24 Return to Mammoth Cave Robert A. Valentine
30 Wayne Bates: Clay, Light, Color, Life Robert A. Valentine
A Whole New Reason to Smile Erin Carrico
56 Autumn Comes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 5 Robert A. Valentine
Notes & Neighbors . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7 Murray Life Staff
Sigmas at Seventy . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10 Murray Life Staff, Donna Herndon & Kathy Kopperud
Pet Pause . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12 Caina Lynch
A Laughing Matter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14 Murray Life Readers and Staff
Nature . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16 Brooke Gilley
Count On It . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18 Caina Lynch
An Apple a Day . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 20 Suzanne Cathey
Trivia Quiz . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 22 Caina Lynch
Money Pages . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 36 Ron Arant
Five Reasons the Man is Wearing a Skirt . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 40 Robert A. Valentine
Food . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 44 Caina Lynch
Dining Guide . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 49 Murray Life Staff
Calendar of Events . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 52 What’s Happening & Where
The Last Word . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 60 Robert Valentine
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Autumn Comes by: Robert A. Valentine
The hard truth is . . . we’re moving inside. his is the time of year when we recognize a change of seasons. We call it “homecoming,” but it has little to do with queens, dances, alumni and football games. Those things happen in the fall, but only because, traditionally, that’s when the harvest was in and people still had time and opportunity to travel for a visit before the snow and cold of winter set in.
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For us, this season of homecoming means an end to gardening and a drastic reduction in the weekend
cookouts, trips to the lake or camping expeditions. One of the great blessings in living where we do is the availability of outdoor recreation. The folks at the Land Between the Lakes will keep the campfires burning well into November with programs and weekend activities, but the hard truth is that, as a culture, we’re moving inside.
Our old friend Gross Magee will take you on a visual walk into one of the Seven Wonders of the Modern World. The graphic arts teacher from Murray State took his camera into the depths of Mammoth Cave last summer on a personal journey of discovery that, in a way, dates back nearly 150 years. We think you’ll enjoy the trip.
That’s not a bad as it sounds; just as the earth needs a period of rest and recuperation as leaves rot into rich soil and seeds find a good place to shoot toward the sun in Spring, so we need some time to plan and repair, to rest and rejoice in the company of family and friends.
As you sit down for one of the last few sunny mornings on the porch, or as you pull the comforter a little higher on your lap, we’ll introduce a few more folks, like the man who is trimming 50 heads of hair in 50 states in 50 days – to raise money for homeless animals. Then, there’s the women’s society that is celebrating 70 years of calling Murray “home.” Erin Carrico will show you the people who live in, officially, the “Friendliest Small Town in the United States.”
We bring you some new friends in this issue of Murray Life. Wayne Bates, who is pretty well known in these parts, may not be so familiar to you, personally. We visited the gifted artist in his studio and we share some insights that even his biggest fans might have missed.
But that would be you, of course, unless you’re one of our longdistance subscribers or someone who joins us online at www.mymuraylife.com. Murray also has one of America’s top Chambers of Commerce, a healthy list of autumn activities, and plenty of places to eat and things to do. We’ll tell you all about it, page by page, so pull up closer to the fire, scratch the dog behind the ear, and turn the page. Welcome home. s
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The Man of the Century On a pleasant Sunday in August, a few people took Mary Lou Rayburn’s kind invitation to heart and joined the Rayburn family for a quiet little observation of the 100th birthday of J. D. “Stumpy” Rayburn. Well, it was not really all that “quiet,” when you get right down to it, and the “few people” bore a strong resemblance to half the county, but other than that it was, indeed, the celebration of the Century for
the man who has NEVER missed a Murray State versus Western Kentucky football game. Over his 100 years, Stumpy has distinguished himself as an MSU football player (he and his teammates are now legends), an educator and, at last, an icon of good humor, good nature and fidelity to his alma mater. At last Spring’s Murray State Senior Breakfast, J. D. was recognized for his continuing
service as the honorary maître d’ for the event. In response, the centenarian stood and gave a short speech of thanks to a standing ovation. Wait ‘til you see the next 100. s
Friendly Folks regular department entitled “Daytrips” to our pages. She is a seasoned tourist, herself, and enjoys sharing the nearby delights of places like Princeton, Ky., or Giant City, Ill. One of the great things about living in Murray is that you’re surprisingly close to a remarkable number of other great things.
In case you are the last person on earth to hear about it, Murray has been named “The Friendliest Small Town in America” by RandMcNally and USA Today. We won’t belabor the point, except to call your attention to Erin Carrico’s article (“What is Friendly?”) in this issue. Erin, the executive director of the Murray Convention and Visitors Bureau, usually brings the
This time, however, she gets to write about what may be the greatest thing in Murray: the people. Erin’s office, ably assisted by Stephanie Butler, was principally in charge of the nominating and voting effort that led to Murray’s selection. With a supporting cast of nearly everyone in Murray, they brought to designation, “Friendliest” home to Murray.
Murray Life will do its part to spread the word. A few more visitors, sports events, small conventions or itinerant shoppers would be most welcome, and the knowledge that they are going to the Friendliest Town should make Murray even more welcoming that it already is. We’d like to see an aggressive cooperation between the CVB, The Chamber of Commerce, Murray State, the City of Murray, Calloway County and the major employers to raise the necessary money, frame the best messages, and get the word out to the world. Join the party! Tell all your Facebook friends, include the news in your Christmas letter, and put a bumper sticker on your car. If we’re going to be friendly, we need more strangers to practice on, don’t’ we? s
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Murray Chamber Voted Nation’s Best The announcement came out in a flurry of excitement in late summer, so you might have missed it: Murray is home to the best Chamber of Commerce in its class. The American Chamber of Commerce Executives named Murray’s Chamber organization the 2012 Chamber of the Year at its annual conference in Louisville, Ky. Board Chairwoman Gale Cornelison and President Lance Allison were on hand to accept the award. We asked Gale to reflect on what will probably be the biggest event of her term as Chairwoman. The Chamber is not without other recognitions from its peers, and had already received both state and national awards for its Annual Viewbook and Directory. This one, however was special. “This award, more than any other accomplishment, denotes a remarkable amount of teamwork from the Chamber Board,” said Gale. “It has taken all of us, collectively, pulling together from all our past events and programming. It was such an honor to be a part of the whole process—from the day a decision was made to make application until the final interview and award ceremony. I have been truly amazed by what we have accomplished.” Awards, however, don’t tell the whole story. As Gale concluded her term as Chair. She reflected on the value of the Chamber to the community. “It serves as a major resource for information and for
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marketing assistance. More than anything, it provides a support system for all types of businesses and business owners,” she told us. “We have developed such a strong presence throughout the city and county governments and have been recognized over time as ‘watch dogs’ for our membership.”
State University and the various services provided by the Small Business Development Center. We have forged ties throughout the region with other chambers and with agencies that provide a wealth of knowledge and experience to our members, and that will continue to be a necessary part of our focus.”
Awards are great motivators, but it will be three years before the Murray Chamber can apply, again, for Chamber of the Year. We asked Gale what challenges remain to occupy the Chamber’s concerns.
As MSU’s Dean Tim Todd assumes the Chair, he will probably take comfort in Gale’s assessment of the advantage Murray has in Lance Allison and his staff, and in the Chamber members themselves. “All in all, our greatest strength, and the ability to overcome any challenge, will come from the overwhelming commitment from our Board of Directors— local folks who truly love this community and are willing to put their personal agendas aside to focus on the greater good.”
“Unstable economic conditions will continue to be a threat, as will the negative effects of thinking only about what works best for ‘my business.’ The Chamber must continue to work to strengthen the relationships among our members in an attempt to broaden our retail services,” she said. Recognizing that the Chamber works best in partnership with others, she noted, “We must maintain our co-dependence with Murray
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MSU Coach Prohm Gets Framed! Actually, Racer Basketball coach Steve Prohm got a framed copy of an original poster based on the Murray Life Magazine cover. Being featured on the cover of a glossy general features magazine was a first for the cager coach, but we’re certain it won’t be the last. Joining the presentation were (from left) artist Jenny Corley, the magazine’s art director, Justin Kimbro, and publisher Robert Valentine. Corley was another “first-timer;” she had never had work featured in publication until her cover art was used to front the summer edition of Murray Life. “Vicki Valentine suggested the idea to me,” said Corley, “and I thought it was a wonderful idea.” Dave
Winder, MSU Sports information Director, supplied photos to Corley so her work could be done without alerting Prohm. “In terms of demand for copies, this was perhaps our biggest issue yet,” said Valentine. It’s no surprise that the popular sports figure, who will return for another year at the helm for MSU, helped draw attention to the magazine on the rack and in the mailbox. Kimbro, who has done a great deal of design work with MSU athletics, found this project exciting. “It was great to work
with Jennifer and Dave (Winder) to create this cover,” he said. “It represents an historic season, and it’s a great piece of art.” Other examples of Corley’s art can be seen on her company’s website, loveyomug.com. s
A Sad Loss for West Kentucky Media We note with great regret theunexpected passing of Gary Stockhaus, known to most west Kentuckians as the publisher of the Senior Citizen News. Gary was a kind and generous gentleman who, with great care and diligence, served his readers for many years. So trusted was he by his advertisers that he was called upon by some of them to serve as an advisor in matters of marketing and publishing, and they could not have had better counsel. It was our great good fortune
and pleasure to be associated with him in business, to watch his 2 daughters grow into fine young women, and to share with him his happy expectations for the future. Only 57 years old, there are many who will be stunned at his untimely passing. There are many others who will miss the
results of his labor who never even knew his name, for such is the nature of the newspaper business. Those who received the news about some event that brought them happiness, or who read a story that gave them confidence or good advice will recognize the value of the Senior Citizen News. We join them in celebrating the many contributions of Gary Stockhaus, and we feel fortunate that he chose west Kentucky to ply his craft with joy, hope, integrity and honor. s
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Sigmas at Seventy by: Murray Life Staff with Donna Herndon and Cathie Kopperud
irthdays are special, especially those with zeroes in the number. As Murray and Murray State University celebrate 90 years since the founding of “Murray Normal School,” the women of Sigma Sigma Sigma, Murray State University’s oldest Greek letter social organization, will be celebrating its 70th birthday. It’s been an eventful seven decades.
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presented an idea to her dad: make sorority life available to Murray State women as it was on the UK campus. After researching options, Dr. Richmond determined that Tri Sigma, at the time a national education sorority, was the best fit for the women on his teachers’ college campus. “Tri Sigma” was installed at Murray State Normal School and Teachers’ College on
As Homecoming approaches with its promise of reunions and parades filled with floats, it’s probably hard for anyone in Murray to imagine a campus without sororities and fraternities. Yet, for the first 20 years, that’s just that way it was at the small, hard working teacher preparation school that was steadily filling the fields and farmlands to the west of Murray, Kentucky.
The Founding of Sigma Sigma Sigma In fact, it was the older, more prestigious University of Kentucky that provided the inspiration for Greek life at M u r r a y State. Anne Richmond, daughter of Dr. James Richmond (Murray State President from 1936-45)
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living including: Grace Ashbrook Solomon, of Clarksville, Tenn. (formerly of Murray). A number of 70-year members of Tri Sigma will be honored during the birthday festivities, including local residents Margaret Key Crawford, Rebecca Robertson West, Barbara Harris Erwin, and 69-year member Peggy Holland Brown.
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In celebration of this historical 70th year, the ladies met with the current collegiate chapter to share memories of the founding and of those historical times. The Second World War, smoldering since Germany had invaded France, ignited with the U.S. Declaration of war against Japan on Dec. 7, 1941, and against Germany and Italy on Dec. 11. As Tri Sigma began to take its place on campus, U.S. military action was barely two months old. January 31, 1942, the first Greek social organization on the campus. Anne Richmond was elected the first president of the new chapter. The association with Dr. Richmond paid an interesting dividend in the beginning. Department chairs were asked to submit the names of the “two most outstanding women” in their respective departments for consideration as members of the new group. From among these women came the 26 charter members of the Alpha Chi Chapter of Sigma Sigma Sigma. Four of these ladies are still
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The war years had a major impact on colleges as well as the nation. Peggy Brown recalled, “The war ruined many things about campus life. The only men on campus were too old, too young, or too unhealthy to serve in the armed forces.” Peggy noted, “We did have basketball, but it was surely not like it is today!” Peggy displayed a scrapbook of her college days, pulling a paper from the scrapbook inscribed with the comment, “1945-No film available.” Margaret Crawford noted that there
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were no cars on campus and students hitchhiked from the campus to town, getting into the cars of perfect strangers with no fear. “Times were very different,” she said. The ladies discussed such realities as the rationing of staples, including sugar. Margaret Crawford noted that, in those days, there was no TV, radios were battery powered (and the major source of news and entertainment); there was none of the modern technology that is a part of a student’s daily existence today.
“We just had such a good time!” Nevertheless, the privations of wartime didn’t dampen their spirits. The founding sisters discussed the differences in costs of basics like food and tuition. Margaret noted that tuition was $30 per semester. The Hut (a popular campus hangout at 15th and Olive Streets occupying the space now called “The Olive”) served student favorites like cokes for 5 cents and hamburgers for 10 cents. Rebecca West still has a Tri Sigma Beanie which she wore while a pledge. She also shared a 70-yearold copy of the Tri Sigma National
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As the war effort intensified, a Naval Pilot Training Program was established at Murray State. The first big change saw the girls moving from Wells Hall, then a women’s dormitory, to Ordway Hall. The very limited closet space was not the problem it would be today; the women simply had very little clothing. The arrival of so many sturdy young men on campus did not go unnoticed, either. Peggy Brown entertained her younger Tri Sigma sisters with stories of panties being thrown out the Ordway Hall windows at the Naval Cadets. When asked if she was one of the “throwers,” Peggy observed that she couldn’t have been: she didn’t have any extra lingerie to spare! In a letter to the Chapter from founder Grace Solomon, she wrote, “The friendships we made were the best part…I hope after many years your memories of Tri Sigma will be as sweet as mine.” Barbara Erwin, reflecting on what modern students might consider to be harsh conditions for life and study, commented that she didn’t really remember those long past days as hard times. “We just had such a good time,” she said.
“Peggy and I still play bridge together every month,” Barbara Erwin told the young Sigmas. Grace Solomon shared a photo of herself with Margaret Crawford and noted that she drives to Murray regularly to check on her “dear sister.” When Margaret said, “It was really something to be asked to join Tri Sigma,” one of the collegiates responded, “It still is!” Barbara Erwin praised the current chapter by saying, “I am proud to be a Sigma because of all of you.” The Murray Chapter has much to celebrate, having been selected as the National Outstanding Chapter of the Year in 2009-10, 2011-12, and 201213. This National Award was established in 1961; Alpha Chi won the first award for the 1961-62 academic year, and received the award again in 1963-64 and in 198485. In addition to campus involvement, scholarship, and organizational progress, the award also recognizes consistent and successful acts of community service and philanthropy.
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“It still is!” Today, the preferred “nickname” for the sorority is “Sigmas,” and a common rallying cry is “Sigmas for Life.” The reunion of the founding sisters gave an interesting proof of that long relationship.
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olunteers of the local Humane Society had anticipated August 23 since Patrick Lomantini had chosen Murray as the Kentucky stop for the 50 States Tour. The day arrived and by 8 p.m. at Hair Studio, the girls of the salon, the volunteers and even Patrick were in awe of the generosity of our community.
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Patrick left town with a few new items including Murray memorabilia, tips for his travel fund and a young lady to drive him from state to state for a few days. Before I knew it, I was riding down the West Kentucky Purchase Parkway heading to Charleston, West Virginia with Patrick. This was Patrick’s second tour of the U.S. with BarkAID a program to raise funds and awareness for homeless animals. He set a world record on the first 50 States Tour last year when he raised $47,000 for helpless and abused animals.
The goal of the tour is to give 50 haircuts in 50 states in 50 days with all proceeds benefitting the local animal shelter or organization. Patrick never intended an annual event but after seeing the receptive responses across the country he began planning for the 2012 tour. On the 2012 tour Patrick raised $49,316 for shelters and humane societies across the country! Patrick created BarkAID in 2010 when he wanted to find a way to combine his love for hair and fashion with his passion for saving homeless animals. It began as a fashion show in Wichita, Kansas to help the local rescue and as his events grew, so did his campaign. Local
animal lover Karen Hunter had been following Patrick's tour since he created the tour in 2011. She invited Patrick to Murray in hopes he would choose to come to a smaller town to represent Kentucky. Sure enough, last spring he contacted her and added Murray Coach Steve Prohm, head basketball coach at Murray to his list for the State University, stops by to help the cause.
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Kentucky stop for the second annual 50 States Tour. Karen began preparation in early July along with planning and coordination help from Takina Bomar of Hair Studio, Kathy Hodge the Executive Director of the Humane Society and myself setting appointments via email and Facebook. The event gracefully fell together in the two months of planning preceding Day 23 of the tour. It was on that day that the “Friendliest Small Town in America” showed Patrick how we earned that name. In twelve hours of haircutting, $1,700 had been raised for the Humane Society of Calloway County. Patrick cut hair (with few short breaks to eat and pose for pictures) from 8 a.m. to 8 p.m. Animal Advocates, Murrayans, college students and even Coach Steve Prohm sat in the chair for
Patrick spends the majority of the year working at his salon, Lomantini the Salon in Wichita and planning how to make the next year even better for the animals. He is dedicated to helping helpless animals across the United States and will be returning to Murray on August 23, 2013 to help the Humane Society of Calloway County once again. All those involved in Day 23 this year are excited for another successful and even larger event for 2013. s
In 12 hours of haircutting $1200 had been raised for the Humane Society of Calloway County. Above is Patrick Lomantini and the ladies of Hair Studio.
Patrick to cut their hair. Volunteers of the Humane Society, along with foster pets available for adoption were in and out of the studio all day to thank Patrick for donating his time to helping the animals. The local Humane Society depends on donations and events of this sort since they are not funded by the county or state. With generous donations they not only help animals find their “forever home” but provide our county with programs like the Pet Assisted Therapy, Dog Obedience Classes and Fixed For Life Assistance that provides a 50% discount on the cost to spay or neuter pets of low-income families.
My Ultimate Road Trip Many people couldn’t believe that one man was traveling alone to all 50 states in 50 days. “I’m just a guy from Wichita, Kansas with a dream,” Patrick said.
That's exactly what he was doing on the tour- using his talent to help animals and spread awareness across the country.
For more information about any of the Humane Society’s programs, contact the Humane Society of Calloway County at 270-759-1884, humanesociety@murray-ky.net, visit our website at www.forthepets.org, find us on Facebook or stop by our office at 607 Poplar Street Suite A-1, Murray.
At the halfway mark the going was about to get tough for Patrick. Eight hour overnight drives to the next state would prove difficult, but not impossible. Neither of us could remember who asked who for me to drive him around for the next few days. By a happy coincidence I had the next five days off to join Patrick on his drive to West Virginia, Ohio, Michigan, Indiana and Illinois. Since I had played a role in coordinating Day 23, I felt honored to be able to experience his stops in five other states and see how their salons had worked together with the rescue or Humane Society of that area. Not only did I see Patrick working long hours and connecting with each one of the clients; I got to know the heart, the man, the creator, of BarkAID. It's amazing what one person can do to play a role in saving so many animals' lives.
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Politics - The joke is on us. by: Murray Life Staff
‘Tis the season for long campaigns, long speeches, short sound bites and shorter memories. Since there is nothing else to be done except to vote (don’t forget!), at least we can laugh at this year's political circus; after all, it beats crying.
There's one thing the Democrats and Republicans share in common: Our money. ...................................................... A little girl asked her father, "Daddy? Do all Fairy Tales begin with 'Once Upon A Time'?" He replied, "No, there is a whole series of Fairy Tales that begin with 'If elected I promise'." ....................................................... President Carter was speaking at a business lunch in Tokyo, where he decided to open his speech with a brief joke. He told the joke, and then waited for the translator to announce the Japanese version. Carter was surprised by how quickly the interpreter was able to re-tell it. Even more impressive was the reaction from the crowd. Carter thought the story was cute, but not outright hilarious, yet the crowd broke right up. Carter was very flattered. After the speech, Carter met the translator and asked him how he told the joke. The translator responded, "I told them, 'President Carter has told a very funny joke. Please laugh now.'"
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"I don't make jokes. I just watch the government and report the facts." -- Will Rogers [Comedian, social commentator, vaudeville actor] .................................. "Now and then an innocent man is sent to the legislature." -- Kin Hubbard ....................................................... The trouble with political jokes is they get elected.
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Statesmen tell you what is true even though it may be unpopular. Politicians will tell you what is popular, even though it may be untrue. ....................................................... Even crime wouldn't pay if the government ran it. ....................................................... The word 'politics' is derived from the word 'poly', meaning 'many', and the word 'ticks', meaning 'blood sucking parasites'. -- Larry Hardiman
This is medium level puzzle #21...Good Luck!
This is hard level puzzle #22...Good Luck!
Instructions: Place the numbers 1 through 9 in each blank field. Each column (down), row (across) and 3x3 region must contain each of the numerals only one time.
By popular demand, we are providing a two different puzzles with two different degrees of difficulty.
Again, good luck! Where is the Solution? Not sure of your answers? Turn to page 19!
If you have a favorite kind of print puzzle you’d like to see, contact us with your ideas at:
Go to www.murraylifemagazine.com We’ll see you next issue with another great puzzle!
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icture yourself in the most beautiful garden that you can possibly imagine. The sky is blue without a hint of a cloud, a gentle breeze brings the aroma of blossoms to your nose, and there are so many amazing colors of flowers to engage the senses for hours on end. You sit in a comfy chair and enjoy all the sights and sounds in your glorious garden. Not only do you do all those things, but you also sample the various fresh and luscious fruits your garden has to offer.
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Out of the corner of your eye you catch a hint of movement and turn to follow the path of a small black and yellow striped insect. You watch the form of a honey bee make its way from flower to flower. You wonder about the honey bee and its life. Maybe you are afraid of its sting or remember the taste of the honey upon your lips that you had so long ago.
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But my friends the honey bees are so much more than their stings or their honey and so much more important than people give them credit for being.
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You have enjoyed the flowers and the fruits of your garden (and so you should), but think of how your garden would look without the honey bee. European honey bees are very important to pollination. Not only do they collect nectar to turn into honey for the hive to eat, but they also gather pollen as a food source. As they go from flower to flower they may drop a little pollen from a plant that they just visited and thus pollinate that plant so it may reproduce in the future. It is amazing to think that the fruit from your garden may not have grown for you to enjoy if not for a bee. Just think that one third of what you eat each day is all thanks to those industrious little insects. Think not only in terms of fruits, vegetables and grains, but also think in terms of what you are wearing. Very probably, you are wearing
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to think that “theIt isfruitamazing from your garden may not have grown for you to enjoy if not for a bee.
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cotton but maybe you are wearing another natural fiber such as hemp or linen. Honeybees also pollinate these plants and so we owe a huge “thank you” to the bees for our favorite pairs of jeans.
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Meet Dr. Bee In addition to their roles as pollinators, bees also provide products from the hive that are
used medicinally. The use of products like royal jelly, honey, pollen, propolis, wax, etc. that come from the hive and are used for medical reasons is called apitherapy. For example, beeswax is used in healing salves. Just think about your lip balm. If you happen to be an allergy sufferer, the digestion of local honey (not the stuff you buy in the grocery store), is said to aid in lessening the severity of allergies. The ancient wisdom of using bee-made products is one of the reasons that the European honey bee was brought to the United States about 400 years ago in the 1600’s. In many cultures around the world these little insects are revered and so they should be. At the very least, they deserve understanding and respect.
A Little Help for the Bee As you can see, the honey bee is so much more important than just producing scrumptious honey. Sadly, these insects are declining in the United States and other parts of the world, which has many people worried. They are experiencing something called Colony Collapse Disorder, which causes many beekeepers to lose 30% to
90% of bees in their hives. There is no direct answer to what is causing this decline in honey bees and it is, quite probably, a combination of factors. The theories include: Varro mites that are a parasite of honey bees; viruses; small hive beetle infestations that will devastate a hive by tunneling in wax and destroying eggs and larvae of the honey bees; and the use of pesticides on crops. Please think while in your garden what it would be like without these wonderful insects, the honey bees. Where would your beautiful flowers be, those delicious fruits, and even your favorite t-shirt or jeans? How can you help honey bees? Learn about them, support your local beekeeper and, if you must use pesticides, use the minimum amount per application and avoid using mid-day when honey bees are most active. Remember to thank those little bees for all that they do. If you don’t think they understand human speech, try another form of expression – plant a few more flowers like Joe-pye Weed, Bee Balm, Foxglove Beardtongue, Aster, Goldenrod, American Beautyberry, Oakleaf Hydrangea, fruit trees, blackberries and raspberries. The bees will get the message.s
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Football! by: Caina Lynch
With summer’s end comes the beginning of a season that occupies weekends full of tailgates, friends, chilly evenings and stadium lights illuminating the night for a football game. Here are a few numbers concerning the sport that consumes a majority of our cool weather weekends and evenings.
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1.5 million:
The record for the most fumbles in a single game (QB Len Dawson of the Chiefs)
The distance around a football
14,500 tons:
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28 inches:
of potato chips are consumed on Super Bowl Sunday (estimated)
The number of players who can use their foot to move the ball (kicker and punter).
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$1.5 billion:
Antacid sales increase the Monday following the Super Bowl
the Dallas Cowboys are the most valued sports franchise in the world
the number of footballs sold throughout the world each year
57,600: square feet in a football field
630: NCAA football teams
119: Bowl Championship Series football teams
16,047: high school football teams in America
1: star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame belongs to NFL player Terry Bradshaw
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Answered the Questions
Have I got an answer for you? 1. C, but you wanted it to be “D,” didnʼt you? 2. C, and Popeye couldnʼt live without it. 3. D, The reason they move so is that they have a flat stem that catches slight breezes. 4. C, Considered sacred in monastery gardens. Buddist monks may have saved it from complete extinction. 5. B, Bell shaped flowers are a signature of this flowering plant family. 6. D, Sorry; itʼs not an elf named Jack Frost. 7. A, but “D” tells you a lot about the reader, too, doesnʼt it? 8. C, It depends on your weight; the more you carry, the more calories it takes to rake. 9. A, Donʼt worry; weʼll get another 24 million tons next fall, too. 10. B, and one leaf can be used to roof a two-car garage, too.
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] gardening An Apple a Day by: Suzanne Cathey
ne thing I have learned about gardening over the years is that there is always a new facet of gardening I need to explore. One spring I had several customers ask me about growing fruit trees and I realized that starting a home orchard was a subject in which I really was not very knowledgeable. Being the inquisitive person I am, I decided to do some research so I would be more prepared next spring when a question arose.
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I guess the reason I never pursued planting my own home orchard was that I had assumed that it would take years and years to reap any benefits from my efforts and it was just easier to buy the fruit from my local orchard or the grocery store. I had visions of Johnny Appleseed planting all those apple starts and never even getting to eat one of those apples and I am just not that patient! I didn’t realize that you could actually harvest fruit from your very own trees in as little as 2 to 3 years.
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in our area, spring really was not the best time to plant a home orchard, anyway. For our area, late October through the end of December is the ideal time for planting these types of trees. Here’s the science behind it: even though the air is cool the ground remains warm enough for a tree to put out roots right up until the ground freezes. If you try to plant in the spring, your trees may not have enough time to root in before the stress of heat and drought sets in. This would definitely be the case for trees planted this past spring with the kind of heat we had this summer! An added bonus is this: fruit trees planted in the fall have a “head start” over those planted the following spring so they could bear their first crop a year sooner than trees planted the following spring.
Where and What Along with planning where you are going to have your orchard, you must decide what kind and size of fruit tree you want to grow. There are a number of wonderful varieties that are now available in three or four sizes, thanks to the process of grafting. Most home gardeners prefer the dwarf size as they only grow 8 to 12 feet tall, so harvesting can be done from the ground rather than a ladder. This is especially true for “baby boomers” as ladder climbing is not as easy for us as it used to be. Dwarf trees usually begin bearing crops years earlier than a standard size tree. A person can easily
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incorporate fruit trees into the existing landscape plan. Not only can fruit trees offer all-season ornamental value to their property but of prime importance is the good-tasting, healthy fruit they produce. Fruit trees can offer colorful blossoms in spring, followed by attractive foliage and the developing fruit year after year. As my daughter and I were decorating our garden center, Beans to Blossoms, for the coming Christmas season, I had a wonderful thought: What a wonderful Christmas gift a fruit tree would be for someone! Instead of giving some gift that may go out of style or may benefit some overseas economy, why not give a “home grown” present that would keep giving for many years to come? We could wrap that tree container up in some colorful paper, put a nice big red bow on it and, presto! You have that perfect gift you have been searching for at the very economical price. Like many plant vendors, we offer a 100% guarantee on our fruit trees for 1 full year. If your tree dies within the first year, we will replace it for you. If you decide on a fruit tree, an ornamental or a large shrub for a holiday gift, you
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other than Keiffer. Before purchasing any fruit tree be sure and find out what pollination requirements it has so you won’t be disappointed on down the road.
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might want to act soon so your supplier can order the perfect plant for the perfect present. Supplies may be limited as the end of fall planting approaches – and Christmas gets nearer, too.
Good Bees-ness There are some ground rules (no pun intended) you have to follow to be successful in your endeavors. Fruit trees are either selfpollinating or require another variety for pollination. Peaches, nectarines, tart cherries and apricots are self-pollinating so you could plant just one of them. On the other hand apples, pears, sweet cherries, plums and prunes need a pollinator although there are a couple of exceptions to that rule. Golden Delicious and McIntosh apples are selfpollinating so they will bear fruit on their own but if you plant them with at least one more variety their fruit will be larger and more abundant. Sweet cherries will not pollinate with tart cherries and Orient Pears need a pollinator
One last requirement for a successful orchard is proper pruning. If a tree is carefully pruned when the tree is young, only a minimum of pruning will be needed as the tree gets older. Pruning of young trees establishes the shape of the tree so limbs will be well distributed up, down and around the trunk. Also, pruning stimulates new growth of mature trees for continued productivity and long life. Removing diseased, injured, weak and dead limbs reduces stress on the plant’s
health. Pruning opens the tree to sunlight and air, reducing the incidence of disease and insect damage. Apples and pears are pruned to a main trunk with horizontal limbs every one or two feet up the leader, much like how a pine tree develops naturally in the woods. Peaches are pruned using an “open center” style so that it ends up looking much like an inverted umbrella. Any knowledgeable nursery should have books or information if you need help before pruning for the first time. If not, there is an abundant amount of information on the Internet, which is just a mouse click away. So, don’t let short days and falling temperatures get your spirits down. Fall weather is just nature’s way of reminding you that it’s time to plant so you can enjoy flowers and fresh fruit for years to come! Suzanne Cathey prunes her trees at Beans to Blossoms, just east of Murray on Highway 94, and dispenses advice, as well through the website www.beanstoblossoms.com.
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Tree Planting Tips Dig a hole that is at least 2-3 times bigger than the root ball and deep enough that the top of the root ball is 1" above ground; this allows the roots to easily begin to grow outwards into the soil and prevent rotting.
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Leaves, Leaves and More Leaves by: Caina Lynch As the leaves on trees begin to change colors we dread the idea of all the leaves that will need to be raked in the coming weeks. But the hours spent outside raking just to watch your kids blow up the leaf pile with their bottoms are hours well spent. There are other leaves to wonder about, like the green, black and oolong teas that are from leaves of the same tea plant, but are simply processed differently. And there are more leaves. What do you know about them? (see the answers on page 19 – but no peeking!)
1. What do the four leaves of a clover stand for? a. Head, heart, hands and health b. Passion, prosperity, peace and quiet c. Hope, faith, love and luck d. Moe, Larry, Curly, and Shemp
2. Which plants’ leaves are used to help remove excess water and toxins from the body – and are often found in organic salads?
3. The shaking leaves of this tree are said to resemble a woman's gossiping tongue. a. Banyan b. Willow c. Family d. Aspen
4. This tree, with its fan-shaped leaves, is the only one left in its genus in the world. a. Avacado b. Sequoia c. Gingko d. Ash
a. Bak choy b. Dandelion c. Spinach d. Radicchio
5. The leaves and tips of this flowering plant were once used for making ale. (Hint: think Scottish moors) a. Laurel b. Heather c. Ginger d. Myrtle
6. When the air temperature in autumn drops, the production of ___ inside the leaves starts to decrease, turning some leaves orange and yellow. a. Carbon dioxide b. Calcium c. Cholesterol d. Chlorophyll
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7. Tasseography is the reading of ___ and is said to be a powerful meditative tool providing insights into the reader's subconscious. a. Tea leaves b. Tree bark c. Tree trunks d. Trashy romance novels
8. On average, about how many calories are burned in each hour of leaf raking? a. 25 b. Between 50 - 100 c. Between 100 - 200 d. Between 500 - 1,000
9. Every year we throw away ___ of leaves and grass. Leaves alone account for 75% of our solid waste in the fall. a. 24 million tons b. 2 million tons c. 200 tons d. 10 trillion pounds
10. The largest plant leaf belongs to ___ whose leaves grow up to 75 ft long and 9 ft wide. a. Canna b. Raffia palms c. Riccia d. Elephant Ears
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ayne Bates lives on a hillside of red Kentucky clay. Born the son of a Baptist minister in Winchester, Tenn., he moved with his family to the red clay country of Georgia, and then to Jackson, Tenn. That explains how he found himself eventually, at Jackson’s Union University. There his childhood skills in carving, woodworking, and simple farm-based mechanics combined with his studies in painting. When the art instructor “turned him loose” in a ceramics room, a new passion was born. Today, the work displayed in his “Gallery 121” has avid collectors across America. People are often surprised to find that the porcelain art they saw in a shop on New York's Park Avenue or in
a posh gallery in San Francisco actually originated not far from the Murray Court Square. His "sgraffito" style creates works of elegance and color on translucent clay that seem to gather the light. Geometric shapes unlike anything you have ever seen entrance the eye and beguile the brain. For the art lover, a visit to his studio is more like a trip to Disneyland. It was a long and interesting road that took him from an east Tennessee student to an artist whose work is selected to commemorate a visit from a head of state or the retirement of a respected leader of business or education. At Union, he met music student Kay Gardner. After graduation, they moved to Athens, Ga.,
where Kay studied music and Wayne concentrated on pottery and ceramics. At UGA, Wayne studied Native American art, took classes in the history of ceramics and became interested in functional pottery. In 1969, while working as the kiln supervisor for the Haystack Mountain School fro Crafts, he met William Daley. Daley brought Bates to the Philadelphia College of Art as a teacher. There he stayed until 1978, becoming co-chair for the Craft Department, and serving as a consultant to the Moravian Tile Works in nearby Doylestown, Pa. He continues to examine all forms of functional art in order, as he puts it, "To swim in a very deep and wide river of experience."
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When Kay accepted a teaching position at Murray State University, he seized the opportunity to open his oneman studio and entered into life as a production potter. Now, he works in “china clay,” a medium that challenges the most skilled artist. The secret for Wayne Bates has less to do with the creation of a piece of "beauty," in the aesthetic sense, and more to do with a useful object. "My best shot is to make things that are really beautiful and that people are going to use," he says. He’s even happier now that he is “off the road.” Wayne used to spend hours packing his samples and shipping or transporting them to art shows across the country. There he would talk to dealers and galleries and collect orders. When you are traveling or doing business, you are not making art – just money. In 2007, just ahead of the collapse in the art market, Wayne “got off the road.” He cut back his production to special orders from existing customers (or, “collectors,” if you want to be more accurate) and began to concentrate more on art than on selling. His art did not suffer, but neither did his sales. His trademark
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bowls, platters and other practical vessels have been supplemented by striking ceramic tiles used for such jobs as a kitchen backsplash. “I’m doing more of what I want to do,” he says. “My work has more variety now because I don’t have to supply shops and galleries. I don’t miss it.” Now, only three retail outlets carry his work: The Museum of the American Quilters Society, The Kentucky Artisan Center at Berea, and The Gallery located in Murray’s University Square. Thanks to his website, however, he continues to have an international following. Murray State professor of art, Dale Leys, is an ardent fan of Wayne Bates. “The thing I admire about him is his work ethic. He doesn’t sit around and think about it; he doesn’t have to; he just starts producing.” “He’s drawing on a three dimensional surface,” says Dale. “I just use two dimensions, but we’re both drawing. I’m interested in color and tonality, and he does that also. I’m starting to see influences of his work on mine. First and foremost, he is an artist.” The respect must be mutual, because some of Leys’ art hangs in the Bates household. Sitting in the display room of "Gallery 121," he is surrounded by his work: platters, cups, vases and the colorful bowls that respectfully reflect without imitating the ancient traditions that first intrigued him. From every window of the Gallery, which adjoins his studios and kiln spaces located on hilly farmland southeast of Murray, Bates can see nature. "I'm interested in shapes and textures. I look for patterns that are pleasing or just interesting to me. I'm not a student of nature the way
Audubon was, but, yes, this environment is a good one for me," he says. “Nothing I do is a total innovation, but putting Sgaffito together with these colors,” he says, referring to the vibrant pastels in some of his work, “that’s something I began before most others. I love the subtle changes in tonal qualities.” Dale Lays disagrees with Wayne’s modesty. “He’s a renaissance man; he helped me redesign my house to help preserve and archive my work. His interests are very wide and his skills are just as varied.” Bates also created and maintains Dale’s website of over 1,300 pages. For him, it’s just a new art form with which he can play. Unlike the Native American potters who inspired him, Bates lives in a modern world of technology that has "freed the craftsman from the slavery of making utilitarian objects." Still, he feels that the functional nature of certain objects separates them from painting or sculpture. An object that is used in life gains special qualities: intimacy, a sense of purpose, and connection to a ritual. "We should celebrate these things," he observes. In art and in life, Wayne Bates is celebrating. Wayne Bates Studio and Gallery 121 Just 8.3 miles from the Murray Court Square on Highway 121 South, or about 15 miles north of Paris Landing State Park on Tenn. Hwy 119 (which becomes 121 in KY). Call ahead for an appointment at 270-436-5610. We recommend a visit to the website first for complete information and maps: www.waynebates.com
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Investment Insight by: Ron Arant When should Social Security Benefits Start? nfortunately, there is no perfect answer to this question. Let's take a look at the different options to see which may best fit your needs and situation.
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If you retire early, you permanently reduce your benefit for life. On the other hand, you will collect benefits for a longer period of time than if you had waited until full retirement. Taking a smaller benefit early can pay off if you don’t live past your break-even age. To determine the breakeven age you can use the Social
Security Administration's website which has a break-even calculator at www.ssa.gov.
If you retire early, you “permanently reduce your benefit for life. .” – Ron Arant
A Social Security benefit of $1,500 per month at full retirement age (FRA) would equate to approximately $1,250 if taken early at age 62 (75% of FRA). By age 78 (77 and 11 months) you will have collected
approximately $216,000 in total benefits, whether you opted for the early or full retirement age benefits. However, this calculation does not take in to account any investment value of the early benefits. Even if you don’t save the early benefits they could allow your other assets to continue to grow which would have some value. This investment growth could add an additional 3 to 5 years to your break-even age. However, the decisions don't stop here. Here are some other issues to consider:
Additional medical insurance expense: If you choose to retire early you may have to pay a lot more for medical insurance. Many companies are required to offer you your current medical coverage through COBRA but they don’t have to subsidize the premium payment as they had when you were working. This could be a significant expense.
Your finances and your health: Waiting for full retirement age or later isn’t an option if you are unable to work. Nor is it a smart move to wait if you don’t have substantial savings to live on in the meantime.
Your tax situation: Those with high total incomes must include up to 85% of
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their benefits as income for federal income tax purposes. If your annual income in retirement from all sources exceeds $25,000 ($32,000 for joint filers) you will owe income taxes on a portion of your benefits. Your benefits may be reduced even further because Medicare premiums (age 65 and older), which are paid out of your social security check, have been rising faster than inflation.
Your plans to work in retirement: If you take Social Security benefits before full retirement age and take a job which pays more than $14,160 a year, your benefits will be reduced by $1 for every $2 earned above that threshold unless you are past your full retirement age. However, once you have reached full retirement age this penalty does not apply.
How long have you been in the workforce: Social Security benefits are calculated based on your 35 highest years of earnings. So if you have worked less than that, because of leaving the workforce to raise children or were out of work for several years, you might want to work a few years extra before full retirement age to boost your benefits. If you have not worked the full 35 years, those years where there was no income represent a year in the calculation, therefore pulling down your average earnings.
Married couples must consider longevity of spouse: If one member of a married couple dies, the surviving spouse can continue to receive his/her own Social Security benefit, or 100% of the deceased spouse benefit, whichever is more. If your spouse earned less over his or her lifetime that you did, and outlives you, he or she will start receiving your benefits. If you file at 62, he or she will inherit a reduced amount of benefits for the rest of his or her life. And remember that, statistically, women live longer than men. If you would like more insight into whether you can afford to retire soon or if it might be more prudent to wait a few years, contact your financial consultant. Your consultant has the tools and knowledge to create an in-depth s analysis and advise you of your options.
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his year, on October 27, Murray’s Central Park will be festooned with banners and tartans in celebration of the Murray Highland Festival. Murray’s celebration of Scottish heritage is only one of hundreds of such gatherings that take place across the U.S. throughout the year. Kilted men, some with bagpipes, are joined by folk singers and harpists, highland “coos” and border collies, clans and bands. There are dance competitions, family reunions and historic reenactments; Scotch eggs, trifles and meatpies.
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Reason #1: Murray Murray is a Scottish name. John Murray, the 19th Century military man and politician after whom the city is named, could have easily traced his roots back to one of the two major seats of the Murray family, and probably to the large “castle” called Blair Athol, just a short drive north
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from modern day Perth. The assumption is that he was not a “first-born son,” and left Scotland to seek his fortune in the New World. In fact, this part of Kentucky is full of Scottish place names, and ethnologists tell us that seventy percent of the resident population can trace their heritage back to the Scots and the Irish who immigrated here during the last two centuries. Place names such as Calloway, McCracken, Buchanan, and roads bearing names like Douglas, McDougal, Scott and Cohoon – and, of course, Murray – are reminders of the earliest settlers to this area. For instance, local families with names like Houstons and McCuistons (and all the spellings and pronunciations in between) are descendants of clan Uisdean (YOOS-den). Names like Robertson, Kennedy, Reagan, McGee, McKinney and Montgomery are as common in the highlands as they are around here. Scratch most west Kentuckians, and much of the blood will be Scottish.
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Reason #2: Tom Murray The first Scottish games in Murray were held in Central Park nearly 20 years ago, in the spring of 1992 or ’93, with the help of Tom and Claire Murray of Baton Rouge, La., and with the support of MSU president Ron Kurth and the First Lady, Charlotte.
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Tom had stopped in Murray on his way home to Louisiana from a visit in Canada, and decided to take an interest in the city and the university which bore his family’s name. He found great interest in the tradition from the Kurths, who decided to stage a series of traditional Scottish events to stimulate the “Murray link.” Tom was the chief consultant as Trudy Morris (now MacFarlane) became
Murray. In a sense, the games “came home” to Murray in the early part of the millennium and they seem to be growing. Tom Murray would be pleased at that.
Reason #3: More Scots The immigrants keep coming. Jim McFarlane came to the United States less than 20 years ago and married Trudy Morris. Both the McFarlanes have been very active in Scottish heritage events for some years, with Trudy spearheading MSU’s Scottish Elderhostel program and presiding over the Caledonian Society of Murray on more than one occasion. the chief organizer of the “festival games.” That day of activity featured demonstration athletics, dance, and traditional music from Smithfield Fair, a group from Baton Rouge, Louisiana. While an active Scottish heritage program began in Murray, it was Paducah that hosted the first Highland Games, beginning around 1996. For several years, Paducah’s Carson Park was the annual site of a one-day festival of music, dance and athletics. Directed by the energetic Charlotte Harris, most of the organizers were from the Paducah area, but many Murrayans attended faithfully. Over the years, the games hosted such artists as Ian Bruce, Colin Grant-Adams, and Smithfield Fair. National Champion, MSU grad Mark Wrinkle, got his start in Scottish athletics at one of the games. However, a few years ago, the games moved from Paducah to
John McConnachie is a recent arrival, as well, and works hard to make the Murray Games a success. He takes his orders from wife Debbie, the current president of the Western Kentucky Highland Society. Mike Smith of Paducah has been an every games since the very first and shows no sign of slowing down or reducing his involvement. “I don’t think we could have a west Kentucky game without that handle-bar moustache (Smith’s),” said Pete Lancaster. Paducah bagpiper Jim Cruikshank has been at most – if not all – of the festivals. Wearing his Stuart tartan, he may spend the whole day passing up and down the main avenues between tents and events playing pipe favorites and filling the air with the great sounds of Scotland. Lately, he’s been joined by Ed Smith of Paris, Tenn., a recent newcomer to the area – who brought his bagpipes, too.
Reason #4: We Love a Good Time! With support from the Convention and Visitor’s Bureau, and from the very active and award-winning Chamber of Commerce, cultural events are likely to attract a crowd. This year, the last weekend of October seems to be a great time to celebrate a heritage from a cooler climate and the brisk autumn air should give everyone a welcome shot of vigor on October 27th when the pipes break the silence of Central Park around 10 a.m. Full information on events, times and places in available at the Games website, www.wkyhighlandfestival.com.
Reason #5: We’re Friendly and We’ve Got the Medal to Prove It This year, as pipers and official clan representatives arrive in Murray, they will be coming, as they always have, to the Friendliest Small Town in the USA. This year, however, the title is more than a local opinion: it is official. A study by the RandMcNally Corporation and USA Today found that Murray is, indeed, the friendliest small town in America. Where else would you stage an event that is, in fact, a great big family reunion? When the Scots gather this fall, you’re welcome to join in the fun. Don’t worry about checking your family tree for kiltwearing warriors or boisterous bagpipers; if you enjoy getting together with folks to make new friends and have a good time, Debbie McConnichie promises that you’ll find a hearty welcome in the Friendliest Central Park in the USA. As the Murray Scots say, “Y’all come see us, aye?” s
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Sigmas at Seventy Continued from page 11
That impressive record was only part of the reason the MSU Vice President for Student Development, Dr. Don Robertson, offered a glowing salute to the ladies on the occasion of their founding. “Sigma Sigma Sigma Sorority has a long history of service and leadership at Murray State University. It is one of our premiere Greek organizations and has always set the tone for the rest of our Greek system. The entire community of Murray, as well as Murray State University, has benefitted from the service, leadership, and academic accomplishments of the chapter and individual members. We take great pride in the sorority’s accomplishments and the significant role the sorority has played on campus and in the lives of our students over the past seventy years.” More than 1,900 women have been initiated into Sigma Sigma Sigma during Alpha Chi’s 70 years at Murray State. These women have made invaluable contributions to Murray State and to their communities, “always loving, giving, and sharing, embodying the Sigma commitment to develop strong womanly character,” said a very proud Donna Herndon, a former Murray Chamber of Commerce Citizen of the Year. Since 1942, they have been a part of the Murray community, and Murray has been a part of their lives during these formative years. The next 70 years should be really something. s
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I'll Love You ‘til the End of Vine by: Caina Lynch
egend has it that pumpkins weren't the original Jack-OLantern. Early Jack-OLanterns were used to ward off Stingy-Jack who had tricked the devil and roamed the darkness with a coal from the fiery pits of hell inside a hollow turnip. But that's a story we'll save for later; we are hungry for salted seeds pulled from the belly of a pumpkin, spiced lattes from our favorite café shop and who could forget pumpkin pie.
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The fall fruit we love so much originated in the ancient Americas and was cultivated with sunflowers and beans along the banks of rivers and creeks. In fact, the ground-hugging pumpkin was critical to the earliest form of agriculture, called “Three Sisters Gardening.” Sunflowers or corn formed the base, and gave a climbing pole
for beans. Planted after the corn and bean sprouts, the pumpkins spread their spiny leaves across the ground, providing mulch to help in water for the other two “sisters” and protection against weeds, some insects, and marauding nibblers like rabbits.
The idea of the Jack-O“Lantern and pumpkin carving is derived from Irish folklore.
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The early Native Americans did not waste any part of the pumpkin. It could be roasted, baked, parched, boiled and dried and could be stored for the winter. Pumpkin blossoms were added to stew to increase thickness. Pumpkins contain potassium and Vitamin A and are 90% water. The seeds were used as a medicine to cleanse the body and today, according to the Natural Medicines Comprehensive Database, the seeds contain a chemical that is effective against intestinal worms and for treating health conditions such as inflammation of the bladder, kidney infection, and urinary retention. When the pilgrims came to America they used many of the growing and storing techniques
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of the Native Americans. They also came up with a few new ways to use the melon. Documents show that pumpkin was served at the second Thanksgiving celebration, but they also used the melon to make pumpkin beer. This early colonial brew was created by fermenting a combination of persimmons, hops, maple sugar and pumpkin. Pumpkin shells were also used as a shape for haircuts to ensure a round and even cut. This is why New Englanders were sometimes referred to as "pumpkinheads," and it gives a whole new meaning to the term "bowl-cut." The idea of the Jack-O-Lantern and pumpkin carving is derived from Irish folklore. As folklore goes an Irishman nicknamed Stingy Jack played tricks on everyone, including the devil. He tricked the devil into climbing up a tree where Jack had carved crosses which prevented the devil from climbing down. In order for the devil to be freed from Jack's tricks, the Devil had to promise him that he would never take his soul. Eventually Stingy Jack died. Because of his sinful ways, he was not accepted into heaven. And, true to the devil’s promise, Stingy Jack was not allowed into hell either. The devil gave him an ember with eternal flames
the pulp off, put the seeds in bowl of water—most should come off that way. Spread the seeds out on a cookie sheet and let dry. (The seeds taste best if you soak them in salted water the night before.) Toss the seeds with olive oil, or butter, and sprinkle with salt, garlic powder, onion powder, pepper, or any other herbs you think would taste best. Bake at 300 degrees for 45 minutes to 1 hour, continually tossing the seeds. Cook until golden brown. .....................
from hell to walk with. He carved a turnip and placed the light inside of it to help him as he wandered through darkness for eternity.
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Throughout history as the story continued to be told, people began carving scary faces and characters on different vegetables holding burning coals for protection against the spirits who wandered the darkness. After people started immigrating to America, pumpkins were discovered easier to carve and candles replaced coal. The tradition of the Jack-O-Lantern continued.
Ingredients One pumpkin Bowl Water Cookie sheet Olive oil or butter Herbal seasonings, such as salt, garlic powder, onion powder and pepper
In the late 1800s Halloween became a time to celebrate in the community and neighborhood with activities and parties. This is the Halloween we know and celebrate today, but it wouldn’t be the same with the pumpkin – a treat for the eye and the palate. ....................
Save your seeds when creating your Jack-O-Lantern and continue the fun in the kitchen with this salty snack.
Directions Rinse the pumpkin seeds and remove all the pulp. To help get
Pumpkin Chocolate Chip Brownies Tempt your family and houseguests with this sweetly spiced fall treat. One pan of these brownies yields about 9 servings, luckily the recipe can be easily doubled and baked in a larger pan. Ingredients Nonstick cooking spray 1/2 cup canned pumpkin 1/3 cup brown sugar blend 1 large egg 2 large egg whites 2 tablespoons vegetable oil 1 cup all-purpose flour 1 teaspoon baking powder 1 teaspoon Baking Cocoa 1/2 teaspoon ground cinnamon
"For pottage and puddings and custards and pies Our pumpkins and parsnips are common supplies, We have pumpkins at morning and pumpkins at noon, If it were not for pumpkins we should be undoon." -Pilgrim verse, circa 1633
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1/2 teaspoon ground allspice 1/4 teaspoon salt 1/4 teaspoon ground nutmeg 1/3 cup Semi-Sweet Chocolate Mini Morsels
Directions Preheat oven to 350째 F. Spray 8or 9-inch-square baking pan with nonstick cooking spray. Combine pumpkin, sugar blend, egg, egg whites and oil in large mixer bowl. Beat with an electric mixer on medium speed until blended. Add flour, baking powder, cocoa, cinnamon, allspice, salt and nutmeg. Beat on low speed until batter is smooth. Stir in morsels. Spread evenly into prepared pan. Bake for 25 to 30 minutes or until wooden pick inserted near center comes out clean. Cool in pan on wire rack. Cut into 2-inch squares. .....................
Baked Stuffed Pumpkin For something different and decorative, place a pumpkin stuffed and baked with a few of
your fall favorites in the center of the table. The pumpkin contains six side dish servings alongside smoked ham or roasted turkey. Ingredients 1 medium sugar pumpkin 6 Granny Smith apples - peeled, cored and chopped 1 cup chopped walnuts 1 (16 ounce) can whole berry cranberry sauce 1 (20 ounce) can pineapple chunks, drained 3/4 cup packed brown sugar 1/2 cup golden raisins 1/2 cup dark rum (optional) 2 teaspoons minced fresh ginger root 1 tablespoon freshly grated nutmeg 1 tablespoon ground cinnamon
Directions Preheat oven to 350 degrees F (175 degrees C). Position rack in the center of the oven. Cut out top of pumpkin, and set aside. Scoop out seeds with a metal spoon. In a large bowl, stir together the apples, walnuts, cranberry sauce, pineapple, brown sugar, raisins, and rum. Season with ginger, nutmeg, and cinnamon, and mix well. Spoon the mixture into the cleaned pumpkin, and replace top. Set pumpkin directly on a baking stone or a thick baking sheet. Bake for 1 hour in the preheated oven, or until pumpkin begins to soften. Remove from heat, and stir, scraping the sides gently, so that some pieces of pumpkin fall into the apple mixture. s
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Kentucky Farm Bureau . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .48
Oral and Maxillo Facial Surgery . . . . . . . . . . .39
Beans to Blossoms . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .6
Kopperud Realty . . . . . . . . . . .2, 3, Inside Back
Playhouse in the Park . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .50
Carey’s . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .50
Lee Jewelry Artisans . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .48
Presbyterian Church . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .48
Carson Center . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .23
Loft, The . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .39
Randy Thornton Heating & Air . . . . . . . . . . . . .6
Computer Source . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .42
Love Yo Mug . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .6
Red Bug on Third . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .50
Der Dutch Merchant . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .48
Mattress Guys . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .19, 50
Rolling Hills Nursery . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .23
Ezell’s Cosmetology School . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .4
MidSouth Vinyl . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .38
Roof Brothers Wine & Spirits . . . . . . . . . . . . .55
Froggyland Sports . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .29, 50
Murray Auto Spa . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .29
SBG Real Property Professionals . . . . . . .39, 48
Gear Up Cycles . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .50
Murray Bank, The . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .37
Urology Associates, H.S. Jackson, MD . . . . .42
Grey's Properties . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .29
Murray-Calloway Co. Chamber . . . . . . . . . . .50
Wall Appeals . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .4
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Murray-Calloway Co. Hospital . . . . Back Cover
WENK/WTPR . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .43
Humane Society . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .13
Murray Electric System . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .35
Western Baptist Hospital . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .1
Imes-Miller Funeral Home . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .42
Murray Family Dentistry . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .6
West Wood Wine . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .28
Jarvis Vision Center . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .38
Murray Insurance Agency . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .48
WKMS FM . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .35
K-Squared Designs, LLC . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .39
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Keller Williams . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .23
Murray State University . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .34
Kenny Imes for State Representative . . . . . . .19
Murray Woman's Clinic . . . . . . . . . .Inside Front
[ ] coming soon ... Our next edition is our "Holiday" issue. When the days are shorter and cozying up in a comfy chair with your favorite book or magazine is encouraged, count on Murray Life for humor, shopping tips, dining guides, nature stories, trivia and more. • The doors of a few Murray homes will be opened to offer us a glimpse of how their historic Murray home is decorated for the holiday season in our annual Kappa Tour of Homes. • Murray State University Archivist Dieter Ullrich will delve into the past and give more information on the impact of the Digital Age in the "Is Our History, "History?'" section. • More and more women are leading area congregations. We will examine what brought them there and what keeps them there as we visit "Women in the Pulpit."
Join the fun: submit your calendar notes or news items to murraylife@aol.com, or drop us a note at P.O. Box 894, Murray, KY 42071. Photos are welcome, but they become property of Murray Life and return cannot be assured.
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[ ] dining guide Shogun Applebee’s Neighborhood Bar & Grill 816 N. 12th St. . . . . . . .(270) 759-5551
Asian Buffet 638 N. 12th St. . . . . . . .(270) 753-3788
August Moon 1550 Lowe’s Dr. . . . . . .(270) 759-4653
Baldy’s Grill 901 Coldwater Rd. . . . .(270) 762-0441
Big Apple Café
Largo Bar & Grill
706 N 12th St., Suite 9 (270) 761-7486
The Keg 1051 N 16th St. . . . . . .(270) 762-0040
216 N. 15th St. . . . . . . .(270) 759-3663
Tom’s Grille 501 N. 12th St. . . . . . . .(270) 753-4521
Ann’s Country Kitchen Tumbleweed Southwest Grill 807 Walmart Dr. . . . . . .(270) 873-2300
604 N. 12th St. . . . . . . .(270) 761-8226
Gloria’s World Village Food 124 N. 15th St. . . . . . . .(270) 759-3233
HRH Dumplin’s 305B S. 12th St. . . . . . .(270) 753-0000
Jasmine Restaurant - Thai & Asian Cuisine 506 N. 12th St. Suite E (270) 761-8424
Magnolia Tea Room 306 Gilbert St. . . . . . . .(270) 492-6284 Hazel, KY
La Cocina Mexicana 501 S. 12th St. . . . . . . . .(270) 767-1627 Murray
La Cocina Mexicana 314 Main St. . . . . . . . . . (270) 492-6392 Hazel, KY
Latin Lovers 716 N. 12th St. . . . . . . .(270) 767-0026
318 Main St. . . . . . . . . .(270) 492-8195 Hazel, KY
Bad Bob’s Bar-B-Que 806 Chestnut St. . . . . . .(270) 767-0054
El Mariachi Loco Fiesta Grill
Willow Pond Catfish Restaurant 16814 Hwy. 68 E. . . . .(270) 474-2202 Aurora, KY
The Olive
1005 Arcadia Circle . .(270) 759-8866
406 N. 12th St. . . . . . . .(270) 759-9000
4645 Hwy. 119 . . . . . . . .(731) 232-8323 Buchanan, TN
Aurora Landing Restaurant 542 Kenlake Rd. . . . . . .(270) 474-2211 Aurora, KY
Coldwater Bar-B-Que & Catering 8284 Hwy. 121 N. . . . .(270) 489-2199
Cracker Barrel
Belew’s Dairy Bar US Highway 62 East . .(270) 354-8549 Aurora, KY
650 N. 12th St. . . . . . . .(270) 762-0081
Domino’s Pizza 117 S. 12th St. . . . . . . . .(270) 753-3030
Brass Lantern 16593 Hwy. 68 E. . . . . . 270-474-2773. Aurora, KY
Cindy’s on the Barge 888 Kenlake Marina Ln.(270) 474-2245 Hardin, KY
Happiness Restaurant 412 Main Street . . . . . .(270) 293-4952
Holmes Family Restaurant 1901 N. 12th St. . . . . . .(270) 767-0662
Hungry Bear
Cypress Springs Resort 2740 Cypress Trail . . . .(270) 436-5496 New Concord, KY
Eagle Nest Marina & Dockside Bar and Grill 500 Eagle Nest Rd. . . .(731) 642-6192 Buchanan, TN
Kentucky Dam Village 166 Upper Village Dr. .(270) 362-4271 Gilbertsville, KY
1310 Main St. . . . . . . . .(270) 753-7641
Laird’s Bar-B-Que 77 W. Main St. . . . . . . .(731) 247-3060 Puryear, TN
Martha’s Restaurant 1407 N. 12th St. . . . . . .(270) 759-1648
Mary’s Kitchen 11205 Stadium View Dr..(270) 759-2036
Los Portales 506 N. 12th St. . . . . . ...(270) 767-0315
Quarters 200 N. 15th St. . . . . . . .(270) 753-3406
Olive Pit 905 Mineral Wells Ave.(731) 642-5030 Paris, TN
Ruby Renee’s Restaurant 1196 State Route 121 North(270) 761-7829
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[ ] dining guide Matt B’s Main Street Pizza 1411 Main St. . . . . . . . .(270) 759-1234
Mr. Gatti’s Pizza 804 Chestnut St. . . . . . .(270) 753-6656
Mugsy’s Hideout 410 Main St. . . . . . . . . .(270) 767-0020
Nick’s Family Sports Pub 614 N. 12th St. . . . . . . .(270) 762-0012
Pagliai’s Pizza 970 Chestnut St. . . . . . .(270) 753-2975
Papa John’s Pizza 656 N. 12th St. . . . . . . .(270) 753-6666
Pizza Hut 1113 Chestnut St. . . . . .(270) 759-4646
Pizza Pro 1304 Chestnut St . . . . .(270) 767-1199
Renfro’s Hih Burger Inn 413 S. 4th St. . . . . . . . . .(270) 753-1155
Rudy’s, “On the Square” 104 S. 5th St. . . . . . . . . .(270) 753-1632
Ryan’s Steakhouse 801 Walmart Dr. . . . . . .(270) 759-3809
Sirloin Stockade 922 S. 12th St. . . . . . . .(270) 753-0440
Burger King
Murray Donuts
814 N. 12th St. . . . . . . .(270) 759-8266
506 B North 12th St. . . .(270) 761-1818
Quizno’s Subs
Burrito Shack 214 North 15th St. . . .(270) 761-4444
1203 Chestnut St. . . . . .(270) 753-8880
Sammon’s Bakery
Captain D’s 700 N. 12th St. . . . . . . .(270) 753-9383
974 Chestnut St. . . . . . .(270) 753-5434
Sonic Drive-In
Candy Cravings 506 N. 12th St. . . . . . . .(270) 759-2010
217 S. 12th St. . . . . . . . .(270) 759-9885
Subway
Culver’s 818 N. 12th St. . . . . . . .(270) 761-2858
622 N. 12th St. . . . . . . .(270) 753-7827
Taco Bell
Dairy Queen 1303 Main St. . . . . . . . .(270) 753-4925
402 N. 12th St. . . . . . . .(270) 753-8758
Taco John’s
Dinh’s Vietnamese Cuisine 1407 Main St. . . . . . . . .(270) 761-7655
1100 Chestnut St. . . . .(270) 753-9697
Victor’s Sandwiches
Fidalgo Bay Coffee Shop 1201 Payne St. . . . . . . . .(270) 761-4800
1301 W. Main St. . . . . .(270) 753-7715
Wendy’s Old Fashioned Hamburgers
Hardee’s 505 N. 12th St. . . . . . . .(270) 753-3246
1111 Chestnut St. . . . . .(270) 759-4695
Zaxby’s
KFC 205 N. 12th St. . . . . . . .(270) 753-7101
1209 N. 12th St. . . . . . . . .(270) 792-2375
Little Caesar’s Pizza 500 S 12th St. . . . . . . . .(270) 761-7777
McDonald’s 107 N. 12th St. . . . . . . .(270) 753-5548
Snappy Tomato Pizza 1550 Lowes Dr. . .(270) 761-7627 Spanky’s 9505 Hwy. 641 N. . . .(731) 247-5527 Puryear, TN
Tom’s Pizza 506-A N. 12th St. . . . . .(270) 753-9411
Backyard Burgers 801 Paramount Dr. . . . .(270) 759-2480
Boulders 317 Chestnut St. . . . . . . .(270) 761-9727
Brother’s Barbeque 401 Sycamore St. . . . . .(270) 761-7675
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[ ] calendar of events The Murray Life Calendar of Events is graciously provided by the Murray Convention and Visitors Bureau. The CVB is your source for information on everything from dining, shopping, recreation and fun in the community to relocation. Learn more at www.tourmurray.com.
Downtown Saturday Market
may 12 - oct. 27 Murray, Kentucky's downtown transforms itself on the south side of the square on Saturday mornings in May through October from 7a.m.-12p.m. It becomes the site of the Saturday morning farmer's market selling fruits, vegetables, flowers, home made goods and even fish! This 10-plus year tradition gives local folks a place to come, get some good fresh produce and visit everyone.
a.m.- 5p.m. For more information on this event contact the Murray Art Guild at 270-753-4059.
Nature Arts Day
october 6 Discover the artist within you at Nature Arts Day 10:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m.! The entire family will enjoy seeing local artists demonstrate and display their nature inspired creations. Arts and crafts will be available for purchase. Nature Station – Land Between The Lakes
Kentucky Senior Games
october 3-7 Come out and watch the Senior Games. Murray is proud to be the host of the 2012 Kentucky Senior Games. The Kentucky Senior Games allow those ages 50 and over to enjoy an active lifestyle while meeting others from all over the state and country. The games are for serious athletes, those who love competition or those who simply enjoy staying fit. More information can be found at www.tourmurray.com, or by calling 270.759.2199.
Proofs Photography Exhibit
weekdays through october 5 This annual exhibit showcases some of the region's best photography. Hosted by the Murray Art Guild, this juried exhibit fills the Robert O. Miller Conference Center with the work of local photographers. The exhibit is open Monday-Friday 8
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"Little Shop of Horrors"
oct. 18 - nov. 4 A down and out skid row floral assistant becomes an overnight sensation when he discovers an exotic plant with a mysterious craving for fresh blood. Soon "Audrey II" grows into an illtempered, foul-mouthed, R&Bsinging carnivore who offers him fame and fortune in exchange for feeding its growing appetite, finally revealing itself to be an alien creature poised for global domination. See one of the longest-running Off-Broadway shows of all time at Playhouse in the Park. For more information call 270-759-1752. Tickets may be purchased at playhouseinthepark.net.
A Taste of the Arts
october 11 It’s the most delightful donation you’ll ever enjoy as works of art are auctioned at a gourmet dinner to raise scholarship funds for art, music, theatre and fine art students. Some auction items come from nationally and internationally renowned MSUassociated artists and entertainment abounds during an evening of “fun and fine arts.” 5:30 p.m. at the Murray Room of the CFSB Center, and
reservations are a must. Get reservations and information by calling 270.809.3250.
Snap Apple Festival
Every Day in Murray
october 20 $5 adults/$3 children. Cost covers evening program only. Ticket sales begin at 6 p.m. Experience Pryor Creek as the early Scots-Irish settlers did by joining us at the bonfires for warmth, companionship, and some of the finest storytelling around! During intermission, experience the candle lit double pen house for an old-time snap apple play party, but be prepared for the unexplained as you follow the lighted trail beyond the security of the fires. The event will be held rain or shine, so be prepared for the weather. Chairs and blankets are welcome on the farm. For information see www.lbl.org or call 270.924.2000.
The West Kentucky/Wrather Museum Preserving the visual and emotional traditions of the Jackson Purchase Area. Located at North 16th Street and University Drive on the campus of Murray State University, the museum is open Monday through Friday, 8:30 a.m. to 4 p.m., and Saturday, 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. handicap access. For more information, call 270.809.4771.
The Cheri Theater Murray has a seven-screen movie theater located on Chestnut Street. For a list of current movies and times, please call 270.753.3314 or visit www.moviesinmurray.com.
Murray State University’s Fine Arts The University presents a variety of performances form dance to plays, from symphonies to choir concerts. For current information, call 270.809.ARTS.
The Clara M. Eagle Gallery at Murray State University The gallery offers a variety of exhibitions throughout the year, from student artwork to national tours. Art ranges from drawing to sculpture, from photography to multimedia. For more information, please call 270.809.6734.
Playhouse in the Park
Howl-O-Ween
Calloway County’s 30-year-old community theatre. Playhouse presents a variety of plays throughout the year. For detailed information, please call 270.759.1752
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The Murray Art Guild
At the 18th annual Howl-OWeen, enjoy the daytime nonscary side of Halloween with this kid-friendly event. Go for a 1/4 mile guided walk on a trail through the woods and meet some special “woodland neighbors” along the way. Also, make a craft, have your face
A nonprofit organization that offers workshops and exhibitions for children and adults. Stop by and see some of the area artists at work. The Guild is located in downtown Murray at 500N. 4th Street. For additional information, please call 270.753.4059.
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tents and take the kids to the Wee Bairns games. At the end of the day, it’s the Ceilidh at 7 p.m. at the Big Apple. Visit www.wkyhighlandfestival.com for details.
houses all over town. Many businesses will have extended hours during the open house. Remember, shop Murray first! Call the Chamber of Commerce at 270-753-5171 for more information.
Holiday Sale
november 16-18
Murray Highland Games
october 27 The West Kentucky Highland Games have become the Murray Highland Festival, celebrated in Murray’s Central Park. There will be the traditional Scottish Heavy Athletic Competition, music by Highland Reign and the Birdsong Harpists, Scottish vendors, bagpipers and more. See the famous Highland Cattle, and sheep herding demonstrations. Meet your relatives at the clan
Fall Frolic
november 10 Celebrate the fall season with a leisurely hayride, a guided hike through the fall foliage, old-time live music and fun programs for the whole family. Nature Station Land Between The Lakes
Buy local and support the arts by purchasing a Christmas gift from the annual Murray Art Guild Holiday Sale. Local artists set up in the Robert O. Miller Conference Center with art, crafts and other handmade goods. For more information call 270-753-4059.
Holiday Open House
november 9-11 Kick-off your holiday shopping with discounts, deals and open
Luther F Carson Center for the Performing Arts West Side Story Evelyn Hinds as Corrie Ten Boom Sunday September 23, 2012 at 3:00 pm Actor, author, speaker, and founder of Arts Touching Hearts, Inc, Evelyn Hinds will provide a moving presentation portraying Corrie ten Boom. Corrie allowed her faith to lead her to save Jews in her native Holland during World War II.
Monday November 19, 2012 and Tuesday November 20, 2012 at 7:30 pm. More than fifty years ago one musical changed theater forever. Now it's back and mesmerizing audiences once again. From the first note to the final breath, West Side Story soars as the greatest love story of all time and remains as powerful, poignant and timely as ever.
For more information call 270.450.4444 or visit www.thecarsoncenter.org
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Over the summer, Murray learned that the city had been named “Friendliest Small Town in America.” The Murray Convention and Visitor’s Bureau had taken the lead in responding to questions and hosting the team that made the final evaluation of the five finalist cities, but they would be the first to point out that any number of organizations, institutions, officials and “just plain folks” joined in the effort to show the nation what makes Murray special. Still, most of us may not yet know what is meant by the new title. We’re proud of it, and we’re not too surprised, but what we may take for granted may be something well worth noting. We asked Erin Carrico, Executive Director of the CVB, to reflect on this happy quality that makes Murray stand out from the crowd.
hat is friendly? For many people in Murray, it is obvious why we were awarded the distinguishing title, “Friendliest Small Town in America” in the Best of the Road competition by Rand McNally and USA Today.
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But what does “being friendly” really mean? Everyone knows people in Murray who say, “I left after college, but I just had to come back. Something was pulling at me.” That something goes beyond Racer pride. That “something” is deeply rooted in the people of this area. That something is Murray’s friendliness. Jane Shoemaker is one person who feels that something in Murray. Even though she has been here all her life, Murray has changed how she lives as an individual. Currently, she owns a small business on the court square. Being at Murray State University, she found her place. She found comfort and the ability to thrive through the people she met. “My first semester at Murray State, my whole life changed. I found diversity in so many new
and exciting areas. I met people from all over the world, and it was wonderful and stimulating,” said Shoemaker. The experience provided by Murray State and the community taught Shoemaker about herself. Thriving on diversity, different cultures and life experiences of other people are what makes Shoemaker fit so perfectly into Murray. Murray is just that – a melting pot of people, cultures and generations all working together to create a friendly, safe environment for the people. The interesting mix of a small, southern town with a progressive state university creates a mix of personalities melding into the warmth of the people. Shoemaker says, “Being friendly is about reaching out and welcoming someone new, someone different from you. You don’t have to like everything about the person or share all their beliefs but you’re still saying, ‘I’m glad you are here.’ It’s about making someone feel at home.” Her roots are in Murray. She belongs. She thrives. She lives and loves the people of Murray. When she came into the Murray CVB after Murray received the award, she touched my heart with her overwhelming emotions of happiness at our success. With tears in her eyes, she sang the praises of our community and the pride she felt of being a Murrayan. Shoemaker spoke, bursting
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with love for each and every person who helped make the award happen. Much like Jane Shoemaker, Donna Herndon radiates the epitome of friendliness as a pillar of the Murray community. On a daily basis, “Donna Ruth” (as she is known to old friends) offers up pleas on Facebook of needed prayers and cards sent to those in town who are sick or in troubled situations. Incredibly, within hours, hundreds of people in the town of Murray have responded, and days later, dozens of cards appear out of nowhere to delight and encourage ailing community members at home or in the hospital. Herndon sees Murray as interconnected parts making up the whole. “People work together to make this [Murray] a better place for everyone to live. Organizations like the Angels Community Clinic, Angels Attic, Need Line, Gentry House, Red Cross, CUBS, and many others, demonstrate how this community has elevated friendliness well beyond superficial characteristics.” According to Donna, one of the greatest examples of friendliness happened after Hurricane Katrina hit New Orleans. One hundred sixteen people were relocated to Murray for safety through the efforts of local businesses, churches and organizations in Murray. The never-ending compassion given by the community to people who had endured great tragedies defines Murray. Our community came together, offering the victims a haven of hope. “To me, 'Friendliness' is real and meaningful when kindness and caring are put into practice in ways that make a real difference in peoples' lives,” Herndon said. The something that Murray creates has led many of those victims to become permanent parts of the community, still living here today.
I see Murray from a different perspective. I moved here from “out of town” five years ago, finding myself in a small town with strangers. In the beginning it seemed as if I would never fit into the community. That idea quickly and easily faded away. I have found myself surprised by small things. For instance, if I am sick (even if it’s just a cold) everyone will call, text and email to see how I am feeling. People will offer to bring me food, take me to the doctor or to come stay with me. The amazing piece of the puzzle is that anyone who offers a kindness does it out of the goodness of their heart with no strings attached. People like that are hard to come by in the world of today. Whole communities of them are even more rare. A moment of true warmth hit me when the Best of the Road team was set to arrive. With less than twenty-four hours warning, the Murray Convention & Visitors Bureau was set on the fast-track to make a successful site visit for Rand McNally. In a matter of hours, word spread through town of a community picnic set in the park for a “Welcome to Murray” celebration. As our staff organized the lastminute party, community members willingly changed their weekend plans, made phone calls spreading the word and arrived in style with pot-lock dishes of southern specialties. No questions were asked; people just did what was needed to pull together and succeed. As we came toward the Playhouse in the Park Pavilion, community members were lined-up across the large deck. Waving and smiling to the Best of the Road team, our people were genuinely displaying the special character of Murray. It was an incredible site, giving me goose bumps even now while writing about our friends and neighbors. At one point I stepped back, just observing. No one was “putting on a show” or acting falsely. Everyone was eating, sharing and laughing together in the natural way that Murray does. No strangers are found in Murray. Even the Best of the Road team was treated liked family from the moment they arrived. Jokes and laughter filled the patio as children played and enjoyed the summer evening. As the years have passed, I have found it is the small things that make Murray friendly. A card or a hug offered in honest faith, rooted in the foundation of the community, creates the something: the unending compassion and love offering a life full of joy. The something lives deep in the people, making everyday worthy and special. It is the kind words, simple smiles and easy gestures that make even a stranger feel at home. ✮ www.murraylifemagazine.com
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The Same River by: Robert A. Valentine
“A man cannot step in the same river twice.” Herodotus anet Steilman was home, but it wasn’t the same. It would never be the same. She fought her way out of the fluffy pillow and the down comforter, shoved herself onto an elbow and looked out the window at a so-familiar, all too foreign street.
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It was her street, where she had played Kick the Can with neighbor kids, and touch football where she and Chunky Wilkins always won. She had skipped up that sidewalk on the way home from school, and had been walked to the door from that curb during high school dates. Once, when she didn’t have a date for the prom, good ol’ Chunky Wilkins walked from that curb with a corsage in a clear plastic box. Except the neighbor kids were grown and gone. When this was her town, the houses had all been white. Now colorful vinyl or aluminum had replaced the sturdy clapboards of her youth, and yards once worn bare by bike tires and running feet were manicured, landscaped, and well-watered. It was lovely enough from the second story of what should have been Mrs. Carter’s house, but Mrs. Carter was long gone. Mrs. Pierson and her quiet husband owned it now, and it had become the town’s first Bed and Breakfast. Mrs. Carter hadn’t wanted children in her yard, or making noises near her house, and Mrs. Pierson apparently felt the same: “Children are not
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encouraged,” her brochure had said, and Janet wondered if that applied to B&B guests or to humans in general. “You can never go home again.” -- James Joyce If Aunt Margaret hadn’t passed away, Janet would not be in this once-foreboding house. She would not have spent a lonely night in a town she no longer recognized, but which was hauntingly familiar to her. She would not have come back after a 20-year absence because she knew that all those great memories would be ruined by reality.
She pulled to the curb and rolled down the window. The trooper stepped out of his car and approached. She hadn’t been speeding; what could be the matter? “Good morning,” he said. “Could I see your license, please?” She handed the laminated card to him with a tight smile, “Was I speeding?” she asked, timidly?
She dressed for Aunt Margaret’s funeral, packed her bag, and went downstairs to breakfast.
“Miss Steilman,” he said. It was a statement, not a question. Astonishingly he pronounced her last name correctly. No one ever got it right on the first time. “Miss Steilman, did you know that there is a stop sign back there by the church? Been there for about eight years.”
“It won’t be the same. It’s never the same.” – Jared Morris
“No, I’m sorry.” She said. “I used to live here, but I’ve been gone for a long time.”
Her friend Jared had been right. When he drove her to the airport, listening patiently to her rapturous recollections of girlhood, he warned her about trying to step back into the past. If everything had been completely different, it wouldn’t be so bad, but there was the Diary-O, still serving soft drinks, “foot-longs with cheese,” and the ice cream that marked the beginning and end of summer. There was the Episcopal Church with an only-slightly bigger holly tree in front. And there was the flashing blue light in her rear-view mirror. Ooops.
“Yes, I know,” he said. “Well, you watch for that sign next time, won’t you? And don’t be gone so long.”
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Then she looked at the steel nameplate on his starched uniform. “Wilkins,” it read. Then, even with his sunglasses on, she could see the happy eyes on the impossibly thin face, atop the once-heavyset frame. “Chunky?” she asked. “Welcome home, Ponytails,” said Captain Leonard M. “Chunky” Wilkins. And that made it official. s