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This magazine is called TWELVE to note its monthly presence, only TWELVE times a year.

Also, and more importantly, TWELVE is a symbol of time. So it represents timely information and the central point by which life events are measured.

And of course, timepieces are part of the finer things, perfect for our core readers in pursuit of sophisticated living.

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Volume III, Issue Xi

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NOVEMBER 2015

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Views & opinions expressed here are not necessarily those of H.G.E. or contributors.

This is also our TASTE issue as we prepare for Thanksgiving and Christmas.

There’s always plenty inside from fashion to education.

Review the calendar to discover upcoming events and take note of what’s happening in the city.

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Welcome to number ELEVEN of TWELVE. This is our OFFICIAL WORLD SERIES souvenir issue. We’re saluting the KC Royals 2015 Win. From the game to the victory parade, it’s an experience we won’t soon forget.

MUSIC: Sauce Remix

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SERVICE: Powerfeast

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TASTE: Magnolias

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COMMUNITY: Million Men

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SUCCESS: Eddie Kennison

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GIVING: Debonair Affair

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ROYALS WIN

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What’s Different? Read It & Experience it Live Though a lifestyle publication isn’t unique, TWELVE evolves the genre. It’s the only magazine that you both read and live. We set out to create more than a literary piece. We’ve merged both the online world and the live event into the “magazine experience”. Once a month, we release a new issue of the magazine.

The release is paired with a live launch event, where the feature elements and characters of our magazine are brought to life for you to touch, taste, feel and experience. The live experience becomes part of gathering ground of additional stories, photos, and more for the final written magazine.

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SPECIAL THANKS To all of Our Writers, Designers, Planners, Contributors, Advertisers & Supporters of Xii.

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Sauce remix From the Streets To The People Facebook: /sauceremix Twitter: @sauceremix Instagram: @sauceremix www.sauceremix,com www.gunshotskc.com

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anging beats, amazing lyrics, mesmerizing hooks, positive messages that can change the world and a live performance that will inspire anyone from any age group or culture; this is all wrapped up in the Kansas City native rapper "Sauce Remix". A local artist with national appeal, Sauce has been steam-rolling with positive art since 2008 and this train of hope doesn't seem to be slowing down!

Sauce is not only a rapper with an arsenal of local hits and features, but a social en7

trepreneur and community activist. He is active in his community while making rap a profession. Sauce hosts a shoe/clothing drive, raps at Job Corps’, abused/ abandoned children homes, attends antiviolence organizations, homeless shelters, Juvenile Detention Centers, teaches kids at the City Union Mission, performs at schools, local businesses and more! He is a perfect example of being the change you want to see in the world!

He is a father of four and a husband of seven years.

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"The Powerfeast Ministry provides an avenue whereby we are able to minister to the homeless, battered, down trodden, imprisoned, and those from all walks of life that have found themselves in bad situations."

THERE’S A NEED IN KANSAS CITY

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Powerfeast: Feed the Community

By Toni Talley

Apostle Larry B. Aiken Pastor Olivia C.Q. Aiken

Every year, thousands of people in the Kansas City Metropolitan area go without a meal during the Thanksgiving holiday. It's an epidemic that is becoming more common due to various reasons, and an issue several community leaders are trying to alleviate.

To do so, Memorial Church International, under the direction of Apostle Larry B. Aiken and his wife, Pastor Olivia C.Q. Aiken, has set out a mission to ensure everyone in need has a Happy Thanksgiving.

"The Powerfeast Ministry provides an avenue whereby we are able to minister to the homeless, battered, down trodden, imprisoned, and those from all walks of life that have found themselves in bad situations," says LaMonica Aiken-Bowens, daughter of Apostle & Pastor Aiken.

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Started in 1997, the PowerFeast Ministry at Memorial Church International has served over 21,000 Thanksgiving Day meals, free haircuts, free clothing, free nail care, and free health checkups to the community.

"We are able to extend a helping hand through the power of inclusion," added Bowens.

Each Thanksgiving, members of the Powerfeast Ministry prepare baskets for the less fortunate, provide bags of toiletries, and en-

tertainment to serve people from all walks of life. Transportation is provided, picking up people from all over the city including their homes, apartments, shelters, assisted living homes, nursing homes, parks and (Continued on page 13)

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under bridges.

"It has enabled us to witness and minister to those who may have fallen on hard times or just need a listening ear or encouragement to make it through", said Bowens.

"If you can stand the pull in the midst of the storm, trials and tribulations, God will pull you through," added Apostle Larry B. Aiken.

With overwhelming feedback from the annual Powerfeast, it is safe to say that it has indeed been a blessing to Memorial. As a church, Memorial says it has helped to make a valuable impact on the KC community, reuniting family members who had not seen each other in years amongst several other positive things.

"One of the siblings attended our church and was working the Powerfeast when she recognized her long lost sister," said Bowens. "And another year we had a father and daughter reunited. You have men and women that leave with their selfrespect and they are ready to go to a job interview now, because we’ve given them a haircut and clothing. We have children that receive clothes, blankets, and toys and their eyes swell up."

One could expect nothing but love at a Memorial Powerfeast. The 2015 Thanksgiving celebration will be held on November 26 from 10am2pm at Memorial Church International located at 11424 Hickman Mills Drive, KCMO 64134.

"Remember that storms don’t last always." concludes an Apostle Aiken. "Hold on to what has brought you through in the past. Past experiences can help you through your present victories.

Always keep God in your mix. No matter what you are going through, continue to trust God and stay encouraged."

To learn more about how you can donate and/ or volunteer for the great cause, contact Memorial Church International at 816.363.7939 or email by at memorialchurchkc@gmail.com.

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By Iman Lott

THE NEXT COURSE Magnolia’s Makes A Move

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xecutive Chef Shanita McAfee-Bryant’s believes there’s no such thing as luck. “’Luck’ is where preparation and hard work meet. There’s no such thing as luck.”

Chef Shanita’s preparation is putting her in the limelight. Just last month she competed on the Food Network’s new TV series, BBQ Blitz. Prior to that, she was the last woman standing and winner on that network’s nationally acclaimed and televised “Cutthroat Kitchen,” which aired September 2014.

“Alton Brown (the host) is as intense in real life as he is on TV. It was kind of like competing on a culinary team but a lot harder. I hadn’t competed in so many years I felt like I was out of practice. The last time I competed I was in college”.

Her win has inspired her to continue to go above and beyond. The owner of Magnolia’s Contemporary Southern Bistro in Kansas City, Missouri since 2011, Chef Shanita made the decision to close the original location at 29th and Cherry to prepare to open a new and improved spot in South Kanas City at 9916 Holmes Rd. “When we opened the first Magnolia’s location there was a lot we didn’t know.

The space wasn’t designed to be a restaurant but we were attempting to make it work. We ended up finding out we were in violation of city code and it would cost a significant amount of money to bring the place up to the specified coding. We decided it would be best to find a place that met our needs”.

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The new location is an upgrade.

“This space is a lot bigger. A lot more work went into it. It’s more centrally located so most of our returning and new customers will be able to get to it quicker”.

The new Magnolia’s is five minutes from Cerner and 10 minutes Corporate Woods, making the award-winning cuisine accessible to the weekday corporate lunch crowds. The larger venue will allow her to expand the menu to include southern specialties such as Po Boys, fried chicken. Weekends are typified by a Sunday Brunch that will feature Live Jazz, extended hours, and an á la carte breakfast menu.

Large parties may reserve the new private dining area that hosts up to 50 people.

“We will have the same menu but plan to expand heavily, however, gradually. Not too much too soon. There are a lot of things we are able to do in this larger space that we weren’t able to do previously. We are going from 1,800 to 4,500 square feet. Our new kitchen is three times as large as the old one”.

While honoring the tradition of what many consider “old school” southern cooking, Chef Shanita says she also has something different to offer.

“I have a different technique in my preparation. Other Chefs do what they do and I do what I do. I’m a hybrid. I take different styles and plan to bring a new southern cooking experience to Kansas City. I don’t knock what other people are doing. I enjoy it and appreciate it but, I am going to do something a little different.”

With the holidays coming up as well as her grand opening Chef Shanita continues to live by her mantra of preparation.

“People get so worked up by waiting until the last minute to prepare large holiday meals.

Pre prepping is the key to surviving those holiday dinners. I prep as much as I can as well as ask for help. I never cook the holiday dinner by myself”.

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“I have a different technique in my preparation.

Other Chefs do what they do and I do what I do.

I’m a hybrid. I take different styles and plan to bring a new southern cooking experience to Kansas City. I don’t knock what other people are doing. I enjoy it and appreciate it but, I am going to do something a little different.”

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Chef Shanita says it’s smart to assign tasks based on strengths and weakness which is something she knows all about. She’s managed to utilize hers while continuing the endeavor of culinary excellence!

Visit Magnolia’s new location at 9916 Holmes Rd Kansas City, Missouri. (www.magnoliaskc.com)

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ART

Aaron Cecil

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wants to be labeled with.

“One of the worst insults I get is when people call me a genius. I absolutely hate that because it’s just like you’re putting me on a level of doing something that you can’t do, but I’m just one man and if one man can do it then it can be done, and if it can be done than you can do it too.”

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Cecil has been involved in different aspects of art since his early teens but began taking it seriously in high school. “When it comes to my craft I’m really serious about the art form,” says Cecil, a recent graduate from the University of Missouri-Kansas City. With many projects in the works, including his portraits, he is working on releasing graphic novels and a children’s book chronicling the history of the ancient Moors Indians.

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Karen P. Boyd PhD, MBA Patisserie Patrice Owner and Proprietor

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AND PIES & COOKIES...

Karen Boyd is a Chicago native, an avid gardener and community leader.

She has a background that spans 30-years in community development, service and business. She earned her multi-disciplinary Human Services Ph.D. from Capella University and MBA from Northwestern University. Both provided her with a strong, educational foundation to pursue her professional and community goals. Though she continues to successfully juggle multidisciplinary endeavors, she’s added yet another with her new business, Patisserie Patrice.

The Patisserie Patrice pastry and

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dessert concept is the result of a 50year journey that started when the owner Karen Boyd (formerly Patrice) was exposed to the great pie making skills of her mom, Jean. “Always underfoot in the kitchen at 5 years old, mom would break off a piece of pie crust dough, equip me with a rolling pin, and let me "create," while she of course created her scrumptious apple pie.” The rest as they say is history, albeit a bumpy one filled with grand dessert experiments, constantly watching and learning from my mom, as well as "little grandma" and grandma Mc over the years.”

Boyd already has a background in the business to make this one a success. “I owned and operated award winning Rosebud's Bakery in Florida during the 1990's and tucked away that experience as I moved to Kansas City in 2001. On and off over the past 10 years or so, I have dreamed of bringing my version of high quality, New Orleans and Southern culturally influenced pastries and desserts to the Kansas City Region.”

“Always underfoot in the kitchen at 5 years old, mom would break off a piece of pie crust dough, equip me with a rolling pin, and let me "create."

“I invite all to prepare their senses and enjoy a great culinary experience with Patisserie Patrice . Bon Appetit!

www.PatisseriePatrice.com kpboyd5056@sbcglobal.net (816) 853-5876

WAKE UP

By Kevin Moye’

20th Anniversary MILLION MAN MARCH

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he time is now to upgrade the situation. It's pertinent that African American men assume responsibility for the current state of our community. However, it's equally apropos that we eventually make astute adjustments. No longer can we squander precious time pontificating about what has gone wrong. Change begins and ends with us.

consisted of several people of color coming together. And being that there was no media coverage you know it's because the event was conducted without any problems. But, if it's something that enhances the negative stereotypes and what many people have been conditioned to believe about blacks, there's plenty of media coverage.

"White-on-white crime doesn't Oct 10th, during the 20th anniexist in the lexicon of speech in If you work with versary celebration of the Million America. But, black-on-black five children and Man March, held at the National crime is mentioned often. It feeds Mall in downtown Washington, into the idea of black people bemake a lasting D.C., Nation of Islam leader, ing unruly savages, who don't impact, just think Minister Louis Farrakhan, delivraise their kids. So for many if those five then go ered a candid address intended to members of the media, the 20th and touch five people a awaken, motivate, and educate anniversary of the Million Man the masses. Farrakhan's words of piece - you're looking at March did not feed into the stewisdom hit the mark for many inreotype of the black person de25 people receiving a dividuals. One of those being stroying their community. Actualpositive influence in adSherman Stewart. A resident of ly, I don't understand why so dition to the five you Alexandria, Virginia, which lies many people were surprised by work with directly.” ten minutes outside of the nation's the lack of coverage. If a black capital, Stewart referenced how person does something stupid – the media's apathetic presentation it's on TMZ. However, former of the 20th anniversary of the MilNFL running back Warrick Dunn lion Man March feeds into a larger narrative which provides his 145th house to a family in need, nomany blacks deal with on a daily basis. body has anything to say."

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"When thinking about a positive event such as the Million Man March, I know it went well because there was basically no media coverage," Stewart said. "Whether it's the Million Man March or the one year anniversary of Michael Brown, those situations

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The concept of black men being among the ultimate pariahs in the United States is deeply woven into the culture of this nation. In fact, there are a vast number of African Americans who also buy into

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the fallacy. But, how do we properly combat centuries of black people being viewed as "the enemy", or guilty until proven innocent? Our best option is to embrace an all-encompassing plan for African American men to become positive leaders in their respective communities.

"It's very important that we get active. Keep in mind that the seeds we plant now, will eventually grow. Think about the number of children we could impact," said Terry Wilson, former president of the Jennings (Mo.) School Board. "If you work with five children and make a lasting impact, just think if those five then go and touch five people a piece - you're looking at 25 people receiving a positive influence in addition to the five you work with directly. So I understand that whenever I teach a child, they're carrying a piece of me with them. In fact, there are two individuals who were formerly in one of my summer youth programs who recently visited me; one of them has a master's degree and the other is about to begin law school. They'll make a great im-

pact once they become professionals. In our society, people often look for an instant reward, but it's really more about what you do to impact the future."

Protecting and instilling wisdom into youths who hail from inner city communities is an invaluable modus operandi, according to Abdul-Kaba Abdullah – who's the current City Manager of Berkley, Missouri.

"The role of men in any community has to be that of protector. It's not to dominate over women or rule everyone by force.

But, we're to be protector and provider for the women and children," he stated. "In particular young African American males – they need a strong example of what men are supposed to do. Often, the young black men who don't have a quality role model in their community, they later struggle at things such as marriage or excelling in their career."

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5 TIPS TO DEAL

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the paper cutouts of pumpkins and ghosts come down from the walls of shopping centers, reindeer and evergreen wreaths remind shoppers that the holiday season is upon us. The streets sparkle with thousands of tiny lights and the bells of the Salvation Army volunteers begin to echo the sound of hope in front of stores across America. It is the most wonderful time of the year!’

Unfortunately, much of the season’s nostalgia becomes clouded with pressure to provide and perform beyond our capacities. We push our budgets and ourselves to keep up with the demands of office parties, family gatherings, gift exchanges and toy trends. For all of its frills and thrills, the holiday season can be downright stressful.

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CARE 5 TIPS:HANDLE THE HOLIDAYS WITH EASE (1) Spend within your means. I hate to state the obvious, but overspending tends to be a primary source of holiday angst. There is endless pressure and opportunity to spend on travel, gifts, food, and even giving to the less fortunate. Every year it’s the same thing: our money goes in all directions except back into our bank accounts. We soon discover that we’ve spent a lot more than we anticipated.

The challenging part is that spending within your means is more of a decision; a mind set , than it is an individual behavior. We have to decide over and over again, at seemingly insignificant moments, to exercise a level of self-control that is unfavorable and possibly counter cultural during holiday season.

There is still hope! You can employ strategies that limit your ability to overspend such as temporarily reducing credit card limits and using the envelope system.

(2) Plan ahead. One effective way to help with overspending and overextending is through planning. Clearly map out how much money is designated for traveling, purchasing gifts, hosting dinners and holiday parties. Additionally, devise a plan for your time. Be sure to include the demands of your job, children’s program commitments, and last minute holiday disasters that are sure to occur (like the annual conundrum of running out of gift wrapping tape!) Other things you can do to be more thorough when you plan are : · Make travel plans as far in advance as possible. · Add an extra day or two for preparation and rest when putting in time off work. · Make a list of everyone you plan to purchase a gift for and set a budget for each gift. · Determine a task list of responsibilities for extended family members when hosting holiday gatherings.

(3) Re-Evaluate Expectations. During the holidays many of us have elaborate rituals that are better in theory than they are in practice. Every year, we imagine perfectly wrapped gifts and happy crowds of people, feasting on lavish meals in our extravagantly decorated homes. Every year, we are quickly confronted with the stress of making this dream a reality. By holding ourselves to unreasonable expectations we’re often robbed of the very the joy and generosity that we aim to bring to others. This includes: · Hosting meals and gatherings that are paid for by one individual or family. · Feeling the need to purchase a nice gift for every person you know · Buying loads of toys and gifts for a single child · Decorating our homes with the talent and passion of a five star interior designer For some of us, these bring joy by demonstrating our desire and ability to provide for our loved ones. For others, it becomes an unrealistic set of demands that rob us of the opportunity to enjoy the holiday season. This year, take a long hard look at the commitments and expectations you have place on yourself. If they are weighing you down, it’s ok to let them go or find alternatives way to achieve similar outcomes.

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Eddie Kennison Owner, Barrel 87 From the football field to the wine cellar.

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irst, he carefully slices avocado and lime. Then, he masterfully peels perfectly baked lobster from its shell.

As we sat, waiting to be served, the aroma of seasoned…wait a minute. I thought we were interviewing an athlete not “Wine a chef. Yet, sampling his Lobster Avocado Cocktail and BLT Deviled Eggs, it’s clear Eddie’s skills are always beyond football.

has a certain way you have to put on the palette, on the tongue, to really get an appreciation for it .”

Live life to the fullest. That’s the phrase that comes to mind when you learn about Eddie Kennison. The Louisiana native seems to have maximized every opportunity. He’s built a career on his speed; from early years of high school and football stardom to transitioning to a successful professional football career. That career has taken him from multiple teams including the St. Louis Rams, Chicago Bears, Denver Broncos, and of course, the Kansas City Chiefs, which recognized Kennison as one of the top wide receivers in the franchise’s history.

After retiring in 2010, Kennison had enough foresight to know that his football career was just the foundation to more success. He’s since explored several business ventures, including real estate. With each turn, he’s been able to build on his passions to develop his livelihood.

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great father and husband. Also, close to his heart is his charity work, including QuickStart the Eddie Kennison Foundation, which raises money for Lupus Research. Currently, one of his greatest interests is food and wine.

I suppose it’s natural enough. Pro athletes tend to enjoy the millions, celebrity status, and world travels.

The “finer things,” including the best in food and drink, is part of that lifestyle.

However, it still took Eddie some time.

“I had to acquire the taste. Any guy would have to acquire the taste, to do their best to understand what wine is,” he says.

“Wine has a certain way you have to put on the palette, on the tongue, to really get an appreciation for it without it having that bitter taste all of the time,” says Kennison.

Now, beyond an appreciation for the taste, Eddie has matured to the point of successfully offering expertise in food and wine for his newest business venture. He’s the owner of Barrel 87, an online business catered to food and drink lovers.

Started in January of this year, Barrel 87’s primary focus is its wine, beer and spirits club. Members can sign up for monthly opportunities such as: 1. Home Tastings: One can host a home wine tasting with Barrel 87’s pre -selected wine tasting packages. It includes, 5 delicious wines, hand selected by Eddie, a Barrel 87 host apron, wine notes and pairing notes.

When guests sign up for the club as members they receive points that can be used towards rewards such as trips to Wine Country, a wine tast(Continued on page 27)

Photo: Raye Jackson

Want to know he right wine for the right meal? Ask Eddie Kennison

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ing hosted by Eddie himself, and much more.

2. Wine Concierge Service: One can email or call and have Eddie select specialty wines for special events, dinners, or just a bottle of wine to enjoy with dinner.

3. Corporate Events: Barrel 87 also hosts Corporate wine tastings catered to the needs of each organization.

When selecting a business venture, having the consumer demand is key. According to a report by the Distilled Spirits Council of the US, the U.S. beverage alcohol industry is a major contributor to the economy, responsible for over $400 billion in total U.S. economic activity in 2010, generating nearly $90 billion in wages and over 3.9 million jobs for U.S. workers. Kennison realizes the spirits industry has the demand.

“We do our best to cater to every market, person, corporation. People will drink whether it’s a celebration or it’s a sad time.

Blue collar worker or billionaire. We try to cater to everyone interested in wine, beer or spirits or just learning.”

With the holiday season approaching, we asked Eddie for a few tips for your holiday dinner party: HOSTS: 1. Rule of thumb, start with your lighter wine, champagne or white wine that would pair with an appetizer. Then move into a red or bolder wine.

2. People are looking for something different. Turkey, stuffing…you’re safe with those things. Every so often, I try to go find something off the beaten path. Look for something different. Try it a few times before you present it to guests.

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Eddie Kennison preparing his Lobster Avocado Cocktail and BLT Deviled Eggs (Continued from page 27)

GUESTS: 3. Bring something you like to drink. You know it tastes good. It fits your palette. When you can talk about the wine that you’re bringing, you can give them information and describe why you like it first and often others will like it.

4. Stay within your budget. There are wines to fit every households budget. Stay within your

means and buy wine that tastes good. Don’t overdo it. It’s about your taste buds. It doesn’t matter the price.

Want more tips on how to make your holiday party perfect, check out Barrel 87.

Website: www.barrel87.com

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School of Law, expressed that black men must understand that young people emulate what they most often see. "Young African American males are just like any other young impressionable person. They need to see model citizens they can identify with. Therefore, it's incumbent upon us to reach back and to have some impact in a young man's life," he stated.

"We must show them that success is possible, and not just in the stereotypical ways. You don't have to use sports or entertainment as a way to make it. There is a litany of avenues one can take to make it in the world. For that reason, it's important that black men go back and present those examples to our young people. They will be influenced by someone. If we don't take the opportunity to be that "someone", we've lost it. We've lost an opportunity to make a difference. That's the importance of giving back and being a good example in the urban core of our cities."

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One of the most articulate statements on the need - for black men especially - to respect the past, present, and future of African Americans was made by Arrested Development frontman "Speech". In the landmark record "Tennessee", the rapper-poet said, "Many journeys to freedom made in vain by brothers on the corner playing ghetto games."

Ultimately, now is the time that we once again assure that the magnanimous acts of our ancestors will not be wasted. In essence, delayed action is a disrespectful dereliction of duties.

As black men the onus to uplift African Americans rests on our shoulders. We all have something of immense value to offer.

Kev Moyé is a human interest columnist. Follow him on Twitter @Moye06. He can be contacted via e-mail at kevmoye@yahoo.com)

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(4) Do Something Different. Doing what you have always done, will only get you what you have always had. If you have spent two or more holiday seasons feeling worn out by super-human and super-financial expectations, here is a liberating thought for you: You can change that.

Of course I understand that many of us tend to be heavily invested in our holiday traditions and that our loved ones may protest our “Christmas Revolution”. To the same end, you can use this as an opportunity to re-shape healthier expectations and more meaningful perspectives around holiday traditions and values. Begin more substantive and cost effective customs that bring your family together in ways that don’t crowd out the true values of the holiday season: love, family, joy, religion, and giving.

Additionally, you don’t have to sacrifice your sanity for enjoyment. Get creative in finding more balanced methods of accomplishing goals like: · Rotating homes for hosting family gatherings · Organizing gift exchanges · Volunteering time to families in need · Shopping online

(5) Rest. This small but powerful little nugget is probably the most overlooked. In all of the hustle and bustle of the holidays, we rarely take the time to sit ourselves down for rest and rejuvenation.

Give yourself permission to leave the laundry unfolded and the stockings un-hung to make room for some very necessary self-care. Additionally you can: · Specifically designate time for rest or relaxing activities · Determine which events you feel most obligated to attend and pass on the rest · If you are off work, rediscover the art of a napping · Don’t be afraid to just say, “No.”

Happy holidays to you and your family! I wish you all the things that truly matter!

Art by Aaron (Continued from page 17)

Inspiration can come from many places and Cecil derives his from the inspiring works of like artists “I like to keep myself involved in the artists I like. I get a lot of energy from looking at other artists.”

He’s also really inspired when it comes to help-

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ing the people around him recognize the potential that they have and advance within it. “I want to be the catalyst for this cultural movement where you just see everything coming out of it; artists, poets, musicians, investors, I mean I’m going to set the stage.”

You can find his pieces on his Instagram @aaroncecil_illustrations or his website aaroncecilart.com.

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t’s hard to judge what is common and acceptable in today's society, because so much has changed over the last one hundred years. It’s for the best at times, but often, it’s hard to get used to

change, especially when it’s counter to traditional perceptions. Imagine visiting a local church. While walking in you see a preacher in the pulpit, body covered in tattoos, wearing earrings, the latest urban gear while speaking in a way that the average person can comprehend. For many, this is uncommon, but this is Patrick Green’s daily attire.

When asked about his appearance, Green reflected on being negatively judged. “Man, have I? Indeed. Just as I’ve done to someone else before, I’m sure seeing a man with tattoos, vans, collarless shirt and Levi jeans walking into a pulpit to deliver a message would automatically raise red flags for some. Many people are so used to the suit and tie attire for preachers. They won't accept anything else, which boxes their mind into man’s way of thinking, opposed to seeing people grow into being who God has created them to be. That causes a lot of people to repeat the cycle of doing it like 30

others. So yes, looking at me outwardly according to common standards does not match my inward approach.”

Aside from preaching the word on a Sunday morning, Patrick leads a small men’s group called “Real Talk” every Thursday at UMKC. He is currently writing his first book and seeking different ways to taking the gospel of Jesus Christ to men and women who would never step foot into a church building.

COME AS YOU ARE Patrick Green “I’m sure seeing a man with tattoos, vans, collarless shirt and Levi jeans walking into a pulpit to deliver a message would automatically raise red flags for some.”

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ationwide, AfricanAmericans represent 26% of juvenile arrests, 44% of youth who are detained, 46% of the youth who are judicially waived to criminal court, and 58% of the youth admitted to state prisons (Center on Juvenile and Criminal Justice).

“If we want to have successful future leaders in the Black community, then it is our responsibility to plant and nurture these young boys so that when they become men we can reap the future harvest!”

Randy Hall, an Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc. member and former chapter president of Beta Lambda points to these statistics when citing the urgent need to work with elementary school aged youth. “There is not enough focus in our community on boys in this critical age range,” he says.

To address these statistics, the Beta Lambda Educational Institute (BLEI), an affiliate of the Beta Lambda Chapter of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc., is hosting its second A Debonair Affair. The overall purpose of this endeavor is to provide a forum for young men to develop foundational skills and talents needed to become responsible community servants and leaders. The activities also provide an opportunity for young men to display their talents to the community while competing for scholarships to fund their post-

secondary educational endeavors.

The talent of these young men can be seen in various programs of the Debonair Affair, and also at the grand finale on December 12th at the Adam’s Mark Hotel. “The debonair participants gain a sense of pride through the art of dance while participating in several routines with the parents/guardians during the Grand Finale event,” says Zac Narcisse, one of the participating Alpha members. Yet the talent these young men possess goes far beyond dance and the program is a holistic approach to developing youth.

Jabir Hazziez, an Alpha mentor and program participant states, “It is arguably the only

Youth Development program of its kind targeting young boys for mentorship by men of high standing and leadership.

In our program the boys gain new friendships from boys and their mentors alike. This is a contributing factor to them being a more disciplined student and son at home. Our program is also a service-learning program which engages the boys (Continued on page 33)

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Beta Lambda members and 2015 Debonair Affair participants.

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A TIME FOR ACTION Nationwide, African-Americans represent 26% of juvenile arrests, 44% of youth who are detained, 46% of the youth who are judicially waived to criminal court, and 58% of the youth admitted to state prisons (Center on Juvenile and Criminal Justice).

One in six black men had been incarcerated as of 2001. If current trends continue, one in three black males born today can expect to spend time in prison during his lifetime.

According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics in 2014 black males between the ages of 20 to 24 unemployment was at 22.13% for white males the same age, 9.98%.

in volunteering for community service organizations, and in structured discussions about their experiences.”

The Debonair Affair program includes a series of mentoring programs with the men of Alpha Phi Alpha. These programs are intended to expose the young men to successful, college educated African American men so as to provide role models and a view of positive images to which they can aspire.

Judge Ardie Bland, Vice President of the Beta Lambda chapter states “Many of the boys are those that have no positive male role models and its gives them an opportunity to interact with positive professional Black men that can have a formative impact on their future success. If we want to have successful future leaders in the Black community, then it is our responsibility to plant and nurture these young boys so that when they become men we can reap the future harvest! If we want to reap 33

success, then we must plant the seeds of success!

Ivan Smith, another Beta Lambda member, reiterates this, “People often forget that young men need a push in the right direction,” recognizing traps from poor influences to lack of goal setting--that can easily lead youth astray or at least put them at risk in achieving their full potential.

In addition to mentoring, there’s plenty of fun for the youth. A talent showcase of the participating youth is also part of the grand finale Debonair Affair program. It features choreography by Kansas City Friends of Alvin Ailey (KCFAA).

Eleven boys ages 7 to 12 are participants in this year’s affair. “We are so excited to present the talents of these twelve young men,” says Charles Lambert, President of Beta Lambda Chapter of Al(Continued on page 39)

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Improbable” would be an apt description of what the Kansas City Royals accomplished Sunday, November 1, 2015 at Citi Field in New York, New York.

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Thousands of fans of every age, gender, race, religion, economic background – and any other label that is used to differentiate us came together to celebrate. And celebrate we did! As confetti rained from the sky, chants of “Lets Go Royals!” echoed throughout the bustling streets punctuated by roars of cheers for our favorite players as they passed by. The atmosphere could only be described as electric! Jermaine Reed, 3rd District City Councilman, KCMO 37

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bigger story. Kansas City's surge to the world title is a fusion of loyalty, hope, vision, frustration, and an unwillingness to capitulate.

pha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc. “The opportunity to provide a forum for young men ages 7 to 12 to develop and display fundamental skills and talents needed to become responsible community servants and leaders is phenomenal. This event allows young men to compete for scholarships to fund their post-secondary educational endeavors,” says Leonard Graham, President of BLEI.

In the process of earning their first World Series title in 30 years, the Royals have become the darlings of Kansas City.

"It's amazing. It really is," said Hermon Lyons. "Shortly after the game was over, that's when all the fireworks in the neighborhood went off. I'm seeing fireworks go off in three different directions. People are hollering and celebrating, I then hollered and they holler back. For many people, there's such a huge level of excitement. It's just crazy!"

Winning a title would garner excitement within the fan base of any athletic team.

What makes Kansas City’s celebration so much more intense is how far the team came in four short years. With a 2011 record of 71-91, simply put, we were losing.

"I first began to pay attention to the Royals last season when they were trying to win the AL Central title," said Jamie Lee. "Before then I was only slightly interested, and that's only because they were Kansas City's baseball team. But because they had struggled for so long – I wasn't near as interested in them at that time as I am now."

Those “struggles” were deflating and frustrating even for diehard Royals fans.

The organization was founded in 1969 by Ewing Kauffman, a Kansas City native and committed philanthropist. Kauffman watched his team prosper as they'd eventually compete for world titles in 1980 and again in 1985 during the matchup fondly dubbed the “I-70 Series” when we (Continued on page 42)

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The community is invited to support the BLEI and individual youth through fundraising. Visit the pages of the youth at CentralGiving.com/ debonairaffair and contribute to individual youth or the event as a whole.

“People often forget that young men need a push in the right direction.”

In addition, you can support the event by purchasing tickets to the Grand Finale. The finale will be held on Dec. 12 at 6 p.m. at the Adams Mark Hotel, 9103 E.39th St, KC, MO. Tickets are $45, which includes a full meal plus cash bar and after party ticket. Attire: Semi-Formal. Tickets are available online at debonair.nphckc.com or kcalphas.com.

Even better, donations are tax deductible. BLEI is a tax-exempt, 501(c) organization. Beyond the Debonair Affair, the organization promotes the educational, social and cultural welfare of people in the Greater Kansas City area.

Get more information on the Debonair Affair at kcalphas.com or email debonairball@gmail.com

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The Royal Celebration Parade was a historical moment for KC. The only other similar experience was at President Obama's inauguration for his first term. In both instances people came from all over the country to celebrate the underdog and rally in the spirit of hope- that anything is possible. #CelebrateRoyalty Alissia Canady 5th District Councilwoman KCMO

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The last time the Royals won the World Series I was only two years old. To be able to actually revel in their victory this time is an amazing feeling and what's even more amazing is the way the City has come together as one due to their win!

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Game 7 Series loss, the team was welcomed home as heroes because of the Eventually, former Wal-Mart Executive Dapreceding miraculous come-from-behind vid Glass purchased the Royals in April of triumph over the Oakland A's in the Amer2000. However, brighter days did not imican League Wild Card game. mediately ensue. In fact, the situation became worse during the Glass administraThe Royals' ability to claim comeback viction’s early days. Glass kept the Royals' tories turned out to be a sign of things to payroll at bargain-basement levels, meancome. Kansas City’s ability to win harding the most sought after players were typfought games is linked to the ultimate viically not on the Kansas City roster. sion Royals manager Ned Yost had for the (Continued on page 44)

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team, according to Domonic Thompson. "Yost envisioned certain players in a specific role. Once he got those players, he allowed them to shine in their roles. What he envisioned, Yost figured it would come to fruition. He just patiently allowed everything to play out," Thompson said. "The players know what's expected of them.

Nobody wants to be micro-managed. Ned lets the players know their job and allows them to do it. That led to the Royals developing confidence and an obvious comfort level with one another over the last two years."

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In the 2015 playoffs, the Royals' most notable comeback victories were in Game 4 of the ALDS against the Houston Astros, and finally, Game 5 of the World Series in a hotly contested affair with the New York Met, which clinched Kansas City's World Series title.

Lyons, a former collegiate football player, referenced the Royals' cohesion and belief in one another as the keys to Kansas City's never-say-die mentality.

"To come back like the Royals did, you've got to believe in yourself. Each player has to continually live to compete," he said. "I guarantee the only people who truly believed in the Royals are the people in their dugout. Those players also feed off of each other. They believe in each other and their ability to keep the line moving."

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become enamored with the entirety of the Royals' ascension. The comeback wins, the players being of one accord, and the world title, are factors which created an unforgettable experience.

"For so many people, it's been a minute since there was a great Royals team.

We've suffered through a lot of years of bad baseball. Many of us had given up on the Royals a long time ago," Burnett said. "For the Royals to win the World Series, it's amazing. It's like a dream that has come true. For many of our parents and grandparents, they already had love for the Royals. Now, a lot of younger people are getting a chance to experience the same excitement. It's been great for the city. It has brought us together in a positive way."

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"I knew I was coming to the Heart of America. I never knew I was coming to the center of the universe." -Buck O'Neil "The Royals World Series win elevated Kansas City to the center of the sports universe. With a style of play reminiscent of the Negro Leagues, and a determined, never give-up spirit, the team endeared itself to fans worldwide. Baseball has, and still unites us like no other sport, and the Royals united our city in winning fashion."

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