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from the ceo Emerging from the chuppah With each milestone, we emerge a different person. Whether it is the benefit of experience, the joy of a simcha (celebration) or the advancement of one’s education, our milestones mark the times in life during which we grow. Our growth may happen emotionally, physically or intellectually, but marking this growth and these special times is a tradition that we carry, not just as individuals, but as people of the Jewish faith.

In Judaism, marking one’s special occasions is a integral part of personal growth. I am looking forward to my granddaughter Neve’s Bat Mitzvah this month and just recently attended my granddaughter Maya’s Siddur Ceremony at Yavneh Day School. This ceremony celebrates a first grader’s understanding of the importance of the Siddur and the weight behind Jewish prayer.

During the ceremony, Rabbi Laurie Hahn Tapper spoke of the Jewish tradition of standing beneath the chuppah (canopy). She mentioned that the chuppah doesn’t just represent a protective covering for the individuals standing beneath, but that it also represents the change we experience while under it. It is common for Jewish life ceremonies, not just marriages, to encompass a time when the people involved in the ceremony step beneath a chuppah.

When emerging from this covering, you emerge a different person, one who has grown through this life event or milestone.

Watching my grandchildren develop their own love for Judaism and go through these beautiful experiences reminds me of how important each life event is. Many of our celebrations are observed once in a lifetime and it is important that we take the time to enjoy and recognize the moments—they don’t last long. Whether you observe with quiet reflection, giddy celebration or a prayer close to the heart, remember to enjoy every milestone.

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Milestones and memories 7 Jewish Music Festival 8 Bonnie Stone exhibit at UC Santa Cruz 10 A new twist on the Talmud 10 Cherie Ravel joins the JCC staff 11 “Fiddler on the Roof” comes to Morgan Hill 13 JFS helps low-income households with taxes 13 Centerpeieces for Tzedekah 13 Scholar-in-Residence at Beth David 14 Paula Marsh is Emeth’s new principal 14 A tomato on the Seder plate 17 Silicon Valley Jewish Film Festival 23 South Bay Teen Idol 2013 23 Changing our community 24 Jewish cemetery expanded 25 New president at Shir Hadash 25 Pillars 2013 engages community 26 Santa Cruz Hillel hires new director 26 Yom Hashoah commemoration 27 Israel trip planned for January 2014 29

Community photos Recipe column Rabbi’s column Simchas Ask the Clergy Older Adults Datebook Obituaries Professional Directory

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Graduation Specials SPHDS celebrates graduates Congratualtions from Yavneh

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Former Executive Director of Hillel of Silicon Valley and 2013 Pillars of the Community Honoree Sue Maltiel

Barbara & Chuck Taubman, Alan & Pat Werba, and Sandy Mayer at the 2013 Pillars of the Community

Community Freedom Seder March 31, 2013

260 participants enjoyed the Seder led by Rabbis Daniel Pressman and Ilana Baird.

Rabbi Sheldon Lewis and Boris Kelman greet each other.

Daniela and Anat Baird chant the four questions.

Rabbi Ilana Baird blesses one of the four cups of wine.

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Yavneh’s K and JK classes joined together for a fun Seder.

The thriving guitar club played music and sang for the nearly 100 grandparents and friends who celebrated Generations Day at Yavneh.

Yavneh first graders performed during the Yom Ha’atzmaut celebration.

Yavneh fourth graders performed Sisu Et Yerushalayim.

JCRC delegation to the national Jewish Council for Public Affairs Plenum in Washington D.C., with Sister Simone Campbell of “Nuns on the Bus,” following her talk about the budget Gavi Fine, University of Arizona student, at the as a moral document. From left to right: 2013 AIPAC National Conference in Washington Einat Bauman, Harold Goldberg, Sr. Simone, D.C., with U.S. Senator John McCain of Arizona Marci Gerston, Geoff Jackson, Diane Fisher

JCRC board members Rob Chaykin and Harry Cornbleet joined with Islamic Networks Group Executive Director Maha ElGenaidi, at the ING 20th Anniversary Gala. Harry serves as a Jewish speaker on the ING Interfaith Speakers Bureau.

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Milestones and memories: the celebration begins!

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By Eleanor Weber Dickman

proclamation from Representative Mike Honda.

Gold and burgundy balloons framed the front entrance to Congregation Beth David, signaling a festive celebration was about to begin. This inaugural event for the 50th anniversary drew a great crowd. Members old and young, long-time and newly-joined, greeted each other with smiles and hugs. For fifty years, this congregation has been serving as a beacon of Conservative Judaism. More importantly, Beth David has been a meaningful touchstone of warm community based on common religious spirit, decades-old friendships, and strong commitments to service, tsedakah, mitzvah, and tikkun olam.

Sandy Mayer, a longtime leader of the congregation, and the chair of the 50th Anniversary year of celebration shared her memories as a long-time supporter and “doer” in the congregation, and spoke about Beth David as a spiritual and social community. Dorothy Dorsay shared with the guests the development of social action outreach at Beth David, including housing the homeless, establishing a very successful “Mitzvah Day” tradition of community service, and conducting programs of tolerance at various community public schools.

Iris Bendahan, current Religious School director, presented a testimonial in recognition of all the school’s teachers and principals, past and present, including the planting of trees in Israel in their honor. Gifts were given to each teacher. Ritual Director Barbara Biran and children from Beth David’s Religious School performed songs of celebration.

Then it was time to unveil the “time capsule” and plan the creation of a new time capsule to be opened 50 years hence, for the 100th anniversary of the congregation. Oops! No capsule could be found. Not to worry, however, David Hoffman assured the congregation. Plans were unveiled regarding a new building program for the synagogue, spearheaded by the Tavan and Skilken families. David promised that the congregation would compile new items of historic and ceremonial significance to be put into a new time capsule which, this time, will be buried in a well-identified location.

Celebratory cake made by congregant Susan Leitner with edible photos for the celebration At the sign-in table, guests received a program booklet with trivia questions and member profiles guaranteed to encourage folks to chat with both well-known friends and casual acquaintances. The hallway to the classrooms—Memory Lane—was decorated with photos of graduating Religious School students from decades past, as well as mural displays of Beth David’s history, examples of Jewish values, seasonal celebrations, and symbols of holiday celebrations. Throughout the building guests could see the past unfold through posters of the living timeline showcasing world and congregation events from 1963 to 2013.

At the end of the hall, a profoundly compelling display of the dark days of the Holocaust was enlivened by stories of courage, survival, family memories and hopes for the future.

After guests had had time to study the various types of history bound up in the life of the congregation, everyone was invited to the Social Hall for an abundant and sumptuous dessert buffet. Highlighting the noshes were three cakes―two displaying the 50th Anniversary logo, and one, created by Susan Leitner, with edible photographic memories of Beth David’s history.

Founders Jerry Daniel, Frederica Postman, and Edith and Nat Kellman shared their memories of the early days of Beth David’s history―moving from place to place until the congregation found its permanent home on Prospect Road. Each family (also including Herb and Ruth Dreifuss) shared the same motivation for wishing to establish a new Conservative congregation: the desire for their children to receive a quality Jewish education and the desire to develop a synagogue in the neighborhood where many of them lived. The stories they told had many elements of humor, as well as courage, persistence, and fellowship.

Saratoga councilmember Chuck Page brought a resolution and a proclamation from the City congratulating Beth David on its strength and endurance. Beth David Board President David Hoffman read a

Rabbi Pressman discussing what CBD means to him and to the community Rabbi Daniel Pressmen, who has led Congregation Beth David since 1981, described what the synagogue has meant to him and what he believes it means to our entire community. Then it was time for champagne, sparkling cider, cake and tributes from congregants and invited guests, as a community united by proud memories commemorated its past and vowed commitment for an even more successful future. There definitely is, as our motto proudly proclaims, “a place for [each of] us at CBD!” Let’s celebrate!

This special event, produced and directed by Jackie Klein, was the result of the many contributions by volunteer committee members and Congregation Beth David staff. The event committee included Marilyn Ader, Iris Bendahan, Lori Cinnamon, Eleanor Dickman, Rhonda Farber, Sofia Filshtinsky, Miriam and Charlie Marr, and Robin Penn.

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summertime Springtime sorbets

By Shoshana Ohriner Now that the weather has warmed up it feels like summer is right around the corner. One of the wonderful things about living in California is the abundance of wonderful produce available year round. Even so, I get especially excited when I see the first of the summer fruits appearing in the farmers market. I can never resist buying far too much to just eat, which is why I am always looking for good recipes to highlight the perfection of the summer produce. Sorbet and other frozen treats are some of my favorite ways to cool off and feature summer produce. On a hot summer’s day a heavy dessert is much less appealing to me than a bright and refreshing sorbet and the simplicity of a homemade sorbet allows the fruit to truly shine.

This sorbet captures the essences of fresh apricots but concentrates the flavors by roasting the fruit with a bit of honey before blending it into the sorbet. The sorbet has an intense flavor with perfect balance sweetness and tartness.

If you want to make this sorbet but do not have an ice cream maker, you can find my method for making smooth creamy ice cream and sorbet at http://www.couldntbeparve. com/2011/11/coffee-ice-cream-and-how-to-make-great-ice-cream-without-an-ice-creammaker/.

For more refreshing and delicious frozen dessert recipes including tarragon grapefruit sorbet, s’more ice cream sandwiches and strawberry basil popsicles go to http://www. couldntbeparve.com/recipe-index/all-recipes/.

Roasted Apricot Sorbet 12 medium apricots, halved and pitted 2 tablespoons honey 2 tablespoons margarine 2 tablespoons dark brown sugar 1/2 cup sugar 1 cup water 1 teaspoon amaretto liqueur Preheat oven to 375. Place apricots cut side up in a 10-inch oven-proof pan making sure they fit snugly. Drizzle the honey over the apricots. Place a small bit of margarine in each apricot cavity (where the pit was). Sprinkle the apricots with the brown sugar and bake for 15 minutes.

Increase the oven temperature to 400 degrees and baste the apricots with the pan juices.

Continue cooking, basting every 10 minutes, until the apricots begin to caramelize and the juice thickens to a saucy consistency, about 45 minutes total.

Remove apricots from the oven and let cool. While the apricots are cooling combine the water and sugar in a small saucepan. Bring the mixture to a boil, stirring to dissolve the sugar. Remove from the heat and cool.

In a blender combine the roasted apricots, sugar syrup and amaretto. Blend until the mixture is smooth. Cool completely in the refrigerator and then freeze in an ice cream maker according to the manufacturer’s directions.

Remove from the ice cream maker and place in a freezer container in the freezer for at least several hours to firm up. Remove from the freezer 10 minutes before serving to give the sorbet time to soften.

Rabbi Shoshana Ohriner is the creator and author of the popular blog Couldn’t Be Parve, specializing in naturally delicious dairy-free desserts. Her recipes have been published in a variety of publications and websites, including the Jewish Week and Kosher.com. Shoshana is the mother of two young boys, Ari and Eli, and married to Rabbi Philip Ohriner.

Silicon Valley Jewish Music Festival: come and celebrate on June 23 Come and celebrate with the Jewish community as we welcome back the Silicon Valley Jewish Music Festival. On June 23, from 3 to 8 p.m. at the AddisonPenzak Jewish Community Center, some of the best Jewish and Israeli bands, as well as some wonderful local acts, will all be performing on one stage at this outdoor event. Performers this year include Dan Nichols and Eighteen, The Moshav Band, and Six13. There will also be a wide selection of tasty food (kosher available), innovative vendors, and community activity booths with entertainment for the whole family.

“The Silicon Valley Jewish Music Festival is a chance to bring everyone together and celebrate,” noted Rabbi James Greene of the APJCC. “This event is a great chance to entertain the family and spend a day outdoors with beautiful weather. The Festival promises to be a fun way for the entire community to get together and appreciate great music and great food in our community.”

The music festival opens at 3:00 p.m. with some local bands, including the Klezmakers, a Palo Alto-area klezmer group. The afternoon continues with Dan Nichols and Eighteen, an internationally acclaimed Jewish folk-rock musician. Later in the day, NYCbased a capella group Six13 will bring their unique style and sound to the stage. Finally, the event is headlined by The Moshav Band, a top-selling Israeli reggae-rock group based in Moshav Modi’in outside of Jerusalem. “Our line-up this year includes such a wide variety of music—folk, a capella, rock, reggae, klezmer,” says Jenessa Schwartz, program director for the Center for Jewish Life and Learning. “And what’s truly amazing is that all of these artists are Jewish. They are helping to redefine Jewish music which is so much more than just Barbara Streisand and Fiddler on the Roof.”

Admission to the Silicon Valley Jewish Music Festival is $5 for JCC members, $7 general admission the day of the event, and free for children 4 and under. Food and drinks will be available for purchase.

Ample free parking will be available at the APJCC, 14855 Oka Road, Los Gatos, with overflow parking available at the church next door.

The SV Jewish Music Festival is organized by the Addison-Penzak JCC’s Center for Jewish Life & Learning. The Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley, the Koret Foundation, and the Taube Foundation are co-sponsors.

For a detailed schedule and more information about the music festival,visit www.SiliconValleyJCC.org/ music or call (408) 357-7411.

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Enrich your soul, Stimulate your brain !

Happy Shavuot!

Late night Shavuot study.

May 14, 2013. 10pm – midnight.

Featuring study, a sing down, milk tasting, cheesecake and other treats.

Community Learner’s Shabbat. June 1, 2013.

10:30am-12:30pm. Learn about the Shabbat morning service. Questions are welcome.

Big Basin Camping Weekend.

June 14-16, 2013. Join us for a spiritual and fun weekend at Big Basin Redwoods State Park.

Hike and Informal Shabbat. July 27, 2013. Join us for a hike and an informal Shabbat service at the shaded Ohlone area in Sanborne Park in the Santa Cruz Mountains, off Big Basin Way. Senior Driver’s Ed Classes. May 21 and 23, 2013.

9am-1pm. Join us for the acclaimed AARP Driver Safety program. In two 4 hour sessions, drivers 50 and older, will receive valuable advice that will not only help them become better drivers but can also lower their car insurance.

For more information on services, programs and adult ed please visit shirhadash.org or call 408-358-1751

Congregation Beth David There’s a Place for Me at CBD

We have activities for all! Visit www.Beth-David.org and click on Calendar to see all we have to offer; or select Special Interest Calendars for dedicated listings.

Israel Cultural Fair

Sunday, May 12th at 10:00 am Experience the costumes, flavors and traditions of Israel’s cultural melting pot.

Booths * Hands-on Activities * Ethnic Foods * Scavenger Hunt Fair concludes with Zimriya/Rikudiya performance Fun for all ages!

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Tuesday, May 14th 9pm - Midnight Diaspora and Return: The Journey Home Welcome the holiday through prayers, then stay for inspiring learning with our Rabbis. FREE event, but please RSVP by May 13th at www.beth-david.org/RSVP. 19700 Prospect Road, Saratoga / 408-257-3333 / www.beth-david.org Daniel Pressman, Senior Rabbi / Philip Ohriner, Assistant Rabbi

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l cal news Bonnie Stone delights the community with her art

In Her Place: Visual Narratives by Bonnie Stone April 26-June 22

By Amanda Glincher Opening: Sunday, May 12, 2-4 PM When I was asked to cover Bonnie Stone and the exhibit of her work being hosted by UC Santa Cruz, I never imagined the beautiful art, people and places I would get to view along the journey.

Memorial for Aaronette White: Friday, May 31

Bonnie is as unpretentious as they come and was kind enough to spend over an hour of her time with me, explaining not only her art and the exhibit, but the history of our local Jewish community through her eyes and the many invitations, postcards and journals she has designed for the community over the course of the last 40 years.

There is no doubt that Bonnie is a talented artist. Her work depicts women of Jewish, Japanese and African-American descent in their strongest and most vulnerable moments. Her intense use of color and imagery, as well as items specific to the different cultures allows viewers to relate to the paintings on a very personal level.

“Don’t Look”

While Bonnie’s talents as an artist are very much about relating to women and community, her personal gifts tend to extend in that direction as well. Bonnie has designed items for Chai House fundraisers, Beth David’s original PR for the site construction, the 25th Anniversary Journal Cover for Jewish Family Services, Women’s Philanthropy invitations in the 1980s and, most recently, she hosted an exhibit at the Addison-Penzak Jewish Community Center. My favorite piece of Jewish history that Bonnie shared was the collection of cartoons she created for the Jewish Community News (yes, this paper!) during the 1970s.

During the 46 years that Bonnie and her husband Lee have resided in Silicon Valley, her art, dedication and inspiration have given much to the Jewish community.

Just in time for the beautiful weather here in Northern California, UC Santa Cruz’s Cowell College will be hosting an exhibit of Bonnie’s work for nearly two months. During the process of researching the exhibit, I had the pleasure of meeting with Professor Fay Crosby, provost of Cowell College.

Just as warm and inviting a conversationalist as Bonnie, Professor Crosby allowed me to see the exhibit space and UC Santa Cruz with new eyes. The campus is a delight to visit on any day, with the vast views of the valley and extensive roads and grasslands, but exploring it with Professor Crosby was such a treat. In addition to getting to understand how the Eloise Pickard Smith Gallery manages its exhibits, I was pleased to see that so many partnerships and opportunities are created out of shows like Bonnie’s. The show has 25 sponsors, all of whom graciously gave to Cowell College in support of Bonnie Stone’s work.

Although the show opens April 26, in time for Alumni Weekend, visitors are encouraged to wait until the official opening on May 12, Mother’s Day, for the full experience.

A list of special dates and times can be found on this page, but visitors planning to view the exhibit are encouraged to contact Maria, Professor Crosby’s assistant, for parking tips or to arrange for a parking pass. Maria can be reached at (831) 459-2251.

A new twist on the Talmud

By Rabbi James Greene There is something old with a new twist coming to the Addison-Penzak Jewish Community Center: a new twist on the Talmud.

In partnership with Lehrhaus Judaica, an innovative Jewish educational organization based in the East Bay, the APJCC will begin hosting a Bay Area Talmud Circle cohort beginning in the fall. That cohort, taught by Rabbi Leslie Alexander, will meet monthly. To whet your appetite, come join Rabbi Wolf-Prusan, Lehrhaus Judaica’s senior educator for an evening of Speed Talmud! The program begins at 7:00 p.m. on June 3.

“Lehrhaus Judaica is one of the most creative Jewish organizations in the country, and their classes are beyond excellent,” said APJCC Rabbi James Greene. “Partnering with them at the JCC is a terrific opportunity for members of our community to deepen their knowledge and learn with some of the best teachers in the Bay Area.”

Speed Talmud promises that in one hour you will be able to recognize a Midrash from a Mishna and more. Yes, Speed Talmud will give you the confidence to engage in Talmudic repartee and put the bounce back in your step and a smile on your face. The cost for the evening program is $10.

You can register by contacting Jenessa Schwartz at jenessa@svjcc.org or calling (408) 357-7411.

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l cal news Cherie Ravel joins the JCC staff

Carrying the Torah Beyond Bar Mitzvah

By Rabbi James Greene, Addison-Penzak Jewish Community Center

By Rabbi Josh Lobel, Congregation Shir Hadash

Cherie Ravel is not a new face at the Levy Family Campus, but she is stepping in to a new role with the Addison-Penzak Jewish Community Center as the new older adult director. She comes to the APJCC with lots of knowledge about the South Bay and many years of experience working in the Jewish community.

Picture with me, if you will, the following hypothetical conversation, which takes place immediately following a high school graduation ceremony:

Cherie and her family have been part of the San Jose Jewish community for a long time. They have been members of Temple Emanu-El from the time Rabbi Gittin performed her wedding some 30 years ago. Her husband Michael has family roots at Emanu-El extending back even Cherie Ravel further. Cherie held many hats at Temple Emanu-El, including serving as a religious school teacher and then as executive director, in addition to numerous committees and board positions over the years.

Prior to joining the APJCC Cherie was the director of volunteer programs with Jewish Family Services of Silicon Valley. There she was responsible for the hundreds of volunteers that helped JFS serve the community. In her position at JFS she worked closely with leaders in our community to promote a Passover Food Drive or Project NOAH’s Embrace-A-Family, always keeping those with need in front of the community. Prior to working with volunteers for JFS she was the activity coordinator for senior programs where she created alliances with different senior organization for outreach and development arranging volunteer speakers and workshops at Chai House.

Cherie spoke passionately about her new role as older adult director.

“I look forward to working with the dynamic staff and volunteers at the JCC. We are obligated to give back to those that gave to us for so many years. We are standing on the shoulders of those who came before us.”

Mom – Congratulations on finishing high school!

Grad – Thanks, Mom, it was a lot of hard work, but it is finally over.

Thank goodness I will never have to study again!

Dad – You are saying you don’t want to continue your education? You were already accepted to college! Don’t you want the opportunity to pursue a more enriching and meaningful career?

Grad – No thanks. It’s not for me. I am too busy with other things right now.

Mom and Dad – No problem. You are free to make whatever decision you want. It is completely up to you.

This conversation happens all the time, but not about continuing on to college after high school. If a capable and studious teen tried to avoid going to college, most parents would fight with all their might to change their child’s mind. They would insist on the teen continuing their education, citing the many merits and benefits a college education can bring, how it would help them realize their dreams and continue to help them develop into the people they desire to be.

Instead, this theoretical conversation is an all too real discussion parents have with their teenager after they complete their bar or bat mitzvah. Once this important milestone is completed, this newly minted son or daughter of the commandments is presented with the option of continuing their Jewish education by enrolling in a synagogue’s high school program. However, too often, a teen will decline and the parents acquiesce without much protestation.

The new Older Adult Programs Department at the APJCC was funded in part by a generous grant by the Reinhard Family Foundation. The program will continue community favorites like the monthly Senior Shabbat Lunch program and Monday Movies, but it will also bring new initiatives, including a Senior Prom, new classes, and a deepening relationship with West Valley College.

Believe me, I know parents have a lot on their plate and there are only so many battles one can fight with a teenager. I am not suggesting that the teens be forced into a program they do not wish to attend, that the parents make the decision unilaterally. That will only lead to a sullen, angry teen heading to synagogue, and that is no fun for anyone!

The APJCC Chief Executive Officer Nate Stein said, “I am extremely grateful to have Cherie Ravel join our team as the new older adult program director at the APJCC. Cherie has worked within our community for several years and brings wonderful skills, considerable insight, experience and fresh ideas to this new position, as well as incredible knowledge of the Jewish community. We look forward to seeing how she will renovate and expand our existing Older Adults Program in ways that will make it more accessible, varied and enjoyable for all who participate. I believe I speak on behalf of the older adult members and the entirety of the APJCC staff that it is with great pleasure we welcome her aboard and congratulate her on this rewarding opportunity.”

What I am merely proposing is that parents not let their kids off the hook so quickly. This is a conversation that we need to be having with our teens. There are so many meaningful and formative Jewish experiences that happen after b’nei mitzvah. They may not realize it at this moment, but continuing their Jewish education after b’nei mitzvah will be a tremendous source of guidance and knowledge for them as they journey onward through life. It would be shame for them to be deprived of this experience, but, more so, it would be a blow to the future vibrancy of the Jewish people to not have active and energetic teens continuing to be involved in the Jewish world.

As we head into Shavuot, when we celebrate receiving the Torah at Mt. Sinai, let us commit to ensuring our children continue to carry the Torah in their arms long after their b’nei mitzvah have ended.

Cherie began her work at the JCC last month. She is eager to hear from community members about their needs and wants for this new program area, and can be reached at Cherie@svjcc.org. www.jvalley.org

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“Fiddler on the Roof” coming to Morgan Hill!

Congregation Emeth invites members of the Bay Area Jewish community to come to a special performance of “Fiddler on the Roof,” presented by South Valley Civic Theatre on June 9, beginning at 2:30 p.m. The production will take place at the Morgan Hill Community Playhouse, 17090 Monterey Road, in downtown Morgan Hill, close to Congregation Emeth’s temple building. The Congregation is planning an afternoon of Jewish cultural experiences in conjunction with the performance, which will benefit Congregation Emeth’s educational activities.

“Morgan Hill’s community theater is well known for its high-quality productions,” said Elizabeth Mandel, a temple board member who is coordinating the fundraiser. “When we heard they would be presenting ‘Fiddler on the Roof’ we knew we wanted to participate, both by promoting what is sure to be an outstanding performance and exposing Bay Area residents to this slice of Jewish history!”

Rabbi Debbie Israel, spiritual leader of Congregation Emeth, is serving as consultant to the production. “We hope the Jewish Community of the South Bay will attend in support of the temple and the community production,” she said. “We plan to use this opportunity to showcase the unique aspects of Jewish culture that are relevant to the production.”

For more information about the Congregation and this special event, email events@emeth.net or call (408) 778-8200.

Jewish Family Services helps low-income households get huge tax refunds This year Jewish Family Services of Silicon Valley helped 185 lowincome people filing their tax returns receive $184,995 in refunds.

That averages out to each household receiving a refund averaging about $1,000 each! As a participating VITA (Volunteer Income Tax Assistance) site JFS does this important work to increase people’s income and ensure that they get the funds they deserve.

Attention B’nai Mitzvah parents: JFS begins Centerpieces for Tzedakah

By Mindy Berkowitz Flowers are lovely, but they wilt in a few days. Why not rent beautiful JFS SV food basket Centerpieces for Tzedakah for your child’s Bar or Bat Mitzvah instead? Our talented volunteers assemble and decorate the baskets according to your color choices. The rental fee directly benefits the Project N.O.A.H. Food Assistance Program, providing food yearround for the needy in our community.

You get a gorgeous product, a teaching opportunity for your child, and the good feeling of having helped others in need. Now that’s a feeling that lasts a great deal longer than flowers! Your donation is fully tax deductible, too.

Centerpieces will be available for rental starting the fall of 2013. For more information, please contact Pam Hoffman at pjhrocks2@gmail.com or Mindy Berkowitz at (408) 357-7455 or mindyb@jfssv.org.

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l cal news Rabbi Dr. Bradley Shavit Artson: Beth David’s delightful Scholar-in-Residence 2013

Paula Marsh is new Congregation Emeth principal

By Eleanor Weber Dickman

By Rabbi Debbie Israel

Rabbi Dr. Bradley Shavit Artson, Beth David’s Scholar-in-Residence this past March, presents a deceptively deferential demeanor from the bimah before he begins to speak. Then ― by turns witty, thoughtful, provocative, compassionate ― he speaks on a wide range of topics, all with the same goal in mind: to convince his audience that a staunch commitment to the history, traditions and values of Judaism is the key to a rich and fulfilling life.

The Religious School Committee and Board of Directors of Congregation Emeth have engaged noted community Jewish educator Paula Marsh to head Emeth’s religious and Hebrew schools. Marsh will officially join the temple staff effective July 2013. The current principal, Melanie Khamis, and her family are moving to Atascadero.

His entertaining tale of his experience as installing officer during the conversions of many members of the Jewish Abayudaya Tribe of Uganda was, by turns, uplifting, poignant, and very funny. As the Dean of the Ziegler School of Rabbinic Studies of the American Jewish University in Los Angeles, Rabbi Artson oversaw the ordination of that community’s Chief Rabbi Gershom Sizomu in 2008, subsequently traveling to the village of Nabogoya where he oversaw the conversion to Conservative Judaism of 250 Africans. The congregation chuckled at many of the wry tales Rabbi Artson shared, only to discover that the tears Rabbi Artson of laughter had turned suddenly to tears of compassion and pride for a people committed wholeheartedly to its religious and tribal identity.

Rabbi Artson’s opening presentation paved the way for a weekend of fascinating talks. At Shabbat services Saturday morning, our Resident Scholar presented a fascinating discussion of the insights and truths that scientific knowledge can inspire in a “process theology” that “allows our religious faith and scientific knowledge to be allies for illumination and justice.” He brought profound and painful personal experience to the discussion, describing the challenges he faced when his belief in a compassionate G-d was tested by the difficulties he endured as the loving parent of a severely autistic son. It was a powerful story of courage and hope. It was also a stimulating discussion about the modern infusion of scientific advance into the historical power of faith.

Following Havdalah Saturday night, Rabbi Artson melded his skills as both theologian and philosopher to reinvigorate our understanding of Conservative Judaism, challenging us to embrace change with energy and enthusiasm while maintaining loyalty to our heritage with fervor and faith. He dared to suggest that we “older” folks in the congregation open wider the doors to our synagogue and then “get out of the way!” With gentle humor, he struck an appealing balance between tradition and exploration, opening our beliefs to the scientific and political truths of the day, while encouraging us to reinvest ourselves in our commitment to our religious beliefs.

“We are very happy that an educator with Paula’s experience and skills will be leading our religious schools,” said Becky Neto, chair of the education committee. “The religious school is a priority of the congregation. As Morgan Hill, Gilroy and South San Jose continue to attract young families, our religious school has been growing and we were especially looking for someone who could supervise that expansion.”

Marsh entered Jewish education in 1997, beginning as a middle school, high school, and Hebrew teacher at Temple Emanu-El in San Jose. From 2002 to 2012, she served as the director of religious school at the temple.

“We were especially appreciative of her strong organizing and managing skills,” Neto continued. “As a small congregation, we know her emphasis on communication between school and parents will fit perfectly with the culture of Congregation Emeth.”

Congregation Emeth, a Reform temple located in downtown Morgan Hill, serves the Jewish communities of South County. For more information about the congregation and its educational programs, go to www.emeth.net or call (408) 778-8200.

Sunday morning, Rabbi Artson prepared us for the coming holiday of Passover, uniting the traditional themes of this “feast of freedom” with the contemporary values of integrity and a modern commitment to “Tikkun Olam.”

A man of formidable intelligence and profoundly religious compassion, Rabbi Dr. Bradley Shavit Artson gave the Beth David community a weekend of stimulating new ideas, stillmeaningful traditions of faith, engaging insights into everyday realities, and inspiring tools with which to invest our own Jewish journeys. What an experience!

Rabbi Artson, please visit again, soon!

Rabbi Dr. Bradley Shavit Artson (www.bradartson.com) holds the Abner and Roslyn Goldstine Dean’s Chair of the Ziegler School of Rabbinic Studies and is vice president of American Jewish University in Los Angeles. A member of the Philosophy Department, he is particularly interested in theology, ethics, and the integration of science and religion. He supervises the Miller Introduction to Judaism Program and mentors Camp Ramah in California. He is the author of 10 books and over 250 articles.

Becky Neto (l), Emeth Education Chairperson, and Paula Marsha (r), Emeth’s new principal

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graduations SPHDS celebrates 2013 graduates

By Dr. Allen Selis

As the class of 2013 approaches their graduation, SPHDS celebrates a group of students who truly and deeply reflect the incredible diversity of their school.

Batyah is the daughter of a Conservative rabbi, an avid reader, a member of Congregation Kol Emeth in Palo Alto and a regular at Planet Granite’s rock climbing wall in Sunnyvale.

Yaakov is the son of an Orthodox rabbi, the leader of Palo Alto’s Congregation Emek Beracha. Witty, jovial and a great athlete, Yaakov spent years playing on some of the most competitive youth baseball teams on the South Peninsula.

Meanwhile, Dahlia brings a wonderful sense of humor as well as a truly international flair to the class of 2013. The daughter of two very welltraveled parents, Dahlia’s family blends Spanish, Hebrew and French speakers into one tightly knit, exotic mix.

And Josh? His family is a loyal member of Beth David Congregation in Saratoga, where he is active in youth group and teen study programming.

Josh is also a star math student and a devoted camper at Camp Ramah of the Rockies.

The list goes on and on. As SPHDS’s class of 2013 reaches a proud transition point in their lives, we wish them the best of success. Congratulations Dahlia Davidovits, Yaakov Feldman, Moshe Felsen, Liora Kohanteb, Talya Kohanteb, Ahuva Lebowitz, Joshua Mendel, Yakov Perlov, Zahava Preil, Hannah Razban, Batyah Selis, Menucha Volkov, Efrat Wilnai, Nathaniel Wilnai and Eliyahu Zaghi!

Our students will be attending Kehillah, Meira, Yeshiva of Greater LA and Ner Israel.

For more information on South Peninsula Hebew Day School visit www.sphds.org or call (408) 738-3060.

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graduations Yavneh Day School congratulates the Class of 2013 Yavneh Day School, founded in 1980, is located on the Levy Family Campus in Los Gatos and is proud to educate children in grades Pre-K through 8th grade.

Of the eleven 2013 graduates, six of them have been at Yavneh since Kindergarten!

In April, the class visited New York City and Washington D.C. and experienced team building, history viewing and sight seeing like never before. A picture of the group on their trip is below.

For information on Yavneh Day School visit www.yavnehdayschool.org or call (408) 984-6700.

A tomato on the Seder plate

By Joy Null In preparation for Passover this year, Yavneh middle school students explored modern slavery as it exists today in the tomato industry in America. The students reflected on the story and values of Passover and possible real and present-day applications.

Specifically they focused on the teaching found in the Haggadah and Yavneh student holds up Talmud that says, “In every generation his finished plate. it is every person’s obligation to see him or herself as if he or she personally went out from Egypt,” and if that obligation influences the choices we make in our lives when we learn about abuse and slavery today.

The students looked at this issue through the lens of all their regular subjects. For example, in math they computed the wages of tomato workers and how the Fair Food Program would affect their economic situation. In science the students explored the science of how tomatoes in Florida are grown. In English the students learned about how and why to write to a congressperson to effect change. At the end of the day, the students expressed their thoughts and feelings about freedom, liberation and modern slavery by creating a new ritual object for the Seder table: a tomato on the Seder plate.

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SIMCHAS

By Andrea Cohen Greyber

BIRTHS

Rose Poss Kashinsky was born on February 17 in NYC to Josh & Michelle Kashinsky. She is the granddaughter of Eileen Eisenberg & Marc Kashinsky of Palm Desert, CA, formerly of Sunnyvale and former Beth David members.

She is also the granddaughter of Susan Fadem and the late Rod Fadem of St. Louis, MO. Her great-grandparents are Frances Eisenberg & the late Irv Eisenberg of Voorhees, NJ, the late Kate & Dave Kashinsky of Long Beach, CA; Charlotte Sherman and the late Nat Sherman and the late Rose & Mike Fadem of St. Louis, MO. Rose is named after her grandfather Rod Fadem and great grandmother Kate Kashinsky.

Rose and her parents live in Manhattan.

CALLED TO THE TORAH

Maria Budman, daughter of Jenny Green & Scott Budman, was called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah on March 16 at Congregation Sinai. Her parsha

was Va-Yikra She is in the seventh grade at Union Middle School and is the older sister of Anna who is in the third grade at Noddin Elementary School. Maria was pleased to have her grandparents Jo & Norm Budman of Oakland and her grandmother Barbara Green of Arlington, VA join her for this milestone in her life. Her Aunt Margo Budman of Santa Rosa and Aunt Alison Green of Arlington, VA were also in attendance. In addition to her school work, Maria enjoys bike riding, cooking and studying Spanish and Russian.

Her class at Sinai is working on a project to explain re-cycling to the residents of Chai House. She is donating 25% of her Bat Mitzvah monetary gifts to the ASPCA.

Heart to the middle school campus. This club now meets Tuesdays and Thursdays at Bret Harte. His grandfather Melvin Turetzky flew in from Florida to celebrate with Connor; his grandparents, Warren & Gail Hanger watched his Bar Mitzvah live through a video link to Brisbane, Australia.

Philip MacLean, son of Wendy & Tom MacLean, was called to the Torah at Temple Beth Torah in Fremont on April 6. He is the grandson of long-time Temple Emanu-El members Bobi & Ray Levine. Philip is a seventh grade student at Centerville Junior High School and is the younger brother of Katie MacLean, 15, a student at Washington High School. Philip enjoys water polo, basketball, riding dirt bikes and playing baseball. Joining him for his special day were Uncle Arick & Aunt Bernadette Levine and Cousin Sydney of Chapel Hill, NC and Uncle Todd & Aunt Kim Levine of Tahoe.

ENGAGEMENTS

in the Leavey Business School at Santa Clara University.

David graduated CSU Chico with a Bachelor of Science in Business Administration and Operations Management, and is currently employed as a Business Analyst.

Marni is the granddaughter of the late Jerome & Joyce Swedroe and the late Hyman & Rose Simonowitz. David is the grandson of Rachel & the late Abraham Ovadia of San Francisco and Sarah & the late Joseph Levy of Boston MA. Sharing in the couple’s happiness are Marni’s sister & brother-inlaw, Rabbi Gail Swedroe & David Goodman of Gainesville, FL, her brother Jeremy and David’s brother & sister-in-law, Michael & Kim Ovadia of Concord, CA and his sister & brother-in-law, Debbie & Doug Chech of Milpitas.

SPECIAL OCCASIONS Howard Greyber celebrated his 90th birthday on April 6 with an Aliyah at Congregation Sinai.

His wife and children sponsored a Kiddish luncheon following the Shabbat morning services. A good time was had by all!

Send announcements and photos to Andrea Greyber (408) 377-6224 or agreyber@yahoo.com Connor Jacob Turetzky, son of Sharon & Gregory Turetzky, was called to the Torah as a Bar Mitzvah on March 16 at Temple Emanu-El. He is a seventh grade student at Bret Harte Middle School. His older sister is a student at Leland High School. Connor enjoys gaming with friends on Skype, playing games such as Team Fortress II and Plague. He is also an avid reader, enjoys fishing, walking his dog Dobby, and scouting activities with Troop 274. For his Bar Mitzvah project, Connor devoted much time and effort to establish an anti-bullying club at his school. Through the Silicon Valley Interschool Council which normally has affiliates in high schools, he has established a partnership to bring One Kind

Robert & Irene Swedroe of Saratoga, are excited to announce the engagement of their daughter, Marni Sara, to David Jacob Ovadia, son of Isaac & Magda Ovadia of Danville, CA. Marni graduated Magna Cum Laude from Santa Clara University, where she earned a Bachelor of Science degree in psychology. Marni is currently employed as a senior analyst and is enrolled in the MBA program

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by Cantor Meeka Simerly, Temple Emanu-El

She’elah (a question): Eich omrim “Graduation” be’Ivrit?

(How do we say “graduation” in Hebrew?)

Ha’T’shuva (the answer): Ka’sheh lim’tzoh milah achat. It is hard to find a ‘one word’ answer.)

In 2004 I finally stood proudly on the stage of San Jose State University to accept my cum laude bachelor’s degree in music education. Very few people knew that this was my first experience with such a wonderfully orchestrated, official, yet emotional (and long!) ceremony. As an Israeli, I never had experienced an American-style “graduation” and I honestly didn’t know what to expect.

In Israel, the experience of school graduation is different: we may have a party, a yearbook, our parents give us a hug and say: “yasher koach!” (go from strength to strength), and that’s about it.

Sometimes, high school graduates are given a trip to Nepal, India, South America, or other countries that we consider “exotic” because they need a little break before beginning the next stage of their lives, their army service.

Questions that occupy the young minds of Israeli high school graduates include: “In which armed forces branch will I serve? Air Force? Navy?

Cavalry? Shall I be kravi (combat) or jobnik (non-combat position, a secretary for example).

Completion of high school, college (BA) or graduate level programs are not celebrated with the same grandiose ceremonies as they are here.

That is why there isn’t a specific word for graduation in Hebrew, with the same connotation as in the United States.

However, in Israel a magnificent ceremony happens in the army, upon finishing weeks of tironut (boot camp: every division of the IDF has its own number of training weeks). There are mits’a’dim (parades, marches), marching bands, special celebratory uniforms, and flags, with everything at the highest level of military presentation. The parents are ferklempt, crying with pride, filled joy and nachas.

I tried to describe to my family in Israel my excitement of graduating SJSU, telling them how amazing the ceremony was, that we all threw our hats in the air, and that there were 5 hours of speeches, etc. They asked, “Like on TV?” I could tell that even though they tried, they couldn’t fully understand what the big deal was! I felt hurt at first, but then I understood.

In Israel, graduating high school means one thing only: “our son/ daughter is heading for 2-3 years of army service.” Graduating university means, “Now the real challenge begins: finding a job to support a family.” Somehow an ending of a schooling period does not register with Israelis as “an end,” but only as another step into the next stage of either more schooling or finding a job.

While in modern Israel, many universities and colleges (mich’la’lot) have nice graduation ceremonies, we still don’t have a specific word for this occasion, which would translate directly into the word in English portraying “Graduation.” Perhaps this approach stems from the fact that Jews are mandated to keep studying throughout their lives: we value the process and not the accomplishments. We value the essence of learning, and not the “goal” because the goal is to “continue to study” all year around. Even though graduation is important and should be celebrated, we acknowledge the accomplishment but not the end (of study).

The Talmud (Berachot 63a) states: “Anyone who is negligent in their Torah study will lack in strength on a day of distress.” This can be understood in two ways: a person who is negligent in Torah study will lack in their strength of character and will not be able to withstand the difficulties on a day of distress. Or, we can learn that a person who is negligent in their Torah study will lack merits on a day of distress and danger, and will not be able to survive.

When I finally graduated from the Academy for Jewish Religion California (AJRCA) with a Masters Degree and Cantorial Ordination, I didn’t even try to explain to my family in Israel the tremendous value this event held for me. Instead, I invited my parents to experience “celebration America style” by joining my congregation during Rosh Ha’Shana Services a few years ago, when I was blessed and invested by our Rabbi as Temple Emanu-El’s officially ordained Cantor. I think my parents finally got it – but that is a story for another article.

(I’d like to thank my friend and colleague, Rabbi Debbie Israel, for her help in editing.)

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TUESDAYS Current Events (age 55+) APJCC, 10 AM Expand your mind, discuss world events and the daily news. This group of older adults is open and always engaging. The environment is civilized and the people are always friendly. Free. cherie@svjcc.org, 357-7462 WEDNESDAYS Art History (age 55+) APJCC, 1 PM Each week focuses on a stand-alone topic and is not dependent on prior sessions. This class is offered in partnership with West Valley College.

Free. cherie@svjcc.org, 357-7462

THURSDAYS A Place to Begin: Next Steps for Seniors JFS, 2:30 PM, 5/30 and 6/27 A place to explore and learn about different aspects of seniors’ living.

Registration is required. avitala@jfssv.org, 357-7450 FRIDAYS Kabbalat Shabbat Lunches (age 55+) APJCC Auditorium, Noon, 5/31 and 6/21 Adults ages 55+ are invited to this once-a-month get-together for seniors. Enjoy a catered hot lunch followed by entertainment. $7.50/ person. lisacg@svjcc.org, 357-7492

These events are geared toward older adults, but the events on the following pages are also open to all individuals.

Please submit any events specifically for this crowd to amanda@jvalley.org or online at www.jvalley.org under “Submit your event.”

JOB OPENING Part-time Volunteer Coordinator position open at JFS Jewish Family Services of Silicon Valley is thrilled that Cherie Ravel is now working at sister agency APJCC. JFS is now seeking a Part-Time Volunteer Coordinator to coordinate agency volunteer programs. The Volunteer Coordinator will be an energized multi-tasker and team player who enjoys working with a dedicated, multicultural staff. This “people person” will have experience building and sustaining strong programs. The nature of the position is such that prior experience working with volunteers in a non-profit agency a must.

The Volunteer Coordinator develops volunteer projects and programs for families, teens, children, adult and seniors. S/he recruits, orients, assigns and retains 400 JFS volunteers annually. A special feature of this position will be recruiting “key volunteers” who run entire programs. This position spearheads Embrace-A-Family as well as many of the Project N.O.A.H. Food Assistance Program activities.

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THURSDAY, MAY 16 How to Protect Yourself from Being a Victim in Today’s World APJCC, 1 PM Join the Widow and Widowers group as Sergeant Marc Lehmann, of the Santa Clara County Sheriff’s Department, leads a session all about safety and scams in the everyday world. Learn to protect yourself from being a victim of crime. Question/ answer time after presentation. Great first event or time to experience this fantastic group! Light refreshments.

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Gail, 866-5350, Larry, 252-2323 TUESDAY- THURS, MAY 21-23 Seniors’ Drivers’ Education Classes Shir Hadash, 9 AM See ad on page 9. patty@shirhadash.org, 357-7518 FRIDAY, MAY 24 Grandpals Shabbat APJCC, 9:15 AM Help us explore and impart our rich traditions to our APJCC Preschool children. Join us for storytelling, art, songs, and Shabbat to connect the generations. Free. lisacg@svjcc.org, 357-7492 FRIDAY, JUNE 14 Alzheimer’s Family Support Group Shir Hadash, 10 AM The Alzheimer’s Association, in conjunction with the Caring Committee, offers this group for anyone trying to navigate the dayto-day difficulties of caregiving.

Support groups are most helpful for families and friends needing “helpful hints.” This group will be “caring for the caregiver,” offering support in a confidential setting. Open to the public. Drop-ins are welcome.

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ON-GOING PROGRAMS SUNDAYS Knitzvah JFS, 10:30 AM, 5/19, 6/23 and 7/21 Knitzvah is a JFS volunteer group of knitters, crocheters and seamstresses of all ages. They meet monthly to create beautiful handmade creations. Knitzvah distributes these gifts to 18 nonprofits.

All ages and levels of experience are welcome. Come and be a part of this dynamic group or donate yarn to help them meet the needs of our community. mindy@jfssv.org, 556-0600 TUESDAYS Israeli Dance Emanu-El, 7:30 PM Learn the steps and moves of basic Israeli Dance. Drop-ins & nonmembers are welcome. No prior experience needed. Our teacher, Loui Tucker, will instruct us in the names and movements needed to quickly learn the steps of popular Israeli songs. A great workout too!! Free. pjhrocks2@gmail.com, 292-0939 WEDNESDAYS Ima and Me Playgroup Sinai, 9 AM For children up to 2 years of age. Free play and socializing, followed by singing and movement. If you know of any families with infants, please invite them to join in the fun. Free. 264-8542, director@sinainurseryschool.org Lunch and Learn, Torah Study Emanu-El, Noon, 5/22 and 6/26 Bring a lunch and join Rabbi Magat as we study our way through the Torah

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together. No previous study required and new faces are always welcome. stephanie@templesanjose.org, 292-0939 Lunch and Learn Emanu-El, Noon, 6/12 Led by Rabbi Dana Magat on interesting Jewish topics. New faces always welcome. 292-0939, stephanie@templesanjose.org Lunch and Learn, Megillot Emanu-El, Noon, 5/15 and 6/19 Bring lunch and join Cantor Meeka Simerly for a unique opportunity to study excerpts from the five Megillot (scrolls): Song of Songs, Ruth, Lamentations, Ecclesiastes, and Esther.

Sessions are free and open to all. 2920939, stephanie@templesanjose.org Float Night Pool Party APJCC, 4 PM, 6/19 and 7/24 Stay cool in the pool at the JCC’s Float Night Pool Party! Admission is free to the public on Float Night, so bring friends. Food for sale from local restaurants. Flotation devices are allowed in the pool on Float Night (with the exception of water wings). diana@svjcc.org, 357-7402 THURSDAYS Silicon Valley Beit Midrash Sinai, 9:30 AM Join Rabbi Josh Berkenwald for indepth study of Jewish thought, belief, and practice. Explore the Book of Samuel. Drop-ins are welcome; no experience necessary. Free. office@sinai-sj.org, 264-8542 FRIDAYS Talmud Study with Rabbi Pressman Beth David, 8:30 AM This Talmud study group with Rabbi Pressman will continue to discuss

Tractate Berakhot (Benedictions). No registration fee; donations are welcome.

Adulted@Beth-David.org, 257-3333 Pirkei Avot: Sayings (Ethics) of the Fathers Beth David, 9:45 AM Explore ancient Jewish wisdom dealing with ethics and morals in this participant-led discussion group. No registration fee; donations are welcome.

Adulted@Beth-David.org, 257-3333 Tot Shabbat Emanu-El, 6 PM, 5/17 and 6/21 These brief services led by Rabbi Magat and Cantor Meeka Simerly feature upbeat songs, a short story, and a talk with the Rabbi on the bimah and are perfect for families with young children. Services are followed by a potluck dinner. 292-0939, stephanie@templesanjose.org

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Youth Congregation (Grades 4-7) Beth David, 10 AM, 5/11 Great for adults too! Students lead prayers, read from the Torah, and play learning/Jewish trivia games. Great training for leading services for Bar/ Bat Mitzvah or as a lay-leader in teen and adult years. Ends with treats and kiddush! biran@beth-david.org, 257-3333 Torah N’ Tefillah for 3rd-7th Graders Sinai, 10:30 AM, 5/25 Learn new melodies, explore Shabbat teachings, and hear engaging stories in this student-led junior congregation service. office@sinai-sj.org, 264-8542

Pajama Shabbat Beth David, 6 PM, 5/17 Do you have a toddler? Have you had a long week? Then come and take a break by joining us for Pajama Shabbat! This mini Kabbalat Shabbat service is geared towards tots (ages 0-5) and will feature songs, puppets, felt, story time, plus a kid-friendly Shabbat dinner! Come as you are with kids in PJs! No worries about getting dressed up – this will be a casual night for all! $10/adult; $2/child (3 and up). RSVPs are requested by the Wednesday before each event: biran@beth-david.org, 257-3333 SATURDAYS Tot Shabbat Shir Hadash, 9:30 AM, 5/18 and 6/15 shanda@shirhadash.org, 358-1751 x2

Torah Study Shir Hadash, 9:30 AM Rabbi Aron, and occasionally Rabbi Fleekop, will lead a discussion each Saturday morning. 358-1751 x5

Haverim Youth Services (K-3) Beth David, 10:30 AM, 5/11 Haverim means “friends” in Hebrew, and Haverim services are all about getting K-3rd grade friends together to celebrate Shabbat. We celebrate with lively songs, movement, stories, and values discussion which parallel the order of the ‘real’ service. We finish off with a treat-filled Kiddush. Parents always welcome to join in. crocker@beth-david.org, 257-3333 Tot Shabbat Beth David, 11:15 AM, 5/11, 5/25, 6/8 and 6/22 Ages 0-5. A fun, interactive parent-led service. Open to the whole community. crocker@beth-david.org, 257-3333

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Mussar Matters Beth David, 1:30, 5/18 and 6/15 In recent years, the Mussar Movement, with its emphasis on building character and ethical responsiveness through Jewish texts, has been rediscovered by the larger Jewish world. On the third Shabbat of each month after the Kiddush lunch, Rabbi Pressman will facilitate the exploration of a different character trait, such as: gratitude, equanimity, simplicity, and loving-kindness.

Adulted@beth-david.org, 257-3333

UPCOMING EVENTS SATURDAY, MAY 11 Rock Shabbat Emanu-El, 7:30 PM Amped-up service with music performed by Rock Shabbat band and singers. stephanie@templesanjose.org, 292-0939 B’nei Mitzvah Class of 5774 Inauguration Sinai, 9 AM B’ nei Mitzvah students of the class of 5774 will participate in leading services. Parents will be presenting their children with chumashim.

Kiddush Luncheon hosted by the Inauguration Class families.

Office@sinai-sj.org, 265-8542 Book Discussion Group – “Kosher Chinese: Living, Teaching, and Eating with China’s Other Billion” Beth David, 1:30 PM In this lively memoir of serving in the Peace Corps in Gjiyang, China, Michael Levy explores a society in flux – while mining the entertaining if familiar terrain of cross-cultural misunderstandings. He struggles to explain English terminology…and finds that the community distrusts him

not merely because he is American, but because he is Jewish. But Levy turns his perceived otherness to his advantage, earning the nickname ‘Friendship Jew’…from Publishers Weekly. Discussion led by Ruth Kohan. adulted@beth-david.org, 257-3333 SHAGY - Havdalah on the Beach At a Beach, 3 PM Shir Hadash Adolescent Group of Youth event (grades 9-12). Call for details. shanda@shirhadash.org, 358-1751 x2 SUNDAY, MAY 12 USY Rollerskating @ SJ Skate 397 Blossom Hill Road, SJ, 4 PM Finish the day with elections and pizza at Mountain Mike’s (it is in the same parking lot as SJ Skate). $5 event fee for pizza. USYers interested in running for chapter board, contact Stephanie Schwartz! Tons of fun and a great way to get more involved!

Youth@Sinai-SJ.org, 264-8542 MONDAY, MAY 13 Torah Slam with Kevin Coval Works/San Jose, 365 S. Market St., 7:30 PM Come experience the amazing poet, author and educator Kevin Coval as he shares his vision for revelation.

[This venue is at the Market St. edge of the San Jose Convention Center.]

Free, but $5 suggested donation. rabbijames@svjcc.org, 357-7413 TUESDAY, MAY 14 Shavuot Service Sinai, 7:50 PM Stay for an hour or stay for the whole program. The theme this year is “Diaspora and Return: The Journey Home.” Dinner and program are free.

Office@sinai-sj.org, 264-8542

Dinner and Tikkun Leyl Shavuot Sinai, 8:15 PM Dinner and program will begin with multiple offerings of formal and informal study. Stay for an hour or stay for the whole program. The theme this year is “Diaspora and Return: The Journey Home.” No need to RSVP to the dinner or the program. Open to all members of the community and geared to all Jewish denominations, levels of observance and education.

Dinner and program are free.

Office@sinai-sj.org, 264-8542 Tikkun Leil Shavuot Emanu-El, 9 PM See ad on page 25. ritual@ templesanjose.org, 292-0939 Tikkun Leil Shavuot – Diaspora and Return – The Journey Home Beth David, 9 PM See ad on page 9. biran@beth-david.org, 257-3333 Shavuot Late Night Study Shir Hadash, 10 PM See ad on page 9. 358-1751 x5 WEDNESDAY, MAY 15 Shavuot Morning Services Sinai, 9 AM Office@sinai-sj.org, 264-8542 Yizkor Service & Memorial Garden Dedication Shir Hadash, 6 PM Yizkor Memorial Service will be followed by the dedication of names in the Memorial Garden. 358-1751 x5, nadine@shirhadash.org THURSDAY, MAY 16 Shavuot Morning Services with Yizkor Sinai, 9 AM Office@sinai-sj.org, 264-8542 Woman’s Study Group with Rabbi Aron Shir Hadash, 10:30 AM The Book will be “The Norton Anthology of Jewish American Literature” by Jules Chametzky, John Felstiner, Hilene Flanzbaum, and Kathryn Hellerstein. 358-1751 x7, patty@shirhadash.org Shavuot Picnic Sinai, 12:15 PM Join us following services on Shavuot II (approximately time) for a picnic lunch. Bring a dairy or pareve lunch and join us for a festive Shavuot picnic. Kiddush wine, challah and dessert provided. No RSVP necessary.

Office@sinai-sj.org, 264-8542

SATURDAY, MAY 18 Sinai Celebrates Its High School Graduates Sinai, 9 AM Office@sinai-sj.org, 264-8542 SUNDAY, MAY 19 Wellness Fair APJCC, 8 AM-4 PM Fun and informative for all ages!

Booths, activities and classes covering all aspects of wellness.

Try fitness classes, sample healthy foods, learn about CPR, first aid and choking prevention, explore a fire truck (11 a.m.-1 p.m.), ambulance and police car, learn from a variety of information booths, enjoy handson activities for children, and more.

Classes: 8 a.m.-4 p.m., booths: 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Free. jason@svjcc.org, 357-7497 Kadima at the Park Sinai, Noon Contact Kadima at Sinai for more info about this fun outing for 6-8th graders.

Youth@Sinai-SJ.org, 264-8542 WEDNESDAY, MAY 22 Men’s Club Speaker Series — Jewish Art in the Arab World Shir Hadash, 7:30 PM For over 3,000 years Jewish artisans, musicians, and dancers were the revered pillars of the artistic world in the Middle East and North Africa.

Yemenite Jewish artisans in particular developed highly unique silverwork styles that added great spiritual, economic, and creative value to the gulf region. This talk by Yehuda Tassa, a Yemenite Jewish silverwork master, will explore the cultural, spiritual, and political significance of ancient Jewish art from Yemen and the Middle East. Free, all are invited. nadine@shirhadash.org, 358-1751 x5 THURSDAY, MAY 23 Cardozo Society: Jonathan Carey San Jose, Noon Jonathan Carey, president of LegalVision and BlueStar, will present on using the Art of Persuasion to influence juries and decision makers.

Cardozo Society events are open to attorneys and law students. MCLE Credit Pending. $55. arielle@jvalley.org, 357-7501 SATURDAY, JUNE 1 Building Blocks of Jewish Prayer Beth David, 1:30 PM Ever feel a little bit lost during services? Like to understand how the prayers fit together to create organic units? Look at the meaning of prayers, the structure of the morning service, and the fundamentals of movement and intention during Shabbat worship. adulted@beth-david.org, 257-3333

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SUNDAY, JUNE 2 ‘Shir Fun’ Picnic for Young Families Shir Hadash, 10 AM shanda@shirhadash.org, 358-1751 x2 Kadima Pool Party Sinai, 2 PM All 6th - 8th graders! Enjoy this fun summer afternoon hanging out poolside. Youth@Sinai-SJ.org, 2648542 SATURDAY, JUNE 8 Book Discussion Group--“Jacob’s Legacy: a Genetic View of Jewish History” Beth David, 1:30 PM “Who are the Jews? Where did they come from? What is the connection between an ancient Jewish priest in Jerusalem and today’s Israeli

sunbather on the beaches of Tel Aviv?

These questions stand at the heart of this engaging book. Discussion led by Michael Sinensky. adulted@beth-david.org, 257-3333 SUNDAY, JUNE 9 Baseball Family Movie Night Emanu-El, 5:30 PM Wear your favorite team colors, hat or t-shirt. A baseball-themed movie (PG-rated) in the Temple House! Hot dogs, popcorn, soda. $5/person cover.

All ages and non-members welcome! pjhrocks2@gmail.com, 292-0939 FRIDAY, JUNE 14 Big Basin Camping Weekend Shir Hadash, 4 PM See ad on page 9. 358-1751 x2, Shanda@shirhadash.org

FRIDAY-SUNDAY, JUNE 21-23 Meditation, Movement and Mah Jongg RSVP for address, 4 PM See ad on page 29. arielle@jvalley.org, 357-7501 SUNDAY, JUNE 23 Silicon Valley Jewish Music Festival Levy Family Campus, 3-8:30 PM See ad on page 12. jenessa@svjcc.org, 357-7411 SUNDAY, JUNE 30 Sinai Lunch Team for San Jose Family Supportive Housing San Jose, 10 AM-2 PM Volunteers needed to prepare and serve lunch.

Office@sinai-sj.org, 264-8542

SUNDAY, JULY 21 “There’s More to We, than You and Me” TBA, 7:30 PM Rabbi Yochanon Friedman, cofounder of Chabad by the Sea in S. Cruz will be speaking. Event is for men and women and sponsored by Mikvah Society of San Jose. Light refreshments. Suggested donation: $10/person.

Rivkah, 445-1770, or Pat, 264-3138 Have an event to add to the calendar?

Submit it at www.jvalley.org!

Questions about upcoming events or the community calendar? Contact amanda@jvalley.org or (408) 3577503.

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South Bay Teen Idol 2013

Silicon Valley Jewish Film Festival adds new venue

By Ruth Pangilinan of Three Doves Media

As it enters its 22nd year, the Silicon Valley Jewish Film Festival (SVJFF) is expanding its footprint in the South Bay with the addition of a major new venue and by adding more highprofile films and events to its year-round program.

In addition, during the Fall, the SVJFF (www.svjff.org) will expand to more Saturday night film screenings after sundown, and add movies on Monday and Tuesday evenings in addition to its traditional Sunday and Wednesday film lineup. The SVJFF opens this year at the Oshman Family JCC on October 19, 2013.

In a bid to serve the broader Silicon Valley community, the SVJFF recently announced the addition of the Century 24 movie house to its growing roster of movie theaters. Located at 741 Winchester Boulevard in San Jose, the 470-seat Century 24 is within two minutes of Santana Row and easily accessible by major surface streets and Highway 280.

The Camera Cinemas, affiliated with the SVJFF for 22 years, continues once again as a major Festival sponsor. Films will be offered at the Camera Cinemas in Campbell at Camera 7 and in San Jose at Camera 12 during the Fall Festival and throughout the year.

The Oshman Family JCC in Palo Alto also remains a major sponsor, and films will continue to be shown there during the Festival as well as throughout the year.

To make it more convenient for filmgoers, the SVJFF for the first time will schedule a block of movies at a single location, so that films will be shown for two consecutive weeks at Century 24 and for about one week at the Oshman Family JCC and the Camera Cinemas.

“With the support of the Silicon Valley community, the Festival has been experiencing substantial growth,” said Tzvia Shelef, the SVJFF executive director. “The decision to add this convenient venue [Century 24] with great parking and plenty of seating was made for the ultimate benefit of our audience. We invite both new and long-time Festival attendees to join us there, and at the more-familiar Camera Cinemas and Oshman Family JCC.” Ms. Shelef also explained that ticket revenue covers only 25% of the Festival’s expenses which is why the SVJFF, a 501c-3 non-profit, relies on generous contributions. To become a Festival donor, please visit http://www.svjff.org/support.shtml.

The complete list of this year’s films and programs will be released in August. For the latest Festival information, please check the web site (www.svjff.org) or email info@svjff.org.

Almost 400 people attended the sold-out South Bay Teen Idol finals in the APJCC Auditorium on Saturday night, April 20. South Bay Teen Idol is a three-part contest for teenage vocalists.

The competition is open to all 8th-12th graders from Santa Clara County and Santa Cruz County, regardless of their religious background. This was the second annual event. Proceeds went to support JCC scholarships and programs.

At the finals each of the ten finalists performed a solo. The audience also was treated to two group performances by all the soloists, as well as a performance by popular country artist Brodie Stewart and his band. The judges selected the top three finalists and then the audience voted for the winner.

Brandon Farmer, a ninth grader at Accelerated Christian Academy, was this year’s winner.

This was Brandon’s second year participating in the competition. He won a $2,500 prize and $500 for his school. Katie Brown of Los Gatos High School placed second and Kayla Kane of Presentation High School placed third.

The other finalists were Sarah Aaldering of Fisher Middle School, Natalie Arnheim of Kehillah High School, Edd Hackett of Archbishop Mitty High School, Eden Rousso of Westmont High School, Liat Rubin of Los Gatos High School, Alice Tsvinev of Monta Vista High School, and Natasha Turcan of Leigh High School.

South Bay Teen Idol 2013 was sponsored by Wells Fargo. For more information, see www.

SiliconValleyJCC.org/idol.

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m re news Changing our community…a generation at a time

By Arielle Hendel This year, for the 2013 Annual Campaign, the Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley (Federation) embarked on two new initiatives to support two segments of our community: teens and seniors. These two populations were identified in our strategic planning as vulnerable and needing community support. The programs which we initiated this year were intended to coalesce community resources and agencies around the goals of improving the lives of both teens and seniors.

During a three-month intensive period last summer many community agencies studied our seniors and their issues. The Committee on Senior Issues was comprised of representatives of local synagogues, the Jewish Family Services of Silicon Valley (JFSSV), the APJCC, Chai House, the Villages, concerned community members and some aging community members. The committee started by identifying all the areas of concern and programming needs. Then we mapped the current programs and found that there are many valuable existing programs in the community. To address this issue, the Federation started an older adult page in the Jvalley. news to market the existing programs to the 7,400 households receiving the paper.

Major issues identified for seniors were isolation and transportation. Isolation can lead to exacerbated health issues and general poor quality of life. Lack of affordable transportation can intensify the isolation.

To address this issue, the Federation has committed to funding transportation for Chai House residents to and from the APJCC’s monthly senior Shabbat lunches. In addition, the Federation used the initiative funding to bring over 30 seniors from a variety of locations throughout the area to the Freedom Seder which was held in March. Finally, a grant of $5,000 was given to JFS to provide transportation funds for indigent, isolated older adults.

The teen program that was initiated this year was the Teen Philanthropy Program (TPP).

TPP is a joint effort between the AddisonPenzak Jewish Community Center (APJCC) Transportation is available for seniors wishing to attend the monthly lunches. The Federation is committed to continuing these programs in the next year. In addition, we hope to and the Federation. The staff developed a comprehensive and innovative program expand our funding to other vital community initiatives which strengthen and enhance our local Jewish community. Let us know your priorities by to introduce teens to philanthropy. The teens learned to identify their emailing Arielle Hendel at arielle@jvalley.org. You can make a statement personal passions, work together in a group to develop cohesive goals with your donation to the Jewish Federation and support our general and to identify community organizations which supported their goals.

Annual campaign or one of these initiatives by going online to www.

The teens were given $10,000 to make impact grants throughout the jvalley.org or call our office at (408) 358.3033. community. They requested proposals from community agencies with varying success. The organizations which were awarded were: •

Congregation Shir Hadash will receive $1,000 for apparatus for a blood bank at its health fair.

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Jewish Family Services will receive $3,425 for Project Noah’s food bank program.

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Hillel of Santa Cruz will receive $1,475 for student programming.

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Jewish Coalition for Literacy will receive $4,100 to expand its services to another site for literacy training.

The teens will continue to meet to assess the benefit and impact of the grants they made. In addition, one of the teens will serve as a mentor for next year’s class of teen philanthropists.

While teens and seniors may seem on opposite ends of the age spectrum, they can face similar issues emotionally. Both teens and seniors can be marginalized, feel isolated and misunderstood.

The APJCC hosts monthly Shabbat lunches for adults 55 years and older.

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South Valley Jewish cemetery expanded: great discounts for pre-purchased plots Congregation Emeth now exclusive managers of the Jewish section!

Habing Funeral Home and Congregation Emeth recently entered into an agreement that provides for the temple’s management o the Jewish section of Gavilan Cemetery. The temple is now the exclusive contact for anyone wishing to buy a plot in the Jewish section. As a consequence, the congregation is now able to offer a substantial purchasing discount, especially to nonmembers who buy their plots anytime until June 1, 2013. A significant presale price was already offered to congregation members. The cemetery is located at 1000 First Street in Gilroy.

“Given the comparative high rates for plots at some of the local Jewish cemeteries, our goal was to offer the Jewish community a chance to purchase plots for considerably less money,” explained Grant Gordon, Emeth’s president. “Because we are located in South County, real estate is considerably less than in other cities, enabling us to support the entire Jewish community in this sacred endeavor.”

Gordon noted that the expansion and beautification of Gan Emet, (Emeth Gardens) has been a year-long process. A physical boundary, a fence, was inserted around the Jewish section, in keeping with Jewish tradition, under the direction of Rabbi Debbie Israel and Michael Oshan, facilities director. The area was recently expanded to three times the original size, grass was planted and trees were moved. The Holocaust memorial was also moved to a more appropriate area in the section. In addition, the fence can easily be moved should the need to further expand arise.

“Pre-selecting plots and purchasing them in advance is a gift one gives to one’s survivors,” Gordon said. “Congregation Emeth benefits from the purchases as well, again thanks to the good will of Habing Funeral Home. In exchange, Rabbi Israel and the cemetery committee regularly check the site to be certain standards are maintained.

Congregation Emeth has invested significant time and money into the expansion and beautification of the Jewish cemetery and it is prou

l cal news New president of Shir Hadash brings family history of service to role Bob Chortek’s decision to accept the role of president of Congregation Shir Hadash will come as no surprise to anyone who knows of his and his family’s many years of service to the Jewish Community in Silicon Valley and San Diego. While growing up in San Diego, Bob’s father was the president of Beth Tefilah and his mother helped found the sisterhood there.

More recently, his parents established the Chortek Family Foundation; among other endeavors, the foundation bestows a leadership award to Jewish high school students who demonstrate a significant philanthropic contribution to the Jewish community of San Diego County.

Bob has been an active member at Shir Hadash Kim and Bob Chortek because he believes that it is important to show his children through his actions the value of participating in Jewish life at temple and in the community.

During the past 16 years of the family’s membership at Shir Hadash, Bob has served on the temple board several times and has been an active member of the recent long-range planning committee, Rabbi search committee and the fundraising task force. His wife Kim is active in Sisterhood and recently chaired the nominating committee.

As president, Bob wants to continue building a feeling of ‘connectedness’ for temple members. His two children, who are now 22 and 16, have participated in many of the religious and social activities at Shir Hadash including b’nai mitzvah, confirmation, mitzvah days and Purim events.

Bob believes that when members participate in these types of activities they strengthen their ties to both the temple and the larger Jewish community.

In addition to volunteering at Shir Hadash, Bob has also held various leadership positions in other organizations including serving as head of his firm’s litigation department, as a board member of the Chortek Family Foundation, as a board member of the San Jose Dance Theater and as a member of the by-laws revision committee of the San Jose Fly Casters.

Bob is a partner in the law firm of Berliner Cohen where his legal practice focuses on real estate and business litigation.

Bob is honored to have the opportunity to continue working with temple members, board, and staff, and to passionately work to continue to build a strong and vibrant Shir Hadash community.

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l cal news Hillel’s Pillars 2013 engages, delights, inspires and thanks a supportive community

By Eleanor Weber Dickman On Sunday, March 17, a capacity crowd of friends, patrons, students, parents, community supporters, and honorees gathered to celebrate Pillars of the Community 2013, at the Computer History Museum in Mountain View. Guests greeted each other with affectionate good wishes, and honorees mingled with friends and peers while enjoying the silent auction, lunch and an exciting and very successful live auction.

Executive Director Sarita Bronstein described the importance of Hillel not only to the students at five area colleges who directly benefit from its programs and services but also to the larger Jewish community in Silicon Valley. Over the past nine years, through its corporate sponsors and individual donors, Pillars has been the major fundraising vehicle for Hillel of Silicon Valley.

Student Leadership Awards were presented to four student honorees― Tal Ben David (De Anza College), Eric Medeiros (San José State University), Carmel Schetrit (Foothill College) and Kelly Schuman (West Valley College). A moving video tribute preceded the awards presentation by Sarita Bronstein and Vanina Sandel, Hillel’s assistant director.

Dadi Perlmutter, executive vice president and general manager at Intel Corporation, was the keynote speaker. He spoke of his education and career as a combination of self-directed energy and the support and guidance of teachers, employers, and peers. He recalled remarks of the sage Hillel, who challenged everyone to serve both self and community. In contemporary terms, Dadi challenged the young honorees to “take ownership of your life―define who you are and what you stand for.”

Highlighting the event was the presentation by Sarita Bronstein of the Lifetime Achievement Award to Sheree Roth for her “bold, ongoing efforts to combat anti-Israel propaganda, including work at the five campuses served by Hillel.”

Vanina Sandel and Alan Werba, longtime Hillel board member and chairman of Loring Ward, a major corporate sponsor, presented Sue Maltiel, former executive director of Hillel Silicon Valley, with a Pillars of the Community Award for her invaluable service during a period of great growth and transformation.

Dr. Judy Miner, president of Foothill College, also received a Pillars of the Community Award for cultivating and expanding the supportive relationship that Hillel enjoys with the administration and students at Foothill College.

Recognition of the invaluable services of these honorees was enriched by the warm friendship expressed during each of these presentations and acknowledged by the supportive audience, bringing to a close another warm and successful annual event. _______________________________ Photos of the event may be viewed on Hillel’s website at http://www. hillelsv.org/pillars-of-the-community/photos/

Santa Cruz Hillel names Jim Atkins as executive director Hillel selects former board vice-president and experienced lawyer to head Santa Cruz Jewish organization.

The Board of Directors of Santa Cruz Hillel has named Jim Atkins as executive director of the organization. Mr. Atkins will be dedicating his time and efforts to building the next generation of Jewish leaders, both as students on campus and in their individual communities following their graduations.

Serving as board vice president in March 2012 when a vacancy occurred in SC Hillel’s professional leadership, Atkins offered to become interim director until a permanent replacement could be found. In recognition of his outstanding performance the board recently offered UCSC students Emma Siegel (left) and Maddy the executive director Winard (right) flank Santa Cruz Hillel’s newly position to him. appointed Executive Director, Jim Atkins Santa Cruz Hillel Board (center) as they prepare dough for the Challah President Steve Shapiro for Hunger student organization. expressed his confidence in the recent hire, “We’re thrilled that Jim accepted the role. He has been instrumental here for the past several years, both as a member of the Hillel board and during his time filling in as the interim executive director. We believe that his enthusiasm and passion for enriching the lives of young Jewish students away from their homes, as well as his years of professional experience and leadership abilities will help us build upon the wonderful organization we already have.”

A native of New York, he attended the University of Maryland for his undergraduate degree and the Brooklyn Law School for his juris doctorate. He worked as a business attorney at several major law firms including Gibson, Dunn & Crutcher and Allen & Overy, before starting his own firm, the Law Offices of James E. Atkins. Most recently he has been volunteering his time serving as a lawyer with the California Innocence Project.

Jim is focused on Hillel’s approaching events, “Right now we’re all very excited about our upcoming Taste of Spring fundraising dinner on May 19. It’s going to be the best ever! We’re holding it at the Santa Cruz Dream Inn, catered by their award-winning restaurant Aquarius.

It’s a beautiful spot with views of the entire Monterey Bay. Everyone is of course welcome to attend, however seating is limited to 100 tickets so RSVPs should take place immediately. There’s information on our website regarding tickets and hotel block rates.”

Building a strong network of UCSC Jewish parents and alumni is another ambitious goal of Jim’s. “Santa Cruz Hillel is a family that goes much deeper than just the students. We’re going to strengthen that family every step of the way. It’s part of what makes this work so much more rewarding for me than the corporate world. This is home.” All UCSC graduates are urged to contact Hillel at info@santacruzhillel.org so they can be added to mailing lists for events like the Alumni Shabbat on April 26.

Santa Cruz Hillel is a non-profit organization that seeks to provide a home-away-from-home for Jewish students at UCSC, Cabrillo College, and CSU Monterey Bay. For more information, go to www.santacruzhillel.org.

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Yom Hashoah commemoration at Shir Hadash This year the community Yom Hashoah service, which rotates among four local synagogues, took place at Congregation Shir Hadash. The program featured remarks by Professor Harry Brod who is a professor of philosophy and humanities at the University of Northern Iowa and a child of Holocaust survivors. The topic of his speech was “The Holocaust from Generation to Generation: A Contemporary Legacy of Temporary Survival.”

One of the insights that Dr. Brod shared was that although his parents survived and created a new life for themselves in the U.S., they were never “fully present”. That is, a part of them was always “back there” in the experience they lived through during the war. This revelation and his comment that he had to be “the adult in the family” in terms of his family’s relationship with the world resonated with attendees who were also children of survivors.

The service honored some local Holocaust survivors. Rather than have them simply stand as a group, some 7-10th students from Shir Hadash introduced the survivors individually. These students each conducted an interview with one survivor and then wrote a short paragraph about that survivor’s experience during the war. They then read that introduction at the service.

All the students who participated did so on a voluntary basis. For the teens, it was an opportunity to find a personal connection to an event that feels like distant history to them. One student said that she was surprised at how happy the survivor with whom she spoke was, and that his experience reminds her that you can get through anything and still be happy. Another student said that she wished that she would have had more time to talk with the survivor she interviewed. Overall, all the teens found the experience enjoyable.

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Finally, the service honored Joe Sorger who is retiring from his long tenure running a monthly brunch for Holocaust survivors. During the service, Rabbi Aron announced that the JCC will continue this tradition that brings survivors and the second generation together to meet and share stories, socialize and find support.

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Israel Celebration Shabbat Friday, May 17 at 7:30 PM Let’s celebrate Israel together with an inspiring service followed by instructor led Israeli dancing and an oneg Shabbat full of special Israeli treats.

Shabbat in Nature at Big Basin State Park Saturday, May 18 - Sunday, May 19 Join us at 2:00 PM for the day or stay overnight.

Participate in any or all of the following: Shabbat experience led by clergy, silent reflection on the redwood trail, potluck dinner, havdalah, campfire, songs, and s’mores.

Rock Shabbat on Friday, June 7 Wine and Cheese reception at 6:30 PM followed by the service at 7:30 PM Don’t miss this amped up service where you can rock out to music performed by our amazing Rock Shabbat band!

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l cal news What’s it like at Yavneh Middle School?

Who am I as a leader? Who am I as a Jew? How will I make a difference?

At Yavneh, middle school students are empowered with a sense of self while developing compassion and strong leadership skills. They take an active role in their learning while connecting to their Jewish roots.

In addition to a top-notch core academic program, the middle school curriculum emphasizes projectbased and experiential learning. Special classes include social justice, spirituality, and electives such as Biotechnology, Mandarin, and Journalism.

For more information or to take a tour of the school, please contact our Director of Admissions at diana@ yavnehdayschool.org or 408.984.6700

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Israel trip planned for January 2014 – everyone is welcome!

Congregation Emeth is planning its second community trip to Israel, leaving from San Francisco on January 13, and returning January 24, 2014. The trip is organized and led by Rabbi Debbie Israel, who has visited Israel, either as a leader, student or tourist, more than 20 times.

“Our trip in 2011 was exceptional and we’ve had many requests to do it again,” said Rabbi Israel. “The dates were selected based on the reduced winter prices and the availability of an exceptional guide, Yoram Preminger. Yoram and I have led several trips together and I can’t imagine doing this without him. Our first trip was leading more than 70 teenagers on a six-week pilgrimage!”

The 2011 trip included Jews and non-Jews from Morgan Hill, Gilroy, San Jose, Watsonville, Los Angeles and even Cleveland. Friends and relatives from other parts of the country took this opportunity to have an experience of a lifetime traveling together.

For details and further information about the trip, contact Rabbi Israel at (408) 778-8200 or rabbidebbieisrael@gmail.com. An introductory meeting will take place soon and everyone is welcome to find out more at that time. Please let the rabbi know if you are interested in receiving an invitation.

no previous knowLedge or experience needed in any of these areas!

spend a peacefuL shaBBat retreat in the company of women exploring Judaism through meditation, yoga and movement. all meals provided (vegetarian).

Led by Julie Emden, Jewish LearningWorks and Rabbi Leslie Alexander, Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley

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at Land of the Medicine Buddha

cost: $275 (single supplements available upon request and availability). rsvp by May 31 at jvalley.org/wp for questions contact arielle@jvalley.org or 408.357.7501 Event Co-Chairs alyssia Berkowitz fran chevlen susan gavens

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Jewish Professional Directory Attorneys Peter D. Feinberg

Hoge Fenton Jones & Appel 60 S. Market St., Ste 1400 San Jose, CA 95113 (408) 287-9501 pdf@hogefenton.com

www.hogefenton.com/our-people/attorneys/ Feinberg-Peter-D

Practice focused on corporate, M & A and business transactions.

Philip L. Hammer

Hoge Fenton Jones & Appel 60 S. Market St., Ste. 1400 San Jose, CA 95113 (408) 287-9501 plh@hogefenton.com www.hogefenton.com/hammer.html Specializing in complex family law matters. Certified Specialist in Family Law, State Bar of CA; Fellow, American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers.

David J. Hofmann

Hoge Fenton Jones & Appel 60 S. Market St., Ste. 1400 San Jose, CA 95113 (408) 287-9501 djh@hogefenton.com www.hogefenton.com/hofmann.html Practice focused on commercial and residential real estate transactions & finance.

David S. Howard

Hoge Fenton Jones & Appel 60 S. Market St., Ste. 1400 San Jose, CA 95113 (408) 287-9501 dsh@hogefenton.com www.hogefenton.com/howard.html Practice focused on complex taxation, corporate strategy, and business succession planning..

Steven D. Siner

Hoge Fenton Jones & Appel 60 S. Market St., Ste. 1400 San Jose, CA 95113 (408) 287-9501 sds@hogefenton.com www.hogefenton.com/siner.html Practice focused on complex business transactions, estate planning, and family business succession planning.

Attorneys Minda B. Parrish

14500 Big Basin Way, Suite D, Saratoga, CA 95070 (408) 741-3500 minda@parrishlaw.net Estate Planning, Probate, Elder Law

Lynne R. Snyder

101 Church St., Suite 7, Los Gatos, CA 95032 (408) 354-5590 Adoption, Custody, Dissolutions, Guardianship, Juvenile Court, Paternity

Shannon Stein

Law Offices of Shannon Stein 438 South Murphy Avenue Sunnyvale, CA 94086 (408) 774-9097 shannon@shannonsteinlaw.com www.shannonsteinlaw.com Family Law Attorney, specializing in dissolutions, child custody, child support, mediation, restraining orders, limited scope representation, post-judgement issues.

Carol Elias Zolla

16450 Los Gatos Boulevard, Suite 208, Los Gatos, CA 95032 Tel: 408-358-6900 carol@zollalawfirm.com www.zollalawfirm.com Certified Specialist in Estate Planning, Trust & Probate Law. The State Bar of California Board of Legal Specialization.

Real Estate Orna & Ruben Yomtoubian

408-253-2250 or 408-887-8239 888-Do0-Fees 888-360-3337 (Toll Free) Orna@ORNA.com www.ORNA.com Full Service Discount Commission Realty Broker/Owner BS, MS, MIS, Finance www.aDiscountRealty.com • 1% Listing Broker Commission • I pay all my Buyer’s Closing Costs* • Free Service to Jewish Organizations (Bet Kenesets) www.aDiscountMortgage.com • 30 Years Fixed Conforming No Fee Loan 3.5% APR • No Upfront Fees, No Fee Loans, $417K> Loan>$250K Real Estate #01098186, Mortgage #NMLS31413, Appraisal #AL029181

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Commercial Real Estate Senior Services Guggenheim Realty Group, Inc

Law Office of Derryl H. Molina

AMB Designs

Binder & Malter, LLP 2775 Park Avenue Santa Clara, CA 95050 (408) 295-1700 Michael@bindermalter.com www.bindermalter.com Certified Specialist, Bankruptcy Law The State Bar of California Board of Legal Specialization Specializing in all aspects of bankruptcy representation, issues re distressed real estate and asset protection.

Financial Advocacy for Seniors 408-279-3269 (o) 408-318-0828 (c) www.mindacutcher.com minda@mindacutcher.com Helping families create and manage strategies to reduce healthcare costs, access benefits, decrease household expenses, pay bills and process mail.

Dr. Itzhak Emanuel

“Helping you plan for your family’s tomorrow at every stage of your life.”

1743 Pilgrim Avenue Mountain View, CA 94040 (650) 336-5185 Christl@DeneckePlanning.com www.DeneckePlanning.com Family Wealth Planning • Living Trusts • Special Needs Trusts • Estate Planning for Young Families Estate Planning for Non-Traditional Families

Michael W. Malter

Minda Cutcher, MBA, Inc.

Cantor-Educator

Christl Denecke

“Trust Your Trust to Us!” 1142 S. Winchester Blvd., Ste. B San Jose, CA 95128 (408) 244-4992 attderryl@comcast.net www.fulllifecareplanner.net Estate Planning, Probate, and Elder Law. Mediation Facilitor.

Financial Services

595 Millich Drive, Suite 101, Campbell, CA 95008 (408) 871-8722 x222 Fax (408) 834-4959 www.guggenheimrgi.com Commercial Real Estate Management, Investments, and Leasing. Call us for your property management, leasing and sales needs. Allen Guggenheim & Gary Naillon

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Transportation and Shopping Service 408-590-5898 Personalized transportation service, serving seniors throughout Santa Clara and most cities in San Mateo County. Our service is tailored to meet your needs.

Tax Preparation & Representation Philip S. Levine EA, MBA Padgett Business Services Silicon Valley West Inc.

501 N. Santa Cruz Blvd. Ste. A Los Gatos CA 95030 (408) 402-3725 p_levine@smallbizpros.com www.siliconvalleywest.com Tax Preparation and Professional Representation before the IRS and CA FTB. A small business focus including corporations and partnerships as well as their owners and other professionals. We also welcome CA Registered Domestic Partner (RDP) returns as well as clients with international tax issues.

Leonard W. Williams, CPA

A Professional Corporation 455 S. Mathilda, Sunnyvale 94086 (408) 736-1566 www.LWWilliamsCPA.com Leonard W. Williams, CPA Elaine Raitt, CPA, Y. Mary King, CPA, Brenda L. George, EA, T. Patricia Cohen, EA, Keith Kreider, EA, Sue Conners, EA Tax Planning & Return Preparation for Individuals, Trusts & Estates.

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obituaries April 13, 1920 – April 7, 2013

Services were held at Los Gatos Memorial Park, Reflections Chapel on March 19. In his memory, Shelly’s family would appreciate donations to Hospice of the Valley or Temple Emanu-El of San Jose.

Memorial services for Nogah Bethlahmy, a resident of Los Gatos for 54 years and former Town Treasurer, were held at the Los Gatos JCC on April 13.

EUGENE LIBMAN

NOGAH BETHLAHMY

Nogah grew up in Philadelphia and Israel and served as an officer in the 8th Army Air Corp in England, supporting the invasion of Normandy and the Battle of the Bulge. He settled in California and married his wife Rhoda, in 1947. He flew for the new State of Israel in the War of Independence, navigating a convoy of planes from Panama to Czechoslovakia and leading the ground school for the first Israeli Air Force class.

The Bethlahmy family settled in Los Gatos in 1959. He worked for IBM for 25 years, participating in the dawn of Silicon Valley. He served two terms as Los Gatos Town Treasurer and was on the Los Gatos Saratoga High School and Recreation District Boards.

Nogah was predeceased by his wife Rhoda and is survived by his two children, Joanne of Larkspur, CA and Dan of New Jersey, and two granddaughters, Anna and Jessica Bethlahmy.

The family asks that donations be made to the Jewish National Fund in his memory.

SHELDON BLICKMAN August 12, 1925 – March 15, 2013 Sheldon Blickman was remembered fondly as the owner of Shelly’s Seafood and Shelly’s Italian Restaurants. He served in the Navy in the South Pacific during World War II and when he returned he graduated from the University of California at Berkeley; he became a C.P.A. and was Controller of Carl N. Swenson Construction Company.

One of Shelly’s proudest moments was opening Shelly’s Seafood Restaurant of Los Gatos with his first wife Susanne.

They had many successful years in the business and had retired when she passed away in 1994. Shelly then had the good fortune of meeting a second incredible woman and in 1996 he married Marjorie Resnick of Minneapolis, MN. Shelly is survived by his wife Margie and his three children, Larry Blickman (Victoria), Debra Lanning and Jayne Selig (Jay). He also leaves behind eight grandchildren: Jason Blickman (Tiffany), Jessica Baker (George), and Jered Selig, Katie Lanning, Julie Lanning, Alisa Blickman, Jordan Blickman, David Lanning and four greatgrandchildren. He is also survived by his loving sister Rheta Kurant as well as Margie’s two children, five grandchildren and his many loving nieces and nephews.

September 10, 1928 – March 11, 2013 Eugene Libman, a Beth David congregant, was born in Mozyr, Belarus.

His father was a fur dresser and his mother was a stay-at-home mom.

There were five children in his family and he was educated in a Jewish school. When World War II began, his father went to the frontlines in spite of the fact that he had a deferment due to illness. He never came back from the army. At the end of the war, the family learned that he had been captured, and sent to a concentration camp where he perished.

When the Nazis came to their town, his mother took her five children on a train to Tashkent in Uzbekistan. It was a hard time for them. Eugene began to work when he was only 14 years old.

He worked as a farmhand in the stables. He then worked at the military plant where they made bombs for the front. Conditions in the factory were difficult; the workers were exhausted and hungry. Eugene worked to earn money to buy bread for his three younger sisters and his mother.

His mother died of starvation and Eugene became mother and father to his younger siblings. His brother was in the army.

After the war, when their home town was freed from the Germans, Eugene and his sisters returned. His sisters went to the local children’s shelter and Eugene worked as a driver. He also served in the army for two years. After that he got a job at a textile factory as a fitter, assembling textile machines. He went to school at Momino and had further training in his field.

After Momino he went back to school and completed 11th and 12th grades during the evening. He pursued further education in Petersburg and focused on mechanical engineering. He then returned to work for a textile factory as an engineer. He had several patents and continued to work in the textile industry for 40 years.

Eugene met his wife Roza Levina in Minsk in 1959. They married there and moved to the United States in 1991. They moved to the United States because of strong anti-Semitism which his family does not feel here at all.

He is survived by his wife Roza and his daughter Natalie (Marshall) Levin and his grandchildren Olga and Gary.

Home of Peace Cemetery and Mausoleum Founded 1853

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