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“I want to be here with the bravest, warmest, craziest, rudest, smartest, and big-hearted people on this planet. If they could only live in peace, you’d know this, too.” Sam Lauter - Active Jewish Communal leader from San Francisco currently in Israel celebrating his son’s Bar Mitzvah

My old roommate Sam posted this on Facebook when friends questioned the wisdom of his trip to Israel. My heart aches for what our family and friends there are facing. Now is the time to use the power of the collective. Our community in Israel needs your support. Today, July 10, the Jewish Federations of North America’s Executive Committee of which our CEO, Jyl Jurman, is a member, voted to approve an emergency appeal to meet the needs of Israelis in the line of fire. With this money, we will take the 38,000 kids in the South away for a day of respite, provide trauma counseling to Israelis living in the line of fire, and moving seniors and disabled citizens to areas which are safer since they cannot quickly move to bomb shelters. Join me in making a contribution to this emergency fund to support our family and friends in Israel in the line of fire.

Our Annual Campaign lays the groundwork for emergency responses like this. I am proud to say that our national leaders, working in conjunction with leaders from the Conservative and Reform Jewish movements are in Israel to work with the Israeli government, the Jewish Agency, and the Joint Distribution Committee to assess the needs and address them. Tomorrow, July 11, our local Campaign Chair Susan Gavens and Campaign Director Michelle Nathanson are landing in Israel for a campaign training mission. They, along with other Israel trip participants like Birthright, BBYO, Ramah Ulpan, NFTY, and Chabad (to name just a few) are showing their solidarity with our extended Jewish family in Israel. The Israelis I have spoken to appreciate the show of support. If you would like to go to Israel, we have both a birthright trip and a community mission planned for early 2015. Consider joining us. There is more information about these trips herein.

Please join me in praying for peace.

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Fall classes at the JCC Meditating in Jewish harmony SPHDS welcomes executive director Federation welcomes NextGen director Transition and growth Emeth’s b’not mitzvah class Krandels receive award Israel under fire Sinai celebrates lifetime achievements Sinai trains emerging leaders Meet new Yavneh head of school

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l cal news Register online for Fall classes at the JCC Online registration has begun for Fall classes at the Addison-Penzak Jewish Community Center. Offerings include fitness classes, sports leagues, dance classes, martial arts, circus acrobatics for children, an after-school program, Judaica classes for all ages, and more. For more details or to sign up: www.SiliconValleyJCC.org/classes or call (408) 358-3636.

Meditating in Jewish harmony Meditation can be a powerful tool for many individuals. The Mayo Clinic lists many benefits of meditation, including focusing on the present, increasing self-awareness and reducing negative emotions.

Marilyn Katz is well aware of the benefits of meditation and has incorporated it into her regular routine. She decided to try to bring the value of meditation into the regular routine at Congregation Shir Hadash. “I thought that it would be a good idea to meditate at Shir Hadash which is a spiritual home to many…Our focus is to practice meditation, in harmony with Jewish practice, in a Jewish setting.”

Marilyn implemented weekly meditation sessions on a trial basis. The first session was held on January 8. Five months later the group is still going strong with eight to twelve people attending each week. Highlights of the last few months include a Chi Gong class taught by a guest instructor, an outdoor mindful-eating session in the memorial garden of Shir Hadash, and a six-week series focusing on one sense each week.

“I have gained a feeling of calmness and centeredness in doing this practice on a regular basis with the group. I have increased the length of time I’m able to meditate to 30 minutes with only gentle music in the background.”

The group will continue to meet each week at Shir Hadash and welcomes others to join in its practice. The group meets every Wednesday at 10:30 a.m. at Shir Hadash. Contact Marilyn Katz at Marilyn@katz.us or (408) 358-1751.

SPHDS welcomes new executive director The Head of School search committee and Board of South Peninsula Hebrew Day School (SPHDS) are excited to welcome Rabbi Shaye Guttenberg to the position of executive director, starting July 15.

Rabbi Shaye Guttenberg with wife, Dina

Rabbi Guttenberg, MS, MBA is an experienced educator, pulpit rabbi, manager and business strategist/ consultant. He has a proven record of utilizing his leadership and organizational skills to develop, write and implement curricula for the Jewish day school system, synagogues and outreach centers, while employing concrete strategic business models/plans and metrics and best educational practices.

Rabbi Guttenberg was the director of Jewish Studies at the Jewish Community Day School in Palm Desert where he was extensively involved in the day-to-day running of the school and coordinating technology for use in teaching. Rabbi Guttenberg’s most recent position was with the Jewish Study Network, where he served as its San Francisco director. As such, he was involved in recruitment, fundraising and building a network of educational opportunities for Jews from all ages and all backgrounds.

Rabbi Guttenberg was also a pulpit rabbi at Desert Synagogue in Palm Springs, CA, and interim rabbi at Adath Israel Congregation in San Francisco.

Rabbi Guttenberg attended Yeshivat Sha’alvim, a Zionist Hesder Yeshiva in Israel, and completed his rabbinic training at Yeshiva University. He also holds a Bachelor’s Degree in psychology and a Master’s Degree in Jewish education and administration from Yeshiva University. He recently completed an MBA with a specialization in innovation and entrepreneurship from Northeastern University.

Please join us in welcoming Rabbi Guttenberg and wishing him well in his new role at SPHDS. For more information about SPHDS please call (408) 738-3060.

Jewish Federation welcomes NextGen director Becka Ross joined the Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley team on June 23.

A recent graduate of Hebrew Union College, Becka will be working with the NextGen (21-45) crowd in Silicon Valley.

Becka graduated from Hebrew Union College earning a Masters in Jewish education and Jewish non-profit management. She is currently a Federation executive recruitment and education program fellow through the Jewish Federations of North America. While in school, she participated in the Masters Concentration in Israel education fellowship through the iCenter.

Previously, Becka has worked at numerous Jewish communal institutions including the Jewish Federation of Greater Los Angeles; the Jewish Federation of Greater Portland and Congregation Beth Israel in Portland, OR. She grew up in Walnut Creek, CA and is thrilled to be back in the Bay Area. Becka is an avid Niners and Giants fan. She loves shuffleboard and bocce ball,and trying new things that don’t include heights.

To learn more about NextGen, contact Becka at becka@jvalley.org or (408) 357-7502.

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T H E E X P E R I E N C E L A S T S 1 0 D AY S .

THE MEMORIES LAST A LIFETIME.

Be part of our first-ever community-based free BIRTHRIGHT ISRAEL TRIP. Are you 22 - 26 years old and have never been to Israel? Climb Masada, float in the Dead Sea, celebrate Shabbat in Jerusalem and much more during this amazing 10-day trip. Join young adults from our community for this free once-ina-lifetime experience. Open to 40 participants.

Ages: 22-26 Dates: Dec. 25, 2014-Jan. 6, 2015 (departs from and returns to LAX) Trip organizer: Israel Outdoors Pre and post-trip options available

Contact Becka Ross, NextGen Director, for more information: (408) 357-7502, becka@jvalley.org

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Mazel tov to Congregation Beth David’s kita zayin! In honor of their moving up to Beth David’s High School program (JET), they beautifully led Shabbat Services this past June.

Incoming Federation Chair Julie Krigel, CEO Jyl Jurman and Outgoing Chair Dr. Jeff Kanel pose at the Jewish Federation’s Annual Meeting on June 26. More photos are available at www.jvalley.org.

Over 400 people participated at the Addison-Penzak Jewish Community Center Float Night in June.

Photo Credit Ilyanne Cauchy

A good time was had by all at the APJCC Silicon Valley Jewish Music Festival on June 22. Performers included The Macaroons, The Groggers, Brian Joseph and David Broza. Photo Credit Ilyanne Cauchy

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TEKIAH:

A CALL TO CLEANUP!

High Holiday Creek Cleanup Day Sunday, Sept. 28 1-4 pm

Join with our interfaith partners in this opportunity to put your high holiday reflections into action.

Register at www.cleanacreek.org Meet at the creek ramp across the street from 696 Palm St. We will clean the Guadalupe Creek between Grant Ave. and Edwards Ave. Gloves and trash/recycle bags will be provided.

Families are welcome.

Street parking available on Palm St. and nearby streets.

Contact Diane Fisher, JCRC Director, at (408)357-7504 or diane@jvalley.org

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Temple Emanu-El 1010 University Ave, San Jose, CA 95126 www.templesanjose.org Temple Office (408) 292-0939 Religious School (408) 292-3223

“MISHPACHA SHELI” (“My Family”) Open to the Community Pre-K Family Education Sundays, from 10:15 AM – 12:30 PM A program designed for pre-kindergarten aged children and their parents who would like a “whole family” experience. We offer an introduction to Jewish values, holidays, traditions and customs through singing, storytelling, art, movement games and cooking. ***Children must be at least 3 years old by September 1, 2014*** Class dates: 10/12/14, 11/6/14, 12/14/14, 2/1/15, 3/1/15, and 3/29/15 Register online at www.templesanjose.org at 7:30 PM

Summer Shabbat Patio Services Every Friday at 6:30 PM Enjoy the beauty of Shabbat under the warm sun in our tranquil patio courtyard. Continuing now through until August 29. www.jvalley.org

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Emeth’s b’not mitzvah class Several years ago, Aileen Teren-Foster, a new member of Congregation Emeth in Morgan Hill, shared her dream to have a bat mitzvah as an adult. Her enthusiasm and determination were the inspiration for beginning an adult b’nai mitzvah class which has met weekly for the past two years, taught by Rabbi Debbie Israel. On June 14, the five students celebrated their bat mitzvah.

“I wanted to take my religious knowledge (or perhaps I should say, my lack of knowledge) to another level for years,” Teren-Foster said.

When the class began, it focused on general Jewish education and especially mastering reading Hebrew. The original class had eight students, interested only in the adult Jewish learning; they stopped attending when the class moved into its second year and the focus was more directly on bat mitzvah training.

“I joined the class with no intention of having a bat mitzvah since I already had this experience,” said Susan Braun, who had also recently joined Emeth. “I was looking for Bible and prayer study from a new perspective and, as a new member to Emeth, it was a good way to immerse myself in congregational life and meet members. Somewhere along the way Rabbi Israel asked me if I would participate in the ceremony and I signed up.”

The students studied customs, laws, ceremonies, history, rituals, holidays, life-cycle ceremonies and everyday Jewish living. They had a weekly mitzvah assignment. They read the Five Books of Moses cover to cover, following the weekly Torah readings. Marby Lee, whose daughter Meghan will celebrate her bat mitzvah in June

2015, observed, “As I saw my daughter go through religious school, I again saw how much I had missed in my religious upbringing. I realized that in order to raise her properly, I needed to complete my own religious training, and that’s why I decided to pursue my bat mitzvah. Going through this process, I’ve seen how having belief in G-d gives you strength in the most trying and difficult of times and can make the most joyous events even better. It is one of the most important things I am passing on to my daughter – l’dor va’dor – from generation to generation.”

Two years ago, when the class began, most of the students could not read the Hebrew alphabet. On June 14, they chanted from Torah, using the correct musical notations, called trope. “The day I held the Torah yad (pointer) and read the words that I had studied, I fulfilled a promise I made to myself several years ago,” said Susan Meyers, who is also the temple’s president. “When I was 13 this was not possible for me. I am deeply appreciative that I had this opportunity to study with a group of extraordinary women and a rabbi I admire and respect.”

In the process, the bat mitzvah students became a group of friends who could discuss their innermost thoughts. They challenged Torah concepts and they challenged the rabbi. They grew in their learning and knowledge, and their participation in services was an inspiration to everyone attending. “As a member of the b’not mitzvah class—learning, practicing, joining in without reservation— I’ve found my place in Judaism, my spiritual home at Emeth, and discovered a deep and lasting peace within myself,” said MariaElena Jarson. “As a student and as a member of this amazing group of women, I realized that the beauty of the Jewish tradition is that it encompasses all of us, whether we are born Jewish, or found Jewish, or loving Jewish.” continued on page 15

2015 Community Trip to Israel April 19-28, 2015 in Israel

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Subsidies available. · Unparalleled access to sites and amazing speakers. · Unique opportunity to customize your Israel experience and discover Israel in your own way. · Specialized excursions for first timers and veteran travelers: Historic, Green & Hi-Tech, Arts & Culture, the Geo-political Landscape, Jewish Learning and Social Action! Subsidies available.

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A time of transition and growth

By Eleanor Weber Dickman After 33 years as the rabbi of Congregation Beth David (CBD), Rabbi Daniel Pressman retires at the end of July. During his tenure, he oversaw membership growth and the expansion of creative programming, both religious and educational. Rabbi Pressman also mentored two young associate rabbis, Aaron Schonbrun (2004-2010), and Philip Ohriner, who joined Beth David in 2010, and who will succeed Rabbi Pressman as Beth David’s spiritual leader in August.

Prior to joining CBD, Rabbi Ohriner served as the Legacy Heritage Rabbinic Fellow at Congregation Beth Israel in Flint, Michigan.

With both rabbinical and cantorial training, he brings theological and pastoral expertise as well as clinical chaplaincy training to his role as Beth David’s new spiritual leader. Joining him in this new adventure is his wife, Rabbi Shoshana Winograd-Hutner Ohriner, and a lively household with sons Ari, Elior, and Kobi.

Rabbi Ohriner describes his first interview with synagogue leaders as “a shidduch date,” during which both congregation and applicant explored the positive potential of an ongoing relationship. “Beth David,” notes Rabbi Ohriner, “is a warm and inviting community with tremendous potential for growth and a desire to become a visionary congregation.”

Rabbi Ohriner understands the congregation’s desire to be “a 21st century Kehillah Kedoshah (holy community) that helps members form relationships with each other, with the Divine, and with Jewish wisdom.” He credits Rabbi Pressman with “cultivating a communal culture” that focuses on the congregation’s stated mission to be a Bet Knesset (House of Gathering), a Bet Tefillah (House of Prayer) and a Beit Midrash (House of Study).

Citing the work of Rabbi Larry Hoffman and Professor Ron Wolfson, promoters of “relational Judaism,” Rabbi Ohriner says he has been heavily influenced by their understanding of what a holy community should look like, and plans to focus on “relationality” in every aspect of congregational life, from Shabbat services to social events. Over the past 18 months Rabbi Ohriner facilitated meetings and board retreats to develop “an exciting new communal vision” of outreach and ingathering, and credits Beth David’s lay leadership for supporting this vision. Rabbi Ohriner admits that change is always difficult, but notes that “Even CBD’s most traditional congregants acknowledge that there are different paths towards authentic Jewish living.” One of Rabbi Ohriner’s first initiatives was Beth David’s new “Ruach Rally” at Shabbat morning services where congregants have an opportunity to sing, dance, and feel the joy of being together as an engaging way to energize and enliven the community.

Rabbi Ohriner anticipates an exciting time of change and growth, noting that “the necessity to innovate is built into the fabric of life in Silicon Valley. Beth David embodies that ethos.” Some of his ideas include piloting a series of new prayer and learning opportunities on Shabbat mornings, with the hope of eventually offering concurrent pathways to prayer and spirituality each Shabbat. Plans include in-depth discussions of the weekly Torah reading, a learner’s services, meditative and mindfulness-based services, and movement-based prayer experiences.

In describing Beth David’s greatest strengths, Rabbi Ohriner credits the congregation’s strong connection with the “ethos of the Conservative movement” that both upholds tradition and welcomes change. He mentioned the commitment of synagogue

l cal news members of all ages to Jewish learning and a communal openness to contemporary modalities of learning. In addition, Rabbi Ohriner expressed great pride in Beth David’s expansive collection of ‘traditional’ auxiliary groups like Hazak, Sisterhood, Men’s Club, and the Young Families Group and expressed excitement about the creation of new affinity groups to even better facilitate the formation of stronger relationships within the Beth David community.

Rabbi Ohriner quotes Talmud that “all beginnings are difficult,” but he is empowered by congregants’ support and receptivity to the new directions the community is charting together. The newly designed educational framework for Beth David’s religious school and a new teen program, “JET”―Jewish Education for Teens― which succeeds Hebrew High, are designed around an integrated educational approach that facilitates positive Jewish experiences for children and teens by bridging the gap between youth groups and formal educational experiences.

With an optimistic smile, Rabbi Ohriner acknowledges that “it will take time to incorporate thoughtful, intentional changes into the fabric of communal life at Beth David, as well as input from Beth David congregants and a tremendous amount of communal process and transparency.” He looks forward to working with Beth David’s “positive and open board culture, and the community’s ability to discuss issues in an informed way, make a decision, and move forward together.”

To assist him in facilitating communal growth in positive and constructive ways, Rabbi Ohriner felt the congregation’s new second Rabbi had to be someone with a proven track record of helping Jews, their partners, and families find meaningful connections to communal Jewish life. Rabbi Ohriner was overjoyed with Beth David’s decision to hire Rabbi Leslie Alexander as its Rabbi of Community Outreach and Engagement, to be his clergy partner.

Rabbi Alexander’s priorities will be to help establish new affinity groups that allow members to participate in activities they enjoy with other members; develop new and innovative opportunities for spiritual expression on Shabbat mornings; create multigenerational programs around holiday celebrations, as well as general opportunities to engage with each other.

Rabbi Alexander will be focusing less on “programs” and more on “building connections and relationships.” According to Rabbi Ohriner, “the metric of success for all of these initiatives will be their ability to help congregants develop deeper and more mutually rewarding relationships with G-d, Judaism, and one another.” Rabbi Alexander will also be working on membership development in collaboration with Membership VP Jeff Warwick.

Quick to acknowledge the profound support he has received from Rabbi Pressman, Rabbi Ohriner also appreciates the collegial partnership he enjoys with the board and many long-term congregational leaders, as well as the skills and dedication of those engaged in Beth David’s Next50 Capital and Endowment Project that will modernize and expand the congregation’s spiritual home. He looks forward to the coming years with energy, enthusiasm, and profound appreciation for Rabbi Pressman’s legacy and the strong community that continues to be Congregation Beth David.

For more information on Congregation Beth David visit www.beth-david.org or call (408) 257-3333.

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Tisha B’av Program Hear why and how Shir Hadash members are actively conserving water, as we prepare for Tisha B’av, the parched holiday.

Friday, August 1, 8:00-9:00 pm Beer & Bouncy Join us for a mid-day summer barbeque for families with children 5 and younger.

Get to know other families and learn about Shir Hadash at this free event. RSVP to shanda@shirhadash.org.

Sunday, August 17, 10:30 am-12:30 pm (Info Session at 10 am) New & Prospective Member Wine & Cheese Learn more about Shir Hadash while enjoying an evening of wine and cheese.

Sunday, August 24, 7:00 pm Back-to-School with Student Rabbi Beni Wajnberg Join us for our Back-to-School Family Service and meet our new Student Rabbi Beni Wajnberg Friday, September 5, 7:00-7:45 pm Guest Speaker Rabbi Amy Eilberg Our annual Shabbat program focused on preparing for the High Holy Days will feature Rabbi Amy Eilberg this year speaking about, “From Enemy to Friend: Jewish Wisdom for our

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Bob (of blessed memory) and Ruth Krandel receive Emanu-El Lifetime Achievement Award

By Dan Lee This year the Board of Trustees of Temple Emanu-El created a new award to recognize significant long-term contributions to the synagogue. The Board established the following criteria to identify award candidates and to select recipients: • Longevity – member of the synagogue for at least 20 years; • Engagement – consistently engaged in and an active member of the Temple community throughout this time; • Embodiment of Jewish Values – Temple interactions and relationships embody core Jewish values; • Financial Support – consistently provided financial support commensurate with his/her means to Temple Emanu-El through annual dues commitments, donations to the General and other funds, and/or specific Temple projects; • Leadership – held a Temple “lay-leadership” position, such as member of the Board of Trustees or committee chair, auxiliary (Sisterhood, Brotherhood, etc.) chair, capital project chair or “champion”, etc.; • Impact – has had an impact on the long-term success and sustainability of Emanu-El and/or the well-being of members.

Because they so perfectly exemplify all of the qualities listed above, it is with great honor that we announce that Bob (of Blessed Memory) and Ruth Krandel are the very first recipients of this award. Their involvement with Temple Emanu-El dates back to their earliest moments in San Jose, when they visited Ruth’s mother and sister, liked the community and returned to be married in 1957 by Rabbi Gitin. Following Bob’s senior year at college, they settled in San Jose in 1958.

It was in San Jose that they found the Jewish life that they had lacked growing up in Louisiana and Mississippi. Ruth’s first involvement with temple began with Sisterhood. A “Life Member,” through the years, she served on the board, chaired and sponsored many events including the Sisterhood Donor Luncheons. For all her dedication, the Sisterhood recognized Ruth as a “Woman of Valor”–its highest award. With son Steve and daughter Lori (Ghan) growing up in the temple, attending Religious School, and being leaders in the youth group and confirmation classes, Ruth became a member of the original Religious School Board–chairing that board as well.

Ruth and Bob had a special relationship with Rabbi Gitin. He officiated at Steve’s bar mitzvah and both Lori and Steve’s confirmations, and he co-officiated at both of their weddings.

Rabbi Gitin also introduced Bob to the Rotary International service organization, in which Bob was active throughout his professional life.

For forty-nine years, Bob’s engaging personality, his vision, and his skills benefited the congregation in so many ways. He joined the Temple Board of Trustees beginning in the early 1980s. When the congregation encountered a very difficult situation in 1983, he assisted the elected president to such an extent that he was considered the de facto president. Bob was formally elected president first for 1983-86, then for 1994-96, and he was asked to serve once again for 2006-2007. Early in his tenure on the board, Bob recognized that family roles were changing as more women worked outside the home, so he advocated restructuring board responsibilities to make these volunteer positions less daunting.

Other temple presidents and Board members often sought Bob’s advice, and he was most generous with his time.

While Bob was serving on the Board, Ruth found many other ways to contribute. She either chaired, co-chaired, or collaborated on most Temple fundraising and “gala” events, including our 135th, 140th, and 150th celebrations, and she has always been wellknown for encouraging others to participate. Bob and Ruth led or

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were key participants in many efforts to beautify and modernize the synagogue, including the Temple House renovation in 1988, the Temple House sound system upgrade, and the Religious School renovation in 2005, just to name a few. Two beautiful paintings of Jerusalem grace the back wall of the social hall courtesy of Bob and Ruth. Currently, Ruth is making it possible to provide airconditioning in the sanctuary.

Following Bob’s untimely passing in 2007, Ruth was elected to the presidency for 2007-08 where she could bring her own energy and vision to that role. Ruth collaborated with JoAnn Shank in renovating the Temple House restrooms–performing much of the design and construction ”legwork” herself. Rabbi Magat had often said “wouldn’t it be great if we could buy ‘the cottage’ (the house on Myrtle Street adjacent to the synagogue).”

When it became available, Ruth–appreciating the benefit to the congregation–purchased it and donated it to the Temple as a meeting place and as temporary lodging for temple visitors.

Going forward and with Ruth’s blessing, the cottage will be rented and serve as an endowment for the congregation.

Not too long ago Ruth and Jim Heerwagen spearheaded the revitalization of the Temple’s Endowment Committee. Because of their efforts and those of the other members of the committee, the endowment fund is growing to ensure the future of the synagogue and future generations of Jews.

In addition to being a dynamic duo at temple, Bob and Ruth have been a force in civic activities. Ruth served on the Santa Clara County Grand Jury, and she has given generously of both her time and money to such organizations as Hospice of the Valley, Jewish Family Service, and Hillel–just to name a few. She and Bob led a “mission” to Israel for the Jewish Federation; Bob also served on the Federation Board as well as being its president. Bob and Lee Axelrad conceived of and were the prime movers behind the creation of Chai House, where Bob put his development and financial skills to good use–not the least of which was obtaining support for the project from HUD (the federal Housing and Urban Development department).

L’dor V’dor…from generation to generation: Ruth and Bob’s children Steve Krandel and Lori Ghan continue as members, and Steve serves on the Board of Trustees. Their grandchildren Brent and Mathew Ghan and Kelsi and Kevin Krandel have all celebrated their Bar/Bat Mitzvahs at temple. Both Kelsi and Kevin were leaders in their BBYO groups, and Brent and Matt have been very active as leaders in the Temple’s Youth Group.

Furthermore, Matt has become an important part of the religious school staff. Clearly the leadership “torch” has passed to the next generation!

The new Lifetime Achievement Award was presented to Ruth at the Temple’s Annual Meeting on June 17. When you visit the temple, wander about the social hall as well as other rooms to see all of the plaques listing their names. You’ll see that their impact spans time and space.

For more information on Temple Emanu-El, visit templesanjose.org or call (408) 292-0939.

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By Rabbi Josh Berkenwald My child’s school makes it very difficult to take off days for Jewish holidays. Teachers schedule tests and assign homework, even on Yom Kippur. Although the absence is (usually) excused, teachers still expect the work to be turned in on time. Do I really have to pull my child out of school for the High Holy Days?

Although it may seem like a difficult choice, this should not be a dilemma. It is vitally important for us to miss school or work on the High Holy Days.

When I first arrived at the University of Virginia in 1993, there was a small controversy brewing on campus. Some Jewish students had requested that the university postpone the time of the UVa-Duke football game (Go Wahoos!), which was scheduled for Saturday morning during Yom Kippur services.

Petitions were signed and letters to the editor were written. Having just arrived as a first-year student, I did not understand the issue. It seemed like a no-brainer that was not worthy of controversy. No football game was more important than attending services on the holiest day of the Jewish calendar–even if it was against an ACC rival. In the end, the university did not change the time of the game, and Yom Kippur services were held as scheduled.

Rabbi Josh Berkenwald

Missing a college football game is one thing, but school and work are something else. Students today are under an incredible amount of stress–far more than in the past. College admissions are increasingly competitive, raising the pressure to achieve high grades and test scores, and to fill one’s resume with impressive extracurricular activities, leadership positions, and volunteer experiences.

While the pull to attend school on the High Holy Days can be strong, think about the big picture. Missing two to three days in order to attend High Holy Day services may be a minor inconvenience, but is it really going to affect college admissions or future earning potential?

Think about the impact, however, that yearly attendance at Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur services will have on your child’s Jewish identity. A child who grows up knowing “we do not go to school on Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur” is far more likely to be an adult who considers High Holy Day observance to be important. As a minority living amongst a mostly secular society, missing school or work on the High Holy Days is a powerful marker of identity for American Jews.

When Sandy Koufax chose not to pitch on Yom Kippur during the opening game of the 1965 World Series, it was a point of pride for Jews everywhere. Koufax himself was not even observant. He spent that Yom Kippur eating in his hotel room. Afterwards, Koufax reflected: “There was never any decision to make...because there was never any possibility that I would pitch. Yom Kippur is the holiest day of the Jewish religion. The club knows that I don’t work that day.” It was not only a statement of Jewish identity for Koufax, it also affirmed the importance for all Jews in America to resist the assimilating power of secular culture, regardless of one’s level of observance. Whether or not a person attends services or fasts on Yom Kippur, every Jew ought to ‘play hooky’ for the High Holy Days.

This year, Rosh Hashanah falls on September 25 & 26–a Thursday and Friday. Yom Kippur is on October 4–a Saturday. To attend worship services for the Jewish New Year will require students to miss two days of school. While according to the San Jose Unified school district, “observation of a holiday or religious ceremony is a warranted absence and is excused,” it can be difficult in practice. Some teachers are not especially accommodating when it comes to missing class for religious observances. Perhaps you have heard the following: “But so-and-so is Jewish, and he is coming to class” or “I’m Jewish, and I’ll be here. I don’t see why it’s such a big deal.”

But it is a big deal.

It can be difficult sometimes to convince someone who is not aware of or respectful of Jewish tradition to excuse an absence for a Jewish holiday. My rabbinic colleagues and I would be honored to write a letter or make a phone call to a teacher, principal, or supervisor to explain that you or your child needs to be excused.

If you do not belong to a congregation and would like to attend High Holy Day services, contact any of our local synagogues to receive free or modestly-priced tickets.

This year, ‘play hooky’ for the High Holy Days.

Shanah Tovah! Have a Happy New Year!

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Use blessings to banish the blues

By Rabbi Lisa Levenberg, Congregation Shir Hadash The summer is my favorite time of year. The beach, road trips, and fresh peaches are just a few of the highlights. For parents of school-age kids, summer means time off from homework and lunchboxes.

In offices, the pace quiets down. In synagogues, there are a few quiet weeks after Shavuot before the Three Weeks leading up to the communal day of mourning, Tisha B’Av. Then August rolls around and the pace begins to quicken. Back to school, new fiscal year, Elul and the High Holy Days approaching—no matter which calendars we live by, it seems like we are kicking into gear. How we respond to this change of pace depends on our personality, of course, and it can also depend on our outlook. And our outlook is up to us.

Saying goodbye to summer brings on a bit of the blues for me. I get a shiver of sadness and sometimes even a twinge of dread.

At the same time, a sense of excitement is awakening as we approach a new year. An awareness of new possibilities, the fascination of the unknown—whether it’s as prosaic as new school supplies or as meaningful as making a new friend.

Our tradition, with its ancient wisdom and its spirit of innovation, offers us many blessings to mark sacred moments in our lives, and especially transitions from one spiritual space to another. The best known, of course, is Shehechiyanu: “You are blessed, Eternal our G-d, who rules the universe, who has kept us alive, and sustained us, and brought us to this time.” Shehechiyanu is apt for this time of year, as it is recited for new or special occasions; a new home, a new school, a new job, or even new dress clothes are appropriate times to offer a shehechiyanu. It is the ultimate example of the ‘attitude of gratitude’ that both reflects and creates in us a positive and forward-looking approach.

Shehechiyanu is a general expression of thanksgiving, but Judaism also has many blessings for specific sources of wonder, such as seeing the ocean, a rainbow, or an unusual animal.

Here in California, we’d be wise to keep handy the blessing for experiencing an earthquake! One blessing, which may be appropriate for a student studying with a distinguished professor, praises G-d for the opportunity to learn with a scholar of secular knowledge: “You are blessed, Eternal our G-d, who rules the universe, who has given of Your knowledge to flesh and blood.”

In addition to traditional blessings to mark beginnings, modern Jews have created new prayers and rituals to sanctify special moments. One important repository of these creations is Ritualwell, created in partnership with Ma’yan, the Jewish Women’s Project and now a project of the Reconstructionist Rabbinical College. At ritualwell.org, anyone can browse articles, prayers, and entire ceremonies to mark times of joy and of sorrow. I’d like to share one by Ken Bresler on the occasion of

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his daughters’ wearing new shoes: When either of my daughters starts to wear a new pair of shoes, I say, “May they take you to interesting places. May they help you run to do mitzvot.”

The first part of the prayer reminds me of the following: Benjamin of Tudela, the Jewish traveler, began in 1159 what would become a 14-year journey. He began in Spain and visited, among other places, Rome, Constantinople, Jerusalem, Babel, Baghdad, Susa (Shusan), Mount Sinai, Cairo, and Alexandria. My youngest daughter particularly longs to travel and explore the world. In the Torah, G-d said to Abram, “Go away from your land, from your birthplace, and from your father’s house, to the land that I will show you.” (B’reishit 12:1) Someday, each of my daughters’ shoes will take them from their father’s house, from my house. This part of the prayer can be bittersweet, because I’m wishing them independence.

The second part of the prayer reminds me of the following: Abraham, upon spotting three strangers approaching his tent, ran to greet and offer them hospitality. (B’reishit 18:2) Hospitality, hachnasat orchim, is of course a mitzvah. “Be…swift as a deer… to carry out the will of your Father in Heaven.” (Pirkei Avot 5:23) “Run to perform [even] a minor mitzvah…for one mitzvah leads to another mitzvah…for the reward of a mitzvah is a mitzvah….”

(Pirkei Avot 4:2) After I say the prayer, I kiss whichever of my daughters is wearing new shoes.

As we turn from the openness of summer to the structure of the year, let a spirit of gratitude and possibility guide us in all we do.

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Candidates Reception A meet-and-greet with candidates for Santa Clara County school boards and Community College Districts Thursday, September 18, 2014 5:30pm – 7:30pm Greenfield, Draa & Harrington LLP 55 Market Street, Suite 1500, San Jose Free and open to the public Space limited, RSVP required at www.jvalley.org/jcrc Contact Diane Fisher (408)357-7504 or diane@jvalley.org with questions.

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J EWI SH FE DE R ATION OF SILICON VALLEY As we prepare to greet New Year 5775, we urge each and every person in the Silicon Valley Jewish community to find a congregation which can help you hear the sound of the Shofar.

THE GREAT SHOFAR WILL BE SOUNDED...

JOIN WITH US SO THAT IT WILL BE HEARD!

S H A N A T OVA H !

Complete High Holy Day information at www.jvalley.org

YOUR GUIDE TO SILICON VALLEY SYNAGOGUES Almaden Valley Torah Center (Orthodox) 1422 Helmond Lane, San Jose, 95118 (408) 445-1770 www.rabbi770.com

Congregation Emeth (Reform) 17835 Monterey Street, Morgan Hill, 95037 (408) 778-8200 www.emeth.net

Bar Yohai Sefardic Minyan (Orthodox) 1030 Astoria Dr., c/o SPHDS, Sunnyvale, 94087 (408) 746-0614 www.baryohai.org

Congregation Shir Hadash (Reform) 20 Cherry Blossom Lane, Los Gatos, 95032 (408) 358-1751 www.shirhadash.org

Chabad of Cupertino (Orthodox) (408) 207-3648 www.chabadofcupertino.com

Congregation Sinai (Conservative) 1532 Willowbrae Ave., San Jose, 95125 (408) 264-8542 www.sinai-sj.org

Chabad of S. Jose (Orthodox) 517 Blossom Hill Rd., #A4, Los Gatos, 95032 (408) 358-5530 www.chabadsj.com Chabad of Sunnyvale (Orthodox) (408) 720-0553 www.chabadsunnyvale.com Congregation Am Echad Torah Community (Orthodox) 1504 Meridian Ave., San Jose, 95125 (408) 267-2591 www.amechad.org Congregation Beth David (Conservative) 19700 Prospect Rd., Saratoga, 95070-3352 (408) 257-3333 www.beth-david.org

Temple Beth Sholom (Reform) P.O. Box 23397, San Jose, 95153 (408) 978-5566 Temple Emanu-El (Reform) 1010 University Ave., San Jose, 95126-1842 (408) 292-0939 www.templesanjose.org

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Israel launched Operation Protective Edge on July 7 after the security cabinet met for the fourth time and decided to intensify defensive efforts against Hamas and restore stability to the country’s south.

During such times, Jewish Federations of North America (JFNA) Israel represents Federations at the Non-Profit Emergency Situation Roundtable under the auspices of the Ministry of Defense and collaborates with our primary partners—The Jewish Agency and the American Jewish Joint Distribution Committee – as well as others to ensure that whatever may come, we are working in the most efficient and informed manner possible on your behalf.

In these times, it is imperative that the Jewish community stand as one to support the people of Israel and provide as much safety and security as possible for our friends and family in harms way. The Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley, in partnership with the Silicon Valley Jewish community and partners throughout the world, has launched an emergency campaign to provide immediate relief for the people directly affected by the crisis.

Up-to-date information on the situation in Israel and a place for giving to this campaign can be found at www.jvalley.org. If you prefer to speak with a member of the Federation staff directly, please contact the office at (408) 358-3033.

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continued from page 8 This path of study, from my soul at Mount Sinai to this very moment as a 38 year-old bat mitzvah, has been one of the most rewarding and deeply meaningful transitions in my life.”

In reflecting on the experience of teaching these dedicated students and observing their spiritual growth during the past two years, Rabbi Israel said, “The sages of the Talmud said, ‘I have learned much wisdom from my teacher, more from my colleagues, and the most from my students.’ Teaching this class has been my honor and privilege. Frankly, I’m sad it’s over. I looked forward to it every week!”

Congregation Emeth will soon be forming its next adult learning/ b’nai mitzvah class. Anyone who is interested in participating in a class or who would like more information about South Valley’s only Jewish community or synagogue should contact the temple at info@emeth.net. Emeth can also be reached at (408) 778-8200.

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Sinai celebrates the lifetime achievements of Rita Jacobson and Al Sporer

By Andrea Greyber On July 12 during Shabbat morning services, Rita Jacobson and Al Sporer were recognized for their long standing contributions to Congregation Sinai.

Both Rita and Al moved to San Jose in the late 1950s, raised their young families here and have participated in the life of Sinai almost continuously over the past fifty-eight years.

Over the years, since Rita and her husband Jerry joined Sinai in 1956, she has worn many hats–and beautiful ones. She was active on the Sisterhood Board and was the first woman to be on the Sinai Board of Directors in the 1970s. She was an active fundraiser, participated on the finance and ritual committees and recently helped out with the interior design of the new sanctuary and building. According to Rabbi Berkenwald, Rita is usually the first Rita Jacobson person to visit someone who is ill, come to the Sinai office to help out or drive a friend to the airport for a late-night flight. She is a surrogate grandmother for many of Sinai’s children and is a regular at Shabbat services where she welcomes regulars and guests alike with warmth and love. Rita is the embodiment of the quality of anava (modesty) always feeling that she has not done enough. When she was asked what drew her to Sinai, she replied “What is community without a shul?”

What indeed.

Al Sporer and his wife Ruth joined the Sinai community in 1958. He was a “newly minted PhD” in chemistry from UCLA but his roots were in the East Coast. He had participated in a choir as a young man and the congregation still benefits from the deep kavanah (intention) which he brings to the services on a regular basis. He has been president of Congregation Sinai at least twice and was also president of the Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley. Rabbi Berkenwald commented that he comes in to the synagogue to roll and care for the Torah scrolls.

Rita and Al are the essence of what community is. They don’t wait to be asked. They see what needs doing and get it done and they enrich the Sinai synagogue and have for more than five decades. We are lucky to have them in our midst.

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By Jeffrey Salowe Ten members of Congregation Sinai participated in a six-session course, “Sulam Leadership for Emerging Leaders.” The course was led by Congregation President Jerry Lopatin and Rabbi Josh Berkenwald. The Sulam course (“ladder” in Hebrew) was developed by the United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism (UCSJ) to teach leadership principles though exercises, text studies, and discussions. The ultimate goal of the course was to develop and energize individuals to become more involved as leaders and volunteers in the Jewish community.

The participants learned to listen better, reflected on how they spend their time, studied conflict dynamics and resolution, examined mission statements, and looked at leadership qualities.

These topics were put into poignant perspective by text studies from Jewish history. The texts were chosen from the Torah and the Talmud, as well as other sources, to be relevant and instructive.

For example, one session studied destructive conflict responses such as arguing, displaying anger, avoiding, and self-criticizing. The text studies taken from the Talmud explained how destructive conflict in Jewish society contributed to the destruction of the Second Temple. A selfreflective exercise made participants examine their own response to conflict in their personal and professional lives. The homework exercise classified the destructive conflict responses in the Yom Kippur prayer, the ‘Al Chet.’

In addition to the course material, the participants were encouraged to develop a sense of community.

Each session began with a dinner. The group had a joint Shabbat dinner together, and members were paired up for smaller Shabbat dinners at home.

The members developed a bond with each other, an increased enthusiasm for volunteering and a greater sense of their Jewish identity. Jerry Lopatin and Rabbi Berkenwald helped participants crystallize their current and future roles in the community. The students gained leadership skills and a greater sense of what makes a good leader.

All felt deep gratitude to the course leaders for their preparation and efforts to make the Sulam course successful.

For more information on Congregation Sinai, visit sinai-sj.org or call (408) 264-8542.

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All area codes are 408 unless otherwise noted.

ONGOING EVENTS TUESDAYS Classic Jewish Texts APJCC, 9:30 AM Rabbi Joey Felsen of the Jewish Study Network guides students through the fundamental works of Maimonides, Luzzato, and other classic commentators.

No Hebrew necessary. This is a free, drop-in class. No need to register. 358-3636 Israeli Folk Dancing Emanu-El, 7:30 PM, 9/2, 9/16 See ad on page 7.

WEDNESDAYS Rambam Roundtable APJCC, 10:30 AM Maimonides (Rambam), the 12th-century Jewish scholar, wrote the Guide of the Perplexed as a three-volume letter to his student. The Guide is a classic work of Jewish philosophy, written in coded and intentionally deceptive language. This is a free, dropin class. No need to register. jenessa@svjcc.org, 358-363 Meditation Shir Hadash, 10:30 AM See article on page 4.

THURSDAYS Silicon Valley Beit Midrash Sinai, 9:30-11 AM Join Rabbi Josh Berkenwald for in-depth study of Jewish thought, belief, and practice.

No fee; drop-ins are welcome; no experience necessary.

Schedule subject to change.

Please check the Sinai Silicon Valley Beit Midrash event listing for up-to-date information.

Office@Sinai-SJ.org, 264-8542

UPCOMING EVENTS SUNDAY, JULY 20 Knitzvah APJCC, 10:30 AM Knitzvah is a JFS volunteer group of knitters, crocheters and seamstresses of all ages.

They meet monthly to create beautiful handmade creations.

Knitzvah distributes these gifts to 18 nonprofits. All ages and levels of experience are welcome. Come and be a part of this dynamic group or donate yarn to help them meet the needs of our community. loric@jfssv.org, 556-0600 TUESDAY, JULY 22 PJ Library Goes to the Park!

Oak Meadow Park Los Gatos, 10 AM Meet us at the Picnic Area #3.

There will be crafts, story time and the first 30 kids to RSVP get a FREE ride on the Billy Jones Wildcat Railroad!

There may be a fee for parking charged by the City of Los Gatos. RSVP is a must for this fun-filled event. arielle@jvalley.org, 358-3033 FRIDAY, JULY 25 Happy Hour and Kabbalat Shabbat Sinai, 6 PM Wine and appetizers (adult and child-friendly) followed by evening services. Come as you are whenever you can.

Office@Sinai-SJ.org, 264-8542.

SATURDAY, JULY 26 Jewish Artists Group Beth David, 1:30 PM First Meeting! Artists from CBD and the greater Jewish Community are invited to attend this discussion group.

This meeting will include a presentation by Paul Freudenthal on “artists listen in the Torah.” We will also introduce ourselves, tell each other a bit about our own art and discuss topics for future meetings. No need to RSVP for this meeting. Just show up. cbd.artists@beth-david.org, 257-3333 MONDAY, JULY 28 CSH goes to Jewish Heritage Night with the SF Giants Shir Hadash, 5 PM The game against the Pittsburgh Pirates begins at 7:15 p.m., but the pregame festivities begin at Seals plaza at 5 p.m. and include music and food for purchase. This year’s giveaway item is a limited edition Giants mezzuzah…very cool! $40/person. For tickets or more information: 358-1751, Shanda@shirhadash.org FRIDAY, AUGUST 1 Shabbat Service – Tisha B’Av Program Shir Hadash, 8 PM See ad on page 10.

FRIDAY, AUGUST 15 Happy Hour and Kabbalat Shabbat Sinai, 6 PM Wine and appetizers (adult and child-friendly) followed by evening services. Come as you are whenever you can.

Office@Sinai-SJ.org, 264-8542 SUNDAY, AUGUST 17 Knitzvah APJCC, 10:30 AM Knitzvah is a JFS volunteer group of knitters, crocheters and seamstresses of all ages.

They meet monthly to create beautiful handmade creations.

Knitzvah distributes these gifts to 18 nonprofits. All ages and levels of experience are welcome. Come and be a part of this dynamic group or

donate yarn to help them meet the needs of our community. loric@jfssv.org, 556-0600 Jewish Artists Group 2 PM Artists from the Jewish Community are invited to this discussion group. This meeting will be at the home studio of glass artist Crystal Ouzillou.

RSVP required: (517) 576-8340, crystalo@trezora.com FRIDAY, AUGUST 22 Kabbalat Shabbat Lunch APJCC, Noon Kabbalat Shabbat Lunches are open to all adults 55+.

Come enjoy the afternoon, share lunch with friends and make new ones. Each month the APJCC offers a luncheon and entertainment for your pleasure. Lunches are catered

by House of Bagels and served at noon unless stated otherwise. Reservations are required. Each month features a presentation to educate and entertain, from music and opera to lectures and workshops. You’ll walk away with a smile on your face.

358-3636 BBQ and Barchu Beth David, 5 PM See ad on page 16.

SUNDAY, AUGUST 24 Men’s Night Out…Ready, Set, Go K1 Speed, 6 PM See ad on page 10.

FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 5 Sinai’s Back-to-Shul Open House Night, Kabbalat Shabbat, and Dinner Sinai, 5:30 PM 5:30 p.m. Open House; 6 p.m.

Wine and Appetizers Reception Musical Kabbalat Shabbat; 7 p.m. Shabbat Dinner (by RSVP). Come experience the warmth of our Sinai community. Welcome Shabbat, take a tour of our beautiful campus, and learn about all that Congregation Sinai has to offer. Shabbat Dinner following Services. RSVP required by Tuesday, September 2. Half price for prospective members.

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FEE for Shabbat Dinner–Early Bird Special: $20/adult (age 13 and up), $5/child (age 5-12), free for children under age 5. $54 maximum/family.

Office@Sinai-SJ.org, 264-8542 Back-to-School Family Service Shir Hadash, 7 PM See ad on page 10.

SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 6 Informal Shabbat Service– Preparing for the High Holy Days Shir Hadash, 10:30AM See ad on page 10.

SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 13 Emergency Preparedness Shabbat Sinai, 9 AM City of San Jose police officers will be present to lead us in our annual mock evacuation drill during Shabbat services.

Office@Sinai-SJ.org, 264-8542 SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 14 The Munch Around Chinatown & North Beach Scavenger Hunt San Francisco, 2 PM Discover the gourmet delights of Chinatown and North Beach. This hunt features the opportunity to taste various foods throughout the neighborhood while you tackle tricky, humorous questions about the places you visit. You get to decide what treats to eat: the price does not include food purchases. Teams will need to bring a digital camera. $75 fee includes $50 taxdeductible donation. 556-0600 SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 20 Selichot Program with Film Screening Sinai, 8 PM The month of Elul is a time of introspection for us as we prepare for the High Holy Days. The Selichot service includes prayers to inspire self-examination, confession, pardon and renewal. Following Havdallah, a movie will be shown and Rabbi Berkenwald will lead a discussion. Selichot Services will begin at 10 p.m.

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Shir Hadash Selichot Program Shir Hadash, 8 PM Call Nadine for more information. 358-1751 x5, nadine@shirhadash.org Selichot Service at Sinai Sinai, 10 PM The month of Elul is a time of introspection for us as we prepare for the High Holy Days. The Selichot service includes prayers to inspire self-examination, confession, pardon, and renewal. Preceded at 8 p.m. by a film screening and discussion with Rabbi Berkenwald. Office@Sinai-SJ. org, 264-8542 Knitzvah APJCC, 10:30 AM Knitzvah is a volunteer group of knitters, crocheters and seamstresses. All ages and levels of experience are welcome. Come and be a part of this dynamic group or donate yarn to help them meet the needs of our community. loric@jfssv.org, 556-0600 APJCC Annual Meeting APJCC Auditorium, 7 PM There will be reports on the past year (fiscal year 201314) and election of new board members. Please bring photo ID to get in the door. jenny@svjcc.org, 358-3636

THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 25 Tashlikh at Los Gatos Creek Trail Los Gatos, 5 PM Sinai’s Tashlikh ceremony takes place on the first day of Rosh Hashanah to observe the Jewish tradition of throwing breadcrumbs into the water to symbolically cast away our sins for the New Year. This Tashlikh service is also an opportunity for our community to come together for singing, storytelling, and a leisurely walk to Los Gatos Creek. Meet in the Sinai parking lot at 5 p.m. Bring your own crumbs.

Join the Sinai community for a spiritual, joyful and life-affirming New Year. All members and guests will need to present a High Holy Day ticket for admittance. FREE TICKETS for non-affiliated Bay Area residents who have not previously attended High Holy Day services at Congregation Sinai. Please contact Synagogue Administrator Joelle Pluemer for more information.

We welcome you to join us

for a meaningful experience regardless of background or affiliation. 264-8542 Rosh Hashanah Mincha/Arvit Evening Service Sinai, 6:45 PM See ad on page 15.

FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 26 Rosh Hashanah Second Day Shacharit (Morning Service) Sinai, 8:30 AM See ad on page 15.

Rosh Hashanah Second Day Shofar Service Sinai, 10:30 AM See ad on page 15.

Rosh Hashanah Second Day Youth Programs Sinai, 10:30 AM See ad on page 15.

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Questions about upcoming events?

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WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 24 Erev Rosh Hashanah Sinai, 6:45 PM See ad on page 15.

THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 25 Rosh Hashanah First Day Shacharit (Morning Service) Sinai, 8:30 AM See ad on page 15.

Rosh Hashanah First Day Youth Programs Sinai, 10:30 AM See ad on page 15.

Rosh Hashanah First Day Shofar Service Sinai, 10:30 AM See ad on page 15.

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Meet the new Yavneh Day School head of school On July 1, Zvi Weiss was welcomed as the new head of school at Yavneh Day School. Mr. Weiss, who has over 35 years of experience in a variety of school settings (most recently as director of early childhood and family education at the Oshman Family Jewish Community Center in Palo Alto), was happy to take time out to answer a few questions about his new role.

Q: What do you feel is the importance of a Jewish Day School education?

A: A few years ago I was sitting at a Seder with extended family. My children were the only ones at the table who attended Jewish day school. As I reflected on the reading about the four children, I looked at my own four children, who unlike the others at the table, were active participants in this ritual. As we went around reading the verses of the Hagaddah, my first grader was able to cold-read her part in Hebrew, my second grader corrected my father-in-law when he took a few liberties with his recounting of the Exodus. My sixth grader pondered which Pharoah might have been ruling based on his recent studies of ancient Egypt, and my eighth grader related the plight of the Israelites to issues of modern slavery. It was that evening, while their peers couldn’t wait to eat dinner, that I realized the meaning that I had brought to my children by gifting them a Jewish day school education. As I look at my eldest who is in college today, I see a young woman who has friends of all different backgrounds and is secure in her own identity. My children, and their friends, are the future leaders of our people. Their education has provided them with community, identity and knowledge. I am excited to help lead an institution to bring this gift to the Silicon Valley Jewish community.

Q: Could you share with us your vision for Yavneh for the future? How will Yavneh continue to distinguish itself from other schools?

A: At Yavneh, it is important that we continue to arm our students with the skills and tools to help them in the future. These tools come in the form of strong academics, such as language arts, humanities, math and computer science as well as personal tools, such as confidence, integrity and a strong sense of self. I envision our classes morphing into innovation labs, where students not only absorb knowledge, but create new knowledge. I envision continuing the tradition of a caring community that celebrates Jewish values and tradition and nurtures the whole child. Our graduates will be confident academically, socially, physically and spiritually and become leaders wherever their educational journey will continue and in whatever field they choose.

Q: As you begin your role as head of school and get ready for the 2014-2015 school year, what is your impression of Yavneh Day School?

A. From my initial visit to the school, it became clear to me that the Yavneh community has learned an important lesson in empathy.

The warmth and kindness with which I was greeted by everyone created a bond of trust along with an excitement at the potential within this amazing community. My first impressions have been

further validated as it has become very clear to me that Yavneh has the support of engaged families and community, enthusiastic students, excellent faculty and staff and dedicated leaders and volunteers.

My first impressions of our school lead me to feel that I have met my “beshert” (destined partner) in Yavneh.

Q: Would you share a bit of your educational philosophy?

A: I believe the most important goal of education is to inspire curiosity, critical thinking, problem solving and creativity. Teaching should encourage students to follow their curiosity, investigate, experiment, take risks and not be afraid to fail in the process.

When we achieve these goals, students feel confident and comfortable in their learning and also in themselves. These are characteristics they take with them to high school and beyond.

I have devoted my life to a vision of education that celebrates each child as a competent individual with a unique learning style. I am passionate about Jewish education that engages children in Jewish life, builds a meaningful relationship with Israel and provides a lens that enhances quality of life and learning while growing the future of the Jewish people. A school should be defined not only as a place of stellar academics, but as a place where children feel excited, happy, safe and loved.

I believe that one of the best ways that schools can encourage educational excellence is by creating communities in which teachers are continuing to learn and teach each other and in which parents are encouraged to continue on their own educational journeys.

Q: What do you see as Yavneh’s greatest strengths?

A: Some of Yavneh’s strengths include: academic excellence, which is the result of a culture where students are eager to learn and solve problems; an educational program that is based on Jewish values and tradition, one that offers its students a Jewish lens through which to explore the world in which we live; outstanding teachers who are dedicated to educating our children; families who believe in the school and its future, and of course, children who are some of the smartest on the planet!

Also, Yavneh is a primary community for most families, many of whom have no extended family living locally. By fostering schoolbased relationships, we are creating a “village” for our families while supporting our children beyond the physical walls of the school.

Q: What do you see as the greatest challenge?

A: While Yavneh Day School has been in existence for over thirty years, it is still a young school in many ways. We need to focus on continual improvement and growth so as to continue to provide a stellar program. I believe that all of us who are stakeholders need to share the Yavneh story more intentionally across the community. Yavneh is a gem of a school. We should be confident and enthusiastic in telling others about who we are and how we prepare young people for lives of purpose and service.

Q: Anything else you would like to share?

A: My two middle school-age daughters will be transferring to the school this Fall. While they have had a great experience at their current day school, I am excited that they will be able to benefit from a Yavneh education!

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Philip L. Hammer

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obituaries Rosalyn “Roz” Applebaum June 9, 1932 - May 31, 2014

Roz passed away nine days before her 82nd birthday, after complications from a fall while visiting Syosset, NY. Roz loved life and people, uplifting all with her kindness, joy and genuine concern for others. Her family has received an outpouring of love from hundreds whom she touched, inspired or encouraged with her positive energy and humor.

Roz was born in Brooklyn, NY, where she graduated from Thomas Jefferson High School. She was an opera singing prodigy, and at age 17, auditioned for Arturo Toscanini and won one of two NBC voice scholarships. Soon after, her father passed away, and she left the scholarship program but continued to train. She met her husband Bob while working at a bank across from the NBC building in New York City, and chose to pour all of her love into having a family rather than pursue an international career in opera. Roz and Bob lived their lives in New York in Manhattan, Brooklyn, Laurelton, and Syosset, before moving to San Jose in 1998.

Jacob and Sarah, all whom affectionately called her “Bubbe.”

She is preceded in death by her brother Benjamin Nadel. She treasured children and the promise they represent, while spending each of her days teaching, volunteering and being an all around “mensch.”

“Project Rozzie” was set up to honor her memory by encouraging donations to organizations that provide scholarships and support for young opera singers, and the sponsorship of community visits to seniors. More information can be found at: http://www. projectrozzie.org.

Ira Ruskin

November 12, 1943 - July 3, 2014 Ira Ruskin, a former state Assembly member and Redwood City mayor, died peacefully at home after a three-year battle with brain cancer. He was 70.

Ruskin is survived by Cheryl Perman, his wife of 40 years, his sister and several friends; the couple did not have any children.

Ruskin was born in New York City and moved to Miami when he was 13. He headed West to study at UC Berkeley, where he was involved in the Free Speech Movement and became an advocate for civil rights, women’s rights and environmental causes.

He graduated from UC Berkeley in 1968 and went on to earn a master’s degree in communications from Stanford in 1983. He worked as a marketing and communications consultant before entering politics.

His death before the holiday weekend saddened many.

Roz is survived by her loving husband, Bob, with whom she celebrated 50 years of marriage in May; adoring sons Matthew of Johnson, VT, Jeff (Johanna) of Los Gatos, CA, and Barry (Rhonda) of Potomac, MD and grandchildren Jackson, Josh, Isaac, Elias,

From 1995 to 2004, Ruskin served as a member of the Redwood City Council, serving as mayor from 1999 to 2001. He became known for his efforts to improve downtown, build a fire station in Redwood Shores and strengthen relationships between the city and local schools.

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BIRTHS Yuval Frank was born on June 14 to Noam & Roni Frank of Tel Aviv. He is the grandson of Dale & Meira Frank of Haifa and the great-grandson of Barbara Frank of San Jose’s Congregation Sinai.

The baby weighed over 7 pounds and the Frank family is celebrating together in Israel!

Sinai members Rita & Jerry Jacobson are kvelling over the birth of their greatgranddaughter Miriam Aidel Jacobson in Lakewood, NJ. She weighed seven pounds seven ounces and was born June 18 . She is the daughter of Hananya & Mindy Jacobson, the sister of Refoel Jacobson, 2, and the granddaughter of Rabbi David & Emily Jacobson of Los Angeles.

CALLED TO THE TORAH Phillip Salowe, son of Naomi & Jeff Salowe, was called to the Torah as a Bar Mitzvah on June 14 at Congregation Sinai. He will be in the eighth grade at Yavneh Day School in the fall. His brother Aaron enters the sixth grade at Yavneh and his sister Leilani will be in the third grade. Phillip enjoys all sports; he swims and plays water polo at the Bellwood Cabana club.

He enjoys flag football, is an avid reader and recently participated in a triathlon for Jenny’s Light. For his mitzvah project, Phillip will donate money to the Second Harvest Food Bank. Phillip was pleased to have his Aunt Peggy & Uncle Joel Kundin from Pittsburgh, PA and his Aunt Robyn Shaffer from Baltimore, MD as well as his grandmother Sharon Kundin from the Villages of San Jose on hand for this special occasion.

SIMCHAS

David Shamis, son of Artiom & Alla Shamis, was called to the Torah as a Bar Mitzvah on June 21 at Congregation Sinai. David is entering the eighth grade at Yavneh Day School.

He is the older brother of Mark who is also a student at Yavneh. In addition to studying hard and playing video games, David enjoys gymnastics and water polo. For his mitzvah project he will be donating money to the East Bay Sanctuary. David’s parents were born in Ukraine; he and his brother were born in Israel. His grandparents, Natalia & Vladimir Shamis, came from Netanya, Israel to celebrate this special occasion with him.

WEDDINGS Rick & Ann Taven of Saratoga are pleased to announce the marriage of their son Dan to Melissa Knudsen on June 22 in the beautiful mountains of Tahoe Sierra. Rabbi Daniel Pressman of Congregation Beth David completed a life-cycle trifecta, having officiated at Dan’s bris and Bar Mitzvah and now his wedding!

The couple will live in their new home in Needham, MA after a honeymoon on Kauai. Melissa graduated from Boston University’s Goldman School of Dental Medicine and now practices dentistry in Westborough, MA. After graduating from the Cornell University School of Hotel Administration, the Culinary Institute of America and working for restaurant companies around the country, Dan is planning his own first restaurant in the Boston area.

Carly Steinberg and David Ghodsizadeh celebrated their aufruf at Congregation Sinai on June 28 and were married at Boulder Ridge Golf Club on June 29 at a ceremony officiated by Rabbi Josh Berkenwald. Her parents are Fran & Mark Steinberg of Davis, CA and his parents are Yousef & Rita Ghodsizadeh of Ohio. His sister Raphaela Mellman and her husband Jason Mellman came from Israel along with nephew Nadav; his other sister Odiela of NY was also in the wedding. The happy couple honeymooned in Maui for two weeks.

Please send announcements and photos to Andrea Greyber at andrea.greyber@gmail.com or phone her at (408) 377-6224.

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