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Enjoy Latkes & Laughs this winter Celebrate Hanukah with PJ Library at Santana Row MeshugaNutcracker is back in Silicon Valley Hillel students get “tough” in the mud Jyl Jurman celebrates 25 years at the Federation Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley 14855 Oka Rd. Suite 200 Los Gatos, CA 95032 Change Service Requested

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The story of Hanukah focuses on the miracle of the oil that was only meant to last for one day extending for eight full nights. The miracle of Hanukah is a good analogy for who we are as Jews today in America and in Israel. We are a small fraction of the world’s population, and our resources are often limited but we thrive beyond expectations. We show resolve in the face of existential issues in Israel especially in an arena that uses our moral and ethical ideals against us. We are lucky to live in a community where our local Jewish organizations are so vital and reach out to extend a helping hand, provide education, warm food and so much more to the Jews, and even non-Jews, in our community that can use a guiding path. In recent years, and even recent weeks, we have seen too many disasters, both natural and at the hand of man, around world. The folks here in Silicon Valley have graciously extended their prayers and support to help those in need during these crises. Much like the Hanukah oil lasting longer than expected, my tenure at the Federation has lasted longer too. I never thought that I would be about to celebrate 25 years serving our Jewish community. I couldn’t be more proud of the place we have grown to be over this time. We have, in the last quarter of a century, grown into a thriving Jewish community with a significant infrastructure and diversity – a hallmark of a successful Jewish community. As the candles of the menorah fill the room with light, so is my life filled with meaning and spirit. B’shalom, jyl jurman Federation CEO

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Team Hillel 10 Working together, CAER 12 Embrace-a-Family this Hanukah 14 Challah for Hunger 14 Shabbat Mishpaha 16 B’nai Mitvah membership for students 18 Fourth annual Jewbilee festival in 2013 18 Lunch auctions on eBay 19 Hebrew Free Loan Association 19 One Bay One Book 19 Take the Shabbat Meals Challenge 19 Project Isaiah Food Drive 20 Shir Hadash host connection building events 21 Rabbi’s column: Experiencing Hanukah 21 Beth David honors Aristides de Sousa Mendes 25 Meshuga-What??? 26 Latkes and Laughs 27 Diller Foundation awards 28 Award winning photo 30

Emeth sponsors Walk for Tolerance 38 Robert Chaykin apppointed to Human Relations Commission 38 Trial of Jacob 39 Faith Unravels: a book review 42

In Every Issue Community photos Simchas Datebook Obituaries Professional Directory

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Special Coverage Helping a community achieve its dreams Candlelighting at Santana Row Yellow Comforter project teaches tzedekah Enjoying the game Events for 55+

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JCRC Chair Marci Gerston, partner at Trepel Greenfield Sullivan & Draa, greets candidates Mohammed Nadeem and Robert Braunstein.

Founding partner of Trepel Greenfield Sullivan & Draa, Bernie Greenfield, discusses issues with Jon Kessler.

JCRC Candidates Reception, October 18, held at Trepel Greenfield Sullivan & Draa LLP

Attorney Joshua Safran speaks with SVJFF audience at screening of Crime After Crime.

Israeli Consul General Dr. Andy David introduces himself to the South Bay Jewish community.

SVJFF President Bruce Entin and Executive Director Tzvia Shelef welcome the audience to Opening Night.

Silicon Valley Jewish Film Festival Season 21

Jacob Cohen, chief scientist at NASA, Rona Ramon, widow of Israeli Astronaut Ilan Ramon, astronaut Garrett Reisman and director

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c mmunity photos Yavneh Day School breaks out the camera

Yavneh schoolwide Simchat Torah celebration at Beth David

Yavneh teachers under the Sukkah

Yavneh cross country team participated in Harker Middle School Cross Country Invitational.

Yavneh middle school student reads from the Torah

Yavneh Gesher (Junior Kindergarten) student kisses Torah

Yavneh Day School Sukkah

The Sinaites Band playing at Jerusalem Grill

Sinai’s Kosher BBQ Brisket Cook-Off contestants: Josh Roza, David Fernandez, Teri Baron (winner) and Eric Rosenblum

Harold Goldberg, one of the many Sinai Social Action volunteers, who helped build an All Faith’s House with Habitat for Humanity.

Mrs. “Cilly” Meyberg, of the former Meyberg’s Deli & Restaurant, is sharing her and her husband Karl’s famous brisket dinner recipes with Rebbetzin Frumie Cunin of Chabad of S. Jose in honor of the Jewish Holiday.

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celebrate! Jyl Jurman: Helping A community achieve its dreams By Eleanor Weber Dickman Petite and powerful. Dedicated and dynamic. Friendly and focused. Caring and competent. These are the accolades that friends, co-workers, and community leaders think of when they think of Jyl Jurman, Chief Executive Officer of The Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley. Jyl celebrates her 25th year on the staff of the Federation ― her 7th year as its leader and champion. Jyl directed the Federation during a very challenging time, highlighted by the decision to create a new Jewish community campus. The board and staff knew that this project would have an impact on the Federation’s annual campaign, but, as veteran Federation employee and advocate Janet Berg says, “What this building has done for the community has made up for that ― it has brought the community together.” Janet credits Jyl’s dedication and ability to get diverse groups working together as an important part of the Federation’s ability to identify and accomplish goals of value to the entire Jewish community. Current president Jeff Kanel praises her “ability to get things done.” He cites “the experience she brings to the job, her long tenure in the community, and her deep knowledge [which] give her perspective and the ability to get things done.” Although Jeff sees local Jewish agencies become able to fundraise more successfully for themselves, “which is a good thing,” he also is aware of a “shrinking and aging donor base,” and acknowledges the Federation’s challenge to “keep ourselves relevant.” He cites a new focus in funding specific “initiatives,” projects that may involve many different community agencies in order to meet specific community needs. After a yearlong evaluation, the Federation decided to allocate $40,000 for programs meeting identified needs for seniors and for teens. “Jyl has the history to know what community needs are. The idea of initiatives came from the strategic process we’ve done the past few years, which Jyl was instrumental in facilitating and seeing through,” according to Jeff. Bonnie Slavitt Moore, who was president in 2001-2003, was a volunteer who took on executive duties during a year when there was no official executive director of the Federation. She recalls, “I had phenomenal staff support. Jyl was just amazing ― supportive, working both capital and annual campaigns at the same time, and helping to cultivate prospects to give me all the support that I needed.” When the Federation needed a new director, the Board sought someone with extensive campaign and executive leadership experience, someone who was “creative, energetic, and forward thinking.” Respected by her colleagues nationally, Jyl’s knowledge of the community (she grew up here) helped her identify the “best match” between prospect and solicitor, notes Bonnie. Like other Board members, Bonnie sees Jyl’s strengths in her “ability to care passionately about people, to overcome territorial issues and promote collaborative efforts.” Bonnie’s successor, Brett Borah (president from 2003-2005), led the Federation during its 75th anniversary and the beginning of construction of the Levy Family Campus. He cites his biggest challenge as that of trying to raise $20 million for the campus while running a successful annual campaign. The Board was successful, he believes: “In those two years, we raised more money than in the past decade.” Jyl became the executive director of the Federation during his tenure. “She was absolutely the right person. In my opinion,” he says, “Jyl has become one of the best CEOs we have ever had in the last 25 years since I’ve been involved.” For many of these years, Jyl worked alongside long-time Federation staffer Janet Berg. Janet served as “executive director pro tem” five times, during transitions from director to director, calling on her extensive experience of 30-plus years as Jewish community newspaper editor, chair of the JCRC, head of administration, as well as other leadership roles. Through these years, Janet was proud to be her “mentor,” saying that she couldn’t be prouder of Jyl if she were Janet’s daughter! Recalls Janet, “She had natural ability. She was always fabulous at what she did. Bright and cheerful, she didn’t take guff from anyone. She always knew the direction she wanted to pursue and was able to go where she wanted to go.” Early in her tenure, Jyl played a critical role in bringing the dream of a community campus to reality. “She was involved in every detail of that building,” notes Janet, “going to every meeting about the architecture, contributing to the formation of the Board, bridging relationships between the Federation and the Addison-Penzak Jewish Community Center.” Jyl also was able to secure major gifts outside the community, notably from Tad Taube and the Koret Foundation. Janet concludes, “She has taken on a job that has gotten more and more and more demanding, and has run with it. When challenges dropped in her lap, she took care of them. She has also hired good staff people. I am so proud of her!” Jeff Kanel believes that, without Jyl’s leadership, “I do not think that the Jewish community would be where it is in terms of the number of people involved in general, the amount of money raised, programming done ― it’s impossible to measure the impact she’s had, but I think her efforts have touched every aspect of Jewish life in the South Bay. This community would not be what it is today without Jyl Jurman.” Jyl Jurman will be honored for her 25 years of service on Saturday, February 2, 2013, at 6:30pm at the Levy Family Campus. The event is being co-chaired by two past Federation presidents and good friends of Jyl’s, Judy Levin and Bonnie Slavitt Moore. Highlighting the event will be entertainment by The Capitol Steps, with dancing to The Joe Sharino Band following dinner and desert. The theme of the event is “celebrate! Silver to Gold.” See ad on page 2 for more details.

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l cal news Team Hillel By Vanina J. Sandel Mutchnik, Assistant Director Hillel of Silicon Valley It was May of 2012 and the academic year was almost over when two students from San Jose State University, Elliot Fine and Justin Rothenberg, came up with the idea that they wanted to create a Team Hillel to participate in Tough Mudder. According to its website, Tough Mudder events are hardcore 10-12 mile obstacle courses designed by British Special Forces to test all around strength, stamina, mental grit and camaraderie. It includes the most innovative courses, half a million inspiring participants, and more than $3 million raised for the Wounded Warrior Project, an organization dedicated to fostering the most successful, well-adjusted generation of wounded service members in our nation’s history. Elliot and Justin had a dream and they wanted Hillel to help them accomplish that dream. After some talks, the now co-chairs of Team Hillel and the Hillel of Silicon Valley staff had an agreement. Hillel will help the team financially (Hillel paid half of each student’s registration fee to the event and the students were in charge of paying the other half and the transportation to the event in Diablo Valley) if they were able to recruit a team that consisted of students from different campuses, and train together. In record time, students wrote emails saying that they wanted to be part of Team Hillel. 12 students and two staff members were ready to conquer the challenge. The goals were exceeded in so many categories. Students came to the Hillel house and shared how much it meant to have a group to train with; students started to pay more attention to their bodies and began to eat healthier; and, 100% of the participants were so thankful that Hillel encouraged them to do something that most never thought they could do. This is in part why Hillel is here. We want students to take risks, to trust their peers, to take good care of themselves, and most importantly, we want our students to become leaders that aim high and achieve their dreams. It is very hard to explain the different emotions the Team Hillel went through during the training process and the day of the event; however some of these testimonies will help to put them in perspective; “I decided to participate/plan this event in order to expand the general activity base of Hillel. Traditionally, Hillel is known for more static events. So by taking part in TM, I was hoping to really diversify the

exterior perception of Hillel.” Elliot Fine, undergrad student “[…] teamwork was a huge aspect of the event. Being on Team Hillel was amazing because we all had to help each other physically and mentally in order to finish the course. The Tough Mudder staff was very clear, “the course is not a race, but a challenge.” And this couldn’t have been more true. It was a challenge which we had to work together to accomplish.” Eric Medeiros, graduating senior. “Hillel has been one of the biggest factors in who I have become. It has shaped me tremendously as a person and every chance I get to talk about Hillel with others, I take full advantage of. I saw being a part of Team Hillel as an opportunity to showcase the camaraderie, teamwork and leadership that not many people get to see until the walk through the Hillel doors. Hopefully, by being a part of this team, others will be encouraged to step through those doors and be a part of something completely special and undoubtedly unique.” Justin Rothenberg, graduate student. “[…] I wanted to prove to myself that I can work together with others and push myself. Hillel and the people are amazing. Working and pushing each other brought us together. I would easily do this with Hillel again.” Leonard Druker, undergrad student “I wanted to be a part of an event that could make me feel motivated and challenge myself to do something in my life that I never thought possible. Once the opportunity to do it with Hillel came up and I could embark on this journey with my fellow peers and Jewish friends, I said let’s go!” Adi Hod, undergrad student. “I wanted to participate in the camaraderie I knew doing an intense, physical event would bring. I also wanted to witness students pushing themselves, and pushing past their limits. I wanted to participate as part of “Team Hillel” because I felt it was important to show staff support to our students.” Jessica Trousdale, Program and Engagement Associate “I really wanted to participate in this event for me and for Hillel. I wanted to prove to myself that I could physically and mentally overcome something that was unfamiliar to me and would force me to overcome certain fears. I wanted to do this for Hillel because I wanted to have a unique bonding experience with students that I see on a daily basis. Tough Mudder brought us all closer and created a sense of trust and camaraderie between our “Team Hillel.” The best part of this entire experience was helping each team member overcome physical and mental challenges that we faced along the way together.” Johanna Wilder, Israel Fellow. Team Hillel participants: Elliot Fine, Justin Rothenberg, Leonard Druker, Adi Hod, Eric Medeiros, Dana Margittai, Katie Minks, Talia Klein, Neusha Zarrabian, Batia Pinsker, Aaron Mednick, Lloyd Walker, Jessica Trousdale and Johanna Wilder.

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December 6, 2012 marks the 25th anniversary of the March on Washington for Soviet Jewry. To honor this milestone we are launching a storycollecting project. Silicon Valley has a story to tell about our local activists and émigrés who fought and won an important battle for human rights. our Valley continues to enrich the world through the contributions of Jewish immigrants, their children and grandchildren from the former Soviet Union. Many local Rabbis and Jewish leaders were instrumental in the movement. We want our children and future generations to believe in expanding the reach of freedom. We need your stories to make this possible.

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l cal news Working together By Arielle Hendel In 1985, three community leaders got together to form one of the most unique and enduring South Bay organizations. It was ahead of its time in concept. Rabbi Jonathan Plaut, then of Temple Emanu-El, Janet Berg, then of the Jewish Federation and Rabbi Daniel Pressman, then and now of Congregation Beth David, developed the CAER committee. Their purpose was to improve communications between agencies, improve the personal relationships of the community’s professionals, to provide mutual support and a safe place to vet and initiate ideas to enhance the South Bay Jewish community. CAER (Community Agency Executives and Rabbis) is comprised of representatives from the local Jewish synagogues and organizations. The organizations’ rabbis and executive directors gather on a regular basis to ensure community, collaboration and general goodwill. The original purpose is its current mission: to break down silos of community agencies. Janet Berg, one of CAER’s co-founders says, “CAER is one of my proudest legacies of my 35 years with Federation.” And, Nate Stein, the newest member of the CAER committee and CEO of the APJCC says, “This kind of collaboration doesn’t happen in other communities. The fact that we have this organization in our community is quite unique. It has been a wonderful, easy way to share ideas and get to know my fellow Jewish communal professionals.” The CAER folks are not only successful at this organized collaboration, but are surprisingly good friends as well. The leaders represented at these meetings come from many different backgrounds; from varying sects of Judaism to a plethora of lifestyles, the group bonds together beyond their differences to work on bettering the community as a whole.

CAER has been operating for over 27 years and the chairperson has switched off on an annual basis until recently. Rabbi Pressman, also a co-founder of CAER , explains,” the committee’s chair alternates between rabbis and agency directors so that the burden and tenor of the committee did not fall to one professional.” Jyl Jurman, CEO of the Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley, was asked to step up as chairperson and has held the position for three years. Jyl is most proud that “this group encourages all Jewish communal professionals and their representative agencies to work together for the greater good of the community.” In addition to discussions about community hurdles and possibilities, the group also meets annually to discuss the community calendar and make sure each organization has the dates needed for their major events and the time needed for fundraising. The first program that CAER planned in 1985 was the community-wide Yom HaAtzmeut program which continues to this day. Rabbi Pressman shared, “These community programs do not happen by accident; we meet regularly to ensure that our community is served to the best of our abilities and in collaboration with each other.”

Before we wave goodbye to 2012... ...close the year knowing that you did your part to make the world a kinder place for those in need. There are many ways to give. Our Jewish community needs your time and resources. Visit our secure website www.jvalley.org to find more information about projects and programs which need your support. If you would like to make a gift before the end of the year, please call us at 408-358-3033 or visit www.jvalley.org. Any pledge made now is payable through Dec. 31, 2013. Funds raised through the Annual Campaign are distributed locally and overseas to support humanitarian, social and educational programs. Your gift will make a difference to so many people.

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Embrace a family this Hanukah Jewish Family Services of Silicon Valley knows that the Festival of Lights is not a bright holiday for many people in our community. In some struggling households, meeting every day expenses – let alone buying presents – is a huge financial burden. Jewish Family Services of Silicon Valley would like you to be a part of the 5th Annual EmbraceA-Family program. This program is designed to ease the pressure and stress the holidays bring to needy families, seniors and adults. Now through December 8 visit a dreidel board at any of these locations: Levy Family Campus (upstairs at Jewish Family Services of Silicon Valley and Yavneh/APJCC lobby), synagogues (Beth David, Emanu-El, Emeth, Shir Hadash, Sinai), South Peninsula Day School, and Israeli preschools (Gan Ronit, Gan Yeladim, Kinderland, Liat’s Family Home, Smadar’s Daycare.) Bring your unwrapped gift to the JFS office. You will bring a smile – and be a blessing – to someone in need. As Sharon, a single mom, told JFS staff last year, “You helped make an otherwise dismal Hanukah a little brighter and happier. It took a lot to ask for help, and I want you to know that it is very appreciated.” Miriam wrote that “the gifts are everything we asked for and more. I never dreamed that people would be so generous and take our family under their wing.” Embrace-A-Family brings the community together. It’s also a wonderful way for people who have much to be thankful for to give. Adam, a Yavneh student said, “I bought men’s socks and am sure they will be enjoyed. It was a great feeling to give to someone!” Parents of preschoolers find that it is an easy way to help young kids understand about tzedakah and PJ Library’s Yellow Comforter will be using it’s lessons on tzedekah to encourage the participating children and families to give back to the Embrace-a-Family program. In addition to specific gifts, JFS is also requesting gas station cards, supermarket (Trader Joe’s, Safeway) and discount department store (Target, Kohl’s and WalMart) gift cards to help struggling families and seniors throughout the year.

l cal news Hillel students bake challah, the community does a mitzvah By Vanina J. Sandel Mutchnik, Hillel of Silicon Valley Assistant Director Challah for Hunger is an initiative that brings people together to raise money and awareness for social justice – through challah bread. Challah for Hunger chapters bake and sell challah bread. Each chapter donates half of its profits to the American Jewish World Service (for their work for the refugees from Darfur) and chooses locally where to donate the other 50% of profits. The more than forty chapters, on college campuses throughout the U.S. and beyond, engage young people in community, tradition, hands-on baking, activism, and philanthropy. Hillel of Silicon Valley decided to take part in this initiative by baking challah four times during this academic year. Most of the Challah for Hunger chapters sells their challahs to the students living on college campuses. The majority of our students don’t live on campus so we decided to bring the program to our amazing local Jewish community. The community embraced the project and we had 48 orders for our first Challah For Hunger baking day! If you had come to the Hillel House on Thursday, September 27, you would have experienced the delicious smell of freshly baked challahs that permeated the house. All during the day, students, staff and even Board President Bonnie Slavitt Moore came together to bake 48 challahs (plain, sesame seed, and chocolate and raisins were the flavors). The energy and excitement was palpable as the group blended ingredients to make into dough, watched the dough rise, braided the challahs, and brought the golden loaves out of the oven. The funds raised by the sale support both local and global organizations that fight world hunger. We are proud and want to thank all the volunteers who devoted time to this mitzvah! Our next Challah for Hunger baking days will take place on Thursday, December 6, Thursday, February 28 and Thursday, April 25. We hope you join us in both ordering challah and coming to Hillel to bake them and have a great time with our committed students. If you want to order challah please contact Vanina at vanina@hillelsv.org and if you want to join us and bake challah with us, please contact Jessica at jessica@hillelsv.org.

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sunday, January 27th 1:00pm-8:00pm Celebrate Jewish life and learning and be a part of the fourth annual “Jewbilee”. Join bay area rabbis, scholars, artists, and educators for a full afternoon of classes, programs and performances. there will be an open Kosher buffet, Jewish film festival screenings, programming for families, daycare, an afternoon of Judaic studies courses and much more!!!

Jewish life Keynote speaKer: author Jonathan sarna new!

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Jewbilee will be held at the Addison-Penzak Jewish Community Center, Levy Family Campus, 14855 Oka Road, Los Gatos, CA 95032. Food service under Orthodox Supervision. Direct all questions to the APJCC Center for Jewish Life and Learning at CJLL@svjcc.org or 408.357.7411.

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l cal news A Shabbat Mishpaha: Family - Experience One of the most beautiful and joyous prayer services in liturgy is the Kabbalat Shabbat service on Friday nights. On November 1, Congregation Beth David had the first of seven Shabbat Mishpaha Experience (SME) Kabbalat Shabbat services. It was filled with upbeat songs and prayers in Hebrew and English, co-led by children in attendance that evening, to the (more-or-less) rhythmic beat of drums, maracas and tambourines. The highlight of the service was the Siddur ceremony where third graders, and some older kids, received their first Siddur (prayerbook), lovingly decorated by their parents. Prior to the presentation, the students shared “why is a Siddur important to me”. For one student it was that “using the Siddur says that we care a lot about God, and that we show God respect.” For another the fact that “the Siddur contains the blessing over the rainbow, which is God’s promise not to destroy the world again” was important. Others shared that ‘it will help me remember to help people”, “express my feelings ”, “talk to God when I have problems”, and “I will keep it forever”. After the parents spent a few moments sharing words of inspiration with their students, Rabbi Ohriner led the congregation in the Shehyanu before concluding the service. The service was followed by a delicious family potluck where the main course was provided by Beth David, and the sides, salads and desserts were brought in by the attendees. The Shabbat Mishpaha Experience is a new initiative at Beth David where families can be part of a lively Shabbat service, celebrate a milestone event in community, and share a warm Shabbat dinner together each month. Students and their families in the fourth and fifth grade Rabbi Phillip Ohriner with son Ari classes are looking forward to the next Shabbat Mishpaha Experience on December 7 when they will participate in their Tanakh Presentation ceremony. On February 1, the SME is also “Hagigat Noar” (a celebration of youth). According to Iris Bendahan, the Religious School principal, “Hagigat Noar, which is co-led by both Cub Scout Pack 504 (and any other interested scouts), and students who are joining our Torah Reader’s Club, is a special service because it brings together kids from different communities reaching different, but Jewishly significant, milestones. A CBD Family Shabbat dinner follows Hagigat Noar, and on months where Shabbat Mishpaha doesn’t have an accompanying event, the Rabbis call all the kids up to the bima for a story. The Shabbat Mishpaha Experience at Beth David is open to the public. So, come yourself or with your mishpaha and ‘welcome the Shabbat bride’ with us!

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embrace the past. shape the future. travel dates: april 3-18, 2013 Join 10,000 Jewish teens from around the world for a life-changing experience with March of the Living. Travel to Poland with Bay Area teens to learn about the Holocaust and Eastern European Jewish heritage and civilization. March with thousands of Jewish teens from Auschwitz to Birkenau. Then, travel to Israel to encounter Israeli life and people and honor Israel Memorial Day and celebrate Israel Independence Day. March of the Living is a powerful travel and study program for juniors and seniors in high school, although some sophomores may attend as well. The pre-trip educational series will prepare students for this transforming experience. “The feeling of unity and responsibility was empowering and indescribable.” - Danielle L. 2012, San Jose

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m re news B’nai Mitzvah memberships for area synagogue students

Fourth annual Jewbilee festival coming in January

By Rabbi James Greene

On January 27, the Addison-Penzak JCC will be holding its 4th annual Jewbilee festival. Jewbilee is a day-long celebration of Bay Area Jewry that will offer everything from rabbis and artists to scholars and educators. The festival will offer a full afternoon of classes, programs, and performances of all sorts for a full day of learning. Something new to this year’s Jewbilee is the book fair, which will feature over 200 books of all kinds. The festival will also be hosting the Gift of Life Bone Marrow Drive, where attendees can sign into the organization’s registry to donate bone marrow at a later date. The festival will run from 1:00pm through 8:00pm, so even though there may seem to be too many events and activities to attend in a day, festival-goers will certainly have more than enough time to get in a good taste of Bay Area Jewry.

The Jewish community is a family. We care for one another in times of sadness and we celebrate with one another in times of joy. In the life of the Jewish community, there are few moments as joyful as when we welcome a child into the transition toward adulthood. The ritual of B’nai Mitzvah is not the oldest ritual in our tradition, but it has grown to be a significant moment in the life of young people, and also in the life of the community. We gather together in congregations and communities and join with children leading us in prayer for the first time. In that moment, we see them in a new light; as members in their own right. With all the rights and responsibilities that come with this shift in status, the Addison-Penzak Jewish Community Center of Silicon Valley has decided to extend our own gift in celebration of these emerging adults within our community. In partnership with the area synagogues, the Board of the APJCC at its August meeting voted to extend a free year-long membership to all b’nai mitzvah in the South Bay. We hope that this gift will encourage young adults to deepen their affiliation with the Jewish community and support synagogues in their continued programming for post-b’nai mitzvah learners. Judy Levin, Chair of the APJCC Board, said that, “Many people who are now engaged in the Jewish community remember their experiences at a JCC. It is an important indicator of lifelong Jewish involvement. We hope that this gift will support a new generation of Jewish adults.”

This year’s festival also has a special treat in store for its attendees; its keynote speaker, Jonathan Sarna. Sarna is the author of When General Grant Expelled the Jews, a record of a not-so-well-known event in American Jewish history. When General Grant Expelled the Jews reveals a great deal about Jewish-American life before the great immigrations of the late nineteenth century. The keynote speaker event will be part of the day’s festivities, but requires a separate ticket for entry. Admission to Jewbilee is $10 for adults and $7 for children. Tickets to the Jonathan Sarna keynote speaker event are a separate $5 for JCC members and $7 for non-members. For more information, contact the JCC›s Center for Jewish Life and Learning at cjll@svjcc.org or (408) 357-7411. Interested readers can also find more info at www. siliconvalleyjcc.org/jewbilee.

The midrash tells us that when the Israelites stood at Mount Sinai in the moment of receiving Torah, God asks them for a guarantor. At first the Israelites offer their ancestors, but God rejects them. Next they offer the prophets, but God again rebuffs them. Finally, the Israelites understand the answer. They offer the next generation – the children of the community – as the protectors of Jewish tradition. The staff and the Board of Trustees of the Addison-Penzak Jewish Community Center understand this. We are delighted to celebrate with these young adults as they mature, and we welcome them into our facility to explore all the opportunities for Jewish engagement we have to offer. Rabbi James Greene, the Director of the Center for Jewish Life and Learning, reflected on the importance of this step. “The Jewish community is a family. And when a family member is celebrating a joyous occasion, we should do all we can to support and encourage them. B’nai mitzvah is a significant moment in the life of a child. I am proud that the JCC is right there, to celebrate with them, and to wish them a mazal tov!” The Addison-Penzak Jewish Community Center is located at 14855 Oka Road in Los Gatos. For more information, please call (408) 3577492.

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“Lunch With….” Tzedaka auctions on eBay for Jewish Family Services of Silicon Valley What’s it like getting a call in the middle of the night from a heavily accented person saying you have just won the Nobel Prize? Ask one of JFS’s two Nobel Prize winning celebrities at lunch! Got a question about opera, or a theory about a bagel chain? Care to start a company on the back on a napkin? Jewish Family Services of Silicon Valley is holding auctions, on eBay, called “Lunch With…” They will be held January 20-28, 2013, and the prizes are lunch dates with celebrities. The winner of each auction may bring along friends or family. The money raised goes towards JFS’s Project N.O.A.H., “No One Abandoned Here.” This money is going to help JFS provide vital social services to needy people in our community. Lunch Dates will be available with: Noah Alper, Author and Founder of Noah’s Bagels. Scott Budman, NBC News Reporter and Emmy Award Winner Layna Chiankas, Opera Singer Larry Gerston, NBC Political Analyst Burton Richter, Director Emeritus of SLAC and 1976 Nobel Prize Winner in Physics Alvin Roth, 2012 Nobel Prize in Economics for Game Theory Matt Sosnick, Sports Agent Barbara Day Turner, San Jose Chamber Orchestra Founder and Director Stephen Guggenheim, Retro Dome VP and Music Director Steve Wallach, Super-Computer Guru Terry Winograd, Stanford Professor of Artificial Intelligence Bob Zeidman, Author, Software Sleuth, Serial Entrepreneur

Any Interest in an Interest-Free Loan? By Cindy Rogoway The Hebrew Free Loan Association has been providing interest-free loans to Jewish residents of Northern California since 1897. Types of available loans include: Student, Emergency, Adoption, Business, Firsttime Home Buyer, Health Care, Recently Unemployed, Life Cycle, Debt Consolidation, Institutional (for Jewish communal agencies and synagogues) and Special Needs (for emotionally and physically challenged people). Since 1897, the Hebrew Free Loan of San Francisco has offered vital financial assistance to more than 100,000 people. Each year, we help more than 400 people to reach their goals and move in the direction of financial security and future success. We help people to help themselves. Whether we’re providing people a way out of their financial distress, or helping them to realize a life-long dream, our recipients maintain dignity and self-sufficiency as they repay their interest-free loans. If you, or someone you know, needs financial assistance and would like to apply for an interest-free loan, please contact us by phone at (415) 546-9902 or email at info@hflasf.org. Check out our website for more information: www.hflasf.org.

l cal news One Bay One Book By Miriam Marr Congregation Beth David is a proud partner of the One Bay One Book program sponsored by the Bureau of Jewish Education (BJE) in San Francisco. BJE’s One Bay One Book connects a diverse cross section of Bay Area adults with meaningful, lively Jewish learning by bringing participants together in shared discussions and events, stimulated by the selected book and its themes. The book for this inaugural year is Nathan Englander’s award winning What We Talk About When We Talk About Anne Frank. There is something for everyone in Englander’s short stories, which touch on themes that particularly resonate for modern Jews while simultaneously addressing universal concerns. Cong. Beth David will be offering a facilitated discussion of the book on Saturday, December 8 at approximately 1:30 p.m., after services and kiddush lunch. All adults and teens are welcome. For more information, call (408) 257-3333. BJE’s One Bay One Book’s kick off event - a Storytelling Show - will be Sunday, November 11, from 1 to 3 p.m. at the Contemporary Jewish Museum in San Francisco. Please visit BJE’s web site for details on this event and more programming, including discussion groups and final author events with Nathan Englander on May 5 and 6, 2013. Website: http://bjesf.org/adults:onebayonebook.htm.

Take the Shabbat Meals Challenge Jewish Family Services of Silicon Valley has requests for 1,000 Shabbat Meals in this program year. Seniors (including many holocaust survivors, and adults with physical handicaps) and families in need have told the agency’s staff that Shabbat meals make their lives much easier and really help out financially. In August 2012, JFS issued the challenge to meet the need of 1000 meals by June 2013. By the end of October 2012, generous donors had already sponsored 326 meals. Thirty-eight dollars ($38) purchases meals for a family of a delicious Glatt kosher Shabbat dinner from Jerusalem Grill and Irving’s Challah. Come take the challenge and brighten Shabbat in our community! Call (408) 556-0600 or go to http://jfssv.org/donate.html#shabbat.

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l cal news Congregation Beth David’s Project Isaiah Food Drive Congregation Beth David helped fulfill the Mitzvah of helping those in need in Silicon Valley during our Project Isaiah High Holy Days food drive. Our congregants donated a record 4,211 pounds of food to the Second Harvest Food Bank. For more than ten years ,the Beth David Social Action Committee organized the drives with abundant support from the Beth David office staff and our Rabbis. Volunteers from Beth David prepared food drive flyers and handed out grocery bags, donated by Trader Joe’s, after Rosh Hashanah services. Congregants brought those grocery bags, filled with non-perishable food, back on Yom Kippur. Food drive awareness was heightened through Synagogue bulletins and especially by appeals from our Rabbis at High Holy Day services. This year’s donation exceeded the 3,200 and 3,600 pound totals received over the last two food drives. Thanks to our Rabbis, Beth David office staff, our volunteers and Trader Joe’s for a very successful and beneficial food drive.

Shir Hadash hosts connection building events On Sunday, October 14, 2012, Congregation Shir Hadash held a Single Wine & Cheese Get –together. The event, which was for single 40-70 years old, was open to the entire community. Both affiliated and unaffiliated Jews from the Bay area attended the event. Approximately 85 people came from the East Bay, Hayward, the Mid-Peninsula, Silicon Valley and even San Francisco. The focus on the get-together was to facilitate conversations and connections between people and included several icebreaker activities to help people connect. For example, one activity asked people to stand with others from a similar neighborhood or town, thus facilitating connections between ‘neighbors’. According to Carol Shapiro Gutstein, “everyone had a really good time. The atmosphere was very positive and it was a very, very pleasant experience. The enthusiasm of all the attendees was great and many people said they wanted to this again, perhaps at another location.” Some of the participants said that as an older single, they often feel left out of regular temple life and those other temples don’t do anything for them. A meeting will held later in November to bring together representatives from local congregations to talk about future regional planning. This wasn’t the only event that Shir Hadash held to build connectedness. On October 13th, CSH held a Havurah and Happy Hour event that was open to temple members’ families. The event which started with a lovely havdalah service, featured music by Hot Kugel, a local Klezmer duo, an ice cream bar, cocktails for adults, and an age appropriate movie for kids . The evening also included short presentation about what a havurah is all about, and encouraged those in attendance to join a new havurah or revitalize an existing one. Once again, the energy in the room was great and offered temple members the opportunity to expand their friendship circles.

Rabbi’s column: Experiencing Hanukah By Rabbi James Greene As we come together with family and friends this month to celebrate the minor Jewish holiday of Hanukah, I find myself drawn to the various ways in which we experience the holiday. Each family or circle of friends has their own path to observe this unique time in the Jewish year – meant to help bring light to the darkest point of our calendar. It should be no surprise, then, that the festival of Hanukah has been reinvented (or, more accurately, reconstructed) numerous times in Jewish history as well. The version of Hanukah we celebrate today is a transparent time-capsule, revealing at least four distinct layers of history in forms that are known and loved by nearly every Jewish child: 1. The Maccabeaen patriotic retelling of their military victory against the Seleucids under Antiochus IV. 2. The Rabbinic glorification of God’s might in extending a tiny cruse of oil to eight times its potential. 3. The Medieval resolve to bring joy and warmth to the home in the darkest nights of winter through special foods and games. 4. The Contemporary attempt to maintain Jewish identity within a Christian society by assuming the trappings of a “Jewish Christmas”. continued on page 39

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Mah jongg The APJCC and Women’s Philanthropy of the Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley invite you to our two-tiered Mah Jongg tournament for beginners and mavens.

SundAy, JAnuAry 13, 2012 9:00 a.m. • $54 APJCC Auditorium, Levy Family Campus Karen Guggenheim and Doris Katz, Co-Chairs

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the PJ library ® Program and santana row invite you to

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celebrate Hanukah with the Silicon Valley Jewish community at Santana row. music • crafts • tasty treats New location: Santana row Park (more space!)

Sunday, december 9, 2012

community organization booths open at 4pm Program 4:30-5:30 pm

Free! Info: www.jvalley.org

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PJ Library brings Candlelighting to Santana Row for the fourth year By Rabbi Leslie Alexander Believe it or not, Hanukkah is almost here and what would Hanukkah be in the Silicon Valley without the spirited and festive community wide candlelighting at Santana Row, this year, on December 9th. This will be the 4th year of our program, the second in which a myriad of community organizations join all together on one night to celebrate. The program begins at 4pm, culminating in the Candlelighting at 5:30 pm. The celebration is presented by PJ Library, a program of the Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley along with Santana Row and all of these community organizations: Congregation Beth David, Congregation Emeth, Congregation Shir Hadash, Congregation Sinai, Temple Emanu-El, South Peninsula Hebrew Day School, Yavneh Day School, Addison Penzak Jewish Community Center, Hillel of Silicon Valley, Jewish Family Service of Silicon Valley, Sharone Hadasssah, Alef Bet Judaica, Jerusalem Grill and Bar and Pars Kosher Market. The program, truly a delight for all ages, will be emceed by Shannon and Steve Guggenheim of the Retrodome and will include the Meshuganutcracker players. In addition, PJ Library Hanukkah tales and music will be presented by the Retrodome bringing children of the community on stage. Those who have experienced the Retrodome know that this promises to be a rockin’ time for all! The schedule for December 9th is as follows: 4 - 4:30pm, Community organizations will be at booths and offer Crafts projects and games for children, taste treats and giveaways. 4:30- 5:30pm, We will enjoy musical performances by Congregation Beth David Religious School with Rabbi Ohriner, Congregation Shir Hadash’s youth choir with Cantor Felder Levy,Congregation Sinai’s children with Rabbi Berkenwald, Temple Emanu-El’s youth with Rabbi Magat and Cantor Simerley and the Yavneh Day School choir. Last year, 1200 people of all ages attended the Santana Row event. Don’t miss the chance this year to be among the largest gatherings of Jews celebrating that the Silicon Valley has ever seen. You will come away, energized, filled with Hanukkah spirit and ready to continue the next 6 nights of Hanukkah with family and friends. For further information about the PJ Library sponsored Hanukkah Candlelighting at Santana Row, please call Rabbi Leslie Alexander, PJ Library Professional at the Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley (408) 357-7509, Email to RabbiAlexander@JValley.org or contact your synagogue, community agency or school for details. See you there!

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Yellow Comforter Project By Rabbi Leslie Alexander

Giant sized Yellow Comforters emerging from a HUGE Tzedakah box in a synagogue lobby, a power point presentation of “How Dalia Put a Big Yellow Comforter Inside a Tiny Blue Box” projected on a screen for an entire school’s parents and children, older students “buddying” with younger to teach them the power of giving, children creating and decorating tsedakah boxes together and doing special chores at home to earn money to give to those in need. All these wonderful things have been accomplished in the schools participating in the community wide Yellow Comforter Project If you have been at any of the Jewish preschools in our community from Morgan Hill to Sunnyvale, or if you have been at a local Synagogue, Day School or at The Levy Family Campus on Oka Road in Los Gatos, perhaps you have seen the banners for our new community wide Tzedakah initiative, “The Yellow Comforter Project.” The project is based on the PJ Library book “How Dalia Put a Big Yellow Comforter Inside a Tiny Blue Box,” by Linda Heller -- a warm story about the power of Tzedakah, and how small children can come to understand that when you collect those clunky coins in a box they can become real things for real people in need. In the case of the book, a yellow comforter, flowering bush and a banana cream pie are purchased with the money and brought to a special, needy friend. In our community, children are asked to earn money by doing special Tzedakah chores. This money is being raised to purchase toys, books, clothes, and other things requested by families in need through Jewish Family Service of Silicon Valley’s Embrace-A-Family Project. You can see dreidel boards with needs and requests all over our Jewish community. Children will select items to purchase and then donate through the Yellow Comforter Project. Storess will be set up at each school, enabling children to take their money and have the experience of selecting gifts to give. The money you and your child collect in your new Tzedakah box made at home or at school can become a part of this wonderful project. If you don’t have a child in a participating organization, or even if you do, you can take a paper dreidel or two off any of the Embrace-A-Family boards around the community and buy a gift for someone who needs the help and care. The project will culminate in a slide show and focus on each of the participating schools at the community wide Hanukkah celebration at Santana Row, December 9th from 4:00-5:30pm. For more information about The Yellow Comforter Project please call Rabbi Alexander at (408) 357-7509 or write PJLibrary@JValley.org or contact any of the educators at the participating organizations: the JCC Preschool (Los Gatos), Temple Emanuel Preschool (San Jose), Shir Hadash Early Childhood Center and Religious School (Los Gatos), South Peninsula Hebrew Day School-Gan Aviv Preschool (Sunnyvale), Congregation Sinai Nursery School (San Jose), Congregation Beth David Religious School (Saratoga), Congregation Emeth Religious School(Morgan Hill), Yavneh Day School (Los Gatos) and Cherie Ravel at Jewish Family Services of Silicon Valley.

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Happy Chanukah from Temple Emanu‐El! Over 150 Years of Tradition and Innovation! Latkes and Laughs

Saturday, December 2 at 6:00 pm A night of comedy and nosh featuring the comedic stylings of Andrew Norelli, Jeff Applebaum, and Jimmy Gunn. For more information visit www.templesanjose.org. Tickets on sale at www.theretrodome.com.

Chanukah Fair

Sunday, December 9 from 10:30 am - 3:00 pm Join us for your holiday shopping! There will be kids crafts, cookie decorating, and a jumper for the kids. $5 at the door for full participation or FREE WITH $10 Boutique ticket purchase (excluding gift shop and food).

Chanukah Extravaganza Friday, December 14 at 6:30 pm Come join us for an amazing musical Kabbalat Shabbat Service featuring members of our Rock Shabbat band! Don’t forget to bring your menorah to light together as a community! The evening will continue with…….. Temple Emanu-El’s Third Annual Best of Latkes Competition. Show off your culinary skills and bring your best latkes to compete in one or both of our competition categories, traditional and creative. Space is limited so contact the office and register your latkes today!

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l cal news Beth David and the San José Portuguese Community Honor Aristides de Sousa Mendes by Eleanor Weber Dickman Did you know that Portuguese diplomat Aristides de Sousa Mendes, stationed in Bordeaux, France during World War II, saved “Curious George”? This iconic little monkey was the hero of a popular series of children’s books written by Hans Augusto Rey and Margret Rey, German Jews living in Paris who were rescued by Sousa Mendes in June of 1940, escaping on bicycles with Portuguese visas in their pockets. Everyone knows Curious George. Not everyone knows the heroic, dramatic action taken by de Sousa Mendes in issuing 30,000 visas, including 10,000 given to Jews fleeing the Nazi Holocaust, doing so in one week (June 16-23, 1940). But on a sunny Sunday afternoon (October 14th) at Congregation Beth David in Saratoga, a crowd of Jews and Silicon Valley residents of Portuguese descent shared the stirring saga of the life-saving courage of this “Righteous Gentile.” Organized by a group of Beth David members ― Lena and Jussi Rajna, Harriet and Don Fernandez, Bayla and Abe Bromberg, and Marty Sherman ― the event featured first-person memories from Sheila Abranches, granddaughter of de Sousa Mendes, and from Dr. Nathaniel Deutsch, Director of the Institute for Humanities Research at the University of California, Santa Cruz, the son of the late Henri Zvi Deutsch, a Sousa Mendes visa recipient. Abranches and Deutsch unveiled a sign designating “Aristides de Sousa Mendes Way” on the Beth David property. Following a flag ceremony (including the Portuguese flag) conducted by Boy Scout Troup 535 and Cub Scout Pack 504, and songs sung by Beth David religious school students led by Barbara Biran and Iris Bendahan, The Rev. José Carlos Santos of the Five Wounds Church (San José) and Rabbi Daniel Pressman gave the invocation. Rabbi Pressman praised the diplomat for having “the courage to do the right thing at great personal risk.” Rev. Santos said de Sousa Mendes “inspires us to do what is just and right wherever we see people in peril, continuing along paths of greater understanding and compassion. Saratoga Mayor Chuck Page and City Council Representative Manny Capello thanked Beth David for “bringing multicultural collaboration to our community” and read a citation from the City of Saratoga. A citation from Congressman Mike Honda was also read. Dr. Nuno Mathias, the Portuguese Consul General, described de Sousa Mendes as “an invaluable historical leader whose own conscience and moral imperatives are a source of inspiration to us all.”

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Dr. Lissy Jarvik, a geriatric psychiatrist from LA and the founding president of the de Sousa Mendes Foundation, which provided historic materials to display at the event, said that she was a “witness to history,” and was moved to “testify at first hand” about the life-saving work of her rescuer. She also credited Rabbi Chaim Kruger, a Polish rabbi who had been living in Belgium, and became a friend of de Sousa Mendes when the Krugers escaped to Bordeaux. She recalled that de Sousa Mendes offered Rabbi Kruger visas for himself and his family, but that the rabbi refused to accept the visas until every Jewish refugee in Bordeaux was also given a visa. De Sousa Mendes, inspired by this act of moral courage, then worked to liberate hundreds of thousands of Nazi victims. Noted Dr. Jarvik: “This was an example of how unselfish people act and encompass the best qualities of us as human beings.” Sheila Abranches, granddaughter of de Sousa Mendes, praised her grandparents for their devotion to God and community. She said they were “confident with their decision” to aid the oppressed, and that they had “no regrets,” even though the courageous diplomat was dismissed, blacklisted, and economically and politically destroyed. De Sousa Mendes always believed his action was just, saying “I would rather stand with God against Man than with Man against God.” His granddaughter commented, “Awareness and inspiration from this story inspires us to practice following our convictions at every moment.” Historian Nathaniel Deutsch, son of refugees who received visas from de Sousa Mendes, noted that his daughter is the third generation of the only survivors in his family, and suggested that the descendants of the 10,000 he saved would now number far more. In tribute to the heroic diplomat, Dr. Deutsch, a professor of Jewish Studies at UC Santa Cruz, is developing an annual lecture series at the university about de Sousa Mendes and his heroic deeds. Following the program, the audience viewed an exhibition about de Sousa Mendes and the people he saved, and watched “Disobedience,” a film about the Portuguese Righteous Gentile. The warmth of the day was felt in the warmth of the tribute that our community paid to this important moment in history. Beth David’s tribute to de Sousa Mendes is featured on the web by the Portuguese American Journal at http://portuguese-american-journal.com/ aristides-de-sousa-mendes-to-be-honored-by-congregation-beth-david-saratogaca/ and on the Sousa Mendes Foundation at http://sousamendesfoundation.org/congregation-beth-david/. www.jvalley.org

hanukah Meshuga-What??? For years Jews have joked that the only place to go on Christmas Day is out for Chinese food and to the movies. And for years the arts scene has catered specifically to the Christmas-observant market: productions featuring Scrooge and the Mouse King abound. So, when members of the San Francisco Bay Area Jewish community approached theatrical producers Scott, Shannon and Stephen Guggenheim to develop a program they could host for Jews during the Christmas season, the team was happy to take up the challenge. Community leaders were crying out for a place Jews could go for an entertaining and Jewish experience. In fact, they’d heard that some of their members so wanted a holiday arts experience they even went to see productions of “A Christmas Carol” and “The Nutcracker.” “That’s crazy”, Scott said. “No, it’s meshuganuh!”, quipped Shannon. “Or should we say, meshuga...nutcracker!” And an idea was born. In December 2003, the World Premiere of “The MeshugaNutcracker!” played to packed houses, delighting Jew and Gentile alike. Since then the show has given audiences throughout the country a fun-filled musical theatre experience that celebrates the miracle of the oil and the heroes that made it happen. Audiences in Seattle, Phoenix, Sacramento, Berkeley, San Jose and Los Angeles have enjoyed what the LA Times proclaims is a “lovingly loopy musical”; “a treat for the whole family; an enchanting festival of lighthearted glee and meaningful warmth.” This year, Bay Area audiences can enjoy the songs and stories at the heart of the production in a two-night-only concert run at The Retro Dome in San Jose, CA. Produced and directed by Scott Guggenheim, the concerts will be captured for a Live Cast Recording available in January 2013. Eight award-winning and masterful singers will breathe new life into the enchanting score by Tchaikovsky with original lyrics by Shannon Guggenheim and rousing new arrangements of Chanukah standards by Stephen Guggenheim and Tom Tomasello. The cast includes original cast members Shannon Guggenheim as Treitel, Stephen Guggenheim as Gronam, Gabrielle McColgan as Yetta and Richard Sanchez as Yacob. Heather Klein takes a break from her Yiddish Arts Songs tour to reprise her role as Rivka and Aidan Park will fly in from Los Angeles to revisit his role as Velvel. International opera singer and former star of “Phantom of The Opera”, Susan Gundunas, joins the cast as Esther; and Adam Theodore Barry, who delighted Retro Dome audiences as Sonny in “Xanadu” will play Rabbi Motke. As you delight in hearing Tchaikovsky’s timeless score - played in the Guggenheims’ Klezmer/Broadway fusion style - do note: every single note in the score comes directly from the original full ballet score, unless it is a traditional Chanukah song (as used in the first and last songs of Act II.) While most people will certainly be familiar with the four or five more popular tunes (e.g. Chinese Tea, The March), the writers found more than 20 distinctive melodies. Some of the songs push the throughline of the overarching story while other songs take us back to Chanukah celebrations of days gone by. When cell phone companies and mattress discounters play the Nutcracker suite in their commercials this season, guests who’ve attended the production will no doubt start singing the words to “Golden Latkes” or “ Better Than That”. Fans may even find themselves singing the Chanukah candle blessings in an elevator! If you’ve never seen a live performance of “The MeshugaNutcracker!”, join the talented team at The Retro Dome and prepare to experience the music of “The Nutcracker Ballet” as you never have before. And don’t be surprised if you can’t wipe that grin off your face as you hear lyrics set to melodies that have been wordless for more than a hundred years. “The MeshugaNutcracker! In Concert” will play at The Retro Dome on Saturday December 15 and Sunday December 16 at 7pm. Fans can reserve an “I Love The Dome” ticket for $100 which includes a concert ticket in the preferred seating area, a post-show reception with the artists, a copy of the Live Cast Recording on CD, a visit to the Latke bar at intermission, and a refillable fountain drink. $44 Adult; $22 Youth. For tickets and information visit www.TheRetroDome.com or call (408) 404-7711.

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Enjoy Latkes & Laughs in San Jose on December 2

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By Lori Telson If Sunday, Dec. 2 goes the way Jeff Applebaum hopes, the first Latkes & Laughs, a Night of Comedy & Nosh, will become an annual tradition with different, nationally recognized comic talent each year. “I love latkes and I love being a standup comedian, so I was thinking about an event like this for the past couple of years,” said Applebaum, also a member of Temple Emanu-El in San Jose. Temple Emanu-El is presenting the event which will be held at The Retro Dome in San Jose at 6 p.m. with a latke reception and the comedy show at 7p.m. Tickets are available at www.theretrodome.com and start at $54. The evening features the comedy of Applebaum, who’s lived in the Bay Area for more than 20 years, Jimmy Gunn and headliner Andrew Norelli who is from the Bay Area and attended UC Berkeley. Applebaum grew up in Brooklyn, Queens, and Long Island, NY, always wanting to perform comedy. He says comedy is part of his family just as it’s part of the Jewish culture, like “Yiddish and Nathan’s hot dogs.” He grew up watching comedians Richard Pryor and George Carlin and saw the validation they received during their performances while connecting with an audience. “Getting up in front of a group of people and sharing something and having them shake their heads in agreement is a fantastic feeling. Bill Cosby doesn’t tell jokes. He tells stories. Stories are things we’ve all experienced. It’s observations about raising kids, relationships, how spouses get along – stuff everyone can relate to and appreciate your point of view,” said Applebaum. Applebaum’s clean comedy examines his particular life experiences, including being the only white kid on his Little League team in Queens, having a Chinese wife who orders from take-out menus in fluent Mandarin and raising a teenage son who calls himself “Jewnese” because he says it sounds better than “Chine-ish.” Applebaum has appeared on the “Late Late Show with Craig Ferguson,” Comedy.TV and has opened and performed with comic legends Robert Klein, Richard Lewis, Robin Williams, Kevin Pollak, Jake Johannsen and more. Applebaum was also cast by Sandy Hackett, the late Buddy Hackett’s son, to play the principal role of Joey Bishop in the long-running musical tribute “The Rat Pack is Back,” in San Francisco, Chicago and Las Vegas. Applebaum is also credited and appears in the blockbuster film “The Pursuit of Happyness,” starring Will Smith. Latkes & Laughs headliner Andrew Norelli uses comedy to navigate his way through confusion and dismay. Whatever happens to him in life, he brings to the stage, and lets the crowd in on his frustration and psychology. He has appeared on The Late Show with David Letterman, Jimmy Kimmel Live, The Byron Allen Show, Live at Gotham on Comedy Central, The Late Late Show with Craig Ferguson, Comedy.TV and the nationally syndicated show Comics Unleashed where Norelli worked as a monologue joke writer. A review by The Daily Telegraph read “his show features hair trigger laughs with a deadly aim, all the more so because while some comedians overestimate their own intelligence, Norelli never underestimates ours.” Jimmy Gunn is a strange, short, manic, man-child who is a comic legend. He performed with such comedy luminaries as Bill Hicks, Mike Meehan, Greg Proops, Margaret Cho, Patton Oswalt, and Louie C.K. and has been spotted on many TV and radio program and even a film or two over the many, many, many years he’s been doing stand-up. Gunn has appeared on MTV, Comedy Central, and NBC’s Last Comic Standing. He is coming out of retirement (again) for the Latkes & Laughs event. Latkes & Laughs attendees, according to Applebaum, can expect the evening to provide “a good time to celebrate things Jews are known for like laughing and comedy and to enjoy the Jewish gifts of latkes and popcorn. We want this to become a signature event for the community.” Latkes & Laughs – A Night of Comedy & Nosh Sunday, Dec. 2, at The Retro Dome, San Jose Tickets: www.theretrodome.com, starting at $54 Info: Temple Emanu-El, templesanjose.org, 408-292-0939

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l cal news Helen Diller Family Foundation awards five young Californians $36,000 each for improving their communities and the world around them The Helen Diller Family Foundation today honored five young Californians whose volunteer service projects are helping make the world a better place. Recipients of the sixth annual Diller Teen Tikkun Olam Awards were recognized at a celebratory luncheon held at the Golden Gate Club in the Presidio. Each awardee received $36,000 to further their current projects, develop new ones, or pursue their education. Since the award was established in 2007, 30 California teens have been honored and the Helen Diller Family Foundation has awarded more than one million dollars. A special highlight of today’s celebration was an announcement by Helen Diller, president of the Foundation, that the Diller Teen Tikkun Olam Awards will expand nationally. In 2013, the organization will recognize not only five young Californians, but also will honor five additional teens from across the U.S. selected through a national call-for-nominations. The special guest speaker was David Cygielman, co-founder and CEO of Moishe House, an international nonprofit that encourages community engagement, creativity and networking in the young adult Jewish community. Other esteemed guests at the event included Consul General for Israel Andy David, Vice Consul General for Israel Gideon Lustig and Rebecca Wolfson from the Office of U.S. Rep. Jackie Speier. Sen. Diane Feinstein recognized the teens with letters of commendation, as did the teens’ local congressional and mayoral offices. “From anti-bullying efforts to fundraising and support for Israel, these teens are helping heal, repair and transform the world, which is exactly what the Diller Teen Tikkun Olam Awards symbolize,” said Helen Diller, president of the sponsoring foundation. “What began as my simple idea in 2007 has exceeded my wildest expectations. To see these teens living so thoughtfully, and with compassion for the benefit of all is truly remarkable.” The awardees’ projects include a nonprofit that empowers teens to teach and better understand their special-needs classmates; a studentrun program that promotes awareness and prevention of bullying in schools; a magic performance initiative to bring joy to the sick, disabled, elderly and others in need; a math and science enrichment program for underprivileged elementary school students in Los Angeles; and a student-run fashion show that raises funds for Israeli charities. These young social activists have shown exceptional leadership, and in many ways are teachers of tolerance through promoting acceptance and kindness within their distinct projects. Recipients can use their award money to fund college or to further implement their vision for making the world a better place. The teens were selected by a panel composed of educators and community leaders from San Francisco, Los Angeles, San Diego, Marin, Yolo, Placer, Santa Clara, Contra Costa, Alameda and Orange counties. Candidates completed a detailed application describing their projects, goals, inspirations and challenges, fundraising tactics and ultimate accomplishments. Eligible applicants were California residents, between 13 and 19 years old, who self-identify as Jewish.

2012 Diller Teen Tikkun Olam Award Recipients and their Projects: Zak Kukoff (Thousand Oaks) “We bring students together to build understanding and friendships.” Zak founded Autism Ambassadors after seeing his autistic cousin ostracized and alienated in the classroom. Moved by her experience, he created this peer-led program to foster friendships between students with and without autism, and to teach autistic students social, emotional, and academic skills. Zak continues to lead and expand the initiative and will be releasing his first book, The Autism Ambassadors’ Handbook, later this fall. Joe Langerman (Coronado) “Be a part of the solution to end hatred and embrace tolerance in our lives.” Joe stood up to hate and began Voices Against Cruelty, Hatred and Intolerance that educates teachers, students, and parents about the prevalence and impact of bullying. Through a survey and petition of his school board, and the engagement of his peers, he has helped combat and minimize bullying at his own school and beyond. Joe is paying it forward by continuing to work to establish more chapters at surrounding high schools. Daniel Rosenthal (Santa Rosa) “Magic takes you on adventures–without you ever having to leave your seat, hospital bed or wheelchair.” As an eight-year-old, Daniel began performing magic tricks for children and adults in the hospital. Inspired by the healing power of laughter, Daniel also coordinates other volunteer magicians who give magic shows in hospitals, schools and rehabilitation and assisted living centers across the country. With volunteers all over the nation and a prestigious Board of Advisors, Daniel – who aspires to be a medical doctor – is strategically expanding Magic Is Medicine and plans to establish his first international branch in Israel. Adam Weinstein (Los Angeles) “Sparking students’ interest in math and science enriches their lives and betters our world.” Adam’s love for math and science encouraged him to share his passion with underprivileged fifth-graders in Los Angeles by developing fun, hands-on and creative activities and demonstrations – setting them up to succeed in two subjects that are vital to their and America’s future. Archimedes Learning currently operates in three Los Angeles schools with four volunteer teachers, and Adam plans to expand within California and ultimately across the United States. Celine Yousefzadeh (Los Angeles) “Through fashion, we can engage and empower students to take immediate action to help Israel.” Celine felt a responsibility to help students in S’derot, Israel, after Gaza Striprocket attacks devastated their high school. She began a student-run fashion show charity event, which turns hundreds of students each year into planners, models, and philanthropists raising money for Israeli charities. The annual show is the most successful fundraiser in the high school’s history and Celine is already working to implement Fashion with Compassion in Jewish schools across the nation.

The Diller Teen Tikkun Olam Awards are made possible through the vision and generosity of the Helen Diller Family Foundation, a supporting foundation of the Jewish Community Federation of San Francisco, the Peninsula, Marin and Sonoma counties. Bay Area philanthropist Helen Diller believes that charitable giving is a fundamental part of living a full and accountable life. Now in its 13th year of giving, the Foundation has granted more than $200 million to support education, the arts, medical research and development, leadership training programs for teens, and many other charitable endeavors. For more information or to nominate a teen for next year’s Diller Teen Tikkun Olam Awards, visit www.jewishfed.org/diller/teenawards or contact Jacque Seaman at (212) 561-7456 or jacque.seaman@morris-king.com.

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SIMCHAS By Andrea Cohen Greyber Births Jonah Isaac Breitzer was born on September 11 to Donna & Cantor Joshua Breitzer of Brooklyn, NY. He weighed 8 pounds and 1 ounce and was 21 inches long. His proud grandparents are Dr. Gerard Breitzer & Dr. Susan Frank of Okemos, MI and Congregation Beth David members Dr. Noah & Dr. Ruth Bareket of Saratoga, CA. Maya Bareket of Campbell is a happy new aunt as is Beka Breitzer of NYC; Michael Bareket of Los Angeles is pleased with his new role as uncle. The Brit Milah was held at Congregation Beth Elohim in Park Slope, Brooklyn, NY. Called to the Torah Carter Fox, son of Audrey & Larry Fox, was called to the Torah on August 25 as a Bar Mitzvah at Temple Emanu-El. He is in the eighth grade at Blach Junior High in Los Altos and lives with his parents, his sister, Hannah and his dog, Betty. Carter loves most sports, especially golf, basketball and skiing. His grandparents, Marvin & Joan

Fox and Marty & Jackie Braker, as well as many aunts, uncles and cousins are extremely proud of him. For his Bar Mitzvah project, Carter is working to increase awareness and participation in the Milton Fox Campership Fund at Temple Emanu-El. This fund was established many years ago in memory of his great grandfather, Milton Fox, who was a part president of Temple Emanu-El and a strong advocate of Jewish camps. Carter is proud to support this legacy and will be giving a portion of his Bar Mitzvah gifts to this fund.

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Alon Meir Greyber, son of Rabbi Daniel & Jennifer Greyber, was called to the Torah as a Bar Mitzvah on September 1 at Beth El Synagogue in Durham, NC. He is in the eighth grade at the Duke School. Alon is the older brother of Benjamin and Ranon. He enjoys fencing, is a part of the audio/visual tech crew for drama productions at the Duke School and is a member of the model United Nations. Joining him for this special occasion were his grandparents from FL, Barbara & Tommy May, from Atlanta, GA, Leslie & Rabbi Stephen Listfield and Andrea & Howard Greyber of San Jose. Aunt Elizabeth & Uncle Joe and Cousins Ari, Sam and Carl Lichy came in from San Jose and Aunt Natasha & Uncle Rob Greyber and Cousin Asher flew in from Seattle. Great uncle Michael Cohen and cousins, Smadar Cohen and her husband, Avi Chen traveled from Israel. Alon really enjoys working with computers and as a part of his mitzvah project; he is working with a blind congregant at Beth

Mayer is in Advanced Band at Miller, where he plays percussion; he is also in Miller’s Jazz Band and takes private percussion lessons. He plays the piano and is currently teaching himself to play the guitar. His other interests include computer technology, photography and videography. He is currently videotaping interviews for the Beth David Archives Committee for the synagogue’s 50th anniversary in 2013. Mayer attends Hebrew High at Beth David and serves as a classroom aide – part of “Teen Madrikhim Team” at Beth David’s Religious School and he is an 8th grade representative for USY. Mayer likes bike riding and swimming and summers at the beach with his family.

Mayer Adelberg, son of Charles & Davida Adelberg, was called to the Torah as a Bar Mitzvah on October 13 at Congregation Beth David. He is in the eighth grade at Miller Middle School. He is the younger brother of Janine, a senior at UCLA and Daniel, a student at UCSB. Janine’s fiancé, Jonathan Bergknoff, who just earned his PhD in Physics at UCLA, also participated in the service. All five of the Adelberg’s had Torah readings.

His grandparents, Merwin & Barbara Adelberg came from Cape Cod, MA. Many aunts, uncles, cousins and other relatives from CA and many others states and some from England were on hand for this special occasion. His other grandparents, Milton & Evelyn Wittman, z”l, would have been very pleased since Mayer is the 13th and last of their grandchildren to mark his Bar Mitzvah with a special ceremony. This generation of cousins spans 30 years. Mayer is donating a portion of his Bar Mitzvah monetary gifts to these medical organizations: The American Red Cross in honor of Ariel Fishman, Magen David Adom, the Israeli Red Cross and Doctors without Borders. Fiona Fields, daughter of Renee & Edward Fields, of Los Gatos, was called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah on October 20 at Congregation Sinai. She is a student at R.J. Fisher Middle School in Los Gatos where she is a part of the competitive women’s choir; she sings alto. Fiona is the younger sister of Zander, 24, of Campbell, Zoe, 22, a student at San Jose State University and Marina, 15, a student at Los Gatos High School. She was very happy that her grandparents, Ruth Fields and

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SIMCHAS Gerald McCue of Cambridge, MA were there to celebrate her special day. Other relatives came from the East Coast and the Los Angeles area. Anna Tseselsky, daughter of Galina & David Tseselsky, was called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah on October 20 at Congregation Beth David. She is in the eighth grade at Stratford Middle School and enjoys creative writing, piano and playing soccer for Santa Clara Sporting, a select team. Joining her for the happy occasion were her sisters Yana & brother –in- law Evgeny Meydbray) of San Francisco and their children, Pavel, 3 and Vitaly, 9 months and her sister Julie & Josh Kurchner of Los Angeles. For her mitzvah project she will be donating money to The Breast Cancer Society. Maya Walborsky, daughter of Liann & Paul Walborsky,

was called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah on October 27 at Congregation Sinai. She is in the seventh grade at Union Middle School and is the older sister of Ellie, 8, who is in the third grade at Yavneh. Maya plays the clarinet in the school band and enjoys horse back

riding. She takes care of the horse which she rents and is a member of the United States Pony Club. Maya was pleased to have her grandmother, Aura Walborsky, from West Palm Beach and her grandmother, Rosalyn Kirkel from Denver, CO and grandfather, Morris Schottenstein from Columbus, OH join in this wonderful simcha. Her Aunt Aileen and Uncle Mitchell Josephs also traveled from West Palm Beach to celebrate. Weddings Ilana Sabes and Aaron Bergstrom were married at The Mountain Winery in Saratoga on May 5. Ilana grew up in Saratoga and is the eldest daughter of Robin and the late Chuck Sabes. Aaron is the son of Dean and Sally Bergstrom of La Crescent, Minnesota and the older brother of Laura Kleffman and Jennifer Bergstrom.

Award-winning photo: “In Memory of Friends Gone” About Guy Singer Originally published by Dean McArdle When capturing a moment through photography, the correct depth of field is imperative, but for Guy Singer, his photo’s depth of emotion is what separated it from the rest. The setting is Oahu, Hawaii.The event is a Shinnyo-en Buddhist lanternfloating ceremony, and Singer says it was one of the most incredible events he has ever witnessed. “Thousands of people opening up their hearts; it was such an emotional event,” Singer said. “There was no other photo I could submit.” Singer earned the trip to Hawaii by winning an essay-writing contest, and the photo he took there won the Kehillah Jewish High School graduate the Weekly contest on his return. While this is Singer’s second photo-contest victory (he took first place in the 2010 youth contest as well), he has been avidly snapping shots for a little less than three years. It all started with a discovery in the back of the family garage. “My dad, in typical dad fashion, bought a nice camera in the ‘90s and then set it in the garage and never used it again,” Singer said. “Then a few years ago, I found it and started playing around with it and got really interested.” This interest led his parents to give their son a new camera for his birthday, and Singer has put it to use with a photography blog. In the fall, Singer will head to the University of California at Santa Barbara to study biopsychology, but he is sure that this won’t be the end of his photography days.

Ilana walked down the aisle joined by her mother and her brother Michael Sabes. The ceremony took place under a chupah made with her father’s tallit. Her sisters, Elisa, Rachel and Nicole were bridesmaids. The couple met during their first year of law school at UC Hastings in 2007 and hit it off when they realized their shared interests in live music, international travel and delicious Mexican food. Before they knew it, they were honeymooning lawyers in Bali and Vietnam. They currently live in San Francisco with their dog, Ginger. Please send announcements and photos to Andrea Greyber at agreyber@yahoo.com or phone her at (408) 377-6224.

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pers nal stories Enjoying the game By Rabbi James Greene My enjoyment of all things Nebraska has deep roots. My family came to Nebraska from Poland and Russia in the late 1800s and lived there for over 100 years. My grandmother, mother, and aunt are all graduates of the University of Nebraska. They raised me with a passion for Nebraska sports and passed down to me the values associated with being part of the Big Red Nation: teamwork, passion, and pride. On September 8, 2012, Nebraska’s football team came to Pasadena to play UCLA. In support of our team, a span of four generations of our family piled into my car and drove the 7 hours to the Rose Bowl. For my four-year-old daughter, Talyah, this was her first in-person experience with Nebraska sports and fans. As we drove down I-5, we shared stories of seasons past and taught Talyah some of the team cheers. I am the Rabbi at the Addison-Penzak Jewish Community Center in Los Gatos, CA. Before I left for my trip, a staff member asked me why I could possibly want to drive all that way? What was I hoping Talyah would get out of the experience? Immediately, a text from our tradition came to my mind. The Talmud teaches that, “a parent is obligated to do the following for their children: bring them in to the covenant, redeem them if they are a first born, teach them Torah, find him a partner, and teach them a trade. Others include: teaching them how to swim.” Although the original text speaks only of a father’s obligation to his sons, part of our family value system includes egalitarianism. For me then, this text is expanded to include all parents and all children. This text speaks to the need to pass things down from one generation to the next. We don’t just leave our kids out in the world. We teach them how to contribute to society, how to love, how to be safe, and how to have a passion for life. In my family, that passion comes, in part, through a commitment to UNL (University of Nebraska-Lincoln) sports. It is our version of Ledor Vador – from one generation to the next.

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After being stationed at SAC Air Base my family was relocated to Germany. One of my most powerful early memories of life in Germany was being woken up in the middle of the night to watch the Nebraska-Oklahoma football game on Armed Forces Television. It instilled a sense of home and groundedness amidst a life of moving around and transition from one continent to the next. It gave me a place to be from that transcended just a physical address. And it taught me about sportsmanship and passion in a way that few things ever could. I want my daughters to have that sense of groundedness as well. I want them to share the same foundational story as the rest of my family. But most importantly, I want them to be exposed to the values and traditions that come from rooting for a team – our family’s team! I hope to have many special experiences with my daughters. As they grow, the experiences become more intense. We transition from holding them for the first time to attending their b’not mitzvah, and from accompanying them to the huppah to holding their children in our arms. There are many more moments and many more firsts. I don’t think I realized how important of a “first” this was for me until the first touchdown of the game. Talyah was so excited – she stood up on the railing and started yelling “Go Big Red!” with all her might. Other fans noticed. They chanted with her and gave her lots of high fives. At that moment, I thought of my grandfather, may his memory be a blessing, who gave me my first Nebraska t-shirt. I thought of the very first game that Talyah and I ever watched together, a Nebraska football game when she was just two weeks old. She sat in my arms on a Saturday evening after havdallah, wearing her Big Red onesie, and slept on my shoulder while I cheered as quietly as I ever have. A victory at the Rose Bowl would have been nice. But I will settle for what did happen. Talyah, this sweet little girl who has never stepped foot into Nebraska, became a lifelong Husker fan. She joined the foundational story of my family. And I fulfilled one of the requirements of a Jewish parent. I gave my daughter something to be passionate about, and a place to call home in the world. For that, I am grateful. Rabbi James Greene is the rabbi at the Addison-Penzak Jewish Community Center in Los Gatos, CA. He grew up at Temple Israel in Omaha and is a life-long Nebraska sports fan.

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f r 55+ THURSDAY, DECEMBER 13 Freilache Menschen Luncheon & Program Shir Hadash, 11:30 AM 358-1751 x2, shanda@shirhadash.org FRIDAY, DECEMBER 14 Grandpals Shabbat Levy Family Campus, 9:15 AM Help explore and impart rich Jewish traditions to the APJCC Preschool children. Storytelling, art, songs, and Shabbat. Free. lisacg@svjcc.org, 3577492 FRIDAY, DECEMBER 14 Alzheimer’s Family Support Group Shir Hadash, 10 AM Helpful for families and friends needing “helpful hints” because they are caring for or know a loved one with dementia or Alzheimer’s disease. The group will be “caring for the caregiver,” offering support in a confidential setting. Open to the public. Drop-ins welcome. 3581751 x5, nadine@shirhadash.org FRIDAY, DECEMBER 14 Kabbalat Shabbat Lunches (age 55+) Levy Family Campus, 12 Noon Once-a-month get-together for seniors in the APJCC Auditorium. Enjoy a catered hot lunch followed by entertainment. 357-7492, lisacg@svjcc.org SUNDAY, DECEMBER 9 SV Village Shir Hadash, 1 PM 358-1751 x5, nadine@shirhadash.org WEDNESDAY, DECEMBER 12 Caregivers Support Group Levy Family Campus, 5 PM A support group for spouses and adult children caring for chronically ill/ disabled loved ones. Registration required,Fee:$10/session, sliding scale available. avitala@jfssv.org, 357-7450

MONDAY, DECEMBER 17 Monday at the Movies! Levy Family Campus, 1 PM Come experience Mel Brooks’s classics THE PRODUCERS, HISTORY OF THE WORLD PART 1 and BLAZING SADDLES! Light snacks will be served. Suggested $5 Donation. lisacg@svjcc.org, 357-7492 THURSDAY, DECEMBER 27 A Place to Begin: Next Steps for Seniors Levy Family Campus, 2:30 PM A place to explore and learn about different aspects of seniors living. Registration is required. avitala@jfssv.org, 357-7450 WEDNESDAY, JANUARY 9 Caregivers Support Group Levy Family Campus, 5 PM A support group for spouses and adult children caring for chronically ill/ disabled loved ones. Registration required,Fee:$10/session, sliding scale available. avitala@jfssv.org, 357-7450 THURSDAY, JANUARY 10 Freilache Menschen Luncheon & Program Shir Hadash, 11:30 AM, 358-1751 x2, shanda@shirhadash.org THURSDAY, JANUARY 10 Alzheimer’s Family Support Group Shir Hadash, 10 AM Helpful for families and friends needing “helpful hints” because they are caring for or know a loved one with dementia or Alzheimer’s disease. The group will be “caring for the caregiver,” offering support in a confidential setting. Open to the public. Drop-ins welcome. 3581751 x5, nadine@shirhadash.org

FRIDAY, JANUARY 11 Grandpals Shabbat Levy Family Campus Help explore and impart rich Jewish traditions to the APJCC Preschool children. Storytelling, art, songs, and Shabbat. Free. lisacg@svjcc.org, 3577492 SUNDAY, JANUARY 13 Death and Dying adult education class Emanu-El, 11:30 AM This course, taught by Rabbi Magat, will investigate Traditional and Reform Jewish practices, customs, and concepts surrounding death. We will also discuss some of the important issues that surround bereavement and the grieving process. Finally, we will investigate some modern theories concerning the stages of grief. We will also spend time discussing life after death and how death relates to our beliefs. 292-0939, stephanie@templesanjose.org FRIDAY, JANUARY 18 Kabbalat Shabbat Lunches (age 55+) Levy Family Campus, 12 Noon Once-a-month get-together for seniors in the APJCC Auditorium. Enjoy a catered hot lunch followed by entertainment. 357-7492, lisacg@svjcc.org FRIDAY, JANUARY 25 Grandpals Shabbat Levy Family Campus Help explore and impart rich Jewish traditions to the APJCC Preschool children. Storytelling, art, songs, and Shabbat. Free. lisacg@svjcc.org, 3577492

These events are geared for the 55 and older crowd, but the events on the following pages are also open to all individuals. Please submit any events specifically for this crowd to amanda@jvalley.org or online at www.jvalley.org under “Submit your event.”

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ONGOING PROGRAMS THROUGH DECEMBER 3 Gift of Warmth: Coat Drive Levy Family Campus A JCRC collaboration with local synagogues and churches to keep San Jose warm this winter. Donate coats, sweaters and jackets, adult and child sizes. Part of the national ONE WARM COAT program; distribution on December 8 at Emmanuel Baptist Church. dorothydorsay@gmail.com, 358-3033 SUNDAYS Fun and Fitness with Friends Levy Family Campus, 1 PM A social and recreation program for children and teens with special needs. Provides a supportive, structured, and nurturing environment to develop new skills and make friends. Children have the opportunity to participate in a variety of activities including: sports, swimming, arts & crafts, cooking, dance/movement, and more. Each child is paired with a trained volunteer who assists them and provides one-on-one attention throughout the program. Heath, 357-7515, heathw@svjcc.org Jewish Girl Scouts Sinai, 1 PM, 12/2 & 12/16 Meeting for Junior Girl Scouts (Grades 2-4) For more information girlscouts@sinai-sj.org, 264-8542. WEDNESDAY Lunch and Learn Emanu-El, 12 Noon, 12/12 & 1/9 Monthly discussions, led by Rabbi Dana Magat on Jewish topics. New faces welcome. 292-0939, stephanie@templesanjose.org

Lunch and Learn, Torah Study Emanu-El, 12 Noon, 12/26 & 1/23 No previous study required and new faces are welcome. 292-0939, stephanie@templesanjose.org THURSDAYS Silicon Valley Beit Midrash Sinai, 9:30 AM Join Rabbi Joshua Berkenwald for study of Jewish thought, belief, and practice. No fee; drop-ins welcome; no experience necessary. office@sinai-sj.org, 264-8542 Freilache Menschen Luncheon & Program Shir Hadash, 11:30 AM, 12/13 & 1/10 358-1751 x2, shanda@shirhadash.org FRIDAYS Talmud Study with Rabbi Pressman Beth David, 8:30 AM This ongoing study group will discuss Tractate Berakhot (“Benedictions”), which addresses blessings, prayers, ritual, spirituality, and theology. Newcomers are welcome at any time. No registration fee, but donations are welcome. adulted@beth-david.org, 257-3333 Grandpals Shabbat Levy Family Campus, 9:15 AM, 11/30, 12/14, 1/11 & 1/25 Help explore and impart rich Jewish traditions to the APJCC Preschool children. Storytelling, art, songs, and Shabbat. Free. lisacg@svjcc.org, 357-7492

Pirkei Avot Discussion Group: Sayings (Ethics) of the Fathers Beth David, 9:45 AM Explore ancient Jewish wisdom dealing with ethics and morals in this participant-led discussion group. Pirkei Avot, which has been Lunch and Learn, Megillot reprinted more than any other Emanu-El, 12 Noon, 12/19 & 1/16 rabbinic text, is a Mishnah tractate Bring your lunch and join Cantor dealing solely with ethics and Meeka Simerly for a unique morals. Newcomers are welcome opportunity to study excerpts to join at any time. No registration from the five Megillot (scrolls). fee, but donations are welcome. During each session we will cover adulted@beth-david.org, 257-3333 a chapter or an idea from one of Alzheimer’s Family Support the Megillot. Materials will be Group provided. Sessions are free and Shir Hadash, 10 AM, open to all. 292-0939, 12/14 & 1/10 stephanie@templesanjose.org Helpful for families and friends

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All area codes are 408 unless otherwise noted. needing “helpful hints” because they are caring for or know a loved one with dementia or Alzheimer’s disease. The group will be “caring for the caregiver,” offering support in a confidential setting. Open to the public. Drop-ins welcome. 3581751 x5, nadine@shirhadash.org Kabbalat Shabbat Lunches (age 55+) Levy Family Campus, 12 Noon, 12/14 & 1/18 Once-a-month get-together for seniors in the APJCC Auditorium. Enjoy a catered hot lunch followed by entertainment. 357-7492, lisacg@svjcc.org Tot Shabbat Emanu-El, 6 PM, 12/21 & 1/18 Brief services led by Rabbi Magat and Cantor Meeka Simerly and feature upbeat songs, a short story, and a talk with the Rabbi on the bimah. Perfect for families with young children. Services followed by a potluck dinner. 292-0939, membership@templesanjose.org Pajama Shabbat Beth David, 6 PM, 12/21 & 1/18 This mini Kabbalat Shabbat service is geared towards tots (ages 0-5) and will feature songs, puppets, felt, story time, plus a kid-friendly Shabbat dinner! Come with kids in PJ’s! No worries about getting dressed up – this will be a casual night for all! Cost for dinner is: $10/adult,$2/child (3 and up); kids under 3 eat free! RSVPs are requested! RSVP by the Wednesday before 257-3333, biran@beth-david.org. Shabbat Mishpaha Beth David, 6:30 PM, 12/7 & 1/4 Welcome the Shabbat Bride with song, story and dance. Energetic, family-friendly Kabbalat Shabbat experience! biran@beth-david.org, 257-3333 SATURDAYS Tot Shabbat Shir Hadash, 9:30 AM, 12/15 & 1/19 nadine@shirhadash.org, 358-1751 x5

Youth Congregation (Grades 4-7) Beth David, 10 AM, 12/8, 12/15, 1/12 & 1/26 Students lead prayers, read from the torah, and play learning/ Jewish trivia games. Great training for leading services for bar/bat mitzvah, or as a lay-leader in teen and adult years. Finish with treats and kiddush! biran@beth-david.org, 257-3333 Family Service for K-2nd Grades Sinai, 10:30 AM, 12/15 & 1/26 Participatory, friendly service for families designed to introduce kids and their parents to the Shabbat service and the siddur. Hebrew knowledge not required. office@sinai-sj.org, 264-8542 Torah ‘n Tefillah for 3rd-7th Grades Sinai, 10:30 AM, 12/15 & 1/26 Learn new melodies, explore Shabbat teachings and hear engaging stories in this studentled junior congregation service. educator@sinai-sj.org, 284-8542 Haverim Beth David, 10:30 AM, 12/8 & 1/12 Haverim means “friends” in Hebrew, and Haverim services is all about getting K-3rd grade friends together to celebrate Shabbat. Celebrate with lively songs, movement, stories, and values discussion which parallel the order of the ‘real’ service. Finish with a treat-filled Kiddush. Parents always welcome to join in. biran@beth-david.org, 257-3333 Tot Shabbat Beth David, 11 AM, 12/22 & 1/11 Ages 0-5. A fun, interactive parent-led service. Open to the community. crocker@beth-david.org, 257-3333 Tot Shabbat Beth David, 11 AM, 12/8, 12/22 & 1/11 For kids ages 0-5. Join for a fun and interactive parent-led service for babies, toddlers, and preschool kids. Open to the whole

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community. Tot Shabbat includes singing, storytelling, and a Kiddush snack! ohriner@beth-david.org, 257-3333 Mussar Matters with Rabbi Pressman Beth David, 1:30, 12/15 & 1/19 In recent years, the Mussar Movement, with its emphasis on building character and ethical responsiveness through Jewish texts, has been rediscovered by the larger Jewish world. Rabbi Pressman will facilitate exploration of a different character trait, such as: gratitude, equanimity, simplicity, and loving-kindness. Adulted@beth-david.org, 257-3333 Building Blocks of Jewish Prayer with Rabbi Ohriner Beth David, 1:30 PM, 12/1 & 1/5 Look at the meaning of the prayers, the structure of the morning service, and the fundamentals of movement and intention during Shabbat morning worship. adulted@beth-david.org, 257-3333

UPCOMING EVENTS FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 30 Kabbalat Shabbat and Shabbat dinner Sinai, 6 PM Kabbalat Shabbat followed by Shabbat Dinner: Service at 6 pm, dinner at 7 pm. RSVP is required for dinner. office@sinai-sj.org, 264-8542 Shabbat Service with guest Speaker John Rothman “Implications of the Recent Election on the Middle East” Shir Hadash, 8 PM Rothmann is a frequent lecturer on American politics and the Presidency, and has spoken at over 150 campuses throughout the United States, Canada, and Israel. nadine@shirhadash.org, 358-1751 x5 SATURDAY, DECEMBER 1 Community Shabbat ~ 100 Jewish Books in Honor of Jewish Book Month Shir Hadash, 10:30 AM Rabbi Lawrence Hoffman

identified 100 Great Jewish Books. Members of the Congregation will offer brief presentations on these books, in circles by theme, and also suggestions for books left off the list. Congregants are invited to choose from the list of the most important Jewish books, compiled by Larry Hoffman. http:// www.librarything.com/catalog/ ShirHadash. 358-1751 x5, nadine@shirhadash.org Havdalah, Dinner, and a Movie Emanu-El, 5:30 PM HDM includes a home cooked Thanksgiving dinner complete with all the trimmings, and a PG13 rated comedy flick fit for older teens as well as young-at-heart adults. Enjoy a brief havdalah service, followed by a banquet that includes an appetizer, a main dish of stuffed roast turkey, baked sweet potatoes, cranberry sauce, served with a salad, and lastly homemade pumpkin pie for dessert. Sponsored by Temple Emanu-El Brotherhood. RSVP to 257-8292 or brotherhood@templesanjose.org. Space is limited. Kadima Dance Party Sinai, 7 PM Calling all 6th, 7th and 8th graders! Kadima is the pre-high school affiliate of the United Synagogue Youth. Kadima provides the opportunity to get together to expand and strengthen friendships while preparing for USY in high school. Non-Sinai members are welcome. Programs include games, sports, holiday celebrations, and more. Youth@Sinai-SJ.org, 264-8542 SUNDAY, DECEMBER 2 Father’s Group with Rabbi Lobel Shir Hadash, 9:30 AM 358-1751 x5, nadine@shirhadash.org Hanukah Palooza at the JCC Levy Family Campus, 12 Noon Admission is free. Games, arts & crafts and bounce houses for kids, holiday vendors for Hanukah shopping, food for sale and more. jason@svjcc.org, 357-7497. Club 345 - Chanukah Party Shir Hadash, 3 PM 358-1751 x2, shanda@shirhadash.org

December Dilemma Emanu-El, 3:30 PM Join Rabbi Magat and discuss the challenges so often faced by parents (particularly in interfaith families) in connection with the winter holidays. 292-0939, stephanie@templesanjose.org Temple Emanu-El Presents Latkes & Laughs - A Night of Comedy & Nosh Retro Dome, 6 PM An evening of fun at The Retro Dome featuring the stand-up comedy of Temple Emanu-El member Jeff Applebaum and local comic legend Jimmy Gunn and featuring Andrew Norelli. AGE RECOMMENDATION: The comedians do not use profanity, however, suggested minimum age to attend is 13 years old. 292-0939, stephanie@templesanjose.org The 2012 AIPAC South Bay Membership Event Email for details, 6 PM sf_office@aipac.org MONDAY, DECEMBER 3 Schmooze with the Author: Neal Pollack Levy Family Campus, 7 PM jenessa@svjcc.org, 357-7411 TUESDAY, DECEMBER 4 Shtar Levy Family Campus, 7 PM Hip-hop group Shtar has been defying stereotypes ever since its inception inside the walls of a rabbinical college. The five members of Shtar boast a unique blend of hip-hop and rock with lyrics grounded in spiritually elevating themes. They expertly fuse a wide range of music genres. $20/JCC members, $25/nonmembers. Lisa Ceile at 357-7492 or lisacg@svjcc.org. THURSDAY, DECEBER 6 Jewish Approach to Biomedical Ethical Issues Beth David, 7:30 PM In today’s world, biomedical issues fill news reports and are debated in Congress. Learn about some controversial and important biomedical issues facing society from a Jewish perspective. $18/ Beth David members and $36/nonmembers. adulted@beth-david.org, 257-3333

FRIDAY, DECEMBER 7 Shabbatluck Dinner Emanu-El, 6:15 PM stephanie@templesanjose.org, 292-0939 SATURDAY, DECEMBER 8 Hanukah Community Shabbat Shir Hadash, 10:30 AM Hanukah means rededication. Share this special Shabbat morning as we find ways to rededicate ourselves Jewishly in the spirit of this holiday. 358-1751 x5, nadine@shirhadash.org Light it Up: Casino Royale Style Hillel @ Stanford, 9 PM Join hundreds of young adults for the most rockin’ Chanukah party in the South Bay! Hosted annually by numerous groups across the South Bay and Peninsula, this evening features music, dancing, delicious treats, blackjack, dreidel and an open bar! Online registration-just $15! Registration at the door for $20. amanda@jvalley.org, 357-7503 SUNDAY, DECEMBER 9 The Spirit of Baseball: Baseball’s special place in American Jewish Life Shir Hadash, 9:30 AM Lew Wolff will present “The Spirit of Baseball: Baseball’s special place in American Jewish Life” in this fifth session of our Exploring the World of Judaism series, 2012-13. Lew Wolff is Chairman and Chief Executive Officer of Wolff Urban Management, Inc., a real estate acquisition, investment, development and management firm. Exploring the World of Judaism is a program of Congregation Shir Hadash and the Bureau of Jewish Education and is supported in part by the Newton and Rochelle Becker Charitable Trust. Babysitting will be available. 358-1751 x5, nadine@shirhadash.org Chanukah Fair/Boutique Emanu-El, 10:30 AM Kid’s activities (including a bounce house, cookie decorating and crafts). Unlimited kids activities $5, Activities free with $10 purchase (not including lunch). Parking restrictions in the Temple neighborhood lifted for this event. wote@templesanjose.org, 292-0939

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How to Parent Jewish Teens/Tweens Emanu-El, 11:30 AM This class will provide an informational, humorous way of discussing all aspects of raising Jewish kids from 9 years to 17 years old. Topics will cover tween/teen brain development, communication, school motivation, dating, siblings and other general questions about young teens’ communication skills. Discussion will include issues of sexuality, drugs, friends, school, grades, and more. $10/family, per class or $50/ family for the series. 292-0939. stephanie@templesanjose.org

WEDNESDAY, DECEMBER 12 Mesibah Family Fun Day Levy Family Campus, 3 PM Mesibah is the Hebrew word for party! Children ages 2-10 years and their parents or caregivers, join for a FREE party to celebrate the start of each Jewish month. elizabeth@svjcc.org, 357-7417

SV Village Shir Hadash, 1 PM 358-1751 x5, nadine@shirhadash.org

THURSDAY, DECEMBER 13 Woman’s Study Group with Rabbi Aron ~ The Norton Anthology of Jewish American Literature Shir Hadash, 10:30 AM 358-1751 x7, patty@shirhadash.org

PJ Library Presents Candlelighting Santana Row, 4 PM See ad on page 24. 358-3033 MONDAY, DECEMBER 10 Federation Major Gifts Dinner Los Gatos Café, 6 PM Chair: Howard May. michellen@jvalley.org, 357-7508 TUESDAY, DECEMBER 11 Kindergarten Open House Yavneh, 8:30 AM Each day, a Yavneh student takes a step toward making a scientific discovery, solving a critical world problem or making a technological breakthrough. One student designs a poster to collect food for the hungry. Another performs a spoken word piece by Edgar Allen Poe. Contact Admissions Director Becky Aidlberg at 357-7474 or becky@yavnehdayschool.org to schedule a personal tour and to RSVP for the Open House. SHAGY Chanukah Party Shir Hadash, 3 PM 358-1751 x2, shanda@shirhadash.org

Caregivers Support Group Levy Family Campus, 5 PM A support group for spouses and adult children caring for chronically ill/disabled loved ones. Registration required,Fee:$10/ session, sliding scale available. avitala@jfssv.org, 357-7450

FRIDAY, DECEMBER 14 Hanukah Family Service Shir Hadash, 7:30 PM nadine@shirhadash.org, 358-1751 x5 Third Annual Best of Latke Competition Emanu-El, 7:30 PM Is your latke recipe a winner? Bring three dozen homemade latkes and enter the 3rd annual Best of Latke competition. This funfilled competition will follow the 6:30 Shabbat service. 292-0939, stephanie@templesanjose.org SATURDAY, DECEMBER 15 White-Clothing Holiday Tennis Tournament Levy Family Campus, 10 AM Wear white clothes/shoes to play in this fun-filled, competitive tennis tournament. $10/Full Center Members, $20/Social Members and non-members. Appetizers with wine and cheese provided. KV Ganesh, Tennis Director, at kv@svjcc.org or 357-7495.

MONDAY, DECEMBER 17 Monday at the Movies! Levy Family Campus, 1 PM Come experience Mel Brooks’s classics THE PRODUCERS, HISTORY OF THE WORLD PART 1 and BLAZING SADDLES! Light snacks will be served. Suggested $5 Donation. lisacg@svjcc.org, 357-7492 TUESDAY, DECEMBER 18 Election for Jews’ Next Dor Steering Committee Private Home, 8 PM Jews’ Next Dor plans over 100 events each year because of the amazing volunteers who step up to lend a hand. JewsNextDor@beth-david.org THURSDAY, DECEMBER 20 Blood Drive Levy Family Campus, 12 Noon Give the gift of life. Sign up at www.redcrossblood.org, sponsor code APJCC. 357-7414. Visiting Author: Susan Resnick Levy Family Campus, 7 PM jenessa@svjcc.org, 357, 7411 SUNDAY, DECEMBER 23 All Faith House Work Days Shir Hadash, 8 AM nadine@shirhadash.org, 358-1751 x5 Faith in Action Rotating Shelter Dinners Shir Hadash, 9 AM Prepare and serve dinner in the West Valley area for a group of homeless men between December 23 and 29. Congregation Beth David both housed and fed the men for 30 days in the spring of 2012. This program has an 85% success rate in ending homelessness for these men, and in helping them help themselves step up and out of poverty. This is a true mitzvah, and very direct giving. Andrea Harris or Rena Alisa at rotatingshelter@ shirhadash.org. 358-1751 x7

TUESDAY, DECEMBER 25 Fievel Mousekewitz & Kung Pao Tofu Levy Family Campus, 1 PM Join for some Chinese food and to watch An American Tail. $15 per family/member, $20 per family/ non-member. RSVP by December 20: 357-7492 or lisacg@svjcc.org. THURSDAY, DECEMBER 27 A Place to Begin: Next Steps for Seniors Levy Family Campus, 2:30 PM A place to explore and learn about different aspects of seniors living. Registration is required. avitala@jfssv.org, 357-7450 FRIDAY, DECEMBER 28 Jews in the News Beth David, 1:30 PM adulted@beth-david.org, 257-3333 SUNDAY, DECEMBER 30 Lunch Team for San Jose Family Supportive Housing Sinai, 10 AM Sinai is sponsoring, cooking, and serving a meal to residents of San Jose Supportive Housing. Mitzvah opportunity to prepare and serve lunch to young families temporarily in need. Please email the Social Action committee, socialaction@sinai-sj.org, if you can help on that day. SUNDAY, JANUARY 6 “Typical Israeli? No Such Thing” with Vavi Toran - Exploring the World of Judaism Shir Hadash, 9:30 AM Vavi Toran is the Bureau of Jewish Educaiton’s Israel Education Arts and Culture Specialist. Vavi Toran was raised in Tel Aviv by a theatrical and artistic family and studied English Literature and Art History at the Hebrew University, and Painting and Drawing at the Bezalel Art Institute in Jerusalem. 358-1751 x5, nadine@shirhadash.org

WEDNESDAY, JANUARY 9 Chanukah party MONDAY, DECEMBER 24 Caregivers Support Group SUNDAY, DECEMBER 16 Sinai, 6 PM Chinese Food and Game Night Levy Family Campus, 5 PM Sinai’s Stanford Blood Bank Candlelighting and Sing-Along, Emanu-El, 6 PM A support group for spouses Blood Drive Dinner, and Entertainment. What’s a Jew to do on Christmas and adult children caring for Sinai, 9 AM Dreidels, latkes, sufganyot. Eve? RSVP by December 20 chronically ill/disabled loved ones. Perform a mitzvah! About every $10/adult; $6/children. Under 5 to wote@templesanjose.org. Registration required,Fee:$10/per two seconds, someone in the U.S. free. Bring your own Chanukiah Members $10/adult and $7.50/child session, sliding scale available. needs blood. Make a difference and candles for the 4th night of under 12, non-members $15/adult avitala@jfssv.org, 357-7450 in someone’s life. 264-8542, candle lighting. 264-8542, and $10/child under 12. socialaction@sinai-sj.org office@sinai-sj.org. www.jvalley.org 35

SATURDAY, JANUARY 12 Meditative Service Community Shabbat Service Shir Hadash, 10:30 AM This service, lead by Linda Allen, Cantor Devorah Felder-Levy, and Lay Cantor Mark Allen, focuses on a few core prayers using a variety of melodies, chants, and guided meditation to foster opportunities for personal introspection. During the amidah, choose to silently pray the traditional tefillah or tune into a guided meditation focusing on the themes of these core prayers. No special knowledge or experience is required. Come and try a different way of experiencing a Saturday morning Shabbat service. 358-1751 x5, nadine@shirhadash.org An Evening with Paula Poundstone Levy Family Campus, 8 PM 18 & Over, $25/General Admission, $30/at the door. lisacg@svjcc.org, 357-7492 SUNDAY, JANUARY 13 Mah Jongg Tournament Levy Family Campus, 9 AM arielle@jvalley.org, 357-7501 See ad on page 32. “Jews and Chocolate” with Exploring the World of Judaism Shir Hadash, 9:30 AM Deborah R. Prinz serves the Central Conference of American Rabbis as Interim Director of Program and Member Service. She is also the Rabbi Emerita of Temple Adat Shalom, Poway, California. In recent years she has pursued research on the topic “Jews on the Chocolate Trail,” reviewing the historical connections as well as contemporary ones. She was awarded the Starkoff Fellowship from the American Jewish Archives as well as a fellowship from the Rockefeller Library to pursue this research. Exploring the World of Judaism is a program of Congregation Shir Hadash and the Bureau of Jewish Education and is supported in part by the Newton and Rochelle Becker Charitable Trust. 358-1751 x5, nadine@shirhadash.org Adult B’nai Mitzvah Shir Hadash, 9:30 AM 358-1751, patty@shirhadash.org

Death and Dying adult education class Emanu-El, 11:30 AM This course, taught by Rabbi Magat, will investigate Traditional and Reform Jewish practices, customs, and concepts surrounding death. We will also discuss some of the important issues that surround bereavement and the grieving process. Finally, we will investigate some modern theories concerning the stages of grief. We will also spend time discussing life after death and how death relates to our beliefs. stephanie@templesanjose.org, 292-0939 Club 345 - Sky High Sky High, 12:30 PM 358-1751 x2, shanda@shirhadash.org APJCC Preschool Open House Levy Family Campus, 2 PM Interested in the APJCC Preschool? Come to our Open House! For more information, contact Elizabeth Nunez at elizabeth@svjcc.org or 357-7417. WEDNESDAY, JANUARY 16 Beginning Mah Jongg Levy Family Campus, 10:30 AM Come learn Mah Jongg according to the rules of the National Mah Jongg League! 357-7492, lisacg@svjcc.org TUHURSDAY, JANUARY 17 Woman’s Study Group with Rabbi Aron ~ The Norton Anthology of Jewish American Literature Shir Hadash, 10:30 AM The Book will be The Norton Anthology of Jewish American Literature by Jules Chametzky, John Felstiner, Hilene Flanzbaum, and Kathryn Hellerstein. 358-1751 x7, patty@shirhadash.org Rit Lab Levy Family Campus, 7 PM Ritual objects in Judaism have different meanings for everyone. Make your personal Judaica more meaningful by creating it yourself! Join us for a series of workshops in which artistic expression deepens your understanding of Jewish ritual practice.$5 Suggested Donation. rabbijames@svjcc.org, 357-7413

SATURDAY, JANUARY 19 Minyan, Tea and Torah Emanu-El, 9 AM Join Cantor Meeka Simerly for an egalitarian Tea and Torah program which includes study of the week’s Torah portion over tea and noshes. Utilized are commentaries reflecting a variety of perspectives, including URJ’s Torah: A Women’s Commentary. Open and welcome to all who would like to learn about the history, thought process, and fast evolving freedom of expression, from a contemporary Reform Judaism approach. Though everyone is encouraged to join us for Minyan please feel free to come in at 10:15am for Torah Study. This monthly event is sponsored by Temple Emanu-El’s Sisterhood. stephanie@templesanjose.org, 292-0939 SUNDAY, JANUARY 20 JFS online auction “Lunch With...” eBay, January 20-28 Bid and win a lunch date with one of JFS’s celebrities: Noah Alper of Noah’s Bagels, Nobel Prize winners Burton Richter and Alvin Roth, singers and musicians Layna Chianakas, Maestra Barbara Day Turner, NBC’s Scott Budman and Larry Gerston, high-tech world’s Steve Wallach, Terry Winograd, and Bob Zeidman. Funds raised help support JFS’s Project N.O.A.H. Win an auction, then bring your family or friends along for the lunch date. jeff.warwick@gmail.com, 556-0600 Mitzvah Day Shir Hadash, 9:30 AM 358-1751 x2, shanda@shirhadash.org Tu’Bshvat Hike Castle Rock, 9:30 AM The holiday of Tu B’Shvat celebrates the birthday of the trees. But, why do that in the middle of winter rather than during the green blossoming of spring or the harvests of autumn? Tu B’shvat inspires us to notice subtle new growth on the trees around us. Come join Rabbi James, Director of the CJLL and a current TorahTrek Wilderness Guide cohort member, for a hike at Castle Rock State Park. We will explore

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Save the Dates SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 2 Celebrate! Silver to Gold Levy Family Campus, 6:30 PM Honoring Jyl Jurman’s 25 years of service to the Jewish Community. Dinner, dessert and dancing with The Joe Sharino Band; Entertainment by The Capital Steps. $75 by Dec. 31. 357-7503, arielle@jvalley.org SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 10 Super Sunday Levy Family Campus, 9 AM Volunteer with the Jewish Federation to make calls at our annual Super Sunday event. Dollars raised toward the annual campaign benefit Jewish agencies, locally and abroad. 357-7501, arielle@jvalley.org

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At Congregation Emeth’s training program for the 2012-2013 Board of Directions, one of the board members commented that he thought one of Emeth’s finest moments was a Walk for Tolerance held in Gilroy many years ago. The Board wondered if it was time to do that again. The next day, Rabbi Israel and Pastor Patrick Davis of the United Methodist Church were talking about the anti-Islamic slander going on in South Valley and they agreed this was the time to show solidarity for all faiths. Geoff Jackson, Emeth Social Justice Chair, was called in, and the Walk for Tolerance was planned for one week later, taking place on August 22, 2012. Joining Congregation Emeth in convening the Walk were United Methodist Church, Advent Lutheran Church, South Valley Islamic Community, Unitarian Universalist Church, and the JCRC of Silicon Valley. The Walk was the interfaith community’s response to recent acts of violence and intolerance, and including the mass shooting at the Sikh temple in Wisconsin in which seven worshippers were murdered. Rabbi Israel said, “This walk was intended to be a statement of tolerance, acceptance, and peaceful co-existence among all people.” The Walk began with readings in the parking lot of Congregation Emeth, and ended with a Candlelight The Walk for Tolerance Banner was carried by Emeth’s teens, organized Vigil at the United Methodist Church. The walkers marched through downtown by Joshua Toch. Morgan Hill, led by Emeth’s teen volunteers holding the banner. Geoff Jackson especially extends gratitude to the JCRC (Jewish Community Relations Committee of the Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley) for their support and for providing our Walk for Tolerance Banner.

Robert Chaykin appointed to County Human Relations Commission

Supervisor Mike Wasserman has appointed Robert Chaykin to represent District 1 on the Human Relations Commission. The Human Relations Commission (HRC) reports to the Board of Supervisors, and advises them on issues related to diversity and mutual respect, addressing incidents of prejudice and discrimination. Rob joins the group of fifteen commissioners, replacing Norm Abrahams who resigned in September due to health reasons, after serving on the commission for many years. Rob will complete Norm’s current term which ends July 2013, after which he could be re-nominated. The current chair of the HRC is Sabuhi Siddique, who commented “We are proud to have Robert Chaykin on the Commission.” Rob is well-suited to this type of community relations Align your values with work, having served for several years on the board your Investment Portfolio of the Community Relations Council of the Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley (JCRC). On that board Rob currently serves as co-chair of the Israel Committee, and is also very involved in interfaith relations. Rob is a familiar face at Buddhist, Muslim, Hindu and other community gatherings, and is wellrespected as a thoughtful community partner. Mike Krigel Financial Advisor The JCRC encourages civic involvement as a way to practice Jewish values of social justice. Marci For a complimentary consultation, call: 650-234-5177 Gerston, JCRC chair, commended Rob’s service 2882 Sand Hill Road on the HRC, “Rob combines strong pluralistic Menlo Park, CA 94025 mike.krigel@morganstanley.com values with a warm heart, and I know he will make www.morganstanleyfa.com/mikekrigel a difference in the commission’s work supporting diversity and mutual respect.” © 2012 Morgan Stanley Smith Barney LLC. Member SIPC.

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continued from page 20 It is telling that various Jews will struggle with one or more parts of the traditions associated with the Festival of Light. Some of us may understandably have problems with the political-military dimension of Hanukah and we may not be inclined to glorify military conquest or glorify a particular political faction. The Maccabees, who claimed to be the true representatives of the Jewish people and the devout opponents of Hellenism, were actually an extreme religious sect primarily concerned with purging liberal elements from the Jewish fold. No less problematic is the contemporary vision of this holiday – Hanukah as a competitive shopping sport. So I find it helpful and very much in the spirit of the holiday, to consecrate a new interpretation and meaning for Hanukah each year. After all, as many of us learned in Hebrew school the word Hanukah refers to the dedication or consecration of a new house. Thus for me this year, Hanukah is a time to rededicate efforts to maintaining spiritual integrity. We can make the effort to try to live and foster authentic Jewish values and to challenge the idolatry of materialism, superficiality, and selfishness. As one shamash gives us the vehicle to kindle eight additional candles throughout the holiday, we are reminded of the necessity to seek out new ways to recycle our limited environmental resources and to maximize the use we make of precious sources of energy. We should encourage one another to see Hanuakah for its true beauty, a call in the midst of the darkest time of the year to rededicate ourselves to one another, to community, and to action. After all, Hillel encouraged our ancestors to start with one candle and then expand to remind us of the power that one light has to bring new light – how one mitzvah can lead to another mitzvah. Whether it is the mitzvah of being more energy conscious, of being a better partner or parent, or of being more giving to those people and organizations around us, Hanukah is a time to remind ourselves of the importance of dedication, commitment, and love.

This headline could have appeared over 3,000 years ago in ancient Israel. Instead, it was the focus of the “trial of Jacob”, staged by the members of Congregation Shir Hadash on S’lichot. Over 200 people participated as the defendant, witnesses, prosecutors, defense attorneys, observers and jurors in the mock trial. Jacob, portrayed by Alan Lagod, was accused of stealing’s Isaac’s Blessing while impersonating his brother Esau. Jacob’s defense was led by Alan Ruby and Allison Brunner. The prosecution’s case was presented by Adrienne Dell and Judith Sklar. Irwin Joseph presided as the judge. Andy Altman, Carol Shapiro Gutstein and Robbie Pearl portrayed key members of the drama and were called as witnesses. After both sides presented their case, the “audience” was broken up into multiple juries to weigh in on the evidence and reach a verdict. The trial was spirited and everyone involved really enjoyed the whole experience. Rabbi Aron is already looking forward to staging something similar, perhaps two years from now. She said that staging a trial of a flawed patriarch on S’lichot makes perfect sense. According to Rabbi Aron, “S’lichot is a time when we prepare ourselves for the coming days of reflection and repentance. The theme of judgment permeates the High Holy Days, and the Unetaneh Tokef prayers imagines each of us standing trial at this time of year.” Candidates for future trials include Eve, Abraham, Joseph’s brothers, Jonah and perhaps even God.

So in addition to all of the joy and excitement of sharing gifts with those we love, of lighting candles, and of eating latkes, let’s take some time to remember the true meaning of this holiday and challenge ourselves to bring more light in to the world. I hope that the lights of Hanukah bring warmth and joy to your home and family this year, and together let us bring light to this season of darkness.

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obituaries JOSEPH FISCHER, M.D. October 2, 1922 – June 19, 2012

Joseph Fischer was born in Vari, a Hungarian village in Czechoslovakia. He emigrated to the United States in 1940, served in the U.S. Army, graduated from Ohio State University and earned his medical degree from Case-Western Reserve University. Dr. Fischer practiced cardiology and internal medicine at San Jose Medical Center for over forty years. While there, he also served as the hospital’s Chief of Staff. Additionally, he instructed medical students and residents at both UCSF and Stanford Medical School. He enjoyed chess, tennis, hiking, fly-fishing and a devoted fan of Stanford, the Giants and the 49ers. He will be missed for his intelligence, wisdom, kindness and great sense of humor. Joseph is survived by Armeda, his wife of 64 years, children John (Tina) of Riverside, Ed (Debra) of San Francisco and Janet Siegel (Frank) of Redwood City and grandchildren Aja, Air, Zoe, Molly, Anna, Ben, Melanie and Max. He is also survived by his brother, Louis Fischer of Amherst, MA and was predeceased by his brother Bill Fischer of Fresno. Donations may be sent to the American Heart Association, the American Cancer Society or Temple Emanu-El.

Leon Harold Fisher

July 11, 1918 – October 16, 2012 Leon H. Fisher passed way peacefully October 16, 2012, at home in Atherton, California, his residence for more than 50 years, in the company of his loving family. Leon was born in Montreal, Canada on July 11, 1918, moved to San Francisco in 1920, and was naturalized as a U.S. citizen in 1925. He attended Lowell High School in San Francisco, where he met his future wife, Phyllis Kahn, and graduated as valedictorian in 1934, at the age of 15. He earned his B.S. and M.S. degrees in chemistry, in 1938 and 1940, and his Ph.D. in physics in 1943, from the University of California, Berkeley. Leon and Phyllis (Kahn) Fisher (1919-2009), his loving wife of 67 years, were married in San Francisco on December 21, 1941 and made their first home in Berkeley, CA. Leon’s professional life included many years as a teacher, touching the lives of numerous physics students at UC Berkeley (1943), the University of New Mexico (1944), and New York University (19461961). In addition to being a professor, he served as an academic administrator, at the University of Illinois, Chicago where he was department head of Informational Engineering, and at California State University, Hayward, where he served as Dean of the School of Sciences. His dedication to teaching was evident in many positions he took post retirement, including California State University, San Jose, and Stanford

University where his course “Physics for Poets” most nearly spanned his scholarly breadth. Leon was tapped by the Los Alamos (NM) Scientific Laboratory where he worked as a young physicist on the “Manhattan Project” from 194446 to help develop the first atomic bomb. In 1985, Phyllis reflected on their personal life during this historic period in her book Los Alamos Experience. Leon’s scientific leadership continued with his founding the First Gaseous Electronics Conference in 1948. Returning in 1961 to Northern California, Leon embarked on a career in applied physics, as manager of plasma physics at the Lockheed Missiles and Space Company (1961-1970), with a hiatus to head the plasma physics lab at General Telephone Electric Labs (1962-63). He was a Fellow of the American Physical Society. Leon and Phyllis spent an especially rich period of their lives in Tokyo; he worked as the senior liaison scientist at the Office of Naval Research (1979-1982), to foster scientific collaboration across Asia. Living in the Roppongi district of Tokyo, they held weekly informal English conversation classes in their home. The extensive travel assignments, along with the conversation classes, led to deep friendships that lasted across continents throughout their lives. Leon’s retirement was as full and satisfying as his professional life had been. His dedication to education continued through his service as the Teaching Excellence Chair for the Northern California Association of Phi Beta Kappa from 2000-2006. Leon volunteered at the Bechtel International Center at Stanford until 2011, teaching English classes for foreign students, continuing his tradition of “meeting people through language.” In addition to the formal teaching roles, Leon was the consummate teacher by example. His enthusiasm for learning persisted throughout his life, and inspired his family and friends. Leon’s house was always filled with the sound of music, especially opera and Schubert lieder. Books also filled the house, and his favorites included English classics from Shakespeare, Dickens and Trollope, along with stories that chronicled the family life he held in such high value, including Mordecai Richler, Thomas Mann, and Vikram Seth, among many others. Leon’s devotion to his wife, especially in her last years, his children, and his grandchildren was truly inspirational. He was a highly engaged husband, parent, and grandparent. Leon’s warmth and kindness lives on in the fond memories of his four children, Robert A. Fisher, Lawrence E. Fisher (Valerie), Carol Fisher Slotnick (Lawrence), and David B. Fisher (Diane), his grandchildren Andy Fisher, Lael (Fisher) Woods (Chris), Jonathan Fisher, Matthew Fisher, Benjamin Slotnick (Tarynn Brewer), Rachel Slotnick, Gabriel Slotnick, and Danielle Fisher, and his greatgrandchildren Talia, Aaron and Ryan Woods. He will be deeply missed by all who loved him. Donations in Leon’s name may be made to the Oshman Jewish Community Seniors Program (donate@paloaltojcc.org), or to Peninsula Volunteers, (www.penvol.org/donate).

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Dorothy J. Frankel 1924 – November 3, 2012

Dorothy unexpectedly passed away on November 3, 2012 at the age of 88. Her children, Madeleine Frankel of Los Gatos, Bradley Frankel of San Jose, and Pamela Frankel of Portland, OR were with her. Dorothy lived a long and full life. She was born in Rochester, NY and moved with her family to the Boyle Heights neighborhood of Los Angeles when she was 12. Upon completing high school, she married her husband, Jay, in December 1941 and moved to San Diego. While Jay was in the “Flying Navy” in the South Pacific, she worked for Consolidated Aircraft as a “Rosie the Riveter.” When the war ended, they moved to Oakland, CA where they started a family. They moved to Santa Clara County in 1955 and, in 1960, built the family home in Saratoga where she still resided. Dorothy was an active member in the local Jewish community. She was a founding member of Congregation Sinai, an advisor to the B’nai Brith youth programs (BBG/AZA), helped set up the library and gift shop at Temple Emanuel, helped found and actively support the San Jose branch of Hillel House, contributed to the development of Chai House, and was a longtime member of Brandeis National Committee of Silicon Valley. She will be fondly remembered for her thoughtfulness, generosity, sense of humor and great storytelling, her zest for life, and her boundless ability to give love and compassion to everyone she touched. However, her proudest accomplishment in life was being an extraordinary mother and role model to her children. She will be missed by all who knew her. The family asks that memorial donations be made to one of the following: American Cancer Society American Diabetes Association Brandeis National Committee Hillel of San Jose Parkinson’s Disease Foundation Southern Poverty Law Center

Dinah Hess Dinah Hess, resident of the Atrium in San Jose for the last four years, died peacefully on November 19, 2012. Dinah was born in Paris, France, and moved as an infant with her parents Abe and Fannie Simons to Chicago. As a young woman, Dinah worked as a secretary for manufacturers and the US Government. She took great pride in working for Abram Sachar, a leader of the B’Nai Brith Hillel Foundation and also founding president of Brandeis University. It was also in Chicago that she met the love of her life, Harold (Hal) Hess. They were married on September 18, 1949, and had two children, Leslie and Randy. Dinah loved reading, movies, vacations, shopping and politics, but her greatest love was her family. She was also an expert poker player and enjoyed many spirited poker games at the Atrium. Dinah is predeceased by her beloved husband Hal, and by her two sisters, Esther and Florence (Boshes). Dinah lived happily, healthily and independently up through the last few weeks of her life. Dinah is survived by her daughter Leslie Kossack and her husband Steven, and their sons Adam and Joshua, and

obituaries son Randy and his wife Virginia and their daughters Nicole and Hilary. Dinah is also survived by her sister Sandy, and many nieces, nephews, grandnieces and grandnephews. In keeping with Dinah’s often quoted expression “A woman who will tell you her age will tell you anything,” her date of birth is not being made public. Dinah, your secret is safe with us. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to Congregation Shir Hadash in Los Gatos, the Addison-Penzak Jewish Community Center in Los Gatos or a charity of choice.

HENRY PAUL KAPLAN April 17, 1935 – September 9, 2012

Henry Paul Kaplan was born on April 17, 1935 in Brooklyn, NY to Louis & Rose Stegman Kaplan. He was a devoted husband to his wife, Marcia Orel Kaplan, of 54 years. He was a devoted father to sons Joshua (Stefanie Fox), Seth (Kari Danziger), Daniel (Lyn Katzman) and Jonathan (Suzanne Heald). He is survived by grandchildren, Kayla, Benjamin, Noah, Michael, Ella, Eliana, Aurelia and Vivianna and was predeceased by grandson Jason. He is also survived by his brother, M. Howard Kaplan (Joyce Gumbiner). He graduated from the College of William and Mary in 1956, Harvard law School in 1959 and Downstate Medical Center Brooklyn in 1965. He completed his residency at Stanford University Medical Center in 1969. He practiced hematology and internal medicine at San Jose Medical Group until 1990, then as general counsel until 2001. He retired from private health law practice in 2007. Henry served in numerous professional leadership positions, including chief of staff of the San Jose Medical Center, as a member of the boards of directors of the SJ Health Dimensions and the Wilson’s disease Association and on the American Red Cross Northern California Blood Services Board. He also served as a Clinical Associate Professor of Medicine at Stanford University. He authored numerous publications, and recently blogged on health care; he was a frequent speaker on medical and legal topics with a particular interest in exploring ethical issues. Henry was a strong supporter of Israel and Jewish causes. His interests in unraveling the history of the Kohanim and his family through genetic genealogy inspired him to locate “cousins” around the world. He also enjoyed fishing and was an accomplished woodworker of furniture and toys which he made for his grandchildren. Donations may be made to Congregation Beth David and the Wilson’s Disease Association.

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Faith Unravels: a book review By Arielle Hendel I generally enjoy reading personal journals, biographies and even, sometimes blogs. I feel like I meet a new friend as the author shares his/her story. Their struggles and decisions become fodder for conversations with my friends and family. We discuss how we would manage the same situations. Reading Faith Unravels: A Rabbi’s Struggle with Grief and God by Rabbi Daniel Greyber did not disappoint. Greyber’s book is a very intimate look at his loss of two close friends and his struggle with these deaths. He candidly discusses his feelings of guilt, sadness, regret and anger. He focuses a lot on the lack of clearly defined Jewish practices for the loss of a friend as opposed to the prescribed rituals after losing a parent, sibling, spouse or child. His despair over the lack of formal ritual and his desire for a redemptive God led him to write this book. As he struggles with the lack of ritual, Greyber provides a detailed account of his friends’ death and his self-made rituals. These two stories bring the reader into his despair at his losses and also give a specific accounting of a prolonged fight with cancer and eventual, inevitable death. This is actually both educational and informative in a macabre way. Greyber also does not shy away from his crisis of faith or his search for meaning and God in the face of these profound losses. His story is not particularly new, but his perspective and candor bring a new voice to the topic. He also shares some of the most modern Jewish theologians’ thoughts on the topic of God, death and dying. I found some of these very helpful in my own personal struggles with my faith. Others have found this book to help them through their personal journeys of losing a loved-one or friend without the formalized Jewish rituals to help them through their mourning. In fact, Mayim Bialik shares her story as a preface to the book. Faith Unravels: A Rabbi’s Struggle with Grief and God is available through Resource publications of Eugene, Oregon. Rabbi Daniel Greyber was the former head of Camp Ramah in Ojai and now is the rabbi of Beth El Synagogue in Durham, North Carolina. He will serve at the USA Team Rabbi for the 2013 World Maccabiah Games in Israel.

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Hoge, Fenton, Jones & Appel 60 S. Market St., Ste. 1400 San Jose, CA 95113 (408) 287-9501 sds@hogefenton.com www.hogefenton.com/siner.html Specializing in complex business transactions, estate planning, and family business succession planning.

Eliana B. Weissman

Hoge, Fenton, Jones & Appel 60 S. Market St., Ste. 1400 San Jose, CA 95113 (408) 287-9501 ebw@hogefenton.com www.hogefenton.com/weissman.html Specializing in family law matters.

Christl Denecke

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Law Office of Derryl H. Molina

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Attorneys Minda B. Parrish

14500 Big Basin Way, Suite D, Saratoga, CA 95070 (408) 741-3500 minda@parrishlaw.net Estate Planning, Probate, Elder Law

Lynne R. Snyder

101 Church St., Suite 7, Los Gatos, CA 95032 (408) 354-5590 Adoption, Custody, Dissolutions, Guardianship, Juvenile Court, Paternity

Shannon Stein

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Timothy D. Widman

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Carol Elias Zolla

16450 Los Gatos Boulevard, Suite 208, Los Gatos, CA 95032 Tel: 408-358-6900 carol@zollalawfirm.com www.zollalawfirm.com Certified Specialist in Estate Planning, Trust & Probate Law. The State Bar of California Board of Legal Specialization.

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Tax Preparation & Representation Philip S. Levine EA, MBA Padgett Business Services Silicon Valley West Inc.

501 N. Santa Cruz Blvd. Ste. A Los Gatos CA 95030 (408) 402-3725 p_levine@smallbizpros.com www.siliconvalleywest.com Tax Preparation and Professional Representation before the IRS and CA FTB. A small business focus including corporations and partnerships as well as their owners and other professionals. We also welcome CA Registered Domestic Partner (RDP) returns as well as clients with international tax issues.

Leonard W. Williams, CPA

A Professional Corporation 455 S. Mathilda, Sunnyvale 94086 (408) 736-1566 www.LWWilliamsCPA.com Leonard W. Williams, CPA Elaine Raitt, CPA, Bruce Pajak, CPA, Y. Mary King, CPA Brenda L. George, EA, T. Patricia Cohen, EA, Mary C. Koeppen, EA Tax Planning & Return Preparation for Individuals, Trusts & Estates.

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