Be Picked Up Or Pick Yourself Up jiezhengdigital.com /be-picked-up-or-pick-yourself-up/ Jie ZHENG Posted by Jie ZHENG on January 23, 2017 in Entrepreneurship | 0 comments Email Tweet1 Reddit Share Buffer Vote +11 Share1 Share Pin Pocket Stumble Flip WhatsApp Shares 3
Be picked up or pick yourself up? Which one do you choose? I believe while you are waiting for being picked up, pick yourself up.
You must be familiar with this story: a boy fell and he cried. He was waiting for his mother to pick him up and he kept crying. His mother did not help him by picking him up. She just patiently waited in the front and trusted her boy was going to get up on his own. He later stopped crying and he picked himself up. His mother gave him a smile and said, “You made it. I am proud of you, son.” When we get older, we sometimes forget that we have the ability to pick ourselves up in so many ways.
Suppose you work for some one today and you have being there for a while, you are waiting 1/4
for promotion, but still, nothing happens. Do you choose to blame the director, the company? Or, do you want to change but you do nothing really differently? Or, do you sense there must be something you could change? When you have the third thought, you start picking yourself up. You now focus on something you can change within, for example, you start thinking about how to improve your ability at your job. I know, for me, I wanted to learn something about marketing. Maybe you get tired of just wasting your spare time and you are ready to do something.
It is the moment when you start taking full responsibility of your life, you start changing the game. You would be too busy in development yourself instead of criticizing others. Lets refresh and help you some ideas to pick yourself up. Your Dream: While you are still working for someone else now, ask yourself about your dream. Is there something inside you that you want to do them, yet you set it aside because you limit yourself by saying different excuses and persuading yourself it is not going to work? That is actually a good sign for you. Whatever you fear of, it could be some hint there in your subconsciousness that you might need to do that. Be brave enough to face with your fear. If you do not face your fear, the fear would come back to you in some way in the future. Many people regretted not doing something. Do not be one of them. It is your life!
Your plan: You might not have a specific plan at the beginning. It is okay. Brain storm about the ideas and right them down. Plan is like a map. It gives you some route idea. For example, when I decided to learn online marketing, I know my plan needs to include learning marketing skills. You can also refer to my DMO page about execution. The gap between your actions and your plans is where you can improve. It is also the key point to differentiate doers and dreamers.
Your self-talking: You need to build your confidence and make it loud in your subconsciousness. Tell yourself : ” I have the ability to overcome the challenges with grace.” Work on your self confidence and believe in yourself. 2/4
Your affirmation: Every day, when you finish something, no matter how small it is, celebrate it. You need the small achievements to build up confidence and tell yourself you can do it. If you can make one success, you can make another.
Your faith: Ask yourself this question: “Do you believe yourself?” Your answer has to be “YES”. When you put this answer without question to the universe, you will find more solutions coming. By the way, who told you that it is easy to make dreams happened? If someone told you it is going to be quick and easy, that is a lie. Those who go through the hard time and see the light, they would tell you: I believe 10000 hours rule. People hustle. There is no easy way to success. Pick yourself up, learn whatever it takes.
Jie Zheng
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