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JEAN SHAFIROFF A LIFE OF GIVING

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EDITOR'S TAKE

MASK-ERADE

or those of you who know me, I have been a proud, self-proclaimed germaphobe since pre-pandemic (seems more like prehistoric) times. I used masks before they were even a hot button topic. Remember that one person you’d almost always see in first class when you boarded a plane? The one who was masked up and wearing sunglasses even though it was a red-eye flight from LAX to JFK? That was me. People used to walk past me quickly—trying to avoid whatever nefarious disease they thought I had. But I wasn’t sick. I masked up because I didn’t want to get sick by catching whatever nasty bugs my fellow passengers may have had as I was trapped with them in that metal tube flying through the sky.

When I first read about the coronavirus, my instinct was to reach into my supply of face masks—saved for travel and flu outbreaks.

But at first, we were told masks weren’t necessary. The then–United States Surgeon General, in a now-deleted tweet, told us to stop buying masks and instructed that they were “NOT effective in preventing general public from catching #Coronavirus, but if healthcare providers can’t get them to care for sick patients, it puts them and our communities at risk!” The latter part of the reasoning made sense—I wanted our first responders to have priority access to the masks. A few days later, we were told to wash our hands to the tune of “Happy Birthday.” Of course, I happily worked in the vigorous hand-washing to my already strict daily hygiene routine.

Less than a month later, on March 24, 2020, when most of the country had started their lockdowns, things got scarier. The CDC kept telling us that a healthy person who didn’t work in the healthcare sector and wasn’t taking care of an infected person at home didn’t need to wear a face mask. Again, this guidance gave me pause. So I wore my scarf tightly around my nose and mouth when I made my rare trip outside to brave the crowds to get essential groceries and perhaps even spot a roll of toilet paper or a bottle of Purell.

But the CDC changed its tune just over a week later. By April 3, they issued new guidelines recommending that all people over age 2 wear a mask when in a public setting, when traveling, or when around other people in their household who might be infected. But by then, there were no masks on the shelves. There were no masks on Amazon. You couldn’t even buy cloth and elastic to make your own masks. So people got creative. One of my friends used a Saint Laurent shoe dust bag to create his own custom-made mask. Another used her padded bra. People became generous—using whatever scrap materials they had to create masks for first responders.

When masks finally became available, they were few and far between. Last year, I bought 10 KN95 masks from a UPS store in Florida for the bargainbasement price of $75. Things got so bad that at some point we were told to double up—masks, that is. Of course, during this time, people needed masketiquette lessons. Like how wearing a mask beneath one’s nose was just as effective as a man wearing underwear below his (ahem) manhood.

But then it seems that people started getting fed up, especially around Thanksgiving. Many felt like we were reliving the Prohibition era. (Of course, I don’t know exactly how it felt during that time because I wasn’t alive. Some might call me a New York institution, but unlike other NYC landmarks, I’m not a supercentenarian.) We now had our own form of prohibition. Except

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instead of banning alcohol, we were banning social interaction within a six-foot radius so we wouldn’t get sick. Of course, just like during the Prohibition era when people snuck banned alcohol, people were doing a lot of sneaking—from getting a haircut at closed salons to attending luxe indoor dinner parties at Michelin star– rated restaurants. And that’s just the politicians. I didn’t mention those who were holding underground maskless parties that would have shocked even SNL’s Stefon.

Then the vaccines came around, and not a moment too soon. People were willing to do anything to get those coveted jabs—from waiting in hours-long lines to flying to Florida to even failed (and quite frankly, illegal and unethical) attempts to dress up as seniors so they could be vaccinated. A few months later, the CDC said that we could take off our masks—if we were fully vaccinated. Despite this, I continued to wear my mask. When they saw me wearing my mask, people looked at me as if I were an NYC social(ite) pariah. But I had friends who had the jab and still got breakthrough infections. So my mask was always with me in my handbag—like a therapy dog or Linus’s security blanket. Of course, I started to relax a little this summer. I took off my mask for dining; I took off my mask outside. But I still didn’t feel comfortable. When I saw masks in the clearance section, I purchased them. I became a maskaholic!

And now the CDC is once again telling us to mask up when we’re indoors, whether we’re vaccinated or not. Mask on, mask off ? Reminds me of something from the 1984 film The Karate Kid! But I digress. Like prohibition ended way back when, this too will end. Just hang in there!

Anyway, we’ve got a great issue for you. Last month, we tried a new look and different content; we heard your comments and listened. While we’re keeping some of the changed look, we’re going back to our roots with this issue, focusing on the content you loved best—a mix of entertainment, luxury, and features on the who’s who of the social set and their philanthropic initiatives. And who better to represent this than our cover subject, the unparalleled Jean Shafiroff. You all know her from the countless galas she chairs and the incredible parties she throws in NYC, the Hamptons, and Palm Beach—and from her wardrobe, which museums around the country have expressed interest in acquiring. But she’s not just about parties and haute couture—Jean Shafiroff means business, the business of giving back.

Elsewhere in The Sheet, you’ll find our interview with Elizabeth Hurley in celebration of Breast Cancer Awareness Month in October. Advertising guru Richard Kirshenbaum puts the “R” in Renaissance man. Breeze over some fabulous summer parties we love (you may be featured) and lots more.

But whatever you do, don’t miss the second installment of George Wayne’s outrageous interview with none other than himself!

Enjoy The Sheet!

Joan

Joan Jedell Founder, Publisher, Editor-in-Chief @hamptonsheet jjedell@hamptonsheet.com

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UNCONDITIONAL LOVE GALA CHAIRED

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RACE OF HOPE Kickoff luncheon for Hope for Depression Research Foundation Race of Hope event, hosted by Audrey Gruss Jennifer Fischer, Shelley Burgman, Victoria Wyman

Martin and Audrey Gruss

Benefitting SH Animal Shelter Foundation

Beau Hulse, Jay Schneiderman

Hilary Geary Ross, Scott Snyder

Jean Shafiroff with Molly, Stephen Baldwin

Judith Giuliani, Richard Ziegelasch, Audrey Gruss

Kevin Nicholas, Greg D’Elia

Michael J. Golia, Nathania Nisonson, Connor McEntee

Arthur Dunnam, Jane Novick Janna Bullock, Kim Heirston, Paula Mahoney

Elizabeth Shafiroff, Richard Ballard

John and Margo Catsimatidis

Jamee and Peter Gregory

Leesa Rowland, Larry Wohl

Scott Vallary, Ann Liguori Candy Hamm, Mai Hallingby Harrison

Phil Greenwald

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CONTRIBUTORS

ZACHARY WEISS Zachary Weiss is a brand consultant and editor based in New York City. His work has appeared in Vogue, Architectural Digest, Wm Brown Magazine, Ralph Lauren’s RL Magazine, and British GQ. Readers can follow along with him on Instagram, @ZacharyWeiss.

KATE BOCK Kate Bock is a model and entrepreneur based in NYC and the Hamptons. She is known for her work with the Sports Illustrated swimsuit issue.

Bock has landed multiple fashion and beauty campaigns (L’Oréal, Clarins) and appeared in a plethora of publications, including Vogue, Elle, and Maxim. She is also chief brand officer for the clean and premium hard sparkling water brand Pompette.

JOAN JEDELL Founder, Publisher, Editor-in-Chief SYDNEY SADICK Deputy Editor KAREN ANN LOVE Editor-at-Large JOAN JEDELL Art Director JOSEPH MANGHISE Copy Editor MICHAEL PANICCIA Cover and Feature Photographer

Follow us @hamptonsheet Cover credits: Hair: Henry de la Paz for Warren Tricomi Makeup: JP Ramirez (May he RIP)

EMILY JEDELL A young teen writer with a zest for fashion, Emily Jedell has her finger on the pulse of what’s new and trending for the next generation of Hamptonites. She loves leisurely shopping trips, fun in the sun, and is even writing a book of her original poetry. Stay tuned!

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NORAH LAWLOR PR maven Norah Lawlor is the founder of Lawlor Media Group, providing PR, events, and strategic marketing to the nightlife, beauty, hospitality, and travel industries, plus celebrity representation.

With a knack for what’s trending, she brings her insider knowledge on where to eat, sleep, and play this summer. Dig in!

LAYNE DALFEN Layne Dalfen is a dream analyst, author, and founder of the Dream Interpretation Center. Dalfen’s interest in dreams stems from her early experience in Freudian analysis, where dream work was the primary tool. She’s a member of the International Association for the Study of Dreams.

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JEFFREY LYONS Five-time Emmy Award winner Jeffrey Lyons, now in his 51st year as a film critic, has written nine books, including Hemingway and Me: Letters, Anecdotes, and Memories of a Life-Changing Friendship. He is currently heard on WCBS radio and nationally on The Lyons Den.

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Photos: George Wayne and Emily Jedell: Joan Jedell; Photo of Norah Lawlor: Ann Grenie; Photo of Layne Dalfen: Ryan Blaur

GEORGE WAYNE George Wayne remains the most unique pop culture journalist in the biz today. The Jamaican-born self-proclaimed “ink-stained wretch” is best revered for his 26-year run as contributing editor at Allure and Vanity Fair, where his celebrity interviews were the must-read under the Graydon Carter golden-age era of glossies.

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NEW SEASON, NEW BEGINNINGS hile every summer in the Hamptons goes by quickly, this one truly went by like a fly! As the saying goes, time goes by when you’re having fun, and this summer was one of the most special ones yet. I’ve never been more appreciative to attend some of our great East End events; to eat at the restaurants we love; and to simply spend time outdoors. I’ve become quite obsessed with tennis over the past year (thanks to my coach, Kiki), and while most people I know head over to Surf Lodge on Sundays, I’m more than thrilled to sit on a lounge chair and watch the waves crash at Cooper’s Beach.

I will certainly miss the summer season, but I’m also excited to welcome fall and all the traditions that come with it, despite the uncertainty that still lies within the pandemic.

I think many of us thought COVID would be behind us by now, but it’s clearly not over just yet. So we’re learning to be more adaptable—to work better; to love harder; to appreciate the little things even more than we thought we did; and to be the best versions of ourselves. I must admit, I’m looking forward to spending more time in Manhattan again. But I still hope to enjoy some weekend escapes Out East to clear my head, to wander Hank’s Pumpkintown, and enjoy the activities that come with the new season.

In our September issue of Hampton Sheet, enjoy the words of our new columnist Zachary Weiss, who sheds light on the latest cultural happenings and talents in our community. Catch up with Kate Bock, our star model contributor. Peruse party pages like the Parrish Art Museum’s Midsummer Dance party—it’s been an honor to continue serving on the host committee of this event each year—and much more!

Even though there’s so much we still don’t have answers about right now, one thing’s for sure: The Hamptons will continue to be the place that brings us all the calm and light we need, even at the most difficult of times.

Ally Shapiro, Meredith Marks, Jill Zarin

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Sydney Sydney Sadick Deputy Editor @SydneySadick Sydney@hamptonsheet.com

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MODEL STATUS

KATE’S KORNER The Sports Illustrated model and entrepreneur shares her top career highlights and how she’s evolved as a talent in her latest letter to our readers!

BY KATE BOCK

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can make important decisions with a clear mind and healthy attitude. This includes focusing on overall wellness—taking time for me and making sure I’m in tune with my body and mind. I do this through daily yoga; it gives me a chance to listen to what’s going on in my body. I practice each morning to set my intention for the day. I also drink plenty of water throughout the day, which is super important!

I’m so looking forward to spending the rest of the summer here in the Hamptons, working on my business and taking care of my mental health and well-being.

Enjoy your Labor Day! ¢

KATE’S TOP-5 CAREER HIGHLIGHTS 1M y Sports Illustrated swimsuit cover and my nearly decade-long career with the magazine. One time I posed on a cliff with a pig and a few parrots in a massive sinkhole!

2 My first official cosmetics contract, which was with Kosé.

3M y Elle Canada cover (proud to be Canadian!). This came a few years after my Elle Italia cover, of which I’m also proud!

4 Becoming chief brand officer of Pompette.

5 S tarting my business, Love Kate, a portfolio of health and wellness brands.

PLUS! FUN FACT ALERT!

“I went to French immersion school, so I speak fluent French. When I moved to Paris, I could easily understand everything—nothing got by me on set!”

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t’s the end of the summer season, and while most people are headed home, I’m staying in the Hamptons, aka my second home. The peaceful quiet that comes with the fall is a welcomed break from my busy summer, but it’s also time to get back to business.

July had me gearing up for the new Sports Illustrated swim launch.

I had the rewarding opportunity to mentor some of the new girls. Starting out as a swimsuit model can be overwhelming, so I was happy to offer a support system for the girls— being a rookie isn’t easy! These shoots happen so fast, sometimes you don’t know you’re confirmed until a week or two before. We’ll fly to the destination, shoot a photo and a video a day, and then head home so quickly, it’s wild! I take being a mentor seriously and hope I made the experience easier for them.

I have an amazing support system and several close friends who lift one another up and share wins and losses together. Speaking of wins…

I’ve been busy with the launch of our new Pompette drink flavor. It’s super crisp, natural, and refreshing. I can’t wait to share it with you as restaurants start serving Pompette to their customers.

There are lessons to be learned in building a brand; one that I need to remember is that living a life of balance is important. I don’t take my past for granted. I was a tall, scrawny, shy 12-year-old girl who had the good fortune of being discovered at a swimming pool. I fell into modeling, and today I have my business, Love Kate. It’s a dream come true! I have to be my best at every level so I

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TEAM TRACY

Fitness pioneer and creator of the Tracy Anderson Method, Tracy Anderson, spills on all things working out, love, and life in Sag Harbor. After all, she’s officially a resident now!

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BY SYDNEY SADICK You’re officially a Sag Harbor homeowner! How does it feel?

I raised my 22-year-old son, Sam, here, but this is the first time I actually purchased a home. I was traveling so much; I didn’t want to commit! Sag has always felt like my pocket of the Hamptons—it’s historically been a creative hub for people, and that resonates with me. I’m currently redoing our home; that’s been a highlight of the summer!

How has the Tracy Anderson Method evolved over the years?

I started with a five-year study FIND YOUR GLOW! Light up your space with an eco-friendly 100-percent soy wax on 150 women, candle from PhyllisK. Shown below in Sunshine (citrus), Waves the largest study (sea salt), and Love (rose) scents. $41, phyllisknewyork.com ever on women in fitness. I was obsessed with how I could become the best muscular deLook at someone like J. Lo for everything she signer. What condoes—how she sings, acts, and is so unstoppable. tinues to evolve Look at the way she shows up for herself, and is the larger conthen look at yourself and show up for you. versation that health is about how to bring everything SOULCYCLE Jennifer works hard to authentically bring forward—your workout, food, sleep, and relationships.

RIDERS! everyone who follows her the things that she I spent COVID inventing new equipment. I’m releasThe Barn will remain believes in. ing the Anderson Moto Air Pro Reformer, which has open through Columbus Day What afternoon snack do you swear by? the most epic booty-lifting and thigh apparatus. More (October 11).

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You got engaged in 2020. Where are you in the wedding plans?

It’s your primal right to move; you were born to move. I’m not My fiancé [Chris Asplundh] and I asking you to do a concert for anyone or to start anywhere that are thinking a snowy wedding out you aren’t ready to start, but it’s a serious program and I work west. When Chris and I were set up, hard to meet people at every single level. we talked on the phone for three Jennifer Lopez was one of your original celeb clients. How can months before I was ready to meet people be inspired by the J. Lo effect? him! I’ve been proposed to probably People want to look like certain celebrities, but it’s impossible. more times than ElizaMOVE YOUR beth Taylor [Laughs], BODY! but I was lucky enough Enjoy New York Pilates classes throughout the to meet one of my soul YUM! fall at Heather Andersen’s mates (my son’s dad) Second Nature Southampton and Montauk at 17. I was too young Markets has just studios, featuring 55-minute to appreciate it then, opened a brandreformer classes in a chic, new juice bar ofzen-like ambiance. and I don’t think until fering a fresh salad 5 Windmill Ln, now have I really been station and wraps!

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BEAUTY BANTER WITH NYC AND HAMPTONS DERMATOLOGIST NEIL SADICK

How should we approach skincare and anti-aging this fall?

It’s all about the common principles: frequent use of moisturizers applied at least once a day, taking lukewarm showers, wearing makeup that is non-occlusive, and continuing to wear sunscreen. The anti-aging strategies I find most helpful include using Retin-A, alternating with alpha hydroxy acids in up to 20 percent concentrations, and using a benzoyl peroxide or antibiotic benzoyl peroxide compound to decrease bacteria on the skin surface.

What does Sadick Dermatology specialize in?

Technology development and utilizing all the newest technologies in our practice in combination for whole body rejuvenation. Most of these devices have been studied and published from our clinical research center. We also specialize in hair disorders. Some of the most popular procedures will always include Botox. We’re also moving away from the concept of “fillers” to what I call “volumizers” that give structure to the skin surface.

Beginning these procedures early— late twenties to early thirties—will help to achieve what we call “the new natural” and age prophylaxis.

You have two practices in the city, and now one in Southampton. Tell us more!

We decided to open Out East because many of our patients didn’t want to travel into the city or are continuing to live there year-round and wanted to continue to have us lead their dermatologic care. ¢

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Sadick Dermatology is pleased to begin offering concierge dermatologic services in the Hamptons, this summer.

Dr. Neil Sadick and Dr. Georgina Ferzli will be offering Botox, Filler, and Hair Loss treatments, as well as diagnosis of rashes, skin cancers and sun-related issues.

The new Southampton location will provide safe care, with all precautions being followed for our patients.

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LIFE OF THE PARTY

ASK ILYSA

LUXURY EVENT PLANNER H A M P TO N S \ N YC \ PA L M B E AC H

Meet the talent behind many of the most Instagram-worthy events along the East End: Ilysa Steinberg, the founder of event-planning company AskIlysa, your one-stop destination for planning all the special occasions in your life! Steinberg shares the 411 on her company and what goes into making an event simply perfect.

BY SYDNEY SADICK

How did you get into event planning?

After 20 years as a teacher, I was searching for a new career six years ago. My best friend Erica Grossman mentioned her clients needed advice planning their social events. All the incredible relationships from teaching, my love for helping others, and my wonderful assistant Yoliana have kept it going.

What is AskIlysa known for?

Creating the ultimate cocktail party!

How do you describe your approach to event planning?

We start by asking our clients about themselves to get a feel for their style. This helps us with a vision for the space and gives us the ability to execute quickly, allowing clients to trust our judgment and relieve them of stress.

What do you attribute to giving your clients exactly what they want?

Our passion to please the clients!

“Fine” is never good enough.

How has the pandemic affected your business?

We dove into emergency mode.

Our team made, packaged, and delivered meals to nine hospitals, including Southampton Hospital, Northwell Health, St. Francis, Elmhurst Hospital Center, and NYU. This made our team stronger than ever!

How did you pivot?

The pandemic made us the planner for the backyard bar mitzvah, along with cake deliveries—we sold more than 200 cakes since the pandemic began!

Wow! And what’s trending aesthetic-wise at events these days?

Our clients want their backyards transformed into a new location.

Tablescapes are most important to the ladies; they want a sophisticated look with a feminine touch.

The food you serve always looks so delicious. What goes into creating these amazing meals?

The secret is in the sauce! All the chefs have their own style, but they have two things in common—a love of presentation and, more importantly, delicious healthy food.

Three things needed for a great party?

Vision, flexibility, and a strong team.

It takes a village!

What does this fall and winter look like for AskIlysa?

We’re interested in supporting other businesses around New York City that have suffered enough. We’re going to work exclusively with DreamDry salons, among other new endeavors. ¢

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AskIlysa llc is an event-planning and placement company that works on events from small intimate dinner parties to backyard cocktails www.askilysa.com @askilysa askiliysa@gmail.com

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Zach Erdem hosting Kendall Jenner at 75 Main. She was there promoting her 818 Tequila.

LET’S GET THIS PARTY STARTED Remember the good ole days? Get ready, get set to bring fun back to the city.

Jean Shafiroff, Aisha Christian, Loida Lewis at the SH African American Museum benefit party Ivana Trump having lunch at 75 Main while reading her favorite magazine.

Dick and Donna Soloway Joan Jedell hits the bagpipes

Dr. Martin Fox, Teresa Slyfield

Jeanine Pirro, Maria Bartiromo

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NY Giants co-owner Jonathan Tisch and wife Lizzie, founder of LTD by Lizzie Tisch

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Young golfer Bobby Love with two-time World Long-Drive champion Tim Burke (left photo) at the Ritz-Carlton Golf Club in Orlando and at the Eagle Trace Golf Club in Coral Springs, Florida, with NFL Hall of Famer Lawrence "L.T." Taylor (at right in right photo), who once showed up late to a New York Giants game because of a slow foursome ahead of him on the golf course.

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SPOTLIGHT

PUTTING THE “R” IN RENAISSANCE MAN We caught up with marketing guru, investor, author, philanthropist, husband, and father Richard Kirshenbaum at his Quaker meeting house in Sagaponack, where he’s spent much of the pandemic.

Despite the tragedy of COVID, Kirshenbaum has maintained— if not increased—an impressive creative output.

Photos: from top, Eric Stiffler; Ric White; Amy Chim

BY JOAN JEDELL You have a reputation as a creative Renaissance man. What are you working on, and how do you get it all done?

First, I appreciate the moniker. I’m intrinsically a restless person, so I need to continually work on a myriad of projects. However, I’ve found that projects have an ebb and flow, and often projects require only a certain amount of time. And that allows me to start new projects. I’m a firm believer in time management. It generally takes me two years to write a book. I wake up in the morning, have my coffee, and write two to five pages. After a year or two, with rewriting and editing, I have something I’m proud of.

Your latest novel, Rouge, is headed for TV screens.

Yes. Rouge is currently in development with Sony and Wendy Finerman, the Academy Award–winning producer of Forrest Gump and The Devil Wears Prada, who optioned the book. I’m so proud to be associated with such stellar talent, and I’m grateful to see this get turned into a TV series. Hopefully I can add “producer” to my résumé and have another amazing learning experience.

You’ve published other best sellers, like Isn’t That Rich? and Madboy. Are you working on another book?

I’m a quarter of the way through my next novel, which I’m excited about, but I can’t say more! [Laughs] No teasers?

There are people who talk about things before they’re done, and what they’re doing before they do it. I like

to talk about things after they’re done.

Fair enough! You’ve also had quite a year with your branding company, SWAT

by Kirshenbaum.

Yes. Two weeks ago, Wheels Up, our first-ever SWAT client, went public.

I’m privileged to have worked with the brand from pre-launch to this exciting new public phase. Afterward, I trademarked the line “From birth to IPO,” which sums up my client philosophy, where we start work when the brand is just an idea in the client’s mind, to execution, and then, hopefully, to extreme success. Also, I’m proud of the amazing entrepreneurs I get to work with.

During COVID, we launched a huge campaign for the WELL HealthSafety seal with our client, Delos, featuring Jennifer Lopez, Lady Gaga, Robert De Niro, and Michael B. Jordan—to name a few of the ambassadors. The timing was impeccable as the campaign launched the night

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Jennifer Lopez and Gaga performed at the inauguration. Other notable projects include helping to reimagine the Il Palagio 1530 wine brand for rock star Sting and [wife] Trudie Styler, and helping to concept and name a new modern philanthropic luxury brand called Grace de Monaco for the Princess Grace Foundation, where I’ve worked closely with CEO Brisa Carleton and CMO Kevin Thompson to help create the world’s first purpose-driven luxury brand, with all proceeds going to support the arts community. We’re all thrilled to bring Princess Grace’s legacy to a new generation.

We heard you threw quite a bash at the Ram’s Head Inn with Chris Blackwell.

I believe in serendipity, vision, and action. Years ago, I was best man at my friend’s wedding at GoldenEye, in Jamaica. He was in the music business, and I was lucky enough to meet Chris Blackwell, who owns the estate and hotel. GoldenEye is actually one of my favorite places on earth. Chris and I became friends and I saw the potential for him, as native son and founder of Island Records—i.e. the man who discovered Bob Marley—to have an eponymous brand.

We settled on a rum company, also cemented by the fact that his grandfather had actually owned J. Wray and Nephew, which produces many

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of the fine Jamaican rums, and now Blackwell Rum. Having Chris as a partner/mentor has been an extraordinary influence in my career. He thinks differently, and he’s ahead of the curve. I’m privileged by the association. Blackwell 007 Limited Edition will be seen in the new James Bond movie, and we had a party to celebrate at the Ram’s Head Inn, which I hear is now a hot spot under new management, Aandrea Carter. We loved drinking at GoldenEye with friends and family.

You’re also co-founder of SWAT Equity.

While SWAT by Kirshenbaum’s mission is to help invent and reinvent brands, we also invest in up-andcoming brands through our fund, SWAT Equity, led by Partners Mark Hauser, Sarah Foley, and myself. It’s especially gratifying to work with new entrepreneurs, see new ideas, and invest in the companies of tomorrow, like Supergoop!, NAADAM, Hatch, and Banza—to name a few. I believe in the idea of creativity meeting finance, and so few people are doing it, which is our unique platform.

What do you do when you’re not working, if that ever happens?

I love what I do and I do what I love, so I don’t need to take a break from it. I believe that you have to wake up in the morning with a passion for life. I’m so happy that I’ve been able to marshal creativity into a fulfilling career. So, as I like to say, vacation for me is just working in a nicer location. [Laughs] ¢

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FOOD FOR THOUGHT

MEET ARTHUR BACKAL, CEO OF BACKAL HOSPITALITY GROUP Your group features a collection of venues, event service, and investments anchored in hospitality throughout NYC and the Hamptons. What properties make up your portfolio?

We operate VERSA Restaurant and Rooftop in the Renaissance New York Midtown Hotel, which is an amazing open-air space with an 8,000-square-foot roof terrace; Apella, an Alexandria event space; Riverpark bar/restaurant on the edge of the East River; event management firm State of the Art Enterprises; all events at the Mandarin Oriental, New York hotel for almost 18 years; CNVS event space in Hudson Yards; AOG Design Co.; and our new Cellar Dog in the West Village.

What’s the concept behind Cellar Dog? We just opened in July at the former Fat Cat, the legendary live music and game hall located at 75 Christopher Street in the West Village.

It was known to be a casual and

approachable neighborhood staple that welcomed everyone from college students, celebrities, locals, and visitors from all over the globe.

We’re thrilled to continue to honor its tradition of inclusivity and bring back artists, musicians, and guests once again a year and a half after its closure.

Tell us about your Hamptons offerings.

We love the Hamptons and do a lot of our business there. We even launched Hampton Road Trip during COVID-19, which creates curated experiences for individuals and smaller groups to experience in a safe way and provides customized food and wellness programs, along with lifestyle events that can be brought to our clients’ own homes.

How will the hospitality business evolve going forward?

The pandemic has devastated many individuals, communities, and businesses all over the globe, and

Rooftop at VERSA Restaurant

especially the hospitality industry.

We actually started our “Thank Our Heroes” program in March 2020 to support local businesses and help frontline workers. We also delivered 40,000 meals to both private and public hospitals. Ultimately, with more than a year and half of living

with COVID, we’ve learned to stay nimble and how to safely operate under ever-evolving guidelines recommended by health and safety officials. We continue to create memorable experiences that we’re known for and have been missing for far too long. ¢

William Greenberg Desserts is a New York institution that you’ve spearheaded forward. What made you acquire the bakery?

I grew up going to William Greenberg. I had my own baking business— I’m a baker by trade— that was growing, and I was trying to decide which direction to take it.

I started baking challahs in my kitchen and grew it from there.

When I was approached with the deal to take over William Greenberg’s, it was a very easy decision!

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What are your most popular items?

We’re known for our black and white cookies, which are so good, as well as our brownies, schnecken, and butter cookies. We’re one of the few bakeries that still offers everything—most are very specialized and just do cupcakes or cookies, but we do it all, from cookies to wedding cakes!

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Tell us about The William Greenberg Desserts Cookbook.

I wanted to write that cookbook from the day I took over the bakery! It’s a combination of the Greenberg’s tried-and-true recipes and those I added along the way. The response has been wonderful. I tried to include a range of recipes from simple to a challenge for the experienced baker.

How much of your business is mail order?

Mail order has always been a nice part of the business, but it exploded during COVID. People wanted comfort food and to treat themselves but weren’t going out. They also sent lots of presents.

It’s a significant part of the business.

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In addition to your UES location, you expanded to the Plaza Food Hall and Hudson Yards! Where’s next?

I love taking on new projects and seeing us grow and find new audiences. We just doubled our Madison Avenue space and have some seating, so come by, have a treat, and say hello! We’re also looking at spaces on the Upper West Side, as well as a pop-up in the Hamptons! ¢

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Congrats on your Southampton store!

VMB: We’ve wanted to open a store in Southampton for years! It’s the mecca of New York shopping in the summer months and now year-round. Personally, I feel very connected to Southampton as my family has been coming out here for 25 years, so I have a real tie to the town and its beaches.

It’s no secret that you are sisters-in-law running a business together. What’s the key when it comes to working with family?

VSB: We listen to each other and respect each other’s points of view. We’re family, but we’re very different and that’s the magic of the brand and, I think, why it works.

What’s the inspiration behind your Fall collection?

VMB: Women in motion!

How do you suggest women approach dressing this fall?

VMB: There’s a power and energy you feel when getting dressed; it lifts the spirit! This season, we’re dressing joyfully and euphorically again. There’s no better feeling than knowing you’re ready and looking fabulous!

What’s the verdict on whites after Labor Day? VSB: It’s a yes! There are no rules anymore.

How do you describe the growth of your brand?

VSB: It’s grown from a single product—a rack of Dickey jackets—to a full lifestyle collection.

This summer, we launched our first home line, so it has really evolved, but always with the same purpose—give women their go-to’s, their wardrobe MVPs! What’s next for VB?!

VMB: Expect a great collection! Fall is so strong; I can’t wait to see it in the Southampton store. There’s something for every woman—amazing outerwear, fabulous jumpsuits, and best-fitting jeans.

VSB: We’re also working on our Spring 2022 collection and our plans for the fall season. We can’t wait to get out there and see our customers and friends again! ¢

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E M I LY ’ S TEEN PICKS

REBECCA HESSEL COHEN

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One moment can change your whole career path in life. What did your life look like when you realized you wanted to be a designer?

I was searching for bridesmaid dresses for my own wedding; when I couldn’t find the perfect one, I decided to make them myself! At the time I was an editor at Cosmopolitan, but after that first dress, I couldn’t stop dreaming of more. From there, LoveShackFancy was born.

You have storefronts in both Southampton and Sag Harbor. What was your ultimate goal when deciding to take on the East End? I grew up spending my summers in the Hamptons with my family, so it’s always held a special place in my heart. I had spent so much of my time growing up shopping in Southampton and Sag Harbor, so bringing the world of LoveShackFancy to each town was a dream. I’m so excited to create new memories with all

generations of LoveShackFancy girls there.

How did you originally come up with the name LoveShackFancy?

The name represents the three different styles that inspire me daily: love (the romantic and whimsical closet staple that can take you from day to night); shack (the easy beach-to-brunch-ready piece for your most laid-back days); and fancy (the elegant special-occasion piece for when you’re dancing the night away).

What’s the highlight of your workday?

Seeing how our customers introduce the world of LoveShackFancy into their own lives! It means so much to me that the brand has resonated with them.

Favorite thing to do when you’re not working?

Spend time with family. It’s especially magical to watch my daughters, Scarlett and Stella, grow up together. We could be traveling far and wide or picking flowers in the backyard, but every day is special. I’m so excited to see the people they become.

Who is your career mentor?

My mom! She has instilled in me my love of all things romantic and vintage. Our house was always filled with the most amazing antiques and all the stories that came with them. My mom worked in the fashion industry when I was growing up, so I got my introduction to fashion through her.

If you had to pick any time period and place to live in, when and where would it be?

I draw inspiration from so many times and places in history, but if I had to pick, one of my biggest inspirations is 18th-century France.

What’s next for the brand?

There are so many exciting things to come!

We just released our Fall collection, which is full of fairytale-worthy dresses and pictureperfect matching sets. We’ll be releasing the second edition of our Beach Riot collaboration soon, and there are more collaborations and boutiques in the near future! ¢

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JEAN SHAFIROFF

A LIFE OF GIVING

BY LIZ TAYLOR

O

ver the years, Jean Shafiroff has been honored with many titles, ranging from

“powerful New Yorker” to “style icon.”

But perhaps the most accurate title of all is “First Lady of Philanthropy.”

Born in Manhattan and raised on Long Island to an artist mother and a music teacher father, Jean recognized the importance of giving back at a young age while attending Catholic private schools. It was there that the nuns taught students the importance of helping those in need. Initially, Jean thought that she would dedicate her life to assisting others through a career in physical therapy. After obtaining her Bachelor of Science in physical therapy from Columbia University’s College of Physicians and Surgeons, Jean did exactly that—practicing at St. Luke’s Hospital in New York City. A few years later, Jean realized that she wanted to do more. So she applied to and was accepted into the Graduate School of Business at Columbia University’s prestigious MBA program.

The MBA in finance she earned from Columbia University enabled her to build business skills and knowledge, many of which are applied to her nonprofit endeavors today.

While working in public finance and Since then, Jean’s commitment to

for 28 years and is now an honorary

Zone International, Youth Counsel-

top investment banks on Wall Street,

philanthropic endeavors has grown

trustee. Her work has been honored

ing League, the NYC International

Jean married Martin Shafiroff, an in-

exponentially. Today, she serves on the

by groups including the Stony Brook

Film Festival Foundation, the Jewish

vestment advisor. Later, they had two

boards of American Humane, South-

Southampton Hospital, American

Board, and Hadassah.

daughters. Jean made a conscious de-

ampton Hospital Association, New

Heart Association, American Can-

cision to leave her job in the financial

York City Mission Society, the New

cer Society, New York City Mission

Jean down. While the rest of the

sector to take care of their children,

York Women’s Foundation, French

Society, Southampton Animal Shelter,

world was still on lockdown, animal-

but she never stopped working. In

Heritage Society, Couture Council of

Surgeons of Hope, Al Sharpton’s

advocate Jean assumed the role of

addition to raising her children, she

the Museum at FIT, Global Strays, and

National Action Network, the Ellen

ambassador and national spokesper-

volunteered at schools and provided

Southampton Animal Shelter Founda-

Hermanson Foundation, the Samuel

son for American Humane’s Feed the

her business expertise to the boards of

tion Honorary Board. Jean, a devout

Waxman Cancer Research Founda-

Hungry COVID-19 Fund, a program

several nonprofits.

Catholic, served on the Jewish Board

tion, Pet Philanthropy Circle, Animal

that raised $1 million to feed more

private partnerships at some of the

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Even the pandemic couldn’t slow

It’s been quite a year-and-a-half.

I discuss this in detail in my book. Do

With the pandemic, many charities

your research and learn all you can

are facing heightened community

about a charity. Make sure its over-

needs and decreased funding.

head is low. Many charities are rated

Are things getting better?

by GuideStar and Charity Navigator,

The pandemic has created

as well as the Better Business Bureau.

tough times for almost every

If you want to delve deep into the

single person. Thousands of

finances of a charity, the first step is to

businesses have suffered and

get a copy of the charity’s most recent

millions of people have lost their

IRS 990 Form. This will help you

jobs. Charities have faced seri-

understand how and where the charity

ous difficulties as funding has

spends the money.

declined. Areas that are in great

And if you’re making a major gift

need today are those organiza-

or working on your charitable estate

tions that work with individuals

plan, it helps if you consult with at-

with food insecurities, as well as

torneys and accountants well versed in

the healthcare sector.

the various laws and rules governing

It’s up to all of us to fill that

What if people want to give back but

improve. For those who have

don’t necessarily have funds to donate?

resources, we have an obligation

Never underestimate the act of vol-

to help. I’m truly confident that

unteering. Volunteers play a major

when individuals and corpora-

role in the world of philanthropy. The

encourage people to give back. There

At the end of the day, I just want to

than 1 million hungry animals at 109

tions combine their efforts great posi-

time and knowledge you share with an

is great joy we receive when we give. A

different animal shelters across the

tive change takes place.

organization are powerful tools that

life of giving is a very fulfilling one! ¢

country. A few months later, in July

Many commentators have suggested that

help charities. However, those who

2020, Jean launched her own weekly

nonprofits should behave “more like a

have resources have an obligation to

Follow Jean Shafiroff on Instagram,

TV show on LTV titled Successful Phi-

business.” Is that even possible?

give financially.

Twitter, and Facebook @JeanShafiroff

lanthropy, aptly named after Jean’s

A charity must absolutely be run like

must-read book on giving, Successful

a business. It’s critical that they work

Philanthropy: How to Make a Life by

like a professional operation. I discuss

What You Give. Her show airs several

this important topic in my book.

times each week in East Hampton,

So, by extension, charitable board service

Southampton, and then at 8:30 p.m.

is almost like serving on a for-profit board.

on Saturday nights in Manhattan.

Yes! Serving on the board of a nonprof-

Jean is also known for hosting her

it is not just an honorary title. It’s a lot

must-attend charity cocktail parties

of work and takes a great commitment.

and intimate soirées, which bring

You must be approached to make major

together people from all walks of life.

charitable gifts all the time. What do

Indeed, many business deals and

you like and dislike about development

social connections have been made

presentations?

through her lavish events.

I’m fortunate because I’ve been on

When you first meet Jean, you can-

both sides of fundraising. I do a lot

not help but notice her soft-spoken

of volunteer fundraising for chari-

nature, impeccable manners, and

table organizations. So I know how

inner and outer beauty, which is truly

difficult it can be when someone says

reminiscent of a modern-day Audrey

“no” or isn’t polite or even dismissive

Hepburn or Grace Kelly. But behind

in his or her response. Whenever I’m

the beautiful gowns, charity galas, and

approached, I’m mindful of that. I

intimate power dinner parties, she’s all

always try to be kind.

business when it comes to philanthro-

Photos: Michael Paniccia

nonprofits.

gap. That’s how things will

In terms of a nonprofit presenta-

py. Of course it comes as no surprise

tion, I think my best advice would be

that many individuals turn to her for

to know your prospective donors. Find

advice ranging from board service to

out what causes they support and

chairing galas, as well as general ques-

know where their passions lie. Make

tions about major charitable gifts.

your presentation tailor-made to the

Hampton Sheet sat down with Jean

donor you’re soliciting.

to discuss the in’s and out’s of charity

When donating to a charity, what do you

through the eyes of a leading authority.

do in terms of due diligence?

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PARTY SNAPS

WYCLEF JEAN BRINGS DOWN THE HOUSE One of the best parties of the summer, benefiting the Mariano Rivera Foundation, Wyclef Jean gives David Hryck a spin on the dance floor

hosted by power attorney David Hryck Luann de Lesseps

David Hryck jams with Wyclef Jean Noreen Donovan and fiancé James Byrnes

Mariano Rivera, Wyclef Jean

Wyclef Jean, Kelly Bensimon Khashy Eyn, David Hryck, Matt Taylor

Wyclef Jean performs

Leather King Mitchell Alfus, Mariano Rivera

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You were employee No. 3 at BLADE. What’s it been like to be a part of the growth of such a buzzy company?

Being a part of the fabric of such an incredible company has been one of the most cherished accomplishments of my life. My goal was always to make the journey as enjoyable as the destination itself. Now, I feel as though the BLADE journey is an experience within the destination—something memorable; something endearing; something uniquely incredible to that place you’re going. After all, we’re all on the journey of life, might as well enjoy it.

Choose three words to describe you.

Imaginative, upbeat, and tenacious.

Why is the Hamptons special to you?

I was introduced to the Hamptons like most—as a weekend destination filled with beaches, lobsters, parties, and rosé. I can tell you now that it is so, so much more than that. Many of my lifelong friends grew up Out East, and I was fortunate enough to explore and see it through their lens and in a whole new light. It’s exactly what you want it to be, when you need it to be just that.

What are some personal projects you’re excited about right now?

I do a significant amount of charity work with food insecurity that is important to me. I love food, so to fathom people are forced to go without it anywhere in the world angers me to my core. I’m working closely with several charities to help alleviate and diminish the impacts of global famine and shifting weather patterns on food supply—not only to deal with current issues the world is already grappling with, but to prepare for the future and the changing landscape of the planet.

What would people be surprised to learn about you?

I speak Mandarin, and I have traveled to North Korea! ¢

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EGO vs ID PART II

He’s baaaack! The outspoken celebrity commentator gets us ready for what’s expected to be the Roaring Twenties of events in NYC this fall in another exclusive interview with himself.

BY GEORGE WAYNE

The premier Ego vs Id column was such a hit and oh-so-nice that we had to do it twice.

George Wayne: We know you’re always three steps ahead of the curve, GW. It’s a prerequisite for anyone who calls himself an arbiter to be way ahead of the curve, so let’s talk “the new season.”

George Wayne: Darlinka! Thought you’d never ask. When I think of the autumn reentry to social life in Manhattan this season, I’m thinking in my head with the imagined mindset of a Bedford billionairess somewhere up in Hastings-on-Hudson. She was once a noted society swan and now, post-pandemic, is finally ready to mix and mingle and embrace the luxe and joie de vivre of the “new” NYC this fall. The Dowager calls the family office and directs her team to find the No. 1 boutique concierge agency in town, where she will sit for afternoon tea at the Russian Tea Room over champagne, caviar, and tea sandwiches.

Sounds amazing already. Your ultimate denouement to the next social season!

It well and truly is! But by November, The Dowager will be riveted to CNN with everything going on with the Ghislaine Maxwell trial. This girl will want to have a little fun before retreating to that nonstop cable news

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trial coverage. The Dowager will be happy to know that arrangements will have been made first and foremost for dinner at Le Colonial, where one thing is for sure—that old, horny, perverted Nile crocodile Harvey Weinstein won’t be around to corral the best table at Daniel Boulud’s latest culinary temple. Even though she most certainly will be following the same plant-based diet recommended by her dear friend Gisele Bündchen, and her level-3 certified personal trainer is already on the books. Plus, she’s had two fittings for the Giambattista Valli couture she plans to wear to the Met Gala.

Where else would the diva doyenne want to eat this season?

Any cool social that I know always has a sense of dare and adventure, so the concierge service will also want to arrange a date-night dinner in the Little Italy neighborhood, as in the one in the Bronx on Arthur Avenue, after a day picnicking on “Diller Island,” which is the height of romance and chic. The official name for that amazing feat of engineering is Little Island, but the world knows it now as Diller Island because this $250-million three-acre park at Pier 55 at West 14th in the Meatpacking District would never have been without the assiduous work

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and money from Barry Diller and his wife, Diane von Furstenberg. So order the picnic basket from Marky’s Caviar and imbibe this master class of new New York City civic pride. If dinner in Little Italy (Bronx) is for another night, then at least the diva dowager will for sure end her day of love and romance with a movie at the once again open and once again agelessly fabulous Paris Theater. Netflix bought it and gave it a new marquee, new seats, and new projectors. This legendary art-house cinema remains Manhattan’s last remaining singlescreen cinema.

Besides the Maxwell trial, what else will The Dowager be watching this autumn?

For sure she’ll be tuning in to Gossip, the buzzy new show from Showtime. This is a splashy and fabulous four-episode documentary series from producers Ron Howard and Brian Grazer. It features a cavalcade of gossip-column legends—Cindy Adams, Richard Johnson, GW, and many other OG influencers. The Dowager will also be one of the first at the local cinema this Thanksgiving to have a good giggle at Lady Gaga’s Donatella-esque Italian accent in House of Gucci as she plays the famous “Black Widow” Patrizia Reggiani in Ridley Scott’s upcoming blockbuster. Let’s also not forget

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GEORGE WAYNE UNFILTERED

opening night for the American Ballet Theatre to see the new costumes designed by Carolina Herrera’s creative director Wes Gordon. But most of all, the must-have ticket for The Dowager this season is for the Met Gala on September 13. And she will also be insisting on sitting at Tom Ford’s table because Tom Ford’s F**king Fabulous is my favorite eau de parfum! Undoubtedly this year’s Met Gala will be the party of the year, much more than it’s ever been.

FOMO will be fomenting many a panic attack as people wait to see if they’ve made Anna Wintour’s guest list. The theme this year: “In America: A Lexicon of Fashion,’’ which is probably the most banal exhibition title in the annals of the Costume Institute! But this year no one will be going to the Met Gala just to see the exhibition, because Anna has every intention to make this the splashiest and most fabulous event she has ever staged! My sources tell GW she is going all-out for this one—all-out!

2020 was not only the year that changed all our lives, with a global pandemic and all. But for Anna, it was particularly perilous and trying.

One of her best friends, André Leon Talley, wrote a scathing memoir mostly about her savage ways, and there was an exodus of the best talent from Condé Nast. Yet despite all those odds—just when it seemed so sure—that Anna was on her way out the door, she survived against all odds and emerged with an even bigger title! For Anna Wintour—Vogue editor in chief, U.S. artistic director, and global chief content officer—this glittery fall fête is meant to be the biggest f**k-you to all her haters.

Does that mean The Dowager has to own the red carpet with the only gown to launch a thousand memes?!

Precisely!

By the way, who is The Dowager anyway? Does she have a name?

Her name is Twiggy Thomas. A true character that has been living in my head for the past 25 years as the chief protagonist for my still-unfinished first novel, Friction. Laugh out loud, people! ¢

APRÈS SUMMER

THE LYONS DEN BRINGING BACK THE CLASSICS

LEGENDS OF FALL

A NEW SEASON OF EVENTS The bountiful beauty of autumn is near. As the leaves change color and the days grow cooler, the social calendar switches over to a new

With fall around the corner, it’s a great time

list of hot happenings and activities in the Hamptons and beyond.

to sit back, put everything in perspective,

Legendary moments and incredible memories are destined to be

and have fun with movie lists. Here are my

created this season. Take note!

top five favorite films in three categories,

BY NORAH LAWLOR

all of which have meant the most to me over my lifetime.

Having seen nearly 30,000 movies since I was a child, my taste has changed with age, but my all-time list is highly representative of how I’ve felt over the years. Here we go…

BY JEFFREY LYONS DRAMAS The Graduate (1967): My all-time favorite film about a listless twentysomething doubting his future while having an affair with the bored wife of his father’s law partner. This was Dustin Hoffman’s second film and first starring role, and it made him an instant superstar. Inherit the Wind (1960): Set in 1925, this film is a dramatization of the so-called Scopes Monkey Trial.

Featuring Spencer Tracy (portraying a character based on legendary lawyer Clarence Darrow), Fredric March (politician William Jennings Bryan), and Gene Kelly ( journalist H.L. Mencken). 12 Angry Men (1957): A stunning jury room drama with an all-star cast headed by Henry Fonda (who also co-produced). The Manchurian Candidate (1962): A political thriller about a Korean War veteran programmed to assassinate a presidential candidate.

Darling (1965): Julie Christie won an Oscar for playing a model who slept her way through London’s fashion industry in the swinging ’60s.

WESTERNS The Big Country (1958): Gregory Peck as a sea captain who goes to Texas to marry the rich daughter of a rancher involved in a war over water rights. Burl Ives won a supporting Oscar as one of the combatants.

The Magnificent Seven (1960): A remake of a Japanese classic about seven gunfighters hired by a poor Mexican pueblo plagued by bandits. Gunfight at the O.K. Corral (1957): One of the best Westerns, starring Burt Lancaster (as Wyatt Earp) and Kirk Douglas (as Doc Holliday). Shane (1953): Alan Ladd played a roving former gunfighter hired as a ranch hand by Van Heflin, whose family and other homesteaders are threatened with violence by a cattleman coveting their land. The Searchers (1956): Director John Ford’s finest Western—a sweeping epic about a kidnapped girl (Natalie Wood), and the seven-year search for her by her uncle, a former Confederate (John Wayne).

COMEDIES Humor is subjective, but I love A Night at the Opera (1935), the Marx Brothers’ masterpiece. Mel Brooks’ Blazing Saddles (1974), especially the campfire scene. The Party (1968), with Peter Sellers (it’s considered politically incorrect today). A Matter of WHO (1962), with TerryThomas; and Two-Way Stretch (1960), Sellers again, in a jailbreak caper. ¢

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The major event that kicks off fall is none other than the 45th Hampton Classic Horse Show. Considered one of the country’s most prestigious hunter-jumper horse shows, it’s set to return August 29 to September 5. More than 1,500 of the nation’s best horses and riders will compete for prestigious titles and over $800,000 in prize money.

Celebrate the great outdoors of New York State at the annual Samuel Waxman Cancer Research Foundation Golf Tournament on September 13 at Fresh Meadow Country Club in Lake Success, New York. Hit the green during the 39th-annual match and help raise funds to benefit SWCRF and its mission to eradicate cancer.

On September 12, enjoy another great day of sports with the Greenwich Polo Club match, featuring the East Coast Open Final, nestled in the beautiful backcountry of Connecticut.

Young entrepreneurs, artists, and well-known personalities are all part of the crowd dynamic, which makes a day on the grounds full of incredible and sophisticated energy.

Art lovers, check out The A Is for Art Gallery, a perfect place to experience paintings and design spearheaded by modern American artist Walter Sternlieb.

He’s also a prolific designer, builder, woodworker, and master craftsman. The Southampton destination brings Sternlieb’s three-dimensional vision to life.

And, for those who wish to stay home and love a good meal, there’s the superb offerings of a personal chef in your own kitchen with Chef Omakase. The company creates a fantastic culinary experience that’s as simple as ordering a taxi or a vacation rental via an app. This affordable luxury service is the brainchild of Keiko Aoki, widow of Rocky Aoki. From the legacy of the Benihana restaurant dynasty comes a new concept in dining that makes the ultimate luxury lifestyle available to all.

Here’s to an amazing season of sports, art, food, and fundraising! ¢

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You’re the creative director of your namesake brand, a DJ, and a brand consultant. How do you do it all?

It's a busy lifestyle and never boring! I started out working in corporate finance on Wall Street. The backstory begins earlier; I juggled multiple jobs during my college years, including as a club DJ and a personal trainer. Music plays a huge role in my design process. I love advising and working with other founders to achieve their goals.

Tell us about your TW Fall men’s collection!

It's an upbeat and versatile range that includes our signature tailoring and essentials in a bold yet wearable color palette. There are comfy yet polished WFH blazers and joggers, an idea that was born from the global pandemic and shutdown.

What’s next?!

We have a big celebration planned for Iris Apfel in September to celebrate her 100th (!) birthday. I'll also be playing a fun multiple-date DJ residency on Sunday afternoons at the Maidstone Inn in East Hampton. We’ll also be having a TW pop-up retail experience. Hope to see you all there!

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ARBITERS OF THE ARTS

It’s no secret that the Hamptons is a haven for glitz and glam. Yes, an iced coffee may set you back $7, and a lobster roll a cool $35, but a dose of the arts? Now, that’s priceless. So to add a bit of depth to weekends out East, we look toward those with an eye for the finer things, including this talented trio who keep the seaside art scene alive and kickin!

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JAYMA CARDOSO A consistent hive of action, The Surf Lodge is more than just a trusted local watering hole. Since 2008, proprietor Jayma Cardoso has been bringing top-notch musical acts to the Surf Lodge stage—some planned and some a total surprise, including Jimmy Buffet and Courtney Love. The Hole singer once took up residence at the hotel for a week, taking the stage as she pleased throughout her stay. “I think Surf Lodge’s small stage is so intimate it gives artists an opportunity to connect with the audience, and for them it’s something special,” Cardoso says. “I still hope that Mick [Jagger] or Keith [Richards] visit us and rekindle their time spent in Montauk on the deck.”

No one captures beach living quite like Matt Albiani. The multitalented Hamptonite is, first and foremost, an astute photographer known for his beautifully moody snaps of beach getaways and portraits of those who inhabit them. In his spare time, he’s also the proprietor of Mate Gallery, located in Santa Barbara, California, and the innkeeper of Sea Roost, his private home-turned-Airbnb in Montauk’s Hither Hills. The rustic two-cottage compound is just a few steps from the beach and provides nonstop stimulation for Albiani. “With its wide white-sand beaches, warm late-summer water temperatures, and consistent whale sightings, it’s simply a dream,” he says. “It provides all the inspiration I need in life!”

AMALIA DAYAN Seemingly plucked from a film set, the impossibly quaint South Etna Gallery in Montauk opened its doors in summer 2020 as a haven for museum-level contemporary exhibitions. Founded by longtime Montaukers Amalia Dayan and husband Adam Lindemann, the notfor-profit foundation offers an ever-evolving rotation of art, including, most recently, a body of work by Robert Colescott spanning from the late 1960s to the early 2000s titled My Shadow. “We allow ourselves a certain curatorial freedom in terms of the artists we invite to show,” Dayan says. “It’s not dictated exclusively by a connection to the East End or a specific style or school of art-making. The binding ethos is the art’s relevance to our moment, and our conviction in the quality and vitality of the work we show.” ¢

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LITERARY LOWDOWN

THE REAL DORINDA

It’s been a year of next chapters for TV personality Dorinda Medley. After starring on The Real Housewives of New York City for six seasons, the Bravo fan favorite has bid adieu to the show and is now telling the stories she’s always wanted to share in her new memoir, Make It Nice.

Photos: top left, Dori Fitzpatrick; Make It Nice cover, courtesy Gallery Books, an imprint of Simon & Schuster

BY SYDNEY SADICK

You’re officially an author!

Why did you decide to write Make It Nice?

I was put on pause with the RHONY, and I found myself in the middle of the pandemic back at Blue Stone Manor. It was a trifecta moment—the world has stopped and so had I. I had all this time to reminisce, and after running around for 56 years, I found myself back at my parents’ house spending more time there than I have since I was 18. Finding old photos and yearbooks made me realize that there are sides of me people didn’t get to see on Housewives.

Many don’t realize that you’ve lived in the U.K. and worked in industries ranging from fashion to real estate.

Where does your go-getter persona stem from?

My mother says I come from a place of yes. I had to figure out ways to meet people, accept opportunities, and inch forward. I was always aware of what I was doing, even waitressing. I never tended bar— my mom said being a waitress was okay but not a bartender. I was looking to make cash at the time. I worked at the Fitz Bar [at the Fitzpatrick] at a time when all the celebs would go. Every job I took gave me a different talent. I always had to keep evolving.

How did Princess Diana become a fan of your cashmere line?

I lived in an area in London where I became friends with a bunch of sweet girls who lived there. One of them ended up being Princess Diana’s sister-in-law, Sophie Wessex. Diana and I were never close, but she knew who I was. She called me her doppelgänger! We worked out at the Harvard Club together.

In those days, [the royals] weren’t isolated. She was out and about.

Thoughts on the current royal family drama?

It’s difficult. I love the Queen. It’s a lot of pressure for the family.

What was the most memorable event you ever attended?

I’ve met so many interesting people throughout my life, but when I lived in London, I went to a crazy party with all the casino titans—Steve Wynn, Donald Trump, and Sol Kerzner. Back then, 25 years ago, casinos were everything. Too much money was spent, fans were jumping up singing. It was the ’90s abundance. There was also a memorable event that my husband and I threw at our home.

Desmond Tutu, Brad Pitt, Angelina Jolie, and Norah Jones were all under my townhouse’s roof—and at one dinner table!

Epic! What would you say was the most challenging part of writing your book?

Writing about my late husband, Richard, and his passing. Even though I spoke about it on the show, I had to really bring myself back to the part of when he wasn’t well and how it affected our family. One of the gifts I was able to receive from being on Housewives is how many people reached out to me about how they went through something similar.

What’s the biggest misconception about you?

I’m very strong, but I think people misinterpret my strength for not being vulnerable. I’m afraid like everyone else of not doing well or not making it.

How have you evolved since your Housewives days?

It’s not just since Housewives, but with what the world’s gone through. I’m more peaceful and appreciative now. I thought I was a great addition [to the show]. It was fun to film; you get into a rhythm. We were like racehorses! But it was easier for me to not miss it as much because of being in the Berkshires during COVID-19. I was under a COVID umbrella.

You’re always going to miss something, but I don’t think I could’ve written this book if I was still filming. I treated writing this book like a job. It’s funny how things work out. ¢

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What do you want readers to take away from your story?

How important it is to be truly grateful for every day of your life and the people you have in your life. Hug and kiss your loved ones!

What was the writing process like for you?

Extremely hard, probably one of the hardest things I have ever done. There was so much to put down, go through, remember, and then write about. I cried myself to sleep almost every night.

We love you on The Talk! What have you learned about yourself in this new co-host role?

This is my first consistent job that I have ever had in my life! I came from Broadway, where I was in and out of work constantly.

I love that I have something that is stable and a job I can rely on!

What would readers be surprised to know about you?

I love naps! I can fall asleep anywhere at any time, even for five minutes!

PLUS! FRESH FALL READS VANDERBILT ANDERSON COOPER The CNN anchor teamed up with historian Katherine Howe to chronicle the rise and fall of a legendary American dynasty—his mother’s family, the Vanderbilts.

THE HEART PRINCIPLE HELEN HOANG A woman struggling with burnout learns to embrace the unexpected—and the man she enlists to help her—in this heartfelt new romance novel that’s sure to be an instant page-turner.

TASTE: MY LIFE THROUGH FOOD STANLEY TUCCI The award-winning actor and food-obsessed talent shares an intimate and charming memory of his life in and out of the kitchen, including growing up in Westchester, preparing for and shooting the foodie film Julie & Julia, falling in love over dinner, and more.

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REVELERS FOR A CAUSE

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Foundation Collaborating for a Cure Ladies Luncheon and Hamptons Happening Gala.

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ELIZABETH HURLEY ALL THINGS PINK

BY KAREN ANN LOVE

The Breast Cancer Research Foundation® (BCRF), founded by Evelyn Lauder and Dr. Larry Norton in 1993, aims to prevent and cure breast cancer by advancing the world’s most promising research.

Through its indefatigable work, BCRF has supported investigators involved in every major breakthrough in breast cancer prevention, diagnosis, treatment, and survivorship. Even the COVID pandemic hasn’t stopped BCRF’s trailblazing efforts. In 2020, when the world was on lockdown, BCRF converted its annual Hot Pink Party—the must-attend event of the NYC social season—into an online fundraising event. This year, BCRF took virtual galas to the next level when it capped its Hot Pink Party with a performance by rock legend Sir Elton John. Hosted by actress and style icon Elizabeth Hurley, it felt just like you were attending a pre-pandemic Hot Pink Party—albeit from your living room. With Breast Cancer Awareness Month just around the corner, Hampton Sheet sat down with

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Hurley to discuss all things PINK! Before we talk about BCRF, you looked absolutely stunning (in pink, of course) hosting BCRF’s second Virtual Hot Pink Evening last May. Well, my sweatpants have certainly gotten much wear, but I still love dressing up and dancing it out, even when it’s just with my family at home!

We’ve attended quite a few online galas and luncheons during the pandemic—not everyone manages to achieve your seemingly effortless Zoom chic!

It’s all about lighting. And remember to light your face from the front—don’t stand in front of a window. It’s also great to position the camera at eye level. Most importantly—smile!

You’ve worked with the Estée Lauder Companies since 1995, first as a spokesmodel and then as the global ambassador of ELC’s Breast Cancer

Judy Glickman Lauder and Leonard Lauder with Elizabeth Hurley

Campaign. How did this collaboration first come about for you?

My grandmother passed away from breast cancer at a time when nobody spoke about the disease.

It was a time when women were afraid to speak openly about it, when there truly was a lack of awareness, funding, and resources.

We didn’t even know she had breast cancer until it had progressed. It always saddens me to think that she kept this secret from even her family. She passed away from the disease around the time I started as a model for Estée Lauder.

Shortly after, Evelyn Lauder asked me if I wanted to get involved with the breast cancer campaign she started. From the moment Evelyn asked, I knew that I wanted to honor my grandmother and help bring breast cancer to the forefront as a public health issue.

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How has your role with the campaign and BCRF grown over the years?

I’ve spent more than two decades traveling the world discussing the importance of breast health, and raising funds for research, education, and medical services on behalf of the Estée Lauder Companies.

Throughout the years, the Estée Lauder Companies have raised more than $99 million to support global research, education, and medical services, and have funded 321 medical research grants through the Breast Cancer Research Foundation [$80 million of total funds raised].

When we first started our work, people weren’t talking about breast cancer. Now it commands frontpage headlines and attention in global health forums. I’m so proud of how far we’ve progressed in the entire breast cancer movement, which has led to early detection, major

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advances in research and treatment, and better chances of survival.

Your two decades of breast cancer advocacy is impressive. Speaking of anniversaries—2022 marks the 30th anniversary of the iconic PINK breast cancer awareness ribbon.

Yes! The Pink Ribbon is a globally recognized symbol for breast cancer, but it’s more than a ribbon. It’s a movement; it’s a representation of our global community, and it honors everyone touched by this disease— patients, loved ones, caregivers, doctors, advocates, and more. I’m looking forward to continuing my work this year and especially next, in honor of the 30th anniversary.

One of the many unfortunate things that have come about as a result of this pandemic is the fact that there have been delayed breast cancer screenings. Many women didn’t go for their yearly mammogram last year due to lockdowns or due to fear of going to hospitals and clinics. In October 2020, you even hosted “the largest-ever live self breast-check event.”

There has been a decline in breast cancer screenings during the pandemic. Experts are already warning of the consequences, which will likely be an increase in late-stage diagnosis in years ahead. The most important message is for women to reschedule their mammograms if they haven’t already; early diagnosis is the key to survival.

We know we can support BCRF by attending one of its signature events, hosting our own fundraisers, or making a donation at bcrf.org. Can you tell our readers about the difference they make by getting involved with BCRF? It’s never been more imperative to support breast cancer research.

Donations to the foundation fuel the world’s brightest minds—and progress depends on investing in researchers who attack breast cancer from all angles. ¢ Whether you attend an event, hold a fundraiser, make a donation, or simply purchase a product from one of BCRF’s Shop Pink partners (go to bcrf.org/shop-pink), there are countless ways to get involved with BCRF. How will you make a difference?

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ROCK THIS TOWN Since 2005, real estate mogul Judi Desiderio has been paving the way through the launch of her Town & Country Real Estate firm with

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Break down the current market for us!

Current market conditions are still healthy and more balanced than in 2020. I track the four transaction sequences that ultimately populate the T&C Home Sales Reports from all T&C offices throughout the North Fork and Hamptons, starting with UPS—the leads that are generated from all forms of marketing. Next, offer and acceptance, also known as the deals that are made. Third, in contract, which tells us which deals actually make it to a fully executed contract, and lastly, closing—when you cross the finish line, which is proving to be more difficult under current market conditions.

Is the intense pace of panic buying still dominant?

The crest of that wave actually hit late February/early March, though there seems to be a second wave on the horizon, thanks to Delta variant.

What are three things a seller can do to maximize their value?

Hire the right broker, price appropriately, and prep your home. Any seasoned professional can walk you through important cosmetic corrections, such as painting, decluttering, and prepping to be show-ready and giving buyers a clean palette.

What town is currently most popular to purchase in?

This is so individual; beauty is in the eye of the beholder! From the Eastern Ends—Montauk and Orient Point—to the Western Ends—Westhampton and Jamesport—each hamlet has its own vibe and therefore its own audience.

What’s your favorite type of home, stylistically?

My preference is the classic Hamptons shingle-style exterior with a clean modern interior. I have purchased in so-called good markets and bad markets. I’ve subdivided land, built homes, and renovated, including commercial properties.

There’s no “top” to this market. Real estate isn’t meant to be like a penny stock or commodity; it’s a long-term investment. If you’re in it for the long-term and not overleveraged, you’ll be handsomely rewarded via appreciation.

What does the future of East End real estate look like from your view?

2020 was like nothing anyone has ever seen; I witnessed the first worldwide pandemic in my lifetime that shut down global economies, followed by migrations of city dwellers to the country for safety and fresh air. As the virus becomes more tamed by science and governments assist with financial lifeboats, the world will heal physically and financially. Though like all extreme events, things will never be the same again. That said, I see our markets currently in a healthy place. That should maintain for the rest of 2021, barring nothing catastrophic happens. In the end, nothing lasts forever. ¢

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GUILD HALL SUMMER GALA

The overnight thoughts of two creative personalities are analyzed by an expert.

Close your eyes and listen up!

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Alec Baldwin, Marty Cohen Pamela Eldridge, Tamara Magel

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l LAURA DAY, Intuitive & Psychic to the Stars The Dream: “I’m flying from my bed in New York to my bed in Rome. I think nothing of it until I realize I’m flying, then I pump my wings—half excited, half frightened. I awaken. I’m reading a big, ancient book.

It’s so engaging, but then I realize I’m dreaming. I awaken trying to remember what I was reading.”

The Interpretation: One of the ways our sophisticated unconscious mind succeeds in getting its message to our conscious is by repeating. You might remember in school, teachers would say, “Read it. Write it. Recite it.” That’s how we learn. It’s the repeating in this dream that has my attention. You say you “think nothing of it” that you’re flying. There’s a break in the action as you realize you’re flying, so you have to take action to make sure you stay airborne. The point is it’s this realization that encourages your change of action, or better said to “take action.” Because our dreams are a perfect mirror of a specific current waking-life situation, we’re attempting to problem-solve. My question would be: In what recent situation have you found yourself interrupted? The dream is calling out to you to rethink or review how you have managed this similar problem in the past. Of course, the positive news is how you seem to have read this book before. The answer is inside you. ¢

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l TILER PECK, Prima Ballerina & NYC Ballet Principal Dancer The Dream: “I recently had two dreams. The first: I was on vacation in Capri with my friends. For the past five or so years, I have vacationed with Valentino and Giancarlo Giammetti, and it’s without a doubt the trip I always look forward to the most. I haven’t been able to go since the pandemic, and I think I’m missing spending time with them and traveling. My second dream was about me not having my pointe shoes on in time to make my entrance in a ballet! I was so beyond stressed as I could hear the music playing and knew I had only 15 seconds before the music began. I could not, for the life of me, get my shoes tied up and sewn in. A ballerina’s worst nightmare!”

The Interpretation: Sometimes when we haven’t experienced something for a while, it’s as if we forget what it feels like! One of the ways our dreams serve us is the simple reminder to awaken whatever the feeling is we seem to have lost touch with. In this case, perhaps placing yourself back in Capri is a way to motivate you back there, where you are probably fully relaxed. Because a dream is an internal conversation that takes place between our unconscious and our conscious mind, the language we use is as unique to us as our fingerprint. This makes sense because the unconscious wants to be understood, and the best way to accomplish this is to use metaphors we’re familiar with.

Hence for you, it’s the language of ballet. Your unconscious creating a plot in which you feel “beyond stressed” immediately accomplishes three things: balance, grabbing your attention, and creating action. Whatever the current situation you’re discussing with yourself in this dream, you knowing the time is now is exactly what will propel you forward to take action. You can thank your healthy unconscious mind for helping you achieve your goal!

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Tim Davis

The Hamptons Luxury Market Leader

+1 631.702.9211 | tgdavis@corcoran.com Credits

Lic. Assoc. RE Broker Senior Global Real Estate Advisor

Real estate agents affiliated with The Corcoran Group are independent contractor sales associates and are not employees of The Corcoran Group. Equal Housing Opportunity. The Corcoran Group is a licensed real estate broker. All information furnished regarding property for sale or rent or regarding financing is from sources deemed reliable, but Corcoran makes no warranty or representation as to the accuracy thereof. All property information is presented subject to errors, omissions, price changes, changed property conditions, and withdrawal of the property from the market, without notice. All dimensions provided are approximate. To obtain exact dimensions, Corcoran advises you to hire a qualified architect or engineer. 24 Main Street, Southampton, NY 11968 | 631.283.7300

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