupid Earth, Wind & Fire
1 2 3 4 5
Single Ladies (Put a Ring on It) Dear Future Husband Man! I Feel Like a Woman! Girls Just Wanna Have Fun Where Them Girls At
Beyoncé Meghan Trainor Shania Twain Cyndi Lauper David Guetta feat. Flo Rida & Nicki Minaj
Can’t Stop The Feeling! Marry You I Gotta Feeling Bring ‘Em Out Forever
1 2 3 4 5
Closing Time Don’t Stop Believin’ (I’ve Had) The Time Of My Life Sweet Caroline Friends in Low Places
Pony Another One Bites the Dust Let’s Get It On Hot In Herre Danger Zone
Ginuwine Queen Marvin Gaye Nelly Kenny Loggins
1 2 3 4 5
My Girl Why Don’t We Just Dance If I Had $1,000,000 Isn’t She Lovely I Don’t Want to Miss a Thing
Temptations Josh Turner Barenaked Ladies Stevie Wonder Aerosmith
CEREMONY PROCESSIONAL 1 2 3 4 5
Marry Me Canon in D A Thousand Years A Thousand Years (Instrumental) Can’t Help Falling in Love
Train Pachelbel Christina Perri The Piano Guys Haley Reinhart
CEREMONY RECESSIONAL 1 2 3 4 5 6
Signed, Sealed, Delivered I’m Yours Best Day of My Life You Are The Best Thing This Will Be (An Everlasting Love) You Make My Dreams Come True
Stevie Wonder American Authors Ray LaMontagne Natalie Cole Hall & Oates
CEREMONY 1 2 3 4 5 6
Marry Me A Thousand Years Marry You Signed, Sealed Delivered I’m Yours Best Day of My Life
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Semisonic Journey Medley, Bill & Jennifer Warnes Neil Diamond Garth Brooks
MONEY DANCE
GARTER TOSS 1 2 3 4 5
Justin Timberlake Bruno Mars Black Eyed Peas T.I. Feat. Jay-Z Chris Brown
LAST DANCE
BOUQUET TOSS 1 2 3 4 5
Maroon 5 James Taylor Archies Dance Def Leppard
INTRODUCTIONS
WEDDING PARTY DANCE 1 2 3 4 5
Sugar How Sweet It Is Sugar, Sugar Cake By The Ocean Pour Some Sugar On Me
Train Christina Perri Bruno Mars Stevie Wonder American Authors
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Thank you so much for doing such a wonderful job at our wedding! We thoroughly enjoyed your performance, but more importantly, our guests loved your style, music choices & Sound Levels! We are so glad we chose you to be our DJ! Amy and Jim Thank you! And thank you for the awesome night! Your DJing and PhotoBooth were the highlight of the night for us and for all our guests. Everyone complimented what a great job you did and we could not be more thrilled to have had you as our DJ. Thank you again, it was truly perfect working with you! Abbey and Daniel
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THANK YOU FOR HE AMAZING JOB YOU DID A OUR WEDDING! THE NIGH WAS WONDERFUL AND EVERYONE ENJOYED HEMSELVES! THE MUSIC SELECION WAS EXACLY WHA WE HAD HOPED FOR AND HE HOOOOH WAS A BLAS. E LOVED ALL HE PHOOS YOU SEN US! OU MADE HE NIGH ONE WE WILL NEVER FORGE. E WILL DEFINIELY RECOMMEND YOU O OUR FRIENDS. THANKS AGAIN! KACI & JOE
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Thank you so much for being at our wedding reception! You were great and we had a blast at our reception! You played such a wide variety of music… we loved it! Many people gave compliments regarding your skills and how great the music was! Thank you for being such an important part of our wedding day! You helped make our day so special! Josh and Jocelyn We’d like to express how impressed we were with how you djayed our wedding and ran the PhotoBooth. Our guests had a great time and our Wedding Day was better than we imagined with everything you provided. I will highly recommend your services to all my family & friends! Thank You! Dani and Adam
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SOUTHEAST WISCONSIN
Marriage Laws OFFICE OF THE COUNTY CLERK • Apply in County in which either is a resident. License may be used anywhere in the state. • Both must apply in person. Certified birth certificate is required. • Proof of residence is required. (drivers license, utility bill, etc.) • Apply no later than 8 working days (Milwaukee County), 6 working days (Ozaukee, Racine, Kenosha, Waukesha Counties) prior to wedding date — two weeks prior is recommended. • Non-residents (both out-of-state) must apply in the county they will be married. License will only be valid in that county. • Each party must provide the Clerk’s office with their social security card. • License is valid 30 days from date issued. • Legal age is 18. If younger, you must bring a certified consent form (available at the Office of the County Clerk) from both parents or legal guardian. • If divorced, copy of judgement of divorce, court annulment or death certificate. 6 month waiting period. • Most counties require name, address and phone number of the person performing the ceremony. Location and date may also be required. • Some counties require documents not in English be translated and notarized. Please Note: State and county marriage license requirements often change. The above information is for guidance only and should not be regarded as legal advice. It is important that you verify all information before making any wedding or travel plans.
COUNTY FEES
(CASH ONLY, NO REFUNDS)
Jefferson Kenosha Milwaukee Ozaukee
$90 $100 $110 $100
Racine Walworth Washington Waukesha
$100 $80 $110 $110
JEFFERSON Office of the Clerk Courthouse 311 S. Center Ave., Rm 109 Jefferson, WI 53549 (920) 674-7140 co.jefferson.wi.us
RACINE Racine Courthouse 730 Wisconsin Ave., 1st Fl. Racine, WI 53403 (262) 636-3121 (800) 242-4202 co.racine.wi.us
KENOSHA County Admin. Bldg. 1010 56th St. Kenosha, WI 53140 (262) 653-2552 co.kenosha.wi.us
WALWORTH Office of the Clerk Walworth Government Ctr. 100 W. Walworth St., Rm 101 Elkhorn, WI 53121 (262) 741-4241 co.walworth.wi.us
MILWAUKEE Courthouse 901 N. 9th St., Rm 105 Milwaukee, WI 53233 (414) 278-4070 milwaukee.org OZAUKEE Administration Bldg. 121 W. Main St., Rm 128 Port Washington, WI 53074 (262) 284-8110 co.ozaukee.wi.us
WASHINGTON Office of the Clerk 432 E. Washington St., Rm 2027 West Bend, WI 53095 (262) 335-4301 (262) 335-4735 co.washington.wi.us WAUKESHA 1320 Pewaukee Rd., Rm 120 Administration Bldg. Waukesha, WI 53188 (262) 548-7010 waukeshacounty.gov
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A wedding is just one day, so everyone knows photos are a great way of capturing the excitement and emotion for years to come. The professional photographer usually does a great job of snapping the couple, but pics of your friends and family members celebrating with you will be great mementos going forward. 
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PHOTO BOOTHS
Selecting a Photo Booth ASK THE RIGHT QUESTIONS! • What exactly is included in your package price? Props? Color choice? Personal message? Travel Charge? • What does it look like, what are the space requirements and when should it be on? • Will there be an attendant present the entire time? • Do you use a high quality printer and photo paper? • What are the payment and cancellation policies? • Are there any current promotions or discounts available? • When will you setup and breakdown? • How many people can fit into the Photo Booth? • Have you worked at my venue before? Do you provide references? • Is there a limit on the number of pictures taken or printed? • Is the Photo Booth handicap accessible? • Do you offer any additional services or products such as a memory book/scrapbook? PremierBrideMKE.com PREMIER BRIDE • 183
PHOTO BOOTHS
FUN WITH PHOTO BOOTHS
capturing the excitement and emotion of your guests A wedding is just one day, so everyone
booth setting, with the four black and white
knows photos are a great way of capturing
prints on one single strand. This is a great
the excitement and emotion for years to
way to give guests a souvenir right away,
come. The professional photographer usually
especially because it’s a unique type of print.
does a great job of snapping the couple, but
Other photo booths just continuously shoot
pics of your friends and family members
throughout the night, and provide the couple
celebrating with you will be great mementos
with a digital record of all the shots taken.
going forward.
Then, guests could go to an online database
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them at their own convenience. The newest innovation in photo booths is a flip book which is more interactive and involves a true keepsake for everyone. With a flip book, a representative from the company is on hand acting as kind of a minidirector encouraging guests to perform skits or don playful costumes. At the end, it’s put together into a video and everyone receives a copy. One fun way to really spice up the photos is to supply props like goofy hats, accessories, or fake mustaches for guests to
disposable cameras at tables for guests to
poke around with. A chalkboard or dry erase
point and shoot, but the chance in finding a
board is also fun so family and friends can
gem amongst those blurry, low-quality shots
doodle a special message or sentiment and
is rare, especially when kids get their hands
capture it on film. A giant, decorative frame
on them. Plus, the cost of developing film is
is another fun prop to create the picture-
going up steadily.
within-a-picture look.
Instead, a fun, plucky alternative can be to
When deciding on a rental, choose one
get a photo booth. Photo booth rentals are
where you can really customize it, if you’d
becoming popular at wedding receptions.
like. You could ask for the background to be
Not only do you get too see everyone in
matching the colors of the wedding, or add
their finest for your big day, but your guests
your names or the date to a sign at the top of
can take home a quality memory from the
the photo. But no matter how basic it is, your
wedding.
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Now’s your chance to vogue! Unleash your inner model as an extra on the set of our next photo shoot.
MODEL FOR A DAY
Set sail for the Seven Seas restaurant in Delafield! Your party of four will bask in an evening on the shores of the lovely Lake Nagawicka with a delicious small plates & wine tasting.
WINE NOT?
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A GETAWAY FIT FOR A KING
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WEDDING SPOTLIGHT
BON VOYAGE!
YOUR BEST HEADSHOT!
Luxe accommodations turn a nearby overnight stay into a trip to be forever treasured. Let Hotel Goodwin treat you and your sweetie to a night away in a Classic King room at downtown Beloit’s boutique gem!
MAKE A SPLASH
Enjoy an overnight getaway at The Ingleside Hotel in an Executive Suite with 6 Water Park Passes. With over 45,000 square feet of indoor Water Park fun and the newly remodeled hotel, there is sure to be something for everyone.
ROMANTIC STAY & DREAMY DUVET
Cozy up with an overnight stay at the Sheraton Milwaukee Brookfield, including dinner for two and champagne. Plus, get a Sheraton Signature Duvet delivered to your home!
An overnight stay in the luxurious pool suite, two plush robes to keep, a bottle of bubbly, and chocolatecovered strawberries - it’s all waiting for one lucky couple at the Sybaris!
Honeymoon on the horizon? Pack your new luggage, pop your passport in a super-safe passport protector, and jet off to see the world with these and other surprises from Latitudes Travel.
BREWS & BITES
Enjoy a private informational, interactive, brewery tour with Master Brewer John Harrison. Sip on a pint while you discover what makes our brewery unique, followed by Chef paired small plates and fresh craft brews for four.
Stay overnight at the Delafield Hotel! Bask in a luxurious Classic Suite with cozy furnishings, a kingsize bed, rain shower & spa tub. Dine at the hotel’s I.D. restaurant & bar with a $150 gift card.
What makes your romance and your wedding unique? Let us share your story and select photos from your wedding day as a “Real Wedding” feature in the next issue of Premier Bride!
What do you say to a makeover and your best headshot ever?! Start the day with hair & makeup, then get ready for your photo close-up - all courtesy of Halo.
HOLE IN ONE
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WASHINGTON COUNTY Just a few minutes north of Milwaukee, Washington County a great alternative to the big city. Quaint downtowns with restaurants and shopping along with tremendous parks, trails and open green spaces galore.
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WASHINGTON COUNTY
A beautiful touch at an affordable price. Chair Covers, Linens, Pipe/Drape, Unique Treats, Floral/Centerpieces
Weddings at The Bog TWO beautiful event spaces, ONE convenient location
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RESTORATION DRAMA something old and new
Maybe it was your mother’s or even your
Professionally Servicing Brides for Over 50 Years!
grandmother’s wedding gown. Maybe you’ve simply gone in for a vintage dress. Either way, your gown’s not quite tip-top, and it needs a
BRIDAL
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little TLC before the wedding. Even a damaged or neglected gown can be restored or restyled if you invest in the services of a professional who specializes in the care of bridal fabrics. Once you find a restorer, discuss tears, beverage and perspiration stains, and yellowing to decide if the restoration will be to your satisfaction. Color changes can be miraculous, and replacement fabric can often be found to match the original. If you’re trying to create a truly vintage look, then make sure your designer is familiar with the period you’re trying to emulate, or at least is conscientious enough to do the research in order to make any alterations or additions look authentic. After the wedding, whether you wore a new gown or an heirloom, arrange to return it to a gown specialist for cleaning and preserving. Even if you escaped the red-wine trauma, perspiration and other obscure stains will make their mark and become embedded in a matter of weeks. A professional will find stains, know what caused them, remove them without damage and guarantee the work and your gown for the next generation even if you open up your gown preservation box at home. Somewhere in your future there may be a friend or a relative who will appreciate the “something old” you offer her when she re-enacts your restoration drama at her wedding.
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Hire makeup artists and hair stylists to come to you, as you get ready in the location of your choice, making beautification fun and convenient. Plus, it’s ideal for navigating any last-minute beauty emergencies.
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Hello Gorgeous! BEAUTY & STYLE
On your wedding day, it’s all eyes on the bride. You’ll have that once-in-a-lifetime bridal glow, the groom’s jaw will drop, and swooning guests will whisper midceremony, “Isn’t she lovely?” Combine your own unique sense of style with a few tricks of the beauty trade and you’ll be ready for adoring gazes and photos galore.4
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BEAUTY HELLO GORGEOUS! From makeup to hair to nails, every blushing bride,
mother-of-the
bride/groom
and
makeup artists and cosmetologists may not be licensed to.
bridesmaid wants to look their absolute best on
Each of these beauty professionals — whether in
the day of the wedding. We’ve got tips for the
the weeks and months leading up to your wedding,
day itself and beautification plans to implement
or on the wedding day itself — can help you look
months before the big day.
your best. Not only is it their job to help you become the most polished version of yourself, but it’s also
BEAUTY 101
one simple way to shorten your list of wedding-
What’s the difference between a makeup artist,
cosmetologist,
and
esthetician?
day worries! A cosmetologist or esthetician can
A
recommend the best pre-wedding treatments for
makeup artist is the person a bride turns to
you, and a makeup artist will know trade secrets
on the day of her wedding, enhancing her own
not only for fashioning a longer-lasting look, but
natural beauty. Cosmetologists do makeup,
also for accentuating your features.
as well as, sometimes, skincare, nail care, and
A great hairstylist can help you create a look
hair styling. Manicures and facials fall in the
that complements your facial features, headpiece,
realm of cosmetology. Estheticians take things
and veil — and do so in a way designed to stay set
one step further. They perform services such
through the last dance. When you go pro, the end
as skincare treatments and hair removal that
result is a relaxed, picture-perfect bride.
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For full-body beautification, body waxing
A great time to focus on healthy, glowing skin is
is a good place to start. This is one of the
when your wedding is still months away. If you’re
longest-lasting forms of hair removal. To take
concerned about the health and appearance of
beautification to the next level, consider Botox,
your skin, consider a visit to a dermatologist, for
injection therapy, and face or body tightening.
bigger problems, or an esthetician, for minor
These treatments are designed to help you look
issues. Depending on the severity of your skin
and feel your best, without the pain and recovery
problems, start six to 12 months before your
time of surgical procedures.
wedding day so you have time to treat, heal, and achieve good results.
If you’re of the opinion that a white gown’s best accessory is sun-kissed skin, you’re not alone. But
Facials are a must for all skin types. Facial
before hitting the tanning beds or getting a spray-
treatments use deep cleansing, masks, and
tan, consider that it’s so easy to come away from the
exfoliation to penetrate deep into the skin, killing
tanning salon looking either beet red or pumpkin
blemish-causing bacteria, rebalancing the skin’s
orange. You’d be better off embracing your skin’s
hormonal system, and stimulating circulation.
natural coloring and dressing up your white gown with
Regular treatments result in refined pores,
accessories in colors that flatter your complexion,
smoother facial lines, healed blemishes, and a
such as jewel-toned earrings, a vibrant floral wreath,
more radiant complexion.
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414•336•9846 HELLO GORGEOUS! HAIR DO’S AND DON’TS
An updo is a classic way to go and is ideal for
When choosing a hairstyle, consider your
showing off a dramatic neckline. If you’re a trendy
gown, the formality of your wedding, your
girl, try braids, hair extensions, or a tousled
personal style, your hair type and texture, and
bohemian look. Just be cautious of overly-trendy
your face shape. Generally speaking, if your gown
styles, as you risk looking back at your photos
is elaborate, opt for a simpler hairstyle to avoid
and saying “What was I thinking?!”
looking overdone.
If you’re considering any drastic changes to your hairstyle, make the change at least a couple of months before the wedding. That way, if you don’t like it, you have plenty of time to make changes or figure out how to style it to your best advantage. Consult your hair stylist four to six weeks
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before the wedding to find the right look for you, and be sure to show the stylist a photo of your gown. In the end, the most important thing is finding a hairstyle that stays true to you.
MAKEUP MUSTS Whether you hire a pro to do your makeup, have a friend do it, or do it yourself, do a trial run before the wedding. In addition to looking in the mirror and getting feedback from close friends and family, take photos and evaluate. Now is the time to practice, not on the day of your wedding! Keep the makeup on throughout the trial day and see how it lasts. How does it look at two, five, and even eight hours later? Is it easy enough to touch up? This is another time you want to be sure you look like you. Your partner fell in love with 196 • PREMIER BRIDE PremierBrideMKE.com
BEAUTY HELLO GORGEOUS! your beautiful face and would never want you
off your moves on the dance floor which is a
to cover it up! But you can still have fun with
recipe for your own natural color.
it and pamper yourself. Define your eyebrows with a pencil and try fake eyelashes so that
NAILS AND BROWS
your eyes really pop in photos. Highlight
Regular manicures in the one or two months
key places, try a bold lip color, or use a
before your wedding day will get your nails in
primer under your foundation, lipstick, and
perfect shape. As a rule, it’s best to avoid really
eyeshadow so that it lasts longer. Whatever
trendy nail polish colors. Play it safe and go with
you do, wear waterproof mascara to fend off
a classic, neutral color.
any streaks from tears of joy.
Have your eyebrows professionally shaped at least two weeks before the wedding. Some
MAKEUP MUST-NOTS
people may experience a red, rash-like reaction,
Don’t go too light with your makeup as you’ll
so doing this early enough gives you time to
look pale and washed out in photos. Also don’t
recover if it happens to you. You will probably
go too dark as it will be distracting, and you want
need to clean up your brows a day or two before
your groom and guests to see you and not your
the wedding with a tweezers.
caked-on makeup. Don’t overdo the blush. You’ll be emotional, happy, nervous, busy, and showing
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family. Start with the groom’s mother, it’s
and habits of your in-laws are completely
usually easier to find things to do with another
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be
woman. Try going shopping together or eating
overwhelming or confusing until you get your
lunch together to get to know one another
bearings. This can be exceptionally true if
throughout the day. By the end of the day you
you’re marrying someone who is from another
should be acquainted and get the jist of what
country or has a different cultural background.
his mom is like. For the father, take a little time
Don’t panic! Sometimes different is good!
to chat with him about his son (good things)
from
your
own.
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can
Before the wedding, it is important to get
and usually it will get a father started on funny
acquainted with the groom’s family if you
stories about the groom. Fathers aren’t usually
don’t already know them. The same is true
too difficult to bond with. They don’t talk as
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BEAUTY INTRODUCING THE IN-LAWS much and won’t be as interested in your life’s history as the mother will. This isn’t a bad thing either. She just wants to get to know you. Another mother’s favorite is embarrassing stories and photos. Ask her about them and I’m sure you will receive a wealth of funny stories. Share some of your goofy moments too. These things will help you bond with the groom’s side of the family as well as show his family how much you love him and care about him. If he hasn’t met your side of the family then I’m certain you’re nervous. Everyone thinks his/her family is composed of circus freaks. You aren’t alone. Don’t worry too much; just brace yourself for the same things you received during the visit with his side of the family. Embarrassing stories from your mom and jokes from your dad. Give him time to meet with members of your family without being bombarded. Sometimes we have to preoccupy family members and keep them entertained to avoid playing a million questions. Again, don’t worry. Everyone will get to know one another soon. He will probably bond with your dad more easily than your mom since men prefer to talk less and don’t usually delve too far into details. If you have any siblings, I’m sure they’re protective of you, too, and want to make sure you will be well taken care of. Sit down with your groom and your siblings and just monitor the conversation and hope they don’t embarrass you as much as your mom. In all honesty, meeting the families is all about
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wedding attire and bring fabric or color
weddings, lighter colors (tan, light grey,
swatches from the bridesmaids’ gowns. Pictures
white) look effortlessly handsome. Though
of preferred formalwear styles would also be
in all climates, darker colors (navy, charcoal,
helpful. Nowadays, rental suits come in various
black) always look sharp. Ties, vests, and
fits: classic, modern, and slim. But buying your
cummerbunds can match the wedding colors,
formalwear promises custom tailoring and the
or compliment them with neutral tones. If the
best fit. Fit is key to looking your best.
bridal gown is ivory, the men should wear ivory shirts, not white, to compliment her.
Out-of-town groomsmen can get measured at any formalwear store or local tailor’s near
Semiformal and formal wedding styles vary, so a groom should work with a formalwear
them, and send their measurements to the groom or to your formalwear store.
consultant to get the right look for his
Someone should be designated to return
wedding’s level of formality. The most formal
all formalwear to the store on time in order to
look is “white tie,” calling for a traditional black
avoid late fees, which can get quite expensive
tux with tails, a vest, a white winged-collar
adding up the per day, per outfit costs.
shirt, and bow tie.
While there are etiquette guidelines for
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Do’s & Don’ts 5 DO remember your guests with small children. Ask your reception site manager if there is a small room or play area near the festivities that you can rent. Hire a professional babysitting service to take care of the kids. Parents will appreciate your consideration and be able to relax and enjoy your reception knowing they are close to their children.
1 DO take advantage of Internet technology. There are many sites dedicated to wedding planning that offer a wealth of information at your fingertips. Coordinate with vendors, make and confirm reservations, create a Pinterest account to save your favorite images and ideas. (Visit our website at PremierBride.com for trusted local vendors).
6 DO remember when purchasing a gown to be realistic about your expectations for losing weight. A gown can always be taken in, but rarely can it be let out without leaving stitch marks for all to see.
2 DO create a separate email address and use it for everything you sign up for during the planning process. You’ll enjoy getting special offers and information but can delete the address after your wedding date.
3 DON’T forget to pamper yourself. Treat your mom and maids the day before the wedding with an afternoon at the spa. You’ll have the time of your life enjoying facials, massages, manicures and pedicures. It will make you feel more relaxed and beautiful.
4 DO contact the church or synagogue where you will perform your ceremony and ask about any rules or guidelines regarding music. Some churches require that you use their organist. 208 • PREMIER BRIDE PremierBrideMKE.com
7 DON’T forget to involve stepparents in your ceremony in some way; perhaps a reading during your ceremony or an invocation before dinner.
8 DO consider table visits during your reception. It is a grand display of appreciation and respect when the bride and groom spend a few moments visiting their guests at each table.
9 DON’T seat older guests near the band or the speakers as it may be hard for them to hear anything else.
10 DO consider decorating chairs in a new way such as black, silver, white or traditional gold. Transform an ordinary room or site into a ballroom. Chair covers completely change the look of your reception.
11 DON’T forget to discuss black and white and sepia tone images with your photographer. This classic style is dramatic and remains popular.
12 DO remember that the hour of the ceremony is an indicator of the formality of the reception.
13 DO consider having your entire wedding at a full-service hotel. The convenience of having the ceremony, reception and guest lodging in one place is incomparable, especially for a complicated event.
14 To get your skin in shape for your wedding day, DON’T forget to start six months prior to your wedding and practice make-up techniques.
15 When renting a stretch limo, DO remember that it can usually seat up to 10 people, but fewer when the bride’s gown and train and the bridesmaid’s dresses are factored in to the equation.
16 DON’T forget that the best way to let people know where you are registered is to have family and friends spread the word. Although it’s impolite to mention the registry on wedding invitations, a hostess may do so on shower invitations.
17 DO remember to return rental items on time and undamaged.
18 DO select the ceremony and reception locations nine to 12 months before your wedding. If you’re getting married in popular months like May or June, select these locations as soon as possible.
19 DO make finding the right caterer and baker a priority. Great food is critical to the wedding celebration. Interviews and tastings are a must.
20 DON’T waste time getting to your reception. Have photos of the wedding party taken before the ceremony.
21 DO reserve your photographer nine to 12 months before your wedding. Decide which shots you definitely want and which ones you can live without.
22 DON’T forget to send an invitation to your officiant and to all of your wedding party.
23 DO pick up your invitation envelopes as soon as possible so that you can begin addressing them.
24 DO consider having two bouquets, one to keep and one to throw.
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You Have Arrived! TRAVELING ON YOUR WEDDING DAY From your home to the ceremony to photo locations to the reception and beyond, it’s fitting that the bride, groom, and bridal party travel in style. Some opt for limos and other luxury vehicles, others take a turn on the trolley, and some go by golf cart. There are lots of fun, fashionable ways to get from here to there on your wedding day. Here are some ideas.4
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vehicle, or is the entire wedding party heading to the reception together? If the whole party is going, do you want to include their spouses or dates? What about each couple’s parents? Once you make those decisions, you can start searching for transport based on size and safety.
LIMO LIFE If there is a day to splurge on this iconic luxury formal limousine seats four people. Or, if you’d
3. JUST IN CASE Q
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like to include the wedding party, stretch limos can allow for six to 10. For larger parties, sport utility models like the Hummer and Explorer are popular and unique both inside and out. The larger models are often posh, with flashy lights and decorative interiors.
CATCH THE COACH For larger wedding parties or for those that want a little extra elbow room, a party bus or a luxury coach is a great way to travel from the ceremony to the reception. These boast all the amenities and style of a luxury limousine, but with more room to spare; they seat up to 10 people very comfortably. For even bigger parties, a passenger coach or a party bus can seat anywhere from 21 to 49 people.
TAKE THE TROLLEY A trolley is a fun and photo-ready option. Trolleys generally can accommodate between
BECAUSE IT’S BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY ON YOUR WEDDING DAY
20 and 35 people. With their old world charm, they’ll lend a timeless touch to this wedding day detail.
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TRANSPORTATION TRAVELLING ON YOUR WEDDING DAY UNIQUE IDEAS Limos, party buses and trolleys are fabulous, traditional options, but some couples might opt for something more personal or creative. A horse-drawn carriage or vintage car brings
• Have a point person. Weddings are busy, chaotic days, so it’s wise to have someone closely associated with the wedding party, such as the best man or a family member, designated to coordinate with the chauffeur to make sure everything is on schedule.
a dash of romance — and a unique photo op! Transportation could also be an opportunity to add a truly personal touch. Maybe you met
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at a Harley rally — rev up your twin Hogs! Or
Confirm transportation booking and verify
maybe you share a love of biking — wheel over
pick-up and departure times well in advance of
on a tandem. If it’s possible to reflect your own
your wedding dates. In a written contract, look
personality in your transportation, go for it!
for things like: Name & contact information for you and the company, the date/time and
TIPS & TRICKS
address for all pick-up and drop-off locations,
• Customize your playlist! Ask how the sound system works in your limo or party bus and pump up the jams.
the type and number of vehicles and any
• Pack liquid refreshments that won’t stain.
amount & cancellation policy.
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BACHELOR(ETTE) PARTIES
LAST CELEBRATION of singlehood
The bachelor(ette) party celebrates the end of
plan your event. Professional staffs of waitresses,
singlehood and includes the wedding party and
bartenders and anyone else you might need can
same-sex friends of the bride or groom.
even be provided.
Renting a room in a restaurant or hotel allows
A
home
party
might
feature
diverse
guests to fully enjoy themselves. It also makes
entertainment. For example, a comedy gram
planning easy since an experienced staff handles
or some other entertainment is an option and
most of the food arrangements and cleanup.
it can be catered with prepared party trays. A
Bridal showers and bachelorette parties can
bachelorette party can even take the form of a
also be combined into one event, especially if the
shower featuring lingerie, gag gifts or items to be
same group of friends will be attending both. If a
used on the honeymoon.
night of barhopping is the choice, then it’s a good
Bachelor and bachelorette parties are best
idea to treat yourself to a limousine ride for both
held a week before the wedding and not the
elegance and safety.
night before. The most important thing is to be
Consider having your bachelor(ette) party at a
sure that the event suits the style of the guest of
casino. A professional staff and dealers, gaming
honor. Finally, remember to preserve the evening
tables and equipment can even be brought to
in pictures. You will want to have these memories
YOUR location. Casinos offer assistants to help
long after the party is over.
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BACHELOR(ETTE) PARTIES
BACHELOR (ETTE) PARTIES take on a new look
If you think you know all about these traditional events, think again! Bachelor and bachelorette parties are about friends getting together, sharing old stories and, perhaps, creating some new memories. A weekend immersed in an outdoor adventure with plenty of time before and after for fine dining and visits to the local pubs is a great way to do just that! Adventures include white water rafting, cattle drives, deep sea fishing, ATV desert rides, sky diving … well you get the idea. The adventure also can be adjusted to fit the skill level of the group. The adventure bachelor parties give the best man, who didn’t take “Party Planning 101,” a chance to sign up the group and then relax. From the time the groomsmen arrive at the destination city until they depart, everything is planned out, orchestrated and included in the modest pricing. Choosing a destination close to home, within driving distance, or at a mid point that is convenient to all members, is a plus. Too often out of town guys must make two costly trips to the wedding city. The same concepts and advantages apply for the gals.
The questions you or your fiancé need to be thinking about are: 1. How many people are involved and where are they coming from? 2. What type of adventure is appropriate? 3. What is our price range, considering all the members of the group? 4. How much time is there to schedule the event? 5. How do I learn more?
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Among the toasters and food processors
FIGURE YOUR NET WORTH. You can’t decide where
you’ll receive as gifts, you may find a few
to go until you’ve measured where you are. So
envelopes filled with good wishes, cash and
add up the value of everything you own. Now,
checks. Though it’s tempting to imagine
subtract from that everything you owe. That’s
spending the money, it’s also important to
your net worth.
get your finances in order to assure lifelong security. While some believe the best gifts lie in those envelopes, you have probably noticed
DETERMINE YOUR FINANCIAL GOALS. What are your dreams? Where do you plan to be financially in five, 10 or 15 years? Create a safety net, such as insurance, to protect against the unexpected.
that monetary gifts are the only ones that
PLAN A STRATEGY TO REACH YOUR GOALS. What’s
don’t come with instructions. Emptying those
it going to take to reach your goals? Seek out
envelopes into the most prudent method of
a financial planner to help advise you of your
cash management isn’t really that complicated
options. Many professionals will even provide a
or time consuming. Not only is it vital for the
free initial consultation.
married couple, but it’s critical that newlyweds
Be sure to learn as much as possible. It’s
get their “financial houses” in order to assure
important that you start out on the right foot and
lifelong financial security.
that begins with making informed decisions.
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Fly Me to the ‘Moon MAKING THE MOST OF YOUR HONEYMOON With the whirlwind of planning and parties behind you, it’s time to get away! From the planning stages to the trip itself, here are some of our best honeymoon ideas and advice.4
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HONEYMOON FLY ME TO THE ‘MOON WHEN TO TRAVEL Although,
historically,
the
honeymoon
immediately follows the wedding, that’s not always the case these days. More and more
WHERE YOUR DESTINATION BEGINS.
couples are waiting to take a honeymoon until the excitement of the wedding has died down. Because of everything from weather to budget, some people honeymoon a month after the big day while others celebrate with a trip for their first anniversary, and everything in between.
GO TROPICAL You can’t beat a fruity umbrella-clad drink and romantic walks along the beach. Even for the most active of couples, your honeymoon is one time when it’s okay to sit back and be pampered. If you choose a tropical destination, an all-inclusive resort is a most relaxing way
PLANNING YOUR
destination wedding Some of the world’s most beautiful wedding and reception venues, photo opportunities, and luxe accommodations can be found far from home, but destination weddings come with special planning challenges.
12 MONTHS BEFORE • choose date & venue • contact venue’s on-site wedding coordinator • research airfare & room rates for your destination • review legal marriage requirements
6 MONTHS BEFORE • reserve block of rooms • book travel • book officiant • purchase travel & wedding insurance • confirm cake, flowers, menu, & decor
9 MONTHS BEFORE • visit resort • tour venue & guest rooms • ask about group discounts • send out save-the-dates & hotel info
3 MONTHS BEFORE • send formal invitations • create wedding day itinerary for your programs
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1 MONTH BEFORE • discuss final details with wedding coordinator • finalize vows, music, & schedule • release any extra rooms from your room blocks • have programs printed & obtain additional wedding favors & ship to resort
2 WEEKS BEFORE • make sure you have proper documentation to obtain marriage license • collect all insurance related documents 1 WEEK BEFORE • create a photo shot list for your photographer • share contact info with wedding party • final check with coordinator
HONEYMOON
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FLY ME TO THE ‘MOON to go, and most places offer a honeymoon
to learn that there’s a quaint bed & breakfast just
package.
a few miles away or a majestic state park where you can camp out under the stars. Turn off your
ALL ABROAD! A trip abroad is an adventure and a chance
cell phones and focus on each other. It will seem as if you’re lightyears away.
to get caught up in a rush of new ideas and cultures. However, if you’ve never been
TAKE A CRUISE
abroad before, make sure this is an experience
If you can’t decide on a destination, a cruise
you’re both fully committed to. Planning an
might be for you. It’s the best of both worlds!
international trip for the first time can be
If you want to see Europe, but you’ve never
stressful. But if you’re up to the challenge, the
been and don’t have time to plan a trip, try a
result can be a most romantic, unforgettable
Mediterranean cruise. If you know you want to
experience.
go tropical but can’t decide on a spot, island hop on a Caribbean cruise. And if you can’t
STAYING LOCAL
decide whether you want to relax or be active,
If you don’t have the funds for a plane ticket
a cruise offers the chance to do both. Plus,
abroad or can’t get away for a long trip, consider
meals, drinks, and entertainment are right
what’s close to home. You’ll probably be surprised
outside your cabin door!
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HONEYMOON FLY ME TO THE ‘MOON PLAN AND PREP Here are some things to think about, especially if you’ve never traveled to your honeymoon spot
honeymoon
CHECKLIST
before. DIFFERENT CUSTOMS. If you’re traveling abroad, do your research. Find out if there are gestures that are deemed inappropriate, actions that are considered rude, or types of dress that are unacceptable to the local community. Tipping customs vary from country to country, so find out what percentage to tip and when to do so. LANGUAGE. Learn some key phrases and pick up a pocket-sized dictionary or phrase book.
carry on Q Flight confirmation
Q Camera
Q Hotel Confirmation
Q Sunglasses
Q ID (passport and driver's Q Lip balm
license)
Q Credit Cards Q Cash Q Phone
WEATHER. Find out the average high and low temps for the time of year you’re traveling, and be prepared for rain or shine.
Q Gum/Snacks Q Chargers Q Headphones
for the bride Q Bra/underwear/socks
Q Light jacket or cardigan
Q Bathing suit
Q Sandals
wedding and a honeymoon all at once. Luckily,
Q Shorts
Q Sneakers
registry sites now allow couples to register for
Q Tops
Q Heels
Q Jeans
Q Tampons/pads
Q Nice dinner dress
Q Makeup
Q Sundress
Q Skincare
Q Lingerie
Q Jewelry
Q Pajamas
Q Hair tools
BUDGETING. It can be tough to budget for a
monetary gifts that go toward your honeymoon.
WORK WITH A TRAVEL AGENT You have enough planning on your plate with the wedding so leave your travel planning to a professional! The cost to you is generally
for the groom
zero, or very minimal, and an experienced
Q Boxers/socks
Q Suit
agent will save you so much time and greatly
Q Bathing suit
Q Belt
Q Shorts
Q Pajamas
Q Tops
Q Flip Flops
Q Jeans
Q Sneakers
Q Nice shirt for dinner
Q Dress Shoes
reduce your stress. If anything goes wrong (cancelled flight, lost reservation, etc.), your travel agent is just a phone call away.
DESTINATION WEDDINGS A
destination
wedding
might
be
an
toiletries Q Body wash
Q Q-tips
elopement for just the bride and groom or
Q Shampoo/conditioner
Q Hair ties
a small affair that includes immediate family
Q Toothpaste/toothbrush
Q Nail clippers/file
Q Razors
Q Brush
Q Contacts/solution
Q Deodorant
Q Glasses
Q First aid kit
Q Vitamins/medication
Q Sunscreen
and friends. Either way, destination weddings are a fun escape and an unforgettable experience - a wedding and honeymoon all rolled into one!
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MAKE-UP AND HAIR INVITATIONS CEREMONY, RECEPTION, CATERING, BARTENDING CAKE DESIGNER/DESSERT FLOWERS MUSIC/ENTERTAINMENT
PHOTOGRAPHER, PHOTO BOOTH, VIDEO GOWN
FORMALWEAR RINGS
A.SamaraBeauty Basicinvite.com The Golden Mast Inn, Okauchee Simma’s Bakery Pick & Save Floral Ceremony: Gabriel’s Horns Reception: Complete Weddings Complete Weddings Sottero & Midgley Addison from Amelishan Bridal Joseph A. Bank Roger & Hollands
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tip
PB
BRIDAL SHOW TIP Don’t go to a bridal show alone! You need others’ objective opinions and perhaps some physical help carrying around the many things you will inevitably pick up.
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2020-21 BRIDAL SHOWS for Milwaukee and Southeast Wisconsin
something old REPRESENTS CONTINUITY
something new OPTIMISM FOR THE FUTURE
something borrowed BORROWED HAPPINESS
something blue PURITY, LOVE, & FIDELITY
silver sixpence in her shoe A WISH FOR GOOD FORTUNE AND PROSPERITY
REGISTRY ITEMS YOU MAY NOT HAVE THOUGHT OF
SEPTEMBER 20, 2020
BRIDAL EXPO
Brookfield Sheraton 10:30am-4pm For Free Tickets Call: 414-427-4325 bridalexpomilwaukee.com SEE PGS 16-17 & 232
SEPTEMBER 2020 (PENDING)
DISCOVER LAKE GENEVA BRIDAL SHOWCASE Riviera Docks, Lake Geneva
OCTOBER 11, 2020
HASHTAG WEDDING MILWAUKEE BRIDAL SHOW
Sixth Floor, 176 W Wisconsin Ave - MKE 1pm-4pm allevents.in/milwaukee/hashtag-weddingmilwaukee-bridal-show/200019916781911
OCTOBER 17, 2020 (PENDING)
EVERGREEN COUNTRY CLUB
Elkhorn - 5pm-7:30pm 262-723-5722 x 110 - Evergreengolf.com
NOVEMBER 8, 2020
BRIDAL EXPO
sports items XXL
XXL
luggage
Brookfield Sheraton, 10:30am-4pm For Free Tickets Call: 414-427-4325 bridalexpomilwaukee.com SEE PGS 16-17 & 232
hangers yard items
NOVEMBER 13, 2020 (DETAILS PENDING) tools
ALFA FLOWER & WEDDING SHOP BRIDAL OPEN HOUSE Alfa Flower and Wedding Shop Call for up-to-date details 414-545-5858, alfawedding.com
kitchen table
sheets
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RD
ANNUAL
Wisconsin’s largest and most prestigious Wedding Expo
JANUARY 9–10, 2021
EXPO CENTER AT WISCONSIN STATE FAIR PARK wisconsinweddingshow.com
“The Place to Be for The Couple-to-Be”
Vito Rade Photography Marcin Cymmer Photography
John Dart Photography
BRIDAL EXPO MILWAUKEE DATES & LOCATIONS SHERATON HOTEL, BROOKFIELD, WI SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 20, 2020, 10a–4p SHERATON HOTEL, BROOKFIELD, WI SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 8, 2020, 10a–4p SHERATON HOTEL, BROOKFIELD, WI TBD, MARCH 2021, 10a–4p SHERATON HOTEL, BROOKFIELD, WI TBD, MAY 2021, 10a–4p SHERATON HOTEL, BROOKFIELD, WI TBD, SEPTEMBER 2021, 10a–4p SHERATON HOTEL, BROOKFIELD, WI TBD, NOVEMBER 2021, 10a–4p
BRIDAL EXPO CHICAGO DATES & LOCATIONS
Vito Rade Photography
John Dart Photography
To view all upcoming 2021 Dates & Locations visit us at BridalExpoTickets.com
VISIT WEBSITE FOR DATES & TIMES
MARRIOTT HOTEL MICHIGAN AVENUE, CHICAGO MARRIOTT CHICAGO O’HARE, CHICAGO, IL MARRIOTT HOTEL SCHAUMBURG, IL MARRIOTT HOTEL NAPERVILLE, IL MARRIOTT HOTEL OAK BROOK, IL
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John Dart Photography
Angela Swan Photography
Vito Rade Photography
To view all upcoming 2021 Dates & Locations visit us at BridalExpoTickets.com
SHOWS / EVENTS AREA BRIDAL SHOWS
NOVEMBER 15, 2020
LAKE COUNTRY WEDDING SHOW
The Ingleside Hotel - Pewaukee 10am-2pm, 262-547-0201 theinglesidehotel.com/specials-events/ lake-country-wedding-show SEE PG 233
NOVEMBER 29, 2020
BOUTIQUE WEDDING SHOWCASE Delafield Hotel - Delafield 11am-2pm - 262-646-1600 thedelafieldhotel.com SEE PG 233
JANUARY 9-10, 2021
53RD ANNUAL WONDERFUL WORLD OF WEDDINGS
Expo Center at Wisconsin State Fair Park, Milwaukee - 10am-4pm both days 262-367-5500 wisconsinweddingshow.com SEE PG 12 & 231
JANUARY 24, 2021
8TH ANNUAL BRIDAL SHOWCASE
Fountain Banquet Hall, 8505 Durand Ave. Sturtevant, 11am-2pm
boutique wedding
showcase NOVEMBER 29 •11 A.M. - 2 P.M.
LAKE COUNTRY
WEDDING SHOW
JANUARY 31, 2021
WATERTOWN BRIDAL FAIRE
Turner Hall, 301 S 4th St., Watertown 10am-2:30pm 920-261-7770 - watertownbridalfair.com
JANUARY 31, 2021
WASHINGTON COUNTY BRIDAL FAIR
Washington County Fair Park & Conf. Center, 11am-3pm 262-677-5060 - wcfairpark.com SEE PG 234
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 15, 2020 10AM-2PM 2810 GOLF ROAD | PEWAUKEE, WI 53072 FREE ADMISSION WITH PRE-REGISTRATION OR $5 AT THE DOOR OPEN TO THE PUBLIC
262.547.0201 • lakecountryweddingshow.com
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SHOWS / EVENTS 21st ANNUAL SHOW | JANUARY 31 | 11:00 AM – 3:00 PM
FEBRUARY 6, 2021
OAK CREEK COMMUNITY CENTER BRIDAL EXPO 8580 S Howell Ave, Oak Creek 9am-3pm - 414-768-5840 Occenter.com/bridal-expo
FEBRUARY 7, 2021 (PENDING)
TERRACE 167 WINTER BRIDAL FAIR
Rich Black 60/40/40/100
Richfield - 11am-2pm 262-623-6588 - Terrace167.com
PMS 579 25/1/42/0 PMS 487 0/37/31/0 Font: Grafolita Script Bold
FEBRUARY 21, 2021
Free Parking $5 in Advance / $6 at the Door Over $5,000 in Door Prizes
Sponsored by:
Tickets available online at www.wcfairpark.com For more information, visit wcfairpark.com 3000 County Hwy PV • West Bend, WI 53095
AREA BRIDAL SHOWS
JANUARY 31, 2021
17TH ANNUAL BRIDAL EXTRAVAGANZA
Hawks View Golf Club, Lake Geneva 11am-3pm 262-348-9900 - hawksviewgolfclub.com
JANUARY 2021 (PENDING)
LAKE GENEVA WINTER BRIDAL EXPO Riviera Ballroom, 812 Wrigley Dr, Lake Geneva 262-812-9674 lgwinterbridalexpo.com
JANUARY 2021 (PENDING)
ILLUMINATE-A FASHION SHOW Historic Pritzlaff Bldg. 325 N Plankinton Ave, MKE 414-755-2900 missrubyboutique.com
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THE FACTORY ON BARCLAY WEDDING SHOW 1120 S Barclay St - Milwaukee 11am-4pm 414-481-3337 factoryonbarclay.com
FEBRUARY 21, 2021
13TH ANNUAL BRIDAL FAIR IN THE EVERGREEN ROOM Evergreen Golf Club, Elkhorn 11:30am-2:30pm 262-723-5722 – evergreengolf.com
FEBRUARY 27, 2021 (PENDING)
VETERAN’S TERRACE BRIDAL SHOW
Veteran’s Terrace, Burlington, 11am-2:30pm 262-763-9400 veteransterrace.com
FEBRUARY/MARCH 2021 (PENDING)
2ND ANNUAL BRIDAL SHOWCASE Kenosha
MARCH 2021
BRIDAL EXPO
Brookfield Sheraton, 10:30am-4pm For Free Tickets Call: 414-427-4325 bridalexpomilwaukee.com SEE PGS 16-17 & 232
SHOWS / EVENTS AREA BRIDAL SHOWS
MARCH 7, 2021
WEDMKE
Turner Hall Ballroom1040 N. Vel R Phillips Ave. MKE - wedmke.com
MARCH 21, 2021
THE ORIGINAL BRIDAL DÉCOR RESALE & WEDDING SHOW
Presented by Rustic Manor 1848 Waukesha Cty Expo Center - 11am-2pm 262-224-0316 Rusticmanor1848.com
Choosing
DRESS STYLES Just started looking at wedding dresses and not sure where to begin? Torn between a ball gown and a sheath style dress? Here are some descriptions of dress silhouettes to help you while shopping for the most important dress of your life!
Sheath
A dress that creates a close silhouette to the body. Typically, the sheath uses charmeuse or a very soft and flowing material that fits close to the body, with some beading on an overlay. The sheath is a perfect fit for casual weddings.
MAY 2021
BRIDAL EXPO
Brookfield Sheraton, 10:30-4pm For Free Tickets Call: 414-427-4325 bridalexpomilwaukee.com SEE PGS 16-17 & 232
AUGUST 14, 2021
4TH ANNUAL PIECE OF CAKE 5K Frame Park - Pieceofcake5k.com
SEPTEMBER 2021
Mermaid
Also known as a fit and flare gown, the mermaid gown looks great on girls with tiny waists and for those who want to show off their curves. Accentuate the waist with a belt for more definition.
A-line
This dress resembles an “A” that creates a long line for your body. This classically elegant gown is universally flattering and will look great!
BRIDAL EXPO
Brookfield Sheraton, 10:30am-4pm For Free Tickets Call: 414-427-4325 bridalexpomilwaukee.com SEE PGS 16-17 & 232
NOVEMBER 2021
Ballgown
This gown has a fitted bodice and full skirt. It’s the perfect proportion for any bride with a bustier bosom. If you’ve always dreamed of being a princess, this is the gown for you!
BRIDAL EXPO
Brookfield Sheraton, 10:30am-4pm For Free Tickets Call: 414-427-4325 bridalexpomilwaukee.com SEE PGS 16-17 & 232
Empire
This gown is flattering because it created a long line and disguises the hips. Extending from the bust line, this shape is youthful and elegant.
JANUARY 8-9, 2022
53RD ANNUAL WONDERFUL WORLD OF WEDDINGS
Expo Center at Wisconsin State Fair Park, Milwaukee 262-367-5500 wisconsinweddingshow.com
Believe it or not, there are different types of length when it comes to a wedding gown. You can choose a cocktail length, which is just simply above the knee. Knee length is at the knee, while tea length is just below the knee. High-low length is just below the knee in front with a train in the back of your gown. A ballerina length dress is a dress that is cut just above the ankle, perfect for ballerinas! PremierBrideMKE.com PREMIER BRIDE • 235
DIRECTORY OF SERVICES DIRECTORY OF SERVICES DIRECTORY OF SERVICES
DIRECTORY KEY • ACCESSORIES
(and Rental Items)
• ALTERATIONS/ CUSTOM DRESS DESIGNS • ATTENDANT GIFTS (See Gifts)
• BACHELOR(ETTE) PARTIES • BANQUET FACILITIES & REHEARSAL DINNERS • BARTENDING SERVICES • BEAUTY, SKIN & WEIGHT LOSS (Also See Makeup)
• BED & BREAKFASTS/ INNS • BRIDAL SHOWERS/ GIFT OPENINGS
• BRIDAL SHOWS
• DESTINATION WEDDINGS
• CAKES, SWEETS & FAVORS • CATERING • CEREMONIES, CHAPELS • CEREMONIES, OFFICIANTS • CHOCOLATES (FAVORS) • COORDINATORS/ Event Planners • COSMETICS
• DOOR COUNTY WEDDINGS • DRY CLEANING / GOWN Preservation • EXCITING & DIFFERENT • FINANCIAL SERVICES • FIREWORKS • FLORISTS
Complete listing and information (See pg 230)
(See Travel Agencies)
(and Rental Items)
• FORMALWEAR • GIFTS • GOWNS, CUSTOM
(See Makeup)
• DANCE INSTRUCTION • DECORATING SERVICES
(See full listing of bridal salons online at premierbridewisconsin. com/ local-vendors/bridalsalons)
(Also see Rentals)
• HAIR
(See Beauty)
• HONEYMOON
(See Travel Agencies & Door County Weddings)
• HOTELS/ CLUB SUITES
(Also see Banquet Facilities)
• • • • •
ICE SCULPTURES INTERNET INVITATIONS JEWELRY (CUSTOM) LIMOUSINES
(See Transportation)
• LINGERIE • MAKEUP
(Also See Beauty)
• MASSAGE (See Spas)
• MUSIC & ENTERTAINMENT
• MUSIC, SPECIALTY/ LIVE • OVERNIGHT ACCOMMODATIONS (See Hotels/Club Suites)
• PHOTOGRAPHY • PHOTOGRAPHY BOUDOIR • PHOTO BOOTHS • REHEARSAL DINNERS • RENTALS • RESTROOMS (See Rentals)
• SPAS/MED SPAS • TRANSPORTATION • TRAVEL AGENCIES & HONEYMOONS • VIDEOGRAPHY • WALWORTH COUNTY WEDDINGS (See pg 170)
ACCESSORIES
ALTERATIONS/ CUSTOM DRESS DESIGNS
(and Rental Items)
Alfa Flower & Wedding Shop
7001 W. North Ave., Wauwatosa alfawedding.com 414-475-7080
(See pg 153) BRIDAL
Bead IT LLC
beadit-wi.com 262-366-5573
(See pg 158)
GOWNS
Premier Alterations Experts – Specializing in Gowns – We Measure, Trim & Sew – Gown Fittings
262-521-9710
mymartinizing.com
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DIRECTORY OF SERVICES The Astor Hotel
BACHELOR(ETTE) PARTIES
924 E Juneau Ave., Milwaukee theastorhotel.com 414-271-4220
Bartolotta’s
CMP Tactical Lazer Tag
4905 S. Howell Ave, Milwaukee info@cmpmilwaukee.com 2567 State Rd 120, Lake Geneva lakegeneva@cmptactical.com cmptactical.com 414-483-2222
(See pg 217)
Miller Park
One Brewers Way, Milwaukee millerpark.com 414-902-4452
(See pg 57)
Milwaukee Pedal Tavern info@pedaltavern.com pedaltavern.com 414-409-8022
(See pg 200)
Riverwalk Boat Tours & Rentals
at Pere Marquette Park (on Old World Third St, between State and Kilbourn) riverwalkboats.com 414-283-9999 (See pg 217)
Vino Third Ward
Historic Third Ward 219 E. Erie St., Milwaukee vinothirdward.com 414-277-8466
(See pg 201)
(See pg 216)
BANQUET FACILITIES & REHEARSAL DINNERS 1451 Renaissance Place
1451 N. Prospect Ave., Milwaukee renaissanceplace.com 414-272-1451 (See Back Cover & pg 27)
1896 Room
6996 Pennsylvania Ave., Oconomowoc 262-269-9095
(See pg 84)
1903 Weddings
500 West Canal Street, Milwaukee 1903events.com 877-HD-MUSEUM
(See pg 21)
3041 North
3041 W. North Ave., Milwaukee 3041north.com 414-810-3131
Bacchus-A Bartolotta Restaurant 414-765-1166 925 E. Wells, Milwaukee Bartolotta Events & Catering 414-765-8610 at Discovery Wisconsin 500 N. Harbor Dr., Milwaukee Grain Exchange 414-727-6980 225 E. Michigan Ave., Ste 100, Milwaukee The Harbor House 414-395-4900 550 N. Harbor, Milwaukee Italian Community Center 414-223-2800 631 E. Chicago St., Milwaukee Lake Park Bistro 414-962-6300 3133 E. Newberry Blvd., Milwaukee The Peck & Bushel Barn 414-935-5014 5454 County Rd Q, Colgate bartolottas.com/weddings bartolottascatering.com
(See pg 9)
Best Western Plus Airport
5105 S. Howell Avenue, Milwaukee bwplusmke.com 414-769-2100
(See pg 40)
The Bog
Whirly Brookfield, LLC. 185 South Moorland Rd. Brookfield whirlyball.com/brookfield 262-786-7777
(See pg 31)
(See pg 66)
The Clubhouse at The Bog 3121 County Road I, Saukville The Barn at The Bog 3121 County Road I, Saukville golfthebog.com
262-292-0740 262-292-0740
(See pg 190)
Broadlands Golf Club Hwy 59, North Prairie broadlandsgolfclub.com 262-392-6320
(See pg 51)
Brookfield Conference Center 325 S. Moorland Rd., Brookfield brookfieldconferencecenter.com 262-789-0220
(See pg 8)
Canal Street Yacht Club
1200 W. Canal St., Milwaukee CanalStreetYachtClub.com 414-273-8300
(See pg 75)
The Carriage House
6996 Pennsylvania Ave., Oconomowoc carriagehouseatlaclabelle.com 262-269-9095
(See pg 7)
Chandelier Ballroom
150 Jefferson Ave., Hartford chandelierballroom.com 262-673-4946
(See pg 189)
Charles Allis Art Museum
1801 N Prospect Ave, Milwaukee charlesallis.org (414) 271-3656, ext 2
(See pg 22)
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DIRECTORY OF SERVICES Chivaree on Park
N8345 Park St., Ixonia mychivaree.com 262-354-4848
Geneva National (See pg 69)
Congdon Gardens
1424 Hobbs Dr., Delavan congdongardens.org 262-728-5855
Golden Mast Inn on Okauchee Lake (See pg 67)
Corvina Wine Company
6038 W. Lincoln Ave., West Allis corvinawinecompany.com 414-546-3407
(See pg 74)
(See pg 46)
7036 Grand Geneva Way, Lake Geneva grandgeneva.com/weddings 800-558-3417
(See pg 74)
1512 West Pierce St., Milwaukee fstreethospitality.com/project/antiques-on-pierce/ 414-988-1554 (See pg 29)
7377 Krueger Rd., Lake Geneva hawksviewgolfclub.com 262-348-9900 W2765 East Gate Dr., Watertown hayloftbarn.com 414-333-8511 509 W. Wisc Ave., Milwaukee marcusweddings.com 414-390-3802
Historic Courthouse 1893
The DeKoven Center
Holiday Inn Pewaukee
N56 W16300 Silver Spring Dr., Menomonee Falls davians.com 262-781-3333 (See pg 47)
(See pg 42)
Delafield Brewhaus
3832 Hillside Dr., Delafield (Just off I-94 & Hwy 83) delafield-brewhaus.com 262-646-7821 (See pg 27)
Delafield Hotel
(See pg 65)
(See pg 13)
(See pg 49)
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(See pg 30)
Hotel Metro Milwaukee
411 East Mason St., Milwaukee hotelmetro.com 414-225-3256
(See pg 18)
3565 N. Morris Blvd., Milwaukee hubbardparklodge.com 414-273-8300
(See pg 75)
333 W. Kilbourn Ave., Milwaukee milwaukee.regency.hyatt.com 414-276-1234
(See pg 39)
2810 Golf Rd., Pewaukee theinglesidehotel.com 262-547-0201
(See pg 71)
Jan Serr Studio (See pg 79)
Four Points by Sheraton Milwaukee Airport 5311 S. Howell Ave., Milwaukee fourpointsmilwaukeeairport.com 414-481-2400
N14 W24140 Tower Place, Pewaukee holidayinn.com/Pewaukee-wi 262-506-6300
(See pg 10)
The Ingleside Hotel
fête
500 E. Sumit Ave., Wales feteofwales.com 262-528-3383
916 N. East Ave., Downtown Waukesha courthouse1893.com 262-574-9170
(See pg 43)
Hyatt Regency
The Farm at Dover
26060 Washington Avenue, Dover thefarmatdover.com 773-802-6351
(See pg 81)
Hubbard Park Lodge
The Factory on Barclay
1120 South Barclay St., Milwaukee thefactoryonbarclay.com 414-481-3337
(See pg 169)
Hilton Milwaukee City Center
Davians Catering & Conference Center
415 Genesee St., Delafield thedelafieldhotel.com 262-646-1600
(See pg 171)
The Hay Loft
Curio Loft at Antiques on Pierce
600 Caron Butler Dr., Racine dekovencenter.org 262-633-6401 ext 102
(See pg 45)
Hawk’s View Golf Club
The Cupola Barn
N88 W35490 Mapleton Rd., Oconomowoc cupolabarn.com 262-617-4038
W349 N5253 Lacys Lane, Okauchee goldenmastinn.com 262-567-7047
Grand Geneva
Crowne Plaza Milwaukee West
10499 W. Innovation Dr., Wauwatosa crowneplazamilwaukee.com/weddings 414-475-9500
1221 Geneva National Ave. South, Lake Geneva genevanationalresort.com 262-245-7044 (See pg 164)
(See pg 41)
2155 N. Prospect Avenue, Milwaukee janserrevents@sazs.com 414-256-8765
(See pg 89)
Kettle Moraine Ranch
W379 S9674 County Rd. S, Eagle kettlemoraineranch.com 262-594-2122
(See pg 77)
DIRECTORY OF SERVICES Kimpton-The Journeyman
The Pfister Hotel
310 East Chicago St., Milwaukee journeymanhotel.com 414-291-3970
(See pg 44)
Lake Geneva Cruise Lines-Gage Marine cruiselakegeneva.com 262-248-6206
(See pg 165)
(See pg 166)
(See pg 35)
7974 South Main St., Oak Creek pizzamanwi.com 414-988-1554
(See pg 29)
11500 West Burleigh St., Wauwatosa pizzamanwi.com 414-988-1554
(See pg 29)
The Polish Center of Wisconsin (See pg 35)
The Legend at Merrill Hills
W270 S3425 Merrill Hills Rd., Waukesha thelegendclubs.com 262-968-9717
(See pg 29)
Pizza Man - Wauwatosa
The Legend at Bristlecone 1500 Arlene Dr., Hartland thelegendsclubs.com 262-968-9717
2597 North Downer Ave., Milwaukee pizzamanwi.com 414-988-1554
Pizza Man – Oak Creek
The Legend at Brandybrook 1 Legend Way, Wales thelegendclubs.com 262-968-9717
(See pg 26)
Pizza Man - Milwaukee
Lake Lawn Resort
2400 E. Geneva St., Delavan lakelawnresort.com 262-728-7950
424 E Wisconsin Ave., Milwaukee marcusweddings.com 414-390-3802
6941 S 68th St, Franklin polishcenterofwisconsin.org 414-529-2140
(See pg 67)
(See pg 35)
Lilac Acres
S47 W23045 Lawnsdale Rd., Waukesha lilacacres.com 262-309-0653
(See pg 38)
Marcus Center for the Performing Arts sazamas.com 414-276-2030
(See pg 89)
Marriott Milwaukee West
W231 N1600 Corporate Ct., Waukesha marriott.com/mkemw 262-574-0888 (See Inside Back Cover & pg 48)
Milwaukee Art Museum
700 North Art Museum Dr., Milwaukee mam.org/wedding 414-224-3200 or 414-224-3287 (event line)
(See pg 15)
Milwaukee Beer Bistro
Milwaukee County Zoo
(See pg 23)
Oconomowoc Community Center
220 W. Wisconsin Avenue, Oconomowoc oconomowoc-wi.gov/communitycenter 262-569-2199
(See pg 22)
Pano’s Banquet Center
20290 W. Bluemound Rd., Brookfield panosbanquetcenter.com 414-308-4960 or 262-782-8670
315 N Plankinton Ave, Milwaukee pritzlaffevents.com 414-433-6088
(See pg 76)
(See pg 25)
Racine Civic Center
Festival Hall Paul P. Harris Rotary Park Memorial Hall 5 Fifth St., Racine racinecc.com 262-636-9229
2730 N. Humboldt Blvd., Milwaukee milwaukeebeerbistro.com 414-562-5540 10001 W. Bluemound Rd., Milwaukee milwaukeezoo.org 414-256-5432
Pritzlaff Events
(See pg 52)
Red Circle Inn
N44 W33013 Watertown Plank Rd. Hwys 16 & C, Nashotah redcircleinn.com 262-367-4883 (See Inside Front Cover)
The Ridge Hotel
W4240 Road 50, Lake Geneva RidgeLakeGeneva.com 262-249-3842
(See pg 163)
PremierBrideMKE.com PREMIER BRIDE • 239
DIRECTORY OF SERVICES Roma Lodge
The Venue at MKE Brewery
7130 Spring St. (Hwy C), Racine romalodge.com 262-886-3610
(See pg 46)
The Rooms at Cornerstone
(See pg 29)
Veterans Terrace at Echo Park
24 South Main St., Oconomowoc Cornerstonepuboconomowoc.com 262-354-8282
(See pg 20)
The Rotunda
589 Milwaukee Ave., Burlington veteransterrace.com 262-763-9400
(See pg 168)
Villa Terrace Decorative Arts Museum
235 W. Broadway, Waukesha therotunda.com 262-574-9170
(See pg 10)
Schauer Arts & Activites Center 147 N Rural St., Hartford schauercenter.org 262-670-0560 ext 215
1128 North 9th St., Milwaukee mkebrewing.com 414-988-1554
2220 N. Terrace Ave., Milwaukee cavtmuseums.org 414-271-3656
(See pg 22)
War Memorial Center (See pg 188)
Seven Seas on Nagawicka Lake
750 N. Lincoln Memorial Dr., Milwaukee warmemorialcenter.org 414-273-5533
(See pg 6)
Washington County Fair Park
1807 Nagawicka Rd., Delafield sevenseaswi.com 262-367-3903
(See pg 73)
Sheraton Milwaukee Brookfield Hotel
Hwy 45 at Pleasant Valley Road wcfairpark.com 262-677-5060
(See pg 190)
Watertown Country Club
375 S. Moorland Rd., Brookfield SheratonMilwaukeeBrookfield.com 262-364-1012
(See pg 53)
1340 N Water St., Watertown watertowncc.com 920-261-5009
(See pg 49)
South Second
838 S. 2nd St., Walker’s Point, Milwaukee southsecondmke.com 414-256-8765 (See pg 48, 89)
Sterling Chalet
1271 State Rd 175, Hubertus sterlingchalet.com 262-628-4080
(See pg 190)
Story Hill.Firehouse
407 N. Hawley Rd., Milwaukee storyhillfirehouse.com 262-477-5813
(See pg 19)
Terrace 167
3210 Hwy 167, Richfield terrace167.com 262-623-6588
(See pg 189)
Timmer’s Resort
5151 Timmer Bay Rd., West Bend timmersresort.com 414-988-1554
(See pg 29)
Tripoli Shrine Center
3000 W Wisconsin Ave., Milwaukee tripolishrinecenter.com 414-933-4700
(See pg 72)
Turner Hall Ballroom
1040 N. Vel R. Phillips Ave., Milwaukee turnerhallballroomweddings.com 414-286-6164
240 • PREMIER BRIDE PremierBrideMKE.com
5858 Hwy Z, West Bend westbendcc.com 262-334-9541
(See pg 82)
(See pg 81)
(See pg 18)
Western Lakes Golf Club
W287 N1963 Oakton Rd., Pewaukee sazs.com 262-691-9796
(See pg 89)
BARTENDING SERVICES Bar Stars Bartending
Tuscan Hall Banquet Center & Catering 409 Delafield St., Waukesha tuscanhallwi.com 262-292-1322
West Bend Country Club
barstarsbartending-mke.com 414-208-9500
DIRECTORY OF SERVICES
BEAUTY, SKIN & WEIGHT LOSS
BRIDAL SHOWS
Complete listing and information (See pg 230)
(Also See Makeup)
Aqua Beauty Lounge & Med Spa
W279 N2221 Prospect Ave., Pewaukee aqua-beautylounge.com 262-691-1814
(See pg 195)
halo
1221 E. Brady St., Milwaukee halosalonmke.com 414-272-4256
(See pg 194)
Mequon Smile Design
Julie Melbinger-Wagner, DDS 10345 N. Port Washington Rd., Mequon mequonsmiledesign.com 262-240-9400
(See pg 198)
Mobile Beautiful
Serving SE-Wisconsin mobilebeautiful.com 414-336-9846
(See pg 196)
Royal Smiles
5300 S. 108th St. (Inside Legacy Salon), Hales Corners royalsmilesnow.com 262-765-7804 (See pg 197)
Wide Eyed Bride
Serving SE-Wisconsin wideeyedbride.com 414-377-0540
(See pg 196)
BED & BREAKFASTS/ INNS White Lace Inn
16 N 5th Ave, Sturgeon Bay WhiteLaceInn.com 920-743-1105 877-948-5223
CAKES, SWEETS & FAVORS Allo! Chocolat
234 W. Main St., Waukesha allochocolat.com 262-544-8030 317 North 76th St. Milwaukee blackshoecatering.com/black-shoe-bakery 414-336-1005
(See pg 58)
Simma’s
817 N. 68th St., Wauwatosa simmasbakery.com 414-257-0998
(See pg 157)
Sweet n’ Flowers
Serving SE-Wisconsin sweetnflowers.com 339-933-9589
(See pg 201)
Sweet Perfections Bake Shoppe 1501 Paramount Dr., Waukesha sweetperfections.com 262-446-2253
(See pg 159)
CATERING All Occasions Catering / Bubb’s BBQ W230 S8855 Clark St., Big Bend bubbs.com 262-662-4201
(See pg 92)
Antigua Catering (See pg 126)
6207 W. National Ave., West Allis weddingsbyantigua.com 414-321-5775
BRIDAL SHOWERS/ GIFT OPENINGS
Black Shoe Catering
Riverwalk Boat Tours & Rentals
Chef Feker
320 North 77th St., Wauwatosa blackshoecatering.com 414-336-1005
at Pere Marquette Park (located on Old World Third St., between State and Kilbourn) riverwalkboats.com 414-283-9999 (See pg 217)
Vino Third Ward
Historic Third Ward 219 E. Erie St., Milwaukee vinothirdward.com.com 414-277-8466
(See pg 158)
Black Shoe Bakery
Serving SE-WI cheffekercatering.com.com 414-443-1414
(See pg 96)
(See pg 58)
(See pg 97)
Chef Jack’s
215 South St., Waukesha chefjacks.com 262-549-5558
(See pg 93)
(See pg 201) PremierBrideMKE.com PREMIER BRIDE • 241
DIRECTORY OF SERVICES Cornerstone Catering
24 South Main St., Oconomowoc cornerstonepuboconomowoc.com 262-354-8282
CHOCOLATES (FAVORS) (See pg 95)
Davians Catering & Conference Center
N56 W16300 Silver Spring Dr., Menomonee Falls davians.com 262-781-3333 (See pg 47)
Saz’s Catering
201 W. Walker St., Milwaukee sazs.com 414-256-8765
(See pg 89)
Allo! Chocolat
234 W. Main St., Waukesha allochocolat.com 262-544-8030
COORDINATORS/ EVENT PLANNERS Ambrosia Events
5110 W. Lincoln Ave., Milwaukee ambrosiaeventsmke.com 414-837-4925 (office) 414-546-2854 (mobile)
Catering — Par Excellence!
Sazama’s inspired cuisine and the stunning venues at the Marcus Center for the Performing Arts create a most elegant
sazamas.com • 414.276.2030 (See pg 89)
Tuscan Hall Banquet Center & Catering 409 Delafield St., Waukesha tuscanhallwi.com 262-292-1322
(See pg 81)
CEREMONIES, CHAPELS Holy Communion Episcopal Church 320 Broad St., Lake Geneva holycommunionlakegeneva.com 262-248-3522
(See pg 72)
A Beautiful Touch at an Affordable Price coveritwithclass.com 262-343-2581
(See pg 190)
événement planning
design. plan. consult. By Appointment Only evenementplanning.com 262-617-8826
(See pg 101)
Rosewood
Serving SE-Wisconsin rosewoodwed.com 262-496-9832
(See pg 100)
Timeless Events
Serving SE Wisconsin timelesseventsllc.com 262-751-6355
COSMETICS DANCE INSTRUCTION Fred Astaire Dance Studio of Brookfield (See pg 129)
Fred Astaire Dance Studio of Greenfield 4868 S 74th St. fredastairegreenfield.com 414-281-9191
Clergy Officiants
Serving SE Wisconsin OfficiantsWisconsin.com Rev. Lynette Corsten 262-893-6760 Rev. Jeffrey Montoya 414-793-4828
(See pg 129)
Fred Astaire Dance Studio of Menomonee Falls N87W17317 Main St. fadsmenomoneefalls.com (262) 251-2000
Wild Elegance
242 • PREMIER BRIDE PremierBrideMKE.com
Cover It With Class
15760 W Capitol Dr. fredastairebrookfield.com 262-796-1121
CEREMONIES, OFFICIANTS
Serving SE-WI wildelegancewi.com 262-309-2240
(See pg 103)
(See Makeup)
Tripoli Shrine Center
3000 W Wisconsin Ave., Milwaukee tripolishrinecenter.com 414-933-4700
(See pg 158)
(See pg 80)
(See pg 129)
DIRECTORY OF SERVICES Fred Astaire Dance Studio of Mequon 10934 N Port Washington Rd. fredastairenorthshore.com 262-241-1221
The Lodge at Leathem Smith (See pg 129)
Fred Astaire Dance Studio of Milwaukee 323 N Milwaukee St fredastairemilwaukee.com 414-291-9999
(See pg 129)
Fred Astaire Dance Studio of Pewaukee 615 Ryan St, Suite 200 fredastairepewaukee.com 262-691-8181
(See pg 129)
Fred Astaire Dance Studio of Pleasant Prairie 9000 76th St., Unit B fredastaire.com/pleasant-prairie 262-577-5859
(See pg 129)
Social Style
3562 Hillside Dr., Delafield socialstyledance.com 414-687-2222
(See pg 201)
DECORATING SERVICES (Also see Rentals) Ambrosia Events
4404 W. Oklahoma Ave., Milwaukee ambrosiaeventsmke.com 414-837-4925 (office) 414-546-2854 (mobile)
(See pg 103)
événement planning
design. plan. consult. By Appointment Only evenementplanning.com 262-617-8826
(See pg 101)
Something Borrowed
1239 Hwy. 175, Hubertus somethingborrowedandmore.com 262-628-3090
(See pg 109)
DESTINATION WEDDINGS (See Travel Agencies)
DOOR COUNTY WEDDINGS
(See pg 126)
Newport Resort at Main St. 7888 Church St., Egg Harbor newportresort.com 920-868-9900 or 800-468-6160
(See pg 128)
Stone Harbor, A Door County Resort & Conference Center 107 N. 1st Ave., Sturgeon Bay stoneharbor-resort.com 920-746-0700
(See pg 128)
White Lace Inn
16 N. 5th Ave., Sturgeon Bay WhiteLaceInn.com 920-743-1105 or 1-877-948-5223
(See pg 126)
DRY CLEANING / GOWN PRESERVATION Martinizing
The Specialist in Bridal Gowns Free Pickup & Delivery mymartinizing.com 262-521-9710 (See pg 191) Elm Grove 13405 Watertown Plank Rd. 262-782-0665 Hartland 418 Merton Ave. 262-367-4508 Menomonee Falls N95W18397 County Line Rd 262-251-7979 Mequon 11106 N Port Washington Rd 262-241-3535 Milwaukee 233 W. Layton Ave. 414-747-1077 Oconomowoc 1300 Brown St. 262-560-9981 1320 Pabst Farm Circle 262-560-0666 Pewaukee 1405 Capitol Dr. 262-695-1661 Wauwatosa 6737 Milwaukee Ave. 414-771-3331 West Allis 2262 S. 108th St. 414-545-8688 Whitefish Bay 285 E Hampton Ave 414-964-4747
EXCITING & DIFFERENT
Landmark Resort
7643 Hillside Rd., Egg Harbor thelandmarkresort.com 800-273-7877
1640 Memorial Dr., Sturgeon Bay thelodgeatls.com 920-743-5555
Art Below Zero (See pg 128)
artbelowzero.com 414-779-7000
(See pg 200)
PremierBrideMKE.com PREMIER BRIDE • 243
DIRECTORY OF SERVICES Milwaukee Pedal Tavern
Fantasy Flowers
pedaltavern.com 414-409-8022
(See pg 200)
106 E. Freistadt Rd., Thiensville fantasyflowers.info 262-242-3732
(See pg 201)
FORMALWEAR
Social Style
3562 Hillside Dr., Delafield socialstyledance.com 414-687-2222
Sweet n’ Flowers
DuBois
Serving SE-Wisconsin sweetnflowers.com 339-933-9589
(See pg 201)
1700 W. Bluemound Rd., Brookfield262-754-9296 822 N. 8th St., Sheboygan 920-458-1412 duboisfw.com (See pg 207)
(See pg 201)
GIFTS
Vino Third Ward
219 E. Erie St., Milwaukee vinothirdward.com 414-277-8466
Voluptuous Secrets, LLC
For a Perfect Comfortable Fit 1740 N. Martin Luther King Dr., Milwaukee voluptuoussecrets.com 414-264-7776 (See pg 200)
FINANCIAL SERVICES Cherry Creek Mortgage
dcasper@ccmclending.com 414-531-8368
beadit-wi.com 262-366-5573
(See pg 158)
GOWNS, CUSTOM
(See full listing of bridal salons online at premierbridewisconsin.com/ local-vendors/bridal-salons)
HAIR
(See Beauty)
Wolverine Fireworks
Serving SE Wisconsin wolverinefireworks.com 262-968-4178
(See pg 24)
HONEYMOON
(See Travel Agencies & Door County Weddings)
FLORISTS (and Rental Items)
HOTELS/ CLUB SUITES
Alfa Flower & Wedding Shop
7001 W. North Ave., Wauwatosa alfawedding.com 414-475-7080
(See pg 153)
Bank of Flowers
(Also see Banquet Facilities) Sybaris Pool Suites
10240 N. Cedarburg Rd., Mequon sybaris.com 262-242-8000
262-253-9111 262-695-9911
(See pg 152)
Belle Fiori
2014 N. Farwell Ave., Milwaukee bellefioriflorist.com 414-272-2234
(See pg 224)
ICE SCULPTURES Art Below Zero
(See pg 151)
Creative Floral by Something Borrowed 1239 Hwy 175, Hubertus creativefloralandmore.com 262-628-4410
Bead IT LLC
(See pg 218)
FIREWORKS
N88 W16723 Appleton Ave Menomonee Falls 346 Oakton Ave Pewaukee bankofflowers.com
(See pg 150)
(See pg 150)
244 • PREMIER BRIDE PremierBrideMKE.com
Call or visit our website for info artbelowzero.com 414-779-7000
(See pg 200)
DIRECTORY OF SERVICES
Mary Kay Cosmetics
INTERNET Premier Bride
premierbride.com and premierbridemke.com 414-416-8368
262-781-4848 OFFICE 262-336-7920 CELL
INVITATIONS Coqui Paperie
Serving SE Wisconsin coquipaperie.com 414-369-2589
Independent Beauty Consultants Tammy Ehrett, Independent Sales Director
(See pg 145)
CMYKnot
Serving SE-WI cmyknot.com 262-617-1385
(See pg 144)
(See pg 147)
Paperwhites
Hours by appointment paperwhites-invitations.com 262-370-0465
(See Transportation)
LINGERIE For a Perfect Comfortable Fit 1740 N. Martin Luther King Dr., Milwaukee voluptuoussecrets.com 414-264-7776 (See pg 200)
(Also See Beauty)
MUSIC & ENTERTAINMENT ACA Music & Entertainment
(See pg 158)
LIMOUSINES
MAKEUP
MASSAGE
(See pg 146)
Bead IT LLC
Voluptuous Secrets, LLC
Brookfield Square (exterior entrance)262-782-4406 mnsalonbrookfield.com 5300 S. 108th St., Hales Corners414-421-3788 mnhalescorners.com (See pg 199)
(See Spas)
JEWELRY (CUSTOM) beadit-wi.com 262-366-5573
marykay.com/tehrett
Merle Norman Cosmetic Studios
DCo Lovenotes
Serving SE-WI dcolovenotes.com info@dcolovenotes.com
• Complimentary Makeovers • Skin Care & Color Cosmetics • Personalized Gift Service
705 Larry Ct., Waukesha acaentertainment.com 262-790-0060
(See pg 175)
Complete Weddings & Events of Milwaukee completemilwaukee.com 414-751-6886
(See pg 176)
DJ Express
djexpressfun.com 262-306-1138
(See pg 174)
The Wedding Djay
Serving Milwaukee and Most of Wisconsin theweddingdjay.com 800-901-1007 (See pg 179)
Wolverine Fireworks
Serving SE Wisconsin wolverinefireworks.com 262-968-4178
(See pg 24)
Xcite Entertainment
xciteentertainment.com 262-853-1550
(See pg 177)
PremierBrideMKE.com PREMIER BRIDE • 245
DIRECTORY OF SERVICES
MUSIC, SPECIALTY/LIVE Elegant Music Service
elegantmusicservices.com 262-619-1900
(See pg 180)
(See pg 180)
(See pg 180)
OVERNIGHT ACCOMMODATIONS (See Hotels/Club Suites)
(See pg 189)
Amanda Ketterhagen Photography
Wild Elegance
Serving SE-Wisconsin wildelegancewi.com 262-309-2240
(See pg 135)
PHOTOGRAPHY BOUDOIR (See pg 134)
PHOTO BOOTHS Complete Weddings & Events of Milwaukee
(See pg 137)
Complete Weddings & Events of Milwaukee completemilwaukee.com 414-751-6886
2727 N Grandview Blvd., Suite 101, Waukesha sbphotoanddesign.com 414-220-0022 (See pg 141)
Serving SE-WI lisaeisenbergphotography.com 920-988-1985
Allysha Noelle Photography
amandaketterhagenphotography.com 262-492-6334
(See pg 136)
l.e. Boudoir
PHOTOGRAPHY Serving SE-WI allyshanoellephotography.com 262-337-0352
adventureweddingsbyjessica.com 262-422-7670
SB Photography and Design
Whitewater String Quartet Serving SE-Wisconsin 262-473-3636
jcdesignswi.com 414-507-2192
Memory Lane Photography
Gabriel’s Horns
gabrielshorns.com 414-581-7391
JC Designs LLC
(See pg 138)
completemilwaukee.com 414-751-6886
(See pg 176)
The Photo Booth
Serving Milwaukee and Most of Wisconsin 262photo.com 800-901-1007 (See pg 185)
ShutterBooth
Serving Greater Milwaukee & Madison shutterbooth.com 414-255-3800
(See pg 183)
Xcite Entertainment
xciteentertainment.com 262-853-1550
(See pg 177)
REHEARSAL DINNERS Blue’s Egg - Wauwatosa 414-671-1512
(See pg 139)
Ideal Impressions
6638 Deerpath Rd.,Lake Geneva idealimpressions.com 262-729-3192
(See pg 58)
Hubbard Park Beer Garden (See pg 167)
Indian Summer Photography Serving SE Wisconsin indiansummerphotography.com 608-963-1136
317 North 76th St., Milwaukee blackshoecatering.com 414-336-1005 3565 North Morris Blvd., Shorewood hubbardparkbeergarden.com 414-332-4207
Maggiano’s (See pg 134)
246 • PREMIER BRIDE PremierBrideMKE.com
2500 N. Mayfair Rd., Wauwatosa maggianos.com/banquets 414-978-1000
(See pg 59)
DIRECTORY OF SERVICES Mason Street Grill
425 E. Mason St, Milwaukee (located at the Hilton) masonstreetgrill.com 414-298-3131
Maxie’s
6732 West Fairview Ave., Milwaukee blackshoecatering.com 414-336-1005
(See pg 58)
Miller Park
One Brewers Way, Milwaukee millerpark.com 414-902-4452
(See pg 57)
Milwaukee Chop House
All Star Rentals
S167 W16262 Loomis Dr, Muskego allstarrentals.net 414-427-9951
(See pg 109)
Arnold’s Environmental Services Inc. 3031 Hwy 33, Saukville arnoldsenvironmental.com 262-675-2497
(See pg 110)
Brookfield Party Rental
12630 Robin Ln. Suite 200, Brookfield madfoxparty.com 262-786-2666
633 North 5th St, Milwaukee chophouse411.com 414-226-2467
(See pg 108)
Celebrations Tent & Party Rentals
Riverwalk Boat Tours & Rentals
at Pere Marquette Park (on Old World Third St, between State and Kilbourn) riverwalkboats.com 414-283-9999 (See pg 217)
Rodizio Grill - Milwaukee
777 N. Water St., Milwaukee rodizio.com 414-431-3106
RENTALS
Div. of Equipment Rentals Inc. 2001 Decorah Rd., West Bend 630 Grand Ave., Hartford eqrents.com 1-877-362-TENT
(See pg 188)
Containers Up (See pg 56)
containersup.com 888-765-3691
(See pg 106)
Cover It With Class
A Beautiful Touch at an Affordable Price coveritwithclass.com 262-343-2581
(See pg 190)
Gertrude & Evelyn Vintage Rentals Serving SE-WI gertrudeandevelynvintage.com 262-716-6676
Green Frog Sanitation LLC weddings | rehearsal dinners | bridal showers 500 PUBLIC AVENUE, DOWNTOWN BELOIT 608.473.1400 • WWW.HOTELGOODWIN.COM
Saz’s State House Restaurant 5539 W. State St., Milwaukee sazs.com 414-453-2410
Water Street Brewery
1239 Hwy. 175, Hubertus somethingborrowedandmore.com 262-628-3090 10861 S. Howell Ave., Oak Creek welldressedtables.com 414-831-7000
(See pg 60)
Vagabond Street Tacos
1122 N. Edison St., Milwaukee vagabondmke.com 414-223-1122
(See pg 106)
Something Borrowed
(See pg 109)
Well Dressed Tables by Arena Americas
Trinity Three Irish Pubs
125 E. Juneau Ave., Milwaukee trinitythreeirishpubs.com 414-278-7033
Serving SE-WI greenfrogllc.com 262-977-7766
(See pg 107)
RESTROOMS (See Rentals)
(See pg 60)
1101 N. Water St., Milwaukee 414-272-1195 3191 Golf Rd., Delafield 262-646-7878 I-43 & Hwy. 60, Grafton 262-375-2222 140 W. Town Square Way, Oak Creek414-301-5290 waterstreetbrewery.com (See pg 61)
SPAS/MED SPAS Aqua Beauty Lounge & Med Spa
W279 N2221 Prospect Ave., Pewaukee aqua-beautylounge.com 262-691-1814
(See pg 195)
PremierBrideMKE.com PREMIER BRIDE • 247
DIRECTORY OF SERVICES
TRANSPORTATION
Specializing in:
Limousines • SUV’s Party Buses Exceptional Service with on-time professional drivers
Weddings Bachelor/Bachelorette
Churchill Limo 414-486-5466 • Churchillimo.com HIGH CLASS LIMOUSINE & TROLLEY
First Class Service!
414-762-0809
highclasslimousinevip.com
– Romantic Honeymoons – Destination Weddings – All-Inclusives – Cruises – Free Consultations Ask about our exclusive
“Life’s Special Moments” Offer!
414-433-4873 • LatitudesWI.com LovinAway
Luxury Romance Travel lovinaway.com 844-568-2929
(See pg 223)
Sunset Plaza Beach Resort
hotelsunsetplaza.com weddings@sunsetplaza.com.mx +52 322 226 2712
(See pg 222)
VIDEOGRAPHY Complete Weddings & Events of Milwaukee completemilwaukee.com 414-751-6886
(See pg 138)
414-671-1512
(See pg 139)
SEE OUR AD ON PAGE 215 Lamers Limousine Service “The Elegance You Deserve” golamers.com 800-236-6160
Lamers Trolley & Coaches Motor Coaches & Trolley Limousines golamers.com
(See pg 213) 800-236-1240 800-236-6160 920-336-6160
(See pg 213)
TRAVEL AGENCIES & HONEYMOONS CTS Travel
Specializing in Destination Weddings & Honeymoons ctstravelpros.com 414-276-3388 (See pg 221)
Lovejoy Travel Agency Serving SE Wisconsin Delafield jamielovejoytravel.com 262-844-0881
(See pg 220)
Ideal Impressions
6638 Deerpath Rd.,Lake Geneva idealimpressions.com 262-729-3192
JC Designs LLC jcdesignswi.com 414-507-2192
WALWORTH COUNTY WEDDINGS (See pg 170)
248 • PREMIER BRIDE PremierBrideMKE.com
(See pg 167)
planning SAVING YOUR SANITY, ONE LIST AT A TIME
Twelve Month Wedding Timeline Now that you’ve said “yes!” it’s time to get organized! Use our checklist as a guideline to help you through the wedding planning process. TWELVE MONTHS
z Choose the date & time z Plan the budget z Reserve ceremony site z Start your guest list z Hire a wedding consultant z Meet with officiant to discuss premarital counseling
z Visit reception sites & reserve one
z Choose your attendants z Shop for gown NINE MONTHS
z Order wedding dress, veil & accessories
z Take engagement pictures z Select dress for bridal attendants z Decide wedding style formal, casual, etc.
z Interview & book photographer, videographer, caterer, & florist z Discuss honeymoon plans (get passport if needed)
z Choose reception music z Send Save-the-Date cards SIX MONTHS
FOUR MONTHS
z Choose ceremony music z Order men’s formal wear z Reserve rehearsal dinner location
z Book stylist or salon for bridal party hair, nails, & makeup
z Discuss menu with caterer z Order wedding bands z Meet with premarital counselor z Purchase mothers’ dresses TWO MONTHS
z Address & mail invitations z Plan hair & makeup trial z Confirm ceremony details z Arrange rehearsal dinner plans z Complete proper documents for changing your name
z Confirm delivery date of gown z Announce engagement in your local newspaper
ONE MONTH
z Obtain marriage license z Arrange final gown fittings z Buy gifts for the wedding party z Make reservations for
bridesmaids’ luncheon z Reserve rental equipment Purchase wedding Choose your baker & order your z z wedding cake & groom’s cake
z Finalize guest list z Register for gifts z Order invitations, stationery, & thank you cards
z Reserve accommodations for out-of-town guests z Finalize honeymoon plans z Choose favors
accessories (guest book, unity candle, cake knife)
TWO WEEKS
z Start reception seating chart & place cards
z Confirm rehearsal dinner plans z Contact guests who didn’t RSVP z Break in wedding shoes z Write rehearsal dinner & wedding toasts
z Meet with photographer & videographer & submit a list of must-take shots
z Confirm honeymoon plans
ONE WEEK
z Pick up your gown z Pack for honeymoon z Confirm transportation details z Give caterer final head count z Review timetables & details with vendors
z Put fees in wedding day envelopes
DAY BEFORE
z Deliver gift baskets to hotels z Host bridesmaids’ luncheon z Have manicure and pedicure z Attend ceremony rehearsal z Hold rehearsal dinner & hand-out special gifts to wedding party
z Prepare tip envelopes & arrange for someone to distribute them
WEDDING DAY
z Eat breakfast z Arrange to get checked in & have luggage delivered to your hotel
z Get hair & makeup done z Relax! You’re getting married!!!
Wedding Day Checklist A checklist of things every bride should have on hand for her wedding day. Be prepared! Check off items as you assemble your kit. HONEYMOON CHECKLIST
z Airline tickets (note flight number & departure/ arrival time)
z Cruise tickets (note cabin number & departure/ arrival time)
z Resort/Hotel phone & confirmation number z Passports/Visas z Camera, SD cards & charger z Credit cards z Traveler’s checks z Sewing kit z Medicines/Prescriptions z Extra contact lenses or glasses z Toiletries z Electrical plug adapters z Hair dryer UPDATING YOUR NAME
z Auto Registration z Bank & Credit Card Accounts z Car Insurance Policy z Credit Reporting Agencies z Deeds/Titles z Driver’s License z Employee Records z Investment Accounts z Life Insurance Policy z Medical/Dental Records z Memberships z Passport z Post Office Records z Social Security Records z Stock Certificates z Tax Agency Records z Voter Registration Records z Wills/Trusts
WEDDING DAY EMERGENCY KIT
z Phone numbers for
wedding party, wedding coordinator & vendors
z Sewing kit (thread, needle, safety pins & scissors)
z Personal emergency kit
(including Shout wipes, tampons, & a small snack)
z Skin care (cleansers,
moisturizers & lotion)
z Hair care (hair dryer, curling iron, curlers, brush, comb, hair spray, hair gel, bobby pins, hair elastics, barrettes)
z Nail polish, nail file & polish remover (in shade worn & clear to stop runs in nylons)
z Makeup & makeup remover z Double stick tape z Extra pair of nylons z Toothbrush, toothpaste, floss & mouthwash
z Steamer or iron z Hand mirror, tweezers & small grooming scissors
z Tissues & disposable wipes z Anti-cling spray z Deodorant, perfume & baby powder
z Cotton balls, cotton swabs z Headband or clips for pulling hair back while applying makeup
z Small hand towel z Lint brush z Breath mints z Cash z Checks z Something old, new, borrowed & blue
WEDDING ATTIRE
for her:
z Gown z Headpiece & veil z Lingerie (bra, bustier, slip) z Hosiery & garter z Shoes z Jewelry & accessories z Wrap/jacket z Gloves for him:
z Coat, shirt, vest, trousers z Cummerbund z Neckwear z Cufflinks z Socks & shoes
don’t forget z Rings & marriage license z Ring bearer pillow z Flower girl basket z Wedding programs z Cake knife & server z Toasting flutes z Favors z Guest book & pen z Unity candle, kiddush cup z Pay officiant & vendors z Assign person to collect gifts
Cakes Planner CAKE STYLE
CAKE ACCESSORIES
GROOM'S CAKE
ADDITIONAL DETAILS
Type of Cake
Cake Topper
Type of Cake
Wedding Cake Location
Flavor of Filling
Cake Flowers
Cake Theme
Groom's Cake Location
Flavor of Icing
Cake Decorations
Flavor of Filling
Cake Table Decorations
Date to Taste Samples
Cake Stands
Flavor of Icing
Part to Save
Description
Cake Boxes
Cake Decorations
Person Responsible for Cake Top, Knife, & Server
Cake Knife & Server
Description Person to Save & Freeze Cake
Cake Napkins
Catering Planner TYPE
COURSES
ENTRÉES
ALCOHOL
SERVICE
RENTAL ITEMS
z Beer & Wine z Wine with Dinner z Champagne Toast z Specialty Cocktail
z Passed Hors d'oeuvres z Hors d'oeuvre Tables z Seated Meal z Buffet
z Breakfast/Brunch z Tea z Lunch z Cocktails z Dinner z Dessert z Full Bar
z Hors d'oeuvres z Appetizer z Soup z Salad z Entree z Dessert z Cocktails
z Beef z Chicken z Pork z Fish/Seafood z Lamb z Pasta z Tables z Chairs & Chair Covers z Linens z China, Glassware, Silverware & Serving Dishes
SPECIAL
z Vegetarian z Kosher z Gluten Free z Other
Flowers Planner FLOWERS BY SEASON SPRING
Cherry Blossom Daffodil Dogwood Forsythia Hellebore Hyacinth Lilac Lily of the Valley Muscari Peony Quince Rose Sweet Pea Tulip Viburnum SUMMER
Anemone Astilbe Azalea Calla Lily Camellia Cosmos Daffodil Dahlia Daisy Delphinium French Tulip Hollyhock Hyacinth Hydrangea Jasmine Lady's Mantle Larkspur Lilac Lily of the Valley Marigold Mimosa Pansy Peony Primrose Ranunculus FALL
Autumn Leaves Celosia (cockscomb)
DESCRIPTION OF WEDDING FLOWERS
Chinese Lantern Chrysanthemum Crosnia Dahlia Hydrangea Seasonal Berries Statice Sunflower Yarrow
HELPERS
CEREMONY
Cake Cutting Attendant
Altar/Chuppah
Guest Book Attendant
Candles & Holders
Officiant
Pew/Aisle Markers
WINTER
Soloists & Musicians
Other
WEDDING PARTY
Other
Bride’s Bouquet
RECEPTION
Bride’s Toss Bouquet
Entryway
Bride’s Attendants’
Head Table Centerpiece
Bouquets
Parents’ Table
Flower Girl’s Headpiece / Basket
Centerpieces
Amaryllis Anemone Casablanca Lily Evergreen Forced Bulbs Freesia Gerber Daisy Heather Narcissus Holly (ilex) Paper-white Poinsettia Rose Stephanot YEAR ‘ROUND
Baby’s Breath Calla Lily Carnation Cattleman Chrysanthemum Daisy Freesia Gardenia Gerber Daisy Gladiolus Iris Lily Orchid Protea Ranunculus Rose September Aster Snapdragon Stephanotis Tuberoses
Groom’s Boutonnière Groom’s Attendants’ Boutonnière Ushers’ Boutonnière Ring Bearer’s Boutonnière Mothers’ & Grandmothers’ Corsages
Guest Table Centerpieces Reception Room Flowers Cake & Cake Table Champagne/Punch Table Gift Table Guest Book Table Restroom
Fathers’ & Grandfathers’ Boutonnières
Other
Other
Other
BOUTONNIERE | Single flower for men worn on lapel
NOSEGAY | Single flower or small bouquet, carried
CORSAGE | Single flower for women worn on wrist
POMANDER | Round bouquet on cord usually for flower girls
CASCADE | Blossoms & greenery in teardrop shape
SPRAY | Small bunch of gathered flowers, carried
HAND TIED | Cut flowers tied with ribbon/fabric, carried
TOSS BOUQUET | Bouquet thrown to the single ladies
Wedding Budget CEREMONY
MUSIC
$
Ceremony Site Fee
$
Ceremony
$
Save-the-Date Cards
$
Officiant
$
Reception
$
$
Marriage License
$
Candles/Candelabra
OPTIONAL ITEMS
Invitations & Envelopes
$
Calligrapher
$
Postage
$
Thank You Notes
$
Ceremony Programs
FAVORS & ACCESSORIES $
Cake Knife & Server
$
Cake Top
$
Favors
$
Flower Girl’s Basket
$
Guest Book & Pen
$
STATIONERY
$
Wedding Coordinator
$
Attendant Accommodations
$
Bridesmaids’ Dresses & Shoes
$
Placecards
$
Flower Girl’s Dress
$
Other
$
Groomsmens’ Formal Wear
TRANSPORTATION
Ring Bearer’s Pillow
$
Ring Bearer’s Attire
$
Toasting Glasses
$
Bridesmaid Luncheon
$
Unity Candle, Kiddish Cup
$
Host & Hostess Gift
$
Attendants Gifts
$
Other
FLOWERS $
Bride’s Bouquet
$
Attendants’ Bouquets & Boutonnière
$
Groom’s Boutonnière
$
Ceremony Flowers
$
Reception Flowers
$
Decorations
GIFTS $
Maid/Matron of Honor
$
Bridesmaids
$
Best Man
$
Groomsmen
$
Ushers
$
Child Attendants
$
Bride & Groom
$
Bride’s Parents & Grandparents
$
Groom’s Parents & Grandparents
$
Pre-Wedding Party Hosts
$
Cake Cutting Attendant
$
Soloist/Musicians
$
Program Attendants
$
Other
PHOTOGRAPHY $
Photographer Fees
$
Engagement Session
$
Proofs
$
Wedding Album(s)
$
Disk of Images
RECEPTION
$
Wedding Party
$
Guests
$
Parking
VIDEOGRAPHY $
Videographer’s Fee
$
Wedding DVD
$
Additional Copies
$
Edited Highlights
$
“Love Story” Production
WEDDING ATTIRE
$
Reception Site Fees
FOR HER:
$
Food & Service
$
Gown
$
Tax & Gratuity
$
Alterations
$
Beverage/Bar Fee
$
Headpiece / Veil
$
Cake/Cake Cutting Fee
$
Lingerie & Garter
$
Rental Items
$
Shoes
Other
$
Jewelry & Accessories
$
Hair, Makeup, Manicure
$
Other
$
RINGS $
Engagement
$
Bride’s Wedding Band
$
Groom’s Wedding Band
FOR HIM:
$
Formal Wear
$
Neckwear & Cufflinks
$
Accessories
$
Shoes
$
Other
Sharing the Cost Willingness and ability should always be taken into account when negotiating who pays for each expense. Use these traditional guidelines for some basic guidance, but don’t be afraid to break the “rules!” Everyone should be comfortable with their share and nothing is ever set in stone.
BRIDE
GROOM
z Groom’s Wedding Ring z Wedding Gift for Groom z Gifts for Bridesmaids z Gift for Parents z Gowns for Bridesmaids (optional) z Accommodations for Out-of-
z Bride’s Engagement & Wedding Ring z Bride’s Bouquet z Mothers' Corsages z Wedding Gift for Bride z Gifts for Groomsmen & Ushers z Gift for Parents (optional) z Formal wear for Groomsmen (optional) z Accommodations for Out-of-
Town Attendants (optional)
z Informal Stationery
Town Attendants (optional)
BRIDE’S FAMILY
z Engagement Party z Bride’s Wedding Attire z Bride’s Parents’ Wedding Attire z Wedding Gift for Newlyweds z Invitations, Announcements,
z Marriage License z Honeymoon z Fee for Officiant
z Engagement & Wedding Photographs
z Groom’s Wedding Attire z Groom’s Parents’ Wedding Attire z Wedding Gift for Newlyweds z Rehearsal Dinner z Shipment of Wedding Gifts to Couple’s Home z Welcome Party for Out-of-Town Guests (optional)
GROOM’S FAMILY
z Engagement Party (optional; following
Thank You Notes, Postage
party by bride’s parents)
z Wedding Ceremony Programs
z Wedding Reception z Flowers for Ceremony & Reception z Bridal Party Bouquets & Flowers for Flower Girl z Transportation for Wedding Party to Ceremony & Reception
WEDDING PARTY
z Videographer z Musicians/Vocalists z Security & Insurance for Gifts z Welcome Party for Out-of-Town Guests
z Bridal Shower for Bride z Bachelor(ette) Party z Accommodations for Self z Wedding Attire & Shoes
totals for budget
Ceremony
Music
Stationery
Favors & Accessories
Photography
Transportation
Flowers
Reception
Videography
Gifts
Rings
Wedding Attire
For the Home YOUR REGISTRY CHECKLIST
RISE & GRIND
z Sheet Set z Duvet z Comforter z Pillows z Mattress Pad DECORATE TOGETHER
FRESHEN UP
z Towel Set z Bath Mat z Shower Curtain z Soap Dispenser z Storage
RISE & GRIND
FOR FUN
GET OUTSIDE
HONEYMOON
z TV z Sound Bar z Security System z Digital Camera z Alexa z Grill z Planters z Patio Furniture z Lawn Mower z Tool Box
z Board Games z Camping Gear z Fitness Items z Books z Bikes z Plane Tickets z Hotel z Luggage z Rental Car z Beach Towels
MAKE IT SPOTLESS
z Picture Frames z Throw Blankets z Lamps z Art z Furniture
z Vacuum z Broom z Laundry Basket z Iron z Mop
For the Kitchen YOUR REGISTRY CHECKLIST
WAKE UP
COOK A MEAL
ENTERTAIN TOGETHER
RISE & GRIND
FRESHEN UP
GET OUTSIDE
z Coffee Maker z Toaster z Blender z French Press z Waffle Maker z Sheet Set z Duvet z Comforter z Pillows z Mattress Pad
z Saucepans z Cookware z Cutting Boards z Mixing Bowls z Silverware
z Towel Set z Bath Mat z Shower Curtain z Soap Dispenser z Storage
z Cheese Plate z Wine Glasses z Whiskey Glasses z Pitcher z Bar Tools z Grill z Planters z Patio Furniture z Lawn Mower z Tool Box
HONEYMOON
z Plane Tickets z Hotel z Luggage z Rental Car z Beach Towels
OUT-OF-THE BOX REGISTRY IDEAS
hangers
tools
kitchen furniture
sports items
luggage
bedding
yard items
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