Oregon Jewish Life December 2015 Vol. 4 / Issue 9

DECEMBER 2015

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Inside

Features COVER STORY

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Randy Spelling finds Portland fulfilling….………………………………………………….14

UPFRONT Safety for Shabbat………………..………………………………………………………………..8

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Hanukkah

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Gift Guide…………………………………….…………………………………………………………34 Kids plan game for parents………………..………………………………………………………36 Bring your light into the world…………….……………………………………………………….38 Campus Celebrations ……………………….………………………………………………………40

BUSINESS CRC reacts to boycott move in Portland………..…………………………………………..10 Ins & Outs………………………………………….……………………………………………….12

FOOD Chef’s Corner: Entertain with brunch…....………………………………………………….20 NW Nosh: Bagels rise to greatness …….…...………………………………………………22

SENIORS Senior’s life touches refugees on two continents………………………………………..43

ARTS & ENTERTAINMENT Oregon poet brings home major prize……………..………………………………………..46 Free concert benefits JFCS, others ………………………………………………………….48 Cabaret duo to perform Dec. 8……..……………………………………………………….. 49 Ghost of Hanukkah Present haunts Carol….………………………………………………50

ISRAEL Rally marks Rabin assassination anniversary…………………………………………….52

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Youth and Family Hanukkah Fun…..………………………………………………………….24 Read like a Maccabee…………..………………………………………………………………25 Reflecting on another festival of light…..…………………………………………………..27 A polar bear conundrum………………..………………………………………………………28 CD re-released just in time for Hanukkah………………………………………………….29 Emilia Wolf puts national prize to good use……………………………………………….30

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Benefit for the future.................………………………………………………………………….55 Bring joy to needy families…………………………………………………………………………56 Melton returns to Portland…….…………………………………………………………………..59 Hanukkah activity sheet……………………….………………………………………………......61 FACES from recent events …….……………………………………………………………………62 Chabad Rabbis convene…………………………………………………………………………….64 Previews of things to come …….………………………………………………………………….64 Calendar …….……………………….………………………………………………………………..66

Columns

20 Chef’s Corner by Lisa Glickman 22 NW Nosh by Kerry Politzer 28 Family Time by Debra Rich Gettleman 38 To Life by Amy Hirshberg Lederman 51 Ask Helen COVER PHOTO: Randy Spelling. Photo by LuboshCech.com

CORRECTIONS A November article about comic Betsy Kauffman contained one garbled paragraph. The corrected paragraph follows: Judaism and the Midwest don’t completely dominate her inventory of jokes, though. Gags about family life often reign supreme. And no wonder. When unmarried, she placed an ad in Willamette Week’s singles section, stating clearly that any date of hers would have to be funny. She dated and ultimately married Jeffrey Kauffman, whom our comedian calls “a very passionate, creative person. He’s a great keyboard player and writer who reviews movies for blu-ray.com.” This husband, she boasts, has given her some of her best lines ever.

A photo on the FACES pages of the November issue incorrectly identified two women as sisters. Barb Saltzman Lovre met Carole King at the Targeting Hope, a friend raiser as opposed to a fundraiser started in 2008 and held every other year by the OHSU Knight Cancer Institute.

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Happy Hanukkah!

Two themes come to mind this month as I look over our stories – Hanukkah and people impacted by this state.

Two men from vastly divergent backgrounds discovered how fulfilling life can be in Oregon.

The subject of our Upfront story was raised on a ranch in rural Colorado. BenTzion Davis says he did some wild things early in his life. But living in Oregon, he realized his mind and spirit were searching for meaning. He found it in Oregon’s Orthodox Jewish community. He has since moved to New York to be part of a larger Orthodox community. An electronic engineering technician, BenTzion has used his knowledge to pay back the community that nurtured him – his creation makes strict observance of Shabbat safer.

Our cover subject, Randy Spelling, grew up in the stratospheric environment of Hollywood. The son of television’s most prolific producer, Aaron Spelling, Randy’s entire world was the entertainment empire that he helped portray in “Beverly Hills, 90210.” Though his sister Tori thrived in the limelight, Randy says he never really felt he belonged to that world. But it took his father’s death and his own near-death from drugs to make him seek meaning. When a magazine feature on Portland struck a resonant chord in his being, he swiftly moved here. The life he has built for himself, his wife and his daughters is far more fulfilling than the Hollywood glitter he left behind. He says his daughters enjoy the holiday celebrations.

Which brings us to Hanukkah. Hanukkah seems to flow through much of this issue. We couldn’t confine our holiday coverage to just one section. Our JKids and Teens section includes family and youth parties, Hanukkah books and a re-released CD. College youth reflect on Hanukkah on campus. Arts & Entertainment features a Seasons of Light concert and the Ghost of Hanukkah Present. If you are looking for the perfect gift, be sure to check out our Hanukkah Gift Guide.

Columnist Amy Hirshberg Lederman writes about how we can each bring our own light into the world this holiday season.

She shares eight ways to make a difference in the world, one for each night we light the menorah; but her suggestions can be followed every day of the year to make this a better world.

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Safety for Shabbat BenTzion Davis shows his safe hotplate to his daughter Raquel.

to live on the West Coast, and he bought a farmhouse near Eugene. After crashing an ultralight in 2001, he spent months in a body cast.

A 2001 ultralight crash that broke his back changed life “That accident led me to start searching,” he says. Reading the forever for BenTzion Davis – for the better. Now BenTzion Torah, some Hassidic texts and Jewish history “convinced me of the truth of the Jewish faith.” is making life safer for the Orthodox Jewish world that After studying on his own for a couple years, he went to helped him discover a satisfying and happy life.

Ahavas Torah, a small Orthodox shul in Eugene that was only big enough to have a minyan on Shabbat morning. He decided A successful 45-day Kickstarter campaign has given BenTzito move to Portland to continue his studies with Rabbi Kenneth on the funds needed to begin production of the Shabbos Safe Brodkin at the larger Congregation Kesser Hotplate, which has been endorsed by Israel. In Portland he also enrolled at PortOregon Kosher for Shabbat use. He expects land Community College for an electronic his TechYid Co to have the hotplate on the engineering tech degree. market by February. He designed the hotplate As he became immersed in Portland’s in the wake of a fatal house fire in Brooklyn Orthodox community, those secular studies last spring, one of several fires in the past 15 came into play.

Rabbi Brodkin recalls that years resulting from the Orthodox practice of members of the community would often keeping food warm on Shabbat and holidays. call on BenTzion when they had problems “Since cooking is one of the 39 categoor questions about an electrical appliance. ries of 'Creative Work' that we rest from on When Maayan Torah Day School was setShabbat, the hotplate was designed so that the ting up classrooms, he says BenTzion came temperature self-adjusts so as to not present in and got all the electronics properly set up. a cooking issue,” says Rabbi Tzvi Fischer, BenTzion’s first hint that Shabbat hotkashrus administrator of Oregon Kosher and plates needed to be updated came in Portdean of the Portland Kollel. “The endorseland.

He was renting a basement apartment, ment tells the concerned consumer that not downstairs from Oregon Kosher Rabbi Dov only is it designed to be safe with long-term Chastain. One Friday afternoon, Rebbetzin use, it is also safe for use on Shabbat to reheat Chastain asked him to look at her malfuncfoods on Shabbat.” tioning hotplate.

Raised on a ranch in La Junta, CO, BenTzi“The inside was horrible,” he wrote on the on grew up surrounded by dogs, horses and Kickstarter page. “The heating element was cattle – but his only Jewish acquaintance was just a thin live electric wire coil surrounded one classmate. His family has been ranching by ceramic insulators.

The blech (another in Colorado for four generations. As a young – Rabbi Tzvi Fischer term for Shabbat cooking unit) had been adult, he moved to Oregon because he wanted

By Deborah Moon

“Since cooking is one of the 39 categories of ‘Creative Work’ that we rest from on Shabbat, the hotplate was designed so that the temperature selfadjusts so as to not present a cooking issue.”

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dropped on the counter outside, he says the hard use can like all blechs in time lead to the uninsulated elements will, and one of the inside overheating. ceramic insulators had “They are not safe to operate broken. This allowed the past a year from an electronic live wire coil to arc-weld engineer’s point of view,” he says. itself to the metal housBenTzion’s Shabbat hotplate ing of the blech. This is uses a heating element similar to an extreme fire and safety those in toaster ovens, which will hazard.” not shock you if you touch it.

BenTzion points out The heating element makes the that most, if not all, hotplate more costly to make, Shabbat hotplates on but it pulls only two amps. Comthe market are heated bined with a solid steel housing by a live electric coil and several circuit breakers, that plugs directly into including an internal thermal the wall with no added circuit breaker that cuts power resistors. He says the temporarily if the unit gets too only insulation is the hot, the hotplate is more durable external cover, and if you and safer. touch the live coil it will “The hotplate is raised three shock you. centimeters from the counter, so “It turns red hot,” he even on a three-day yom tov it says. “And it pulls a lot of won’t burn the counter,” he adds. electricity.”

Response to the idea was, shall BenTzion Davis and daughter Raquel.

BenTzion realized that we say, electric. The project was Shabbat hotplates now fully funded through Internet on the market become crowd-funding in just 45 days. unsafe over time when used for 25 hours every week and 72 “The response has been pretty amazing,” he says. “I was worhours on some holidays. While the hotplates look fine on the ried since half of my intended audience is not known for their

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Internet use. And the first unit is only designed to use 110 volts, so they won’t work in Europe or Israel. I got so many responses from Israeli Jews, I already started designing an Israeli unit.”

Though he had known of the limitations of the existing hotplates, he didn’t decide to design his own until after he moved to Brooklyn. He has been married for two years to Avigayil, whose story he says is more interesting

BenTzion, Avigayil and Raquel visit his sister’s horse ranch in Colorado.

than his own. Avigayil arrived in Israel in 1984 after her mother carried her across the desert in Sudan for four months so they could escape Ethiopia and make aliyah during the first airlift of the Ethiopian Jewish community. Avigayil and BenTzion have a 1-year-old daughter, Raquel Tiffereth.

Perhaps having recently become a father made the Brooklyn house fire that killed seven Orthodox children even more alarming to BenTzion. When neighbors asked for his professional opinion on a safe Shabbat hotplate, he says he could not recommend any. So he set about creating one.

“He is a real self-starter,” says Rabbi Brodkin. “He is always advancing himself spiritually and in his career. … He wants to enhance people’s ability to celebrate Shabbat.”

Rabbi Fischer adds, “This product is a part of his desire to help and make a difference. He is not an entrepreneur as much as a caring engineer who saw a need for a safe device and created it. I am happy that he is succeeding, and I'm happy that a truly unsafe practice/device will now be faded out and replaced with a safe option.”

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CRC reacts to Portland support of BDS

By Marc Blattner

The past few weeks have been quite challenging. The Jewish Federation of Greater Portland learned that on Oct. 7, the Portland Human Rights Commission voted unanimously to support a proposal by Occupation Free-Portland to push city leaders to block city investments in four companies (Hewlett Packard, Motorola, Caterpillar and G4S) that do business with Israel and, according to the group, commit human-rights abuses in the process.

If the proposal was not enough, the fact that no one from the Jewish community was even invited or informed that this issue was being discussed is unconscionable.

The HRC stated they were “guided by the Universal Declaration of Human Rights and endorsed Occupation-Free Portland’s request solely on the four companies involved in human rights violations in Israel and the Palestinian territories.” According to the HRC, this was not an issue related to religion or nationality, but solely on human rights impacts, and will now “request the City of Portland to divest from companies profiting from the violent conflict.”

Immediately learning of this, the Jewish Community Relations Council ( JCRC) of the Jewish Federation went into action. It is important to note that much of our work happens behind the scenes and Marc Blattner quietly.

First, we contacted the Mayor’s office to better understand the role that the HRC plays in Portland. Next, we approached the Human Rights Commission to better understand how this decision came to be. We also did our homework to learn more about Occupation-Free Portland – an active endorser of the Boycott, Divestment, and Sanctions (BDS) movement plaguing the State of Israel and Jewish communities around the world.

Following, we contacted our local officials and shared with them this resolution and the Jewish community’s opposition to it. We were pleased by the immediate responses received: Mayor Charlie Hales made a statement: “The city’s Human Rights Commission endorsed a proposal urging the city to adopt an investment policy based on the conflict in Israel. I reject this recommendation and, should it come before the City Council, would vote against it. It is complex and hurtful for the communities involved. This vote also is divisive within the community of Portlanders.”

Congresswoman Suzanne Bonamici sent a letter to the mayor, City Council and commission chair denouncing the HRC move: “This decision is deeply disappointing and only aggravates divisions among people who share a common goal — a peaceful two-state solution that affirms the rights of Israelis and Palestinians. Further,

the manner in which it occurred, without the input of any of the major Jewish organizations or congregations, calls into question both the process and the credibility of the decision.”

Since the vote in October, two members of the Commission (both Jewish) renounced their votes.

The Jewish community requested and was granted the opportunity to provide “testimony” this past Wednesday to the HRC. The meeting included some 200 community members on different sides of the issue in front of the twelve members of the Human Rights Commission.

Community representatives (including JCRC leaders, two rabbis, and a high school student) and an Episcopal priest shared our concerns. They discussed the current conflict in Israel, the current challenges facing Israelis and Palestinians, and, most importantly, what the BDS movement is and how it operates. It was pointed out that these four companies do business around the world, yet they are being singled out for their work in Israel.

The Rev. Ann Emry, Episcopal priest at St. Paul’s Episcopal Church in Salem, spoke on our behalf. She eloquently stated, “Rescind your support of BDS. BDS is not the way to peace.

It is a strategy modeled on the campaign against South Africa, which also was not designed to promote peace but to dismantle the state. BDS leaders abhor cooperation between Israelis and Palestinians and often attack organizations that seek to bring the two sides together in a peaceful manner.”

What I observed was a commission that truly does not understand nor were they interested in the underlying agenda of the BDS movement. Divestment is not about human rights. In this case, it is an effort to delegitimize the State of Israel.

At the Oct. 7 meeting, the HRC seemed solely focused on hearing testimony on why these four companies should not be boycotted. Occupation-Free Portland, pushing their BDS agenda, provided their biased information prior to the vote in October. In a blow to due diligence and process — just as the Jewish community was never invited to participate in the conversation, none of the four companies being discussed were invited in front of the HRC to refute these ugly accusations.

In fact, it wasn’t until JCRC contacted the companies that they even knew about the HRC’s charges and actions. One would think the HRC would do its homework before making such a decision.

At the end of the meeting, the HRC voted 6-5 with one abstention against reconsidering the proposal. We were not surprised by the outcome, although the closeness of the vote was interesting. The proposal may now move forward to Portland’s Socially Responsible Investment Committee. I assure you the JCRC will continue its push for appropriate action.

I am proud of the leadership exhibited by Bob Horenstein and the Jewish Community Relations Council. This is a major piece of our work (work you may never hear about) as we represent the organized Jewish community on issues that impact the Jewish people worldwide. We will remain steadfast in opposition to the BDS movement and stand strong with the State of Israel. Sadly, on this issue, there is more work to be done.

This article is an excerpt from Jewish Federation of Greater Portland President and CEO Marc Blattner’s Nov. 6 weekly email “Marc’s Remarks.”

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ALLISON MUDRICK NEW LEADER OF OPERATION SCHOOL BELL

Although Allison Mudrick retired from the Portland Public School District in 1999, she has remained active in aiding children, focusing first on reading programs and more recently on childhood poverty. Now as chair of Assistance League of Greater Portland’s Operation School Bell, she is managing a community service program with an annual budget of more than $300,000 and more than 60 member volunteers.

“There were always a few children who didn't have heavy coats, sweatshirts or shoes appropriate for chilly weather,” Allison says, recalling what she saw firsthand during her 30 years of teaching middle school. “With Operation School Bell, we give children new clothes that are clean and that fit. When we do that, we help prepare a child to learn and grow, to be the best they can.”

From Assistance League’s Beaverton headquarters, almost 3,000 children in need in the Beaverton and Hillsboro Public School Districts will benefit from the program this year.

A member of congregations Shaarie Torah and Neveh Shalom, Allison plans to develop more liaisons with local organizations and businesses to increase the impact of Operation School Bell. This year Operation School Bell received a grant from the Oregon Jewish Community Youth Foundation.

“Community partnerships are essential to any program that needs to expand to meet the needs of the most vulnerable in the community,” says Allison.

Assistance League of Greater Portland is a local chapter of a national nonprofit member volunteer organization. Assistance League’s member volunteers provide four community service programs serving children and victims of violence.

In addition to grants, sponsorships and donations, funds for these programs are raised at Assistance League Thrift and Consignment Shop at 4000 SW 117th Ave. in Beaverton. portland.assistanceleague.org.

BLUESTONE & HOCKLEY NAMES DIRECTORS

The Bluestone & Hockley Residential Management Department welcomes Jeremy Boardman as its new director of Residential Services and Patty Harvey as director of Commercial Management.

Company owners, Cliff and Julie Hockley, are very active in the Jewish community. Julie is a former board member of the Mittleman Jewish Community Center. Both Cliff and Julie served on the board that oversaw the transition of Hillel Academy into Portland Jewish Academy.

The couple belongs to Congregation Shaarie Torah.

Jeremy joined Bluestone & Hockley from Washington, D.C., where, for 10 years, he owned and operated a property management company serving single-family rental homes, apartment buildings and homeowner associations. His various certifications include the LEED Green Associate and Certified Home Inspector credentials. He was also 12 DECEMBER 2015 | OREGON JEWISH LIFE

a founding member of the D.C. chapter of NARPM (National Association of Residential Property Managers), where he served as chair of the Education Committee.

Bluestone & Hockley Residential manages 1,500 units of multifamily and single-family residences throughout the northern Oregon I-5 corridor.

Patty, formerly the interim director of Bluestone & Hockley’s Commercial Management department, has received a promotion to assume the role of director on a permanent basis.

Patty holds an Oregon Broker’s License as well as a California Real Estate License. Her well-rounded experience includes over 20 years of managing low-, mid- and high-rise office buildings, shopping centers and industrial properties in the Silicon Valley, San Francisco Bay area and downtown Portland. Her extensive experience overseeing significant renovation projects is a key asset to the company during this period of significant growth in the Portland market.

Founded in 1972, Bluestone & Hockley currently provides a comprehensive range of real estate services, including commercial and residential property management, condominium association management and building maintenance.

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MORGAN ST THEATER GOES BRICK AND MORTAR FOR WINTER

Jared Goodman of Morgan St Theater is thrilled to be settling down into a new space this winter, bringing his whimsical dessert dining experience to a cozy restaurant in Northeast Portland. This new abode will be at Handsome Pizza, 1603 NE Killingsworth St. The winter location is warmed with a wood-burning fire, with plenty of room for live performances and, in time, an ability to serve wine and beer to pair with the meal.

The live performances will showcase talented people from all over Portland – from storytellers to puppeteers to musicians. Morgan St Theater aspires to be a unique dessert destination, pairing artisan desserts with engaging entertainment and interesting people to create a truly memorable and meaningful dining experience.

The theme and menu change monthly to explore an idea and reflect what's in season. As host and chef, Jared hopes that your meal is as inspiring as your conversation. This dessert pop-up concept will stick around through May; come June, Jared will be gearing up for farmers markets, street fairs and weddings. What better way to enjoy the dark and wet days of winter than with an evening of dessert theater?

Winter dessert pop-ups have been set for the first two months of 2016 on Wednesday evenings, Jan. 13, 20 and 27 and Feb. 3, 10 and 17. Tickets to MST pop-ups are now $40, which includes a dessert tasting menu, live entertainment, coffee or tea and gratuity. info@morgansttheater.com

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Randy Spelling from glittery Hollywood to fulfilling Portland

By Deborah Moon

“When I was in a dark place, I knew how light life could be, and I wanted to go back there.”

Although he was bored with his first bit part in his father’s “Beverly Hills, 90210” TV show, Randy Spelling decided in high school that he wanted to join the family business – entertainment.

Randy is the son of Aaron Spelling, television’s most prolific producer, and Candy Spelling. He is the brother of actress Tori Spelling. Randy says he didn’t want to disappoint his family, and he has a great appreciation for the entertainment industry, but adds “It never was for me.”

He attributes the addictions that nearly killed him the year his father died (2006) to “not being true to myself.”

Now a 37-year-old husband, father, life coach and author living in Portland, he describes life as happy, fulfilling and full of good food. But it was an often gilded, ~ Randy Spelling occasionally tortured road he followed from Spelling Manor in Los Angeles to Southeast Portland.

“Any house that has a name is usually on the large side,” Randy says of the mansion where he spent his adolescence. “It is its own entity.” The family lived north of Sunset Boulevard in Los Angeles and then moved three blocks to take up residence in Spelling Manor after construction was completed on the 56,500-square-foot mansion when Randy was 12.

“It was large,” he says, noting it had an arcade and bowling alley. “I had a lot of fun there. My house was the place where my friends came.”

Randy says his father’s parents, who immigrated from Poland and Russia, “were as Jewish as they come.” His mother also grew up in a Jewish home, though she longed to celebrate Christmas, so Randy was exposed to both Jewish and mainstream holidays early in life. He lit the Hanukkah candles and said the blessings.

The family went to temple on High Holidays and celebrated Passover. His parents gave him the choice of whether to study and become a bar mitzvah. “Eighty percent of my friends were Jewish, so I was going to bar and bat mitzvahs all the time,” he says. “Because they gave me a choice, the choice was ‘no.’ ”

He was always close to his dad, though sometimes he would only see him on weekends due to Aaron Spelling’s busy schedule.

The Internet Movie Database lists the elder Spelling as the producer of 225 television series, movies and mini-series including long-running series stretching from “Burke’s Law” (1963-66), “Mod Squad” (1968-73), “The Love Boat” (1977-87) and “Dynasty” (1981-89) through “7th Heaven” (1996-2006) and “Charmed” (1998-2006).

“Beverly Hills, 90210,” which ran from 1990 to 2000, gave Randy both his first taste of acting and a recurring role three years later.

A year after moving to Spelling Manor, Randy says his dad and sister thought it would be fun for him to try acting. “So he gave me a tiny part the summer of eighth grade. I wanted to play with my friends instead of waiting days for one line; there were lots of takes. I couldn’t wait to be done.”

About three years later, Randy had taken some acting classes in high school and decided he did want to pursue the family business. So during a family dinner in Las Vegas, he asked his parents if he could work with an acting coach. He began working with Kathryn Daley, Tori’s childhood coach. It was a momentous choice that turned out to have far-reaching repercussions.

Kathryn was into meditation and metaphysical teachings. In addition to studying acting techniques, Randy began to meditate daily and started “down the road of self-discovery.” He became an avid reader of self-help, new age and religious books including Kabbalah.

“In retrospect, if I didn’t go so far in that direction and have those experiences of connection, I probably would have died,” he says. “When I was in a dark place, I knew how light life could be, and I wanted to go back there.”

The acting payoff was more immediate. He landed a role on “Malibu Shores,” followed by a return to 90210 when a recurring role came up for Steve’s little brother. He also appeared in OREGON JEWISH LIFE | DECEMBER 2015 15

Randy Spelling enjoys Portland’s food culture including local coffee houses. Photo by Deborah Moon “Charmed” before starring on “Sunset Beach” for four seasons.

After taking a break to run an independent recording company for a couple of years beginning in 2000, he returned to acting.

He appeared in “a handful of movies” before his agent convinced him he needed to do a reality show to propel his career.

The show was “Sons of Hollywood.” He starred with Sean Stewart (son of British rocker Rod Stewart) and their childhood friend and agent, David Weintraub.

“I never wanted to do a reality show,” he says. “Shooting the show was a horrible experience. My father passed away while we were shooting. And I was struggling with an addiction. There 16 DECEMBER 2015 | OREGON JEWISH LIFE

were four times when I could have or should have died.”

Randy says he was addicted “to anything that would make me feel different – alcohol, drugs.”

When his father passed away in 2006, Randy says he realized he, too, would die “unless something changed.”

“Coupled with a feeling I had inside that there was so much more to life, a deeper spiritual connection I was in tune with before this madness,” he began to find his way out.

He attributes his addiction to “not embracing who I was, struggling to find my place in the world.”

In the world he grew up in, he didn’t know what else he could

“Portland really showcases what is grown around here. I really like to eat.” ~ Randy Spelling

do besides join the entertainment industry.

“Finding my own voice … took a little longer, but I found it,” he says.

His first discovery was life coaching. Knowing he wanted to do something different, in 2007 he enrolled in a life-coaching course and “it felt fitting.” So he signed up for the two-year Coach U at a time when most people hadn’t heard of life coaching and began his new career.

In 2009 two more changes were on the horizon. Sitting in a doctor’s waiting room, he picked up a magazine and began reading an article about Portland. “I got an excited feeling in my stomach and thought ‘that’s strange,’ ” he says.

He read some Portland guidebooks cover to cover and thought “all the things sounded appealing at that stage of my

life.” He was attracted by “the burgeoning food scene, nature, the burgeoning food scene – I really love food – and the greenness, both attitude and environment.”

So he and his girlfriend, Leah, went to explore Portland the week before New Year’s. He proposed to Leah during the visit.

They moved to Portland in February 2010 and got married in September. He describes the outdoor wedding on a Hillsboro farm as “spiritual, nature-based,” then adds “We did have a chuppah.”

They enjoy being in nature, hiking and visiting farmers’ markets.

I love the farm-to-table restaurants,” he says. “Portland really showcases what is grown around here. I really like to eat.”

The couple has two daughters, Sage, 4, and Lotus, 2, so most family activities revolve around seasons and festivals. This Passover he says Lotus latched onto the traditional song Dayenu and for weeks kept singing “day, day enu.”

He says his mom loves being a grandma. “I’m close to Mom; I visit her and she visits us.” He also stays close to his sister Tori, who now has four children ages 3 to 8. Given Tori’s and his own busy schedules, he says they don’t see each other as often as he would like, but they keep in touch with photos and texts.

Meanwhile, Randy has built a thriving life-coaching business called Being in Flow (Randyspelling.com). His is an Associate Certified Coach of the International Coach Federation. Though based in Portland, he says he has clients from around the world with about 70% of his business via Skype or on the telephone.

He is also a motivational speaker and leads workshops and mastermind groups.

While acting professionally wasn’t for him, he says it did equip him with skills he uses in his presentations and working individually with clients.

“When I’m giving a talk in front of hundreds of people, I can sit in a chair or have more fun with it,” he says. “I act things out so people can see themselves in me and then change it. …

Sometimes it’s so hard to see yourself; if we see ourselves in someone else, it can be an ‘aha moment.’ It creates a visual of what the pattern is.”

After years of life coaching, Randy says, “I saw patterns in people – the same wants and needs no matter what country or age. The stories varied, but the underlying wants and needs are the same. We are all inhibited by our own limitations.”

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guidebook to living a better life. As he does in his coaching and speaking engagements, he helps people visualize themselves by sharing stories from his own life and those of clients and friends.

The stories “illustrate the biggest themes in the book. The point is to make it digestible and easy to read.”

The 286-page book from In Flow Books is available from unlimitingyou.com and on Amazon in paperback and for Kindle.

His business is also expanding this year. In late November he instituted online memberships on his website.

“The most exciting thing about membership is personal coaching can be expensive,” says Randy. “For a small monthly fee … people can work on weekly challenges at home without paying the same rates.”

There are three levels of membership available. Those who sign up for a free membership receive an e-book and step-by-step guides to try to make changes. The middle membership ($49/ month) includes weekly challenges and access to all features of the website. Those who sign up for the top level ($99/month) also get one 20-minute telephone session with Randy each month.

Between his family and running a business, Randy says life is busy, but now he is being true to himself, which for him means anything that is authentic and grounded in truth.

“I can get stressed and overwhelmed,” he says. But he realizes that when he is reacting to things happening around him, he is not being his true self at that moment. “I am an effect of happenings.”

At that time he says it helps to take a deep breath, go for a walk or simply ask himself, “Is this my true self ?”

“That simple question brings a slight shift that makes an expansive difference,” says Randy. “If you look at something slightly differently, one tiny angle changes everything.”

For Randy, the changes have all been good.

Tori, Aaron, Randy and Candy Spelling with the family dogs.

Photo courtesy of Randy Spelling

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ENTERTAIN HANUKKAH GUESTS OVER DELICIOUS BRUNCH

By Lisa Glickman

By Lisa Glickman

Winter’s chill is in the air and changing leaves have mostly fallen from the trees.

Soon it will be time to usher in another holiday season. Shortly after we roast the Thanksgiving turkey, it will be time again to light candles for Hanukkah. Entertaining will be in full swing as we invite family and friends into our home for open-house style gatherings to light the menorah, spin the dreidel and feast on all the traditional foods of Hanukkah.

At this time of the year we give ourselves the go-ahead and splurge on those fried potato latkes we love so much. My family can’t get enough of these crispy treats adorned with sweet applesauce and cool sour cream. It is customary for our family to come together for an evening meal to share gifts and light the candles on the menorah. Occasionally, we have deviated from this tradition by treating ourselves to a midday brunch.

Somewhere between the rise-and-shine two-egg breakfast and the half-sandwich and cup of soup special lies the magical hour of brunch. Typically saved for Sundays, this homage to all things sweet and savory invites us to indulge in both breakfast and lunch favorites. Not only can many brunch recipes be prepared ahead of time, most require preparation a day or so ahead in order for their flavors to marry. Brunch salads and casseroles are at their best when made ahead and then gently warmed or brought up to room temperature. A main dish brunch centerpiece is always a good place to start. Begin with a whole side of smoked fish and build from there. Hearty side dishes made with sturdy grains, green peas or even baby spinach or kale will happily remain at room temperature for a few hours without looking tired and wilted, while casseroles and those tasty latkes can be placed in chafing dishes to keep them hot. A crockpot lined with colorful tea towels and set on low will keep muffins and rolls soft and warm while your guests mingle.

The beauty of the brunch buffet is that there is something for every taste. Surround main dishes with substantial sides and

platters filled with nut-studded sweet bread, bagels with lox and cream cheese, muffins or cakes. Add creamy scrambled eggs, delectable tarts (like this one with caramelized onions and chanterelle mushrooms), or a tender vegetable quiche or frittata. Invite your guests to add to the cornucopia of great food!

The cocktail is optional but always welcome in the form of the spicy Bloody Mary, bubbly mimosa or frothy Ramos Gin Fizz. Hybrid versions of these classic cocktails can be made using local spirits, handcrafted preparations of juices, flavorings and tinctures. Clever mixologists everywhere are happy to share their latest version of hair-of-the-dog brunch specialties. Who wouldn’t be happy with everything the midday brunch has to offer? With its civilized hour and diverse menu, brunch invites itself to become the perfect setting for holiday entertaining.

Caramelized Onion Chanterelle Mushroom and Walnut Tart For the crust:

1½ cups (plus a little more for dusting) all-purpose flour ½ teaspoon salt 10 tablespoon (1¼ sticks) cold butter or margarine, cut into 1-inch cubes 1 egg yolk About 4 tablespoons ice cold water

Lisa Glickman is a private chef and teacher who lives in Portland. She has made TV appearances on COTV in Central Oregon and appeared on the Cooking Channel’s “The Perfect Three.”

She can be reached at lisa@lisaglickman.com.

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For the topping:

2 large sweet onions, slicked thin ½ pound fresh chanterelle mushroom, cleaned and coarsely chopped 4 tablespoons butter or margarine 3 tablespoons extra virgin olive oil ½ teaspoon salt 1 teaspoon sugar Freshly ground black pepper 1 cup grated Gruyere cheese ½ cup toasted walnuts Add flour and salt to the bowl of a food processor. Pulse to mix. Add butter to flour and pulse until mixture looks like cornmeal. Add egg and water and pulse a few more times until mixture comes together. Add more water if necessary. Turn dough out onto plastic wrap and form into a rectangular shape.

Wrap and chill until ready to use.

Heat 3 tablespoons butter and 2 tablespoons olive oil to medium high in a large skillet. Add onions and cover. Cook until onions are soft. Remove cover and continue to cook, stirring often until onions are caramel colored and very soft. Add salt and sugar and cook about 3-5 minutes longer. Remove onions to bowl and set aside.

Add remaining 1 tablespoon butter and 1 tablespoon olive oil to pan. Add mushrooms and cook on medium high until lightly browned and liquid evaporates. Add salt and pepper to taste.

Add to bowl with onions and allow to cool.

Place chilled dough on a floured board. Roll to a 1/8-inchthick and place on12x15-inch baking sheet. Trim edges. Roll edges about ½ inch and pinch in a pie crust fashion. Spread onions and mushrooms evenly onto crust up to edges. Sprinkle with grated cheese and toasted walnuts. Bake at 375º until cheese is melted and edges are golden brown, about 30-35 minutes. Can be made up to one day in advance and re-warmed in 400º oven for about 10 minutes.

Chocolate Cardamom Babka-Challah For the dough:

½ cup whole milk 1¼ envelope active dry yeast 4 large egg yolks, at room temperature 1 teaspoon vanilla extract ½ cup (one stick) unsalted butter, melted and cooled 1/3 cup granulated sugar 1 teaspoon kosher salt 3 cups all-purpose flour, plus more for dusting

For the filling:

1 cup chocolate hazelnut spread, such as Nutella 1½ teaspoons ground cardamom, plus more for topping ½ teaspoon ground cinnamon 1 egg yolk Granulated sugar

Dough:

Heat milk in a small saucepan until warm. Transfer to bowl of standing mixer fitted with a whisk attachment and whisk in yeast; let sit until foamy about 10 minutes. Whisk in egg yolks, vanilla and ½ cup butter. Change attachment to dough hook and add sugar, salt and 3 cups flour. Mix until dough is mixed thoroughly and pulls away from bowl. Remove dough from bowl and knead on a lightly floured surface until supple and smoothand no longer shiny, about 5 minutes. Transfer to a large buttered bowl. Cover and let sit in a warm place until doubled in size, 1½ to 2½ hours.

Filling and assembly:

Turn dough out onto a lightly floured surface. Divide into 3 portions. Shape each into a 12-inch-long rope. Roll out each rope to a 12x6-inch rectangle about 1/8 inch thick. Spread to edges with Nutella, and sprinkle with cinnamon and cardamom.

Roll each piece jelly roll style. Pinch seam to seal. Place logs, seam side down side by side on a parchment-lined baking sheet.

Pinch ends together at one end. Braid, then pinch ends together and tuck under. Cover loosely and let sit in a warm place until 1½ times larger, 1-2 hours.

Preheat oven to 350º. Beat egg yolk with 1 tablespoon water in a small bowl. Brush dough with egg wash and sprinkle with sugar and more cardamom. Bake until top is golden brown, 3545 minutes. Let cool on a wire rack before slicing.

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Bagels rise to greatness in Portland

By Kerry Politzer

Bowery Bagels

Portland is fiercely proud of its locally sourced cuisine. That pride extends even to bagels. So, when Colorado-based Einstein Noah Restaurant Group bought the locally owned Kettleman Bagel Company in 2011, customers were dismayed. Bagel mavens no longer had a place to purchase their beloved boiled bagels, as the new owners soon discontinued the kettle-boiling process.

Fortunately, this void proved to be only temporary. Great local bagels are increasingly being found all over town. Says Bowery Bagels’ owner Michael Madigan, “People have jumped into the opportunity created when Einstein came (in).” Asked why Portlanders prefer local food producers, Madigan says, “It is in large part because of quality. There is a very well-founded belief, particularly in the food world, that we do it better here. Portland has this unique intersection for everything that you need for an end-to-end food shed ... great farmers, ranchers and raw ingredients. We have craftsmen who like to make really good, really high-quality delicious products, whether that’s bagels or hot sauce or ketchup or whatever it might be.”

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Noah Bernstein of Portland’s newest bagel company, Bernstein’s Bagels.

Rick Spielman of Spielman Bagels concurs: “"Because we innovated on the typical ‘New York style’ bagel by using a natural sourdough leavening, we first called them ‘Portland style.’ But that's misleading and confusing. Our bagels are in the New York tradition – let's say ‘New York-ish’ – with a neo-traditional twist provided by the natural leavening."

No matter where you stand on the Portland versus New York bagel debate, one thing is hard to argue: there are some incredibly delicious bagels being made in Bridgetown these days. Spielman says, “Our bagels are uniquely flavorful. Yes, of course, they are boiled (they wouldn’t be bagels if they weren’t), and consequently they’ve got a great chew, a dense crumb and a lovely crust. But it’s their flavor that sets them apart. This ‘flavor-fullness’ derives primarily from our bagel-making process, namely, our unique use of natural leavening – a ‘sourdough starter’ – and not industrial yeast.” While Spielman’s most popular flavors are “everything,” plain and sesame, he has also branched out into more exotic flavors such as raisin-fennel.

Jazz saxophonist-turned-bagelmeister Noah Bernstein takes a traditional approach. “Bagels are all about this crazy long tradition from 1600s’ Poland, to

New York bagel union members breaking knee caps in the '50s, to Lender's and the rise of the bagel machine. But I just want a simple, hearty, savory boiled bagel that's hand-rolled. I want it to be straight out of '70s Brooklyn with nothing precious about it in the least bit. And that's what I'm making.” Bernstein has been partnering with several different cafes, farmers markets and popup shops. While he does not yet have a brick-and-mortar store, he does provide a bagel delivery service. Orders may be placed via bernsteinsbagels@gmail.com.

Kosher parve Bowery Bagels have been celebrated in the pages of Portland Monthly and The Oregonian. There’s now such demand for these hand-rolled, fermented bagels that Madigan recently signed a lease on a 5,000-square-foot production facility. He has big plans for Bowery Bagels: “Once we have the capacity, (we aim) to open up three to five more shops in the Northwest over the next 18 to 24 months … initially in Portland but then eventually regional as well.”

While Madigan grows the business, he is adamant about maintaining the tradition of quality that Portland is known for. “It’s all driven by the fact that customers enjoy our product and keep buying it, and we’re very grateful for that. Our aim is to maintain our quality and consistency even as we continue to grow,” he says.

Spielman is also expanding his bagel empire. “Within the Spielman Bagels next five months, we will have three big, beautiful retail locations in Southeast, Northeast and Northwest Portland,” he says. “Specifically, our remodel of 2111 SE Division should be finished in December; our recent acquisition of the former Einstein’s at 2200 NE Broadway is proving to be a huge success, and by next February we hope to open our doors on another former Einstein’s location at Northwest Lovejoy and 23rd.”

No matter how you slice it, Portland’s bagel scene is improving fast.

Where to find Portland bagels

Bernstein’s Bagels: facebook.com/bernsteinsbagels Bowery Bagels: 310 NW Broadway 503-227-6674 | bowerybagels.com

Spielman Bagels: 2200 NE Broadway 503-477-9045 spielmanbagels.com

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Kids

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Youth and Family Hanukkah Fun DEC. 6 Hanukah Menorah Workshop: Chabad Northeast Portland and Orchard Supply Hardware (4030 NE Halsey St, Portland) offer a PreHanukkah Menorah Workshop at 10 am.

“During our long history Jews have learnt to become creative,” says Mushka Wilhelm the Director of Chabad Hebrew School-NE PDX. “Who would think that random items from Orchard Supply Hardware could become the enduring symbol of freedom that the Menorah represents?”

Craft your own unique menorah with materials supplied by Orchard Hardware. Music and Hanukkah refreshments. Parents should accompany their kids. Free with RSVP: JewishNortheast.com/OSH or call 503-309-4490.

Hanukkah Donuts + Dancing: Make decorations, Israeli dance, and eat sufganiot – jelly donuts at this Hanukkah celebration for the whole family. 2-4 pm at the Mittleman Jewish Community Center, 6651 SW Capitol Hwy., Portland. Families: $10. Individual: $5. Register at oregonjcc.org/donuts

Celebrate Hanukkah! A Festival for Kids and Families: Kids ages 0-12 will enjoy creating a menorah, making sufganiyot (jelly donuts), playing dreidel, storytime, play area, music and dancing. Dec. 6 9:30 am-noon at Congregation Neveh Shalom, 2900 Peaceful Lane, Portland. Free and open to everyone in the community. No need to RSVP. Info: 503-293-7309

Early Childhood Family Hanukkah Program: For families with young children. Dance and sing with Kim Schneiderman, listen to a story from the clergy and make a craft. 10-11:30 am at Congregation Beth Israel, 1972 NW Flanders, Portland. 503-222-1069.

Preschool Family Education Hanukkah Gathering: Free for all families with children ages 2-6. There will be singing, stories, crafts and delicious treats! Adults will get the opportunity to learn with Rabbi Rose while the kids play. 10 am-noon at Congregation Shaarie Torah, 920 NW 25th Ave., Portland. 503-226-6131

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Grand Menorah Lighting & Community Hanukkah Celebration: Ice Menorah Carving, Laser Light Show, Children's Craft and food – Latkes, Donuts, Matzah Ball Soup and Pastrami Sandwiches.

4:30-6:30 pm at Ester Short Park, 415 W 6th St., Vancouver. Tzivie@ jewishclarkcounty.com

DEC. 8 PJ Library & Green Bean Books Present Eric Kimmel: Come hear the author of Herschel and the Hanukkah Goblins and other childhood favorites read his own stories. 11 am at Green Bean Books, 1600 NE Alberta St., Portland. Free! facebook.com/ events/1664360440446138/

DEC. 9 Night of 100 Hanukiyah: Dinner and program for sixth- to eighthgraders. 6-8:30 pm at Congregation Shaarie Torah, 920 NW 25th Ave, Portland. Planned by Congregations Neveh Shalom, Beth Israel and Shaarie Torah, USY, OJCYF, NFTY, NCSY and BBYO; with support from PAJE (Portland Area Jewish Educators), a project of the Jewish Federation of Greater Portland. Questions: Rachel Rothstein rachelr@ jewishportland.org or 503-892-7415

DEC. 13 Teens Hanukkah Party and TJJ Info Session. Celebrate the holiday and learn about NCSY’s The Jerusalem Experience.

10 - 11:30 am. Hosted by by the Blooms: 215 Glenview Dr., Ashland. doovie@ncsy.org

“Peanut” enjoys the Hanukkah spirit.

(Photo courtesy of Michele Philip)

Read

By Rich Geller

like a Maccabee

Perhaps more than any other Jewish holiday, Hanukkah aspects of Christmas. After decades of decline in observance, (which begins at sundown Dec. 6 this year) calls on parents to Hanukkah experienced an unprecedented resurgence in signifdeftly thread the needle between the spiritual and the secular. icance.

Is Hanukkah a tribute to the mighty deeds of our stalwart As Jenna Weissman Joselit explains in The Wonders of ancestors and G-d’s miracle of America, “For much of its history, Hathe oil? Or is it merely an orgy of What better way to teach nukkah fared poorly in the New World, consumerism, having devolved into a victim of neglect.” However as a new your children about little more than Jewish Christmas? consumer culture began to take root in the The reality in 21st century America 20th century, Hanukkah began to emerge as Hanukkah than with the a holiday on par with the American Christis that Hanukkah is a little of both, gift of books? Support your mas celebration. Madison Avenue, eager to but that’s not necessarily a bad thing. In fact it’s probably what’s local bookstore and spend capitalize on this new opportunity, wasted no time embracing it. The publishing induskept the Hanukkah story alive. some Hanukkah gelt. try noticed, too, and soon bookstore shelves For most of Jewish history, were overflowing with books that taught Hanukkah was a relatively minor festival, technically requiring little more than the lighting of the the story of Hanukkah to young children.

The Hanukkah story is an epic tale of good versus evil. What menorah and recitation of the blessing. However, in the years we know of the story comes from the Roman-Jewish historian following the first world war, American Jews began to reinvent Flavius Josephus, who chronicled the history of the Maccabees the holiday by borrowing from some of the more commercial OREGON JEWISH LIFE | DECEMBER 2015 25

in his book The Jewish War. In the second-century BCE the Greek-Syrian King Antiochus IV ruled over the vast Seleucid empire, which included the & Teens too province of Judea. Antiochus, in an attempt to Hellenize the Jews there, had outlawed Jewish worship throughout the province. The observance of both Shabbat and Kashrut, circumcisions and sacrifices to G-d at the Second Temple in Jerusalem were all forbidden under pain of death. The Syrian army looted the Temple and in the process extinguished the ner tamid or eternal light, desecrated and destroyed the Torah, sacrificed a pig on the Temple’s altar, and in a final insult dedicated the Temple to the Greek god Zeus. Then just when things seemed bleakest for the Jews, a hero arose who fought like an avenging angel of the Lord, a mighty warrior by the name of Judah “the Hammer” Maccabee. Judah gathered a ragtag band of misfits known as “Maccabees” to revolt against King Antiochus and his mighty army. Against all odds the Maccabees prevailed and defeated the king and his men. The defiled Temple was restored and dedicated (Hanukkah being the Hebrew word for dedication), and the meager single day’s supply of oil for the Temple’s menorah miraculously lasted for eight.

Since those ancient times Jews have commemorated the Festival of Lights with story, song and celebration.

The story of Hanukkah is a celebration of the tenacity of the Jewish people. That Jews around the world continue to commemorate a victory that occurred more than 2,000 years ago says a great deal about the Jewish soul and the veneration of memory.

A powerful tale of resistance and redemption, the Hanukkah story must be handed down L’Dor VaDor, or from generation to generation.

What better way to teach your children about Hanukkah than with the gift of books? Support your local bookstore and spend some Hanukkah gelt. There are so many great Hanukkah books out there, not to mention coloring books, sticker books and even Hanukkah-themed Mad Libs! By the way, Hanukkah Mad Libs are a great way to let your kids have some creative fun. Here are eight fun and fascinating Hanukkah books to read with your kids during Hanukkah, one for each night.

Kids

Hanukkah Reading List

1) Hanukkah at Valley Forge by Stephen Krensky: Wonderfully told and beautifully illustrated, this stirring tale of independence and freedom is drawn from General George Washington’s personal recollection of meeting a Polish-Jewish soldier at Valley Forge in 1777. In this fictionalized account of a historical event, General Washington learns about Hanukkah from the soldier.

Shifting between the time of the Maccabean Revolt and the American Revolution, the author draws wonderful parallels between the two conflicts. The book gains a heightened sense of realism by incorporating George Washington’s own writings as dialogue. As Washington explains to the Polish soldier over the glow of the Hanukkah lights, “The fight for liberty is an ancient one.”

2) The Golem’s Latkes by Eric Kimmel: Charming tale of golems gone wild written by Portland, OR, author Eric Kimmel.

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to his housemaid, Basha, to prepare the house for Hanukkah and make the latkes. The rabbi allows Basha to work with his golem, a mythical creature made of clay. “Mix, chop, peel, fry” is the golem’s constant refrain as he labors without cessation. The dull, yet seemingly satisfied expression on the face of the golem as the latkes pile up all around him and Basha’s acerbic wit and confident incompetence combine to make this book a true Hanukkah gem.

3) Hershel and the Hanukkah Goblins by Eric Kimmel: Yet another masterpiece from the undisputed king of children’s Hanukkah books. When Hanukkah is under attack by grumpy goblins, only Hershel of Ostropol can save the day. A mischievous trickster, Hershel employs cunning and guile to outwit the Hanukkah goblins and trick them into celebrating Hanukkah with him. A hero of Ukrainian folklore, Hershel of Ostropol was an actual historic figure who lived during the late 18th and early 19th centuries.

4) Runaway Dreidel by Leslea Newman: This whimsical parody of “Twas the Night Before Christmas” has a decidedly Old World shtetl feel to it. When a spinning dreidel runs amok through the neighborhood, chaos ensues as the entire town pursues the rogue top. Before long the village is turned upside down as children, parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles all chase the runaway dreidel. This book will especially delight younger readers.

5) Hanukkah in Alaska by Barbara Brown: This charming tale of a young girl’s Hanukkah celebration that is crashed by an uninvited moose has a sweet, gentle rhythm to it. The shadowy illustrations of the moose and the eerie depiction of the snowy daytime darkness really help to convey what it is like to be a kid growing up in Alaska. The story ends with a display of the aurora borealis, G-d’s own festival of lights.

6) Hanukkah Hop by Erica Silverman: The warm, sunny images of happy Hanukkah revelers will surely break the winter chill.

Fun rhymes and a retro tone come together in this Hanukkah jewel. The singsong rhythm of this book will have your little ones doing the Hanukkah Hop in no time.

7) The Borrowed Hanukkah Latkes by Linda Glaser: This touching tale of a young girl reaching out to her lonely elderly neighbor and helping her share in the joy of Hanukkah teaches children the true spirit of the season.

8) A Different Light: The Hanukkah Book of Celebration edited

by Noam Zion and Barbara Spectre: The definitive Hanukkah resource book for adults and children alike. This book bills itself as a “how-to guide to a creative candle-lighting ceremony: blessings, songs, stories, readings, games and cartoons to engage adults, teenagers and children on each of the eight nights.” There really is something for everyone, from a fascinating chapter on the history of Hanukkah, delicious recipes from across the Jewish diaspora, essays on modern-day Maccabees, writings by contemporary Jewish thinkers, and sections on the origins of both gelt and dreidels. There is even a FAQ with answers to some commonly asked Hanukkah questions, such as “Which is the correct direction for lighting the candles?”

Richard Geller is a freelance writer. He lives in Portland with his wife and three children. His son Leo (age 9) contributed to this article.

PJA student reflects on another festival of lights

By Nayantara Arora

Hanukkah, as we know, is the festival of lights. It is a time to celebrate the triumph of light over darkness, of good over evil. It is a time to celebrate miracles in a time of no hope. I am not Jewish, but I want to tell you about another festival that celebrates the same views: Diwali.

Diwali is the Hindu festival of light. According to Hindu mythology, there was once a king named Ram with a very beautiful wife named Sita. While they were exiled in the forest, a demon king named Ravana came and snatched Sita away.

Ram and his brother, Lakshman, joined with an army of monkeys and fought Ravana. In the end Ram killed Ravana and rescued Sita. When Ram and Sita began their journey home, everybody lit oil lamps to rejoice and guide the king and queen back to their home. Ever since, people light lamps on Diwali. Though the story that I briefly outlined here is much more complicated, the concept is quite simple. We must always remember that even when there is little hope, a little light can ignite a spark of hope that is always enough to lead the way.

Diwali is popularly known as the festival of lights, as is Hanukkah. However, the most significant spiritual meaning is “the awareness of the inner light.” This concept is very significant in Hindu philosophy. The celebration of Diwali as the victory of good over evil can be viewed as the light of higher knowledge eliminating all ignorance, the ignorance that masks one’s true nature, not as the body, but as the unchanging, infinite, immanent and unparalleled reality.

With this awakening comes compassion and the awareness of the oneness of all things. (Tewari, Suman. "Diwali – Hindu Festival of Lights." Ananda Washington, 2012. Web. Oct. 30, 2015) Both Diwali and Hanukkah represent the right to selfdetermination. Almost 2,200 years ago, the Maccabees fought for the right to be themselves, the way Sita and Ram fought against Ravana. They didn't want someone else telling them how to live.

Diwali and Hanukkah both convey powerful messages that inspire me, and I’m sure that you feel the same way.

Whenever we think of these stories, we should remember what we can do if we allow this spark of light and hope to kindle inside of us.

Nayantara is an eighth-grader at Portland Jewish Academy. She loves to read, write articles and think about the world in her spare time. She started a newsletter in fourth grade titled “Laurel Post” and sold it on her block for 25 cents. Nayantara believes that learning about other cultures gives everybody a better perspective on the world. She is interested in synesthesia and would like to pursue neuroscience when she is older.

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elebrate Hanu kkah with your friends a nd community as we eat, lear n, and create to gether!

Wednesday, December 9 6:00pm-8:30pm: Dinner & Program Congregation Shaarie Torah 920 NW 25th Ave, Portland, OR 97210 For questions contact Rachel Rothstein rachelr@jewishportland.org 503-892-7415

Planned by Congregations Neveh Shalom, Beth Israel, and Shaarie Torah, USY, OJCYF, NFTY, NCSY & BBYO with support from PAJE (Portland Area Jewish Educators), a project of the Jewish Federation of Greater Portland OREGON JEWISH LIFE | DECEMBER 2015 27

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By Debra Rich Gettleman

Family Time

P, B and Jay

A few years ago when money was tight and we were scaling back on holiday gift giving, my insane husband, Mark, happened upon a giant inflatable polar bear playing “whack-a-mole” with two little penguins. Like any adoring husband, he thought, “I just have to spend the money and buy this inane decoration for my Jewish wife for Hanukkah.”

I remember walking into the house and hearing this loud whirring noise, which turned out to be the pump he bought to blow up the whacking polar bear and penguins. This monstrosity was in the center courtyard of our house when I came home to Mark and our two boys standing there, beaming upon my arrival.

“This is a joke, right?” I asked, looking at the giant arcade-like phenomenon. Then, realizing that it wasn’t, I tried to lighten up and smile as I queried about the cost of this newly acquired modern art. “We’re Jewish,” I said. “You do know that we don’t celebrate Christmas, and I’m really not OK with a huge Christmas display in the middle of our house.” In spite of the red and green holiday scarf and Santa hat adorning the polar bear, Mark argued that it really wasn’t related to Christmas at all and was merely a celebration of wintertime joy. “He’s beating two penguins,” I countered. “There really is no joy in this scenario.”

Mark nicknamed the Antarctic birds “P and B,” and dubbed the big white Ursus “Jay.” While I acknowledged that the names were cute and clever, I couldn’t wait to rid my home of their presence. Finally, when the New Year rolled around, I insisted on packing up the polar trio and stuffing them into a cabinet in the garage. I admit I agreed to letting them come out again the following year. But truthfully, I had no intention of honoring that accord.

Last year as the holiday season roared in I had a real heart-toheart with my husband. I told him how sweet it was that he had purchased such a unique gift for me the year before and that I couldn’t think of a single wife who had gotten as unusual a gift as I had received. But I felt very uncomfortable displaying the wondrous gift, as I was proud of our heritage and felt like Jewish people needn’t decorate their homes with Yuletide paraphernalia.

He was slightly downhearted but understanding as he neatly packed up P, B and Jay and readied them for their journey to Goodwill.

But then an idea came to me. We have a nearby neighborhood that goes all out at Christmas time. They create a magical winter wonderland and invite a steady stream of visitors to enjoy their extensive fantasyland. We go with the boys every year and had planned to drive through the Christmas oasis that very night.

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As our car slowly crept down the sugarplum-laden road, I readied my family to be on the lookout for a suitable home for P, B and Jay. We knew it the moment we saw it: one house on the street that was lit up brighter than all the others, with a slew of polar bears gleefully interacting with passersby. This was a home where our Arctic creatures would feel happy, chilled and welcomed as part of the family.

We went home and wrote a deeply personal note explaining why we could no longer care for our beloved trio. Like despondent parents leaving their baby on a neighbor’s doorstep, we waited till the crowds dispersed and snuck back to leave our package and note at the front door of our new host’s home. We felt sad and our hearts were heavy as we said our final goodbyes and departed.

We checked back a few nights later, but there was no sign of P, B and Jay. We wondered if they would ever see the light of Christmas again. It was a painful holiday season as we mourned their loss, all the while remembering the joy they had brought us the year before. I felt guilty and ashamed of giving them up.

Perhaps the new family had too many mouths to feed already and had simply tossed P, B and Jay onto a trash heap without ever even meeting them in full holiday inflatability.

We grieved their loss for months, and when this holiday season arrived we all pretended that we had no expectations. I couldn’t actually bring myself to visit the magical street this year.

I couldn’t face it if P, B and Jay weren’t there. At least I could live in denial if I stayed away from the street altogether.

My eldest son, Levi, was bolder and insisted on facing off with reality. He went on an evening Christmas light excursion in search of our threesome. I could barely await his return. “Did you see them?” I asked with fervent anticipation. He looked at me with a stone-cold stare. Then he slowly raised his phone to my eyes. It was our trio! They were there! Front and center. P, B and Jay were alive and well and celebrating Christmas with their polar bear brethren in the most prominent spot on the front lawn of the house where we had left them.

I was elated. Seriously. I mean, it was truly as if my beloved offspring had been given a second chance at life. I haven’t stopped smiling for weeks. And as we celebrate another year of light and joy, I realize that Hanukkah miracles are all around.

You just have to look in the right places.

Debra Rich Gettleman is a mother and blogger based in the Phoenix area. For more of her work, visit unmotherlyinsights.com.

CD re-released just in time for Hanukkah

Portland singers Margie Rosenthal and Ilene Safyan have re-released their award-winning children’s recording, as the title says, “Just in Time for Chanukah!”

The CD won the 1995 Parents Choice Magazine Gold Medal Award for Excellence, was featured and recommended in the Hadassah Magazine, LA Times, Entertainment Weekly, the American Library Association, Long Island Parenting News and LA Parent.

Margie Rosenthal and Ilene Safyan

Long Island Parenting News wrote: “Rosenthal and Safyan’s beautifully blended harmonies sing of Hanukkah, the festival of lights, with reverence and love. Their folk versions of traditional blessings and new songs sung in Hebrew and English accompanied by guitar and flute, help teach the timeless lessons of freedom and heroism. Rosenthal and Safyan (who reminded me of Simon and Garfunkle) have voices that are so fine, they’re able to carry an acapella round.”

The collection of holiday favorites was originally recorded and released on cassette tape in 1988. Then it was remastered and released on CD in 1995. The children who sang on that original recording in 1988 are grown and have children of their own. Youngsters all over the country who celebrated Hanukkah listening to this recording are now interested in getting it for their children. So Margie and Ilene decided to once again start producing CDs. The CD can be ordered online at cdbaby.com, oysongs. com or ilenesafyan.com.

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prize to explore Jewish, family history

Emilia Wolf, 17, drew on her grandfather’s story as “a symbol Shabbat and concluded it with the Havdalah ceremony, ate and a reflection of the history of Jewish people in the diaspora” matzah ball soup and Persian chulent, and sang the Birkat to write an award-winning essay earlier this year.

Hamazon (grace) after all meals together. Looking around the Emilia’s essay was one of six high school essays out of 500 table during Shabbat dinner, I couldn’t help but notice that entries to be honored by the Morris J. and Betty Kaplun all the girls were so diverse: Filipino, Israeli, Russian, South Foundation’s annual essay contest. The contest is part of the African, reform, conservative, etc. As the weekend came to an foundation’s effort “to encourage young people to treasure our end, I realized that no matter where Jews are from or what they Jewish heritage, reflect on believe in, they share a common our Jewish values, and better historical narrative and can understand our contribution trace their roots back millennia, to civilization and culture.” back before the Jews lived in the A senior at Lake Oswego diaspora, as a tribal nation with High School, Emilia is a 4.0 a distinct culture and certain student and belongs to the values. Today, though we live National Honor Society in amongst people of different addition to being a ballroom nationalities and backgrounds, dancer and active member of where most consider Judaism a Portland’s Jewish community. religion, we continue to selfThe family belongs to identify as a people regardless Congregation Shaarie of our religious affiliation, Torah, where Emilia attends including those who are not Wednesday Night School. religiously affiliated or who She is on the board of the are even atheist; many of them NCSY Portland chapter. She drive to synagogue only on used the $750 prize to help High Holy Days to pay homage pay for her NCSY trip this to the traditions of their greatOregonian Emilia Wolf accepts her Kaplun Essay Contest prize from past summer. She spent a grandparents and grandparents Aaron Seligson in New York City. month in Poland and Israel who walked to their synagogues on The Jerusalem Journey on those very same High Holy Ambassadors Poland. Her Days. Those people still buy grandfather Moishe Wolf was born in Poland and lived there till canned gefilte fish just because they know that their greatfleeing to the Soviet Union to escape the Nazi invasion. grandmother made it by hand from scratch and that it was a tradition to eat it on Rosh Hashanah. Heritage (tradition, WINNING ESSAY: culture and history) is what keeps Jews bound together.

In the early 1990s, my life-to-be was greatly affected by a What is it that Jews of all degrees of religious few American Jews who understood their responsibility to all observance have in common that binds us together? other Jews in the world, and for that I will be forever grateful.

One weekend in November, I, along with four other girls My parents lived in a harsh anti-Semitic environment in the from our synagogue religious school, went to a workshop at the former Soviet Union. They were unable to attend services Oregon Coast. In the cold, stormy weather we sat inside by the at synagogue, were forced to have secret Bar Mitzvah and fireplace with our hot chocolate and blankets, ears wide open Chuppah ceremonies, and were discriminated against in many to a unique speaker from Stand With Us, an American Israel aspects of societal life.

Getting accepted into college and finding advocacy organization. She was from South Africa and she came a suitable job was harder for a Jew living in Soviet Russia. Soon, to the United States with her family for a better life and for they had my older sister and decided that it was time to seek a college. She gave us a cursory overview of the history of ancient better future for their little girl.

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With the establishment of the Jewish State of Israel, to the enormous efforts of those American Jews that thousands the nation’s ancient dream came true; “L’shana Haba’ah of Russian Jews were able to immigrate to the United States.

American Jews from all denominations of Judaism were fighting B’Yerushalaim! Next Year in Jerusalem!” No matter where we live today, we feel as though we are all for the religious and cultural freedom interconnected as a true nation, because of people on the other side of the With the establishment of the every Jew knows that there is a place world who were not able to enjoy Jewish State of Israel, the nation’s that he can call home; a place that such liberties. These valiant men welcomes him with widespread arms and and women did not do any of this ancient dream came true; “L’shana accepts and protects him, no questions as a favor to someone they knew or Haba’ah B’Yerushalaim! Next Year asked. That is why it is important that because they pitied people. They did this because they realized that only in Jerusalem!” No matter where we Jews, regardless of degree of religious stay engaged with, advocate when Jews unite and support each live today, we feel as though we are observance, for and support the people of Israel, so other can they prevent catastrophes that the Jewish nation will continue to such as pogroms and the Holocaust. all interconnected as a true nation, This is why this summer I decided After my parents finally concluded because every Jew knows that there thrive. to go on an Israel ambassadorship their treacherous journey and made it program for five weeks through my youth to the United States, they were greeted is a place that he can call home; group, NCSY. Though run by Orthodox warmly and were provided many a place that welcomes him with rabbis, NCSY accepts all Jewish youth helpful resources to get them on their from various denominations and feet and to help them adjust to life in widespread arms and accepts and backgrounds. I am on the board of the a new environment. Now, as successful protects him, no questions asked.

Portland NCSY Chapter and feel that members of the Jewish community, the organization is a vivid example of they themselves are giving to those in the unity of Jews as a people rather than need and instill values of philanthropy as a religious entity, which inspires youth to be the Ner Tamid, in their children. Concern for those in need in the community is another fundamental value that all Jews, historically, can relate the everlasting flame of Jewish tradition that has kept us alive throughout the ages. to.

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For me in particular, my grandfather’s personal history is a symbol and a reflection of the history of Jewish people in the diaspora. He was 72 when he immigrated to the United States with my parents. He was born in Poland into a strictly Orthodox family and was preparing to become a rabbi. During the first days of the occupation in Poland, he was unfortunately forced to flee at the age of 17, lost and alone, to Soviet Russia. With no money, family or even knowledge of the Russian language, he had to adjust to life in the unknown; this strictly religious young Jewish boy had to survive in an anti-Semitic, atheist, brutal, totalitarian regime. For him, however, even in such conditions it was very important to keep some level of tradition.

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established a new life for himself and became a successful doctor, scholar and professor, meanwhile supporting the remnants of Jewish culture in the Soviet Union by giving money to Jewish causes, publishing articles in Yiddish periodicals and secretly keeping traditions in his home, passing them along to his children.

When he finally came to America, he kept sharing Jewish values with his grandchildren and became a prominent member of the Portland Jewish community. His love for Israel was also an important part of his Jewish identity. His life story taught me about common Jewish values that helped him survive as an individual and that are all parts of the bond that keeps the Jewish people thriving and connected, regardless of their degree of religious observance.

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Kids plan game for parents Congregation Shir Tikvah students plan “Jewpardy” questions to stump parents when the congregation hosts a Hanukkah party Dec. 12.

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Portland Food Carts! Latkes! Donuts!

Sunday, December 13th

Fun for people of all ages! Dance the night away to the festive music of CBI’s own house band, Def Schlepper!

5:00-7:00 PM

Please bring your family menorah and seven candles to fill the room with celebration and light.

No Charge - Please R.S.V.P. and bring a pot luck item: A-L main dish M-Z side or salad

To RSVP, contact Marisa at 503-222-1069 or marisa@bethisrael-pdx.org *In keeping with the Chanukah theme and to support the Greater Portland community, please bring a donation of cooking oil for our partners at Lift Urban Portland.

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Congregation Shir Tikvah is flipping Hanukkah on its head. Instead of adults planning a party for the kids, the kids are planning a party for the adults. Fourth- and fifth-graders are creating a full “Jewpardy” game for their parents to play during the congregation-wide party on the afternoon of Dec. 12.

To write accurate trivia questions in categories like “Biblical Animals” and “Translate This!” students need to know and understand basic facts. They also have to rate questions according to difficulty and be ready to serve as judges for the contest.

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“It’s a fun way for students to learn new information,” Education Director Katie Schneider says. “When the game is used as the centerpiece of a party, it engages the whole congregation. The parents get surprisingly nervous being up in front of everyone. Students get a kick out of that.”

In a recent class, one set of fourth-graders asked questions about the Golden Calf, while others took notes on Noah’s dove. A third group took just a few minutes to formulate this answer for the “Jewish Food” category: “Chocolate coins that you bet with.” “Easy,” a kid chimed in from across the room. “Everyone knows that’s gelt.”

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Hanukkah – Bring Your Light into the World!

By Amy Hirshberg Lederman

Hanukkah is a holiday with many names. Some call it the Festival of Lights, while others refer to it as the Feast of Rededication or the Holiday of Miracles.

When I was growing up, my friends called it Jewish Christmas.

But nothing could be further from the truth.

Hanukkah, while deemed a minor Jewish holiday, is significant in that it teaches us to appreciate how different versions of the same story need not limit its credibility nor depreciate its value. Rather, we are given a chance to expand our understanding from the various lessons that each version teaches.

The historical version of Hanukkah, recorded in the Book of Maccabees, chronicles that in 168 BCE, King Antiochus desecrated the Holy Temple in Jerusalem and issued decrees prohibiting Jewish worship, circumcision and Shabbat observance. Mattathias the High Priest, along with his five, hardy Maccabean sons and a small group of Jewish insurgents, rose up and fought for three years against the Syrian army.

On the 25th of Kislev, the Jews restored the Holy Temple and rededicated it to God. We learn from this version that through acts of defiance and resistance, the Jewish people can overcome oppression and live with dignity as Jews.

Another version of the Hanukkah story is the quintessential assimilation story. It focuses on the internal conflict between Jews as they struggled to expand and define what practices were acceptable for Jews living within a foreign culture. In the first few centuries BCE, Hellenism and its social, economic and political influences encouraged many Jews to compromise and abandon Jewish rituals and practices. Some Jews attended the gymnasium, participating in nude sporting events, which often required reversals of circumcision. The Maccabean fight was 38 DECEMBER 2015 | OREGON JEWISH LIFE

not just against nonJewish oppression, but against the highly assimilated Jews whose conduct threatened the continued existence of the Jewish people.

Almost 400 years later, the rabbis of the Talmud gave the story yet a different spin.

Their version doesn’t even mention the name Maccabee and the war against the Syrians or refer to the tensions of fighting against Greek assimilation. Rather, the rabbis focused on the role that faith in God played as the key to Jewish survival. We are taught that “a great miracle happened there” when a small cruse of oil lasted for eight days until more was found to keep the Temple’s menorah lit. The eight candles we light on our menorah remind us that we have survived over time because of our faith in God’s saving grace and power.

The significance of light itself is another aspect of the Hanukkah story. At the darkest, coldest and often bleakest time of the calendar year, Jews come together with family and friends to bring light, hope and joy into their homes. For eight consecutive nights, we add an additional candle, increasing our ability to fight against darkness and despair.

It is written in Proverbs 20:27 that “the human spirit is God’s candle.” Our tradition teaches that each of us has the capacity to bring light and goodness, holiness and compassion, into the world. Through our thoughts, actions and relationships, through our efforts to restore balance, justice and dignity in the world, we have the power to illuminate and inspire, even in the darkest of times.

The shamash is the special candle on the menorah that lights the other candles and is traditionally elevated. This year when you light the shamash, imagine for a moment that you have the power to become “God’s candle.” What would it mean to light

up the world around you with hope and possibilities? What could you do to light up your world?

Your efforts don’t have to be time consuming or expensive, but consider these eight small efforts that can make a world of difference and a difference in our world: • Show respect for others’ ideas, even when you disagree with them.

• Laugh at yourself, but not at others.

• Avoid harmful speech and gossip.

• Tell someone you love them.

• Donate food, clothing, time or money to organizations in need.

• Visit a friend who is lonely or sick.

• Say you’re sorry when you make a mistake.

• Stay present to the blessings in your life and be grateful.

When you light your candles this year, remember that Hanukkah is the only holiday when we wish each other “Chag Urim Sameach” – a joyous holiday of light!

Amy Hirshberg Lederman has written more than 300 columns and essays that have been published nationwide. amyhirshberglederman.com

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Last year PDX Hillel students enjoy a Hanukkah Shabbat.

Campus Celebrations: Hillels plan Hanukkah events

By Alex Raphael

Peer Network Engagement Intern ay Lewis & Clark College Last year, my first year at Lewis & Clark College, I was sad to realize I was missing the first night of Hanukkah at home.

On top of that, due to the school calendar, I had missed the annual Hillel Hanukkah Shabbat which was the weekend before Hanukkah began. I expressed my desire to be able to light candles on the first night to some of my Jewish friends who I learned felt the same way. With PDX Hillel’s support we joined together, as only one of us had a hanukiyah, and decided to get together for a short time just to light candles and say prayers. I posted a message on a Hillel Facebook page the day of the event inviting anyone who would like to join us. I was surprised to have our group of four turn into almost 15 people!

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This was the inspiration for my initiative as a Hillel intern this year. Hanukkah falls earlier in December so students will be at school for all eight nights. The first night, I am planning a pre-finals de-stresser Hanukkah celebration! Hanukkah is a time of joy and happiness and time together with family and friends.

Hanukkah also tends to be the holiday that people who are not religious also participate in celebrating and I am looking forward to be able to bring people together for some fun while we are all at school before finals. There will be card games, classic dreidel with gelt, and potentially a craft of some kind so students can have their own hanukiyah for the following nights.

With the activities plus latkes and donuts, of course, I can’t wait to have the community come together to celebrate the beginning of the Festival of Lights!

Preschool Family Education Chanukah Gathering Sunday, December 6, 10:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m.

FREE for all families with children ages 2-6

Families with children ages 2-6 are invited to join Shaarie Torah for a special Chanukah celebration just for you! There will be singing, stories, crafts and delicious treats!

Adults will get the opportunity to learn with Rabbi Rose while the kids play.

Celebrate Chanukah with SHAARIE TORAH! Maccabee’s Celebration: A Chanukah Adventure

Friday, December 11, 5:30 – 9:00 p.m.

$8 per person / $30 per family; RSVP by December 7 5:30pm - Adult Cocktail Hour 5:30pm - Game for All: Edible Chanukah Hors d’oeuvres, Chanukah Bean Bag Toss, Bobbing for Donuts, Maccabee Races and Much More!

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Last year Alex Raphael posted an invitation on Facebook for Lewis & Clark students to join her to light Hanukkah candles. She expected four friends to get together, but ended up with a group of 15. This year she is planning a Pre-finals destresser Hanakkah celebration. Information will be posted on pdxhillel.org when available.

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Happy Hanukkah!

Every year for Hanukkah, JSU on PSU with PDX Hillel hosts a very special Hanukkah Shabbat for students. It's an exciting time of year and we always have a fabulous turnout of about 50 students. This year we are expecting close to 70 students! Our celebration includes a white elephant gift exchange in the giving spirit of Hanukkah, as well as candle lighting, dinner (with latkes and donuts of course!) and songs. It's always a festive time of year and students appreciate the community atmosphere Hillel provides, especially when it's a student's first time away from home. This year, our Hanukkah Shabbat will be on Dec. 4 at the Native American Student Center at Portland State University at 6 pm.

HANUKKAH ON OREGON CAMPUSES

Oregon Hillel at UO: PJ Library Hanukkah Party with University of Oregon students and Eugene area children will be Dec. 3. The party will be from 5:30 to 7 pm at Oregon Hillel, 1059 Hilyard St., Eugene.

Since UO finals are the week of Hanukkah, no other Hanukkah parties are anticipated. For information about Hillel events at the University of Oregon and Oregon State University, visit oregonhillel.org.

PDX Hillel at Lewis & Clark College: Pre-finals de-stresser Hanukkah celebration in the Holmes Main Lounge around 6 pm. They will have information once the event is created!

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PDX Hillel: Hanukkah Shabbat will be on Dec. 4 at PSU’s Native American Student Center at 6 pm. The celebration is open to Jewish students on all Portland area campuses.

More information for Hanukkah events on Portland campuses will be on PDX Hillel website (pdxhillel. org) and the PDX Hillel Students Facebook page as soon as they are available.

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Jill Neuwelt with Syrian boy in his new outfit.

Being in the right place at a compelling time

By Liz Rabiner Lippoff

I met Jill Neuwelt when she and husband Ed were generous hosts for Congregation Beth Israel Sisterhood’s Progressive Dinner event in September. The couple moved to Portland from Texas in 1981, and they are Portlanders through and through, but her accent and her cooking gave her away. She grew up in Vienna, speaks German fluently and that night she prepared delicious Austrian dishes for the eight of us lucky enough to be assigned to their house. (You’ve never had spaetzle until you’ve tasted Jill’s!) Both Jill and Ed are active in the community, and I thought Jill’s volunteer efforts were particularly intriguing.

“Let’s meet for coffee!” I said. I am always looking for a story idea.

“In a few weeks,” Jill replied. She was going back to Vienna, as she does four or five times a year, to visit her mother, daughter and son-in-law, and two granddaughters. So we made a date, but the tale she came back with was not at all what I expected.

This visit turned out to be an experience none of them will ever forget, a brush with today’s heartbreaking headlines that gave Jill and her family a chance to be on the giving side of a contemLizthat Rabiner Lippoffin sad and unsettling ways porary migrationBy saga resonates

with Jill and her family – and with all Jews who know too well the story of refugees desperately fleeing war and oppression.

Jill’s own mother fled to England from Vienna in the early 1940s. “She worked first as a housekeeper like many others did.

Later she became an instructor in the British Army Education Corps. She loved it; she loved bossing people around!” Jill says with a laugh. Her Viennese father, a lawyer, took a more circuitous route, first to Russia, then to Japan and then to the United States, making it onto the last civilian boat before Pearl Harbor.

There he joined the U.S. Army and went back to Europe as an American soldier. Her parents met at a gathering of Viennese ex-pats in London. When she married her GI, Jill’s mother became an American citizen.

After the war ended, her parents went back to Austria, where her father worked for the American Army as a lawyer. He was part of the team that designed the treaty when Austria became a neutral country and helped craft the country’s constitution. Her mother worked in Anna Freud’s children’s home and eventually got her Ph.D. in psychology.

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in Vienna. Her mother, though, had always wanted to move to the United States. She settled for visiting every five years for six months to retain her citizenship, which was important to her. When Jill was 10, her mother took the kids to Little Rock, AR, for a year. Jill entered fourth grade without a word of English, but kids learn quickly, she says, and she was fluent long before they returned to Vienna. Jill treasures that year and is still pen pals with her best friend from that time who became, not coincidentally, a German professor.

Although Jill knew she was different from her Viennese friends – she didn’t have any relatives living in the country, for example – the family did not practice Judaism. She felt no Jewish identity. But when she was 19, she decided to go to Israel and work on a kibbutz for eight months. It turned out to be a positive, if emotional, experience. “I couldn’t believe that all these ‘normal’ people were Jewish. I felt for the first time that being Jewish is not a skeleton in your closet, but something you can wear publicly.”

Jill got her degree in social work, but she took advantage of a brief stint with an Austrian retail company that would send her to America for several months when she was 21. One thing led to another, and when the National Council of Jewish Women offered her its annual scholarship to get her graduate degree in social work, Jill moved to Dallas to start what would become her new life in America. She met Ed on a blind date (what could be more American than that!) when she was working at the Jewish Community Center; they married and their daughter was born in 1977. When Ed finished his residency in 1981, they moved

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their growing family to Portland.

It was fortunate for both Jill and the Jewish Family and Child Service’s Holocaust Survivor Program that Jill ended up working for them as an outreach worker. Her ability to speak German was helpful in translating some of the correspondence her clients received from Germany regarding their pensions, and she was sometimes able to assist them in completing applications for pensions that they did not even know about. “I found that I shared so much with the survivors and refugees. I understand their culture, and I found I had a different relationship to them than I do to my American-born friends.”

Today, Jill’s many trips to Vienna are filled with visiting her mother, now 97, and spending time with her daughter and the two girls, Susie (9) and Hannah (7). This visit, though, coincided with the historic and dramatic influx of thousands and thousands of migrants coming through Austria from Syria, Iraq and Afghanistan. Jill, like all of us, followed the news before she left for her trip, and she was moved to do something, even a small gesture, by the tragedy of the families fleeing war and persecution, much as her family had. Jill started by making a sign asking her fellow airline passengers to donate their unused toiletries from the little zipper pack international travelers receive on their flights. The flight attendants helped her work the plane, and she collected quite a stash. But that was not enough for her.

When she arrived in Vienna, she and her granddaughters joined the hundreds of Viennese who show up to help at the train station and other refugee assistance sites to drop off badly needed supplies. Strategic use of social media enables the organizers to focus the philanthropy of the Viennese citizens: a website and Facebook page give daily updates to let the public know what items they have plenty of right now as well as what they really need. (When Jill was there, for example, they needed shoes, particularly men’s shoes.)

For others who want to volunteer their time, the pages also list who is needed and where. Some volunteers have become so committed that they come every day to work in the clinic, the school, or the kitchen and dining room.

“There are so many children there,” Jill says. “The city appropriated a parking garage where they created a day care center.

Nursery school teachers volunteer, teaching arts and crafts.” Jill has friends who are giving German lessons to Syrian refugees.

For those who log on seeking help, the site also lists available resources and hours of operation, including when the buses come and go for the sleeping facilities.

Other volunteers just show up to help, spur of the moment, as Jill did. The first time, she brought Susie and they both enjoyed the experience so much that they brought Hannah with them the next time. Susie brought apples; Hannah brought bread.

They spent the bulk of the day sorting clothes. “It’s getting cold there,” Jill says. “They need parkas.”

The whole city seems to be engaged. While Jill was there, they had a concert to benefit the refugees, and they purposely held it in Heroes’ Square, the very site where Hitler drew a huge crowd in 1938 for his announcement of the Nazi annexation of Austria.

“The goal was to get as many people as were there in 1938, and they drew 150,000 people!” Jill says. “They thanked the two young women who started the train station effort. They also passed hats and, all in all, showed the Austrians’ solidarity with the refugees.”

She notes that the elections for mayor of Vienna were the

following Sunday, and the incumbent mayor handily defeated the anti-refugee, right-wing candidate.

“We learn in school about populations shifting, and that’s what I wanted to visit, to experience. Every day up to 5,000 people come into Austria. I witnessed a historic movement, and I am glad I made a tiny contribution.

“I have old grudges about how the Austrians treated our people in World War II,” Jill says. “It makes me feel good that the new generation is different.”

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Liz Rabiner Lippoff is a marketing consultant, freelance writer and community volunteer. LizInk.biz

RESOURCES

Want to learn more about the refugee support in Austria? tracks.unhcr.org/2015/10/a-warm-austrianwelcome-for-refugees

Want to learn more about Portland services for Holocaust survivors?

jfcs-portland.org/services/lifeline-services

You might also be interested in the Oregon Jewish Museum and Center for Holocaust Education ojmche.org

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Oregon poet brings home major literary prize

By Elizabeth Schwartz

Asked what it meant to receive the 2015 American Poetry Review/Honickman First Book Prize for her manuscript, Divinity School, Portlander Alicia Jo Rabins was unequivocal: “I feel like I won the lottery. There were over 800 submissions.”

In the world of poetry, this prize represents a hugely prestigious honor, one that includes the publication and national promotion of a poet’s first full-length book. Divinity School was published in September and is distributed by Copper Canyon Press through Consortium. Locally, the book is available at Powell’s Bookstores.

Alicia Jo’s poetry has been published elsewhere, including Boston Review, Ploughshares, 6x6, Court Green, and anthologies from NYU Press and Knopf. Her chapbook, The Girl Who Wants to be a Landscape, published by Artscape Press, was selected by Mary Oliver for the Artscape Poetry Prize in 1995.

Divinity School reveals Alicia Jo’s ongoing concerns, which center on her spiritual, emotional and physical responses to life as a woman, mother, Jewish scholar, musician and seeker. Divinity School also reaffirms for Alicia Jo her lifelong impulse toward poetic expression.

“I had a period of time after I graduated college when I started to realize that my sense of self-worth was determined by whether I had written well that day,” she explains. “I had an instinct that that wasn’t a healthy way to live my life, but I didn’t know how else to think about it because I was young and ambitious. So I stopped writing, and I decided I would only write again if it came back unbidden by me. I was determined to write from a spiritually healthy place, not to judge my validity by my output.”

During her hiatus from poetry – the summer of 1998 through the end of 2000 while she was in her mid-20s – Alicia Jo studied Jewish texts at The Pardes Institute of Jewish Studies in Jerusalem.

Alicia Jo began writing poetry at age 12, inspired by the humor and wit of children’s poet Jack Prelutsky. “He’s like Shel Silverstein – funny twists at the end, comic, formal rhymes. I got the same kind of pleasure from him that I now get from John 46 DECEMBER 2015 | OREGON JEWISH LIFE

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Donne and other poets who do with words what Bach does with music – humor, counterpoint and light.”

Now in her late 30s, Alicia Jo works at the same artistic pursuits that have occupied her since her early 20s: music, writing and spirituality. “I’ve changed and I haven’t changed,” she acknowledges. “I hope I’ve grown wiser, but I feel like I’m the same person with the same central concerns. I have more awareness of people outside myself now, being cracked open as one is by beautiful and terrible things.”

Alicia Jo’s creative interests have always overlapped, in the manner of a Venn diagram. In her music, particularly her indie band Girls in Trouble, she explores the complex lives and feelings of women in Torah and Talmud. Some of the poems in Divinity School chart parallel journeys, as in the poem “The Story of Noah” and the song “Measuring Tape” on GIT’s newest album, “Open the Ground,” which was released this fall.

Alicia Jo also has an abiding fascination with the intersections among people. “Where does one person meet another person – strangers, partners, lovers, sisters?” she asks. “Where does God meet humanity? Where does the outside world meet the private world that we carry within us? The membranes where two worlds meet have always held my interest.”

Poet Matthew Olzmann, in his advance praise for Divinity School, writes, “In Divinity School, the eternal and the body are never far apart. … This is a gorgeous book – roiling with desire and awe, it stretches toward the divine, while offering a resonant meditation on the astonishment of being human.” Alicia Jo concurs. “Anyone who writes is in a body (first and foremost).

I wanted to embody a place, physicality in my poems. One thing I love about halacha and Jewish traditions is that the body is so present in them and so many of the laws are about the body. I find the body a path to wisdom.”

She adds, “I struggled with image and eating disorders in high school, and I now see my experience with that is like monks who mortify the body. There’s something spiritual happening there. I’ve always had a profound respect for the cycles of the female body and the wisdom of that, beyond any intentional activity. Our bodies are part of something so much bigger than us.”

The title Divinity School emerged after the collection was completed. Alicia Jo explains, “When I submitted the book (to American Poetry Review), the title was Malchut (rulership). Kabbalistically, the word “Malchut” is associated with the Shechinah, the feminine of the divine. After I submitted the book, I received a grant from the Joshua Venture Group for feminist Jewish work. In November 2014, at a Joshua Venture retreat with six other Joshua Venture

grant recipients in Pennsylvania, I overheard a woman say, ‘Sometimes I think I should go to divinity school.’ I have an image of that as angel wings and a school backpack. I like the connotations of divinity school, the idea that divinity school teaches us to be divine.”

References to Jewish texts appear throughout the poems, ranging from Hassidic advice about keeping your ego in check to Talmudic sayings that compare Torah to water finding the lowest place (i.e., Torah resides in the humblest among us), as well as actual Torah stories, like that of Noah. Alicia Jo says, “Because this is a mainstream prize, the book becomes accessible and valuable to readers who perhaps don’t know about the traditions I’m building on. I hope Jewish readers will find interest in the idea of poetry as a drash (interpretation of Biblical text), a continuation of Jewish text.”

You can listen to a free podcast interview with Alicia Jo about Divinity School at Late Night Library: latenightlibrary.org/ alicia-jo-rabins-divinity-school. For more information, visit aliciajo.com.

Alicia Jo Rabins on Stage

On Dec. 4 and 5, 7:30 pm, at Disjecta Contemporary Art Center, Boom Arts brings back “A Kaddish for Bernie Madoff,” created and performed by Alicia Jo Rabins on processed violin and vocals. She will be accompanied by an original full-length animation by Portland-based artist Zak Margolis. boomarts.org

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Lamiae Naki and Cantor Ida Rae Cahana collaborate on Arab-Hebrew songs at the Festival of Light two years ago.

Free concert benefits charities including JFCS Peter Zisa and Friends present their annual celebration of peace and goodwill, “Seasons of Light Holiday Benefit Concert.”

Seasons of Light, an annual benefit concert since 2007, returns Dec. 5 this year with an exciting program of music that celebrates the many cultural and faith traditions of our community.

Excellent performers from many musical traditions will join together to present music from the Americas, Europe, Africa, Asia and the Middle East.

Among the many friends joining Peter Zisa this December are: • Beth Israel Cantor Ida Rae Cahana, who is also a featured soloist with Pink Martini.

• Shirley Nanette, one of Portland’s finest jazz vocalists, and inductee of the Oregon Music Hall of Fame. Nanette has guest soloed with the Oregon Symphony as well as many symphonic orchestras across the country.

• Tatiana Kolchanova, violinist and founder/musical director of Music and Arts Academy, Camas, WA, and orchestra member of the Portland Opera.

• Brian Haskins, music director and cantor at the Grotto, and

soloist with the Portland Symphonic Choir.

• Portland Boychoir, a nonprofit organization that provides music education and performance opportunities for boys aged 5 to 18.

• Thousand Waves, an “electric and exciting blend of musical styles from different continents” ( Art Beat, 2011).

Seasons of Light is a gift to the community from Peter Zisa and Friends, and it is also an opportunity to showcase two charitable organizations that exemplify the spirit of the community.

This year will highlight Jewish Family and Child Service and the Portland Boychoir. Generous donations to these worthwhile organizations will be greatly appreciated.

Peter is a classical guitarist, educator, performer, composer and professor of music at Pacific University and Portland Community College. He has trained under such masters of the guitar as Andres Segovia and Oscar de la Torre. Peter has performed extensively across Oregon, including a performance for the grand opening of the Harold Schnitzer Diabetes Center at OHSU and numerous benefit concerts across the state.

Eighth Annual Season of Light Concert

WHAT: Multicultural music event WHO: Performers include: Cantor Ida Rae Cahana, Shirley Nanette, Tatiana Kolchanova and the Portland Boyschoir WHEN: 7 pm, Dec. 5 WHERE: First Congregational Church 1126 SW Park Ave., Portland ADMISSION: Free, but donations to Jewish Family and Child Service and the Portland Boychoir greatly appreciated.

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C Cabaret duo performs from Jewish American songbook Dec. 8

Internationally acclaimed cabaret artists Lynne Jackson and Mike Palter will be in Portland Dec. 8 for a concert.

“Though we will be in Portland ostensibly to perform a ‘jazz’ concert, George and Laurie (Fendel) and our friends and fans in Portland know that we actually present the glorious songs of The Great Jewish American Songbook,” says Mike Palter. “Indeed this very concert will include the songs of the Gershwins, of Jerome Kern, Rodgers, Hart & Hammerstein, Sondheim, Alan and Marilyn Bergman ... and many others: The Masters!”

George Fendel presents Lynne Jackson and Mike Palter in concert at 7:30 pm Dec. 8 at Classic Pianos, at the corner of Southeast Powell and Milwaukie, in Portland.

“When we travel so long a distance (from one ocean to the other in this case), it is important to us that the Jewish community know we are coming ... and we are bringing this music with us,” says Mike.

The couple are the 2014 Recipients of the Paul Re Peace Foundation's Lifetime Achievement Award in Music.

They are the recipients of many honors and awards for their humanitarian work on behalf of children in America and around the world.

Two of the couple’s CDs dedicated to the Jewish American Songbook raise money for St Baldrick's Foundation to support research into children's cancer. One of their songs, "We Dream A Brighter Day," was used as the keynote song/event title to benefit pediatric cancer research at Duke Hospital, helping to raise funds to benefit pediatric cancer research at Duke Hospital; the event raised $400,000 in one night.

Admission is a suggested donation of $20. Seating is very limited so reservations are strongly suggested; call 503-546-5622.

reate the Chanukah menorah of your dreams.

Make it out of clay, Legos, papier-mâché, cookie dough, paper towel rolls, stones you find on a hike, Tinker Toys or anything else you can imagine or find around your house.

Make anything you think you can make. Simple or complex, it’s all meant to be fun.

Bring your creative Chanukiah to the Beit Haverim Chanukah dinner and Shabbat service on December 11th and we will give you a chance to display it through the evening.

Make sure you include your name on the Chanukiah so we know who created these beautiful Chanukiot. All submissions win a prize.

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Ghost of Hanukkah Present gives Dickens’ Carol a makeover Eric Stern. Photo by Ryan Rogers Eric Stern and Scot Crandal (foreground) prepare backstage for their roles as the Ghost of Hanukkah Present and Jacob Marley, respectively, in the upcoming production of “A Circus Carol.” Photo by Ashley Lloyd

By Elizabeth Schwartz

It’s hard to be Jewish in Portland during the month of December, especially when you’re looking for a family-friendly evening of seasonal entertainment. While some Jewish-oriented performances exist – like Jewish Theatre Collaborative’s “Hanukkah and the Power of Light” – more often than not Jewish families must settle for the usual December shows such as “The Nutcracker.”

Now we have another option: Wanderlust Circus, one of the many circus arts performance ensembles for which Portland is justly famous, has created a humorous and decidedly alternative version of Charles Dickens’ classic, A Christmas Carol. In Wanderlust’s version, written by the ensemble’s founder Noah Mickens, Ebenezer Scrooge is also visited by three ghosts, but one of them, the Ghost of Hanukkah Present, transforms this “Christmas” story into a more universal tale.

Eric Stern, founder of Vagabond Opera, plays the eponymous ghost, a part Mickens wrote especially for him. “We’re aware of each other’s theatrical possibilities,” says Stern. “I’ve done other Wanderlust shows, and I hired (Mickens) to direct my first opera.”

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think of myself as a being, in between worlds who is sent by divine emissaries,” says Stern. “Scrooge is facing his own Day of Atonement – he’s missed the mark. Everybody else is scaring him or guilting him, but I do it through humor and singing.”

Stern also strives to present the ghost as a multifaceted, three-dimensional character, not a caricature of Jewish stereotypes – “I didn’t want to ‘shuck and jive’ the role.”

To prepare himself, Stern summons what he describes as “a mystical Kabbalistic frame of mind. I’m trying to be infused with genuineness; I don’t think of it as playing a character, but really being a Jewish person, someone from the generation of my great-grandfathers.”

A CIRCUS CAROL WHAT: A circus “revusical” based on Charles Dickens’ classic tale of Ebenezer Scrooge and his haunted holiday transformation presented by Wanderlust Circus.

FEATURING: Eric Stern as the Ghost of Hanukkah Present and live music by 3 Leg Torso.

WHERE: Alberta Rose Theatre, 3030 NE Alberta St. WHEN: Dec. 18, 19 and 20 at 8 pm.

WHO: Suitable for children 8 years old and up.

TICKETS: For more information, including ticket prices: albertarosetheatre.com.

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A Nosh of Jewish Wisdom:

Helen

Health is wealth.

If you want family togetherness, make it fun Dear Helen:

I’m a nerdy middle-schooler who’s more into people than gadgets, clothes or social media. My parents got divorced five years ago when I was in elementary school. Now they’re OK around each other after they each married another divorced person.

Surprisingly, I like them all. Holidays are complicated because of how many places everyone is trying to get to. I like my new siblings, half-siblings, cousins, etc., but it’s usually too hectic for any quality time. I was trying to think of an idea for Hanukkah that could help us be more of a family instead of a crazy, jumble of busy people who I think might like each other if they stopped running around and actually spent time together. Can you help?

Seeking Family Fun

Dear Seeking:

Holiday gift-giving offers the perfect opportunity to accomplish your goal. While you might not be able to get everyone together as often as you want, you should be able to initiate a series of activities that will generate energy and establish a precedent for family fun. Get yourself a stack of construction paper, some markers, glitter and access to clip art. Then design a series of gifts/invitations, targeting various combinations of peers and parents. Your goal isn’t to match the exact people who will become final participants with the activities you are going to suggest. It's to start a family conversation about the value of playtime together, shared hobbies, adventures and fun.

Think about activities you think would be entertaining and educational to try together. They can be as varied as entering a family team in a bowling league to participating in a volunteer effort like a Habitat for Humanity build. Identify concerts that will happen in the next few months, classes at the local parks and rec centers, and games that will bring family together to laugh and bond. Make as many invitations as you think people can handle. Mix and match who gets what. Encourage people to trade off the invites, or to join in as many activities as they want.

Bring a calendar and write down the names of who wants to do what. Then follow up gift-giving with email reminders of which activities people are coming to, and remind them to put them on their schedule. The more fun you make this, the more fun will follow.

Dear Helen:

I heard you just got a new knee. I’m having the same surgery in January. Do you have suggestions for making my recovery easy and successful?

Gimpy Boomer

Dear Gimpy:

Knee replacement surgery: Ugh and hooray!

Necessities: You’ll need 24/7 help for 7-10 days and drivers until you’re off serious meds. Create a spreadsheet for your dependency, with slots for shlepping to/from physical therapy, housework and shopping. Identify friends who’re available during the day and others who can help with food donations. A live-in partner is a great asset and so are friends, neighbors and hired help. Ask your Jewish federation and synagogue about care committees.

Random tips: Buy/borrow an electric recliner. It will become your haven in the wee hours, when you can’t sleep comfortably.

Nap opportunistically and often. Invest in a continuous-flow, cold-water pump that bathes your aching knee in soothing comfort. Post regular updates to your Facebook page/emailing list. Unplug the phone; ask folks to text or email. Protect your psyche: ask people to avoid telling you stories about bad/failed recoveries. Know your appetite will be diminished and your taste buds may be altered. Homemade soup and simple foods like applesauce and muffins will taste gourmet. Keep baskets of meds, water bottle, book, phone, etc. handy in various places.

Time your meds and PT carefully. Encourage visitors to bring a book and sit quietly, rather than draining your energy with chatter. Wear PJs/nightie at home to remind yourself you’re a patient. Wear slippers out. Acknowledge your limitations. Know everything will tire you out and take longer than you expect.

This is a humbling experience. Say “Please” and “Thank you” to everyone. Help others when you recover.

Helen claims to have black belts in schmoozing, problemsolving and chutzpah. She’s a writer and an artist (kabbalahglass.com). Please email your questions to helen@ yourjewishfairygodmother.com and check out the blog at kabbalahglass.com/blog/ OREGON JEWISH LIFE | DECEMBER 2015 51

Rally marks 20th anniversary of Rabin assassination

Story and photos courtesy of “Remembering the Murder, Fighting for Democracy�

Former President Bill Clinton addresses the 100,000 people who attended the Tel Aviv rally marking the 20th anniversary of the assassination of Israel Prime Minister Yitzhak Rabin. Clinton helped broker the 1993 Oslo interim peace talks between Rabin and late PLO leader Yasser Arafat.

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The annual memorial rally marking the assassination of Yitzhak Rabin took place Oct. 31 in Rabin Square, Tel Aviv.

This peace rally held at the site of the murder marked the 20th year since the former prime minister and defense minister was assassinated.

Under the banner “Remembering the murder, fighting for democracy,” the rally was attended by an unprecedented 100,000 people from all ages and sectors of Israeli society.

Speakers included former U.S. President Bill Clinton and Israeli President Reuven Rivlin.

President Rivlin said, "We might be arguing about the right way, but we dream together about an Israel free of extremism and racism."

Bill Clinton said, "Only you can decide that a future of peace is less dangerous to the state of Israel than a future of war."

President Obama delivered a special video message to the participants and the Israeli public, saying, “Let's prove that we are opposing violence and extremism. Rabin's spirit and dream will never die."

Tony Naser, head of the Arab division of the Noar Oved VeLomed youth movement, said, "I am moved and excited to think about the possibility that what's happening here, in this rally, Jews and Arabs, Orthodox and secular together, will become our day-to-day reality."

Other speakers included Israeli leaders from different backgrounds, including Rabbi Yuval Cherlow; Sarah Rosenfeld,

mother of Malachi Rosenfeld, who was murdered in a terror act near Shviut Rachel; and Yitzhak Rabin’s grandson, Yonatan Ben-Artzi. There were powerful musical performances from a number of Israeli artists including Rita, Nisreen Kadry and Shai Ozeri.

All speakers denounced acts of exclusion and terror in Israel such as those labeled "price tag" acts.

There was a large presence of youth movement members in the crowd, and many of the speakers spoke directly to them, urging them to be the new generation to fight for democracy and against violence in Israel. The event was coordinated by a council composed of members of various movements and organizations, including Dror Israel, Bnei Akiva, Hashomer Hatzair, the Student Union and several American Jewish federations. All sponsoring organizations signed a declaration calling for a more democratic and inclusive society.

The declaration concluded with this statement: Therefore, we the undersigned hereby call on all Bnei Yisrael and all parts of Israeli society to undertake our generations’ mission, with the understanding that Israel faces difficult historic and fateful decisions. These decisions can only be made through the democratic process and moral values. We seek to hold up the assassination of Prime Minister and Defense Minister Yitzhak Rabin as a warning sign to Israeli society as we grapple with the decisions that are knocking at our door, and to commit that all disputes be decided through the democratic process.

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Benefit for the Future

Gala Co-chairs Michael Weiner and Kathy DavisWeiner with special guest William Shatner

Photo by One Click Studio

g n i Liv Celebrity guest star William Shatner entertained and inspired a sold-out crowd of 550 attendees at the Jewish Federation of Greater Portland’s gala event, A Benefit for the Future on Nov. 14. The Mittleman Jewish Community Center was transformed into an elegant, out-of-this-world location.

Mr. Shatner spoke from the heart as he described the act of giving being the most profound impact someone could have on the world. In all, gala attendees have committed more than $1 million towards the Jewish Federation’s Annual Campaign to educate youth, ensure a Jewish future, feed the hungry, care for the elderly and bridge cultural divides. As Mr. Shatner remarked, the actions of our community on this night truly rippled around the globe.

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Dancing to the music of Pressure Point

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Oregon Jewish Life Publisher Bob Philip with William Shatner

Sen. Ron Wyden and William Shatner meet in the ‘green room’ at the MJCC on Nov. 14. © LeeAnn Gauthier

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MITZVAH MENORAH – The mitzvah menorah in the lobby of the Mittleman Jewish Community Center displays descriptions of families in need of holiday cheer. Members and visitors can pick one of the requests from Jewish Family & Child Service, buy the items and drop them off on a subsequent visit to the center. Photo by Deborah Moon 56 DECEMBER 2015 | OREGON JEWISH LIFE

Brighten your holiday by bringing joy to a needy family For more than a decade, Jewish Family & Child Service has asked individuals, families and community groups to "adopt" local low-income households by providing much-needed Hanukkah or Christmas gifts. Through the Adopt-a-Family campaign, JFCS matches low-income individuals and families in the Portland area with community members who are willing to pitch in. Last year, the program brought holiday gifts and cheer to 62 families or individuals.

The requests are often simple and poignant. For example, an 89-year-old woman who is a survivor of the Holocaust lives on her own and is struggling with multiple health problems. Her newborn great-grandchildren are her greatest joy, but they don’t live in Oregon, and she dreams of being able to travel and visit them one day.

Meanwhile, she cherishes the photos that she receives, and one of her requests is for picture frames for the photographs she holds dear.

Another request this year came from a family in stress. The single mother with four children works full time despite serious health conditions. The two oldest children are developmentally disabled, and one has missed a great deal of school so far this year due to illness and having multiple medical appointments. Meanwhile, the younger twin boys help out as much as they can. The children’s father has been in and out of recovery programs and does not provide any financial or other support. The family is struggling just to make ends meet, and they are in debt on their electric bill. With winter approaching, they worry about how they will manage during the cold weather. They are asking for warm clothes and help to catch up with their energy bill.

JFCS Emergency Aid Program Coordinator Maria Rehbach says that the needs have never been greater or more compelling in the seven years she’s overseen the program. A recent report released by the Oregon Center for Public Policy bears this out.

“Despite half a decade of economic recovery, too many Oregonians still struggle to make ends meet. For those who are able to work, low wages and too few good jobs are just some of the reasons why Oregonians today are more likely to live in poverty than they were during the Great Recession.”

Volunteers wrap presents last year for families receiving gifts through the Jewish Family & Child Service Adopt-a-Family project. toys, clothing and other necessities, and the whole entire family with household essentials including sheets, towels and perhaps a gift card to help buy groceries.”

If you are willing and able to aid an individual or family, please contact Maria Rehbach at 503-226-7079, ext. 128, or maria@jfcs-portland.org. To make a cash contribution visit jfcs-portland.org/giving/ holiday-campaign.

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Melton returns to Portland

Beginning in January, the Institute for Judaic Studies of the Pacific Northwest will partner with the Florence Melton School of Adult Jewish Learning to once again offer Melton classes in Oregon.

Florence Melton School of Adult Jewish Learning, a project of The Hebrew University of Jerusalem, is the largest pluralistic adult Jewish education network in the world.

In Portland the school existed for several years as an independent organization and then continued under the auspices of the Jewish Federation of Greater Portland, before closing earlier this year.

The new Portland program will be the second in the state. The Eugene Melton School opened in the fall of 2013.

Portland will offer classes for both year one and year two core classes, with 25 lessons each. Year 1 of Core Melton consists of two one-hour classes: Rhythms and Purposes. Year 2 Core Melton consists of two one-hour classes: Ethics and Crossroads.

The core classes will be taught by Jan Rabinowitch, Erica Goldman and Sylvia Frankel, who is also director of the Portland program.

“Since we are required to have a minimum of 15 students per class it is not clear whether we will be able to offer the full Core classes in the am and in the pm, but these are the options now,” says Sylvia, noting classes with enough students will meet Tuesdays beginning Jan. 5-June 21, 2016. Morning classes will be at Congregation Shaarie Torah 920 NW 25th Ave., and evening classes at the Mittleman Jewish Community Center, 6651 SW Capitol Hwy. Rhythms of Jewish Living explores the central ideas and texts that inform our daily, weekly and annual rituals as well as life cycle observances.

Purposes of Jewish Living looks at the essential Jewish theological concepts and ideas as they unfold in the Bible, the Talmud and other sacred texts.

Ethics of Jewish Living explores ethical issues such as justice, life and death, sexuality and community, with case studies from Talmudic, rabbinic and contemporary literature.

Crossroads of Jewish History looks at the dramatic developments, experiences and issues from different periods in Jewish history as reflected in historical texts.

In addition to the core classes, Mini Melton classes are also planned.

Shemot II: From Revelation to Revolution (10 lessons) will meet Thursdays Jan. 7-April 13, 2016.

Rabbi Joshua Stampfer, who founded the Institute for Judaic Studies, will teach the course. It will meet from 10:30 am to noon at Congregation Neveh Shalom, 2900 SW Peaceful Lane.

Our course follows the development of the emerging Jewish nation from their awe-inspiring encounter at Mount Sinai through the building of the tabernacle in the wilderness. The

high points of divine revelation in “Ten Commandments,“ “Encountering God,” and “Face to Face with God” are sharply contrasted with the low points of the “Golden Calf: Revolt or Reversion.” The text addresses some of the specific laws and regulations that were to become part of Jewish living as well as the meaning, purpose, and relevance to our lives today.

Rabbi Ariel Stone will teach Mysticism and Kabbalah: Secret Knowledge in Judaism (10 Lessons) on 10:30 am to noon Wednesdays, Feb. 3-April 13, 2016. The class will meet at Congregation Shir Tikva, 7550 NE Irving St. Despite the public chatter about Kabbalah, for many, this important aspect of the Jewish tradition remains a "closed book."

This course presents the rich history of Jewish mysticism, along with understandings of many of the texts that have been so central to that tradition, speaking to the deepest mysteries of human existence and to many of life's eternal universal questions.

Registration and class schedule at: events.org/MeltonPortland For more information, contact Sylvia Frankel at frankel@ lclark.edu.

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FACES & PLACES

CUBA REFLECTIONS – Fred Rothstein lectures about his recent trip to Cuba at Congregation Neveh Shalom on Nov. 4.

HONORING VETERANS – Sixth-graders from Congregation Neveh Shalom (including Zachary Pines, Eric Altmark and Alex Weiss) plant flags at Ahavai Sholom Cemetery to honor Jewish veterans who served our country.

CONFRONTING EXTREMISM – Nadav Eyal, Channel 10's chief international correspondent in Israel, speaks to a packed crowd on Confronting Extremism: The State of Hate Today Nov. 8 at PSU. Also addressing the topic were panelists (from left): Miriam Greenstein, OJMCHE board member and Holocaust speaker; Steven Wasserstrom, Moe and Izetta Tonkon Professor of Judaic Studies and Humanities at Reed College; Kayse Jama, founder and executive director at the Center for Intercultural Organizing; Jo Ann Hardesty, president of NAACP Portland Branch and principal partner at Consult Hardest; Judith Mowry, senior policy advisor for equity strategies and initiatives for the City of Portland; and Erious Johnson Jr., civil rights director, Oregon Department of Justice.

PHILANTHROPY AND INHERITANCE – The Oregon Jewish Community Foundation Professional Advisors Group met in October at the Multnomah Athletic Club to address the issues and challenges surrounding Inheritance and Philanthropy. The program featured an expert panel discussing issues of tax and estate planning, client relationships and trusts. From left: OJCF Executive Director Julie Diamond, Kay Abramowitz (panelist), Rebecca DeCesaro (panelist), Richard Solomon (panelist) and PAG Co-Chair Josh Frankel. Professional Advisors Group Co-Chair Brian Suher, left, and Jack Birnbach talk at the October PAG event.

JEWISH VOICES – Since 1999 OJMCHE has hosted Jewish Voices, an annual event with readings by prominent Oregon Jewish poets and writers. The six writers in the Nov. 3, 2015, program span a range of genres including fiction, science fiction, poetry and memoir. The writers are (from left): David D. Levine, Alicia Jo Rabins, Willa Schneberg (co-founder of program with OJMCHE Director Judith Margles), Amy Schutzer, Bruce Barton and Debra Gordon Zaslow.

SOUL HARMONY AWARDS – Soul Harmony won 11 awards at the Drammys. From left, the three writers, Janet Mouser, Michael and Alan Berg with star De'Sean Dooley, who won best debut in a musical.

Michael Allen Harrison, Janet Mouser and Alan Berg won for Best New Musical, Best New Score and Best New Song – the Music Inside.

Michael won additional for best orchestrations.

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BOOK MONTH KICKOFF – Night in Shanghai author Nicole Mones drew more than 100 people to the Mirabella Nov. 3 in the first of three multimedia presentations detailing Jewish life in Shanghai before, during, and after World War II.

FACES & PLACES EUGENE LEGACIES – Temple Beth Israel-Eugene’s Board President Nathan Philips and his wife, Robin Philips at a Learning Shiur and Reception honoring donors and Legacy Circle members. Below Marsha and Lee Miller and Gail Pioso at a Learning Shiur & Reception honoring donors and Legacy Circle members.

AFLAME – an Album of Jewish Radicalism was the theme when the Jewish Theatre Collaborative led a virtual tour of the streets of New York City 100 years ago Nov. 2 at Milagro Theater. Visitors encountered peripatetic philosophers, organized with Knee-pants Makers, got the skinny on "communist criminals" in L.A., and saw how Worker's Education birthed unions with brains. From left: Samuel Dinkowitz, Illya Torrer-Garner, Heath Koerschgen, Kayla Lian and Danielle Weathers (Photo by Carrie Ann Huneycutt). Below JTC director Sacha Reich watches rehearsals. (Photo by Friderike Heuer) HONORING DEBORAH – Havurah Shalom Education Director Deborah Eisenbach-Budner, pictured with Rabbi Joey Wolf, was honored Nov. 7 by many Havurah members who have benefited from the education programs she has established and led during her 15 years as Havurah’s Education Director. Photo by Barbara Gundle

MAZEL TOV – Irv Adler, a founding member of Kol Shalom, was delighted when his grandson asked him to officiate at his wedding. Here he is with the loving couple, Daniel and Katie Strode, at the “Mazel Tov” moment. The baseball cap? The bride and groom insisted that Poppie (Irv) wear it since it's his insignia.

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Chabad rabbis convene in Brooklyn

CHABAD CONFERENCE BANQUET – Attending the International Chabad Conference, Rabbi Dov Bialo, standing right, shares a banquet table with partners of Chabad at Reed College and Southeast Portland, as well as relatives representing Chabad in Roslyn, Long Island. From left standing: Roger Fisher, Rabbi Yaakov Reiter, Rabbi Menachem Bialo, Rabbi Yehoshua Werde and Rabbi Dov Bialo; and seated are Professor Dr. Levi Reiter, left, and Dr. Ben Reiter.

Representatives from all of Oregon's 10 Chabad Centers attended this year’s International Chabad Conference Nov. 4-9 in Brooklyn.

“I'm still under the spell of the amazing International Conference of Chabad Shluchim (emissaries - rabbis) which took place last weekend in Brooklyn,” says Chabad of Oregon Rabbi Motti Wilhelm. “I had the opportunity to spend five days with over 3,000 colleagues from around the world, culminating in a gala banquet with over 5,000 participating, including a delegation from Oregon.”

Wilhelm says that one of the common frustrations shared among the conference attendees is the many misconceptions and fears people have about Chabad. One of his colleagues shared these short “Myths and Facts about Chabad” to counter those fears.

MYTH: Chabad is for religious Jews. You have to be Orthodox to participate in programs offered by Chabad.

FACT: Chabad is inclusive and nonjudgmental, and our programs are open to all. The attendees of our programs are attended as diverse as the Jewish community itself with the vast majority non-Orthodox. Our programs are geared for participants of different backgrounds, including those with little or no prior Jewish involvement.

MYTH: Chabad’s goal is to make me Orthodox/Chassidic/Chabad.

FACT: Chabad is not out to make anyone orthodox or chassidic. Chabad is an organization dedicated to engaging every Jew, regardless of background, affiliation or personal level of observance, and providing resources to help increase their level of Jewish knowledge, enthusiasm and commitment. Every Jew grows at their personal pace and every mitzvah stands on its own.

MYTH: Chabad is financed by its headquarters in New York.

FACT: It is Chabad policy that each center be financially independent. We are not funded or financially supported by our central headquarters. Thus, funding for local Chabad programs must be generated from within the community which it serves. No money or dues are sent to international Chabad headquarters in New York – all funds donated remain right here in our community.

PREVIEWS Jewish museum host AIDS Day program Dec. 1 “World AIDS Today: A storytelling Journey through the Ages of HIV” will be presented at the Oregon Jewish Museum and Center for Holocaust Education at 7 pm, Dec. 1.

World AIDS Today is a ceremonial nonfiction storytelling project featuring local artists and writers as they explore living with HIV through the lens of the past, present and future. Held on World AIDS Day, and featuring the December First Writers, this intergenerational, intercultural examination of the varied legacies of HIV in our communities aims to hold space for a varied spectrum of voices affected by the virus.

This community event is a collaboration between OJMCHE, Ecumenical Ministries of Oregon HIV Day Center, Home Theatre System and the December First Writers with generous support from the Quest Center for Integrative Health and Ivan Dollar Studio.

The December First Writers is a Portlandbased group of poets and writers who, since 2013, have been giving readings about how AIDS/HIV has impacted their lives personally. The four founding members are Marla Allen, David Rutiezer, Pat Vivian and Sylvia Zingeser.

Ticketes are $10, $8 for OJMCHE and EMO Members: and $5 for students For more information, call the museum at 503-226-3600.

Meyers receive Stampfer Community Award Dec. 3 The Rabbi Joshua Stampfer Community Enrichment Award will be presented to Paul and Alice Meyer on Dec. 3 at 6:30 pm at Congregation Neveh Shalom, 2900 SW Peaceful Lane, Portland.

Paul and Alice embody the spirit of the Stampfer Community Enrichment Award because of their many contributions to the well-being of the charitable organizations of both Jewish and non-Jewish communities in

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Portland and beyond. They are being honored for who they are, what they have done and for being role models for the entire community.

The Community Enrichment Award is not a fundraising event. Kosher catering is provided

by Century Catering.

Tickets $60 per person. For reservations, contact Marg Everett at 503-2937318 or reserve online at tinyurl.com/ stampferaward2015.

Chabad kindles Hanukkah light Dec. 6 On Dec. 6 Chabad of Oregon, American Red Cross and Portland Fire & Rescue partner together to celebrate the first night of Hanukkah.

This will be the 32nd year that Chabad of Oregon is lighting Portland's Public Menorah. The first night lighting and celebration will be 4 to 6 pm at Director Park on Southwest Park between Yamhill and Taylor in downtown Portland.

There will be fire jugglers, music, latkes and activity booths for children, local celebrities and an opportunity to bring travel size toiletries for veterans, which will be provided to VA hospitals and at military stand down events.

“The Red Cross is delighted to partner with Chabad Oregon on the first night of Hanukkah to support local disaster response, services to military families, lifesaving blood donations and preparedness in our community” says Amy Shlossman, chief executive officer of American Red Cross Cascades Region.

“The message of Hanukkah is that a little light could shed much darkness and this is what we hope to accomplish with this event” says Rabbi Motti Wilhelm of Chabad of Oregon.

For more information, contact Chabad of Oregon at 503-9779947.

Scholar takes Beit Haverim on a Southern journey Dec. 4-5 Kimberly Hartnett, author of the best seller Carolina Israelite: How Harry Golden Made Us Care About Jews, the South, and Civil Rights, will be scholar-in-residence the weekend of Dec. 4-6 at Congregation Beit Haverim.

Hartnett will lead three sessions in the weekend program: Beit Haverim Goes on A Southern Journey. The first two sessions meet at Beit Haverim, 1111 Country Club Road in Lake Oswego; the location for the Havdalah program will be provided with RSVP. The scholar-inresidence program was established though a gift by Joann and John Moss.

During Shabbat services at 7 pm, Dec 4, Hartnett will speak on “Who Was Harry Golden and Why Was He So Central to the History of America Jews and to Our Own Lives?”

For Torah Study at 10 am, Dec. 5, in the mode of Torah Study discussion participants will engage in questions and dialogue with Hartnett, including reflections on Harry Golden's unique writing style.

A singing Havdalah service will begin at 6:30 pm, Dec. 5. A light potluck dinner will include a relaxed, social evening of learning.

Hartnett will lead the discussion on “A Look at the times of Harry Golden – The late 1950s and the early '60s: His impact on BlackJewish Friendship, and Jews and the Civil Rights Struggle; and What He Taught Us!” RSVPs required for dinner and Havdalah program.

For more information, contact Beit Haverim at 503-568-1241.

Rabbi Ruhi Sophia Motzkin Rubenstein

Eugene’s Temple Beth Israel plans busy Dec. 6 Temple Beth Israel in Eugene has a busy day planned for Dec. 6.

The day begins with a Hanukkah Bazaar and Kid’s Activity Day from 9 am to 1 pm. Check out local crafts, gift items and expanded Judaica and Fair Trade Gift Shop offerings. Crafts and fun for the kids will be from 10 am to noon That afternoon, at 4 pm, Temple Beth Israel will hold the installation ceremony of Rabbi Ruhi Sophia Motzkin Rubenstein. A celebratory reception will follow with child care provided.

Both events will be at Temple Beth Israel – Center for Jewish Life, 1175 E 29th Ave. in Eugene.

For more information, call 541-485-7218 or visit tbieugene.org

Sephardic Film Festival continues Dec. 8 with double feature The Sephardic Winter Film Festival at Congregation Ahavath Achim continues the second Tuesday of each month at 7 pm through April.

Admission & Sephardic dessert are free.

December is double feature night.

The Dec 8 presentation begins with “The Jewish People, a Story of Survival.” This is the story of Jewish survival. From slavery to the loss of their homeland; from exile to anti-Semitism; from pogroms to near annihilation in the Holocaust, how did they endure while so many other communities have vanished? Hosted by Martha Teichner (CBS News / Sunday Morning), this film explores some of the answers.

(English language, 60 minutes, 2008 PBS Production by Andrew Goldberg.)

The program continues with “The Jewish Journey: America.” This documentary is an incredible archive of photos, film footage and personal life stories of first through fourth generation Americans who relate stories about the tight-knit Jewish communities and heartbreaking choices to leave family behind and start a new life in America. Stories from the old country include material from South America, Europe, Russia, North Africa and the Middle East. (English language, 60 minutes, 2008 PBS Production by Andrew Goldberg.)

The films will be followed by a talk by Professor Michael Weingrad, director of the Harold Schnitzer Family Program in Judaic Studies at Portland State University.

The film series is sponsored by Jewish Federation of Greater Portland, NCSY, Albert J. and Esther Menashe, Richard and Judi Matza, Charles and Jo Levy, Ron and Pam Sidis, and Renee Ferrera.

All films are shown at Ahavath Achim, 3225 SW Barbur Blvd., Portland.

For information call David 503-892-6634 or visit jewishfilmportland.org.

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DECEMBER CALENDAR

Three exhibits at OJMCHE: Pointing the Way: The Art of the Torah Pointer; Surviving Remnants; and Florence Saltzman: Painter + Printmaker.

Oregon Jewish Musuem and Center for Holocaust Education, 1953 NW Kearney, Portland. ojmche.org or 503-226-3600

Dec. 1 Giving Tuesday: Jewish Federation of Greater Portland hosts a phone-a-thon 6:30-8:30 pm at the MJCC and a volunteer project at the Oregon Food Bank. Signup: jewishportland.org/ givingtuesday AIDS Day program at OJMCHE. See page 64

Dec. 2 Portland Jewish Academy Open House. See students and teachers in action a0 am at PJA, 6651 SW Capitol Hwy., Portland. Serving ages 6 weeks through eighth grade. 503-244-0126 The Kosher Baker – Paula Shoyer comes to town hosted by the Portland Kollel. 7:30 pm at the Bargreen Ellingson Test Kitchen. 3232 NW Industrial St. 503-245-5420

Dec. 3 Jazz in Shanghai: The Larry Nobori Band will play swing jazz music that was played during and after World War II in Shanghai. Based on the book, A Night in Shanghai, by Nicole Mones, Mr. Nobori will also talk about the music. 2-3:30 pm at MJCC. Cost $5. Register at oregonjcc.org/shanghai Paul and Alice Meyer receive the Rabbi Joshua Stampfer Community Enrichment Award. See page 64

Dec. 4 & 5 Boom Arts brings back “A Kaddish for Bernie Madoff,” created and performed by Alicia Jo Rabins. 7:30 pm at Disjecta Contemporary Art Center. See page 47 Beit Haverim hosts Scholar-in-Residence Kimberly Hartnett. See page 65

Dec. 5 Season of Light Holiday Benefit Concert for Jewish Family and Child Services and Portland Boyschoir. See page 48

Dec. 6-14 HANUKKAH! Light first candle the evening of Dec. 6. Light all eight candles evening of Dec. 13. For youth and family Hanukkah events, see page 24. For campus Hanukkah events, see page 42.

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Dec. 6

Olive Oil & Hanukkah Foods Tasting. Join the Jewish Federation of Greater Portland at New Season Market in Raleigh Hills (7300 SW Beaverton Hillsdale Highway) from 11 am to 2 pm to find a good oil for your latkes and learn more about federation. 503-245-6219 Mitzvah Menorah Adopt-a-Family Gift wrapping and delivery. To volunteer and for time and location, contact Carrie Kaufman. 503-226-7079, ext. 118, or ckaufman@jfcs-portland.org Light Up Hillsboro. Chabad Jewish Center of Hillboro Grand Menorah Lighting 4:30 pm at Orenco Station Patio (6221 NE Cornell Road). Music

by Ori Rotteman, latkes, doughnuts, clown and crafts. chabadhillsboro@gmail.com OJMCHE Sunday Speaker: Anneke Bloomfield shares her story of survival in The Netherlands during the Holocaust. 1-2:30 pm at the Oregon Jewish Museum and Center for Holocaust Education, 1953 NW Kearney St., Portland. Free with museum admission. To learn more about Anneke’s story, visit her speaker profile at www. ojmche.org.

Maccabees’ Celebration: A Hanukkah Adventure at Congregation Shaarie Torah, 920 NW 25th Ave., Portland. 5:30 pm Adult Cocktail Hour and Games for All; 6:30 pm teen-led Shabbat service and preschool puppet show; 7:15 pm dinner, trivia, dessert. 503-226-6131 Hanukkiyah Challenge: Bring your most creative Hanukkiyah to Beit Haverim (1111 Country Club Road, Portland) for Hanukkah Dinner and Shabbat Service. RSVP required: beithav.org

Dec. 12 Hanukkah Party at Congregation Shir Tikvah.

See page 36

Dec. 13 Portland Jewish Academy’s Wild (South) West Auction. Silent Auction opens at sunset, 4:30 pm. Dinner and Live Auction at 6:30 pm. Hanukkah candle lighting at dinner. Stern Family Ballroom of the MJCC, 6651 SW Capitol Hwy., Portland. 503-244-0126 or auction@pjaproud. org

Eugene’s Temple Beth Israel Hanukkah Bazaar and rabbi installation. See page 65

Cycle for Good: Portland Jewish Academy: 8-11 am in Studio II of the MJCC. Get a great workout and support PJA! Rent one of our 26 bikes for $25. (Note: you can rent a bike, but have someone else come midway through to ride.)

Funds raised will help support service learning programs and/or financial aid scholarships.

503-535-3541

Dec. 8

Dec. 14

Portland Public Menorah Lighting at Director Park. See page 65

Jazz Stories + Songs: George Fendel, radio host and jazz pianist, will tell personal jazz stories, share CDs, and play piano. 2-3 pm at the MJCC. Free. 503-244-0111

Kugel Bake Off: Kugel or Keegal? Enter your best recipe in this fun contest and vote for your favorite! Entries due: Monday, at 6:15 pm.

Judging/Tasting: 6:30-7:30 pm at the MJCC. 503-244-0111

Cabaret duo performs favorites from the Jewish American Songbook. See page 49

Dec. 18-20

Sephardic Winter Film Festival Double Feature: “The Jewish People, a Story of Survival” and “The Jewish Journey: America.” See page 65

A Circus Carol. See page 50

Dec. 21

Betsy Kauffman and Spilt Milk Comedy Show.

5:30 pm at O’Connors Vault, 7850 SW Capitol Hwy., Portland. spiltmilkpdx.com

Israeli Folk Dancing at Leedy Grange, 835 NW Saltzman Road, Beaverton. 7:30 pm third Monday of every month through March. 503-3134552 or pifdnews@gmail.com

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Dec. 31

Hanukkah Family Festival at Congregation Beth Israel. 6 pm in Goodman Hall of CBI, 1972 NW Flanders, Portland. Food carts, latkes, doughnuts. Dance the night away with CBI’s house band Def Schlepper. Bring donation of cooking oil for Lift Urban Portland. RSVP: Marisa at 503222-1069 or marisa@bethisrael-pdx.org

News Year’s at Noon. 11:30 am-2 pm at the MJCC. Arts & crafts, games, dancing, snacks, pool float and counddown to 2016 at noon.

503-244-0111

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