Fucking For Fun Jerk’s guide to the most pleasurable sex possible.
words by Margo Moran | art by Jenny Katz Fucking someone you love in an effort to feel close to them is cool. Fucking a stranger in the bathroom of a bar because you wanted to is also super cool (COVID aside). Fucking for the sole purpose of feeling good is valid and very cool. Pleasure can come in many forms, from solo situations to partner-play to a full-on group gab sesh. The goal of everyone involved should always be that all parties feel as good as possible, and sometimes the best way to amp up those feelings of satisfaction is by involving props. Sex toys can range from handcuffs to vibrators to sex swings, and because there’s such a massive range of toys, there really is something for everyone. Without further ado, let’s meet our sexy hot candidates:
Lube Lube, or as it’s written on her birth certificate, lubricant, is not a toy per se but is a foundational part of pleasure that is too often overlooked. Natural moisture is fantastic, but sometimes it doesn’t happen or you just want reinforcements! Lube can eliminate friction during penetration and decrease your chances of feeling discomfort or pain. Situations Where Lube is Particularly Fantastic: When someone experiences tightness during vaginal penetration: if you’re hooking up while high and your mouth isn’t the only thing that’s dry; if you don’t have time for sufficient foreplay; if the person you’re fucking has no earthly clue how to make a vagina wet. A particulary beloved product because of its reasonable price, notable effectiveness, and lack of animal testing is Nécessaire’s The Sex Gel, available at Sephora. Nothing says sexy like ethical production.
The Dildo Dildos are a classic for a reason. A dildo is the perfect toy for someone with a vagina who sits in their introductory science lecture and dreams of getting absolutely fucking railed. Rail yourself and call that shit fourth wave feminism! Or, get silly with a partner, whether they’re penile-inclined or not. In fact, getting a trusted associate involved can take your experiences with any of these toys into a new and exciting realm. Dildos are the closest thing to penetrative sex, but with more convenient angles and neat colors. Pair with our old friend lube for a smoother and more comfortable dildo experience, especially if it’s going in your ass! Fantastic When: You want some deep penetration that hits your g-spot, or when you want to simulate being penetrated with a penis. A Fun Match For The Dildo: The harness! This allows you to strap a dildo to your pelvis to simulate penetrative sex with your partner.
