Turn Around Any Bad Day jiezhengdigital.com /turn-around-any-bad-day/ Jie ZHENG Posted by Jie ZHENG on January 17, 2017 in SFM and me, Travel | 0 comments Email Tweet1 Reddit Share1 Buffer4 Vote +11 Share1 Share Pin1 Pocket Stumble Flip WhatsApp Shares 9
Do you know to turn around any bad day or any unexpected moments? It was a long day yesterday, Jan. 17, 2017. Morning, I got the email from P,support team at the Six Figure Mentors, answered my questions and shared with me aboutsimple lead capture videos. I learned that before and made some, never really published or used them. Could not finish my work. I had to go to a dentist appointment. At 8:50 am I left home.
First test was the park. I used to go see dentist by going throughZhongshan Park. Before construction, it took me only 10 min. to go by. Since the park is under construction, I turned around 2 times to get to the hospital. I told myself it is okay, I still had time. Listened to my Ipad about some inspirational video, I saw pretty flowers. I stopped to take pictures, smelled some and I know I smiled. I love flowers. Passed by a bridge, I even came out one idea for another blog for future.
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The appointment time was 10:30 am. I got to the dentist at 9:50. At 10:40 am, one guy before me finished. But, another lady took my seat. What the hell was going on? I was not happy. I dislike people’s behavior that they not punctual and make me waiting. At least, I expect they apologize and give me a notice, said, “sorry, you might have to wait longer, because of xxxx”. No, they said nothing. I had appointment with my best friend at 12:30 pm for lunch. I had to send many texts to tell my friend that I am sorry, I could be late.
For some unknown reason, the doctor kept me waiting for another 15 min. in the process. 12:15 pm, it was done. Had to wait for another 10 minutes to check out. I took taxi to get to the restaurant. I did not want my friend to wait for me long. It was my first time to take taxi while I came back. In Xiamen, the public transportation is convenient. The only reason I used taxi was I asked myself, if that friend is my customer, what would I do? About 12:55 pm, I got to the restaurant. It was a great lunch. My friend treated me. She listened to me and I listened to her. She also gave me a clothes. That color, though, I would never think about buying. She insisted that I take it. It was my birthday gift. She is my best friend in Xiamen and she has a great family. She was my high -schoolmate, sat beside me for a few years. She is a really nice woman.
I had to leave by 14:20 because I needed to go to the nursing home. She was on the phone with her mom and we planned to get together this weekend, because I want to visit her parents. Life seems so well. All of a sudden, I saw a text from mother, asked me if I could go home, instead of going to nursing home. Something is wrong, I said to myself. I called my mother and found out that she was sick. She did not feel well about her heart. She asked me if I could go to hospital with her. I said yes.
About 15:00 or shortly after, I got to the hospital and met with her. It was quite long for me on the road. I did not listen to my audio book or video. I was calm, but I could not listen to any of them. I kept sending messages and asking mom to know about where she was, how she was. I am 39 years old. Jan. 17, 2017 was the first time, my mother asked me to go to hospital with her. All the rest of my life, it was always her that she went to hospital with me when I was sick, even in those days when I was married and it was my parents, special my mother, that were beside me when I was ill. Where did time go? They become more like 2/5
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She was okay. We went through different floors, different checking for her, set appointment for another two tests on next Monday Jan.23. During the two hours, I did not listen to my book. I said something, while, most of the time, I was thinking. I came out with one big idea, that is so big, that scares me. I know it is going to help so many people like her and me. I think I will share that with my mastermind team and see what they think.
I did not expect any bad moments,special my mother’s heart issue yesterday. I used all I learned to calm myself. I also asked my self this very question I learned from my mentor at the Six Figure Mentors/Digital Experts Academy: “In this very moment, what can I use this as an opportunity to grow?” I talked with my mother and told her that she needs to take care of herself, at least half of her time, she must spend on herself, fixing her issues. She spends too much time on taking care of father and other people. She is scared of hospital. One thing I learned that whatever you are scared of or afraid of, if you cannot face with it, it will still come to you some day. So in her case, if she is afraid of going to hospital for any preventative checking or seeing dentist, she needs to spend time in doing those things. I did not say much, I said some. I do not know what is the balance, what is too much and how to help her in taking care of herself.
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After we left the hospital, I bought some snack for us on way home. I made simple dinner for us. It was only okay. We both were too tired. I tried on the clothes and sent the picture to my friend. I asked my mother to take picture for me. I made her smile. And, the color looks better than I first saw the clothes. I did some work, finished my simple lead capture page and went to bed quite early.
Do not reject any bad day or bad moments when you encounter some. You have some power to turn around. You also can control your thinking. Do not give your power away. Keep your peace as best as you can do. Everything will be fine in the end.
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