Changes for New Hope Humanitarian Magazine May/June 2019 issue

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We lc o m e Ba c k!

H er e is wh at you wil l be en joyin g in th is issu e

I Love Dogs Too...Bu t ...

While 785 million people do not know where or when they will eat again, Americans spend 440 million dollars on their pets...Halloween Costumes.

Maybe it's time to reconsider our life priorities.

Wh en Bad Th in gs Happen To Good People Lik e You A new e-book by Jim Killon talks about shifting from victim mentality to a life of victories, sucess and fulfillment.

" Th e Pu r pose of Edu cat ion or Wh er e t h e Hell is M y Su sh i" an article by Dr. Allison Brown As university aged young people prepare to volunteer around the world, NGOs dread meeting with the bubble encased, spoiled individuals who would do more harm than good. Dr. Brown's article looks at some attitudes that might need alteration and adjustment. ...And much more inside... >>>>>>

We br in g st or ies, ideas an d com passion t o you f r om w h o ar e m ak in g a dif f er en ce in t h e lives of t h e de pr epar ed t o be in spir ed, m ot ivat ed a Ot h er w ise, you w ill h ave t o ju st

ar ou n d t h e w or ld. Hu m an it ar ian m in ded people est it u t e, disadvan t aged an d im pover ish ed. Be an d em br ace you r h u m an f am ily. k eep you r h ead in t h e san d.

Jim Killon

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You never will find out just how high you can fly or how far you can go if you are tethered down by sandbags, wouldn't you agree? With the cutting away of those obstacles that weighed us down in 2018, we have been able to soar into our fullest potential. Though it may not always be easy, the fact is that it never was or ever will be. We seek out new horizons using new information and resources that we can share with other humanitarian projects just as they share with us. In fact one such recognition came from the Global Goodwill Ambassadors that welcomed me into their organization of worldwide humanitarians of every stripe thus expanding our positive influence around the world. As a small micro-charity back in 2009 to a far worldwide reaching non-profit nestled in the outbacks of Peru, this seemed impossible some time ago. In 2009, getting to the next village was a challenge.

As you will read in this issue, impossible is not a word we can entertain regardless of seemingly unconquerable obstacles. As we have figured out who our friends were (and weren't) how to best accomplish our goals by jettisoning what no longer works for us, now thousands of new faces emerge to make this project, Changes for New Hope, this magazine and the upcoming Jim Killon Humanitarian Awards a success that no one saw coming. Sharing our love and success with others who are realizing their own value and purpose in life by serving the less fortunate among us, the world, while swirling in a myriad of issues, gets a little better everyday. I am grateful to those of you who are part of this solution.

Live large my friends. Live deliberately.

Jim Killon

Dear Editor,

Dear Editor,

Thank you for your article about Volunteering in the 3rd World and selling moral license. As a former volunteer, I saw young people like myself with almost zero dedication and were more interested in hooking up, partying and helping children was way down the priority list for them.

NGOs depend on volunteers to make their projects a success, a pity that they wasted their time.

Kristin Van Busum's article "We Rise By Lifting Others" was motivating and encouraging.

Thank you for sharing. This young lady has made an impact un Nicaragua and no doubt we will be hearing more about her incredible passion in the future. ~~ Janice T., Daytona Beach Fl..

~~ Betty R. , Amherst Ma.

Dear Editor,

Dear Editor, Your article "Small Mementos Sitting on My Desk" made me think about how important it is to consider the direction of young people and how the social environment impacts us all. What we see and hear is what we become. Good job!

In your Final Thought you mentioned that small ins matter, that we can all do something to make the world a better place. I bought a 2 dozen roses and went to a nursing home for Mother 's Day recently and gave a rose to every elderly lady I saw sitting alone. I have never felt better in my whole life. Thanks!

~~ Harold N., Perth, Australia ~~ Jeremy P. Warsaw, Poland

Let us know what you are feeling. Share your comments, thoughts and ideas with us a cnhmagazine@gmail.com

Bef ore Long.....

You'l l Bel ong....

You want to know why?

I t is because you know t he world will never becom e a bet t er place for you, your children and lat er, t heir children sim ply because you want it t o be so. I t will t ake t im e and effort from people like you, and using m aybe only 1 % of your day (which is only 1 4 m inut es and who doesn't have 1 4 m inut es?)

St art wit h yourself in a st at e of m indfulness. Find your own cent er and reach out t o t ouch t hose who can use your kind hand. No one can t ell you how, use your own im aginat ion and dream big..

Decide t hat your t ime t o shine...is Now!

I love d og s t oo but ....

Article by Jim K illon L et me say this first to be clear, I love dogs. I love all animals and consider pets a necessary part of our extended happiness. People who have pets tend to be more compassionate and kind to humans too.

T here seems to be a disconnect somewhere between feeling good about our human family and actually doing something to enhance the lives of those less fortunate among us. W hat I mean, when I say this, is that we will smash a window of a car to rescue a small dog that is suffering in excruciating summer heat to quite probably save their life. T here is no judgment toward the dog. A helpless animal suffering deserves our assistance regardless of our inconvenience or consequence.

THEN THERE ARE HUMANS

People's compassion can not be measured. W hat is in your heart is either expressed outwardly in some manner or another or it remains dormant. I believe that, short of outright sociopaths, we all have a sense of compassion within us. I see compassion in many people as almost akin to a boat without a rudder. I t has become so commonplace to see homelessness around us that it is easy to step around them in the street. We see images of children living in utter destitution in other places we may never dare travel to and even knowing that the pocket change we have could save many of them, we change the channel. T hat is one's prerogative, what you do with what is your own is your own business.

Did you know that people have spent in excess of 72 billion dollars on pet care in the United States.

T hat is more than the combined GDP of the thirty nine poorest countries combined. Ok, pets need to go to the vets, be feed and groomed, I get that but I was floored to read that 440 million dollars was spent on.. ready for this? Halloween costumes. To draw an illustrative comparison, that is more than the combined incomes of 67000 Peruvian families. Halloween costumes... for pets.

Compassion is a beautiful thing when expressed in any form, including pets. I just want people to embrace those among us, around us and in far away places that suffer in unimaginable conditions.

W hether you donate money, volunteer at a soup kitchen, send mosquito nets to malaria stricken areas or school supplies to kids in Bolivia, the choice is yours. But let's make a dent in the suffering with that cannot be ignore with the flick of a switch. We are all one humanity and human dignity and survival should not be a bridge too far to cross. Find your niche and dive in, how about it?

Th e Jim Killon Hu m an it ar ian Aw ar ds 2019 There are those who refuse to go through life without leaving a footprint. These are those who have moved the human family forward and alleviated the suffering in the world. You may never hear their names or see their faces on mainstream media. They don't care. Their unique ability and dedication to their causes have been all the recognition they ever expected. I feel that they should be recognized for their incredible contributions to the world. We hope that the Jim Killon Humanitarian Awards will bring them into the forefront of our awareness that so much can be done for the disadvantaged in the world. There are no small contributions when we talk about helping those that suffer throughout the world. These humanitarians show us that dreams were never meant to be small nor remain just a good idea. Whether they received support or not, whether people joined their causes or not, they pushed the limits until there weren't any obstacle that could hold them back.

Just as Colonel Harland Sanders started sharing his secret recipe to other chicken restaurants instead of only selling his dinners out of his own restaurant, I have decided to leave a legacy beyond my own humanitarian project, Changes for New Hope, and recognize those who share our vision, passion and humanitarian spirit with this award. I was told almost ten years ago, by a friend named Claude, "Jim, you have no idea what this project can grow into." His words resonated in my head ever since and being limitless was not only a goal but an absolute certainty, a truth that I accepted as a daily affirmation. I am honored to know and share this recognition with these amazing people that we will be highlighting until November's award announcements. .

Always Know Your Why Jessi LaCost a So many people reference survivors and how strong they must be. Yet strength is only part of it. An ability to be mindful, to dance with the full circle of emotions that arise from adversity, to process feelings of discomfort, to lean on another for support and to deeply attune with your own inner-truths are the qualities that make you resilient. In this you can do more than just survive. You can thrive.

When you awake, take a moment to quietly experience the space. Open your minds?eye with the curiosity of a child to see what is available to you. Take in your potential. It?s okay to spend a moment reflecting on the past ? its successes and its struggles. Just don?t spend too long in that moment.

Placing boundaries around the fear and sadness will keep you from falling down too low to be able to pick yourself back up. Find something process-oriented to keep your mind and body moving.

Remember that the process is often more important than the result.

Resilience doesn?t emerge from naivetĂŠ. It?s not about seeing the glass half empty or half full ? it?s about seeing the glass and discovering creative ways to use it. Positivity is okay ? yet also welcome the strengthening wisdom that washes over you through adversity.

While it?s crucial not to be arrogant, there is a fine balance between humility and invisibility. At some point you will have a solution or a gift that others want and need. Align yourself with those who will listen ? communicate and captivate them. Be strong in your convictions, quiet in your judgments and calm with your confidence. Stand in your success ONLY if you can also support others in theirs.

Awareness, acceptance, intention and implementation are pillars on which you can create balance and resilience in your life. Stay aware of the ebb and flow of trends, for they will surely be dynamic in your lifetime. Maintain an active awareness regarding your strengths and your weaknesses. Learn to accept limitations with the intention of moving the parts of yourself forward that reap the fullest rewards. Strategize and then act on your ideas.

Remember that rewards and success are not one in the same. You can engage with your inner-truth based on your expectations, values and vision ? or respond to what others define as these measures for you.

Understand that you are part of a greater whole and that your actions never occur in a silo. They have ripple effects. With an honorable, realistic and authentic purpose you can make an impact. Be empathetic. Strive to stand in other people?s experiences, even if for a moment, before casting any decision on the merits of their behaviors.

Understand that you are unique and worthy. Often people forget why they chose a path, for instance their career or their life partners. And in this forgetting their movement becomes stagnant. That does NOT need to be you. Always know your WHY. It?s at the center of life?s wheel. With its spokes sprouting out further as the world grows smaller, it is paramount that you find balance among hopes, disappointments, tragedy and triumphs ? the concrete and the ephemeral. You can do more than survive. You can thrive This article origially was published in Inspire Me Today e-magazine Jessi LaCosta is the founder of THINK BlueRio. Jessi LaCosta is a Transformational Speaker, Leadership and Resilience Advisor, Board Certified Coach. Her dedication and unwavering determination in helping others meet their goals and reach for their dreams grew not just from her professional experience and education, but also from her intuitive nature and ability to thrive after multiple traumatic events.

WHEN " BA D" THI NGS HA PPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE LI K E YOU A new e- b o o k b y Jim K illo n For those who may not already know, I am a visionary. I envision solutions even in the worst of circumstances. For me 2018 was the worst year of my life. Everything that could have possibly gone wrong, did, in spades, right down to my very existence. Heroes don't have time to cry, to wallow in self pity and we sure don't accept defeat. My first bounce back was the motivational e-book that I completed in December of that year, "Silver Linings, Words of encouragement, love and being limitless".

What I realized was that most people are in pain, emotionally, in their relationships, in their professions and alone in their beds at night.

What has oppressed the disadvantaged people here in Peru that we serve also, in different ways, oppresses people around the world. The pain of 2018 made me acutely aware that solutions might be found by doing things differently, thinking differently about what we perceive to be happening. Thoughts are real things. Change your way of thinking and life begins to manifest itself differently.

Do we perceive situations as "bad"? What if we altered reality to see occurrences as just the way it is? Neutral experiences that we can focus on managing with positive energy (everything is energy). Taking control of our "out of control" life experiences moves bad things, and consequently bad reactions away from us and our lives are refilled with solution based living. Meditation is not just for the religious. Manifestation is not just for new age neo-hippies. Creating the life of our specific dreams and not living in reaction and at the direction of others around us according to their vision or negativity is key to eliminating bad things from ill-influencing us into a life of misery and pain.

This is a new e-book, due out later in June 2019 will definitely be a "must read" for those who don't just want answers as to why bad things happen, but what to do to take responsibility for a defined, happy life. A life of your extraordinary expectations and altered perceptions that cause pain is not only possible but can begin today.

This is Jim Killon's 9th e-book which is partnered with this e-magazine, his NGO project Changes for New Hope and the upcoming Jim Killon Humanitarian Awards which will be presented in November.

Lemons do become lemonade if you have the proper mindset and mental tools. 2019 has been developing into the very best year of his life using these skills learned and practiced.

It will be available on Amazon and WalMart on line books. It's your life, make it great!

Don't Downgr ade Your Dr eam Jus t To Fi t Your Real i t y Upgr ade Your Convi c t i on To Mat c h Your Des t i ny.

Th e Pu r pose of Edu cat ion (Or , Wh er e t h e Hell Is M y Su sh i) We do ou r st u den t s a sever e disser vice w h en w e obsess over t h eir h appin ess an d com f or t level.

Dr. Allison Brown

I think we?d all agree that schools are educational institutions.

Teachers instruct, and students learn. At least that?s what?s supposed to happen, right? Unfortunately, that?s not always the case.

Remember the old saying, ?What gets measured, gets done?? There are plenty of examples of this in education. For instance, teachers may not focus on writing out their lesson plans if principals don?t require them to be submitted for review each week. It happens in the ?real? world, as well. What the supervisor monitors is what the employees pay attention to.

A recent article by Bent Meier Sorenson, Professor in Philosophy and Business at Copenhagen Business School, makes a bold statement about the current state of affairs in today?s institutions of higher learning:

Why did he come to this conclusion?

Because, he says, universities measure student satisfaction ? through student satisfaction surveys ? while ignoring typical student learning indicators.

Sorenson explains that there are plenty of ways to measure learning, but when we do, the results aren?t pretty.

For example, one long-term, comprehensive study found that 45% of students demonstrated no significant growth in skill (to include critical thinking, complex reasoning, and writing) during their first two years of college (Arum & Roksa, 2010). Given these abysmal results, our universities would, naturally, prefer to pay attention to other measures of success.

You?ve no doubt followed the recent news reports ? college students make unreasonable demands and administrators cave. Cafeteria doesn?t serve sushi? Protest! Instructor holds an exam on protest day? Fire the bum!

University President backs the teacher?

He must resign! Ok, ok? maybe I?m being a little facetious, but it certainly seems as though student learning often takes a back seat to student comfort.

To Spoil ed Kids Bankr ol l ed By Their Par ent s: You Can't Put 'Spoil ed' On A Resume

We create ?safe spaces,? where students are protected from hearing anything that runs counter to their own point of view, rather than encourage thoughtful debate. How can students develop a value system of their own if they don?t understand (or even have a chance to hear) from all sides? Diversity is a good thing! We must appreciate all points of view in order to solidify our own stance.

More and more frequently, the evaluations ? and pay ? of college professors (those hired to teach) are dependent on student satisfaction surveys ? not learning! Here?s the rub ? learning is difficult, uncomfortable, and sometimes even painful! So, when colleges focus on the key drivers of learning (painful stimuli), student satisfaction tends to decline. Imagine that!

Human beings are wired to avoid pain. I get it! Unfortunately, growth requires some level of pain. Pain avoidance simply sets us up for future failure.

Yet, we continue to shield our students, our children, from the pain of living and growing, preventing them from reaching adulthood with the skills necessary to survive and succeed! In my opinion, we do our students a severe disservice when we obsess over their happiness and comfort level. As Sorenson candidly describes, ?Hospitals measure morbidity and mortality. Corporations measure revenue and profit. Governments measure unemployment and gross domestic product. But universities don?t measure learning. As long as universities continue to measure satisfaction but not learning, the downward spiral of lower expectations, less hard work and less learning will continue.?

If we truly care about our students?well-being, we must not prevent their growing pains. For it is in these early trials and tribulations that they develop the internal fortitude to withstand the slings and arrows of life.

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I W ISH I COULD BUT...

Many times we wish we could do more for others or have things turn out differently. The good news is that it is quite possible. However people are not prepared to alter their environment to make these positive changes happen. You can not see the world and experience all that life awaits to offer you from your couch steaming NetFlix all day. When we decide to change our environment and create a life of our choosing, which is a lot easier than you might imagine it is, then we can step into the life of our dreams and do the things that will make positive shifts in our lives and for those who are affected by our influence. Are you emotionally prepared to step into a new way of living and doing things? Until you are, incredible success and life's victories would be like tossing a fish into a Rolls Royce with a stack of gold bullion. It would

...HOW ?

Did you know that the first twenty minutes of your day sets the mental and emotional pace and tone for your whole day? Most of us jump out of bed at the last minute possible, jump into the shower, dreading the work day and rush through a hasty shower, dress, wolf down an egg sandwich and grap a coffee to drink in the hellish commute to the office.

Is it any wonder that the day is filled with stress, anxiety and disappointments?

You only get one life, that's it, one per customer. Try waking up a half hour earlier, start with slow deep breathing exercise, just ten slow mindful deep breaths which calms and prepares your mind and body. Meditation, which anyone can do not just Tibetan monks, puts your head in the game with a sense of clam, control and positive direction. Try it for a week and see changes immediately. ~~~ Jim Killon

Do i n g Go o d Fe e ls Gr e a t !

Ask one simple question; How can I serve humanity?

Those who did, have found that life is never the same since

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What we ar e accomplishing wit h t his magazine?

1. To recognize humanitarians and like minded individuals for their selfless work in the field.

2. To raise awareness for their projects by sharing their stories and projects with the world. Hopefully this will encourage fund raising efforts and support.

3. To draw corporate sponsorship to our program for mutual benefit. Corporate PR can be enhanced by their association. Funding will support the projects throughout the world that meet criteria we believe is critical.

4. To develop an alliance among individuals to share ideas, challenges, "how to" support and stories of progress. To be there for each other in good times and bad. We are no longer alone.

5. To provide independent credibility to individuals leading projects for their further development.

6. To give you a platform and a forum for your ideas and thoughts. What you have learned, you can share.

7. To provide transparency for NGOs so that donors and sponsors understand that each partner is fully vetted and contribution can be sent with confidence.

8. To melt the indifference and apathy in the world that enables suffering in 3rd world countries to continue.

9. To present nominated NGO leaders with a humanitarian award for their selfless service toward the disadvantaged, under-served and destitute.

10. To ultimately alleviate the desperation, the destitution and suffering that countless thousands endure which we encounter each day and restore human dignity, compassion in action and well being for everyone.

Changes for New Hope is a registered NGO, non-profit organization with the Peruvian government since 2010. Our focus is to help children living in destitution and inadequacies in the Andean region.

This magazine is expanding that focus to partner with other NGOs and their leaders around the world.

The project creator is Jim Killon, an American born humanitarian, author/writer, exhibited artist, and life enhancement speaker.

His writings, articles and publications can be seen on The Good Men Project, Living in Peru magazine, Inspire Me Today, as well as self publishing: "A Gringo in Peru-A Story of Compassion in Action," "Living Large- Living Deliberately" "The Changes That You Deserve" .

and the recently published "Silver Linings Words of encouragement, love and being limitless" Jim Killon is a 2017 recipient of The David Chow Humanitarian Award and is a Global Goodwill Ambassador .

He is available for speaking engagements and interviews.

For more information, contact him through our email at cn h m agazin e@gm ail.com Changes for New Hope is a 100% donation supported NGO project and is not affiliated with any religious or political organization.

Copyright 2019 All Rights Reserved.

Photo: Cecilia Falco Hirt

The Final Thought

We may not always hit the bulls eye but we aim to hit the target. Progress, trying again and again, getting better every time we try is what def ines the people who will live a life of joy, success and f ind the changes that we deserve.

As humanitarians, altruistic individuals, we know on the other end of our ef forts are gratef ul people, usually children, who need us there , wherever that may be, because they would otherwise be forgotten. As human beings, our purpose in life is to embrace each other, all of us embracing all of us and make sure we are all going to be ok. Find your slice of this purpose, make your life a value to humanity. Start today!

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