JValley news April 2014
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apjcc turns 40 yavneh participates in we day Renee and Howard Fine, chairs of Federation’s Annual Event, Live with the Beatles, pictured with three of their children.
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As I prepared for Passover my home and our Federation offices underwent our annual Spring cleaning ritual. Getting back into routine after the holidays is that much easier and seamless when done in a fresh, clean space. While this spring may quickly be turning into summer, I didn’t want to miss this opportunity to point out some of the wonderful ways our community is refreshing during this time of renewal as well. Our Women’s Philanthropy group is launching a night group that will begin meeting on May 21. All the wonderful aspects of connecting and inspiring—with wine added! We understand that women in our community have varying schedules and we want to be sure to make this group available to anyone who would like to be involved. Our community is also excited to have the APJCC hosting the annual Silicon Valley Jewish Music Festival this year! This event is one that marks the beginning of summer, that transition from sweaters to shorts, and brings everyone together for a day unlike any other. This year some amazing musicians will be joining the crowd. Interested in coming? Just four days after the festival is our Annual Meeting. On June 26, complete with a BBQ and (hopefully) sunny weather, the meeting provides a poolside atmosphere for our community to come together and welcome in the new Federation board. Regardless of how we come together, I hope you find a way to make it to one of our community gatherings soon. Warmly, Jyl
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South Bay Teen Idol The judges with the top three contestants: judges are in the back row, left to right: Robert Hayes of Sound Management, Marla Davies of Mix 106.5, Anthony Cordova of Story Road Entertainment; top three contestants are in the front row, left to right: Alice Tsvinev, Danika Lam, Michael Muleu
Live with the Beatles Top Middle: Stuart and Julie Krigel, Edye and Larry Stein Top Right: Steve and Helaine Green Bottom Left: Rabbis Daniel Pressman and Leslie Alexander Bottom Right: Andrea Laber, Jeannette Lerner and Andrea Rubnitz
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VESL students assemble Passover packages for Jewish Family Services of Silicon Valley’s Project N.O.A.H. Women’s Philanthropy prepared Shabbat dinner for the Hillel students in the beginning of March. Dinner was very well received and reviews were very good from the Hillel students!
Cub Scout Pack 504 poses with food packages.
Yavneh middle schoolers participated in the Santa Clara county Science Fair.
The Guggenheims and Vlada Gelfond were honored at the JFS Small Plates event. Left to right: Steve Guggenheim, Shannon Guggenheim, Vlada Gelfond, JFS President Robin Sabes and Scott Guggenheim
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l cal news Addison-Penzak JCC turns 40 By Jenny Green The APJCC is celebrating its 40th birthday, in recognition of the day it officially became a separate non-profit organization, May 17, 1974. The APJCC grew out of programming developed by the Jewish Federation of Greater San Jose (now known as the Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley) in the late 1960s and early 1970s, eventually becoming large enough to split off as a separate organization. Originally known as the San Jose Jewish Community Center, the JCC was housed in a few different buildings before moving in 1984 to its current location, a 9-acre campus in Los Gatos on the site of the old Berry School. A grant from Arnie and Cookie Addison helped purchase the campus. Mrs. Addison’s maiden name was Penzak, hence the name Addison-Penzak Jewish Community Center of Silicon Valley. The current building, owned and operated by the Jewish Federation, opened in 2005. Funds for construction came from Gloria and Ken Levy, Eli Reinhard, and many other donors whose names can be seen on the donor wall in the main lobby. The JCC would like to thank everyone in the community who has worked so hard to make the JCC what it is today.
Pride Shabbat By Trista Bernstein Congregation Shir Hadash is proud to host the communitywide LGBT Shabbat Service. All of the local Conservative and Reform congregations in Silicon Valley will join together in this special service, with the goal of creating a more inclusive community. Davida Rosenbaum explains the motivation behind this service. “For myself and my family inclusion has always been the norm. From my earliest memories we were taught that we are all equals regardless of what others may consider different, whether it be race, religion, life style, or disability. Therefore being gay, lesbian, or transgender would not make a person an outsider. Unfortunately as we know historically this is not the case. That is why it is so important that we as Jews show our acceptance and pride in our LGBT community. Pride Shabbat is one important way we are able to do just that.” The community is pleased to celebrate a fifth anniversary of this community-wide celebration. All are welcome to join Shir Hadash on Friday, June 13 at 6:30 p.m. for the Pride Shabbat followed by a potluck dinner.
Connecting photography and spirituality By Trista Bernstein Not everyone sees a relationship between photography and spirituality but the students at Congregation Shir Hadash this year had an opportunity to grow in both areas. Their teacher, Rabbi Jerry Levy explains, “Digital photography opens us to divine possibility. We see. We discern. We discover beauty. We make light holy. We preserve an instant of time for all time. We open ourselves to awe and wonder, to the sublime, to the mysterious, to the unique convergence of time, light and gravity. We learn to trust our senses, to make aesthetic choices and to celebrate this miraculous world of startling and stimulating visual experiences.” The class brought together a group of photographers with varying experiences, and allowed them to grow together. “Participants were serious. They brought wonderful images to class every month. We were all amazed by the great work that everyone shared.” The students enriched each other. Described one participant, Chris Saso, “The best part of the class was getting together with other photographers and sharing in what inspired them that month. What’s nice about photography is that it allows you to look at your environment differently and feel a new sense of connection with your community.” The instructor enhanced the learning. Michael Schneider explained, “To Rabbi Levy, there is always something more than meets the eye.” The class will conclude on Sunday morning, May 18, with an exhibit of each student’s work open to all. Rabbi Levy says, “We hope you make an effort to notice the work we produced. You, too, will be amazed.”
Project N.O.A.H. social worker position open at Jewish Family Services Jewish Family Services of Silicon Valley (JFS SV) is seeking a part-time social worker (20-25 hours per week) to provide case management services to families and adults in need for our Project N.O.A.H. services. This is a great opportunity for someone who doesn’t want or need to work full-time, including social workers with only a few years of experience. The job responsibilities include conducting community outreach, intake and assessment, case management, supportive counseling, and safety-net services. Intake and assessment, developing care plans, supportive counseling, and providing food assistance are important aspects of the position. The ideal candidate is confident, friendly, positive, and highly organized with strong written and verbal communication skills. Jewish Family Services is a great place to work, with a friendly staff. The agency is located on the beautiful Levy Family Campus in Los Gatos. Interested persons should send their résumé and cover letter to mindyb@jfssv.org.
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The Law as a Tool to Promote Minority Rights and Social Justice in Israel GUEST SPEAKERS Reut Cohen is a feminist, human rights activist and lawyer from Israel. Muna Haddad is a PalestinianIsraeli lawyer from Nazareth.
Thursday, May 15, 2014
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12 - 2 pm Offices of McManis Faulkner Fairmont Plaza, 10th Floor 50 W. San Fernando St. San Jose, 95113. $20 per person (vegetarian lunch) Muna Haddad Co-sponsored by the Cardozo Society, Congregation Shir Hadash and the New Israel Fund RSVP at jvalley.org or cardozo@jvalley.org
Sunday, June 8th 7:00 – 10:00pm APJCC of Silicon Valley - 14855 Oka Road, Los Gatos With “Chasnoff delights audiences by poking loving fun at the trials, the joys—the sheer oddities, for that matter—of growing up Jewish” ~Moment Magazine
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educati n Local educator attends Early Childhood Leadership Seminar in Israel By Jenny Green To deepen the connection between educational professionals in North America and the land of Israel, Early Childhood Education Director Cyndi Sherman at the Addison-Penzak JCC attended JCC Association’s Early Childhood Education Leadership Seminar in Israel from March 9-20. The program was designed to enhance one of the essential core elements of Sheva: JCCs of North America Early Learning Framework : “Israel as the Story of the Jewish People,” and included 23 participants from 20 JCCs in the United States. The trip was designed to be a leadership study seminar, giving participants a hands-on opportunity to study with scholars in Israel in early childhood education and development, crisis management, children’s literature, spiritual development of children, and more. Although participants were able to enjoy the magnificent sights and sounds of the country, each day was designed to be the foundation for continuing work in connecting the North American JCC early childhood centers to the state of Israel in meaningful and longlasting ways.
Professionals from 20 JCCs participated in JCC Association’s Early Childhood Educators Seminar in Israel, including the Addison-Penzak JCC’s Early Childhood Education Director Cyndi Sherman (front row, 4th from left).
Cyndi Sherman agreed. “Seeing Israel first-hand gives vitality to the history and the sense of continuity of the place,” she commented. “It was also interesting to learn more about how preschool works in Israel. Teachers and parents in Israel want the same for their children—to grow up safe, happy and productive. We are more alike than different. I was struck by the freedom (Israeli) children are given and also by the similarity of their play to the way our children play.” So while participants were able to visit the national park and excavations at Caesarea on the coast between Tel Aviv and Haifa, they also spent time at Kibbutz Sde Eliyahu, where they learned about the “junkyard playground.” This outdoor play area was invented at this kibbutz in the 1940s and participants studied with one of the primary researchers and developers of this playground philosophy, which, as an extension of the classroom, allows children to construct knowledge and invent with every-day, castoff objects. Throughout the leadership seminar, participants visited matnas (community centers) and preschool programs, getting ideas about the similarities and differences between their own JCC programs and Israeli ones. Visits included the YMCA Peace preschool for Jewish, Christian and Arab children, an Orthodox Jewish early childhood program and a Reform movement preschool. Participants focused on the spiritual life of the child, visited an interactive Bible museum, and visited Beit Issie Shapiro, a center for children with special needs, to see Israel’s first accessible and inclusive playground. The trip spanned 11 days over the festive holiday of Purim, and included Shabbat, allowing the group to experience the day of rest in the Jewish homeland. And, of course, no trip would be complete without some sightseeing through the Old City of Jerusalem. Sherman reported, “I am so grateful to have been able to go on this adventure. The people I met and lived with for twelve days are now part of my network of valuable colleagues and friends. We will help each other to use what we learned to broaden the role of Israel in each of our preschools.” The leadership seminar was organized by JCC Association as a way to foster greater understanding and connection to Israel for the early childhood directors and education programmers. This will allow them to better integrate Israel into their early childhood programs, as well as deepen their own connection to the country.
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l cal news A special gift – a conversation with the past By Lori Cinnamon I’ve been meaning to write about this experience for quite some time. As Yom HaShoa, Israeli Independence Day and Memorial Day are approaching, it seems appropriate to share this experience in being given the gift of remembering. We all have the power to record stories and I encourage others to do this. One December morning back in 2012, I went to my mailbox and found a small package from my brother. In it was a short note from my brother saying “Hope you enjoy this as much as I did”. Two CDs were inside marked with grandmother’s family name and that of a great uncle of mine. I immediately popped the first one into the DVD player (thinking they were DVDs) and I guess I hoped for video, but there was no picture, only sound. I started listening and was instantly mesmerized. Right away my grandmother, her husband, my grandmother’s older sister, and her husband, and my great uncle by marriage all introduced themselves. My second cousins and their parents were interviewing the older generation to tell their family stories in their home on an evening in 1976. I couldn’t believe it. I was immediately taken back to my teens and listening to these wonderful family members who I knew so well as a child, but who have been gone for many years. My cousins were thorough interviewers and kept firing questions. Questions like: Where were you born? What did your grandparents do?, When did you come to America? And so on and so on. They didn’t allow the older generation to be vague or Photo of Lori Cinnamon in 1976 with her family of origin at her brother’s Bar Mitzvah skip on the details. The dialogue was rich and fascinating to me. I listened to stories that I had never heard and heard others that I may have heard, but not with as much detail and dimension. One of my great uncles had left his family in Poland and in his history recounted the sad reflection that many of them perished in the Holocaust. My great aunt shared how my great grandfather didn’t take my grandmother’s twin who had been born at home to the hospital when his health was failing right after their birth because it was Shabbat. There were the heartbreaking stories of final separation from parents in Russia. There were sad stories and happy stories spanning decades. Listening as an adult helped me gain an understanding of the relationships between these relatives. My great aunt who had come here at age 8 was deeply ashamed of her poverty and talked reluctantly about how hard things were. She had many memories, but she wasn’t forthcoming. My grandmother, who was 8 years younger, wasn’t ashamed of anything and boldly admonished her older sister for feeling this way. They talked and talked for over 2 hours. Their voices reverberated in my head for weeks and sometimes still do. I realized how much I missed my grandmother’s spunk and joy of life. I am encouraging other families to video these types of conversations. In my own extended family we have in the last 2 years recorded many family stories. This can easily be done when a group of the older generation gets together. Consider just inviting everybody over for dinner to have a reason to get together. When I talk to young people that I often work with, I sometimes mention the special gift I received. I encourage teens to try to get extra school credit to record these conversations; I encourage families to do this for the present and the future. As there can be privacy issues involved, I feel it is best to keep these recordings out of the public domain. It’s been nearly 1 ½ years since I received this precious gift and I still need to make more copies of these recordings and send it to my first cousins. I think I’ll do it unannounced like my brother did. I hope it will feel like a gift from heaven when they receive it. 10
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Peppermint ice cream sandwiches By Shoshana Ohriner Now that the weather is really warming up there is nothing more refreshing than a cool frozen dessert. There is something about ice cream sandwiches that always makes me smile. While ice cream served in a dish with cookies on the side is delicious, there is something about spreading those same cookies with the ice cream and turning them into a sandwich that makes it so much more fun. Not surprisingly my children love ice cream sandwiches, but I actually find that when I serve homemade ice cream sandwiches the adults are more excited than the kids. Since ice cream sandwiches shouldn't be a lot of work here is a fun recipe that takes store bought ingredients and turns them into one of the tastiest treats around. I make these ice cream sandwiches with peppermint ice cream because I adore the combination of chocolate and mint, but any ice cream flavor would be good. This version of these ice cream sandwiches is non-dairy so that it can be enjoyed any time, but feel free to substitute your favorite dairy ice cream instead. For more frozen dessert ideas go to www.couldntbeparve.com. 1 box fudgy brownie mix, 9 x 13 pan size 3 eggs ¼ cup coffee liqueur ½ cup oil 1 quart vanilla parve ice cream ½ teaspoon peppermint extract 1 ½ c (180g) crushed peppermint candy Preheat the oven to 350. Line a half sheet pan with parchment leaving a one inch overhang on each end and spray the sides well with cooking oil. Combine the brownie mix, eggs, coffee liqueur and oil and mix well. Pour into the prepared pan and spread evenly. Bake for 18-22 minutes, or until a tester comes out with moist crumbs. Let the brownie cool completely then place the pan with the brownie in the freezer. Freeze until firm, approximately 20 minutes. Soften the parve vanilla ice cream slightly. The easiest way is to place it in the bowl of a stand mixer and use the paddle attachment to mix it for a minute or so. Once the ice cream is slightly soft add the peppermint extract and mix until thoroughly combined. Stir in the crushed peppermint candy. Remove the brownie from the freezer and cut in half. Place one half of the brownie on a large piece of plastic wrap (it should be at least twice as big as the brownie piece). Spread the ice cream evenly on the brownie. Top with the remaining brownie half and press down well. Wrap tightly with plastic wrap and return the brownie ice cream sandwich to the freezer. Freeze until solid, at least two hours. Remove the frozen ice cream from the freezer and cut into individual ice cream sandwiches. Wrap each one tightly in saran wrap and return them to the freezer until serving. Rabbi Shoshana Ohriner is the creator and author of the popular blog Couldn’t Be Parve, specializing in naturally delicious dairy-free desserts. Her recipes have been published in a variety of publications and websites, including the Jewish Week and Kosher.com. Shoshana is the mother of three young boys and married to Rabbi Philip Ohriner.
l cal news Federation Rabbi accepts position at Beth David After 16 years of service to the Jewish community of Silicon Valley, Rabbi Leslie Alexander with be making a significant move this May. The community chaplain and founding staff member of the Levy Family Campus mikvah, Shalom Baby program and PJ Library of Silicon Valley, Rabbi Alexander has been an integral part of the operations and programming of the Jewish Federation. A former pulpit rabbi and dedicated educator, Rabbi Alexander always dreamed of ending up back in synagogue life. While the Jewish Federation is saddened to lose such a dedicated individual as staff, we are so pleased to announce that she is moving to Congregation Beth David. It is a delight that our Jewish community will continue to benefit from Rabbi Alexander’s wit, wisdom and kind heart. Her creative mind and dedication will fit well into her new position as Rabbi of Community Engagement and Outreach.
Federation welcomes new controller On March 4, Laurel Cyrluk joined the Jewish Federation of SIlicon Valley staff as the controller. Bringing over 25 years of experience, she is a valuable addition to the team. Laurel is originally from Spring Valley, NY, but has been a part of the San Jose community since 1981. A member of Congregation Sinai and former Yavneh Day School parent, Laurel is extremely familiar and comfortable with the local Jewish community. Some of the highlights of Laurel’s volunteer involvement include two years on the Jewish Family Services’ Board and Finance Committee, as well as being a past-president of Congregation Sinai. Making the transition to being a Jewish professional isn’t always an easy one, but Laurel has made is appear seamless.
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Temple Emanu-El Over 150 Years of Tradition and Innovation! 1010 University Ave, San Jose, CA 95126 www.templesanjose.org Temple Office (408)292‐0939 Religious School (408)292‐3223 Brunch for Prospective Members Sunday, April 27 You are invited to learn more about our Religious School experience for your child. Children are welcome to attend. Join together for t’filah at 10:15 AM and meet Rabbi Magat and Cantor Simerly. Brunch and classroom visits begin at 11:15 AM. 9th Annual Shabbat in Nature Overnight At Mt Madonna Park – Manzanita Camp Saturday, May 31 - Sunday June 1 Participate in any or all of the following: Shabbat experience led by Rabbi Magat and Cantor Simerly Potluck dinner Havdalah Schmoozing around the campfire Yoga Shabbat Saturday, June 7 at 10:00 AM A ritual experience to deepen your connection to yourself and your community. Honor Shabbat with a mellow yoga practice led by Rachel Dorsey. Explore themes for the week’s Torah portion while moving to prayers and meditations set to world beat music. Accessible to yogi’s of all ages, new and experienced. Underwritten by Temple Emanu-El Sisterhood.
Dads and kids, along with friends and families, are invited to join the National River Cleanup Day.
Guadalupe Creek Cleanup Sunday, May 18 • 9 am-noon Light breakfast provided Please bring your own water Register at www.jvalley.org
Information: Diane Fisher, diane@jvalley.org, (408) 357-7504
The Community Relations Council of the Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley and Greenfield Sullivan invite you to
JUDICIAL CANDIDATES RECEPTION 2014 A nonpartisan reception for community leaders and Santa Clara County Superior Court Judicial Candidates
THURSDAY, MAY 1, 2014 • 5:30-7:30 pm Greenfield Sullivan 55 S. Market Street, Suite 1500, San Jose RSVP by April 25 at www.jvalley.org/jcrc.
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l cal news Pillars of the Community 2014 ― a great success By Eleanor Weber Dickman Hillel of Silicon Valley returned to the Computer History Museum on a sunny Sunday morning, March 23, for this year’s celebration of its loyal supporters. The annual “Pillars of the Community” was highlighted by warm and affectionate moments as special supporters from both the Hillel student community and the general Jewish community gathered to acknowledge the generosity and dedication of its “Pillars.” Board leader and long-time financial as well as management supporter Alan Werba received a well-deserved Pillars Lifetime Achievement Award, not only for his and wife Pat’s outstanding philanthropic support over time, but also for his executive skills and vision in helping to “lead the way” (this year’s Pillar’s theme) toward Hillel’s strong and consistent growth. Receiving “Pillars of the Community Awards” were Arye Green, Barbara Illowsky, and Holly and Jeffrey Ullman. Arye was honored for his maintenance skills and dedication to keeping Hillel’s old house on William Street safe and homey and to ensure that the new home was equally well-appointed. Barbara, a professor at De Anza College, a member of the Executive Committee of Hillel’s Board of Directors, and a past president of Hillel, was honored for her leadership skills and initiative in ensuring that the capital campaign to secure Hillel’s new home was successful and rewarding. Jeff and Holly Ullman were honored for their generous support of the capital campaign and Israel Programs at Hillel. The awards this year reflected the broad range of ideas, talents, and generosity of community members who understand the value of Hillel in securing the future of strong leadership in our local Jewish community. Executive Director Sarita Bronstein presented the award to Alan, calling him “a leader, role model, super mensch, and fund-raiserin-chief.” In accepting his award, Alan Werba spoke of the need to secure financial independence through an endowment fund established at Hillel. He said he is inspired by the “initiative and creativity” demonstrated by students each year, and praised former Executive Director Sue Maltiel for her energy and commitment to the successful campaign which enabled Hillel to create a new and attractive home for the students. In his honor, Hillel’s “Fund a Need” program has been renamed the Werba Family Student Initiative. Arye Green credited three things for his loyalty to Hillel: the involvement of his wife in community activities, his appreciation for the generosity of the community in supporting Jewish causes, and his delight in the strengths of young people. Barbara Illowsky praised the “Jewish vitality” engendered by Hillel students on their campuses and expressed confidence in the strength of our local Jewish community as a result of their engagement beyond their college years. The Ullmans acknowledged the importance of having a strong Jewish presence on campus, and felt that Hillel was one of the key factors in linking American Jews to Israel. An exciting glimpse into the leadership of the future was made evident by the student leadership awards granted to Allison Abrams and Scott Friedman, both of San José State University (one of the five colleges affiliated with Hillel of Silicon Valley). Allison and Scott described the important role Hillel played in strengthening their Jewish identity, providing them with a welcoming place to meet like-minded students, enjoy holiday celebrations and informal get-togethers, and develop a lifelong interest in supporting the Jewish community. All honorees spoke with affection for and dedication to Hillel, citing the successful and engaging ways its outreach activities and learning opportunities give Jewish students on South Bay campuses a Jewish “home away from home,” which not only strengthens the Jewish presence at local colleges, but also inspires students with affection for and commitment to the community that is loyal and generous with its support. Last year’s fundraising goal was exceeded this year during a lively auction led by Chad Carvey. The Werba Family Student Initiative stimulated lively bidding by promising to match 50 cents on the dollar for every donation made at the event. Happy supporters responded generously at levels ranging from $100 to $5,000. The energy in the room reflected the warm support of attendees, the enthusiasm of the students (whose musical contributions to the program were met with warm applause), and the success of the event in raising funds from supportive friends to ensure another dynamic year of activity and growth at Hillel of Silicon Valley. To get a taste of what the day was like, see the videos and photos on the website, www.hillelsv.org. Just click “Photos and Videos” under the “Pillars of the Community” tab.
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Adult B’nai Mitzvah at Shir Hadash Shir Hadash was honored with a myriad of students in the Adult B’nai Mitzvah class this year. The diverse group included men and women, young and older, those who have converted to Judaism, and those who are doing this at a time that feels special to them because of overcoming cancer or other issues in their lives. The reasons behind a person’s decision to participate varies at different stages of life, but this group of individuals has shown that the need for connection and community spans every stage of life. Gail Schwartz decided to join the class as she was overcoming an extremely difficult phase in her life. “My motivation for becoming a Bat Mitzvah at the age of 65 was to read from the Torah which I hadn’t done as a 13 year old. The timing was perfect for me as I had just begun to recover from treatment for breast cancer when I read the notice in the Shir Hadash Notes that the class was beginning in two weeks. I needed a mental challenge and a goal that had nothing to do with survival. What I got was my own little support group, some wonderful new friends, and the ability to remember who I was and who I wanted to be.” David Wong shares of his experience, “I’m a very recent convert to Judaism, Dec. 17, 2013. I am also passionate about lifelong learning. Having lived 90% of my life without any religious affiliation, the B’nai Mitzvah is a key milestone on my journey of growth, connection, knowledge, and spiritual awaking of what
it means to be Jewish. Furthermore, although I’ll keep trying, I fear I will always struggle to get my tongue around Hebrew.” Sara Hind, a young parent participating in the class, found much more than she expected through this experience. “From the time I was very young, I always felt like I was left out of a very important club which all of my friends, family and acquaintances we are part of - they had all had their Bar or Bat Mitzvah’s and could reflect back on that special time. For a long time I wanted to have my Bat Mitzvah to be a part of this group - to fit in, to show my children what they will eventually embark on, and for my family to be proud of me. But as I started the B’nai Mitzvah classes I became more introspective about what I was doing...I still wanted my family and loved ones to be proud of me for doing this, but really, I discovered I was doing this for me. It’s something I hold dear to my heart and it’s been a dream of mine to do this. I’m not simply doing this to check a box on my list of to-do’s. I’m more integrated into the community at Shir Hadash, I’m making new friends, and I’m accomplishing something that is incredibly meaningful. My heart feels full, and the moment when I can proudly wear my tallit will be a moment I’ll never forget.” Those participating in the class not only have found a place of belonging, but have brought incredible inspiration to our community. Mazal tov on their achievements! The service will be on Saturday, May 31.
Israel ZmiRkudiya Sunday, May 5th 11:00am – 12:30pm Everyone is invited! Begin with a Yom HaZikaron* Commemoration Music and Dance Performance by JYEP Kids Israeli Food * Yom HaZikaron is Israel’s official day of remembrance for the fallen soldiers of Israel and victims of terrorism.
Current Issues Affecting Israel and the Middle East Tuesday, May 20th 7:30 - 9:00 pm Newly-appointed Israeli Deputy Consul General Eyal Naor discusses external and internal developments affecting Israel. A small donation to Adult Education is requested at this presentation.
A Night of Comedy and Jazz in Honor of Rabbi Pressman
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20145774LECTURES FROM KRISTALLNACHT TO WATERGATE Renowned Journalist Harry Rosenfeld, editor of The Washington Post during the Watergate scandal, in conversation with John Diaz, Opinions Editor of the San Francisco Chronicle
THURSDAY, MAY 22ND | 7:00PM How does one boy from a Polish family of furriers and tailors become an editor at two of the greatest American newspapers in the twentieth century and a key figure in overseeing the breaking of the Watergate scandal? Join us for a fascinating evening of conversation with Harry Rosenfeld, past editor of the Washington Post, and John Diaz, opinions editor of the San Francisco Chronicle. In From Kristallnacht to Watergate, Harry Rosenfeld traces his ambition to become a journalist back to his childhood in Hitler’s Berlin. He saw his father taken away by the Gestapo in the middle of the night and witnessed the burning of his synagogue on Kristallnacht. When his family escaped to America, Rosenfeld felt a responsibility to ensure that what had happened in Nazi Germany could not happen here. “Looking back,” he writes, “I discerned a theme underpinning much of my journalistic labors: holding to account the accountable, the more powerful the better.” It was this lifelong endeavor for accountability that led Rosenfeld to demand standard-setting coverage during his years as an editor at the New York Herald Tribune and the Washington Post, earning the Post the Pulitzer Prize Gold Medal for Public Service. Rosenfeld reminds us why journalism matters, and why good journalism is essential to our democracy.
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l cal news Rina Katzen: living her life’s mission By Arielle Hendel Fifty-three years ago when Rina Katzen moved to San Jose as a young bride from Israel, she was looking for a way to keep her homeland and its language close and vibrant in her life. In Israel, Rina had been a Hebrew language teacher for new immigrants and university students. An opportunity soon arose when Rabbi Moshe Twersky (z”l) at Congregation Sinai asked her to step in to teach at the synagogue’s Hebrew school. Rabbi Twersky also asked Rina to start a Hebrew program in 1961 for adults to learn Hebrew. She expanded the adult education to include a beginning, intermediate and advanced classes which resulted in a mini ulpan curriculum. Rina’s love of the Hebrew language was shared with many in the community. Then, in the Fall 1972, due primarily to the efforts of Professor Robert Levinson (z”l), joined by others in the Jewish community, San Jose State started a Jewish Studies program and they employed Rina to teach their Hebrew language class. The Hebrew program exceeded the then Department Chair Joachim (Joe) Stenzel’s expectations for enrollment. In the interim 42 years, Rina has taught hundreds of students, both Jewish and not Jewish. She has inspired students to continue beyond the first year of the language and has often taught classes just out of the goodness of her heart and the motivation to keep Hebrew alive. The funding for the classes has been very fluid and Rina has continued to teach without pay. Only the first two years of the Hebrew program were supported through University and community funding. Yet, every student who wanted to continue to study beyond their second year were supported and taught by Rina with pleasure. In fact, Rina has one student who has been with her for 14 years who continues his love of Hebrew through literature and conversations. This year, due to budget cuts and a change in SJSU’s policy on foreign language, Rina is in the position of offering her time and talent to her students to perpetuate her dream of keeping Hebrew alive in Silicon Valley. Dr. Damian Bacich, chair of the Department of World Languages and Literatures at SJSU shared, “Prof. Rina Katzen represents the best of San José State and the Department of World Languages and Literatures -- a serious academic with a passion for her students, a passion for her subject, and most importantly, a warm humanity that embraces everyone she meets. She is a real treasure.”
Emeth’s Purim carnival: by kids, for kids By Sarah Langerman, senior member of Emeth Dor Kef (Emeth’s Fun Generation) The Purim carnival held annually at Congregation Emeth in Morgan Hill is not your average carnival. This celebration is unlike any other because instead of being run by adults, it is run by kids, for kids. The temple’s youth group, Emet Dor Kef (“Emeth’s fun generation”), plans and executes the whole event as a fundraiser for their youth group. Rabbi Debbie Israel comments on this event by saying, “Our carnival is held Friday afternoon, and includes Friday night Shabbat rituals and an abbreviated service. It is unique because it is run by our Emet Dor Kef teens who do the set-up and run the booths as a youth group fundraiser. They act out the Purim shpiel to everyone’s amusement! It’s a highlight on the Emeth calendar!” During this year’s carnival all of the teens showed up in their costumes, which were pajamas, ranging from onesies to fuzzy pajama pants to embrace their “inner child.” They set almost everything up the previous night from the games to the booths, which had been created and built by Becky Neto, Emeth’s vice president. On Friday afternoon, the teens showed up early before the children arrived, just to make sure everything was perfect. At 5 p.m., the children started to show up with their parents to partake in carnival games. The booths included everything from putt-putt golf to face paint! The kids had a blast playing games, winning prizes, and eating delicious hamburgers at some point in between. The highlight of the evening was the skit for Purim, with one of the teen boys playing beautiful Esther and one of the girls playing manly Mordechai. This year’s skit was better than any of the previous as it was equipped with elegant costumes, proper makeup for the parts, and microphones. After the skit ended, hamantashens were enjoyed to remember the horrible Haman who brought us this holiday. Preceding the skit, a Purim costume parade took place. Most children and even a lot of adults came in costume, ranging from the traditional Purim characters to a variety of other characters. The congregation’s president, Susan Meyers, dressed as Alice in Wonderland, and her husband, past-president Michael Oshan, was the giant White Rabbit. Rabbi Israel dressed as Cat in the Hat and introduced the Purimshpiel in Dr. Seuss-style rhyme.
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Yavneh Day School participates in We Day, Movement for Social Action By Joy Null Yavneh Day School sixth and seventh graders got an opportunity of a lifetime when they were invited to participate in We Day in Oakland on March 26. What is We Day? It is an educational event and movement of young people leading local and global change. The Yavneh students were asked to participate based on the school’s deep commitment to social responsibility and involvement with social action measures. We Day is part of a family of organizations including Free The Children and Me to We, that has a shared goal: empower a generation to shift the world from ‘me’ to ‘we’ through how we act, how we give, choices we make on what to buy and what to wear, media we consume, and the experiences with which we choose to engage. Performers and speakers at the We Day event included: Martin Luther King III, Magic Johnson, Selena Gomez, the Culture Shock dance group, Martin Sheen, Orlando Bloom, Seth Rogen, and many more. Students heard the story of how We Day was founded. “I think our students were really inspired hearing about how kids, just like them, started a global movement,” noted Esther Rosenfeld, mother of a Yavneh seventh grader. The Yavneh students participated in the event with the goal of finding inspiration from both the program speakers and from being in a venue with 16,000 middle and high schoolers who are also committed to social justice. The venue served as a great way for the Yavneh kids to make a connection with a larger movement of students who share their passion for social responsibility. According to Susan Ellenberg, Yavneh’s middle school social justice teacher, “The greatest takeaway for the kids was to realize that we are already doing much of the work that Free the Children (We Day organizers) is promoting, both within and beyond the social justice curriculum.” As an example, Free the Children is promoting a “change for good” campaign that encourages students to collect their change once a week in a cardboard box. Each $20 collected can be used to buy a brick in a school being built in a developing country. The Yavneh students recognized this behavior immediately as the tzedakah collections they do each week prior to Shabbat. Anti-hunger campaigns, campaigns to increase girls’ access to education, and collections of items ranging from toiletries to bicycles to food cans – are all part of Yavneh’s social responsibility philosophy, curriculum and practice. According to Mrs. Ellenberg, “It was fantastic for the kids to see that these are not just quirky activities we do in our Jewish school, but that they are part of other schools’ philosophies and practices as well. And the We Day event really helped drive home the point of why we have these practices.” Yavneh Day school may have been early to the table, but social justice is gaining traction as an important part of education. Everyone in Oracle Arena, including the 33 Yavneh students and parents, felt that they could be leaders in improving the world and and were inspired to do even more.
l cal news The Jacobsons are leaving something for a rainy day By Arielle Hendel Walking into the Jacobson’s home recently on a wet and windy day, I was welcomed by a warm embrace from Rita and Jerry. Their home is a reflection of their commitment to our local Jewish community with Judaica art and pictures of their family and friends on their walls and shelves. We Jerry & Rita Jacobson sat in their kitchen over a cup of hot tea and homemade cookies to chat about why they chose to leave a legacy gift to the community. Jerry is firm in his convictions about why leaving a legacy is both essential and vital for our community. He points out, “If everyone had contributed something when things were good, then we could have weathered the hard times like in the Depression and the recession. “ And, he is quick to point out that “if everyone makes a legacy gift and we have a strong, robust endowment, we wouldn’t have to live hand-to-mouth from year to year.” Rita added, “It was easy to commit to a legacy gift and anyone can do it. Really, it’s my hope that anyone who is passionate about the continuity of our Jewish community would make a legacy gift.” Rita and Jerry are wonderful role models for our community giving of their time, talent and treasury to our community is so many ways. Both Rita and Jerry share their conviction to leave something to sustain the Jewish community that they hold so close in their hearts. They shared that when they moved here in 1956 from Schenectady, New York, there was a small but tight-knit Jewish community here. While they were away from the area from 1965-1971 on assignment in Frankfurt, Germany and then in Wilmington, North Carolina with Jerry’s job as a nuclear engineer with GE, they returned to a burgeoning Jewish community. Many of their contemporaries came during that time, too, raised their families together, have remained friends and neighbors even today. They raised their three sons here in the Willow Glen area of San Jose and now have thirteen grandchildren and one greatgrandson. They are so proud and appreciative of what the local Jewish community has accomplished. For more information on the Community Legacy Project, or to learn more about how you can make your own legacy gift, please contact Michelle Nathanson at 357-7508 or michellen@jvalley.org.
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l cal news Pioneering program frees Jewish learning from the classroom Leaves crunch and twigs snap as the twenty or so kids and parents temporarily desert their alfresco sanctuary for the surrounding Mt. Madonna redwoods. When they return, each bears a gift. One ten-year-old boy proudly drags a branch taller than he is. Laughing, another boy, this one fully grown and a parent, displays his equally large choice. Others bring back pointy pine cones or a single perfect fall leaf. Then each shares their gift, explaining why they chose it and how it represents the basic Jewish middot they had been learning such as responsibility, compassion and gratitude. This is not your typical religious school. These fifth- and sixth-grade families are part of a pilot program at Congregation Shir Hadash, aptly named Free Range Torah™. The program is the brainchild of Rabbi Educator Lisa Levenberg. “It’s a way for families to explore Jewish life together, in a more organic and flexible format than traditional religious school allows,” says Rabbi Levenberg. While Shir Hadash has a thriving, classic-style, Sunday school, Levenberg found that there was a group of families that weren’t served well with that model. Some kids engaged better through more experiential learning, for others it was a matter of schedule inflexibilities, and some were actively seeking a more personal, integrated approach. “Judaism is so rich and multi-faceted. There are so many different ways that individuals and families can connect with our heritage. As Jewish educators, it is up to us to help that happen,” says Levenberg. The program pairs traditional and alternative Shabbat services with varied educational activities as well as learning-focused “adventure outings” such as the Mt. Madonna retreat. Like all good Jewish gatherings, most activities incorporate food of some sort – Shabbat dinner, bagel Free Range Torah participants depict breakfasts – and all are a family affair. “Eliezer at the Well” using recycled materials such as wine corks.
It was the family aspect that clinched the deal for Adam Friedman and daughter Daisy. “Rather than sending Daisy off every Sunday, it gives us the chance to play and learn together,” says Friedman. “And the program definitely challenges us [adults] to think, too. It’s important for our kids to see us learning. They see us in a different light. As well as making learning more enjoyable, it inspires them.” Free Range Torah™ is part of a new wave of Jewish education thinking that seeks to help learners and their families take charge of their own educational journeys. The Shir Hadash program challenges even such fundamentals as the role of the teacher. “We guide learning, but everyone is both teacher and learner,” says Heidi Eisips, a co-facilitator along with her husband Greg. The couple and their fifth-grade son, Yoni, are themselves participants. She gives one of the curriculum components, a quarterly book club, as an example. “Everyone reads a different book relating to a specific Jewish subject and presents it to the rest of the group. The presentations are more than summaries; they explore the book in terms of the topic and also connect it to the Jewish concepts we’ve been discussing throughout the year.” Other activities have included creating scenes from a parasha using recycled materials, Jewish value-related Madlibs, and improv theater. Eisips emphasizes that while the methods may be fun, the content is substantial and discussions often run deep. “I am consistently surprised by the profound insights and contributions by all ages,” adds Eisips. Rabbi Levenberg hopes to expand the program for next year, both in enrollment and scope. “We are trying to give each student and family the freedom to find those aspects of the tradition that most speak to them.” She quotes the proverb, “Educate a child according to his own path, and when she is grown, she will not depart from it.” Going by Daisy’s enthusiasm, Free Range Torah™ is meeting that challenge. According to father Adam, they still sing the lyrics they wrote to illustrate the central Jewish environmental tenet of Bal Tashchit, Do Not Destroy, set to the popular tune Royals http:// wp.me/p3TGne-4. For more information about the Free Range Torah™ program at Congregation Shir Hadash, please contact Rabbi Lisa Levenberg, rabbilevenberg@shirhadash.org.
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SIMCHAS By Andrea Cohen Greyber
BIRTHS Lydia Grace Wysong, a third generation Sinai member, was born on February 6 to Rachel & Andrew Wysong, Sinai members who now live in Pleasanton. She weighed 7 pounds and 15ounces. Her grandparents, Janet & Steve Dombro of San Jose and Linda Wysong of South Lake Tahoe were thrilled to welcome her to the family. Lydia was named in memory of her paternal grandmother Lydia Dombro and during her baby naming on March 8, Rachel spoke lovingly of her grandmother and the fine characteristics she embodied. In addition to her Aunt Kelly Wysong of San Francisco, Aunt Elysa Dombro and uncles Jonathan, Ben and Josh Dombro are available for cuddling duty. Lydia is also blessed with great-grandmother Nesya Fishstrom and great-grandfather Louis Dombro. Liana Brielle Alpizar Greyber was born on February 11 to Natasha & Robert Greyber of Seattle, WA. She weighed 6 pounds and 8 ounces and was 18 inches long. She is the little sister of Asher Greyber, 3 ½. She is the grandchild of Vicki Alpizar of Houston and of Andrea & Howard Greyber of Congregation Sinai; after seven grandsons, they were excited to welcome a first granddaughter. Liana was named in memory of her greatgrandmothers Lillian Cohen and Beatrice Goldgraber. Liana is the niece of Elizabeth & Joe Lichy of San Jose, first cousin to Ari, Sam and Carl Lichy and the first niece of Rabbi Daniel & Jennifer Greyber and first cousin of Alon, Benjamin and Ranon Greyber of Durham, NC.
CALLED TO THE TORAH Dylan Sager, son of Henry & Ann Sager and younger brother of Sarah Sager, was called to the Torah at Congregation Sinai on February 15. He is a seventh grader at Willow Glen Middle School. His strong interests outside of school are bowling and baseball. Family members who joined Dylan for this family simcha were his grandfather Al Sager of Reno, NV, aunt Sherri Sager, uncle David & aunt Mindy Landsman
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and cousin Sam Landsman; aunt Robin & uncle Doug Doucette and cousins Emily and Weslee Doucette. Molly Vainish, daughter of Cara & Ronen Vainish and younger sister of Daniel and Emma, was called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah on March 29 at Congregation Beth David. She is a student at Cupertino Middle School. She is involved in the band where she plays the tenor saxophone. She is an excellent athlete and plays both volleyball and basketball; she helped her team win the All-Nets Northern California championship in L.A. Molly was thrilled to have so many friends and family celebrate with her including her grandparents Paula & Bernard Klein of Cupertino.
ENGAGEMENTS Joshua Tofig, son of Lainey & Maurice Tofig of San Jose, met Mara Soss, daughter of Carole & Rick Soss of Burlingame, through mutual friends. They will be married in October. Joshua graduated from the University of California at Santa Cruz and Mara graduated from the University of Washington. The Tofigs are long time members of Congregation Beth David. David Ghodsizadeh and Carolyn (Carly) Steinberg met on JDate and will marry on June 29. They are new members at Congregation Sinai and live in San Jose. David’s parents Yousef & Rita Ghodsizadeh make their home in Westerville, OH and Carly’s parents live in Davis, CA. Carly graduated from Davis High School and designs baby quilts; David has a degree in marketing from USC. Candice Solomon and Ben Tilles became engaged on March 1. They look forward to a May, 2015 wedding. Candice and Ben met at the University of California at Santa Cruz when they were undergraduates there. Ben went on to study law at Santa Clara University, passing the California State Bar exam in 2013. Candice is a medical student at the University of California at Davis. She will graduate in May of 2015. Candice’s proud parents are Trevor & Lauren Solomon of Irvine, CA where they are longtime members of Beth Jacob Congregation. Ben’s parents are Steve & April Tilles of Saratoga and they are long-time members of Congregation Shir Hadash in Los Gatos. Please send announcements and photos to Andrea Greyber at andrea.greyber@gmail.com or phone her at 377-6224.
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Through Signs and Wonders: Flourishing Throughout the Journey: A Panel Discussion
Join us for our inaugural gathering! Wine, cheese and dessert Wednesday, May 21, 2014 7–9 pm Enoteca La Storia 416 North Santa Cruz Los Gatos, CA 95030 Cost: $18
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1 pm at Congregation Sinai 1532 Willowbrae Ave, San Jose $5. Info: greenbarb45@gmail.com Four panelists - cardiologist Dr. Ada Koransky, gynecologist Dr. Susan Gould, nutritionist Dr. Marjorie Friedman, and psychotherapist Barbara Salinger - will address issues of prevention, maintenance, treatment and healing, with regard to the latest research in women’s health.
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“Create. Connect. Celebrate.” Intermarriage and American Jewish Culture Join Dr. David Biale for a lively discussion examining how American Jewish culture has portrayed intermarriage and what this portrayal tells us about how American Jews see their relationship to America. Sunday,
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A Young GI Encounters the Holocaust Marvin Bertelson will share the story of his encounter with Hurlack Lager Camp No. 4, a feeder camp to Dachau, while serving in the US Army in 1944. Tuesday,
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l cal news Theatre Chevruta announces its second season at APJCC On the heels of its very successful first season, Theatre Chevruta: A Jewish Readers Theatre has announced its 2014-2015 season. The first season, “A Taste of Yiddish Theatre,” brought audiences the original 1950s play Tevya and His Daughters – the inspiration for Fiddler on the Roof – and Donald Margulies’s recent adaptation of the iconic, controversial drama, G-d of Vengeance. Both plays drew larger audiences than expected. Nearly as many people attended the lesser-known drama as attended the more recognizable Tevya play. The drama was just as well received, with nearly the entire Sunday matinee audience staying through the post-show talkback. With that in mind, Theatre Chevruta’s second season will again mix lighter and more dramatic work. Dubbed “Newish Jewish Theatre,” the plays are either new or recent works, including one world premiere. This season will expand to three plays. The second play and all dates are being finalized, and updates will be posted on the theatre website and Facebook page once available. The season’s final play is the most recognizable – a recent stage adaptation of Chaim Potok’s, My Name is Asher Lev. Of course, this is one of Potok’s best-known novels, next to The Chosen. This adaptation, by Aaron Posner, premiered onstage in 2009 and has been performed regionally ever since. “I saw Asher Lev in Marin several years ago,” says Doug Brook. “It’s a crisp, 90-minute interpretation that pulls you deep into the story of this young Jewish painter struggling between his artistic potential and his Hassidic upbringing.” Asher Lev will perform in early May. It will be preceded by a new work, which is still being selected, that will perform at the APJCC’s Jewbilee event in January. The season begins with the world premiere of Original Synergy, a biblical and corporate satire that reimagines the seven days of Creation as being planned by a committee. The play takes audiences to a conference room populated by G-d, His Left Brain, Right Brain, Ego, Super Ego, Id, and – once woman is created – Feminine Side. “Looking at the world we live in, it being created by committee would explain a lot,” says Brook, who is the playwright of Synergy. “There are a lot of laughs, some plotting and intrigue, and, despite the mayhem, it is stringently true to the actual text in Genesis… and at least one Beatles’ song.” Brook is a longtime playwright, with nearly twenty plays performed or otherwise recognized nationwide. His other biblical satires include Lot in Life, The Big Fish Story, and the Book of Esther parody Hey, Man, Thanks a Lot. He has been produced twice in New York, including his What Ever Happened to Hanu Claus?, and at local theatres from Santa Cruz to the North Bay. “When we started Theatre Chevruta,” says Brook, “I firmly stated that I would not perform onstage or that we would perform anything I’ve written. This was not remotely a vanity project, and still is not. But with the attention to the Bible this year, such as the Noah film, and the timing of Chevruta’s first play to the annual Torah reading cycle, I conceded that it is a good and timely fit.” Synergy will perform in late October or early November. Like last season, there will be Saturday night and Sunday afternoon performances over one weekend. The Jewbilee production will have a single performance at this large community event. Theatre Chevruta will continue to present staged readings, a format very popular with audiences so far. “This theatre was established to offer something different,” reminds Brook. “We don’t want to just do what everyone else does…we want to provide something you don’t get everywhere else.” The theatre will also continue post-matinee talkbacks, as well as its pre-show talk a few weeks before performances, and the popular lobby boards providing in-depth context for each play. Auditions will be announced in the months ahead and are open to anyone. The casts of both plays last season, like the audiences, were a mix of JCC and local theatre community members. For announcements of performance dates and auditions, visit http://svjcc.org/jplace and click on Theatre Chevruta, and you can “like” Theatre Chevruta on Facebook at http://facebook.com/theatre.chevruta. For questions, contact the theatre’s JCC staffer Jenessa Schwartz, the APJCC director of Jewish Life at 408-357-7411 or jenessa@svjcc.org. www.jvalley.org
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ONGOING EVENTS TUESDAYS Babies & Bagels: Stroller Fitness! Emanu-El, 8:40 AM Tone your tuchis while connecting with friends! Whole-body workout, incorporating cardio & strength training as well as stretching. ALL are welcome. Strollers/ Babies not required! $5/ week payable each class or $25 punch card for 6 sessions. Stephanie Pollock: 292-0939, stephanie@templesanjose.org Free Israeli Dancing Emanu-El, 7:30 PM, 1st and 3rd Tuesdays Learn the steps and moves of basic Israeli Dance! All are welcome, so bring a friend--no prior experience needed. Free! stephanie@templesanjose.org, 292-0939 WEDNESDAYS Ima & Me Playgroup Sinai, 9 AM Join other moms and bond with your child while exploring their world through play, music, and movement! Office@Sinai-SJ.org, 264-8542 FRIDAYS Pirkei Avot Discussion Group Beth David, 9:45 AM Explore ancient Jewish wisdom dealing with ethics and morals in this participant-led discussion group. Pirkei Avot, which has been reprinted more than any other rabbinic text, is a Mishnah tractate dealing solely with ethics and morals. Newcomers are welcome to join at any time and will be nurtured in learning. 257-3333, adulted@beth-david.org Alzheimer’s Caregivers Support Group Shir Hadash, 10 AM, 5/9 The Alzheimer’s Association, in conjunction with Congregation Shir Hadash’s
Caring Committee, is offering a Support Group for anyone trying to navigate the day-today difficulties of care giving. nadine@shirhadash.org, 358-1751 x5 Hot Button Issues in Law and Judaism Offices of McManis Faulkner, 50 W. San Fernando St., San Jose, Noon, 1st Fridays Each month a theme is chosen and discussed, i.e. the current state of American law and how the Jewish texts address similar issues. Bring a brown bag lunch. 358-1751 x5, nadine@shirhadash.org SATURDAYS Torah Study: Exodus Shir Hadash, 9:30 AM To enhance study, we will draw as appropriate from the new translation of “Mikraot Gedolot, The Commentators’ Bible,” the classic version of the Biblical text and commentaries, which now exists for Exodus as well as Aviva Gottlieb Zornberg’s relatively recent book, “The Particulars of Rapture: Reflections on Exodus” which has great material with a more psychological and literary orientation. The rabbis prepare for each session but the discussions tend to be freewheeling and everyone has a chance to participate. No outside reading is required and each class is self-contained so you are welcome to come when you can. 358-1751 x5, nadine@shirhadash.org Tot Shabbat Shir Hadash, 9:30 AM, 5/10 Join Rabbi Levenberg and other families with young children for Tot Shabbat. Free and open to the community--tell friends! nadine@shirhadash.org, 358-1751 x5
Heschel Havurah with Rabbi Ohriner Beth David, 1:30 PM, 1st Saturdays Join Rabbi Ohriner after Kiddush lunch on the first Shabbat of each month in a guided reading and discussion of some of Rabbi Heschel’s most important passages. 2573333, adulted@beth-david.org Mussar Matters Beth David, 1:30 PM, 5/17, 6/21 In recent years, the Mussar Movement, with its emphasis on building character and ethical responsiveness through Jewish texts, has been rediscovered by the wider Jewish world. Explore a different character trait each month, such as: gratitude, equanimity, simplicity, and loving-kindness. 257-3333, adulted@beth-david.org MONDAYS Israeli Dance Class for Kids Sinai, 4 PM $5/class or $20/5 classes; free for Nursery School students. Space is limited. RSVP: Ifat Kantorovich, 264-8542, SinaiNurserySchool@Sinai-SJ. org
UPCOMING EVENTS APRIL 21-29 Holocaust Museum Beth David, 9 AM-5 PM The museum flows as a timeline of Holocaust history and through genocide at present. A wide array of books, posters, videos, and art enhance the exhibit. bendahan@beth-david.org, 257-3333 FRIDAY, APRIL 25 April Potluck Shabbat Redwood City, 7 PM The host will provide the challah, wine, main dishes, cutlery, and plates. Please bring a vegetarian/dairy appetizer, side, dessert, and/or drink to share. RSVP
for address. 257-3333, JewsNextDor@beth-david.org SATURDAY, APRIL 26 Community Learners Shabbat Service Shir Hadash, 10:30 AM At this introduction to the basic Shabbat service you can ask questions. In this service you will gain an understanding of the reasons for the content and placement of the prayers and the customs that surround them. nadine@shirhadash.org, 358-1751 x5 Guest Speaker District Attorney Jeff Rosen Sinai, 11 AM Start Shabbat morning off with services beginning at 9 AM followed by District Attorney Jeff Rosen talking about: “Torah, Talmud and Prosecution in a Modern World.” Kiddush Luncheon following services and talk. Free to all. Office@Sinai-SJ.org, 264-8542 Shabbat Schmooze: Shmitta-Putting “You” in Utopia Beth David, 1:30 PM In this Shabbat Schmooze Rabbi Allan Berkowitz explains core elements of Shmitta and presents an overview of a new year-long program that Congregation Beth David will pilot. The Torah mandates that every seventh year we reevaluate our relationship with the earth and recalibrate our efforts to support vulnerable members of our community. Shmitta is our tradition’s way of moving society closer to a utopian ideal. Next Rosh Hashanah begins the Shmitta year. Beth David will inaugurate a program designed by Rabbi Berkowitz and Rabbi Nina Beth Cardin (founder of the Baltimore Jewish Environmental Network) to reinvigorate Shmitta and our lives. adulted@beth-david.org, 257-3333
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Retro Havdalah and Happy Hour Shir Hadash, 6:30 PM Highlights include a live band, tequila bar (and more!), socializing, games (optional) and old-fashion edibles for dinner and dessert. No experience required! Grab your your spouse, havurah members, your friends, and join in the fun. Bring your kids, too (4 and up) and they can have their own party with food and play with our babysitter, Megan Pappas. $18/adult, $8/ child. Time is running out so be sure to register or mail in your check. Register and pay at: https://secure.acceptiva. com/?cst=3930fd. sue@saso.com, 358-1751 SUNDAY, APRIL 27 Healthy Living Fair 2165 Lucretia Ave., San Jose, 9 AM Volunteer opportunities are available from 6 AM to 5 PM. Driving, parking and event instructions will be posted on Shir Hadash web page. Unless specified, volunteer positions may be filled by adults or teens. You may sign up for more than one slot! Students wanting credit for community service hours may bring service forms to volunteer booth for signatures. 358-1751 x5, nadine@shirhadash.org Early Childhood Center Heirloom Tomato Starters Sale Shir Hadash, 9 AM A wide selection of plants not available at a garden shop will be available. Come early before they sell out! 358-1751, robin@shirhadash.org “Intermarriage and American Jewish Culture”--Exploring the World of Judaism with Dr. David Biale Shir Hadash, 9:30 AM See ad on page 22.
of the places that is believed he had landed in is the area now known as the Point Reyes National Seashore. Join Jews’ Next Dor and head up to this local treasure, hiking the Tomales Point Trail. Bring water and a jacket of some type as it may get very windy out on the trail. The plan is to meet in the Caltrain Parking Lot across from Philz in downtown Palo Alto at 10 AM. We will carpool to the reserve and have some quick nosh before heading out onto the trail. The journey all the way to the Point is well worth it, for the views are unparalleled. 257-3333, JewsNextDor@beth-david.org Brunch & Open House Emanu-El, 10:15 AM See ad on page 12.
“top 100 people influencing Jewish life” by The Algemeiner Journal. 775-7541, Carrie@CarrieZeidman.com A Young GI Encounters the Holocaust Shir Hadash, 7 PM See ad on page 22. Make Your Days Count! San Jose, 8:30 PM The counting starts soon! Join Rabbi Gavriel Rudin of the Jewish Study Network for an in-depth explanation of the Biblical commandment to count the Days of the Omer. Learn the secrets of this special Mitzvah and how it applies to our lives today. This class is open to everyone! Call for address. gavriel@jsn.info, (650) 493-5764
TUESDAY, APRIL 29
Confronting the Holocaust: American Responses
County Office Bldg., 70 W. Hedding St., San Jose, 4 PM The annual County of Santa Clara Holocaust Remembrance Ceremony takes its theme this year from the U.S. Holocaust Museum’s theme: restrictive immigration policies, silence in the face of official reports of the “Final Solution,” the delayed creation of the War Refugee Board, and the fate of the St. Louis are historical moments that encourage reflection. Local survivors will tell their personal stories, and Mitty High School students will give presentations from their religious studies coursework on this year’s Remembrance theme. diane@jvalley.org, 358-3033
Community Yom Ha’Shoah Service Beth David, 7 PM Join the South Bay community for a short program followed by a community-wide memorial service at 8 PM, 257-3333, Biran@beth-david.org TUESDAY, APRIL 29 Philippe Karsenty and the alDura Hoax Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Library, 150 E. San Fernando St., San Jose, 7 PM Mr. Karsenty is vice mayor of Neuilly and president of Media Ratings, an online watchdog dedicated to holding the French media accountable. He was recently named one of the
THURSDAY, MAY 1 Judicial Candidates Reception 55 S. Market St. Suite 1500, San Jose, 5:30 PM See ad on page 12. FRIDAY, MAY 2 Kabbalat Shabbat Services and Shabbat Dinner Sinai, 6 PM Bring in Shabbat with a lively Kabbalat Shabbat service followed by a delectable dinner at 6:30 PM (reservations required by April 29 for dinner). For reservations: Office@Sinai-SJ.org, 264-8542
to the family service in the Temple House. Bring a dish based on the first letter of your last name: A-P: Salad/ Fruit/Side Dish, Q-Z: Main Dish. Please keep foods kosher style: no pork, shellfish or dishes which mix milk and meat. Also, you probably know what ‘potluck’ means, but just in case: bring enough to share. Others will, too. We all win! stephanie@templesanjose.org, 292-0939 SATURDAY, MAY 3 Journey to Adventure Emanu-El, 5 PM Join us as we travel the globe in honor of Rabbi Magat’s 15 years at Temple Emanu-El. Dine on cuisine from countries around the world, try your luck at the royal casino, dance the night away to international tunes, and shop at the local bazaar (silent auction!)! stephanie@templesanjose.org, 292-0939 SUNDAY, MAY 4 Positive Discipline Parenting Workshop Sinai, 9 AM This introductory workshop will help you walk away with some powerful parenting tools and transform your relationship with your kids. Office@Sinai-SJ.org, 264-8542 Israel ZmiRkudiya Beth David, 11 AM See ad on page 14. Sharone Hadassah/ Congregation Sinai Sisterhood Present a Panel Discussion on Your Health Sinai, 1 PM An educational presentation covering many topics of interest to people of all ages. greenbarb45@gmail.com, 264-8542 Yom Hazikaron/Memorial Day Ceremony for Israeli Fallen Soldiers and Victims of Terror Stanford Memorial Auditorium, Palo Alto, 7 PM The American and Israeli Silicon Valley Jewish communities join in expressing solidarity at this moving ceremony. We
Get To Know Your Own Backyard: Point Reyes National Seashore Palo Alto, 10 AM When the great English Shabbat Potluck Dinner explorer Sir Francis Drake Emanu-El, 6:15 PM was on his expedition to Join the congregational family circumnavigate the world, one for a potluck dinner prior www.jvalley.org
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will gather to remember and to affirm our larger Jewish identity as a civilization and cultural community. Through poems and songs presented by high school students, we will honor those who gave their lives. Inclusive program with English translation of Hebrew poems. Free and open to the public. 357-7504, yomhazikaron1@gmail.com MONDAY, MAY 5 A Crazy, Crazy Yom Ha’atzma’aut Celebration! APJCC, 5:30 PM In Israel, on Yom Ha’atzma’aut, people party hearty! We’ll have a real Israeli celebration! There will be music, crazy “light-up” hats, crafts, games and waving flags. Register today for a wonderful hot dog BBQ and fun activities. rabbialexander@jvalley.org, 357-7509 WEDNESDAY, MAY 7 Mikvah, Life Transitions and Spirituality Levy Family Campus, 7:30 PM See ad on page 28. SATURDAY, MAY 10 Babies & Bagels Shabbat! Emanu-El, 9 AM Shabbat morning experience for families and children 0-30 months! Parents will enjoy a brief Shabbat experience. Little ones will enjoy a program of Shabbat songs, Torah stories, Parachute and Tunnel play held in the Bickur Cholim Chapel. Kiddush, Motzi, and a bagel oneg will follow this fun-filled program, generously hosted by our Sisterhood. Siblings are welcome. Open to the Community. A wonderful way to come together as a family and meet new friends! 292-0939, rdsechrist@gmail.com B’nei Mitzvah Inauguration Class of 5775 Sinai, 9 AM B’ Nei Mitzvah students of the class of 5775 will participate in leading services. Parents will be presenting their children with chumashim. Please join the community as we welcome
next year’s B’nei Mitzvah Class of 5775! Office@Sinai-SJ.org, 264-8542 New Member Shabbat Beth David, 9:30 AM Join us in welcoming our 5774 new CBD members with Shabbat honors. Following services they will be joining us for Kiddish lunch. Let’s give them a warm CBD welcome! JYEPAdmin@beth-david.org, 257-3333 SUNDAY, MAY 11 Book Discussion Group: “A Guide for the Perplexed” by Dara Horn Shir Hadash, 10:45 AM See ad on page 22. THURSDAY, MAY 15 Jewish Women’s Literature for Latin America Shir Hadash, 10:30 AM The women’s study group is a multigenerational group that enjoys learning not just the selected text but also about each other. Participants find it rewarding to see and engage with new groups of women of all ages each year. Each individual brings her own life experiences to the topic of the year creating great relationships. The women’s study group is co-sponsored by Brandeis Women. 358-1751, patty@shirhadash.org FRIDAY, MAY 16 PJ Shabbat and Kid-Friendly Dinner Beth David, 6 PM This mini Kabbalat Shabbat service is geared towards tots (ages 0-5) and will feature songs, puppets, felt, story time, plus a kid-friendly Shabbat dinner! Come as you are with kids in PJs! No worries about getting dressed up – this will be a casual night for all! Cost for dinner is: $10/ adult; $2/child (3 and up); kids under 3 eat free! RSVPs are requested at 257-3333, www.beth-david.org/rsvp SUNDAY, MAY 18 Guadalupe Creek Clean-Up San Jose, 9 AM-12 PM See ad on page 21.
Wellness Fair APJCC, 10 AM Learn about all aspects of wellness at the JCC’s annual Wellness Fair. For all ages, adults and kids. jason@svjcc.org, 358-3636 Knitzvah Chai House, 10:30 AM Knitzvah is a JFS volunteer group of knitters, crocheters and seamstresses of all ages who meet monthly to create beautiful handmade creations. Knitzvah distributes these gifts to 18 nonprofits. All ages and levels of experience are welcome. Come and be a part of this dynamic group or donate yarn to help them meet the needs of our community. loric@jfssv.org, 556-0600 Lag Ba’Omer Bonfire Palo Alto, 6:30 PM Join the JSN for an unforgettable evening with a BBQ, live music, a fire dancer and, of course, good Torah! Families welcome! $10/person, $50/family max. info@jsn.info, (650) 493-5764 TUESDAY, MAY 20 Current Issues Affecting Israel and the Middle East Beth David, 7:30 PM See ad on page 14. THURSDAY, MAY 22 Journalist Harry Rosenfeld APJCC, 7 PM See ad on page 15. SATURDAY, MAY 24 Tea, Torah, & Havdallah Emanu-El, 4 PM Join Cantor Simerly for an egalitarian Tea and Torah event that includes study of the week’s Torah portion over tea and noshes. Utilized are commentaries reflecting a variety of perspectives, including URJ’s “Torah: A Women’s Commentary.” Open and welcoming to all who would like to learn about the history, thought process, and fast evolving freedom of expression, from a contemporary Reform Judaism approach. stephanie@templesanjose.org, 292-0939
SATURDAY, MAY 31 Sinai Celebrates Its High School Graduates Sinai, 11 AM Join us at Shabbat services when our graduating high school seniors will be honored. Office@Sinai-SJ.org, 264-8542 SUNDAY, JUNE 1 Shir Fun Picnic & Park Day Los Gatos, 10 AM Bring your own lunch and enjoy a fun park day with your Shir Hadash friends at Bel Gatos Park, 330 Belgatos Road, Los Gatos. 358-1751 x2 Israeli Author’s Book Club Sinai, 10:30 AM Led by Malka Doron, this group explores Israeli literature that is available both in the original Hebrew and in English translation. Read in your preferred language, and then join Malka, who will share her insights on the readings and facilitate the group’s discussion in English. Bring your own coffee, and enjoy some engaging literary reflection in a relaxed and respectful environment. This months reading: “Second Person Singular” by Sayed Kashua.The English version of the book is available on Amazon and other online booksellers; some are also available at local libraries. Office@Sinai-SJ.org, 264-8542 TUESDAY, JUNE 3 Shavuot Services, Dinner and Tikkun Leyl Shavuot Sinai, 8 PM Stay for an hour--or stay for the whole program. Office@Sinai-SJ.org, 264-8542 Tikkun Leil Shavuot Beth David, 9 PM Welcome the holiday through prayers then stay for inspiring learning with our Rabbis. As always, you are invited to bring your questions and your appetites (cheesecake will be served)! biran@beth-david.org, 257-3333 WEDNESDAY, JUNE 4 Shavuot Morning Services Sinai, 9 AM Office@Sinai-SJ.org, 264-8542
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THURSDAY, JUNE 5 Shavuot Morning Services with Yizkor Sinai, 9 AM Office@Sinai-SJ.org, 264-8542 SATURDAY, JUNE 7 Service in Honor of Rabbi Pressman’s Retirement Beth David, 9:30 AM Join us for a special Shabbat service led by our graduating 7th graders and Seniors. Special modifications in honor of Rabbi Pressman’s retirement. 257-3333, Bendahan@bethdavid.org YOGA Shabbat Emanu-El, 10 AM See ad on page 12. SUNDAY, JUNE 8 A Night of Comedy and Jazz in Honor of CBD Rabbi Pressman’s Retirement APJCC, 7 PM See ad on page 7. TUESDAY, JUNE 10 Yavneh 8th Grade Graduation APJCC, 1:30 PM The Class of 2014 will be recognized and awarded diplomas-please join us! jennifer@ yavnehdayschool.org, 357-7407 THURSDAY, JUNE 12 PJ Library Goes to Happy Hollow for EdZOOcation! Happy Hollow, 10:30 AM Sign up now for the chance to go to Happy Hollow Park
and Zoo to learn from the zoo teachers and interact with several animals as guided by the animal ambassadors. This is an event only for PJ Library in a reserved section of Happy Hollow. Reservations are very limited and required. Children age two and up are welcome. General Admission to Happy Hollow Zoo is not included, but we will arrange group tickets at $8/person by request and payment online. rabbialexander@jvalley.org, 357-7509 SATURDAY, JUNE 14 Babies & Bagels Shabbat! Emanu-El, 9 AM Our popular Shabbat morning experience for families and children ages 0-30 months! Parents will enjoy a brief Shabbat experience. Little ones will enjoy a program of Shabbat songs, Torah stories, Parachute and Tunnel play held in the Bickur Cholim Chapel. Kiddush, Motzi, and a bagel oneg will follow this fun-filled program, generously hosted by our Sisterhood. Siblings are welcome. Open to the Community. A wonderful way to come together as a family and meet new friends! 292-0939, rdsechrist@gmail.com
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FRIDAY, JUNE 20 PJ Shabbat and Kid-Friendly Dinner Beth David, 6 PM This mini Kabbalat Shabbat service is geared towards tots (ages 0-5) and will feature songs, puppets, felt, story time, plus a kid-friendly Shabbat dinner! Come as you are with kids in PJs! No worries about getting dressed up – this will be a casual night for all! Cost for dinner is: $10/adult; $2/child (3 and up); kids under 3 eat free! RSVPs are requested: 257-3333, www.beth-david.org/rsvp.
Silicon Valley Jewish Music Festival APJCC, 3 PM See ad on page 2. THURSDAY, JUNE 26 Annual Meeting Levy Family Campus, 6 PM See ad on page 21.
SUNDAY, JUNE 22 Knitzvah Chai House, 10:30 AM Knitzvah is a JFS volunteer group of knitters, crocheters and seamstresses of all ages who meet monthly to create beautiful handmade creations. Knitzvah distributes these gifts to 18 nonprofits. All ages and levels of experience are welcome. Come and be a part of this dynamic group or donate yarn to help them meet the needs of our community. loric@jfssv.org
YOM HAZIKARON/ MEMORIAL DAY CEREMONY FOR ISRAELI FALLEN SOLDIERS AND VICTIMS OF TERRORISM SUNDAY, MAY 4TH, 7PM Stanford Memorial Auditorium Free and Open to the Public
The Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley and the Silicon Valley Israeli community invite the entire community to express their solidarity. At this moving ceremony, we will gather to remember and to affirm our larger Jewish identity as a civilization and cultural community. Through poems and songs presented by high school students, we will honor those who gave their lives. Inclusive program with English translation of Hebrew poems. INFO: diane@jvalley.org or (408)357-7504
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THE COMMUNITY MIKVAH OF THE JEWISH FEDERATION OF SILICON VALLEY PRESENTS
Embracing Life’s Transitions Wednesday, May 7, 2014 7:30-9 pm
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there is a special prayer we can recite before taking our trip asking God to bless us and our trip. What does it say and where can I find it?
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For many in our community the summer months are an opportunity to do a little traveling or explore the beauty and diversity of our own region here in Northern California. As we make plans for day-trips or more lengthy journeys, we begin to think about what we will do, what we will bring, and how we will get there. Then, as we begin our adventures we find ourselves busy taking photos, figuring out Ask the Rabbi where to eat, and how to get from one place to the next. In fact, sometimes all of the details of planning By Rabbia Philip Ohriner, trip, no matterCongregation how short,Beth and David then taking the trip itself leaves us more tired and run down than we were before we left! How many times have you come back from a vacation and thought to yourself, “I Dear Rabbi, need a vacation!” I know I have that feeling frequently—particularly when traveling with the kids!
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וְ ַתגִיעֵנוּ. וְתַדְרִיכֵנוּ לְשָלוֹם. וְתִסְמְכֵנוּ לְשָלוֹם. שֶתּוֹלִיכֵנוּ לְשָלוֹם וְתַצְעִידֵנוּ לְשָלוֹם,ֹלהֵי אֲבוֹתֵינוּ-ֹלהֵינוּ וֵא-ֱיְהִי רָצוֹן מִלְפָנֶיָך ה' א לִמְחוֹז ֶחפְצֵנוּ לְחַי ִּים וּלְשִֹמְחָה וּלְשָלוֹם ְותַצִּילֵנוּ מִכַּף כָּל אוֹי ֵב וְאוֹרֵב ְולִסְטִים וְחַיּוֹת רָעוֹת בַדֶּרְֶך וּמִ ָכּל מִינֵי פּוּרְ ָענִיּוֹת הַמִתְרַגְּשוֹת -ֵ כִּי א. וְתִתְּנֵנוּ לְחֵן וּלְחֶסֶד וּלְרַחֲמִים בְעֵינֶיָך וּ ְבעֵינֵי כָל רוֹאֵינוּ וְתִשְמַע קוֹל תַּחֲנוּנֵינוּ,לָבוֹא לָעוֹלָם וְתִשְלַח בְּרָכָה בְּכָל מַעֲשֵ ֹה יָדֵינוּ . שוֹ ֵמעַ תְּפִלָּה,' בָּרוְּך אַתָּה ה:ל שוֹמֵעַ תְּ ִפלָּה וְתַחֲנוּן אָתָּה
Y’hi ratzon milfanekha A-donai E-loheinu ve-lohei avoteinu she-tolikhenu l’shalom v’tatz’idenu l’shalom v’tadrikhenu l’shalom, v’tagi’enu limhoz heftzenu l’hayim ul-simha ul-shalom. V’tatzilenu mi-kaf kol oyev v’orev v’listim v’hayot ra’ot ba-derekh, u-mi-kol minei pur’aniyot ha-mitrag’shot la-vo la-olam. V’tishlah b’rakha b’khol ma’a’se yadeinu v’tit’nenu l’hen ul-hesed ulrahamim b’einekha uv-einei khol ro’einu. V’tishma kol tahanuneinu ki E-l sho’me’a t’fila v’tahanun ata. Barukh ata A-donai sho’me’a t’fila. May it be Your will, A-donai our G-d and the G-d of our ancestors, that You lead us toward peace, guide our footsteps toward peace, and make us reach our desired destination for life, gladness, and peace. May You rescue us from the hand of every foe, ambush along the way, and from all manner of afflictions. May You send blessing in our handiwork, and grant us grace, kindness, and mercy in Your eyes and in the eyes of all who see us. May You hear the voicing of our request, for You are G-d Who listens to prayer. Blessed are You, A-donai, Who hears prayer.
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obituaries BERT CASS
September 2, 1914 - March 18, 2014 Bert Cass, son of Isadore David Cass and Bertha Rebecca Sachs Cass, was born in New York City where he spent most of his younger years. He served in World War II in the United States Army and later supported his family working as a salesman. He was married for 57 years to Annette Bahl Cass who predeceased him in 2004. He died peacefully, surrounded by his family in his home in Chai House after a return of the weakening effects of myasthenia gravis. He and his family enjoyed camping and Bert and Annette were able to visit every one of the contiguous states in their motor home. They also enjoyed their community at Congregation Shir Hadash in Los Gatos. He and his wife retired to the Bay Area in 1987. He volunteered in the Ice Cream Shop at the San Jose Historical Park and in the gift shops for the Valley Med and Good Samaritan Hospitals while still in his 80s; he supported the convenience shop in the lobby of Chai House almost until the day that he died. Bert will be missed by his family and his multitude of friends. He will be remembered for his all-encompassing love of family, his great ability to leave folks with a smile and his love for hockey and the San Jose Sharks. Myasthenia gravis removed almost every joy from his life so he left life with few regrets. He stated that his only regret was that he didn’t get to see the Sharks win the Stanley Cup. He is survived by his daughter Adrienne (Mike) Friedman, his grandson Greg (Alexis) Friedman and their children Knox and Tate Friedman and grandson Jeff Ernst-Friedman (Kelly) and their son Emery. He is also survived by his son-in-law Roger Kerrey and his son David Kerrey. His daughter Beth Cass Kerrey died in 2004. Donations in Bert’s memory may be made to the Myasthenia Gravis Foundation of California: http.//myasthenia-ca.org/index. html; 6055 E. Washington Blvd. Suite #350, Los Angeles, CA 90040. For more information, email: infor@myasthenia-ca.org or call: (800)-574-7884 (in California or Nevada or (323) 887-0056.
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