Reply on SFM June 9 Wakeup Call Questions jiezhengdigital.com /wakeupcall Jie ZHENG Posted by Jie ZHENG on November 17, 2016 in SFM and me | 0 comments
Justin, Thank you for your time and words yesterday. I also want to learn, want to understand people and I like interaction when I talk with people. Here is my reply on SFM June 9 wakeup call questions: Question 1: What are your challenges? A) SFM (six figure mentors) I started Bing Ad. two weeks ago. How can I get more leads, quality leads, then convert them to sales? What is the next right move? I actually just had a call with bing Ad. for about 1 hour today. I now know a bit better at the campaign and will do some improvement tonight. Is there any coach there for my position Elite+ now, that can point out what stops me from making improvement? Is there any problem in me that I must change? From what you know about me, what aspects do you think I need to improve or change? B) Life Feel more gaps between Chinese fellows and me, special with my mother, my brother. There is no big talk. With my brother, not even any talk. Feel lonely. I do increase my activities and know more friends in my city. I am talking about feeling lonely of no partner. I really do not want to talk about this one again. It is getting old. I said this one time with you, because I must be honest in answering the questions. Then, I am going to put aside. I sometimes imagine the future life with my future boyfriend or husband, that helps some. Not as productive as I want. Want to optimize my time. Try to reduce or quit or cut off things that could go against my direction. Try to add things or new good habits that can help me move on the right direction. I can be very hard on myself. I remembered I quit two bad habits. I used to play Texas hold’em Poker on my cell phone for 1 or 2 months many years ago. I found out my eyesight dropped. Then I told myself I need to quit. I just stopped it. Never picked up. The other bad habit I quit was I have some app in my cell phone that I could read the news, special before I go to bed. I spent too much time, like over 1 hour for some time. I later deleted that app from my cell phone. I started reading some news from iPad mini these days, did much better, I checked the time and I could stop myself when it was longer than I planned. 1/4
Question 2: What mistakes are you repeating? A) SFM (six figure mentors) I do not know B) Life I do not know Question 3: Where is your pain line? A) SFM (six figure mentors) How can I spend more time on marketing programme? How to spend time wisely? What is my next right course I need to focus? Am I taking the right actions now? B) Life I do not feel pain now. What do you mean “pain line?�. If I really have to think of one, I could feel disappointed or confused when someone could not make their words when they said they would do things with me. I guess I am a bit numb on this one now. I just have to expect less. Another example would be, I am consistent with my feelings, once that person is kind to me and spends time with me, tells me that I am their good friends, I would expect that and I remain this way on my side, thought I am their friend or special friend. But people have their own lives. They do not have that much time for me. While I still hold my heart for them and expect to spend some time with them. I could feel a bit hurting when I am not involved in their life. I would think that why they do not want to spend time with me. I do not have any skills. I only put my heart there. It is always there. It would be better for me to have a bridge time, to know that I am not that important in their life. I am slow at catching up. I know to remind myself not taking it personally or seriously, moving on. Because people get on and get off the train all the time. I am thankful for what I have now. Question 4: What are you fearful of? A) SFM (six figure mentors) I cannot think of anything now. B) Life Maybe night driving (not comfortable if to new places and could not see the road name at night. I use GPS to direct me). Driving long distance by myself. Not sure how to handle the car issue when necessary. I do not really think about this one because I know whatever we think, they will affect us. Any negative thoughts, I can catch them and stop them or try not to be controlled. Going back to China to visit parents. I plan to visit parent at least once a year. I need to 2/4
do this in the second half of this year. Can I still go online, special SFM back office, facebook, youtube in China? Because many websites cannot be accessed over there. I know about some way but not quite sure now. Then, I would be afraid of being surrounded by old familiar but strange friends/family members. Most of what I listen, what I hear, are out of their life. We are from two worlds. They move on their direction and I move on my direction. How can I keep my momentum? When I am put down, discouraged, disbelieved, how can I bring my power back? I know it will happen because I now can recognize their certain repeating actions or life patterns. I am breaking my old me, removing the bad parts or negative parts, building my confidence, learning online marketing skills, in order to be in alignment with the purpose of why I am here, why I am in this world, which I only know part of my answers. When I go swimming, I am scare of swimming to over 5 feet deep. They are how I think. I do not think of them much. I do not worry about them, at least try to limit, because many of them do not happen on today. So I am not going to waste my today in worrying about tomorrow. Thank you, Justin, for asking us questions!! Have a great trip to Bali with other SFM members/coaches/team/leaders! For other friends that take your time in reading this blog, Thank you! If you would like to be inspired weekly with awesome people on this planet, Unleash Entrepreneur in you!
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Have a good evening! Jie ZHENG June 10, 2016 (first edition) at Columbia, SC
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