December 2011 by Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley

JValley news December 2011

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from the ceo

Dear friends,

As many of our readers know we embarked on an ambitious plan to chart the future of the Federation. I am happy to share my nascent excitement about the developing strategic plan. Part of this plan is to align our community’s interests with programs. In addition to the meetings that we have conducted with community members, we are hopeful that our donors take the time to share their personal priorities about their philanthropy. We truly want your opinion about what our collective support should fund. You may receive a call from a Federation volunteer to ask for your opinion. But, you don’t have to wait to be asked. Let us know which community projects are important to you. Based on community conversations to date, we have been able to hone in on five areas of support which are: • • • • •

Supporting the most vulnerable in our community (hungry, poor, seniors) Welcoming the unaffiliated (singles, young families, empty nesters, inter-married couples) Leadership development for all agencies Israel and overseas Jewish Identity (arts and culture, camps, schools, synagogues)

Where do you think our communal responsibilities lie? We want to hear from you. You can email me (jyl@jvalley.org) or call our office at 408-3583033. Tell us your priorities for our community. Best wishes for a safe and joyous holiday season, jyl

Before we wave goodbye to 2011... ...close the year knowing that you did your part to make the world a kinder place for those in need. There are many ways to give. Our community needs your time and resources. Visit our secure website www.jvalley.org to find more information about projects and programs which need your support. If you would like to make a gift before the end of the year, please call us at 408-358-3033 or visit www.jvalley.org. Any pledge made now is payable through Dec. 31, 2012. If you are over 70 1/2, then you are eligible to make a gift through your IRA. Funds raised through the Annual Campaign are distributed locally and overseas to support humanitarian, social and educational programs. Your gift will make a difference to so many people.

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content Local Highlights

EDUCATION

Dottie Miller honored by Sharone Hadassah 9

Yavneh Celebrates 30 years

From the CEO 3

Hillel of Silicon Valley’s Grand Opening

JCRC screening film about food stamps

Simchas 26

PJ goes to school

Rabbi’s Column 18

Yavneh students experience food injustice 11

In Every Issue

Local man replaces stolen walker

Datebook 30

Get bitten by the newest in fitness

Judy Levin is new APJCC board chair

Beyond Silicon Valley

Candlelighting times

Reflection by Rabbi Leslie Alexander

Living walls created by local man

Solar roofs at Sinai

History of the Maccabiah Games

Gold medalist resides in Los Gatos

Hanukah Specials

Charitable IRA distributions

Hanukah at Hicklebee’s

A prayer for one who performs miracles

Obituaries 32 Professional Directory 34

Be a Shining Light This Hanukah: Volunteer through JFS Jewish Family Services of Silicon Valley (JFS) needs volunteers in several areas this Hanukah. Office Assistants Adult volunteers are needed to sit at the JFS reception desk to greet people, receive and process Embrace-A-Family gifts and donations, and answer the main phone line. Training will be provided. Dates: November 14- December 23, 2-5 PM, Monday – Friday. You may sign up for a minimum of 5 days during this time period. More days are welcome and encouraged! Gift Wrappers Adult and teen volunteers are needed to wrap Embrace-A-Family holiday gifts. *New and unused gift bags are needed in all sizes. Dates: November 28 – 30; December 1 – 16; times to be arranged. Food and Gift Package Deliverers Adults (including children) are needed to help deliver Hanukkah food packages and Embrace-A-Family gifts to seniors. This is a great family activity. Hanukkah food and gift packages will be delivered December 14, 15, 16 and 19. If you have time to give, come volunteer with us. Please contact Cherie Ravel, Director of Volunteer Programs at 408.357.7467 or cherier@jfssv.org. 4 www.jvalley.org

Congregation Beth David There’s a Place for me at CBD

19700 Prospect Road, Saratoga 408-257-3333 www.beth-david.org Daniel Pressman, Senior Rabbi Philip Ohriner, Assistant Rabbi

Jews in the California Gold Rush

Speaker: Stephen Kinsey, history teacher

Daily Minyan

Tuesday, December 13, 7:30 - 9:00 p.m. Stephen Kinsey will discuss the roles and significance of Jews in the Mother Lode during the California Gold Rush era.

Shabbat Services

MISHPAHA PROGRAM: Hanukkah

Service Schedule Mon-Thurs 7:00 p.m. Sunday 9:30 a.m. Friday 6:30 p.m. Saturday 9:30 a.m.

Mediation and Ma’ariv Friday Evening 6:30 p.m. - December 23

Family & Youth

Friday Evening PJ Shabbat & Dinner 6:00 p.m. - December 16 Shabbat Mishpaha/ Hazak Shabbat 6:30 p.m. - January 6 Shabbat Morning Tot Shabbat (ages 0-5) 11:00 a.m. - December 10 & 24 Haverim Services (ages 5-8) 10:20 a.m. - December 10 Youth Congregation (ages 9-12) 10:00 a.m. – December 10

Sunday, December 11, 9:30 - 12:30 p.m.

Special FREE Sunday Program Open to the Community Activities for parents and children * Adult LearningTot/Prek Program * Learning experiences for K-7th * Finale and Food for all * Teen Mitzvah Corps

SAVE THE DATE Jewbilee Celebrating Jewish Life!

Hosted by Beth David with the JCC Sunday, January 22, 1:00 - 5:00 p.m. Celebrate Jewish Life & Learning! Join Bay Area Rabbis, Scholars, Artists & Educators for a full afternoon of classes, programs, performances: open kosher buffet, Jewish Film Festival, family programming, complimentary daycare.

change the world with just one call. Each year, the Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley holds a phona-thon to raise money for local and overseas programs. It is an effective way for us to bring everyone together for one purpose: raising funds to support our Jewish community around the world. Even in this age of annoying telemarketers, this is still the most effective way for the Federation to reach the majority of our donors. On average, over 700 donors make gifts on a Super Sunday call. So, when you get the call, please answer it.

to volunteer for super sunday please call 408-358-3033 or visit jvalley.org

SUPER SUNDAY Super Sunday Feb. 12, 2012

9:00 am–6:00 pm The Gloria & Ken Levy Family Campus Super Sunday Chairs: Howard and Renee Fine

The Addison-Penzak Jewish Community Center Talk to us about membership! 408.356.4973 • Holiday celebrations • Classes for all ages • Art exhibits • Cultural events • Social events • Facility rentals • Birthday parties • Dairy cafe

• Fitness center • Aquatics center • Tennis complex • Indoor basketball • Preschool • Day camps • Sports leagues • Swim lessons

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D OMESTIC V IOLENCE C AN H APPEN A NYWHERE Bay Area rabbis join with Shalom Bayit in working to end domestic violence in Jewish homes Pitchu li sha’arei tzedek

‫שע ֲֵרי צֶדֶ ק‬ ַ ‫פִּתְ חּו לִּי‬

Open for us the gates of Righteousness. Judaism teaches us to treat one another with dignity and respect. We pray for peaceful homes, and invite anyone struggling in a current relationship, or healing wounds of the past, to seek our support. Our doors are open, and you are not alone. Rabbi Leslie Alexander, Jewish Community Chaplain, Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley Rabbi Camille Angel, Congregation Sha'ar Zahav Rabbi Melanie Aron, Congregation Shir Hadash Rabbi Rafael Asher, Congregation B'nai Tikvah Rabbi Ryan Bauer, Congregation Emanu-El Rabbi Allen Bennett, Temple Israel, Alameda Rabbi Joshua Berkenwald, Congregation Sinai, San Jose Rabbi Mark Bloom, Temple Beth Abraham Rabbi David Booth, Congregation Kol Emeth Rabbi Ari Cartun, Congregation Etz Chayim Rabbi Steven Chester, Rabbi Emeritus, Temple Sinai, Oakland Rabbi Karen Citrin, Peninsula Temple Beth El Rabbi Michah Citrin, Peninsula Temple Beth El Rabbi Yonatan Cohen, Congregation Beth Israel, Berkeley Rabbi David Cooper, Kehilla Community Synagogue Rabbi Mychal Copeland, Hillel at Stanford Rabbi Menachem Creditor, Congregation Netivot Shalom Rabbi Judah Dardik, Beth Jacob Congregation, Oakland Rabbi Michael Davies, Beth Jacob Congregation, Oakland Rabbi Lavey Yitzchak Derby Rabbi Dennis Eisner, Peninsula Temple Beth El Rabbi Nat Ezray, Temple Beth Jacob, Redwood City Rabbi Daniel J. Feder, Peninsula Temple Sholom Rabbi Ted Feldman, Congregation B'nai Israel Rabbi Yitzchok Feldman, Congregation Emek Beracha Rabbi Natan Fenner, Bay Area Jewish Healing Center Rabbi Carla Fenves, Congregation Emanu-El Rabbi Yehuda Ferris, Chabad of the East Bay Rabbi Alissa Forrest, Temple Isaiah, Lafayette Rabbi Stacy Friedman, Congregation Rodef Sholom

Rabbi Pamela Frydman, Academy for Jewish Religion Rabbi George Gittleman, Congregation Shomrei Torah Rabbi Dan Goldblatt, Beth Chaim Congregation Rabbi Marvin Goodman, Northern California Board of Rabbis, Rabbi-in-Residence, SF-based Jewish Community Federation Rabbi Danny Gottlieb, Congregation Beth Israel Judea Rabbi Roberto Graetz, Temple Isaiah, Lafayette Rabbi Sarah Graff, Congregation Kol Emeth Rabbi Nicole Greninger, Temple Isaiah, Lafayette Rabbi Jason Gwasdoff, Temple Israel, Stockton Rabbi Corey Helfand, Peninsula Sinai Congregation, Foster City Rabbi Micah Hyman, Congregation Beth Sholom Rabbi Debbie Israel, Congregation Emeth, Morgan Hill Rabbi Burt Jacobson, Kehilla Community Synagogue Rabbi Jonathan Jaffe, Congregation Emanu-El Rabbi Valerie Joseph Rabbi Yoel Kahn, Congregation Beth El, Berkeley Rabbi Stuart Kelman, Founding Rabbi, Congregation Netivot Shalom Rabbi Dean Kertesz, Temple Beth Hillel, Richmond Rabbi Stephanie Kramer, Congregation Shomrei Torah Rabbi Elliot Kukla, Bay Area Jewish Healing Center Rabbi Noa Kushner, The Kitchen Rabbi Yosef Langer, Chabad of San Francisco Rabbi Yosef Levin, Chabad of the Greater South Bay Rabbi Chai Levy, Congregation Kol Shofar Rabbi Michael Lezak, Congregation Rodef Sholom Rabbi Jane Litman, Reconstructionist Movement, Western Region Rabbi Dana Magat, Temple EmanuEl, San Jose Rabbi Yossi Marcus, Chabad North Peninsula

Rabbi Janet Marder, Congregation Beth Am Rabbi Sheldon Marder, Jewish Home of San Francisco Rabbi Jacqueline Mates-Muchin, Temple Sinai, Oakland Rabbi Mark Melamut, Congregation B'nai Emunah Rabbi Sydney Mintz, Congregation Emanu-El Rabbi Katie Mizrahi, Or Shalom Jewish Community Rabbi Larry Moldo, Congregation Beth Shalom, Modesto Rabbi Dev Noily, Kehilla Community Synagogue Rabbi Phillip Ohriner, Congregation Beth David, Saratoga Rabbi Stephen S. Pearce, Congregation Emanu-El Rabbi Daniel Pressman, Congregation Beth David, Saratoga Rabbi Lawrence Raphael, Congregation Sherith Israel Rabbi Elisheva Salamo, Keddem Congregation Rabbi Julie Saxe-Taller, Congregation Sherith Israel Rabbi SaraLeya Schley, Chochmat HaLev Rabbi Avi Schulman, Temple Beth Torah, Fremont Rabbi Judith Seid, Tri-Valley Cultural Jews Rabbi Judy Shanks, Temple Isaiah, Lafayette Rabbi Jon Sommer, Bay Area Jewish Healing Center Rabbi Rebekah Stern, Peninsula Temple Sholom Rabbi Joshua Strulowitz, Congregation Adath Israel Rabbi Laurie Hahn Tapper, Yavneh Day School Rabbi Moishe Weinbaum, Chabad North Peninsula Rabbi Mimi Weisel Rabbi Eric Weiss, Bay Area Jewish Healing Center Rabbi Greg Wolfe, Congregation Bet Haverim, Davis Rabbi Bridget Wynne, Jewish Gateways Rabbi Reuben Zellman, Congregation Beth El, Berkeley Organizations listed for identification purposes only.

May all homes be filled with true shalom bayit (peace in the home). Shalom Bayit works to end domestic violence in Jewish homes and to encourage healthy

relationships. Confidential individual and group counseling, safety planning, and spiritual support provided free of charge.

Bay Area Toll-Free Helpline (866) SHALOM-7 [866-742-5667] www.shalom-bayit.org

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Hunger Banquet, 11/6: An Interfaith call to action

c mmunity photos The Community Relations Council of the Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley invited other faiths and food justice activists to an unequal lunch at First Unitarian Church of Oakland to inspire advocacy for food stamp benefits.

Sharing of food from the middle- and high-income groups with the low-income group

Diane Fisher and Myrna David, JCRC Directors, with Councilwoman Rebecca Kaplan and staff member Andre Jones

Middle-income meal of spaghetti and soda with Silicon Valley JCRC Mazon Hunger Fellow, Catherine Haas

Our invaluable kitchen volunteers

Best Wishes for a

Happy Hanukkah! Susan Fagin SFagin@gmail.com

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Yavneh celebrates 30 years “We want our children to rejoice in being Jewish; to realize the joys and values in life through the celebrations, ceremonies, and symbols of our history, theology, and ethics. The initial mission of the founding of Yavneh was, and is, to educate the American Jewish child with the best secular and Jewish education.” - Rabbi Danzig, 1985 Yavneh Day School’s commitment to providing a challenging academic program within a strong Jewish community has remained steadfast through the decades, but this South Bay institution has come a long way since its inception. Then (1981) • 19 students • Preschool and Kindergarten • One room at Beth David • No accreeditation

Now (2011) • 174 students • Junior Kindergarten through Eighth Grade • Two stories of classrooms at the Levy Family Campus • California Association of Independent Schools (CAIS)

Yavneh opened its doors in the fall of 1981 in a single room at Beth David. There were just 19 preschool and kindergarten students. Yavneh outgrew its home at Beth David that first year. In 1982, the JCC purchased the Oka Road site (then a med-fly station) and welcomed a growing Yavneh to the new campus. When the Federation undertook the building of a new campus in 2002, Yavneh packed up its classrooms and moved to temporary quarters at the old Blackford High School. There it shared space with Kehillah High School and several other small independent schools. It was on the Blackford campus in 2002 where Yavneh officially added a middle school. In 2005, Yavneh moved back home to its current location, the Levy Family Campus. The new facility boasted spacious classrooms, a science lab, a multipurpose room, library, and wonderful yard and play structure. Today, Yavneh is a highly sought after elementary and middle school drawing families from as far north as San Mateo and as far south as Santa Cruz. At a time when most local public and independent schools are cutting back their hours and programs, Yavneh remains committed to incorporating art, music, technology, Hebrew language, physical education, and science lab into the daily and weekly schedule. Yavneh also adopted the highly acclaimed Singapore Math curriculum, setting it apart from other schools in the area. Yavneh’s efforts over the years has seemingly paid off. Enrollment this year spiked by nearly 10%. The school hopes to continue to see an upsurge in enrollment and remains firmly committed to providing financial aid so that every Jewish family has access to a Jewish day school education. Yavneh has covered a lot of ground in the past three decades. On Sunday, March 18, Yavneh will celebrate its thirtieth anniversary with an ‘80s theme party and fundraiser, “Yavneh’s Most Excellent Adventure.” Yavneh is going to take it to the max with a totally cool party. This rad evening will feature dinner, dancing, a silent auction and lots of fun. Party goers will rock out to their favorite tunes from the ‘80s (hosted by Joel Nelson). Be there or be square!! But it’s not just the prospect of a fun evening that will draw decades of Yavneh supporters to the event. Yavneh will honor the many individuals whose efforts have made the school the success it is today. Among those honored will be the past Board of Trustees presidents including Cheryl Bader, Joel Rubnitz, Susan Ellenberg, Mishy Balaban, Karen Ceppos, Barbara Tobias-Chappell, Phil Kipnis, Michael Leitner, Art Brody, Cyndi Sherman, Howard Klein, Sandy Mayer and Lynda Harmatz Weiss.

Ilana Friedlander, seen here teaching students about Yitzhak Rabin, will be honored at Yavneh’s 30th Anniversary Party on March 18, 2012. Morah Ilana has been a teacher at Yavneh for 22 years. The Past Presidents of the Board of Trustees will also be honored.

The event will also honor a much-loved teacher who has served Yavneh for more than 22 years: Ilana Friedlander. Morah Ilana, as she is known to decades of students, joined the Yavneh faculty in 1991 as a part-time Jewish Studies teacher in first grade, just two years after she moved from Israel with her husband and two children. As the school grew, so did Morah Ilana’s responsibilities. Now Morah Ilana is the Hebrew Language Coordinator for the school as well as a first, second, and third grade Hebrew and Jewish studies teacher. “Even though I’m so far away from my home (Israel), I feel that Yavneh is like my other home. I’m surrounded by good friends and wonderful children. I enjoy celebrating the holidays and speaking Hebrew with my students and colleagues, and I love sharing my knowledge with a new generation.” As Yavneh looks to the future, it hopes to continue to attract and retain the best faculty, further grow its science program, enhance the use of technology in the classroom and build out its extracurricular programming in athletics, music and the arts. For more information on this tubular event, go to www.yavnehdayschool.org and click on the thirtieth anniversary link. 8

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Dottie Miller honored by Sharone Hadassah

he Sharone Chapter of Hadassah honored long-time member and leader Dottie Miller at its Healing Hands Brunch on November 6. The keynote speaker was David (Dadi) Perlmutter, executive vice president and general manager of Intel Corporation’s Mobility Group.

Dottie joined Sharone Hadassah in 1978. She describes Sharone in its early days as “the little chapter between Sequoia and San José chapters, but we were very ‘person-to-person.’” She recalls that the first Healing Hands dinner was at Anna Silberstein’s house, “and we all cooked!” Dottie joined Hadassah because “I believed in Hadassah’s mission,” but her lifelong commitment to Sharone was built as much on “the strong friendships that kept us going.” She remembers “our kids played together” while the adults conducted board meetings and planned events. Dottie Miller

As an energetic mother of three and a lifelong educator, it was logical that, after chairing several chapter committees, Dottie became Sharone’s vice president of education and then president. From there she went on to serve the Central Pacific Coast Region of Hadassah, first as co-chair of the Asilomar conference for two years, then as advisor to other chapters, and finally as president of the Region board. She also served on Hadassah’s National Board for four years and chaired its resolutions committee. Dottie and her husband Michael (z”l) were always active in their community ― Michael at Congregation Kol Emeth in Los Altos and Dottie at Congregation Beth David in Saratoga. Dottie taught at Beth David and was the principal of its successful Hebrew High program for 18 years. “Of all the educational initiatives in which I was involved, the one I’m proudest of is Beth David’s Hebrew High. I built it into a strong program [growing to a high of 150 students], where kids loved coming, were willing to learn, and enjoyed being with their Jewish friends.” She also served The Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley for eight years as a director of the Council on Jewish Education (which had been established by Bonnie Slavitt Moore.) Dottie was instrumental in establishing the Myuhad program at the Addison-Penzak Jewish Community Center, for which she ran in-service classes and worked with the Principals’ Council. Myuhad later relocated to Congregation Beth David, where it is flourishing under the guidance of special education teacher Irene Swedroe as part of the synagogue’s religious school. Most recently, she was asked by APJCC director Hal Bordy to bring the Florence Melton Adult Mini-School of the Hebrew University in Israel to the community, a program fostered over the years by former director of the APJCC’s Center for Jewish Life and Learning, Rabbi Joshua Fenton. Way back in her career, Dottie accompanied Michael to Ethiopia where she taught Shakespeare at the University of Asmara, later teaching language, literature, grammar and writing, and started the college’s library (to which Michael’s mother Alida sent books). For her many years of innovative service and talented leadership, Dottie received the Lion of Judah award from Israel Bonds and the Leadership Award from the University of Judaism. Her source of greatest pride these days is her family. Older daughter Laurie (Mrs. Doron Golubtchik) lives in Woodmere, Long Island, NY, where she is principal of the Yeshiva Central Queens Middle School. Laurie and Doron are the parents of Tamar (17), Avital (14) and Hillel, (10). Jonathan and wife Tamar live in Burlingame, CA, where Jonathan is the vice president of Marketo (a business-to-business viral marketing firm). Jonathan and Tamar have two children: Beckett (5) and Michaela (2;) named after her grandfather Michael). Younger daughter Rachel (Mrs. Jeff Lazarus) lives in Atlanta, GA, where she is an attorney with Legal Aid. Their children are Alison (8) and Jessica, (5).

Rosa Bencuya

“The Sharone Chapter of Hadassah is proud of one of its most effective and best loved leaders,” says Hadassah member Jane Jacobson, “and we are delighted to be able to recognize her years of leadership and loyalty at our Healing Hands Brunch.” 408.499.2077 • 408.913.7784 rbencuya@apr.com www.homebyrosa.com Saratoga office 408.741.11111

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l cal news Hillel of Silicon Valley’s Grand Opening By Eleanor Weber Dickman It was a warm day ― from the beaming sun overhead to the smiles and hugs exchanged by Hillel supporters and members of Silicon Valley’s Jewish community. The Grand Opening of the new Hillel House at 44 South Eleventh Street in San José was an event long anticipated and joyously received. Festive balloons announced the celebration to passers-by. Name badges and chocolate bars were given to guests as they signed in. Compliments and best wishes were heard throughout the beautifully appointed, spacious and welcoming new home of Hillel of Silicon Valley. On the backyard patio, Hillel students were already busy at work grilling kosher hot dogs, hamburgers, and veggie burgers. In the spacious kitchen, bowls and platters of tasty fare awaited happy diners. In the basement lounge, folks listened intently to author and historian April Halberstadt, past president of the San José Women’s Club, describe the history, architecture, and ambiance of Naglee Park, Hillel’s new neighborhood. Stephen Kinsey, a SJSU alumnus and community supporter of Hillel, discussed the historical highlights of “Jewish San José.” At 12:30 p.m., the Grand Opening Ceremony began. Smiles were everywhere in evidence as Hillel’s leaders ― both professional and volunteer ― recounted the recent history of the groundbreaking, fundraising, renovation, and furnishing of the house that was now Hillel’s new home. Current Hillel President Bonnie Slavitt Moore welcomed the crowd at this event, which, she said, represented “a significant and important milestone for this valuable community resource.” Thanking the community for providing 95% of the support for Hillel, she asked attendees to celebrate this “vibrant force for student growth and comfort.” Barbara Illowsky, immediate past president, acknowledged the presence of the many dignitaries and community leaders present. San José City Councilmember Rose Herrera (Dist. 8) noted that she had “discovered my Judaism at Hillel” and praised Hillel for “also being a resource to Jewish students that did not come with strong Jewish identities.”

Rabbi Ohriner addresses the crowd at the new Hillel House

She expressed personal pride in presenting a Certificate of Commendation from the San José City Council, concluding, “Mazal Tov!” Wayne Firestone, president of the international Hillel organization praised the opening of Hillel’s newest home, noting that “even in a time of tremendous challenges” Hillel had opened twenty new facilities in the past five years. “We believe in the mission of the university ― it is good for the Jewish community and for the world. Hillel sets an example of what moral and ethical teachings can lead to for civilization.” Alan Werba, chair of the new home’s capital campaign committee, praised the many people whose contributions ― of money, time, leadership and inspiration ― enabled the realization of this long-held dream. He acknowledged with deep gratitude the philanthropic leadership of Eli Reinhard, “a community hero [...] whose pledge catapulted us toward completion. He also thanked the donors who had contributed bridge loans in June 2009 to help purchase the home. He praised volunteer project manager John Nadler and architect David Fester who, with the help of Arcadia Development, remodeled the house built in 1903. Werba had high praise for Hillel Executive Director Sue Maltiel, whose “determination to make this campaign a success led us forward in so many ways.” He acknowledged community supporter Ann Tavan for creating an imaginative and colorful donor recognition board, and then unveiled the dedication plaque in honor of Eli Reinhard’s parents Elizabeth and Isidor Reinhard and uncle Dr. Samuel Reinhard. Student leader Eric Medeiros termed Hillel of Silicon Valley (which serves De Anza College, Foothill college, San José State University, Santa Clara University and West Valley College) an “amazing resource for education, Jewish involvement, fun and friendship for building Jewish leaders.” He credited Hillel for “jumpstarting my leadership in college activity,” and told the crowd that “none of this would have been possible without the support of each of you. This is truly an act of “l’dor v’dor” [from generation to generation]. As is traditional in dedicating a new Jewish home, the ceremony then focused on “hanukat habayit” ― the affixing of a mezuzah to the doorpost of this new home. Eli Reinhard read the dedication prayer in Hebrew, followed by new program director Jessica Trousdale, who read the blessing in English. In conclusion, Bonnie Slavitt Moore noted that, at her college, the University of Wisconsin, “the college was the beginning of my education, my sorority gave me organizational techniques, and Hillel gave me my Jewish identity. I want to give back to Hillel as it was given to me as an undergraduate.” Before adjourning to enjoy lunch and lively music from “Meshugga Beach Party,” Hillel Director Sue Maltiel concluded: “Together, all of us share this heritage, our role in making this world a better place.”

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Yavneh middle school students experience food injustice first-hand

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avneh Middle School students experienced the injustice of hunger first-hand during a Hunger Banquet, a program created by Oxfam international and adapted for Yavneh middle school students as part of their Social Justice curriculum. The Hunger Banquet was one component of a larger focus on food injustice at Yavneh this year, and was designed to deepen awareness on campus of hunger and poverty issues.

Middle school students were randomly assigned to one of three groups, each congregating in a different area of Yavneh’s Multi Purpose Room. Approximately one-quarter of the students were seated at beautifully appointed tables and were served a multi-course meal with an appetizing array of foods by attentive parent volunteers. This group of lucky students represented the 27% of Bay Area residents who live in affluence. Another group of students sat at a long table from which they could access a buffet lunch. These students had fewer choices, but freely helped themselves to a filling, nutritious meal. This group represented the 50% of Bay Area residents living in the middle income range. The final quarter of students were seated in the middle of the room, on the floor, without plates or utensils, and with only a meager allowance of food: white bread, peanut butter, and mayonnaise. This group represented the 23% of Bay Area residents who struggle to meet their family’s basic needs – living in poverty or under the self sufficiency level. As students began to adjust to their assigned group and circumstance, strong reactions emerged. Students seated on the floor allotted a meager lunch had a variety of reactions. Some members of this group were unhappy with the white bread and peanut butter and refused to eat it, though they had no other option. One of the facilitators, APJCC Teen Director Jason Goldstein, facilitated a discussion about what real hunger might feel like, and how it would feel to have minimal food options, and even fewer healthier food choices. Others got up and asked participants at other tables to share their food with them. Jason pointed out that they felt comfortable asking for donations because they were asking their friends. Would they be comfortable asking for food handouts from people they didn’t know? Elsewhere in the room, “affluent” and “middle income” students were faced with several dilemmas: enjoy their meal or offer to donate all or a portion of their meal to a student in the lower income group. Many students took action. Seventh grade student Daniel got up from his seat at the affluent table and offered parts of his lunch to students seated on the floor. “I’m donating to the poor because I’m rich and I want to help the poor get through this difficult time.” Many others from the middle income and affluent groups didn’t hesitate to share their food with their hungrier peers. “The visual component was a lot of it,” reflected eighth grade student Itay. “If you don’t see it, you can’t really think about it, even when it’s in the news.” Organizer of the event Parent Volunteer and Social Justice This group of Yavneh Middle School Hunger Banquet participants represented the 23% of Bay Area residents Teacher Susan Ellenberg explained to students, “When who struggle to meet their family’s basic needs and who live in poverty or under the self-sufficiency level. families have limited budgets to buy food, or live in a neighborhood where food options are limited, they are often forced to choose cheap unhealthy foods. Lack of access to healthy, affordable food options contributes to both malnutrition and obesity, a leading cause of death in the United States. You may think that hunger is about too many people and too little food. This is not the case. Our rich and bountiful planet produces enough food to feed every woman, man, and child. We have to ensure that everyone can afford to buy the food and that they have access to healthy options.” Discussions and debates around campus continued long after the banquet concluded. Some students reflected about the amount of waste the upper income groups created in comparison to the lower income group. Others compared notes about the choices they made when presented with both junk food options and healthy food options. Students also debated such questions as: “What obligation as individuals do we have to address the inequity?” “How might we enable people living in impoverished areas access to healthier foods?” “How much or little should the government be involved?” “We want to sow the seeds for lifelong commitment to looking at life through a “social justice” lens – what is the situation in front of me and who is helping and who is hurting and what I can I do to increase the former and decrease the latter,” says Mrs. Ellenberg. Concluded one middle school student, “I often think that I would like to be rich. The Hunger Banquet made me realize that I already am rich.” www.jvalley.org

l cal news Local man replaces stolen walker In early September, Cambria Hurst, a two-and-a-half-year-old, had her custom-fit walker stolen. The thief took the walker from her families front yard and the story was presented by her father, Daniel Hurst, on KTVU while in tears. Cambria is developmentally delayed as a result of a genetic disorder and the walker allowed her a chance to stand and walk.

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Joel Weissbart, a San Jose resident, heard the story and felt the need to do something. Joel’s son is about the same age as Cambria and he originally thought about making the girl a new walker (he and his father, Dave, are the owners of Bart Manufacturing), but they then decided to buy her new one.

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JCRC Screening Film about food stamps Thanks to a grant through the Jewish Council for Public Affairs, funded by MAZON, A Jewish Response to Hunger, the JCRC has acquired the documentary "Food Stamped" for local screenings in the Jewish community. The film makers, Shira and Yoav Potash, ate on a food stamp budget for a week and documented their struggles to maintain their health and their values. Along the way they consulted with members of Congress, food justice organizations, nutrition experts, and real people living on food stamps, and probed into the problems of America's broken food system. On Sunday, October 23, about 20 Yavneh middle school students and their parents gathered with their teacher Susan Ellenberg in the Levy Family Campus auditorium to view the film and eat healthy snacks. For some students, they learned for the first time that there are hungry children whose families struggle to buy adequate food with support from the federal nutrition program. They thought they would prefer to be full, rather than spend their food dollars on more expensive healthy food. Healthy choices was the topic at the screening on November 30, co-sponsored with the JCC Jewish Life and Learning and Fitness programs. Nutritionist Leah Frankel led a discussion following the film titled "Getting the most out of your dollar, without the dollar menu". Catherine Haas, MAZON Fellow working with the JCRC on this program, will lead the discussion on December 13 when Congregation Beth David's Hebrew High students view the film. She is coordinating future screenings for school groups, youth groups, Men's clubs and Sisterhoods, and other groups in the community, and can be contacted at chaas@jvalley.org. www.jvalley.org

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Welcome to a school where the journey is just as important as the destination. At South Peninsula Hebrew Day School, we don’t believe in just filling children with facts. Kids learn best when they can experiment and explore in a joyful setting that celebrates their accomplishments. Children who learn this way give us hope for a brighter future. Gan aviv PreScHool for ages 2 through 5. after-care options until 6 p.m. oPen HouSe – January 29, 10 a.m. - 12 p.m. rSvP to ece @ sphds.org K-8 applications Deadline – January 30

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l cal news Get bitten by the newest in fitness The fitness department of the Addison-Penzak Jewish Community Center (APJCC) introduced an exciting new exercise program in August. Based on creator Michol Dalcourt’s observations of fit farmers, he developed a piece of equipment which can be used in many ways to accelerate fitness through muscle tone and memory. The program is ViPR which stands for Vitality, Performance and Re-conditioning and uses rubber tubes to encourage peak performance. The tubes can be used in an infinite number of ways to engage a whole body experience. Many of the exercises are reminiscent of lifting bales of hay, picking produce or other farm activities. All of them are fun and exciting. Recently, the fitness training staff engaged in a full day of training on the ViPR equipment. Assistant Director of Wellness Services Deborah Rothschild said, “The training was fun and now all the trainers will think of even more ways to engage their clients with this new equipment.” For those looking for a new challenge or those looking to get back to their agricultural roots, this new program could be just the thing to revitalize one’s workout. ViPR will “strike you” with its simplicity of design and complexity of physical challenge. For more information or to make your appointment to try our ViPR, please call the Fitness Desk at (408) 357-7419.

Judy Levin is New APJCC Board Chair The Addison-Penzak JCC’s Board of Director elected new officers at the JCC’s annual meeting in September 2011. Judy Levin is the new Chair of the Board. Other officers include Ronald Cohn, Vice Chair Finance; Rebecca Geshuri, Vice Chair; and Avery Kaufman Borenstein, Secretary.

Reflection by Rabbi Leslie Alexander

have been the Federation’s Jewish Community Chaplain for thirteen years and have experienced more meaningful times of joy and of sadness, of anxiety and of relief, with members of our community than I can count. A few weeks ago, however, I was a part of a sad, but wonderful experience that reminded me what it really means to be a part of Jewish Community and how much we are there for each other. I received a call from a hospital that a family wanted to speak with a Rabbi – that their husband and father was nearing the end of life and they wanted a blessing for him. When I called the family, it became clear that I had met them many times before during chaplaincy hospital visits. I knew them to be wonderful people, a loving and close-knit family who had, for many years, been going through very hard times, health-wise and financially. The family didn’t know what to do. They had been told that cremation was not a choice that Jewish law preferred, but they couldn’t manage the cost of a traditional funeral. When I spoke to them, they were, as any of us would be, emotional, scared and without a solution of how to lay to rest a man that they loved so much. I asked them to wait an hour and a half and I would get back to them. Then I called Wayne Rose at Sinai Memorial Chapel in Redwood City. Wayne and I have worked together many times over the years. He is a mensch who really cares about the families he helps when arranging funerals. Most of you also may know that Sinai Memorial Chapel is very unusual. It was founded to be a non-profit communal institution that disburses its profits to synagogues, camps and Jewish Community agencies.

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Wayne called me back within ten minutes and said that he had arranged for Sinai Memorial to provide the funeral and Home of Peace in Colma to provide the plot. In addition, the community would set aside a plot for the man’s wife for many years from now when it would be needed. I, as your Community Chaplain, was able to call the family and tell them that their Jewish community was there for them, to work with them in order to take that element of stress out of the saddest of situations. I was able to offer to do the service for them when the time came and continue to offer emotional support after that day as well. Both Wayne Rose and I stood at the graveside that day with that family. In that moment, we were all family, the Mishpacha of the Jewish people. Without the existence of the Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley’s Chaplaincy program to do outreach in our community, the openness of Sinai Memorial Chapel would never have been conveyed to that family. I believe that the experience of laying their loved one to rest would have been much, much different. Am Yisrael Chai. The Jewish people live and we are one.

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l cal news At Sinai, here comes the sun – because of a daughter By Gary Richman Rachel Steinberg thought it would be “cool” if her synagogue was powered by solar energy. So she and a group of her peers championed the idea and pitched it to Congregation Sinai’s Board of Directors. The Board agreed, and so was born a project that culminated in Sinai’s Solar Roof Panel Ribbon-Cutting Ceremony on November 6. What is particularly special about this Tikkun Olam project is that Rachel was the 13-year-old daughter of congregant Alan Steinberg, and her peers were members of the 2008 B’nai Mitzvah class determining how they would give back to their institution. The project initially had fits and starts. Some parents told them it probably wouldn’t happen. But Alan and fellow congregant Harold Goldberg kept the dream alive and started contacting various solar companies to understand costs, benefits, and risks. A core group of students formed the “Sinai Goes Solar” club and made Rachel the president. They communicated via their own Google group. Ultimately the synagogue selected Solar City to install and maintain the solar panels, a net savings to the synagogue over PG&E. The Ribbon-Cutting Ceremony was a big success. San Jose City Council Member Pierluigi Oliverio joined for the dedication and offered his congratulations, “It’s great that an organization dedicated to the Old Testament is a champion of new energy savings technology.” The ceremony also featured a community luncheon and sustainable food and energy social action event by Full Circle Farm from Sunnyvale. Rabbi Joshua Berkenwald added, “Our Jewish tradition teaches that we are stewards of the earth with the duty to responsibly utilize the blessings around us. Deriving our electricity from the sun is a great step that our community Rachel Steinberg has taken. I hope it inspires and motivates members of our community and beyond to do the same.”

Local man leaves mark on Tel Aviv wall: a vertical garden By Emma Silvers, reprinted from j., the Jewish news weekly As David Brenner’s Birthright trip was winding down in August, the San Jose native decided to extend his stay in Israel another 10 days. Not only was he enamored with the place, he felt he needed to give something back. “I had a fantastic time,” said Brenner, 27, of San Francisco. “The whole time, I was thinking, ‘It’s a free trip — what’s the catch?’ And I guess the catch is that you meet 40 new amazing people and wind up with what will probably be lifelong friends.” Wanting to mark the momentous experience, Brenner turned to what he knew best. On the side of a commercial building in a busy Tel Aviv shopping district, he created a 9-foot-wide living wall: an aesthetically pleasing, fully functioning vertical garden, complete with an irrigation system, that will grow and change for years to come. One recent project, an expanse of vines with swaths of pink, purple, yellow and white flowers, was created at the California Academy of Sciences, which commissioned his work. Brenner also recently installed living wall panels on the roof of the Metreon in downtown San Francisco. But the task of creating a living wall in Tel Aviv — a project for which Brenner purchased and donated all the materials and performed most of the installation himself — provided a new challenge. After putting the word out to drum up interest in his idea, Brenner received a call from a Tel Aviv clothing merchant that his shop at 40 Sheinken St. had a suitable exterior wall. Brenner then set about borrowing tools, trekking out to a kibbutz barnyard for a special kind of cloth he needed, and taking the bus around Tel Aviv toting unwieldy metal scraps and planting equipment. Some materials were more readily available than he expected. “When it comes to the agricultural movement, Israel is really high-tech,” he said. “Several parts of the irrigation system I use [at home] were invented in Israel.” Brenner notes on HabitatHorticulture.com that the environmental benefits to living walls are plentiful, such as plants filtering toxins out of the air and reducing energy costs by acting as insulation. But he also sees what he does as an art. “I try to look at every piece as a composition, and use each plant as a different paint,” he said. “I always try to combine textures and colors and flowering times to create a beautiful composition.” Drawn to plants and gardening from a young age, Brenner majored in environmental horticulture sciences. He continued his studies with endangered plants at London’s Royal Botanic Gardens, Kew, before returning to start his business in the Bay Area. “I became really interested in how people relate to plants — the energy you get when you’re in a really comfortable space with a nice garden,” Brenner said. “And there’s so much research that shows the effects plants have on our well-being. I wanted to focus on bringing vegetation into urban areas, and since there’s so little space in a lot of cities, it’s perfect to be able to do something vertically.”

Rachel is 16 now. She is “really excited” that it’s now a reality. Her old friends are excited, too. “We were the sparks that set it all off.” It In Tel Aviv, Brenner and an Israeli friend, Yael Maor, were up until 5 a.m. became a lesson in passion, persistence, and determination for these the day of his flight home, putting the finishing touches on the project. Deep kids that will probably always stay with them. And Congregation green and red plants fill the wall. Sinai will benefit for decades to come. continued on page 18 16 www.jvalley.org

Happy Chanukah from Temple Emanu‐El! Celebrating 150 Years of Tradition and Innovation!

Chanukah Extravaganza December 23, 6:30 pm Come join us for an amazing Kabbalat Shabbat Service featuring members of our Rock Shabbat band and Renanim junior choir. Enjoy the fabulous Chanukah music and bring your menorah to light together as a community! The evening will continue with…….

The Best of Temple Emanu‐El Latkes following 6:30pm Services This special oneg features Temple Emanu‐El’s second annual latke competition. Schmooze and nosh while our panel of judges decide who made The Best Latkes of 2011!

Tot Shabbat December 16 at 6:00 PM These brief services are led by Rabbi Magat and Cantor Simerly and feature upbeat songs, a short story, and a talk with the Rabbi on the bimah and are perfect for families with young children.

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happy hanukah Rabbi’s corner Rabbi Philip R. Ohriner Hanukkah is one of our people’s most beloved holidays. It is a festival celebrated at home that requires eating yummy fried treats like potato latkes, sufganiyot, and buñuelos with friends and loved ones while gazing at the beautiful light cast by the hanukkiyah, the special menorah for Hanukkah. What could be better? While the delicious foods we eat during Hanukkah certainly enhance our enjoyment of the holiday, kindling the hanukkah lights is the festival’s central mitzvah. After sunset on each evening of the holiday, we gather around the hanukkiyah, preferably outside our front door opposite our mezuzah or in a windowsill, and light the candles to publicize the miracle of the oil that lasted eight days during the days of the Maccabees. There are a number of debates in the Talmud regarding the Hanukkah lights, like the number of lights we kindle each night, the way we kindle them, and the types of oils and wicks we can use. However, the most fascinating debate surrounds the permissibility of deriving benefit from the Hanukkah lights. The Talmudic debate pits Rav Huna who permits one to derive benefit from the Hanukkah lights against Abba Arika who does not. The debate played out over the ages with advocates on both sides, but eventually our tradition embraced Abba Arika and those who forbid deriving benefit from the Hanukkah lights, at least for a certain period of time and for utilitarian purposes. This means for the first thirty minutes or so, we are not permitted to use the light of the Hanukkah candles to read, count coins (even the chocolate ones), or study the operating instructions of a new toy. This factor differentiates the Hanukkah lights from all other lights kindled as a part of Jewish ritual and distinguishes them as a unique practice. There are two main explanations for the Hanukkah light’ distinction, both of which revolve around the menorah of the Temple. One explanation is that the Hanukkah lights are intended solely for the mitzvah of publicizing the miracle of the one vial of pure oil that lit the rededicated menorah in the Temple for eight days instead of just one. If we use the light of the Hanukkah menorah for something else, it might appear that we did not kindle them for the purpose of publicizing the miracle. The other explanation is that the light of the hanukkiyah is akin to the light of menorah of the Temple through which the original miracle took place. Since it was prohibited to derive benefit from the light of the menorah in the Temple, we do not derive benefit from the light of hanukkiyah either. Our tradition teaches that the light of the Temple menorah and our present-day hanukkiot are manifestations of the or haganuz, the holy, hidden light created by God on the first day of creation. According to Rabbi Isaac in the Zohar (1:31b), the light created on the first day of creation preceding the formation of the sun, moon, and stars on the fourth day, is a supernal light hidden away for the righteous in the world to come. However, Rabbi Judah responds to this statement by saying: “If the light (from the first day of creation) were completely hidden, the world would not exist for even a moment! Rather, it is hidden and sown like a seed that gives birth to other seeds and fruit. Thereby the world is sustained. Every single day, a ray of that light shines into the world, keeping everything alive; with that ray God feeds the world… Since the first day, the light has never been fully revealed, but it is vital to the world, renewing each day the act of Creation.” The light of the hanukkiyah, like the light of the Menorah that stood in the Temple provides an entry point for the hidden light that seeps into our world each and every day keeping us spiritually alive. Its light serves as a palpable reminder of the Divine presence that permeates all of existence. We drink in the Hanukkah lights and they nourish our souls, just as the latkes and sufganiyot feed our hungry stomachs. In the end, we do derive benefit from the Hanukkah lights, but our benefit is not of the utilitarian variety. It is a spiritual benefit. So, as you sit around the Hanukkah menorah with friends or family this year, resist the temptation to use the candles for some other purpose. Follow your instincts and take the time to enjoy them. Embrace their sustaining spiritual warmth and their life-affirming glow. This is the ultimate benefit we derive from the light of Hanukkah.

A vertical garden continued from page 16 Below, a painted bird is depicted as speaking a dedication, in English and Hebrew: “This living wall is a donation from David Brenner in honor of Taglit-Birthright Israel as an appreciation for their activity in Israel. Thanks for the best trip and the lifelong friendships!” Brenner left the shop owner with instructions on how to care for the wall, and Maor and a cousin of Brenner’s, David Shilo, are keeping him updated on how it changes as the plants grow by sending photos. “The last one I saw, some of the white flowers had just bloomed,” reported Brenner. “It’s nice to know that things are blooming on the other side of the world because of you.” 18

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Hanukah at Hicklebee’s If you have a child in our community, you may be aware of the fabulous, inviting, independent bookstore geared toward youth, Hicklebee’s, in Willow Glen. Many of us lament the demise of so many bookstores, where we can go to browse a title, hold an inviting book in our hands and be literally surrounded by options of wonderful journeys to take in a tale. We want our children to continue to have that experience, to feel the delight and excitement of opening the door to a new world. The PJ Library program, which delivers, high quality, colorful Jewish books to children for free each month is holding our second program at Hicklebee’s on December 13 from: 3:30-4:30. In this way, we hope to do two things that are crucial in our community. We will introduce PJ Library families to the delight and possibilities of finding other books for their children at a magical book store. Most importantly, we will introduce the PJ Library program to children and parents who may love books, but be unaware that our community (through the Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley, in cooperation with The Harold Grinspoon Foundation, the Jim Joseph Foundation, and other local funders) provides such a treasure of books to families raising Jewish children. It is crucial that we reach out to the many Jewish families in Silicon Valley who have not connected with the Jewish community, in ways that are welcoming, inclusive and allow them to access aspects of Jewish life within their own comfort zone. Taking wonderful programs and opportunities into the public sphere gives folks a chance to discover Jewish life in comfortable environments. The PJ Library, which gives a gift to Jewish children and parents, does not ask or require anything on the part of the subscriber, except to enjoy the books, keep them and come to fun programs if they like. In this way, at places like Hicklebee’s, we can reiterate that Jews in the Silicon Valley are valued and wanted, in any way that they choose to connect. RSVP to JValley.org/PJLibrary and let us know that you are coming to Hicklebee’s on December 13th from 3:30-4:30pm to hear stories and songs and do crafts in advance of Hanukkah. We can’t wait to see you.

PJ goes to school

he Silicon Valley’s PJ Library program has been selected to pilot a new program created last year as an expansion of the positive reach of the PJ Library.

Over 800 children in our community receive the recognizable blue and white envelope at their homes each month containing a colorful, high quality Jewish children’s book provided by the Harold Grinspoon Foundation of Massachusetts, the Jim Joseph Foundation and several local funders, in cooperation with the Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley. Each shipment includes a guide for parents. The guides are designed to help answer children’s questions and to encourage meaningful conversations about issues in the books. This year, The Silicon Valley has been selected, along with a handful of other communities nationwide, to pilot a new PJ Library program, “PJ Goes to School.” Rabbi Leslie Alexander, the community professional in charge of the PJ Library program locally explained that “our PJ Library program is well respected within the national organization for continued innovation in ideas for enriching the values conveyed by the books, doing outreach, and bringing young families together.” Our community applied for and was selected to be a test community for PJ Goes To School for all these reasons. The five schools offered this special opportunity are: The Addison Penzak Jewish Community Center Preschool, Shir Hadash Early Childhood Center, Temple Emanuel Preschool, Congregation Sinai Nursery School and Gan Aviv Preschool of South Peninsula Hebrew Day School. The program seeks to enrich the already exceptional Jewish preschool programs locally by making multiple copies of the books available in our 3’s and 4’s classrooms and resourcing the directors and teachers with materials that can be incorporated into curricula. PJ Goes to School nationally has several goals. Receiving the books at home and also experiencing them at school provides the opportunity to deepen the home/school partnership. The books help the schools to fluidly promote the incorporation of Jewish learning into the rhythms of daily family life. The PJ Library Program and PJ Goes to school seek to deepen family engagement with Jewish life in ways that are comfortable for them, both in the home and in the wider community. Each of the schools is shipped books each month and the program makes sure that the extra copies are available for children to borrow and take home if they are not enrolled in the program so that they can connect at home with the books they read at school. The books, are positive reflections of Jewish life that convey values many people can share. Books such as “The Only One Club,” a story that celebrates being Jewish in an otherwise non-Jewish class, begins to teach children about how to demonstrate pride in their uniqueness. In the classroom, children can be taught this lesson both Jewishly and universally as they are asked to share something special and individual about themselves. Israeli mailboxes are small for security reasons, so Sifriyat Pijama books cannot be mailed to participants homes. Instead, the books, along with information on how to use the books as teaching tools, are disseminated in schools. The program has just begun here in the Silicon Valley and all the teachers and directors have had their first meeting together to learn about its initiation here. The community enthusiastically embraces this new opportunity. For more information, contact Rabbi Leslie Alexander at the Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley RabbiAlexander@JValley.org or(408)357-7509.

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“Willie” Harmatz – Gold Medalist and Legendary Coach

by Stephen Jackson

any know Glenn “Willie” Harmatz as “coach,” referring to his long reign as coach of the track teams from Los Gatos High School (LGHS) yet, only a few of us know he was the winner of the 1973 Maccabiah Games 880-meter event (1:53.4), and placed second in the 1500-meters (3:53:1) and with those achievements, was known as the fastest Jewish athlete in the world!

“Willie” Harmatz began his track competition while in junior high school, and he later competed for Lakewood High School (Long Beach), as a sprinter, running the 100- and 220-meter races. In his senior year, he changed to the 800-meters and became his high school’s 800-meter record holder (1:52.7); and won the league championship and the title of the fourth fastest middle distance (800- and 1600-meters = half mile and mile) runner in Southern California and seventh in all of California. He attended Long Beach City College where he set his college’s record for the mile at 4:13, the fifth best time in the state. He then competed for San Jose State University (SJSU) on a full scholarship while obtaining his degree in business and physical education. At SJSU in 1973, he ran a 1:50.7 880-meters and a 3:46.4 1500-meters (equivalent to a 4:05 mile), and placed third in the conference meet, just behind two of the top US runners. These times still remain among the all-time top ten in SJSU history. In 1975, Willie became the assistant track coach and head cross country coach at Saratoga High School (SHS). His first team became an instant winner despite the fact that SHS had never before gone to the Central Coast Section (CCS) Championships (covers 120 high schools): they won their league and finished second at the CCS in cross country. His boys’ teams went on to win their league three years in succession, and in 1977, the girls SHS team finished second in the CCS. In the spring of 1978, Willie assumed the position of head coach at Los Gatos High School and became the “winningest” coach, (covering all sports), in LGHS history with 63 league championships over his 24 year career. It took just two years for Willie to transform LGHS track teams into a dynasty. Within 2 years of becoming head coach, Willie had over 100 varsity track victories. His long list of accomplishments include winning CCS 18 times in cross-country, three CCS Track-and-Field championships, and 2 state titles in the boys cross-country. He led LGHS track teams to 22 unbeaten seasons and coached 31 individual CCS champions. During that period, he had 25 “Top Ten” state-ranked cross-country teams and six individual All-Americans! Willie Harmatz has been recognized multiple times as Coach of the Year: California Track and Running News Magazine in Boys Cross Country in 1980 and for Girls in 1984; Runners World in 1985; San Jose Mercury News in 1985 and 1992; California Interscholastic Federation State Meet in 1987; Los Gatos Weekly in 1993. He was named the Mount San Antonio Cross Country Sweepstakes Coach in 2000 and was awarded the Lifetime Achievement Award at the Hampton/Phillips Classic Invitational in 2003. Willie’s goal for his athletes has been for them to understand that discipline and consistency in training lead to success, and to enjoy their sport and the camaraderie of teammates. These qualities not only lead to competitive success, but also serve as a foundation to guide his athletes for the rest of their lives. “I put a lot of time into my coaching. I try to do things that are valuable to the kids, and every little thing you do can benefit the kids in some way.” Off track, his athletes know where to find him: at his Athletic Performance shoe and sports accessory store at 55 Main in Los Gatos (he also has one in Willow Glen).

Even after retiring from high school coaching, he continued to coach privately, Recently Willie coached the American track star, Steve Sherer, from Michigan, who ran the mile in 3:55.9 and the 800-meters in 1:46.9. Steve first came to California to train with the Nike farm team, but then had Willie serve as his “advisor/coach.” With Willie’s coaching, in 2008, Sherer became the third ranked miler in the nation. In 2010, Willie’s training group, which consisted of the top distance runners in the CCS, won titles in the boys 800, 1600 and 3200-meters. In 2011, Willie’s team repeated this remarkable feat, including and Chris Waschura running the fastest junior 1600-meters in CCS history (a 4:08 equivalent mile) as well as nabbing the 800-meters in 1:53.0! As such, Willie had all these boys come out victorious in the 800, 1600 and 3200 CSS championships in successive years, a feat never previously achieved by any track coach. Currently, his top girl runner is LGHS sophomore Danielle Katz, a 5:05 miler. Willie continues to give to the community and promote the sport he loves. He helped organize and direct The Great Race in 1976, the Dammit Run, and The Resolution Run. In addition, for the past 33 years, he has puts on eight summer and eight winter “all-comer” meets at LGHS track for runners from all over the Bay Area, as well as his favorite, the CCS Top 8 Track Classic, considered by many coaches to be the best high school track meet in Northern California. All in all, this has made the LGHS track a hub of top-flight, year-round track competition. Willie was born Glenn Harmatz. In high school, his running coach, a horse-racing fan dubbed him “Willie” after Willie Harmatz, a Hall of Fame jockey and Glenn’s uncle. The nickname stuck and from then on he was Willile Harmatz. In 1981, he married his wife Teri. Willie has a son, Tyler, (19), stepdaughters Marissa (30) and Rebecca (28), and three grandchildren. Willie is a member of the Jewish Community Center and he participates in their annual health fair where he has a booth in which he gives advice on choosing running shoes and various elements of becoming a runner, for fun or competition. 22 www.jvalley.org

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History of The Maccabiah Games, the Jewish Olympics By Stephen Jackson

The Maccabi World Union, a youth and sports organization devoted to furthering Jewish identity, pride and traditions through cultural, social and educational activities, stages the Maccabiah Games - the Jewish Olympics - in Israel the year following the Olympic Games. As such, every four years the best Jewish athletes from throughout the Diaspora can compete in Israel. In interim years, there now also are international competitions around the world, such as in Australia, Europe and Pan America. Of interest, the seventh Maccaabiah Games (1965) witnessed American Mark Spitz win three gold medals, and then in 1969 he won six more gold medals, but sat out five individual events to allow his teammates to harvest their share. Many other famous American athletes have participated, including Kerri Strug, Brad Gilbert, Lenny Krayzelburg, Jason Lezak, Mitch Gaylord, Danny Shayes, Dick Savitt, Bruce Fleisher, Jonathan Bornstein and Ernie Grunfeld. The ninth Maccabiah Games in 1973, in which Glenn “Willie” Harmatz participated, occurred in the shadow of the murders of 11 Israeli athletes at the 1972 Munich Olympic Games. An overflow crowd of 60,000 spectators, including Golda Meir and Abba Eban, paid homage to the slain athletes. That Maccabiah Games’ flame was kindled by Yosef Yekutieli, the originator of the Maccabiah Games that first began in 1932, and who by this time was 70 years old. Interestingly, the athlete with the most medals at those Games was US swimmer Wendy Paskin, who later became the “first lady” (spouse) of Frank Jordan, a mayor of San Francisco. The 2009 Maccabiah Games attracted 9000 competitors in 28 sports from 54 countries, the largest being the United States delegation, sponsored by Maccabbi USA Sports for Israel (www.maccabiusa.com) whose Executive Director, Jed Margolis, was a teammate (basketball) of Willie’s in 1973. The Maccabiah Games are sanctioned by the International Olympic Committee (IOC) and World Federation of Sports. They are among the five largest sports gatherings in the world in number of participants. The fanciful concept of the Maccabiah Games was originated by Yosef Yekutieli, a 15-year old inspired by the 1912 Stockholm Olympic Games. Yekutieli spent a decade developing the details of his idea and presented them to the Jewish National Fund in 1928. Following the not unexpectedly challenging process of gaining approval from the High Commissioner of Palestine, and with the condition that the Games be open to Arabs and official British Mandate athletes as well as Jewish sportsmen, two delegations of Jewish motor-bikers set off from Tel Aviv to travel throughout Europe (where most Jews in the world lived at that time) to promote the games. The first Maccabiah Games were held in 1932 in Tel Aviv, with 350 athletes from 18 countries. The second Games were held in three (rather than four) years, advanced one year to 1935 in light of the rise of Nazism in Europe, but it still drew 1350 participants from 28 countries. The Games were then suspended due to the horrific events surrounding World War II and the Holocaust, but they were reborn in 1950, held this time in the 50,000-spectator stadium in a suburb of Tel Aviv in the independent State of Israel. The ceremonies were opened by Israeli President, Chaim Weitzman, and the 800 athletes from 19 countries were addressed by Prime Minister David Ben-Gurion, who prophetically declared that, “Existence in our ancestral home requires physical might no less than intellectual excellence.”

Stimulate Your Brain and Enrich Your Soul Exploring the World of Judaism, a free Sunday morning speaker series, 9:30 am in the Oneg room December 4th, Frances Dinkelspiel will discuss the Early History of California’s Jewish Communities January 8, 2012, Ilan Vitemberg, Director, Israel Education Initiative will speak on One People Many Voices – How Israelis navigate multiple cultural, political and spiritual divides Celebration or Aggravation: Dealing with the December Holidays, Sunday, December 4th, 12 noon-1pm Join Rabbi Aron and Eleanor Intrator for a discussion of the December Holidays Women’s Study Group, December 15th, 10:30-11:45 am. Rabbi Aron will lead an monthly discussion of The Modern Jewish Girl’s Guide to Guilt by Ruth Ellenson Chinese food and a movie. The perfect outing for December 25th. Details will be posted on the website Family Hanukkah service, Friday, December 23, 2011, 7:30pm. Bring your hanukiah and celebrate Hanukah with us For the full schedule of adult education lectures and classes, please check the Shir Hadash website at http://shirhadash.org/adulted

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Lev Aronson was born on August 30 to Doron & Diane Aronson. He weighed 5 pounds and 13 ounces and was 18 ¼ inches long. His older brother, Benjamin, 9 was very excited about the new arrival; Benjamin is a student at Sammatre Elementary School. Lev was named after his maternal grandfather Steve Foerder and his paternal great-grandfather who were both named Shlomo; Shlomo is Lev’s Hebrew name which was given to him during his bris, held at the Aronson home and officiated by Rabbi Gil Leeds. Lev’s grandparents are Safta Sara and Saba Yair Aronson of Toronto, Canada and Grandma Norma Foerder of Redwood Shores. Great Grandma Sara Foerder lives in San Francisco.

Daria Caspi, daughter of Nili HeimanCaspi & Ram Caspi, of Sunnyvale and younger sister of Yoav, celebrated her Bat Mitzvah this summer in three different settings. On June 4, the festivities began with a party for her girlfriends featuring a ride in a limo to a movie and dinner. Her dream to celebrate her Bat Mitzvah in Israel came true on June 29 at “Isabella” restaurant in the German Templar quarter in Haifa. Her maternal grandmother, Anna Heiman, and paternal grandparents, Riva & Dov Caspi and her uncle and aunts and other relatives joined. The final portion took place on August 27 at a barbeque party at her home with friends. In preparation for her Bat Mitzvah, Daria participated with her girlfriends in the Bat Mitzvah Discover course presented by Rebezin Miriam Hecht from Chabad Sunnyvale. Daria is a student at Cupertino Middle School is an avid reader, loves Japanese Anime art, music; she sings in the school choir and enjoys “hanging out” with her girlfriends.

Samuel Joseph Clayton, 6 pounds and 17 ½ long and Bram William Clayton, 5 pounds, 7 ounces and 17 inches long were born on October 25 to Jessica & Christopher Clayton of San Jose. The proud big brother, Gabriel Edward Clayton, 2 years and 11 months was excited to welcome them home. The bris was performed at the home of Wendy & Lance Glasser, proud grandparents, by Dr. Louis Osofsky and Rabbi Daniel Pressman. The twins other grandparents are Susan & Ted Clayton of Little Dear Island, Maine.

Ariela Guadiamos, daughter of Enrique & Molly Guadiamos, was called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah on August 13 at Temple EmanuEl on August 13. Ariela is in the 8th grade

at Joaquin Miller Middle School in Cupertino; she is the older sister of Isabella, 10, a student at Country Lane School. Her grandparents, Salvatore & Blanca Guadiamos came in from Peru to celebrate with her. Ariela swims competitively for DeAnza-Cupertino Aquatics and for Saratoga Woods Swim Club during the summer cabana club season. Her favorite stroke of the moment is free style. She also plays the trumpet in the Advanced Band. For her mitzvah project, she collected needed supplies for CARE, the Companion Animal Rescue Effort. Evan Rattner, son of Martin & Sheryl Rattner, was called to the Torah as a Bar Mitzvah on August 13 at Congregation Beth David. The special session of the Youth Congregation was led by Beth David’s ritual director and religious school teacher Barbara Biran. Carol and Leon Kusnetsky of Leawood, KS, Evan’s grandparents were present for this happy occasion as were relatives from Denver and Orlando. Several of Evan’s specialeducation classmates from his public school, Blach Junior High School, were also in attendance to show their support. Scores of local family and friends attended from Aptos and Piedmont. Several teachers from Evan’s past were there, some dating back to his early childhood; they were proud to witness this important achievement. Evan has studied Hebrew and Torah cantillation for a few years to be able to read Torah on this day. In addition, in recent months, he has been studying about Jewish observance and the 613 mitzvoth with his mentor, Norm Abramowitz. The Youth Congregation that day was an inclusive community. Several of Evan’s religious school classmates helped lead prayers during the Shacharit and Musaf service while Evan led the Torah service prayers. Evan’s sister, Marcy Rattner, a junior at Mt. Holyoke College, was the Calling Gabbai, calling each honoree by his/her Hebrew name. Evan’s parents read passages from the Torah scroll as did Evan himself. Other friends and family were honored with aliyot and a close family friend, Barbara Knaster led the discussion of the Torah portion.

Evan is the grandson of Harold & Sylvia Rattner who were unable to attend and the great-grandson of the late Joseph & Marcia Carr of Kansas City, MO. Masha Maskell, daughter of Joyce & Jay Maskell, of Morgan Hill was called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah on August 27 at Congregation Emeth. She is in the eighth grade at Oakwood Middle School in Morgan Hill. She loves to read and enjoys running, playing basketball, swimming and piano. She is the granddaughter of Alfred & Madeline Maskell of Burbank, CA and of the late John & Alice Friedmann. Masha was born in Khabarovsk, Russia and has been in the United States for five years. For her mitzvah project, she volunteered at a local cat shelter, “Town Cats”. She will donate a portion of her Bat Mitzvah money to the Anti-Defamation League. Samuel Noah Lichy, son of Elizabeth & Joe Lichy, was called to the Torah as a Bar Mitzvah at Congregation Sinai on August 27. He is the younger brother of Ari, a ninth grader at Bellarmine and the older brother of Carl who attends Sinai Nursery School. Sam is in the eighth grade at Willow Glen Middle School where he participates in bands. He plays trumpet, bass and guitar. He swims for Osprey and recently received an award as the most improved swimmer. For his mitzvah project, Sam raised over $2,500 for the Leukemia Lymphoma Society which does research into blood cancers; he trained and ran the San Jose Rock ‘n’ Roll Half Marathon. The centerpieces from his Bar Mitzvah were donated to the USA Swimming Foundation which helps kids to learn to swim. Helping him celebrate his Bar Mitzvah were his grandparents from Merrick, NY, Irving & Florence

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Lichy, Howard & Andrea Greyber of San Jose; Uncle Rob & Aunt Natasha Greyber of Seattle, and “Baby Asher” and Uncle Rabbi Daniel & Aunt Jen Greyber, Cousins Alon, Benjamin and Ranon Greyber of Durham, NC and Cousins Smadar Cohen & Avi Chen of Israel all joined in the happy festivities. Kayleigh Migdol, daughter of Michael & Monique Migdol, was called to Torah as a Bat Mitzvah on August 27 at Temple EmanuEl. She is in the eighth grade at Dartmouth Middle School and is the older sister of Will, 11, who also attends Dartmouth. Kayleigh is a Cadet Girl Scout in Troop 60107 and is very active in children’s musical theater. She recently played a reporter in a production of Guys and Dolls, had a role in Cinderella and will appear in a production of Seussical at the Montgomery Theater in San Jose. Kayleigh set up a snack table at auditions for the CMT to raise money for scholarships for children who will be able to experience the joys of theater. Joining her for her Bat Mitzvah celebration were grandparents Marvin & Fay Migdol of Dallas; Grace Migdol of Dallas; Don & Diann Jeffray of Plano, TX and Stuart Durcote of Dallas and his friend Shirley Worford. Sarah Sager, daughter of Anne & Henry Sager, was called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah on September 3 at Congregation Sinai. She is in the eighth grade at Willow Glen Middle School. Sarah is the older sister of Dylan, a fifth grader at Booksin Elementary School. Her grandfather, Al Sager, Reno, NV was happy to be on hand for the celebration as was her grandmother, Shirley Landsman, a founding member of Congregation Sinai. Her Aunt and Uncle Robin & Doug Doucette came up from San Diego with Cousins Emily and Weslee; Aunt Sherri Sager came from Mountain View and Aunt and Uncle Mindy & David Landsman and Cousin Sam came in from Mercer Island, WA. Sarah is an avid bowler, loves art and really likes being on Facebook. Sam Westerman, son of William & Ilana Westerman, was called to the Torah at Temple Emanu-El on September 10. He and his younger brother, Max Eli, 9 are students at Gideon Hausner in Palo Alto. Sam enjoys computers, specifically programming with JAVA, puzzles, hanging out with his friends, playing the drums, playing basketball and his dogs,

fluffy Bichon Frise pups, Necko and Lucy. For his mitzvah project, he researched and raised money to the Save the Manatee organization. Special relatives who came in to celebrate with Sam and his family included his grandparents, Kiva & Doug McEwen of Illinois, Uncle Aaron Skolnik of Marquette, MI and great Aunt and Uncle Connie & Robert Hosemann. Betty Cherkasskiy, daughter of Rita Cherkasskiy, was called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah on September 12 at Congregation Beth David. She is a student at Rolling Hills Middle School. Her older sister, Lillia, is a student at Yale University in New Haven; CT. Betty loves to read and sometimes to play tennis. For her mitzvah project, she donated a percentage of her Bat Mitzvah monies to Mazon. Her grandparents, Boris & Sofia Mazelif, of Campbell were delighted to share in her simchas. Jonathan Hochberg, son of Avishai Hochberg & Marcia Klein, was called to the Torah as a Bar Mitzvah at Congregation Sinai on September 17. He is a student at Yavneh. In addition to school, Jonathan enjoys Black OPPs, a video game, collecting Magic, The Gathering Cards and playing the guitar. For his mitzvah project, he donated money to Heifer International which donates livestock to the poor in order help the poor become more independent. For his Bar Mitzvah celebration his grandfather Michael Klein came in from Kensington, MD and his grandmother, Rina Hochberg flew in from Jerusalem. Aunt Tirtza and Uncle Yoav Hochberg came from Haifa and his Aunt Nina & Uncle Steve Unger flew from Baltimore, MD. At the ceremony Jonathan’s grandmother, Linda Klein, was remembered. Kira Richelle Illana Turetsky, daughter of Greg & Sharon Turetsky, was called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah on September 17 at Temple Emanu-El. She is the older sister of Connor, 11, and they both attend Bret Harte Middle School. Kira plays the clarinet in the advanced band at Bret Harte and is an author on FanFiction; she likes to spend her time reading, writing, swimming and horseback riding. For her mitzvah project, she did a couple of local clean-ups to help beautify the California coast; she has also recently joined TownCats, an organization which helps cats find new and loving homes. To help her celebrate her special

day, her grandfather, Mel Turetsky of Boynton Beach, FL came in along with her grandfather, Warren Hanger & his wife Gail from Brisbane, Australia. Aunt Shelley & Uncle Ed Turetsky flew in from Boca Raton, FL and her mother’s childhood friend, Patricia Viapiana joined in the festivities from Sydney, Australia. Katie Saviage, daughter of Mike & Leslie Saviage, was called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah on October 15 at Temple Emanu-El. She is the younger sister of Alyssa who attends Leland High School. Katie is an honor student at Bret Harte Middle School. She is an active member of National Charity League and enjoys helping others through her volunteer work. Katie is an avid soccer player and plays competitively for Santa Clara Sporting. This past year, she was selected to represent Northern California on the USA Olympic Development Program soccer team. She also enjoys playing volleyball for her middle school and hanging out with her friends. Her mitzvah project is one that is very special to her; she is helping disabled children learn to play soccer. Katie’s grandparents, Mike & Ellie Whiteman of the Villages in Florida and Judy Whiteman of Wheeling, IL were delighted to share this simchas with her. Noah Michels, son of Grant & Deborah Michels, was called to the Torah as a Bar Mitzvah on October 22 at Temple Emanu-El. He is an honors student in the eighth grade at Castillero Middle School where he plays clarinet in the advanced and jazz bands. His younger brother, Leo, 11 is a student at Los Alamitos Elementary School. Noah is an excellent baseball player; he plays both first base and pitcher for Team Unleashed 13 U Travel Team. After learning that more than 63,000 children are on free and subsidized school lunch programs, Noah has decided to conduct a food drive for his mitzvah project, which he will do this spring. On hand to celebrate with him were his grandparents Dan & Shirley Lee and Judy Siegel of San Jose and Bob Michels & Stephanie Daffer of San Francisco.

Ilana is on the volleyball team at Lawson; she also plays soccer and last spring she was in the JCC production of “Annie”. For her mitzvah project, she donated money to the “Dignity Program” of the IDF. Grandmothers Rosalie Greenberg of Columbus, OH and Madeline Ben-Sasson of Yehud, Israel were able to celebrate with her.

Weddings Noam Frank, grandson of Barbara & the late Al Frank, of Congregation Sinai, was married to Roni Fisher, daughter of Isser & the late Ruti Fisher of Tel Aviv, and granddaughter of Otto Fisher, on September 13 at Beit Oved, Israel. Attending from San Jose were Steve Ellenberg, president of the Jewish Federation and his cousin, Amy Sporer Schiff. Other Bay Area attendees were David & Chiam Evan Goldman. Rabbi Eitan Julius officiated. Noam is the son of Dale & Meira Frank of Haifa. He is currently continuing his master’s degree studies at Hebrew University. Roni, a graduate of the Ben Gurion University School of Nursing, will be employed at Tel HaShomer Hospital in pediatric intensive care. The couple will reside in Tel Aviv.

Special Achievements Mazol Tov to Nancy Lindley, a long time Temple Emanu-El member, who received the 2011 Leader of the Year Award from her local chapter of Leads Club on October 4th. The award was given to Nancy by Leads Club President Lisa Bentson at their Northern California Gala. This award is earned by a member who attends meetings on a regular basis, passes quality leads on to others on a consistent basis, has served on the Leadership Team, and has served as a chairperson including mentoring new members and who enthusiastically goes above and beyond in the above mentioned areas. Nancy has been a member of Leads for 28 years and promotes her successful business “Travel With Me”.

Ilana Greenberg, daughter of Leonard & Carmela Greenberg, was called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah at Congregation Beth David on October 22. She is in the seventh grade at Lawson Middle School. She is the younger sister of Daniel, 24, a law student at Pepperdine University and Lauren, 21, a student at UC Davis.

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edit rials She’Asah Nissim: A Prayer for the One Who Performs Miracles By Cantor Meeka Simerly, Temple Emanu-El “And (we thank You) for the miracles, and for the salvation, and for the mighty deeds, and for the victories, and for the battles which You performed for our forefathers in those days, at this time.” Recently I was invited to write an article for URJ’s Ten Minutes of Torah online about Al Ha’Nissim (Upon the Miracles), an insert added to Hanukah and Purim’s liturgies. While researching the subject, the news about the release of Gilad Shalit, the Israeli POW, was not circulating in the media yet, thus I wrote it without having a specific miracle in mind. Little did I know that soon after, like many other Israelis and Jews around the world – I would be glued to the news, processing with mixed feelings every morsel of information released by global media, while praying with everyone for one “ness,” one miracle. Baruch Ata Ad-nai, Elokeinu Melech Ha’Olam, asher kidshanu be’mitzvotav ve’tzivanu le’hadlik ner shel Hanukkah1 - this year when we light the first night candle for Hanukkah, I know that in many homes the name “Gilad Shalit” will be mentioned in connection with “Miracles” and “Salvation.” In my home we will also light another, ninth candle, in remembrance of those who did not get to experience she’he’cheyanu ve’kiyemanu ve’higianu la’zman ha’zeh, the blessing of life and sustenance – because they did not get to reach this season. Over time, for many people and activists, Gilad Shalit had become a symbol: none of us really know him. Up until he was kidnapped some five years ago, we never even heard his name. He was his mother’s nineteen-years-old shy and precious child. As aforesaid, our prayers were answered: we all got to witness a miracle be’yamim elu, bazman ha’zeh, in these days, at this time. Gilad Shalit is home now, on a journey to recovery, reestablishing connection with Israeli life. Upon Gilad’s release, Reform Rabbis Yoffie, Saperstein and Allen, published the following statement on behalf of our movement: “Gilad’s homecoming reflects the preciousness with which Israel treats the life of each and every IDF soldier. We know that same regard for life is shared by others in Israel who are pained by the release, under the terms of the prisoner exchange, of those who have committed or been accessories to Vardys_JCC_ad2 1/27/06 3:11 PM Page 1 violence. Their pain is our pain, and as we mourn with the victims of the terrorist attacks, we pray for them and their families to be sustained and healed in body and soul.” (Reform Movement Welcomes Gilad Shalit Home, Ten Minutes of Torah, 10/19/11) Baruch Ata Ad-nai, Elokeinu Melech ha’olam, she’asah nissim la’avoteinu, ba’yamim ha’hem ba’zman ha’zeh 2 – yes, this Hanukkah, we shall all sing and praise G-d for the miracle of releasing our beloved son Gilad Shalit. But I cannot forget the two other soldiers who were captured during that same ill-fated attack. Ehud (Udi) Goldwasser and Eldad Regev returned to their families in coffins. These two fallen soldiers represent a very painful reminder that as long as we don’t work together towards peace – the danger of continuing acts of violence, on both sides of the Disputed Areas, is still out there, lurking around, and in our midst. Udi PEARLS TELL HER SHE’S LOVED. and Eldad, with thousands of other beloved members of Our People, will not get to experience the miracle of salvation, of returning home alive – but neither will children and innocent lives of those People we are so afraid of, the Palestinians. We all really need to strive for “collaboration” rather than “fear,” “familiarization and support” rather than “blind hate,” sanctify “human lives,” over “land” while promoting “laughter and livelihood” rather than “principles.” So on this Hanukkah – I invite you to light “…one candle for the terrible sacrifice justice and freedom demand…and for the wisdom to know that the peacemaker’s time is at hand. Don’t loria Melmon Ascher let the light go out; let it shine Peace, Health through our love and our tears.” (Peter Yarrow) Happy Hanukkah

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Looking for a ring to propose on Hanukah? Visit this man! There’s enough oil in these treats to keep the menorah lit for eight nights! __ it Up! at this young Hanukah party each year. For a book and a Hanukah treat, visit this downtown Willow Glen location. This “row” is home to the community candlelighting celebration. Jewish Family Services presents this program to __-a-Family. The hebrew word for these delicious treats that can be found at Krispy Kreme. This musical group will be performing on December 11.

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This man is to thank for all three Hanukah songs. This cuisine is a Jewish tradition on Christmas. This Hanukah event is a full afternoon of fun for all ages. This “laboratory” allows you to create personal Judaica. This type of account can be rolled over for end-of-year gifts. Visit this holiday “mall” to purchase everything for you gift giving needs. I made this out of clay. These cellars provide kosher wine to the community.

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datebook ONGOING PROGRAMS

director@sinainurseryschool.org, (408) 264-8542

SUNDAYS Knitzvah Levy Family Campus, 10:30 AM, 12/18 Volunteer knitters and crocheters take donated yarn and turn it into hats, scarves and other usable items for needy organizations. ALL skill levels are welcome from the beginner who wants to learn, to the experienced pro. Donations are greatly appreciated. cherier@jfssv.org, (408) 556-0600

Silicon Valley Beit Midrash Sinai, 9:30 AM Join Rabbi Josh Berkenwald for indepth study of Jewish thought, belief, and practice. This year, we will explore the Book of Samuel. No fee; drop-ins are welcome; no experience necessary. (408) 264-8542, office@sinai-sj.org

Ganon Beth David, 11 AM Religious School for 3-4 year olds. Art, dance, singing, & circle time. Must be toilet trained. Crocker@beth-david.org, (408) 257-3333 WEDNESDAYS Lunch and Learn Emanu-El, 12 Noon, 12/14 Please join us for lunch with the Rabbi as we learn and discuss different subjects. (408) 292-0939 Lunch and Learn Torah Study Emanu-El, 12 Noon, 12/28 Lunch with the Rabbi to learn about and discuss the weekly Torah portion. (408) 292-0939 THURSDAYS Ima and Me Playgroup Sinai, 9 AM Abba, Savta, Saba, and Nanny are all welcome, too (daddy and grandparents). Children three and under are invited to come and play. Open to the entire Jewish community. Bring friends. FREE.

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Women’s Study Group ~ “The Modern Jewish Girl’s Guide to Guilt” Shir Hadash, 10:30 AM, 12/15 Meets the third Thursday of each month. patty@shirhadash.org or (408) 358-1751 Feed the Needy Sunnyvale Armory, 6 PM, 12/8, 1/5 Children who are accompanied by a parent or guardian are welcome. Teens can earn community service hours. For the protection of their guests, the Armory requires that all those involved in food preparation and service have written evidence of an up-to-date tuberculosis test. Get a test now so you’ll be ready to participate. The test is good for three years. Sign up sheets and application forms required by the Amory are available from Mark Goldman. (408) 358-1751 mark.goldman@yahoo.com Jewish Legends Discussion Group Beth David, 7:30 PM, 12/8, 12/15, 1/5 Join Bob Baird in reading, telling, and discussing Jewish legends from different periods and traditions. Each session is self-contained. No registration fee. crocker@beth-david.org, (408) 257-3333 FRIDAYS Talmud Study with Rabbi Pressman Beth David, 8:30 AM This ongoing Talmud study group with Rabbi Pressman will continue to discuss Tractate Berakhot (“Benedictions.”) No registration fee, donations are welcome. (408) 257-3333, Adulted@Beth-David.org Pirkei Avot: Sayings (Ethics) of the Fathers Beth David, 9:45 AM Explore ancient Jewish wisdom dealing with ethics and morals in this participant-led discussion group. No registration fee, donations are welcome. (408) 257-3333, adulted@bethdavid.org

Fri., December 2 Fri., December 9 Fri., December 16 Fri., December 23 Fri., December 30 Friday, January 6 Friday, January 13

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Alzheimer’s Family Support Group Shir Hadash, 10 AM, 12/9 Support Groups help to provide tools for caregiving such as sharing ideas and resources. They are most helpful for families and friends needing “helpful hints” because they are caring for or know a loved one with dementia or Alzheimer’s disease. This group will be “caring for the caregiver,” offering

support in a confidential setting. (408) 358-1751 x5, Nadine@ShirHadash.org Shabbat Mishpaha (Family Services) Beth David, 4 PM, 12/2, 1/6 Welcome the Shabbat Bride with song, story and dance. Every first Friday night. Kabbalat Shabbat experience with something for everyone! crocker@beth-david.org, (408) 2573333 PJ Shabbat Beth David, 6 PM, 12/16 This mini Kabbalat Shabbat service is for ages 0-5 and feature ssongs, puppets, story time and dinner! Come with kids in PJ’s! No need to dress up – a casual night for all! $10/adult; $2/child (over 3). RSVP Wednesday before the event. crocker@beth-david.org, (408) 2573333 No Shush Shabbat Service Shir Hadash, 6:30 PM, 12/2, 1/6 Please join Rabbis Aron and Levenberg, and song leader Angela Gold for our special child-friendly service. 358-1751 x3 , rabbilevenberg@shirhadash.org Shir Shabbat Service Beth David, 6:30 PM, 12/23 Shlomo Carlebach, known as the “Singing Rabbi,” created a new way of chanting the Friday night Kabbalat Shabbat service that many people find very spiritual and dynamic. Come grab a percussion instrument, and our special Friday night siddur (prayerbook) that emphasizes understanding and spirituality and join us. You will be energized and inspired! crocker@bethdavid.org, (408) 257-3333 SATURDAYS Torah Study Shir Hadash, 9:30 AM Rabbi Aron, and occasionally Rabbi Fleekop, will lead a discussion each Saturday morning. 358-1751 x5 Youth Congregation Beth David, 10 AM, 12/10 A learning service for 4th-7th graders; great for adults, too! Students lead prayers, read from the Torah and play trivia games. Treats and kiddush! crocker@beth-david.org, (408) 2573333 Torah N’ Tefillah for 3rd-7th Graders Sinai, 10:30 AM, 12/10 Learn new melodies, explore Shabbat teachings, and hear engaging stories in this student-led junior congregation service. office@sinai-sj.org, (408) 264-8542 Family Service for K-2nd Graders Sinai, 10:30 AM, 12/17 Participatory, friendly service for families designed to introduce kids and their parents to the Shabbat service and the siddur. Hebrew knowledge not required. office@sinai-sj.org, (408) 264-8542

Haverim Services Beth David, 10:30 AM, 12/10 Haverim means “friends” in Hebrew. For K-3rd graders to celebrate Shabbat. Treat-filled Kiddush. Parents welcome. crocker@beth-david.org, (408) 257-3333 Torah for Tots Sinai, 11 AM, 12/3 A fun, interactive, educational and inspirational children’s service. (408) 264-8542, torahfortots@sinai-sj.org Tot Shabbat Beth David, 11:15 AM, 12/10, 12/24 Ages 0-5. A fun, interactive parent-led service. Open to the whole community. (408) 257-3333, c rocker@beth-david.org Ask the Rabbi Beth David, 1:30 PM Join Rabbis Pressman and Ohriner after Shabbat Kiddush lunch for dessert and an informal session of “Ask the rabbi.” This will be an opportunity to ask any questions you have about Jewish issues, life, philosophy, and practice in a relaxed atmosphere. (408) 257-3333, crocker@beth-david.org

UPCOMING EVENTS SATURDAY, DECEMBER 3 Community Shabbat Service Shir Hadash, 10:30 AM Come and better understand and appreciate our Prayer Service. nadine@shirhadash.org, 358-1751 x5 Sababa Concert Levy Family Campus, 7 PM Sababa! (“cool” in Israeli vernacular) is an energetic, spirited group. Tickets: $5 presale, $7 at the door. (408) 357-7411, jenessa@svjcc.org SUNDAY, DECEMBER 4 Towers of Gold: Isaias Hellman and the Early History of California’s Jewish Communities Shir Hadash, 9:30 AM We all know how difficult it is to juggle our calendars these days. Seems like there’s never enough time to do the urgent tasks let alone allow oneself the pleasure of expanding our mind (and soul) by taking some enrichment classes. This year, through a generous grant from the Newton and Rochelle Becker Charitable Trust and the Bureau of Jewish Education of San Francisco/ Marin/Peninsula and Sonoma, Shir Hadash is pleased to offer a speaker series designed to stimulate your brain and touch your heart. 358-1751 x5, nadine@shirhadash.org Celebration or Aggravation: Dealing with the December Holidays Shir Hadash, 12 Noon Let’s talk about the upcoming holidays and the challenges that we face in our lives as couples, parents, and extended families. Bring your best solution and some questions for us to chew on.

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Babysitting and a Light Lunch will be provided. nadine@shirhadash.org, 358-1751 x5 Jewish Cub Scouts Pack 504 Pinewood Derby Beth David, 1 PM First session to design and build our 10 inch wooden cars in preparation for the big annual Pinewood Derby! Open to all boys in 1st – 5th grade. Pack504CubScouts@gmail.com, (408) 257-3333 Kehillah Jewish High School Open House Kehillah, 2 PM Hear from our students, faculty and administrators; take a student-led tour of our facility; visit our science labs, art and music studios, theater and beit midrash; discover how the Oshman Family JCC enhances the life of Kehillah students and teams; learn about our outstanding academic program, Jewish studies curriculum, after school sports programs, class trips and extracurricular clubs and activities. (650) 213-9600 x154, mlerner@kehillah.org You’re A Good Man Charlie BrownPJ Library Benefit Retro Dome, 3 PM A favorite comic strip character animated -- live! Starring your favorite local theatre group -- the Retro Dome Players! When you order your tickets, be sure to mention the PJL code. The PJ Library will receive a percentage of the show’s sales for that night. RabbiAlexander@jvalley.org, (408) 357-7509

The 2011 AIPAC South Bay Membership Event San Jose, 6 PM The AIPAC Membership Event is the largest political event hosted by the pro-Israel community each year. We anticipate over 1,200 people will be in attendance, representing a broad spectrum of the Jewish and political communities from across Northern California. Over 75 elected officials and honored dignitaries attended last year’s event. Don’t miss out! sf_office@aipac.org MONDAY, DECEMBER 5 How One Father Dealt with his Son’s Autism: Tom Fields-Meyer lecture Levy Family Campus, 7:30 PM When Tom Fields-Meyer’s son Ezra was three and showing early signs of autism, a therapist suggested that the father needed to grieve. “For what?” he asked. The answer: “For the child he didn’t turn out to be.” That moment helped strengthen Fields-Meyer’s resolve to do just the opposite: to pour love on the child Ezra was becoming, a quirky boy possessing a fascinating and complex mind. Fields-Meyer focuses not on a “battle” against a “disease,” but rather on the surprisingly rich and textured life one experiences in raising such a child. Books will be for sale at the event and the author will be available for book signings. JCC members, $5; non members, $7. (408) 357-7411, jenessa@svjcc.org THURSDAY, DECEMBER 8 Mini Course with the Rabbi - The Shabbat Service Revealed Sinai, 7:30 PM Do you feel lost in synagogue? Do you wish you understood what was going

on? This crash course in the Saturday morning Shabbat service will explore the wisdom of the Siddur, and reveal its power as a tool to awaken your soul and connect to God. No experience necessary. office@sinai-sj.org, (408) 264-8542 SUNDAY, DECEMBER 11 Chanukah Palooza & Holiday Boutique Levy Family Campus, 12 Noon Featuring a concert with Octopretzel! View the back page ad for more information. Fish Fry Fabulous Fun Fiesta Festival Sinai, 5 PM Reservations are required by Tuesday, November 29. The cost is $12 for those age 13 and over, $6 for children (age 5-12), age 4 and under are free. Adult beverages will be available for a nominal charge. (408) 264-8542, office@sinai-sj.org TUESDAY, DECEMBER 13 PJ Library brings Hanukkah to Hicklebee’s Willow Glen, 3:30 PM In our second year, we will be offering a a fun storytime, lively songs and fingerplay and a craft activity. There will be a great opportunity to buy other books for family or gift-giving. There will also be a raffle for both books and a Hicklebee’s Gift Card. RabbiAlexander@jvalley.org, (408) 357-7509 THURSDAY, DECEMBER 15 RitLab: Ritual Laboratory Levy Family Campus, 7 PM Make your personal Judaica more meaningful by creating it yourself!

First republic bank presents

Mollie Katzen

New York Times Bestselling Cookbook Author Member of James Beard Cookbook Hall of Fame Consultant to Harvard University and University of California-Berkeley

Join us for an art workshop in which you will explore one of the major themes of Hanukkah: lights. Express yourself. Inspired by the program at the Contemporary Jewish Museum (408) 357-7411, cjll@svjcc.org SATURDAY, DECEMBER 17 Shabbat Storytime Sinai, 11 AM Join us for a fun, educational session of Jewish storytelling. For ages 0 - 5. (408) 264-8542, office@sinai-sj.org Light it Up! Chanukah Party Stanford, 9 PM See ad on page 14 for more details. TUESDAY, DECEMBER 20 Community Wide Hanukkah Candlelighting at Santana Row- One Night Only Santana Row, 5:30 PM See ad on page 19 for more information. FRIDAY, DECEMBER 23 Potluck Shabbat: Hanukkah Edition Cupertino, 7 PM The host will provide challah, wine, the main dishes, and cutlery and plates. Please bring a vegetarian/dairy appetizer, side, dessert, and/or drink to share. JewsNextDor@beth-david.org, (408) 257-3333

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Thursday, February 16, 2012

7:00 p.m. Dessert Reception and Presentation

artwork by mollie katzen

Event is underwritten by First Republic Bank Special Presentation of the Janet Berg Award

6:00-7:00 pm: Pre-event donor hors d’ouevres and cocktail reception (open to those who make a gift of $1,000 or more to the 2012 Annual Campaign). No host bar. APJCC Auditorium of the Levy Family Campus, 14855 Oka Road, Los Gatos Reserved seating. RSVP by January 31st. Register at www.jvalley.org. Madelyn Isaacs, Chair • Committee in formation

Women’s Philanthropy

Mollie Katzen, with over 6 million books in print, is listed by the New York Times as one of the best-selling cookbook authors of all time. A 2007 inductee into the prestigious James Beard Cookbook Hall of Fame, and largely credited with moving healthful vegetarian food from the “fringe” to the center of the American dinner plate, Ms. Katzen has been named by Health Magazine as one of “The Five Women Who Changed the Way We Eat.”

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obituary DAVID ABRAMS

May 17, 1940 – September 14, 2011

David Abrams was born and raised in Philadelphia, PA. He attended the University of Pennsylvania and graduated with a degree in Electric Engineering with Distinction. He went on to Penn and the Wharton School and received a Masters degree in Operations Research and completed all course work toward a PhD. EBD (Everything But Dissertation!) David and his wife, Joan, lived in Delaware County, PA and Westchester County, NY until 2007 when they moved to Menlo Park and then to San Jose in order to be closer to their daughter. He enjoyed his membership at Congregation Sinai in San Jose. David adored his family; he loved to play basketball and traveling. He particularly liked hiking in Switzerland. He is survived by his loving wife Joan, his daughter Deborah (Dirk) Balfanz, grandchildren, Alexander Joseph Balfanz, 8, Lucas Sebastian Balfanz, 6, of Redwood City and his son, Dr. Jeffrey (Shelley) and their children Abigail Elyse and Jack Samuel Abrams, 6 of Tennessee and his sister Carol Heckert. Donations in his memory may be made to the American Cancer Society.

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The story of your family’s journey from the Old Country. Your passion for doing good. What will you pass down to future generations? Which Jewish experiences do you most cherish? The taste of apples and honey at Rosh Hashana? Your first trip to Israel? Dancing the hora at a family bar mitzvah? In one way or another, you’ve no doubt enjoyed the warmth, closeness, traditions and support of a vibrant Jewish community throughout your life. Once you are gone, who will keep these traditions alive and thriving for future generations? Jewish tradition teaches that one of our key responsibilities is to make the world a better place for future generations. Chances are you already donate to the Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley. But have you considered including the Federation as part of your legacy, so you can continue to make a difference for generations to come?

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Contact the Federation today to learn how you can create your own Jewish legacy. Arielle Hendel 408.357.7501 arielle@jvalley.org

We don’t make a profit. We make a difference. Our non-profit status has its benefits. Particularly for the dozens of community organizations we support: local synagogues and their education programs, a camp to help families deal with grief, seniors’ programs and many, many others. At the end of the day, it’s a bottom line we’re proud of. So we ask that you consider Sinai Memorial Chapel – Chevra Kadisha in times of grief, as a way of honoring life.

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Jewish Professional Directory Attorneys Hoge, Fenton, Jones & Appel 60 S. Market St., Ste. 1400 San Jose, CA 95113 (408) 287-9501 plh@hogefenton.com www.hogefenton.com/hammer.html Specializing in complex family law matters. Certified Specialist in Family Law, State Bar of CA; Fellow, American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers.

David J. Hofmann

Hoge, Fenton, Jones & Appel 60 S. Market St., Ste. 1400 San Jose, CA 95113 (408) 287-9501 djh@hogefenton.com www.hogefenton.com/hofmann.html Specializing in commercial and residential real estate transactions & finance

David S. Howard

Hoge, Fenton, Jones & Appel 60 S. Market St., Ste. 1400 San Jose, CA 95113 (408) 287-9501 dsh@hogefenton.com www.hogefenton.com/howard.html Specializing in complex taxation, corporate strategy, and business succession planning; Jewish Federation Silicon Valley Financial Advisory Board.

Steven D. Siner

Hoge, Fenton, Jones & Appel 60 S. Market St., Ste. 1400 San Jose, CA 95113 (408) 287-9501 sds@hogefenton.com www.hogefenton.com/siner.html Specializing in complex business transactions, estate planning, and family business succession planning.

Eliana B. Weissman

Hoge, Fenton, Jones & Appel 60 S. Market St., Ste. 1400 San Jose, CA 95113 (408) 287-9501 ebw@hogefenton.com www.hogefenton.com/weissman.html Specializing in family law matters.

Christl Denecke

“Helping you plan for your family’s tomorrow at every stage of your life.” 1743 Pilgrim Avenue Mountain View, CA 94040 (650) 336-5185 Christl@DeneckePlanning.com www.DeneckePlanning.com Family Wealth Planning • Living Trusts • Special Needs Trusts • Estate Planning for Young Families Estate Planning for Non-Traditional Families

Law Office of Derryl H. Molina

“Trust Your Trust to Us!” 1142 S. Winchester Blvd., Ste. B San Jose, CA 95128 (408) 244-4992 attderryl@comcast.net www.fulllifecareplanner.com Estate Planning, Probate, and Elder Law. Mediation Facilitor.

Promote your business or service in the Jewish Professional Directory! It’s effective and affordable. Contact Elisa Gerston. Call (408) 357-7512 or email elisa@jvalley.org.

Minda B. Parrish

14500 Big Basin Way, Suite D, Saratoga, CA 95070 (408) 741-3500 minda@parrishlaw.net Estate Planning, Probate, Elder Law

Events AMB Designs

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Financial Services

Lynne R. Snyder

101 Church St., Suite 7, Los Gatos, CA 95032 (408) 354-5590 Adoption, Custody, Dissolutions, Guardianship, Juvenile Court, Paternity

Shannon Stein

Law Offices of Shannon Stein 438 South Murphy Avenue Sunnyvale, CA 94086 (408) 774-9097 shannon@shannonsteinlaw.com www.shannonsteinlaw.com Family Law Attorney, specializing in dissolutions, child custody, child support, mediation, restraining orders, limited scope representation, post-judgement issues.

Timothy D. Widman

Law Offices of Timothy D. Widman 101 Race St., Ste. 100 San Jose, CA 95126 (408) 288-6777 timothy@widmanlaw.com www.widmanlaw.com Immigration and Nationality Law

Carol Elias Zolla

16450 Los Gatos Boulevard, Suite 208, Los Gatos, CA 95032 Tel: 408-358-6900 carol@zollalawfirm.com www.zollalawfirm.com Certified Specialist in Estate Planning, Trust & Probate Law. The State Bar of California Board of Legal Specialization.

Alan Werba, CPA, CFP

Werba & Davis Advisory Services, LLC 3055 Olin Ave., Suite 2000 San Jose, CA 95128 (408) 260-3109 (408) 423-0209 Fee-Based Portfolio Management since 1990. Securities offered through Loring Ward Securities Inc., member FINRA/SIPC

Morgan Stanley Smith Barney

Robert Chaykin Vice President / Branch Manager 16000 Los Gatos Blvd. Los Gatos, CA. 95032 (408) 358-0988 robert.chaykin@morganstanley.com We offer comprehensive financial planning, asset allocation strategies, college savings plans, and retirement planning. Investments and services are offered through Morgan Stanley Smith Barney, member SIPC.

Minda Cutcher, MBA, Inc.

Financial Advocacy for Seniors 408-279-3269 (o) 408-318-0828 (c) www.mindacutcher.com minda@mindacutcher.com Helping families create and manage strategies to reduce healthcare costs, access benefits, decrease household expenses, pay bills and process mail.

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Dentist Dr. Zuri Barniv, DDS

1210 E. Arques Ave., Suite 200 Sunnyvale, CA 94085 (408) 733-1124 Barniv_Dental@yahoo.com www.Barniv-Dental.com Dr. Barniv is a university faculty member, practicing high-quality dentistry in a mercury-free office with digital X-rays. Dentist speaks Hebrew.

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2012

the third annual

Jewbilee

Celebrating

save the date: sunday, Jan. 22 1:00pm-8:00pm

Jewish life

Celebrate Jewish life and learning and be a part of the third annual “Jewbilee”. Join bay area rabbis, scholars, artists, and educators for a full afternoon of classes, programs and performances. there will be an open Kosher buffet, Jewish film festival screenings, programming for families, daycare, an afternoon of Judaic studies courses and much more!!! sunday, January 22nd from 1:00 – 8:00 pm at the apJCC $10 adults • $8 seniors/students under 4 yrs free for more information, visit the Jewbilee website

www.SiliconValleyJCC.org/Jewbilee

Jewbilee will be held at the Addison-Penzak Jewish Community Center, Levy Family Campus, 14855 Oka Road, Los Gatos, CA 95032. Food service under Orthodox Supervision. Direct all questions to the APJCC Center for Jewish Life and Learning at CJLL@svjcc.org or 408.357.7411.

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HanukaH & Holiday Palooza Bout ique SunDAy, DeCeMbeR 11 – ALL FRee! 12 pm: Octopretzel Concert 1-4 pm: KidsZone with crafts, games and bouncy house 1-2 pm: PJ Library Reading 2-3 pm: Dance Academy Performance

Sunday, Dec. 11 | 12-4 pm Monday, Dec. 12 | 9 am-3 pm

ju daica art • gifts

jewelry c lot h i n g skincare h o u s e wa r e s

Octopretzel At the APJCC on the Levy Family Campus 14855 Oka Road, Los Gatos Info: 408.357.7402 www.jvalley.org